INTJ talking to their younger self

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  • @volt-gy2ql
    @volt-gy2ql 8 місяців тому +1049

    As an INTJ sitting with my laptop in the corner of an unfurnished room, I grace you with my approval.

    • @PaleGhost69
      @PaleGhost69 8 місяців тому +17

      If it wasn't for upcycling and repairing thrown out furniture, I would be in the same situation.

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 8 місяців тому +15

      BUY A DESK!
      Sincerely,
      another INTJ

    • @jankom.7783
      @jankom.7783 8 місяців тому +10

      I am also an INTJ but my room is sufficiently furnished. The furniture was there when I moved in. And I intend to leave everything that doesn't fit into the trunk of my car. Getting stuff is fun, but owning stuff is annoying.

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 8 місяців тому +2

      @@jankom.7783
      That is my exact strategy as well. "If it can't fit in the car, it stays behind".
      I actually had a bigger executive desk at one point, moved it to storage by renting a truck. When it came time to move everything out of storage, the desk was the only thing that couldn't fit in the car. Was too much a cheapskate to rent another truck, especially for just one desk, so I brought in a power saw, and chopped it into pieces to dispose of it... so yeah, when you say "owning things is annoying", I know what you mean.

    • @LiorTamir
      @LiorTamir 8 місяців тому +2

      Hi I'm an INFJ and I sit in the corner of the room all the time! It's not just your thing...

  • @theartsyfarmer3748
    @theartsyfarmer3748 8 місяців тому +663

    I love how older INTJ is still very clearly an INTJ lol

    • @kindauncool
      @kindauncool 8 місяців тому +7

      Wonder why

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 8 місяців тому +1

      Would that normally change?

    • @theartsyfarmer3748
      @theartsyfarmer3748 8 місяців тому +48

      @@thepickles8833no I just mean that another UA-camr might make an older version of the type kinda too balanced and a somewhat neutral no-type person

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans 8 місяців тому +5

      and has the eye narrowing down even more

    • @user-yz3nw7dy7v
      @user-yz3nw7dy7v 7 місяців тому

      @@kindauncool😂😊❤😊

  • @masterblaster2053
    @masterblaster2053 8 місяців тому +838

    "The world moves faster than your plans".
    As an INTJ that hit really hard.
    It's a realization/lesson I learned years ago and it's still something I'm contending with accepting.
    The ENFP bombdrop at the end was gold.

    • @itswild.
      @itswild. 8 місяців тому +10

      Yes gold quote

    • @BuizelCream
      @BuizelCream 8 місяців тому +17

      Funny cause the remedy I use for this "the world moves faster than your plans," is to always consider taking action to a lot of contegency plans that may come in your way.
      As much as possible however, those contegency plans should still be in service to a long-term goal so that life doesn't just become too chaotic for the INTJ.

    • @allesdurchprobiert
      @allesdurchprobiert 8 місяців тому +4

      Same here! It was the most important part of the video for me

    • @itswild.
      @itswild. 8 місяців тому

      @@allesdurchprobiert it isn’t just for you it IS A MESSAGE

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans 8 місяців тому +4

      ​@@BuizelCreamit's called the xanatos gambit

  • @Mayakran
    @Mayakran 8 місяців тому +330

    INTJ in her 30’s here. Talking to younger INTJ’s feels a LOT like this, lol. “Accept that you have emotions or they’ll rule you.” “FEELER PROPAGANDA! Not a real INTJ!” etc.

    • @iwa2028
      @iwa2028 8 місяців тому +8

      Period 👍
      I've learn it in a harsh way

    • @Mayakran
      @Mayakran 7 місяців тому +15

      @@l-ixir this isn’t about “self help.” Humans are emotional beings. This is an unavoidable fact. I’m not talking about being a mess of touchy feely goo, I’m talking about recognizing when you’re feeling something and being able to deal with it appropriately and responsibly.

    • @pierresosa6988
      @pierresosa6988 6 місяців тому +4

      "Feeler propaganda" 😂🤕🫣

    • @Erena06
      @Erena06 2 місяці тому

      I learned this at the age of 17 as an INTJ

    • @lisalasers
      @lisalasers 12 днів тому +1

      this hit me in my 30s. yes my 30s. that’s when all my well-laid plans were foiled 😡

  • @flusel4949
    @flusel4949 8 місяців тому +396

    Me throughout the whole video: “I wonder if some of that character development of the INTJ happened because of a marriage to an EXFP” and then the ending happened. I couldn’t be happier

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans 8 місяців тому +12

      and the intj forever gets caught in a time paradox

    • @justsomenobody889
      @justsomenobody889 7 місяців тому +15

      seriously though, I married an ENFP and 10 years later I'm actually recognizable as a human.

    • @dagansgamingbox6604
      @dagansgamingbox6604 6 місяців тому +5

      Yep, the ESFP partner in my life is definitely inverting some aspects of my lesser-developed qualities.

  • @nickmerchant4588
    @nickmerchant4588 8 місяців тому +209

    “Everyone in this universe looks exactly like me.” Just wow.

    • @Scruffed
      @Scruffed 8 місяців тому +20

      That should've been the first clue that they're in a video.

  • @aldohydemusic
    @aldohydemusic 8 місяців тому +255

    The younger INTJ is more recognizable as a meme of their type. So in the mature version, I was looking for a good balance of the trademark cocky air of confidence, and the realization that relationships and taking care of themselves do matter... and I was not disappointed.
    I especially liked the "shocking news" the mature INTJ left off, delivered with unexpected brightness in tone, that does suggest character growth.
    Now is this gonna be a new series? Or is this an INTJ special one-off?

  • @JP-en7cc
    @JP-en7cc 8 місяців тому +96

    0:46 The Time machine was invented by INTP and INTJ refuses to acknowledge it. The other way she found was stealing the Time machine

    • @iaebom7253
      @iaebom7253 8 місяців тому +19

      "Work smart, not hard" Probabaly an intj

    • @N0URii
      @N0URii 8 місяців тому +8

      kinda hate it, but i must admit it.. yea

  • @midgetman946
    @midgetman946 8 місяців тому +45

    The genuine fear in INTJ's eyes after learning she gets married to an ENFP

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 8 місяців тому +434

    I hope that you repeat this concept 15 more times, Kristin!

    • @LK-jg1go
      @LK-jg1go 8 місяців тому +20

      I know right I need this for INTP, it was hilarious

    • @RetroGamer-95
      @RetroGamer-95 8 місяців тому +9

      Me too, can't wait for INFJ

    • @kenthartig7065
      @kenthartig7065 8 місяців тому +5

      ESTP would go hard for this one

    • @benjaminattwell1430
      @benjaminattwell1430 8 місяців тому +3

      Sorry for sounding like a pretentious weirdo I’m not sure if it works with all types as not all are very deeply inward looking as others 🤷🏻‍♂️ I trust Kristin though she always kills it!

    • @OGSilentMan
      @OGSilentMan 8 місяців тому +2

      Or like, maybe NOT and instead go on to make a cool narrative where all the 16 personalities have different roles.
      That would be cool

  • @sagemaster1357
    @sagemaster1357 8 місяців тому +101

    INTJ Sounds like an edge lord and future INTJ grew out of it and cringe from their past actions. 😂

  • @Juan-qn3yl
    @Juan-qn3yl 8 місяців тому +113

    As an INTJ married to a ENFJ, I approve and wonder how this unplanned aspect of my life happened...

    • @MaliMaslacak526
      @MaliMaslacak526 8 місяців тому +5

      I know how it happened: you a man she a woman you click and there you have it! Basic human nature it is my friend 😝
      Now you just need to further the line of smarty pants of this world, otherwise there will be horrible complete Sensor domination in near future and no fun no more 😨
      With love an enfp who already managed to procreate with an intj - 😅😆
      Hint: they multiplyyyyyy 😂💙💙🎉

    • @nateo200
      @nateo200 8 місяців тому +7

      INTJ and ENFJ? Wow you guys must haeve amazing communication cuz Fe is your blind spot and Te is the ENFJ demon function :O. I think the Ni probably helps tho

    • @NugrahaNedi
      @NugrahaNedi 8 місяців тому +2

      Thats so good . Healthy Enfj very good nurturing people also nurturing intj .
      Healthy Enfj very tough and independent .

    • @evesjeanz
      @evesjeanz Місяць тому

      i like enfjs

  • @fourNfour
    @fourNfour 8 місяців тому +103

    The coffee went down the wrong pipe when I heard the future INTJ being fine and married to an ENFP. Saw my life flash before my eyes in two different ways, leaving a like as we speak.
    Also, I just got myself a bed frame and mattress after six-ish years of sleeping on the floor and I guess spending money isn't that bad.
    -INTJ with back problems

    • @iwa2028
      @iwa2028 8 місяців тому +5

      Dw, marrying enfp won't be that bad either..
      They're often looks like some curious being that sees and tends intjs with much care and respect as if we're some rare interesting exotic species..
      Also probably they would be one of the few types that could bear with intjs dark and gloomy nature..
      Well, I can't say for every enfps, but that's how my enfp friends are..

    • @fourNfour
      @fourNfour 8 місяців тому

      @@iwa2028 yes, i actually cherish ENFPs in my life. I appreciate how they can make my alien like Ni feel embraced with genuine and warm curiosity. I find people shipping the types cute because I understand the judging functions being similar leaves a different but familiar vibe for the pair.
      But it's more on I don't really look at the types at all for attraction or preferences, to me its a tool to communicate better and seeing Kristin use the common ship was hilarious.

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans 8 місяців тому +4

      thanks for reminding me to correct my posture

    • @dubiousinformation1756
      @dubiousinformation1756 8 місяців тому +3

      I just did the same thing about a month ago cause I was sleeping on a broken twin sized spring mattress for the past 5 years.
      Life is strange sometimes.

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives 8 місяців тому +1

      @@iwa2028 I just began sleeping on the floor, as it used to be my favorite place to sleep as a child. It is supposed to be good for your back (with padding). I was thinking of getting rid of my bed. Interesting.

  • @thomasswrisky6734
    @thomasswrisky6734 8 місяців тому +51

    As an INTJ, I feel personally called out by this video:
    I’ve saved the vast majority of all the money I’ve made and spend very little of it, except on necessities, an occasional board game that catches my eye, and books (one of the few expenses I can always justify to myself, as I consider it an investment in my happiness, and sanity)
    I often go 24 hour periods without eating, simply because it is inconvenient/ not part of my routine, but I am working on that.
    I admittedly am somewhat distrustful of others, but I would say my caution is justified. Trust is something to be earned over time, and it never hurts to have contingencies and back up plans.
    I do admittedly focus more on my inner/ fictional worlds than the physical world sometimes. In the past, most days I went to university I only spoke to answer questions in class and thank the bus driver, while spending hours reading, and thinking about hypotheticals. My occasional obliviousness to certain things in the physical world has proven… inconvenient, on occasion.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 8 місяців тому +216

    I love this entire concept, my younger INFJ self would have A LOT to say to my current self! 😁

    • @erikgoodale1909
      @erikgoodale1909 8 місяців тому +12

      Does UA-cam allow videos that go on for days or even weeks? 🤣

    • @thevegetablequeen
      @thevegetablequeen 8 місяців тому +12

      Agreed! My 41 year old INFJ self has a LOTR to say to my 21 year old INFJ self!

    • @Gabrielle-bb2zq
      @Gabrielle-bb2zq 8 місяців тому +5

      What kind of stuff would you say? Go to sport, meet people on Internet, be more confident in yourself?

    • @ianburt2290
      @ianburt2290 8 місяців тому +10

      Mine would probably start "You're not actually an INTJ like you thought. You're depressed and are repressing your feelings and you need to learn to express them if you ever want to have healthy romantic relationships."

    • @Floowetic
      @Floowetic 7 місяців тому

      Thanks, I needed to hear that.
      Sometimes I feel like a Ti dom with emotions
      -INFJ

  • @loveablestranger
    @loveablestranger 8 місяців тому +212

    As an ENFP who is looking for an INTJ soulmate i am literally through the roof-

    • @Azdaja13
      @Azdaja13 8 місяців тому +28

      I'd give advice on how to find one of us but unfortunately I only go out when dogwalking, at work or heading to a forest in another region so I can actually have decent conversation for once. And during those times I only speak when spoken to or if I have business with a person (I mean dogwalking and at work - my journeys are actually to socialise with likeminded people). Otherwise I just avoid people where possible. Can't speak for every INTJ, but probably best looking online and see if one happens to be from your area.

    • @exnihilonihilfit6316
      @exnihilonihilfit6316 8 місяців тому +17

      says "soulmate" ... means provider and supporter. 😂

    • @loveablestranger
      @loveablestranger 8 місяців тому +4

      @@Azdaja13 lmao thank you for trying atleast, and i will definitely take it into account when im a little bit older and ready to date :D

    • @ParteniaAjmaq
      @ParteniaAjmaq 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@loveablestrangerBeing friends is beautiful experience, but honestly it's hard in reality to have romantic relationship with INTJ, possible only if both are open towards adjusting, ENFP have developed TE, and INTJ FI, and both parties would enjoy having separate lifestyles most of the time, and ENFP wouldn't have much needs for emotional support. ~ ENFP

    • @loveablestranger
      @loveablestranger 8 місяців тому +7

      @@ParteniaAjmaq maybe they dont need to learn to adjust only to make themselves fit into their partner's standards by changing themselves but instead changing their attitude towards the needed comfortation style and finding a balance between the communication styles :)
      That means that maybe two different partners will need different styles of comfortation but each partner can learn to comfort the other by their needs, and finding a way to safely communicate their feelings and needs.
      What really is needed in this relationship is maturity from both sides.

  • @BombshElle_7
    @BombshElle_7 8 місяців тому +102

    I'm a 37-year-old INTJ, and ALL of the social/people skills advice older INTJ gave to their younger selves is VALID. Learn how to let go (meaning don't be so guarded, reserved, and withdrawn) and make friends (because, yes, you'll need people) . It's been truly rewarding to sense more of a balance between my cognitive functions and my social life. EXCELLENT WORK, KRISTEN! ❤
    However, with all due respect, I am NOT marrying an ENFP. ✌🏽

    • @EresirThe1st
      @EresirThe1st 8 місяців тому +12

      Your loss, ENFPs are extremely hot

    • @MaliMaslacak526
      @MaliMaslacak526 8 місяців тому +10

      ​​​@@EresirThe1stOh thank you! You're making me blush 😄❤
      P.S. my intj is very well fed with delicious foods made from scratch, usually prepared with home grown ingredients. We moved from big city to nature where he now cycles through mountains and forests, he got to travel because of my influence and enjoys being a dad very much. He is deeply loved and appreciated as he is plus the deep talks and all the "conspiracy theoris" enfps actually understand and are aware of. So he says he is zufrieden very much 😊💙💙💙
      Just sayin! We're also very loyal, devoted, passionate and fun!

    • @isaacribeiro6823
      @isaacribeiro6823 8 місяців тому +1

      One problem the p is my problem.

  • @trebaneconapise7793
    @trebaneconapise7793 8 місяців тому +47

    Oh, marrying an ENFP means my struggles with low Ne and lacking random ideas during writing are solved, I have a constantly available brainstormer! Great! (also, awesome video as always)

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans 8 місяців тому +4

      to me, it would mean constant distractions and being the only one who can manage to keep the house clean

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives 8 місяців тому +6

      @@sandymakesplans ENFP are not necessarily messy just like all INTJ are not necessarily neat. You should know this?

  • @raydziesinski7165
    @raydziesinski7165 8 місяців тому +36

    Nailed it. Married, and to an ENFP. As a dyed in the wool INTJ you covered it all.

  • @lemonfighter5806
    @lemonfighter5806 8 місяців тому +30

    2:04 "They won't" is the only appropriate answer, young Intj, I am proud of you. Don't listen to her

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  8 місяців тому +3

      Hahahaha

    • @greenlemon3028
      @greenlemon3028 8 місяців тому +5

      Things are born twice. First in the mind, second in the real world. -entj

  • @MarcusCaddock
    @MarcusCaddock 8 місяців тому +72

    From an INTJ,
    Many things the video got right:
    1. I developed a code for interaction with a time traveled version of myself when I was in high school.
    2. My apartments have been incredibly sparse for furniture (until I got a stable job as an adult) except for bookcases and a bed. (People were also amazed I did not own a toaster for much of my life.)
    3. One of my deepest fears is the loss of my computer--mostly because that means that I would lose all my data I've been working on forever. This has happened a couple different times during my life and it is debilitating.
    4. I would have been terrified when I was younger to be married to an extravert. However, having come to know ENFPs better now, I understand why having them in my life as an INTJ is beneficial.
    5. Breaking the fourth wall: without the code given by a time traveled version of myself, I would think this is a trap or experiment.
    Things the video got wrong:
    1. I would have never asked to know the future or how to time travel because I knew this would have created unstable paradoxes. It is not rubbish.
    2. From a young age, I knew I wanted to be married but not until I was ready for it.
    3. The first laptop I bought myself was named Mimir after the giant's head. Odin killed him and took his head to speak his knowledge while Odin traveled. (My phone was named Mercury, the messenger of the gods.) I did not have a Star Wars phase.
    Something halfway right:
    I have been called arrogant but I contest that I am not being arrogant, merely laying out the rational and empirical evidence available. Even as a mature INTJ, I can recognize that people hate bare facts.

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans 8 місяців тому +2

      i used to want to get married, but it's the last thing on my mind now. i don't want it at all.

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner 8 місяців тому +4

      "People hate bare facts" actually people hate when someone doesn't seem to think they could possibly ever be wrong, or could even be missing an important detail.

    • @MarcusCaddock
      @MarcusCaddock 5 місяців тому +3

      @@sarahberkner No. People hate being wrong so much they would rather facts about reality to be lies rather than change themselves to fit truth.

    • @reinadellasschizas
      @reinadellasschizas 5 місяців тому

      I have also been called arrogant many times in my life, once I was kicked out of study group, because I tried to prove that my reasoning is the right one (it was).
      I am married to extrovert - ESTJ and sincerely hope that our son will develop to be ENTJ.

    • @umerfarooqrather5596
      @umerfarooqrather5596 10 годин тому

      You ARE arrogant, you just don't wanna be better than you already are, cause obviously you think you are the best already....!
      i am an intj too btw​@@MarcusCaddock

  • @MikeScott55
    @MikeScott55 8 місяців тому +52

    As an INTJ married to an ESFP, the ending made me laugh internally.

    • @michaelbond7213
      @michaelbond7213 8 місяців тому +6

      Congratulations on not revealing your amusement outwardly. They may have been watching
      - another INTJ

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 7 місяців тому +5

      Terrified of ESFPs, I am perplexed how this even happened

    • @dagansgamingbox6604
      @dagansgamingbox6604 4 місяці тому +2

      Being in a relationship with one is the most confusing thing you never regret.

    • @GiayTreEm-UnInKidsStore
      @GiayTreEm-UnInKidsStore 3 місяці тому

      I've broke up. My ESFP boyfriend is like a child lol =))) After all, I sometimes laugh at him when I remember the memories we had =)))

  • @dearthofdoohickeys4703
    @dearthofdoohickeys4703 8 місяців тому +8

    I NEVER want to meet a future me. They’d just be incredibly smug about knowing things I don’t.

  • @migsmethinks5801
    @migsmethinks5801 8 місяців тому +29

    As a 30 yr-old INTJ, this is eerily SPOT ON what I'd tell my younger self!!! Though, I'd throw in some stock tips, an overview of Bitcoin price movements, a warning on the dismal state of the real estate market, and a list of world events to look out for.
    Also, I'd leave out the part about marrying an ENFP. I've instead "succeeded" in remaining single and instead became my own ENFP to some degree. WHAT HAVE I DONE?!?!!! 😭😂😭😭😭

    • @kindauncool
      @kindauncool 8 місяців тому +2

      I was waiting for the stock tips and was surprisingly disappointed.

    • @LiorTamir
      @LiorTamir 8 місяців тому

      AHH but what is there to suggest to you that this universe even HAS bitcoin?

  • @bigd_snowbirder
    @bigd_snowbirder 8 місяців тому +19

    INTJ here, love how the INTJ keeps trying to break the 4th wall.
    And yes, who would've even fathomed, I got married to an ENFP 🤣🥰

  • @helenalena6193
    @helenalena6193 3 місяці тому +5

    "The world moves faster than your plans" THEN I'M JUST GONNA PLAN FASTER

  • @thevegetablequeen
    @thevegetablequeen 8 місяців тому +34

    I love this video concept! I'm an older INFJ, and I don't really fit the stereotypes anymore, so I find this relatable. The older person with life experience who has developed their third and fourth functions giving advice to their younger self, with all the little Easter eggs included - it's genius.

  • @hellraisinhamster
    @hellraisinhamster 8 місяців тому +48

    INTJ breaking the 4th wall… amazing. Too accurate lmao.

    • @hassaniq0777
      @hassaniq0777 8 місяців тому +3

      I break the 4th wall irl without even acting or pretending lmao, it's a part of me that thinks/pretends to know everything, I do it more with people that are so stupid I feel like they're NPCs.
      -INTJ

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 8 місяців тому +2

      We do enjoy talking to the viewers at home from time to time, don't we?

    • @existentialchaos8
      @existentialchaos8 6 місяців тому

      @@hassaniq0777 As an INTP, I do that sometimes too, especially over the past few years.

    • @-_deploy_-
      @-_deploy_- 2 місяці тому

      ​@@hassaniq0777 😂

  • @user-yz4ke9hi9s
    @user-yz4ke9hi9s 8 місяців тому +15

    The "setting up a home line got me!" A while back an ISFJ and I were reading "table topics" cards together and one question was: What makes a house a home? Her: "the pictures on walls, the feeling of comfort and belonging, the smells..." Me: "people living inside it." Also, I love open space so the lack of furniture is spot on. Plain black shirt and plain white shirt...my two go-to articles of clothing. Well done, Kristin (as usual)!

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 8 місяців тому +9

    The most emotion showed by both intj’s combined is the horror when she’s told she’ll marry an Enfp

  • @superstellarhere
    @superstellarhere 8 місяців тому +30

    I LOVE THIS CONCEPT!!! The start being like a horror film aaaaa so good already

  • @ponderwoodtimes
    @ponderwoodtimes 8 місяців тому +27

    How is it that an ESFP has so much insight and intuition into people's personality types?!
    Well done, Kristen!
    We are all looking forward to 15 other "future self" skits!
    No. Pressure. At. All. ( Insert INFJ virtual gaze:p)

    • @ponderwoodtimes
      @ponderwoodtimes 8 місяців тому +4

      *Kristin 🙃

    • @Hollyucinogen
      @Hollyucinogen 7 місяців тому

      Isn't she an ISTP?! 😩
      My entire world is crashing down.

  • @crayon8749
    @crayon8749 8 місяців тому +167

    I loved that ending so much
    The good ol' INTJ and ENFP ship
    This was sheer perfection, also where did you actually record this?
    Like did you take out all the furniture because you're moving house? Or was it not in your house?

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  8 місяців тому +64

      Thanks Crayon! This is my new house :)

    • @eyalmeirbarnea8706
      @eyalmeirbarnea8706 8 місяців тому +6

      I can sum up this entire video ( please don't be mad at me , it's all just fun humor )
      INTJ : sitting in a boring room with no forniture
      future INTJ : i am you because i know all the secrets you know . Yet i have entire new personality and approach to life .
      INTJ : this is very contradictory ,and it doesn't make any sense to me . Please , can you explain yourself ?
      future INTJ : no
      INTJ : why ?
      future INTJ : no real reason at all ( and because i don't think you'de underdtstand but it's not very convenient ) but don't worry , at the end of the video i will show you why you need to trust me .
      INTJ : golly

    • @kindauncool
      @kindauncool 8 місяців тому

      +@@eyalmeirbarnea8706 you'de underdtstand

  • @xoxo_dd886
    @xoxo_dd886 8 місяців тому +9

    I think people often exaggerare INTJ females, if theyre really close to you theyre actually really nice and caring, just not in the nursing way and theyre actually really brutally honest and straightforward but assertive and intelligent

    • @seriouslysarah1665
      @seriouslysarah1665 20 днів тому

      you just described me exactly and i don't know what to think...

  • @bb_ghosty
    @bb_ghosty 8 місяців тому +46

    I can tell that your lifestyle changes (re: last video) have legitimately improved your creativity. Don't get me wrong, all your videos slap-- but THIS right here is the quality that makes you really stand out in my mind.
    Also, if the events of this video's plot end up connecting to future videos, I might scream. Not tryna interfere with your creative genius though... so just pretend I never said anything while my suggestion quietly takes root in your mind and becomes your own idea which you were already planning on executing. :) :) :)

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  8 місяців тому +6

      Thanks heaps! 😁😁😁

  • @firtp5209
    @firtp5209 8 місяців тому +10

    As as INTJ who indentify more with the younger one in the this video, this is both painfull to watch, but also incredibly accurate.

  • @Graywyck
    @Graywyck 8 місяців тому +15

    "The World moves faster than your plans"
    Gosh Kristin why do you have to hurt me like this haha

  • @allesdurchprobiert
    @allesdurchprobiert 8 місяців тому +4

    "The world moves faster than your plans."
    Damn, that hit me unexpectedly! 😢

  • @MrRager1996
    @MrRager1996 8 місяців тому +8

    (INTJ) Not much hyperbole here. This is scary accurate for me. As JustCallMeJon said "a socialized INTJ is an optimized INTJ". Or something like that. Also the younger INTJ is probably miserable inside because of their habits and probably doesn't know it.

  • @justsomenobody889
    @justsomenobody889 7 місяців тому +5

    INTJs: I'm never wrong.
    Also INTJs: Why does everyone call me 'arrogant'?

    • @justsomenobody889
      @justsomenobody889 7 місяців тому

      Also INTJs: Hey! I never claimed in my life that I'm 'never wrong'! I just happen to (always) be right this time!
      It's the eternal paradox for me. I know I'm not always right, I can think of many times when I was wrong or only partly right, but anytime it's happened I needed time to process the fact that I was wrong because my thinking is too rigid, so for an outside observer it seems like I never can admit that I'm wrong when really it just happens when I'm alone after the conversation has ended

    • @KP-w
      @KP-w 7 місяців тому

      Doesn't have anything to do with your MBTI type. Almost everyone is guilty of saying this atleast once or twice. "See? I'm never wrong. See? I'm always right." You're nothing special.

  • @PsychologyandChillwMichi
    @PsychologyandChillwMichi 8 місяців тому +9

    “We all look like me in this universe” 😂

  • @emilylambelet4962
    @emilylambelet4962 8 місяців тому +7

    Eeee! So good. As an enfp I can’t wait to show this to my intj husband. There will be definite eye-rolling but also I know he secretly relishes it 😂

    • @LibertyMommy
      @LibertyMommy 8 місяців тому +1

      Same! Same! Same!! Everything same here! He would never seek this out. But why does he need to when he knows I will and show him. 😉 He might eye roll but deep down… he probably eye rolls … but he will probably laugh at the ending.

  • @jackies1729
    @jackies1729 8 місяців тому +10

    Don't tell me to not binge when you make such bingeworthy content, dear Kristin ❤😂
    -INFP

  • @Azdaja13
    @Azdaja13 8 місяців тому +16

    I actually did literally make lists of people who annoyed me... and those lists were long. Also, I keep remembering things from when I was young just floating to the top of my memory every so often and I just end up cringing. Advice for my past self: make sure someone or something is actually the person/thing you imagine them to be before committing to a future idea/vision with them. The issue with that is those experiences were formative and, in a morbid way, enlightening and I don't think I'd have the same understanding of the world and the nature of evil without them. Effectively, I'd be telling my younger self to Se more.
    Marriage to an ENFP, or INFP, is... acceptable.

    • @zarlashtkhan3740
      @zarlashtkhan3740 4 дні тому

      I just realised reading this that my list was my block list, and it was long, and I used to look at it fondly.

    • @Azdaja13
      @Azdaja13 3 дні тому

      @@zarlashtkhan3740 Yeah, mine's massive. xD

  • @ShalomMulenga
    @ShalomMulenga 8 місяців тому +4

    Lil advice... once you find your purpose, you'll know what to do with your money. And nobody makes it to the top alone, not saying you can't. You'll just be hella tired once you get there, or worse, dead from all the stress.

  • @joncoley8894
    @joncoley8894 8 місяців тому +5

    The ENFP comment got me 😂😂😂

  • @huntedsnark7507
    @huntedsnark7507 8 місяців тому +8

    Computer betrayal! The horror!

  • @Kimbolie12
    @Kimbolie12 8 місяців тому +4

    But... it's a safety net...and what if I get used to spending money and won't be able to stop? I don't want to create bad habits. And Shrek is a masterpiece.

  • @modove2842
    @modove2842 8 місяців тому +5

    You have a really good (imo) perception of INTJs and their weaknesses and hidden side! I think this is because you're an ESFP, you have the same valued functions but in reverse.
    You talk about struggling to get INFJs right (well, struggling isn't the right word, but ykwim). If you wanted to make a similar video for the INFJ, I think the answer is clear-recruit an ExTP 😏 (an ESTP would be ideal for pointing out sensory development (like how you told the INTJ to get some damn furniture), but as you're already Se-base, you've got that covered). Like the INTJ's "hidden agenda" is Fi, giving them very (N?)FP moments like naming their laptop, the IxFJ's hidden agenda is Ti. Similar to how Fi is very present and important to the INTJ but kept very... well, hidden (hidden agenda), Ti is important to the IFJ, and a future self "developed" with the help of an ETP would be able to similarly call out that Ti.
    Of course, no pressure, just a bunch of Ti rambling 😂

  • @wiegraf9009
    @wiegraf9009 8 місяців тому +2

    As an INTJ who married an ENFP I can confirm.

  • @N0URii
    @N0URii 8 місяців тому +8

    I love how people arent talking about how kristin terrifyingly understand how an intjs acts, the expressions, and thinks

    • @kindauncool
      @kindauncool 8 місяців тому +2

      It's because she writes her scripts with the associated type's assistance on Patreon.

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  8 місяців тому +9

      Alas, this one was all me! 😏

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 8 місяців тому +1

      @@dearkristin
      "Dark Kristin", correct?

  • @QxKou
    @QxKou 3 місяці тому +1

    Glad i discovered all of this at the age of 21, saved me from a lot of stupid situations

  • @greenlemon3028
    @greenlemon3028 8 місяців тому +4

    video idea: The 16 personality when they think nobody is watching them
    (But don't make it obvious. This an opportunity to explore the less dominant functions again, like in the video with the angels)
    video idea: The 16 personalities cooking food
    (which dish fits which personality?)
    video idea: The 16 personalities switching roles for a week
    (video format: 8 conversations in a tv show setting between two personalities for each convo. they meet for the first time after having switched places for a week. They are happy to be back in their familiar roles, curious to ask questions about things they did not get about the other persons setup, scared to admit what changes they made and so much more.)

  • @JoeZombie-nq7qj
    @JoeZombie-nq7qj 8 місяців тому +3

    I'm an ENFP but around 20 I was exactly like the young INTJ, like damn. Except maybe just tech-interested, not outright into hacking. Used to test as INTJ too.

  • @nooneneedstoknowmyname
    @nooneneedstoknowmyname 8 місяців тому +3

    I bet it was the ISTJ who invented the time machine.

  • @jamyllemagalhaes8531
    @jamyllemagalhaes8531 8 місяців тому +9

    Just loved this concept, me as an ISTJ probably would just say how stupid my younger version was for trying to prove being better than anyone with such arrogance
    Fun fact: I got married with an ENFJ

  • @Pinkywinkykinky
    @Pinkywinkykinky 8 місяців тому +3

    This fits how I judge an intj I know cause their taste is so barren like where's the COLOR -enfp

  • @carlasmith9093
    @carlasmith9093 8 місяців тому +11

    This was brilliant on so many levels!

    • @carlasmith9093
      @carlasmith9093 8 місяців тому +1

      Just got to the ENFP marriage reveal/reaction and that just iced the cake!😂
      As an ENFP who has found my closest friendships among NTJs, I can assure the young INTJ that we can grow on them and much mutual enjoyment of intuitive romps can ensue! ❤

  • @_yahir_7673
    @_yahir_7673 8 місяців тому +1

    “the world moves faster than your plans”
    This exact phrase sums up everything I learned from my upbringing, I was raised by an ESTP dad and an INFP mom. The most impulsive set of parents and dealing with that FORCED me into clicking with my lesser functions. I like to think of myself as the laziest INTJ because 90% is more convenient to me than 99%.

  • @honda-akari
    @honda-akari 8 місяців тому +4

    Older INTJ is hurting the younger one by not telling her everything

  • @yates667
    @yates667 8 місяців тому +2

    At least the INTJ realizes that everyone in the Universe is the same person.

  • @vida8356
    @vida8356 8 місяців тому +10

    As an INTJ I am feeling a bunch of emotions that I probably need 2 to 3 business days to figure out precisely but I am not loving that I got exposed like this. (Also I had this daydream A LOT where I go to different stages of my past and talk to myself and giving advices how did you know that...)

  • @AcapachVideo
    @AcapachVideo 8 місяців тому +3

    To be honest, INTJs tussle their inferior function SE. Thus, I am developing this function.

  • @user-mh5be7rj5j
    @user-mh5be7rj5j 8 місяців тому +8

    As an INTP (5w6 for Enneagram enthusiasts), I relate to the INTJs, specifically the younger one. I relate to the older INTJ saying “What if your plans fail” because I can’t be sure that everything will work out.

    • @iwa2028
      @iwa2028 8 місяців тому +2

      Yea, my INTP and ENTP friend always told me that
      They keep nagging me as if they're "my mom in disguise" 😂

    • @user-mh5be7rj5j
      @user-mh5be7rj5j 8 місяців тому +1

      @@iwa2028 lol nice

    • @user-pt3bv3jl3v
      @user-pt3bv3jl3v 8 місяців тому +2

      Always have a backup plan for your backup plan. - ENTP
      And then proceed to forget what the plan was because you're already envisioning a better plan and getting in a heated discussion about how much better the new plan is. -also ENTP

    • @iwa2028
      @iwa2028 8 місяців тому

      @@user-pt3bv3jl3v typical ENTP 😂

  • @Spectacular-Spider-Dan
    @Spectacular-Spider-Dan 8 місяців тому +5

    Hey youtube commenters! I just wanted to mention again that Kristin has a patreon goal that when she hits 500 patrons she's going to make "16 Personalities In A Musical." Let's make that happen!
    Even if you can't afford the lowest patreon tier, I'm sure a custom pledge of any size would help her achieve her goal of becoming a full time content creator. Even a dollar would help! So, if her content entertains you, or enriches your life in some way, please consider donating!
    Disclaimer: Please donate responsibly. Don't give beyond your means.☺

  • @W4Cthunderbird
    @W4Cthunderbird 8 місяців тому +7

    YES! apparently when you ask nicely, she listens... Thanks Kristen, that was great. -INTJ

  • @eileen.333
    @eileen.333 8 місяців тому +3

    Lolololol “you’re worst nightmare… getting married? “ LMAO

  • @nonchalantd
    @nonchalantd 8 місяців тому +2

    This writing and acting is incredible.

  • @firespawnie537
    @firespawnie537 8 місяців тому +3

    That ENFP that she's married to in the future is me!

  • @theorycow
    @theorycow 8 місяців тому +1

    Omg i am literally begging you for an INFP version of this and/or the tier list series

  • @midgetman946
    @midgetman946 8 місяців тому +2

    I'm INTP but refusing to buy furniture just to save money felt like a call out

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 8 місяців тому +1

      Flea markets and thrift stores can save you a lot of trouble and money

  • @whatsinameme5258
    @whatsinameme5258 8 місяців тому +1

    As a maturing INTJ, I've basically given up on the idea that I could even plan 3 months ahead, let alone 30 years ahead like I used to think. I still think 30 years years ahead, but its so that I can brace for impact when I am inevitably unprepared for whats coming. I will also never stop referencing Star Wars and looking for my ENFP unicorn. I've realized its folly to try and "grow up". We are all childish, regardless of personality type.

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon 8 місяців тому +14

    "getting married!?"

  • @julieolson1402
    @julieolson1402 8 місяців тому +2

    An INTJ & ENFP reveals just how much God knows what he's doing! Hilarious video, Kristen

  • @godandsarah1306
    @godandsarah1306 8 місяців тому +2

    As a 30-ish Intj to my younger 20 ish self
    1. Eat more red meat and protein. Spot on.
    2. Take vitamin D (look it up its crazy)
    3. Social. Skills are important. Yes, I've known this for years but it's hard to put into practice

  • @tkchen80
    @tkchen80 8 місяців тому +1

    Oh my god, how is this so accurate? I also married an ENFP.. eventually.

  • @editorjeannie2318
    @editorjeannie2318 8 місяців тому +1

    Omg I hope you do all of the personalities like this!!!!

  • @greener_man8543
    @greener_man8543 8 місяців тому +2

    I knew the ending had something to do with being married with the wedding ring reveal right before it.
    -Intj

  • @azarishiba2559
    @azarishiba2559 8 місяців тому +4

    And thus another new series was born! But please, make the "16 P through ESFP's eyes" first XD XD
    I literally left out a big laugh at the end, future INTJ face saying with a big smile was priceless XD XD XD
    My younger ENFP would be surprised. First advice I would said to him: don't lose a single piece of the LEGO you own XD XD

  • @PockyFiend
    @PockyFiend 8 місяців тому +7

    Looks like a series to me! ❤

  • @lalc22
    @lalc22 8 місяців тому +3

    This was so accurate and relatable, I enjoyed a lot =)

  • @twangology
    @twangology 6 місяців тому

    this is brilliant!

  • @elder7985
    @elder7985 8 місяців тому +1

    Oh I love this! This feels like a conversation in my head, my now me talking to the underlaying stubborn old me holding on to old principles, not wanting to let go

  • @Stickweeed
    @Stickweeed 8 місяців тому +2

    I'm an ENFP and have been with my INTJ boyfriend for 7 years. We are both 26 and he still doesn't believe in marriage and hates social situation. I hope someday my dream comes true 😂

  • @julespetrikov
    @julespetrikov 8 місяців тому +1

    Oh, this is brilliant.

  • @umeshkulkarni9687
    @umeshkulkarni9687 8 місяців тому

    Wow! Amazing video. Great Job!

  • @user-ns5ol2he3f
    @user-ns5ol2he3f 8 місяців тому +4

    It was very fun to watch, as always, and this might not be relevant but I find the entire script is so clearly-written and easy to understand, that I think it could actually be helpful for those who are learning English, like myself. 👍🏻

  • @Marewig
    @Marewig 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm finishing watching this now, because the first time I watched it was in the middle of the night, and when I reached "my plans don't fail" from young!INTJ, I laughed like a loon.
    Keep telling yourself that, buddy. Also, yeah, that absolutely sounds like younger me on that front. Fortunately, I wasn't _that_ people averse.

  • @xyznightwing
    @xyznightwing 8 місяців тому +2

    Enfp here. Can't wait to see the other types and their future selves. I always imagine talking to my younger self and, ngl we would be friends, but I'd probably tell them to be more realistic 😅

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 8 місяців тому +1

    Always love you're videos always interesting in the different personality types

  • @juleshairston7115
    @juleshairston7115 8 місяців тому +1

    The social skills hit hard. As younger INTJ, I tried to navigate the world with complete disregard to social conventions. I thought changing would be selling myself out. Later on I accepted that humans are social beings and our societies are heavily structured based on that. So now I play nice but I love the reactions when my real thoughts slip out.

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 8 місяців тому +1

    “My plans don’t fail”
    “But what if they do 👀”
    Immediately I was wondering where the Ne influence was coming from

  • @i14ma
    @i14ma 8 місяців тому

    This is AMAZING girl 😂😂

  • @delliv5451
    @delliv5451 8 місяців тому +1

    Very good, well done...

  • @tariolbay6278
    @tariolbay6278 5 місяців тому

    Je découvre tout juste ta chaîne et bravo c'est vraiment très drôle !

  • @notsogermanantolope6556
    @notsogermanantolope6556 4 місяці тому +1

    As a INTJ that does not really it meat, that is indeed accurate.

  • @winstonjohngutual2318
    @winstonjohngutual2318 8 місяців тому +7

    woah, i recently took a personality test and my mom was intj and my dad was enfp, like really! is it like a coincidence or is there something that draws those two personality types to each other?

    • @user-kt1no7yx1u
      @user-kt1no7yx1u 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm an ENTP and my best friend for life is an INTJ, I think the ne dom and the ni dom compliment each other

  • @seriouslysarah1665
    @seriouslysarah1665 20 днів тому

    As soon as I heard the savings point, I knew this was going to reveal some truths I never thought about

  • @leighwolf5349
    @leighwolf5349 8 місяців тому +1

    Lol, if only we could have our future-selves advise our past-selves.
    It wasn't until my junior year of high school that I finally realized I was going to be in serious trouble in the real world if I didn't figure out a lot of the stuff that everyone else thought of as "normal".
    So, I threw myself into musical-theater for the next 3 years. It was so awkward for me, and I was told by several directors that my expressions and misinterpretations of the characters in the plays was very weird... which was the primary reason I continued putting myself through it.
    That way, even if I didn't think the same way as the majority of society, then at least I could understand what their actions and decisions would likely be.
    It really helped me when I went into the customer-service industry, but I was still lacking a lot what I needed, so I started doing Voice Acting to learn how to fake my vocal tone and inflection as needed.
    I'm in my thirties now, and still occasionally considered "weird", but at least I no longer come across as an expressionless b*tch who doesn't care about others... unless I'm too tired to care and/or extremely irritated.
    I highly recommend other INTJs try musical-theater or voice-acting;
    I like to think of them as weapons that I've armed myself with to ensure I have more of a fair fight in the global tournament called "life".

    • @KP-w
      @KP-w 7 місяців тому

      A global tournament? What do I stand to win? (Except death)

    • @leighwolf5349
      @leighwolf5349 7 місяців тому

      @@KP-w Only you can answer that question; every individual has their own goal(s) in life 🏁

  • @hoyand3317
    @hoyand3317 8 місяців тому

    It really felt like a mother's advice rather than a future self's advice. Not with an enfp!!!!!! and perfect video, tnxx