Hello All! We are overwhelmed by your kind comments! Thank you so much for sharing your stories with us! Your words, love and positivity keep us going! Sending you all best wishes and once again, big thanks! Peace! 💚
I'm a 59 year old man, I don't have a single blood relative left, all my family have gone back to the stars. There's rarely a day goes by that I don't weep for them, especially my Mum. Crying is a release, a strength even, and please, I say to anyone, don't ever be ashamed of crying, be proud of it!....Thank you both for a lovely and genuine reaction to this beautiful song.
I'm 73 and the part that really hits me hard is, "I wasn't there that morning when my father passed away. I didn't get to tell him all the things I had to say." In 1963 I was 13 and my Father died of a heart attack while out of town. I'm teary eyed while I'm typing this.
My dad just had his 90th birthday in 2010 and the people at the nursing home said that he was in great health and was doing well. Two weeks later he died. If he was in poor health we would have had one of those eye-to-eye talks, but we thought we had plenty of time for that, but I guess we didn't.
I wish you could share your pain with us. It’s obvious that this song hits close to home for you. Sometimes it helps to open up and embrace the grief and work through it and share it , because it helps to get it out. It dulls the sharp edge a little. But I certainly respect you for not wanting to and I understand. I also give you a lot of credit for finishing the song while having so much pain. Thank you for doing this reaction, as tough as it was. Thank you.
Please, please don't be embarrassed by your emotional response to this song, I can pretty much guarantee that we have been moved to tears by these lyrics.
As a 30 year old man, that song inspired me to tell my father what he meant to me. Couldn't find the words face to face, so I wrote him a letter telling him what he meant to me. 20 years later as he lay dying, I did tell him these things and after he passed when going through his things, I found the letter I had sent him. He had kept it all those years.
Don't worry brother. Your reaction is exactly why this song stands the test of time. It breaks everyone's heart everytime it is heard because it's the the truth of every one of us living a human life eh. Thankyou, All the very best. Zebedee from Oz.👍
So sorry to see the song affect you this much. As someone who lost both parents and my only brother it resonates with me. My dad never got to see me married or my kids being born, so can empathise in how it hits you. Keep reacting honestly, it’s why we watch your channel.
This has to be the rawest reaction I have ever seen to this song. It touches me in a place that nobody can touch. You are obviously feeling the meaning behind the song. We all go through our own agonies but keep your head High, you seem such a thoughtful and caring soul. May God be with you.
There is no shame in crying. Good songs, especially those that are as meaningful and reflective like this one, can resonate very deeply and powerfully.
This song was released the same year my wife and I married. For various reasons, things were difficult for her at home, but soon she was leave and start her own life with me. Her father was a lovely, decent, hard-working man, for whom I had the most respect. Unfortunately he passed weeks before our wedding. On the day he died, my wife was at home, waiting for her turn to visit her father in hospital. In the weeks that followed, she confided to me that she realised at the time her father died, she was convinced she saw him pass the living room window and smile at her. She always felt that she never got the opportunity to tell him how much she loved him. This song was a huge hit with constant airplay, we would often hear it on the radio while driving. We would be reduced to tears.
No need to apologize for showing your feelings. Music can affect your emotions in ways we don't always expect. And thats the beauty of music. And this song really does hit deep.
You two are simply amazing....... You experience Music the way it was meant to be experienced......... Right from the heart........ I was crying right along with you........ ha ha. The lyrics of this song really hit you. Who can not relate?. ....... Thanks again for making me weep and smile.......
I knew, that Andrei will be overwhelmed by these lyrics, when I saw, that you are going to react to this song. It has a very deep meaning, and I can feel the meanings of this song very closely, because this song describes the situation between me and my father sooooo well (up to the moment, that as well I wasn't present, when my father passed away), and I never ever could move this things out of our ways to make full peace between us. This was especially not possible anymore because my father got mentally ill his last years and he saw and heard and felt things, which weren't really there and his reality shifted away from our reality and every try to find a common view of the simple things of life failed, let alone any attempt to remove all those old and unspoken things and getting peace over it. So in a way this is quite my song and I'm now in the same position Mike Rutherford describes in his song to call out to the people, to make it better than I did and say it out and say it clear (and make peace) before we die. Oh, and to Andre I want to say (as a man) : don't ever promise to never cry again! This is nothing you should be ashamed off! If this song reaches the peoples heart and possibly can make them to draw conclusions for their own life, then the song has full filled its purpose. Nobody should be ashamed about tears ever! Don't try to be the "hard" or "tough" guy, if nobody asks for it. You don't have to prove anything at all! Really - listen to your wise wife ;-)
I was brought up by my mother and her parents. In 1988, when the song came out, it made a deep impression on me and I tried to tell my family that I loved them. I don't think I managed to tell them everything on my heart, but I think they understood. I'm glad that I did because within 10 years I had lost them all. Sending you both love. 🖤🖤
If you don't at least get tears in your eyes with this song you're not human!!!! It's one of the best songs ever at bringing out emotions about family and how close you are to one another!!!!
Please don't be afraid of being upset. It's an incredibly moving song. I cry every time and both my parents are alive. Let that emotion out. It can be cathartic, and there's no need for embarrassment. In fact we all love genuine reactions. It's very touching to see you both and the love you have for each other.
I can´t watch it either without tears, that´s just the way it is... But hey, tears are strength and being able to show means that you are a person with feelings, that you have an intact soul in that sence. The opposite, not being able to show emotion, is no way to live. Thank guys, you are great!!😍
I was with my father when he passed away, after fighting for three days, the doctor told us that there was no way for him to be saved, I went up to him and told him: Dad, go in peace, calm down, we're going to be fine. After telling him that he stopped fighting. I miss you Dad
This song is a poignant reminder to say what needs to be said, even if it is hard to do. My father passed away 22 years ago and we never had an adversary relationship but this song makes me cry anyway. But I try to express myself to everyone I love even if it hurts to have the discussion. Even conflicts usually end up strengthening the relationship once the dust clears.
I've heard that song 100 times over the years and still cry every time. Not a day goes by since 1983 that I don't think of and wish I could have told my father how much I loved and appreciated him.
My father died on March 14, 2012, three days after my birthday. They let me know he was gone by awaking me with a call at about 6:30 in the morning. He was 90 years old. He had passed away in the night at the nursing facility where he was living after having had a stroke. Except for my wife, he was my best friend. I still miss him every day and I often feel guilty because I hadn't been to see him in the two days before he passed. Oh, how I wish I could have those days back! If those who have gone on ahead of us can see our tears, the tears we cry are not wasted for they know we cry for them and the time we wish we could redeem. God bless you Andrei! except my wife
This great song came out in 1988. It means the same to me now, as it did back then. The message of this song is obvious to anyone who has lost someone in their life. Especially a parent. And hope you don't keep that promise. Because I cry then as i do now, every time I hear this. To me, that is what music is for. There is no shame in crying. It's you feel.
What a beautiful message. We are all crying together from across the globe. Unreal how a song can touch ones soul. The whole world should listen to this. Maybe people would be kinder and appreciate how precious life is. Give each other a hug. God Bless. Have a good day!🐢
Showing emotion to a song’s lyrics means you understand what the song is saying to everyone who listens. The greatest compliment you can give. It means you’re strong enough to feel real emotions, and that’s not all that common. Especially for men!
As a 52 year old who buried his father at 19, his mother at 26, and his stepfather at 31, don't be ashamed of tour tears. I've known this song since it came out in 1988, and I still cry with it. None of my parents ever met my kids. They would be so proud of them. Especially my mother. As a single mom with only a son, she looked forward to one day having a granddaughter, and sure enough, my first born is a girl who is studyfor her PhD in a chemistry field. Grandma would so love you girl!
I lost my father 27 years ago. Only 4 months after his first grandson was born (first boy in family in 27 years). Hate he wasnt here to see him grow up.Im 56 and still cry like a baby when I hear this
Never feel bad about showing your feelings, this song has a deep meaning for many people, i think all of us now and then have a few regrets, this song just makes you think of them and it moves emotions in your heart. Beautiful Reaction.
Such a beautiful song, always makes me emotional because like many people out there, I never got to tell my parents how much I loved them. The wonderful lead vocalist for this song is Paul Carrack and I love how the choir they use here is all made up of people from the middle aged generation, that's a lovely touch. 🙋♂ ❤
Never be ashamed or embarrassed by your tears. Having a tender, empathetic heart is something to be proud of. Beautiful reaction. Your love for each other shone through brilliantly. This song makes me cry every time I hear it.
Perhaps the most eye-opening song of all time. A song everyone can relate to. There is no shame in crying when listening to a song that is as emotional and powerful as The Living Years is.
The song written by Mike Rutherford (the guitarist), and B.A.Robertson (who had a number of hits as a solo artist) and sung by Paul Carrack (a brilliant singer/songwriter), the song is about Mike Rutherford's relationship with his father, I have seen Paul Carrack many times in concert and this always gets a standing ovation, unfortunately the third member of the group Paul Young passed away in 2000 RIP, so many MATM songs for you to react too Nobody's Perfect All I Need Is A Miracle Over My Shoulder Beggar On A Beach Of Gold Silent Running and more, great reaction guys, there is no shame in showing emotions ❤ 🇬🇧
This song still makes me cry thinking about my father when he passed we weren't talking, don't ever wait to say what you feel ✌️if people don't cry when they hear this song I seriously have to question if they have a soul........ you know?
It's hard to feel in the moment but tears are a beautiful thing. They are one of the many gifts of music, the ability to nudge us gently towards feelings that we need to sit in for a bit, and express. "There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power" ~ Rumi
When I saw the thumbnail I immediately thought "Don't click - you're going to cry." but tears sometimes need to come out. I clicked to shed tears in honour of my late father & to give a big thumbs up to Andrei & Dominika. Cheers, tears & chimo from Canada
This song really tugs at the heart, it's made me cry before and nearly always gets a response from me when I hear it..... such true and meaningful lyrics delivered in a beautiful way, one of the best reactions I've ever seen to this, thank you.
André (forgive me if the spelling is incorrect), I can see this is more than just a reaction to an emotional song, and I'm sorry for your pain. I wasn't there when my father passed away. I never got to say goodbye, and the pain of that will always be there. Let yourself cry; let youself feel sad, and never apologize for your feelings. Know that there are many of us who share your pain, and we honor your honest feelings. You and Dominica (sorry if misspelled) are lovely people. ❤💔
MY Dad passed 2 years ago, and this song always gets me reliving our times together. He raised me in the country, and I will always be grateful. First time here. I enjoyed this.
The fact that Andre could not comment speaks volumes and more than words can say! You two are so perfect for each other and never change!! I cried so hard watching your reaction and I watched it several times and every time it hit me the same way!! I lost my Father when I was 5 years old and it was 5 days before Christmas December 20th 1969., and I only have a few memories of him but I hold them so close to my heart! Just a great reaction!!!
62 and this song still makes me tear up thinking about my parents... Bless you 2, I just hope my son and i dont have any unspoken feelings when my day comes.....
I can't listen to this song without tears. I didn't always have the best relationship with my dad. Later in has life he moved 3,000 miles away and I did not see him often. He had Parkinson's and Dementia but refused to move back home with the rest of the family. I couldn't get there in time before he passed. I could only speak to him on the phone but could not tell if he understood what I was telling him. Did not know if he passed knowing I said I loved him. This song came out way before he passed but has a much harder impact on me now than it did when I was younger.
It doesn't even have to be a negative relationship to feel this song and cry. My Dad passed away suddenly in his sleep in Feb 2005. My daughter was born in Mar 2006,and that part "I think I caught his spirit later that same year, I'm sure I heard his echo in my baby's newborn tears" wrecks me to this day. He never got to see her, and he would have loved her. She never got to see or meet this man who means so much to me and even now, 18 years on, I still miss and cry for. Some songs are just needed, and this one is one of those that makes you cry, but in a healing good way. Beautiful and emotional reaction-never apologize for that!
Gods blessings on you sir. Tears are nothing to be ashamed of they are indicators of strength and compassion. This song makes me cry every time I hear it and I am 75 yrs old
This was a powerful and beautiful reaction. Thank you for being authentically vulnerable in your reaction. This song really speaks to our hearts, and it would be very difficult for anyone not to cry. I am subscribing to your channel.
I'm sure that this song really hits home with so many people, I know it does with me. That's the special power of music, to reduce us to tears! Thank you so much for sharing.
I just wanna say - against my better judgement I have literally just sent a message to my dad. I don't want to shed tears in few years wondering "what if". So TY. Regardless of the reply, or what comes of it - I did my part, and this video helped me do it
This is a beautiful, heartfelt song that has the ability to uncover one's locked-away emotions of a father that has passed. I can easily relate to your reaction to this song. It shows how authentic you are as a human, and it reinforces why I'll continue to watch and support your channel.
Thank you so much for the reaction. Sorry that it caught you off guard. When a beautiful song wakes your Spirit, it can easily be overwhelming. Take care guys.
Beautiful reaction. Don't be embarrassed about being emotional my man. My father died of a heart attack in 1986. The year after I joined the USAF. He was a WWII Vet himself. Our daughter was born in 1988. The year this came out. So this song gets me every time. She is a practicing physician now.
Any song that evokes an emotion is a good thing as that means we can feel things deeply and it allows us to process emotions. Don’t be sorry be glad you have memories .❤️
Music IS emotions! Every time I see anyone react to this song I drew tears... The Mike here is Mike Rutherford from Genesis, same group as Phil Collins and Peter Gabriel! The talent from Genesis and most of the band members solo stuff was unique and amazing! LOVE! ❤
The beauty of music - it speaks to each of us using a language only our hearts can understand. ❤ I appreciate your raw reaction to a song that makes me cry every time.
Another beautiful reaction.This has taught me to listen to the lyrics much closer.I have heard this many many times over the years but my reaction tonight was quite similar to yours.Thank you xx
I can't listen to this song/performance without getting emotional. I lost my father when I was still in my twenties. It was a third heart attack that took him. A wall had been built up between us, because of the 1960's generation gap. It got to the point that we didn't talk at all. We lived in the same house, and yet at the same time in different worlds. And suddenly he died. I went into the hospital room, when the doctor asked if anyone wished to go in. I felt compelled to. I walked to the bed where he lay, now expired, put my head upon his chest and wept like a child. And only now that he was gone, I was able to "tell" him how much I loved him ...
Do you know who Genesis is? Mike Rutherford was the bass player and guitarist of Genesis for over 50 years! The singer in this band is Paul Carrack, who also sang in Ace, Squeeze and his own solo albums. Mike wrote this song, and wrote many iconic songs for Genesis (Follow You Follow Me, Watcher of the Skies, Land of Confusion are a few). Heartfelt reaction. You could always pause a few minutes and then discuss... The song was inspired by Mike Rutherford and B.A. Robertson realizing their fathers had died around the same time, and they later learned singer Paul Carrack's father had died when he was young, as well. Rutherford said: "Being of similar age, we both came from an era where our parents had lived through two world wars, when young men wanted to be like their fathers - wear the same clothes, do the same things. But then there was a huge change and our generation wanted to be anything but their fathers. It wasn't our parents' fault, there was just a big social change. Pop music had come along, The Beatles, denim trousers... for the first time, teens had their own culture. That's how our generation couldn't really talk to our parents in the same way. So we had the idea of writing a song about how you never really talk to your father, and you miss out on these things."
I always break down upon hearing this moving hymn, and am equally moved by your reactions. And let me tell you. Two of the strangest experiences in my life were two, no, three different men who seemed entirely unmoved by the death of their father. I could not relate in the least. That you can weep about this lachrymosal classic shows your humanity. Both of you. BTW. Mike was the bassist for Genesis, and original member, I'm pretty sure.
One of the most genuine reactions I’ve ever seen. This IS one of the most beautiful songs ever written. No one could’ve done it like M & the M. I cry EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. Be blessed. 😊✌🏼
One of the greatest songs of all time. This is what we had in the 70s 80s 90s. Teenagers loved songs like this..what happened to music that meant something & hit u where it hurts deep?! Thank god i grew up in that era when music was truly music and left you speechless
Dominika you can read between the lines of any song, but Andrei... wearing your heart on your sleeve is your power, never cover it up!! You guys are the best reaction duo! Maine, USA
Yeah this is one of those songs that make you think about your own relationships with some you love and miss which pulls at your heart ❤️ string's which you started making me cry 😭 another beautiful reaction love it.❤️👍
The song is beautiful, and Andre, so was your reaction! The courage you displayed to continue with the reaction is courage I don’t believe exist in me. I would have taken the cowards way out. Thank you for this reaction!
Hello All! We are overwhelmed by your kind comments! Thank you so much for sharing your stories with us! Your words, love and positivity keep us going! Sending you all best wishes and once again, big thanks! Peace! 💚
Mike is Mike Rutherford, guitarist with Genesis.
Phil Collins (of Genesis) sang
@@kevobeney5308 Yes Phil was the Voice of Genesis, but not here, thats Paul Carrack, who is also a good Solo Artist.
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My dad committed suicide when I was 9 months old, so this song hits hard. Let it all out brother don't be ashamed to cry or let your emotions out
I'm a 59 year old man, I don't have a single blood relative left, all my family have gone back to the stars. There's rarely a day goes by that I don't weep for them, especially my Mum. Crying is a release, a strength even, and please, I say to anyone, don't ever be ashamed of crying, be proud of it!....Thank you both for a lovely and genuine reaction to this beautiful song.
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You have a living brother here always for you
I'm 73 and the part that really hits me hard is, "I wasn't there that morning when my father passed away. I didn't get to tell him all the things I had to say." In 1963 I was 13 and my Father died of a heart attack while out of town. I'm teary eyed while I'm typing this.
😢😢no words needed😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bless your heart.
My father died of a heart attack at my last high school football game. I still cannot talk about it 50 years later.
Me too....
My dad just had his 90th birthday in 2010 and the people at the nursing home said that he was in great health and was doing well. Two weeks later he died. If he was in poor health we would have had one of those eye-to-eye talks, but we thought we had plenty of time for that, but I guess we didn't.
Such a moving reaction. Everybody cries at some time. It doesn't make you a lesser person, it's a sign of inner strength and compassion.
I Concur
As REM said, "Everybody Hurts" If you keep it all bottled up it will only come out at the wrong time. Emotional constipation is a thing.
I wish you could share your pain with us. It’s obvious that this song hits close to home for you. Sometimes it helps to open up and embrace the grief and work through it and share it , because it helps to get it out. It dulls the sharp edge a little. But I certainly respect you for not wanting to and I understand. I also give you a lot of credit for finishing the song while having so much pain. Thank you for doing this reaction, as tough as it was. Thank you.
So true it is a sign of being human and feeling empathetic!
I love this song. Totally understand very moving lyrics
Please, please don't be embarrassed by your emotional response to this song, I can pretty much guarantee that we have been moved to tears by these lyrics.
As a 30 year old man, that song inspired me to tell my father what he meant to me. Couldn't find the words face to face, so I wrote him a letter telling him what he meant to me. 20 years later as he lay dying, I did tell him these things and after he passed when going through his things, I found the letter I had sent him. He had kept it all those years.
For me, there is almost nothing sadder than seeing such an experienced man cry. I completely cried with you.
I feel it dude.
Don't worry brother.
Your reaction is exactly why this song stands the test of time.
It breaks everyone's heart everytime it is heard because it's the the truth of every one of us living a human life eh.
Thankyou,
All the very best.
Zebedee from Oz.👍
Brother you don’t need to apologise to anyone , you have a beautiful soul and the world would be a far better place if we had more of you .
So sorry to see the song affect you this much. As someone who lost both parents and my only brother it resonates with me. My dad never got to see me married or my kids being born, so can empathise in how it hits you. Keep reacting honestly, it’s why we watch your channel.
I'm crying watching you crying to this song. It's nothing to be ashamed of. It shows your empathy, humanity and compassion.
This has to be the rawest reaction I have ever seen to this song. It touches me in a place that nobody can touch. You are obviously feeling the meaning behind the song. We all go through our own agonies but keep your head High, you seem such a thoughtful and caring soul. May God be with you.
It takes a big man to cry and it shows compassion as well as strength
I'm 50 and this song hits harder the longer I live. As a daughter and a mother...the lyrics are beautiful and haunting. Tears are expected ❤
Yes,you are right and just wait until you are 70,next year,in London,like I am :)
Don't be ashamed of your tears. Everyone has emotions. Music often leads me to tears. I genuinely appreciate your honest reactions.
There is no shame in crying. Good songs, especially those that are as meaningful and reflective like this one, can resonate very deeply and powerfully.
I am 60 years old. I lost my dad when I was 10. I’m not ashamed to say I cry whenever I hear this song. The power of music.
This song was released the same year my wife and I married. For various reasons, things were difficult for her at home, but soon she was leave and start her own life with me. Her father was a lovely, decent, hard-working man, for whom I had the most respect. Unfortunately he passed weeks before our wedding. On the day he died, my wife was at home, waiting for her turn to visit her father in hospital. In the weeks that followed, she confided to me that she realised at the time her father died, she was convinced she saw him pass the living room window and smile at her. She always felt that she never got the opportunity to tell him how much she loved him. This song was a huge hit with constant airplay, we would often hear it on the radio while driving. We would be reduced to tears.
No need to apologize for showing your feelings. Music can affect your emotions in ways we don't always expect. And thats the beauty of music. And this song really does hit deep.
You two are simply amazing....... You experience Music the way it was meant to be experienced......... Right from the heart........ I was crying right along with you........ ha ha. The lyrics of this song really hit you. Who can not relate?. ....... Thanks again for making me weep and smile.......
I knew, that Andrei will be overwhelmed by these lyrics, when I saw, that you are going to react to this song. It has a very deep meaning, and I can feel the meanings of this song very closely, because this song describes the situation between me and my father sooooo well (up to the moment, that as well I wasn't present, when my father passed away), and I never ever could move this things out of our ways to make full peace between us. This was especially not possible anymore because my father got mentally ill his last years and he saw and heard and felt things, which weren't really there and his reality shifted away from our reality and every try to find a common view of the simple things of life failed, let alone any attempt to remove all those old and unspoken things and getting peace over it. So in a way this is quite my song and I'm now in the same position Mike Rutherford describes in his song to call out to the people, to make it better than I did and say it out and say it clear (and make peace) before we die.
Oh, and to Andre I want to say (as a man) : don't ever promise to never cry again! This is nothing you should be ashamed off! If this song reaches the peoples heart and possibly can make them to draw conclusions for their own life, then the song has full filled its purpose. Nobody should be ashamed about tears ever! Don't try to be the "hard" or "tough" guy, if nobody asks for it. You don't have to prove anything at all! Really - listen to your wise wife ;-)
Andrei has a very beautiful soul. Never change... you are perfect. Love you guys. ❤🧡💛💙
Not many men can listen to this song without tearing up. I teared up watching you cry.
Me too
I was brought up by my mother and her parents. In 1988, when the song came out, it made a deep impression on me and I tried to tell my family that I loved them. I don't think I managed to tell them everything on my heart, but I think they understood. I'm glad that I did because within 10 years I had lost them all. Sending you both love. 🖤🖤
If you don't at least get tears in your eyes with this song you're not human!!!! It's one of the best songs ever at bringing out emotions about family and how close you are to one another!!!!
Please don't be afraid of being upset. It's an incredibly moving song. I cry every time and both my parents are alive. Let that emotion out. It can be cathartic, and there's no need for embarrassment. In fact we all love genuine reactions. It's very touching to see you both and the love you have for each other.
Despite hearing this song hundreds of times over the years I still find it very emotional........and my father is still alive!
One of the most moving and powerful songs. Paul Carrack's voice is perfect for it. Don't worry about showing your emotions, it is a good thing.
"Mike", btw, is Mike Rutherford. He was the guitar player from Genesis. This was a side project of his
I can´t watch it either without tears, that´s just the way it is... But hey, tears are strength and being able to show means that you are a person with feelings, that you have an intact soul in that sence. The opposite, not being able to show emotion, is no way to live.
Thank guys, you are great!!😍
I was with my father when he passed away, after fighting for three days, the doctor told us that there was no way for him to be saved, I went up to him and told him: Dad, go in peace, calm down, we're going to be fine. After telling him that he stopped fighting. I miss you Dad
This song is a poignant reminder to say what needs to be said, even if it is hard to do. My father passed away 22 years ago and we never had an adversary relationship but this song makes me cry anyway. But I try to express myself to everyone I love even if it hurts to have the discussion. Even conflicts usually end up strengthening the relationship once the dust clears.
I've heard that song 100 times over the years and still cry every time. Not a day goes by since 1983 that I don't think of and wish I could have told my father how much I loved and appreciated him.
My father died on March 14, 2012, three days after my birthday. They let me know he was gone by awaking me with a call at about 6:30 in the morning. He was 90 years old. He had passed away in the night at the nursing facility where he was living after having had a stroke. Except for my wife, he was my best friend. I still miss him every day and I often feel guilty because I hadn't been to see him in the two days before he passed. Oh, how I wish I could have those days back!
If those who have gone on ahead of us can see our tears, the tears we cry are not wasted for they know we cry for them and the time we wish we could redeem. God bless you Andrei!
except my wife
This great song came out in 1988. It means the same to me now, as it did back then. The message of this song is obvious to anyone who has lost someone in their life. Especially a parent. And hope you don't keep that promise. Because I cry then as i do now, every time I hear this. To me, that is what music is for. There is no shame in crying. It's you feel.
What a beautiful message. We are all crying together from across the globe. Unreal how a song can touch ones soul. The whole world should listen to this. Maybe people would be kinder and appreciate how precious life is. Give each other a hug. God Bless. Have a good day!🐢
Showing emotion to a song’s lyrics means you understand what the song is saying to everyone who listens. The greatest compliment you can give. It means you’re strong enough to feel real emotions, and that’s not all that common. Especially for men!
As a 52 year old who buried his father at 19, his mother at 26, and his stepfather at 31, don't be ashamed of tour tears. I've known this song since it came out in 1988, and I still cry with it. None of my parents ever met my kids. They would be so proud of them. Especially my mother. As a single mom with only a son, she looked forward to one day having a granddaughter, and sure enough, my first born is a girl who is studyfor her PhD in a chemistry field. Grandma would so love you girl!
I lost my father 27 years ago. Only 4 months after his first grandson was born (first boy in family in 27 years). Hate he wasnt here to see him grow up.Im 56 and still cry like a baby when I hear this
Never feel bad about showing your feelings, this song has a deep meaning for many people, i think all of us now and then have a few regrets, this song just makes you think of them and it moves emotions in your heart. Beautiful Reaction.
Such a beautiful song, always makes me emotional because like many people out there, I never got to tell my parents how much I loved them. The wonderful lead vocalist for this song is Paul Carrack and I love how the choir they use here is all made up of people from the middle aged generation, that's a lovely touch. 🙋♂ ❤
By far the most honest response to one of the best songs ever written
Please don't apologize for crying it's a beautiful thing to Express your feelings
Never be ashamed or embarrassed by your tears. Having a tender, empathetic heart is something to be proud of. Beautiful reaction. Your love for each other shone through brilliantly. This song makes me cry every time I hear it.
DON'T STOP SHOWING EMOTION!!... Ur Reaction is REAL!!.. and PRECIOUS!!.. WE LOVE UUUUUU!!!.. DON'T STOP PLZZZ!!..
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Perfect reaction,from lovely people ❤❤❤❤
Perhaps the most eye-opening song of all time. A song everyone can relate to. There is no shame in crying when listening to a song that is as emotional and powerful as The Living Years is.
its a song that this 66 year old man always crys (gets emotional) to and yes... I'm crying now. thanks for the reaction.
The song written by Mike Rutherford (the guitarist), and B.A.Robertson (who had a number of hits as a solo artist) and sung by Paul Carrack (a brilliant singer/songwriter), the song is about Mike Rutherford's relationship with his father, I have seen Paul Carrack many times in concert and this always gets a standing ovation, unfortunately the third member of the group Paul Young passed away in 2000 RIP, so many MATM songs for you to react too
Nobody's Perfect
All I Need Is A Miracle
Over My Shoulder
Beggar On A Beach Of Gold
Silent Running and more, great reaction guys, there is no shame in showing emotions ❤ 🇬🇧
This song still makes me cry thinking about my father when he passed we weren't talking, don't ever wait to say what you feel ✌️if people don't cry when they hear this song I seriously have to question if they have a soul........ you know?
It's hard to feel in the moment but tears are a beautiful thing. They are one of the many gifts of music, the ability to nudge us gently towards feelings that we need to sit in for a bit, and express.
"There is a sacredness in tears.
They are not the mark of weakness, but of power" ~ Rumi
Unfortunately, the hardest thing for a father and son to say to each other is, I LOVE YOU. This is a very old problem.
When I saw the thumbnail I immediately thought "Don't click - you're going to cry." but tears sometimes need to come out. I clicked to shed tears in honour of my late father & to give a big thumbs up to Andrei & Dominika.
Cheers, tears & chimo from Canada
This song really tugs at the heart, it's made me cry before and nearly always gets a response from me when I hear it..... such true and meaningful lyrics delivered in a beautiful way, one of the best reactions I've ever seen to this, thank you.
Respect.
Sept. 08, 2011 at 8:30 p.m. my father passed. I was at work two hours away. This song hits hard, still.
This song brings me to tears everytime I hear it. Still a beautiful song.
It moves all of us. We regret all we didn’t say to the ones we love before they pass away. This song is beautiful.
André (forgive me if the spelling is incorrect), I can see this is more than just a reaction to an emotional song, and I'm sorry for your pain. I wasn't there when my father passed away. I never got to say goodbye, and the pain of that will always be there. Let yourself cry; let youself feel sad, and never apologize for your feelings. Know that there are many of us who share your pain, and we honor your honest feelings. You and Dominica (sorry if misspelled) are lovely people. ❤💔
MY Dad passed 2 years ago, and this song always gets me reliving our times together. He raised me in the country, and I will always be grateful. First time here. I enjoyed this.
The fact that Andre could not comment speaks volumes and more than words can say! You two are so perfect for each other and never change!!
I cried so hard watching your reaction and I watched it several times and every time it hit me the same way!!
I lost my Father when I was 5 years old and it was 5 days before Christmas December 20th 1969., and I only have a few memories of him but I hold them so close to my heart! Just a great reaction!!!
A testament to the greatness of the band Genesis is the amazing solo works of band members Mike Rutherford, Peter Gabriel, and Phil Collins.
62 and this song still makes me tear up thinking about my parents... Bless you 2, I just hope my son and i dont have any unspoken feelings when my day comes.....
Your heart shines when you laugh... Also, when you cry.
Thank you for, although personal, sharing your heart with us xx
I end up tearing up anytime I hear this great song. So, I feel you my friend.
I can't listen to this song without tears. I didn't always have the best relationship with my dad. Later in has life he moved 3,000 miles away and I did not see him often. He had Parkinson's and Dementia but refused to move back home with the rest of the family. I couldn't get there in time before he passed. I could only speak to him on the phone but could not tell if he understood what I was telling him. Did not know if he passed knowing I said I loved him. This song came out way before he passed but has a much harder impact on me now than it did when I was younger.
I think the most important thing to take from this is that you told him "I love you"
Your husband is such a sweet soul. I love you both. you have good hearts. God bless you, from the usa.
I had the same reaction after my dad passed. This song is a beautiful message.
Beautiful.... I'm 62 and I still break down.
Heart wrenching song. Still listening this song in 2024. Paul Carrack deserves alot of credit for his amazing voice
It doesn't even have to be a negative relationship to feel this song and cry. My Dad passed away suddenly in his sleep in Feb 2005. My daughter was born in Mar 2006,and that part "I think I caught his spirit later that same year, I'm sure I heard his echo in my baby's newborn tears" wrecks me to this day. He never got to see her, and he would have loved her. She never got to see or meet this man who means so much to me and even now, 18 years on, I still miss and cry for. Some songs are just needed, and this one is one of those that makes you cry, but in a healing good way. Beautiful and emotional reaction-never apologize for that!
Love your intelligent and honest reaction to some of the best music of the 80s. You are deep thinkers. Much success to you both.
Gods blessings on you sir. Tears are nothing to be ashamed of they are indicators of strength and compassion. This song makes me cry every time I hear it and I am 75 yrs old
I don't think I've ever seen a more genuine reaction. Nothing was forced. I saw grief, but also so much love and empathy. You two are lovely:)
I always remember my dad every time I hear this song. He passed away from cancer in 1995. It's ok to cry. I do every single time. Bless you both...
It's a beautiful thing to cry. Never be ashamed of it. It shows you're human and you have a beautiful heart
This was a powerful and beautiful reaction. Thank you for being authentically vulnerable in your reaction. This song really speaks to our hearts, and it would be very difficult for anyone not to cry. I am subscribing to your channel.
I'm sure that this song really hits home with so many people, I know it does with me. That's the special power of music, to reduce us to tears! Thank you so much for sharing.
It is no shame to cry when a song deeply says the things we can't. beautiful! totally empathise. Mike Rutherford from Genesis is awesome!
Mike is Mike Rutherford, more famous for being Bassist/Rhythm Guitarist and one of the song writers for Genesis.
I just wanna say - against my better judgement I have literally just sent a message to my dad. I don't want to shed tears in few years wondering "what if". So TY. Regardless of the reply, or what comes of it - I did my part, and this video helped me do it
This is a beautiful, heartfelt song that has the ability to uncover one's locked-away emotions of a father that has passed. I can easily relate to your reaction to this song. It shows how authentic you are as a human, and it reinforces why I'll continue to watch and support your channel.
Thank you so much for the reaction. Sorry that it caught you off guard. When a beautiful song wakes your Spirit, it can easily be overwhelming. Take care guys.
Omgoodness ur breaking my heart. I just buried my mother and im crying wirh you Much love and God is with you he loves y❤❤❤
Beautiful reaction. Don't be embarrassed about being emotional my man. My father died of a heart attack in 1986. The year after I joined the USAF. He was a WWII Vet himself. Our daughter was born in 1988. The year this came out. So this song gets me every time. She is a practicing physician now.
Any song that evokes an emotion is a good thing as that means we can feel things deeply and it allows us to process emotions. Don’t be sorry be glad you have memories .❤️
Andre, I lost my dad when I was 16, I'm 57 now but this still activated my sprinklers.
Music IS emotions! Every time I see anyone react to this song I drew tears... The Mike here is Mike Rutherford from Genesis, same group as Phil Collins and Peter Gabriel! The talent from Genesis and most of the band members solo stuff was unique and amazing! LOVE! ❤
The beauty of music - it speaks to each of us using a language only our hearts can understand. ❤ I appreciate your raw reaction to a song that makes me cry every time.
Hi Andrei,
I can see how emotional you are and that's a beautiful thing. I cried with you.
Another beautiful reaction.This has taught me to listen to the lyrics much closer.I have heard this many many times over the years but my reaction tonight was quite similar to yours.Thank you xx
I can't listen to this song/performance without getting emotional. I lost my father when I was still in my twenties. It was a third heart attack that took him. A wall had been built up between us, because of the 1960's generation gap. It got to the point that we didn't talk at all. We lived in the same house, and yet at the same time in different worlds. And suddenly he died. I went into the hospital room, when the doctor asked if anyone wished to go in. I felt compelled to. I walked to the bed where he lay, now expired, put my head upon his chest and wept like a child. And only now that he was gone, I was able to "tell" him how much I loved him ...
Do you know who Genesis is? Mike Rutherford was the bass player and guitarist of Genesis for over 50 years!
The singer in this band is Paul Carrack, who also sang in Ace, Squeeze and his own solo albums.
Mike wrote this song, and wrote many iconic songs for Genesis (Follow You Follow Me, Watcher of the Skies, Land of Confusion are a few). Heartfelt reaction. You could always pause a few minutes and then discuss...
The song was inspired by Mike Rutherford and B.A. Robertson realizing their fathers had died around the same time, and they later learned singer Paul Carrack's father had died when he was young, as well.
Rutherford said:
"Being of similar age, we both came from an era where our parents had lived through two world wars, when young men wanted to be like their fathers - wear the same clothes, do the same things. But then there was a huge change and our generation wanted to be anything but their fathers. It wasn't our parents' fault, there was just a big social change. Pop music had come along, The Beatles, denim trousers... for the first time, teens had their own culture. That's how our generation couldn't really talk to our parents in the same way.
So we had the idea of writing a song about how you never really talk to your father, and you miss out on these things."
I always break down upon hearing this moving hymn, and am equally moved by your reactions. And let me tell you. Two of the strangest experiences in my life were two, no, three different men who seemed entirely unmoved by the death of their father. I could not relate in the least. That you can weep about this lachrymosal classic shows your humanity. Both of you. BTW. Mike was the bassist for Genesis, and original member, I'm pretty sure.
An incredible song and reaction! God cares deeply about losing people and it shows that you are real when you react like this.
One of the most genuine reactions I’ve ever seen. This IS one of the most beautiful songs ever written. No one could’ve done it like M & the M. I cry EVERY.SINGLE.TIME.
Be blessed. 😊✌🏼
One of the greatest songs of all time. This is what we had in the 70s 80s 90s. Teenagers loved songs like this..what happened to music that meant something & hit u where it hurts deep?! Thank god i grew up in that era when music was truly music and left you speechless
Dominika you can read between the lines of any song, but Andrei... wearing your heart on your sleeve is your power, never cover it up!! You guys are the best reaction duo! Maine, USA
One Of The Best Reactions I've Ever Seen... TY TY TY...
Yeah this is one of those songs that make you think about your own relationships with some you love and miss which pulls at your heart ❤️ string's which you started making me cry 😭 another beautiful reaction love it.❤️👍
You know a good song when it makes you FEEL something. I lost my dad 2 years ago, and I cry ever time I hear it
The song is beautiful, and Andre, so was your reaction! The courage you displayed to continue with the reaction is courage I don’t believe exist in me. I would have taken the cowards way out. Thank you for this reaction!