This reminded me of once, I was eating by myself in a McDonalds and right next to me there were a father and her daughter. The father DID NOT EVEN TAKE HIS EYES OFF THE PHONE in like 25 minutes. LITERALLY. The poor child was about 5 yo, super cute, eating, and checking out her happy meal toy. After those approx. 25 minutes, the dad finally stopped using his phone, and guys, I can't describe the face of that little girl. The joy in his face when her dad finally engaged and talked to her. I'm about to cry just remembering it. Society is addicted to a drug and we are not even aware. And kids know.
He did the same for me and, even though it took me a year, it was the first things I ever needed to hear. I am glad that his message reached more people than just me.
This needs a different title...it’s about so much more than flip phones. It’s about saving this generation from the horrors of social media. It’s about being GOOD humans.
Flip-phones are a large part of the solution though. Many parents will be too anxious to take away smartphones from their children if there is no alternative way to communicate
Collin Kartchner came to my school. I'm in sixth grade. He made me cry and made me appreciate how my mom refuses to give me a phone or social media. Thank you, Collin!
I like that challenge: Never let your children see you on your smartphone. That's the childhood I had, and it was wonderful. That's the adolescence I had, and it was hard enough without being worse. I want the same for my kids.
Today he talked to our school and many kids were left in tears. One of our teaches who had been teaching for 35 years said that it was one of the best assembly's ever. I'm only 13 and I actually paid attention instead of going on my phone like most kids do. I related to many things he said. I loved how he was funny. And I wish he could come back again. Never before have I actually enjoyed an assembly. I always talk to friends, zone out, go on my phone, ect. I only have 1 social media platform. So idk how it is to have Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook but all ik is that Snapchat is enough for me. Just thought he was wonderful and actually taught me something that will stick with me.
Oh, please change the title of this Ted talk! I saw it more than once and didn't watch it due to the title. But a friend shared it today and I am so moved. This is about so much more than flip phones. Thanks, Collin
I’m 14 and I love this. I just wish that everyone my age could hear this. Me and my peers have so much more to live for than phones! Its scary growing up in this world as a teen... but this gives me hope.
Thank you so much for spreading the truth about smart phones Collin. Your message has impacted so many teens around the country and around the world. RIP friend and may your legacy live on
I'm 25 years old.and I went back to my Motorola razr. Deleted all social media and just use my laptop to check emails. These smart phones spy on you listen to you and feed you advertisements all day. So glad to get rid of it.
Such a great presentation. Really hit a chord. He and his inspiration will be greatly missed in this world. 40 is too young to die. How nice that he was present at home with his family and not on his phone. They will at least have those memories of him. RIP Collin .
I'm so sad to hear about Collin's death. Collin, your legacy will continue on. Thank you for your honest approach and inspiration. You will be missed. Endless Hugs for Liz and the kids. I'm so sad to hear these tragic news. You're forever loved.
This guy spoke at my school, he's amazing. Our middle school has a new rule with no cell phones and I feel much safer without having to worry about my every move being recorded. Also kudos to him bevause it's hard to have a good presentation for middle schoolers
This is absolutely correct. We need to listen to this and we need to make changes for the sake of our children and ourselves. I hope you continue to speak to everyone you get a chance too. This is literally a Life Saving Message. Little did I know until just now that Collin died at age 40 of natural causes, possibly an aneurysm not verified. How tragic for his family and children. What an awesome father he had to be and husband. RIP and prayers for his family that they are doing well.
I attended one of Collin's events in October. It was an absolutely amazing and life-changing experience. I love his message and continue to support it. Keep it going, Collin!
As a teenager, I can really relate with what he said. I'm so glad my parents aren't on their phones 24/7 and I'm so glad they taught me what I know about my self-worth before giving me a phone. Still, it was rough dealing with drama on social media. I'm so glad I was lucky enough to become a part of an online community that supported positivity and taking care of yourself. I completely agree with everything he's said - though I've found great online friends, I need to love my irl ones more. I dont want to end up as the kind of parent who values their phone over their children or friends. It's so sad to see kids who are depressed or suicidal and only have social media to depend on for help, and sometimes help isnt there. Thank you so much for giving this talk, it's really helped me check myself and my choices.
Thank you, Collin, for ALL that you are doing! This is a hard message to hear because many parents/guardians feel guilty. I remind them... "You can't change what you don't acknowledge AND you certainly can't change what you don't know!" Now, they know. It's NEVER too late to change.
Genuinely brought tears to my eyes, what a powerful talk! As a paediatrician, this hit close to home with the number of children who are attending hospital with attempted suicide, deliberate self harm and overdoses. Removing smartphones or barring children from social media may not solve every problem but it's a start
I use a flip phone. My mental state has improved substantially. I had never realized that social media and smart phones had been a severe detriment to my mental health.
Omg he went to my school a year ago and now I'm so shocked and sad because his speech was amazing and I've learned to not think I have to be perfect,😢 rest in peace collin love ya!
Social media must be held accountable, for the Thousands of young lives that have been lost to it. History will look back at this moment in time the same way we looked at people believing smoking was healthy in the 50's. WE MUST DO BETTER!!
Thank you for trying to make a difference. People want it to change, yet don't do anything about it. You really changed me and motivated me to not harm myself at my school.
I've had anxiety and depression even before smart phones. So I learned quickly to avoid most social media platforms. I have Facebook to stay connected to family and UA-cam to watch funny and educational videos or to listen to music while I color or do other things. I've learned to be a responsible user... well, most of the time. My mental issues stem from good old fashioned neuroses. Yay?
Thank you. Just thank you for spreading awareness. I have sent this to some of my friends, thank you for coming to schools. People just don't realize how bad it is. Thank you.
I wish I could rate this as most favorite ted talk ever! I want to go completely offline/no tv no computer just a flip phone once I get done with grad school 😁
“I handed my daughter a loaded gun and did not teach her how to use it” *Collin says in his head “What? Why would you give your daughter a loaded gun?” The mother then pulls out a phone and repeats what she just said.* “I handed my daughter a loaded gun and did not teach her how to use it.” -What a mother said to Collin that then he said during his talks at schools.
you touched on many tender places. Today I bought a 'flip phone' after three years of struggle on a 'smart' phone. I probably am addicted to youtube in these 'covid' times. I remember my son in earlier years and knowing that something was wrong in the way I parented...found a super reading 'PET Parent effectiveness Training' and got some hints about better ways of being and communicating. it's been quite a journey, more focused on looking inside myself and growing better ( I hope). I feel more real with my son today and with myself. He's56, I'm 84. Thank you for caring and sharing the good stuff. Frances Pizzino still growing and painting pretty pictures.
The volume on this video is too quiet. I am trying to project it to my middle school class but the sound isn't good. The other videos are fine, but not this one.
This guy came too my school today and it was amazing. It was the best school assembly ive ever went. He is really good at talking too middle school kids 😂. It was very inspirational and made me want to stop using my phone. Also today I hugged all my friends for 8 seconds.
Collin needs to be a millionar. He speaks the true words that we need to here! He spoke at my school today and you could feel everyone feeling a little bit better then themselves! All you need to do is what he says I think it can change our lives forever!!
this is so true. i’m 14 and can agree with most of this. it IS an addiction. it’s the same neurological problem as to other addictions. i spend way to much time on my phone and i feel unsafe without it. i have anxiety attacks when i’m not close to my phone and i hate it. i want a flip phone because my phone is ruining my life. i want to have memories of my teenage years having sleepovers not scrolling through instagram. i simply want to live a life without my phone. i’ve tried deleting all the apps but what’s the point? i always download them back. it’s ruining my school, social and future life. procrastinating big projects or work that needs to be done is too easy and i cannot imagine all the time i’ve spent on social media. i want to have memories of talking to my crush, not texting and stalking them. my phone has ruined my grades over time and i hate it. im very grateful to have parents that don’t have social media because they are rarely on their phone. but because they are so clueless they never protected me from the dark sides of my phone. i’ve lost my innocence and i want it back. i’m scared my phone is ruining my life. and i want it to stop
I started following Collin on Instagram several months ago and because of it I regularly delete Facebook and Instagram and have someone change my passwords. I'll take at least a few weeks at a time to take a break. Of course there are positives to having social media which is why I don't delete my accounts all together. But because I broke my social media addiction, for the first time in my life, and as a college student I might add, I got straight A's. I'm happier when I'm cut off of social media. I'm more productive. I'm more compassionate. I do more stuff like working out, reading, hanging out with friends, and writing music. People who didn't grow up with social media can't know what it does to us who did. Thanks Collin for the awesome message you're sharing.
The title should be "How can we start saving a generation from the toxicity of social media? Look in the mirror" I found it difficult to keep my composure throughout this talk, knowing that Colin passed away in 2020 - he was only 40. I can only hope that his message continues to reach more people and that children are being spared from the shackles of this potential virtual dystopia that has been created.
Now in 2024 the addiction is much worse. People can't even do a single thing without the use of their smartphones. I don't enjoy meeting with so-called friends anymore as they can't keep their attention for even 2 seconds without bringing out their phones. The way it's affecting the young ones is frightening. I worry about my nieces and nephews
I never wanted my teens to have a cell phone until they were maybe 16. The thing that spurred me to get them a phone earlier (14-15) was the amount of school shootings. I wanted my kids to have a way to call me or authorities. What a sad day that was for me. I'm stuck between being terrified she has a cellphone at her fingertips and and being terrified if she didn't have one and something happened.
This reminded me of once, I was eating by myself in a McDonalds and right next to me there were a father and her daughter. The father DID NOT EVEN TAKE HIS EYES OFF THE PHONE in like 25 minutes. LITERALLY. The poor child was about 5 yo, super cute, eating, and checking out her happy meal toy.
After those approx. 25 minutes, the dad finally stopped using his phone, and guys, I can't describe the face of that little girl. The joy in his face when her dad finally engaged and talked to her. I'm about to cry just remembering it. Society is addicted to a drug and we are not even aware. And kids know.
cell phones the one world drug.
Just don’t have kids problem solved
He passed away today. :(
Thank you Collin for fighting for kids.
His wife hasn't shared yet why he died, but it was a natural death, she mentioned.
This is so sad, i come back and watch this video every once in a while and this is the first i've read the comments. RIP
Wow, he was young but he really made a difference in his own family's life and in other families' lives with this message.
Oh no. I'm sorry to hear. He gave such a wonderful speech.
He came to my school a while back, and it was the best thing ever. Rest in peace Collin, and may your legacy live on.
He did the same for me and, even though it took me a year, it was the first things I ever needed to hear. I am glad that his message reached more people than just me.
This needs a different title...it’s about so much more than flip phones. It’s about saving this generation from the horrors of social media. It’s about being GOOD humans.
Heather Schraedel You’re totally right.
Use social media=you're a bad person
Eat your cereal
Completely agree...it's a clickbait title to spread the good news ;)
Flip-phones are a large part of the solution though. Many parents will be too anxious to take away smartphones from their children if there is no alternative way to communicate
It consumes your life. You want to be productive, you want to become successful but as soon as you touch the phone you are hooked and can’t let go.
Rip. The world needed you. May we endeavor to keep your legacy.
I am quitting smart phone today. You will live in our hearts, Collin.
Collin Kartchner came to my school. I'm in sixth grade. He made me cry and made me appreciate how my mom refuses to give me a phone or social media. Thank you, Collin!
I like that challenge: Never let your children see you on your smartphone. That's the childhood I had, and it was wonderful. That's the adolescence I had, and it was hard enough without being worse. I want the same for my kids.
This video is more important today than when it occurred in 2018! Wake up everyone!
Rest In Peace Collin. You will truly be missed. 🙏
He changed my life. Thank you for the impact you’ve made on so many. RIP Collin
I love all the comments from the kids! You all are our future leaders, be the change you want to see.
Today he talked to our school and many kids were left in tears. One of our teaches who had been teaching for 35 years said that it was one of the best assembly's ever. I'm only 13 and I actually paid attention instead of going on my phone like most kids do. I related to many things he said. I loved how he was funny. And I wish he could come back again. Never before have I actually enjoyed an assembly. I always talk to friends, zone out, go on my phone, ect. I only have 1 social media platform. So idk how it is to have Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook but all ik is that Snapchat is enough for me. Just thought he was wonderful and actually taught me something that will stick with me.
He came to my school, best thing of my life. Made me cry.. I could never have asked for something better in my life
same he died like 3 days ago, exactly two weeks after he came to my school. it really changed my life and made me feel like i had a purpose :((
@@syd6909 omg... that makes me really sad. you are so worth it.
Flip phones are a good idea to end social media addiction 100%.
ive had one for 2 years its pretty rad
I stood and clapped just right at the end...Huge respect 😊
Oh, please change the title of this Ted talk! I saw it more than once and didn't watch it due to the title. But a friend shared it today and I am so moved. This is about so much more than flip phones. Thanks, Collin
What do you think the title should be?
I’m 14 and I love this. I just wish that everyone my age could hear this. Me and my peers have so much more to live for than phones! Its scary growing up in this world as a teen... but this gives me hope.
Your legacy will live on Collin. Thank you for teaching us to live beyond our phones. You will not be forgotten
I cannot express how much this talk means to me, as a mother. Thank you!
Rest in peace, Collin Kartchner! You influenced so many lives and touched many hearts!!
Thank you so much for spreading the truth about smart phones Collin. Your message has impacted so many teens around the country and around the world. RIP friend and may your legacy live on
Collin opened my eyes. If my mom is not willing to fight her addiction then I will do it, for my little sister. Thank you 🙏
I'm 25 years old.and I went back to my Motorola razr. Deleted all social media and just use my laptop to check emails. These smart phones spy on you listen to you and feed you advertisements all day. So glad to get rid of it.
Such a great presentation. Really hit a chord. He and his inspiration will be greatly missed in this world. 40 is too young to die. How nice that he was present at home with his family and not on his phone. They will at least have those memories of him. RIP Collin .
Late reply, I know. But, how did he die? Or do you know how he died? That's heartbreaking!
@@justinnaramor6050he passed away unexpectedly of natural causes. He was only 40 years old when he died (in 2020)
@@jessicakraus4983 Oh my goodness! That's sad. Especially because it was so unexpected.
Thanks for the quick reply :)
This guy talked at my school. He’s funny and just seems like a great personality.
Chopstiks same I volunteered and got to hug him for 8 seconds
I'm so sad to hear about Collin's death. Collin, your legacy will continue on. Thank you for your honest approach and inspiration. You will be missed. Endless Hugs for Liz and the kids. I'm so sad to hear these tragic news. You're forever loved.
All parents and children should watch this video.
This guy spoke at my school, he's amazing. Our middle school has a new rule with no cell phones and I feel much safer without having to worry about my every move being recorded. Also kudos to him bevause it's hard to have a good presentation for middle schoolers
Nice
Hands down, one of the best TED Talks and videos I've ever watched on UA-cam. Thank you Collin. Thank you Tedx.
This is absolutely correct. We need to listen to this and we need to make changes for the sake of our children and ourselves. I hope you continue to speak to everyone you get a chance too. This is literally a Life Saving Message. Little did I know until just now that Collin died at age 40 of natural causes, possibly an aneurysm not verified. How tragic for his family and children. What an awesome father he had to be and husband. RIP and prayers for his family that they are doing well.
I attended one of Collin's events in October. It was an absolutely amazing and life-changing experience. I love his message and continue to support it. Keep it going, Collin!
Wow! It sounds like that must have been a lot fun. Wish I was there!
Can’t help feeling guilty for watching this on my iPhone
Felix Lam pretend you are in the crowd, no different.
He came to my school today and his speech was AMAZING!
Me too😃
This guy gave a talk at my school
Me too
Same
Same phone addiction gang
Same here.
Me too
Thank you for everything Collin, your legacy will live on. You will be dearly missed.
As a teenager, I can really relate with what he said. I'm so glad my parents aren't on their phones 24/7 and I'm so glad they taught me what I know about my self-worth before giving me a phone. Still, it was rough dealing with drama on social media. I'm so glad I was lucky enough to become a part of an online community that supported positivity and taking care of yourself. I completely agree with everything he's said - though I've found great online friends, I need to love my irl ones more. I dont want to end up as the kind of parent who values their phone over their children or friends. It's so sad to see kids who are depressed or suicidal and only have social media to depend on for help, and sometimes help isnt there. Thank you so much for giving this talk, it's really helped me check myself and my choices.
Many parents don't want to confront their emotions so they use social media and scroll to avoid it. -says a parent who has done so
This guy was soooooo good. He went to my high school a couple months ago and I enjoyed the whole presentation.
Rest in peace collin. You saved my life a few years ago, but I'm sorry i couldn't save yours. Fly high 🕊
Collin I salute you and your crusade as you save the kids. Thanks for your message.
Rest In Peace Collin. You have saved so many and helped me prepare to keep my future children safe. Thank you for all you’ve done.
Thank you for addressing the issue our society is too scared to talk about!
Excellent Ted Talk. Every parent should see this.
Thank you, Collin, for ALL that you are doing! This is a hard message to hear because many parents/guardians feel guilty. I remind them... "You can't change what you don't acknowledge AND you certainly can't change what you don't know!" Now, they know. It's NEVER too late to change.
R.I.P Collin thank you for teaching us about how dangerous cell phones are and thanks for saving me from harm. We will miss you❤️
Genuinely brought tears to my eyes, what a powerful talk! As a paediatrician, this hit close to home with the number of children who are attending hospital with attempted suicide, deliberate self harm and overdoses. Removing smartphones or barring children from social media may not solve every problem but it's a start
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@@healtheworld6014 the UK
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@@MrAliMcB wow!
This guy came to my school and taught me alot about social media
I use a flip phone. My mental state has improved substantially. I had never realized that social media and smart phones had been a severe detriment to my mental health.
Exactly!!This month i am going out only with the flip phone and i feel like a child again.All day out without social media in my pocket
We need to all work to continue his work. Rest in peace man
Omg he went to my school a year ago and now I'm so shocked and sad because his speech was amazing and I've learned to not think I have to be perfect,😢 rest in peace collin love ya!
Social media must be held accountable, for the Thousands of young lives that have been lost to it. History will look back at this moment in time the same way we looked at people believing smoking was healthy in the 50's. WE MUST DO BETTER!!
You will be greatly missed Collin
Bless you Collin!!! We are better because of you!! We are praying for those you left behind.💔🙏🏻
Thank you for trying to make a difference. People want it to change, yet don't do anything about it. You really changed me and motivated me to not harm myself at my school.
I've had anxiety and depression even before smart phones. So I learned quickly to avoid most social media platforms. I have Facebook to stay connected to family and UA-cam to watch funny and educational videos or to listen to music while I color or do other things. I've learned to be a responsible user... well, most of the time. My mental issues stem from good old fashioned neuroses. Yay?
Thank you. Just thank you for spreading awareness. I have sent this to some of my friends, thank you for coming to schools. People just don't realize how bad it is. Thank you.
*This guy came to my school today and was AMAZING!!!!*
My Heart ❤️ goes out to his family. Thank you for your great talks. You will be remembered. Rest In Peace.
RIP Collin. You made a big impact for the better!!!
I wish I could rate this as most favorite ted talk ever! I want to go completely offline/no tv no computer just a flip phone once I get done with grad school 😁
You can do it!!
“I handed my daughter a loaded gun and did not teach her how to use it” *Collin says in his head “What? Why would you give your daughter a loaded gun?” The mother then pulls out a phone and repeats what she just said.* “I handed my daughter a loaded gun and did not teach her how to use it.”
-What a mother said to Collin that then he said during his talks at schools.
ok but this was beautiful and I'm just like tearing up right now -
it deserves so much more recognition!
THIS IS SO GOOD! This needs to be said from every platform for everyone to hear!
Rest In Peace Collin! You were a true hero.
Man.....Those of us who grew up before social media, had it so great. Smart phones and social media has ruined society and our children.
This was the best ted talk i've seen
Being a kid is hard enough as it is these days. Thank you Collin! You da real MVP.
Thank you, Collin! May you R.I.P
you touched on many tender places. Today I bought a 'flip phone' after three years of struggle on a 'smart' phone. I probably am addicted to youtube in these 'covid' times. I remember my son in earlier years and knowing that something was wrong in the way I parented...found a super reading 'PET Parent effectiveness Training' and got some hints about better ways of being and communicating. it's been quite a journey, more focused on looking inside myself and growing better ( I hope). I feel more real with my son today and with myself. He's56, I'm 84. Thank you for caring and sharing the good stuff. Frances Pizzino still growing and painting pretty pictures.
Wow this is mind blowing. This needs to be heard by the whole planet.
Rest In Peace. Your light will live on
The volume on this video is too quiet. I am trying to project it to my middle school class but the sound isn't good. The other videos are fine, but not this one.
Must have been just your equipment. Works totally fine for me.
yup, too quiet
He gave a talk at my school and made everyone hug each other for 8 seconds.
This guy came too my school today and it was amazing. It was the best school assembly ive ever went. He is really good at talking too middle school kids 😂. It was very inspirational and made me want to stop using my phone. Also today I hugged all my friends for 8 seconds.
Anyone here after this amazing man has passed?
Collin needs to be a millionar. He speaks the true words that we need to here! He spoke at my school today and you could feel everyone feeling a little bit better then themselves! All you need to do is what he says I think it can change our lives forever!!
Thank you, Collin. Just thank you.
What an amazing human. Rest In Peace, Collin.
Living by example will convince and influence more people and your children more than you could try otherwise.
this is so true. i’m 14 and can agree with most of this. it IS an addiction. it’s the same neurological problem as to other addictions. i spend way to much time on my phone and i feel unsafe without it. i have anxiety attacks when i’m not close to my phone and i hate it. i want a flip phone because my phone is ruining my life. i want to have memories of my teenage years having sleepovers not scrolling through instagram. i simply want to live a life without my phone. i’ve tried deleting all the apps but what’s the point? i always download them back. it’s ruining my school, social and future life. procrastinating big projects or work that needs to be done is too easy and i cannot imagine all the time i’ve spent on social media. i want to have memories of talking to my crush, not texting and stalking them. my phone has ruined my grades over time and i hate it. im very grateful to have parents that don’t have social media because they are rarely on their phone. but because they are so clueless they never protected me from the dark sides of my phone. i’ve lost my innocence and i want it back. i’m scared my phone is ruining my life. and i want it to stop
I started following Collin on Instagram several months ago and because of it I regularly delete Facebook and Instagram and have someone change my passwords. I'll take at least a few weeks at a time to take a break. Of course there are positives to having social media which is why I don't delete my accounts all together.
But because I broke my social media addiction, for the first time in my life, and as a college student I might add, I got straight A's. I'm happier when I'm cut off of social media. I'm more productive. I'm more compassionate. I do more stuff like working out, reading, hanging out with friends, and writing music. People who didn't grow up with social media can't know what it does to us who did. Thanks Collin for the awesome message you're sharing.
This story has me in tears. Thank you!
The title should be "How can we start saving a generation from the toxicity of social media? Look in the mirror"
I found it difficult to keep my composure throughout this talk, knowing that Colin passed away in 2020 - he was only 40. I can only hope that his message continues to reach more people and that children are being spared from the shackles of this potential virtual dystopia that has been created.
Thank you, from Rocky Mountain Middle School.
Yo I go to Rocky mountain too
Oh shiz bois!!!!! I’m not :/
Now in 2024 the addiction is much worse. People can't even do a single thing without the use of their smartphones. I don't enjoy meeting with so-called friends anymore as they can't keep their attention for even 2 seconds without bringing out their phones. The way it's affecting the young ones is frightening. I worry about my nieces and nephews
Very inspirational. This makes me want social media even less then I already did!
Thank you Collin for all you are doing and saying!!!
Saw him talk live and he was so amazing!!! Such a good message. Thank you for sharing!!!!!
He just talked at my school and it was great
Excellent! The bottom line here is that parents need to parent and stop being afraid that your kids won't like you!!!!!
R.I.P our Angel🙏🌺♥️ The Lopez’s Love you🌺
Thank you, Collin...your insight is invaluable...even to us as grandparents!!!
So grateful for Colin's crusade!
This guy talked at my school, he was awesome!
this dude came to my school today, he was super awesome
This guy just talked at my school. He was amazing
Best TEDx talk
I never wanted my teens to have a cell phone until they were maybe 16. The thing that spurred me to get them a phone earlier (14-15) was the amount of school shootings. I wanted my kids to have a way to call me or authorities. What a sad day that was for me. I'm stuck between being terrified she has a cellphone at her fingertips and and being terrified if she didn't have one and something happened.
i think a flip phone would still work