"If I am plus sized, can't I be beautiful?" | The story of Kristy

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  • Опубліковано 15 лют 2022
  • #Singapore #Poledance
    Beauty is often portrayed as being slim and slender on social media. But what is your definition of beauty?
    Growing up plus-sized, Kristy inevitably found it hard to feel secure in her skin. Through the ups and down of her post-natal depression, Kristy wonders if change is possible.
    Kristy shares how her journey in pole dancing helped her grow and find the self-acceptance that she has always been searching for.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 52

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 2 роки тому +46

    We should pursue our dreams no matter our age, ethnicity, nationality, looks, or size. Hard work is the thing that matters.

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +2

      I agree... ... moreover, the significance of not losing sight of your end-goal is truly important too!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much @IKEMEN Osaka-ben!【大阪弁】
      For Your Positive & Uplifting Comment!!!

  • @InnocentSmile123
    @InnocentSmile123 2 роки тому +56

    The cutest couple!! Can really see they support each other and they are both so funny, i had a good laugh. Very inspiring to see her build the courage to do something not alot of people would dare to do. All the best and keep going!! 💪🏻

  • @therealkat1342
    @therealkat1342 2 роки тому +20

    Truly encouraging, it doesn’t matter how you’re built! You can do anything if you set your mind to it.

  • @katerinawise4150
    @katerinawise4150 2 роки тому +3

    She's delightful and a wonderful advocate for those of us who carry a bit more weight that others. And her husband is every partner should strive to be. Love them both 💕

  • @SK-qj3oj
    @SK-qj3oj 2 роки тому +10

    Wow she's really lucky to have that husband

  • @soaringeagle6918
    @soaringeagle6918 2 роки тому +6

    What a lovely couple! :)

  • @SalmonPotato
    @SalmonPotato 2 роки тому +3

    keep doing you kristy! :) i really admire you

  • @Sherlynmama
    @Sherlynmama 2 роки тому +6

    Love it!, You're amazing!

  • @roxannehon7477
    @roxannehon7477 2 роки тому +2

    I want to like this video many, many times!!!!!

  • @shelbyeliza5353
    @shelbyeliza5353 2 роки тому +1

    This guy is seriously husband goals, reminds me of mine as well. I think the right partner really makes a difference :)

  • @cny9575
    @cny9575 2 роки тому

    AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME. Keep going, Kristy!!!!!

  • @priscillaong9399
    @priscillaong9399 2 роки тому +12

    Just be yourself & enjoy what you do. You did a good job because at least your tried. 💪🏼

  • @danasingapore135
    @danasingapore135 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so happy we finally moving towards body positivity. My fellow millennials still remember all those unbelievable beauty standards in 90-2000s with low rise jeans that no one could wear except skinny celebraties.
    If one doesn't fit your standard of beauty doesn't mean this person can't enjoy things like dancing, or wearing bikini.
    I'm so happy for this lady, she's so positive and inspiring

  • @justrandomotaku
    @justrandomotaku 2 роки тому +6

    What a legend, been following her on insta for a while. Inspires me to try pole dancing in the future too. Had no idea she's a mom too! The strengthhhhh

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      Glad to see that she still have the unwavering spirit, no matter the circumstances and situations... ...
      Really spread a positive & wholesome vibe to everyone about the *_100% importance_* of not losing sight of your dreams!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      Always keep a part of the dream in hand, and slowly turn it into a goal!
      A goal that can be beneficial through determination and passion is worth it!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      Case-and-Point ... ... Absolute Respect!

  • @wendelynlee8544
    @wendelynlee8544 2 роки тому +6

    Keep it up , U’re beautiful in your own way . Stay positive always .

  • @MaryTan1
    @MaryTan1 2 роки тому +13

    yaaaaay Kristy!!! Love what you do! Don’t ever stop doing the things you love and being you

  • @myeongwol
    @myeongwol 2 роки тому +3

    Wow it's impressive! Pole dancing require body strength so you are so much better than most people already!

  • @VedaVoyager
    @VedaVoyager 2 роки тому +12

    Beauty is not physical! It's all about personality!

  • @JiraiyaFrogSannin
    @JiraiyaFrogSannin 2 роки тому +1

    Yeahhh Kristy!! Jiayou!!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      I agree with you @MD Razin Bin MD Sujai
      Jia You! Jia You!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      Moreover, don't forget to keep up the spirit! Your positive passion = remarkable!
      Lots of possibilities to improve and grow~

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      100% Gratefulness and Thankfulness towards your wholesome and uplifting comment too
      @MD Razin Bin MD Sujai ... ... that's really sweet and polite of you!

  • @KIRSTYVALENTYN
    @KIRSTYVALENTYN Рік тому

    you are beautiful, dont let sad people tell you what you should look like live your life and enjoy it.. people who are mean are not happy inside them.. you are beautiful and very sexy.. i am plus size and i am so beautiful and very sexy

  • @irfanazhari8863
    @irfanazhari8863 2 роки тому

    U are beautiful 😍 and just be who u are and stay strong 💪 and God with u all this while.😊

  • @huangjinwei3755
    @huangjinwei3755 2 роки тому

    Health is most important regardless fat or slim

  • @teabag4779
    @teabag4779 2 роки тому +1

    Couldn't bully me **mimic punches**

  • @siewcheng77
    @siewcheng77 2 роки тому

    😃👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @jonella9262
    @jonella9262 2 роки тому

    Kristy, your story is so inspiring, and you’re so lucky to have such a supportive husband as well 😊

  • @LTG1985
    @LTG1985 2 роки тому +5

    I think bill burr will want to roast this 🤣

  • @azitr0micina
    @azitr0micina Рік тому

    Which is her IG? I cannot find her 🥺

  • @Zendefone
    @Zendefone 2 роки тому +9

    Slim down. It may or may not be more beautiful (since its subjective). But a healthy body weight is objectively more healthy.

  • @agentprovocateur8899
    @agentprovocateur8899 2 роки тому +2

    beauty is subjective, do you kristy

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      I agree that beauty is subjective! Your inner beauty is significantly more important than your outer beauty!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      Your character, your personality, your traits... ... etc. are what people know you for being human!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +1

      You got this! Keep up with your goal~

  • @noproblematallmate
    @noproblematallmate 2 роки тому +5

    Keep doing the pole dancing then u will slim down too. People naturally like healthy looking others... its natural. So let's not pay attention to them and work on yourself.

  • @John_Smith_86
    @John_Smith_86 2 роки тому

    No

  • @krisnanstravelvlogscomings3893
    @krisnanstravelvlogscomings3893 2 роки тому +2

    My 👀 🔥

  • @WasLostButNowAmFound
    @WasLostButNowAmFound 2 роки тому +1

    Plus your head. Eat more protein less carbo. Wah lao eh.

  • @thefinders2400
    @thefinders2400 2 роки тому +2

    This DANCING ACTION IS DIGUSTING

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому +5

      I believe that she is doing good... ...
      *Room for improvements :D*
      Slowly & surely develop and grow the skills and techniques! :)