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There is a reason I am waiting to get a full-time job I actually like to ask my friend out. My friend does not have a job yet so she has very little opportunities to meet more men
If youre born looking like Shrek, even if you do work on yourself, you will still be looking like Shrek And be rejected by women. Youre only eligible for the dating market if you look actually good. Self improvement gets you only more disappointment.
@@anderstermansen130 you can change yourself to a certain extent. Cystic acne and baldness can be altered with some cosmetic surgery. Dwarfism and downs syndrome however cannot be altered with today’s technology I’m guessing you’ve already given up hope. If you have nothing left to lose, and if you are ready to be 6ft under ground, please don’t convince us to swallow the black pill and join you
It sounds like a noise gate issue, at a lot of points Amanda's voice either dips lower or quieter than the threshold (or maybe both? idk) so pumping the brakes on that parameter would probably fix it 😅 But YES quality control checks at multiple levels would (hopefully) alleviate or remove this problem 😆
Nah just ask her if she’d like to see a movie or smthn. Ask her to do fun things don’t ask for a label. Let it happen naturally whatever is meant to be
I had feelings for him but he didn’t for me and we are still great friends! It’s ok I’d rather have him and our friendship than let rejection tear us apart. He’s a great man.
Well a guy here. I also have a female bestie. And being honest I feel like we are as close as close can get(platonically speaking) to the point where I am considered as THE best friend and not the GUY/MALE best friend and yea ofc i did feel feelings. It's completely true. Don't ruin shit with the relationship rejection. Ur still besties. You CAN show love by being a friend, and care about them just as much. And lucky me, she was EXTREMELY understanding, compassionate and empathetic So I put care for her as more of a priority than a relationship with her. And trust me it paid off I would have ruined my life if I heard the advice of ppl saying block em, leave em and treat em like trash. Cos genuinely, in my situation, it's not like they had any fault, not did they treat me badly. It was just me not dealing with my feelings properly. Looking from their perspective, I wouldn't want to hurt a person who simply just doesn't like me the same way i do, they still love me(platonically) It would be unjust to her for me to break the friendship
@@sidsdabest2416 A guy here as well i,ve been in the same situation although i made some different choices. I met her in a school trip and because we had so many thing's in common we became friends in 3 days. Fast forward couple weeks pass by and we hang out EVERYDAY . My friends were telling me that she liked me but i didnt
@@sidsdabest2416 i guy here aswell. I want to tell you how my story came down. I met her in a school trip and became friends in 3 days only because we had so much in common. Fast forward 3 weeks we hang out everyday and my friends say that she likes me but i didnt want to ruin what we had so i did nothing about it since i didn't have any feelings about her. A month passes by and we still hang out but not as much because of studies and i start to need her company, i was feeling like the time was stopping when we were hagging out. Thats how i understood i had feelings for her but it was too late, i was already her closest friend the one that knew the most about her and she already stopped have feelings for me. We still hangout and we find out that one of my close friends knew her for years so they meet again after time because i was friends with both. Some time passes by and they start going out ending in a relationship between them. I lost the friendship because we couldnt hang out that much since she had a boyfriend (my second best friend) and the romantic relationship, i lost everything and i was feeling really down for months.
yesterday, i've told my crush my feeling for her, and even tho she enjoys my company, she sees as a friend, so I am feeling kinda sad rn, but this video showed me to maybe don't lose hope yet
Yes but the video also says to let go and cherish them as a friend if their answer is still a no...so you should give your best..but expect the worst .... otherwise you will get hurt 🤕.. All the best to you!
@@vd8589 yeah you are right, i will definitely respect her response and feelings, but I am not sure if i ever be able to lose or forget, what i feel for her..
Can still date her as a friend, takes much time ready be yours. Never sure how long, try date other people and see what change about your friend crush. Friends can be little jealousy, if they can’t control their feelings.
@vd8589 @AnimeNewsRadio101 yeah we will continue our relationship as friends, and who knows, maybe one day.. dream comes true 😅 but I will probably try to date other people as well. And thank you guys for the comments, it really helped me, to figure things out.
Dont forget that it's not bad to have friends. Friendzone can be something good and it could be more a perspective that you have romantic feelings but the othwr person does not have the same feels. I experienced the same multiple times in my life. I addressed it and the other person didn't felt the same towards me but we were able to get through the stage and we are now good friends.
Imagin that situation where you are good friends, but your relationship became romantic. Didn't relationship be more enjoying with friend? What could go wrong if you try, when you are real friends?
Tru, I wish I could have more normal female friends. I once had more than 20 female friends, now I only have 2 of them, the rest was gone after we had a relationship or a friendship with benefits🙃
@@zabinijeziorniak7838 you started with "imagine". I can't control how the other person feels for me. And you don't want to be in a relationship with every friend, right?
My crush rejected me and called me « bro » multiple times. I am now SO SAD I just wanna cry for a decade and it’s sad but I respect her decision anyway because she is the baddest tho.
Timestamps 1). Communicate your feelings clearly 0:45 2). Show your intentions though actions 1:40 3). Give them space to decide 2:51 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Yes, but you should factor in that if you don't tell them they won't know, as well as if they don't reject or avoid your advances in some way, but rather tolerate them they're okay with them. You just have to find out where the limit is and respect it until it's not there anymore, if you want to go on.
Married my good friend of 5 years after dating only a year. Happily married 11 years this September. Yes, you don’t push it. But it’s worth the risk to be honest and test the waters. People change. Relationships change. This video just supports that. ❤
1.comunicate your feelings clearly 0:46 2. Show your intention through action 1:42 3. Give them space and time to decide 2:52 Goodluck for you all! I failed
@@marsjokes i mean, point 3 aludes to stop approaching them with the intention of them being reciprocate. So stop trying that and just flow with the “friends” stuff until they decide if they want to reciprocate or not.
Exactly. If they've made it obvious they don't want to be more than that, don't ignore your own well being just to stay friends. One thing I will say, is take a break from talking to them, maybe a few months, half a year, because down the road you might be able to be friends if the feelings disappear
@@Grumpisaurus I have this huge crush on this girl, i asked her out and she simply said she doesnt have the mind currently for dating and we still do stuff together and she talks over things where i am like..damn thats not something i would talk about with somebody who has a crush on me.. And the worst thing is, you KNOW that it is simply a "friendly" no, but it keeps this glimmer of hope, that even if you know that she doesnt want a relationship is keeping it alive. Its very hard, i kinda want to take a break but everytime i talk with her i feel soo good that i simply forget it.. But she is away soon for like half a year i hope that i'll be able to see her simply as a friend.
@@foty8679It would have been better if you left her behind first, imo. She's very obviously using you for boyfriend benefits without giving you girlfriend benefits, and you let her get away with it. Her being away for a while can help, but it is nowhere near as effective as simply forcing her to experience what it's like to not have you around, because doing that wouldn't reward her for rejecting you...and might make her reconsider in rare cases.
@@foty8679THe truth is she is using you for attention and validation. She currently doesn't respect you. The only way to stand a chance of anything in the future is to cut all contact, which you should have done after she said no to you. Even though, this is hard. If she contacts you in the future whilst she is away or before you need to be friendly, but short in all contact. Such as saying stuff like, 'Hey glad you are ok, I don't have time to talk right now, I'll talk to you later. Then don't contact her. You need to do this even once she comes back. If she cares at all she will then start to chase you. If she doesn't, no big deal. Whatever you do don't start hanging out as just friends again. Think of yourself as the prize. I felt like I should give some advice, as I've had this situation happen to me when younger a couple of times and it sucks. When I stopped contact, one came back. Good luck anyway
@@foty8679 That is a tough situation... But maybe she's just afraid of starting a romantic relationship with you, because she's going away for half a year? Long distant relationships, even if it's only temporary, can be frighting and confusing.
I believe that it is impossible to leave friendzone. At least, like right now. Distance yourself from a person if "friendship" is too much painful for you. Even end it if it is needed.
I've been in the friend zone for almost half a year now. We met through a dating app and when I told him after the first date that I would like to get to know him better, he said that he lacked the certain spark for it. I was devastated but so as not to lose him I put myself in the friend zone. We've kept a lot in touch since then but I just can't ignore my feelings for him. I am so sure that he is my perfect match. But I don't know when I should give up hope... right now the friend zone just hurts so much. I've never cried as much as in the last few months
i did all these things with my now ex and it worked, clearly as she is now my ex, however, I learned how she really felt about my goals in life and how much she and I were not compatible, and now our friendship is ruined. So to be blunt I miss the friendship but I know it would not survive the test of time as I am a country person and she is a city girl. In conclusion make sure you are ready because if it doesn't workout the friendship will be lost
I’ve been friends with someone I’ve had feelings for ever since we were children. It’s been over a decade and I’m still good friends with them, but I don’t think they feel the same way about me. And that’s honestly ok, because no matter what I want them to be happy even if it’s not with me because she’s one of my best friends. She’s been going through hard times recently and I’ve always been someone she can talk to about it and she seems to be appreciative of that. I’m pretty introverted and don’t know too many people so I suppose when I think of someone I’d be in a relationship with it’s always been her. But the reality is that it very well may never happen. And people must learn to accept this, it’s alright to still be “just friends” with someone and respect their preference. Although it hasn’t happened to me yet I know there are plenty of people out there who I might have a future with, and even if I want to be more than friends which may never happen, I’ll still always be her friend and wish the best for her because that’s what relationships are all about whether it be romantic or just someone you care for.
After a year of getting to know her and becoming best friends, being trusting enough to be vulnerable and share deeply personal stories loss, I fell hard for her. She's a widow 2 years out and I'm 4 years out. I expressed my feelings as gently as possible at first and then underlined it a month later, but to no avail. After two months of losing sleep, having no appetite and stressing, I'm exhausted and wondering if I should give up. About the time she seems to be warming up and feeling something, she withdraws and goes cold. So frustrating...
Currently in the waiting game with my girl of interest. This video is a great reminder on the things I can do to keep showing I care. Thanks for all the great tips!
wasn’t really in the friend zone before but i’ll just keep holding onto hope and giving her more time 😌 (it’s been 4 days with no reply and my heart is broken)
Holy shit you need to stop torturing yourself. If it's been 3 years, and you haven't come to see them as just a friend, and they haven't come to see you as any more than a friend, then there's nothing positive that will come of prolonging it. There is always another suitable fish in the sea
@@0scarWalsh attachment issues and a series of unfortunate events got me still stuck in the same place, plus I happen to be selfless and sucker for pain a deadly cocktail I call it. But uu in a wierd way liking her keeps me in check even it does it, my friends keep telling me that I need to meet new people but I'm a picky person😂
@@yuranabdul7081I am really happy with your explanation. You are very self-aware of these "hang-ups" and being stuck. If you guys are true friends, that's one thing. If you're just waiting around to finally get crumbs of some love, it's a waste. Question: have you ever expressed openly to her your interest in her?
Thought I'd found someone, we were inseparable. I'd pack a bag and spend the whole week sleeping over at her apartment and we'd just hang out and enjoy each other's company. We'd share secrets that would be taken to the grave otherwise, even adopted a cat together. She said she was scared of a relationship to start but I figured we were mostly there. When I told her how I felt she said "I don't date close friends". I've never known a friend I shared a bed with before. Now she wants to be just friends and tell me all of the intimate details of her new sugar daddy relationship like I'm a gossip girlfriend.
It’s time to give her space and seek happiness elsewhere, my friend. Go out into the world and explore your passions/talents. Find someone who will see you as a lover and won’t treat you like one of her girlfriends. You’ll find someone who’ll be more compatible with you AND drive your friend nuts when she sees how happy you’ve made your significant other. It’ll give her a window into what ‘could have been’ and increase your social value in her eyes.
Great vid with advice you can put into practice today 🤩 I was digging the Ratatouille vibes in the soundtrack too 🪗 Speaking of sound tho, Amanda's voice cut out for a half-second some twenty-odd times, I think it might be a noise gate issue; it might be set too high, so when her voice dips too low or too quiet (or maybe both sometimes? idk) it cuts out words that are sometimes crucial to understanding the sentence 😬 Just something for the editors (proofreaders? prooflisteners?) to be aware of for the future 😅
Been there... They gladly took all the affection and gave me every signal that it's going to happen. And when she texted me "I love you ❤" she would correct herself and add "as a friend". I couldn't stay however.
For the people wanting a relationship think about what you want in a relationship. Is that what you truly desire in a relationship? Do you know what to do long term? Let that sink in.
The friendzone exists when you friend someone who never showed interest in you. I would pay more attention to the woman who laughs with you and playfully touches you
If what you feel for the other person is very strong and you know you wont have it any other way ,you just gotta be brave to risk loosing the person even just as a friend bc it would really be awkward after...if that is your case just do it,say it , and give them time and space to figure out what you really are to them..and youll see if your lucky and they secretly feel the same they will come back and tell you how you mean to them in the most beautiful way anyone can ever put it for you.goodluck❤
That's the craziest thing though, sometimes when you walk away, then they start to be attracted 🤔 I daresay maybe even the ACT of walking away could plant the seed of attraction 🧐🤯 Def don't walk away secretly hoping to rekindle it though, you have to go full send and commit 💯
Yet you can act with it, it's ironic how people say you can not act when you have feelings, but you also can't act on it when you don't have it either. Like THEN WHEN CAN YOU ACT? The problem is that people soley base their feelings on weither they should have a relationship or not. You can be in a relationship and not always be drawn to a person, it doesn't make it anything less.
Tell her/him your emotions and expectations. There, after cutting all communication with her/him. Heal yourself, become a new you, and after months or a year. Check on them. You may get surprised how ready and excited a new relationship is full of new things to explore. If there is nothing for you? You are ready for a healthy relationship for someone looking for the same.
I have been there! I knew something was wrong between the two of after a few dates. In a situation like this I don’t have time to figure out what’s not working with the two of us. So I just moved on. She never tried to get in touch with. With in a few weeks. I found someone that didn’t have to figure out what was wrong between us. You should try to do the same thing!
Being Aro/Ace, I find it difficult to be the one moving beyond friendship. I have enough friends and acquaintances, but just can't get to actual romantic feelings. I thought so once or twice, only to realize that if it took that much rationalization and weighting pros/cons, then it prolly wasn't actually "love".
I'm lucky just to have some friends. Even if I find someone with a lot of things we have in commond, relationships never work out. when your honest with someone that person seeks flows in what you say and will cast doubts about you and ask for more detail or ask you to repeat what you've said over and over and then starts calling you a liar when you know you've told the truth! They tell you to look them in the eye and be honest but still call you a liar! These are the red flags to watch out for when trying to start a relationship! Never look a person in the eye when telling the truth! When ever someone looks you in the eye while talking to you, that also is a red flag! Only liars do that! I've found that out the hard way living with my father!
So. "Friend zone." I'm told this is an expression coined by the show *Friends* and again by the same writer in a different show called *Scrubs* . Might anyone at *Psych to Go* be willing to chat about how common this TV idiom is in psych circles today? And might y'all be willing to do a follow-up video on how the friend feels when the person who wants to be lovers keeps pressing the issue over time (the answer *should* be outraged, but often it is merely resentment at feeling compelled to maintain a friendship and not hurt feelings when clearly that person does not accept "no" as a permanent answer and is only hanging around believing the answer may eventually be "yes")
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About the step 2, what if you suffer from anxiety? I want to demostrate that I'm there for her, but also afraid to do it. Also she is a free spirit and has ADHD, so it's not uncommon to cancel the plans at the last time or forget she had something to do with me, increasing the anxiety.
In januar i told my crush that I like her. I got friend zoned but we become really good friends. In february she told me she likes me but not sure what she wants yet. And now in april she told me she wants to date with me. We are both girls but love is love so we dont care. It totaly worth the time to wait for her.
This is extremely unlikely if she is older by 5 years has someone else in their life and your not your best. The first thing guys is if she says no once or maybe even twice it won’t work. Don’t chase just keep her as a friend or think about something you hated and move on there’s loads more like her hopefully. Hope this helps any amigos
It's easy to spout worthless platitudes when you have nothing to worry about. If you're in the friend zone and you want something more, accept that it's not going to happen.
They ALWAYS have a boyfriend, whether they actually do or not. Are they not interested? Are they testing you? Who knows. I've found it's best to just walk away and find another one of the billions of women who currently exist.
I got friend zoned by a woman who made excuses on not going on a simple coffee date. I was lead on for a few months. I would nudge here and there for 1 date. Nada. She then dropped the ball and let the cat out of the bag that she was flaking on another guy for a date. I was some kind of emotional dumping ground. I called her out on her despicable actions. At that point she lacked integrity and no friendship could be possible let a lone romantic one. Some women will use the friend zone as a way to manipulate men, and to have rotation of options if one relationship blows up. Guys avoid women like that and not waste time waiting on women. If you happen to see an opportunity appear and the friend zone woman is playing around then execute the opportunity. You could end up having a good relationship or if that endeavor bombs it shows the other lady you wont wait around. It could turn the friend zone around or not.
I need to know how to go from relationship to friend zone 😭 I’ve gotten over him but I went off on him a few times over text and now he’s ignoring me 🥺 For good reason but I still wanna be friends like we used to be
Awwww, I'm glad you found something that brings you joy and validation. It's important to have that when you're lonely and the only friends you have are the internet and your sock. 😏
All the best to you!! But the video also says to let go and cherish them as a friend if their answer is still a no...so you should give your best..but expect the worst .... otherwise you will get hurt 🤕
The only useful tip given in this video is to communicate your intentions/interests clearly. Dropping hints, vague signals you're interested, or expecting the other person to read minds doesn't work. Elements such as eye contact, proximity, etc. are the non-verbal part of communicating effectively regardless if you're trying to get into a romantic relationship, interviewing for a job, or selling cars; so it's really just an extension of number 1. The suggestion of space on the other hand is too vague and open ended to be useful... Part of it is common sense in that some people do need time to process, but at the same token if there's a mutual interest it shouldn't take that long to figure things out. Being indecisive is a red flag in a potential relationship of any kind. Are you prepared to deal with the awkwardness and consequences if the other person says "no"? How long should you give them before you can assume their silence is pretty much a "no thanks"? Personally I would give it a week at most... either the person doesn't know what they want or are too afraid to give an answer, so time to move on. Speaking of which are you prepared to move on in the event of rejection?
You're asking the right questions. Especially if you're already looking through love blinded lenses, pretty much anything can be a sign for you that she likes you, while she doesn't. So if it bothers you that much, you should definitely communicate clearly, but also be wary of consequences that your friendship might be lost in the process or you two might be feeling awkward when being together. Had this happen to me a week ago, while we said nothing would change, some stuff definitely changed and the friendship is not as close as it was before. In this case it helps you to move on though and not think about it as much. But thanks for your tips, just by my experience the last few weeks, thats kinda how it went for me.
If the guys have non-crazy, non-jealous girlfriends, they will probably not want you as a girlfriend and will be able to have you as a friend without wanting to pursue a relationship.
How about getting my brain to go from preferring friendzone to being comfortable with relationships? I’m terrified of the idea of commitment. I want to get married but I don’t want to get married. I don’t want what I want. Does that even make any sense? Does anyone even understand what I mean? I want something so badly I can’t have because I don’t want it in the same way everyone else does, and it makes me feel like because I lack that innate desire that actually even bothering with a relationship would be a dangerous waste of time and it makes me feel like I’m wasting my life alone because of it, unable to even rectify this.
@@gr8645 That’s not it at all. I crave it and have wanted it since childhood. But I just don’t experience attraction. I don’t know what that spark feels like that everyone else seems to get. People meet each other, fall in love, get married, have families, and I just don’t understand how to feel that spark. I’ve disappointed so many because I have just never felt it despite wanting it so badly. It’s so hard to describe. People are always like “why do you think you have to be like everyone else?” But that’s not it AT ALL. I want it but I don’t have that spark that’s supposed to be a part of it. Probably doesn’t help I’m autistic.
I cant relate to what you just wrote, each and every single word, @chronic_daydreamer. I despise love and relationships, and in the same time, theres nothing i would desire more in life, than being able to share the nightskies stars with a woman. I despise physical touch, and i also want cuddling more than anything. I despise the idea of I, of all men in this world, should deserve a partner. Im also growing tired of living alone, and have noone to talk to, other than the friends, when they have time to talk, be it on the phone or discord. So yes, i can relate to each and every single word you wrote. I know my response will get ignored as always anyway, but i felt i had to get this off my heart. Signed. ABT 09-03-2024
Always love when people come onto videos like this to say, 'The friendzone doesn't exist!' Yes, it absolutely does. If you're not capable of realizing that, that cognitive dissonance is entirely on you. And as someone who got friendzoned so badly when I was younger that it caused me to withdraw from relationships entirely for over a decade, understand that you may only see someone as a 'friend' and therefore don't care how they feel about you, but that person cares for you enough that that degree of rejection could end up destroying them.
The fear is that when you communicate your feelings clearly, the other person may end the friendship. You have to have a sense of whether they are insecure/fickle enough to do that. You also have to develop deep groundedness in yourself so your loved one can _feel_ you would find joy no matter whether is remains friendship or becomes romantic. This video is so lacking in insight...quoting various supposed authorities doesn't cover for that. If only Life were such a simple formula, we could call it Psych2Go instead. (Thanks for trying tho. Good to have the Silvera voice🎶)
I tried resetting this video multiple times, but I was having trouble hearing the narration at various points in this video. Did this happen to anyone else?
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I needed this last year but at least I have it now, thanks
Thanks for Your AMAZING CONTENT psych2go, this Will help me in the near future 💖❤️💖
Perfect ❤
The sound editing isn't good this time
We getting out of friendzone with this one🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣( I have no friends)
Banger
Relatable
Same here...
Same bro
Me too lil bro
Working on yourself before doing anything else is a good start into getting into a good relationship.
There is a reason I am waiting to get a full-time job I actually like to ask my friend out. My friend does not have a job yet so she has very little opportunities to meet more men
Its what i always say: how would you make someone else happy if youre not happy with yourself?
Work on yourself first! Then you will be ready!
If youre born looking like Shrek, even if you do work on yourself, you will still be looking like Shrek
And be rejected by women. Youre only eligible for the dating market if you look actually good. Self improvement gets you only more disappointment.
@@anderstermansen130 you can change yourself to a certain extent. Cystic acne and baldness can be altered with some cosmetic surgery. Dwarfism and downs syndrome however cannot be altered with today’s technology
I’m guessing you’ve already given up hope. If you have nothing left to lose, and if you are ready to be 6ft under ground, please don’t convince us to swallow the black pill and join you
UA-cam keeps silencing the truth. All I said “no more blackpill”. Now comment was erased
Guys the sound editing, please watch before release!
yeah it was terrible and the music was too loud too, i could not focus on what was said, just that it sounded butchered.
It sounds like a noise gate issue, at a lot of points Amanda's voice either dips lower or quieter than the threshold (or maybe both? idk) so pumping the brakes on that parameter would probably fix it 😅 But YES quality control checks at multiple levels would (hopefully) alleviate or remove this problem 😆
Okay, so I'm not crazy.
Yea, I thought there was something wrong with me because of my current illness.
It’s actually the video that’s ill instead I guess.
I thought I was losing my hearing...
0:45 communicate you feelings.
1:41 show your intentions
2:52 give them space
Brb I gotta become friends with her first
That’s wild💀💀💀
Are you friends yet.?
Nah just ask her if she’d like to see a movie or smthn. Ask her to do fun things don’t ask for a label. Let it happen naturally whatever is meant to be
Same
I had feelings for him but he didn’t for me and we are still great friends! It’s ok I’d rather have him and our friendship than let rejection tear us apart. He’s a great man.
Well a guy here. I also have a female bestie.
And being honest I feel like we are as close as close can get(platonically speaking) to the point where I am considered as THE best friend and not the GUY/MALE best friend and yea ofc i did feel feelings.
It's completely true. Don't ruin shit with the relationship rejection.
Ur still besties. You CAN show love by being a friend, and care about them just as much.
And lucky me, she was EXTREMELY understanding, compassionate and empathetic
So I put care for her as more of a priority than a relationship with her. And trust me it paid off
I would have ruined my life if I heard the advice of ppl saying block em, leave em and treat em like trash. Cos genuinely, in my situation, it's not like they had any fault, not did they treat me badly. It was just me not dealing with my feelings properly. Looking from their perspective, I wouldn't want to hurt a person who simply just doesn't like me the same way i do, they still love me(platonically)
It would be unjust to her for me to break the friendship
@@sidsdabest2416I needed to hear this, thanks
@@sidsdabest2416 A guy here as well i,ve been in the same situation although i made some different choices. I met her in a school trip and because we had so many thing's in common we became friends in 3 days. Fast forward couple weeks pass by and we hang out EVERYDAY . My friends were telling me that she liked me but i didnt
@@sidsdabest2416 i guy here aswell. I want to tell you how my story came down. I met her in a school trip and became friends in 3 days only because we had so much in common. Fast forward 3 weeks we hang out everyday and my friends say that she likes me but i didnt want to ruin what we had so i did nothing about it since i didn't have any feelings about her. A month passes by and we still hang out but not as much because of studies and i start to need her company, i was feeling like the time was stopping when we were hagging out. Thats how i understood i had feelings for her but it was too late, i was already her closest friend the one that knew the most about her and she already stopped have feelings for me. We still hangout and we find out that one of my close friends knew her for years so they meet again after time because i was friends with both. Some time passes by and they start going out ending in a relationship between them. I lost the friendship because we couldnt hang out that much since she had a boyfriend (my second best friend) and the romantic relationship, i lost everything and i was feeling really down for months.
yesterday, i've told my crush my feeling for her, and even tho she enjoys my company, she sees as a friend, so I am feeling kinda sad rn, but this video showed me to maybe don't lose hope yet
Yes but the video also says to let go and cherish them as a friend if their answer is still a no...so you should give your best..but expect the worst .... otherwise you will get hurt 🤕.. All the best to you!
@@vd8589 yeah you are right, i will definitely respect her response and feelings, but I am not sure if i ever be able to lose or forget, what i feel for her..
Can still date her as a friend, takes much time ready be yours. Never sure how long, try date other people and see what change about your friend crush.
Friends can be little jealousy, if they can’t control their feelings.
@vd8589 @AnimeNewsRadio101 yeah we will continue our relationship as friends, and who knows, maybe one day.. dream comes true 😅 but I will probably try to date other people as well. And thank you guys for the comments, it really helped me, to figure things out.
This is where you just give up.
Dont forget that it's not bad to have friends. Friendzone can be something good and it could be more a perspective that you have romantic feelings but the othwr person does not have the same feels.
I experienced the same multiple times in my life. I addressed it and the other person didn't felt the same towards me but we were able to get through the stage and we are now good friends.
Imagin that situation where you are good friends, but your relationship became romantic. Didn't relationship be more enjoying with friend?
What could go wrong if you try, when you are real friends?
Tru, I wish I could have more normal female friends. I once had more than 20 female friends, now I only have 2 of them, the rest was gone after we had a relationship or a friendship with benefits🙃
@@zabinijeziorniak7838 you started with "imagine". I can't control how the other person feels for me. And you don't want to be in a relationship with every friend, right?
My crush rejected me and called me « bro » multiple times. I am now SO SAD I just wanna cry for a decade and it’s sad but I respect her decision anyway because she is the baddest tho.
Timestamps
1). Communicate your feelings clearly 0:45
2). Show your intentions though actions 1:40
3). Give them space to decide 2:51
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
You don't. You accept their friendship for what it is or move on. If someone doesn't want to be more than friends, you don't push it.
Yes, but you should factor in that if you don't tell them they won't know, as well as if they don't reject or avoid your advances in some way, but rather tolerate them they're okay with them. You just have to find out where the limit is and respect it until it's not there anymore, if you want to go on.
That's basically the video.
Married my good friend of 5 years after dating only a year. Happily married 11 years this September. Yes, you don’t push it. But it’s worth the risk to be honest and test the waters. People change. Relationships change. This video just supports that. ❤
Friendzone = not first option
1.comunicate your feelings clearly 0:46
2. Show your intention through action 1:42
3. Give them space and time to decide 2:52
Goodluck for you all!
I failed
Give them space and time, as in don't talk to them until they talk to you?
@@marsjokesmaybe stop approaching them as love interests.
@@ADcrackerjack so I should accidently fall in love with them?
How would one show intent if it's accidental?
Failures happen try again brother you'll succeed this time
@@marsjokes i mean, point 3 aludes to stop approaching them with the intention of them being reciprocate. So stop trying that and just flow with the “friends” stuff until they decide if they want to reciprocate or not.
If you love someone but they only see you as a friend, you definitely should not remain friends, you are just gonna harm yourself with false hope.
Exactly. If they've made it obvious they don't want to be more than that, don't ignore your own well being just to stay friends.
One thing I will say, is take a break from talking to them, maybe a few months, half a year, because down the road you might be able to be friends if the feelings disappear
@@Grumpisaurus I have this huge crush on this girl, i asked her out and she simply said she doesnt have the mind currently for dating and we still do stuff together and she talks over things where i am like..damn thats not something i would talk about with somebody who has a crush on me..
And the worst thing is, you KNOW that it is simply a "friendly" no, but it keeps this glimmer of hope, that even if you know that she doesnt want a relationship is keeping it alive.
Its very hard, i kinda want to take a break but everytime i talk with her i feel soo good that i simply forget it..
But she is away soon for like half a year i hope that i'll be able to see her simply as a friend.
@@foty8679It would have been better if you left her behind first, imo. She's very obviously using you for boyfriend benefits without giving you girlfriend benefits, and you let her get away with it. Her being away for a while can help, but it is nowhere near as effective as simply forcing her to experience what it's like to not have you around, because doing that wouldn't reward her for rejecting you...and might make her reconsider in rare cases.
@@foty8679THe truth is she is using you for attention and validation. She currently doesn't respect you. The only way to stand a chance of anything in the future is to cut all contact, which you should have done after she said no to you. Even though, this is hard.
If she contacts you in the future whilst she is away or before you need to be friendly, but short in all contact. Such as saying stuff like, 'Hey glad you are ok, I don't have time to talk right now, I'll talk to you later. Then don't contact her. You need to do this even once she comes back. If she cares at all she will then start to chase you. If she doesn't, no big deal. Whatever you do don't start hanging out as just friends again. Think of yourself as the prize. I felt like I should give some advice, as I've had this situation happen to me when younger a couple of times and it sucks. When I stopped contact, one came back. Good luck anyway
@@foty8679 That is a tough situation... But maybe she's just afraid of starting a romantic relationship with you, because she's going away for half a year? Long distant relationships, even if it's only temporary, can be frighting and confusing.
I believe that it is impossible to leave friendzone. At least, like right now. Distance yourself from a person if "friendship" is too much painful for you. Even end it if it is needed.
I've been in the friend zone for almost half a year now. We met through a dating app and when I told him after the first date that I would like to get to know him better, he said that he lacked the certain spark for it. I was devastated but so as not to lose him I put myself in the friend zone. We've kept a lot in touch since then but I just can't ignore my feelings for him. I am so sure that he is my perfect match. But I don't know when I should give up hope... right now the friend zone just hurts so much. I've never cried as much as in the last few months
No need to overcomplicate this crap. If a bank doesn't want your money, deposit it in another bank.
i did all these things with my now ex and it worked, clearly as she is now my ex, however, I learned how she really felt about my goals in life and how much she and I were not compatible, and now our friendship is ruined. So to be blunt I miss the friendship but I know it would not survive the test of time as I am a country person and she is a city girl.
In conclusion make sure you are ready because if it doesn't workout the friendship will be lost
This video was just right on time, i asked my crush out on watching a movie together the other day, and this video coming out might just help me!! ❤❤
Good luck bro
A movie is one of the worst first date options, go out to eat somewhere where you can talk to them
@@xxxzombiekillerxxx6079not really if they talk about the movie after or eat before
@@xxxzombiekillerxxx6079 Idk. It depends on the film. It can be either a good bonding opportunity or it could be romantic.
But you should definitely do something which can make emotional bonding with her by own not by movies
I love the voice over of psych2go she is so cool
我也最喜欢她的配音，感觉特别温暖🎉
I’ve been friends with someone I’ve had feelings for ever since we were children. It’s been over a decade and I’m still good friends with them, but I don’t think they feel the same way about me. And that’s honestly ok, because no matter what I want them to be happy even if it’s not with me because she’s one of my best friends. She’s been going through hard times recently and I’ve always been someone she can talk to about it and she seems to be appreciative of that. I’m pretty introverted and don’t know too many people so I suppose when I think of someone I’d be in a relationship with it’s always been her. But the reality is that it very well may never happen. And people must learn to accept this, it’s alright to still be “just friends” with someone and respect their preference. Although it hasn’t happened to me yet I know there are plenty of people out there who I might have a future with, and even if I want to be more than friends which may never happen, I’ll still always be her friend and wish the best for her because that’s what relationships are all about whether it be romantic or just someone you care for.
Please reupload this with the audio fixed 😭
Am I tripping or is the audio buggin
It’s buggin
Same here. I thought something was wrong with my airpods loll
After a year of getting to know her and becoming best friends, being trusting enough to be vulnerable and share deeply personal stories loss, I fell hard for her.
She's a widow 2 years out and I'm 4 years out. I expressed my feelings as gently as possible at first and then underlined it a month later, but to no avail.
After two months of losing sleep, having no appetite and stressing, I'm exhausted and wondering if I should give up.
About the time she seems to be warming up and feeling something, she withdraws and goes cold. So frustrating...
Currently in the waiting game with my girl of interest. This video is a great reminder on the things I can do to keep showing I care. Thanks for all the great tips!
The timing was so right . My friend was asking me how she would be able to move from friend zone to relationship
what was your response, if you don't mind?
Lol a woman that want to move from friendship to relationship?😂 As if women are interested in dating, in 2024? Hey Google, tell me another joke!
The audio is botched in some parts. Words are cut off and it makes it hard to understand sometimes.
Sounds like a noise gate issue 😆 Def something for the editor (proofreaders? prooflisteners?) to be aware of for the future 😅
wasn’t really in the friend zone before but i’ll just keep holding onto hope and giving her more time 😌 (it’s been 4 days with no reply and my heart is broken)
Might be impossible...we must learn to let go buddies.
It's been almost 3 years man
She's a human being. Like you. Yes, let go. There are almost 8 billion people out there
Holy shit you need to stop torturing yourself. If it's been 3 years, and you haven't come to see them as just a friend, and they haven't come to see you as any more than a friend, then there's nothing positive that will come of prolonging it.
There is always another suitable fish in the sea
@@0scarWalsh attachment issues and a series of unfortunate events got me still stuck in the same place, plus I happen to be selfless and sucker for pain a deadly cocktail I call it.
But uu in a wierd way liking her keeps me in check even it does it, my friends keep telling me that I need to meet new people but I'm a picky person😂
@@yuranabdul7081I am really happy with your explanation. You are very self-aware of these "hang-ups" and being stuck. If you guys are true friends, that's one thing. If you're just waiting around to finally get crumbs of some love, it's a waste.
Question: have you ever expressed openly to her your interest in her?
its been 2 years for me, i can totaly feel you, the masculine urge "her or no one"@@yuranabdul7081
Good thing I don't have a crush.
And dont ever develop one. You will disappoint yourself.
@@anderstermansen130 I second this
Thought I'd found someone, we were inseparable. I'd pack a bag and spend the whole week sleeping over at her apartment and we'd just hang out and enjoy each other's company. We'd share secrets that would be taken to the grave otherwise, even adopted a cat together. She said she was scared of a relationship to start but I figured we were mostly there. When I told her how I felt she said "I don't date close friends". I've never known a friend I shared a bed with before. Now she wants to be just friends and tell me all of the intimate details of her new sugar daddy relationship like I'm a gossip girlfriend.
Nahh that’s foul bro !
It’s time to give her space and seek happiness elsewhere, my friend. Go out into the world and explore your passions/talents. Find someone who will see you as a lover and won’t treat you like one of her girlfriends. You’ll find someone who’ll be more compatible with you AND drive your friend nuts when she sees how happy you’ve made your significant other. It’ll give her a window into what ‘could have been’ and increase your social value in her eyes.
Great vid with advice you can put into practice today 🤩 I was digging the Ratatouille vibes in the soundtrack too 🪗 Speaking of sound tho, Amanda's voice cut out for a half-second some twenty-odd times, I think it might be a noise gate issue; it might be set too high, so when her voice dips too low or too quiet (or maybe both sometimes? idk) it cuts out words that are sometimes crucial to understanding the sentence 😬 Just something for the editors (proofreaders? prooflisteners?) to be aware of for the future 😅
I always had this crush on my best friend for a long time, I shared my feelings to her on November
It seems like every time I'm going through something or I'm in a situation, a video pops up with help😵💫😭
Yes like it can read my mind
@@paigemary5491 All facts🤣
Been there... They gladly took all the affection and gave me every signal that it's going to happen. And when she texted me "I love you ❤" she would correct herself and add "as a friend". I couldn't stay however.
wow that must've been brutal...
aww she didnt have more patience before she decided to give her shot at breaking your heart?
For the people wanting a relationship think about what you want in a relationship. Is that what you truly desire in a relationship? Do you know what to do long term? Let that sink in.
The friendzone only exists if you allow it to, and once your in it, you'll remain there until you cut ties.
Only one person had to allow it to exist.
Bruh. The video... 💀
The friendzone exists when you friend someone who never showed interest in you. I would pay more attention to the woman who laughs with you and playfully touches you
@@darthvader0219I would love to meet a woman like that, but I never have
@@SuperGoose42 I met a woman like that and she ended up dating my friend and cutting contact with me 😊
I am done
If what you feel for the other person is very strong and you know you wont have it any other way ,you just gotta be brave to risk loosing the person even just as a friend bc it would really be awkward after...if that is your case just do it,say it , and give them time and space to figure out what you really are to them..and youll see if your lucky and they secretly feel the same they will come back and tell you how you mean to them in the most beautiful way anyone can ever put it for you.goodluck❤
The audio is little bit funky sometimes
I thought my headphones were broken, but seems like I’m not the only one with the sound problem
Remember:
Its not your fault if you end up in the friendzone, but staying there its all on you...
Just stop being ugly, and start look attractive, the exact way women want you to, how hard can that be to figure out? Jeez...
You really can't, just walkway...😢 You can't negotiate attraction, either it's there or not...
That's the craziest thing though, sometimes when you walk away, then they start to be attracted 🤔 I daresay maybe even the ACT of walking away could plant the seed of attraction 🧐🤯 Def don't walk away secretly hoping to rekindle it though, you have to go full send and commit 💯
don't be a simp; she's just using you. WALK. AWAY
It can grow. Can!
Yet you can act with it, it's ironic how people say you can not act when you have feelings, but you also can't act on it when you don't have it either. Like THEN WHEN CAN YOU ACT? The problem is that people soley base their feelings on weither they should have a relationship or not.
You can be in a relationship and not always be drawn to a person, it doesn't make it anything less.
Step 1 = Fail
Step 2 = get a lot of space from that person, so you can cope with your feelings.
Step 3 = Find someone else.
I showed this video to my brother now they're getting married 🤣 thank you
Tell her/him your emotions and expectations. There, after cutting all communication with her/him. Heal yourself, become a new you, and after months or a year. Check on them. You may get surprised how ready and excited a new relationship is full of new things to explore. If there is nothing for you? You are ready for a healthy relationship for someone looking for the same.
I have been there! I knew something was wrong between the two of after a few dates. In a situation like this I don’t have time to figure out what’s not working with the two of us. So I just moved on. She never tried to get in touch with. With in a few weeks. I found someone that didn’t have to figure out what was wrong between us. You should try to do the same thing!
Is just me or is the sound going funky?
I can’t be just friends with someone I’d like to get romantic with. It’s too unbalanced and stressful for me. Even more so if I’d told them.
Being Aro/Ace, I find it difficult to be the one moving beyond friendship. I have enough friends and acquaintances, but just can't get to actual romantic feelings. I thought so once or twice, only to realize that if it took that much rationalization and weighting pros/cons, then it prolly wasn't actually "love".
Platinumed eldenring.... trying to platinum this one 🔥
I'm lucky just to have some friends. Even if I find someone with a lot of things we have in commond, relationships never work out. when your honest with someone that person seeks flows in what you say and will cast doubts about you and ask for more detail or ask you to repeat what you've said over and over and then starts calling you a liar when you know you've told the truth! They tell you to look them in the eye and be honest but still call you a liar! These are the red flags to watch out for when trying to start a relationship! Never look a person in the eye when telling the truth! When ever someone looks you in the eye while talking to you, that also is a red flag! Only liars do that! I've found that out the hard way living with my father!
Yes, i am doing things right before i watched the video but it gave me more hope
It worked. It has been 10 years, she has 3 kids from different fathers, and she doesn't respect at all, but it worked.
😮 sir .. uhm ....She sounds like a red flag?
Beta buxxing at it's finest
you lost me at “communicate your feelings clearly”
been there, done that. and i am happy to say that i am still Single LOL
friendzone is a toxic term
So. "Friend zone." I'm told this is an expression coined by the show *Friends* and again by the same writer in a different show called *Scrubs* . Might anyone at *Psych to Go* be willing to chat about how common this TV idiom is in psych circles today? And might y'all be willing to do a follow-up video on how the friend feels when the person who wants to be lovers keeps pressing the issue over time (the answer *should* be outraged, but often it is merely resentment at feeling compelled to maintain a friendship and not hurt feelings when clearly that person does not accept "no" as a permanent answer and is only hanging around believing the answer may eventually be "yes")
About the step 2, what if you suffer from anxiety?
I want to demostrate that I'm there for her, but also afraid to do it.
Also she is a free spirit and has ADHD, so it's not uncommon to cancel the plans at the last time or forget she had something to do with me, increasing the anxiety.
I saw "easily actionable" and I clicked.
Sup with the audio in this video? :o Its like its censoring some words by just turning the volume of some sounds down to close to zero :P
I dont understand about time thing...how much time shall be sufficient?
Instructions unclear now her boyfriend is chasing me
lmao
I assume, it's because he's fallen for you instead?
@@TheMCzorro lmao
In januar i told my crush that I like her. I got friend zoned but we become really good friends. In february she told me she likes me but not sure what she wants yet. And now in april she told me she wants to date with me. We are both girls but love is love so we dont care. It totaly worth the time to wait for her.
This is extremely unlikely if she is older by 5 years has someone else in their life and your not your best. The first thing guys is if she says no once or maybe even twice it won’t work. Don’t chase just keep her as a friend or think about something you hated and move on there’s loads more like her hopefully. Hope this helps any amigos
When it's not happening, it's not happening. Move on. (And if you *really* love them, then you want them to be happy, too.)
Don’t give me hope… I don’t believe in any kind of love
When the friend zone becomes a super power
It's easy to spout worthless platitudes when you have nothing to worry about. If you're in the friend zone and you want something more, accept that it's not going to happen.
Who needs friends??? Haha, great advices and its not easy actionable steps but it's possible with time and discipline.
Perfect timing! I’m planning on telling my feelings to my friend/crush next Friday.
Good luck! hope it goes well!
I feel terribly sorry for the impending rejection that awaits you.
You got this! Hopefully it goes well!
Good luck! :)
With the audio being a mess and the toxic masculinity being rampant in the comments, no this girl is going to sit this one out.
She already has a boyfriend😢 Waaa.......
I don't think i needed the tips but thank you for it.
They ALWAYS have a boyfriend, whether they actually do or not. Are they not interested? Are they testing you? Who knows. I've found it's best to just walk away and find another one of the billions of women who currently exist.
when did you accept to give up? All women is of course occupied at all times, pal.
The audio is stuttering? Or something, keeps cutting off words
Can you please make a video about opposite sex close friendship while one is married. Thank you!
I got friend zoned by a woman who made excuses on not going on a simple coffee date. I was lead on for a few months. I would nudge here and there for 1 date. Nada. She then dropped the ball and let the cat out of the bag that she was flaking on another guy for a date. I was some kind of emotional dumping ground. I called her out on her despicable actions. At that point she lacked integrity and no friendship could be possible let a lone romantic one. Some women will use the friend zone as a way to manipulate men, and to have rotation of options if one relationship blows up. Guys avoid women like that and not waste time waiting on women. If you happen to see an opportunity appear and the friend zone woman is playing around then execute the opportunity. You could end up having a good relationship or if that endeavor bombs it shows the other lady you wont wait around. It could turn the friend zone around or not.
I need to know how to go from relationship to friend zone 😭
I’ve gotten over him but I went off on him a few times over text and now he’s ignoring me 🥺
For good reason but I still wanna be friends like we used to be
Super helpful! (im afraid of guys)
Not sure if it was just me, but the audio was a bit choppy. Like some words or parts of words got cut out.
Yess thanks for Your greatfull videos, I hope this channel will go far ❤️❤️❤️
I have arrived before you all Mwahaahahahaha
You may have arrived, but I have Come
How
Lol. Psychos everywhere...lol😂
Awwww, I'm glad you found something that brings you joy and validation. It's important to have that when you're lonely and the only friends you have are the internet and your sock. 😏
NOOO
the timing couldnt be better lmao. i told her my feelings but she didnt reciprocate but we agreed to stay as friends.
All the best to you!! But the video also says to let go and cherish them as a friend if their answer is still a no...so you should give your best..but expect the worst .... otherwise you will get hurt 🤕
@@vd8589 nah we staying as friends. The feelings take time to diminish but I'm glad we could stay as friends
@@xerlapis aww that's nice 🥺🥺... At the end of all this.. You get a precious friend
@@vd8589 yeah, girl best friend 😂
good to hear you can stay friends. :) Hopefully it stays that way in the long run!
The only useful tip given in this video is to communicate your intentions/interests clearly. Dropping hints, vague signals you're interested, or expecting the other person to read minds doesn't work. Elements such as eye contact, proximity, etc. are the non-verbal part of communicating effectively regardless if you're trying to get into a romantic relationship, interviewing for a job, or selling cars; so it's really just an extension of number 1.
The suggestion of space on the other hand is too vague and open ended to be useful... Part of it is common sense in that some people do need time to process, but at the same token if there's a mutual interest it shouldn't take that long to figure things out. Being indecisive is a red flag in a potential relationship of any kind. Are you prepared to deal with the awkwardness and consequences if the other person says "no"? How long should you give them before you can assume their silence is pretty much a "no thanks"? Personally I would give it a week at most... either the person doesn't know what they want or are too afraid to give an answer, so time to move on. Speaking of which are you prepared to move on in the event of rejection?
You're asking the right questions. Especially if you're already looking through love blinded lenses, pretty much anything can be a sign for you that she likes you, while she doesn't. So if it bothers you that much, you should definitely communicate clearly, but also be wary of consequences that your friendship might be lost in the process or you two might be feeling awkward when being together. Had this happen to me a week ago, while we said nothing would change, some stuff definitely changed and the friendship is not as close as it was before. In this case it helps you to move on though and not think about it as much. But thanks for your tips, just by my experience the last few weeks, thats kinda how it went for me.
3:25 Are you censoring words like "friendzone", "relationship" and "interference"?
I'm the person who wants to have male friends sometimes. And ALL my male friends always want me to be their gf. How can I deal with that?😑
If the guys have non-crazy, non-jealous girlfriends, they will probably not want you as a girlfriend and will be able to have you as a friend without wanting to pursue a relationship.
Just dump, reject and ghost them, like your type always does? Completely disappear from their lives? Lol?
*cough* get straight female friends and gay male friends. I did 👌🏾
did it work for you, lol?
I just got put in the friend zone I hope this helps
How about getting my brain to go from preferring friendzone to being comfortable with relationships? I’m terrified of the idea of commitment. I want to get married but I don’t want to get married. I don’t want what I want. Does that even make any sense? Does anyone even understand what I mean? I want something so badly I can’t have because I don’t want it in the same way everyone else does, and it makes me feel like because I lack that innate desire that actually even bothering with a relationship would be a dangerous waste of time and it makes me feel like I’m wasting my life alone because of it, unable to even rectify this.
If you want to be in a relationship just because it's expected or you see a lot of people doing it as opposed to innate urges, then just don't do it!
I feel the same way…, life will show us the way
@@gr8645 That’s not it at all. I crave it and have wanted it since childhood. But I just don’t experience attraction. I don’t know what that spark feels like that everyone else seems to get. People meet each other, fall in love, get married, have families, and I just don’t understand how to feel that spark. I’ve disappointed so many because I have just never felt it despite wanting it so badly. It’s so hard to describe. People are always like “why do you think you have to be like everyone else?” But that’s not it AT ALL. I want it but I don’t have that spark that’s supposed to be a part of it. Probably doesn’t help I’m autistic.
I cant relate to what you just wrote, each and every single word, @chronic_daydreamer.
I despise love and relationships, and in the same time, theres nothing i would desire more in life, than being able to share the nightskies stars with a woman.
I despise physical touch, and i also want cuddling more than anything.
I despise the idea of I, of all men in this world, should deserve a partner. Im also growing tired of living alone, and have noone to talk to, other than the friends, when they have time to talk, be it on the phone or discord.
So yes, i can relate to each and every single word you wrote.
I know my response will get ignored as always anyway, but i felt i had to get this off my heart.
Signed.
ABT
09-03-2024
I wrote a very detailed response yet you still delete it?
very nice
I’m going to use this on the homies later pray for me
Will try thank you
The very palpable caution exercised in this video so as to not feed the delulu in you.
This comment was written in so gibberish English, even the translation of spice and wolf made twelve times more sense.
Always love when people come onto videos like this to say, 'The friendzone doesn't exist!'
Yes, it absolutely does. If you're not capable of realizing that, that cognitive dissonance is entirely on you.
And as someone who got friendzoned so badly when I was younger that it caused me to withdraw from relationships entirely for over a decade, understand that you may only see someone as a 'friend' and therefore don't care how they feel about you, but that person cares for you enough that that degree of rejection could end up destroying them.
The fear is that when you communicate your feelings clearly, the other person may end the friendship. You have to have a sense of whether they are insecure/fickle enough to do that. You also have to develop deep groundedness in yourself so your loved one can _feel_ you would find joy no matter whether is remains friendship or becomes romantic.
This video is so lacking in insight...quoting various supposed authorities doesn't cover for that. If only Life were such a simple formula, we could call it Psych2Go instead. (Thanks for trying tho. Good to have the Silvera voice🎶)
I tried resetting this video multiple times, but I was having trouble hearing the narration at various points in this video. Did this happen to anyone else?
It happened to me as well and I see from the comments that others also had issues with the audio
I just don’t want to pursue a relationship because im worried it may hurt my friendship, and I really want to at least be good friends.
Welp im gonna try communicating in a few days... Wish me luck
1. Be handsome
2. Be attractive
3. Don't be unattractive
I think there were a few audio errors.
It all makes sense, thank you for your perspective and guidance!
Step 1: make friends
"Great!" 😫