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    Lyrics:
    I'm in the dark, I'd like to read his mind
    But I'm frightened of the things I might find
    Oh, there must be something he's thinking of
    To tear him away-a-ay
    When I tell him that I'm falling in love
    Why does he say-a-ay
    Hush hush, keep it down now, voices carry
    Hush hush, keep it down now, voices carry
    Uh-ah
    I try so hard not to get upset
    Because I know all the trouble I'll get
    Oh, he tells me tears are something to hide
    And something to fear-eh-eh
    And I try so hard to keep it inside
    So no one can hear

КОМЕНТАРІ • 18 тис.

  • @andrewstewart911
    @andrewstewart911 2 роки тому +2246

    Her vocals are powerful and electrifying. Sounds and feels just as great in 2022 as it did in 1985. Just magnetic.

  • @TheLyricah
    @TheLyricah Рік тому +1400

    This hit home for me as a young woman. Still hits the same whenever I hear it ……Took a year of planning but I got away. Safely. Thank you for this ❤

  • @eddiegutierrez3524
    @eddiegutierrez3524 2 місяці тому +241

    How friggin awesome were the 80s people. This is priceless. God bless you all…

    • @Chan.HDZ.1222
      @Chan.HDZ.1222 2 місяці тому +9

      Yes!!! GEN X!!!

    • @Plutoman09
      @Plutoman09 Місяць тому +1

      the mid 70's was the introduction of true "alternative" music.. The radio station CFNY-Fm 102.1 The Spirit of Radio. from Brampton Ontario was a THE radio station ; and the radio personalities, David Marsden was a huge influence to bring this 'style" of music into Canada...And you can listen to the music playlists they were playing at the time by typing CFNY-FM The Spirit of Radio Play list. If its still on line

    • @eddiegutierrez3524
      @eddiegutierrez3524 Місяць тому

      @@Plutoman09 thank you for that piece of information. 👍

    • @TheMisfits7783
      @TheMisfits7783 Місяць тому

      ROBERT SMITH IS THEIR GOD

    • @niners2009
      @niners2009 Місяць тому +3

      We were pretty special! The 80s will never be duplicated again! If you lived in the 80s you know the music was amazing 🤩

  • @CharlieLellman
    @CharlieLellman 7 місяців тому +362

    The last scene in this video is absolutely brilliant. Heartbreaking and brilliant.

    • @jennifergood8041
      @jennifergood8041 7 місяців тому +27

      The opera scene is so empowering! I love seeing her fight back!

    • @ladamyre1
      @ladamyre1 6 місяців тому +22

      Control freaks can be such a nightmare.

    • @Doroth-wn6hp
      @Doroth-wn6hp 6 місяців тому +10

      Love Aimee

    • @encodedinrhythm8943
      @encodedinrhythm8943 5 місяців тому +15

      The true face of a Narcissistic partner.

    • @rhondarandall4500
      @rhondarandall4500 5 місяців тому +4

      I dont like it its not nice Men who are jealous of womens talent really hurts. i was a singer songwriter and two at least of my boyfriends were jealous 😢❤️

  • @zizzaleo27
    @zizzaleo27 Рік тому +331

    Her voice, her hair, her band, her everything wow wow wow wow 🔥🔥🔥🔥 that was pure 80s

    • @amyroland-xm7il
      @amyroland-xm7il 2 місяці тому +3

      I agree just so cool. Such an epic time. There were so many uncool bands people associate with the 80’s. We listened to underground. She really is so lovely. Never get tired of this video or song.

    • @badd_dogg
      @badd_dogg 2 місяці тому +1

      Voices Carry fur sure

    • @markdinnauer888
      @markdinnauer888 28 днів тому +1

      Long Live The Beautiful 80s!

  • @MonteroOnBoxing
    @MonteroOnBoxing 10 місяців тому +934

    Damn the 80’s were great. ❤

    • @SheriFromDetroit
      @SheriFromDetroit 10 місяців тому +18

      Absolutely

    • @executivedecision6141
      @executivedecision6141 10 місяців тому +11

      When it comes to music and TV, the 1970s were way better!

    • @frankradcliff660
      @frankradcliff660 9 місяців тому +8

      Best decade in the time line of this creation and universe.

    • @frankradcliff660
      @frankradcliff660 9 місяців тому +7

      ​@@executivedecision6141nah bruh

    • @jinthpimp
      @jinthpimp 9 місяців тому +13

      @@executivedecision6141 It was a different time, but by far not better! I lived in both times. The 80's was just a different creature all together, sadly something we will NEVER see again. But at least were there and lived in the magic.

  • @swankhood
    @swankhood 3 роки тому +835

    "He wants me, but only part of the time, He wants me, if he can keep me in line"
    Aimee Mann is one of the greatest songwriters of all time.

    • @Zizzyyzz
      @Zizzyyzz 3 роки тому +32

      Replace the "he" with a "she". That's how it was originally written. Too risqué at the time, though.

    • @NYCBlonde
      @NYCBlonde 3 роки тому +27

      My favorite line: "'Cause I know--oh--the trouble I'll get." There's something about that line that gets to me. It's so--knowing.

    • @MarioRodriguez-gr8wc
      @MarioRodriguez-gr8wc 2 роки тому +3

      I don’t know about all that.

    • @Saksm113
      @Saksm113 2 роки тому +2

      Aimee*

    • @rogeliofernandezjimenez3053
      @rogeliofernandezjimenez3053 2 роки тому +1

      So Alanis Morrisette listened to this song AND wrote her songs, yes.

  • @iamsunnysideup7115
    @iamsunnysideup7115 6 місяців тому +254

    Forty years later I still get goose bumps when I hear her sing this song! One of my most favorite songs of the 80s! What an era for absolutely smashing music! Thank you!! 💋💋💋❣❣❣

    • @johnsteward4325
      @johnsteward4325 2 місяці тому +3

      I as well.I tear up everytime I see the video as well. lol

    • @esmintexas
      @esmintexas Місяць тому

      @@iamsunnysideup7115 I do too

  • @bigreed43
    @bigreed43 Рік тому +852

    This song will forever remind me of the summer 1985. Graduated high school and turned 19 that August. After my summer job was over, I could not find a job. No one would hire me. I even went to a temporary job service and even they wouldn't hire me. I finally got a job running a dish machine in a mall resteraunt that December. I just turned 57 this past August and have been retired since May of 2021. This song was on the radio everywhere in 1985 and is a reminder of how fast life passes you by. Please try to stay cognizant of blessings and enjoy your life as much as possible..... it goes by fast.

    • @SheriFromDetroit
      @SheriFromDetroit Рік тому +35

      '85 was a great year

    • @markconnelly1806
      @markconnelly1806 Рік тому +7

      1985 was a big economic recession time period.

    • @jude999
      @jude999 11 місяців тому +24

      Summer of 85 I stayed inside and watched MTV 24/7.

    • @ms.b9093
      @ms.b9093 10 місяців тому +39

      @@markconnelly1806 Actually it wasn't! Reagan had won a second term the US was beginning to come out of the recession of the late 70's. I remember my parents business was booming and things were finally good for them. 85 was a great year!

    • @SJT81
      @SJT81 6 місяців тому +22

      bigreed43, I actually.
      Just turned 43. Anyway, I couldn't agree more with your advice. I can't stress enough just to sit back and enjoy the ride. Life just speeds up the older you get!!! God bless!

  • @hgbugalou
    @hgbugalou 6 років тому +2458

    I really hope the younger generation today finds this. Such a great song that takes me back.

    • @domwalter6474
      @domwalter6474 6 років тому +104

      Michael O I’m 16 and this is one of my favorite songs of all time

    • @Whoswho34
      @Whoswho34 6 років тому +60

      Same im like 15 and been hearing these 80s on gta 4 since i was 8

    • @Maleficus_stfp
      @Maleficus_stfp 6 років тому +35

      16 and literally the radio showed this song, and I wanted to listen to it more.

    • @chipcity3016
      @chipcity3016 6 років тому +13

      Michael O fear not, they won't, we like them didn't as they don't give a shit about the past. Great song none the less, we know, don't ask them to be us, are you your parents? No, so why would youth today be also?

    • @brittanynicole5553
      @brittanynicole5553 6 років тому +15

      I do.
      I love this old music

  • @ronditchen6664
    @ronditchen6664 3 роки тому +488

    I just turn 60 years old on February 13th and I am so blessed that 10 years of my life was spent living Life in the eighties The greatest times ever.

    • @DiamanteDea
      @DiamanteDea 3 роки тому +1

      🌼🌼

    • @QuantumEffectResidue
      @QuantumEffectResidue 3 роки тому +8

      It was the BEST time to be alive in the entire 20th Century. Nothing even comes close. The 50's maybe but I wasn't around then.

    • @renmes2636
      @renmes2636 3 роки тому +9

      You are one of the lucky ones Ron to have lived in the Golden Age of music buddy. I feel sorry for the youth and the music of today. Music was about the process of elimination in those days. You had to be outstanding and super talented just to get a shot. The cream always floated to the top. Seems like anyone can (and does) put out crap on the radio. Most of the bubble gum music today lacks the quality of music from the Golden Age. Count your blessings Ron. Stay blessed.

    • @icyflann7178
      @icyflann7178 3 роки тому +11

      The 80s were morning in America 🥰🥰🥰
      So I hear... i was born in '90

    • @karonoltremari3083
      @karonoltremari3083 3 роки тому +12

      YES I AM 53 AND I AGREE WITH YOU !!!!! BEST TIME OF MY LIFE GROWING UP !!!!!! THE 80'S WERE MY BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE .......

  • @michellemurray3159
    @michellemurray3159 4 місяці тому +125

    The last 40 seconds of this video makes me shiver. Her first “He said ‘SHUT UP’” 😢

    • @richardsylvanus2717
      @richardsylvanus2717 4 місяці тому +1

      Here's another good song by Aimee
      ua-cam.com/video/wtOgwFzhlyw/v-deo.htmlsi=3qT8_2j3TSdyDAoI

    • @kristirichards2249
      @kristirichards2249 3 місяці тому +3

      She might overhear

    • @Troma2222
      @Troma2222 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes ❤

    • @tracyhall6195
      @tracyhall6195 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@richardsylvanus2717YES ! 😃 ... 1986's "Coming Up Close" ! 🤘😎👍 ..Wondrous !! 🏆

    • @TimMutterer
      @TimMutterer 3 місяці тому +1

      Brings to mind the 😳😲, " You better not make me look bad! 'Cus if I go down, I'm not going down alone!"😮😅

  • @chillywilly3397
    @chillywilly3397 Рік тому +283

    The 80's were the best...then and now. I'm stuck and don't want to leave.

    • @RamonaCortez-ep6sv
      @RamonaCortez-ep6sv 10 місяців тому +5

      @chillywilly, let’s jump stay in this time capsule!! 😀😀

    • @mikevarner9082
      @mikevarner9082 8 місяців тому +8

      I wanna go back...go back and do it all over but I cant go back I know...

    • @windowgirl7300
      @windowgirl7300 8 місяців тому +2

      NO... 70s were the best.

    • @stevelaws2572
      @stevelaws2572 8 місяців тому

      Same

    • @527ctguy
      @527ctguy 6 місяців тому

      yes some songs were great!

  • @yanuriroschev7270
    @yanuriroschev7270 Рік тому +315

    Nearly 40 years later, still love this song! When I hear it, I have to listen to the entire song.

    • @George-gc9bk
      @George-gc9bk Рік тому +6

      Me to!

    • @micnorton9487
      @micnorton9487 Рік тому +3

      OH YEAH,, I always liked the vocal n the instrumentals are excellent but I never knew exactly what the tune was about.. seeing this video,, I know EXACTLY why the song seemed so edgy,, n agree 101% the ending is SO powerful imo I HAVE to watch her (dramatically) give the guy what he hates the most: public attention,, of the HIGHLY embarrassing variety... and the hairstyle,, he says what's this, the "new image" n I'd say "yeah,, it's the "POST-YOU" image"...

    • @lisabentivenga1249
      @lisabentivenga1249 Рік тому +2

      Same!!

  • @jamesruffolo4680
    @jamesruffolo4680 5 років тому +435

    I absolutely love the opera scene. I love the irony of how you are supposed to be quiet at an opera and she had the courage to stand up and be heard, which of course is symbolic of her being in an abusive relationship and finding the courage to stand up for herself. A very powerful moment!

    • @jefflongsr2062
      @jefflongsr2062 5 років тому +6

      Yea and it was secret filmed,, him and her the only two in the audience that knew.....

    • @ratlivesmatter125
      @ratlivesmatter125 4 роки тому +1

      Women hate white knights.

    • @Emerymelvin166
      @Emerymelvin166 4 роки тому +5

      I agree,the guy is a scumbag.I'd raily for the woman.

    • @travismiller4320
      @travismiller4320 4 роки тому

      Think you’re reading a little too much into this song/scene.

    • @NathanPaulPrince
      @NathanPaulPrince 4 роки тому +5

      some of the theatre shows I go to even nowadays, everyone just sits and watches the orchestra and noone applauds, but I always buy a couple of single flowers before going there, and when I appreciate a song I will throw them from the balconey and stand and applaud... and more often than not I'm invited by an usher to meet with some of them at the end to go behind stage after and we get glasses of wine and get to talk to some of them :)

  • @simonthebritoverthepond6719
    @simonthebritoverthepond6719 7 місяців тому +247

    If only we could have the 1980's over again!

    • @IdgaradLyracant
      @IdgaradLyracant Місяць тому

      As someone who lived through the 80s, no you don't. I was a beautiful lie. What people remember of 80s was a distraction of what was really happening under the veneer of a lie we created to distract us from the truth. It took the 90s, the grunge movement to peel, painfully, the veneer off the truth. Now the naked truth is spread before the world and the truth is far more ugly than we want to admit.

    • @Cthomas5678
      @Cthomas5678 Місяць тому +5

      Yes but only now that I’ve lived through it I’ll go back and change some things now that I know better

    • @GoingOrbit
      @GoingOrbit Місяць тому

      What is it that you miss the most?

    • @djgrom9542
      @djgrom9542 Місяць тому +2

      @@GoingOrbit The arcade :) and probably my bike

    • @heyyou9693
      @heyyou9693 Місяць тому +4

      A great time to be alive

  • @roadglidered
    @roadglidered 3 роки тому +2589

    This song is deeper and has more soul than most people realize

    • @futuresite11
      @futuresite11 3 роки тому +28

      It is.

    • @edwardkazala825
      @edwardkazala825 3 роки тому +50

      Two words: Aimee Mann.

    • @gocowboys51411
      @gocowboys51411 3 роки тому +26

      Seriously because I love this song and listened to it a million times and just realized that the man in this video is my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years but he's the type of man who doesn't show much emotion at all. Like he sees emotion as weakness. When I asked him for a little bit more emotion like maybe telling me I love you before I have to tell him would be great but he acts like I'm crazy and tells me obviously he loves me. Lol it's called stop acting so tough because I know you're not but hey, people are different. I know he enjoys the I love yous and you're the best thing that's ever happened to mes he gets from me.

    • @roadglidered
      @roadglidered 3 роки тому +14

      @@gocowboys51411 so,,,,, he doesn't tell you that he loves you but he must SHOW it in other ways. Taking care of you, taking you out, ect.......

    • @gocowboys51411
      @gocowboys51411 3 роки тому +2

      @@roadglidered oh yes he does and I know he loves me for sure it's just nice to hear it don't you think? I know most men aren't the emotional type and I don't need it but it would be nice to hear. I'm a disabled woman with epilepsy which I developed a few years into our relationship and he has been here to take care of me and do everything I need him to do. I just struggle with my emotions having to depend on him as well as my father to take me to work and home and to go grab a coffee if I want one... I always feel like neither of them want to do any of that for me and it's almost like he feels bad for me that's why he stays. In reality I know he wouldn't stay if he didn't want to be here because he's not dependent like me but it gets in my head sometimes when I don't get smiles and I love yous out of the blue because I know he's not thinking about it or he would be happy to say it especially with my low self-esteem... I guess I'm just too needy but I'd be a lot less stressed knowing that my boyfriend is thinking of me and how much he loves me... He just doesn't think about loving me as much as I think about him not loving me.... If that makes sense 😂

  • @life-mm5do
    @life-mm5do 2 роки тому +1970

    Seems like yesterday I was listening to this song at age 19. Now I'm 58 and realize how fast life is.

  • @terryh985
    @terryh985 3 роки тому +324

    The theater scene is epic. The raw emotion portrayed magnificently. Captures the song perfectly.

    • @ladygemini5967
      @ladygemini5967 3 роки тому +14

      Ohhh gave me chills This lady could sang…I felt her emotions

    • @StudioLodge
      @StudioLodge 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah. Goosebumps completely. Lyrically brilliant and the melody is soaring when it hits that chorus. Well crafted art.

    • @benjaminrobinson3842
      @benjaminrobinson3842 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah, that scene was what I remember most about the video.
      In fact, it's kind of funny the things you remember years later. I'll never forget the sight of the tuxedoed guy sitting immediately in front of Aimee Mann. He was just out for a night at the opera and he gets a ringside seat to this drama.

    • @PerkyMcPerkypants
      @PerkyMcPerkypants 3 роки тому +4

      Yes, I always get shivers, terrific scene! Kind of rude to whoever was supposed to be performing though. But I like how everyone is at first like "wtf" and "come on lady, we're trying to watch fucking Aida or something" but then start turning as she ramps it up and upstages those sad sacks they paid good money to see. Even beard man scarf man was enraptured at the end!

  • @joannaprevost426
    @joannaprevost426 6 місяців тому +134

    This song was so Deep, Brilliant in the 80's. Iconic

  • @cowstabber5
    @cowstabber5 3 роки тому +5799

    The man in the video had one job and that was to make people hate him and he nailed it.

    • @daveratowski1473
      @daveratowski1473 3 роки тому +145

      totally agree

    • @GR-bn3xj
      @GR-bn3xj 3 роки тому +83

      Sooo, he buys her ear rings which she doesn't appreciated, doesn't like it when she stays out with a group of guys late and doesn't tell him, he takes her to out all the time, she gets funky haircuts without even telling him, doesn't put out enough or at all. No wonder he is a dick.

    • @boobooboogoo
      @boobooboogoo 3 роки тому +88

      Yes he did!

    • @charliefirpo8320
      @charliefirpo8320 3 роки тому +68

      Cool guy

    • @marieclaire4935
      @marieclaire4935 3 роки тому +116

      Hush hush keep it down

  • @claudiabarretta762
    @claudiabarretta762 Рік тому +776

    This song gave me the courage to divorce my abuser. It still makes me cry. It gave me the strength I needed. 😢😢

    • @zandorvorkov986
      @zandorvorkov986 Рік тому +13

      So is this song about abuse, or a young woman who's in love with a married man?

    • @Frank-gp6qr
      @Frank-gp6qr Рік тому +8

      Oh. Boy... victim 😊

    • @ekramer2478
      @ekramer2478 Рік тому +45

      @@zandorvorkov986 It is about abuse. Everything that man is doing is classic abuse.

    • @zandorvorkov986
      @zandorvorkov986 Рік тому +5

      @@ekramer2478 In the video, I guess, but she's seeing 2 guys also. I googled the song meaning and it's clear as mud.

    • @ekramer2478
      @ekramer2478 Рік тому +19

      @@zandorvorkov986 Also googled it. No, she isn't. It was originally from a male perspective and about a friend. It morphed over time and is indeed about abuse, and was frankly very important to that aspect, and the identity in the end of being abused. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voices_Carry

  • @stevenguajardo6049
    @stevenguajardo6049 2 роки тому +399

    My 18 year old loves this group. I never thought my little girl would listen to the same music I listened to. Her and her friends help keep the music alive and well. Keep rockin!!!

    • @Erix442
      @Erix442 2 роки тому +13

      I'm 24 and I accidentally found this song on spotify and I liked it. I was pleasantly surprised when I found this song in GTA 4 on radio Vice City FM

    • @bibearfan
      @bibearfan 2 роки тому

      R U OK?

    • @brianbrown3482
      @brianbrown3482 2 роки тому +15

      my granddaughter loves the music of the 80's. amazing that the new generations have found music like this.

    • @oneupg
      @oneupg 2 роки тому +6

      When I was coming of age I was listening to all the hits from 60s 70s & 80s...I was a 90s child and millennial teen.

    • @ladybug-mv8tn
      @ladybug-mv8tn Рік тому +7

      80s music has that affect on young folks. My son listens to it too

  • @jg2716
    @jg2716 7 місяців тому +130

    This song carries such huge weight, I'm sorry for all the people caught up in a relationship like this , great song

    • @soniafaye9919
      @soniafaye9919 6 місяців тому +1

      It does indeed, being the other woman and in love

  • @DingDongTheGreat
    @DingDongTheGreat 2 роки тому +164

    Why is it that once you start listening to these fire 80's hits (no matter what musical genre it was 'cause they were all bangers), you end up binging on all 80's music for hours on UA-cam? Nothing and I mean straight up nothing will ever dominate the music, culture and fads of the 80's! So blessed to have lived and experienced the enlightening 80's. This 54 year old will always be an 80's child!

    • @aaronnladronka8848
      @aaronnladronka8848 2 роки тому +5

      I'm right there with you, but I'm slightly younger at 45.

    • @DingDongTheGreat
      @DingDongTheGreat 2 роки тому +5

      @@aaronnladronka8848 age is just a number. No matter what age you are, you truly appreciate great music. My mom loved songs from the 50's through the 90's and she also loved country. I loved them all... All decades and genres thanks to my mom's great love for music. But the 80's were something special! 🙂

    • @moneylust
      @moneylust Рік тому +1

      Music, I admit it’s one of the best but fashion? 80s are one of the worst.

    • @DingDongTheGreat
      @DingDongTheGreat Рік тому

      @@moneylust subjective. I loved my Chic jeans and jelly shoes and the Flashdance look lol. The hairstyles though. Aquanet made a fortune in the 80's lol! 🤣

    • @greggh.748
      @greggh.748 Рік тому +1

      🤪 I'm right there with you! Only if I could remember the 80s

  • @andrewknaff9220
    @andrewknaff9220 2 роки тому +742

    When Aimee stands up at the end of the video screaming “He said shut up”. One of the best music video representations of what the song was all about in the history of music videos. ❤️

    • @mwbrada
      @mwbrada 2 роки тому +39

      I used to play along with this song 20 years ago and never saw the video until recently. After seeing the video the phrase at the very end "I wish, he would, let me talk." is even more crushing. Yes, stand up!

    • @rosajeffrey6112
      @rosajeffrey6112 2 роки тому +1

      @@mwbrada Look son of a bitch , I thought she was saying " This is scary " , which should be the title of the song ! Alot of things are scary 🦅 🐼 🐉 🦃 🗽.

    • @mwbrada
      @mwbrada 2 роки тому

      @@rosajeffrey6112 dumb adze says what?

    • @norarivers2744
      @norarivers2744 2 роки тому +11

      You nailed it!!!🎯

    • @flemwad
      @flemwad 2 роки тому +7

      Yep 100% ❤️

  • @robertmartini6817
    @robertmartini6817 2 роки тому +507

    Once you play the song, you can't unplay it. The tune just plays inside my brain for hours

    • @redskies4530
      @redskies4530 2 роки тому

      Hi I recommend an indie song and album called 'Looking Into The Mirror' by Robert Nix

    • @roadglidered
      @roadglidered 2 роки тому +6

      Oh, hush now, shut up, voices carry :-)

    • @ClaudiaGarcia-wx5cb
      @ClaudiaGarcia-wx5cb 2 роки тому +2

      I agree completely With You

    • @megafarad4933
      @megafarad4933 2 роки тому +4

      I have actually tried to find this song forever now because the only thing I had to work with was the chorus lyrics which were not what I thought they were.

    • @robertmartini6817
      @robertmartini6817 2 роки тому +3

      @@megafarad4933 Happy to hear your search is over, been there done that myself on trying to track down a song.

  • @lipstickandlotsofcoffee
    @lipstickandlotsofcoffee 7 місяців тому +133

    Kudos to Cully Holland, the boyfriend. He died at 31 in 1991. Way too young. Yet he managed to linger in pop history in this role. Rest in peace ❤

    • @Greg-zn3xb
      @Greg-zn3xb 5 місяців тому +7

      Had no idea he died so long ago. Never know what actors private lives are like...

    • @troyhenry1551
      @troyhenry1551 4 місяці тому +4

      Oh! So that's not a super young Julian McMahon from nip/tuck? I stand corrected 😮

    • @thereluctantgearhead4544
      @thereluctantgearhead4544 Місяць тому +2

      😢

    • @karinnotkaren8991
      @karinnotkaren8991 23 дні тому +2

      He was so perfect in this role! I think if he'd have lived longer, he'd have been an even bigger star. RIP Cully

  • @S.Waters.
    @S.Waters. Рік тому +174

    My 8 year old son just asked me to play this song. I love introducing my children to the awesome music I grew up on, they love it as much as I do.

    • @irishrover9332
      @irishrover9332 11 місяців тому +4

      8 years old ROTFL...Did you have kids in your late 30s? I was born in 1971 and my kids are 30 in 2024..Pure Gen Xr

    • @visionsofkyle
      @visionsofkyle 10 місяців тому +2

      Oh wow kinda similar story here. Discovered this song in the late 90s when I was also 8 thanks to a compilation CD my mom bought!

    • @Meterman13
      @Meterman13 8 місяців тому

      My grandkids ask me about these times,I say ,the Best Ever!!!

    • @S.Waters.
      @S.Waters. 3 місяці тому +1

      @@irishrover9332, yes. I’m 47 (born in 1977) and have 5 children, their ages are 24, 22, 12, 10, and 9 (edited to add: my youngest just had a birthday). The youngest 3 are from my second marriage.

  • @rpittman2874
    @rpittman2874 4 роки тому +297

    I was 14 when this came out, growing up with a abusive and alcoholic parent it had a totally different meaning, a sense of not being alone, still cry when I hear it

    • @christymearna3912
      @christymearna3912 4 роки тому +9

      ❣️

    • @yeetyeeter3207
      @yeetyeeter3207 4 роки тому +1

      Ooogabooga AHHH

    • @wpaeng9834
      @wpaeng9834 4 роки тому +10

      God bless you for that, I had heavy drinking fighting parents too, it isn't pretty for sure.

    • @alfredfrazier1807
      @alfredfrazier1807 4 роки тому +6

      Remind me of movie 'Legend of Billie Jean' 😉1 of my favorite movies nda 80's Helen&Christian Slater.

    • @HBOC949
      @HBOC949 3 роки тому +7

      I truly hope you are in a better place now! Cheers

  • @fifthgearfoodie5272
    @fifthgearfoodie5272 Рік тому +357

    The making of 80’s videos is an entirely lost art.

    • @jude999
      @jude999 11 місяців тому +10

      Duran Duran videos by Russel Mulcahy are genius.

    • @erk44
      @erk44 8 місяців тому +5

      Some of them are hilarious but i think what makes them good is the sincerity

    • @Atlswan
      @Atlswan 7 місяців тому +1

      @@erk44 The videos by Madness were a hoot.

    • @JohnBritton-go6uu
      @JohnBritton-go6uu 7 місяців тому +2

      The 80s really did nail the music video thing. Thank you good old MTV.

    • @kootybear
      @kootybear 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Atlswan the song by Blacmange Lose your love is one of those weird videos if you havent seen it. From the Flight of hte Navigator soundtrack

  • @AndreaReno-n8w
    @AndreaReno-n8w 4 дні тому +1

    This song has to be one of the greatest ever. Ive always felt identified to it. When I had this relationship and he would always want to keep me in secret and change the way I was. I was independent, making a living through my own business....meanwhile he still lived with this mom. ugh. First time I see the video and I very. much felt like her in those last few minutes of it.

    • @Gene-x4h
      @Gene-x4h 9 годин тому

      Good for you to get out before it got to toxic for you, respect and much love, you keep being amazing and kicking ass

  • @efrainhernandez645
    @efrainhernandez645 3 роки тому +472

    This song is nothing less than a
    pure work of art!!She not only hit
    it out of the ballpark w this song
    she hit it out of the universe!!!

    • @andimoreno8963
      @andimoreno8963 3 роки тому +7

      Agreed!!

    • @tangreatmusicyacriso323
      @tangreatmusicyacriso323 3 роки тому +5

      Yes she did hit it out the park, WELL SUNG AND SAID. 🥳🥳🥳

    • @jonathanhains814
      @jonathanhains814 3 роки тому +2

      Let's not get carried away.

    • @Zizzyyzz
      @Zizzyyzz 3 роки тому +3

      @@jonathanhains814 Like voices? 🤔😊

    • @NF40375
      @NF40375 2 роки тому +1

      Prrrrrrrreach 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @eddiev1548
    @eddiev1548 4 роки тому +907

    The 80s were special nothing like it will ever happen again😢

    • @juliapigworthy
      @juliapigworthy 4 роки тому +16

      Good things happen when enough people decide they must make them happen.
      Events like Brexit and Trump's election are the beginnings of a potential great unification of the freedom-loving West, although the real battle is only just beginning because its enemies are desperate to nip that restoration to factory settings in the bud.

    • @spyddar
      @spyddar 4 роки тому +22

      Aww. Nostalgia-it hits hard especially during pandemics.

    • @DinoHF79
      @DinoHF79 4 роки тому +33

      I got married in 1982 & had my son in 1983. I have great memories from that time. The best music in the 80's!

    • @MarkAnthony-pu6we
      @MarkAnthony-pu6we 4 роки тому +9

      Well said

    • @BroccoliRocks
      @BroccoliRocks 4 роки тому +3

      I don't agree. I was a child in the 70s when the 50s were made into nostalgia. Adults who lived then told the 50s were nasty, dull, and ordinary. I felt the same way about the 80s and I chuckle when people who were not adults try to make nostalgia out of the 80s.

  • @bhmch39
    @bhmch39 3 роки тому +173

    3:27 "Hush, Hush darling she might overhear you."
    My mom had to endure my father for 23 years keeping her quiet this way.
    Momma finally spoke when she left. That was her way of not hushing. My hero.
    Rip momma.

    • @aveywilliams7761
      @aveywilliams7761 3 роки тому +5

    • @kevinbautsch
      @kevinbautsch 3 роки тому +5

      Sorry for you Mom Sir. Sure hope the Lord Bless and keep her for having to live through that.

    • @fingersmcoy
      @fingersmcoy 3 роки тому +8

      well, my mom did the same to my dad his whole life.

    • @donnacsrpenter7226
      @donnacsrpenter7226 3 роки тому +5

      Honey ur mama is a hero God Bless her heart.

    • @romanfields7900
      @romanfields7900 2 роки тому +1

      My hero, too.

  • @jenteal6koala
    @jenteal6koala 8 місяців тому +45

    My brother said I'm stuck in an 80's music time warp. It's not a bad place to be.

    • @Tacocasaking
      @Tacocasaking Місяць тому +3

      Why not? Best music ever! 👍

    • @markdinnauer888
      @markdinnauer888 28 днів тому +2

      I totally agree I feel I'm stuck in the beautiful 80s & I like it there.. much better decade!

    • @allen_p
      @allen_p 27 днів тому +1

      Scotty, break the transporter and leave me here.

    • @Oskanderstine
      @Oskanderstine 26 днів тому +1

      You're not alone.

    • @Richard-gx5ex
      @Richard-gx5ex 25 днів тому +1

      I'm with you, rather be in a time warp were dancing was fun🎉

  • @jamesheald7971
    @jamesheald7971 3 роки тому +1606

    It's 2021 and this song holds up. It holds up very well.

    • @valerietomsic8454
      @valerietomsic8454 3 роки тому +28

      SHE is incredible...heard it on the way home from work today...sings her heart out....had to come back here and watch this video again!

    • @Alex-pm6je
      @Alex-pm6je 3 роки тому +15

      Great song, damn right!

    • @Apophis-lw6bz
      @Apophis-lw6bz 3 роки тому +25

      This song not only holds up, but the video still holds up, because no record company is producing anything as creative as the videos done in the 80's. The acting and the vignette perfectly matches this song, the way the dancing in Michael Jackson videos matched his songs.

    • @andimoreno8963
      @andimoreno8963 3 роки тому +1

      Yes! Hi. Nice to see you all here!! Omg?

    • @andimoreno8963
      @andimoreno8963 3 роки тому +3

      @@Apophis-lw6bz they won't let us sing like this anymore. Alot of people are turning to frequencies. Instead. 333 mghz

  • @mysan77
    @mysan77 4 роки тому +271

    My Dad passed away in November 2018, one thing he asked for me and my siblings to do when he passed is play his music and he was such a big 80’s fan. This is one of my favorite songs from the 80’s and I’m glad and proud I grew up listening to this 🤍 Rest In Peace Pops miss you tons and will forever play your music to live your memory on 🤍

    • @darkshadows1617
      @darkshadows1617 4 роки тому +3

      You make me cry

    • @mysan77
      @mysan77 4 роки тому +2

      MrEverything I’m sorry for your loss hun. I hope you find a way to cope with it because I still can’t seem too quite yet.

    • @dannymiles6503
      @dannymiles6503 4 роки тому +2

      Gosh I lost my wife only months before your Dad in April 2018. I too hope that my daughter will play my music too. My fave of all is David Bowie and she loves him. I need her to learn more like Til Tuesday. I must teach her in case I die as I'm almost 60 now. I love this band.

    • @dannymiles6503
      @dannymiles6503 4 роки тому +1

      Sorry for your loss. Me too. See my other mssg for you. Take lots of care.

    • @jtaylor138
      @jtaylor138 4 роки тому +3

      Mine left in Nov 2017... I listen to Glenn Miller

  • @SepBan
    @SepBan 7 років тому +251

    Those melancholy synths. I just want to give them a big hug.

    • @chrismccarron1210
      @chrismccarron1210 6 років тому +7

      love your comment understand completely!

    • @patrickevans3457
      @patrickevans3457 6 років тому +8

      SepBan Absolutely! Probably very often overlooked in the song. And the drone of them in the background during the chorus

    • @DonnieDarko1
      @DonnieDarko1 6 років тому +4

      👊👍👍

    • @DonnieDarko1
      @DonnieDarko1 6 років тому +5

      m e l a n c h o l y s y n t h s

    • @DonnieDarko1
      @DonnieDarko1 6 років тому +3

      Nothing like it

  • @TeeNaNa2
    @TeeNaNa2 4 роки тому +396

    My favorite part is the end! Let it out girl! “I wish he would let me talk!”

  • @joeyattaway756
    @joeyattaway756 2 роки тому +147

    The guitar tone. The reverb. The production 🙌

    • @NatalieValentina6
      @NatalieValentina6 Рік тому +6

      I know this is an old comment, but you really should check out the live version of this song that's available here on YT. It was recorded at the band's very 1st performance in NYC, & everything sounded fabulous.

  • @sonshimomokimgame9598
    @sonshimomokimgame9598 Рік тому +193

    One of my favourite 80s songs. I’m 48 and I’ll love this forever

  • @luisasedre8962
    @luisasedre8962 Місяць тому +111

    It's 2nd October 2024, Let's See How Many Legends Love Listening To This Incredible And Legendary And Beautiful Masterpiece.

    • @utolean3025
      @utolean3025 Місяць тому +10

      It was a great time to be alive , man I miss the 80s

    • @MikeTorriArtist
      @MikeTorriArtist Місяць тому

      @@utolean3025you and me both!!

    • @joemcauliffe2360
      @joemcauliffe2360 Місяць тому +3

      Was a time. I saw, and said nothing. Now,too late.

    • @IdrisFashan
      @IdrisFashan Місяць тому +3

      Lucky 13th October. Still slaps 👊🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

    • @esmintexas
      @esmintexas Місяць тому

      @@luisasedre8962 m

  • @dannywaysted8781
    @dannywaysted8781 6 років тому +1541

    The 80s was Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo GREAT DAMN !!!!!!

    • @SlapChop1000
      @SlapChop1000 6 років тому +21

      Danny Waysted 80's was the best!

    • @henrythegreatamerican8136
      @henrythegreatamerican8136 6 років тому +7

      Yea, the lead singers appearance in the song TIME STAND STILL with Rush was classic. Surprised they didn't team up for more songs. I actually prefer that song to this......

    • @dannywaysted8781
      @dannywaysted8781 6 років тому +1

      So True,,Thanks Henry,!!!

    • @jenniferjurgens4663
      @jenniferjurgens4663 6 років тому

      Drake

    • @teephione4422
      @teephione4422 6 років тому +4

      I know I was A Teenager The BESTIM3

  • @reallyseriously7020
    @reallyseriously7020 Рік тому +212

    The scariest line "In the dark I'd like to read his mind. But I'm frightened of the things I might find"

  • @heatherpierce9123
    @heatherpierce9123 3 роки тому +455

    "He wants me, but only part of the time. He wants me, so he can keep me in line." Anyone who's ever had an abusive partner knows this all too well. Fortunately, I got out of my abusive relationship years ago & I pray any of you who may still be in one eventually have the courage to leave. You deserve so much more!♥️

    • @antoniagolden6346
      @antoniagolden6346 3 роки тому +8

      Perversely those that want to control You are attracted to.

    • @endfedinctaxonindividuals7486
      @endfedinctaxonindividuals7486 3 роки тому +15

      Stop going after the bad boy Chads. Find a nice guy. Problem is the most woman find a nice guy as weak and predictable. Many of you say u want a nice guy. Yet u are attracted the bad boy. He is unpredictable and a challenge. Nice guys are not. I once had a woman who said that she liked that I was honest and straight forward. Then went on and said you need to be more mysterious. Another said you are genuinely a nice guy. She said she didnt know how to handle me. I said dont worry about trying to control and handle me. Just go with the flow. Glad u got out of ur bad relationship. Just learn from your mistake and dont get into a relationship like that again. Dont be like my neighbor. She is very attractive. 40 year old single mother now. Within a week of moving in to other side of duplex from me. Her bad boy tattooed bf tried to strangle her to death. Police had to kick down the door. But hey lets defund police right? Lucky police there. Cause I would have had to put the loser out of his misery. SO he gets arrested. She takes him back. Then police here over and over again. Ultimately she used a knife on him. She pounded on my door covered in blood. Turns out this guy served 6 to 12 yrs in jail for trying to stab 2 ppl to death. When i found this out. I barricaded my doors and made sure i had my berretta with me at all times. Shotgun loaded too. So he was to serve min of 2 yrs for trying to strangle her. He gets a yr. Then serves 2 months. Back out. 2 more crimes. In and out of jail. I hear her thru wall talking to him on speaker phn. SHe talks super loud. She says she loves him. Also is seeing other bad boy types. SMH!!! This is the typical woman who would look past a nice sweet guy like me, esp in her 20s. She is the one who kicks us in the balls. As of now. She has spoken to me perhaps 2 or 3 times in past year. She doesnt give me the time of day. She wouldnt know a good guy if she landed next to one. Dont be this woman!!!!!

    • @wpochert
      @wpochert 3 роки тому +4

      Only this song is not about an abusive relationship.. its about a lesbian relationship where one of them is bi and has a boyfriend... from the perspective of the lesbian. The words and theme of the song were changed at the record company's request..

    • @withoutartitwouldallfallap3628
      @withoutartitwouldallfallap3628 3 роки тому +2

      @@wpochert interesting

    • @wpochert
      @wpochert 3 роки тому +2

      @@withoutartitwouldallfallap3628 yea, they knew it was a hit and didn't want any controversy

  • @mickpatay6634
    @mickpatay6634 Місяць тому +34

    God, the 80's were a PHENOMENAL time to be alive! ❤

    • @mikemiller8975
      @mikemiller8975 Місяць тому +4

      I lived it❤😊 go back in a heartbeat. World sucks in 2024 .need 80s again 😊❤

    • @OwneyMadden430
      @OwneyMadden430 Місяць тому +2

      facts i was born in 78 , so i was a young kid in early 80s but i remember it well , it was like a dream i wish i could get back to

    • @OwneyMadden430
      @OwneyMadden430 Місяць тому +3

      @@mikemiller8975absolutely godd damn right bro 💯

    • @tzt1182
      @tzt1182 Місяць тому +2

      @@mikemiller8975 I couldn't agree more. I turned 10 in 80 and spent my formative years in the 80s. The early to mid 90s weren't too shabby but I really miss that 80s feeling.

    • @markdinnauer888
      @markdinnauer888 28 днів тому +2

      I totally agree. I lived thru the 80s & it went wayyy too fast. I enjoyed everything about the 80s.. the music.. the big hair.. the bright clothing.. I miss it all dearly.

  • @SeanEdington
    @SeanEdington 2 роки тому +542

    As a teen I cried watching this. I couldn’t understand how anyone could treat the one they claim to love so.
    I now bawl hearing it as a survivor of abuse.
    I wish I could thank her in person for this song.

    • @janeskey5042
      @janeskey5042 2 роки тому +27

      Wow - I know exactly what you mean and you’re right: nobody deserves that

    • @kayemkm1703
      @kayemkm1703 2 роки тому +25

      As a teen I didn't have a clue what this song was about I just loved it. Now as a adult and survivor of domestic violence this message is very deep💞

    • @chrisyasus8912
      @chrisyasus8912 2 роки тому +16

      The way he "pats" her after switching her choice of earrings out is all I need to know

    • @paulinedejesus8287
      @paulinedejesus8287 2 роки тому +16

      I can identify as a survivor as well. We're still here!

    • @skipads5141
      @skipads5141 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/x7UG9O9refg/v-deo.html

  • @subah007
    @subah007 9 місяців тому +316

    Still cool, 2024

    • @BillBlazejowski
      @BillBlazejowski 7 місяців тому +11

      It will still be cool in 3024, good music is timeless

    • @suegivens4660
      @suegivens4660 6 місяців тому

      ​@@BillBlazejowski❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @debraweaver6308
      @debraweaver6308 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@BillBlazejowski YES! IT IS TIMELESS!!!

    • @Mogwai-z9f
      @Mogwai-z9f 2 місяці тому +1

      Agreed

    • @brandoninhofer6592
      @brandoninhofer6592 Місяць тому

      Always cool

  • @RONGEE2099
    @RONGEE2099 2 роки тому +167

    I always thought this song was a banger but now that I’m older I get the meaning of the song. Surprisingly deep. One of my all time favorites ever

    • @garyhelms1889
      @garyhelms1889 Рік тому +6

      Exactly, surprisingly deep for young people to have wrote this song.

    • @KalisFlame
      @KalisFlame Рік тому +3

      ​@@garyhelms1889 why? It's just about relationships. Its not an exposition on the nature of existence or something.

    • @garyhelms1889
      @garyhelms1889 Рік тому +1

      @FireOfRenewal I was referring to the melody. Nothing to do with the words of the song.

    • @musiclvr76
      @musiclvr76 Рік тому +7

      I was 9 years old when this song came out liked it but didn’t understand it. But fast forward to 46 now, after being married to a narcissistic man for 3 years and now divorced I totally understand it. Especially the part she says “he wants me if he can keep me in line” #boybye 😒

    • @andrewmadinc4722
      @andrewmadinc4722 Рік тому +1

      Also that it was about a female. They made her change the lyrics from her to him/he. So sad that they took that away from her.

  • @susanv7415
    @susanv7415 6 місяців тому +24

    This was the song of my youth. The story of struggling against controlling men who play with you like a cat with a mouse.

  • @MrSupernova111
    @MrSupernova111 3 роки тому +91

    The good ol' days when music videos had meaningful stories to go with them. I miss those days. Would do almost anything to do back.

  • @stedgeHENDERSOn
    @stedgeHENDERSOn 11 місяців тому +80

    when the video lines up with the song and she starts belting it out in the audience at the end is so good, more of this please

  • @djm8341
    @djm8341 5 років тому +602

    Crying for the 80’s. Miss them so much.

    • @romy4858
      @romy4858 5 років тому +11

      Me too

    • @m4rk885
      @m4rk885 5 років тому +7

      80's rules !!!
      watch my band: The Mystic - are we living here.

    • @michealcorleone665
      @michealcorleone665 5 років тому +7

      this song makes me cry at the end and i was born in 98 reason because i would never live in the 80s :(

    • @clairewilliams9868
      @clairewilliams9868 4 роки тому +2

      All day every day. Genuinely.

    • @garyhaber333
      @garyhaber333 4 роки тому +5

      😪😪😪
      I graduated HS a few months after this came out.
      Time goes to fast.😪

  • @dp7534
    @dp7534 6 місяців тому +35

    I’m 58 years old- heard this in college
    . Still one of my favorites! Beautiful voice,- original soundtrack is the best!

  • @mikesmaddie
    @mikesmaddie 2 роки тому +88

    When she gets up at the end (while singing), I couldn't be more proud of her. :).

  • @cmortonwvu
    @cmortonwvu Рік тому +353

    It's 2023 and still one of my favorite songs.

    • @kimhanson3603
      @kimhanson3603 Рік тому +4

      Mine too!!

    • @valerietomsic8454
      @valerietomsic8454 Рік тому +5

      Radio station on my car just played it after work.....SUCH a great old song.....Aimee can SURE sing!

    • @buzboy68
      @buzboy68 Рік тому +3

      I'm 54 years old and remember this song so well. It brings back a flood of memories. Oh yes time flies.

    • @kamuelalee
      @kamuelalee Рік тому +2

      hear hear!

    • @markdavis9176
      @markdavis9176 Рік тому +2

      Mine too

  • @mmiller6873
    @mmiller6873 9 місяців тому +60

    Totally dig this song. Wish music was still as fantastic as the 80's

  • @virginiaknighten4687
    @virginiaknighten4687 3 місяці тому +4

    Every time I hear this song now I think of what Tyrus said one day while on The Five. That if he only had 1 song to listen to over and over it would be “Voices Carry.” I love that!!

  • @latino_God
    @latino_God 4 роки тому +333

    I’m proud to call myself an 80s child. I was there.... I was blessed to live it
    80s Rock!!🤘🏽😝

    • @vvx897
      @vvx897 4 роки тому +2

      Me too

    • @victorramsey5575
      @victorramsey5575 4 роки тому +8

      Me too. The last decade of really great music. Oh sure, there was some good stuff in the 90s too but it was kind of hit or miss. Pretty much all genres of music were at the top of the game in the 80s. Hopefully history will repeat itself one day.

    • @alfredfrazier1807
      @alfredfrazier1807 4 роки тому +3

      Well said😊

    • @melaniebiggins9203
      @melaniebiggins9203 4 роки тому +2

      I'm with you all the way!

    • @NBx12
      @NBx12 3 роки тому +3

      Remember that long lost time when MTV first launched with The Bugaloos and actually played... MUSIC?

  • @fairdose
    @fairdose 4 роки тому +172

    This song is for all survivors out there who got out of abusive relationships with narcissists or people with full on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You made it and lived to tell the tale. Dream on and Live on.

    • @maxgreyman2224
      @maxgreyman2224 4 роки тому +3

      Get a life. You have no one to blame but yourself. God hates a coward. Sympathy denied. This song is for people who deeply regret their mistakes.

    • @barryweinrich7289
      @barryweinrich7289 4 роки тому +8

      @@maxgreyman2224 To borrow a quote from West World .... Robert Ford: "Mistakes" is the word you're too embarrassed to use. You ought not to be. You're a product of a trillion of them. Evolution forged the entirety of sentient life on this planet using only one tool: the mistake.

    • @maxgreyman2224
      @maxgreyman2224 4 роки тому +2

      @@barryweinrich7289 wow. My friend im gonna have to chew on that for awhile. Regarding the original: sometimes i surf drunk.

    • @maxgreyman2224
      @maxgreyman2224 4 роки тому +2

      @@barryweinrich7289 and when drinking and surfing i sometimes smash on the purveyors of internet banality.

    • @bethanyharris769
      @bethanyharris769 3 роки тому +2

      @@maxgreyman2224 why are you quoting Tomahawk? Lol also... you’re here commenting, so why r u judging anyways?? Ps... don’t ever fucking quite mike oatton with an insult to his whole human essance. “Watch another action movie and dream of me”

  • @mikeyirish1967
    @mikeyirish1967 4 роки тому +180

    Aimee Mann is a genius. This song is one of the greatest songs of the '80's. Also: Rest in Peace, Cully Holland -- gone far too soon.

    • @katierobertsfnp6403
      @katierobertsfnp6403 4 роки тому +12

      @Michael Foley. I agree wholeheartedly. I was ridiculously fortunate to experience Ms. Mann, “back in the day”, meaning 1985/1986+. One night, as I was leaving Providence College, Aimee Mann was singing her heart out on this brilliant song of hers. I had seen her in Cambridge and Somerville, MA. However, walking across campus alone with my thoughts, then unexpectedly experiencing her power and magic, was a great moment in my life.
      Living in North Falmouth, Cape Cod, circa 1986,Voices Carry was the soundtrack of being carefree and 20 years old.
      Long live Aimee Mann.
      KT

    • @mikeyirish1967
      @mikeyirish1967 4 роки тому +2

      @@katierobertsfnp6403 What an incredibly beautiful memory. THANK YOU for sharing that here -- I love a story like that. I also grew up on The Cape and I miss that part of the world so much. All good things to you KT.

    • @jonathanorozco8075
      @jonathanorozco8075 4 роки тому +2

      He Die in 1991 year
      29 years ago
      I Was 7 Years

    • @jonathanorozco8075
      @jonathanorozco8075 4 роки тому +1

      Poor Man Rest In Peace
      1991

  • @wowguy3562
    @wowguy3562 6 місяців тому +3

    1985, football locker room after a practice. The biggest guy on the team, Darin, loudly starts singing the song Voices Carry, the acoustics of that locker room, with every guy singing as loud as they could was amazing, RIP brother Darin

  • @charlesfrandolig5090
    @charlesfrandolig5090 2 роки тому +268

    A beautiful woman, with a beautiful voice. I heard this the other day in the grocery store and nobody else seemed to notice, I felt tears running down my face.

    • @ladlahiien
      @ladlahiien Рік тому +10

      Gay

    • @donaldelfreth553
      @donaldelfreth553 Рік тому +6

      I liked the song and the video back then. I love them now. It's grown on me.

    • @pussydestroyer5678
      @pussydestroyer5678 Рік тому +11

      @@ladlahiien 💀 bro

    • @manuellezama6931
      @manuellezama6931 Рік тому +8

      🕊️ 😀Everyone, has cried Once in there life time !!! And it's beautiful !!!,, Only souless and idiots that offend people ,,, will never know that !!! 😂...

    • @dougl945
      @dougl945 Рік тому +5

      @@ladlahiien so, you admit to being Psychopath. That’s the clinical definition of someone who doesn’t feel emotion, love, fear, shed tears.

  • @Buckeye_4_Life_
    @Buckeye_4_Life_ 3 роки тому +266

    The 80's will always hands down be the greatest decade of music..!

    • @SkeetWave
      @SkeetWave 2 роки тому +5

      Well, the 90's were actually, but it's all subjective.

    • @BGinRS
      @BGinRS 2 роки тому +6

      Actually, the 70's were the best, followed by the 80's.

    • @bws205
      @bws205 2 роки тому +5

      greatest decade for most things

    • @Thataintnothing
      @Thataintnothing 2 роки тому +4

      Actually the Late 50’s thru the 90’s !

    • @Buckeye_4_Life_
      @Buckeye_4_Life_ 2 роки тому +1

      @@Thataintnothing Agree..!

  • @joesilva8484
    @joesilva8484 Рік тому +92

    Man I'm glad I grew up in the 80's. The music 🎶 was just awesome 👍😎. Great memories.

  • @meegz149
    @meegz149 3 місяці тому +55

    My mom was buried today. I miss you so much. I was just a toddler when this song was released but these 80s songs remind me of you. I love you mom. RIP. I don't regret taking care of you at all.

    • @LightandLove73too
      @LightandLove73too 3 місяці тому +6

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Bless you for your love, and may you find peace in your memories with her. Godspeed 🙏

    • @meegz149
      @meegz149 3 місяці тому +3

      @@LightandLove73too thank you.

    • @chrismlarosa3497
      @chrismlarosa3497 3 місяці тому +3

      Sincere sympathies to you and anyone who knew your mother. My mom died June 30th 2016, 3:45AM. Make sure to give yourself grace, time and take care of yourself....thats what your mom would have wanted for you. Take care!

    • @meegz149
      @meegz149 3 місяці тому +1

      @@chrismlarosa3497 oh thank you so much for the kind words. And I'm sorry to hear that about your mom.

    • @DBBLTT
      @DBBLTT 3 місяці тому

      Prayers for you and your family.
      May God's presence comfort you.

  • @stevenwild39
    @stevenwild39 2 роки тому +207

    The look and sound of the 80s in one clip.

  • @BridgettBardot
    @BridgettBardot Рік тому +243

    Beautifully written and sung. A classic song on an impossible relationship with a malignant narcissist.

  • @bostongirl0305
    @bostongirl0305 Рік тому +47

    This brings me back in time. I'll never forget seeing this video for the first time on MTV. I was crying by the end of it. Her voice just moved me to the core. I wanted to cheer her on for not losing her voice and being who she was.

    • @keitherickson8404
      @keitherickson8404 7 місяців тому

      maybe its just me but one small thing I dug about the 80's was girls knew how to cut off their jeans into shorts to where it was sexy but no ass showing. can I get an AMEN? it's like a lost art now. also girls were not rendered unrecognizable by their cosmetics.

    • @jennadabomb
      @jennadabomb 6 місяців тому

      @@keitherickson8404 shh. you sound like the dude this song is about. dont be that person. let women exist

  • @kristencobb230
    @kristencobb230 6 місяців тому +15

    So thankful I grew up in the 70s and 80’s! ❤

  • @jfkesq
    @jfkesq 3 роки тому +81

    So happy that I grew up in the 80s with the music.

  • @olentangy74
    @olentangy74 6 років тому +130

    1984 Friday night videos, MTV. Man I loved the 80’s.

    • @jimhenson9255
      @jimhenson9255 5 років тому +2

      Mann*

    • @Scree1972
      @Scree1972 5 років тому +1

      We Didn't Have Satellite Tv until the early 90s, but yeah i also loved the 80s too :).

    • @rockvilleraven
      @rockvilleraven 5 років тому

      olentangy74 ABC Rocks which I was the only one in the DC area that saw it, because WJLA in Washington and WJZ in Baltimore refused to carry it but I saw it in my Silver Spring high rise on the ABC Lancaster, PA station.

  • @PaulS-gk1nw
    @PaulS-gk1nw 4 місяці тому +84

    Ah yes, the good old days when MTV actually showed videos.

  • @dzanier
    @dzanier Рік тому +33

    The look she starts to give him at 3:09, when he notices and touches her rat tails, is priceless. The scorn and contempt are perfectly relayed. This is an excellent video.

  • @davidmitchell1440
    @davidmitchell1440 3 роки тому +1872

    One thing about the 80's we all still had hope.

    • @dasparado
      @dasparado 3 роки тому +102

      Because we were younger and politics were not everywhere like they are now.

    • @robertwomack8653
      @robertwomack8653 3 роки тому +52

      “There is always hope” Aragorn of the Dunidain. These times will be here again:)

    • @danielleperruquet1451
      @danielleperruquet1451 3 роки тому +48

      Wow...that’s an amazing observation...but I hav a theory dnt think I’m alone that sometimes when we look back we tend to block out the b@&$shi and reminisce the good times...I can dig it, I don’t mean to bring up another old saying but ...pasts grass is not always greener

    • @juliocaesaralcaraz9891
      @juliocaesaralcaraz9891 3 роки тому +27

      Unlike hope and change

    • @Innocent_Villain
      @Innocent_Villain 3 роки тому +46

      Up until the end of the cold war the popular culture encouraged more of a sense of possibility. Then there was supposed to be a "peace dividend" and instead the entertainment/propaganda media started pushing cynicism about life and indifference to death as they ramped up the war "on terrorism" that was started instead, and more recently when technology reached a point where people were easier to track and kill and less necessary to industry, the entertainment/propaganda media started pushing nihilism and hopelessness. Propaganda is powerful, and a lot of decisive things hadn't played out yet back then. It was possible to envision 2015 being more like "Back To The Future II", and the time after it more like a higher-tech sort-of-like-the-80s and less like a slide closer to human extinction (or the extinction of non-sociopathic non-genetically-engineered actually-human humans)...

  • @scattysafari7742
    @scattysafari7742 6 років тому +730

    The lyrics are fantastic. If you've ever been in a relationship with an abusive man, it is just like this. Silencing your voice, erasing who you are.

    • @amandadubberley8396
      @amandadubberley8396 6 років тому +30

      ScattySafari I'm glad i got out of mine in 2010 after 9 years of abuse

    • @3nuklr
      @3nuklr 6 років тому +36

      Wow, Ladies (I'm a guy), please don't stay in those relationships. You're beautiful, talented, intelligent and much better than that. You deserve and have earned equality at a bare minimum. But, you've earned so much more than that. I don't know much about Amee Mann's past, but I understand this song was written as a result of a domineering relationship that she got out of. Good for her, and for all you that have made the choice. For those of you that haven't, you need to follow through on the choice to have a better life.

    • @rondaatkins5602
      @rondaatkins5602 6 років тому +2

      ScattySafari true

    • @rondaatkins5602
      @rondaatkins5602 6 років тому +1

      Kevin Monohan. I doubt it im n my second

    • @savedbymyeyelashes7159
      @savedbymyeyelashes7159 6 років тому +13

      17years....i had to lose everything to gain my freedom.

  • @markl2322
    @markl2322 4 роки тому +4810

    I see some nasty comments about the male lead in the video.
    His name was Cully Holland. He was an actor who had a very short career, unfortunately. The video was made in 1985. Six years later, Mr Holland died from complications due to the AIDS virus. I think that better commentary about this man is probably in order.
    Yes, his character was a horrible person. The fact that Mr Holland made the character so realistic is a testament to his skill as an actor.
    May God rest his soul.

    • @kilbridemeredith8742
      @kilbridemeredith8742 4 роки тому +189

      Having a thick skin and realistic attitude includes the realization that at any given moment, 70-90% of people in a specific issue are clueless morons, total idiots who speak from empty minds instead of thinking with empathy and researched knowledge LoL.
      Doesn't mean the same people are idiots in all things or don't eventually mature or become more enlightened as time goes on. After all life and experience is a process, not a stand alone static thing.
      Also some people don't like other people and it is subjective so there is that. The important thing is don't let others (thick skin) delegate your life and attitude, only you.
      This was a good mini movie and the guy helped make it playing his character's role so well (cold and demeaning, I also felt a brutal undertone of violence just under the surface in his portrayal) that it made this mini movie pogniant and is remembered.
      Kevin Joseph Gallery given name (actually a better stage name ironically than the one he used IMO), passed at 33 from AIDS.

    • @SnoopReddogg
      @SnoopReddogg 4 роки тому +210

      Its youtube comments...the absolute lowest form of social media pontificating

    • @joeyconvery2055
      @joeyconvery2055 4 роки тому +26

      🙏

    • @ornellarose6378
      @ornellarose6378 4 роки тому +40

      Well said!!!!

    • @Patxidog
      @Patxidog 4 роки тому +219

      Some people just can't separate characters from the actors. Kudos to him for making the character so punch-in-the-face worthy.

  • @jeddnedberg6226
    @jeddnedberg6226 Рік тому +358

    I was so blessed to grow up in the 80s!!!
    Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
    Life was Normal and REAL!!!

    • @yiddena
      @yiddena Рік тому +13

      100% agreed. Let's go back in a Delorean!

    • @danielelias1248
      @danielelias1248 Рік тому +5

      Word!

    • @FrisbeeGirl
      @FrisbeeGirl Рік тому +12

      To be fair, gaslighting and domestic violence are *still* very normal and real.

    • @ralphlandrum4258
      @ralphlandrum4258 Рік тому +2

      I couldn't agree more

    • @gilbertberlanga338
      @gilbertberlanga338 Рік тому +7

      I agree, the 80s great time to be alive 👍

  • @greerphillips4756
    @greerphillips4756 5 років тому +62

    When she stands up at the end. Iconic af. I get chills every time I watch it

  • @rexbitten
    @rexbitten Місяць тому +20

    One of the few songs of the 80's that still feels as contemporary now as it did then. One of the best performances of the entire 80's era.

  • @timgraysontv
    @timgraysontv Рік тому +973

    1985: Wow, this is a great song!
    2024: Wow, this is a great song!

  • @TechnicJunglist
    @TechnicJunglist 3 роки тому +55

    The song for all people who felt forced to change yet found freedom & independence in being alone. 🖤

    • @wpochert
      @wpochert 3 роки тому +2

      More for lesbians in a relationship with a bi female and wishing they could be in the open...

  • @grantrogero4544
    @grantrogero4544 5 місяців тому

    Born in the early 60's and heard this song as a young man so many times through the 80's and beyond but tonight after randomly watching Kate Hudson and then here I LISTENED for the first time. Very powerful and way way ahead of its time with respect to abusive dysfunctional relationships. We take such statements now as common but 40 years ago this was revolutionary. Such a strong statement for her. Fantastic.

  • @AChristina
    @AChristina 6 років тому +524

    This is the saddest song I've ever heard. She loves a man who tears her down, plays with her emotions and doesn't give her the love she wants in return. I've never knew what the lyrics meant until now. Awesome song....

    • @perfectallycromulent
      @perfectallycromulent 5 років тому +48

      She's standing up to say she's done with him. It's a moment of bravery, not sadness.

    • @0524cami
      @0524cami 5 років тому +6

      She was talking about the drummer

    • @paisleyprincess7996
      @paisleyprincess7996 5 років тому +13

      I’ve lived this

    • @ianjohnson9620
      @ianjohnson9620 5 років тому +15

      The original lyrics are sung from a girl to another girl. It was changed by there label to make it more tolerable to the mainstream. Replace all the he with she and you'll find it's a little more complicated than what you hear in the finished version.

    • @glitzygrrl
      @glitzygrrl 5 років тому +2

      Ian Johnson I had no idea! Wow! That does change the whole thing!

  • @joelt2105
    @joelt2105 4 роки тому +687

    The guy playing the character of her abusive partner, said that after the video hit the airwaves, complete strangers would come up to him and would tell him how awful he was, as if he were her real boyfriend. He took it as a compliment. I'm glad. :)

    • @toober4013
      @toober4013 4 роки тому +23

      The same was true for the actress who played Mrs. Olsen on Little House on the Prairie.

    • @shombie2737
      @shombie2737 4 роки тому +14

      @@toober4013 Wow!! That's scary good acting

    • @GeddyLeeBell
      @GeddyLeeBell 4 роки тому +19

      It's gotten pretty bad for actors playing villains, William Atherton received death threats and even was attacked by people because of his character in Ghostbusters. Sgt. Slaughter received mail bombs for his character as an Iraqi sympathizer in the early 90s WWF. Actress Leah Pipes was constantly bullied online and received death threats because fans of Vampire Diaries and The Originals wanted the character Klaus to end up with the character Caroline Forbes, they threatened her merely for being a love interest. That's cool that he took it as a compliment, however lots of celebrities get it really bad

    • @hopemuniz4315
      @hopemuniz4315 4 роки тому +18

      And he was right. Now that's Talent. To make people hate a Character. It's sad that he's gone.
      Rest in Peace

    • @amang1001
      @amang1001 4 роки тому +2

      Lol shit he was type cast real well. I think it's the butt chin...

  • @unready1961
    @unready1961 2 роки тому +419

    Today's kids will never know the magic and power of a great music video. Even after thirty-five years, I can vividly recall this song and video.

    • @mungofinalfi4480
      @mungofinalfi4480 Рік тому +12

      They already do.

    • @timholtzclaw8930
      @timholtzclaw8930 Рік тому +1

      Yep

    • @Mizzstarr
      @Mizzstarr Рік тому +1

      same here.

    • @Musicalfan69420
      @Musicalfan69420 Рік тому +3

      I will I am ten

    • @Aqui..
      @Aqui.. Рік тому +13

      What a goofy thing to say 😂 They have more access to the music we had back then. It's not like these songs are lost and gone.

  • @HelenSinger
    @HelenSinger 5 місяців тому +1

    I was a very young child when this song came out but she evoked so many amazing sentiments, I could tell some of what she was singing, an anthem and these 80s songs truly influenced my anthemic affinity for songs. No one says this but she is singing about a timeless topic isnt she? Women are interesting people too! She is sharing how she wont be oppressed even if she feels scared. That is how I feel when I hear this. Thank you Aimee for this amazing song.

  • @ms.b9093
    @ms.b9093 10 місяців тому +23

    Gen Xr' here! There are songs like this one that just bring back a flood of memories from an entire decade! I was in the 8th grade and I remember seeing this video on Night Tracks and being utterly fascinated by the storyline and not entirely understanding it nor the song too well. I did know that he was trying to make her something she wasn't tho. Now, I see both as very cinematic and so perfect! Music and music videos were such an escape for us "latchkey kids" because we had so many adult responsibilities from a very young age! That said, we also have so many amazing pop culture moments to look back on now. The 80's were truly magical! Our very own "wonder years"!

    • @christophercole4725
      @christophercole4725 5 місяців тому

      Yeah..Night Tracks, Night Tracks Chartbusters on TBS and Friday Night Videos on NBC for us who didn't have MTV!

  • @timbynum
    @timbynum 8 років тому +256

    Born in 82, so I didn't know how good the 80's were until they were gone. feelsbadman

    • @fivehundreddollardreamboat
      @fivehundreddollardreamboat 8 років тому +7

      77 here, and I barely got a taste of the outside world. At least I had the early 90s before Kobain died.

    • @georgeorwell4534
      @georgeorwell4534 8 років тому +17

      The 80's I was in my 20's and it was awesome.

    • @maggiemcg9176
      @maggiemcg9176 8 років тому +1

      We all had Microsoft and Apple and may have passed but the San Francisco 49ers paved the way. The stadium deal didn't get done and it's over in Santa Clara.

    • @toddblankenship3385
      @toddblankenship3385 8 років тому +20

      The 80's were the best..it's been all downhill ever since

    • @maccagrabme
      @maccagrabme 8 років тому

      Music is much better now, you are probably depressed.

  • @tracyyarbrough3358
    @tracyyarbrough3358 2 роки тому +36

    She has a really beautiful haunting voice. It makes everything seem a little unreal, like we are all living in a fantasy world. Some of us would like to stay in it.

  • @stephaniesermat923
    @stephaniesermat923 8 місяців тому +3

    I heard this song yesterday for the first time in a million years. Was with my 15 yr old son. He asked why the singer was so sad and angry: Wow. I really heard it for the first time. Damn. This song is an anthem we never appreciated.

  • @tinak2576
    @tinak2576 Рік тому +56

    A perfect example of music expressing what your heart is bleeding.

  • @ethanvilla4418
    @ethanvilla4418 2 роки тому +64

    One of the best pop songs ever written.

    • @TasteofItaly
      @TasteofItaly Рік тому +2

      I don’t understand how this song didn’t go platinum. Lucky to have seen them play live in Boston. ❤

  • @arcsycmedical
    @arcsycmedical 6 років тому +94

    I work at a hospital that plays music from the 80s 24 hours a day. This song is one of the many

    • @atigerman1
      @atigerman1 5 років тому +9

      Wow! That's awesome! No hospital that I've ever worked at has played music overhead. What hospital is yours?

    • @MarvinDavenport
      @MarvinDavenport 5 років тому +5

      I wish mine did! I'm sure the patients would tell us to shush, keep it down!

    • @luciferchavei1380
      @luciferchavei1380 5 років тому

      Nice Hospital....What songs truly stick out for you?

    • @joshuamckenzie4422
      @joshuamckenzie4422 5 років тому +1

      Dayum , I should have went into the medical field.

    • @spartan876
      @spartan876 5 років тому

      Lucky

  • @robertvasquez240
    @robertvasquez240 Місяць тому +7

    One of the best music videos ever made.

  • @garyhelms1889
    @garyhelms1889 Рік тому +74

    This song is other worldly. Ahead of its time. From another dimension.

    • @josebro352
      @josebro352 Рік тому +8

      That's exactly what the 80s were. Another dimension. Sadly one we can never return to.

  • @CreativeMistakes
    @CreativeMistakes Рік тому +63

    the 80's was magical time for music

  • @kiteman357
    @kiteman357 3 роки тому +455

    What a beautiful woman. Aimee Mann is a classic beauty.

    • @MonaRoo88
      @MonaRoo88 3 роки тому +10

      I seriously lived 40 years without knowing this was Aimee Mann...🤯

    • @halwakka504
      @halwakka504 3 роки тому +16

      @@MonaRoo88 Today's friday and you posted your comment three days ago. Are you saying you didn't know she was in 'Til Tuesday 'til Tuesday?

    • @frankgarcia962
      @frankgarcia962 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you God, for Aimee Mann.

    • @davidlaidlaw3759
      @davidlaidlaw3759 3 роки тому

      @@MonaRoo88 j

    • @toddinthemiddle
      @toddinthemiddle 3 роки тому +2

      @@halwakka504 today is Wednesday, yet your comment is shown as having been posted 6 days ago, and you claim that you made it on Friday.
      Maybe you were up early(?)

  • @johnvan-i6c
    @johnvan-i6c 8 місяців тому +2

    Here I am 60 years old and listening to this classic that was a staple of my youth. Watching this video (im a guy) I find myself getting wet eyes probably because of those wrong, broken relationships or the ones I didn't have and should have had.
    Isn't it ironic how the clarity of which direction we should have gone is so clear now? The emotions that an old song can bring out and all the details I hadn't thought about sit front and center. What an amazing process that is and so powerful. Probably has many similarities to being hypnotized!
    The past is exactly that. A period we lived, enjoyed and didn't give two thoughts about what, where we would be later in life. Well here I am and this is who I am.