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  • @40OverFashion
    @40OverFashion  Рік тому +1

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  • @svrocko1
    @svrocko1 Рік тому +22

    John, your suggestion to break the touch barrier early is spot-on! Give her a hug as soon as you meet her.
    Here is a suggestion; no lunch dates. Meet for a drink after dinner.
    Buy the first round with cash. Do not open a tab. Have a conversation.
    You will both finish the first drink at about the same time.
    Here comes the most important part. Do not order another round!
    If she likes you, she will buy the second round! If she doesn’t like you,
    she will say it was nice meeting you, but I have to wake up early or something
    like that. Also, if you’re not into her, you can say it was nice to meet her and
    you end the date. This is an easy way to know quickly if there is chemistry or not
    and minimizes awkward endings to the date.
    Good luck!

  • @s.beccari4678
    @s.beccari4678 Рік тому +2

    That 1st example is perfect. Know what you want/like

  • @donnie2533
    @donnie2533 Рік тому +1

    Great video glad you posted keep them coming thanks

  • @joemendes6687
    @joemendes6687 Рік тому +1

    Great advice, as always!

  • @kevinwilkes6387
    @kevinwilkes6387 Рік тому +2

    Hey Kevin from Chicago just saw your page pop up thanks for the conversation and information, great tips , hoping to find more senior sensual pages of meeting mature older women for touch , affection, play and releasing pressure

  • @lanovedzo1347
    @lanovedzo1347 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this. I found your dating tips very legitimate. And yes, dating can be hard, so we all need tips and awareness time by time.

  • @juny1982
    @juny1982 Рік тому +3

    John always giving good advice!! Keep the good work Man!!!

  • @drsamscott
    @drsamscott Рік тому +3

    I needed this content on first dates. Thank you!🙏🏼☺️

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  Рік тому +1

      You’re welcome! Thank you for watching!

  • @tyranlee8111
    @tyranlee8111 Рік тому +1

    Awesome! Thank you

  • @bsumm1473
    @bsumm1473 Рік тому +2

    John, first off, I love your channel, thanks for all you do. I've gone down the style rabbithole on UA-cam and you are one of the few who don't come across as pretensious at times. I mean that as the highest of compliments.
    Secondly, I'm about a foot taller than you (6'8") and would LOVE if you could make a video geared for us tall thin guys. For example I know not to wear vertical striped shirts as that makes me look even taller. I know this seems like a niche request but I'm certain there are some tall future legends out there just waiting for your video to find it's way through the algorithm to them! Thanks man!

  • @josephbuttigieg7986
    @josephbuttigieg7986 Рік тому +1

    Thanking you mate. Always interesting. Greetings from Malta 🇲🇹

  • @frankmartinez4856
    @frankmartinez4856 Рік тому +1

    Good advice, as always 😊Thanks John!!

  • @ronm6585
    @ronm6585 Рік тому +1

    Thanks John.

  • @ericpatterson5050
    @ericpatterson5050 Рік тому +1

    Good tips! Good to see you as Always. 👌🏾💜

  • @stevemccrory9130
    @stevemccrory9130 Рік тому +15

    Not going to be dating anytime soon (last date was over 8 years ago) and have concluded that relationships are not for me.

    • @seulaumonde8322
      @seulaumonde8322 Рік тому +1

      I feel the same and I thought I 'm abnormal

    • @michaeldavis2039
      @michaeldavis2039 Рік тому +5

      I hear ya. My last date and girlfriend was a decade ago. Major elder-care responsibilities to my now late parents had to become the priority and the life goals of my ex and I were going in opposite directions anyway. Plus I've noticed that females these days are just not into a traditional, old fashioned, older black gentleman like myself.

    • @stevemccrory9130
      @stevemccrory9130 Рік тому +1

      @@michaeldavis2039 My life, in parts, summarised. Anyway, if they're that fussy, they're not worth it. I find the integration the hardest because my hobbies / interests are time-consuming and require a high level of commitment, to the point of having to be selfish and saying "no" to a lot of things. Good luck finding a gap ladies, especially at the weekends.

    • @stevemccrory9130
      @stevemccrory9130 Рік тому +1

      @@seulaumonde8322 Nope, just a different normal to everyone else's illusion.

    • @strangerdanger8462
      @strangerdanger8462 Рік тому +3

      I'm with you, Sir. I have zero interest in dating or relationships. I'm so busy enjoying things in my life ( hobbies, travel, business, projects, my kids) that I just can't be bothered to jump through hoops to make a lady vibe with me. I've become so indifferent to them that there is no going back. Not that I want to anyways 🤣

  • @christopherbarker976
    @christopherbarker976 Рік тому +1

    Hi John some very good tips as always well done .
    Thanks. Kit Barker

  • @scottyates5758
    @scottyates5758 Рік тому +3

    Polished casual is now the look I’m going for 🤙🤙

  • @murrayhiggins7907
    @murrayhiggins7907 Рік тому +1

    speaking of clean cars sir.... hoping you've got some content coming on the M4 comp you were enjoying!

  • @robertreynolds2726
    @robertreynolds2726 Рік тому +15

    First date should be some place, like a coffee shop. Don't spend some coin on a first date to find out she's psycho. Wait, they all are.

  • @musicmanMJS
    @musicmanMJS Рік тому +4

    Another great video! You're the best! BTW, my chosen cologne is an oil based pheromone rather unique fragrance. My girlfriend loves it! I give her the first whiff every morning!👍

  • @ericl7842
    @ericl7842 Рік тому +1

    Great video John! Have a great week my friend. #legend

  • @wren23_bass-synths
    @wren23_bass-synths Рік тому +1

    All great tips John. I'm naturally introverted and my go to date place is the art museum. Get to show her your favorite pieces and have a great conversation at the same time. Also, a great way to to touch to her and point out something in the art. I live in a big city, so I use Uber, what are your thoughts on this?

  • @declanbrady9765
    @declanbrady9765 Рік тому

    Classic blonde hair tip, you're sooo right john, she'll notice it 🤣

  • @richardpellis
    @richardpellis Рік тому +1

    If your date let's you pick her up and your driving, be a gentleman, open the door, and her guide her in by touching the small of her back.
    That breaks the touch barrier very early and makes it natural.
    If you have a center console, rest your arm there while driving. If she feels comfortable, or likes you, she'll touch your arm on the way to your destination.
    Or, the best situation I had, when there was instant chemistry, she held my hand while driving. That was the start of the best 3 month dating round I've ever experienced.

  • @davidmc8475
    @davidmc8475 Рік тому

    I had 2 dates in the same week with 2 different girls. The 1st date left her (black) bra in the passenger door storage area, the car had a black interior so I didn’t notice it. The 2nd girl did.

  • @jackfenton2271
    @jackfenton2271 Рік тому +5

    Always bring a mix of cash.
    If she is a nut job, you can throw down $20 and walk out.

  • @MTbone7
    @MTbone7 Рік тому +3

    So weird seeing a same race and different sex couple now a days in a vid. Thank you

  • @strangerdanger8462
    @strangerdanger8462 Рік тому +3

    Dating isn't my cup of tea, but I believe the first date shouldn't be anything more than a drink( one drink), a coffee, or some simple activity like meet up in the park, a round of mini golf, or hangout at a museum/ at gallery. Many entitled ladies today will push back against these. That's a red flag. Run.

  • @mohsenslim4395
    @mohsenslim4395 Рік тому

    I was a disaster in school so I learned from my mistakes

  • @MrBoxofplastic
    @MrBoxofplastic Рік тому

    After my divorce I had a first date that went well. I didn't make a plan for a 2nd date. I asked her to choose from a bunch of options. She ghosted me, lol.

  • @mikeknowles8017
    @mikeknowles8017 Рік тому

    Here's a hint about the car - avoid the "pine tree" air fresheners and buy a spray bottle of "new car smell" at an auto parts store. I give my car a lttle shot of it every time I go somewhere. I don't know about anyone else but I sure like my car better that way.

  • @steverinaldi890
    @steverinaldi890 Рік тому

    In this dating world so many woman play the field more than any man I know. Not all, but many want free, free and free. Go for a drink and if it appears to be going well-extend the date and grab an appetizer or dinner. Never commit up front for more than a drink. And where I live-you don’t really want the woman in your car. If you drive a nice car-many assume you are well off and they view you as $$.

  • @sacredkinetics.lns.8352
    @sacredkinetics.lns.8352 Рік тому +4

    A friend got a date with a wonderful lady; she was definitely interested but everything turn off when she found a ladies underwear in the glove compartment. 🤤

  • @alan2102X
    @alan2102X Рік тому +1

    Touch tip: Grow stubble for a day or two before. Then, on the date, hold her hand, and bring it up to your face and gently brush the back of it over your cheek. Smile/wink. She will smile and love it. Most women love stubble and it feels even better than it looks.

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 Рік тому +1

    Love the car comment.. if they are all dark brunettes, double check anyway ;)

  • @citydogpack
    @citydogpack 10 місяців тому +1

    Great advice but leave the blonde hair in the car. Women lobe to know other woman want the man she’s dating