Pillow Talk with Bilal and Shaeeda | 90 Day Fiancé | Podcast: Should Women Shoot their Shot?

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  • Опубліковано 4 бер 2023
  • Welcome to Pillow Talk with Bilal and Shaeeda on their podcast show, where we bring you our unique perspective on all things love and relationships. As two people who have been featured on 90 Day Fiancé and 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, Bilal and Shaeeda know firsthand the challenges that come with long-distance relationships and the quest for true love.
    In this episode, Bilal and Shaeeda of 90 Day Fiancé and 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? talk about the wise ol question that many women struggle with: Should women shoot their shot? Should a woman wait for a good man or should she take the first shot? We share our own personal experiences and insights on this topic, discussing the pros and cons of both approaches. Is it okay for women to make the first move, or should they wait for the right man to come along? Tune in to hear our thoughts.
    Make sure to subscribe to Bilal and Shaeeda UA-cam Channel and hit the notification bell to never miss an episode. Bilal and Shaeeda release new episodes every week, where we share our life through vlogs and talk about our own experiences and insights on love and relationships through our podcast.
    We love to interact with our viewers, so please leave a comment below and let us know your thoughts on the topic. Should women wait for a good man, or should they take the first shot? We want to hear from you!
    Thank you for tuning in to Pillow Talk with Bilal and Shaeeda on their podcast, where we bring you our unique perspective on love and relationships.
    #BilalAndShaeeda #LoveAndRelationships #Podcast #DatingAdvice #LongDistanceRelationships #90DayFiance #HappilyEverAfter #WomenEmpowerment #RelationshipGoals #CoupleGoals #MuslimCouple #BlackCouple
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  • @ibdyw5
    @ibdyw5 Рік тому +36

    Bilal.. watching you guys videos has truly opened my eyes to your true personality. 90 Days didn’t do you justice. You’re a very good guy and so respectable. Once again, I’m glad you guys are doing this channel. You guys dynamic is heartwarming and loving. 😊

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +7

      Thank you so much. ❤ we truly love each other indeed

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 Рік тому +10

    Lmao when she said "Bilal went to Trini to get some" I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣We know you're playing but it is lovely to see a couple who can be silly together!That is the glue that keeps a marriage together.
    Great advice btw and soooo true!!

  • @phoenixr6811
    @phoenixr6811 Рік тому +14

    I love the response that she was keeping her options open not being a player'🤣😂

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +6

      At 35 yes I kept my options open indeed. No catching feelings too early just relationship “getting to know “business. It ain’t work out, I move on 😂

  • @nunul6886
    @nunul6886 Рік тому +11

    Love you guys. Glad to see your relationship thriving. ❤❤

  • @IAmEn0ugh
    @IAmEn0ugh Рік тому +4

    Love and God’s timing brought you home together 💫✨

  • @Maggio39
    @Maggio39 Рік тому +1

    Love u guys & all your stories are so inspirational

  • @adrianarafael7458
    @adrianarafael7458 Рік тому +5

    Great podcast. I really enjoyed watching you guys. God bless you both

  • @aereal5912
    @aereal5912 Рік тому +1

    I love how classy this woman is Bilal I wasn’t your biggest fan on the show but your growing on me! So cool to see y’all grow and evolve as a couple❤ keep the videos coming

  • @adlog1432
    @adlog1432 Рік тому +4

    I enjoyed watching and listening to your candid conversations.❤ Have a terrific week!

  • @wendythomas9457
    @wendythomas9457 Рік тому

    Awesome podcast guys..❤❤

  • @jacquelinemadoo2616
    @jacquelinemadoo2616 Рік тому +5

    Happy Sunday and blessings to a beautiful and loving couple. Love the vlog

  • @tiffanyboyer1197
    @tiffanyboyer1197 Рік тому

    I love watching your videos/Podcasts. You both are so funny and genuine people. I also I’ve that wall art above your bed, I would like to have something like that if you don’t mind sharing where you had it made?

  • @janice2577
    @janice2577 Рік тому +1

    Nice show guys

  • @beckyshealthandwellnessjou4600

    I love this Podcast

  • @kikis_secret
    @kikis_secret Рік тому +4

    Not Shaeeda being savage... Calling out Bilal for not stepping up and yet encouraging brothers to step up 🤣😂

  • @patriciababb4156
    @patriciababb4156 Рік тому

    I love the wisdom in this video, brings hope .!!

  • @collisalgoria3476
    @collisalgoria3476 Рік тому +7

    You make the best decision of your life because look how happy you are now 🌹

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      Yes we truly are so happy to have found each other.❤

  • @abiolahector7737
    @abiolahector7737 Рік тому +1

    This was nice pillow talk we got to know you guys a little better🥰😊

  • @mathandisseth7136
    @mathandisseth7136 Рік тому

    I love both of you iam actually glued to the screen 💕💕💕

  • @narnar8915
    @narnar8915 Рік тому

    I love the bedroom decor...Beautiful

  • @jacquelinemitchell6881
    @jacquelinemitchell6881 Рік тому +2

    Love you guys 👦 ❤️

  • @gretchelinemccollough9523
    @gretchelinemccollough9523 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful couple ❤️... keep God first 🙏🏾 and everything will continue to grow...
    When will y'all be on pillow talk.. peace ✌🏾

  • @bellalee6927
    @bellalee6927 Рік тому +3

    I really like, you two together. God bless your relationship. You can see the love & chemistry, between you both. Blessings

  • @joanhall2401
    @joanhall2401 5 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful couple. Be blessed 🙌

  • @michaelwilliams8625
    @michaelwilliams8625 Рік тому +8

    Women should definitely shoot their own shot. They hold so much power and will get through 99% of the time lol
    Much love from Trinidad.

  • @petramccagh5066
    @petramccagh5066 Рік тому

    Love love your videos

  • @abijallow2895
    @abijallow2895 Рік тому

    AlhamduliLah I love this Masha Allah 🙏🏾❤️

  • @sbeth82sc
    @sbeth82sc Рік тому

    You guys are a great power couple all the best!♡♡

  • @carmensimmonds9349
    @carmensimmonds9349 Рік тому

    Bilal, you really funny! You have your husband blushing!😅 Love you guys🌺

  • @sharonscott2782
    @sharonscott2782 Рік тому

    I really just found out ✔️ the channel 😊 I'm in for y'all 🙏👏👏👏👍

  • @haaliomar3760
    @haaliomar3760 Рік тому

    Masha’allah 😍

  • @wendymarshall6498
    @wendymarshall6498 Рік тому +4

    Blessings to my favorite couple, you two look so relaxed and Shi, beautiful even in a robe.

  • @sarahbabygirlaphane4005
    @sarahbabygirlaphane4005 Рік тому

    My favourite couple. I love your love story guys.

  • @MaritzaMendoza1018
    @MaritzaMendoza1018 Рік тому

    MashAllah yall are good together ❤️

  • @rtorres3447
    @rtorres3447 Рік тому +1

    Love ❤️ u guys

  • @rubysefa7191
    @rubysefa7191 Рік тому +7

    Bilal and his wife keeps me smiling
    I see the true love you guys have I hope you will always work on your relationship and don’t let the love between you dies
    I see true love between you. I have been married for 40 years and I wish you two the same. Good luck to you👍🏾

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Ruby -we are a work in progress and we are growing together more indeed ❤

  • @sfareed100
    @sfareed100 Рік тому +12

    Asa, yes it is okay for Muslimahs to approach the right man Let's remember Lady Khadijah!!! also, it is nice to see you two on this youtube channel. Bilal your sister and I got very close when she resided in Norfolk, Va. and your parents we know too. On our last trip to MO, we spent it with your parents some years ago.

    • @CC-rz1kp
      @CC-rz1kp Рік тому

      She wasn't looking for no broke man to build life with ... its obvious

    • @joanoaddams6604
      @joanoaddams6604 Рік тому +1

      IKRA read. MASHA Allah. Know your deen. Islamic. school.of thoughts.koran.hidith. Muslim proper behavior. AMEEN. ☪️

  • @patriciababb4156
    @patriciababb4156 Рік тому +1

    True loves comes when u don't expect it to happen

  • @antoinettewilliams2897
    @antoinettewilliams2897 Рік тому

    Beautiful couple!

  • @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726

    Talk about thank God for a UA-cam channel to showcase the true Bilal and Sha 🙏 Who both are you were portrayed on 90 day fiance is the furthest from who you both actually are. I'm so glad that you didn't allow the show to stop real love from happening. I am so happy how this turned out for you two ❣️ Much love from 🇻🇨🇺🇸

  • @keyonahloyal
    @keyonahloyal Рік тому

    Haha 😂 he watching dem yoga poses I found that very 🤣 yes I bet he was !

  • @WondersUnveiled-Tube
    @WondersUnveiled-Tube Рік тому

    Masha Allah

  • @emmily2693
    @emmily2693 Рік тому +1

    I love u guys together, what a beautiful bedroom 💖. Shaeed ur a clean woman and well organised. I love yr boldness. Am happy Bilal is changing slowly, ur putting him in a good position. He was surborn at first🤣🤣🤣.

    • @beverleychristie3093
      @beverleychristie3093 Рік тому

      As a 60 - something woman of Jamaican roots living in Canada, I am so very proud of a Trini who pursued the love of her life and is now so happy, confident and content.
      I don't have a daughter, so every girl belongs in my heart.
      Belal, I pray that God blesses you both with a beautiful baby or two.
      There is so much love to give to a very lucky child.
      Take care of each other and we will keep you in our prayers!
      Blessings 🙌 🙏

  • @goldtooth_6795
    @goldtooth_6795 Рік тому +2

    Really nice podcast. Love you both.

  • @anav3895
    @anav3895 Рік тому +1

    Shaeeda can you please show how you get the perfect cat eye liner perfect every time??

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Okay I’ll try my best to do that

    • @anav3895
      @anav3895 Рік тому

      Thank you so much! I would really appreciate it! It’s just yours is perfect every time I have never seen a more perfect winged liner.

  • @magdasanon5469
    @magdasanon5469 Рік тому +3

    I am waiting to see you go have another wedding celebration in Trinidad and show how us carribean does it anyway the universe manifest the love

  • @linnettjones7125
    @linnettjones7125 Рік тому +2

    I really love this couple.

  • @dorrismumbe1165
    @dorrismumbe1165 Рік тому +3

    ♥️♥️

  • @shanicerable
    @shanicerable Рік тому

    Trini women are a lot reserved; however, I think once you know what you want go for it. It show confidence and less time wasted 👍 you guys are amazing together….. I think it was meant to be!!

  • @MsCaramelempress
    @MsCaramelempress Рік тому +2

    #TriniHere this was a beautiful topic and I can relate to it at a 200% level. I’m in 40something category and I’m single like a dollar bill.

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for watching! If you’re looking for company it’s okay to switch it up you never know what can happen. Wishing you the very best!

    • @MsCaramelempress
      @MsCaramelempress Рік тому

      I am looking for company at this age I’m too old for games. 🤞🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 wishing the very best for myself. You guys are lucky to have found each other. God knows the struggle is real out here.

  • @JoseHernandez-ql8vw
    @JoseHernandez-ql8vw Рік тому +3

    extremely nice couple

  • @traceyassassa4759
    @traceyassassa4759 Рік тому +1

    It’s so nice to see you both so happy ❤

  • @isatatarawally584
    @isatatarawally584 Рік тому

    Beautiful couple 💑

  • @duparcg
    @duparcg Рік тому

    Nice

  • @evadnefomundam7390
    @evadnefomundam7390 Рік тому +1

    Yes she's correct, we're not anxious to leave our country .

  • @paulasamuels6255
    @paulasamuels6255 Рік тому +4

    Hi my favorite couple

  • @allisonbriscoe5124
    @allisonbriscoe5124 Рік тому +2

    Bilal you have such a great personality and sense of humor. Wishing all the blessings for twin boys with your beautiful beautiful wife!!!!!

  • @kikis_secret
    @kikis_secret Рік тому

    Oh wow! Now i wanna shoot my shot....Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @wendythomas9457
    @wendythomas9457 Рік тому

    One of my dearest friends met her soon to be husband on social media and is encouraging me to do the same..hmmm I don’t know 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @tonishalee8799
    @tonishalee8799 Рік тому +3

    I approached my husband… best decision ever.

  • @wendythomas9457
    @wendythomas9457 Рік тому

    I think it’s okay for a woman to make the first move,not to aggressive 😊

  • @tshegofatsomorake828
    @tshegofatsomorake828 Рік тому +1

    I loved you guys from the very beginning of your 90 days fiance, I remember some posts on Facebook some people were attacking me because I was telling them that your marriage is solid and yes people will misunderstand you guys. I'm glad I was right and I pray that God grants you many more years of joy, peace and much love. ❤❤❤

    • @narnar8915
      @narnar8915 Рік тому

      They should attack you in the sense of.. Shhhush. How can you judge Bilal behavior on FB and call that Solid.....

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      You were definitely right ❤

  • @nordonna417
    @nordonna417 Рік тому +2

    ◉⁠‿⁠◉ Happy Sunday Guys Blessed love to one and all

  • @normajones2700
    @normajones2700 Рік тому +1

    You are the cutest couple live you both

  • @patriciababb4156
    @patriciababb4156 Рік тому

    keep it simple and within limit

  • @judytinker3392
    @judytinker3392 Рік тому +1

    Glad your one the way to new baby.

  • @patriciababb4156
    @patriciababb4156 Рік тому

    Don't bring your BAGGAGE onto others , we are ALL different

  • @enowelizabeth7855
    @enowelizabeth7855 Рік тому +4

    I love me some Shaeeda and Bilal😍

  • @angelabrown2948
    @angelabrown2948 Рік тому

    I'm late to the game of watching you guys. My comment is Shaeeda. You say if you had made the first more, it wouldn't have happened. You wanted him to say he would have slid into your DM. Forget that, that man slid into your country, he came and got what he wanted.

  • @marss4030
    @marss4030 Рік тому +2

    Dear Shaeda I have a huge crush on this guy but I’m scared to approach him he doesn’t have insta but I have his number from a friend as we go to the same church .My spiritual mum from church said don’t go for him cause he’s going to graduate and he doesn’t want a relationship at university so I don’t know what to do :(
    This guy also stares at me across the street and smiles at me lmao
    Ps hes a different ethnicity and denomination from me (we are christians)

    • @toriepetty2631
      @toriepetty2631 Рік тому +1

      Say something their's nothing wrong with just seeing if He's interested.

    • @shandal4668
      @shandal4668 Рік тому +1

      Just say hi and everything will fall in place after

    • @marss4030
      @marss4030 Рік тому +1

      @@shandal4668 I’ll try it thanks 😊

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +2

      Sounds like he is showing signs that he is interested. Not every guy is outgoing and bold. Bilal was the type that didn’t really approach women, hence why I saw signs that he was interested but he never approached me. I’ll say go for it sis. Be respectful and mature about it and approach him . You never know where it might go from there.

  • @libertyrealestateagency7004
    @libertyrealestateagency7004 10 місяців тому

    You are such a cute couple

  • @patriciababb4156
    @patriciababb4156 Рік тому

    Break the ice , get dress and GET OUT OF THE HOUSE, most people fear rejection.!

  • @Marcella-md7ul
    @Marcella-md7ul Місяць тому

    Shi, .......Shi, Shi, Shi, Shi, Shi.
    You've been strong in holding on to your Trini way of speaking, and it's admirable. Many Trinis tend to develop an American accent, or adopt American manner of speaking, and I hear it creeping into your speech. You've started say like in your sentences frequently, as Americans tend to. Puhleezzzeee, if you're going to adopt any American traits, don't let that be one, pleeeezzz.🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @carrieclark6853
    @carrieclark6853 Рік тому +3

    Just wondering where are y'all wedding rings 💍

    • @amchildsfam1361
      @amchildsfam1361 Рік тому +4

      It's not a big thing in Islam , not a must

    • @carrieclark6853
      @carrieclark6853 Рік тому +1

      Ok thanks for letting me know 🙂

    • @amchildsfam1361
      @amchildsfam1361 Рік тому

      @@carrieclark6853 okay dear

    • @blkbtrfly
      @blkbtrfly Рік тому

      Wow I just peeped the sammmeee thing..

    • @daniellelm3
      @daniellelm3 Рік тому +1

      Do people wear their rings around the house? I only do when I leave my home

  • @duparcg
    @duparcg Рік тому

    She is fineeee

  • @powerfulwoman5619
    @powerfulwoman5619 Рік тому

    hmm est 12-26-2015

  • @MrsDove-cn2hw
    @MrsDove-cn2hw Рік тому

    Nope

  • @WondersUnveiled-Tube
    @WondersUnveiled-Tube Рік тому

    Aselamu aliekum

  • @tammylove2857
    @tammylove2857 Рік тому

    It’s ok for a woman to make the first.

  • @thesoulfulumbrella4718
    @thesoulfulumbrella4718 Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @marciaduncan9040
    @marciaduncan9040 Рік тому

    Um....pillow talk should have more of an organic look. Like bare and raw, comfy in bed. I think too much makeup doesn't make it seem like you're comfy and vulnerable. But it's not a big deal, just another perspective to consider.

  • @winniechanda1545
    @winniechanda1545 Рік тому

    Do you ever remove your veil

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +5

      I remove it when it’s time for baby making 😂-
      I don’t wear it at home sis

    • @winniechanda1545
      @winniechanda1545 Рік тому

      Oh thats fantastic! I believe you have such beautiful hair please take it easy with your yoga since you making baby. May be you can contimue after giving birth so that you dont hurt baby. Love you guys

    • @iamserenaevans
      @iamserenaevans Рік тому

      Hijab * love not veil . Hijab is worn Islamically do your research 😊

  • @cocoapuff134
    @cocoapuff134 Рік тому +1

    All that white color contrasted with Bilal's black skin. You mainly see the whites of his eyes, nails, teeth, upper ear area, inner forearm and palms of his hands. Shaheeda wears too much make up.

    • @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726
      @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726 Рік тому

      This is the best comment you can make on the people's vlog? Strupes in my deepest Caribbean accent!

    • @cocoapuff134
      @cocoapuff134 Рік тому

      @@vestriciallewellyn-richard8726 It's an observation. How interesting that you responded. Interesting indeed.

    • @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726
      @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726 Рік тому

      @@cocoapuff134 ...and I also observed and concluded that your comment was unwarranted. Freedom of speech works both ways right? Stop watching their channel if her make up upsets you. IT'S THAT EASY!!

    • @cocoapuff134
      @cocoapuff134 Рік тому

      @@vestriciallewellyn-richard8726 I'll do what suits me...

  • @evileye449
    @evileye449 Рік тому +1

    Bilal, you are an awesome guy. On 90 day we didn't like you! Seeing you both on this channel love love love ❤️ ❤️❤️