1) Be Less Interested - The relationship is already imbalanced because you value it more than the other person. ... 2) Make Yourself Scarce - Spend some time away from your "friend" and do less for them
If you are in the friend zone, there's only one solution. Walk away and never look back. She's already told you that you are not what she's looking for. Every minute you waste with her, you could be using to find a relationship that meets your needs. Repeat after me "I'm not looking for a friend, I'm looking for a girlfriend/wife/long term relationship with s&x, and I'll find it if I don't waste my time with you." She will always think she's settling with you, and then you'll get cheated on. Run, don't walk, RUN.
Best advice ever. I didn't waste time with my hubsand that I got married to last month. You could be trying to find a woman and trying to make a wife instead of wasting your time on that female friend that told you that she just see you as a friend only.
I’ve been rejected by every single girl and woman I ever liked ever sense being a teenager I always had a problem getting women…They always choose the other guy over me no matter what…I always get kicked to the curb and pushed to the side…
A woman I liked, that I clearly showed an interested in, stuck me in the friend zone. I walked away and stayed away from her for 5 months, and finally got over her. Right when I was over her, she came back, and acted like I was the best human in the world to have ever existed. I stupidly reciprocated, and got sucked right back into her friend zone. I finally started to keep my distance from her, and she tried one more time to get me back into her friend zone, but I gave her the cold shoulder, she got offended, but I left it at that, and finally got over her for good.
Did you ask her out or anything to show serious interest? That way when you walk away the only way she can properly reciprocate is to come back and say "I want to go out with you".
This took me a while to get into my head. I am now more than ok with going to the friend-zone. That is because i've come to the realization that the girl(s) I was into were just not ideal or a right fit for me anyways. Even though I don't have proof of concept I do believe you can get out of the friend-zone, but seriously? why would you? try to get out. The person didn't really see any value in you in the first place. It's best to just move on. Currently, I am in a season of self-improvement not so much focused on any one girl.
I made my intent very clear from the start. It apparently never got acknowledged. Her memories of her dead "love of her life" boyfriend dominate her thoughts. She is dwelling in the past. How the heck can you get past a block wall like that?
I've been talking to this girl for one month we met at a party we talked everyday for hours now she just got a new job and she's put me on the burner she doesn't call much she don't text much I feel like she's put me in the friend zone she even told me she cares about me more than anybody in her life right now and that's confused me lol
Hi Kyle, I have a video on this channel that talks about what to do when you're getting mixed signals with a woman. I think this will be beneficial for you to check out! ua-cam.com/video/GRPyytPlCj8/v-deo.html
I would say if you don’t feel like she cares as much as she says she’s does then she most likely doesn’t. Pull away and see if she comes back. Have that abundance mindset bro.
You talked to her too much you gotta PACE yourself ! Can’t have a whole relationship of texting and calling in one month cause the interest goes away FAST but she probably just not for you.
I'm not gonna lie, I'm soooooo tired of being friend zoned. I'm using the programs that I have and putting to practice. Every time I express interest in a woman, smh, same result, it's very frustrating but I will not give up
I have been friendzone with her for about 6 years, she is couple of years older than me. Recently, I make a mistake of confessing it to her and become needy because she is dating some other guy therefore I got triggered. We have been arguing back and fore and she a pause to it and ask me not to contact her if necessary, I send a apology text to her and since than we have not been talking. Because of this I have not been doing so well.
Like when y'all been hooking up for a few months, the woman even was extremely happy with it, then just like that they started loosing attraction and decided to not continue with the connection no more... So weird to just change up and frustrating
I'm choosing to keep myself in the friend zone. The fact is I wouldn't date me. So I. Working on all areas of my life and creating the self respect and self love I can't find in others. There is someone I am interested in, but I am ok with being just friends now and in the end
I haven’t talked to anyone seriously to the point of even a relationship but I feel and want to move forward towards one but I can never want them to stay around. There is no one want to put up with my bipolar moods.
I’ve never done the friends zone thing. Things end I’m done!! I’ve had women say we can still be friends and I’ve laughed, walked away, never spoken to them again when I’ve seen them out and about. For me it’s a matter of self respect, why hang around for nothing!!
I have been with this girl for month’s 4 months and all of a sudden she made a decision of just being just friends she gave me her reasons that she is not ready but I asked if she still have feelings for me but she said no.. she said we can cuddle or do anything but no kissing or anything sexual.. I tried convincing her that I just don’t want to be friends but it didn’t work out so well what can I do to win her back
There are different friend zones: 1. You are nice a guy, but not for me and I don't have time to be your friend either, but woman did not know what to say. Probably would be better if she said, 'sometimes I have to say goodbye to nice people like you.' 2. Friend zone, wants to be your friend, but calls you for favors etc, but not much reciprocal. Tough one, because you still like her and hope that someday she will be more than a friend. The antidote for that is to find a real girlfriend, but can be difficult depending on your age group, demographics and circumstances. 3. Friend zone, and she introduces you to other women for dates, this can work. 4. Friend zone, and she does want to be your friend and it is a reasonably healthy friendship, but when you want more than that, it is difficult. In my experience, #1 is probably the most common. 5. Friend zone and you make it to the boyfriend zone; this can work, but sometimes what happens is you go from friend zone, to the woman loving you, especially if her biologic clock is ticking,, but I am not sure she will ever lust after you. This is a tough one also. 6. The next friend zone is also a toughie; the girl is ambivalent towards you and/or prefers another suitor but does not know how it will work out, so the woman wants to keep you in your orbit; the giveaway is if you ask her to help set you up with her sister or with a friend of hers who you know, but don't have the friend's contact information etc. If she says no, she either wants to keep you as back up, or thinks you are a creep. If it is the former, you might want to hang in there as a 'friend,' but if it is the latter, then of course it is time to move on. The girl is probably not going to tell you which it is, so you may have to go with your gut feeling.
10days ago She says she loves me then 2 days says she doesn't anymore and yet she still calls me and I answers. She also ask if I'm okay and I said I'm okay or did I eat and I said I did. She texted me again told me not to forget to eat. What should I do next. I want her back.
I kind of have this unique situation, There is a girl that I really like, but I know deep down it won't ever work out. Although I genuinely would like to not ruin our friendship. But I do want to lose my romantic feelings for her, without creating damage to the friendship. Is there an effective way to do this w/o completely ghosting her for months?
Hello Apollonia thanks for video your new video intro very Movie like so 😎. Apollonia I've been friend zoned cause I did it too myself I tend too be blind when a woman I'm talking too or know changes from friendly too more being logical normal energy is not first mind set.
I got the I don’t want a boyfriend right now talk. Then I got told that she just wanted someone she could talk to. Told me I could have her number. She actually spent time talking about things for a bit. Sounded excited. Then she ghosted me. Pretty sure she is into another guy. Seems like a version of the friend zone. So, I’m thinking that since I work with her, I am kind to her or I can be a jackass. Not sure which one I’m going with. But I’m leaning toward jackass!
I’ve been friend zoned by a coworker and we have been friends for almost 15 years, I recently asked her if there would be a chance we could go out on a date, and she told me she only saw me as a friend, but she would flirt with me from time to time and I was told she had liked me years ago but I never made a move and now that I did she told me that just a friend, do you think she didn’t really mean that and is just saying that and that their could possibly be a chance in the future?
@@krhawkins91 Yep. Move on. This happened to me, and because I totally MISSED her signs of attraction, what women do in this instance is subconsciously believe that you rejected them and find them unattractive, so they subconsciously have ZERO feelings for you in that way. You can NEVER undo this.
No, never. Get away from her. 15 yrs is too long. When you said, she flirted with you, that's not being a friend, but it's manipulation to keep you around, to keep her feeling good about herself, knowing she has you. Walk away and never look back.
I want someone to ask me why I want to be with them so badly and etc but I never get those results or questions. I just wonder what I be doing wrong. I show intent but get no intent back.
Hi there, I know how frustrating this can be. I actually have a video on this channel that talks about turning a friends with benefits situation into a relationship. I would encourage you to check it out! ua-cam.com/video/KIseTk_gUa8/v-deo.html
Does this work on lesbians? Honestly, because I became really close to her within a year, held her, made plans of a future with her... she showed interest in me (she's 24 if that's important) and after weeks and weeks of treating her like gold, basically overnight she completely changed. Wants "strictly a Friendship "
we were friends at the beginning then we became a couple then we broke up she said she loves me then a week later she said she doesn't anymore she told me its not me but her and we became friends again but i want her back. what sould it do? I live in Washington State and she lives is LA. Our plan was that I go and see her On the Feb 25th and she also has a very important registered nurse exam on the Feb 24th and now she had to push her exam coz she can't fucos. right now all i can think about is that she needs space even though she told me she doesn't needs space and time to fucos on her exam. now that she just broke up with me and became friends again. my plan is that im still going to LA and hope she will try and talk to me what should i do
ive been talking to this girl for a while now ,we have gone to 2 dates and this friday were going out aswell.She never starts the convo and i think she may not be intersted in me? What do u recommend? She had a boyfriend for a while and they argued alot and i was there to talk to her and make her smile. But i dont know if she views me as anything more than friends.
Wet met this year playing softball. So we have a lot in common. We were intrigued or I least I was first day we met. She’s a bit querky and weird and gullible but super smart. We started taking to each other and she’s even invited me up to her place. I would be be always half the month in Cali and she’s always have thrown the signs that she cares somewhat and flirts a lot. This has gone both ways on my end and hers. There was even a time where she even liked that I opened up to here. I picked all those signs up. Sometimes where I would make games or were late she would always text me on the side to see my where abouts. Well we’ve gone out before small batting practice date and we usually go out with the team after for drinks. I even taken her to do errands when she has had a car. When she drinks she opens up and when she’s sober she’s more reserved. Shes even implied that we should go out but then say she doesn’t date friends when she’s sober. ???? That’s what stumps me. There is def some l thing there. Even people have seen the interactions. Well I knew I liked Lee she has great traits she works hard and she’s a caring person. I’ve seen red flags during conversations she’ll mention other guys, I don’t get jealous but it is annoying. This is her oblivious and weird things she has. She’s open wed up a lot and so have it. Well softball season came to and end and she told a good friend of mine while I was always at the bathroom that she’s sorry she took me always from him. Another instance when softball end she finally told him she likes me. Again I was in the bathroom lol. He told me immediately and told me that “she was mine” she did something stupid that night and it came out in the future. I have a feeling she likes me but likes her freedom right now as well. Eventually she started to behave weird and talk to me differently. I’m not sure if she got comfortable or she lost interest or respect. Well i know she started seeing a guy so she has changed with me. She’s single and is not my girl. I ve been going through a stressful time inside my head I tried talking to her about it and open up. She’s denied me like twinge and acts as if she forgets. She sometimes is querky like that and does. Well our last text was me. Trying to talk to her and she told me she just saw me yesterday. I understood what she was saying. To back off and giver her space. I have really hit her up since then and an innocent happy turkey day text. I can’t stop thinking about this. I try and stay occupied but it resurfaces whenever and I can control it at this point. We are def in a weird state i the relationship or place right now. I know they always come back but this one has something I can see growing with in the future. I don’t want to lose her but if I do it’s because I some how sabotage it from impulses that are emotional. Help. I really like her and want her. I have to fight for it at least and try.
My best friend proposed me but when i accepted her proposal after 3 days she got some prblm in her family then she told let us be friends until the situation be right i dont know wht should i do she texts me daily but i m not confortable being her friend any more wht should i do?
I stayed in FZ with a girl that I liked for almost 4 months. I decided to walk away from her and I got a depression (because of the BS FZ thingy not cuz I walked away).. but glad it happened cuz nowadays I shut them off quickly. As soon as someone gives this FZ vibes or tells me that.. I m out. With some I will even start to avoid them. Avoid them like ''pIague'' if necessary. I was so hurt and heartbroken after that experience so nowadays I don't want any of that (my brain wants to protect my heart and that's why it happened cuz I listened more to my heart than my brain. My brain said even earlier to move away from her.. it even gave me some reasons. Always listen to your brain first cuz if you are fairly smart.. the brain will help you to avoid a heartache. Just listen to it first cuz as a man you also have a high level of logic). I consider myself a straight man.. I was born a hunter (,,spread the seeds''.. with 1 woman if she's your GF or wife or with more if you go on the ''adventures path'' or visiting escorts) and I will die like one. For me women who wants friendship too with a man shouId offer me more than just friendship. If she ain't capable (or willing) of that.. I just move away from her and move on with my life.. either aIone for some time.. or with some other woman). and I have this advice for other (straight) men too. Being a friend with a woman can often lead to disappointment or being heartbroken (if you invested too much in her already). The main exceptions for being friends with a woman it's when you are not attracted by her (but you get along well enough with her even as friends) OR when you are already in some other relationship with some other girl (already having a GF or a Wife or even being in love with that one). This can work.. but without this.. it rarely does.
so I was introduced to a girl who I felt was into me and I was into her about 2 weeks ago we were messing around kissing and other things no sex though because of the situation of being at my daughter house then I text her when I would see her again and she responds with im getting through a divorce im going through a lot we could be friends do I let it go and keep options open or do I wait Valentines day to pursue with a would you want to be my Valentine a buy her like chocolate flowers maybe movie and dinner or bowling since she like to bowl? ????
What do I do if she feels like she is rushing the relatioship but she really likes me , but wants to take a break to find herself. Mainly because of school and plus she was on her period at the time.
good video but ultimately one is in the friendzone for one of 2 reasons. 1. sexual physical attraction - the friendzonee just doesnt have it on point enough for this person. generally probably lacking in masucline and confident strong traits. But the "pretty boy" look thing may also be lacking. And if the person who has done the friendzoning knows they have way better options why would they downgrade? Just blunt cold hard truth here. 2. Personal status - Is the friendzonee someone with a dead end job with no financial security? Women want a man who is a winner of life who has a reasonably well paid career and on track to getting a house one day and etc both these reasons CAN be improved on massively within the bounds of limitations but they wont be easy. The question is.... Is he\she worth the severe effort, time and sacrifice this will take in improving ones attraction? Only the friendzonee can decide that
I got in a bad spot deep within the friendzone in which I might have shown desperateness for wanting to hang out with her for not having seen her in months just cuz she would not allow it for wtv reason. I wrote her a letter saying exactly how I felt about that along with my feelings saying that I should just move on. I pretty much accepted the defeat, so idk if it was something brave or cowardly to do. The problem now is that I want to forget about her for a while, but idk if it would be appropriate for me to give it another try if she somehow starts reaching out to me after that time or if I should just definitely end it all with her...
My problem is how do i dont come off too aggressive or needy with my intent. I mean if we just barely met and i say i want to kiss her it can also come off desperate, no?
If you say you want to kiss her this won't come off as desperate unless you keep asking and she show's no signs of kissing you. I have a video on this channel that talks about how to open up with a woman without coming off as needy. I think this will be beneficial for you to watch! ua-cam.com/video/u6MKFd2RuRk/v-deo.html
I started a casual relationship with this girl earlier this year. But she says she wants to put the dating stuff on hold because she doesn’t think we are right for each other but prefers to remain friends. Is there a way to get back into an intimate relationship without expecting too much from each other? I miss the intimacy.
Don't waste youre time bro. Only one solution just walk away if you are interested and she put you in friend zone or even you feel she is gonna put you in friend zone, Just walk away and show to her very clear you are not interested being only her friend.
Why is it that we even bother. If it not happening just keep it moving .you are responsible for your own happiness. She is just using u. The hammser think it going some where, as the wheel turns Get out of friend zone say what you want and except the real
pleasing female is far more work than self development. from now on i just stop chasing them and being stressed about it. not worth my precious time and effort
i've seen some 'friendzoned' guys say some stuff like "fk off, ur not worth my time". Quite funny ngl. and also, i have friendzoned girls before. so i guess not all girls that does friendzoning.
So this girl and I were dating for quite some time and we always had the best chemistry and I was the only one that she could ever open up to and really be herself both emotionally and sexually. We ended up breaking up about five months ago and then we didn't talk until she hit me up relatively recently and we hung out today and we smoked, and just laughed so much and had a great time like we never stopped talking. she said that she was really happy we were hanging out togethe again and I make her feel good...the Thing is, she has a boyfriend now but right when she mentioned him she was said "yeahhh but things are going well at all" and she started complaining about how things are really bad with them. I still love her very much and not sure what to do... She texted me the other day and said she was in "the mood" and said explicit things she missed doing with me... Not sure if I'm completely friendzoned or if I have a chance.
Those magical words means.... see you..... thars why u dont pay for dates. You dont invest you dont put effort. If she's hanging around when u dont do anything then u know she likes u for you. Treat women as your equal.... use their standards against them. Its not 1965 but 2024. If they want equality they now got it. Treat them as such.... a cool dude with long hair. If she is still hanging around then u weeded out the gold diggers and the ones that want s circus act. Then invest in that girl. Its simple. She has to prove her worth to u before u pay for dates. It has gotten to this point.
Or, in short, you need an entirely new outlook on yourself, on the world you live in, and on your place in it :)) You need to uncouple your emotions from the genuine motivations that drive you, which is a very real scarcity in mates given your natural propensities. No big deal lol. Yea… Un-pulling the leavers of natural selection itself is hard work 😅
1) Be Less Interested - The relationship is already imbalanced because you value it more than the other person. ...
2) Make Yourself Scarce - Spend some time away from your "friend" and do less for them
That is a good point
If you are in the friend zone, there's only one solution. Walk away and never look back. She's already told you that you are not what she's looking for. Every minute you waste with her, you could be using to find a relationship that meets your needs. Repeat after me "I'm not looking for a friend, I'm looking for a girlfriend/wife/long term relationship with s&x, and I'll find it if I don't waste my time with you." She will always think she's settling with you, and then you'll get cheated on. Run, don't walk, RUN.
HahahahahHahahahaha...dude, this is it right here!!
Right on target, M W.
Bro got flashbacks watching this video
Oh, it's true, it's true, it's damn true! Quote from Kurt Angle Olympian and Professional Wrestler. 😂
Best advice ever. I didn't waste time with my hubsand that I got married to last month. You could be trying to find a woman and trying to make a wife instead of wasting your time on that female friend that told you that she just see you as a friend only.
Always be upfront about your intentions as early as possible. If she says she only sees you as a friend move on immediately.
Yes! Be upfront with your intentions!
Yeah but it’s up to you if you still want to be her friend... If not, then leave
I’ve been rejected by every single girl and woman I ever liked ever sense being a teenager I always had a problem getting women…They always choose the other guy over me no matter what…I always get kicked to the curb and pushed to the side…
Defiantly bro
many relationships start as friends and grow to marriage
When I get friend zoned, I just tell them I’m not interested and close that door. Too much work. Plenty of women out there.
What if that is the only woman you want?
A woman I liked, that I clearly showed an interested in, stuck me in the friend zone. I walked away and stayed away from her for 5 months, and finally got over her. Right when I was over her, she came back, and acted like I was the best human in the world to have ever existed. I stupidly reciprocated, and got sucked right back into her friend zone. I finally started to keep my distance from her, and she tried one more time to get me back into her friend zone, but I gave her the cold shoulder, she got offended, but I left it at that, and finally got over her for good.
This is something few women will admit. They like having orbiters and they may even make effort to keep you as one.
Same her
Did you ask her out or anything to show serious interest? That way when you walk away the only way she can properly reciprocate is to come back and say "I want to go out with you".
Just happened to me and I did the same
Show intent then get lost she will value you and the time y’all spend together bam out the friend zone
This took me a while to get into my head. I am now more than ok with going to the friend-zone. That is because i've come to the realization that the girl(s) I was into were just not ideal or a right fit for me anyways. Even though I don't have proof of concept I do believe you can get out of the friend-zone, but seriously? why would you? try to get out. The person didn't really see any value in you in the first place. It's best to just move on. Currently, I am in a season of self-improvement not so much focused on any one girl.
That is 100% fact
Best advice l have seen on this topic...Thanking YOU !!!!
Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for the support
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@@oliverjordan695 the value of your valve 😅
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I made my intent very clear from the start. It apparently never got acknowledged. Her memories of her dead "love of her life" boyfriend dominate her thoughts. She is dwelling in the past. How the heck can you get past a block wall like that?
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Thank you!
Yes she is
I've been talking to this girl for one month we met at a party we talked everyday for hours now she just got a new job and she's put me on the burner she doesn't call much she don't text much I feel like she's put me in the friend zone she even told me she cares about me more than anybody in her life right now and that's confused me lol
Hi Kyle,
I have a video on this channel that talks about what to do when you're getting mixed signals with a woman. I think this will be beneficial for you to check out!
ua-cam.com/video/GRPyytPlCj8/v-deo.html
I would say if you don’t feel like she cares as much as she says she’s does then she most likely doesn’t. Pull away and see if she comes back. Have that abundance mindset bro.
Please Kyle, for you’re own sake, Click the link and pay attention to what she says 🙏
It's so hard I talk to this girl every single day every morning every night and it seems like now we don't even talk anymore practically
You talked to her too much you gotta PACE yourself ! Can’t have a whole relationship of texting and calling in one month cause the interest goes away FAST but she probably just not for you.
I'm not gonna lie, I'm soooooo tired of being friend zoned. I'm using the programs that I have and putting to practice. Every time I express interest in a woman, smh, same result, it's very frustrating but I will not give up
I know how frustrating this can be! It is a complicated process but keep going!
You are simply the best!!
Thank you so much!
Yes she is
Thanks for your insight, Apollonia! Subscribing to your UA-cam channel was a very wise decision.
Welcome!
I have been friendzone with her for about 6 years, she is couple of years older than me. Recently, I make a mistake of confessing it to her and become needy because she is dating some other guy therefore I got triggered. We have been arguing back and fore and she a pause to it and ask me not to contact her if necessary, I send a apology text to her and since than we have not been talking. Because of this I have not been doing so well.
Great video thanks I feel that way all the time .
Glad to help!
So do i
Like when y'all been hooking up for a few months, the woman even was extremely happy with it, then just like that they started loosing attraction and decided to not continue with the connection no more... So weird to just change up and frustrating
Thanks timestamps buddy
Any time!
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You are top class,i enjoy ur show and ur advise.i always use it your advise.
I appreciate that! I'm always happy to help.
@Apollonia ponti I love this video getting out of a friend zone I completely understand but I would want to have best friends with a friend zone.
Why did a girl sleep with me and then friend-zoned me a day later when I talked to her about it.
I'm choosing to keep myself in the friend zone. The fact is I wouldn't date me. So I. Working on all areas of my life and creating the self respect and self love I can't find in others. There is someone I am interested in, but I am ok with being just friends now and in the end
I'm in the same boat
I haven’t talked to anyone seriously to the point of even a relationship but I feel and want to move forward towards one but I can never want them to stay around. There is no one want to put up with my bipolar moods.
How get out friends zone work on me
I’ve never done the friends zone thing. Things end I’m done!! I’ve had women say we can still be friends and I’ve laughed, walked away, never spoken to them again when I’ve seen them out and about. For me it’s a matter of self respect, why hang around for nothing!!
Agree 100% If you stay friends with, you can just end up being her fall guy, just a shoulder for her to cry on if some dude dumps her.
Hey Queen Apollonia
Need to end the Streak and let the "friendship" die. Ty
I have been with this girl for month’s 4 months and all of a sudden she made a decision of just being just friends she gave me her reasons that she is not ready but I asked if she still have feelings for me but she said no.. she said we can cuddle or do anything but no kissing or anything sexual.. I tried convincing her that I just don’t want to be friends but it didn’t work out so well what can I do to win her back
Would it be ok to "check in" every now and again?
There are different friend zones:
1. You are nice a guy, but not for me and I don't have time to be your friend either, but woman did not know what to say. Probably would be better if she said, 'sometimes I have to say goodbye to nice people like you.'
2. Friend zone, wants to be your friend, but calls you for favors etc, but not much reciprocal. Tough one, because you still like her and hope that someday she will be more than a friend. The antidote for that is to find a real girlfriend, but can be difficult depending on your age group, demographics and circumstances.
3. Friend zone, and she introduces you to other women for dates, this can work.
4. Friend zone, and she does want to be your friend and it is a reasonably healthy friendship, but when you want more than that, it is difficult.
In my experience, #1 is probably the most common.
5. Friend zone and you make it to the boyfriend zone; this can work, but sometimes what happens is you go from friend zone, to the woman loving you, especially if her biologic clock is ticking,, but I am not sure she will ever lust after you. This is a tough one also.
6. The next friend zone is also a toughie; the girl is ambivalent towards you and/or prefers another suitor but does not know how it will work out, so the woman wants to keep you in your orbit; the giveaway is if you ask her to help set you up with her sister or with a friend of hers who you know, but don't have the friend's contact information etc. If she says no, she either wants to keep you as back up, or thinks you are a creep. If it is the former, you might want to hang in there as a 'friend,' but if it is the latter, then of course it is time to move on. The girl is probably not going to tell you which it is, so you may have to go with your gut feeling.
If she says no or wants you to be her back up plan i would walk away
10days ago She says she loves me then 2 days says she doesn't anymore and yet she still calls me and I answers. She also ask if I'm okay and I said I'm okay or did I eat and I said I did. She texted me again told me not to forget to eat. What should I do next. I want her back.
I kind of have this unique situation, There is a girl that I really like, but I know deep down it won't ever work out. Although I genuinely would like to not ruin our friendship. But I do want to lose my romantic feelings for her, without creating damage to the friendship. Is there an effective way to do this w/o completely ghosting her for months?
Hello Apollonia thanks for video your new video intro very Movie like so 😎.
Apollonia I've been friend zoned cause I did it too myself I tend too be blind when a woman I'm talking too or know changes from friendly too more being logical normal energy is not first mind set.
I got the I don’t want a boyfriend right now talk. Then I got told that she just wanted someone she could talk to. Told me I could have her number. She actually spent time talking about things for a bit. Sounded excited. Then she ghosted me. Pretty sure she is into another guy. Seems like a version of the friend zone. So, I’m thinking that since I work with her, I am kind to her or I can be a jackass. Not sure which one I’m going with. But I’m leaning toward jackass!
I’ve been friend zoned by a coworker and we have been friends for almost 15 years, I recently asked her if there would be a chance we could go out on a date, and she told me she only saw me as a friend, but she would flirt with me from time to time and I was told she had liked me years ago but I never made a move and now that I did she told me that just a friend, do you think she didn’t really mean that and is just saying that and that their could possibly be a chance in the future?
Just move on you wasted many years chasing one woman she's probably not attracted to you.
@@krhawkins91 Yep. Move on. This happened to me, and because I totally MISSED her signs of attraction, what women do in this instance is subconsciously believe that you rejected them and find them unattractive, so they subconsciously have ZERO feelings for you in that way. You can NEVER undo this.
No, never. Get away from her. 15 yrs is too long. When you said, she flirted with you, that's not being a friend, but it's manipulation to keep you around, to keep her feeling good about herself, knowing she has you. Walk away and never look back.
I want someone to ask me why I want to be with them so badly and etc but I never get those results or questions. I just wonder what I be doing wrong. I show intent but get no intent back.
Why you want to be with them so badly ?
What about when she tries to put you in a friend zone after yall been hooking up for a few months
Hi there,
I know how frustrating this can be. I actually have a video on this channel that talks about turning a friends with benefits situation into a relationship. I would encourage you to check it out!
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Does this work on lesbians? Honestly, because I became really close to her within a year, held her, made plans of a future with her... she showed interest in me (she's 24 if that's important) and after weeks and weeks of treating her like gold, basically overnight she completely changed. Wants "strictly a Friendship "
Couldn’t get past dude in the white turtle neck sweater standing on the beach😂
we were friends at the beginning
then we became a couple
then we broke up
she said she loves me then a week later she
said she doesn't anymore she told me its not me but her and we became friends again
but i want her back. what sould it do?
I live in Washington State and she lives is LA. Our plan was that I go and see her
On the Feb 25th and she also has a very important registered nurse exam on the Feb 24th and now she had to push her exam coz she can't fucos.
right now all i can think about is that she needs space even though she told me she doesn't needs space and time to fucos on her exam.
now that she just broke up with me and became friends again.
my plan is that im still going to LA
and hope she will try and talk to me
what should i do
ive been talking to this girl for a while now ,we have gone to 2 dates and this friday were going out aswell.She never starts the convo and i think she may not be intersted in me? What do u recommend? She had a boyfriend for a while and they argued alot and i was there to talk to her and make her smile. But i dont know if she views me as anything more than friends.
Says a lot about your username
Wet met this year playing softball. So we have a lot in common. We were intrigued or I least I was first day we met. She’s a bit querky and weird and gullible but super smart. We started taking to each other and she’s even invited me up to her place. I would be be always half the month in Cali and she’s always have thrown the signs that she cares somewhat and flirts a lot. This has gone both ways on my end and hers. There was even a time where she even liked that I opened up to here. I picked all those signs up. Sometimes where I would make games or were late she would always text me on the side to see my where abouts. Well we’ve gone out before small batting practice date and we usually go out with the team after for drinks. I even taken her to do errands when she has had a car. When she drinks she opens up and when she’s sober she’s more reserved. Shes even implied that we should go out but then say she doesn’t date friends when she’s sober. ???? That’s what stumps me. There is def some l thing there. Even people have seen the interactions. Well I knew I liked Lee she has great traits she works hard and she’s a caring person. I’ve seen red flags during conversations she’ll mention other guys, I don’t get jealous but it is annoying. This is her oblivious and weird things she has. She’s open wed up a lot and so have it. Well softball season came to and end and she told a good friend of mine while I was always at the bathroom that she’s sorry she took me always from him. Another instance when softball end she finally told him she likes me. Again I was in the bathroom lol. He told me immediately and told me that “she was mine” she did something stupid that night and it came out in the future. I have a feeling she likes me but likes her freedom right now as well. Eventually she started to behave weird and talk to me differently. I’m not sure if she got comfortable or she lost interest or respect. Well i know she started seeing a guy so she has changed with me. She’s single and is not my girl. I ve been going through a stressful time inside my head I tried talking to her about it and open up. She’s denied me like twinge and acts as if she forgets. She sometimes is querky like that and does. Well our last text was me. Trying to talk to her and she told me she just saw me yesterday. I understood what she was saying. To back off and giver her space. I have really hit her up since then and an innocent happy turkey day text. I can’t stop thinking about this. I try and stay occupied but it resurfaces whenever and I can control it at this point. We are def in a weird state i the relationship or place right now. I know they always come back but this one has something I can see growing with in the future. I don’t want to lose her but if I do it’s because I some how sabotage it from impulses that are emotional. Help. I really like her and want her. I have to fight for it at least and try.
My best friend proposed me but when i accepted her proposal after 3 days she got some prblm in her family then she told let us be friends until the situation be right i dont know wht should i do she texts me daily but i m not confortable being her friend any more wht should i do?
Ms.Appolonia! Does this information also work in LDR/freindzone relationships? We talk everyday,and see each other every 3-6months
I stayed in FZ with a girl that I liked for almost 4 months. I decided to walk away from her and I got a depression (because of the BS FZ thingy not cuz I walked away).. but glad it happened cuz nowadays I shut them off quickly. As soon as someone gives this FZ vibes or tells me that.. I m out. With some I will even start to avoid them. Avoid them like ''pIague'' if necessary. I was so hurt and heartbroken after that experience so nowadays I don't want any of that (my brain wants to protect my heart and that's why it happened cuz I listened more to my heart than my brain. My brain said even earlier to move away from her.. it even gave me some reasons. Always listen to your brain first cuz if you are fairly smart.. the brain will help you to avoid a heartache. Just listen to it first cuz as a man you also have a high level of logic).
I consider myself a straight man.. I was born a hunter (,,spread the seeds''.. with 1 woman if she's your GF or wife or with more if you go on the ''adventures path'' or visiting escorts) and I will die like one. For me women who wants friendship too with a man shouId offer me more than just friendship. If she ain't capable (or willing) of that.. I just move away from her and move on with my life.. either aIone for some time.. or with some other woman). and I have this advice for other (straight) men too. Being a friend with a woman can often lead to disappointment or being heartbroken (if you invested too much in her already). The main exceptions for being friends with a woman it's when you are not attracted by her (but you get along well enough with her even as friends) OR when you are already in some other relationship with some other girl (already having a GF or a Wife or even being in love with that one). This can work.. but without this.. it rarely does.
THE MOST useful video for me
I'm good at getting girls but struggling to keep 😁😁
I'm always happy to help! It is a struggle many of us have but you can do it!
so I was introduced to a girl who I felt was into me and I was into her about 2 weeks ago we were messing around kissing and other things no sex though because of the situation of being at my daughter house then I text her when I would see her again and she responds with im getting through a divorce im going through a lot we could be friends do I let it go and keep options open or do I wait Valentines day to pursue with a would you want to be my Valentine a buy her like chocolate flowers maybe movie and dinner or bowling since she like to bowl? ????
Does this also apply to a female friend in another state?
I would like to know that too.!
Asking same question again! Does this work in a LDR/friendzone situation?
What do I do if she feels like she is rushing the relatioship but she really likes me , but wants to take a break to find herself. Mainly because of school and plus she was on her period at the time.
Being friends with a ex will never get you anywhere I know from experience a friend zone is a joke just move on if they wanna be friends.
Im trying to get out of the friend zone because its boring 😴😴😴
good video but ultimately one is in the friendzone for one of 2 reasons.
1. sexual physical attraction - the friendzonee just doesnt have it on point enough for this person. generally probably lacking in masucline and confident strong traits. But the "pretty boy" look thing may also be lacking. And if the person who has done the friendzoning knows they have way better options why would they downgrade? Just blunt cold hard truth here.
2. Personal status - Is the friendzonee someone with a dead end job with no financial security? Women want a man who is a winner of life who has a reasonably well paid career and on track to getting a house one day and etc
both these reasons CAN be improved on massively within the bounds of limitations but they wont be easy. The question is.... Is he\she worth the severe effort, time and sacrifice this will take in improving ones attraction? Only the friendzonee can decide that
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I got in a bad spot deep within the friendzone in which I might have shown desperateness for wanting to hang out with her for not having seen her in months just cuz she would not allow it for wtv reason. I wrote her a letter saying exactly how I felt about that along with my feelings saying that I should just move on. I pretty much accepted the defeat, so idk if it was something brave or cowardly to do. The problem now is that I want to forget about her for a while, but idk if it would be appropriate for me to give it another try if she somehow starts reaching out to me after that time or if I should just definitely end it all with her...
So whats the update buddy
My problem is how do i dont come off too aggressive or needy with my intent. I mean if we just barely met and i say i want to kiss her it can also come off desperate, no?
If you say you want to kiss her this won't come off as desperate unless you keep asking and she show's no signs of kissing you. I have a video on this channel that talks about how to open up with a woman without coming off as needy. I think this will be beneficial for you to watch!
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I started a casual relationship with this girl earlier this year. But she says she wants to put the dating stuff on hold because she doesn’t think we are right for each other but prefers to remain friends. Is there a way to get back into an intimate relationship without expecting too much from each other? I miss the intimacy.
Should have never accepted to being just friends or giving her time off. Tjats just a glorified shit test with her basically telling you to fuck off
What the 5 steps to escaped the friend zone ?
Run 🏃♂️ for the hills .
You want out off the friend zone. Tell the woman no thanks and move on.
Can you be friend zoned 2 times and still get out of it and achieve results?
This depends on the type of relationship you have with her.
just ask her out, and stop hovering around her all the time lmao
SHE CAN'T STOP BETRAYING HER OWN GENDER
😂😂
Don't waste youre time bro.
Only one solution just walk away if you are interested and she put you in friend zone or even you feel she is gonna put you in friend zone,
Just walk away and show to her very clear you are not interested being only her friend.
Didn't work for me, "You're like a brother to me."
Why is it that we even bother. If it not happening just keep it moving .you are responsible for your own happiness. She is just using u. The hammser think it going some where, as the wheel turns Get out of friend zone say what you want and except the real
What are the 5 easy steps to get out of the friend zone??
pleasing female is far more work than self development. from now on i just stop chasing them and being stressed about it. not worth my precious time and effort
I also stop charging too
To be honest this sounds like a ton of head games and prison time to me 😅
i've seen some 'friendzoned' guys say some stuff like "fk off, ur not worth my time". Quite funny ngl.
and also, i have friendzoned girls before. so i guess not all girls that does friendzoning.
If she ain’t into u don’t waste your time period
Relationship status: waiting for a miracle
That miracle can be right around the corner!
How can I take time away when I see her everyday!?...
So this girl and I were dating for quite some time and we always had the best chemistry and I was the only one that she could ever open up to and really be herself both emotionally and sexually. We ended up breaking up about five months ago and then we didn't talk until she hit me up relatively recently and we hung out today and we smoked, and just laughed so much and had a great time like we never stopped talking. she said that she was really happy we were hanging out togethe again and I make her feel good...the Thing is, she has a boyfriend now but right when she mentioned him she was said "yeahhh but things are going well at all" and she started complaining about how things are really bad with them. I still love her very much and not sure what to do... She texted me the other day and said she was in "the mood" and said explicit things she missed doing with me... Not sure if I'm completely friendzoned or if I have a chance.
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There is nothing wrong with being friends with a girl you like. That's the foundation of a relationship.
You can waste years on her, with her looking at you as nothing more than a shoulder to lean on in hard times, but never get past it.
Gregory, the problem is that being friendzoned means it never progresses past being "friends."
Nope,
If after 3 months you never pass the friendship stage its time to leave her and show to her you are not interested being only her friend.
Hey how do I contact you personally I need help
Hi there!
You can always book a one on one coaching session with me using this link!
www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
@@ApolloniaPonti dang that’s expensive I don’t have the money really for that
just wanted to say hello lovely lady
Those magical words means.... see you..... thars why u dont pay for dates. You dont invest you dont put effort. If she's hanging around when u dont do anything then u know she likes u for you. Treat women as your equal.... use their standards against them. Its not 1965 but 2024. If they want equality they now got it. Treat them as such.... a cool dude with long hair. If she is still hanging around then u weeded out the gold diggers and the ones that want s circus act. Then invest in that girl. Its simple. She has to prove her worth to u before u pay for dates. It has gotten to this point.
Or, in short, you need an entirely new outlook on yourself, on the world you live in, and on your place in it :)) You need to uncouple your emotions from the genuine motivations that drive you, which is a very real scarcity in mates given your natural propensities.
No big deal lol.
Yea… Un-pulling the leavers of natural selection itself is hard work 😅
You're looking beautiful 😍
Thank you 😊
1. You want to be her best option
2. Stop the beta vibes
3. look at step 1
Apollonia you are very gorgeous
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Be the man tell her what you wants, if she doesn’t like it move one … there is plenty of fish out there
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Much easier to get a degree in astro physics
Very nice madam Sandeep Rajasthan India
Thank you Sandeep!
she made me cray and sick
Hlep me please
6th way tell her buzz off if she friendzone or worse brozone ypu