1. slow it down in dating, do not abandon yourself 2. learn how to self-sooth, exercise, meditate, breathwork ... 3. mind your believes 4. keep your focus on you
This is exactly it for me as well. I thought I did the work, I was thriving as a single person and now that I’m in it with someone, all these issues are back.
This video was by far the best one I’ve watched about this topic of healing, the anxious attachment style. You are so gifted and I’m grateful you’re giving your gift to the world like this. Very helpful.
I’m so glad you found it helpful! Thank you for your kind words! I have a free masterclass on stop sabotaging relationships with anxiety that delves into this subject more that you may find useful too!
I didn't realize I had this until I tried starting dating again 10 years after my divorce. Took me 10 years to date again. I should have known I had issues. I realized I had an issue but I had already pushed her away. Knowing that you have pushed someone away, is there a way to salvage the relationship without risking pushing them away farther? Is there any action or anything to be said? Or just give it time and hope that they reach out. They still respond to me but very infrequently and our conversations never have any depth anymore. Should I just move on knowing that I need to work on myself?
I dooo see differences and start to feel like that... because changes in patterns usually do mean they are doing something else. And is it wrong to want someone to contact you daily if you're in a relationship?
1. slow it down in dating, do not abandon yourself
2. learn how to self-sooth, exercise, meditate, breathwork ...
3. mind your believes
4. keep your focus on you
Exactly :)
I thought I did the work but when the relationship started everything came back
This is exactly it for me as well. I thought I did the work, I was thriving as a single person and now that I’m in it with someone, all these issues are back.
Same
What was the work you did?
Same. Onion layers
Triggered.
OMG yes! The fact that I'm abandoning myself, that really hit home. Thank you!
So glad it helped!
@@candicetamara_ it really did, you're channel is gold, keep up the great work
This video was by far the best one I’ve watched about this topic of healing, the anxious attachment style. You are so gifted and I’m grateful you’re giving your gift to the world like this. Very helpful.
I’m so glad you found it helpful! Thank you for your kind words! I have a free masterclass on stop sabotaging relationships with anxiety that delves into this subject more that you may find useful too!
I didn't realize I had this until I tried starting dating again 10 years after my divorce. Took me 10 years to date again. I should have known I had issues. I realized I had an issue but I had already pushed her away. Knowing that you have pushed someone away, is there a way to salvage the relationship without risking pushing them away farther? Is there any action or anything to be said? Or just give it time and hope that they reach out. They still respond to me but very infrequently and our conversations never have any depth anymore. Should I just move on knowing that I need to work on myself?
I dooo see differences and start to feel like that... because changes in patterns usually do mean they are doing something else. And is it wrong to want someone to contact you daily if you're in a relationship?
Absolutely not! ❤️
Good video
Glad you enjoyed it ☺️