Can we work it out? Or do I move on?

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  • @mhicks880
    @mhicks880 Рік тому +78

    Sometimes, even Love isn't enough, and that's okay.

  • @dylanward9536
    @dylanward9536 Рік тому +67

    Can we all just take a minute to admire how beautiful her soul is in and out. ❤

  • @mrs.duvalprincess8207
    @mrs.duvalprincess8207 Рік тому +8

    Elli, you look so pretty. Your voice is so calming... I can be in a bad mood and come and listen to your calming and elegant voice, and it calms me down. Great advice. 🤍🩷

    • @ellisoul9283
      @ellisoul9283  Рік тому +2

      The healer in me appreciates that 🤍 Thank you!

  • @claricebaker9530
    @claricebaker9530 Рік тому +19

    Hello Elli, I am 62 years old, but I enjoy watching your videos, and I’m glad to see that you came out strong and are doing great; congratulations on the new baby ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marquitha-6217
    @marquitha-6217 Рік тому +5

    Pregnancy look so damn good on you sis..I miss those days, I had my one and done, she's been my angel ever since..much love 💕😍

  • @Nesh98884
    @Nesh98884 Рік тому +3

    Ur channel is like my home away from home I relate in so many ways

  • @clarahill1655
    @clarahill1655 Рік тому +2

    Ur fine..U need a snack break for U and baby girl..KEEP DOING great things. GOD bless 😊❤

  • @lucyfain5872
    @lucyfain5872 Рік тому +3

    You look like a meadow of pretty flowers while pregnant. Absolutely beautiful. I am glad you moved on. His family knew as well as Nicole that he is gay as well as his brother. .

  • @shantemilburn5044
    @shantemilburn5044 Рік тому +14

    Elli is so beautiful and that baby glow makes her look even more Gorgeous.. ❤

  • @priscilla8217
    @priscilla8217 Рік тому +9

    Hi Ellie I want to applaud you I truly enjoyed those words of wisdom that you shared I'm pretty sure the young lady who text you in a b a lot of helpful to her because I have enjoyed every word that you said you was right on about everything you shared so with that Ellie may God for ever bless you and keep you and when it's time for you to deliver your baby God will still be with you take care Ellie I will always be one of your true subscribers even though you don't know me I have enjoyed just being on your Channel so take care Ellie

    • @ellisoul9283
      @ellisoul9283  Рік тому +1

      🥹🥹🤍 awe thank you for such sweet and kind words, for the prayers, love and support! Sending you all the love Priscilla 🤍

  • @lisalashaye1795
    @lisalashaye1795 Рік тому +4

    Self Love is Truly the Best Love! Thank you Beautiful Soul! ❤

  • @kennyslife6883
    @kennyslife6883 Рік тому +14

    Hi Ms. Elli I'm so glad you're back, you most definitely have my support period peace and Shalom.❤❤❤

  • @lottielewis8363
    @lottielewis8363 Рік тому +1

    Sweetheart you definitely have to protect your peace. Especially now being with child because you want to stay healthy. Stay focused on what’s important right now and that’s being the best healthy mom you can be. Love you and keep on keeping on young lady. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

  • @stephaniebelton2625
    @stephaniebelton2625 Рік тому +3

    Soul mate check in. I just love you, you are so wise beyond your age, It’s so obvious that you have sat at the feel of your grandmother’s to be so wise yet young. The advice you gave her was deep & something to learn from for all of us. You are going to be a wonderful mother.Congratulations 😍🌹🎈🎈🎈👩‍👧

  • @darlisaanderson6012
    @darlisaanderson6012 Рік тому +1

    YES WOMEN ARE STRONG 💪🏻 OUR PARENTS THE QUEENS OF OUR LIVES GAVE US HOW TO BE A GREAT BEAUTIFUL MOTHER❤️🙏🏽

  • @ladonnaware1723
    @ladonnaware1723 Рік тому +3

    I enjoyed your thoughts and perspective on the different topics. Also, your honesty about the topic and your self

  • @GodsChild7151
    @GodsChild7151 Рік тому +1

    I love everything about what you’ve stated, your heart is so big. And we will always be your biggest supporters, in any decision you make. You are a true scorpion Queen 🌹🙏🏾

  • @jacquelineconleyshorts5078
    @jacquelineconleyshorts5078 Рік тому +3

    Your videos are always interesting and I always run home to cut my tv on to watch on the big screen.. You will definitely be a great girl mom❤️

  • @karenburnley1816
    @karenburnley1816 Рік тому +20

    I'm catching this video late 🌙. Elli, your soul is beautiful. I'm a middle-aged woman who truly believes in herself, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. There is nothing with Loving yourself 1st. Love your talks, Elli. Waiting for the next video. Everyone have a blessed night, and may God bless us through the night safe and sound 🙏🏽 ✨️ 🤍

  • @staceyjohnson297
    @staceyjohnson297 Рік тому +20

    I wanted to say “GURLL” because you are that relatable… but I’m putting some respect on it because of the WISDOM you gave!! Yesss Ma’am.. yes! And now,.. I’m running out for a bag of carrots because you made me hungry!!🥕🥕🥕

  • @blessedhighlyfavored8061
    @blessedhighlyfavored8061 Рік тому +4

    I agree. IT CAN NEVER BE THE SAME! The trust factor is FOREVER DESTROYED 😢

    • @cynthiajohnson6882
      @cynthiajohnson6882 Рік тому

      Not true. Me and my then boyfriend had a lot of trouble and ended things. However we eventually got back together and 9 months later got married... That was 15 years ago and I couldn't have asked for a better marriage. It all depends on if you are willing to put God first and change

  • @ShirleyGoode-in7hi
    @ShirleyGoode-in7hi Рік тому +3

    Hi Elli u looks absolutely stunning nice advice to the soul mates very interesting keep safe and take care of your self and precious ❤️❤️

  • @T.T.810
    @T.T.810 Рік тому +9

    Great Message Eli keep up the motivation I’m here for it let 2023 leave an example for us all to continue to strive to be the best versions of ourselves even after trauma and heartaches stay Blessed Queen ♥️♥️♥️

  • @daisyonlyone1
    @daisyonlyone1 Рік тому +7

    You will never truly know a person ever. Everyone has a different brain and that brain has its own thoughts

  • @aprildevaughn8158
    @aprildevaughn8158 Рік тому +4

    Wow that was great great advice!! It wasn’t one sided. Some of us needed to hear this. Even me and my old relationship. Where we not just. omg I’m so in love just I love him part of the relationship. We been there done that. I think we just need to take it to the next levels… 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @sunkissed38queen89
    @sunkissed38queen89 Рік тому +44

    Tina Turner said it best, What’s love got to do with it? Love don’t pay the rent! And love will break your heart every time! Build a solid foundation of respect, accountability, loyalty bcuz without these things love is not there. Experience is your best teacher. Once a woman is fed up then there’s nothing he can do or say to make her stay. I know I just showed my age in this comment 😂 But its some real ish!

  • @patriciajefferson7470
    @patriciajefferson7470 Рік тому +1

    We are responsible for our happiness! You have to be so very careful these days with choosing the right partner! I am so happy I am not on the market in searching for the right man! I love my husband so very much and I thank God for the great person, he is! It is sooo hard for younger women out here these days! You, please take care of yourself and your baby! I love you Eli!!!!❤❤

  • @rosewest3176
    @rosewest3176 Рік тому +9

    MIRACLES AND BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽.

  • @deewilliams1797
    @deewilliams1797 Рік тому

    Elli Soul, you my beauty are wise beyond your years. Much love 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍💗💗

  • @lisaharris5805
    @lisaharris5805 Рік тому +1

    🗣ELLIE....I LUV U!!❤❤❤U R THE BEST!

  • @Foreign_maria
    @Foreign_maria Рік тому +4

    Your glowing !!! 🫶🏼❤️

  • @lavonnepruitt3905
    @lavonnepruitt3905 Рік тому +3

    We as women deserve to be treated like the Queen that we are and if this person doesn’t ship right then it might be good to move on. I would consider the woman and the man working through their issues though. You and baby deserve the world and more. You are glowing! I have learned to take better care of myself and self care while watching your videos.

  • @stefanietrimiar9565
    @stefanietrimiar9565 Рік тому +1

    Even though love is not enough sometimes it's ok, the power of above it's all we need...

  • @darlenemalone1871
    @darlenemalone1871 Рік тому

    So love how you share your life

  • @Cyan_Cap
    @Cyan_Cap Рік тому +22

    I believe you can work it out if the Love & Respect is still there, nothing wrong with a do-over...❤❤❤

  • @Kaykay096
    @Kaykay096 Рік тому +2

    That's why you and Dalvin ended, obviously!! Honestly, it's good for you cause I could see it in the videos. He thinks he's a hot shot and way cooler than he is.... but you were always humble, understanding, and sweet.

    • @vanessavazquez6500
      @vanessavazquez6500 Рік тому +4

      That’s what YOU think! You never know what goes on behind close doors!

    • @shakeemaashford7398
      @shakeemaashford7398 Рік тому

      @@vanessavazquez6500 she spoke for herself though 😂🤦🏾‍♀️ I agree

  • @eatpraylovetube2146
    @eatpraylovetube2146 Рік тому +1

    You'd be a great talk host!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @everythingzoe6075
    @everythingzoe6075 Рік тому +6

    You are a breath of fresh air, so beautiful

  • @Wanda402
    @Wanda402 Рік тому +10

    You can see the baby all in your pretty face 🤗

  • @jackleenstevenson
    @jackleenstevenson Рік тому +3

    You are truly blessed and wise beyond your years! 💜💜💜

  • @patriciajefferson7470
    @patriciajefferson7470 Рік тому

    Hi Eli, how are you doll? You look so healthy and beautiful!! I will be so happy to see you with your own little baby!

  • @Jesuschild9138
    @Jesuschild9138 Рік тому +11

    If a person Love you they not going to break your heart 💔every human has floss but We teach people how to treat us by excepting wrong dN unto Us there has to be consequences,bc trust me people know better they jus think we dnt 😀

  • @quantumlybutterfly
    @quantumlybutterfly Рік тому +2

    Thanks for the advice Elli... you're appreciated! 🌹 ❤

  • @sunkissed38queen89
    @sunkissed38queen89 Рік тому +39

    Eli done made me go make a whole vegetable plate with some ranch dip 😂 Anytime I see people eating in their videos I get hungry lol It’s good your snacking on healthy foods while pregnant. ❤

    • @ellisoul9283
      @ellisoul9283  Рік тому +17

      😂 I really felt bad about it but I’m trying to multitask, feed my baby and get all the things I gotta get done before I check out for the day 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m glad you joined me in a healthy snack tho 😂🤍

  • @DaleshaMonea
    @DaleshaMonea Рік тому +8

    Heyyyy Elli!!! You look absolutely gorgeous 😍😍😍… yesss you are so right living with someone you will see there true personality and how they are. Or it could be she looked passed the things she don’t like now. It’s likely he showed it but it wasn’t a big deal because she didn’t see/ experience it everyday… I recommend her to think ‘is this truly something that’s a deal breaker’ , ‘how does this make you feel’. And talk to him… could be a communication issue. And lastly she said she’s not happy ITS TIME TO GO DONT LIVE LIFE WITH REGRETS LOL OK BYE ✌🏽 😅

  • @positiveenergyonlyasmr2943
    @positiveenergyonlyasmr2943 Рік тому +3

    Iris, Elli advice was on point, but I just wanted to add, weigh out your Pro and Con of the relationship, always listen to your innate emotion it will never lead you down the wrong path. Everyone Stay Positive

  • @kimberlymercer1088
    @kimberlymercer1088 Рік тому +1

    You can work it out I'm rooting for you

  • @adrianawhite1842
    @adrianawhite1842 Рік тому

    Yess you have to make yourself happy first ❤

  • @jackiesinkler2695
    @jackiesinkler2695 Рік тому +5

    Hi beautiful ❤you always brighten up my day cause you always so positive and you definitely been teaching me new things ❤️

  • @roryanderson9921
    @roryanderson9921 Рік тому +3

    Hi Elli glad you are doing well. So excited about your pregnancy. When will we meet your partner the baby’s father.

  • @sunkissed38queen89
    @sunkissed38queen89 Рік тому +60

    Accountability is a huge deal! If they don’t take accountability and attempt to at least try and change that unwanted behavior then I’m out! ✌🏾And I don’t give a man too many chances either. The older you get the less patience you have with nonsense. Your both grown people and grown people should know how to behave in a relationship and if they don’t then leave the relationship! I know I’m tired of dealing with selfish men who can’t take accountability. I will leave a man based off that alone!!!

  • @VloggingWithLex
    @VloggingWithLex Рік тому +10

    Am I the only one who enjoyed her little snack break?😂❤️❤️ I just miss seeing her eat lmaoo much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ellisoul9283
      @ellisoul9283  Рік тому +7

      You might be 😂🤦🏽‍♀️🤍 Pregnancy has brought out a different level of greedy outta me!

    • @VloggingWithLex
      @VloggingWithLex Рік тому +4

      @@ellisoul9283 Trust me we don’t mind a little crunch break ❤️❤️🤭 I’m so happy for you and your new journey with your beautiful bundle of joy as well !!

    • @ellisoul9283
      @ellisoul9283  Рік тому +1

      @@VloggingWithLex thank you love 🤍

  • @jonimeeks5011
    @jonimeeks5011 Рік тому +18

    Hey Ms. Eli Soul and The Soul Mates Happy Wednesday Have A Wonderful Evening Peace and Blessings ✌❤🙏🏻🤗😘🌷🌷🌷

  • @charmalbritton89
    @charmalbritton89 Рік тому +3

    I’m here for the input! 👂🏾♥️

  • @michellegaither5813
    @michellegaither5813 Рік тому +1

    Great video I think the advice you presented was spot on!

  • @niatyona4804
    @niatyona4804 Рік тому +1

    Elli you are a very beautiful person I know you will be a beautiful mother but a woman fall in love more then a man that’s how we miss the very important part of the relationship

  • @sallyrivera3591
    @sallyrivera3591 Рік тому +14

    I loved everything about this video. Women can be each other's backbone for sure. I loved how you broke it down and went over the issues. I agree that a person needs to love themselves first before loving someone else that includes happiness as well. My mama always said that a person truly gets to know another person when they live together. That is a true statement. Thank you for this video Elli. I hope there is more to come.

  • @JewellaJewella-it9jf
    @JewellaJewella-it9jf Рік тому +2

    Hi elli soul It’s hard to let someone go especially if you really have that love and heart for that person is if he or she can’t bow down to you to let you know that he or she is real then I can’t work on it we both got to have that bond together not just one if he showing you a different side then go!!!!!!🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @positiveenergyonlyasmr2943
    @positiveenergyonlyasmr2943 Рік тому +3

    Respect is everything!! ❤

  • @Digitalcreatorsmasterclass
    @Digitalcreatorsmasterclass Рік тому +6

    Let me get a carrot Eli 😂.
    Sidenote you look great

  • @jpoolux64
    @jpoolux64 Рік тому +3

    Baby's Daddy work it out..anybody else think about it and never re-live your past😊

  • @sheliafranklin4595
    @sheliafranklin4595 Рік тому

    Beautiful Advise Elli Soul Stay Blessed 🙌

  • @yvonneburton6142
    @yvonneburton6142 Рік тому +1

    Good evening from Michigan ❤️ you are glowing so nice ❤

  • @AndyMonique
    @AndyMonique Рік тому +1

    Hey babe, you literally answered all my relationship questions. I didn't even get to write you 😂 I'm definitely gonna keep supporting you, you're a beautiful person in and out. 🥰

  • @VICTORIOUSTSIMPLYME-bg5xt
    @VICTORIOUSTSIMPLYME-bg5xt Рік тому

    Yesssss, SPREAD L❤️VE ALWAYS

  • @SpicyChannelShoutOuts
    @SpicyChannelShoutOuts Рік тому +4

    Amazing video!

  • @samanthacarrick3502
    @samanthacarrick3502 Рік тому

    You are a beautiful woman and have a beautiful heart....you baby is gona be so loved and become a beautiful as her mammy xxxx

  • @teecheeks
    @teecheeks Рік тому

    🤍 Hello Mama ElliSoul!🤗 Hello!! #Soulmates!! 🤍 As always it's a pleasure seeing your video's!! Hello 👋🏽 to our rainbow 🌈 baby!! Peace and blessings to everyone!! 🙏🏽

  • @geraldinegaston138
    @geraldinegaston138 Рік тому +1

    Hello Eli you are looking beautiful take care of yourself and the princess.

  • @queenrit
    @queenrit Рік тому

    Happiness is within.

  • @lindaallen2640
    @lindaallen2640 Рік тому

    You are doing a great job 😊😊❤❤

  • @cecemoreno97
    @cecemoreno97 Рік тому +1

    Something brought me back to this video and the place where I had left off was right when you start talking about “splitting a person”. I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear that and everything that followed. It gave me a different perspective on myself, my relationship and my partner.🤍

  • @judyhoward1891
    @judyhoward1891 Рік тому +1

    Great video! ❤

  • @pamelamoore7139
    @pamelamoore7139 Рік тому +3

    Hey Elli you look very good happy bless Wednesday be safe

  • @amycoleman8161
    @amycoleman8161 Рік тому

    Yes you can work it out if both are willing to communicate that's the key love and respect are twins you can't separate them hugs you and my ? Is how do I fight obesity

  • @darlenemalone1871
    @darlenemalone1871 Рік тому

    One Day you will tell your story of how you overcome what you went through and it will be someone's else survival guide ❤

  • @lizziehatch7030
    @lizziehatch7030 Рік тому

    I have been married 35 years. Work it out. People change in a relationship over time. Love each other. Can't stand him this week. Communication and respect. Women keep u stocks;money,God and never lose u.

  • @evamckenzie2596
    @evamckenzie2596 Рік тому +3

    HEY ELLI LUV👋🏽 HAPPY WEDNESDAY ❤💐💕

  • @beverlycooper8516
    @beverlycooper8516 Рік тому

    Hello elli. Happy wednesday. Thanks for sharing. Yes feed the baby.

  • @positiveenergyonlyasmr2943
    @positiveenergyonlyasmr2943 Рік тому +1

    I always say, a person always show there representative in the beginning of a relationship.

  • @kishataylor7789
    @kishataylor7789 Рік тому +1

    Hey Girlie!!! You look Beautiful ❤❤

  • @sheilaandfrank
    @sheilaandfrank Рік тому +1

    Here watching ❤

  • @Monica-uv5eo
    @Monica-uv5eo Рік тому +3

    Love the hair wat are u mixed wth ❤

    • @ellisoul9283
      @ellisoul9283  Рік тому +3

      I’m West African. An Island called Cape Verde 🤍 And thank you love.

    • @Monica-uv5eo
      @Monica-uv5eo Рік тому

      ❤yur more then welcome
      Beautiful ❤❤

  • @floraloveslife2434
    @floraloveslife2434 Рік тому

    I have one of those and what's that for almost 18 years miss someone I'm finally filing for divorce and I am definitely free I'm going to enjoy my life with no regrets, I had a near-death experience, and I got stronger, today evening from the wheelchair, and in a physical rehabilitation center I'm inspired every day to push for great things, and I'm learning to love me more and more every single day ❣️❣️❣️❣️ that gives me strength for my journey, and I remain prayerful to God because the Bible says that he will keep us in perfect peace if we keep our minds on him😊 🙏🏽 are you worship and I pray and I sing and I'm going to be releasing some of my music on My channel

  • @shordae
    @shordae Рік тому

    Hi I’m new to your channel and last time I saw u was with zaddy is he the dad?

  • @stlchic262
    @stlchic262 Рік тому +1

    ELLI Gurrrlll you better give us that Vegetable ASMR. 😂😅🤣

  • @denisecrumble6546
    @denisecrumble6546 Рік тому

    Preggers Feminist Ann Landers is giving me life right now!!!! I love the advice and the preggers humor, weather intended or not. I love your advice and I wanted to send you some Curry Chutney Dip to go with your veggies 😅😅😅

  • @shirleyhardnett6067
    @shirleyhardnett6067 Рік тому

    I love watching your video

  • @lakaishamallory6529
    @lakaishamallory6529 Рік тому

    This is so true….🤔

  • @rachellcollins9479
    @rachellcollins9479 Рік тому

    Hello Elli Soul⚘️♥️

  • @LadySunflower1224
    @LadySunflower1224 Рік тому

    Hi Ellie and all my Soulmate's🤍 peace and 💘

  • @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948

    Truthfulness is always the best soul sis🤍🤍🫶🏽💯

  • @sonjamcalister1812
    @sonjamcalister1812 Рік тому

    Loveeeeee eli soul❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @patriciabrewer3338
    @patriciabrewer3338 Рік тому +2

    Great Advice!!!!

  • @prayerisimportant
    @prayerisimportant Рік тому +1

    It's the feeding babysoulmate for me 😋 Lol...🙌

  • @joannwilliams8617
    @joannwilliams8617 Рік тому

    Hello beautiful God blessed you🙏❤️

  • @annetteshannon6004
    @annetteshannon6004 Рік тому

    Hello hello elli soul and baby soulmate

  • @rachels.7477
    @rachels.7477 Рік тому

    OR REJECTION,
    YOUR SPEAKING MY SISTA,
    TRY THERAPY AND IF THAT DOES NOT WORK THAN IT'S TIME TO MOVE ONNNN... YOU CANNOT CHANGE ANYONE, JUST PRAY FOR THEM IN THE MIDST OF YOUR SITUATION..AMEN
    GUARD YOUR HEART! AT ALL TIMES ⏲️
    ALWAYS STAND 🧍‍♂️ 💯 FOR WHO YOU... ARE

  • @yolandagrimmett1844
    @yolandagrimmett1844 Рік тому

    Oh I understand my Daughter wanted it now also 😂😂😂 super cute 🤍🤍

  • @rosemiles865
    @rosemiles865 Рік тому

    Hello Ellie how are you doing today have a beautiful Blessed day love you 💞💞💞💞