How MBTI changed my life | INTJ Female
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- An off the cuff story of finding MBTI and how it helped me. Enjoy.
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/✌️Kiara
"It's a tool for understanding yourself, not a box to put yourself in"
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Knowing my MBTI type (INTJ female) has helped me hugely in my social interactions. After I did a deep dive, and more aware of my strengths and weaknesses, I am working on balancing out the more extreme parts of my personality. My marriage has always been good, but we are next level now knowing that I see the big picture whilst my husband (ESTJ) gets busy with the small details. We are in the process of building a new house. We are both efficient planners/organizers but I come up with the concept and he puts the 'plan' into action and deals with all the people! He and I work brilliantly together. Where we come up short is finding time for emotional intimacy which we have to plan for and schedule in!!!
@@NiTeFiSe.collie this is the best! Yea it’s COMPLETELY changed my interactions with others, it makes my life so much easier, also knowing where I should offer others more trust where I perhaps once wouldnt have.
Knowing your type get you ahead of everybody
Hi Kiara, I agree with you. I am a INFJ and like you I did not feel I fit in the majority of the circles I was in. MBTI has given me better understanding on the reasons why and it has helped me a lot in my personal growth. I totally recommend it !! … pd. I have never seen this as putting people in boxes. That sounds a little negative, but I am a big believer in understanding the big picture by classifying parts into smaller groups for better analysis and comprehension. I also recommend taking the enneagram test, I feel it fills some little voids left by the MBTI. So when you combine both, it’s huge knowledge at your hands. ie I am INFJ 5w6 … which explains why I love problem solving and logic so much and I am able to blend the objective solution with the implementation leading people considering their emotions.
@@carloscedillo5081 I’ve also been told to take the enneagram, might have to check it out, thanks!
Intj's are Fe (extraverted feeling) polar, meaning it is the second last cognitive function and therefore takes least priority over the other cognitive functions.
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I tested intj. It's a relief knowing my weaknesses and strengths to eventually work on them. I had to take the test a few times at different workplaces. I hated that some people treated me like an intj instead of just being present in our interactions. I could tell that they studied the types very superficially and tried to pull other people's strings like puppets. Maybe they were trying to relate, but it didn't feel like it. It is true, it made me realize that some people are alien to each other because of how their mind works.
@@user-dx2dm8oq8g yea using it just as a tool is a must (not a hard in stone box). It’s increasing awareness of how you naturally approach the world. Haha someone trying to pull my strings would certainly have the opposite effect than they were hoping for 😂
shared similar experience, came to know about MBTI around 4 months ago. Took weeks to confirm my type. Prior to such exposure, I thought my strength was analytical skill and worked 13 years on a skill with unfruitful results. The past 4 months I have accomplished more than the last 13 years, finally monetized my research by capitalizing Ni cognitive function.
@@zhonezhone6682 I’m so glad you found it!
Hello Kiara im an INTJ male here people find me intimidating even when i am just being myself and i dont like dealing with women and people in general its ironic because i am a doctor by profession which drains me.
I always feel like im left out or couldn’t relate to pretty much everyone and to further add to the societal troubles i have been told i am insensitive to other peoples emotions and mine as well.
@@RahulPatil-yg7vy I’m sorry you are experiencing this. I know something that helped me most to start with was that as an introvert, my profession (teaching) wasn’t healthy for me in the long run! I only had the energy to work on the other things once I started making sure I could protect my energy properly and recharge
Hello Kiara, I'm a teenager and also an INTJ and I'm struggling with the same or similar things you mentioned when you were younger. Im very grateful for this video because i could relate to so many things that you said. It made me realize that I'm not alone and there are other's that are like me and struggle with the same thing's. I am in the process of trying to understand myself and deal with my emotions and problems. Thank you.
@@kyoi761 you’re very welcome. The fact that you found this so young is amazing 🥰
Can you link the NLP training you did? Would love to learn more!
@@MrSibinStephen absolutely! themindacademy.com
"Give the test to your friends!" Yeah, ENTJ giving MBTI to his best friends just to find out that I'm speaking to a mirror😂 3 ENTJs are my best friends, me being the 4th😅 Sometimes ridiculous truths
@@BerniHard haha it’s so funny hey! Must be some lively debates in that group haha!
an Olympian? Thats cool.