My wife is 8 months pregnant and as she was driving today, she got involved in a terrible head collision accident. Her car was pushed away 15 metres away while she was inside. I thank God she survived and the baby is okay. God is great.
I am unsure if they notice the way the speak to one another or if God is just using it to minister to my heart. But the lack of offense to every single interjection is leaving me in awe. Pure shock. And the beauty that comes from the allowance of it… reveals the power of what God can do through TWO.
As a single woman moving towards a leadership role at work, I needed to hear what Preston said about leadership. I take it so personally when I teach something at work and the person I am teaching either doesnt get it or take it and make it their own in way that reflects to me that I have been effective in MY leadership. And being much younger than a lot of the people I lead, it can get frustrating. I have to instead maintain the sober mindset that I am not the one who gives people ability, instead I have a responsibiility to see to it that their abilities are allowed freedom to grow unhindered. It just gives me a whole new empathy for my future husband and appreciation for Jesus, who might have been much younger than the Pharisees who often opposed him and still needed his teaching.
In today's society we have such a strong desire to be able to showcase our gifts...but let's not forget Christ's example of humility and lowliness! When we get those two things right we'll be able to serve the kingdom much better.
"Jesus is not seen - His Church is seen, and He gets glory from that." Maaaan, this is one I'm gonna meditate on for days. This speaks just as much about how Christian men should navigate their marriages, but also how us Godly women should operate as bride - wife - mother - representative of Christ - and member of the Body. So much meat to chew on in this simple idea alone.
Jesús is no longer physically with us and can't be experienced with the 5 senses as He once was. This doesn't mean He's in the backseat... He is the invisible God made visible through His Church. And it pleased Him that it would be that way until this world as we know it comes to an end and we rule with Him together in the new heaven and new earth.
@@katherineosere6597 The whole conversation was woman/church centric. That's what feminism does. It makes the whole focus on the man loving and supporting the wife and the absence of submission.
@@RCGWho why do you seem to be making a point about feminism on every single comment where no one is talking about that concept? You might be too steeped in world for this conversation. Whatever your issues are with women, feminism, and the "women CEOs" you keep talking about, YOU SHOULD SERIOUSLY TAKE IT TO THE LORD IN PRAYER. This approach you're taking with your commentary all over this page is NOT IT.
Yyyaayyy… they’re back 🙌🏾🙌🏾😊😊😊. Let’s go. I am excited. Preston and Jackie praying you guys enjoyed your time off from recording. Rest is important when doing ministry. Praise God for you both.
I'm not even married.... YET!! But this podcast lashed me! So many nuggets of truth and wisdom that even as a singleton i can't help but to reflect upon. I feel like everyone who is married doesn't matter if you just celebrated 30 years of marriage or 3, can be bless by this word in the form of this podcast. Thank you so much to the Perrys for your honesty and taking the time out to share your truth. Love ya'll
“We were not meant to come to conclusions in isolation”. That is so deep and I don’t know if you realize just how deep it is. I’m a Gen Xer who is in a non-communicative marriage. He loves me and I know he does yet we don’t communicate. No matter how much I try to take my thoughts and emotions captive I am still left to form “conclusions in isolation” and unfortunately that informs the connection we have-to the marriage’s detriment. Thank you for allowing us all to listen in to good communication. I have to chew on this.
This is my all time favorite video from you all because this is what married and unmarried people need to hear. As a woman who has been married for 25+ years, I concur with all that you are saying. One of the secrets to our imperfect yet successful marriage, apart from God, is sacrificing and dying to ourselves, which can be challenging. We are incapable of doing that apart from the Holy Spirit! 🎉
This is sooooooo MATURE!!!!! This is a video I will listen to in my courtship, literally sitting down for us BOTH to watch. So much wisdom in this video!! Jackie singing 42:00 😂😂😂
This actually contributed to the breakup of me and my ex husband. God chose to give the ministry to me and He had such a hard time accepting it then, he shut down on me. We were never able to recover. This is a real situation, unfortunately. I'm carrying on though...it is what it is. ❤
I really appreciate this conversation. When I was growing up in church the focus was on women to be there for their husbands. I didn’t hear so many messages for husbands to be sacrificial in their love towards the wives.
This was very powerful and really helpful for me. I’m a divorcée and an ex-First Lady. This topic was a major point of contention in our relationship. I was triggered at the beginning of this podcast because my ex-husband never “died” for the things of my calling. However, when Jackie spoke about the way in which a wife stewards her gifts, skill sets, and assignments, I felt deeply convicted. The Holy Spirit showed me my error in poor stewardship. I’m grateful I listened to this podcast and thankful for grace. Whenever I’m married again, I will make sure I ask God to teach me how to steward my gifts, skill sets, and assignments for His glory, and I will ensure my husband knows he is loved and considered before I make any decisions. Thank you both for this.
Oh man, y'all. This was too good. This issue has been so prevalent in my own life, growing up a pastor's kid (to a man with huge ego), a wife to a man who has struggled to draw a line between good work and the most important work (ministering to his own family), and my own fear to walk in my gifts because it could be construed as disloyalty to my family or "upitty-ness" as a woman in the church. Thank you so much for your transparency in this, for your honesty as you work this out in your own walks. You are a blessing ❤
43:19 THIS IS IT RIGHT HERE. "we receive truth when it's coming to us and love".... My only caveat I would add here is that this is even more so true when you're dealing with a wife who has also had to cultivate leadership skills in order to even walk in the gifting God has given her. Aka she might have some of the same leadership traits that you do and so the question is how do you be a leader AND support, care for, and cover another leader who is your wife? It's interesting because my mother's ex-husband could do this in a work setting where he was the vice president… He wasn't the CEO of the company and so he didn't have that ultimate headship position. But as a vice president he reported to the CEO and also had several people under him who were also men that were leaders that reported to him. He was responsible for their leadership development and didn't have a problem with that. In fact he loved it. So I never really understood why he was so intentional on suppressing the gifts my mother when all she wanted to do was serve him and her family. Also God had given both of them a vision for how they could use their gifts through their marriage, but he was just so jealous that he let it blind him.
Preston you dropped some jewels here. I appreciate your biblical view of leadership. You spoke of loving your wife well. That matters Alot Preston!! Christ loves the church well and it is Christ's love and nourishment that brings out the best in the church.
Thank you. I love the transparency and Preston said some relatable things. Glad your marriage is giving God glory. Can’t wait to get into Ephesians 5. God bless you and keep you both.
“If we’re honest work and ministry can feel easier than marriage and sometimes you feel better at that thing than you feel in your position as a wife or a mother” 🤯🤯 also insert as a husband or a father!! Girl you better preach! Lol
One of the reasons I put off marriage was to complete professional school. I never wanted my husband to feel jealous about my focus on my studies so I prayed and I waited. Lol Graduated, & Still in the waiting
I am so glad yall spoke on this. I am a psychology professor, wife, and minister. My assignment is different from my husband's. So I love this and I am living this.
I feel as though once a man is confident in his leadership and his wife continues to ignite and support that w/o ulterior motives the couple will flourish always. A willing union is a successful union.
I keep wondering how young these people are. With 4 kids, they look really young 🥹 blessed by your lives , the Perrys. Desiring to be used this way with my husband. So much power 💖
This was a frequent conversation between my husband and I early in marriage as we were both military and it happens on occasion that a wife out ranks her husband or moves from enlisted to officer and the fewer times I saw the marriage last compared to the more often seeing it take a turn. I also witnessed mid career a beautiful marriage that the husband encouraged and supported his wife who wanted to enlist and was an amazing inspiring father who worked, went to school and was home with their sons and never saw him slack or waiver in his support of her as a Soldier but was not a timid or “weak” guy by any means. It blew my mind.
Not Jackie saying she has nothing to say then the last 5 minutes that Convo was a whole blessing! Thank you guys for using the gifts the Lord has given you to enlighten us in different ways!
@With The Perrys- I understand what you're saying about work getting in the way or becoming an idol before the spouse because i have experienced it. Its not that it's intentional but work is where we are most of the day especially if you work away from home. To obtain work and a paycheck you must be skilled and confident in what you do so that your household is Secure because security is what the wife needs. Im glad that there is a podcast as such as the Perrys that discuss these matters. No Job =No Money, No Money= No Home or Security
So insightful! Great discussion. This is so honest, real, and a discussion that is so necessary. It takes in all elements and all levels: physical, emotional, spiritual. Thank you…. So HONEST.
I was married years ago… in the 90s. I loved my husband but we were so ill-equipped for marriage. Divorce is a heartbreak… particularly when you still love someone. Thank you for this insightful conversation. Y’all are helping a lot of people. ❤
Oh man I'm 4.5 minutes into this podcast and I know I need to hear this. I love my husband dearly, but he has always been very negative about my theological interests and passions, because he doesn't have them. It has been a constant struggle for me to know how to both honor and submit to my husband and also follow my passion for the Lord with the desires he has placed in my heart. I respect both of you so I'm excited to see what you'll have to say on this topic as I don't believe it is discussed nearly enough.
“Christ died so the Church could thrive. … Christ is not seen, His Church is the one seen, and He gets glory from that.” -Preston Perry 💯💯♥️♥️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️✝️ 16:16 - 16:59------ Love this part, especially about Preston being proud of Jackie ! ❤️♥️❤️♥️ Such a great conversation! Thank you Preston and Jackie!
Welcome Back Perry family! Congratulations on the tour. So excited that the family is back onto the podcast. @JHP- Although I am saddened to see that you may be battling allergies or sinuses- I pray for your healing. But can we give a proud nod to you for showing up & with the glow up on 10! Ok, Niecey- I am loving the brows, the lux long locs the mani & pedi. Gorgeous Sis. You & Preston are a beautiful couple and I pray for your family. Tonight’s topic would normally be a tough conversation for many to even approach let alone unpack for most couples-whether in Christ or even in the world. Ephesians 5 will be my homework tonight. Jackie, you & Preston could be comedians the same at you both just break out into impromptu praise songs or an off topic story and it keeps us laughing. Love, love you both and your ministry. Will be copping the disciple hat for my adult sons. Everyone have a blessed week ahead. Stay lifted 🫶🏾💙🙏🏾🙏🏾
This was good. Thank y’all. At first I thought I couldn’t relate bc I’m not active like Jackie is. My husband is the one who is most active out of the both of us. I at times felt like Preston. And we don’t talk about things like this. I don’t think we have deep conversations about feelings unless someone is offended or angry or not getting what they think they should be getting. And it’s been over 2 decades. We are saved and in a Bible believing church. But the communication part for me just brought up so much. I literally long for what you spoke about. Intimacy. Trust. Honesty. Leadership. Truth in love. Protection. So I’ve just been focusing on my relationship with the Lord and trying to follow Him bc I don’t know what else to do.
🥰What a powerful raw real conversation! Absolutely love it and you guys are for real on fire for the Holy Ghost. May God continue to bless your union and your family and all you do flourish in Jesus mighty name amen. Blessings fam!🙏🏼🔥
Preston! My instructor at barber college had narcolepsy and would fall asleep mid sentence while demonstrating a shave, with a straight razor in his hand, on a shaving cream lathered balloon. Needless to say, when that balloon popped and shaving cream flew everywhere, that was his last day on the floor.
The biblical wisdom that flows from you two is so refreshing. I would love to hear a conversation on how to navigate relationships with NARCISSISTS when you can’t get away from them (in a marriage) and the spiritual battle is always intense. Again, love y’all ❤
41:11 “We’re not built to come to conclusions in isolation.” 🔥This line right here…and everything there after. no man is an island! Spouses must communicate.
Your podcast is the only one that I always have to watch. I can’t just listen. You speak in a way that makes me want to see what’s happening in the room from the second you open your mouths, and I find that so funny 😂 I love y’all so much!
Love you two! I literally feel I can prescribe, like medicine you guys channel to people going through situations. What a gift! Praise God! i don't have that level of trust with every ministry. The Lord's sheep are precious to Him, and deserve proper care, and nourishment! May God continue to bless, and prosper you guys in all areas.
I love this so much, Preston, thank you for being such a beautiful representation of Godly leadership, black father's and humility in love. It is very encouraging for me as a single woman who also came out of homosexuality, to see this, and to Jackie, thank you for showing how you allow Preston to lead and be the minister of your home
Hey... you quoted my friend's uncle Curt Thompson! The Soul of Desire and his other books have been life changing for my husband! I will be reading them soon. This was so challenging because I've been "that" spouse a lot. My husband and I are entering a new season of our careers, and we will actually be ministering together and I want to keep all this in mind!
I've experienced this competenting between my spouse for years. He is gifted with the gift of evangelism. My gift is teaching exhortation. Whenever we were in the same settings Whenever I would say anything attention would turn to me. I would stop saying while we were in same room. My husband is gifted in evangelism. But I always felt as though my gift should be buried so that he could feel confident. 6:22
This is a very good episode (as they all are)! At the moment, for me, though, it's triggering a lot. What's being described (love, communication, sacrifice) was not my experience after being married for 10 years. Clearly, I'm still hurt and need to work through it. Thank you for continuing to tackle these topics 🙏🏾❤
To Preston's point about the way a leader cultivates greatness will reflect in who they are leading can also be carried out many instances. People in general leadership need to understand this instead of working against the people they are called to lead.
Loved this episode! Especially the part where you both talk about the warfare between work and maintaining a healthy family life. Can you please do an episode on how as Christians we can should seek God in our current political climate?
My wife is 8 months pregnant and as she was driving today, she got involved in a terrible head collision accident. Her car was pushed away 15 metres away while she was inside. I thank God she survived and the baby is okay. God is great.
This is lovely..... We thank God for his protection always....
Thank god for his protection. That's a testimony
Hallelujah Jesus for the safety HE does!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you, Jesus, for your your protection and goodness ❤
@@msrhodes2771 AMEN & AMEN
Glory to God 🛐..!
May God bless your family ❤
There's a difference between your spouse wounding you and them triggering a wound that you haven't dealt with🔥🔥🔥
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That was so good he should’ve said that slower or repeated it lol it almost went over my head
“What if she looks good because I love her well” man, the assurance & ability to see it through that kind of lens is powerful.
“We might be cheating on our spouse, not with a person, but with a thing/career” WOW 🔥
I can’t wait for 2034 when your children will be guests on this podcast.
commenting so I can bookmark your comment and come back to check if this prophecy came to pass 😁
@@BonIvermectin😂😂
@@BonIvermectin😂😂real
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen ❤
I am unsure if they notice the way the speak to one another or if God is just using it to minister to my heart. But the lack of offense to every single interjection is leaving me in awe. Pure shock. And the beauty that comes from the allowance of it… reveals the power of what God can do through TWO.
Preston needs to teach these older " leaders" how to be real, secure men.
Phew.... 🎯
"she's killing it because ive nourished her well" - true words spoken !
I love that God gave you two, to each other to be a blessing to the world. May God continue to bless your union. ❤
When Jackie started singing at 42:00 and Preston didn’t even flinch 😂😂😂😂 I’m literally crying
You can tell it's just normal 😂😂
I reminded this part 5x to watch his reaction..while I’m over here cackling 😂😂😂
"We were not built to come to conclusions in isolation" Yes ma'am! That's how cults and heresy starts 😁
Preston Perry you are speaking my languaaaggeeeeeee!!! I love it!! "We need to disciple men to be holistic leaders" YES
As a single woman moving towards a leadership role at work, I needed to hear what Preston said about leadership. I take it so personally when I teach something at work and the person I am teaching either doesnt get it or take it and make it their own in way that reflects to me that I have been effective in MY leadership. And being much younger than a lot of the people I lead, it can get frustrating. I have to instead maintain the sober mindset that I am not the one who gives people ability, instead I have a responsibiility to see to it that their abilities are allowed freedom to grow unhindered. It just gives me a whole new empathy for my future husband and appreciation for Jesus, who might have been much younger than the Pharisees who often opposed him and still needed his teaching.
In today's society we have such a strong desire to be able to showcase our gifts...but let's not forget Christ's example of humility and lowliness! When we get those two things right we'll be able to serve the kingdom much better.
THIS!!!!!
16:11 that "I'm just PROUD of you" hit me like a ton of bricks 😢. So wonderful to see a couple model support for each other this way.
My goodness... 🙌🏽
He/they get it. FOR REAL. God has to be pleased.
"Jesus is not seen - His Church is seen, and He gets glory from that." Maaaan, this is one I'm gonna meditate on for days. This speaks just as much about how Christian men should navigate their marriages, but also how us Godly women should operate as bride - wife - mother - representative of Christ - and member of the Body. So much meat to chew on in this simple idea alone.
That makes the church central with Jesus in the backseat.
Jesús is no longer physically with us and can't be experienced with the 5 senses as He once was. This doesn't mean He's in the backseat... He is the invisible God made visible through His Church. And it pleased Him that it would be that way until this world as we know it comes to an end and we rule with Him together in the new heaven and new earth.
@@katherineosere6597 The whole conversation was woman/church centric. That's what feminism does. It makes the whole focus on the man loving and supporting the wife and the absence of submission.
@@RCGWho why do you seem to be making a point about feminism on every single comment where no one is talking about that concept? You might be too steeped in world for this conversation. Whatever your issues are with women, feminism, and the "women CEOs" you keep talking about, YOU SHOULD SERIOUSLY TAKE IT TO THE LORD IN PRAYER. This approach you're taking with your commentary all over this page is NOT IT.
@@nrb1989 Feminism is affecting women in the church. It's just not allowed to be acknowledged or addressed as you just demonstrated.
Yyyaayyy… they’re back 🙌🏾🙌🏾😊😊😊. Let’s go. I am excited. Preston and Jackie praying you guys enjoyed your time off from recording. Rest is important when doing ministry. Praise God for you both.
They're touring still aren't they? I assumed the content slowed for that reason. Hopefully they are resting.
I'm not even married.... YET!! But this podcast lashed me! So many nuggets of truth and wisdom that even as a singleton i can't help but to reflect upon. I feel like everyone who is married doesn't matter if you just celebrated 30 years of marriage or 3, can be bless by this word in the form of this podcast. Thank you so much to the Perrys for your honesty and taking the time out to share your truth. Love ya'll
“We were not meant to come to conclusions in isolation”. That is so deep and I don’t know if you realize just how deep it is. I’m a Gen Xer who is in a non-communicative marriage. He loves me and I know he does yet we don’t communicate. No matter how much I try to take my thoughts and emotions captive I am still left to form “conclusions in isolation” and unfortunately that informs the connection we have-to the marriage’s detriment. Thank you for allowing us all to listen in to good communication. I have to chew on this.
I’m trying to wrap my head around “non-communicative marriage.” I can’t fathom what that looks like.
Thank you for sharing your situation.
This is my all time favorite video from you all because this is what married and unmarried people need to hear. As a woman who has been married for 25+ years, I concur with all that you are saying. One of the secrets to our imperfect yet successful marriage, apart from God, is sacrificing and dying to ourselves, which can be challenging. We are incapable of doing that apart from the Holy Spirit! 🎉
This is sooooooo MATURE!!!!! This is a video I will listen to in my courtship, literally sitting down for us BOTH to watch. So much wisdom in this video!! Jackie singing 42:00 😂😂😂
Gifts do not define your place in the home!!! Deep!
Blessings to you Preston & Jackie!
This actually contributed to the breakup of me and my ex husband. God chose to give the ministry to me and He had such a hard time accepting it then, he shut down on me. We were never able to recover. This is a real situation, unfortunately. I'm carrying on though...it is what it is. ❤
I really appreciate this conversation. When I was growing up in church the focus was on women to be there for their husbands. I didn’t hear so many messages for husbands to be sacrificial in their love towards the wives.
This was very powerful and really helpful for me. I’m a divorcée and an ex-First Lady. This topic was a major point of contention in our relationship. I was triggered at the beginning of this podcast because my ex-husband never “died” for the things of my calling. However, when Jackie spoke about the way in which a wife stewards her gifts, skill sets, and assignments, I felt deeply convicted. The Holy Spirit showed me my error in poor stewardship. I’m grateful I listened to this podcast and thankful for grace. Whenever I’m married again, I will make sure I ask God to teach me how to steward my gifts, skill sets, and assignments for His glory, and I will ensure my husband knows he is loved and considered before I make any decisions. Thank you both for this.
Oh man, y'all. This was too good. This issue has been so prevalent in my own life, growing up a pastor's kid (to a man with huge ego), a wife to a man who has struggled to draw a line between good work and the most important work (ministering to his own family), and my own fear to walk in my gifts because it could be construed as disloyalty to my family or "upitty-ness" as a woman in the church. Thank you so much for your transparency in this, for your honesty as you work this out in your own walks. You are a blessing ❤
43:19 THIS IS IT RIGHT HERE. "we receive truth when it's coming to us and love"....
My only caveat I would add here is that this is even more so true when you're dealing with a wife who has also had to cultivate leadership skills in order to even walk in the gifting God has given her. Aka she might have some of the same leadership traits that you do and so the question is how do you be a leader AND support, care for, and cover another leader who is your wife?
It's interesting because my mother's ex-husband could do this in a work setting where he was the vice president… He wasn't the CEO of the company and so he didn't have that ultimate headship position. But as a vice president he reported to the CEO and also had several people under him who were also men that were leaders that reported to him. He was responsible for their leadership development and didn't have a problem with that. In fact he loved it. So I never really understood why he was so intentional on suppressing the gifts my mother when all she wanted to do was serve him and her family. Also God had given both of them a vision for how they could use their gifts through their marriage, but he was just so jealous that he let it blind him.
This episode is straight meat and potatoes, I am so spiritually full and blessed by it! 🙌🏾
Preston you dropped some jewels here. I appreciate your biblical view of leadership. You spoke of loving your wife well. That matters Alot Preston!! Christ loves the church well and it is Christ's love and nourishment that brings out the best in the church.
Thank you. I love the transparency and Preston said some relatable things. Glad your marriage is giving God glory. Can’t wait to get into Ephesians 5. God bless you and keep you both.
17:19 Bahahah! Tried to
Cop the hat…. Sold out! Many blessings, fam! Thrive!
Me too!
“If we’re honest work and ministry can feel easier than marriage and sometimes you feel better at that thing than you feel in your position as a wife or a mother” 🤯🤯 also insert as a husband or a father!! Girl you better preach! Lol
I’m not married but I enjoyed this. I do believe I’ve been called to ministry so it’s nice to know what to expect.
One of the reasons I put off marriage was to complete professional school. I never wanted my husband to feel jealous about my focus on my studies so I prayed and I waited. Lol Graduated, & Still in the waiting
This is what I intend to do. My fear is I may not find a suitable suitor by the time I'm ready to settle. I'm still praying for God's will.
I am so glad yall spoke on this. I am a psychology professor, wife, and minister. My assignment is different from my husband's. So I love this and I am living this.
Do you have children? If so, who is raising them?
Finally a new video I’ve been watching the old ones for so long thank you ❤😮
I thought I was the only one!!! lol
I said the same thing just realized 🤣
LOL SAME
Preston dropped so much knowledge in this episode 🤯
I feel as though once a man is confident in his leadership and his wife continues to ignite and support that w/o ulterior motives the couple will flourish always. A willing union is a successful union.
I keep wondering how young these people are. With 4 kids, they look really young 🥹 blessed by your lives , the Perrys. Desiring to be used this way with my husband. So much power 💖
30s. Preston is like 38 and Jackie is 34.
Why was I eagerly entering this episode expecting Jackie to sing “it’s the saints and the ain’ts” 😩 and Perry took it this time? 🤣
So powerful. This conversation was intentional and needed for the Body of Christ.
This was a frequent conversation between my husband and I early in marriage as we were both military and it happens on occasion that a wife out ranks her husband or moves from enlisted to officer and the fewer times I saw the marriage last compared to the more often seeing it take a turn.
I also witnessed mid career a beautiful marriage that the husband encouraged and supported his wife who wanted to enlist and was an amazing inspiring father who worked, went to school and was home with their sons and never saw him slack or waiver in his support of her as a Soldier but was not a timid or “weak” guy by any means. It blew my mind.
Not Jackie saying she has nothing to say then the last 5 minutes that Convo was a whole blessing! Thank you guys for using the gifts the Lord has given you to enlighten us in different ways!
Wait, I need more! This conversation was so good!!!
@With The Perrys- I understand what you're saying about work getting in the way or becoming an idol before the spouse because i have experienced it. Its not that it's intentional but work is where we are most of the day especially if you work away from home. To obtain work and a paycheck you must be skilled and confident in what you do so that your household is Secure because security is what the wife needs. Im glad that there is a podcast as such as the Perrys that discuss these matters.
No Job =No Money, No Money= No Home or Security
So insightful! Great discussion. This is so honest, real, and a discussion that is so necessary.
It takes in all elements and all levels: physical, emotional, spiritual. Thank you…. So HONEST.
I been patiently waiting for yall to drop just watching old videos lol YESSS PLEASEEE!
Powerful stuff yall!
Jackie you're blessed to have him (so are you Preston).
That was an excellent point Preston made at the end and I was also impressed, but also Jackie was sleepy and she was ready to go to sleep. 😂
SHE KILLIN IT CAUSE I LOVE HER WELL! COMEON BROH PRESTON 🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽
The last few mins right after they almost wounded down 🔥🔥🔥 gave heart to everything you said prior
This conversation was so insightful and also hopeful. Good to understand both sides of the aisle!
I was married years ago… in the 90s. I loved my husband but we were so ill-equipped for marriage. Divorce is a heartbreak… particularly when you still love someone. Thank you for this insightful conversation. Y’all are helping a lot of people. ❤
Mannnnnnnnnnnn. This whole conversation was healing, educational, and challenging for me. Thank you so much.
Oh man I'm 4.5 minutes into this podcast and I know I need to hear this. I love my husband dearly, but he has always been very negative about my theological interests and passions, because he doesn't have them. It has been a constant struggle for me to know how to both honor and submit to my husband and also follow my passion for the Lord with the desires he has placed in my heart. I respect both of you so I'm excited to see what you'll have to say on this topic as I don't believe it is discussed nearly enough.
“Christ died so the Church could thrive. … Christ is not seen, His Church is the one seen, and He gets glory from that.”
-Preston Perry
💯💯♥️♥️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️✝️
16:16 - 16:59------ Love this part, especially about Preston being proud of Jackie ! ❤️♥️❤️♥️
Such a great conversation! Thank you Preston and Jackie!
Welcome Back Perry family! Congratulations on the tour. So excited that the family is back onto the podcast. @JHP- Although I am saddened to see that you may be battling allergies or sinuses- I pray for your healing. But can we give a proud nod to you for showing up & with the glow up on 10! Ok, Niecey- I am loving the brows, the lux long locs the mani & pedi. Gorgeous Sis. You & Preston are a beautiful couple and I pray for your family. Tonight’s topic would normally be a tough conversation for many to even approach let alone unpack for most couples-whether in Christ or even in the world. Ephesians 5 will be my homework tonight. Jackie, you & Preston could be comedians the same at you both just break out into impromptu praise songs or an off topic story and it keeps us laughing. Love, love you both and your ministry. Will be copping the disciple hat for my adult sons. Everyone have a blessed week ahead. Stay lifted 🫶🏾💙🙏🏾🙏🏾
Preston: … you didn’t be a leader and join in
Jackie: MYYYYYYYYY GOOOD
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Goodness, oh my goodness the way you guys talk about so many topics about marriage that I have said to myself as a single person is mind blowing
I love how honest & real yall are ❤
This was good. Thank y’all. At first I thought I couldn’t relate bc I’m not active like Jackie is. My husband is the one who is most active out of the both of us. I at times felt like Preston. And we don’t talk about things like this. I don’t think we have deep conversations about feelings unless someone is offended or angry or not getting what they think they should be getting. And it’s been over 2 decades. We are saved and in a Bible believing church. But the communication part for me just brought up so much. I literally long for what you spoke about. Intimacy. Trust. Honesty. Leadership. Truth in love. Protection. So I’ve just been focusing on my relationship with the Lord and trying to follow Him bc I don’t know what else to do.
🥰What a powerful raw real conversation! Absolutely love it and you guys are for real on fire for the Holy Ghost. May God continue to bless your union and your family and all you do flourish in Jesus mighty name amen. Blessings fam!🙏🏼🔥
JESUS! Y’all are this episode UP! So much edification, conviction & wisdom.
Oh my goodness the truth that is spoken!!! I’m so seen and heard!!!
Literally my focus this month! To slow my pace down to ensure my family knows they are my priority!
Preston! My instructor at barber college had narcolepsy and would fall asleep mid sentence while demonstrating a shave, with a straight razor in his hand, on a shaving cream lathered balloon. Needless to say, when that balloon popped and shaving cream flew everywhere, that was his last day on the floor.
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@@amieshawilliams Omg, that is hilarious. You play too much. Now my mind is remembering Preston re-enacting the story about his history teacher.
😮😮😮As a hairdresser, I am shooketh.
The biblical wisdom that flows from you two is so refreshing. I would love to hear a conversation on how to navigate relationships with NARCISSISTS when you can’t get away from them (in a marriage) and the spiritual battle is always intense. Again, love y’all ❤
Welcome back 🎉❤
I have missed you! What a great topic to kick off your return😊
EVEN BETTER THAN I WAS THE LAST TIME BABYYYYYYY
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“We’re not built to come to conclusions in isolation.” 🔥This line right here…and everything there after.
no man is an island! Spouses must communicate.
This was a great convo. Yall dropped so many gems. 😊❤
Your podcast is the only one that I always have to watch. I can’t just listen. You speak in a way that makes me want to see what’s happening in the room from the second you open your mouths, and I find that so funny 😂 I love y’all so much!
Thanks for HEARING your audience and sharing your perspectives and truths.... my goodness.
Love this - her flourishing is a reflection of your leadership- yassss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Love you two! I literally feel I can prescribe, like medicine you guys channel to people going through situations. What a gift! Praise God! i don't have that level of trust with every ministry. The Lord's sheep are precious to Him, and deserve proper care, and nourishment! May God continue to bless, and prosper you guys in all areas.
This podcast is so good and in depth to what has not been acknowledged in believers lives. Thank you for using your gifts and sharing your lives.
You are killing it, Preston!!
Hi Perry's welcome back,good teachings about husband and wife supporting one another.When they came together as one,❤should out weigh anything.
This was such a balanced conversation…excellent
So much 💎💎 were dropped in this. So glad I took a listen and I need that hat lol
Go head, Preston! You are God’s man without apology! Disciple on!!!!
Actually, women not supporting their husbands is common. It is a reason for divorce in the military but military life is hard.
So glad Preston and Jackie that you're back from getting some rest, missed you guys ❤
This episode has so much insight even as a single woman. I love love love this one for real
I love this so much, Preston, thank you for being such a beautiful representation of Godly leadership, black father's and humility in love. It is very encouraging for me as a single woman who also came out of homosexuality, to see this, and to Jackie, thank you for showing how you allow Preston to lead and be the minister of your home
Oh my goodness! I would be asleep, snoring, sitting up if I had a benadryl and nasel spray. You look great and are verbal. Yay, you!
Happy Sunday, be safe during the storm in Georgia! Praying for the Lord's protection.
Hey... you quoted my friend's uncle Curt Thompson! The Soul of Desire and his other books have been life changing for my husband! I will be reading them soon.
This was so challenging because I've been "that" spouse a lot. My husband and I are entering a new season of our careers, and we will actually be ministering together and I want to keep all this in mind!
Goodness gracious, God bless you two. This is just so good.
I've experienced this competenting between my spouse for years. He is gifted with the gift of evangelism. My gift is teaching exhortation. Whenever we were in the same settings Whenever I would say anything attention would turn to me. I would stop saying while we were in same room. My husband is gifted in evangelism. But I always felt as though my gift should be buried so that he could feel confident. 6:22
So when is Preston going to drop a book called “Reshaping Leadership”? 🤔 Cuz I’m ready
This is a very good episode (as they all are)! At the moment, for me, though, it's triggering a lot. What's being described (love, communication, sacrifice) was not my experience after being married for 10 years. Clearly, I'm still hurt and need to work through it. Thank you for continuing to tackle these topics 🙏🏾❤
Pressttoonn whhhaatt 🤯🔥The whole convo.
The cereal promo is sooo funny to me, but MAKE THAT MONEY PERRY’s !!!😂👏🏾
Jackie was preaching at the 28:00 mark!! The Lord was speaking through her!
To Preston's point about the way a leader cultivates greatness will reflect in who they are leading can also be carried out many instances. People in general leadership need to understand this instead of working against the people they are called to lead.
Such a powerful conversation!! 🔥🔥
Loved this episode! Especially the part where you both talk about the warfare between work and maintaining a healthy family life.
Can you please do an episode on how as Christians we can should seek God in our current political climate?
Awesome wisdom shared.