Go to our sponsor betterhelp.com/lana for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.
Why make more tips about attraction if there is no fun on that self-improvement is good for low pride people but these kind of content are waste of time there no reason to go for these kind of things.
You have no idea I still think girls look at my looks not at my heart? That I hold deal to my chest but when I look at myself I'm so critical about my reflection dose that make sense?
Here's my attractive list: 1. Gorgeousness 2. Fitness and self-care 3. Humility and humbleness 4. Kindness 5. Self-respect and respect for others 6. Emotional intelligence 7. Sense of humour 8. Self-confidence 9. Ambition/goal-driven 10. Generosity and thoughtfulness 11. Peacefulness Edit: my bonus attractive trait is: 12. Authenticity (this one is a complete turn-on for me).
@@ApollonianShy18 thank you. I really don't like the noise and chaos. I'm an introvert. So, that's why I prefer being around peaceful people because I'm peaceful myself.
Simple things that make anyone instantly more attractive : 1. Self confidence. 2. Being healthy. 3. The way we dress & accessories. 4. Posture. 5. Skincare. 6. Haircare. 7. Grooming. 8. Taking care of ourselves. 9. Smelling good. 10. Good attitude. 11. Be kind & humble. 12. Being clean & neat. 13. Manners. 14. Always smile & be happy.
These are some really good things to follow! Although it would be really REALLY almost impossible to follow the last one; I never liked sitting with my benchmates in college for 9 hours straight hearing them talk immature unprofessional shit..not to mention I used to be a straight A student in school and since college started my grades dropped real real hard, I always feel guilty I'm being rude to people online (online friends ig) even tho at the same time I think I pay the most attention. I think I'm the dulkest student in my class (others aren't passionate about education and copy their way through exams, I pity them every single time) Now I cannot smile and be happy because my classmates will pay attention to me more and distract me, and everytime I try to enjoy something bad always hits. And mine's a strict Indian college so there's really no time to get emotionwl and be happy and all and talk and smile. That's why I hate it when my friends keep talking during class all the time. One of them thinks she's way too cute and I just cant- she immature My apologies for ranting negative things, I love your comment. Thank you for the tips 💛
14 is a bit odd. Being happy and smiling does help, but it is impossible to always be happy. And I'd be freaked out if something terrible happened and all the person could do is express happiness. Open communication about emptions is nice and empathy
No-1)Looks No-2)Voice No-3)race No-4)Status these are the main ingredient for sexual attraction which is core of all relationships which means a women has to be attracted to the mans body,face first.Otherwise nothing will.And no i dont want love from women.I dont care about love.Its meaningless
After a month being stuck deeply in depression I have no clue why but this video calmed me somehow. It made me realize how much my depression let me neglect myself and I think taking care of myself will also bring me uphill again a bit more. You made my day. Thank you a lot❤
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 no younjust gotta be your best self....things don't turn out the way you want even after bejng your best self then fuck everyone else I am awesome mentality attracts people to you.
Ever since I started watching your videos this year, my life seems to just feel better. The wholesome, homely feeling of exploring topics which I usually avoid is just so... Thank you for everything.
Personally, me before 6 months at the lowest point in did all the things opposite to what you mentioned- not dressing well , no skincare or fitness , worst posture and always focusing on the negative side . I am in awe that I actually worked on all the things you mentioned here!! along with my therapy and my mental health going uphill I really have attracted many right people and friends and also around 4-5 guys approached me you know ! never been this confident and secured in my body :) I'm in tears....ah! thanks lana , love u
These things really don't work for longer duration,sister ,the time you are giving on your fashion,,grooming,hairstyle,etc if started giving to your career and studies then you would reach heights of success and forget about 4-5 people,you would attract 400-500 people,if you become super successful who have a lot of money, that's reality,accept it or else you know
@@mainaksen280 It's not about studies or being successful. You know what does make you successful? Not money. Not business. Happiness. OP said they used to live unhealthily. They weren't taking care themselves and was always negative. Of course, this isn't bad, but it's not good either. What is good, is that they changed. Mental health will always be first, no matter what. I think you should start thinking like that too.
Instinctively we are attracted to people who look "healthy". It is an archetype in us, seeking the most appropriate partner for having offspring. So of course, your posture, your skin, your hair, teeth, nails, smell, grooming suggests health. And then, because we are not animals 😁, the whole representation of the person. Strong, independent, kind, good manners, eloquent, someone who is approachable, someone who suggests an interesting inner world which we want to explore.
As a pilates instructor I can confirm that your posture makes people so drawn to you! Everyone slouches over so when you don't, it's a rarity that people are naturally attracted to 😊
I like that at the beginning she acknowledges the importance of looks. I think we should also acknowledge the importance of voice tones and volumes because I started forwarding up the video so fast just after a few seconds 😆
This is the first time I have seen your channel, I don't really like to sit and listen to youtube videos without doing something else at the same time but I was mesmerized by your voice! Your video is very relaxing and informative
Yes, please make a part 2! This was so so lovely. I’m glad you focused on the things you did-your appearance, taking care of yourself, grooming, hair, good oral health, being healthy, your smell, etc, are all soo important. Some additional things for part two: people who have interests/hobbies/passions. It’s soo unattractive when people say they are boring and do nothing but work, sleep, eat & play video games, Lol. Having interests immediately makes a person interesting. I also love to read, and I find men who read to be sooo attractive. I don’t even care what they read, but there’s something so sexy about a man reading.
The health thing is arguably the most important because, as you say, it's a fundamental instinct, but it makes me so sad because I'm chronically ill and there's literally nothing I can do about that. When I was healthy, it reflected in every aspect of me, and people were drawn to me back then. Nowadays I have dull skin, tired eyes, my head is too foggy to engage in conversation like I once could, I don't have the energy to work out how I used to, or to even invest in my individuality like I did before. I kind of just have to survive now. I feel so much less human and I think I'm seen as less human, too.
Guys, being healthy is something we cannot always control but that does not mean we should lower how good we feel about ourselves. It's definitely difficult but have faith in yourself, believe even if you think nothing can change your situation still believe and trust me, if you start having even a little, very tiny sliver of optimism, you'll start feeling better and eventually good about yourself, you'll accept yourself as you are and once that happens you will naturally attract other people The thing you would want is to love yourself as you are. It's ok if you are not in the best of your health or to not have things you want, you did not choose it purposely and if someone judges you for that, better people are waiting for you and trust me there are It really starts with you, with how you feel about yourself. You don't have to think about others Care about and love yourself Accept yourself as you are I definitely know how difficult what i said may sound, but that's how things are. And if you can help yourself and get over your insecurities, kudos to you, it's gonna be worth it
Hello how r u doing Just came by here to tell you that in this video u were incredibly honest and open about ur struggles with self confidence which i hugely appreciate And u give good advices about it 2 which is really really good Keep up with the good work and have a nice day 😊
Awesome tips on how to be more attractive, Lana! Love this! Being attractive is so much more than looking good! Thanks again for another inspiring video!
gurl you're literally the supreme energy here on my feed... idk abt others, but your video content is really worth my time lana !!!! it's really worth everybody's time 💕
it’s crazy how much hair can change how you look. i went through a phase where i tried to use heat to style my hair (that and i worked at a pool) so my hair became very damaged so i cut most of it off in hopes of starting over. at times i don’t feel very feminine because i’ll wear baggy clothes and darker shades so now I’m trying to balance my wardrobe to still be me but also more feminine
One can be more attractive if they are comfortable the way they are. Knowing whats important.... the corporal is temporary but knowing oneself is eternal. How true beauty is define.
I don’t like skincare. I think the ppl who actually need skincare can use it. But I have good skin and I have never had a skincare routine. Or I tried for the trend. Hated it. Now I just take of my makeup and moisturize before bed. That’s it. Works perfect. And confident is the key to everything 😘
@@jamielaw4749 i get what u mean but when I see skincare it’s sooo many products and tbh I haven’t seen a routine on social media that only have those step. But idk I have skincare but not what I imagine when I think of skincare
@@wwhuknow2500 Most of those people are insecure of their looks or genuinely have a skin type that requires these steps. You should normally have 5 (give or take a few) steps in your routine. However, you can always treat yourself or do the minimum, which is really just cleansing and moisturizing. You don't have to use as many things as someone who is constantly being judged by others who are looking at a screen or just someone constantly seen-- in the wrong way. Honesty is key in a happy friendship or relationship, however not key in getting views. I hope this helped you, have a nice day or night.
@@pintrestcore I Said that I think ppl who actually need skincare can use it. If ppl have good skin and use products that literally are not useful I thinks they do it for the trend. And if I need skincare don’t buy what’s trending. Doctors have the answer. And I’m talking about acne for example
I’ve always admired your videos and the calm demeanour but i am loving that the vibes of this channel are getting more and more warm and intimate, how you’ve improved the quality over the years and the topics, it’s all so good!❤
1. Be tall 2. Have a symmetrical face 3. Good bone structure 4. Good eye area 5. Full head of hair. Little to no signs of balding or thinning 6. Dress well (have enough money fr clothes that fit and look good So uh, have good genes, mostly.
@@shouryatri2114 beauty is not matter you have to look for somebody you can trust and she can brings better in you rather than depending upon looks which never be permanent!!
Love this video, makes sense and helps reflect on oneself. This video gave me the motivation to stop hiding my happiness about life (even if sometimes things are yucky), life is/can be so beautiful.
What attracts me (just my opinion😊): 1-Making me laugh 2- Having a kind look/gaze (I can have a crush on someone because their gaze seems loving and trustworthy) 3- Feeling protected: you don't need to be strong but as an anxious person I really enjoy peaceful, calming persons (weirdly one of the most calming person I know has a life full of twists and turns😏) 4- A good looking face 5- Did I mention humour ? 7- General knowledge, knowing surprising facts that will amaze me 6- Being fit That's all for me :)
Ok 👌🏼 good relationship with you congrats to you im telling to you truly I'm married man my age 63 my wife she Filipino 35 years House Wife ok I'm needing only one good partner firstly I'm don't cheeting any one
@@tanyakaur8648 Hey! First of all I am a woman who only pursues heterosexual relationships thus I am describing features I find attractive on men. Moreover, in my country (France), being fair isn't a beauty norm, just a feature shared by most (although different ethnicities are also French, we are mostly white). Finally, finding some features appealing is just personal taste and totally normal.
You’re so professional in front of the camera , i be like damn, lana it’s fascinating to see your growth at it (i mean you’ve looked good on camera before too, but now you’re just like a professional
Firstly, you are AWESOME! unexpectedly, came across this wonderful channel. A little tip from me, sometimes being attractive doesn't always lie on the physical aspect. It also lie on the way we think, the way we speak, and the way we treat others. The more better it is, the more attractive we automatically become. : )
Literally... I was just scrolling through videos, and seeing her face on the thumbnail smiling is simply a sight of beauty to be admired. Some people are blessed with such a beautiful appearance.
Ultimately, attractiveness is about projecting a positive image and making a good first impression. So it's important to be your best self in all aspects of your life.
and that's a real road toward extreme anxiety and dissatisfaction with yourself. Almost toxic positivity kind of thing. That's terrible advice for anyone who struggles. Esp with things like perfectionism.
9:00 I agree humor is attractive but, I think that depends...Some people make mean and rude jokes and that's a turn off. Humor can be used in a good way and in a bad way.
A good way to think about how to be more "attractive" (which is quite different from just being beautiful/hot/handsome) is to think: If you met someone who was really physically attractive/ beautiful/ handsome, etc., what qualities could they have would make you NOT want to be around them? You'd probably list things like rudeness, arrogance, boring to talk to, no sense of humour... keep listing things, and right there you have a perfect list of what someone can do to be more attractive...
i randomly saw your video and it made my mood low to suddenly calm and relaxed ..i was ovethinking about certain things but even though i didnt need any counselling on being attractive but listening to you reminded me that i have my own life to take care of ..thank youu so much LANA , love from INDIA 💞💞
All true. That said, beautiful people do have an advantage and that is okay. As Lana says, sometimes attraction to someone who may not be traditionally attractive happens and that is great. Bottom line, attractive people have it easier but there are many factors that contribute to the attraction equation.
Part 2 please, I really love your content Lana. It makes me become a more delicate and thoughtful person which is my self-growth goal now. Once again, thank you so much. I wish you lots of luck in life.
It was a great video but in my opinion just being attractive by your looks isn’t enough. The thing that matters the most is your personality. What you do for others and how you support them during their hard times. I honestly don’t judge anyone by their appearance, posture, hairstyle and smell. Being loyal, considerate to others and having a pure heart is all that matters, that’s what actually makes you attractive :)
It would be much better world if people think more like you. I let people judge me because of looks and that really affected my mental health. I used to feel insecure because of that and still do sometimes. I so much agree with you what you said. You seem like a great person.
@@jessicaluk74 You also seem like an amazing person! Thank you. You should simply ignore those people who are tying to judge you. I hope you stay happy and healthy forever! Honestly you’re the best and you can make the world a better place! ✨
The answer to the beginning of the video: It's because of feminine and masculine energy. Woman(if feminine) is more drawn to the man who looks maybe worse, but is more masculine that to the man who looks better, but just don't have that energy. And it's not some magic shit, but a natural behavior from thousands of years ago. I got this concept from Hamza and his masculine guide, where he explained it better.
A good bulk of the video talked a lot of someone’s outer appearance and things that might not be within our control to change. Haircare, skin care, clothes, even the segment of confidence was blocked off by a sponsored segment and the accessibility to therapy being a component to someone’s confidence. I have an interview tomorrow and I can’t help but wonder how so many factors involving me making a good first impression would not be within my power to change or if so be difficult if for example I was homeless and or neurodivergent. This is more so a critique on society and social norms though because everything you mentioned is the norm and for the most part obvious. It would be interesting to hear what you have to say in your next video.
To be honest I feel like it's very harsh on ppl struggling with mental health. You should do these things when you want to as an act of kindness to yourself first and foremost, not to please society like you said. I usually love Lana's videos and introspection, and although I am working on myself it has been a difficult uphill battle and this video was not for me.
@Life In France I don't think that there wasn't any truth to it. It's important to take care of ourselves, but not THE most important thing. I think with all things the advice just needed to be put into context. I def agree there has to be more to it than just this, but they are great additions where possible.
About the 'attitude' part. I do think it is important to strive to be happy, and I definitely agree that certain people send out a 'vibe'. :) But it is also important to note that you can't be happy all the time. Life is (unfortunately) not always unicorns and rainbows. And repressing negative emotions can have a very damaging impact on you. Mentally, and even physically. It is okay to be angry, if people piss you off sometimes. It is okay not to be smiling and happy if someone disrespect you. It is okay to dive into the negative emotions sometimes, because that is how you understand them and deal with them. As long as you keep the balance healthy.
Kindness and consideration are deal breakers for me. Went on a date with a girl. We went to sonic, got milkshakes, and went shopping around Walmart. We’re walking through the arts and crafts aisle where she leaves a half-drank milkshake there to rot and walks off. Instant turn off, haven’t spoken to her since even after she tried to schedule another date.
Here’s my list of things I find attractive • a kind, caring person • someone who can make me laugh • patient • they treat their family with respect • someone who loves animals (especially cats) • dress nicely • nice hair • has a good sense of humour and doesn’t always take themselves too seriously • has a creative hobby • likes long walks • has a friendly face • enjoys skincare and self care in general
Very much been figuring this out myself over the course over 2022 after doing 12 rounds with anxiety and depression, so thank you for this, thank you for confirming that I at least am making the right steps, even if I'm not 100% there yet. 😁 You just earned another subscriber. 😁
Go to our sponsor betterhelp.com/lana for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.
Simple rule #1 - Subscribe to Lana and go to her sponsor. 🙏
Lana blakley please make vedio on how to develop confidence and achieve things 💓😭
Why make more tips about attraction if there is no fun on that self-improvement is good for low pride people but these kind of content are waste of time there no reason to go for these kind of things.
I subbed, Lana.
Thanks, girl.
You have no idea I still think girls look at my looks not at my heart? That I hold deal to my chest but when I look at myself I'm so critical about my reflection dose that make sense?
Here's my attractive list:
1. Gorgeousness
2. Fitness and self-care
3. Humility and humbleness
4. Kindness
5. Self-respect and respect for others
6. Emotional intelligence
7. Sense of humour
8. Self-confidence
9. Ambition/goal-driven
10. Generosity and thoughtfulness
11. Peacefulness
Edit: my bonus attractive trait is:
12. Authenticity (this one is a complete turn-on for me).
Thanks for sharing. This is great 🥰🥰❤❤
@@deutschmitpurple2918 thank you :)
Love it! ❤
definitely peaceful people attract right people, my kind too, thanks for sharing here
@@ApollonianShy18 thank you. I really don't like the noise and chaos. I'm an introvert. So, that's why I prefer being around peaceful people because I'm peaceful myself.
Simple things that make anyone instantly more attractive :
1. Self confidence.
2. Being healthy.
3. The way we dress & accessories.
4. Posture.
5. Skincare.
6. Haircare.
7. Grooming.
8. Taking care of ourselves.
9. Smelling good.
10. Good attitude.
11. Be kind & humble.
12. Being clean & neat.
13. Manners.
14. Always smile & be happy.
These are some really good things to follow!
Although it would be really REALLY almost impossible to follow the last one; I never liked sitting with my benchmates in college for 9 hours straight hearing them talk immature unprofessional shit..not to mention I used to be a straight A student in school and since college started my grades dropped real real hard, I always feel guilty I'm being rude to people online (online friends ig) even tho at the same time I think I pay the most attention. I think I'm the dulkest student in my class (others aren't passionate about education and copy their way through exams, I pity them every single time)
Now I cannot smile and be happy because my classmates will pay attention to me more and distract me, and everytime I try to enjoy something bad always hits. And mine's a strict Indian college so there's really no time to get emotionwl and be happy and all and talk and smile. That's why I hate it when my friends keep talking during class all the time. One of them thinks she's way too cute and I just cant- she immature
My apologies for ranting negative things, I love your comment.
Thank you for the tips 💛
Self-confidence is earned it's not simple to get!
14 is a bit odd. Being happy and smiling does help, but it is impossible to always be happy. And I'd be freaked out if something terrible happened and all the person could do is express happiness. Open communication about emptions is nice and empathy
@@MissMoontree I think it means just be positive in general. But yes you got to be real too. No one likes a negative person though
No-1)Looks
No-2)Voice
No-3)race
No-4)Status
these are the main ingredient for sexual attraction which is core of all relationships which means a women has to be attracted to the mans body,face first.Otherwise nothing will.And no i dont want love from women.I dont care about love.Its meaningless
After a month being stuck deeply in depression I have no clue why but this video calmed me somehow. It made me realize how much my depression let me neglect myself and I think taking care of myself will also bring me uphill again a bit more. You made my day. Thank you a lot❤
depression is so hard, i hope things look up for you soon! sending love
When you start trying some of these tips, take it one step at a time. Don't feel like you have to get everything right at once! Take care ❤
If you have no clue why but this video calmed you, then it actually didn't calm you..
After having to go through a similar thing I can relate.
@@cccc2740 What she's saying is the video did calm her for a reason, but she doesn't know what that reason is
Dress well
Sit straight
Skin care
Be confident
Got it😌✨
🥰🥰❤❤
only if ur naturally pretty 👩🏻
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 lol
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 no younjust gotta be your best self....things don't turn out the way you want even after bejng your best self then fuck everyone else I am awesome mentality attracts people to you.
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 And you wonder why you think you look ugly. ☠️
simple thing #1, be Lana Blakely XD
(≧▽≦) hehe agree
or be you :)
@@Someone06919 you're too cute (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄ , thank you xx
You could always try being yourself?! 💕
lol
Having a humble, kind personality. It really doesn't matter what you look like.
kindness can make even the average person insanely attractive
Cap
🧢
Ever since I started watching your videos this year, my life seems to just feel better. The wholesome, homely feeling of exploring topics which I usually avoid is just so... Thank you for everything.
Personally, me before 6 months at the lowest point in did all the things opposite to what you mentioned- not dressing well , no skincare or fitness , worst posture and always focusing on the negative side .
I am in awe that I actually worked on all the things you mentioned here!! along with my therapy and my mental health going uphill
I really have attracted many right people and friends and also around 4-5 guys approached me you know !
never been this confident and secured in my body :)
I'm in tears....ah!
thanks lana , love u
These things really don't work for longer duration,sister ,the time you are giving on your fashion,,grooming,hairstyle,etc if started giving to your career and studies then you would reach heights of success and forget about 4-5 people,you would attract 400-500 people,if you become super successful who have a lot of money, that's reality,accept it or else you know
@@mainaksen280 It's not about studies or being successful. You know what does make you successful? Not money. Not business. Happiness. OP said they used to live unhealthily. They weren't taking care themselves and was always negative. Of course, this isn't bad, but it's not good either. What is good, is that they changed. Mental health will always be first, no matter what. I think you should start thinking like that too.
@@Царица-й2ц I absolutely agree with you.
woah great
i also experienced same as yours :)
a huge one that i feel is overlooked a lot is someone's voice. This can make or break a person's attractiveness I feel
It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest.
I like this corner of youtube, its so pleasant and mannerly lol.
Instinctively we are attracted to people who look "healthy". It is an archetype in us, seeking the most appropriate partner for having offspring. So of course, your posture, your skin, your hair, teeth, nails, smell, grooming suggests health. And then, because we are not animals 😁, the whole representation of the person. Strong, independent, kind, good manners, eloquent, someone who is approachable, someone who suggests an interesting inner world which we want to explore.
Came to say the same thing! All of the things mentioned all anomalistically tell us someone is “healthy” and therefore good to breed with haha
technically we are animals but we are more modernized to where the last things on this list matter as well!
we are animals
Comments like these makes me think "Are the heterosexuals okay? "
@@MoonchildDontCry What an off-putting comment
As a pilates instructor I can confirm that your posture makes people so drawn to you! Everyone slouches over so when you don't, it's a rarity that people are naturally attracted to 😊
I like that at the beginning she acknowledges the importance of looks. I think we should also acknowledge the importance of voice tones and volumes because I started forwarding up the video so fast just after a few seconds 😆
That's because you watch too much tiktok.
This is probably her second video that I've come across but man something about her eyes and the way she speaks is so calming and hypnotizing.
This is the first time I have seen your channel, I don't really like to sit and listen to youtube videos without doing something else at the same time but I was mesmerized by your voice! Your video is very relaxing and informative
Yes, please make a part 2! This was so so lovely. I’m glad you focused on the things you did-your appearance, taking care of yourself, grooming, hair, good oral health, being healthy, your smell, etc, are all soo important. Some additional things for part two: people who have interests/hobbies/passions. It’s soo unattractive when people say they are boring and do nothing but work, sleep, eat & play video games, Lol. Having interests immediately makes a person interesting.
I also love to read, and I find men who read to be sooo attractive. I don’t even care what they read, but there’s something so sexy about a man reading.
The health thing is arguably the most important because, as you say, it's a fundamental instinct, but it makes me so sad because I'm chronically ill and there's literally nothing I can do about that. When I was healthy, it reflected in every aspect of me, and people were drawn to me back then. Nowadays I have dull skin, tired eyes, my head is too foggy to engage in conversation like I once could, I don't have the energy to work out how I used to, or to even invest in my individuality like I did before. I kind of just have to survive now. I feel so much less human and I think I'm seen as less human, too.
I am so sorry you feel like that...I struggle with low self-esteem due to the same problem....
Guys, being healthy is something we cannot always control but that does not mean we should lower how good we feel about ourselves. It's definitely difficult but have faith in yourself, believe even if you think nothing can change your situation still believe and trust me, if you start having even a little, very tiny sliver of optimism, you'll start feeling better and eventually good about yourself, you'll accept yourself as you are and once that happens you will naturally attract other people
The thing you would want is to love yourself as you are. It's ok if you are not in the best of your health or to not have things you want, you did not choose it purposely and if someone judges you for that, better people are waiting for you and trust me there are
It really starts with you, with how you feel about yourself. You don't have to think about others
Care about and love yourself
Accept yourself as you are
I definitely know how difficult what i said may sound, but that's how things are.
And if you can help yourself and get over your insecurities, kudos to you, it's gonna be worth it
its literally me, I'm cronically ill and I feel so bad about it
Ugh, so sorry you are in this situation, too, I am also chronically ill and relate to every word you wrote, literally...
Hello how r u doing
Just came by here to tell you that in this video u were incredibly honest and open about ur struggles with self confidence which i hugely appreciate
And u give good advices about it 2 which is really really good
Keep up with the good work and have a nice day 😊
Being attractive gives you the opener. Personality is necessary to close if you want someone who’s beyond skin deep.
So true. My classmate just told me I’m not pretty enough and watched this video.I’ll be careful with these tips!! (Not for him! )
Thanks a lot
I love Lana so much!! To me, you're like a big sister giving us advice & chatting with us when we're struggling haha
Lana, I really would appreciate if you upload your hair routine with an hair tutorial of your wavy classy hairstyle. It's so beautiful!
Sorry it's taking so long but I do have a hair video coming up :)
This is completely random but oh my gosh YOU ARE SO PRETTY AND STUNNING AND GORGEOUS
Awesome tips on how to be more attractive, Lana! Love this! Being attractive is so much more than looking good! Thanks again for another inspiring video!
Just working on yourself 🎀🧿
gurl you're literally the supreme energy here on my feed... idk abt others, but your video content is really worth my time lana !!!! it's really worth everybody's time 💕
it’s crazy how much hair can change how you look. i went through a phase where i tried to use heat to style my hair (that and i worked at a pool) so my hair became very damaged so i cut most of it off in hopes of starting over. at times i don’t feel very feminine because i’ll wear baggy clothes and darker shades so now I’m trying to balance my wardrobe to still be me but also more feminine
Ikr I totally agree with you
One trick I learnt is giving a genuine compliment to the person you meet. Instantly puts a smile on their face and breaks the ice.
One can be more attractive if they are comfortable the way they are. Knowing whats important.... the corporal is temporary but knowing oneself is eternal. How true beauty is define.
agreed
Lanaaa, please share your hair care and blow out routine. They look amazing !!
I don’t like skincare. I think the ppl who actually need skincare can use it. But I have good skin and I have never had a skincare routine. Or I tried for the trend. Hated it. Now I just take of my makeup and moisturize before bed. That’s it. Works perfect. And confident is the key to everything 😘
Well, that is skincare ;) a lot of people don't take off their makeup or moisturize at all. I use your routine too!
@@jamielaw4749 i get what u mean but when I see skincare it’s sooo many products and tbh I haven’t seen a routine on social media that only have those step. But idk I have skincare but not what I imagine when I think of skincare
@@wwhuknow2500 Most of those people are insecure of their looks or genuinely have a skin type that requires these steps. You should normally have 5 (give or take a few) steps in your routine. However, you can always treat yourself or do the minimum, which is really just cleansing and moisturizing. You don't have to use as many things as someone who is constantly being judged by others who are looking at a screen or just someone constantly seen-- in the wrong way. Honesty is key in a happy friendship or relationship, however not key in getting views. I hope this helped you, have a nice day or night.
@@pintrestcore I Said that I think ppl who actually need skincare can use it. If ppl have good skin and use products that literally are not useful I thinks they do it for the trend. And if I need skincare don’t buy what’s trending. Doctors have the answer. And I’m talking about acne for example
"the trend" Lol.. it's looking after your skin health, you know it's an organ right?
Let's appreciate her beauty as well guys💕💕
You have a very comforting voice
I’ve always admired your videos and the calm demeanour but i am loving that the vibes of this channel are getting more and more warm and intimate, how you’ve improved the quality over the years and the topics, it’s all so good!❤
I feel an incredible lightness while watching the video, your way of talking is so calming. great video, thank you!
I'm just addicted to your voice, your thoughts and your face. You look like my beloved sister :>
i love how realistic you are, i love hearing you talk
1. Be tall
2. Have a symmetrical face
3. Good bone structure
4. Good eye area
5. Full head of hair. Little to no signs of balding or thinning
6. Dress well (have enough money fr clothes that fit and look good
So uh, have good genes, mostly.
Also exercise having a fit body is really attractive..
Wtf is that and the girl is rude,unkind and don't give a damn to you and your family than it's okay ?
@@shouryatri2114 don't rely on outside looks god damn you guys are so annoying what if she's gold digger
@@tanyakaur8648 but what if she's not a gold digger and a genuinely good person..
@@shouryatri2114 beauty is not matter you have to look for somebody you can trust and she can brings better in you rather than depending upon looks which never be permanent!!
your voice is so deep i feel super calm
you should definitely shoot the second part. This is an amazing work. You are like a sister who talks sincerely, thank you ❤❤🌞🌞
ua-cam.com/video/xhxjaT5gOjU/v-deo.html
watching this super late at night to escape.... it was a vibe. going in a playlist...
Love this video, makes sense and helps reflect on oneself. This video gave me the motivation to stop hiding my happiness about life (even if sometimes things are yucky), life is/can be so beautiful.
Thanks Lana for all ur work and just wanted to appreciate you for ur efforts :)
many thanks!! :)
@@LanaBlakely i
Part 2 would be great, especially for habits that people may not always be aware of ❤
I need a hair tutorial or hair care of yours, your hair just look so damm amazing and beautiful
YESSSSS...part 2 please. I do really enjoy these types of your videos.
Short and on point
Focusing on being attractive is a bad starting point, yeah first Impressions matter, but that doesn't matter in the long run if you are all persona.
What attracts me (just my opinion😊):
1-Making me laugh
2- Having a kind look/gaze (I can have a crush on someone because their gaze seems loving and trustworthy)
3- Feeling protected: you don't need to be strong but as an anxious person I really enjoy peaceful, calming persons (weirdly one of the most calming person I know has a life full of twists and turns😏)
4- A good looking face
5- Did I mention humour ?
7- General knowledge, knowing surprising facts that will amaze me
6- Being fit
That's all for me :)
What do you mean by good looking face is she need to be fair and have good features wtf was that
Ok 👌🏼 good relationship with you congrats to you im telling to you truly I'm married man my age 63 my wife she Filipino 35 years House Wife ok I'm needing only one good partner firstly I'm don't cheeting any one
@@tanyakaur8648 Hey! First of all I am a woman who only pursues heterosexual relationships thus I am describing features I find attractive on men. Moreover, in my country (France), being fair isn't a beauty norm, just a feature shared by most (although different ethnicities are also French, we are mostly white). Finally, finding some features appealing is just personal taste and totally normal.
exactly the point here is our choice.
@@alexandraapolline8434 Is your list in order of importance to you? Asking bc of my girlfriend, our relationship could be better
You’re so professional in front of the camera , i be like damn, lana it’s fascinating to see your growth at it (i mean you’ve looked good on camera before too, but now you’re just like a professional
Just found your channel. You are an angel from heaven
welcome :))
I just love her video aesthetic. Like its just so soft n pleasing to look at while listening to her voice...
Woow, such a great content. No sugarcoating straight to the point. Definitely looking forward to part 2
thank you baby girl I learned a lot about my current situation
Firstly, you are AWESOME! unexpectedly, came across this wonderful channel. A little tip from me, sometimes being attractive doesn't always lie on the physical aspect. It also lie on the way we think, the way we speak, and the way we treat others. The more better it is, the more attractive we automatically become. : )
Yes be kind ( beings 💕 is a beautiful 😍
Thing so be kind smile 😃😊
I feel like we don’t talk enough about how beautiful Lana is! 😍
I felt that too 🙂. She is really beautiful 🖤
Literally... I was just scrolling through videos, and seeing her face on the thumbnail smiling is simply a sight of beauty to be admired.
Some people are blessed with such a beautiful appearance.
That's like, half of the comments in almost every one of her videos. But yes, she is gorgeous.
Alllahhhh
She is kurdish :)
Always amazing to see my fav UA-camr uploads 💖
:'))
thank you you dont know how much i needed that
Ultimately, attractiveness is about projecting a positive image and making a good first impression. So it's important to be your best self in all aspects of your life.
and that's a real road toward extreme anxiety and dissatisfaction with yourself. Almost toxic positivity kind of thing. That's terrible advice for anyone who struggles. Esp with things like perfectionism.
your voice is so calming
9:00 I agree humor is attractive but, I think that depends...Some people make mean and rude jokes and that's a turn off. Humor can be used in a good way and in a bad way.
Thanks for saying that, just be important is be yourself and happy for what you are... ❤
A good way to think about how to be more "attractive" (which is quite different from just being beautiful/hot/handsome) is to think: If you met someone who was really physically attractive/ beautiful/ handsome, etc., what qualities could they have would make you NOT want to be around them? You'd probably list things like rudeness, arrogance, boring to talk to, no sense of humour... keep listing things, and right there you have a perfect list of what someone can do to be more attractive...
Thank you! but I can I have your skincare routine plsss 😳😳😳 you skins so glowing ❤
Really loves this video. Also I like your hair and your gesture. Basically, you’re like the definition of perfect. Waiting for part 2 anyway!
Looks matter, The way we dress, Posture, Skincare, Hair, Grooming, Health, Confidence, Smelling good, A good attitude, Humour & Mannerism
i randomly saw your video and it made my mood low to suddenly calm and relaxed ..i was ovethinking about certain things but even though i didnt need any counselling on being attractive but listening to you reminded me that i have my own life to take care of ..thank youu so much LANA , love from INDIA 💞💞
Yes, please do a part 2! Very well conveyed points in this one.
You are correct. My life is changing.. i can feel it. Thank you so much
I realised now you can double tap the comment to like it
she said it, care about yourself and how you look it changes so much. fax!.
I love your Hair
i find it so attractive when someone is genuinely laughing and smiling idk what it is but it makes me wanna smile too 😊
All true. That said, beautiful people do have an advantage and that is okay. As Lana says, sometimes attraction to someone who may not be traditionally attractive happens and that is great. Bottom line, attractive people have it easier but there are many factors that contribute to the attraction equation.
Part 2 please, I really love your content Lana. It makes me become a more delicate and thoughtful person which is my self-growth goal now. Once again, thank you so much. I wish you lots of luck in life.
So thoughtfully titled!
Part 2 would be a gift from heaven
you inspire me every day with your content, i appreciate it
The way u said the word Nope and the music playing in the background was awesome and it makes me feel too good
It was a great video but in my opinion just being attractive by your looks isn’t enough. The thing that matters the most is your personality. What you do for others and how you support them during their hard times. I honestly don’t judge anyone by their appearance, posture, hairstyle and smell. Being loyal, considerate to others and having a pure heart is all that matters, that’s what actually makes you attractive :)
It would be much better world if people think more like you. I let people judge me because of looks and that really affected my mental health. I used to feel insecure because of that and still do sometimes. I so much agree with you what you said. You seem like a great person.
@@jessicaluk74 You also seem like an amazing person! Thank you. You should simply ignore those people who are tying to judge you. I hope you stay happy and healthy forever! Honestly you’re the best and you can make the world a better place! ✨
@@GadgetsArise Thank you. I wish the same to you as well, dear stranger 💗
@@jessicaluk74 You’re welcome! Physical activities and meditation can help to improve your mental health. Please take care of yourself! 💜
@@GadgetsArise I definitely will try that.
lanaaa plsss drop the hair tutorial… it looks so pretty
i can’t get over how perfect ur hair is
You're too sweet
People down to another people who are genuinely, happy, smile and send positive vibes.
The answer to the beginning of the video: It's because of feminine and masculine energy. Woman(if feminine) is more drawn to the man who looks maybe worse, but is more masculine that to the man who looks better, but just don't have that energy. And it's not some magic shit, but a natural behavior from thousands of years ago. I got this concept from Hamza and his masculine guide, where he explained it better.
confidence is the single most important thing you can care about, speaking for experience
Great video! Looking forward to Part 2! I hope you have a beautiful Sunday Lana! :)
👍👍
I’ll be waiting for part 2 Lana
I saw the notification and this evening immediately got better ❤️
:')
and “yes” to a part 2 🌸
I believe looks don’t matter, it’s personality
Thank you for this video. I discovered many things, and this made me feel a little relieved and happy ✨✨
A good bulk of the video talked a lot of someone’s outer appearance and things that might not be within our control to change. Haircare, skin care, clothes, even the segment of confidence was blocked off by a sponsored segment and the accessibility to therapy being a component to someone’s confidence. I have an interview tomorrow and I can’t help but wonder how so many factors involving me making a good first impression would not be within my power to change or if so be difficult if for example I was homeless and or neurodivergent. This is more so a critique on society and social norms though because everything you mentioned is the norm and for the most part obvious. It would be interesting to hear what you have to say in your next video.
To be honest I feel like it's very harsh on ppl struggling with mental health. You should do these things when you want to as an act of kindness to yourself first and foremost, not to please society like you said. I usually love Lana's videos and introspection, and although I am working on myself it has been a difficult uphill battle and this video was not for me.
@@sparkstudies1675 The video was very surface level in my opinion.
@Life In France I don't think that there wasn't any truth to it. It's important to take care of ourselves, but not THE most important thing. I think with all things the advice just needed to be put into context. I def agree there has to be more to it than just this, but they are great additions where possible.
About the 'attitude' part. I do think it is important to strive to be happy, and I definitely agree that certain people send out a 'vibe'. :)
But it is also important to note that you can't be happy all the time. Life is (unfortunately) not always unicorns and rainbows. And repressing negative emotions can have a very damaging impact on you. Mentally, and even physically. It is okay to be angry, if people piss you off sometimes. It is okay not to be smiling and happy if someone disrespect you. It is okay to dive into the negative emotions sometimes, because that is how you understand them and deal with them. As long as you keep the balance healthy.
Kindness and consideration are deal breakers for me. Went on a date with a girl. We went to sonic, got milkshakes, and went shopping around Walmart. We’re walking through the arts and crafts aisle where she leaves a half-drank milkshake there to rot and walks off. Instant turn off, haven’t spoken to her since even after she tried to schedule another date.
why didn't you approach her for that, I would. just curious
@@luminsparks2455 Do you mean approach or reproach?
how is it a deal breaker then? you're using the word wrong
Your voice is the soundtrack of my summer
Here’s my list of things I find attractive
• a kind, caring person
• someone who can make me laugh
• patient
• they treat their family with respect
• someone who loves animals (especially cats)
• dress nicely
• nice hair
• has a good sense of humour and doesn’t always take themselves too seriously
• has a creative hobby
• likes long walks
• has a friendly face
• enjoys skincare and self care in general
Your hair looks so fluffy ❤
Part 2 please!! I love your videos, they really boost my mood!
Very much been figuring this out myself over the course over 2022 after doing 12 rounds with anxiety and depression, so thank you for this, thank you for confirming that I at least am making the right steps, even if I'm not 100% there yet. 😁 You just earned another subscriber. 😁
Omg I‘m the first one!!!
Love your video, thank you so much for all your work!
Thank you!! xx