I always found the idea of debates being a contest in which people can 'win' or 'lose' ridiculous. If I am genuinely interested in something or someone, then I want a reciprocal exchange, not a competition or a conflict.
@@cerdic6586 Facts💯! The 'win' or 'lose' mentality is pretty much "the kiss of death" especially when in a case where they cannot accept a 'clear defeat'.
I used to be someone who actively thought about things a lot, and really tried to use my insights to change things, to make things. Delving deep into topics, just because they're interesting, and learning new skills. I created art, made music, learned programming, all kinds of stuff. These days I find myself mostly consuming. Not being proactive. I feel stuck. I very much comprehend the situation I'm in, but my efforts to change it are indecisive at best. Suffering from depression for years, I used to think being okay was the best I could hope for, not great, not good, but ok. So I embraced the big ok so to speak, in an effort to not feel the pain, but in the process I lost big parts of what makes me special. Everything feels dulled down now. I want to win these parts of myself back, but I'm struggling. Your video (and some of the comments under it) inspired me to look the truth in the eye. For the past three hours I've been thinking, reflecting and taking notes. Exercising an ability I thought I had lost (or lost partly, at least). For the first time in a good while I feel mentally/intellectually alive (sounds pretentious, I know, but I haven't found better words for it). So thank you, really. I hope I manage to make something of this.
I’ve made me feel the pain to the point where it’s no longer bearable to change. Hearing this was like a cold shower. Thank you again a millionth time and I hope that I will thank you million more times. A part of my soul is with you.
There's definitely a lost 'art' of calm & productive conversation nowadays. Too much people feel the need to be right instead of humbly admitting when they are wrong. One thing for sure besides that I've noticed when communicating to certain people, is that most lack...comprehension. You can communicate with any/every people but only a few out of those will have the comprehension to hear what you are saying and respond accordingly (listening to understand) instead of listening to respond before taking in the information, comprehending what was/is said to you, and THEN respond. It really is a sad/disappointing state of affairs amongst other things.
I agree, I’ve learned recently that it’s so important to be able to question our beliefs, understanding, and perceived realities. It’s not about doubting what we know, rather it’s about weeding through the garden in our minds; taking out what isn’t right, nourishing what is already there, and planting new ideas. I like to think of it as getting out of my own way to learn truth and/or be open to learn what God is trying to teach me and lead the life that will bring out the best in me.
The nice thing about making art and music is it’s experiential and more abstract. I’m slowly moving away from wanting to have debates and arguments 😂. I liked the video! Peace!!
Love it! That's why it's so important to be able to be smart in a logical way and intelligent in an emotional way, a combination between high IQ and high EQ. I see it as the balance you have to have with your masculine and feminine energy, without that balance, you aren't truly your best version of yourself.
In fact the pain is the best teacher from it we are able to learn more, even though when anyone notices harmful outcomes, but if it's painless. There's a high likelihood that we will ignore this factor, although some knowledge help you to understand the issue but I reckon that doesnt matter what you know but the crucial aspect seems to be what you've implemented to your life, i need to admit that these insights appear to be gripping.
I feel that too. I would really like to see myself as an intelligent person, but when I am honest with myself, even though I'm decently good in the "understanding"-department, I'm still very much lacking in the "taking action"-department. This video is a bit of an eye opener. Your comment helped me to break it down to the essence for me, so thanks.
lmao i be thinking deeply like this. is your intelligence only measurable through your actions? Technically yes I think. You could be the smartest person in the world, but if you don't apply the knowledge it will just rust away in your brain instead of confronting the fear that is holding you back. Pain is something unavoidable, I think we should embrace the full spectrum of human emotion to motivate and define us.
I know my comment is not related to the video but I wonder what you do to your nails, they always look really pretty. Do you do them yourself or at a salon? 💅
so why does most of humanity suffer from being disciplined or driven to their craft?? is it because of the ignorance from Morden distractions that numbs the pain for a while in their soul.!?
I always found the idea of debates being a contest in which people can 'win' or 'lose' ridiculous. If I am genuinely interested in something or someone, then I want a reciprocal exchange, not a competition or a conflict.
@@cerdic6586 Facts💯! The 'win' or 'lose' mentality is pretty much "the kiss of death" especially when in a case where they cannot accept a 'clear defeat'.
I used to be someone who actively thought about things a lot, and really tried to use my insights to change things, to make things. Delving deep into topics, just because they're interesting, and learning new skills. I created art, made music, learned programming, all kinds of stuff.
These days I find myself mostly consuming. Not being proactive. I feel stuck. I very much comprehend the situation I'm in, but my efforts to change it are indecisive at best.
Suffering from depression for years, I used to think being okay was the best I could hope for, not great, not good, but ok. So I embraced the big ok so to speak, in an effort to not feel the pain, but in the process I lost big parts of what makes me special. Everything feels dulled down now.
I want to win these parts of myself back, but I'm struggling.
Your video (and some of the comments under it) inspired me to look the truth in the eye. For the past three hours I've been thinking, reflecting and taking notes. Exercising an ability I thought I had lost (or lost partly, at least). For the first time in a good while I feel mentally/intellectually alive (sounds pretentious, I know, but I haven't found better words for it).
So thank you, really.
I hope I manage to make something of this.
trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
her statement is based on feelings and that's okay
I’ve made me feel the pain to the point where it’s no longer bearable to change. Hearing this was like a cold shower. Thank you again a millionth time and I hope that I will thank you million more times. A part of my soul is with you.
There's definitely a lost 'art' of calm & productive conversation nowadays. Too much people feel the need to be right instead of humbly admitting when they are wrong. One thing for sure besides that I've noticed when communicating to certain people, is that most lack...comprehension.
You can communicate with any/every people but only a few out of those will have the comprehension to hear what you are saying and respond accordingly (listening to understand) instead of listening to respond before taking in the information, comprehending what was/is said to you, and THEN respond. It really is a sad/disappointing state of affairs amongst other things.
You made me understand and realize how people really don’t pay attention to what they say
I agree, I’ve learned recently that it’s so important to be able to question our beliefs, understanding, and perceived realities.
It’s not about doubting what we know, rather it’s about weeding through the garden in our minds; taking out what isn’t right, nourishing what is already there, and planting new ideas.
I like to think of it as getting out of my own way to learn truth and/or be open to learn what God is trying to teach me and lead the life that will bring out the best in me.
wow. It's very practicle definition of intellegent. Thak you so much for your content
Love that salt lamp! It adds such a calming and warm ambience to your video.
I'm glad that you reached a level of english-speaking when you speak three words in 0.5 of a second
The nice thing about making art and music is it’s experiential and more abstract. I’m slowly moving away from wanting to have debates and arguments 😂. I liked the video! Peace!!
Yes. This is what I have been thinking about, and you worded it perfectly.
so real. I actually had a moment recently thinking about this and this video popped up on my home page
i can use this in other aspects of life but i think this video has allowed me to make the decision to throw the damn vape away.
This makes me so happy. I wish you to stay loyal to you decision.
it's my bedtime, so I ma save this for tomorrow morning!!
Love it! That's why it's so important to be able to be smart in a logical way and intelligent in an emotional way, a combination between high IQ and high EQ. I see it as the balance you have to have with your masculine and feminine energy, without that balance, you aren't truly your best version of yourself.
In fact the pain is the best teacher from it we are able to learn more, even though when anyone notices harmful outcomes, but if it's painless. There's a high likelihood that we will ignore this factor, although some knowledge help you to understand the issue but I reckon that doesnt matter what you know but the crucial aspect seems to be what you've implemented to your life, i need to admit that these insights appear to be gripping.
I feel that too. I would really like to see myself as an intelligent person, but when I am honest with myself, even though I'm decently good in the "understanding"-department, I'm still very much lacking in the "taking action"-department.
This video is a bit of an eye opener. Your comment helped me to break it down to the essence for me, so thanks.
@@CarpetOfStars_98 i'm glad I could help
I like and believe the statement about intelligence.
lmao i be thinking deeply like this. is your intelligence only measurable through your actions? Technically yes I think. You could be the smartest person in the world, but if you don't apply the knowledge it will just rust away in your brain instead of confronting the fear that is holding you back. Pain is something unavoidable, I think we should embrace the full spectrum of human emotion to motivate and define us.
you’re missing out if you ain’t read the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it breaks it all down
I agree liza with your conversation we must be calm and dont get conversation sorry for anything that hurt my comment
Operant Conditioning
I know my comment is not related to the video but I wonder what you do to your nails, they always look really pretty. Do you do them yourself or at a salon? 💅
Salon
You are something else 🤍
No, I'm not intelligent.
yeah same
well done on your modeling contract liza, good vid well done and nice hair merry christmas zappermusic
Understanding is to stand under like weight on your shoulder. And now your over it. Because your intelligent. Lol
so why does most of humanity suffer from being disciplined or driven to their craft??
is it because of the ignorance from Morden distractions that numbs the pain for a while in their soul.!?
Another banger
why stick to surface-level stuff when the ebook Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth
What do you think of Fyodor Dostoevsky's quote, 'It takes something more than intelligence to act intelligently.'
Its basically what I said but we’re lacking words in the English language to describe intelligence
semantics
2nd
this is cool and all, but ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture
don’t waste your energy on weak stuff, ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is the real move
stuck on repeat? ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki actually changes the game