For anyone who's wondering, their last video together had their roles completely reversed. She was crying the whole time about everything they built coming to an official end and he was optimistic and excited to see where life would take him next. Last I checked, Oscar was doing fantastically, and she had been struggling as a single mother. That could be totally different at this point, though
I check in on them every now and then and my dislike for the woman went up astronomically. She's getting married to her best friend/nannies' ex-husband. Pretty sure he was the one she was cheating with. Oscar looks to be doing well he has a new GF and started doing real estate.
@@swagkura Yikes. Not surprising though. She gave off serious "I've met someone else" vibes this entire video. And to do that to not only her husband but her best friend? She truly cares about nobody but herself.
@@swagkuraLol good luck to her with that, considering that 92% of relationships spawned out of infidelity fail. It won’t be long before the taboo wears off and she’ll need another affair to satiate her craving for excitement and “tingles.”
As someone who went through a very narcissistically abusive relationship....she made me relive all of those moments where I was mentally destroyed while she laughed at Oscar. This chick is straight up abusive as all hell. If she had nothing in common with him and didn't want to go the same direction in life as him, then why the hell did she get with him and have children?
She wanted access to him without the responsibility of commitment. The children could've been a mistake, a delusional fantasy, or a tool to manipulate him
@@ii-vz8dn You're correct. Not all are narcissists. This woman exhibits some extremely narcissistic behavior, however, and she's got some seriously vile perspectives on how her family is now broken and she wants to fuck other dudes. I'm not sure you're conflating the things you mean to, btw. It's like you saw the word narcissist and immediately wanted to defend. That's not the vibe, man. She's self-centered, egotistical, and she's openly trying to gaslight her partner into feeling like this is actually his fault or a good thing that's happening. It's written all over his face that he's just wrecked over this and she's over here having the time of her life.
@@dylantaaffe4195 I can't imagine how trapped he felt Not only is your financial income probably reliant on your family but having a family in general, so many families force a marriage to work when kids are involved, I can't imagine the pressure of your livelyhood reliant on that too
This lady is nuts. He didn't want this to end. She obviously did but tried to push some of it on him. I'm so glad he figured out life was better without her.
"Tell them I wasn't cheating" She 100% was cheating, and that's why she's already moved on and doesn't feel as hurt as he does. She's been messing around with someone already. True narcissist.
@@joohra_ I'm not using that word in the same way someone says "idiot." She's completely self-absorbed and doesn't care about his feelings, among other things.
She is a narcissist, possibly a sociopath, and highly manipulative. I am a therapist and have dealt with a LOT of women and men like this. He needs to RUN from this woman quickly. It is so sad they have 4 children.
Just looked into their current situation. I guess they stopped their family channel and started their own things. She's currently dating her former best friend's ex-husband. There's speculation that they were cheating before the divorce. Apparently, she's gotten a lot of hate, and Oscar just wants peace and for her to be okay since she is still the mother of his children. Edit: Looked at a tea video, she states she was dating the new guy in March. But he didn't file for divorce until April and it wasn't finalized until June. So .... yeah, messed up thing to do to someone you called your best friend.
This makes me think about all the amicable breakups ive had. My exes in those cases sat me down, explained their legitimate reasons for not continuing the relationship, and while hurt, i understood, and we agreed to respectfully go our separate ways. I can remember how upset they always were, because they knew how much it hurt me, and they cared deeply about me. It's just so strange watching this girl be so casual and happy as she tears this guys heart out again.
just take a look at her face and mannerisms and the way it all moves, you can see physical manifestations of her toxic personality before seeing it on display in the video. she probably thinks her shit smells like roses when it drops down the toilet but doesn't tell anyone and acts humble and/or self deprecates unless they are a poor victim like this guy. can't imagine the devastating divorce-rape that would occur if you were unfortunate enough to get reeled in by her facade of loving you that far
it's the 7 year itch ( & not the movie) iykyk also she's so odd " Tell them I didn't cheat, TELL THEM!" " Tell them we're in a good place, TELL THEM! she's scary
Apparently he was actually abusing her and there’s a ton more to the story that people are just now finding out, he like admitted to throwing things and other stuff
@@Peepee4brain a lot can happen in a seven year relationship. I wouldn't call throwing something abuse unless it's at your partner especially when you don't know what the other person did to cause that behavior. Infact throwing or even punching something (not your spouse) is a hell of a lot better way to take out your frustration than hitting your spouse or bottling it up and eventually blowing your brains out. No just from this video the mind games she's playing with him by acting like he's the reason for all her insecurities is not good enough and hates him yet tries to hug up to him every 5 seconds is a far more damaging to someones psyche than your partner getting mad and throwing an inanimate object at a wall.
@@Peepee4brain I know nothing about this guy so maybe he's crazy though given how this chick seems to have zero issue putting on blast publicly, I'd think that if abuse was a factor she would have brought it up in the video. Though again, I don't know them so I could be wrong but judging but this video she certainly seems like the nasty one in that couple.
I feel this guy so much, as soon as he moves out he's gonna start to realize the amount of emotional trauma she put him through. I once had a girlfriend cheat on me when she litteraly had no reason to lie about it and she just said ''in my eyes, I did nothing wrong''. Still kept being the ''better person'', carrying both our loads until I broke up. She said multiple times she had no intention to ghost me, that she can't imagine going on her life without seeing me again, just to ghost me without explanation. Nothing was explained. Some people just don't care about your feelings, bruh.
The way Oscar says "it is completely done" and she says "woah woah woah, not so fast" even though she's the one breaking up with him is so manipulative. Watching this makes me feel sick.
If I was that guy, I would’ve interrupted her while she was talking and grabbed her nose while saying “Got your nose bitch!” take her phone, run away and post it on UA-cam.
My summary: She wanted more kids, he didn't. She cheated on him. She emotionally manipulated him to try and get him to break up with her first. Just the general demeanor of her in this vid is revolting.
thats the same conclusion i came to man, its super fucked up, i dont wanna really take sides here cause i think the fact they are sharing this super closeted info is scummy to begin with, but she is super fucked up
Thank you for sharing this, with all the viewers you have it will totally expose this woman for the narcissist she is. She really needs to unplug and reevaluate herself, this is disgusting, so sad there’s a child involved..
She’s just a narcissist. Refers to Oscar like he’s her little pet. The Q&A was merely gaslighting damage limitation. Doesn’t wanna get cancelled. Truly awful woman. Sad to think 4 children are looking to her for moral advice.
The way she stayed physically close to him and continued embracing him when she's the one breaking up with him makes it sooo much more manipulative. What the hell
For anyone still interested, their main couple channel is gone now (something she was far more emotional about than this breakup) and they both run their own separate channels… and on her own channel she’s also disabled comments on all of her videos funnily enough.
Update: she WAS cheating. Is now married to her best friend/kids nannys husband! Their baby is due soon. A LOT came out about this terrible woman. Reddit forum best place to read up.
When she says, “Are you gonna cry?” with genuine joy into his visibly emotionally broken face I knew this was over a long time ago and he just didn’t know it
Bro I couldn’t even watch this because I just went through something like this I can guarantee you guys doing this entertains them ESPECIALLY if you stick around after. Your anger your sadness your jealousy of other people they’re now talking to the way they used to talk to you it is all fun for them and makes them feel better it is an ego boost. I promise you those lingering feelings will go away I just got out of a 2 year ordeal I felt like it was the end of the world 🤮. ITS NOT KIDS! Stick to yourself and your friends if they wanna leave do not beg nor ask them to stay because they will leave eventually!
Having had an ex try to pull the "Start being cold, distant and a little dismissive in the hopes of pushing me to be the one to break it off" thing, it's way more hurtful than just being told things aren't working. It's like seeing a part of your life, a person you trust and care for, change and you start to worry there's something you did, or they need some sort of help they don't seem to be able to find in you. The really sad thing is that same ex tried to use me, multiple times, since then when she was herself feeling low, until I had to outright tell her I had completely lost interest in her well being and gained nothing in rekindling any sort of friendship.
I love that you found the Q/A because seeing her say in the first video "Like right person wrong time." then seeing the hope in his eyes just for her to crush it as a joke with "Like were for sure done so don't get your hopes up." Was brutal. Seeing the Q/A end with Oscar having that same energy but actually mean it.
It really feels like she cheated on him but he never got solid proof and she knows he can’t back up his suspicions. It really feels like she’s subtly rubbing his face in it.
@@Paul2.4T yes because getting arrested and possibly sent to prison or slapped with a restraining order for assaulting your ex is a great way to abandon your children....
It just hurts to watch the video. She's literally just smiling and joking about whilst Oscar looks like he's just witnessed his entire world fall apart. Hope that he's doing alright.
ngl going threw some trauma from similar past a relationship, being made too feel like the most horrible person even for being upset and the one at fault even tho you did nothing but try your hardest for that person. I feel vindicated after this video, seeing an eerily similar dynamic.
Bruh the way she straight up orders him to clarify things for the audience so she's never painted in a bad light..always makes my soul cringe seeing controlling/manipulative people like her with family vlog channels
Clearly she cheated on him, she tries so hard to protect her image here everytime he talks and even tells him to go sleep with someone. You don't tell someone you've had four kids with to go sleep with someone else unless you already have or want to. She's so manipulative.
@@Mercurio2435 no man not making a video would be more like avoiding ruining your image, making such video goes straight to the point she gets the whole scene
That brings up a really good point about people with narcissistic personality disorder. Even in situations like this where it seems obvious to a Nuro typical person that not posting the video would have been the wiser choice to protect her image. Because she is so narcissistic that she thinks she really is better than everyone else she thinks that she can pull it off and manipulate the audience and anyone who sees the video. That’s pretty much exactly why Charlie said he felt like he was getting broken up with. Cause she’s using the same manipulation strategies that she has in her abusive relationship with the viewers. I think she really believes that she could make a video like this and still come out on top
I mean there are different ways to have relationships. Having kids doesn't mean you can't have an open relationship. She comes across poorly, but to say that nobody ever does [thing] unless they're a certain kind of person isn't fair. Everyone is different. There are people who genuinely enjoy seeing their partners enjoy being with others. Monogamy doesn't work for everyone.
I like how directly after he insinuates her cheating or showing unfaithful behaviour she starts talking about "how you weren't there for me.." Remember fellas if you cheat - it's your fault, if she cheats, it's also your fault. ☕
They were passive aggressive a lot in a recent vlog, and so many people were commenting saying how great they get along and admire their friendship now. lol
They both sound like they're talking with the school principal here. Have the goddamn fight, say what you feel, scream at each other, get it off your chest ffs and maybe you can fix your shit. This new-age stuff of pretending to be amicable and passive doesn't work.
Bro as soon as the video started I couldn’t bare but skip through it cause damn that beginning already is so heart wrenching and she does deserve him 😢
This should be used to teach people why you should stay away from toxic and manipulative people. I hope this guy finds someone who actually deserves him. This is why self worth is important
not trying to defend her or something, but do we know that it's an actual break-up? i dont know much about the channel but this could also be one of those "breakup-drama for views" videos, where it is revealed that everything's fine after 2 weeks.
UA-cam couples Breaking up with each other is not a crime, buddy. They all post "break up" videos. Nothing toxic or manipulative about it. It's just mega cringe.
I used to watch OKBaby and it made me sad when this happened. I feel so bad for Oscar, I am glad he found someone now who hopefully treats him much better.
Holy crap when she said "It takes two" right after blowing off everything he had to say, belittling his thoughts and emotions in the process, and then blaming it on her mental health and how he wasn't there for her. Sounds like she definitely cheated or got caught trying as well. People who prey on the support of others are the worst, my heart goes out to you brother
Her virtue signaling was beyond human standard that it reeks badly in front of camera. We all know when woomen cheats it's on emotional level and already planned long time ago. Stay alert brothers
100% she cheated. She just knows he doesn’t know the full story so she got him to say that she didn’t. Thinking of him being happier with someone else is a total cop out. That’s a reason that stuck in her head and allowed her to commit to the fact that they were going to have to break up because she cheated. And being mean to him for that phase was because she had cheated on him and couldn’t cope with her guilt.
She’s pissing me off because she can say all this mean shit to him and about him but the second he opens his mouth and says anything she jumps in and immediately offended. She’s clearly the reason it didn’t work out
She should’ve been super happy, she’s not ugly or anything but he’s super hot and she is one of those faces that nobody would even see in a crowd. She cheated on him pretty clearly. I bet there’s a lot of sabotage in his future relationships from this woman. He needs to get away from the situation and her she seems toxic
It's so disgusting how she's trying to look like a good person by looking at him and thinking "he'd be happier with someone else", as if she's doing this for his good.
@@Peepee4brain Where did you find this and who said it? If it was by her or any of her friends it's obviously a lie. Their body languages do not show this as being likely. If she was abused she wouldn't so flagrantly demean him on camera. Don't believe everything told to you, but rather look at what seems to be true.
@@DaReaperZ you clearly don't know the psychology of an abuse victim. They do hold a lot of trauma and resentment that is oftentimes externalized in different ways that are uncomfortable for the person and the people around them. Being annoying is in my opinion least harmful.
I would love a post finding out video for this woman. She is either at the wall or approaching it. A solid FOB 5 at best. All happiness and good things for the guy.
2:27 "can you please verify that i wasnt cheating" "you did a lot of things that bothered me. i wouldnt consider them full-blown cheating" he went to bring up something and she immediately shut him down. yeah she definitely went behind his back i feel bad for the guy and hope he finds someone who clearly isnt manipulative like she is
I feel sorry for Oscar. If he finds someone who loves him, is good to him, and kind and loving to his children, I hope that his ex-girlfriend Kyra will not try to manipulate his relationship - especially if he moves forward ahead of her.
Oh yes, that sounded a whole lot like "you didn't engage in intercourse with another person but you did things that broke the boundaries of our relationship" - and the fact that she pressures him to get a lap dance and to hook up with other women makes it seem like she's done things and wants him to do things too so they'll be on a level playing field
I like how she openly admitted to being an asshole to him over an extended period of time after a SEVEN YEAR marriage to try and get him to be the one to end it instead of her, despite knowing that she is the initiator.
@@dantederi5062 Utah does not recognize common-law marriage. Rather, the state has something know as Judicial Recognition of a Relationship as a Marriage, where you can ask the court to recognize your relationship as a marriage even though you never had a marriage ceremony. If the court approves, the partners will be considered to have been married since the following requirements have been met. The person asking for the relationship to be recognized as a marriage (the petitioner) should be ready to show the court that the marriage comes from an agreement between partners who: - are of legal age and capable of giving consent - are legally capable of entering a solemnized marriage (You can't marry someone you are closely related to - that would prevent you from legally marrying.) - have lived together - treat each other as though they are married and - present themselves to the public so that other people believe they are married. There are time limits to asking for the relationship to be recognized. Paperwork must be filed: - during the relationship, or - within one year after the relationship ends (one or both partners have died or the partners have separated). Either partner may file the paperwork. A third party, such as next of kin, may also file.
@@chuusenberg519 no emotional cheating is a thing. if you think romantically of someone while being in a relationship then you are cheating. if you flirt with other people while dating someone thats cheating. i can tell you let you significant other cheat on you considering you think thats the only way someone can cheat lmao
@@chuusenberg519 no you don't. kissing, cuddling etc aren't sex but can still be cheating. Everyone knows that. And that's not even getting into emotional cheating.
It's literally not the worst by far. Unlike some other videos, here nobody else was hurt or was at risk of being hurt during the production of this video.
Her reason for breaking up, the fact she asked him to let everyone know it wasn't because she cheated and that she was treating him like shit for a few months before the actual split makes me think she was in fact cheating
Totally, the moment she asked him to clarify that she wasn't cheating, I began thinking that she probably was and she just didn't want their audience to know so she could look like an angel. Because fr, who asks someone to say they're not cheating when they truly aren't.
And giving him advice on how to pick up women?? As a fellow woman this is a huge red flag. She wants him with another girl so bad because she's already found another guy to replace him with, I guarantee it.
When he says she was extremely mean towards him in the past month of the relationship, she could have stopped and apologized / acknowledge how it impacted him. But she just very quickly goes "I was self sabotaging" as if she was the only person hurt by acting that way, and just keeps monologuing :s
I legitimately could not finish watching this thing. I got to the part where he said "For about a month, you were just... so mean, like bordering cruel." and she tried to explain it away as 'subconsciously I was pushing you away.' In the next sentence she basically admits that she was trying to get him to break up with her, so it wouldn't be "her fault". That's literally all you need to hear. She's done with him, but she doesn't want to be viewed as a callous bitch that just tosses aside someone who cares for them a lot because she got bored. She wanted to be dumped so she could paint herself as a victim and when that didn't work, she took the next best thing. A recorded "mutual break-up" where she basically gaslights him into absolving her of all blame.
This is the happy ending. The bad ending is him hanging himself because this woman absolutely destroyed him. There are several reasons why male suicide is head and shoulders above female suicide... this kind of women is one of them.
It's because she clearly lacks compassion and common sense. All about that UA-cam dough, fuck having a healthy relationship with the father of your children.
The literal best thing she did for him was leave him, minus the filming of it. That being said, she is in another league when it comes to being a cruel and remorseless manipulator.
She doesn't realize she's been emotionally manipulating him. "I acted like a bitch so he would break up with me so I wouldn't have to do it". So you cheated, blamed it on him for not being good enough, and admitted to manipulating him to avoid the responsibility of ending the relationship. What a narcissist
@@mydogeatspuke She isn't admitting a fault, necessarily. She's just admitting that she tried pushing him away. To her, she did nothing wrong, so it's not a fault. My mother was a Narcissist and did this shit all the time. The fault she's refusing to admit is how that's textbook manipulation. And also that part where she makes him say she didn't cheat. And by the way, I hope you know there are nuances to mental disorders. Like, not every Narcissist is going to refuse to admit a fault 100% of the time. The admittances are indeed a major rarity, but they DO happen sometimes. They are just usually instantly forgotten and the behavior doesn't change.
Narcissist know what they do and think is wrong, they just don't usually care. It becomes a simple matter of power dynamics: who has the leverage? This dude clearly has been thoroughly emasculated by this devastating news. Very glad to be making choices that will never get me into that scenario (i.e. staying single lol).
OMG YOU DONT KNOW THESE PEOPLE. Dont speak on peoples lives without any context. And i personally feel its the opposite (shocking right) but whyy would anyone care really? stop blowing the situation out of proportion.
She seems like a narcissist. I doubt she’ll ever love anyone, genuinely. She strikes me as the “ I need to rehome my senior dog cus it’s not fluffy anymore” type.
@@JukemDrawles87 thats because she didn't really like him that much from the beginning. Once they blew up and got famous she saw a way out cause if she depended on him financially trust me her ass would've stayed another 7 years.
The gaslighting is strong with this one. She’ll say something absolutely atrocious while laughing, he’ll get upset and she’ll say “whaaaat?!? I didn’t do anythiiiiing 😁😁”
@@tychopanda trust me, it’s atrocious. They say something so ridiculous that you don’t know how to respond, they take your silence as a victory, then when you distance yourself from the situation they go “dONt WaLK aWAY” in that substitute teacher voice
This sounds like every one of my ex's, completely unable to understand when I'm in the wrong and when they're in the wrong... They all start off with the whole "I'm so sorry please don't leave me" then once you show mercy and forgiveness they see it as weakness and start making everything your fault instead of understanding and apologising. Then, by the time you've both said bad things and done bad things, you apologise for your side, and then they expect you to apologise for their side too, and they act as if they did nothing and you did everything, or they act like everything they did is justifiable.
This is seriously the best thing that ever happened to this guy, no need to feel sorry for him. He's soon going to be the happiest guy on the planet when he finds out other women mostly aren't evil and twisted. I am so stoked for him.
Most people like that never let their partner go or at least have a long on-and-off relationship. So her breaking up is the best thing that could happen to him. Let’s pray he sees it like this and doesn’t let himself get lured back in.
@@OOFERZ2233 it's one of the common excuses in movies and TV shows where the woman cheats, she usually says " I cheated because you weren't around and I felt lonely"
My boy is gonna be happy someday. This was hard to watch. It was like watching a man die inside and there's nothing you can do. Protect your happiness, everyone. Don't let people like this girl ruin it for you.
These bots/no-lives are so damn agitating. Also great advice, at the end of the day you only have yourself unconditionally. Don’t let someone break you like she did to that man. I
"Tell them I wasn't cheating"
Well, now I'm 100% certain she was cheating.
“Tell the internet people I’m a good person”
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And then the hinting at the " What if we have a 5th baby?"... he goes "Thats thats dudes problem, not mine"
@@andreascelso1972 they got 4 fuckin kids???
Boy she radiated “If Red flags were just a person” energy.
She looks pretty similar to a girl I dated. Watch out for those Lexis, elizabeths and Ashley’s lol.
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Red flags? She’s the whole Soviet Union
good thing shes breaking up with him then.. idk why everyones upset like they clearly are not supposed to be together so
She’s a sucubus
For anyone who's wondering, their last video together had their roles completely reversed. She was crying the whole time about everything they built coming to an official end and he was optimistic and excited to see where life would take him next.
Last I checked, Oscar was doing fantastically, and she had been struggling as a single mother. That could be totally different at this point, though
I check in on them every now and then and my dislike for the woman went up astronomically. She's getting married to her best friend/nannies' ex-husband. Pretty sure he was the one she was cheating with. Oscar looks to be doing well he has a new GF and started doing real estate.
@@swagkura Yikes. Not surprising though. She gave off serious "I've met someone else" vibes this entire video. And to do that to not only her husband but her best friend? She truly cares about nobody but herself.
She’s engaged to the man she cheated on Oscar with now
@@swagkuraLol good luck to her with that, considering that 92% of relationships spawned out of infidelity fail.
It won’t be long before the taboo wears off and she’ll need another affair to satiate her craving for excitement and “tingles.”
@@jaymeselijahlmaoooo give it two years tops
As someone who went through a very narcissistically abusive relationship....she made me relive all of those moments where I was mentally destroyed while she laughed at Oscar. This chick is straight up abusive as all hell. If she had nothing in common with him and didn't want to go the same direction in life as him, then why the hell did she get with him and have children?
She wanted access to him without the responsibility of commitment. The children could've been a mistake, a delusional fantasy, or a tool to manipulate him
@@greenjp779 Yep. All the perks and none of the works.
@@mybootscamewithoutstraps that's a good way of putting it
not all bad people are narcissists. i don't know why every woman i know with a shitty ex insists she was the victim of "narcissistic abuse."
@@ii-vz8dn You're correct. Not all are narcissists. This woman exhibits some extremely narcissistic behavior, however, and she's got some seriously vile perspectives on how her family is now broken and she wants to fuck other dudes.
I'm not sure you're conflating the things you mean to, btw. It's like you saw the word narcissist and immediately wanted to defend. That's not the vibe, man.
She's self-centered, egotistical, and she's openly trying to gaslight her partner into feeling like this is actually his fault or a good thing that's happening. It's written all over his face that he's just wrecked over this and she's over here having the time of her life.
Shes lying. 100% cheated and is gaslighting this poor guy.
100% isn't really realistic now, cmon..
It's more like 200%
@@dylantaaffe4195 I can't imagine how trapped he felt
Not only is your financial income probably reliant on your family but having a family in general, so many families force a marriage to work when kids are involved, I can't imagine the pressure of your livelyhood reliant on that too
@@dylantaaffe4195 Wow, victim blaming. So original.
@@dylantaaffe4195 nice victim blaming lmao
@@dylantaaffe4195 Geez, why didn’t anyone think of that? Just don’t let yourself be abused, it’s so easy!
"can you tell them i'm not cheating" "you weren't full blown cheating" yeah she definitely cheated
Fr and she started the video with “please tell them I didn’t cheat”. If she didn’t cheat, she definitely did some shady shit
@@infinitymixtapes9562 she is monkey branching
Most likely she is reallyyyyyyy close with someone for a while now with no actual sex being involved, emotionally cheating.
100% shes not just a one time cheater either, shes a serial cheater
Actually sad that girl is hella unattractive dude is way out of her league
"It wasn't full blown cheating." Dog I see those tears.
She totally wanted him to look like the bad guy, and when he persisted and loved her, she put it down. Vile.
This lady is nuts. He didn't want this to end. She obviously did but tried to push some of it on him. I'm so glad he figured out life was better without her.
"Tell them I wasn't cheating" She 100% was cheating, and that's why she's already moved on and doesn't feel as hurt as he does. She's been messing around with someone already. True narcissist.
everyone’s a narcissist now
@@joohra_ I'm not using that word in the same way someone says "idiot." She's completely self-absorbed and doesn't care about his feelings, among other things.
@@LethalByChoice that doesn’t make someone automatically a narcissist
@@joohra_ thats the exact definition of narcissism, are you okay?
@@joohra_ Definitely callous
the girl straight up just got bored, cheated, and gaslit the guy into being in the fault of why they're breaking up lol
sadly very common
She is a narcissist, possibly a sociopath, and highly manipulative. I am a therapist and have dealt with a LOT of women and men like this. He needs to RUN from this woman quickly. It is so sad they have 4 children.
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And made sure to have another kid first to maximize that paycheck
Just looked into their current situation. I guess they stopped their family channel and started their own things. She's currently dating her former best friend's ex-husband. There's speculation that they were cheating before the divorce. Apparently, she's gotten a lot of hate, and Oscar just wants peace and for her to be okay since she is still the mother of his children.
Edit: Looked at a tea video, she states she was dating the new guy in March. But he didn't file for divorce until April and it wasn't finalized until June. So .... yeah, messed up thing to do to someone you called your best friend.
Thats insanity
This shit used to happen in private, now malignant narcissists broadcast it to the public for clicks & views 🤢🤮
Doesn't surprise me she'd do that to her supposed best friend, she seems like the type of trashy, narcissistic person to do it.
This is what happens when a "size-queen" feels safe in her financial independence.
@@Raya-ir4tm Read slower. He only referred to the former best friend and her divorce from her husband. Not the two in the video.
This makes me think about all the amicable breakups ive had. My exes in those cases sat me down, explained their legitimate reasons for not continuing the relationship, and while hurt, i understood, and we agreed to respectfully go our separate ways.
I can remember how upset they always were, because they knew how much it hurt me, and they cared deeply about me.
It's just so strange watching this girl be so casual and happy as she tears this guys heart out again.
She's so openly manipulative, it's almost hard to believe it's real.
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She bashed him for 15 minutes and when he goes it’s “done done” she got upset like woah too harsh. This woman is toxic
She poked the bear too hard. I think she was expecting him to crawl back to her down the road.
And fugly
@@reikun86 I think she’s just holding onto him for the YT money and that’s why they’re friends or whatever
@@Sadoos Fr she not even cute at all
just take a look at her face and mannerisms and the way it all moves, you can see physical manifestations of her toxic personality before seeing it on display in the video. she probably thinks her shit smells like roses when it drops down the toilet but doesn't tell anyone and acts humble and/or self deprecates unless they are a poor victim like this guy. can't imagine the devastating divorce-rape that would occur if you were unfortunate enough to get reeled in by her facade of loving you that far
She looks like the undercover cops from the movie White Chicks
it's the 7 year itch ( & not the movie) iykyk
also she's so odd
" Tell them I didn't cheat, TELL THEM!"
" Tell them we're in a good place, TELL THEM!
she's scary
She deserves Oscar. An Oscar for acting like she loved this man for their entire relationship.
BAHAHAHAH THIS
two sentence horror
Tbf people fall out of love
@@davidfan5044 Not like this, this is just straight up toxicity.
🤣🤣🤣
She’s 100% an abusive partner and certainly cheated, then bullied him into making this video.
This is super depressing..
Apparently he was actually abusing her and there’s a ton more to the story that people are just now finding out, he like admitted to throwing things and other stuff
@@Peepee4brain Where can I learn more about this? I have no stake in this drama, I just like following stuff like this for fun.
How do you know
@@Peepee4brain a lot can happen in a seven year relationship. I wouldn't call throwing something abuse unless it's at your partner especially when you don't know what the other person did to cause that behavior. Infact throwing or even punching something (not your spouse) is a hell of a lot better way to take out your frustration than hitting your spouse or bottling it up and eventually blowing your brains out. No just from this video the mind games she's playing with him by acting like he's the reason for all her insecurities is not good enough and hates him yet tries to hug up to him every 5 seconds is a far more damaging to someones psyche than your partner getting mad and throwing an inanimate object at a wall.
@@Peepee4brain I know nothing about this guy so maybe he's crazy though given how this chick seems to have zero issue putting on blast publicly, I'd think that if abuse was a factor she would have brought it up in the video. Though again, I don't know them so I could be wrong but judging but this video she certainly seems like the nasty one in that couple.
Update for anyone who hasn’t seen, she definitely cheated. She got with their children’s nanny’s husband and is now married to him
Yikes
I feel this guy so much, as soon as he moves out he's gonna start to realize the amount of emotional trauma she put him through. I once had a girlfriend cheat on me when she litteraly had no reason to lie about it and she just said ''in my eyes, I did nothing wrong''. Still kept being the ''better person'', carrying both our loads until I broke up. She said multiple times she had no intention to ghost me, that she can't imagine going on her life without seeing me again, just to ghost me without explanation. Nothing was explained. Some people just don't care about your feelings, bruh.
The way Oscar says "it is completely done" and she says "woah woah woah, not so fast" even though she's the one breaking up with him is so manipulative. Watching this makes me feel sick.
she is 100% trying to blame shift by that to make herself feel better and in turn, whether knowingly or not, is making the guy feel like its his fault
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If I was that guy, I would’ve interrupted her while she was talking and grabbed her nose while saying “Got your nose bitch!” take her phone, run away and post it on UA-cam.
I read this wrong at first, but yah!
My summary:
She wanted more kids, he didn't.
She cheated on him.
She emotionally manipulated him to try and get him to break up with her first.
Just the general demeanor of her in this vid is revolting.
thats the same conclusion i came to man, its super fucked up, i dont wanna really take sides here cause i think the fact they are sharing this super closeted info is scummy to begin with, but she is super fucked up
Oh no they have kids? Poor guy.
four 😂
@@mr.niceguy777 yeah it’s fucked
He also said he blew up at her and lost his temper a lot. The relationship just looks unhealthy on all sides
Thank you for sharing this, with all the viewers you have it will totally expose this woman for the narcissist she is. She really needs to unplug and reevaluate herself, this is disgusting, so sad there’s a child involved..
Man I wish I could give guy a hug, I respect how he kept it together, I don't know if I could have done the same.
She’s just a narcissist. Refers to Oscar like he’s her little pet. The Q&A was merely gaslighting damage limitation. Doesn’t wanna get cancelled. Truly awful woman. Sad to think 4 children are looking to her for moral advice.
The hell is this bot comment section.
@@somedude8604 the bot even fucked up the sentence which makes it worse.
They have FOUR CHILDREN TOGETHER??????????? AND SHE STILL ENDED IT?????????
He is cute and handsome and she looks like a used catching glove...
He will bang dimes now and take care of his kids.... Ohhh no terrible life now.
Honestly I feel bad for those kids dealing with her
The way she stayed physically close to him and continued embracing him when she's the one breaking up with him makes it sooo much more manipulative. What the hell
@@crackedsnickel6533 that’s fucked man
@@trapadvisor I'm definitely going with it's clearly a joke, out of pocket as it may be.
@@crackedsnickel6533 uhhh... maybe just try pushing her off you first
@@crackedsnickel6533 you’ve definitely never been with a woman before
Not to mention how she keeps interrupting him almost everytime he tries to talk
I don't get why couples feel like they need to air their dirty laundry like this online
For anyone still interested, their main couple channel is gone now (something she was far more emotional about than this breakup) and they both run their own separate channels… and on her own channel she’s also disabled comments on all of her videos funnily enough.
yes. She cheated on her best friend who was their nanny with her husband! She took her best firneds husband while she was still with oscar
Update: she WAS cheating. Is now married to her best friend/kids nannys husband! Their baby is due soon. A LOT came out about this terrible woman. Reddit forum best place to read up.
I love how she blames her "not cheating" on her mental health issues. What a joke, this poor guy. You're better off my man!
@Owen Polar @eagletrucking this is not how you grow your channel my guy
@Stan McMichaels your using the wrong smurf account..
Hit the quan
@@ToastMasterGuy its literally like text to speech on an already boring game to watch
She probably wanted an open relationship and he said no, so she threw a tantrum.
When she says, “Are you gonna cry?” with genuine joy into his visibly emotionally broken face I knew this was over a long time ago and he just didn’t know it
@let's watch ! why must I spam
The bots love you man. What can I say?
yeah it even seems like she enjoys breaking his heart
That is called a psychopath
“I might. I’m just kidding lol.”
Bro I couldn’t even watch this because I just went through something like this I can guarantee you guys doing this entertains them ESPECIALLY if you stick around after. Your anger your sadness your jealousy of other people they’re now talking to the way they used to talk to you it is all fun for them and makes them feel better it is an ego boost. I promise you those lingering feelings will go away I just got out of a 2 year ordeal I felt like it was the end of the world 🤮. ITS NOT KIDS! Stick to yourself and your friends if they wanna leave do not beg nor ask them to stay because they will leave eventually!
she will never find happiness, she is a sociopath. He is lucky that she broke up with him, so he can meet a person with values and a soul.
Tbh dude is way out of her league.
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He's a decent looking guy and that woman looks like a female version of Eirling Halland.
He should grow his hair out, grow some facial hair, and start wearing white t-shirts.
My first thought exactly
Ikr
He deserves the best
You can see the physical pain in his eyes while he re-evaluates his life decisions
im gonna snipe sound city
JUST WATCH ILL SNIPE HIM >-0=/==o
I would love to see just a video of him saying his own opinion without his ex around
Hes upset the moneys gone not about that mongol looking thing
@@loganroofpedoexposer4952 cmon logan
i watch these videos barely looking at the video he's reacting to but too see his reaction and the most creative and inventive roasts/comparisons
We need you to post a reaction to the channel ending. It’s so great how she’s the one crying in that one
“I feel like we’re best friends” holy crap she just friend-zoned her husband
Nobody's safe from the Friendzone anymore
Lmfao
Oh my god what has this world turned into
@@CaptainAdmiralMango thats why i think living alone, playing games is the best thing a man could do
I dont think they were married, not sure why you would assume that.
" We broke up " *starts the video bursting into laughter*
SOUNDCITY DIDNT COMMENT WOOO
Good luck with the bot spam.
Bots are striking again I see?
I like how UA-cam is like we're going to get rid of the dislikes but we're going to keep all the bots that plague popular channels
UA-cam will do everything except solve the actual problem
Having had an ex try to pull the "Start being cold, distant and a little dismissive in the hopes of pushing me to be the one to break it off" thing, it's way more hurtful than just being told things aren't working. It's like seeing a part of your life, a person you trust and care for, change and you start to worry there's something you did, or they need some sort of help they don't seem to be able to find in you.
The really sad thing is that same ex tried to use me, multiple times, since then when she was herself feeling low, until I had to outright tell her I had completely lost interest in her well being and gained nothing in rekindling any sort of friendship.
I love that you found the Q/A because seeing her say in the first video "Like right person wrong time." then seeing the hope in his eyes just for her to crush it as a joke with "Like were for sure done so don't get your hopes up." Was brutal.
Seeing the Q/A end with Oscar having that same energy but actually mean it.
It really feels like she cheated on him but he never got solid proof and she knows he can’t back up his suspicions. It really feels like she’s subtly rubbing his face in it.
Same vibe I got. Doesn't help that just just seems super sketchy when referencing her own shit.
I don't think you know what "subtle" means lol
If that where me and she got close to me she'd get her jaw busted
@@Paul2.4T yes because getting arrested and possibly sent to prison or slapped with a restraining order for assaulting your ex is a great way to abandon your children....
He deserve better smh..
It just hurts to watch the video. She's literally just smiling and joking about whilst Oscar looks like he's just witnessed his entire world fall apart. Hope that he's doing alright.
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Sorry that the "Clankers" are your only replies, bruv.
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It’s clear she broke up with him in her head a long time ago and he was blindsided.
@@instantpurple1282 it bruh
It staged
She’s so incredibly passive aggressive it feels evil.
ngl going threw some trauma from similar past a relationship, being made too feel like the most horrible person even for being upset and the one at fault even tho you did nothing but try your hardest for that person. I feel vindicated after this video, seeing an eerily similar dynamic.
Bruh the way she straight up orders him to clarify things for the audience so she's never painted in a bad light..always makes my soul cringe seeing controlling/manipulative people like her with family vlog channels
and i love how the clarification is "you didnt technically cheat but..."
like she absolutely cheated and manipulated him into saying it wasn’t “really” cheating. eughh
Those are the only ppl with family channels
Yea she clearly wears the pants :( poor guy
@@MYLAR. didn't you literally do what she said the comments would do if they didn't clarify. Like are you slow
Clearly she cheated on him, she tries so hard to protect her image here everytime he talks and even tells him to go sleep with someone. You don't tell someone you've had four kids with to go sleep with someone else unless you already have or want to. She's so manipulative.
Yep, I remember reading somewhere that narcissists assume people behave like they do, so that kinda applies here o.0
The first step to protecting your image is maybe not making a public video of your breakup.
@@Mercurio2435 no man not making a video would be more like avoiding ruining your image, making such video goes straight to the point she gets the whole scene
That brings up a really good point about people with narcissistic personality disorder. Even in situations like this where it seems obvious to a Nuro typical person that not posting the video would have been the wiser choice to protect her image. Because she is so narcissistic that she thinks she really is better than everyone else she thinks that she can pull it off and manipulate the audience and anyone who sees the video.
That’s pretty much exactly why Charlie said he felt like he was getting broken up with. Cause she’s using the same manipulation strategies that she has in her abusive relationship with the viewers. I think she really believes that she could make a video like this and still come out on top
I mean there are different ways to have relationships. Having kids doesn't mean you can't have an open relationship. She comes across poorly, but to say that nobody ever does [thing] unless they're a certain kind of person isn't fair. Everyone is different. There are people who genuinely enjoy seeing their partners enjoy being with others. Monogamy doesn't work for everyone.
I like how directly after he insinuates her cheating or showing unfaithful behaviour she starts talking about "how you weren't there for me.." Remember fellas if you cheat - it's your fault, if she cheats, it's also your fault. ☕
Narcissism 101: you're not wrong, it's everyone else's fault
@@greenjp779 thank you, finally somebody else that agrees with me... I needed to hear that. I'm not wrong, its everybody else.
@@alexg1778 Yes, indeed, this is the completely healthy and accurate way to go about it. This viewpoint simply cannot possibly have any downsides.
This has to be one of the hardest watches for a while haha.. feel sorry for whoever has decided they want to be with her.. pure narcissist
The fact that this couple has children is deeply worrying to me
I feel so sorry for those children. No doubt their mother will be just as manipulative to them as she is to him.
not just that, but they have FOUR
It’s a shame that literally anyone can have kids.
It’s the insane people that always have too many
For Content, baby
@@questionmarkquestionmarkques and she wants more despite the doctors telling her that if she has more, she and the fetus could die.
This is why people shouldn't be fake with each other.
They're so passive aggressive. "haha you ruined my life hehe
THATS WHAT THE FUCK IM SAYIN HOLY SHIT
broo I love you slendytubbies was my childhood
They were passive aggressive a lot in a recent vlog, and so many people were commenting saying how great they get along and admire their friendship now. lol
They both sound like they're talking with the school principal here. Have the goddamn fight, say what you feel, scream at each other, get it off your chest ffs and maybe you can fix your shit.
This new-age stuff of pretending to be amicable and passive doesn't work.
communication is the key in healthy relationships. Its bad we discover it always when its too late
The narcissist energy flowing around her like she's a Super Saiyan narcissist. Run dude, run, and don't look back.
Bro as soon as the video started I couldn’t bare but skip through it cause damn that beginning already is so heart wrenching and she does deserve him 😢
Now I can’t believe I watched the whole thing idk…..CRINGE
This should be used to teach people why you should stay away from toxic and manipulative people. I hope this guy finds someone who actually deserves him. This is why self worth is important
Self worth is the most important. Lay down some personal boundaries and watch your dates start to lose interest.
not trying to defend her or something, but do we know that it's an actual break-up? i dont know much about the channel but this could also be one of those "breakup-drama for views" videos, where it is revealed that everything's fine after 2 weeks.
UA-cam couples Breaking up with each other is not a crime, buddy. They all post "break up" videos. Nothing toxic or manipulative about it. It's just mega cringe.
Exactly
@@terrathaw Easy way to get views and coverage from other youtubers. UA-cam, tiktok, etc are like 50% fake(planned, skits) videos now.
Someone give this Oscar guy an award. He’s a true hero for putting up with this girl for so long so that some other guy didn’t have to deal with her.
Someone give him an Oscar.
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Get Oscar the Oscar
@@justin4400 I wish I commented your comment
@@peytonwalsh5219 that's very douchebag desire
Dude is just trying to survive. Gotta play along until you can make a clean exit.
I used to watch OKBaby and it made me sad when this happened. I feel so bad for Oscar, I am glad he found someone now who hopefully treats him much better.
Holy crap when she said "It takes two" right after blowing off everything he had to say, belittling his thoughts and emotions in the process, and then blaming it on her mental health and how he wasn't there for her. Sounds like she definitely cheated or got caught trying as well. People who prey on the support of others are the worst, my heart goes out to you brother
Narcissistic girl
It takes two was a fantastic game. Clearly they’re the main characters, hence why they said their title “it takes two”
For sure, you better articulated what I was thinking.
I can't believe he allowed this posted.
@@squigglyline2813 probably so all other men could be warned to stay away lmao
Her virtue signaling was beyond human standard that it reeks badly in front of camera. We all know when woomen cheats it's on emotional level and already planned long time ago. Stay alert brothers
The fact that he’s “laughing” while looking destroyed inside while she’s just smiling and looking like everything is fine is actually just disgusting.
yes cuz you know exactly how they are actually feeling
He's laughing at how dumb she thinks he is lol.
He is way better looking that her wtf is he doing with her
literally just picking at her nails. awful person
narcissistic
100% she cheated. She just knows he doesn’t know the full story so she got him to say that she didn’t. Thinking of him being happier with someone else is a total cop out. That’s a reason that stuck in her head and allowed her to commit to the fact that they were going to have to break up because she cheated. And being mean to him for that phase was because she had cheated on him and couldn’t cope with her guilt.
5:25 as soon as he started apologizing I couldn’t hold in my laughter 😂😂
She’s pissing me off because she can say all this mean shit to him and about him but the second he opens his mouth and says anything she jumps in and immediately offended. She’s clearly the reason it didn’t work out
Ikr, it either means she either has no respect for him and his opinions or has no pride or self-respect and is defensive.
@@DrGandW and then to be like I didn’t cheat tell them it wasn’t cheating lol tf
She should’ve been super happy, she’s not ugly or anything but he’s super hot and she is one of those faces that nobody would even see in a crowd. She cheated on him pretty clearly. I bet there’s a lot of sabotage in his future relationships from this woman. He needs to get away from the situation and her she seems toxic
It's so disgusting how she's trying to look like a good person by looking at him and thinking "he'd be happier with someone else", as if she's doing this for his good.
He was abusing her. Apparently there is a LOT more to the story
@@Peepee4brain Where did you find this and who said it? If it was by her or any of her friends it's obviously a lie.
Their body languages do not show this as being likely. If she was abused she wouldn't so flagrantly demean him on camera.
Don't believe everything told to you, but rather look at what seems to be true.
@@DaReaperZ you clearly don't know the psychology of an abuse victim. They do hold a lot of trauma and resentment that is oftentimes externalized in different ways that are uncomfortable for the person and the people around them. Being annoying is in my opinion least harmful.
@@cauliflowerhead2735 She's completely dominating over him like he's a pet.
Don't even start down this road of unsubstantiated bullshit.
That's what they do.
I would love a post finding out video for this woman. She is either at the wall or approaching it. A solid FOB 5 at best. All happiness and good things for the guy.
I decided to go over to their channel, they stopped the channel and Oscar is deffenetly the one who's felling the best
My guy looks genuinely upset, while she's just treating this whole thing as a joke.
Both sad and infuriating all around
He can do better anyway. She's a 6 on a good day.
@@ch33sepants28 6 on the outside, -2 on the inside.
@@Shay_Mendez Ain't nobody wanna F-Yuckkk the grinch.
My penile will shrivel off D::
@@ch33sepants28 honestly shes ew bro like hes way too good looking for her lol
Poor dude loves her and she’s a pos
2:27
"can you please verify that i wasnt cheating"
"you did a lot of things that bothered me. i wouldnt consider them full-blown cheating"
he went to bring up something and she immediately shut him down. yeah she definitely went behind his back
i feel bad for the guy and hope he finds someone who clearly isnt manipulative like she is
I feel sorry for Oscar. If he finds someone who loves him, is good to him, and kind and loving to his children, I hope that his ex-girlfriend Kyra will not try to manipulate his relationship - especially if he moves forward ahead of her.
Oh yes, that sounded a whole lot like "you didn't engage in intercourse with another person but you did things that broke the boundaries of our relationship" - and the fact that she pressures him to get a lap dance and to hook up with other women makes it seem like she's done things and wants him to do things too so they'll be on a level playing field
She gaslit him
@@KreeZafi big brain
@@KreeZafi fax
"There is no secrets between them and me"
the way he said me had me dying
This video was so hard to watch 2 years ago, but now I am back for round 2
I like how she openly admitted to being an asshole to him over an extended period of time after a SEVEN YEAR marriage to try and get him to be the one to end it instead of her, despite knowing that she is the initiator.
They weren’t married. They only got engaged a couple of years ago.
He was abusing her. Apparently there is a LOT more to the story
@@probablynot1368 well, thank goodness. Otherwise she gets to rob half of his possessions.
@@dantederi5062 Utah does not recognize common-law marriage. Rather, the state has something know as Judicial Recognition of a Relationship as a Marriage, where you can ask the court to recognize your relationship as a marriage even though you never had a marriage ceremony. If the court approves, the partners will be considered to have been married since the following requirements have been met.
The person asking for the relationship to be recognized as a marriage (the petitioner) should be ready to show the court that the marriage comes from an agreement between partners who:
- are of legal age and capable of giving consent
- are legally capable of entering a solemnized marriage (You can't marry someone you are closely related to - that would prevent you from legally marrying.)
- have lived together
- treat each other as though they are married and
- present themselves to the public so that other people believe they are married.
There are time limits to asking for the relationship to be recognized. Paperwork must be filed:
- during the relationship, or
- within one year after the relationship ends (one or both partners have died or the partners have separated).
Either partner may file the paperwork. A third party, such as next of kin, may also file.
@@Peepee4brain why are you spamming this in the comments
If she "did things i didn't like that weren't technically cheating"-- she cheated.
You dont have to sleep with someone to cheat on your partner
Seriously.
Yes you do…
@@chuusenberg519 no emotional cheating is a thing. if you think romantically of someone while being in a relationship then you are cheating. if you flirt with other people while dating someone thats cheating. i can tell you let you significant other cheat on you considering you think thats the only way someone can cheat lmao
@@chuusenberg519 no you don't. kissing, cuddling etc aren't sex but can still be cheating. Everyone knows that. And that's not even getting into emotional cheating.
@@mayplaysgames7978 cuddling isn’t cheating 🤷 “everyone knows” clearly not and I don’t believe that. Kissing and sex are cheating tho
Getting friendzoned by your wife is CRAZZY
So glad he has someone new
i thought charlie was overexaggerating during the intro, but this is actually the worst video charles has ever shown us
It made me feel sick! How could she be so cold
Like I’m not surprised anymore, people will do anything for money now
It's literally not the worst by far. Unlike some other videos, here nobody else was hurt or was at risk of being hurt during the production of this video.
He will show us wayyy worst...
Charles 💀
Her reason for breaking up, the fact she asked him to let everyone know it wasn't because she cheated and that she was treating him like shit for a few months before the actual split makes me think she was in fact cheating
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Totally, the moment she asked him to clarify that she wasn't cheating, I began thinking that she probably was and she just didn't want their audience to know so she could look like an angel. Because fr, who asks someone to say they're not cheating when they truly aren't.
And giving him advice on how to pick up women?? As a fellow woman this is a huge red flag. She wants him with another girl so bad because she's already found another guy to replace him with, I guarantee it.
Even besides that she seems like she cheated without him knowing and probably didn't tell him (or he didn't find out) until after this video.
Oh yea she definitely cheated
The Latest video they put out is HILARIOUS!! The Table are completely Turned! The dude 100% moved on and the chick is just completely Devastated!!!
The woman in this video is pure evil. She’s obviously got another “guy” lined up.
she was talking to her besties husband at the time and then broke up their marriage, and now theyre getting married next month😍
When he says she was extremely mean towards him in the past month of the relationship, she could have stopped and apologized / acknowledge how it impacted him. But she just very quickly goes "I was self sabotaging" as if she was the only person hurt by acting that way, and just keeps monologuing :s
I was saying the SAME thing. She's a narcissist bro. It's a shame that kids are involved too. 😕
Yow
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@@theWIIISEguy worst thing is I've never even noticed that before. I think many people didn't, including Oscar. I'm afraid he's still unaware
i hate how she uses self sabotage as an excuse to treat him like shit
I legitimately could not finish watching this thing. I got to the part where he said "For about a month, you were just... so mean, like bordering cruel." and she tried to explain it away as 'subconsciously I was pushing you away.' In the next sentence she basically admits that she was trying to get him to break up with her, so it wouldn't be "her fault". That's literally all you need to hear. She's done with him, but she doesn't want to be viewed as a callous bitch that just tosses aside someone who cares for them a lot because she got bored. She wanted to be dumped so she could paint herself as a victim and when that didn't work, she took the next best thing. A recorded "mutual break-up" where she basically gaslights him into absolving her of all blame.
This is one of the most accurate comments I've read
right?? that self sabotaging is like, a mistake you make when you're seventeen, not when you're married and have fucking kids.
God damn you just spit so much fax my tongue is flaming from reading it💯
yeah, trying to say "subconscious" to avoid responsibility
This is the happy ending. The bad ending is him hanging himself because this woman absolutely destroyed him. There are several reasons why male suicide is head and shoulders above female suicide... this kind of women is one of them.
he can do sooo much better its crazy. good for him i think he'll find
5:07 the cat is literally pissing on their couch in the background wth😭 thanks for pointing that out charlie that’s fucking hilarious
Even with Charlie narrating to break up the tension, this was still rough to watch. Poor guy I hope he finds someone much better!
Okay
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I mean just look at him, dude will have no problem pulling other girls... probably an upgrade too lmao
@@dinoboi7756 human moment
I think its funny how Oscar will ask a question to her and she kinda narrowly answers it to the CAMERA and audience, not HIM!
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@@stofficial9315 don’t click the link
It's because she clearly lacks compassion and common sense. All about that UA-cam dough, fuck having a healthy relationship with the father of your children.
Can we get a pog for Oscar? My man can finally get what he deserves
i watched them when i was in like middle school…i had forgotten about them but now i’m so sad :(
“I don’t know why they would upload this” the moment of clarity in this video
The literal best thing she did for him was leave him, minus the filming of it. That being said, she is in another league when it comes to being a cruel and remorseless manipulator.
He's in another league in regards to looks though
@@malazan6004 Yeah dude he looks way cooler.
@DISLIKE👎 I like your name
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@Owen Polar-_-
She doesn't realize she's been emotionally manipulating him. "I acted like a bitch so he would break up with me so I wouldn't have to do it". So you cheated, blamed it on him for not being good enough, and admitted to manipulating him to avoid the responsibility of ending the relationship. What a narcissist
Apart from the admitting to it part. Narcs don't admit their faults.
Agree except the first part. She def knows she's been manipulating him
@@mydogeatspuke She isn't admitting a fault, necessarily. She's just admitting that she tried pushing him away. To her, she did nothing wrong, so it's not a fault. My mother was a Narcissist and did this shit all the time. The fault she's refusing to admit is how that's textbook manipulation. And also that part where she makes him say she didn't cheat.
And by the way, I hope you know there are nuances to mental disorders. Like, not every Narcissist is going to refuse to admit a fault 100% of the time. The admittances are indeed a major rarity, but they DO happen sometimes. They are just usually instantly forgotten and the behavior doesn't change.
Narcissist know what they do and think is wrong, they just don't usually care. It becomes a simple matter of power dynamics: who has the leverage? This dude clearly has been thoroughly emasculated by this devastating news. Very glad to be making choices that will never get me into that scenario (i.e. staying single lol).
Full beat down. Damn, he’s way out of her league
4:22 poor guy looked like he was about to cry, hope he's doing well now.
This is the face of an abusive wife. He physically shrank like 5 times. His eyes were the eyes of someone who was in genuine pain.
@Peace and Serenity what’s that mean? Nothing funny about domestic abuse
OMG YOU DONT KNOW THESE PEOPLE. Dont speak on peoples lives without any context. And i personally feel its the opposite (shocking right) but whyy would anyone care really? stop blowing the situation out of proportion.
@@augh4659 right!! people online are so weird sometimes, accusing someone of abuse over a normal argument is insane
@@o.o2920 Guessing you manipulate your partners too huh
she is definitely getting off on hurting him
She seems like a narcissist. I doubt she’ll ever love anyone, genuinely. She strikes me as the “ I need to rehome my senior dog cus it’s not fluffy anymore” type.
what's scary is being 7 years with her only for it to end on a wim. i do not understand relationships
Definitely narcissist. 🤦🏼♀️
Definitely. Keen comparison
@@JukemDrawles87 Most people aren't like this. Just the ones that post their break up videos on youtube.
@@JukemDrawles87 thats because she didn't really like him that much from the beginning. Once they blew up and got famous she saw a way out cause if she depended on him financially trust me her ass would've stayed another 7 years.
This was the most passive/aggressive thing I’ve seen all day
On the brightside, out of their two seperate channels, his seems to be doing better.
The gaslighting is strong with this one. She’ll say something absolutely atrocious while laughing, he’ll get upset and she’ll say “whaaaat?!? I didn’t do anythiiiiing 😁😁”
It's so infuriating to watch, I can't imagine actually being in that situation
@@tychopanda trust me, it’s atrocious. They say something so ridiculous that you don’t know how to respond, they take your silence as a victory, then when you distance yourself from the situation they go “dONt WaLK aWAY” in that substitute teacher voice
Or “hey, we’re just kidding around.” You should see all the passive aggressiveness in one of their latest vlogs.
This sounds like every one of my ex's, completely unable to understand when I'm in the wrong and when they're in the wrong...
They all start off with the whole "I'm so sorry please don't leave me" then once you show mercy and forgiveness they see it as weakness and start making everything your fault instead of understanding and apologising.
Then, by the time you've both said bad things and done bad things, you apologise for your side, and then they expect you to apologise for their side too, and they act as if they did nothing and you did everything, or they act like everything they did is justifiable.
@@rymanshroomzorz and that’s why I’m not wiping my mothers ass in ten years 😂 (jk I’m not serious)
I feel like a kid hearing my parents argue and then explaining why they are going to be breaking up
As a person who's been cheated on I have to stop watching this vid it's bringing back some shit memories that still hurt alot
This is seriously the best thing that ever happened to this guy, no need to feel sorry for him. He's soon going to be the happiest guy on the planet when he finds out other women mostly aren't evil and twisted. I am so stoked for him.
exactly! Her loss.
I'm confused because he's attractive and she's not.
Most people like that never let their partner go or at least have a long on-and-off relationship. So her breaking up is the best thing that could happen to him. Let’s pray he sees it like this and doesn’t let himself get lured back in.
@@stephengarcia946 She isn't losing a thing because he's abusive
@@ok.4720
Me thinks it's the other way around, buddy.
Him: "It felt like you cheating on me"
Her: "Well how about how you weren't there for me?"
🤡
Translation: it was your fault I cheated
Those two things kinda clash though, don't they? Can't exactly be there for someone if they're always off somewhere else cheating
Straight out of the trashy hoe in denial play book, page 1
@@OOFERZ2233 it's one of the common excuses in movies and TV shows where the woman cheats, she usually says " I cheated because you weren't around and I felt lonely"
I’ve seen and heard women pulling that shit for awhile on UA-cam shorts when they’re caught cheating
The fact he stayed in the video means he should demand better.
I watched this channel for so long and Oscar deserves better
My boy is gonna be happy someday. This was hard to watch. It was like watching a man die inside and there's nothing you can do.
Protect your happiness, everyone. Don't let people like this girl ruin it for you.
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too late for me fam
These bots/no-lives are so damn agitating.
Also great advice, at the end of the day you only have yourself unconditionally. Don’t let someone break you like she did to that man. I
@@nilsjonsson1133 yup
it would literll6y make my day if everyone follows me :]