I got divorced at 30 and am now 63. I never missed not getting remarried. I love being single. I have my own house grow a massive flower garden every year and generally have a nice life.
I totally hear you 👏🏼 u became a single mum at 37 ... went back to school became a nurse, bought my own place, raised 3 wonderful humans and now I'm 61 & I love this phase ! I'd never remarry 😊 love my own home and my grandies ... enough for me
I love this channel. I will be 76 in March and am so blessed to reach 75. I survived cancer at age 32. On Christmas Eve I was in a car accident that totaled my car and then two days later I picked up something that was going around and had pneumonia but God has looked after me and taken great care of me. I feel very blessed.
Dear Susan I accidentally ran across your feed... I am 67 years old and lived with my BF for 10 years...he was an alcoholic...then he had a stroke and it was a nightmare.... Got him healthy again and he went right back to self destruction.I could NOT do it again.... I left with just my dog.... I am living in a nice studio (tiny) and am completely starting over...EVERYTHING.. I am like a deer in headlights...You have made me not feel so alone..SERIOUSLY? single at 67? NOW WHAT????
I know what you’re saying. It’s like… what is the plan? Find a place? Hopefully they will like me at my new job. It’s so overwhelming at times. Just trying to make it hrough, mentally, one day at a time.
I will be 67 in a month. Stuck in Louisiana crying for island life, but afraid to go back…I can not afford it anymore!!! But, I have been alone since 1998, widowed . I had two long relationships, but both were so emotionally detached!
@lisapursel932 when I separated from my ex 20+ yrs age it was scary & I felt 'frozen' in place. Then I gave myself permission to consider going back to the marriage & suddenly the wide world of an unknown future wasn't scary anymore. No way could my life alone be worse than THAT marriage. Also, taking as long as it took to heal before trying to rebuild. Not that I knew what I was doing, I just did what my gut told me. Good luck.
@@lisapursel932You can do this!!! I promise you that it gets easier with each day that passes. I,also, rebuilt my life from "ground zero" after a 12-year marriage from HELL!!! to a man that literally brought me to gut-wrenching tears every day for years. Now? I wake up every single day embracing my single life and all the wonderful opportunities to experience a sense of joy and happiness that I did not even know was possible! I realize now that nothing feels as good as the FREEDOM! we get from being "released" from an unhealthy relationship.
@marmeone 😊Don't let trolls get the best of you. I'm a widow as well since 2005. And you're right. There is a big difference between being lonely and alone. You can be with other people and feel alone or even with the partner as well. Keep your peace. ❤
I never thought I would get to be this old - I'll be 80 in a few months. Two years ago, my world changed - again. It changed 14 years ago when I lost my husband and two years ago my cat, who was 19, got scared and bit me. They were working on our road and making a racket out there. My cat was asleep in my lap and the noise scared him. For some reason he just clamped down on my hand, which caused blood poisoning. I ended up in the hospital because in addition to my hand swollen up, my legs decided to not hold me up any more. Here we are two years later. My cat has since passed away and I am toddling around. But I feel very fortunate for the life that I have. I am thankful every day. My 29 year old grandson lives with me and watches out for me. I am so thankful for him, too. I don't hold any ill will against anyone. I am thankful for what I have. And believe it or not, I am thankful for all the You Tube channels that I watch. Because, here I am talking to all of you, Thank you all for allowing me to listen and talk to you. Yes, thank you very much. Sending Light and Love to All, especially Desi. ❤
Thank you for sharing The bumps in the road on your journey through life. You appear to be a very strong woman and a very kind and generous soul to not hold any grudges for the health conditions that you’ve had to endure. You are blessed to have your grandson to share your life with and I’m sure he truly loves you and is there to make sure you’re going to be OK. It is a blessing to have a family member that cares. Have a wonderful weekend. Hugs from Canada, Linda ❤😊
Hi, Maureen! I've been through quite a few harrowing experiences too, some of which left me alone (though without any relatives to help), and 'all' I had was a 'family' of friends online to help get me through those really rough times. So I know what you mean when you say how important these You Tube channels are to you - because they allow you to stay connected - even in the solitude. (I'm right now in a room 'all alone' too, but still can communicate with you!) Given the fact I've been able to do this so many times before, I can still recall a birthday party my best friend and mentor (another investigative journalist who was my colleague), gave me a few years back - before he passed. I was 'totally' alone then too, but not - because we had many 'online friends' who came to the 'party' on his profile. So it was one of the best I ever had - bar none. I'll chalk it all up to the written/typed word. It allows us to get to know someone better than all of the play-acting that goes on in the world now. Folks even used to fall in love - through letters - and find best friends through them - like Julia Child and her friend Avis De Voto. Kids don't know what they're now missing by only texting in short-hand. They're omitting all of the connection that comes with sharing 'Full' sentences. Keep posting them and you'll never be alone anymore. This is the medium for bringing it all back once again...
I'm not far from turning 67. Today I had a little pity-party.....I just felt cold, clumsy, stupid, and uncreative. Thanks for your messages and positive attitude. I love the sound of your friendly voice. I needed to hear all this. You're a beautiful person inside and out.
I think there are times as we age that everyone feels that way. But look at the life experience you have and when needed it will come back to you, trust me. It's still there.
@@Cindy-bee Thank you for your words of encouragement. I have these days at times but normally I do realize it's all OK and I have much to be grateful for. Robert Frost has a great quote: "The best way out is always through."
Oh isn’t it horrible when we have a pity party? You just have to work through them and look around you. When I feel like that I realise how fortunate I am to have a comfy chair to sit in, a lovely snuggly bed to sleep in and food in the fridge. Then my pity turns to gratitude….for my lovely family and friends. It never lasts long and I try not to give it head room. Sending very best wishes to you from England.
@@jenniferevans5192 Yes, it hurts to be in that pity party but it's also cathartic when it's finally over and I realize what I've been blessed with. There's a time to allow one to feel somewhat sorry for themselves and have a good cry and a 'why me' attitude but it must not last too long or else we feel we are somehow a victim and that doesn't do anything for us. This is when we have to dig deep and pull out our given strength that sometimes lays dormant. We all have that strength we just need to exercise it more often and rely on it. Blessings to you and all women on here.
I just turned 71 and I'm a happy 10 year widow. I grew up believing that I was unlovable so I married 2 men who didn't know how to love. I'm loving myself now. It feels good. Glad you are happy too.
One man that can't love but two.? Better look at your contribution. So many men are labeled abusers. Every time I check them out, the woman just wanted out and needed a reason that can't be verified. My ex wife called me an abuser too. Ask her for details and she goes blank.
I grew up believing I was unlovable too, but instead of marrying wrong people, I've been alone all my 42 years. I sometimes wonder if my deep beliefs about myself keep men away somehow (never been asked out)
No ma’am you did not get fired, you quit a company who does not recognize your value and you took your 109k subs with you and I LOVE IT! Some people have to learn the hard way 🤷🏻♀️
I’m almost 73! I DO eat what I want! I’m not really hung up on how I look. I’m 73 and I look it. I have a little doggie who IS the love of my life! We just have to find our own joy
You are amazing and you sound like you have better energy now too!!! "treating" yourself with sugary foods and fast food is really a punishment to your beautiful body. Rock on!!!!!!!!
I’m 69 and wanted to drop some weight but not the way I did it. Caring for my husband who was terminal I barely ate and the weight dropped off fast. After he passed I did gain 10 lbs back because I was emotionally eating. I’m doing better now but it’s hard being a widow after 40 years together. Your channel helps me feel better 💕
I know how hard it is to lose one's husband. It gets better over time, but it's a huge adjustment. When l lost my husband of 38 years, decades ago, l felt broken. But now l just think how lucky l was to have him in my life as long as l did. I miss him still but when it's time for me to "go home", l will see him again.
@@heidibee501 I thank you so much for sharing with me. I do feel very blessed that I had my husband for 40 years. He took such good care of me and we had many happy times together that I remember. I miss him terribly, but I know he’s waiting for me. I lost my 18-year-old cat first and then four months later my husband this was all last year so it was the worst year of my life but I am moving on I’m living in my own apartment and I’m near my sister and her family and I’m trying to socialize.I’ll never date because I still feel married to my husband. I’m so sorry for your loss too. But we’re very lucky and they are waiting for us.
I've been in the process of making many personal changes in my life. It's difficult to leave people you love even though you know it's for your own good. I like listening to you find your way, it gives me strength to continue on my path. ❤
I’m sixty two and have never lived alone. Two years ago, my husband and soul mate was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Short of a miracle, there is no cure. As I face living alone, I have to admit, I’m scared. Really scared. I found much comfort and reassurance in your video. Thank-you so much and may God bless you. ❤️
2 years ago I got hurt at work. Lost job insurance now can’t wok. Then a year later I lost my husband after 44 years of marriage. It’s hard. He haloed me though my illness therapies ect. Now I have to do it ALL by myself plus trying to learn everything he did too. House repairs the hardest part. With my TBI it takes me longer to do things but I’ve moving alone. I just can’t let me get overwhelmed. Hardest part is self care
As a widow, my heart goes out to you. My practical advice is to be brave, make every day the best it can be, and get your financial house in order. I pray and believe God will give you the physical, mental, & emotional strength you will need if you ask. Big hug!
@@myvoice32 Laurie - you DESERVE to live in a sanctuary. I am divorced & it is so much better than feeling a pit in your stomach because the man there does not love you.💝
Dear LittlePoet, I just turned 74....I have a condo in the Historic District....I have no mortgage, paid off....no debt...no vehicle, as I can walk to shop, or just to Downtown....condo fee takes care of snow removal ,and maintenance.....1273 sq. ft....surrounded by exposed brick, perhaps 300 degrees...also granite foundation walls, both north, and south walls....well, as an artist, and an Interior Designer, happy to have days that go by, without speaking with another being....content...
As someone who's in her late 40s, and who has lived by themselves for eight years, your words perhaps saved and sung to me. Thank you for telling your audience to "put down the sword" and to love ourselves.
I lost my dog last summer after eleven years. You may have noticed how much I love Desi ❤ and that’s why. I love that you share him with us. It’s helped me in my grief.
I just moved in to a house at 76. I was living in independent apartment complex for “active seniors”. I hated it… not for me! It was so depressing. We’ll, I can’t wait to start planting tomatoes and okra. Thinking of getting a little Desi. 😂
I agree with you, having moved from a "seniors building" with its atmosphere that dragged me down, to a house in a neighborhood with a good mixture of young and old. The children here make me smile.
Hi - Can you tell us what you hated about the independent apartment? I live in a house now but think about going to independent living like 20 years from now (they kind where you get good food a long with your rent). The main thing that worries me is rent increases but I thought it would be a good way to be around people and also make sure I eat healthy meals. I live in a 55 plus home community now and like it very much but thought it would get hard in my 80's. I would love to hear your experience.
Hi Susan! I am so glad you didn't cut out the beautiful story of your neighbor who cooks for seniors for this extra💲. Oh Desi is so adorable and brings us all such joy! 😊💚
Everything in your video is gorgeous: your face, your hair, your voice, your house, the wonderful footage of snow, your words, your wisdom. I have written in my diary: "Put down the sword", and will live by it. Thank you so much!
I am 66 years old. Started thinking that I was too old to purchase my own home...until I watched your video about how you saved for your home. Thank you for the inspiration
You go, girl! Why not pay your own mortgage rather than your landlord's? Plan on having an emergency account for any repairs that come up. When you someday decide to sell, you will be so glad you decided to buy, because you will almost certainly make a profit.
I am in my seventies…I have lived in my home for over 30 years…no plan to give up my home…living here for as long as I can…I have a friend who is almost eighty…she bought her second home a few years ago…if your health is reasonably good…you enjoy cleaning…lol…go for it…♥️
I weekly stop at a small dairy. I bought some cream and cage free, free range chicken eggs on Friday. The lady following me said to me that she was amazed at my beautiful skin. I was in shock and I announced that I was 80 years old. I didn't know how to properly respond to that appraisal of my skin. The lady who I always greet by name and we talk personal things, picked up my box of eggs and cream and sauerkraut and walked it out to my car. I'm so thankful that I can love myself and appreciate the notice of strangers. The worker/friend of mine in the little dairy and I can talk about her daughter and her house. I'm thankful I have someone to share some of my personal stuff. I'm always alone but it is so amazing when the kindness of others gives me an unexpected lift of my spirit.
I am 84, and fortunate to have skin that others admire. I say a simple "Thank you" when I am complimented on it. Sometimes people ask about the products i use; and then I tell them. But "thank you' is enough to say, in my opinion.
That’s so nice! When I started my journey of being alone, the kindness of strangers helped me so much. I was treated so cruelly that a bit of sunshine meant so much.
I'm 75 and when I'm out and about and see one of my peers 60-75 looking good, I make it a point to go up to them and tell them. It could be clothing, it could be a haircut/style/color, anything. Life's too short and it always makes me feel good as well.
Moving back to California for my children was a bad decision. I was much happier running my own home & the up keep of mowing or snowblowing kept me in good shape. Then the pandemic shortly after getting here changed me. I'm struggling to put myself back together but I told myself for my health I have to make some changes. Not easy when you're set in your ways, but I'm doing it. Keep me in your prayers for success. Love you❤
I am on a similar path , getting out of an emotional rut re: unhealthy family dynamics. So we will walk together. I have made a step by step program for myself, called Creative Renewal with Abundant Opportunities. The resources are within us, and available...there for the looking and asking!
I live in Poland in Europe. And you make my life so much happier. Thank you for your kindness and wisdom. My mom died 2 years ago and miss her very much. But when I listen to you I feel you are my older sister I can look up to. I am 49 and my menopose I has just started. I am having difficult time sometimes. Warm greetngs from Zakopane in Poland
Greetings from a Canadian woman who has Polish grandparents! They came to Canada in 1912 from Lublin. My family appreciates the Polish food that our grandparents taught us to make, and some of the customs. Unfortunately, we were not taught the Polish language. So, you have a connection across the sea; and probably many others on this channel with Polish ancestry.
@@barbarakelly1916 Oh I am so happy to hear that! We are the nation of immigrants but also very proud people. Some part of my family went to USA in 1850s too. Long time ago. So I am happy that we can meet on this channel no matter where we are. ❤️
Another Polish girl here,love the channel although it’s hard not to get emotional at times and cry a little. Or maybe it’s a menopause knocking on my door too. Warm greetings from sunny Florida.
@@annadevore707oh I typically cry my eyes out watching her videos. I'm about to turn 48 and am already having a really hard time with aging and being alone... While I do love and appreciate her content, sometimes I wish she was a little bit more.. well real. It's a little bit too perfect if you ask me.. like I don't believe she does aging and being alone in the perfect upbeat way she's always presenting. I wish she would talk about the days where she's feeling incredibly lonely and depressed and feels hopeless. Because I am certain she has those as well... and this would be much more relatable than the always positive attitude she's presenting. I'm not buying it and wish she was more real about it, in order to be a little more relatable to her viewers. Because the truth is, most people do not handle aging and being alone as well as she's presenting it. Don't get me wrong I love her and her content, but I believe she's totally missing the mark here by not being more authentic about the negative that comes with aging and being alone.
As a 65 year old widow, I took to heart your comment about "you don't owe anybody your life". I have great children, but they are so sure on what is best for me. But only I know what is the path forward for me.
You’re like a fairy godmother or an awesome aunt. I’m only 38 years old, but I think often of what life will be like when I’m your age. I find your channel comforting and grounding. Thank you.
Hi Susan, really enjoy your videos, I've just turned 71 and I do feel that I'm becoming invisible! I was very attractive as a much younger woman, and I knew it! But I've gained weight in latter years and it has had a devastating effect on my self confidence. So thankyou, I will lose the extra pounds because I'm awsome!! I love your videos, watching from England!!! Xxx
Hello….I am 71 too. I am so grateful to still be here with my lovely family and friends around me. I certainly have had to deal with getting old er but decided it is just a state of mind. I am heavier, not as youthful and my husband left me for a younger version, but still manage to get around, lead a full life and stay relevant! I put my make up on every day…(even in Covid). It makes me feel wonderful and ready to face the day. I don’t slob around in old clothes but I do wear comfy but semi smart clothes. I love going to my local village coffee shop. I chat with people there or just sit and read. If the weather is bad I exercise at home. Sometimes I do feel guilty at just sitting in the afternoon, especially when it’s cold, reading or watching a film. But I reckon at 71 then it’s ok! Yes I have rare moments when I feel invisible but then I just ring a friend or see the family. I try and appreciate all these things around me and of course realise not everyone has family nearby. I hope you find peace and joy in the simple things in life. I have few razzmataz moments now ….but I do have many happy and content ones. Sending love to you and best wishes from England.
Your video addressed so much of what my life concerns are right now. I am 70 years old and going through a divorce. I'm in a senior studio apartment and I'm trying to decide if I should get a condo once my divorce is final. Also, needed a pep talk concerning weight, exercise, and generally taking care of myself. I've recently developed colitis and suffered a bout of Covid, so I think the stress I'm under has taken its toll. I spend my nights rehashing every mistake I made in life and can't seem to stop beating myself up. I'm just praying that once my life is settled and on a new path, I can finally find the peace of mind I deserve. Thank you for giving me hope on my darkest days.
Having come from a disordered childhood and some unhappy experiences, I found it easy to ruminate on the past and to blame myself and others for things. The best thought helping me is drawing a line on the Past (which we can't change) and to focus on the Present (which is what we can make, and really is all that we are sure of). Much can be done to counteract the bad things from the past. My late partner, who was a wonderful man, once asked me, "What kind of a work day do you want to have?" when I was thinking of changing jobs, adding ""You can accomplish amazing things". This mindset has carried me forward, focusing on the Present time and what I want, with confidence that I can achieve it (or much of it). His encouragement is a precious gift to me; and I hope to pass it on to you, and anyone who may need it.
You have been through a lot. Please consider seeing a physician and asking about antidepressant medication. It might help you sleep better and lessen the negative thoughts. You have my sincere sympathy, and I send you a virtual hug 🤗.
I am so sorry to hear you’re going through this tough time in your life. I have also been through this, although I was quite a bit younger. There is hope for the future. Live each day to its fullest.
There was a woman who once said that living at alone at 80 was a blessing in disguise after a lifetime of being married. Though married to the love of her life, she now was facing making her own choices, doing what she wanted, when she wanted and though fearful at first, she soon learned to enjoy her days. Life always brings us new season to live out and we just have to do it to the fullest.
Widowed at 48. Now, at the year of my 60th birthday, I can totally relate to your words. My life is my own and I am blessed beyond measure to have the choice/means to live it on my own. I can devote time, energy, and money to my children. I can’t imagine sharing a bathroom, much less a bed, with a man ever again. Women alone, give it time. You WILL learn to appreciate and value your “aloneness” in time!
You are a beautiful woman to almost be 69‼️ I’m 72 and I think I look as young as you do. I look forward to your weekly video. BTW , I’m widowed and live in my 4 bedroom home. I’ll only move if my only child moves away. He asked me if he moved with his family would I move too. I said OF COURSE . Where you go I go.
I wish i never sold my home. But i couldnt take care of the land. But my senior apt is much smaller, had to sell a lot. But i realized its time to downsize. It was hard due to emotional attachment but i chose what meant the most. Rest was just stuff no matter the sentimental meaning. I went thru having to clean out my mother in laws home, sell and give family ehat they wanted. The rest donated. Then my dads home. Then when my 1st husband of 30 yrs passed away, moved from one house to another. Then when i sold that home. So i knew the stress and headache it was. I didnt want my daughter to have to deal with that too when the good Lord calls me to rest. But a big part of me misses my home. So I'm trying to make this much smaller place a home. This was not supposed to be my life at this age, 67 yrs old. But many of us feel the same. Susan, your encouragement is priceless ❤
Dear Susan I have just come across your Chanel can’t believe there is someone with the same life story as me I have been maried three times now I know what love truly is next birthday I will have88 candles on my cake I have a very good diet and walk most days have enjoyed yoga and Pilates Susan I find myself smiling at you I feel so happy after watching you love to you and your little dog Xxxooo
Loving this video! About apt vs. small house living… As a 71 yr old widow, I have chosen to live in a cute little ground floor apt with an attached garage in a nice neighborhood in a mid size city. I enjoy making it look cute, cozy & like a reflection of me. If plumbing, AC, heat, power, water, appliances, or other item goes on the blink, all I have to do is call maintenance and they take care of it. When I owned a home, maintenance became more than I wanted to deal with. I like fresh flowers and veggies, so I buy them-often at the farmers market. I like to travel and come & go as I please, so I don’t have a pet. Both types of home choices have their pros & cons, but I have been happy here for six years & have no desire to move. I just shop resale shops and rearrange furniture and decor if I need a change! Hope this helps those who are on the fence, and best of luck to all of you!
Hi, Susan❣️ I'm 80 years young and also living by myself with my 6 cats. Lost my husband at 46 and never remarried. It took me years to get over his passing. Being a nurse I decided to work ex'tra shifts which helped a lot. I just retired 5 years ago, but now I have large vegetable garden in my backyard that I love to tend to so I'm thankful that my health keep me on my feet. Your videos are so refreshing and your Desi are a true gentleman and he just loves you and his backyard. Stay as beautiful as you are, Susan 💞 Luv from California 😘
I too lost my husband and soul mate at 46. I'm now 54. It has taken this long for people to stop suggesting I remarry. I'm ok just as I am. You have a soothing nature that comes across. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Me too! People wonder how I can be alone so much but truly, my home , my pets and my inner life of reading, crafts,etc seem to be so fulfilling to me. I moved away from my home state after half a century, and I moved to a village in the mountains and pine forests. I have herds of deer who visit my yard daily (until my dog runs them off), and I’m yards from a gorgeous lake. The thing I’ve found is that we can age into strength not weakness. It is within you regardless of your age. There will always be challenges and issues of course, but overall at 66 years old I can honestly say that I am happier now than I’ve ever was in my youth 😊
I can relate to everything you said about growing older, feeling out of the business of life, anxiety about the sands of time … Recently I was in the changing room with two other older ladies at the mammogram clinic. There was a locker for us to put our clothes in once we put on the wrap around hospital gown to wear into the mammogram machine room. We were joking about locking up our clothes and I said “if anyone really wants my old bra they can have it.” One of the ladies said she didn’t wear “fancy bras” anymore- she “gave that up.” I didn’t say anything but I felt that was very sad. I’m going to be 73 soon and I still love buying and wearing pretty bras and underwear. Like when I was a younger woman, this affirms to me my sense of my femininity and womanhood. It remains a fun and a secret pleasure. 😊
But I think it’s more important that we do whatever makes us who we are regardless of the judgement and opinions of others. Don’t care about fancy bras and panties? Love Victoria’s Secret? Either one is just fine because we get to choose for ourselves.
I love to see women older than myself (33) sharing their lives, experience and troubles alike! Very important to remember it won’t always be hard and it won’t always be easy. That’s life. Wishing you the best. Thank you for being here 😊
Susan, you are so right about the calorie counting. I have counted my calories ever since I was a young teenager and it really works for me. My beautiful mother went to Heaven this past June and this was my first Christmas without her. I thought I would be ok on Christmas but I wasn’t….. my heart ached for her and our happy Christmas’ together. Mom’s passing has really made me think about my own mortality and I am going to enjoy what life I have left with my loved ones. Tomorrow is never guaranteed …. it’s a precious gift from God. Love to you and Desi ❤
It’s only myself and Hubbie, we are now 65/66 and I have no family… my love is our dog and my garden, I’m lucky to be on 2.5 acres in gorgeous Tasmania, I throw myself into mowing, growing and nurturing the land, it makes me fulfilled and not lonely when working hard in the garden ❤. Love Desi ❤❤
Love seeing Desi having such fun. He is one lucky dog. I have always rescued dogs mostly adults and seniors and they had a wonderful life with my family. I rescued my current dog during covid and drove 3 hours one way to pick him up. He is an 8 year old husky shepherd mix who lived on the streets in northern Ontario Canada. He is by far the easiest most adaptable dog I have ever adopted. Well mannered and hasn't done anything wrong and loves everyone he meets. I am turning 70 next month and live in a small cabin by the lake . Moved here when I retired 5 years ago. I wasn't ready for apartment living at the time and love where I live except in the winter. I am not a fan of the cold and snow. I hire someone to blow out my driveway and cut my grass in summer. The property is very big and this helps. Cost of maintenance and mortgage is manageable but not a lot of extras for repairs when needed. There will come a time when I will likely need to move from here but I will be heart broken . Will miss the swans swimming by all summer, the hawks and eagles soaring above and the quiet. Hopefully that day will be a long way away. BTW I have lived alone for years and love it. Yes my dog helps get me through some days. My friends and family however are my tribe. Thank you Susan and Desi for bringing a little light into our lives each week.
Hi susan" Iove your videos" you always bring me inspiration " & I love your Desi " sweet & such a fun little guy,I have to darling cats" who keep my world going" they can be bossy at times,but lots of love " your very special lady"smart a very creative which I love being creative I'm a designer for most of my life, always makeing something,I do weddings,not much any longer , I live alone and thank you for all your inspiring ways & love, treat your self special you deserve it all... .Cheryl
What kind of company doesn't want to be associated with a compassionate and caring story about helping seniors? Bravo to you for standing your ground and bah-bye to the company
You look beautiful! My niece recently asked me why I cared about what I look like anymore. I have always cared and I have always been pretty. I am almost 64 and people still tell me I am beautiful. I have always wanted to look the best I can look for my whole life. I don't believe nor do I want to ever stop striving for that. It makes people feel good about themselves.
Right? I’ve been constantly told by my fam that I’m not pretty, don’t even try, you’re too old, etc. But, other people tell me the opposite. I like to look nice and wear makeup. I clean up well. I think that those who really care about you will be supportive and kind to you. You are you. Right?
I too try my hardest to look my best. It is getting a bit harder to look in the mirror when I feel like I’m in my 40’s but that darn mirror tells the truth. 😉☺️.
Susan, I’ve been watching you for several years now and I don’t comment often. I got a divorce after a long marriage in 2006 and am 67 years old. Your videos have encouraged me, made me laugh, made me cry, made me feel like I have a friend who understands me. I’m still single but have reconnected with the love of my teen years!! I’m so happy. I was ready and loved myself once again. Thank you thank you for all that you’ve given of yourself to help us all. Sending you love today! Btw I truly am so thrilled that you now have your own little house! It’s beautifully YOU!
Hi Susan, This is such a lovely episode. I appreciate the thought you put into your content. I know it’s a lot of work to craft interesting videos. Thank you! - Belinda
I'm sure it is menopause weight gain. It happens to almost all of us as we age. Just look around at women AND men in their 60's and beyond. Our body shapes change as fat appears and muscle disappears. Even, gasp, Valerie Bertinelli has experienced this. She has had to come to terms with her weight after always being slim.
My dear Susan, I would've guessed your age to be 45. I've been watching you since, well years now! You have only gotten better, especially since you moved into your new home. You and Desi are so much fun to watch. 💖 You are the best interior decorator and you could be a decorator forever. 💖God bless you and Desi, we love you both. Keep on living your life the way you want.💖💖💖💖💖
I adore you. I truly do. I have depended on my looks my whole life as a model. It's been very hard aging when so much of your soul is reflected in your face and body. Thank you for your kindness, love, advice and constant angel 😇 quality that hoovers around you. 🎉❤You have helped me in more ways than you can ever know Dear Sweetheart. BELLA THE Equestrian ❤❤❤
Next week I will be turning 70. Also, next week will be my last week of radiation. I feel like I should celebrate extra for turning a new decade and for making it successfully thru breast cancer treatment. Every day we live, we have something to be thankful for. I look forward to your videos each week. They are inspiring and we have a lot of things in common. I’m in very northern IN so the cold and snow is here too. Happy birthday next week. I hope you have a wonderful day.
Boy was this video timely. I have been feeling like a frumpy old woman lately. I turned 77 in October; and I have gained weight in this move to Arizona. I needed to hear what you have to say. I have to lose this weight before it begins to cause health problems. I want a haircut and I want to buy some lovely things after I lose the at least 20 pounds I gained. I am worth it and I am so worthy. Susan thanks for being our cheerleader; and coach, and for always being real!!!!Hugs to you and sweet Desi! I think I will also count calories, as nothing else seems to work.
Some years ago, I went to the Mayo Clinic website and worked out a weight loss plan that had a calorie count and recommendations of food portions for weight loss. There was/is a chart of food portions and their calorie count. Once you get used to measuring the portions and following the plan, there is no need for cumbersome calorie counting. For me, it is much easier to follow the plan when not constantly doing math. Just a thought, and my experience!
Yes Susan I think finances is the main consideration when you're in your 70s and deciding whether to go small house or apartment ! If you can afford a home and make the payments and the insurance in the utilities comfortably, the next song is your health ! Can you physically keep the house clean can you physically do the yard work, can you physically do the maintenance and the upkeep on owning a home..... That's important I left my home to my children and I moved into a one-bedroom large apartment at age 70.. I loved my home but it was too much work for me.... I love my small apartment I love the ease of maintaining the inside of it, and I can still go back to my old house that the kids now own and work in the garden when I am able to which is not very often any longer..... So there's a lot of things to consider as we get older finance being the number one and health being number two!!!
I will be 65 next Friday, and I remember thinking how far away this age was not too long ago. I’ve learned so much over the years. My wonderful parents and grandparents were great teachers and taught me to be a strong independent person so when life was tough I could take care of myself. I raised my daughter after divorce, put her through college, took care of my parents in their later years, and after they passed I went to college and graduate school to become a social worker. I have paid my house off, and I plan to work several more years before I retire. There are bumps along the way, but life is good!!! I love the tall votive candle holders and lovely flowers on your mantle!
I am 63 years old and on my own. I had a very bad week looking after my 85 year old Mom. Just watching your video, let me know that I had a bad week but still a wonderful life. ❤Thank you for the reminder
I lost my mom when I was thirty, I suggest you be grateful you’ve had yours this long and not complain. I’m sure mom had “ bad” weeks raising you and didn’t complain.
She never said she wasn’t grateful to have her mom, just that it was a bad week. You don’t know what taking care of her mom entails. The physical demands when your loved one can no longer dress themselves, walk, feed themselves or use the bathroom without assistance. It is a demanding, exhausting labor of love. She is actually doing the work of taking care of her mother day in and day out. It’s odd to hear someone criticize someone else for doing a job you never did yourself. You lost your mother young which is a tragedy. Try to have a little grace for the person who is in her 60’s and is doing the hard job of caregiving for her mother instead of putting her in a nursing home. @@marydumois4242
Hi, Susan! No pets for me. I told my adult children that I didn't even want a goldfish. However, I love, love, love children! I am watching a friend's 8-year old son as I write this. I also love being a grandmother. My grands bring me true joy. ❤️ 💙 💜
Hi friends, my cat is bringing me so much joy, I still work full time from home, I look out over the sea and today a bush buck came to eat some fruit under the deck of my garden flat. I said hello to my neighbor who is from Germany. I listen to church services on my computer and some Hebrew worship songs. I would say I am quite happy.
What a lovely, thoughtful, inspiring video. We lost our precious little dog last month, she was fifteen years old. Heartbreaking for us. Thank you for showing yourself without make-up: I appreciate how real you are. I admire you for braving the snow; I am spoiled living on the coast of California. My strategy for maintaining my weight: I weigh myself every day, and that determines how much chocolate I eat each evening! Maintaining at 114 pounds, and haven’t gained any weight in fifteen years. My doctor says I’m his only patient who has done so. Thank you!
Your video got me thinking how I do beat myself up sometimes. I'm 78 and like you I will always take care of myself. I watch my weight and work out, and have great health. Also, the yard helps keep me in shape. I enjoy clothes and looking nice, however sometimes I feel bad about myself. I think I could have done better with my life, and think about the times I messed up. I wonder what would've happened if I traveled a different route. But watching your video made me start thinking about what I have accomplished. I worked most of my life, and bought my own home. I have a decent pension and social security. I have 3 children who have grown up to be wonderful, kind and successful despite having no help from their father. I have 5 beautiful grandchildren. I thank God for the life I have, and realize I have a lot more than many. Thank you for helping me see what a great life I do have that I'm so grateful for.
I just ran across your video today and I am absolutely loving your philosophy about life. I don’t know why you are alone in this world. You are absolutely beautiful inside and outside. I hope you still feel the need to comfort us out here to be a better version of ourselves. Please keep us in your circle of friends. I’m a young 75 but lately I’ve been feeling my age. You inspire me!!! I feel so much better after listening to you! God Bless you dear heart!
Ill be 68 on feb 29 and i will be alone but ill treat myself to a day of fun after all its my birthday and it only comes every 4 years!😊 theirs nothing wrong with being alone if your your best friend! Thanks for the video Susan ! 😊
I’ll be 71 years old in a few days. My husband has Alzheimer’s and lives in a memory care and I am very hands on taking care of him. I had a total knee replacement in July last year that still hurts. I just found out that I broken my foot in November (dropped a can on my foot). Now I have to wear a boot that looks like Frankenstein’s foot. But this coming Friday I’m going on a 7 day cruise with my sister! Why not….i can have a good time and enjoy despite my problems!!!! Love you and Desi. My Desi is a brother and sister cat, Bud and Sissy!
Thank you for uploading your lovely video I'm in West Cornwall UK and I usually grab a cup of tea on a Sunday morning and listen to your latest post .I am dealing with my 86 year old father who has advanced Alzheimer's Dementia. he has always been the person I go to for advice and I have lost him prematurely.. It is like grieving for a person before they have passed on. I am lucky that I have good friends to uplift me. Friends are so very important. I love the calm funny advice that you give and your posts are very uplifting and really help with getting older and dealing with change. At 55 I look at you and I don't fear getting older. I too make the best of myself with make up clothes etc (Ebay finds) and it keeps me grounded to who I have always been, We change but the young girl in us is still there, Thank you to you and little Desi for brightening up my Sunday.
OH I am so sorry you are going through this with your father...a long good-bye...you are so right...that young girl is always inside us...the fun and curiosity and innocses of who we used to be...love to you and please take care of yourself! You are a hero.
I'm 75. I was a singer and entertainer most of my life. I love to watch your videos. Continue to be you. A lot of wisdom come with out age. Our fur babies, grand children and great ground children, what incredible gifts. Your strength comes through with your gentle spirit. Keep being transparent. You make a difference. Love your sense of humor.
Thank you for the video. I needed it this week. I have been sad most of the week alone and lonely. I am 73 and all of my immediate family has passed . I am the only one left oh how I miss my parents and siblings . I am really happy in my apartment the thing about owning house was I could never find anyone to help with something small. I love Desi he is the sweetest boy. Take care it going up to 25 tomorrow a tropical heat wave !!
@@barbarakelly1916 I’m wondering how we can start some kind of online place for those of us who are in the same position to be able to connect with each other . 🤔 .
Right behind you, 69 in 4 months. Loss is a big factor now, just lost my older sister to Alzheimer’s last week, my son & nephew in recent years. Dear friends into assisted living. Our beloved pup. Ready to downsize (again) for the 4th time in 10 years. New health issues for my husband. Sometimes it’s difficult to find that sunny day amid all this stormy weather. Your videos do make me smile tho & sometimes that’s all I need, if only for a few minutes. Hugs & love to you & Desi.
I needed this tonight. Thank you. Counting calories. I did that years ago. Then they told us to stop. Making your home comfy and beautiful. I felt old today. I am only 70.
Freedom is more powerful than money. At this age, we have to be who we are and not be what a company wants to mold us. I have stayed in my house for the past 38 years and the acre that I have I would never be able to own again. Only 1/2 acre is maintainable and I love mowing the lawn and singing. The square footage is less than most 2 or three bedrooms and I don't want a common wall with anyone. Nature wraps around me, the glory and the peace are abundant. Apartments are well over my mortgage and there are no HOA fees. I love the peace and joy of returning to the things I love, knitting and other hobbies and cooking every single night. I surround myself with music and there is no neighbor that wouldn't want that volume turned down!!! I built this house in my twenties with my husband then, and designed it to be able to stay when I'm in my 60's (fast heading to 70). My roots here, choices of what to plant, when to shovel, when to mow... the freedom to choose keeps us young. Don't let anyone tell you what they think is best for you. We've done that the past 50 years or more!!! My entrepreneurial self has surfaced and happily create the income necessary. Be frugal, cook at home, it's all in your pantry, just look. God bless you Susan and Desi!!!!
Im 58, Flight Attendant, live alone, and love my single life. There are times of living in the past, of course, but generally, I feel much younger and get travel everywhere.
I remember when I noticed that time and birthdays change my life . I needed to move Bach to where I was born. I had a small number of family living there. I also knew that God had put that desire in my heart. Took me 2 years to have the move happen. I went through several months of planning to get an apartment and buy some things that I needed. Then after 1 year I found a home that suited my needs. All the time I had my sweet boy with me. Babe Ruth is a delightful companion today he is 13 years old and I am 83 . You remind me of myself. A Lady and her best friend. You and Desie are my inspiration. Thanks
Susan and Desi, you both are a ray of sunshine in a cloudy stormy world. I live alone with my four dogs and I'm 62 years old. I'm afraid I don't like to go out much, not that I'm a hermit or anything but there's great comfort in living alone and a feeling of safety. I love caring for my home and kids (my doggies). When I see your videos, I feel like I'm having a visit with a dear friend. I thank you for that. Sadly the world has become such a different place and people are so unapproachable. It's like people have forgotten how to laugh. Am I alone in these thoughts? Anyway keep up these wonderful videos you really do touch people's lives. I love your beautiful feminine whole being. Desi, we love you too❤
I am pretty much a hermit at 67 years old! It's just me and my 4 dogs and 4 cats! I agree the world has gone crazy!! I don't mind being at home at all nowadays!!!! I just make my home as warm and cozy as I can for me and my animals and just let the world go by❤❤❤🎉
Susan, I will be 68 tomorrow and it doesn’t bother me because I am so grateful for the gift of aging! You don’t look your age and I am told that I don’t either 😊 Thank you for your videos. ❤
Hey! 69 is the new "49" with added wisdom! You look stunning ! Great video! There is such power in standing up for your own principles! Good for you! You WIN! I have found the more grace I give myself, the more I like myself. It also has caused me to be a lot less darned judgemental to others! What a freedom to love people for who they are without built in expectations!
Susan, I think this was my favorite video I’ve watched you do! I turn 65 this Wednesday and am actually looking forward to this next chapter in my life. I take pride in my “outfits” and being different!😊. I am very comfortable in my own skin and after beating breast cancer 3 years ago embrace every day with a smile 😊
Thank you for being there for so many of us. I’ve watched you a little over a year & love your videos on such a variety of topics, very helpful, encouraging and real. Thank you.❤
I’m going to be 64 this year and I’m right there with you on all the issues about weight gain and accepting the changes in the mirror. I go back and forth between throwing up my hands and saying wth, and then saying no I refuse to give up. It still makes me feel good to look my best. Like you, I’ve never really found any diet to work other than counting calories. My little Daisy brings me so much joy. When I found her she was a dirty, scraggly little outdoor dog who was allowed to roam the neighborhood, and now she’s a pampered little princess who sleeps in bed between me and my husband. Life is good right now. Love your videos!
Hi Susan and Desi, it's so wonderful watching your video! It's 2:49am and this is kind of my weekend ritual - waiting for my weekly dose of beauty and joy. Thank you for that! Kisses and hugs, love from Serbia 🇷🇸❤️
Desi is such a cute fur baby! I know he is great company. I am 69 and am a widow and I have a mini pincher. Always enjoy all your videos!! Happy early Birthday!!🎉
Oh Donna hello from Ireland you have a little mini pinsher..Great characters..I've had a few,now a little black and tan boy and a little red girl.Enjoy your week ❤
I am 44, been divorced since 32. My last recent relationship was slowly taking my voice away and making me feel like I was walking on eggshells. It’s over, but I am not. I just started a UA-cam channel, and am loving it. I choose to focus on peace and happiness. I am so glad that I found your channel. ✨♥️
I’m 44, been married since I was 21yrs old. In the process of a separate headed towards divorce. 7 children, and finally I have the courage to walk away! I’m about to sub to your channel!
Today starts 11 weeks with sciatic issues. Third week in PT. Praying for relief soon. I’m still pushing forward every day, but it’s slow going. Love this channel & good for you for putting on your big girl pants. Blessing’s from Bethlehem, New Hampshire!❤
You look beautiful! Desi is so darn cute. Loved this video and the things you covered. I needed to hear it all. What an inspiration you are. We had snow & ice for almost 10 days so had cabin fever bad- finally we are thawing. Good for you to turn down the ad promo that was criticized. Such integrity! My life is challenging these days. I am a full time caregiver to my husband who has dementia. Most days i want to crawl under a rock- if not for our dog, I would.
I've had my share of sadness this year. Thankful for friends who see through my smile and reach out to lift me up and encourage me. Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!
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Today is my 74th birthday. No cards, no cake, no nothing but me at home.
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 I'm 74 in August.
Happy Birthday! 🎊🎉🎈
HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATHLEEN. Maybe splurge on yourself, treat self to rare treat. If it's late now. Do a delayed special day tomorrow.
🎉 Happy Birthday - 🎂🎁🎉 my this year bring you many blessings &lead you on a path of many happy returns of the day.
I got divorced at 30 and am now 63. I never missed not getting remarried. I love being single. I have my own house grow a massive flower garden every year and generally have a nice life.
I totally hear you 👏🏼 u became a single mum at 37 ... went back to school became a nurse, bought my own place, raised 3 wonderful humans and now I'm 61 & I love this phase ! I'd never remarry 😊 love my own home and my grandies ... enough for me
I agree I’ve been divorced 30 years now and never wanted to be a couple again. Happy alone ❤
60 and I would remarry if God presented that possibility
I am 62 and omg I have been single for 20 years. I dated a few years….I Love My Life Alone but I am not lonely at all. 💛💖
60 - never married - lived in a condo for some 26 years just bought a house on an acre and a half - best decision ever- Love my house and my big yard
I love this channel. I will be 76 in March and am so blessed to reach 75. I survived cancer at age 32. On Christmas Eve I was in a car accident that totaled my car and then two days later I picked up something that was going around and had pneumonia but God has looked after me and taken great care of me. I feel very blessed.
I too love this channel! You have angels walking next to you, MyFriend! SO happy to read you're here and healthy!
Amen
So happy you’re feeling well now!
God definitely was looking out for you. I’ll be 76 on the last day of March. We still have a lot of living to do. Be well.
God bless you. 😇🙏😇
Dear Susan
I accidentally ran across your feed... I am 67 years old and lived with my BF for 10 years...he was an alcoholic...then he had a stroke and it was a nightmare.... Got him healthy again and he went right back to self destruction.I could NOT do it again.... I left with just my dog.... I am living in a nice studio (tiny) and am completely starting over...EVERYTHING.. I am like a deer in headlights...You have made me not feel so alone..SERIOUSLY? single at 67? NOW WHAT????
I know what you’re saying. It’s like… what is the plan? Find a place? Hopefully they will like me at my new job. It’s so overwhelming at times. Just trying to make it hrough, mentally, one day at a time.
May be"right" but it certainly is NOT easy, changing my entire life
I will be 67 in a month. Stuck in Louisiana crying for island life, but afraid to go back…I can not afford it anymore!!!
But, I have been alone since 1998, widowed . I had two long relationships, but both were so emotionally detached!
@lisapursel932 when I separated from my ex 20+ yrs age it was scary & I felt 'frozen' in place. Then I gave myself permission to consider going back to the marriage & suddenly the wide world of an unknown future wasn't scary anymore. No way could my life alone be worse than THAT marriage. Also, taking as long as it took to heal before trying to rebuild. Not that I knew what I was doing, I just did what my gut told me. Good luck.
@@lisapursel932You can do this!!! I promise you that it gets easier with each day that passes. I,also, rebuilt my life from "ground zero" after a 12-year marriage from HELL!!! to a man that literally brought me to gut-wrenching tears every day for years. Now? I wake up every single day embracing my single life and all the wonderful opportunities to experience a sense of joy and happiness that I did not even know was possible! I realize now that nothing feels as good as the FREEDOM! we get from being "released" from an unhealthy relationship.
Been a widow since 1995. Will be 74 years old this year. Love my life alone. I'm not lonely. People get the two confused. It's absolute bliss!
@marmeone 😊Don't let trolls get the best of you. I'm a widow as well since 2005. And you're right. There is a big difference between being lonely and alone. You can be with other people and feel alone or even with the partner as well. Keep your peace. ❤
@marmeone? Agreed 💯. Alone? = FREEDOM ❤
I never thought I would get to be this old - I'll be 80 in a few months. Two years ago, my world changed - again. It changed 14 years ago when I lost my husband and two years ago my cat, who was 19, got scared and bit me. They were working on our road and making a racket out there. My cat was asleep in my lap and the noise scared him. For some reason he just clamped down on my hand, which caused blood poisoning. I ended up in the hospital because in addition to my hand swollen up, my legs decided to not hold me up any more. Here we are two years later. My cat has since passed away and I am toddling around. But I feel very fortunate for the life that I have. I am thankful every day. My 29 year old grandson lives with me and watches out for me. I am so thankful for him, too. I don't hold any ill will against anyone. I am thankful for what I have. And believe it or not, I am thankful for all the You Tube channels that I watch. Because, here I am talking to all of you, Thank you all for allowing me to listen and talk to you. Yes, thank you very much. Sending Light and Love to All, especially Desi. ❤
Thank you for sharing The bumps in the road on your journey through life. You appear to be a very strong woman and a very kind and generous soul to not hold any grudges for the health conditions that you’ve had to endure. You are blessed to have your grandson to share your life with and I’m sure he truly loves you and is there to make sure you’re going to be OK. It is a blessing to have a family member that cares. Have a wonderful weekend. Hugs from Canada, Linda ❤😊
What a great grandson u have......I think its important to take care of those we love.
Thank you for your kindly thoughts and sharing them with us!
Hi, Maureen! I've been through quite a few harrowing experiences too, some of which left me alone (though without any relatives to help), and 'all' I had was a 'family' of friends online to help get me through those really rough times.
So I know what you mean when you say how important these You Tube channels are to you - because they allow you to stay connected - even in the solitude. (I'm right now in a room 'all alone' too, but still can communicate with you!)
Given the fact I've been able to do this so many times before, I can still recall a birthday party my best friend and mentor (another investigative journalist who was my colleague), gave me a few years back - before he passed.
I was 'totally' alone then too, but not - because we had many 'online friends' who came to the 'party' on his profile. So it was one of the best I ever had - bar none.
I'll chalk it all up to the written/typed word. It allows us to get to know someone better than all of the play-acting that goes on in the world now.
Folks even used to fall in love - through letters - and find best friends through them - like Julia Child and her friend Avis De Voto.
Kids don't know what they're now missing by only texting in short-hand. They're omitting all of the connection that comes with sharing 'Full' sentences.
Keep posting them and you'll never be alone anymore. This is the medium for bringing it all back once again...
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Susan, as I see it, you weren't fired! You just refused to lower your standards! I have the utmost respect for you! I love the way you think! ❤
I appreciate that!!!!!
So very true! There loss.
@@LittlePoetHappy Early Birthday, Susan. Thank you for always being so encouraging, especially today!! ❤️🎂🎊🎁🎉💃
You are so right! So proud of Susan!
Exactly my thoughts too!
I'm not far from turning 67. Today I had a little pity-party.....I just felt cold, clumsy, stupid, and uncreative. Thanks for your messages and positive attitude. I love the sound of your friendly voice. I needed to hear all this. You're a beautiful person inside and out.
I think there are times as we age that everyone feels that way. But look at the life experience you have and when needed it will come back to you, trust me. It's still there.
@@Cindy-bee Thank you for your words of encouragement. I have these days at times but normally I do realize it's all OK and I have much to be grateful for. Robert Frost has a great quote: "The best way out is always through."
Oh isn’t it horrible when we have a pity party? You just have to work through them and look around you. When I feel like that I realise how fortunate I am to have a comfy chair to sit in, a lovely snuggly bed to sleep in and food in the fridge. Then my pity turns to gratitude….for my lovely family and friends. It never lasts long and I try not to give it head room. Sending very best wishes to you from England.
@@jenniferevans5192 Yes, it hurts to be in that pity party but it's also cathartic when it's finally over and I realize what I've been blessed with. There's a time to allow one to feel somewhat sorry for themselves and have a good cry and a 'why me' attitude but it must not last too long or else we feel we are somehow a victim and that doesn't do anything for us. This is when we have to dig deep and pull out our given strength that sometimes lays dormant. We all have that strength we just need to exercise it more often and rely on it. Blessings to you and all women on here.
@@tracyd2598 Thanks for the love and the hugs! Right back atcha!
I just turned 71 and I'm a happy 10 year widow. I grew up believing that I was unlovable so I married 2 men who didn't know how to love. I'm loving myself now. It feels good. Glad you are happy too.
Happy Birthday! 🎂🎁🎈 Stay happy!
One man that can't love but two.? Better look at your contribution. So many men are labeled abusers. Every time I check them out, the woman just wanted out and needed a reason that can't be verified. My ex wife called me an abuser too. Ask her for details and she goes blank.
Wow same here! 🤗
@@georgesontag2192🤔
I grew up believing I was unlovable too, but instead of marrying wrong people, I've been alone all my 42 years. I sometimes wonder if my deep beliefs about myself keep men away somehow (never been asked out)
No ma’am you did not get fired, you quit a company who does not recognize your value and you took your 109k subs with you and I LOVE IT! Some people have to learn the hard way 🤷🏻♀️
I’m almost 73! I DO eat what I want! I’m not really hung up on how I look. I’m 73 and I look it. I have a little doggie who IS the love of my life! We just have to find our own joy
Well said 🙌
Agree 🐾❤
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I love this post. You are free indeed.
I have lost over 40 lbs. in less than a year. Pants size 1x to 16. Top 2x to a large. Long walks.
Intermittent fasting.
How does intermittent fasting help lose weight? I’m curious….congratulations on your weight loss 👍🏻👊🏻
Congratulations to you!
If does work very well, good for your liver too,
You are amazing and you sound like you have better energy now too!!! "treating" yourself with sugary foods and fast food is really a punishment to your beautiful body. Rock on!!!!!!!!
@@chrissieb3350 just UA-cam about IF
I’m 69 and wanted to drop some weight but not the way I did it. Caring for my husband who was terminal I barely ate and the weight dropped off fast. After he passed I did gain 10 lbs back because I was emotionally eating. I’m doing better now but it’s hard being a widow after 40 years together. Your channel helps me feel better 💕
I know how hard it is to lose one's husband. It gets better over time, but it's a huge adjustment. When l lost my husband of 38 years, decades ago, l felt broken. But now l just think how lucky l was to have him in my life as long as l did. I miss him still but when it's time for me to "go home", l will see him again.
@@heidibee501 I thank you so much for sharing with me. I do feel very blessed that I had my husband for 40 years. He took such good care of me and we had many happy times together that I remember. I miss him terribly, but I know he’s waiting for me. I lost my 18-year-old cat first and then four months later my husband this was all last year so it was the worst year of my life but I am moving on I’m living in my own apartment and I’m near my sister and her family and I’m trying to socialize.I’ll never date because I still feel married to my husband. I’m so sorry for your loss too. But we’re very lucky and they are waiting for us.
I've been in the process of making many personal changes in my life. It's difficult to leave people you love even though you know it's for your own good. I like listening to you find your way, it gives me strength to continue on my path. ❤
I'm 69, been a widow 8 years. It is a journey, different for all of us. Keep busy, keep faith, tough, but you learn so much about yourself.
@@meeperbird Thanks so much
I think I'd rather be alone and happy and at peace than to live with someone you fight and argue with all the time.
I’m sixty two and have never lived alone. Two years ago, my husband and soul mate was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Short of a miracle, there is no cure. As I face living alone, I have to admit, I’m scared. Really scared. I found much comfort and reassurance in your video. Thank-you so much and may God bless you. ❤️
2 years ago I got hurt at work. Lost job insurance now can’t wok. Then a year later I lost my husband after 44 years of marriage. It’s hard. He haloed me though my illness therapies ect. Now I have to do it ALL by myself plus trying to learn everything he did too. House repairs the hardest part. With my TBI it takes me longer to do things but I’ve moving alone. I just can’t let me get overwhelmed. Hardest part is self care
@@hummingbird7713…🙏🙏🙏 ♥️
I’m so very sorry. ❤
Blessing to you and your hubby 🤗
As a widow, my heart goes out to you. My practical advice is to be brave, make every day the best it can be, and get your financial house in order. I pray and believe God will give you the physical, mental, & emotional strength you will need if you ask. Big hug!
I’m 62yo, retired a couple of years ago, got divorced, and downsized. Living my best life. I feel very blessed. God is my companion.
Are you relieved to be divorced? I am totally estranged from my husband even though we live under the same roof
@@myvoice32 Laurie - you DESERVE to live in a sanctuary. I am divorced & it is so much better than feeling a pit in your stomach because the man there does not love you.💝
@@davisholman8149 Thank you … may your day be blessed
Susan! You didn’t get fired! You fired them! They will be calling you back! Watch and see! You are beautiful and fabulous! You are one of my heroes!
So true! I was thinking the same.
Thank you!!!!
A woman of integrity is so powerful, beautiful, and drawn to. Proud of you!
Dear LittlePoet, I just turned 74....I have a condo in the Historic District....I have no mortgage, paid off....no debt...no vehicle, as I can walk to shop, or just to Downtown....condo fee takes care of snow removal ,and maintenance.....1273 sq. ft....surrounded by exposed brick,
perhaps 300 degrees...also granite foundation walls, both north, and south walls....well, as an artist, and an Interior Designer, happy
to have days that go by, without speaking with another being....content...
Hoa fees?
As someone who's in her late 40s, and who has lived by themselves for eight years, your words perhaps saved and sung to me. Thank you for telling your audience to "put down the sword" and to love ourselves.
I lost my dog last summer after eleven years. You may have noticed how much I love Desi ❤ and that’s why. I love that you share him with us. It’s helped me in my grief.
I lost my dog last year too. Seeing your dog brings me joy😍
Same here. Seeing cute little Desi helps me, too. We miss our little buddies. Hugs.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my dog last summer. 💔
Oh dear....are you going to get another puppy?
All of you who have lost your dog's please get another dog! People who have dogs live 7 year longer than people who don't!
I just moved in to a house at 76. I was living in independent apartment complex for “active seniors”. I hated it… not for me! It was so depressing. We’ll, I can’t wait to start planting tomatoes and okra. Thinking of getting a little Desi. 😂
I agree with you, having moved from a "seniors building" with its atmosphere that dragged me down, to a house in a neighborhood with a good mixture of young and old. The children here make me smile.
Hi - Can you tell us what you hated about the independent apartment? I live in a house now but think about going to independent living like 20 years from now (they kind where you get good food a long with your rent). The main thing that worries me is rent increases but I thought it would be a good way to be around people and also make sure I eat healthy meals. I live in a 55 plus home community now and like it very much but thought it would get hard in my 80's. I would love to hear your experience.
Hi Susan! I am so glad you didn't cut out the beautiful story of your neighbor who cooks for seniors for this extra💲. Oh Desi is so adorable and brings us all such joy! 😊💚
That's what they were mad about? Unbelievable.
Everything in your video is gorgeous: your face, your hair, your voice, your house, the wonderful footage of snow, your words, your wisdom. I have written in my diary: "Put down the sword", and will live by it. Thank you so much!
I am 66 years old. Started thinking that I was too old to purchase my own home...until I watched your video about how you saved for your home. Thank you for the inspiration
You go, girl! Why not pay your own mortgage rather than your landlord's? Plan on having an emergency account for any repairs that come up. When you someday decide to sell, you will be so glad you decided to buy, because you will almost certainly make a profit.
I am in my seventies…I have lived in my home for over 30 years…no plan to give up my home…living here for as long as I can…I have a friend who is almost eighty…she bought her second home a few years ago…if your health is reasonably good…you enjoy cleaning…lol…go for it…♥️
I weekly stop at a small dairy. I bought some cream and cage free, free range chicken eggs on Friday. The lady following me said to me that she was amazed at my beautiful skin. I was in shock and I announced that I was 80 years old. I didn't know how to properly respond to that appraisal of my skin. The lady who I always greet by name and we talk personal things, picked up my box of eggs and cream and sauerkraut and walked it out to my car. I'm so thankful that I can love myself and appreciate the notice of strangers. The worker/friend of mine in the little dairy and I can talk about her daughter and her house. I'm thankful I have someone to share some of my personal stuff. I'm always alone but it is so amazing when the kindness of others gives me an unexpected lift of my spirit.
I am 84, and fortunate to have skin that others admire. I say a simple "Thank you" when I am complimented on it. Sometimes people ask about the products i use; and then I tell them. But "thank you' is enough to say, in my opinion.
you are right
You must have sparkle in your eyes ⭐️
That’s so nice! When I started my journey of being alone, the kindness of strangers helped me so much. I was treated so cruelly that a bit of sunshine meant so much.
I'm 75 and when I'm out and about and see one of my peers 60-75 looking good, I make it a point to go up to them and tell them. It could be clothing, it could be a haircut/style/color, anything. Life's too short and it always makes me feel good as well.
Moving back to California for my children was a bad decision. I was much happier running my own home & the up keep of mowing or snowblowing kept me in good shape. Then the pandemic shortly after getting here changed me. I'm struggling to put myself back together but I told myself for my health I have to make some changes. Not easy when you're set in your ways, but I'm doing it. Keep me in your prayers for success. Love you❤
You CAN do it! Keep moving forward in ways that make *you* happy!
I am on a similar path , getting out of an emotional rut re: unhealthy family dynamics. So we will walk together. I have made a step by step program for myself, called Creative Renewal with Abundant Opportunities. The resources are within us, and available...there for the looking and asking!
@@barbarakelly1916 thank you Barbara. Lets encourage one another. 👍❤
I live in Poland in Europe. And you make my life so much happier. Thank you for your kindness and wisdom. My mom died 2 years ago and miss her very much. But when I listen to you I feel you are my older sister I can look up to. I am 49 and my menopose I has just started. I am having difficult time sometimes. Warm greetngs from Zakopane in Poland
Greetings from a Canadian woman who has Polish grandparents! They came to Canada in 1912 from Lublin. My family appreciates the Polish food that our grandparents taught us to make, and some of the customs. Unfortunately, we were not taught the Polish language. So, you have a connection across the sea; and probably many others on this channel with Polish ancestry.
@@barbarakelly1916 Oh I am so happy to hear that! We are the nation of immigrants but also very proud people. Some part of my family went to USA in 1850s too. Long time ago. So I am happy that we can meet on this channel no matter where we are. ❤️
Another Polish girl here,love the channel although it’s hard not to get emotional at times and cry a little.
Or maybe it’s a menopause knocking on my door too.
Warm greetings from sunny Florida.
@@annadevore707oh I typically cry my eyes out watching her videos. I'm about to turn 48 and am already having a really hard time with aging and being alone...
While I do love and appreciate her content, sometimes I wish she was a little bit more.. well real. It's a little bit too perfect if you ask me.. like I don't believe she does aging and being alone in the perfect upbeat way she's always presenting. I wish she would talk about the days where she's feeling incredibly lonely and depressed and feels hopeless. Because I am certain she has those as well... and this would be much more relatable than the always positive attitude she's presenting. I'm not buying it and wish she was more real about it, in order to be a little more relatable to her viewers. Because the truth is, most people do not handle aging and being alone as well as she's presenting it.
Don't get me wrong I love her and her content, but I believe she's totally missing the mark here by not being more authentic about the negative that comes with aging and being alone.
As a 65 year old widow, I took to heart your comment about "you don't owe anybody your life". I have great children, but they are so sure on what is best for me. But only I know what is the path forward for me.
I am 43, and I intend to stay single and peaceful.
You'll have a lot less drama in your life...Im 56, did it all, tried to be normal, getting married....a nightmare....
You’re like a fairy godmother or an awesome aunt. I’m only 38 years old, but I think often of what life will be like when I’m your age. I find your channel comforting and grounding. Thank you.
You are beautiful now and you will be beautiful 40 years from now...I guarantee it!!!
I am younger also but saw this in my feed and decided to watch it..
I am 25 going on 26 and I love Susan and Desi!
Me too in my 30s!! Hi there
Hi Susan, really enjoy your videos, I've just turned 71 and I do feel that I'm becoming invisible! I was very attractive as a much younger woman, and I knew it! But I've gained weight in latter years and it has had a devastating effect on my self confidence. So thankyou, I will lose the extra pounds because I'm awsome!! I love your videos, watching from England!!! Xxx
Hello….I am 71 too. I am so grateful to still be here with my lovely family and friends around me. I certainly have had to deal with getting old er but decided it is just a state of mind. I am heavier, not as youthful and my husband left me for a younger version, but still manage to get around, lead a full life and stay relevant! I put my make up on every day…(even in Covid). It makes me feel wonderful and ready to face the day. I don’t slob around in old clothes but I do wear comfy but semi smart clothes. I love going to my local village coffee shop. I chat with people there or just sit and read. If the weather is bad I exercise at home. Sometimes I do feel guilty at just sitting in the afternoon, especially when it’s cold, reading or watching a film. But I reckon at 71 then it’s ok! Yes I have rare moments when I feel invisible but then I just ring a friend or see the family. I try and appreciate all these things around me and of course realise not everyone has family nearby. I hope you find peace and joy in the simple things in life. I have few razzmataz moments now ….but I do have many happy and content ones. Sending love to you and best wishes from England.
exactly my story
Your video addressed so much of what my life concerns are right now. I am 70 years old and going through a divorce. I'm in a senior studio apartment and I'm trying to decide if I should get a condo once my divorce is final. Also, needed a pep talk concerning weight, exercise, and generally taking care of myself. I've recently developed colitis and suffered a bout of Covid, so I think the stress I'm under has taken its toll. I spend my nights rehashing every mistake I made in life and can't seem to stop beating myself up. I'm just praying that once my life is settled and on a new path, I can finally find the peace of mind I deserve. Thank you for giving me hope on my darkest days.
Having come from a disordered childhood and some unhappy experiences, I found it easy to ruminate on the past and to blame myself and others for things. The best thought helping me is drawing a line on the Past (which we can't change) and to focus on the Present (which is what we can make, and really is all that we are sure of). Much can be done to counteract the bad things from the past.
My late partner, who was a wonderful man, once asked me, "What kind of a work day do you want to have?" when I was thinking of changing jobs, adding ""You can accomplish amazing things".
This mindset has carried me forward, focusing on the Present time and what I want, with confidence that I can achieve it (or much of it). His encouragement is a precious gift to me; and I hope to pass it on to you, and anyone who may need it.
Once you weather this storm, you can move forward. Wishing you happiness.
You have been through a lot. Please consider seeing a physician and asking about antidepressant medication. It might help you sleep better and lessen the negative thoughts. You have my sincere sympathy, and I send you a virtual hug 🤗.
Thank you for great advice!@@kysmik8214
I am so sorry to hear you’re going through this tough time in your life. I have also been through this, although I was quite a bit younger. There is hope for the future. Live each day to its fullest.
There was a woman who once said that living at alone at 80 was a blessing in disguise after a lifetime of being married. Though married to the love of her life, she now was facing making her own choices, doing what she wanted, when she wanted and though fearful at first, she soon learned to enjoy her days. Life always brings us new season to live out and we just have to do it to the fullest.
Widowed at 48. Now, at the year of my 60th birthday, I can totally relate to your words. My life is my own and I am blessed beyond measure to have the choice/means to live it on my own. I can devote time, energy, and money to my children. I can’t imagine sharing a bathroom, much less a bed, with a man ever again. Women alone, give it time. You WILL learn to appreciate and value your “aloneness” in time!
I’m realizing that I’m stepping into that reality. work, then home to do what I want. No one to give me negative feedback. lol
Beautiful dog! Dogs make life worth living for those of us who have no children 🙏🏼💕
You are a beautiful woman to almost be 69‼️ I’m 72 and I think I look as young as you do. I look forward to your weekly video. BTW , I’m widowed and live in my 4 bedroom home. I’ll only move if my only child moves away. He asked me if he moved with his family would I move too. I said OF COURSE . Where you go I go.
You are so sweet! I see every single wrinkle and sag!!! But is' ok...I am so happy to be alive!! Love to you always, Susan & Desi
I wish i never sold my home. But i couldnt take care of the land. But my senior apt is much smaller, had to sell a lot. But i realized its time to downsize. It was hard due to emotional attachment but i chose what meant the most. Rest was just stuff no matter the sentimental meaning. I went thru having to clean out my mother in laws home, sell and give family ehat they wanted. The rest donated. Then my dads home. Then when my 1st husband of 30 yrs passed away, moved from one house to another. Then when i sold that home. So i knew the stress and headache it was. I didnt want my daughter to have to deal with that too when the good Lord calls me to rest. But a big part of me misses my home. So I'm trying to make this much smaller place a home. This was not supposed to be my life at this age, 67 yrs old. But many of us feel the same. Susan, your encouragement is priceless ❤
I got rid of all my “stuff” too.
Dear Susan I have just come across your Chanel can’t believe there is someone with the same life story as me I have been maried three times now I know what love truly is next birthday I will have88 candles on my cake I have a very good diet and walk most days have enjoyed yoga and Pilates Susan I find myself smiling at you I feel so happy after watching you love to you and your little dog Xxxooo
Oh my gosh Susan, you playing with Desi on the steps made me laugh, he is SO cute the way he would run away and come back and peek around the door😆
Loving this video! About apt vs. small house living… As a 71 yr old widow, I have chosen to live in a cute little ground floor apt with an attached garage in a nice neighborhood in a mid size city. I enjoy making it look cute, cozy & like a reflection of me. If plumbing, AC, heat, power, water, appliances, or other item goes on the blink, all I have to do is call maintenance and they take care of it. When I owned a home, maintenance became more than I wanted to deal with. I like fresh flowers and veggies, so I buy them-often at the farmers market.
I like to travel and come & go as I please, so I don’t have a pet.
Both types of home choices have their pros & cons, but I have been happy here for six years & have no desire to move. I just shop resale shops and rearrange furniture and decor if I need a change! Hope this helps those who are on the fence, and best of luck to all of you!
It sounds lovely! Someday if this house gets too much for be I may pursue what you have...but I shall always need a doggie :) Happy Tuesday!! xo Susan
Hi, Susan❣️
I'm 80 years young and also living by myself with my 6 cats. Lost my husband at 46 and never remarried. It took me years to get over his passing. Being a nurse I decided to work ex'tra shifts which helped a lot. I just retired 5 years ago, but now I have large vegetable garden in my backyard that I love to tend to so I'm thankful that my health keep me on my feet. Your videos are so refreshing and your Desi are a true gentleman and he just loves you and his backyard. Stay as beautiful as you are, Susan 💞 Luv from California 😘
I too lost my husband and soul mate at 46. I'm now 54. It has taken this long for people to stop suggesting I remarry. I'm ok just as I am. You have a soothing nature that comes across. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Bravo! for saying "NO". That story you shared was priceless - one of the most wonderful stories I have heard in a long time.
I’m 71 and I love love love living alone!! 👍🏼💯🌹
Me too! People wonder how I can be alone so much but truly, my home , my pets and my inner life of reading, crafts,etc seem to be so fulfilling to me. I moved away from my home state after half a century, and I moved to a village in the mountains and pine forests. I have herds of deer who visit my yard daily (until my dog runs them off), and I’m yards from a gorgeous lake. The thing I’ve found is that we can age into strength not weakness. It is within you regardless of your age. There will always be challenges and issues of course, but overall at 66 years old I can honestly say that I am happier now than I’ve ever was in my youth 😊
I can relate to everything you said about growing older, feeling out of the business of life, anxiety about the sands of time … Recently I was in the changing room with two other older ladies at the mammogram clinic. There was a locker for us to put our clothes in once we put on the wrap around hospital gown to wear into the mammogram machine room. We were joking about locking up our clothes and I said “if anyone really wants my old bra they can have it.” One of the ladies said she didn’t wear “fancy bras” anymore- she “gave that up.” I didn’t say anything but I felt that was very sad. I’m going to be 73 soon and I still love buying and wearing pretty bras and underwear. Like when I was a younger woman, this affirms to me my sense of my femininity and womanhood. It remains a fun and a secret pleasure. 😊
Good for you on wearing pretty under garments. Loving yourself is important too.
But don't get mammograms, very bad
Yep same here always been into pretty underwear.
@@user-iu3rq5pl1uno it’s about choice, you chose not to and that’s ok. Trust screening that’s recommended.
But I think it’s more important that we do whatever makes us who we are regardless of the judgement and opinions of others. Don’t care about fancy bras and panties? Love Victoria’s Secret? Either one is just fine because we get to choose for ourselves.
I love to see women older than myself (33) sharing their lives, experience and troubles alike! Very important to remember it won’t always be hard and it won’t always be easy. That’s life. Wishing you the best. Thank you for being here 😊
I'm 56 and my dearest friends are 65 and older. They are my older "sisters". I'm glad I found this channel.
Susan, you are so right about the calorie counting. I have counted my calories ever since I was a young teenager and it really works for me. My beautiful mother went to Heaven this past June and this was my first Christmas without her. I thought I would be ok on Christmas but I wasn’t….. my heart ached for her and our happy Christmas’ together. Mom’s passing has really made me think about my own mortality and I am going to enjoy what life I have left with my loved ones. Tomorrow is never guaranteed …. it’s a precious gift from God.
Love to you and Desi ❤
It’s only myself and Hubbie, we are now 65/66 and I have no family… my love is our dog and my garden, I’m lucky to be on 2.5 acres in gorgeous Tasmania, I throw myself into mowing, growing and nurturing the land, it makes me fulfilled and not lonely when working hard in the garden ❤. Love Desi ❤❤
Thank you, Miss Susan...
I'm m sorry for your loss.
Love seeing Desi having such fun. He is one lucky dog. I have always rescued dogs mostly adults and seniors and they had a wonderful life with my family. I rescued my current dog during covid and drove 3 hours one way to pick him up. He is an 8 year old husky shepherd mix who lived on the streets in northern Ontario Canada. He is by far the easiest most adaptable dog I have ever adopted. Well mannered and hasn't done anything wrong and loves everyone he meets.
I am turning 70 next month and live in a small cabin by the lake . Moved here when I retired 5 years ago. I wasn't ready for apartment living at the time and love where I live except in the winter. I am not a fan of the cold and snow. I hire someone to blow out my driveway and cut my grass in summer. The property is very big and this helps. Cost of maintenance and mortgage is manageable but not a lot of extras for repairs when needed. There will come a time when I will likely need to move from here but I will be heart broken . Will miss the swans swimming by all summer, the hawks and eagles soaring above and the quiet. Hopefully that day will be a long way away. BTW I have lived alone for years and love it. Yes my dog helps get me through some days. My friends and family however are my tribe. Thank you Susan and Desi for bringing a little light into our lives each week.
How beautiful like you I have rescue pets and a love of nature. God bless you and be happy
@@suzettecooper382 Thank you. As you already know rescue pets know you saved them and are grateful. So rewarding.
Hi susan" Iove your videos" you always bring me inspiration " & I love your Desi " sweet & such a fun little guy,I have to darling cats" who keep my world going" they can be bossy at times,but lots of love " your very special lady"smart a very creative which I love being creative I'm a designer for most of my life, always makeing something,I do weddings,not much any longer , I live alone and thank you for all your inspiring ways & love, treat your self special you deserve it all... .Cheryl
What kind of company doesn't want to be associated with a compassionate and caring story about helping seniors? Bravo to you for standing your ground and bah-bye to the company
You look beautiful! My niece recently asked me why I cared about what I look like anymore. I have always cared and I have always been pretty. I am almost 64 and people still tell me I am beautiful. I have always wanted to look the best I can look for my whole life. I don't believe nor do I want to ever stop striving for that. It makes people feel good about themselves.
I feel the same way you do. Why stop unless you get Sick and can’t do it anymore. Never give up
@@katemiller7874 I agree and as long as I can, I will take care of myself and look the best I can, except if you see me on Saturdays. LOL
Right? I’ve been constantly told by my fam that I’m not pretty, don’t even try, you’re too old, etc. But, other people tell me the opposite. I like to look nice and wear makeup. I clean up well. I think that those who really care about you will be supportive and kind to you. You are you. Right?
I too try my hardest to look my best. It is getting a bit harder to look in the mirror when I feel like I’m in my 40’s but that darn mirror tells the truth. 😉☺️.
Susan, I’ve been watching you for several years now and I don’t comment often. I got a divorce after a long marriage in 2006 and am 67 years old. Your videos have encouraged me, made me laugh, made me cry, made me feel like I have a friend who understands me. I’m still single but have reconnected with the love of my teen years!! I’m so happy. I was ready and loved myself once again. Thank you thank you for all that you’ve given of yourself to help us all. Sending you love today! Btw I truly am so thrilled that you now have your own little house! It’s beautifully YOU!
Hi Susan,
This is such a lovely episode. I appreciate the thought you put into your content. I know it’s a lot of work to craft interesting videos. Thank you! - Belinda
I am in my middle 60s and this weight gain has taken me by suprise. I am not dealing with it especially well.
I'm sure it is menopause weight gain. It happens to almost all of us as we age. Just look around at women AND men in their 60's and beyond. Our body shapes change as fat appears and muscle disappears. Even, gasp, Valerie Bertinelli has experienced this. She has had to come to terms with her weight after always being slim.
My dear Susan, I would've guessed your age to be 45. I've been watching you since, well years now! You have only gotten better, especially since you moved into your new home. You and Desi are so much fun to watch. 💖 You are the best interior decorator and you could be a decorator forever. 💖God bless you and Desi, we love you both. Keep on living your life the way you want.💖💖💖💖💖
Thankyou for being such a lovely lady
I adore you. I truly do. I have depended on my looks my whole life as a model. It's been very hard aging when so much of your soul is reflected in your face and body. Thank you for your kindness, love, advice and constant angel 😇 quality that hoovers around you. 🎉❤You have helped me in more ways than you can ever know Dear Sweetheart. BELLA THE Equestrian ❤❤❤
Next week I will be turning 70. Also, next week will be my last week of radiation. I feel like I should celebrate extra for turning a new decade and for making it successfully thru breast cancer treatment. Every day we live, we have something to be thankful for. I look forward to your videos each week. They are inspiring and we have a lot of things in common. I’m in very northern IN so the cold and snow is here too. Happy birthday next week. I hope you have a wonderful day.
Best wishes for a full recovery. For me remission in 2 years, 6 days but who is counting? 🎉❤
@@cathydefelice6807 Good luck for your continued recovery. I’m not counting down my treatment days either! 😉😊
Boy was this video timely. I have been feeling like a frumpy old woman lately. I turned 77 in October; and I have gained weight in this move to Arizona. I needed to hear what you have to say. I have to lose this weight before it begins to cause health problems. I want a haircut and I want to buy some lovely things after I lose the at least 20 pounds I gained. I am worth it and I am so worthy. Susan thanks for being our cheerleader; and coach, and for always being real!!!!Hugs to you and sweet Desi! I think I will also count calories, as nothing else seems to work.
Some years ago, I went to the Mayo Clinic website and worked out a weight loss plan that had a calorie count and recommendations of food portions for weight loss. There was/is a chart of food portions and their calorie count. Once you get used to measuring the portions and following the plan, there is no need for cumbersome calorie counting. For me, it is much easier to follow the plan when not constantly doing math. Just a thought, and my experience!
My mantra these days at 77 is," Because I want to". and "Because I love it". That's all I have to say if anyone asks me "why".
Yes Susan I think finances is the main consideration when you're in your 70s and deciding whether to go small house or apartment !
If you can afford a home and make the payments and the insurance in the utilities comfortably, the next song is your health ! Can you physically keep the house clean can you physically do the yard work, can you physically do the maintenance and the upkeep on owning a home.....
That's important I left my home to my children and I moved into a one-bedroom large apartment at age 70.. I loved my home but it was too much work for me.... I love my small apartment I love the ease of maintaining the inside of it, and I can still go back to my old house that the kids now own and work in the garden when I am able to which is not very often any longer..... So there's a lot of things to consider as we get older finance being the number one and health being number two!!!
I love these last two you tubes. It helps me at this time in my life.
I will be 65 next Friday, and I remember thinking how far away this age was not too long ago. I’ve learned so much over the years. My wonderful parents and grandparents were great teachers and taught me to be a strong independent person so when life was tough I could take care of myself. I raised my daughter after divorce, put her through college, took care of my parents in their later years, and after they passed I went to college and graduate school to become a social worker. I have paid my house off, and I plan to work several more years before I retire. There are bumps along the way, but life is good!!! I love the tall votive candle holders and lovely flowers on your mantle!
I am 63 years old and on my own. I had a very bad week looking after my 85 year old Mom. Just watching your video, let me know that I had a bad week but still a wonderful life. ❤Thank you for the reminder
I lost my mom when I was thirty, I suggest you be grateful you’ve had yours this long and not complain. I’m sure mom had “ bad” weeks raising you and didn’t complain.
@@marydumois4242 agreed
She never said she wasn’t grateful to have her mom, just that it was a bad week. You don’t know what taking care of her mom entails. The physical demands when your loved one can no longer dress themselves, walk, feed themselves or use the bathroom without assistance. It is a demanding, exhausting labor of love. She is actually doing the work of taking care of her mother day in and day out. It’s odd to hear someone criticize someone else for doing a job you never did yourself. You lost your mother young which is a tragedy. Try to have a little grace for the person who is in her 60’s and is doing the hard job of caregiving for her mother instead of putting her in a nursing home. @@marydumois4242
Hi, Susan! No pets for me. I told my adult children that I didn't even want a goldfish. However, I love, love, love children! I am watching a friend's 8-year old son as I write this. I also love being a grandmother. My grands bring me true joy. ❤️ 💙 💜
I will turn 70 in May, and it's a scary feeling, I'm blessed to get this far and feeling great as a retiree. Mental attitude is a key factor.
Hi friends, my cat is bringing me so much joy, I still work full time from home, I look out over the sea and today a bush buck came to eat some fruit under the deck of my garden flat. I said hello to my neighbor who is from Germany. I listen to church services on my computer and some Hebrew worship songs. I would say I am quite happy.
What a lovely, thoughtful, inspiring video. We lost our precious little dog last month, she was fifteen years old. Heartbreaking for us. Thank you for showing yourself without make-up: I appreciate how real you are. I admire you for braving the snow; I am spoiled living on the coast of California. My strategy for maintaining my weight: I weigh myself every day, and that determines how much chocolate I eat each evening! Maintaining at 114 pounds, and haven’t gained any weight in fifteen years. My doctor says I’m his only patient who has done so. Thank you!
So sorry for the loss of your little fur baby ❤
Love your posts. I look forward to seeing them every Saturday night.
Feeling kind of sad and lonely this evening. Great video my friend. Thank you for putting a smile on my face!!♥️🥰♥️🥰
Your video got me thinking how I do beat myself up sometimes. I'm 78 and like you I will always take care of myself. I watch my weight and work out, and have great health. Also, the yard helps keep me in shape. I enjoy clothes and looking nice, however sometimes I feel bad about myself. I think I could have done better with my life, and think about the times I messed up. I wonder what would've happened if I traveled a different route. But watching your video made me start thinking about what I have accomplished. I worked most of my life, and bought my own home. I have a decent pension and social security. I have 3 children who have grown up to be wonderful, kind and successful despite having no help from their father. I have 5 beautiful grandchildren. I thank God for the life I have, and realize I have a lot more than many. Thank you for helping me see what a great life I do have that I'm so grateful for.
I just ran across your video today and I am absolutely loving your philosophy about life. I don’t know why you are alone in this world. You are absolutely beautiful inside and outside. I hope you still feel the need to comfort us out here to be a better version of ourselves. Please keep us in your circle of friends. I’m a young 75 but lately I’ve been feeling my age. You inspire me!!! I feel so much better after listening to you! God Bless you dear heart!
Hello Sharon,how are you doing)
Ill be 68 on feb 29 and i will be alone but ill treat myself to a day of fun after all its my birthday and it only comes every 4 years!😊 theirs nothing wrong with being alone if your your best friend! Thanks for the video Susan ! 😊
Thank you for this video. Iam 61 and struggling getting older but then realized that if we can grow old it’s a privilege cause so many can’t.
I’ll be 71 years old in a few days. My husband has Alzheimer’s and lives in a memory care and I am very hands on taking care of him. I had a total knee replacement in July last year that still hurts. I just found out that I broken my foot in November (dropped a can on my foot). Now I have to wear a boot that looks like Frankenstein’s foot. But this coming Friday I’m going on a 7 day cruise with my sister! Why not….i can have a good time and enjoy despite my problems!!!! Love you and Desi. My Desi is a brother and sister cat, Bud and Sissy!
Have a wonderful time ...
How is your knee doing? I am pretty sure I will have to do it in a couple of years.
To say that we are all "so much in love with Desi" is an understatement ❤.
Thank you for uploading your lovely video I'm in West Cornwall UK and I usually grab a cup of tea on a Sunday morning and listen to your latest post .I am dealing with my 86 year old father who has advanced Alzheimer's Dementia. he has always been the person I go to for advice and I have lost him prematurely.. It is like grieving for a person before they have passed on. I am lucky that I have good friends to uplift me. Friends are so very important. I love the calm funny advice that you give and your posts are very uplifting and really help with getting older and dealing with change. At 55 I look at you and I don't fear getting older. I too make the best of myself with make up clothes etc (Ebay finds) and it keeps me grounded to who I have always been, We change but the young girl in us is still there, Thank you to you and little Desi for brightening up my Sunday.
OH I am so sorry you are going through this with your father...a long good-bye...you are so right...that young girl is always inside us...the fun and curiosity and innocses of who we used to be...love to you and please take care of yourself! You are a hero.
Thank you x@@LittlePoet
I'm 75. I was a singer and entertainer most of my life. I love to watch your videos. Continue to be you. A lot of wisdom come with out age. Our fur babies, grand children and great ground children, what incredible gifts. Your strength comes through with your gentle spirit. Keep being transparent. You make a difference. Love your sense of humor.
Thank you for the video. I needed it this week. I have been sad most of the week alone and lonely. I am 73 and all of my immediate family has passed . I am the only one left oh how I miss my parents and siblings . I am really happy in my apartment the thing about owning house was I could never find anyone to help with something small. I love Desi he is the sweetest boy. Take care it going up to 25 tomorrow a tropical heat wave !!
I’m happy to listen if you would like to chat 🙂
@@Jodyne Thanks for your expression of caring. Many would appreciate such an offer.
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I’m wondering how we can start some kind of online place for those of us who are in the same position to be able to connect with each other . 🤔 .
@booklover 6963 I am a bookworm too , I love munching my way through stacks of books devouring knowledge . 🐛📚
Right behind you, 69 in 4 months. Loss is a big factor now, just lost my older sister to Alzheimer’s last week, my son & nephew in recent years. Dear friends into assisted living. Our beloved pup. Ready to downsize (again) for the 4th time in 10 years. New health issues for my husband. Sometimes it’s difficult to find that sunny day amid all this stormy weather. Your videos do make me smile tho & sometimes that’s all I need, if only for a few minutes. Hugs & love to you & Desi.
You didn't get fired. You graciously stood for your values. I am so proud of you & thankful that I found your video this evening for the first time! ❤
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I needed this tonight. Thank you. Counting calories. I did that years ago. Then they told us to stop. Making your home comfy and beautiful. I felt old today. I am only 70.
Hello ,how are you doing?
Thank you for posting! You always talk about what's relevant to us! Hugs to you and Desi!
Bless your heart for not taking the bribe by that company…you set an example for us all…much success to you and Desi!!
Freedom is more powerful than money. At this age, we have to be who we are and not be what a company wants to mold us. I have stayed in my house for the past 38 years and the acre that I have I would never be able to own again. Only 1/2 acre is maintainable and I love mowing the lawn and singing. The square footage is less than most 2 or three bedrooms and I don't want a common wall with anyone. Nature wraps around me, the glory and the peace are abundant. Apartments are well over my mortgage and there are no HOA fees. I love the peace and joy of returning to the things I love, knitting and other hobbies and cooking every single night. I surround myself with music and there is no neighbor that wouldn't want that volume turned down!!! I built this house in my twenties with my husband then, and designed it to be able to stay when I'm in my 60's (fast heading to 70). My roots here, choices of what to plant, when to shovel, when to mow... the freedom to choose keeps us young. Don't let anyone tell you what they think is best for you. We've done that the past 50 years or more!!! My entrepreneurial self has surfaced and happily create the income necessary. Be frugal, cook at home, it's all in your pantry, just look. God bless you Susan and Desi!!!!
Im 58, Flight Attendant, live alone, and love my single life. There are times of living in the past, of course, but generally, I feel much younger and get travel everywhere.
I remember when I noticed that time and birthdays change my life . I needed to move Bach to where I was born. I had a small
number of family living there. I also knew that God had put that desire in my heart. Took me 2 years to have the move happen.
I went through several months of
planning to get an apartment and buy some things that I needed. Then after 1 year I found a home that suited my needs.
All the time I had my sweet boy with me. Babe Ruth is a delightful companion today he is 13 years old and I am 83 .
You remind me of myself. A Lady and her best friend. You and Desie are my inspiration. Thanks
Susan and Desi, you both are a ray of sunshine in a cloudy stormy world. I live alone with my four dogs and I'm 62 years old. I'm afraid I don't like to go out much, not that I'm a hermit or anything but there's great comfort in living alone and a feeling of safety. I love caring for my home and kids (my doggies). When I see your videos, I feel like I'm having a visit with a dear friend. I thank you for that. Sadly the world has become such a different place and people are so unapproachable. It's like people have forgotten how to laugh. Am I alone in these thoughts? Anyway keep up these wonderful videos you really do touch people's lives. I love your beautiful feminine whole being. Desi, we love you too❤
You're not alone in these thoughts. I feel the same way!
I am pretty much a hermit at 67 years old! It's just me and my 4 dogs and 4 cats! I agree the world has gone crazy!! I don't mind being at home at all nowadays!!!! I just make my home as warm and cozy as I can for me and my animals and just let the world go by❤❤❤🎉
Susan, I will be 68 tomorrow and it doesn’t bother me because I am so grateful for the gift of aging! You don’t look your age and I am told that I don’t either 😊 Thank you for your videos. ❤
Wishing you a very happy 68th birthday!!! 🎈🎂🎁🎉
Happy Birthday 🎂
Hey! 69 is the new "49" with added wisdom! You look stunning ! Great video! There is such power in standing up for your own principles! Good for you! You WIN! I have found the more grace I give myself, the more I like myself. It also has caused me to be a lot less darned judgemental to others! What a freedom to love people for who they are without built in expectations!
Susan, I think this was my favorite video I’ve watched you do! I turn 65 this Wednesday and am actually looking forward to this next chapter in my life. I take pride in my “outfits” and being different!😊. I am very comfortable in my own skin and after beating breast cancer 3 years ago embrace every day with a smile 😊
HAPPY BIRTHDAY🎉
I hope you had a wonderful birthday, however you spent the day❤
Thank you for being there for so many of us.
I’ve watched you a little over a year & love your videos on such a variety of topics, very helpful, encouraging and real.
Thank you.❤
I’m going to be 64 this year and I’m right there with you on all the issues about weight gain and accepting the changes in the mirror. I go back and forth between throwing up my hands and saying wth, and then saying no I refuse to give up. It still makes me feel good to look my best. Like you, I’ve never really found any diet to work other than counting calories. My little Daisy brings me so much joy. When I found her she was a dirty, scraggly little outdoor dog who was allowed to roam the neighborhood, and now she’s a pampered little princess who sleeps in bed between me and my husband. Life is good right now. Love your videos!
Hi Susan and Desi, it's so wonderful watching your video! It's 2:49am and this is kind of my weekend ritual - waiting for my weekly dose of beauty and joy. Thank you for that! Kisses and hugs, love from Serbia 🇷🇸❤️
pozdrav za Srbiju iz Australie, Nole je upravo sada na terenu. xoxo
@@dinah13Dobro jutro Australiji 🇦🇺❤️🌏 Idemo dalje Nole 💪🏻🏸
Desi is such a cute fur baby! I know he is great company. I am 69 and am a widow and I have a mini pincher. Always enjoy all your videos!! Happy early Birthday!!🎉
Oh Donna hello from Ireland you have a little mini pinsher..Great characters..I've had a few,now a little black and tan boy and a little red girl.Enjoy your week ❤
I am 44, been divorced since 32. My last recent relationship was slowly taking my voice away and making me feel like I was walking on eggshells. It’s over, but I am not. I just started a UA-cam channel, and am loving it. I choose to focus on peace and happiness. I am so glad that I found your channel. ✨♥️
I’m 44, been married since I was 21yrs old. In the process of a separate headed towards divorce. 7 children, and finally I have the courage to walk away! I’m about to sub to your channel!
Today starts 11 weeks with sciatic issues. Third week in PT. Praying for relief soon. I’m still pushing forward every day, but it’s slow going. Love this channel & good for you for putting on your big girl pants. Blessing’s from Bethlehem, New Hampshire!❤
See Liebscher Bracht here on UA-cam for help w sciatica. I also went through that pain, Bracht has some great help for that!
You look beautiful! Desi is so darn cute. Loved this video and the things you covered. I needed to hear it all. What an inspiration you are. We had snow & ice for almost 10 days so had cabin fever bad- finally we are thawing. Good for you to turn down the ad promo that was criticized. Such integrity! My life is challenging these days. I am a full time caregiver to my husband who has dementia. Most days i want to crawl under a rock- if not for our dog, I would.
Hang in there. Hugs!
I feel like I’m sitting across the table from you ❤ Thank you for your love, your kindness, your wisdom ❤
I've had my share of sadness this year. Thankful for friends who see through my smile and reach out to lift me up and encourage me. Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!
You were in my feed tonight. I’m turning 60 this month. I’ve never thought about age till now. But I can honestly say, I’m happy ❤
I turned 40 now and I am very happy to be single. Your video makes me motivated to stay single forever, thank you❤
Me too!