Johnny almost lost everything when there was no proof against him, only amber's word. Now that the REAL story has come out and there is actual PROOF, what has officially happened to amber? Diddly Dick!
Nothing is worse than false rape allegations making a man lose his job, education, etc., and get 10-20 years in jail compared to the person making the allegations getting at MAXIMUM a year.
@@DeltaPJ the false accuser should be in jail for the same amount of time that the falsely accused takes to have his reputation cleared with an extra 5 years and a fine for all the troubles
A friend of mine (6 foot 10 inches) got stabbed in the back by an ex. He called the cops on her. She hit and punched herself. When the cops arrived she started crying to them telling them how he beat her up. And that he stabbed himself to make her look bad. (He still had the knife in his back.) At the ER the surgeon told the cops there was no way in hell for him to have stabbed himself down to the hilt of the knife based on where it was stabbed into his body. He still got a Domestic Abuse charge. And had to pay her a shit ton of money. He eventually did see her post a video about how she stabbed her ex- boyfriend and got a large sum of money and encouraged others to do the same. He took her to court and got all of his money back and some. And shes in jail currently.
You are telling me that the FUCKING SURGEON told the Police that he COULDN'T HAVE STABBED HIMSELF and by that telling them that the GIRL STABBED HIM and he still had to PAY HER!??? What the fuck is this. I'm done. I am going to date a glorified Toster.
It's because equality means equal treatment. It's not that for 5 years one gender gets treated like dirt, than the other gender has it's 5 years in the limelight than the circle begins. I love how a lot of these issues are "Men do this" and get brought up by people who also say "Genderoles are a societal construct". Like "You are a man so you are responsible for these things but woman aren't inherently different to men!"
@@brabhamF1 Yes ! I mean its a form of hypocrisy, we should Try to make it better instead of looking for equality revenge cause it will only perpetuate more hate
I agree I was wondering why these videos keep popping up For like a week straight before I ever clicked one because I honestly at first didn't want to hear any of this But now I think it's something I need to hear
@@justaspy5605 yeah, me to, I thought this was gonna be some annoying feminist shit that's like "equality! But only when it's convenient for women!" and they wouldn't stop showing up so I clicked one and it is not what I expected. It's literally just a woman with common sense that understands things, not some moronic feminist screaming about how they shouldn't have to pay the dinner bill but they want equality
My ex-wife was abusive, verbally, mentally, emotionally and yes, physically. I put up with it probably longer than I should have. But my patience finally ran out during a marriage counseling session and I walked out of the session and went home and packed my clothes and left immediately. Spent the next 2 years living out of my car. Finally got an apartment and now I'm a successful business owner and investor, things that my ex-wife would never allow me to be.
@@tristanyt9582 This is for MyAcresOFDi…. Sorry! Divorced my ex back in 1986 She was a abusive and running around on me! I then live anywhere I could. And I remarried in 1994 with my own home and nice job by then! Now married 29 years with very loved two grown kids! You can do this I did, you have to scream and yell at yourself not because of what happened No you have to scream and yell at yourself to survive and never surrender to your emotions!!! Yes you can do this!!! Damn!!!
@j H idk man. Don't wanna get spied on by China, so i never downloaded the damn thing. I have just seen enough reposts on yt to know how cancerous the whole thing is
I believe it's because she's also a pick me girl and there's evidence of so in her response to people calling her one and the statement she made about female rape victims that was FALSE
From my last relationship whenever she'd get angry, would threaten to hit me. Me knowing she was a feminist said i'd hit her back if she hit me first, queue the shocked expression and then when i'd say "equal rights equal fights" she'd say "fuck equal rights, you can't hit me"🤨 make it make sense
@@chandlerplays1685 Lol she'd say she'd take it to court if i did hit her back💀 Well now i'm the "toxic ex" for her friends, but everyone else, even her ex bestfriend (they were friends when we started dating) knows the truth 🤷♂️ No one believes me when i tell them this. Truly sad really, and the actions came from a self proclaimed feminist... right.
Lmfao. Similar fight with my girl like 5 months ago. She slapped me , threw her phone and hit my foot then grabbed me by my face and clawed. I then looked her dead in the eyes and told her that was 3 strikes she hit's me again I'm hitting back. THE FUCKING SHOCK AND TERROR in her eyes when she realized she fucked up was hilarious. After wards she claimed to be scared of me because I "could" hit her she fails to realize what she did was abuse and to this day bring it up as a joke until I get serious about it.
On the homelessness thing: I once saw a homeless man with a sign that no shit said "My ex-wife had a better lawyer." Our legal system is super fucked up if men can lose so much in a divorce that they end up homeless. Or even end up poor while their ex is comfortable.
And sadly, we've embedded this notion in women that if they are going to get divorced she should "take him for all he's worth". Get the house. Get that alimony. Don't let him have custody of the kids. Like damn. Try flipping that around. Get the house, alimony, and the kids from her. Oh wait, that will NEVER happen.
yup still remember the abusive relationship i was in from age 13-16 that my ex beat me and gave me all sorts of psychological hell and everyone either supported it or just ignored it and let it happen. couldn't even fight back. even the teachers pulled me to one side and gave me grief to why I didn't like hanging around her and when i told them all they told me is to man up and accept that's just part of the relationship -_- I didn't end up getting out of it til i was 16 because my ex threatened me with false rape accusations if i dared tried to leave it. only reason i escaped is cause she left that threat online in my messages which gave me some physical evidence to give to the police if she did try anything.
Fun fact: a women went to a bar and stabbed a man in the eye with her high heel, she only got a small fine because ‘she was drunk’. If a man did this he would be DEPORTED. Seriously we need to stop being so sexist again😑
Everytime i wanted to talk about the fact that I suffer anxiety, people just tell me to stop complaining and stop being a victim. If it was my sister she would have all the support in the world, people would come to see her and hug her and tell her how beautifu she is.
Yep, very unfortunate. Most men (myself included) we don't really have someone to talk to get something off their chest. Thanks to society it is frowned upon for a guy to express his feelings and it has been taught to us from the day we're born.
I had a best friend who died at the age of 13 when we were both in 8th grade. As a result I was depressed for 15 years. All I got from society was "Man up" or "get over it" or "well... yeah... but... I had it worse because..." Shameful. I have a YT channel and I plan to do a video journal of my life until present. I then want to talk about male mental health.
That sucks dude. As guy i feel sorry for you i never had good friend though i am 22 yo but i would be so glad find really good friend though i as well should change myself in many ways as i think
I have custody of my daughter. I have raised her on my own. Her mother is drug addicted and has severe mental health issues. She was abusive physically verbally and emotionally. Yet there was nothing I could do about it because it was her word against mine. She still verbally abuses me. I have all the texts. My lawyer actually told me there is nothing I can do about it. If it were the opposite way , I'd be fined and jailed.
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Stay true to yourself. You'll probably have to take some hits, but be YOU . Be consistent. Be a parent and don't overcompensate. You WILL make it past this. I promise. Because I know. I did it too.
Left over from the kind of government specifically America that idolizes war and advertising itself to kids in school who aren’t aware of what can come from it.
Having P.T.S.D. once in my life for 5 years was hellish enough , think about of our combat veterans with post-traumattic stress disorder out on the streets and homeless to boot. The thought alone is terrifiing !!
that breast-cancer one hits very hard for me, as my grandpa had it, I wasnt alive at the time, but I cant imagine how it must have been for him to get help for it, as no funding-organisation wanted to help as they were women-only. luckfully for him, the diagnosis came right at the time, when my dad got a high paying job, they took the money from him to fund his medical bills, he is still alive and 82 now.
She'd be harassed by women if she was more known or popular on social media. The cult disowns and demonizes any and all who do not fall in line. Never forget this. I'd also add that the only reason women would only bother her if popular is entirely sex competition. Women despise other women whom they notice gets more male attention than them
She is harassed. So is every woman who speaks out on this like Sydney and that woman that did the TED talk on why she used to be a feminist but no more.
@@zellafae Yeah, it's not that easy to discover. There are barely any egalitarian channels on UA-cam, most of them are either women's rights or men's rights advocates soooo yeah... Liberate everyone! ...But pedos, murderers, creeps, kidnappers, arsonists, mysoginists, misandrists, racists, homophobes, transphobes etc. What a society we live in..
😔it's crazy that she has so much common sense and sympathy, and that makes her a minority in the whole "are men good or bad" bs mess. Please keep it up👏🏿💖
Me too ! I once watched a video of someone shitting on her, but I was curious so I watched and well I'm glad, I myself am from asia so most of these things aren't in my country but I do have a good understanding of what is going on in the west
Woman hits man because he looked at her for 0.1 seconds: "Way to go, you showed him right" Man briefly touches woman by accident on a crammed train: "Oh my god you monster, that's abuse"
If I bumped a man in a crowd and accidentally touched his pec, he would get nothing more than a brief, reflexive 'sorry' from me, if anything. If I so much as brushed against a woman's chest in the same circumstances though, she would get a profusive and in depth apology. Why? Because I don't want to be seen as a monster. I would rather be beaten up than treated like a monster. Bruises and broken bones will all be gone in a few months, but the absolute fear and terror the possibility of being seen as 'one of them' brings absolutely DWARFS my fear of physical pain. It can leave long lasting psychological damage. I STILL feel bad about an incident that happened like this in MIDDLE school. Ten years have passed but my desperation to make that girl believe it was an accident still remain. I never actually got to apologise to the woman . . . My pinky caught on her upper thigh, and she was wearing leggings. That looks really fucking bad, like, 'how does that happen on accident' kinda bad. I hope that wherever this woman is now she doesn't believe someone tried to assault her. I don't want to be responsible for that kind of psychological damage, you know? I feel really bad . . . Never got to make my case to the girl, the crowd swept me along too fast. I still remember it in slow motion, with horror
@@thedragonreborn6042 you are a sweet man and you need to let go of that guilt it's quite clear to me it was by accident and not worry about whether or not she's suffering from it as you did not do it with intent and you didn't have a chance to tell her so just let it go it was not your fault and the fact that you steel felt bad for all these years just proves how good you are as a person you have a lot of empathy for other people and you should be proud of yourself and not pushing your self for something you did not mean to do
@mp4 oh, it absolutely is really fucking sad to say this All too often, men are trashed by women in immeasurable ways and women who are like Chloe are an extremely rare breed of woman, they exist, but they're incredibly difficult to find
This videos r eally hit home and broke me down with how true it is because i basically live all of these, i was recently released from jail after getting arrested for "abusing" my ex, she stabbed me during an argument, i fought back and caught a domestic, all while struggling with some mental issues i was struggling to work on...thank you for addressing these issues, more people need to see this,
She hasnt gotten any karma, but im currently getting my revenge with success and by healing, she saw me at a rave amd asked how i was...I told her so much better than the last 2 years and she walked away all mad lol
YEEEES!! I started to believe that im the only woman who wants to put out these things because speaking out loud such things created so much unecessary drama in my female clique which i am actually really happy not to be part of anymore. I call it superior female arrogance. We went from being supressed to being covert narcisists that calling themselves queens and goddesses or how ever they wanna call themselves 🤣 I wanna be a humanist.
My parents encouraged my sister to go to college, I was encouraged to dig ditches. You got big brode shoulders, you'll make a good labor. Ready for the kicker, was forced to take IQ tests, humm, 150 average after all the test. Yet, still pushed to do manual labor.
were your parents damn fools? Manly men only work in dangerous environments even tough they could be next Einstein? I hope that you stood your ground and took education as your goal.
the last part is very important. when men stand up and say "we dont want to live likes this either", they are faced with so much aggression and "whataboutism" that most of them quickly sit down again.
@@bnashtay2278 MGTOW = men going there own way Basically,... stopping the attempt to attract or approach females. Don't get romantically involved with them. Don't give them unnecessary agency in your life. Take responsibility for yourself. Work to improve yourself for yourself. There are still some of them on UA-cam like sandman or joker from better batchelor. It's more a loose philosophy, not a movement. It's just a bunch of men who have said nope. I'm not going to be getting in line to give up my time and efforts to someone so they can just walk off with half, or more than half in some cases. That blame and shame just washes off us because we have stopped playing the game. This chic rocks because she one of the few I have seen that looks to be pushing back against the problems.
I can confirm as a teenage boy in secondary school in Ireland, learning and trying to get a well paying "nerdy" job is viewed as being a girly thing, it encouraged by your peers to not care about school.
Stigmas like these are what causes the “girls vs boys” in a situation memes, don’t they? Indeed played off as jokes, but that doesn’t mean that those men are actually leading chad lives.. :’(
Love how feminists preach about equality for both men and women but whenever somebody especially a girl talks about mens issues they're called a "pick me" girl.
Feminists are very vindictive and hostile people, in general. They allow their egos to block their mind's capacity of learning and retaining information.
As Bill Bur sed:"There are no feminists on a sinking ship!" You won't hear feminist arguing on equality when captain says women and children first... :-)
The fact that I didn't know men could get breast cancer until last year, and I'm 24 right now, goes to show how much people try to make women the victim in everything.
Of course look at all the sports who push breast cancer awareness in all the major pro sports... Meanwhile u don't hear anything about prostate/testicular cancer in sports EVER... SMH even the Breast cancer commercials are all WOMEN even the sports Breast Cancer commercials r the players talking about WOMEN only... Smh the world we live in is horrible...
3 life lessons I drill to my boys regularly: Racism/Sexism/Xenophobia/etc are just as stupid as hating a flower because it's red, a bird because it's blue, a cat because it's white, a dog because it's black - there's no logic to hate over aesthetic things, be a "Personalitist" instead and judge people based off of their character. Secondly, the BEST form of defence is removing yourself from the situation. And lastly, and arguably the most important... Don't eat yellow snow 😐
The best form of defense is not removing yourself from a situation, it's threat assessment. If the threat is one where you have the option to leave, then that's a good rule but to imprint that boundary into him is dangerous depending on the circumstances. I'm not telling you how to raise your child, and I felt that this was important for his safety. :-)
geekers actually they do, the national feminists association installed the Duluth program, which makes it so police officers in domestic violence programs see who is more angry in domestic violence calls (most women) and who is more capable of physical harm (most men) , which leads to more men getting arrested for *being abused* . We barely have any homeless shelters for men. Feminists haven’t don’t a *single God damn thing* for men.
I was homeless for 4 years starting when I was 14, when I broke and asked for help and admitted that I could not do it on my own. It was my fault, I was told I would be fine and everything would work out, but not helped.
I'm a 27 year old male and hearing some of these things actually made me tear up a little. I didnt cry though, cuz...we don't do that. Just had some dust or something in them 😐😅 Like the suicide rates, the deaths at work. I work construction and heavy equipment and I think about that more than I should. What happens if the ground we're working on collapses, or there's a mechanical failure and a truck goes off a road/cliff. 😪 Also I actually know a coworker who was just diagnosed with prostate AND bone cancer, and I honestly can't remember the last time I saw a commercial or celebrity advocating for prostate cancer support. I don't want an extreme kneejerk reaction by society to suddenly shift towards mens issues because that's how we got to where we are now in this unbalanced world. I just want equal support for everyone. You don't get brownie points for being gay, or being a man/woman, or being a certain race, just true equality. Fairly new to the channel and I just wanted to say thank you for being a voice for men. Maybe society will listen a little more instead of laughing it off and saying "ah get tough". Being a man does mean being a strong protector and provider and having thick skin when it counts, but everybody has their moments of weakness and that shouldn't be shunned. Again, thank you. 💙
My dad never told me "Men dont cry." He always told me "Men don't cry unless the situation deserves it." If you are a man crying because your 5 year old walked up to you and said for the first time "Daddy, I love you, and you are a best daddy!" then you are doing it right. If you are crying because you skinned your knee a bit... yeah, suck it up and press on. Lifes too hard to get paralyzed over a little bit of pain.
@Gaming_Blitz43 unfortunately society is not able to act in any way other than knee jerk overreaction, It's a scientific law. The larger an object is the more energy it takes to move it, and the faster that object is moving the more energy it takes to stop it. So think of society as an object and then you will understand why it does what it does. Remember society is made up of people, but it isn't sentient and is actually a construct.
@@andrewhinson4323 and this is the problem. If a girl skinned her knee and cried it would be ok, but if a boy does it it is not. While I hope this is changing, I know how it was for me growing up. "Don't show emotions ever." This leads to bigger issues later in life. I was in the military in the 90s, you just sucked it up as a man and admitting you needed help was a sign of weakness. Women could ask for help, claim discrimination and harassment, but men were to suck it up and if you did any of the above you were ridiculed for it. I was actually talked to by my senior NCO about harassment cause I expected a female to carry 2 cases of paper (70 lbs). The contract you sign to join says you affirm that you can lift and carry 70 lbs. I have always believed that what is good for one gender is good for the other as well, this goes for crying also.
I wish more women where open minded like this. She a full woman n she chooses to understand both sex’s issues and have no problem speakin for us. There wud be more marriages goin up instead of goin dwn in divorce.
out of all the homeless people i have seen here in Norway every single one of them has been a dude.... never even crossed my mind untill i grew up.... my biology teacher would never pick boys to answer questions, and would wait until a girl raised her hand and if no one raised their hand she would just choose a random girl to answer... our principal (female) ignored me when i told her that a girl at the dormatory was sexually harrassing and abusing me.... my ex fiance who i started a relationship with when i was 15 and she was 18 would force me to have sex with her and when ever she didn't get it she would threaten to leave me or kill herself.... at the time i was too young to figure out what to do, it wasn't all bad, but allot of it was, and when i said outright that i wasn't in the mood, she would throw a hissy fit and throw things around and force me to do all her chores around the farm didn't get out of that relationship untill i was 19, when she cheated on me with a 15year old at that time she was 22.... she was obsessed with sex all the time.... and i was rediculed and treaded like shit for not being some sex crazed beast that would not think of anything but being inside her at all times..... still struggle with depression after the whole ordeal, she ended up marrying a younger guy that was dying of cancer and got him to sign his will and ensurence over to her when he died. sorry for the wall of text, could go on for several pages though....
exactly, I said on a post on Instagram about men mental health and suicide statistics and some female said it doesn't affect women so she doesn't care and blamed toxic masculinity on it
When i was in my psychology class we were talking about the horrific ramifications of rape but when i mentioned male victims the whole class laughed before i could even tell my prospective as a male victim. When i told my professor i would do my paper on male victims of rape and abuse she immediately followed it up with "that's good but it doesn't happen as often" like she had to make that clear btw that is the same sentiment i have heard from people over and over again yet people wonder why men don't speak up
Tell her she's wrong, including prisons, men get raped considerably more, they say we shouldn't count prisons, but why wouldn't we? They're still human
@@lloydkeith3061 why is it there's always that one nerd with the suspenders and glasses, pocket protector full of pens and a protractor that has to pipe up and spoil the joke for everyone with, "Well, umghuh, you see, umghuh (pushes glasses up on nose) technically speaking, blah blah blah blah...."?? It's a JOKE for fucks sake! We are just cutting up and making word plays for fun, not teaching a goddamn biology and physiology class dude! Damn! Yes you are TECHNICALLY correct but don't take yourself so seriously and everything so literally...
Literally if it was like that their would be way less abusive cases. Believe it or not, women antagonise most fights. Why? Because they can and no reprocutions. If they were fully aware that a man could hit them back after they hit them guess what would happen? Women wouldn't be hitting men.
What she's talking about are all feminist/leftie talking points, wheter she thinks they are or not. 2015 was a long time ago, the antisjw era has been over for a while now. Get on with the times. I dont think you actually care for the wellbeing of men, or people to put it bluntly, if your go to response is "MoDeRn FeMinIsm". You only like this video cause you "feel" it validates your worldview which must be some sort of combination of MRI/RedPill, where man are always victims for some reason and feminism wants to kill you, which is completely delusional. You can do better my dude.
@@RaulMartinez-tz9je hey, calm down amigo, I care for the wellbeing of men, even if I haven't made anything to make a solid point on that, but anyways, it's just that this twisted vision of what I know as "Modern feminism" keeps on going as a bad image sometimes. I just made that comment based in knowledge and ignorance so, thank you for changing my point of view, no problem. Also, let me add something: The terrorist vs counter-terrorist thing is just a type of contrast I made myself, because of two sides. Roma (even if it's for a clout) takes a really good part clarifying certain things such as stereotypes or misconceptions, cleaning the image of both men and feminists, so the CSGO thing it's a mere J o k e
My dad is the one who taught me how to protect myself. He said to me “If someone tries hurts you, no matter who they are you have every reason to protect yourself from them and I’ll never be mad at you.” He even used to take me to his martial arts classes until he tore his bicep hitting the tombstone too hard.
When I was in high school there was this community I was a part of, there was a girl the same age as me that was depressed and everyone babied her. I acted the same way as her (which was a poor choice, but still) and this girl the same age as me was treated completely and totally different. I was told to stop acting like a child :/ I really appreciate the call out on mental health
When I tried to explain all this to a group of elderly women (at their request), I was expecting indifference, perhaps some nit-picking. What I was not prepared for was the outright hostility at the very idea of men's problems. That was a real eye-opener for me.
What's that saying idiot feminists like to throw around...? "When you're used to superiority, equality feels like oppression." You talking about your problems makes them question the superiority they enjoy disguised as honorable struggle against former oppression. In truth, society is an arrange of concentric circles of privilege, like a castle, with women at the center, then children, then charismatic megafauna (cute animals, basically) and men.
I"m very careful with whom a discuse things with. I once did the mistake of saying that 35-40% of the DV is commited by women, I said it to a woman. She didn't became hostile but very passionate debated how wrong I was. I did a retreat and said there was just an article that I read and it could be wrong.
@@flamenmartialis6839The fact that she would deny it instead of hearing you out. Goes to show how people just want to be seen as the victims nowadays smfh 🙄
As a male, I've been struggling with depression for longer than I want to admit. I just found your channel today. And I want to thank you. I appreciate you bringing attention to men's mental health.
suicide prevention safety briefs are by a far stretch the worst. When I was deployed like HALF the month of December was spent in suicide prevention safety briefs. I have never spent so much time thinking and talking about suicide. It felt like we were getting gas lighted.
Fuck me, 2nd ID. I hope you're staying strong brother, spent five years in and out of a bottle after after getting medically discharged back in 2010. I was just fucking lost and had no idea what to do with my self, there were many a time where I picked up my side arm and considered checking out. It wasn't even the PTSD, just a complete lack or purposelessness. My fiance was a cheating whore, and I couldn't find a job worth half a damn that wasn't aggravating my injures. Fortunately I sought help and started getting my life back together, so do what ever you can to keep on trucking.
My dad had to win a custody battle with my mother when I was 6 months old. My mom still almost won when she had nearly left me crippled for the rest of my life. I call that extremely unfair.
dad: i am a caring father, i love my son (son?), and i would do anything for him. please, i don't think i could live without him. judge: hm..... and what are your qualifications mam? mom: IM THE MOM!!! judge: ooo you make a good argument there......even though you crippled your son. buuuuuut i am barely going to have to go with the dad on this.
@@recklesspotato212 Well, my mom basically kidnapped me, took me all the way to Utah. And after that she decided it was okay to neglect me even though I had torticollis which, if you didn't know can only be treated within a certain time frame. By the time my Dad got me back I was very close to the end of that time frame, but he made sure I got the physical therapy I needed.
I have nothing but respect for you, and I really appreciate that you talk about these issues that a lot of men refuse to bring up for fear of backlash from society.
@@thedragonreborn6042 No person, no matter what reputation they have, or what other people say about them, deserves all of someone’s respect. My personal belief is in my choice to give someone a certain amount of blind respect until I get to know them better, but this is because I am confident in my ability to recognize red flags. People can be good, but as long as there are bad people, trust is essential to the development of respect for someone. My parents always told me to always trust my coaches and teachers, until I was physically abused by my wrestling coach. That experience has made me realize that respect is something that should always be earned, and if it isn’t, it should never be given.
When I was 12 my sister was diagnosed with anxiety and depression and received help for her cutting but little did they know I was affected by our abusive ex step dad but I stayed quiet because I believed that everyone would think I was just jelous of the attention my sister was getting thank fully I'm not depressed anymore and I've come to enjoy life at least 85% of life. But the one phrase that really helped me was "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" because I'm a practical person. I won't do something if it isn't practical. I'm not going to make your eyes roll into the back of your head with boredom but just remember that it's okay to not feel ok but that dosent mean not to seek help for it.
You forgot to mention that the "wage gap" is actually an _earnings_ gap, which is based on chosen occupation and number of hours worked, and has nothing to do with per-hour pay. A female McDonald's employee isn't going to make the same as a male brain surgeon, but they're both counted equally in the "studies" feminists push. And if the job is the same, but you work 8 hours a day while your male coworker works 10 hours a day, then of course you're going to make 80% of what he does, that's simple math. But of course some feminists actually claim math is sexist. Not people in the math field, but math _itself!_
@@mr.valentino1170 well they've already claimed air conditioning is sexist, so air can't be far behind. "We wear these tight clothes in which it's hard to breathe (though we don't do it for you, we do it for ourselves, you male-gazing, sexually objectifying piece of shit!), therefore being able to breathe air is sexist!" (Edit:) it's really scary putting myself into their mindset like that, and I probably really shouldn't give them any ideas...
You're right, but not entirely. There is and was a competetive inequality to some degree, like the top 5% of earners are mostly male hence it also pushes the average up aswell as some areas where woman are more numerous being paid less in general. Such as barbers and the like, where man and woman get paid the same but its somewhat of a 3:1 ratio which drags the overall numbers down. And jobs (this is a niche example but there are many) like oil rig workers get paid a lot more due to the hazard and backbreaking nature of it which makes men richer on average. The truth is that the average does not help the individuals. The averag of ~50 of the population across a country the size of a continent *cannot* be very representative. That is like saying that on average, globally, humans are very rich! Yes! But if you cut out the top 10% of humans, we suddenly become significantly poorer.
@@TheSubso All you really did was expand into much greater detail that which I had boiled down to the most basic nutshell. I think I might have mixed metaphors there, but I'm too tired to be certain. And barbers was a bad choice of occupation. There are few, if any, female barbers. Women become stylists, which tend to be paid 2 or 3 times as much as barbers.
I was taught as a child by my mamma and daddy that "if a girl wants to play like a boy you treat her like a boy" and I damn sure did. Oh and I love your content keep it up.
She's for true equality, what feminism actually was supposed to stand for. I don't understand how so many these days are trying to reverse the old opressive and sexist roles that women used to live under and now apply them to men? If they think opression and sexism was so bad, then wouldn't they wanna abolish it instead of now doing to men? It's like fighting hate with hate, racism with racism. They're oftenly just as sexist as the men 100s of years ago. But they call themselves hero's 😔😑 Is it spite? I've been called a mysogynist soo many times by girls because 100s of years ago men opressed women I'm Dutch my grandparents and some older aunts/uncles have lived under Nazi oppression. But we don't hate the current German population, they are in no way responsible for what haplened multiple generations ago.
Shoutout to the feminists who actually have common sense and believe the right things I can’t believe some of these people call themselves “feminists” and make all the actual ones look bad.
Society could have more people to tears. Im almost brought to tears.....listening to you validating all the problems i go through...and everyone act like im just not being a man...im trying so hard. Just thank you
yeah, we get vilified for our gender and the past actions of select individuals that were men. And then we aren't allowed to defend ourselves. It's like going to court but everyone already decided you were guilty, so it's just a show for women to enjoy while we suffer. Just more reason men stay silent, But i find my male friends are more open with each other about what stresses them and upsets them. As long as men maintain a strong sense of brotherhood and are amongst ourselves, we won't fall.
Her beliefs are pretty much the pride and the true definition of equality. One day, I hope society gets their act straight and realizes that equality literally means EQUAL.
@@johnsarab4500 As a gay person I have to agree with you I'm in the LGBTQ but I have seen people surround there personality around being gay or when someone rejects them they just assume there gay and when they deny there "homophobic??" I remember we're we fought for equality but now people are using gay as argumentative material..
It gives me hope to hear these problems brought up and talked about in a logical way. More people need to hear this. The first step of resolving an issue is addressing the issue
I’ve been failed by the education system in the UK am actually joining the Royal Navy as not only do I see it as a last chance at a good life but I just don’t have the grades to get a good paying job
Get a paid for education in SOMETHING while you're in the my guy. Come out the other side strong. You're wilfully going into the eye of the black hole. It looks like chaos, and it is. If you endure and survive, you will thrive on the other side. Life will be beautiful my friend, good luck. Remember... ~ Enjoy Yourself
As to the violence issue I think my parents did right mostly by teaching my brother and I "don't start fights but if they start it you finish it and we'll be beside every bit of the way ". As to emotions yes I was mostly taught to bottle them up and "be a man" and that has caused many problems. Thank God for a real woman standing up for real men. Love your content.
@@uglyndumb7858 its about a feminist documentarian who goes out of her usual way and meets her "enemy", mens rights activists. after her (i think it was 3 months?) journey, she changed her way of thinking "we VS them" into "we VS all our societal issues" and when the documentary came out, feminists protested against it, saying it spreads hate against women etc pp.
I wish that people could allow men to show their anxiety and their sadness without being judged because it’s actually really hard to keep all of the emotions in sometimes we need a break we need to all be equal no one person should be treated better than another because we are all human
I am 27, I was abused and molested from the moment I was born until I was 11, I broke my back at age 20 and am disabled, but I still don't have an excuse to be unable to deal with large crowds or have panic attacks at the thought of being alone in a room with a female, I'm a man I should start acting like one. Shit the one time I tried "being a man" and going out to a public event I got arrested for "tweaking", I had actually had a full blown panic attack and was curled in the fetal position under my seat crying, but I was a threat to those around me apparently
I've said before and say now: I am so grateful that you and others speak up for men when men would be ostracized for it. The "Parental Rights" ones especially struck close to home because 1- my mother cheated on my dad (that's a whole other topic-- the "men cheat more than women" bullshit), and 2- my dad fought for custody and won. This was back in 1978. Unheard of back then, but I'll simply say that my biological mother was guilty of multiple forms of abuse, neglect, & child endangerment-- and even sex trafficking. I am nearly 50 years old and never knew what the term even was. I was just a kid and knew that if I didn't allow the adults to do what they wanted to me sexually, my mother would beat me senseless and constantly threatened to have her friends hurt my dad. I was beaten once so severely that I passed out because I would not participate in hurting my older sister. So I just took the beating. When all was said and done, small town USA, so many were willing to step forward to ensure my dad got custody of us. But nothing was ever done regarding the abuse. My biological mother was put in a hospital for a week and released with some medication and a warning. She should have faced justice; she should have been hospitalized and received treatment. I have no contact with her now thankfully, but my dad will forever be my hero for saving my sister and me. And my step-mom who I actually call "Mom" is the best I could have imagined. Better late than never. :)
I am so sorry you went through all that. I came from an abusive household but nothing that severe. I was withheld from my father (not that he was better). I'm so glad you had a father that stood up for you and fought the good fight though.
If your the devil, tgen fuck it. Stare at theur Asses if they have any since you're the "devil". Smirk about them to other bois if you're the "devil". Gawk at them if you're the "devil". Society turns us into the monster they made so might as well take that role to give them a taste of their own medicine
@Cody G Ok well I'm not Catholic. And I never condemned you to hell, I genuinely hope you find Jesus. He loves you way more than you know and he, nor I, want you to go to hell. Every soul is redeemable even yours. Best wishes to you.
When I was in high school this girl, who was my age, always came up to me and would make fun of me and hit me. Keep in mind I was 6'3" and about 200 at this point in my life. I had no idea what to do about it, then my mama told me what to do... The next time she pullet that shit I grabbed her and threw her over my shoulder like a sack of potatoes, then walked her to deans office like that. She didn't get in trouble but... worth it.
I am lucky that, even though I was raised as a Muslim in a Muslim Turk family, I was told to not hit anyone and to actually talk about my feelings, especially by my mother and brother. I always thought that this was the norm in the west but seeing how often people talk about how boys only should never hit girls and never cry really shocked me. I pray for things to change and for people to find equality for everyone. Once I’m prepared to be an actual adult, I’ll try my best to work towards equality
Good on you Sir. Need more young men like you regardless of faith. Please remember this as it may be the only wisdom I can convey "if we all do a little the effect will be a lot".
When I tried joining in on the "#MeToo" movement for myself, I was told I don't belong and this is a woman's issue. I made sure to read up on it before I joined in and it was ambiguous of sex in the description. I just backed out and didn't try and join in on anything again.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I don't understand how they can say that it's just a woman's issue when Terry Crews was actively apart of the #MeToo movement
#metoo was a farce from the beginning. It quickly broke into what we all knew it would break into. A movement where women could lie about how they were treated. When women started calling other women out after using the hashtag, we all knew it was going to end soon... and it did.
@Jonathan Mercer i got smacked like 5 times but a girl but i couldn't hit back every body was looking the whole hallway stoped and i just walked away getting laughed at She slapped my over a pencil
@@phazxy3737 - So I've been into martial arts since the age of seven. Trained a lot in middle school and high school (and beyond). For a whole bunch of various reasons. My small circle of guy friends hung out whenever we could during school hours. One of their girlfriends thought it was funny to slap and punch everybody else, and often tried (and succeeded at) kicking us in the nuts. Funniest thing evaaaarrrrrrr! (right?! ..... wrong) I can take pain, and punishment. I can handle play fighting. That was an all the time thing. This, she did just to be a bitch. I'm pretty sure she was being abusive to her boyfriend, at least to some extent, outside of school hours. I got fed up with it, after a while. She'd been told to stop by every single one of us. More than once. So one typical day during what was left of our afternoon lunch time we're standing around chatting, waiting to go back to class. And she's up to her usual shenanigans. She kicks at me. I just shifted out of the way a little bit. Oh, fun game, right? I told her to knock it off or else. - She takes it as the perfect sign to up the ante. She kicks again for my balls. I drop my weight and fire a low punch straight into her shin bone. Not super hard, but there was an audible sound of a fleshy impact through her pleather pants. The guys who weren't paying attention now looked at me and her. And she starts pouting. Ryan, the boyfriend, gives me a look like he was about to kick my ass. I explained, and explained she'd been warned. Tiff, the girl, is looking around at the rest of the group for support like I was the bully. Ryan shrugged it off. Fair was fair. - I'm usually the patient, quiet, laid back one. I wasn't trying to hurt her, just make it clear in a way she would actually understand, that this wasn't cool and it was time to stop. I don't recall her ever doing it again, or at least she changed her approach, and certainly didn't try to kick any of the guys in the groin anymore. She was kind of crappy in general to me afterward, but when that didn't get a rise, she just sort of left me alone. Eventually she stopped entirely. Only time I've ever hit a female (outside of classes/training), and then I was more attacking the weapon I was being attacked with. It was a defensive measure, rather than offensive. Only had to do it once. Would have preferred not to have to deal with it at all.
yeah its the frustration of how these people claim they want equality but only want the benefits and none of the consequences or responsibility that comes with equality.
My husband suffered from severe Depression after the relationship with his daughters Mother failed. He seeked helped, which ended in him never seeing this kid, HE LOVES MORE THAN MOTHERFUCKING LIFE, again. We even waited seven years to marry, hoping she would attend our wedding. He suffered a heart attack at 48 from broken heart syndrome. Still nothing. As If there weren't five older siblings with (i think three) "deadbeat Dads" and no contact. The pattern continues and it's heartbreaking to see him suffer and NOTHING i can do about it. I never met my stepdaughter🤷 smh 😔 from Austria 🇦🇹
I'm one of those girls. I had to take myself out of the fake world of feminism and hear men's stories to realize the struggles that men go through. They can go through just as much as a woman and experience just as much sexism, if not worse. We may have slightly different experiences but we still lost the same things. For some reason as women, we're still told we're objectified and disadvantaged. We're told that men, all strong and mighty, are free to do whatever and have to never experience anything wrong. Society still makes us truly believe that we are the victims. And yes, indeed, some women are still discriminated against for their looks and etc. ect., it can go both ways for the opposite gender. It's sad and I'm truly sorry for all the existing men. Y'all are the real gifts.
Wow I didn’t realize how much attention this got I highly thank all of you for supporting but I’m fine now that was about 3 years ago but to the person that asked someone wanted me alive it is true my dad caught me every single time so I guess I just got lucky
A smart person with common sense on TikTok?
I can’t believe it. My faith in humanity is restored
Me too 😭
@@gokuultrainstinct2479 same
Mine is ruined after realizing how unfair society is...
*HUMANITY RESTORED*
Aye this is out of subject but love your pfp and name 😂🔥
Yall remember johnny depp? That boy was almost imprisoned for his abusive wife claiming he abused her, and then the audio came out.
and she's still walking around free.
What a bitch, and to think she is still gonna be in that aqua man sequel
Ya but he is still not getting hired for work because of it
Notice how the media reported on it a whole lot less when it was no longer a case of him abusing her.
Johnny almost lost everything when there was no proof against him, only amber's word.
Now that the REAL story has come out and there is actual PROOF, what has officially happened to amber? Diddly Dick!
Part 11: Women get lower fines and sentences for the same crime
In New Zealand pussy pass is good for 1/3 discount on any sentence a man gets
Ur right
Nothing is worse than false rape allegations making a man lose his job, education, etc., and get 10-20 years in jail compared to the person making the allegations getting at MAXIMUM a year.
In most of Europe when a woman sexually assaults a man there is a law that says they can only be charged with assault
@@DeltaPJ the false accuser should be in jail for the same amount of time that the falsely accused takes to have his reputation cleared with an extra 5 years and a fine for all the troubles
A friend of mine (6 foot 10 inches) got stabbed in the back by an ex. He called the cops on her. She hit and punched herself. When the cops arrived she started crying to them telling them how he beat her up. And that he stabbed himself to make her look bad. (He still had the knife in his back.) At the ER the surgeon told the cops there was no way in hell for him to have stabbed himself down to the hilt of the knife based on where it was stabbed into his body. He still got a Domestic Abuse charge. And had to pay her a shit ton of money. He eventually did see her post a video about how she stabbed her ex- boyfriend and got a large sum of money and encouraged others to do the same. He took her to court and got all of his money back and some. And shes in jail currently.
It's all just stereotypes that guy's do that violent shit
Good for him!
You love to see it
You are telling me that the FUCKING SURGEON told the Police that he COULDN'T HAVE STABBED HIMSELF and by that telling them that the GIRL STABBED HIM and he still had to PAY HER!??? What the fuck is this.
I'm done. I am going to date a glorified Toster.
@@mz00956 triggered?
She's not for the man, she's for everyone, you're making me having hope in humanity again
Very under rated comment.
@@bronzebow4235 Im so touch even so I haven't done anything but what can I say she's so right
thk u
It's because equality means equal treatment. It's not that for 5 years one gender gets treated like dirt, than the other gender has it's 5 years in the limelight than the circle begins.
I love how a lot of these issues are "Men do this" and get brought up by people who also say "Genderoles are a societal construct". Like "You are a man so you are responsible for these things but woman aren't inherently different to men!"
@@brabhamF1 Yes ! I mean its a form of hypocrisy, we should Try to make it better instead of looking for equality revenge cause it will only perpetuate more hate
Salami Selimbo right
Homeless woman, Society failed her. Homeless man, he is just a failure.
Well this is because woman can sleep there way into a house a man can’t
Lol
I'm 14 and that's deep
Heres a nice edit
homeless woman, Society failed her.
Homeless man, he failed society
.......... or lazy
The saddest thing is if she was a man the algorithm may never have picked it up and may have been shamed in turn
I agree
I was wondering why these videos keep popping up
For like a week straight before I ever clicked one
because I honestly at first didn't want to hear any of this
But now I think it's something I need to hear
if she were a man she probably would not have even been saved from half the traumatic events of her life
Facts
@@justaspy5605 yeah, me to, I thought this was gonna be some annoying feminist shit that's like "equality! But only when it's convenient for women!" and they wouldn't stop showing up so I clicked one and it is not what I expected.
It's literally just a woman with common sense that understands things, not some moronic feminist screaming about how they shouldn't have to pay the dinner bill but they want equality
The comments would call her extremely misogynistic if she was a man
My ex-wife was abusive, verbally, mentally, emotionally and yes, physically. I put up with it probably longer than I should have. But my patience finally ran out during a marriage counseling session and I walked out of the session and went home and packed my clothes and left immediately. Spent the next 2 years living out of my car. Finally got an apartment and now I'm a successful business owner and investor, things that my ex-wife would never allow me to be.
I’m reading this from my car which is now my home I’m pretty sure
This needs more damn likes man good for you!
@@tristanyt9582 This is for MyAcresOFDi…. Sorry! Divorced my ex back in 1986 She was a abusive and running around on me! I then live anywhere I could. And I remarried in 1994 with my own home and nice job by then! Now married 29 years with very loved two grown kids! You can do this I did, you have to scream and yell at yourself not because of what happened No you have to scream and yell at yourself to survive and never surrender to your emotions!!! Yes you can do this!!! Damn!!!
Im glad im gay
It's actually such a relief that a women is speaking about these type of things
Agreed. Its kinda refreshing
That’s cus whenever we attempt to bring it up we just get told to man up.
Yep that's 💯% true it makes me feel like i can finally breathe!
This is litterally the only woman that talks about this shit
It's a breath of fresh fucking air mate, I fucking tell ya. As a red pilled man, this is the type of girl I find genuinely attractive.
It’s crazy how much this girl gets hate on Tik Tok for including men into feminism....
Tiktok is shit anyway lol
Oh wow
@j H idk man. Don't wanna get spied on by China, so i never downloaded the damn thing. I have just seen enough reposts on yt to know how cancerous the whole thing is
@j H Again, idk dude
I believe it's because she's also a pick me girl and there's evidence of so in her response to people calling her one and the statement she made about female rape victims that was FALSE
From my last relationship whenever she'd get angry, would threaten to hit me. Me knowing she was a feminist said i'd hit her back if she hit me first, queue the shocked expression and then when i'd say "equal rights equal fights" she'd say "fuck equal rights, you can't hit me"🤨 make it make sense
You should've said "Oh I'm perfectly capable"
Then hire someone to beat her ass
@@chandlerplays1685 Lol she'd say she'd take it to court if i did hit her back💀 Well now i'm the "toxic ex" for her friends, but everyone else, even her ex bestfriend (they were friends when we started dating) knows the truth 🤷♂️ No one believes me when i tell them this. Truly sad really, and the actions came from a self proclaimed feminist... right.
"I’m a believer in gender equality, a man who dares to use dropkicks against girls" Kazuma from Konosuba
Lmfao. Similar fight with my girl like 5 months ago. She slapped me , threw her phone and hit my foot then grabbed me by my face and clawed. I then looked her dead in the eyes and told her that was 3 strikes she hit's me again I'm hitting back. THE FUCKING SHOCK AND TERROR in her eyes when she realized she fucked up was hilarious. After wards she claimed to be scared of me because I "could" hit her she fails to realize what she did was abuse and to this day bring it up as a joke until I get serious about it.
On the homelessness thing: I once saw a homeless man with a sign that no shit said "My ex-wife had a better lawyer."
Our legal system is super fucked up if men can lose so much in a divorce that they end up homeless. Or even end up poor while their ex is comfortable.
And all the safety nets and organisations set up for women in these situations are nonexistent for men
When I was living at a homeless shelter here in El Paso, there was a man that panhandled with a sign like that
And sadly, we've embedded this notion in women that if they are going to get divorced she should "take him for all he's worth". Get the house. Get that alimony. Don't let him have custody of the kids. Like damn. Try flipping that around. Get the house, alimony, and the kids from her. Oh wait, that will NEVER happen.
People also expect ex husband to help ex wife if she would end up homeless, but not the other way around. I guess some men aren't regarded as humans
@@Alaskanman To some women men are just wallets. :/
Man: beats woman
People: OMG STOP YOUR ABUSING HER
Woman: beats man
People: nah it’s fine let’s move on
.. more like "YASS SLAY QUEEN!" 😐
yup still remember the abusive relationship i was in from age 13-16 that my ex beat me and gave me all sorts of psychological hell and everyone either supported it or just ignored it and let it happen. couldn't even fight back. even the teachers pulled me to one side and gave me grief to why I didn't like hanging around her and when i told them all they told me is to man up and accept that's just part of the relationship -_- I didn't end up getting out of it til i was 16 because my ex threatened me with false rape accusations if i dared tried to leave it. only reason i escaped is cause she left that threat online in my messages which gave me some physical evidence to give to the police if she did try anything.
You know, people are just dumb
Amber heard and Johnny Depp is a perfect example
EXACTLY
Fun fact: a women went to a bar and stabbed a man in the eye with her high heel, she only got a small fine because ‘she was drunk’. If a man did this he would be DEPORTED. Seriously we need to stop being so sexist again😑
I know plenty of these stories.
King Melanin7 same
Seems fake
Kesterson TV it was on the news, people were rioting for days
@@brahmkesterson2094 woman stabbed her boyfriend in the uk due to corona she got practically nothing
“Why? Men SUCK at handling mental health”
Me: :O
“Because as a society we don’t make it acceptable for them to talk about it.”
Me: :(
Sadly that is 100% true!
Everytime i wanted to talk about the fact that I suffer anxiety, people just tell me to stop complaining and stop being a victim. If it was my sister she would have all the support in the world, people would come to see her and hug her and tell her how beautifu she is.
@@Ignasimp Sad but very true. Us men are considered disposable by society.
Yep, very unfortunate. Most men (myself included) we don't really have someone to talk to get something off their chest. Thanks to society it is frowned upon for a guy to express his feelings and it has been taught to us from the day we're born.
Sadly us men have no rights aperently women say men shuld die ! Like wft thats mest up
I had a best friend who died at the age of 13 when we were both in 8th grade. As a result I was depressed for 15 years. All I got from society was "Man up" or "get over it" or "well... yeah... but... I had it worse because..." Shameful. I have a YT channel and I plan to do a video journal of my life until present. I then want to talk about male mental health.
That sucks dude. As guy i feel sorry for you i never had good friend though i am 22 yo but i would be so glad find really good friend though i as well should change myself in many ways as i think
I have custody of my daughter. I have raised her on my own. Her mother is drug addicted and has severe mental health issues. She was abusive physically verbally and emotionally. Yet there was nothing I could do about it because it was her word against mine. She still verbally abuses me. I have all the texts. My lawyer actually told me there is nothing I can do about it. If it were the opposite way , I'd be fined and jailed.
Proud of you man. Just keep your head up
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Stay true to yourself. You'll probably have to take some hits, but be YOU . Be consistent. Be a parent and don't overcompensate. You WILL make it past this. I promise. Because I know. I did it too.
@TOXIN !! respect
Kudos to you man.
@TOXIN !! Your a good human
Please who ever has God contact, ask him to reserve a place for this girl in heaven 🤧
will do
AQUA I KNOW PEOPLE CALL YOU USELESS BUT PLEASE DO THIS ONE THING FOR US... THANKS
I will my Child.
@@subzero308 oh no I seen your god... He probably the one that says "Fatality" all the time.
@@excaliburofgachagames9241 so you have only heard him say "Fatality" but you have never seen him lol.
22 Veterans commit suicide every day. 25% of the homeless are Veterans.
Left over from the kind of government specifically America that idolizes war and advertising itself to kids in school who aren’t aware of what can come from it.
thats so fucked :(
WHAT? NO AFTER EVERYTHING THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH THEY DESERVE SO MUCH MORE
I think 2/3 of homeless are men
Having P.T.S.D. once in my life for 5 years was hellish enough , think about of our combat veterans with post-traumattic stress disorder out on the streets and homeless to boot. The thought alone is terrifiing !!
that breast-cancer one hits very hard for me, as my grandpa had it, I wasnt alive at the time, but I cant imagine how it must have been for him to get help for it, as no funding-organisation wanted to help as they were women-only. luckfully for him, the diagnosis came right at the time, when my dad got a high paying job, they took the money from him to fund his medical bills, he is still alive and 82 now.
Imagine like if she was a men. she would be harrassed for what she saying if she was a men
A men to that brother.
She'd be harassed by women if she was more known or popular on social media. The cult disowns and demonizes any and all who do not fall in line. Never forget this. I'd also add that the only reason women would only bother her if popular is entirely sex competition. Women despise other women whom they notice gets more male attention than them
She is harassed. So is every woman who speaks out on this like Sydney and that woman that did the TED talk on why she used to be a feminist but no more.
Imma make a promise to stand up for men's issues for the rest of my life.
Which would prove her facts more!
I'd rather have a feminist that's more like an equaliser than a feminist that has no idea what they're doing except following the crowd.
Yeah, egalitarians are pretty cool (if that's what you mean)
Gopnik McEdgelord Thank you! I didn’t even know there was a word for what I believe! I wouldn’t dare call myself a feminist.
@@zellafae Yeah, it's not that easy to discover. There are barely any egalitarian channels on UA-cam, most of them are either women's rights or men's rights advocates soooo yeah... Liberate everyone! ...But pedos, murderers, creeps, kidnappers, arsonists, mysoginists, misandrists, racists, homophobes, transphobes etc.
What a society we live in..
God bless this woman
😔it's crazy that she has so much common sense and sympathy, and that makes her a minority in the whole "are men good or bad" bs mess. Please keep it up👏🏿💖
Protect this woman. At all costs.
Its so fucking awesome to see this woman talking about these issues
THANK YOUUUUUUUUUU!!!! I’m female and I COMPLETELY agree with this!!! “Feminists” where are you??
they're in the comments at 1in6.org telling male victims of childhood sexual abuse to shut up already, true story
Me too ! I once watched a video of someone shitting on her, but I was curious so I watched and well I'm glad, I myself am from asia so most of these things aren't in my country but I do have a good understanding of what is going on in the west
@SMILEE actually it's a man with a fake account.
i am a feminist,just a real one that actually wants equality
@@datonedude6339 thanks for the link.
The 109 dislikes were women who doesn't like a women standing up for men
Make that 160 dislikes
Rear Admiral subjugation of men still wouldn’t solve rape, don’t forget that rape isn’t exclusive to men.
Rear Admiral yeah u are right whatever crime they do everyone will always think that they are the ''victim"
@@akafhyr9551 make that 213 dislikes
The worst thing is that the problems aren't just ignored, it is encouraged and people become antagonist if you even bring them up.
i know right, I'm genuinely so confused of why men act like this i wish we we're all just equal(in society), it would be nice
Woman hits man because he looked at her for 0.1 seconds: "Way to go, you showed him right"
Man briefly touches woman by accident on a crammed train: "Oh my god you monster, that's abuse"
If I bumped a man in a crowd and accidentally touched his pec, he would get nothing more than a brief, reflexive 'sorry' from me, if anything. If I so much as brushed against a woman's chest in the same circumstances though, she would get a profusive and in depth apology. Why? Because I don't want to be seen as a monster. I would rather be beaten up than treated like a monster. Bruises and broken bones will all be gone in a few months, but the absolute fear and terror the possibility of being seen as 'one of them' brings absolutely DWARFS my fear of physical pain. It can leave long lasting psychological damage. I STILL feel bad about an incident that happened like this in MIDDLE school. Ten years have passed but my desperation to make that girl believe it was an accident still remain. I never actually got to apologise to the woman . . . My pinky caught on her upper thigh, and she was wearing leggings. That looks really fucking bad, like, 'how does that happen on accident' kinda bad. I hope that wherever this woman is now she doesn't believe someone tried to assault her. I don't want to be responsible for that kind of psychological damage, you know? I feel really bad . . . Never got to make my case to the girl, the crowd swept me along too fast. I still remember it in slow motion, with horror
@@thedragonreborn6042 Correct me if I'm wrong, but youtube isn't made for making books
@@ZobRoss ong writing all of that no one reading that
@@unknown-er4dk well I read it
@@thedragonreborn6042 you are a sweet man and you need to let go of that guilt it's quite clear to me it was by accident and not worry about whether or not she's suffering from it as you did not do it with intent and you didn't have a chance to tell her so just let it go it was not your fault and the fact that you steel felt bad for all these years just proves how good you are as a person you have a lot of empathy for other people and you should be proud of yourself and not pushing your self for something you did not mean to do
Who ever dates this woman is the luckiest man in the whole world
Or if she dates a girl than she's the luckiest girl
@@deanw9759 oh cool ! :)
I would have to agree. I just hope he deserves the boon that God has granted him. Adam should have been so blessed.
She actually does have a boyfriend
She did a couple of live casting videos last night and he appeared in them with her, along with her daughter
@mp4 oh, it absolutely is really fucking sad to say this
All too often, men are trashed by women in immeasurable ways and women who are like Chloe are an extremely rare breed of woman, they exist, but they're incredibly difficult to find
This videos r eally hit home and broke me down with how true it is because i basically live all of these, i was recently released from jail after getting arrested for "abusing" my ex, she stabbed me during an argument, i fought back and caught a domestic, all while struggling with some mental issues i was struggling to work on...thank you for addressing these issues, more people need to see this,
I’m so sorry. I hope you are getting better and I hope she gets what she deserves
stabbed are you serious
I am so sorry for you
She hasnt gotten any karma, but im currently getting my revenge with success and by healing, she saw me at a rave amd asked how i was...I told her so much better than the last 2 years and she walked away all mad lol
That’s grim. you’ll pull through brother put that horrible bint behind you!
YEEEES!!
I started to believe that im the only woman who wants to put out these things because speaking out loud such things created so much unecessary drama in my female clique which i am actually really happy not to be part of anymore. I call it superior female arrogance. We went from being supressed to being covert narcisists that calling themselves queens and goddesses or how ever they wanna call themselves 🤣
I wanna be a humanist.
Thank You!
Thank you
Thank you
I can't even post these vids on social media without banning me or calling me out for sexism
@@alevort so sad. Thats not what i would call freedom of speech anymore
Boys I'm gonna say it ...
She is number 1 candidate in the male presidency elections
She has a few things still a bit slanted but at least she talks about it
Ironic huh... not disagreeing though
She'd have my vote based on her views, very fair views.
@@sans-eq4us hello sans thank you for your contribution to electing this woman as our representative
Yes, she has fair view of society & individual
My parents encouraged my sister to go to college, I was encouraged to dig ditches. You got big brode shoulders, you'll make a good labor. Ready for the kicker, was forced to take IQ tests, humm, 150 average after all the test. Yet, still pushed to do manual labor.
DAMN, man, that's so unfair. I genuinely hope you've ended up making lots more money than your sis
No offense but ur parents suck.
That is unfortunate. Hope the outcome was still good!
were your parents damn fools? Manly men only work in dangerous environments even tough they could be next Einstein? I hope that you stood your ground and took education as your goal.
Go to college! Don't losten to your parents. You need to make it in your own live.
the last part is very important. when men stand up and say "we dont want to live likes this either", they are faced with so much aggression and "whataboutism" that most of them quickly sit down again.
One of the reasons I went MGTOW.
Lloyd Keith what’s MGTOW
At least that's the definition, according to Google. *eyeroll*
@@bnashtay2278 MGTOW = men going there own way
Basically,... stopping the attempt to attract or approach females. Don't get romantically involved with them. Don't give them unnecessary agency in your life. Take responsibility for yourself. Work to improve yourself for yourself.
There are still some of them on UA-cam like sandman or joker from better batchelor. It's more a loose philosophy, not a movement. It's just a bunch of men who have said nope. I'm not going to be getting in line to give up my time and efforts to someone so they can just walk off with half, or more than half in some cases.
That blame and shame just washes off us because we have stopped playing the game. This chic rocks because she one of the few I have seen that looks to be pushing back against the problems.
Lloyd Keith ohhh ok thnx
I can confirm as a teenage boy in secondary school in Ireland, learning and trying to get a well paying "nerdy" job is viewed as being a girly thing, it encouraged by your peers to not care about school.
Stigmas like these are what causes the “girls vs boys” in a situation memes, don’t they? Indeed played off as jokes, but that doesn’t mean that those men are actually leading chad lives.. :’(
I'm in secondary school in Ireland too
Not much more tho,my class is very loud and that's about it
Love how feminists preach about equality for both men and women but whenever somebody especially a girl talks about mens issues they're called a "pick me" girl.
Feminists are very vindictive and hostile people, in general.
They allow their egos to block their mind's capacity of learning and retaining information.
As Bill Bur sed:"There are no feminists on a sinking ship!" You won't hear feminist arguing on equality when captain says women and children first... :-)
But Chloe is the model feminist a true feminist, not a feminazis
It's not equality they desire but power.
Life’s weird isn’t it 😔
The fact that I didn't know men could get breast cancer until last year, and I'm 24 right now, goes to show how much people try to make women the victim in everything.
Of course look at all the sports who push breast cancer awareness in all the major pro sports... Meanwhile u don't hear anything about prostate/testicular cancer in sports EVER... SMH even the Breast cancer commercials are all WOMEN even the sports Breast Cancer commercials r the players talking about WOMEN only... Smh the world we live in is horrible...
I didn't know that until I saw this comment (I'm 12)
@@convexsphere392 Bruh me too
wait what
What? How? It just sounds like you didn't learn something a lot of people did. Not societies fault you lacked a proper education in that area.
God, you are the feminist that this world needs.
an old timed feminist, back when the movement was about equality, not becoming queens, rare to see now days.
Not sure feminist is the right word to use anymore
@@yungmun4155 And it is sad that is the case
I call it Conservative Feminism.
thats what she is.
@@yungmun4155 I just call the other ones nazi-feminist
3 life lessons I drill to my boys regularly:
Racism/Sexism/Xenophobia/etc are just as stupid as hating a flower because it's red, a bird because it's blue, a cat because it's white, a dog because it's black - there's no logic to hate over aesthetic things, be a "Personalitist" instead and judge people based off of their character.
Secondly, the BEST form of defence is removing yourself from the situation.
And lastly, and arguably the most important...
Don't eat yellow snow 😐
All of these are extremely important, especially the last one
Isn’t racism and xenophobia the same?
The best form of defense is not removing yourself from a situation, it's threat assessment. If the threat is one where you have the option to leave, then that's a good rule but to imprint that boundary into him is dangerous depending on the circumstances. I'm not telling you how to raise your child, and I felt that this was important for his safety. :-)
@@Number.1Yanfei.Fan123 not really, Xenophobia is related to culture and racism to appearance
but the two very often go hand in hand
What about homophobia ?
I love this, like... this is the side of feminism that the “feminists” ignore... because EqUAL rIgHts, but... not equal problems?
and no equal responsibilities
feminism doesnt diminish mens issues or say they don't exist. feminism doesn't mean putting men under women :l
geekers actually they do, the national feminists association installed the Duluth program, which makes it so police officers in domestic violence programs see who is more angry in domestic violence calls (most women) and who is more capable of physical harm (most men) , which leads to more men getting arrested for *being abused* . We barely have any homeless shelters for men. Feminists haven’t don’t a *single God damn thing* for men.
@@eddieb5452 you are absolutely correct. I have seen it first hand. I called the police about my wife's behavior and they threatened to arrest me!
@@geekers8644 you are not paying attention or you are incredibly obtuse.
I was homeless for 4 years starting when I was 14, when I broke and asked for help and admitted that I could not do it on my own. It was my fault, I was told I would be fine and everything would work out, but not helped.
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry that's really 😢
One of the moments shit really hits the ground
End it.....
@@anonymo_use5918 wth
@@anonymo_use5918 no
I'm a 27 year old male and hearing some of these things actually made me tear up a little. I didnt cry though, cuz...we don't do that. Just had some dust or something in them 😐😅 Like the suicide rates, the deaths at work. I work construction and heavy equipment and I think about that more than I should. What happens if the ground we're working on collapses, or there's a mechanical failure and a truck goes off a road/cliff. 😪 Also I actually know a coworker who was just diagnosed with prostate AND bone cancer, and I honestly can't remember the last time I saw a commercial or celebrity advocating for prostate cancer support. I don't want an extreme kneejerk reaction by society to suddenly shift towards mens issues because that's how we got to where we are now in this unbalanced world. I just want equal support for everyone. You don't get brownie points for being gay, or being a man/woman, or being a certain race, just true equality. Fairly new to the channel and I just wanted to say thank you for being a voice for men. Maybe society will listen a little more instead of laughing it off and saying "ah get tough". Being a man does mean being a strong protector and provider and having thick skin when it counts, but everybody has their moments of weakness and that shouldn't be shunned. Again, thank you. 💙
Same, but had to stiffin that upper lip
My dad never told me "Men dont cry." He always told me "Men don't cry unless the situation deserves it." If you are a man crying because your 5 year old walked up to you and said for the first time "Daddy, I love you, and you are a best daddy!" then you are doing it right. If you are crying because you skinned your knee a bit... yeah, suck it up and press on. Lifes too hard to get paralyzed over a little bit of pain.
@Gaming_Blitz43 unfortunately society is not able to act in any way other than knee jerk overreaction, It's a scientific law. The larger an object is the more energy it takes to move it, and the faster that object is moving the more energy it takes to stop it. So think of society as an object and then you will understand why it does what it does. Remember society is made up of people, but it isn't sentient and is actually a construct.
@@andrewhinson4323 haha my gfs daughter drew me a little crayon picture that said "I think you're a great dad" and I bawled like a little girl
@@andrewhinson4323 and this is the problem. If a girl skinned her knee and cried it would be ok, but if a boy does it it is not. While I hope this is changing, I know how it was for me growing up. "Don't show emotions ever." This leads to bigger issues later in life. I was in the military in the 90s, you just sucked it up as a man and admitting you needed help was a sign of weakness. Women could ask for help, claim discrimination and harassment, but men were to suck it up and if you did any of the above you were ridiculed for it. I was actually talked to by my senior NCO about harassment cause I expected a female to carry 2 cases of paper (70 lbs). The contract you sign to join says you affirm that you can lift and carry 70 lbs. I have always believed that what is good for one gender is good for the other as well, this goes for crying also.
If she runs for presidential elections,
I am voting for her.
Should check out Andrew Yang's videos on the topic, then.
Not from an English speaking country but I would do the same if I was
Let's raise some funds. If she's as honest about all issues, she'd be the best president yet.
I wish more women where open minded like this. She a full woman n she chooses to understand both sex’s issues and have no problem speakin for us. There wud be more marriages goin up instead of goin dwn in divorce.
open minded doesn't mean she understands much.
kiddhkane I think he means that allot of feminists are close minded to mens rights and issues
Zerosonic thank you for clearing tht up for him!!! Be blessed
@@kiddhkane the ability to speak does not make you intelligent
@@hellothere3570 Could say the same about you and her.
out of all the homeless people i have seen here in Norway every single one of them has been a dude.... never even crossed my mind untill i grew up....
my biology teacher would never pick boys to answer questions, and would wait until a girl raised her hand and if no one raised their hand she would just choose a random girl to answer... our principal (female) ignored me when i told her that a girl at the dormatory was sexually harrassing and abusing me....
my ex fiance who i started a relationship with when i was 15 and she was 18 would force me to have sex with her and when ever she didn't get it she would threaten to leave me or kill herself.... at the time i was too young to figure out what to do, it wasn't all bad, but allot of it was, and when i said outright that i wasn't in the mood, she would throw a hissy fit and throw things around and force me to do all her chores around the farm didn't get out of that relationship untill i was 19, when she cheated on me with a 15year old at that time she was 22.... she was obsessed with sex all the time.... and i was rediculed and treaded like shit for not being some sex crazed beast that would not think of anything but being inside her at all times..... still struggle with depression after the whole ordeal, she ended up marrying a younger guy that was dying of cancer and got him to sign his will and ensurence over to her when he died. sorry for the wall of text, could go on for several pages though....
Damn. Stay strong man
thats horrible
I believe it will all get better, stay strong brother
That's tough man. But you keep going. Stay strong bro💪🏻
@@shayanounegh3899 thanks man, and thanks for the support from everyone else too!
A Woman who understands Men's issues is like a breath of fresh, Mature air and a cool, refreshing drink of water.
And as a man, none of us can bring this up. Why? We will be shamed immediately for speaking up. Lose/lose
If not shamed, completely ignored.
Society as a whole is one big simp.
Pretty much
exactly, I said on a post on Instagram about men mental health and suicide statistics and some female said it doesn't affect women so she doesn't care and blamed toxic masculinity on it
Actually, this Woman l gets a lot of hate too.. death threats, shaming, verbal abusing by other people, you name it.
When i was in my psychology class we were talking about the horrific ramifications of rape but when i mentioned male victims the whole class laughed before i could even tell my prospective as a male victim. When i told my professor i would do my paper on male victims of rape and abuse she immediately followed it up with "that's good but it doesn't happen as often" like she had to make that clear btw that is the same sentiment i have heard from people over and over again yet people wonder why men don't speak up
I'm a grad student in school psych. It's mostly feminist who claim to have empathy. Don't buy the lie. Keep up the good fight my man.
Tell her she's wrong, including prisons, men get raped considerably more, they say we shouldn't count prisons, but why wouldn't we? They're still human
Psych classes are fucking full of sociopaths
She was being insensitive, but that doesn't make her wrong. Sociology is about social statistics, so her point is relevant.
Cleeb E they wrote psychology course, not sociology, btw!
As a man who has been abused by (female) ex partners, thank you for covering this.
Thank you for discussing male suicide. I lost two soldiers due to suicide in 4 yrs. Your a saint Ma'am your video is spot. Thank you
I stopped counting, but I am doing my best to make changes within the VA and advocating with my politicians. Let me know if you want to get involved
Prostate cancer awareness slogan:
Ball Lives Matter.
This better be top comment
@@midas7934 Sack Lives Matter
Hahaha,... wrong side gang
A$$hole's matter!
@@lloydkeith3061 why is it there's always that one nerd with the suspenders and glasses, pocket protector full of pens and a protractor that has to pipe up and spoil the joke for everyone with, "Well, umghuh, you see, umghuh (pushes glasses up on nose) technically speaking, blah blah blah blah...."?? It's a JOKE for fucks sake! We are just cutting up and making word plays for fun, not teaching a goddamn biology and physiology class dude! Damn! Yes you are TECHNICALLY correct but don't take yourself so seriously and everything so literally...
supramaniac502 sack lives matter, lmao, an equally amusing comment
I love this girl she’s the definition of intelligence and understanding
You are a breath of fresh air in a stifling world. Thank you.
“Equal rights, equal fights”
Literally if it was like that their would be way less abusive cases. Believe it or not, women antagonise most fights. Why? Because they can and no reprocutions. If they were fully aware that a man could hit them back after they hit them guess what would happen? Women wouldn't be hitting men.
CSGO context:
Modern feminism is like a terrorist.
Roma is like a counter-terrorist.
They both use guns. We know who uses them for good ;)
What she's talking about are all feminist/leftie talking points, wheter she thinks they are or not. 2015 was a long time ago, the antisjw era has been over for a while now. Get on with the times.
I dont think you actually care for the wellbeing of men, or people to put it bluntly, if your go to response is "MoDeRn FeMinIsm". You only like this video cause you "feel" it validates your worldview which must be some sort of combination of MRI/RedPill, where man are always victims for some reason and feminism wants to kill you, which is completely delusional. You can do better my dude.
@@RaulMartinez-tz9je hey, calm down amigo, I care for the wellbeing of men, even if I haven't made anything to make a solid point on that, but anyways, it's just that this twisted vision of what I know as "Modern feminism" keeps on going as a bad image sometimes. I just made that comment based in knowledge and ignorance so, thank you for changing my point of view, no problem.
Also, let me add something: The terrorist vs counter-terrorist thing is just a type of contrast I made myself, because of two sides. Roma (even if it's for a clout) takes a really good part clarifying certain things such as stereotypes or misconceptions, cleaning the image of both men and feminists, so the CSGO thing it's a mere
J o k e
Everyone who disliked this video has green hair, a gender studies degree and no job.
And my shoe size is higher than thier IQ...
I was about to say that the women that disliked this video are all a bunch of Karen feminists with blue hair and no love life
@@stonefox9124 Same, and i have the smallest feet on Earth (Well that's how it feels.)
Or have bad hand eye coordination
@@somecrazyveteran Hey! I have blue hair and I love her! Don't judge people by their hair colour! ;)
My dad is the one who taught me how to protect myself. He said to me “If someone tries hurts you, no matter who they are you have every reason to protect yourself from them and I’ll never be mad at you.” He even used to take me to his martial arts classes until he tore his bicep hitting the tombstone too hard.
When I was in high school there was this community I was a part of, there was a girl the same age as me that was depressed and everyone babied her. I acted the same way as her (which was a poor choice, but still) and this girl the same age as me was treated completely and totally different. I was told to stop acting like a child :/ I really appreciate the call out on mental health
I hope you're doing well now
When I tried to explain all this to a group of elderly women (at their request), I was expecting indifference, perhaps some nit-picking. What I was not prepared for was the outright hostility at the very idea of men's problems. That was a real eye-opener for me.
What's that saying idiot feminists like to throw around...? "When you're used to superiority, equality feels like oppression." You talking about your problems makes them question the superiority they enjoy disguised as honorable struggle against former oppression.
In truth, society is an arrange of concentric circles of privilege, like a castle, with women at the center, then children, then charismatic megafauna (cute animals, basically) and men.
Go figure
I’m disgusted
I"m very careful with whom a discuse things with. I once did the mistake of saying that 35-40% of the DV is commited by women, I said it to a woman. She didn't became hostile but very passionate debated how wrong I was. I did a retreat and said there was just an article that I read and it could be wrong.
@@flamenmartialis6839The fact that she would deny it instead of hearing you out. Goes to show how people just want to be seen as the victims nowadays smfh 🙄
Please don't ever stop... I feel better every time I listen to you ROMA. FACTS
As a male, I've been struggling with depression for longer than I want to admit. I just found your channel today. And I want to thank you. I appreciate you bringing attention to men's mental health.
How you doing man??
You ain't alone, brother. I'm in that same boat as you. *big bro-hugz*
It's a day by day thing ya know? Appreciate you.
2 infantry division. 4 dudes committed suicide last year
The team i worked with had one it sucks and it seems like no one cares. Sometimes I wonder why we joined
suicide prevention safety briefs are by a far stretch the worst. When I was deployed like HALF the month of December was spent in suicide prevention safety briefs. I have never spent so much time thinking and talking about suicide. It felt like we were getting gas lighted.
Fuck me, 2nd ID. I hope you're staying strong brother, spent five years in and out of a bottle after after getting medically discharged back in 2010. I was just fucking lost and had no idea what to do with my self, there were many a time where I picked up my side arm and considered checking out. It wasn't even the PTSD, just a complete lack or purposelessness. My fiance was a cheating whore, and I couldn't find a job worth half a damn that wasn't aggravating my injures. Fortunately I sought help and started getting my life back together, so do what ever you can to keep on trucking.
I was in 3d CR at Fort Hood, 7 people from my battalion committed suicide in a month. So glad I got out of there
My dad had to win a custody battle with my mother when I was 6 months old. My mom still almost won when she had nearly left me crippled for the rest of my life. I call that extremely unfair.
Same thing happened to me when I was 5
What happened bro
Can you elaborate on that story im curious?
dad: i am a caring father, i love my son (son?), and i would do anything for him. please, i don't think i could live without him.
judge: hm..... and what are your qualifications mam?
mom: IM THE MOM!!!
judge: ooo you make a good argument there......even though you crippled your son. buuuuuut i am barely going to have to go with the dad on this.
also a side note: HOLY shit, i never really noticed.. but it is insane how functional my family is..... it's not brady bunch level, but damn.
@@recklesspotato212 Well, my mom basically kidnapped me, took me all the way to Utah. And after that she decided it was okay to neglect me even though I had torticollis which, if you didn't know can only be treated within a certain time frame. By the time my Dad got me back I was very close to the end of that time frame, but he made sure I got the physical therapy I needed.
I have nothing but respect for you, and I really appreciate that you talk about these issues that a lot of men refuse to bring up for fear of backlash from society.
You are the only type of women that automatically deserve my respect
Don't . . . All people automatically deserve your respect?
@@thedragonreborn6042 Always depends on who the person is, if someone shall give them respect or not
@@thedragonreborn6042 No person, no matter what reputation they have, or what other people say about them, deserves all of someone’s respect. My personal belief is in my choice to give someone a certain amount of blind respect until I get to know them better, but this is because I am confident in my ability to recognize red flags. People can be good, but as long as there are bad people, trust is essential to the development of respect for someone. My parents always told me to always trust my coaches and teachers, until I was physically abused by my wrestling coach. That experience has made me realize that respect is something that should always be earned, and if it isn’t, it should never be given.
@@jayflores7439 ok, u now respect all murderers, rapists etc, according to you.
True
When I was 12 my sister was diagnosed with anxiety and depression and received help for her cutting but little did they know I was affected by our abusive ex step dad but I stayed quiet because I believed that everyone would think I was just jelous of the attention my sister was getting thank fully I'm not depressed anymore and I've come to enjoy life at least 85% of life. But the one phrase that really helped me was "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" because I'm a practical person. I won't do something if it isn't practical. I'm not going to make your eyes roll into the back of your head with boredom but just remember that it's okay to not feel ok but that dosent mean not to seek help for it.
Jesus, same.
I'm sure that saying has stopped alot of people not just you bro. No shame in admitting facts. You still can get that help, no shame in that either.
on a side note, throw some punctuation in there ;)
@@jamesporter6288 don't see the periods I guess ;-;
@@federalbureauofinvestigati9362 It's okay.
You forgot to mention that the "wage gap" is actually an _earnings_ gap, which is based on chosen occupation and number of hours worked, and has nothing to do with per-hour pay.
A female McDonald's employee isn't going to make the same as a male brain surgeon, but they're both counted equally in the "studies" feminists push.
And if the job is the same, but you work 8 hours a day while your male coworker works 10 hours a day, then of course you're going to make 80% of what he does, that's simple math.
But of course some feminists actually claim math is sexist. Not people in the math field, but math _itself!_
Hope this gets top comment. There was a flaw in her speech on that
Let’s be honest here they’ll say *a i r* is sexist when they get the chance
@@mr.valentino1170 well they've already claimed air conditioning is sexist, so air can't be far behind.
"We wear these tight clothes in which it's hard to breathe (though we don't do it for you, we do it for ourselves, you male-gazing, sexually objectifying piece of shit!), therefore being able to breathe air is sexist!"
(Edit:) it's really scary putting myself into their mindset like that, and I probably really shouldn't give them any ideas...
You're right, but not entirely. There is and was a competetive inequality to some degree, like the top 5% of earners are mostly male hence it also pushes the average up aswell as some areas where woman are more numerous being paid less in general. Such as barbers and the like, where man and woman get paid the same but its somewhat of a 3:1 ratio which drags the overall numbers down.
And jobs (this is a niche example but there are many) like oil rig workers get paid a lot more due to the hazard and backbreaking nature of it which makes men richer on average.
The truth is that the average does not help the individuals. The averag of ~50 of the population across a country the size of a continent *cannot* be very representative.
That is like saying that on average, globally, humans are very rich! Yes! But if you cut out the top 10% of humans, we suddenly become significantly poorer.
@@TheSubso All you really did was expand into much greater detail that which I had boiled down to the most basic nutshell.
I think I might have mixed metaphors there, but I'm too tired to be certain.
And barbers was a bad choice of occupation. There are few, if any, female barbers. Women become stylists, which tend to be paid 2 or 3 times as much as barbers.
I'm so acclimatized to a woman speaking men's issues that I don't know how to react or what to really say...
Maybe if society hears a woman speaking about some issue, maybe they'll listen
@@filippavlakovic4478 i really hope so this situation is getting out of control and very little peopel care
The way you've been treated by men, Roma, you are a true angel for standing up for us the way you do. Love your videos. EVERY ONE!
I was taught as a child by my mamma and daddy that "if a girl wants to play like a boy you treat her like a boy" and I damn sure did. Oh and I love your content keep it up.
this chick just basically gets it on every level, every topic. everyone can learn from her.
Why does this not have more likes and why isn't this going viral? Oh wait bc it's real and nobody wants that anymore! You go girl!!!
She's for true equality, what feminism actually was supposed to stand for.
I don't understand how so many these days are trying to reverse the old opressive and sexist roles that women used to live under and now apply them to men?
If they think opression and sexism was so bad, then wouldn't they wanna abolish it instead of now doing to men?
It's like fighting hate with hate, racism with racism.
They're oftenly just as sexist as the men 100s of years ago.
But they call themselves hero's 😔😑
Is it spite?
I've been called a mysogynist soo many times by girls because 100s of years ago men opressed women
I'm Dutch my grandparents and some older aunts/uncles have lived under Nazi oppression.
But we don't hate the current German population, they are in no way responsible for what haplened multiple generations ago.
Shoutout to the feminists who actually have common sense and believe the right things I can’t believe some of these people call themselves “feminists” and make all the actual ones look bad.
Spot on tiff 👍
Thank you! I'm with her 💯 this is a man's world and bc so many woman take advantage it's so backwards now! It's sad but it's soooo true!!
Agree 💯 I'm so thankful for some of the very few real people out there!! We need more of this now!
Society could have more people to tears. Im almost brought to tears.....listening to you validating all the problems i go through...and everyone act like im just not being a man...im trying so hard. Just thank you
The issue with men not standing up for themselves, is that if we tried, the society would most probably call us toxic chauvinists.
For good measure they'd add racist, homophobic pigs to the end, just to discredit us more
yeah, we get vilified for our gender and the past actions of select individuals that were men. And then we aren't allowed to defend ourselves. It's like going to court but everyone already decided you were guilty, so it's just a show for women to enjoy while we suffer. Just more reason men stay silent, But i find my male friends are more open with each other about what stresses them and upsets them. As long as men maintain a strong sense of brotherhood and are amongst ourselves, we won't fall.
No they will just tell us that we dont have the right to speak since we are white cis men.
Her beliefs are pretty much the pride and the true definition of equality. One day, I hope society gets their act straight and realizes that equality literally means EQUAL.
Thats the problem, people don't want equality they want to be ahead of others for less work
Yup. We have Pride month, bit Straight Pride is treated as a hate crime. SCREW the closet.
@@johnsarab4500 As a gay person I have to agree with you I'm in the LGBTQ but I have seen people surround there personality around being gay or when someone rejects them they just assume there gay and when they deny there "homophobic??" I remember we're we fought for equality but now people are using gay as argumentative material..
@@everyonesfavoritegin So, so true.
It gives me hope to hear these problems brought up and talked about in a logical way. More people need to hear this. The first step of resolving an issue is addressing the issue
I’ve been failed by the education system in the UK am actually joining the Royal Navy as not only do I see it as a last chance at a good life but I just don’t have the grades to get a good paying job
Hope it gets better for you man. Be safe
God speed
Get a paid for education in SOMETHING while you're in the my guy. Come out the other side strong. You're wilfully going into the eye of the black hole. It looks like chaos, and it is. If you endure and survive, you will thrive on the other side. Life will be beautiful my friend, good luck. Remember...
~ Enjoy Yourself
I'm in the same boat thinking about doing the same thing only from Canada
God speed mate, hope it works out for you
This is probably the only girl ill simp for.
same tbh
Damn straight.
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Y'all are fkin hopeless. Fkin simps. Rip
I don’t understand why people get bullied for simping i a big simp especially for tattoo girl
I love the fact that a woman is standing up for men.
As to the violence issue I think my parents did right mostly by teaching my brother and I "don't start fights but if they start it you finish it and we'll be beside every bit of the way ". As to emotions yes I was mostly taught to bottle them up and "be a man" and that has caused many problems. Thank God for a real woman standing up for real men. Love your content.
I like the term, “societal issue” that’s how I described it when I commented on the “Red Pill” documentary.
What's that doc about?
Jordan Howard about male and female gender roles and such. Empowerment and so on. It’s a good doc.
Jordan Howard it’s here to watch free on UA-cam.
@@uglyndumb7858 its about a feminist documentarian who goes out of her usual way and meets her "enemy", mens rights activists. after her (i think it was 3 months?) journey, she changed her way of thinking "we VS them" into "we VS all our societal issues" and when the documentary came out, feminists protested against it, saying it spreads hate against women etc pp.
I always treated everyone equal even in the case of violence. If you hit me, get warned and still continue to do it, prepare to get hit too.
I wish that people could allow men to show their anxiety and their sadness without being judged because it’s actually really hard to keep all of the emotions in sometimes we need a break we need to all be equal no one person should be treated better than another because we are all human
I am 27, I was abused and molested from the moment I was born until I was 11, I broke my back at age 20 and am disabled, but I still don't have an excuse to be unable to deal with large crowds or have panic attacks at the thought of being alone in a room with a female, I'm a man I should start acting like one. Shit the one time I tried "being a man" and going out to a public event I got arrested for "tweaking", I had actually had a full blown panic attack and was curled in the fetal position under my seat crying, but I was a threat to those around me apparently
@@alanwilson2213 we aren't all like you
@@alanwilson2213 anxiety is an actual disorder that one can't just man away
They put it all up into a bubble then when it gets too hard they let it out then get blamed for being insane and violent
@@alanwilson2213 Are you saying you were molested as a 0 year old?
I've said before and say now: I am so grateful that you and others speak up for men when men would be ostracized for it. The "Parental Rights" ones especially struck close to home because 1- my mother cheated on my dad (that's a whole other topic-- the "men cheat more than women" bullshit), and 2- my dad fought for custody and won. This was back in 1978. Unheard of back then, but I'll simply say that my biological mother was guilty of multiple forms of abuse, neglect, & child endangerment-- and even sex trafficking. I am nearly 50 years old and never knew what the term even was. I was just a kid and knew that if I didn't allow the adults to do what they wanted to me sexually, my mother would beat me senseless and constantly threatened to have her friends hurt my dad. I was beaten once so severely that I passed out because I would not participate in hurting my older sister. So I just took the beating. When all was said and done, small town USA, so many were willing to step forward to ensure my dad got custody of us. But nothing was ever done regarding the abuse. My biological mother was put in a hospital for a week and released with some medication and a warning. She should have faced justice; she should have been hospitalized and received treatment. I have no contact with her now thankfully, but my dad will forever be my hero for saving my sister and me. And my step-mom who I actually call "Mom" is the best I could have imagined. Better late than never. :)
I am so sorry you went through all that. I came from an abusive household but nothing that severe. I was withheld from my father (not that he was better). I'm so glad you had a father that stood up for you and fought the good fight though.
My personal experience that the nuns favoured the girls by first having the all the girls at the front of the class and us boys were the devil
If your the devil, tgen fuck it. Stare at theur Asses if they have any since you're the "devil".
Smirk about them to other bois if you're the "devil".
Gawk at them if you're the "devil".
Society turns us into the monster they made so might as well take that role to give them a taste of their own medicine
That means you can smoke weed. Apparently you already angered god so much he smacked your ass down to hell lol
@Cody G I hope you find Jesus before the end friend.
@Cody G Ok well I'm not Catholic. And I never condemned you to hell, I genuinely hope you find Jesus. He loves you way more than you know and he, nor I, want you to go to hell. Every soul is redeemable even yours. Best wishes to you.
When I was in high school this girl, who was my age, always came up to me and would make fun of me and hit me. Keep in mind I was 6'3" and about 200 at this point in my life. I had no idea what to do about it, then my mama told me what to do... The next time she pullet that shit I grabbed her and threw her over my shoulder like a sack of potatoes, then walked her to deans office like that. She didn't get in trouble but... worth it.
My grandfather has that now please pray for him send love and positivity to him please
I am lucky that, even though I was raised as a Muslim in a Muslim Turk family, I was told to not hit anyone and to actually talk about my feelings, especially by my mother and brother. I always thought that this was the norm in the west but seeing how often people talk about how boys only should never hit girls and never cry really shocked me. I pray for things to change and for people to find equality for everyone. Once I’m prepared to be an actual adult, I’ll try my best to work towards equality
Good on you Sir. Need more young men like you regardless of faith. Please remember this as it may be the only wisdom I can convey "if we all do a little the effect will be a lot".
When I tried joining in on the "#MeToo" movement for myself, I was told I don't belong and this is a woman's issue.
I made sure to read up on it before I joined in and it was ambiguous of sex in the description.
I just backed out and didn't try and join in on anything again.
Ive been hurt so much by women that ive hid my depression for 9 years
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I don't understand how they can say that it's just a woman's issue when Terry Crews was actively apart of the #MeToo movement
@@noahdixon_11 bless you
#metoo was a farce from the beginning. It quickly broke into what we all knew it would break into. A movement where women could lie about how they were treated. When women started calling other women out after using the hashtag, we all knew it was going to end soon... and it did.
@@buggy-cakes6173 Terry crews is a great guy, knowing he's been abused was just crushing.
Its not that men don't want to see their kids, they just don't want to have to deal with the mother.
exactly i say a lot of times that the man is abandoning the woman not the child
girls more.....
@@li3on099 what
I hate the "you can't hit a girl card"
@Jonathan Mercer i got smacked like 5 times but a girl but i couldn't hit back every body was looking the whole hallway stoped and i just walked away getting laughed at
She slapped my over a pencil
@@phazxy3737 - So I've been into martial arts since the age of seven. Trained a lot in middle school and high school (and beyond). For a whole bunch of various reasons. My small circle of guy friends hung out whenever we could during school hours. One of their girlfriends thought it was funny to slap and punch everybody else, and often tried (and succeeded at) kicking us in the nuts.
Funniest thing evaaaarrrrrrr! (right?! ..... wrong)
I can take pain, and punishment. I can handle play fighting. That was an all the time thing. This, she did just to be a bitch. I'm pretty sure she was being abusive to her boyfriend, at least to some extent, outside of school hours.
I got fed up with it, after a while. She'd been told to stop by every single one of us. More than once. So one typical day during what was left of our afternoon lunch time we're standing around chatting, waiting to go back to class. And she's up to her usual shenanigans. She kicks at me. I just shifted out of the way a little bit. Oh, fun game, right? I told her to knock it off or else. - She takes it as the perfect sign to up the ante. She kicks again for my balls. I drop my weight and fire a low punch straight into her shin bone. Not super hard, but there was an audible sound of a fleshy impact through her pleather pants. The guys who weren't paying attention now looked at me and her. And she starts pouting. Ryan, the boyfriend, gives me a look like he was about to kick my ass. I explained, and explained she'd been warned. Tiff, the girl, is looking around at the rest of the group for support like I was the bully. Ryan shrugged it off. Fair was fair. - I'm usually the patient, quiet, laid back one. I wasn't trying to hurt her, just make it clear in a way she would actually understand, that this wasn't cool and it was time to stop.
I don't recall her ever doing it again, or at least she changed her approach, and certainly didn't try to kick any of the guys in the groin anymore. She was kind of crappy in general to me afterward, but when that didn't get a rise, she just sort of left me alone. Eventually she stopped entirely.
Only time I've ever hit a female (outside of classes/training), and then I was more attacking the weapon I was being attacked with. It was a defensive measure, rather than offensive. Only had to do it once. Would have preferred not to have to deal with it at all.
@@tearstoneactual9773 Wait what grade were you in when this happened?
yeah its the frustration of how these people claim they want equality but only want the benefits and none of the consequences or responsibility that comes with equality.
Ikr like it should be don’t hit anyone?? Not just women??
It's really special to see a women appart of all other deffending mans so well by her self... And it's really appreciated. ❤
The male communities love, admire, and appreciate you. Your a queen, and a true mvp.
My husband suffered from severe Depression after the relationship with his daughters Mother failed. He seeked helped, which ended in him never seeing this kid, HE LOVES MORE THAN MOTHERFUCKING LIFE, again. We even waited seven years to marry, hoping she would attend our wedding. He suffered a heart attack at 48 from broken heart syndrome. Still nothing. As If there weren't five older siblings with (i think three) "deadbeat Dads" and no contact. The pattern continues and it's heartbreaking to see him suffer and NOTHING i can do about it.
I never met my stepdaughter🤷
smh 😔 from Austria 🇦🇹
You are one of the reasons I still have hope that all girls aren’t the same
Only 0.000001% of girls are like her so don't expect too much 😂👎
@@sandy4013 that's so not true, don't let a bunch of dyed hair internet feminist donnies formulate your pov against women
I'm one of those girls. I had to take myself out of the fake world of feminism and hear men's stories to realize the struggles that men go through. They can go through just as much as a woman and experience just as much sexism, if not worse.
We may have slightly different experiences but we still lost the same things.
For some reason as women, we're still told we're objectified and disadvantaged. We're told that men, all strong and mighty, are free to do whatever and have to never experience anything wrong. Society still makes us truly believe that we are the victims. And yes, indeed, some women are still discriminated against for their looks and etc. ect., it can go both ways for the opposite gender.
It's sad and I'm truly sorry for all the existing men. Y'all are the real gifts.
You are living in delusion
@@coral497 Even men face objectification in other ways by some worst women and sometimes men are also discriminated and they face sexism by women
The Depression thing with troops is true, There are 22 US Veteran Suicides A Day in America
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I try to avoid all of that
By ignoring any female
and not get married
Live alone and happy 🌚
Not To Be Sexist
I just don't want any pressure.
Amazing.
Seriously, the way feminists are shooing men away, it will result in a huge civil war in coming days.
@@castlevina8425 if you love her then go for it.
Maybe She's Not Like Others.
There's nice girls that actually deserve to be loved.
I mean, I couldn't agree more
@@castlevina8425 go for it but remember that if a girl wants equal rights dont be afraid to give the equal lefts
Thank you, Chloe, for all you do for us men.
Life is not easy for anyone now!
The help you provide can not be understated!
I’ve had over 23 suicide attempts in the past 4 years and every time I’ve been told to man up
Don't worry man you'll get through it, and coming from someone whos tried i opened up and i felt so much better.
@Repo man not trying to be funny but 23 where was the help?
Jesus christ someone wants you alive then or you’re gonna be something great
man up and try harder you shall succeed the 24th time.
just joking don't do it.
but if you really wanna do it go ahead I am not stopping you.
Wow I didn’t realize how much attention this got I highly thank all of you for supporting but I’m fine now that was about 3 years ago but to the person that asked someone wanted me alive it is true my dad caught me every single time so I guess I just got lucky