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  • Bilal and Shaeeda Pregnancy Journey and Miscarriage | 90 Day Fiancé Are you a fan of 90 Day Fiancé and 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? If so, you won't want to miss Bilal and Shaeeda's emotional journey. Bilal and Shaeeda pregnancy journey and miscarriage | 90 Day Fiancé Vlog the couple shares their fertility journey as they try to get pregnant, and their excitement when they finally receive the news that they are expecting.
    Unfortunately, their joy is short-lived as they later reveal the devastating news that they suffered a miscarriage. Bilal and Shaeeda story is a raw and honest portrayal of the highs and lows of trying to build on their blended family.
    Throughout their journey, Bilal and Shaeeda showcase their unwavering love and support for one another, and their determination to overcome any obstacle in their path. Their story is one of resilience, hope, and the power of love.
    On this pregnancy journey and miscarriage you'll find all the information you need to follow Bilal and Shaeeda's story. Watch as they share their vlog and take you on an emotional journey that you won't soon forget.
    Whether you're struggling with fertility issues yourself or just want to gain a deeper understanding of what others go through, Bilal and Shaeeda's story is one that will touch your heart. Don't miss out on this powerful vlog - hit play now and join them on their journey. Come watch: Bilal and Shaeeda Pregnancy Journey and Miscarriage | 90 Day Fiancé | Bilal and Shaeeda | Vlog
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  • @cedvick
    @cedvick Рік тому +161

    Best Vlog ever. So emotional this deserves AN AWARD!!!! 🏆 SO RAW

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +5

      Thank you 🥺- 🫶🏽

    • @diamondp419
      @diamondp419 Рік тому

      @@bilalandshaeeda have you tried v steaming I know older women who did that and got pregnant .. goddessdetox definitely

    • @blanchecharles9406
      @blanchecharles9406 Рік тому +10

      ​@@bilalandshaeeda if and when you get pregnant again, please don't announce anything too soon. They always say, wait until you're three months and over, and no jumping, take it easy. Some people had six and then they get their children. Getting a miscarriage is not easy my daughter had some and now she has two sons. Praise God. But. It's very emotional for you ladies. You all don't get over it that easy, that is expected, but thank God you have a supporting husband. When you were jumping on the bed , if you could've hear me saying, stop jumping. You have to take it easy, and don't announce tooo early.

    • @paddiebugatti760
      @paddiebugatti760 Рік тому +2

      ​@Bilal and Shaeeda u guys will have a child and u will be Pregnant again!😅

    • @krystaliejohn3286
      @krystaliejohn3286 Рік тому

      😆 🤣 😂

  • @ellenberhane7884
    @ellenberhane7884 Рік тому +78

    I just love BIlal's mother. She did exactly what I did when my son and daughter-in-law. I screamed so loud that my neighbor came to my door. My daughter-in-law was almost 38 and my son was almost 42. It took them just over 4 years to conceive. Be encouraged you guys!!!

  • @LacyMcPherson-ic3im
    @LacyMcPherson-ic3im Рік тому +13

    My first pregnancy I had a miscarriage and now I'm a mom of 4 beautiful and healthy kids. It will happen just pray on it❤

  • @teneishanicole440
    @teneishanicole440 Рік тому +55

    Praying for you both. My husband and I had a miscarriage on Mother’s Day last year it was the hardest thing ever. I’m currently 9 months pregnant, God is good! I pray that 2023 brings you both your rainbow baby❤️

  • @sherrihood4818
    @sherrihood4818 Рік тому +82

    I went through it at age 36 so I totally understand. I was able to go on and have a baby girl so there is hope. It will happen for you all; you have many people including me sending up prayers and positive vibes.

  • @karlayjuan3927
    @karlayjuan3927 Рік тому +10

    On October 1st 2021, I was 12 weeks pregnant when I went through a miscarriage. At the time, I was 38 years old. It was traumatizing and devastating for me but God is good and exactly 1 year later I had my rainbow baby on October 1st 2022 I was 39 years old at the time🙏🏻 Now I’m a 40 year old mother of a beautiful 5 month old baby boy👶🏻 I love to watch you guys because you’re a beautiful couple🥰 Sending you lots of love and prayers🤲🏾

  • @melissadimartino9179
    @melissadimartino9179 Рік тому +16

    I miscarried my daughter in 2004. I was beyond traumatized and broken-hearted that I had a pregnancy loss. I named my daughter Hisa Hana-long lasting flower. I struggled with fertility for 27 cycles, a little over four years. Seven months after our loss I found out I was pregnant with my son. His name is Tien Yoyo-Heaven with a lot of friends. My son is 17 years now. I wasn’t able to have another child. I feel so lucky to have my son. I ended up having endometrial cancer and it went into my Fallopian Tubes. God is faithful.

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +2

      So sorry to hear what you’ve been through thank you so much for sharing. Means a lot 🥹- sending prayers to you sis 🤲🏽💕💕

  • @ms.bailey5360
    @ms.bailey5360 Рік тому +90

    It will come, it will happen, you will have your baby, and we will celebrate with you! 🎉❤😊

  • @Banana12813
    @Banana12813 Рік тому +25

    Oh Shae your video brought back so many sad memories 😢 I first got pregnant at 34 it was my first time and I was so beyond the moon.the moment you learned you're pregnant you start imagining the hugs the kisses the memories you will have with your baby. I started experiencing bleeding at 6 weeks and during my ultrasound at 10 weeks I found out my baby's heart stopped beating. I was devastated I hated the world,hated god and hated my body because i felt it failed me.i cried a river and begged my baby to come back to me. 1 year same day after i had my dnc i found out i was pregnant. I brought myself a home doppler and I used it everyday to hear my baby's heartbeat. I gave birth at 41 weeks to the love of my life. I was so stressed during my entire pregnancy in fear of losing him again but he knew mama was enough stressed and this baby gave me the easiest pregnancy ever. My boy is now 16 month and I tell myself everyday that miracle do happen. You will have your baby in your arm I promise you that. You are worthy,loved and your an amazing woman. Don't give up! Sending you much love and happy ramadan

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Maya for sharing ❤

    • @Ummkelechi
      @Ummkelechi Рік тому +2

      That was a beautiful story you shared ❤

    • @jubeidamohideen5927
      @jubeidamohideen5927 11 місяців тому

      In'Sha'Allah Allah grant uz the baby u so much want. ❤

  • @wendycharles6350
    @wendycharles6350 Рік тому +7

    Sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your journey. I am also from Trinidad and Tobago living in Texas, my first was also a miss carriage never felt so empty in my life but God had now blessed me with four. And God too shall bless you ❤

  • @powerfulwoman5619
    @powerfulwoman5619 Рік тому +8

    My heart goes out to you guys I know that you will be with a child soon, this brings me back to myself I had just turned 40 when I found out I was pregnant this was to be my third child, I had two girls so the excited for this pregnancy was so much joy, the pregnancy was so different I was extremely tired and didn't experience morning sickness. I was on my eight weeks when I suffered a miscarriage and that was one of the most painful experiences of my life. I woke that day and was not feeling well, I ate some rice and okra and after eating I didn't feel pregnant anymore it was strange, but I felt like my stomach was flat and just weird, when to bed and got the feeling of using the bathroom when I went to the bathroom, I saw dark blood and I knew then I have lost the baby. I woke my husband up and was crying. Call the doctor first thing in the morning I went in, and they did an ultrasound and couldn't find no baby and said you have lost the baby. I was so devastated, when home and for the next four days I bleed cloth of blood. It been 5 years and I have never completely healed, so my heart bleeds for you guys. I do pray for you to have a child soon; I know that God will give you both a child. It is well may God bless you two.

  • @jmckellor
    @jmckellor Рік тому +24

    I’m so glad you guys decided to do UA-cam videos. I get to see and understand you guys better than what is portrayed on the show. God bless you guys, and bless your future children.

  • @midwifek
    @midwifek Рік тому +61

    As a midwife, I appreciate you sharing your experience on your platform. I know it's not easy to share these kind of things even when you're already in the spotlight. Sending prayers your way 🙏

    • @trudypickett4593
      @trudypickett4593 Рік тому +3

      Keep the faith you two! God knows your journey and he hears you prayers. I had two miscarriages and two live born! Praise be to God! I will continue to pray for you!

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +8

      Thank you so much for this! Trust me it was hard to share this 🫶🏽

  • @KeshaDoesLife
    @KeshaDoesLife Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much for putting this out there. You don’t know how many women you are helping. I suffered a miscarriage 27 years ago before I had my twins. Year year for 27 years I remember my baby on Nov. 2nd. Just because you baby is not in your arms doesn’t mean you can’t or should stop loving them. My love and prayers go out to both of you. Stay strong and control trust God. 💗🙏🏾

  • @Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.
    @Bueller.Bueller.Bueller. Рік тому +12

    Seriously love seeing you two on the same page with love and support of each other!

  • @SLPMusumeci
    @SLPMusumeci Рік тому

    HI! My name is Melissa and I have watched you both from the start on 90 day fiance. Miscarriages are devastating. That is the hard raw truth. I have had several and an ectopic pregnancy as well. I finally got my miracle baby boy at the age 39 through IVF!!!! Keep thinking positive because It WILL happen and your baby will be your little angel! Keep shining and staying positive… and thank you for sharing your journey. What you are going through so so many women experience this grief...so thank you for speaking up and supporting families struggling with fertility. God bless you both.

  • @sharilawrence4383
    @sharilawrence4383 Рік тому +56

    My prayers are with you and your family ❤ I’m 37 and last year I had a stillborn at 39 weeks . Losing a child is never easy, god will bless you again ❤

    • @sanders4911
      @sanders4911 Рік тому +3

      🙏🏽❤️

    • @alee550
      @alee550 Рік тому +8

      Wow that is gut wrenching. I am So sorry! I hope the rest of your life is filled with health and happiness and all your dreams come true. Keep your hope alive.

    • @sharilawrence4383
      @sharilawrence4383 Рік тому +1

      @@alee550 thanks you

    • @mirandarauza-gb4ys
      @mirandarauza-gb4ys Рік тому +3

      I am so sorry guys 😢

    • @marciasamuels5805
      @marciasamuels5805 Рік тому +3

      So sorry, I can remember in the hospital holding my bundle of joy and hearing another woman crying so hard I couldn't understand why cause we were not on delivery ward,I lady found out she lost her baby, I felt so bad for her.

  • @Buzzinchrissy
    @Buzzinchrissy Рік тому +7

    Sending love and blessings from 🇯🇲. This was a very emotional experience for me too watching and thank you for showing such vulnerability. Your such a role model couple and I personally look up to both of you. Stay blessed and all the best on your new babies.

  • @mnheadad3598
    @mnheadad3598 Рік тому +34

    May God shine abundant light and ease upon you both as you navigate through this! Thank you both for sharing your fertility journey in a raw & genuine way. You are inspiring and a vessel of growth! And Bilal, showing your side helps those of us on this journey to understand the thoughts & feelings our husbands may be going through but not saying. Much gratitude & blessings! 💛

  • @clearcutdecision8484
    @clearcutdecision8484 Рік тому +292

    I'm not going to say sorry for your loss guys. Rather I'm going to send out a positive manifestation a beautiful healthy bundle of joy is on the way. Bilal is no slouch he's gonna get the job done. Hold on Sheeda, baby Sheeda/Bilal is on the way👶

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +23

      Thank you so much hun - ameen to that 🤲🏽❤

    • @rubysefa7191
      @rubysefa7191 Рік тому +11

      Bilal and Shaeeda I can’t believe what I just watched I have been praying for you guys to see a little mini you but I couldn’t stop the tears from my eyes learning that you had a miscarriage
      I am glad you believe there’s a God who is still doing miraculous things I tell you this the womb is open for more children
      Stop shedding tears no matter how sad it is and get yourself ready for the next journey. Please stop the yoga when you get pregnant please!! May God be with you 👶🏼👶🏼 twins on the way

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +5

      @@rubysefa7191 thank you so much! I’ll definitely pause the yoga when I’m pregnant indeed.

    • @leeannamorren3847
      @leeannamorren3847 Рік тому +2

      I love this comment ❤️

    • @DontSayItToMe
      @DontSayItToMe Рік тому +4

      Yoga is healthy while pregnant.

  • @scorpioqueen2898
    @scorpioqueen2898 Рік тому +3

    God is good I had 3 miscarriages and I had my bundle of joy 2022 god will do it for you 🙏🏾

  • @butterflynthesky7
    @butterflynthesky7 Рік тому +4

    🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️ with God’s grace you two will get through this🙏🏾 I was pregnant at 40, had my little one at 41🙏🏾 I’m praying for you two!🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾 can’t wait to continue to follow you on your journey…praying for the very best!🙏🏾♥️🫶🏾

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much - awww you give me hope ❤️🥲

  • @utxgrl
    @utxgrl Рік тому +12

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I love you guys!! ❤ I had a miscarriage November 3rd 2021, 2 days after my birthday at 7 weeks. I will never forget that day 😭 I had just turned 38. It was one of the most traumatizing things I’ve ever been through and didn’t realize as well how common this is until I started sharing my story and many women were like ‘me too’. I got pregnant again 4 months later and gave birth to our rainbow baby girl on 11/17/22 💗 Her name is Ariyenna which means ‘Angel/messenger of God’. I am praying for you guys and that God will bless you with your rainbow baby or babies really soon! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

  • @lisaslade997
    @lisaslade997 Рік тому +2

    Thank y’all for sharing. Very emotional 😢. Sending prayers💙💙💙

  • @nelisiwepenelopengubo7713
    @nelisiwepenelopengubo7713 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing with us, we really appreciate!🙏
    Am one of those women who had miscarriage worse part it happened while I was at work, but God is good I have two kids now!🙇
    God is still going to bless yall with kid's!♥️🇿🇦

  • @christinestoutenburg9351
    @christinestoutenburg9351 Рік тому +4

    I’m sorry of your loss. I suffered 2 miscarriages back to back a few years ago. It is a difficult journey but I am finally healing all these years later. ❤ it does get better but the babies are never forgotten. I am now a postpartum therapist and help women daily. Self care is awesome!! ❤❤

  • @kimberlywalker1605
    @kimberlywalker1605 Рік тому +9

    I cried so much, thank you for being so brave and so strong, as a 90day fiancé from our beautiful home of Trinidad & Tobago as well I love watching your growth, humility and grace. Peace & Love to you both❤

  • @alishamaryleerichardson-go2106

    Thank you for sharing this heartfelt journey. My husband and I after trying for 7 years, got pregnant and delivered a healthy baby boy over 7 lbs..and I was at age 34 at the time. Our son is nearly 30 years old now and we feel blessed to have had the experience of being his parents. Although I did not have any miscarriages I understand your pain and heart ache and I am sorry you had to go through this. Prior to becoming pregnant back in the day I had had cancer twice and was told by doctors I would probably never get pregnant so, we feel our son was an extra special miracle. We never gave up and I know you both won't either. Blessings to you both. I look forward to more videos.

  • @ayobehbeh689
    @ayobehbeh689 Рік тому +2

    My prayers and love to you both. I also miscarried right before Christmas at almost 7wks it was also my very first pregnancy. The waves of emotions come in and out and 100% there are so many women who suffer in silence. ❤❤❤ you are not alone I’m praying for you and all the women who are going through this journey. I am not losing faith or hope and leaving it all in the hands of God.
    All the joy and happiness was so incredibly amazing and then just like that unexpected and suddenly It was the hardest saddest 3 days of my life going through this and even now almost 4 months later it still hits me in waves when I think what would things be like right now😔💔 stay strong and all though it won’t feel any easier we will be blessed to hold a happy healthy baby one day soon!! Thank you for being so open and sharing.

  • @jossym8669
    @jossym8669 Рік тому +15

    I am sorry to hear this!😢 I had 6 miscarriages after my first son and it's the worst pain you can endure physically and emotionally! I am so glad Bilal is by your side and you two are going through this together. This happens more than you think, but it should not shake your faith. Keep strong, keep the hope and our God who stated the good work in you by being able to conceive, He will finish it by giving you the desires of your heart IJMN🙏🙏

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      6 miscarriages thank you so much for this Jossy. Yes I’m thankful to my husband for being supportive indeed ❤ he is the best

    • @jossym8669
      @jossym8669 Рік тому

      @@bilalandshaeedaYou're welcome! Its good that you acknowledge his support because he is one of the good ones👏We are behind you and praying with you because you're a good person and deserve good things in life. Don't lose hope and you are still young. My sister had one of her kids at age 45. My niece just had her child at 40..so you can too. You two are going to have a cute baby🙏Sending love from Canada💝

  • @motunrayosotuminu9716
    @motunrayosotuminu9716 Рік тому +12

    I’m so sorry you guys had to go through this! And thank you for sharing this journey with this with us and please always remember that God has His time and through it all, He will give you the strength and fortitude needed for this journey. I truly believe that you guys will hold that bundle of joy soon!!! Keep your heads up guys! We love you and you will always have someone praying for you in me!!!

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for this! God is always in control. We’re sending love back your way ❤

  • @sarahcoreless1269
    @sarahcoreless1269 Рік тому +2

    I got pregnant with my daughter at 38, no issues at all. I’ve also had a miscarriage~ my first pregnancy. I think sometimes the first pregnancy is just the body figuring out what to do. Keep the faith! You’ll get there x

  • @irishamericanpinupdoll
    @irishamericanpinupdoll Рік тому +3

    Sending you love and positivity and rainbow baby energy!! I am a momma of 6 aged 22 down to 1) and also suffered several miscarriages. I know the depths of that pain, and I’m sorry that we share those feelings. All good things and blessings from me to you both.❤

  • @ellenberhane7884
    @ellenberhane7884 Рік тому +5

    Like so many others have said, I really love you guys. Thanks you for allowing yourselves to be so vulnerable. I used to think Bilal was a total jerk but you have proven yourself to be a great husband and friend /partner to your lovely wife. God has truly blessed you with each other.

  • @projectbarbi871
    @projectbarbi871 Рік тому +6

    Y’all are on of my faves….I love Bilal and his families sense of humour…Thx for sharing sure many ppl could use these vibes …Inchalllah.

  • @lisastess3447
    @lisastess3447 Рік тому +21

    I am so very sorry for your loss! I had a miscarriage when I was in my late 20's and just turned 56 on February 15th. To this day I still cry about losing my daughter, when I was 3 months pregnant. You are my favorite 90 Day Fiance couple. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love you both!! 💜💜💜

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much for sharing Lisa - you put a smile on my face ❤

    • @lisastess3447
      @lisastess3447 Рік тому +1

      @@bilalandshaeeda You're welcome! 😊💜💜

  • @nunul6886
    @nunul6886 Рік тому +13

    You two have many more blessings to come. Bilal is so present and supportive. It’s so beautiful to see. I can’t wait to see Shaeeda be a mom. Just keep loving on one another. Sending hugs! Take Care❤

  • @gdaygday1209
    @gdaygday1209 Рік тому +13

    I am sincerely sorry you have all experienced this loss, but know and have faith you will be celebrating the birth of a healthy baby (want to say boy) in the near future. I honestly LOVED how Bilal supported you. ❤

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much for your comment! Yes Bilal and I surely gotten waaaaay closer through this experience! Love him so much

  • @annaacosta-washington8356
    @annaacosta-washington8356 Рік тому +71

    I haven’t cried so much in a while and I have a new found love and respect for my favorite couple. May Allah bless you both again with another blessing sooner than later. I love you both immensely!

  • @junesmithen9229
    @junesmithen9229 Рік тому +23

    This truly brought tears to my eyes. It never happen to me but my niece had two miscarriages and now have a beautiful 3 year old. Your bundle of joy is coming . Weeping may endure for the night but joy comes in the morning. I love you guys one of my favorite couples❤

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      Oh thank you for sharing- awww so happy for your niece now 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🥲

    • @luvangelmyers2731
      @luvangelmyers2731 Рік тому

      🙏🏽🖤👏🏾🙌🏽AMEN!!

  • @patriciazamor386
    @patriciazamor386 Рік тому +21

    😢 I am sorry for your loss. And, thank you for being transparent about your fertility journey and miscarriage. I can relate to your experience. Your video brought tears to my eyes. Remembering my own challenges. You are definitely not alone. I pray for blessings as you move forward. Be kind to yourselves.🙏🏾

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Awww thank you so much for watching means a lot ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @brandysamuel4153
      @brandysamuel4153 Рік тому

      Hey Bilal and shaeeda . Am Brandy from Trinidad and am 38years. I have a baby boy he is 3 months old Now. I have bin true so much tell the end.
      I almost lost him find out am 7 weeks pregnant at the time. When I was 11 weeks. I started to bleed. Vomiting over and over. Went to the hospital they say that am having a early miscarriage. I cry. I feel so sad. I cry out to God. Allah.i didn't give up. 1 lady told me bbz you have to bed rest, don't do Anything and just enjoy your pregnancy. She say when your at that age after 30 years you will have problems to make baby.
      The old people always say make them early so they can grow up with you.
      I
      pray and put my Faith First with God, I did what that woman told me and now I have my son he is greatly appreciated and Bless.
      So keep the faith and rest. I love you Hun, trinny to de bone. Lol. Keep that smile.

    • @patriciazamor386
      @patriciazamor386 Рік тому

      Mass resident. T&T birthplace.

  • @trayturner5146
    @trayturner5146 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this moment with us. May you both continue to be blessed with abundance of love, peace, happiness and good fortune!!!
    By the way, Leo’s and Sagittarius go together so well. They love and protect each other very much ❤

  • @lorenasull5735
    @lorenasull5735 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for your openness, and unselfishness in thinking of others, as you both navigate your own grief. Good health, positive vibrations, and I am looking forward to Celebrating the humans that you both WILL create, deliver, and bring to life, and living, all to happen on the other side of this all.🙏

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for this beautiful and heartfelt message. We found out that as we are going through this difficult time, we are not alone and we want to let us know too that they are not alone.❤

  • @ladygurr1
    @ladygurr1 Рік тому +1

    You both are such an inspiration to me. I lost my youngest daughter on her 26th birthday on July 16 2020 and seeing your faith in god has reminded me to turn to him now instead of turning away. Thank you and bless you and give you strength ❤❤❤

    • @ladygurr1
      @ladygurr1 Рік тому

      @@marciestoddard730 🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @sonjikemp8239
    @sonjikemp8239 Рік тому +3

    I took my miscarriages as God’s affirmation that I could pregnant but the timing was not right. 3 miscarriages and 16 years later I have two handsome and strong teenage boys. It will happen…continue to grow your love. ❤

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      You are blessed now with two handsome strong teenage boys after 3 miscarriages and 16 years later. Thats patience & a blessing indeed. Thank you for sharing Sonji. Gods timing is always right

  • @sevenp.8640
    @sevenp.8640 Рік тому +3

    Liked before watching. So excited to watch

  • @pinarodriguez2255
    @pinarodriguez2255 Рік тому +1

    I’m sorry for your loss. I too have had a miscarriage around 8 weeks of pregnancy back in 2010. I had a tubal pregnancy. I feel like god puts us through things in life to help others. And this miscarriage maybe it. It does help to take to people who have went what you’ll are going through. I’m in Kansas City also.

  • @robyn220
    @robyn220 Рік тому +2

    You guys are such a sweet couple! And I am so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine what pain you are in, when it’s your first baby together. I suffered a miscarriage myself a couple months into my pregnancy but it was a accidental pregnancy and I had 2 children at the time who were 6 and 12 so although it was awful it was a bit lessened by the fact I had my daughter and son already. And I had no fertility struggles with them. I am sending out my most high positive vibes and prayers for y’all during this time!!! And the best news here is that you were able to conceive and rather quickly so it means things are in good working order in that department. And sometimes it’s as simple as needed to take some medication and do a daily treatment of some kind. My brothers wife kept having miscarriages but as soon as she saw a doctor and he gave her a medication my brother had to administer daily and they had 2 healthy babies as soon as they started. Also, it is so wonderful to see this side of Bilal and how involved and loving he is being. When he got excited about the little suit I had tears knowing what was coming. 😢 love y’all. Never seen a more beautiful woman than shy either!!! 🧿💙🦋

    • @margotglasgow6513
      @margotglasgow6513 Рік тому

      Good is still blessing you as Bilal said. Keep the faith,your reward will come. God always answer prayers

  • @brittanimarie3186
    @brittanimarie3186 Рік тому +28

    i LOVE YOU GUYS. THANK YOU FOR SHARING. GOD WILL BLESS YOU GUYS WITH A BEAUTIFUL HEALTHY BABY

  • @missrocha93
    @missrocha93 Рік тому +7

    Had three miscarriages & just started my fertility process. According to the doctor, miscarriages are super common & could simply be tough luck, which really gave me a piece of mind. Sending y'all so much love & healing during this journey ❤ You're definitely not alone! Love you guys 🥰 Thank you for sharing this!

    • @jibrealyaaseen
      @jibrealyaaseen Рік тому +2

      Very common

    • @dy4630
      @dy4630 Рік тому +2

      Yes. Extremely common. Alot of people don’t understand how common they are. The rate is about 45-50%.
      It is usually suggested to wait until at least 12 weeks until sharing the news.

    • @tsionmulugate891
      @tsionmulugate891 Рік тому +1

      My dear Shaeeda, Its my prayer God gives you miraculously

    • @Mommyslittlegarden
      @Mommyslittlegarden 11 місяців тому

      No problem at 😊❤

  • @LaReinax3
    @LaReinax3 Рік тому

    I commented on your IG post when you posted your pic at the hospital.. I’m 26 and I had a twin miscarriage march 2021 I found out I was pregnant march 15 & two weeks later I was having a D&C April 1st 2021 .. it was so hard and I felt soo alone and it was even harder to go out in public I wanted to hide in my home in bed forever .. everywhere I went I seen twins and it felt like I was being punished why I don’t know .. but then 9months later I found out I was pregnant with my now 6month old daughter born 9/2/22 who is absolutely everything I could of ever wanted and hoped for I’m so in love ! You deserve to feel the way I feel about my daughter and you will 🙌💕 everything happens for a reason

  • @ABE-ke8eb
    @ABE-ke8eb Рік тому

    Thank you for this video and being so open and vulnerable to help others. I’ve experienced a miscarriage before, and like you’ve said.. I wouldn’t wish this upon anyone. It’s hard when you are going through a threatened miscarriage and you see other women with huge bumps in the same ultrasound waiting room. You can’t help but think what did I do wrong? Or what is wrong with me? What helps during this time is hearing other women’s experiences with miscarriages, but then having their rainbow baby sometime after. Makes me realize that there is always hope and that God’s timing doesn’t always match our timing, but he knows what is best for us. His timing is always perfect ❤ praying for you and Bilal and your future rainbow baby. It will happen for you all in his perfect timing 🙏🏼

  • @alberta4305
    @alberta4305 Рік тому +5

    Sorry guys, it’s one of the hardest things to go through in life, I’ve been there and I know it’s hard but you guys will get through this . I got pregnant with my son two months after my miscarriage and he is now a college student. All the love and blessings your way

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Sorry to hear but thank you for sharing Alberta 💕

  • @lisaslade997
    @lisaslade997 Рік тому +10

    You’re such a wonderful couple, May you guys continue to be blessed 💙💙💙

  • @quilantinglin9222
    @quilantinglin9222 Рік тому

    Thank you Bilal and Shi for sharing your journey with us. I to can relate because this hit home for me. I’ve had two miscarriages and two failed IVFs procedures. Praying for you guys😘🙏🏾

  • @ayeshaimani
    @ayeshaimani Рік тому

    Wow. That was so raw and beautiful. Thank you for being transparent. That will help a lot of people going through this. God is gonna do just what he says he will do. Anything you ask in his name, believe that you have receive it. I’m standing in agreement with you both. Can’t wait to celebrate with you.
    Please take care of yourself, get that body healed and get to work.
    @Bilal, it was such a beautiful sight to see how supportive of your wife you are.
    Kudos brother.
    You will will have your bundle of joy. Hod is faithful

  • @louieandrea4494
    @louieandrea4494 Рік тому +15

    So sorry for your loss I’ve been watching you both since the show. Prayed for you both on your journey ❤. I’ve lost 3 babies and yes it hurts so bad and I know how you feel 😢it’s sadness that’ll always be there but we all pray for that rainbow baby. Love you all

  • @brendayork3624
    @brendayork3624 Рік тому +4

    Don't give up!!! Don't try so hard and it will happen!!! I'm cheering for twins!!!! Good Luck!!!!

  • @1952Elly
    @1952Elly Рік тому +1

    I also had a miscarriage over 45 years ago. But I have been blessed with 2 daughters after that. God gained another little angel that day but at the right time he also blessed me with two other daughters. God will bless you soon.

  • @lindaramos2502
    @lindaramos2502 Рік тому

    You all will be in my prayers!! 🙏🙏 It will happen for you guys!!! I too have experienced a miscarriage and it is a lonely and feeling and the toughest thing I have ever been through!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!!!

  • @InfintelygratefulCC
    @InfintelygratefulCC Рік тому +4

    I have absolutely no experience of miscarriage but I have experienced a lot of loss before turning 30 this video made me realise the depth of loss miscarriage can bring 😔🙏🏼. I’m truly saddened you both went through this, Shaeeda you’re so brave and strong and Bilal you’ve really shown your loving dedication to your wife time and time again. I know that God will answer your prayers and give you a healthy and full term child before long! His glory is never far behind every tragedy, God bless you both x

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for your supportive comment ❤

  • @lifeofkatie5988
    @lifeofkatie5988 Рік тому +9

    Awww, she’s so excited and Bilal is a sweetheart. ❤

  • @carmensimmonds9349
    @carmensimmonds9349 Рік тому +2

    Sending only positive vibes! Don’t give up hope cause it will happen. Sending love & prayers.🌺

  • @MARIESDELISHDISH
    @MARIESDELISHDISH Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey ❤️we love and appreciate you 🙏🏽

  • @princessinfinty
    @princessinfinty Рік тому +10

    You know I've got your back in prayer Shaeeda and Bilal. God will bless you guys again and thank you Bilal for being such a good support for Shaeeda. Much love to both of you from Trinidad 🇹🇹

  • @pamelaingle4136
    @pamelaingle4136 Рік тому +4

    Blessings on you both. Don’t be discouraged in your grief. Things have a way of working out.

  • @samna789
    @samna789 11 місяців тому +1

    This takes me back 15 years when i was going through the whole conceiving process. Every test was negative and i stopped checking and then when i least expected , alhamdulilah i was blessed with my son and he is now 12. I am going to Umrah next month and inshallah i will pray for you both.🤲🏼

  • @gabstv8877
    @gabstv8877 Рік тому +1

    I got pregnant around April 2021 and unfortunately I had a miscarriage worst thing ever!! Then in August 2021 I got pregnant again but again in October 21. I had another miscarriage!! I just gave up then in January 2022 I got a strange period very short n a voice inside m was pushing me to take a pregnancy test n on my surprise I WAS PREGNANT!! 39 WEEKS LATER .... 22 SEPTEMBER 2022 HERE COMES MY BUNDLE OF JOY MY LITTLE BABY GIRL!!
    GOD IS NOT SLEEPING He will bless you with a beautiful baby on His own time! Just keep the faith!!

  • @deboriabanks4237
    @deboriabanks4237 Рік тому +2

    Love you guys ! Wishing you the best !❤️ From day one you guys were my favorite , better days are coming !

  • @adlog1432
    @adlog1432 Рік тому +3

    Sending lots of love from Florida to my favorite couple 💑. I am sorry to hear about loss Sha and Bilal. I was watching the video and felt extremely happy but all my happiness turned into sadness. So sorry guys!

  • @Kayec4
    @Kayec4 Рік тому +1

    My favorite part is when Bilal was shopping and bought the bowtie outfit. I laughed at the outfit and thought the bowtie was so cute but then Shi "don't dress the baby like a grandpa" I fell out! I had the best laugh! I loved that entire moment so cute, thoughtful, fun, and funny! Great moment! Thanks for sharing I was crying with you too... continue on

  • @augustp1537
    @augustp1537 Рік тому

    This was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing!

  • @KJ-sz9vc
    @KJ-sz9vc Рік тому +9

    I had a miscarriage at 29. I am now a proud Mom of a 20 year old. I will pray you have this same experience. Quick word of advice...when you experience your next pregnancy, go and see a specialist that only works with high risk pregnancies. I found that was the difference between me having a full term pregnancy and not. The partnership between the specialist and my regular OB/GYN was amazing and got me through to a healthy baby.

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +2

      That is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story it definitely gives us hope ❤

  • @mauveletteburchell606
    @mauveletteburchell606 Рік тому +5

    I love how loving and sweet Bilal is to Shaeeda. So happy for you both. I hope God will bless your womb Shaeeda to bring forth a child soon.😥 I can just imagine how you feel. Your not alone in this and I am praying for you. The Lord's knows everything best. It will happen in God's time.

  • @wendythomas9457
    @wendythomas9457 Рік тому +2

    Hi Bilal and Shaeeda. Please continue to stay strong and thanks for sharing this with us,it’s gonna happen 🙌🏽❤️❤️

  • @donellarfergus5039
    @donellarfergus5039 Рік тому +1

    Thank u for sharing🙏🏾better blessings coming your way love from the Caribbean

  • @DawsonsLane
    @DawsonsLane Рік тому +3

    Miscarriage is very common. I had 3, but I also have two kids. Many blessings.. on my journey I often talked to my UA-cam friend Belinda Selene. You should watch her journey. Very encouraging.

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      Thank you and 3 miscarriages. Awwww and you were blessed with two kids so inspiring! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @tracybell7904
    @tracybell7904 Рік тому +3

    Absolutely heartbreaking 😢…So sorry to hear this!! I believe y’all will be blessed with a bundle of joy!! Prayers for some peace & comfort during such a difficult time!! 🙏🫶🏼

  • @samanthadeal806
    @samanthadeal806 Рік тому +1

    1st off I wanna say, I'm so sorry for what yall are going through. I've been there before, I know 1st hand how u feel. I will say this, when the time is right, God will bless u again with another one and u will be a great parent. Just keep ur faith strong, and keep praying 2 the most high. You will get your baby. I'm praying for yall. Keep your head up girl. Sending hugs and lots and lots of baby dust your way! U will get your rainbow baby..
    Your time is coming mommy! ❤

  • @victoriafaari-ogunde4671
    @victoriafaari-ogunde4671 Рік тому +2

    I'm with you Shi. I've gone through this severally in my fertility journey but today I thank God for blessing me with 2 kids today. Stay focused and trust in God. It will definitely happen for you in Jesus's mighty name 🙏

  • @yvonnetembani983
    @yvonnetembani983 Рік тому +3

    The sweetest couple I've ever come across.God will work it out for You Bilal n Shaeeda.He has a plan for you.Praying for you.Stay blessed.

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Yvonne - your comment means a lot for us both 💕

  • @i-am-frenchie2480
    @i-am-frenchie2480 Рік тому +6

    You will make a great mother and your hubby will be the best dad. I pray for you two to have many beautiful kids ❤❤

  • @lisetteblanco3910
    @lisetteblanco3910 Рік тому +1

    Love this content very real❤️ going through my fertility journey as well I am 37 yrs old. It can be an emotional journey. Glad your opening to share. You are soo beautiful and blessed I see you guys with child soon ❤️🎉

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Awww we are on the same page. I am rooting for you Lisette. May God bless your womb soon❤

  • @zzizahacallar
    @zzizahacallar Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing and I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @sheilam7587
    @sheilam7587 Рік тому +13

    It's not easy to share this type of information, prayers for you both on this journey.

  • @paulasamuels6255
    @paulasamuels6255 Рік тому +3

    Hi my favorite couple love you guys always ❤ don't blog your pregnancy journey be safe through your pregnancy and after you have your Baby you can blog just be safe God bless you guys 🥰🙏

  • @janetfernandez7227
    @janetfernandez7227 Рік тому

    This is very touching, sorry for your lost. The Lord will bless you both with your little bundle of joy . Thanks for sharing. Love fr Toronto.

  • @cynthiasanchez1309
    @cynthiasanchez1309 Рік тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss but I know god will bless you both with a baby soon and many more 🙏🏼 I love that you opened up to us and shared your story. I had some health problems when I was pregnant with my third child and had a lot of bleeding up until the beginning of my 2nd trimester and then I went into early labor at 8 months and they were able to stop contractions and put me on bed rest and made it to 38 weeks. She is now 17 years old and I always tell her she is my miracle baby 🙏🏼God is great and has many plans for us! You are a great power couple and love the energy and love you both have! I wish you both all the love, happiness and many babies to come! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @mrs_nikki_brent8221
    @mrs_nikki_brent8221 Рік тому +4

    I'm so sorry for y'all loss. May the peace of God provide y'all comfort during this time. I pray the Lord will expand your family in His perfect timing. God bless y'all! ❤

  • @Nina-95
    @Nina-95 Рік тому +17

    Sorry for you guys went through, sending you positive vibes and hopefully we’ll see a mini Shae and Bilal soon inshallah 🤲🏻🥹💖

  • @dorisboynton3930
    @dorisboynton3930 Рік тому +2

    Hi Shaeda, I've had a miscarriage before and 2 months later I became pregnant and had a healthy son. God will give you all what he want all in his timing. I believe that, that was just a glimpse of what God has in store for you all. I'm praying for you all that God give you all the desires of your heart. I believe that you all will be awesome parents one day. I cried when I saw this but I do know that all in God's timing so stay strong and keep the faith in God. God bless you all 🙏🙏🙏

  • @GaiaAmor
    @GaiaAmor Рік тому

    I cried watching this :'( I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. Its an awful experience to go through. My heart goes out to you both. I experienced a loss at 20 wks and one at 16 weeks and it completely devastated me especially when you have that want & need for a baby. I will however tell you never to lose hope, its an emotional roller coaster BUT you can get that beautiful bundle of joy at the end of it all. We now have our rainbow baby! You will too! I just know it! My advice, too, as I am over 40, was to take 75mg aspirin and progesterone tablets throughout pregnancy, stats show that you've a higher rate of conceiving taking them. Best of luck hun, you've got this! Stay strong and, above all, stay positive! 🙏

  • @annduncan7421
    @annduncan7421 Рік тому +3

    It's sad to see what you guys went through but thanks for taking us through the process...you have an amazing husband and God will continue blessing you and give you all your hearts desire...lots of love from Grenada 🇬🇩

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much sending love back to you in Grenada ❤️

    • @ericaryan-qv8lk
      @ericaryan-qv8lk Рік тому

      I know how is feels to lose a child I lost 4 kids before I had my kids and I now have 3

  • @sybilgraham9345
    @sybilgraham9345 Рік тому +2

    Wishing you both much joy and happiness on your future babies. God is good, all the time. Blessings!

  • @mrssamuel01
    @mrssamuel01 Рік тому

    I am trini too girl. Hugs your not alone i experienced a miscarriage at 4 month and at almost 6 weeks. Almost lost my life but i thank God am still here. Its been 8 years of marriage and still trusting God for a healthy baby. You will concieve again at the right time. Trusting God this year for my miracle baby. Yours will come.

  • @ambf1978
    @ambf1978 Рік тому +2

    In 2010, we actually went through infant loss. Our baby passed shortly after birth. She had a birth defect. Hoping you both get your rainbow 🌈 baby soon. I posted a memorial video on my You Tube page. May you find comfort and peace as you cope with your miscarriage.

  • @janice2577
    @janice2577 Рік тому +3

    I will be praying for a safe journey on your pregnancy journey love y’all.

  • @beyonkam9965
    @beyonkam9965 Рік тому +3

    you both are amazing im sending much love and blessing your way u both over came so much and gotten so strong trust me when i say GOD IS NOT DONE YET!!!!!

  • @missvee4325
    @missvee4325 Рік тому +2

    I'm so sorry guys I was really looking forward to your pregnancy journey vlogs. I know your pain I lost my first pregnancy but now i have a 6 year old son. May God give you strength 🙏❤️ sending love

  • @yolandathompson6326
    @yolandathompson6326 Рік тому +1

    Sending my prayers to you both.
    Having a miscarriage is painful to go through. I've been there. Keeping your faith is very important, relying on each for support will help you through this. Dont blame yourself for loosing your baby. Things happen for whatever reason. Thanking you for sharing your journey with us. I was crying with you both I felt your pain. Keeping Trying and don't get discouraged by this. I love you both, I will continue to follow your journey.