The 16 Personalities' 4th Function Appearing as the Angel on Their Shoulder
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- Опубліковано 5 кві 2021
- So what are these “cognitive functions”?
If you dive a little deeper into the “16 personalities” theory, you will find the 8 cognitive functions, which stem back to the original psycho-analytical studies of Carl Jung that brought us MBTI. The 4 letters of each type are actually a means of decoding their unique cognitive function stack.
Each type leads with a specific function in their 1st slot, the opposite of which is their 4th, or “inferior” function. In this video, each type is being spoken to by their 4th function, who is trying to help them identify a blind spot that they might have, due to that particular function being "inferior".
Understanding our functions allows us to decipher what the natural tendencies and preferences of our brains are, and to understand that they are fundamentally different from others’. MBTI teaches us that being well aware of our 4th function, and all of our functions, enables us to know where our blind spots are, as well as what we need to develop in order to actualise our potential and become a more well-rounded version of ourselves.
I have not made a video about the cognitive functions yet, but thankfully, many other awesome UA-camrs have! If you are interested in learning more, below are introductory videos from Frank James, LiJo and Aimee Y respectively:
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INTP: There, there. Pat, pat.
Fe angel: Good enough.
Clearly, that angel knows what it's working with.
I carry paper tissues just for when I find myself seated across a stranger bawling their eyes out in the train. It has happened. More than once.
Helps when my cider bottle spills over when opened in the train as well.
@@drawingspider7798 I also carry tissues everywhere. My son has always been a dramatic creature, so his presence in my life has taught me to keep tissues close by.
This has actually come in handy even on occasions when I've been out without my children.
I carry the imaginary kind. Just in case someone is getting emotional and I can get one for them. Prozac also works wonders for the Fe prominent types.
This is honestly the CUTEST thing. Seeing a thinker awkwardly try to use their feeling function because they care about another person who needs the love/comfort 💕
Oops, my bad. Cutest autocorrected to all caps because apparently that's usually how I usually use it 😂 I didn't intend to have quite so much enthusiasm there haha
I love the fact that it took TWO angels for the ENFP
Me, an ENFP, watching this video and looking over at my messy desk with a group of cups on it
This really hits home for me. Sometimes, the fear of getting yelled at is my only motivation for doing something. 😂😬
It's so accurate lol
I just washed my cup before I washed this video. HA!
The only thing that can make an ENFP actually clean up, the friend happiness meter
_Someone's crying_
(sadness detected)
(file scanning)
(file found. Run file: comfort.exe?)
(>yes)
"There there. It's ok." _Pat pat_
(action analysis...)
(action successful)
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😂😂
Love this! ❤️
LMAO
Intp= INTel Processor
As an INTP, I usually try to make them a cup of tea, which kills two birds with one stone: I don’t have to talk to them for a couple of seconds, and it creates the illusion of me actually knowing how to deal with people
Huh... I think I am going to start to use this one... generally, the first thing I do is start thinking about solutions for their problem.
That’s a really good idea imma keep that in mind
Lol that’s the Sheldon Cooper way
Well it depens on the person, hopefully they start talking and I just listen, get the situation clear in my head and try to help (or at least get all the arguments that possibly will make them feel mentally better), sometimes it's someone who needs just a good listener, then arguments and simple conversation may be unwanted, then I recommend hugs, they can last long and people's reaction to physical touch is rather positive than negative in most of the times (unless it's someone with low Fe, then it may be some jokes, starting new topic or dead silence and with low Fi, it depens on how situation is serious but when they burst in tears I think that silence and practical help like wipes, water and alone time if they need, if not, I don't think they will talk about their problems or they will make it sound like something not that important) but those are just my observations as a INTP trying to survive in the group of friends with their problems.
Omg wait, this is actually a brilliant idea. I’m an ENFP and I may even start doing this. Also, I love tea, so if someone made me tea to help me feel better, I’d honestly feel really warm and loved. Again, brilliant hahaha
Look Si, don't tell me how to live my life. I was going to clean up my bedroom dishes today, but now that you told me to, I don't want to do it anymore. -ENFP
Oh my goodness SAME 😭👏 at this point Fi is all I have left. Once I realize that my aversion to Si is getting in the way of what I value or what I want to do with my life, I’ll try a little harder to navigate the hard spots. Otherwise? There will be a water bottle colony in my room, and I will let the army grow. 👏
Bruh that’s me but I’m INFP😭😭
Meeeee lmao
lol! My sister is ENFP and she would leave cups of orange juice in our bedroom. Mold would grow in there. I'm no Si masterpiece, but it's definitely interesting the difference in having Si in the third function compared to the 4th function. - intp
As an ENFP I feel it is FI that motivates me to clean. SI comes when I think maybe I should try and organise my projects so I can actually finish it. So far the SI Angel is shaking her head saying "NOOO your not meant to be commenting on a video"
0:08 ISTJ
1:01 ESFJ
1:59 INTP
2:31 ESFP
3:00 INTJ
3:56 ENFP
5:30 ESTP
5:41 ENTJ
6:09 ISFP
7:00 ENFJ
7:31 ENTP
8:08 ISTP
8:50 INFJ
9:40 ESTJ
10:27 INFP
11:10 ISFJ
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These timestamps really really help. Thank you so much !!
As an ENTP, I can relate. We're really good at letting people know we have our shit together. But we don't. It's like. And we'll gaslight it to avoid being accused of being emotionally immature. And then we'll gaslight that.
Thank you
Doing lords work here man
INTP is perfection-the look of internal panic, the robotic delivery, the hesitance to reach out-flawless.
Thank you 🥰
I found it very relatable.
The TiFe axis makes you understanding of the person in need and I often feel _obligated_ to comfort them in some way, but the analysis (Ti) for the certainty of something unfamiliar(the Fe) and creativity for how I should go about doing it (Ne) kicks in and makes me super hesitant. Not enough Se to act on impulse and go ahead and try to comfort them on the first idea I get.
true that! but i somewhat admire that :)
"Good enough" 😅
I have put in a lot of personal work to not react like this to other people's emotions, and I'm still worse than the average person. I am great at analyzing and discussing people's feelings, but I'm never comfortable with showing my emotions in the way that other people do. I feel the empathy, I know how they feel and I'm feeling their feelings. The problem is that when I feel feelings, I don't show them so I don't know how to force myself to show the feelings that I'm feeling to effectively comfort people most of the time.
Te: "Life goes on"
Fi: *whispers* "No it doesn't"
also Te: Well I'm gonna go Se-wild to suppress this then
Yes!!!!!! Yes!!!!
Aaaaaccccurate
that's some hardcore truth lol. ENTJ approved
“Give into the chaos” is 100% an inner conversation that has to occur if we INTJ’s will do anything spontaneous. Bravo
That line reminds me of Netflix's The Witcher series. Tissaia at the end of season one tells Yennefer "Forget the bottle, let your chaos explode." In the books and games, Yennefer has been repeatedly typed as INTJ, so yeah this sketch is reminiscent of that scene.
I’m happy to do something spontaneous, as long as I’m given enough notice to prepare. A week, or two, will do. 😉😆
Thank you! 😁
@@roonarific1086 Great connection. Finding power in chaos is contradictory to her but essential to self mastery.
@@dearkristin Would it be okay if, instead of _giving in_ to the chaos, I was to carefully plan and schedule some chaos instead?
As an INFP this is the exact process I have to go through when someone comes to me for support. Literally saying that sucks and then everytime I'm like ah how can I relate this to myself, then have to stop myself talking about myself and be like wait no how can I actually help them.
yeaaa
helping and giving advice is not my thing
I can listen and thats all but beyond that? emptiness
Yeah, me too.
You just described me!!
.... sorry not trying to make this about myself. - INFP
@@Acadian.FrenchFry Oh, I just realized what I did.
Oh, I just realized I did it again.
@@Acadian.FrenchFry 😂
Dear Te: I'm sorry if I ignore you a lot. Blame Ne for distracting me.
- INFP (Fi)
Auxiliary function is actually supposed to be the most healthy function in an individual. One doesn't indulge on auxiliary function, it makes them better. You could be an Ne dominant instead.
@@caffemocca8855 all functions can be used unhealthily in my opinion.
Excessive self-identification with type can become toxic and stifling to growth. Jung himself considered typology a tool to help trascend type, and called its merely descriptive misuse a "childish parlor game"
@@Ignasimp Auxiliary is called the parent function for a reason. It's the voice of reason inside someone. A lot of people are mistyped and it skews the definitions on the internet.
@@marcodallolio9746 Agreed. Im a teenager & im only interested in mbti to understand myself. I think its unhealthy to fit yourself into a box as it limits our growth & we definitely shouldn't let it tell us what we can or cannot do.
(i'll leave yall to guess my type)
This is an interesting metaphor for not letting yourself be dominated by only your top two functions. Mbti is a self-awareness tool to understand your strengths and weaknesses, providing structured opportunities for growth.
Yes I agree as an ENFP it helps explain why when I get stressed I become hyper organised like it’s my brains way of sorting out all the crap I have been putting off for weeks/months/years and depending on how disorganised it is depends on how strong it is. I’ve just come out of an Si grip, and I was like this super organised person, who wanted to no plans to change ect and it’s like my and just turned itself off like it knew I needed to sort exams and stuff out And it was my Brains way of being like you need to do this (with help of my fi saying I’m gonna let people down ect). But that’s in Si grip mostly it just makes sure I don’t get too carried away and organise tedious stuff like put cups downstairs. But then again my ISTJ mother does that for me too as she has Si Dom and yeah everything has a place that need to be there so my Si also makes sure that everything is in it’s place assigned by her, to make her not stress. But yeah all my functions are super useful. Like I love my Ne, but using Ne 24/7 would just be a mess I need something to get me on track and know where to draw the line and when to be like we have organise stuff, we can experience all the new stuff after.
Agreed!! 👏👏👏
yeah, like... this is exactly it.
‘People aren’t going to want to listen to your ideas unless you can prove they are useful to them’ - cold hard reality hitting an INFP lol
This is actually advice I've been waiting to hear forever. I paused the video just to take it in right there.
Im adding this Te quote to my life notes
This skit reminds me of how much I love my INTP brother’s hidden Fe. Once, when we were in high school, he and I went to a winter camp. As an INTJ, I had decided that I needed to be brave, step outside of my shell, and try to make friends. I was unusually optimistic. But the girls treated me like a freak. I was devastated. It had taken so much courage to try and be extroverted for once, but they pushed me out.
I hadn’t brought any money for the camp store, but my brother had. One of the nights when I was feeling the worst, we happened to run into each other. For some reason, he felt the urge to give me his popcorn. It was like he knew that I was feeling outcast, and the simple (and unusual on his part) gesture made me realize that I still belonged and that other people cared about my feelings (I was very new to the concept that emotions exist). It seems silly, but his unusual way of reading my distressed signals and reaching out unconventionally meant so much to me.
INTPs, it really does mean a lot when you’re brave and try to harmonize with other’s emotions. Thanks, bro.
As INTP one of my most common Fe strategies is sharing, not due to the things I give themselves but what it means when I give up something mine for someone without any benefit to me. I think that's one of the more genuine things.
Aww, what a sweet story! It doesn't seem silly that you wanted your brother to care for you. We all understand it. (Dominant Fe - I get stories like this a lot) I'm sorry you got shunned like that, though. You'd changed yourself to meet people's expectations, and they still acted mean. You weren't being silly, you were being perfectly reasonable. You need someone to tell that to you. It's lucky you have support like your brother - are you still in touch?
@@y0ur-l1fe_1s-a-l1e Yes! My brother is still at home so I see him when I am on break from college. He also might come to the same school next semester.
Your bro is a real one.
"I noticed this is your fifth day doing nothing..." STOP CALLING ME OUT LIKE THAT IT WAS JUST BECAUSE OF THE SPRING BREAK I SWEAR
LMAOOO SAME😭😭😭😭
IM WHEEZING I HAVEN'T DONE ANY SCHOOLWORK IN 3 DAYS 😭😭
"doing your taxes" >_>
Saaame
BWAHAHA SAME IT'S BEEN WEEKS SINCE I'VE DONE ACTUAL HOMEWORK All I'm doing these days is argue with people on omegle and think about the essay I won't write tomorrow about climate change.
Fi angel: *tells ENTJ to show their feelings*
Te: YOU CAN CHOKE 😒
As an ENFP with a tea cup and two bowls literally sitting on my desk right now... i can say that this is waaay too accurate lmao
Literally sitting here with an empty mug. There will be five at the end of the week. I need more desk space. Also I take of my clothes and throw them on the floor right by my closet and hamper. Why can’t I just... put it in. It’s literally... a foot away.
But if someone is coming over, my house is ✨spotless✨
I feel you I have dirty dishes in almost each room of my house. GO BACK TO THE NAP!
ENTP totally relate
Our Si angels are useless ☹️
Literally Si shows up when I’m procrastinating or realise I’m super disorganised and need to plan and is like you should really do something about that. But also when I get super stressed Si takes over entirely and pushes away Ne and everything needs to be exactly as I plan otherwise I get stressed despite normally just not planning and going with the flow. Despite the fact it’s an interior function it can be strong sometimes when I’m in that Si grip and I become hyper organised to sort out all the crap I’ve been putting off for the rest of the time. And also when the Si called on the Fi to help that’s so true.
I don't know what the INFJ shoulder angel was talking about. Karaoke is perfect to get to know other people: He's singing "Who let the dogs out"? -> Clearly he must be a dog lover! He knows the lyrics of every ballad that is sung? -> Of course he is interested in the deeper meaning of things! He shortly looked at you while singing a song about love (which is super seldom since there are next to no songs about love)? -> Surely he is falling in love with you! And there is definitely a good reason why hasn't texted yet. Combining all those things the only logical conclusion is that the wedding will be in June!
- an INFJ
Bahahahahahahhaa
Bless my Se. Without it I sometimes feel like I could become this kind of crazy paranoid people who think everyone love them at first sight. Thankfully he can be supported by Fe most of the time by saying: "uh you would be a problematic weirdo for society by thinking like that..."
This except I’m too pessimistic to believe good things are happening, but also too optimistic to accept it and give up hope after I’ve self sabotaged and ruined those good things in the happening 😅
@@binkao2938 I feel you! Rather then idealising a potential partner, I‘m just constantly thinking about all the reasons why a relationship wouldn‘t work without even giving it a chance in the first place. And yet I‘m way to optimistic to give up hope 😅
So does this means INFJ's are Gigi from "He's Just Not That Into You"? And Alex is doing the job of our Extroverted Sensing. I tend to think in terms of stories and films quite a bit.
The INTJ one is super accurate, and I also love how it starts reminding them of all the things they need to do which is just going to distract them more.
As an INTP, I do have moments where a part of my brain just goes, "C'mon help her, she needs your help" and I'm like,"Uh...how? What do I say without sounding like I'm harassing her? Also, Indian Penal Code is quite strict on Harassment..."(has an internal dialogue with my 4th cognitive function on the legal application of Harassment and how career threating that is, making hypothetical scenarios of being jailed or even worse)
And by the time my extroverted feeling makes me to go to her aid, some ESFP or ENFP does the job and my brain is like, "nevermind"
This explains so much
I love this! As an INFJ, I get into the Ni Ti loops and this sounds like your version of that. A perfect window into my INTP friends.
In my casi it's not that I don't won't to confort that person. Is that I just don't know how without feeling complitelly out of place. I have to admit I've though of the legal ramifications of sexual assoult when having to try to confort someone.
You know... two of my best friends are INTP. One especially is very much this way. As an ENFP, I love that about her, though.
I think the reason why is because she doesn't just give me the cookie cutter solution for what I am struggling with. She gives very thoughtful and insightful responses after I have spilled my guts to her.
As an ENFP, my emotions are very deep and very strong, and very personal to me. I struggle with telling others how I feel.
However, when I can't take it any more and am stuck in the emotions... I seek out those in my inner circle to help me navigate what I am hung up on.
My two INTP best friends, my INTJ husband and my ISTP friend are extremely helpful with this... they bring reason and logic to the chaos without dismissing my feelings or giving me trite platitudes.
I appreciate that about them so very much.
OMG! Please do this with the demon function as well, if you haven't 😂😂😂
-INFP.
@Wert no. Demon function is the 8th function. It is the opposite of your 4th function. So for instance if your 4th function is Se, your demon function is Si.
@Wert apparently it is negative. For e.g. an an INFJ, My 8th function is Si. So I'll only recall the bad memories and bad things of a past experience like a relationship, job, etc. Even though there were good memories.. my brain cannot remember them. Hence it's a demon function.
@@jasonwilkerson9497 Wdym? INFP functions are Fi-Ne-Si-Te. Ni-Fe-Ti-Se are the INFJ functions.
@@josiahtaylor7967 Ni-Fe-Ti-Se are the shadow functions of an INFP, the contrary of the INFP's stack if you prefer, that's what Jason was talking about.
@@Heliorhodonite Wouldn't the shadow functions of an INFP be Fe-Ni-Se-Ti? Ni-Fe-Ti-Se would be the shadow functions of an ENFP, wouldn't they?
Yes, yes. The INTP shoulder pat. I’d even add in a dramatic squeeze to signify stronger-than-usual emotions. 10/10. Would recommend to friends.
My goodness. The shoulder squeeze would actually really work.
A shoulder pat from an intp is worth a dozen hugs unawkward hugs from other types. You guys care enough to try and comfort us when you are scared to do so. 10/10 would recommend intp comfort!
Me: gets to ENTP. Realize I’m sitting in the same position. Look up from phone and see laundry, dishes, and stacks of papers.
Me: …nah.
Hahahahaha 👏👏
It's so accurate for me ahahahah
I've known myself to do absolutely nothing on holiday
And than end up rushing on the last day or after sch starts and totally regret it and don't regret it at the same time cos I know that's just me
INTJ having hard time listening to boring conversation about nothing. Spot on! :)
I am again and again impressed how you are changing as a person when playing different types. You really are good actress.
Thanks for making these videos.
Thank you 😁😁
rant alert: i live with an INTJ and dude, if i could hammer it enough in her head, i would: it’s not ”nothing” unless the person talking is extremely shallow and doesn’t wanna be themselves(which is rarely the case with the people she talks to, me included). if not, whatever someone talks about tells you a lot about them, their interests, views and it can be a sign of a love language as well - the possibilities go on.
like, i get that your own stuff is important and that you have many great ideas, but as for keeping & getting people in your life who trust you, are there for you and will actually want to do ”your stuff” together gladly, it’s time for most INTJs to get off of their high horse of what is boring/predictable/unimportant and what is not, and start listening even the mundane stuff. i’m an ENTP so i can adapt out of respect & understanding to her needs, but boy is it exhausting when i want to just talk and hang out and we don’t have a clear goal and set of steps to fulfill. if anyone ever happens to bring out a happy lightweight topic just for pure entertainment and bonding, INTJs i know always ignore the need and go for their own instead, usually making the situation serious or even uncomfortable.
but… i get that it’s part of the human nature & about being self-centered, and that is an INTJ way to show it. all types can be shit, but as this is something i have a long time of lived-in experience with, i had to vent a bit. so not a direct attack to you or whatevs - the INTJ i was talking about is usually quick to think every critisism or a neutral-to-negative comment, even when not directed at her, is indeed about her.
anyways, i’m out. great video indeed!!
My friend did this and so did I. I was being self absorb and was non stop talking about my OC and she close her eyes while listening. She was indeed listening then she stop responding. So I smacc her and she didn't respond so I smacc her again and she's like "dude??? Why you did that!" and I told her that she fell asleep and she was like "no I didn't" but yeah she did fell asleep but only for 5 second lol
I shake her till she's fully conscious again, but it was adorable seeing her so peacefully sleeping.
Ah yes, Fe blind spot making an appearance yet again.
The devil on the INTJ’s shoulder is saying “Your time is better spent working” 😂
and alone
@@rawr4338 don't call me out like that.
The INTJ is spot on!
I've developed a habit of asking seemingly intelligence questions at appropriate times to make it seem like I'm listening, then toward the end make sure that the person sends me a follow up email with my action items. It saves me much grief.
This is so accurate. My friends are always joking that I never stop working.
THE INFPPP OH MY GOSH I LITERALLY TOLD MY FRIEND THE OTHER DAY THAT I WAS SORRY I ALWAYS MADE THINGS ABOUT MYSELF BUT I JUST WANTED TO BE ABLE TO RELATE TO HER THIS WAS SPOT ON
The hard part is realizing you are doing it when you’re doing it lol.
Gaaahh yes I was actually guilty of doing these too, and then realizing it afterwards always feels super bad 😢
(Edit: Look! I just did it again)
Same
Me 100%
Yeah I'm about to go on a wild reading rampage to figure out how to stop doing this cos I just realized I do it constantly, which is so sad cos I'm really just trying to help and identify with my friends. That line hit me so hard "nobody wants to hear your ideas unless you can prove your ideas are useful to them" 😬 oops
This is so true I feel personally attacked. Si is terrifying 😂
-ENTP
IKR - me as an ENFP
Is it weird for me to feel it's relatable bcos I haven't showered in 3days(which isn't a lot compared to worser ones)
And a lot of other things I just don't want to do but hv to
It's okay not to be original sometimes??? 😭😭😭
Se Angel: "Give in to the chaos"
INTJ: What do we say to the God of Chaos?
INTJ: Not today... not... today.
Not today Se
As an ISFJ, I physically started sweating when Ne said "there's no way to predict" and "you're going to have to let go of the need to control"...... no no no no please no
Haha awww 😅
Yes!! "You're going to have to let go of the need to control"
Me: please no god no
As an INTJ, same
Oh God, as an INTP, when somebody pours their emotions on me, I just freeze. Then I feel myself a jerk... I learnt they do not want my solutions, but emotional support from me doesn't feel honest. But I try... :)
It's great that you try! To be honest, some of us don't mind so much if it's unnatural. We just want it to come from a real place of care. 🥰
This is a masterpiece.
Naw, thank you 🥰
Finally someone that portrays the ISTP as someone empathetic! that's nice :)
ISTPs are empathetic. Well, the ones I know at least. xD They just have their way to express it.
@@Heliorhodonite no doubt! Also, I can definitely relate to the hesitation she showed, the point where we can go our way and ignore an emotional (and awkward) situation or just give up and show that sensitive side lol
@@KaMi-gz1il Totally agree with this !
Glad you appreciated it! I love ISTPs
I have an ISTP father & Im an INFP lol so imagine both of us always having to use our grips. & since we're the Te & Fe type we need, it's actually a growing experince because you eventually end up understanding each other's perspective & respecting the reasons behind our dominant functions so we end up helping making our inferior functions stronger.
I love how you think outside the box!! So fun, creative, and informative for relationships. Thank you for the great content!
Me (ENFJ) 10 years ago: "I am so upset about..."
INTP husband: "Why didn't you...?"
Me: *sobs*
10 years later...
Me: "I don't want a solution, just encouragement."
Husband: "You are doing fine. It will be OK [tap, tap]."
Me: "Thank you. Any idea what to do?"
Husband: *genius ideas*
Angels: *whew!*
I'm an ENFJ, actually pretty close with an INTP colleague. After a couple of years of knowing me he finally learned to ask me "Do you just want to vent and eventually figure it out - or do you want me to find a solution for you?".
We're both translators and not that long ago I showed him a particularly witty - and tricky sentence, but just for laughs. A minute after that he gives me this perfectly polished translation of it.
"- Thanks, but why didn't you let me come up with something by myself?
- On, no problem. I had fun with it ".
Whst's not to love?
@@MartaZobeniak Love it! INTPs find solutions so easily and enjoy the process! They seem baffles by how others don't see what is obvious to them! Their FE stays out of the way. 😅 Great example of ENFJ-INTP interaction!
@@asabio5361 Oh, yes! It's also funny what they would do to avoid talking about their feelings or how they would hide them under 10 layers of metaphors or subtexts. And even after that, when you offer them your time and attention, assuring them that they csn call you any time they want to talk something through, you can still hear "thanks, but I'll be fine". Yup, that's definitely happened more than one time. I still think they can be sweet and when they show appreciation or just give you a pep talk, it's so accurate and thoughful, it can hit you in the feels.
@@asabio5361 I'm a INTP. When I was love sick, I had the wonderful ideas how to get over this. That I have accept her decision, why I don't grasp it finally, there will be other opportunitys and so and so on and so on
It took half of a miserable year till I had weeping copiously attack, I can't control anymore.
Afterwards I was ready to forget her. I think INTPs are unable to acklowledging the healing function of emotions.
So they give you a tap tap , because they are expected to do so, not because they think it would help.
Thank you Krystin for your amazing performance.
@@MartaZobeniak I love this scenario that's happened for you but while reading it all I think was how I could exploit it and pretend to be autistic at work so that no-one could ever feel they could turn to me for emotional support. haha! from, INTJ
god the enfp one was painfully accurate
why are we like this
also I like how the ESFP angel was on the doorknob instead of her shoulder lol
That's the only way the angel would stop her from going out the door. 😂
A solo performance of Bohemian Rhapsody in 12 accents is a perfectly perfect reason to be awake at ungodly hours before an important exam
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As an INTP, I can definitely relate to this. My mother (an INFP) and my sisters (an ESFP and an ISFJ) are all very emotional people, and whenever they're all in a room together it's inevitable that the three of them start crying at something - usually at a story one of them has shared. Then there's me, sitting in the middle of them , fidgeting in discomfort and wishing I were anywhere else but there. All the while patting them awkwardly on their shoulders and saying "there, there."
your mom and sister are Fi doms, so no wonder things can get all feelsy! maybe get advice from your isfj sister who uses auxiliary Fe on how to deal w/emotional settings? Fe users are normally great at understanding and handling people
the Fi function is always crying
can relate
I’m an INFP but I must have strong extroverted thinking because that angel always comes up in my mind when talking to people. I inherently know people like to talk about themselves, so I don’t say much, especially about my interior feelings that most people wouldn’t understand. Besides, I like being nosy.
Same for me, but I'd say I have strong Fi and strong Fe. I don't think they are mutually exclusive.
Self knowledge on point here 🙌
Enfp who just put her cup in the dishwasher 🔥 introverted sensing has peaked 😂
Woo!!! Congrats! 👏👏👏
INTP here. To see a friend crying is a nightmare for me. I'm always stuck in my mind between "Why is he crying ? Since when ? For a girl ? " and " Maybe it's time to tell him something nice"
And finally I leave, without a word for him. Robot mode ON.
(But two days later i send him a long text with solutions to overcome his pain)
As an INFP I thank you for this reaction. I don't cry easily and when I do so, I prefer to be alone or, at least, if there is a person next to me, that the person doesn't talk to me. Not to mention that if I don't feel at ease with this person, I won't cry but... And I also need time to reflect on what just hapenned to me and don't act in anger. So, really, thank you !
I hope you've gotten over that by now xD
As an ENFJ, I get a visceral gut-drop feeling when someone asks me "What do YOU think?". I've mastered the art of deflection though. My favourite response is - "Ooooh, yes good thoughts! Before I share my opinion, I just wanted to hear a little bit more about what you said earlier, about the..."
Works every time😉
You!!! I've been on the receiving end of this from you and fallen for it every time cause I want to talk about myself!!!! Well NOT ANYMORE, buddy!!!!
This is a terrific response. You're hilarious. Seriously, this video was very spot on. Well done!
I often go with the flow because I feel like I can’t really argue my side. Inferior Ti unable to express what Ni so clearly has figured out! 😅 And of course, Fe wanting to keep the harmony.
@@cayesh1234goshhh as an INTP, sense of harmony always kllinggg meeee I love chaos 😈
As an ENTJ, this was too real an interpretation of the voice I'd hear in moments like that.
Took a year of therapy - and many, many years of NOT sharing my feelings if those feelings were painful - to finally get myself to become openly vulnerable with the person I'd be in a relationship or close friends with.
Emotions are just facts
@@devinbrines Interesting point of view...
Can I PLEASE get my (ENTJ) wife to talk about what’s going when she’s in a dispute?
@Devin Brines, I suppose if you train them right
@@jameswilkerson4412 A dispute with you or in general?
I’m an INFP and I need to constantly remind myself to put other’s emotions on top when they’re sad and talking to me
My angel’s been so busy i guess 😂
I feel it must be acknowledged what an extraordinary amount of work has gone into this, quality content!
Thank you, Daniel! It was worth it 😁
Yes multiple thumbs up!! Great Job Kristin :)
The INTP was painfully accurate. I have that exact experience where I need to actively tell myself to comfort a person but I don't know how. I feel like I can't say "It'll be okay" because I don't know if it'll be okay, it wouldn't be helpful if I just said something I don't even believe, but at the same time I'm aware that "logical problem solving" is not what is needed at the moment, so what am I supposed to do? Giving people a hug or other physical things don't even come to my mind. It's really complicated.
But hey, maybe my friends know me well enough that they realize that I'm trying, so that has to count for something, right?
INTJ here. If someone says "give in to the chaos" in my ear, I won't think it's an angel. I'll think it's someone from the OTHER side. ;)
That said, I do listen to Se sometimes. And a frequently repressed Se has its own way of coming out, which can be... eventful. ;)
Me too.😂
Hahaha FAIR
If it’s one of the few people I genuinely care about, I will actually go and be chaotic with them.
Fi coming in clutch to help out Si for the ENFP!!! Omg I'm dying XD too accurate XD Love this skit idea!!! So well done!!
ENFP: the only type who needed two angel functions to get those cups washed XD XD
@@azarishiba2559 yes 😂 it’s so accurate. My inability to organise stuff like that drives my ISTJ mum crazy. While that Si is in my head I also have her there as like the physical embodiment of Si. Except for when I’m in Si grip then I become hyper organised like my Brains way of getting me to organise all the Crap I’ve been putting off. But it’s mostly my Fi and Si working together with like “you’ll let people down” ect (like i had exams a couple weeks ago and I was in Si grip for like 2 weeks, it was weird.)
Thank you, oh brave cappuccino!!
Im confused, I thought the Fi was saying things Fe would say. Can anyone help me, im pretty new to the cognitive functions.
@@viebevanlangendonck1698 fair confusion! The fi skits in and of themselves were distinguishable in that the fi angels focused on the person's own feelings and passions, as opposed to the Fe angel who focused on the feelings of the people in the room. In the ENFP sketch, the fi said something that an fe would say for sure, but the fi angel appeals to the fact that the ENFPs housemates have made it into her "Fi heart", so to speak. So because she cares for them internally, that motivates her to get up, as opposed to an Fe user who would be more inclined to do that for just anyone.
"People aren't going to like your ideas unless you give proof that they're useful." Ouch. XD Seriously, though, this video was stellar. I think it's super useful to point out how our dominant functions behave if left unchecked and the need to sometimes listen to the inferior functions.
I also think it's super important! Thanks, April!!
0:08 ISTJ
1:00 ESFJ
2:00 INTP
2:30 ESFP
3:00 INTJ
3:55 ENFP
5:30 ESTP
5:40 ENTJ
6:08 ISFP
7:00 ENFJ
7:30 ENTP🙏❤️
8:08 ISTP
8:50 INFJ
9:40 ESTJ
10:27 INFP
11:08 ISFJ
Nice
INFJ inferior Se, for me at least. “I’m upset, so let’s eat!”
😂 can relate
Bruh, stress eating sucks but when both feeling and thinking hurt, is when I eat like there’s no tomorrow :)
ENFP so accurate. When we can't self-motivate to do the right things for our sake/ their own sake, we know bringing the feelings/ well-being of others into the equation will give us just the right amount of guilt and sense of duty to take care of our everyday trite responsibilities -- i.e. the things everyone else seems to do naturally because they're better people than us lol. Also, splitting our inner monologue into multiple perspectives as if they were separate entities, very relatable. I love this channel and I also love Frank James' channel but you (Dear Kristin) tend to tap into the bits of ENFP that are most relatable to me personally. Cheers!
Thanks, Alex! I appreciate it!
So first of all, how did you just nail an ENTP's inner voice? I didn't think anyone could do that! Even an ENTP!
I just found your channel and I must say, you are both scarily accurate and hilarious! I especially love the scenarios that have mbti's interacting. I thought I'd throw out a few video ideas for you:
Finally convinced to become a 'new man!'
Trying out a new hobby for the first time
Facing down their deepest, scariest internal fears
What they would invent to make life 'easier'
Trying to win a debate they're passionate about
Making 3 wishes to a genie
The one thing that could cause a mental breakdown
Of everyone could hear each other's thoughts
Everyone's role in a horror movie
The greatest thing they could accomplish in their healthiest mental state
Cooking a meal for a date they're nervous about
Having a one-on-one with God, what they would ask/say
How they finally find love
Learning to drive
Everyone on a camping trip together
Trying to run a company
Going to buy a new car
Getting their first job
As a child
As an old person
Dealing with family members
Figuring out zoom
Everyone stuck on an uninhibited island
Wow, that was long......... Well hopefully you get some good ideas from these. Keep up the great vids!
This is a great comment and I am absolutely adding these ideas to the list - this sparked many more ideas in my mind. Thank you, Brandon!
So, true(me entp)
Omg Ne Fe combo encountered, I've been outdone😂
Enfp
@@rofflewafflesno joke! I looked at that list and thought, "Wow! Look at Ne go! That is way more than a few ideas!" I'm impressed! - Fellow ENFP
I'm glad mbti UA-camrs actually share stuff about functions etc not just types :D
PS: relatable
It's really fun to watch when your 1st cognitive function is someone else's inferior function and vice versa. It makes me stop thinking something like "Why is it so hard for you to think like that?" when arguing with someone.
Right?! This is why MBTI is so helpful
It's also just really funny to someone struggle with something that comes so naturally to you
As an ISFJ this is so relatable! I’m literally in the process of dragging myself to a new phase in my life so this was very applicable 😅😭
Give in to the Ne!!
3:48 As an Intj, "give in to the chaos" as inner response to a spontaneous thing gotta be one of the most relateable things I have ever heard about my type
INTJ here. That Se sounds exactly like my therapist, and ESFP's Ni is literally all the reasons why I find the perspective of going out so exhausting.
I'm an ENTJ and that is accurate as heck.
INTJ: "there's an opportunity, give in to the chaos" literally my inner voice
Lmao I'm an ENTP and being the polar opposite of ISFJ, the angel sounded exactly like me lmao. When I'm stressed I usually just start having a deep internal debate with myself over etymology or something.
AND GIVE ME ONE REASON TO DO MY HOMEWORK. ONE.
Why is this so perfect ? Even hairstyles felt expressive of cognitive functions ... great idea
Thank you! I did put thought into that so glad you noticed 🥰
BRO why does every ENFP one have to be soooo accurate 😂 I feel like you know me too well and I’ve never even met you before
😏
Ah, the INFP 4th. The only time we don't feel like listening to our inner voice lol
Hahahaha 🙌
You’re very good at breaking things down in layman’s terms. Providing real world examples really helps sink things in. And the Ne tangent at the end was hilarious.
As a sensor, real-world examples is what I do best ;)
When inferior Fe said “comfort her!” For INTP I burst out laughing cause that’s what I’ve conditioned my response in these situations to be lol.
When the video started, I was watching with keen interest. Then I saw the Ne angel come up and start giving advice to the ISTJ... and even though I wasn’t the person in question, my internal instincts looked at the interaction and started screaming at the angel, “YOU CAN’T MAKE ME DO ANYTHING!”
...I am an _ENFP._ I have lead Ne. ???
You can imagine the stress that I ended up feeling at the actual ENFP/ENTP segments 😭😂 Si is straight-up TERRIFYING.
On a side note, the INFP callout was something I personally needed to hear as well (too often I give “advice” by jumping into my own experience). And overall, this video was legendary. 🤩 Loved it!
Love your input as usual, Sophia!! A lot of people in the comments have used that exact word, "terrifying" to describe inferior Si. Very interesting that you guys see it that way 😂😂 my sister has become very good at using her Si and she loves it now as an ENFP!
And yep, the NFP "I relate" tangent is common, but thanks to mbti I am much better at seeing the intention behind it. I know now that the NFP will be very happy to return to the subject once the tangent has finished. 😂
Good job on the INTJ "Death" stare or as I prefer to call it "Soul Gazing" stare. You've nailed it!
Thank you!!
Ok but Te really had the most efficent hairstyle
Glad someone noticed the thought I put into the hairstyles 😉
@@dearkristin of course! Well done 👌🏻
ISFJ here, I can totally relate😂
And the ENFP is just hilarious😂😂😂
ISFJ too. The job part was so funny and spot on
Thanks guys! 🥰
ISFJ here, yeah..so accurate 😳😂
What a convenient day to upload this: Putting the ISTJ first on the same day as our interaction. Priceless!
Also, so relatable nowadays! Not so much when I was a kid, but lately, I've taken great pride in trying to have more of an "organized mess" and allowing myself to be goofy and unpredictable every now and then.
the enfp one was SOOOO accurate !!! I find it so hard to get things done unless I am doing it for the well-being of others and I always find myself just staring at the thing that needs to be done debating how much it needs to be done then
Well hello, fellow ENFP. The staring at the thing that needs to be done and deciding if it needs to be done right now... so accurate.
I often find myself wishing said thing to be done simply ceased to exist so that Si will let me Ne in peace. I hate when she draws Fi into it... especially when guilt is the emotion of the day. 😂
As an INFJ, I feel so called out... It's terrifying to repeat this pattern, knowing what's happening and being unable to stop it ! Has the Se angel any more advice ?
Amazing work and ideas
Se angel says "pay close attention to actual events and facts and make decisions based on that information. Stop merging your actual material life with your inner dream world which allows you assume as true anything that you want to believe".
That is what I think Se angel is saying anyway, but as an INTJ also with 4th slot Se, I wouldn't really know lol.
@Human Chiming In, correct!! Listen to that data!!!
@@youreworthyourweightinavoc7189 Thanks, sounds easy haha
Well I am aware that my feelings diverged from reality at some point, so most of the time I act based on what seems rational to me instead of what I want/feel (otherwise my actions would be so chaotic), but still I don't know how to change what I think/want, even when it seems absurd to think/want it, and it can be very hurtful.
Forget Se, one can compensate with the auxiliary Fe: have friends from all walks of life and have them alert you to reality once in a while, minimum in the most important cases, as in keep sentinels on some towers around your little dreamy monarchy, run some ideas by them. On a serious note, I bet there is a theory on how to improve one's perception of reality.
@@nospecialmeaning2 nope you are spot on, this is the tactic. Its our only hope
Man, INTJ is painfully accurate. I don't know if's Se but I often have to force my mind not to wander and fail to do so. I end up thinking about not thinking and failing.
"Yeah, fair enough, that's a very valid point" - ENFJ 😂😂😂😂 I can't stop laughing!!!
My friends have pretty much banned me from saying that! I used - and probably still use - this phrase millions of times in every conversation 🤣 ahahah! This is perfect!
INFJ and same here, lol! 😂 I can see everyone's points of view and be understanding of them so well, that most of the time, I have no idea what I think. I can't ever pick a side. Called me out, haha.
@@hannahmayhorn5466 Same here! I'm INFJ too!
INTP here... Can't relate, except if it is really controversial then I'll just nod, and pretend to agree to avoid starting an argument. All the while holding silent judgment.
(Edited because I realized the word "is" was missing)
As an ISFP, I have never felt something as hard as "I'm just gonna watch anime." Poor Te
With Se as inferior function, I feel so called out. I really need to get out of my head more often😂
As an INTJ, I have this exact problem almost everyday and I have to spend a lot of energy correcting that behavior. I try my best to pay attention, but its hard sometimes.
I commend you for trying 👏👏👏
I love how original your videos are and how much time and effort is reflected in every aspect: script, acting, research, editing, etc. Everything is pure gold. :’’)
Thank you so much 😁😁
Absolutely amazing and hilarious. And I love how encouraging it all is. And so many great one liners! "Give in to the chaos..."
Haha thank you!! 😁😁
As an ENTJ this video was the 10 minute break I took from the project I was working on aaand there it is again. We are not suppressing our feelings we are just busy. By the way my father, who is an ESTP, came home riding a motorcycle he bought that day and this couldn't be more accurate.
That INFJ one was _not_ accurate. 😡😡😡😡😡
We’d be getting married in December. I wouldn’t want to rush her like that.
but june wedding at plaza gurllll!!! should make the reservation early ;) !
@@sreeharidascloud Maybe. But only if we’re _really_ serious. ...Which I’m guessing we are since we went on an entire date. 🤔
Hahahahaha! 🙌
@@sreeharidascloud What about June next year?
@@paradoxicalpoet1525 every june is the same, dear
🤣🤣🤣 I'm ENTP and literally this is my fifth day doing nothing and thinking about something original to orientate my life and change somehow the society. And this night I have to pay the rent. Today I haven't took a shower nor cleaned my teeth. Hahahaha. It's so accurate I couldn't stop laughing!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (Sorry my English, I'm Spanish)
I loved this, many people often take 4th function as always a bad thing and forget it can also be good
as an Entj the 5:56 moment is totally true lol, i've been thinking about let the person whom i am talking to, know about my feelings but usually (if they are not really close to me), I don't say it because yeah I'm afraid of feeling things but mostly I'm afraid about people knowing my fears/feelings and fuck me up with it 😅
ps: English isn't my fist language so if I make any mistakes, sorry
These whispers were hilarious xD Also I always try and make a conscious effort to always inquire further about whatever the other person is talking about and not derail them with my own ish. I’ve already learned hardly anyone would be interested in it anyway.
And I appreciate ppl who write walls of texts, I always enjoy learning in detail what’s going through their mind and then don’t feel guilty about writing one as well when an idea hits me xD
As an ENTJ, damn, exactly
“No you are not impulse buying a motorcycle”
IF ITS A GOOD DEAL I AM BUYING THAT MOTORCYCLE
HAHAHAHA
Something I go through every time I’m conversing with humankind. -INTJ
Then you should try to meet more interesting people.
@Florian Haydn, that’s why this INTJ mostly converses on debate pages
My Se was literally just like “hey, get out of your head. Understand there are other idea oriented people in this world. Accept compliments from this external world and take them to grow you human!!” 🤣keep em coming!
ISFP: i gonna just watch anime
If all isfp's are like that i want hang out
😂😂
This is a great idea for a video! Would be very excited to see part 2
Loving your fonts on the wall. 🙌🏼
*looks at hoodie on the floor, the fork, two spoons, bowl and mug sitting on my work desk*
How... how is ENFP so accurate?
AND I only tidy up my dishes because I feel bad for other people too! Hoodie stays on floor though.
^that is what makes me have a hard time deciding whether my stepson is ENFP or ENTP
I usually NEVER comment but this video was so well made that I just had to. You captured the 4th function so well.
Thanks so much, Kayla! Appreciate your comment.
This was very educational and touching. I liked seeing the personalities struggling with doing the right thing and then doing it, and I still hold out hope for the ones who didn't.
You put your heart and soul while making these kind of videos. As if understanding 16 personalities was not difficult in itself, you have gone deeper into understanding their inferior functions and made a complete hilarious video of it, we should all be paying you for the selfless service that you are doing.
BTW, as an INFP, I relate to the INFP and ENFP ones.
I really love your videos, they're both creative and accurate.
i love how you are always so creative with your content!! you definitely deserve more recognition
Thank you!!
This is above and beyond most MBTI content. Good work!!
This is the best one so far
Great job!!
Thank you!!