Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶
Anyone ELSE loves Lavendaire’s voice?!!! I love it. It’s so nice and soothing. I like the 5 second rule. I totally agree, giving ourselves too much time to think may result in talking ourselves out of it. Great video, as always! Thank you Lavendaire!! -From a self-love content creator to another, you’re AWESOME!! ❤️
*People only focus on external goals.. money, cars, degree, jobs...* Reward jourself in the journey whenever you achieve internal goals as well! A day of inner peace, being grateful for something small or helping other people!
1. *Start small:* pick 1 habit and build up slowly or pick 2 nonnegotiable daily habits to focus on 2. *5 second rule:* act on the habit within 5 secs so that you don’t think for too long and talk yourself out of it 3. *Make it easy and convenient:* remove all obstacles and excuses like by increasing your proximity to the object like keeping a water bottle on your desk to drink more 4. *Keep a habit tracker:* start with the most important ones you want to track everyday and keep that up 5. *Stay consistent before scaling up:* if daily feels like too much start with 2 or 3 times a week and build up to daily 6. *Remember your why:* constantly remind yourself of why you’re doing it and what it will bring to your life 7. *Reevaluate and readjust:* like trial and error, determine what’s working and what’s not and how you can make the habit stick 8. *Get accountability:* tell your friends or post on social media because when you know other people know, you’ll feel more obligated to do it 9. *Identify yourself with the habit:* step into the mindsets and the behavior will follow, say you are “the type of person to -“ or I’m a - person” 10. *You only fail when you stop trying:* if you miss one day that’s ok you can bounce back, but missing 2 or 3 is the start of a negative feedback loop; also 11. *Reflect and reassess:* ask if you stopped because it was too hard or too much to readjust and try again or ask how can I do it better 12. *Be gentle with yourself:* any habit will take time and patience; if you fall, pick yourself back up
Habit that I started this yr 1. Telling affirmations & setting intention every morning. 2. List the 3 things that I grateful for everyday before going to bed.
@@lavendaire please make a desk tour 2020 before December 15 please 😭😭😭😭 because my relatives are coming home in December 16 and I don't want to see my messy desk I really love your desk when you show that in the background I have to setup like this... Do I didn't declutter my space to please 😭😭😭😭 I am really crying because my mom is scolding me that your desk is messy please
I overwhelm myself by trying to create so many habits. It’s not the best idea to do that .....like you said pick one or two non negotiable ones and stick to it. Also be kind to yourself if it’s not completed. (As I type this a notification came in from your email list about habits...hahaha) My two are definitely drink water daily....and to purge , so writing....or anything to get stuff out of my mind. I also have to read or watch something good for my spirit because I watch so much junk tv. I also set habits for grad school....all of those are non negotiable. Thank you Aileen...almost at 1million girl!!!🙏🏽💕
Thanks for the love on this new video + shooting style 😁 I appreciate it bc it took 4+ hrs to shoot! haha. It was fun so I'll try to incorporate this style in some future videos If you want more habit-related videos: → 5 habits that changed my life | bit.ly/2vBvtPx → productivity tips: how to stop procrastinating | bit.ly/2mQGurG → journaling to reflect & reset your life (+ worksheet) | bit.ly/2KsTbHG
"You only fail when you stop trying" YESYESYES. I totally agree! I hit a rut two days ago and I told myself that what matters is taking action. My habit is also journaling! Two weeks ago I was put in a fast paced environment and I kept my emotions in check with journaling. It helped a lot and still helps to this day!
I get overwhelmed very easily, (due to my anxiety and sensory processing disorder and being on the Autism spectrum). I have started working with a life coach who has been helping me getting into better habits that I have been trying to get into for ages on my own. I am mainly struggling with consistent personal hygiene, keeping things neat and organized, trying to set a routine for myself with a consistent sleep schedule and wake up time, working out regularly, eating more healthy and going out and socializing. I also am getting into the habit of meditating regularly which is helping me a lot! I notice that I am improving, it is a slow process but I am moving forward! I am only focusing on a couple of these things I listed right now of course. My life coach taught me about habit stacking and I am going to try it to see if it will help push me ahead faster.
I want to drink water more often since I have kidney issues at the moment, and I also want to read before going to bed + You are an amazing human being, whenever I feel unproductive I immediately open your channel, I also enjoy your podcast a lot. Thanks ♡
This is honestly so great for people with chronic illnesses. I know that just bullet journaling in the morning with my needs and making tea every morning are two small habits I've been forming, and honestly they've helped me feel so much less stressed, and even falling off for a day or two, getting back into it is a super easy goal.
Iam just started doing this on January with 3 habits and continued add new one every month for now Iam with 6 daily habits and as you do .. I made a priority for 3 of them to do daily 👌🏼 ✔- Reading Bible ✔- Reading Book ✔- skincare night routine it's really worked ... Slowly but still working ✅
My laziness having been destroying every single aspect of my life and it’s just drive me insane. I want to get over it... I guess that the first habit I want to make is to sleep and wake up early in order to have better sleep and be more energetic during the day. Thank you for this video!☁️
5 second rule... I think I have been doing this instinctively, because I've been a chronic procrastinator, so I'll do stuff right away instead, and it's been so helpful! I used Low frequency & being gentle with myself in trying to build my daily exercise habits and that has been the most effective for me too. thanks for sharing all these tips! I gotta start using these in other areas, like I've been wanting to clean more regularly, to become a person that cleans regularly.
I am going to be honest, I've literally seen this video a billion times on UA-cam and this is by far the best advice I've received. I love your videos because they encourage us to be kinder to ourselves at the same time forcing us to move outside of our comfort zones. I am working on setting habits and routines for myself and it is not easy. I've fallen and felt like a failure but I am encouraged by your videos to keep going and to remember that it's going to take a little time. Thank you so much for your work, it really makes a difference. Also I absolutely love the editing in this video, totally cool.
I starting stream writing daily a few weeks ago and it really does help. I'll write when I first wake up and even if I don't have anything to write but I know there's something blocked in my thoughts, 'll literally write "I don't have anything to write but I know there's something blocked in my thoughts" and anything that my mind is conversing until I figure out what it is. Een if it takes a couple of days to get it out, it comes to me eventually. Ahh...the power of writing.
I like this new style! Can’t put my finger on what it is exactly, but you sound and appear more confident, calm and fluid on camera than ever! That’s our amazing Aileen! ✨
In my experience, I've started a daily habit tracker in my bullet journal. Just by having the habits I noticed having my habits written down motivates me to try doing them as many days as I can.
Thank you for sharing!!! My main habit has to do with OWNING who I really want to be right now...before it's too late. It's hard because I feel I have sabotaged myself a bit and created a life I do not want. I am extremely influenced by others around me and started to live the life others wanted for me. I try to do exercises everyday that put me in the positive mindset to achieve my dreams. It's hard. Because I have a pre-set idea of who I supposed to be, an idea that was passed down to me and I so willingly accepted. I feel that because I make the choice to NOT own who I truly am, I hurt others around me. It's like, I am not loving myself and therefore I can not give the love I have inside me. I'm turning 30 this year, so I am trying my hardest to get down to what I truly want to work for and be. To visualize a future I am proud of. Thank you for your constant inspiration!
My habit I want to build is self care; for me, it's bringing more joy and inner peace into my day. Even if it's for a short period I can reflect back on my day and remember the joyful moment (s)
I started to work on my studying habit. My goal is to study every day at least for 2 minutes. This way, I hope the repetition helps me to form the habit faster. And because I stop myself before I loose motivation, I connect positiv feelings with studying. I am at day 8. And it worked great so far because I don’t resist it. most of the time I study more than 10 minutes and I hope to increase the length over time.
I've heard this advice in multiple places, so it's certainly not original. But I just needed something relaxing and soothing to watch. Lavendaire, you are that.
GOSH AILEEN YOU DESERVE MORE THAN A MILLION SUBS.. I LOVE YOUU.! Thank you for making me feel that "someone is believing in me" every video you make,, you know.. God bless you more.
It’s only been a week since I’ve incorporated the daily habits of meditation, journaling, and stretching/yoga, and I’ve reconnected with myself spiritually. It’s been so enlightening, and even though I’m Catholic, I’ve always struggled with my spirituality, but I’m improving. Thank you
I love this type of video. The content yes. But the way you presented it. Like you're just having a basic conversation with us while watering your plants. Reminds me when me and my mom used to cook and talk about life lol. Love it .
thank you so much i got depressed a week ago and forgot my healthy habits due to my moms condition it affected me so much thatbi got really really low energy.. seeing this wants me to keep on track! Thanks!
You're changing my life and turning into what life I actually wanted to lead😁. I don't know how to thank you enough😁. I never thought of this type life changing habits exist except studying habit. We can build amazing life habits too. Thanks so much😄.
Oh my god I loooooove the idea of you doing series !!! You are wonderful, everytime I am blown away by the intelligence and the magic in your words, please please please keep it going !
Positive habits, such as exercising and eating well, create richer lives. Poor habits, such as smoking or impulsive shopping, can lead you to poverty in both health and personal finances. ;) Thanks Lavendaire, love you ;)
Thank you so much for the video Aileen! A thing that helps me alot with building the habit of journaling is tying it to a fixed other habit I already have in my live. I journal everyday after dinner, no matter what I did before or how messy my room is🌸
That’s a tough one. But try setting up tour environment in a way where you increase the friction between you and the action. Ex/ I love candy. So what I do is I make sure I do my best to not buy candy. It’s obviously a different depending on your situation but hopefully it is a good start for you! Wishing you the best! ❤️🙌
Starting to binge watch all your vids! You are so beautiful inside out. Your self love really reflects externally. PLUS your videos are aesthetically pleasing🥰. Thank you for inspiring a lot of people!
I wanna build the habit of reading again. Not just books or materials I think I should reads, but ones I actually want to whether they're school stuff or not.
my habit this month that i really want to start is to swim everyday, because i love being in the water, and i have recently been diagnosed with an auto immune disease, and the best way to start getting my strength back up and exercise gently is swimming, hopefully this may be some way to hold myself accountable. I love your videos so much, thank you for helping me through this extremely confusing and tough time, your videos are so soothing and really make me feel like I can have some control over my life
I want to work on waking up early. This is so necessary. I loved everything that you talked about. This 5 second rule is amazing. I never thought about this. This was so new. I will start applying this technique. Also, that analogy with the law of attraction as well..." I am the type of person that does * the desired habit* daily. ... Loved this! You're tips were refreshing and insightful. Thank you Aileen!
Samiha Khan the five second rule is Mel Robins who invited this concept and talked about it in her book! I wish lavendaire would have give her some credit for the concept...
I love your videos! There are so many UA-camrs that take so long to get to the point of the video, spend so much time asking people to subscribe etc, then spend so much time rambling throughout. You always get straight into it and explain things in such a clear and concise way that I never have trouble sticking around to the end. Thanks for all the work you put into your videos - keep it up :) Oh, and I just joined the gym. So that is hopefully going to become my new habit!
Right now, I'm incorporating the habit of journaling and reading books to my life. There may be times when I slack off a bit-but as I watched this video, I felt inspired to really start it out small steps at a time. Thank you, Aileen! If I make these two habits stick, I'll try meditating next. :)
First of all thannnks for this tips I liked "identify yourself as if.." and all the others are useful will do my best. Usually I will get excited to do multiple habits then never stick to any of them. I will start today to journal as my new habit😊 love you sooo much Aileen and happy 5th anniversary of Lavendair wish you all the best 😘😘
Thank you for having the courage to launch your brand. Thank you for every video you post, your videos have literally changed my life for the better. I’m not where I want to be but thanks to you I am not where I was l
I enjoy this new style as well as the old one. Variety is nice. :) Loving your new hair style. The colour is gorgeous and suits you very well. This was very needed for me so I'm going to focus on a habit I've been building recently to call my family often. In the past I went for weeks or months before calling or seeing my family, and it made me quite guilty even though anxiety was at the core of it. I started by focusing on how I would feel after I called them, how they would feel and focusing on the positives rather than the negatives. Then when I started calling them, I started with shorter calls and built up to longer ones. Now I'm fine with hour long calls with them but I sometimes forget to call, or I remember after they go to bed (I'm usually a night owl and they're early sleepers). Another habit I've been getting back into is using a planner to plan out what needs doing, so I add call family into it and that usually reminds me to call.
I am seriously in love with video and its style you should really carry on with this style ... I could feel the positive and electric energy and youre just so happy and super natural! i love it! keep up the great work aileen! truly inspiring x
you bring me to the world of self-development after the hardest time of my life. thanks, hope you can bring your positive energy for more people like me 🌷
I love you Aileen..... I was always looking for a efficient guider just like you..... And the lucky day just popped up I really love your videos and these hacks and tips help me a lot in my life I am always amazed by your videos......
Thank you for the wonderful video Aileen. When you’re a detailed person it starts to get overwhelming when you’re not in a great mindset & you start struggling to get things done.. I like your gentle approach as well as all the tips you have. Sending you good vibes x
Something I want to focus on from now on is meditation 🧘♀️ I’ve only tried it a few times, but I believe that if I make it a habit a few times a week, everything else in my life will begin to be more clear and I will be a more positive person 😊 Thanks for your engaging and informational videos! Make all your goals happen ❤️
I like how your self-development videos are not just those plain sit down videos. Incorporating different footages helps to jazz up the video and make it more enjoyable! Can I also say that your voice kinda resembles Michelle Phan's soothing voice?! Btw Liah Yoo brought me to your channel and now I'm a subbie! :D
Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶
Anyone ELSE loves Lavendaire’s voice?!!! I love it. It’s so nice and soothing. I like the 5 second rule. I totally agree, giving ourselves too much time to think may result in talking ourselves out of it. Great video, as always! Thank you Lavendaire!! -From a self-love content creator to another, you’re AWESOME!! ❤️
I like her voice really too
simmi sayidcumar Right?!! 😍💆♀️
Yeah, whenever I want to relax I open her podcast or videos. 💜
That is right😍
me! love listen to her podcast 💗
*People only focus on external goals.. money, cars, degree, jobs...*
Reward jourself in the journey whenever you achieve internal goals as well! A day of inner peace, being grateful for something small or helping other people!
Agree!
1. *Start small:* pick 1 habit and build up slowly or pick 2 nonnegotiable daily habits to focus on
2. *5 second rule:* act on the habit within 5 secs so that you don’t think for too long and talk yourself out of it
3. *Make it easy and convenient:* remove all obstacles and excuses like by increasing your proximity to the object like keeping a water bottle on your desk to drink more
4. *Keep a habit tracker:* start with the most important ones you want to track everyday and keep that up
5. *Stay consistent before scaling up:* if daily feels like too much start with 2 or 3 times a week and build up to daily
6. *Remember your why:* constantly remind yourself of why you’re doing it and what it will bring to your life
7. *Reevaluate and readjust:* like trial and error, determine what’s working and what’s not and how you can make the habit stick
8. *Get accountability:* tell your friends or post on social media because when you know other people know, you’ll feel more obligated to do it
9. *Identify yourself with the habit:* step into the mindsets and the behavior will follow, say you are “the type of person to -“ or I’m a - person”
10. *You only fail when you stop trying:* if you miss one day that’s ok you can bounce back, but missing 2 or 3 is the start of a negative feedback loop; also
11. *Reflect and reassess:* ask if you stopped because it was too hard or too much to readjust and try again or ask how can I do it better
12. *Be gentle with yourself:* any habit will take time and patience; if you fall, pick yourself back up
Habit that I started this yr
1. Telling affirmations & setting intention every morning.
2. List the 3 things that I grateful for everyday before going to bed.
Loved the new filming style, Aileen! Feels so personal and fun!
Yasss
😸
thought I was the only one who noticed hehe but yaaass I love this new one!
@@lavendaire please make a desk tour 2020 before December 15 please 😭😭😭😭 because my relatives are coming home in December 16 and I don't want to see my messy desk I really love your desk when you show that in the background I have to setup like this... Do I didn't declutter my space to please 😭😭😭😭 I am really crying because my mom is scolding me that your desk is messy please
I overwhelm myself by trying to create so many habits. It’s not the best idea to do that .....like you said pick one or two non negotiable ones and stick to it. Also be kind to yourself if it’s not completed. (As I type this a notification came in from your email list about habits...hahaha) My two are definitely drink water daily....and to purge , so writing....or anything to get stuff out of my mind. I also have to read or watch something good for my spirit because I watch so much junk tv. I also set habits for grad school....all of those are non negotiable. Thank you Aileen...almost at 1million girl!!!🙏🏽💕
um... I LOVED this style of video. Thanks for always being an inspiration, Aileen!
Hi
Thanks for the love on this new video + shooting style 😁 I appreciate it bc it took 4+ hrs to shoot! haha. It was fun so I'll try to incorporate this style in some future videos
If you want more habit-related videos:
→ 5 habits that changed my life | bit.ly/2vBvtPx
→ productivity tips: how to stop procrastinating | bit.ly/2mQGurG
→ journaling to reflect & reset your life (+ worksheet) | bit.ly/2KsTbHG
Please do more. This has been very refreshing. Love u.
İ need more videos about this topic, please. Great thanks for this much effort and huge inspiration ❤❤❤❤
Your channel is amazing thanks for helping me when I'm not feeling well your videos help me a lot 🥺❤️ lots of love ❤️❤️
3:55 plant & sunlight making the place look so peaceful... so natural ❤️️
I know I love the combo so much 🌿
This new hair suits you so well :) It reminds me of cherry blossoms :)
Aww thank u!! I thrive in the spring time I’m telling ya 🌸🌸
"You only fail when you stop trying" YESYESYES. I totally agree! I hit a rut two days ago and I told myself that what matters is taking action.
My habit is also journaling! Two weeks ago I was put in a fast paced environment and I kept my emotions in check with journaling. It helped a lot and still helps to this day!
Yes!!
I get overwhelmed very easily, (due to my anxiety and sensory processing disorder and being on the Autism spectrum). I have started working with a life coach who has been helping me getting into better habits that I have been trying to get into for ages on my own. I am mainly struggling with consistent personal hygiene, keeping things neat and organized, trying to set a routine for myself with a consistent sleep schedule and wake up time, working out regularly, eating more healthy and going out and socializing. I also am getting into the habit of meditating regularly which is helping me a lot! I notice that I am improving, it is a slow process but I am moving forward! I am only focusing on a couple of these things I listed right now of course. My life coach taught me about habit stacking and I am going to try it to see if it will help push me ahead faster.
Spanish and Russian subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕
I want to drink water more often since I have kidney issues at the moment, and I also want to read before going to bed
+ You are an amazing human being, whenever I feel unproductive I immediately open your channel, I also enjoy your podcast a lot. Thanks ♡
Oh hey lovely army
Quite like ur new way of editing. 😉 the habit I want to develop is to stretch before bed so that I can sleep better.
This is honestly so great for people with chronic illnesses.
I know that just bullet journaling in the morning with my needs and making tea every morning are two small habits I've been forming, and honestly they've helped me feel so much less stressed, and even falling off for a day or two, getting back into it is a super easy goal.
You look so happy and refreshed in this video!!!
Iam just started doing this on January with 3 habits and continued add new one every month
for now Iam with 6 daily habits
and as you do .. I made a priority for 3 of them to do daily 👌🏼
✔- Reading Bible
✔- Reading Book
✔- skincare night routine
it's really worked ... Slowly but still working ✅
My laziness having been destroying every single aspect of my life and it’s just drive me insane. I want to get over it...
I guess that the first habit I want to make is to sleep and wake up early in order to have better sleep and be more energetic during the day.
Thank you for this video!☁️
My main goals so far are reading more and spending less time on social media. This video is really helpful 😊
I start my day with seeing your video because it inspires me everyday...
🔥🔥
5 second rule... I think I have been doing this instinctively, because I've been a chronic procrastinator, so I'll do stuff right away instead, and it's been so helpful! I used Low frequency & being gentle with myself in trying to build my daily exercise habits and that has been the most effective for me too. thanks for sharing all these tips! I gotta start using these in other areas, like I've been wanting to clean more regularly, to become a person that cleans regularly.
I am going to be honest, I've literally seen this video a billion times on UA-cam and this is by far the best advice I've received. I love your videos because they encourage us to be kinder to ourselves at the same time forcing us to move outside of our comfort zones. I am working on setting habits and routines for myself and it is not easy. I've fallen and felt like a failure but I am encouraged by your videos to keep going and to remember that it's going to take a little time. Thank you so much for your work, it really makes a difference. Also I absolutely love the editing in this video, totally cool.
Love the idea of "might as well" conditions. This makes it so much easier to develop the habit! Cheers!
I love the new angles in the your video!!
My habit for the month is reading my Bible everyday.
Lavendaire is My daily motivation nowadays💜
🔥🔥
This video was GOD sent. Thank you so much, Lavendaire!
Trying to get back on to yoga, working out, and being consistent with meditation ♡
I starting stream writing daily a few weeks ago and it really does help. I'll write when I first wake up and even if I don't have anything to write but I know there's something blocked in my thoughts, 'll literally write "I don't have anything to write but I know there's something blocked in my thoughts" and anything that my mind is conversing until I figure out what it is. Een if it takes a couple of days to get it out, it comes to me eventually. Ahh...the power of writing.
I love listening to your videos in the morning while getting ready for the day or showering. They are so relaxing and motivating.
I like this new style! Can’t put my finger on what it is exactly, but you sound and appear more confident, calm and fluid on camera than ever! That’s our amazing Aileen! ✨
In my experience, I've started a daily habit tracker in my bullet journal. Just by having the habits I noticed having my habits written down motivates me to try doing them as many days as I can.
Sometimes, I feel negative mind...
But You always pick up my mind!!
Thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing!!! My main habit has to do with OWNING who I really want to be right now...before it's too late. It's hard because I feel I have sabotaged myself a bit and created a life I do not want. I am extremely influenced by others around me and started to live the life others wanted for me. I try to do exercises everyday that put me in the positive mindset to achieve my dreams. It's hard. Because I have a pre-set idea of who I supposed to be, an idea that was passed down to me and I so willingly accepted. I feel that because I make the choice to NOT own who I truly am, I hurt others around me. It's like, I am not loving myself and therefore I can not give the love I have inside me. I'm turning 30 this year, so I am trying my hardest to get down to what I truly want to work for and be. To visualize a future I am proud of. Thank you for your constant inspiration!
My habit I want to build is self care; for me, it's bringing more joy and inner peace into my day. Even if it's for a short period I can reflect back on my day and remember the joyful moment (s)
I love how you edit your videos. Thank you for yours advices.
I love how creative you got with the filming + editing of this video! So good!! 😍
Thanks 😸
Hi from Somalia
u are really very talented woman we need more like u .u always inspires me .U are life motivator.
I started to work on my studying habit. My goal is to study every day at least for 2 minutes. This way, I hope the repetition helps me to form the habit faster. And because I stop myself before I loose motivation, I connect positiv feelings with studying. I am at day 8. And it worked great so far because I don’t resist it. most of the time I study more than 10 minutes and I hope to increase the length over time.
I've heard this advice in multiple places, so it's certainly not original. But I just needed something relaxing and soothing to watch. Lavendaire, you are that.
I love how much effort you are putting into all of this!!!!!
I want to update my school notes, because it's been forever since I've done it the last time. Thank you, Aileen, you have brighten up my day ☀❤
Really like your new way of filming and editing ✨ it feels so casual and fun to watch!
felt low being inconsistent with my habits lately....Badly need this video right at the moment... You are such an angel 🧚
Love from India💓
I came here after 3 years and yeah you are such a smart woman and I can learning some good things from you,thankss🌻
Your videos are so refreshing and peaceful it's always a parentheses of joy during my week.
Plus love your new filming style!
GOSH AILEEN YOU DESERVE MORE THAN A MILLION SUBS..
I LOVE YOUU.! Thank you for making me feel that "someone is believing in me" every video you make,, you know.. God bless you more.
It’s only been a week since I’ve incorporated the daily habits of meditation, journaling, and stretching/yoga, and I’ve reconnected with myself spiritually. It’s been so enlightening, and even though I’m Catholic, I’ve always struggled with my spirituality, but I’m improving. Thank you
I loved your video! ❤ You became such an inspiration for me.
I LOVE the new style of filming in different backgrounds and places... You're so amazing ✨✨💕
I love this type of video. The content yes. But the way you presented it. Like you're just having a basic conversation with us while watering your plants. Reminds me when me and my mom used to cook and talk about life lol. Love it .
thank you so much i got depressed a week ago and forgot my healthy habits due to my moms condition it affected me so much thatbi got really really low energy.. seeing this wants me to keep on track! Thanks!
Sending you so much love ❤️❤️
thank youu 😍😍😍
You're changing my life and turning into what life I actually wanted to lead😁. I don't know how to thank you enough😁. I never thought of this type life changing habits exist except studying habit. We can build amazing life habits too. Thanks so much😄.
HI LAVENDAIRE 😍 you are my inspiration love from Philippines 😘
Madeleine reese me too from the Philippines! I also make inspirational videos you might wanna visit. 🤗
Yesss same! Love her
I want to drink more water and start out with a light stretch in the morning. Thank you girl ! I needed your motivational words 💕
I always feel rejuvenated whenever i come to this channel.. full of new energy. 😊❤
I love it. You make it sound so easy, and it should be. It’s all mental.
Oh my god I loooooove the idea of you doing series !!! You are wonderful, everytime I am blown away by the intelligence and the magic in your words, please please please keep it going !
Positive habits, such as exercising and eating well, create richer lives. Poor habits, such as smoking or impulsive shopping, can lead you to poverty in both health and personal finances. ;) Thanks Lavendaire, love you ;)
Thank you so much for the video Aileen! A thing that helps me alot with building the habit of journaling is tying it to a fixed other habit I already have in my live. I journal everyday after dinner, no matter what I did before or how messy my room is🌸
This new, more dynamic way of filming is sooooo refreshing! thanks for your tips, keep up the good work!!
Thank you!
I love this series! Thank you for the great vibe! :D Can't wait to watch your next one!
Aileen, please make a video how to break habits /addictions😔
That’s a tough one. But try setting up tour environment in a way where you increase the friction between you and the action. Ex/ I love candy. So what I do is I make sure I do my best to not buy candy. It’s obviously a different depending on your situation but hopefully it is a good start for you! Wishing you the best! ❤️🙌
Thank you for always taking the time to create beautiful and inspirational content. Much love from Switzerland ♥️
Hi Aileen! I so love your new filming style! It feels more laid-back. So much love from the Philippines!!!
Wow. I really love it. There’s many productivity youtubers but honestly you five such efficient and simple advice. Thanks.
Thank uh so much !!
Every little detail makes me peaceful ❤
Starting to binge watch all your vids! You are so beautiful inside out. Your self love really reflects externally. PLUS your videos are aesthetically pleasing🥰. Thank you for inspiring a lot of people!
And i forgot, i love all of your hairstyles!
Love your videos . By the way I love your new format. it’s great !🌹❤️😊👍🏾
I wanna build the habit of reading again. Not just books or materials I think I should reads, but ones I actually want to whether they're school stuff or not.
my habit this month that i really want to start is to swim everyday, because i love being in the water, and i have recently been diagnosed with an auto immune disease, and the best way to start getting my strength back up and exercise gently is swimming, hopefully this may be some way to hold myself accountable. I love your videos so much, thank you for helping me through this extremely confusing and tough time, your videos are so soothing and really make me feel like I can have some control over my life
Good luck!!
Thank Youu
I want to work on waking up early. This is so necessary. I loved everything that you talked about. This 5 second rule is amazing. I never thought about this. This was so new. I will start applying this technique. Also, that analogy with the law of attraction as well..." I am the type of person that does * the desired habit* daily. ... Loved this! You're tips were refreshing and insightful. Thank you Aileen!
Samiha Khan the five second rule is Mel Robins who invited this concept and talked about it in her book! I wish lavendaire would have give her some credit for the concept...
I love your videos! There are so many UA-camrs that take so long to get to the point of the video, spend so much time asking people to subscribe etc, then spend so much time rambling throughout. You always get straight into it and explain things in such a clear and concise way that I never have trouble sticking around to the end. Thanks for all the work you put into your videos - keep it up :)
Oh, and I just joined the gym. So that is hopefully going to become my new habit!
Right now, I'm incorporating the habit of journaling and reading books to my life. There may be times when I slack off a bit-but as I watched this video, I felt inspired to really start it out small steps at a time. Thank you, Aileen! If I make these two habits stick, I'll try meditating next. :)
First of all thannnks for this tips I liked "identify yourself as if.." and all the others are useful will do my best. Usually I will get excited to do multiple habits then never stick to any of them. I will start today to journal as my new habit😊 love you sooo much Aileen and happy 5th anniversary of Lavendair wish you all the best 😘😘
Thank you for having the courage to launch your brand. Thank you for every video you post, your videos have literally changed my life for the better. I’m not where I want to be but thanks to you I am not where I was l
So grateful for you ✨
I'm using this to help restructure my routine after anxiety and grief, thanks
I enjoy this new style as well as the old one. Variety is nice. :) Loving your new hair style. The colour is gorgeous and suits you very well. This was very needed for me so I'm going to focus on a habit I've been building recently to call my family often. In the past I went for weeks or months before calling or seeing my family, and it made me quite guilty even though anxiety was at the core of it. I started by focusing on how I would feel after I called them, how they would feel and focusing on the positives rather than the negatives. Then when I started calling them, I started with shorter calls and built up to longer ones. Now I'm fine with hour long calls with them but I sometimes forget to call, or I remember after they go to bed (I'm usually a night owl and they're early sleepers). Another habit I've been getting back into is using a planner to plan out what needs doing, so I add call family into it and that usually reminds me to call.
I am seriously in love with video and its style you should really carry on with this style ... I could feel the positive and electric energy and youre just so happy and super natural! i love it! keep up the great work aileen! truly inspiring x
I love this new format, it’s super fun and dynamic !!! 💛💛💛
you bring me to the world of self-development after the hardest time of my life. thanks, hope you can bring your positive energy for more people like me 🌷
Thanks for uplifting me on a tough day! Your new hair looks amaaazing! x
Taking a book where ever you go really works!!
I love the 5 second rule. I have never heard of that but it’s so simple. Thank you. Your videos are beautiful.
Emma Scott it's the author Mel Robins who invented the five second rule!
Aileen, thank u so much for your videos and resources. It really helps me to organize my life back again. Much love!
My main habit that I want to build this month is skincare twice a day. I CAN DO IT !!!
I love you Aileen..... I was always looking for a efficient guider just like you..... And the lucky day just popped up I really love your videos and these hacks and tips help me a lot in my life I am always amazed by your videos......
Thank you for these video series about habits. Love the way you organize ideas.
i recently knew your youtube channel and your videos very inspired me. Im trying to create new healthy habits in my life. thank you dear
You're transforming us in peace and love
Thank you for the wonderful video Aileen. When you’re a detailed person it starts to get overwhelming when you’re not in a great mindset & you start struggling to get things done.. I like your gentle approach as well as all the tips you have. Sending you good vibes x
Thanks dear Aileen for the helpful video. My main habit is hopefully to exercise/walk for 30 minutes everyday.
Something I want to focus on from now on is meditation 🧘♀️ I’ve only tried it a few times, but I believe that if I make it a habit a few times a week, everything else in my life will begin to be more clear and I will be a more positive person 😊
Thanks for your engaging and informational videos! Make all your goals happen ❤️
I like how your self-development videos are not just those plain sit down videos. Incorporating different footages helps to jazz up the video and make it more enjoyable! Can I also say that your voice kinda resembles Michelle Phan's soothing voice?! Btw Liah Yoo brought me to your channel and now I'm a subbie! :D
Awe thank you so much love for this video ❤️ I want to build a habit of eating better for my soul and body for May :)
so excited about your new series!!! much love from Spain!!!
Hi, I never really comment on videos. I love your videos. You are a great inspiration for many across the globe. Love you ❤