These are what you do when a man ghost you, leaves you, disrespects you, divorces you or stops..

[@Jasminepsalm]

If you are not valued you are devalued…

[@konsciousKirk]

❤️❤️

[@keonadcarter5239]

Move On & Grow Up 👍🏾

[@ebonyg9632]

💯💯💯♥️

[@c.edwards5421]

I agree

[@chaylavienails5937]

So in a nut shell "move on" lml

[@jtwalkes]

Give people the same energy they give to you!!

[@RandalDuran]

I AGREE

[@RandalDuran]

I Agree

[@marcellabenjamin6449]

This actually just happened to me a few months ago. We were in a exclusive relationship which we both agreed on. We were dating for 7/8 months. After, spending a nice day together.. that weekend I heard nothing from him. I called him and he did not answer. He did not send a text or call. That night, I decided to move on and forward! ✌🏽

[@Golden-zo2cc]

Yup same had to move on

[@GODZKRE8TION]

@marcellabenjamin6449 @Golden-zo2cc
His loss sisters!

[@gorgeousbttyfly]

Yessss...same here omg what in the hell is going on in the dating world?!🙄😶

[@fiae2897]

That was a bit drastic. Anything could have happened to him.

[@meshameemee]

What do you do when someone says they wanna break up? You don't let them tell you twice. I know that's right

[@user-nu2xv6mt1z]

I would say what do you mean break up we was never a couple in the first place I just made you think I was your woman I been single all this time like nigga you ain't marry me so I never been yours 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I would make him feel very dumb and then laugh at him 😂😂😂

[@Ruthforme]

One universal answer….deuces.✌🏾
❤

[@RiriLove88]

Some of us are trauma bonded 😭

[@user-xi2hq1re4y]

Exactly. I have lived in trauma bond so long. So we get professional help. Bottle up those feelings and put them into yourself. Learn to LOVE yourself to healing.

[@RiriLove88]

@@user-xi2hq1re4y True 💙

[@simoneclark1820]

Bless your heart GOD can help you move on my sister with fasting and praying. ❤️

[@tonjagee11]

Facts👈👈

[@RiriLove88]

@@user-xi2hq1re4y Yes 🙏🏽

[@yournamemustbejealousy2062]

"Am I staying because I am being appreciated or because of my feelings?" Thank you Kirk 💯🔥💌

[@EdelweisSusie]

My partner of 5 years abandoned me the day I returned from my parent’s funeral - just disappeared out of my life without a word! 6 weeks later he returned for his stuff, expecting me to be crying and begging for him to come back - I did neither. I left it all on the front garden. Next!!

[@Che_4732]

Beautiful word of advice. Wherever you are not valued - Move on! 💯

[@jencaragia]

Self Worth! Avoid angry selfish people

[@Jasminepsalm]

Am I staying here because of my emotions or am I staying here because I am valued….. wow….

[@theonerealestatesecret]

People stay in garbage relationships and then treat others like garbage. Their excuse is the other person. Grow up.

[@annaa6259]

👏❣️- this is best video on relationships by mile. Should go viral to save people on time, energy and therapy

[@konsciousKirk]

@@annaa6259 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you

[@Soouber]

Ameen🤲🏼

[@LH-vb3el]

Not your nipples falling off!😮. I love how you just get to the point and give it to us straight.

[@lilblizzy]

😂

[@helenjohnson-tyus1671]

😂😂😂😂 "not the nipples falling off !"

[@user-nu2xv6mt1z]

❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂

[@sherreid8913]

No sugar coating no long winding right to the point n keep it moving

[@rukiyacarter6316]

You kept this message SIMPLE AND SWEET!!! HOPE THIS VIDEO GOES VIRAL❤❤

[@konsciousKirk]

@@rukiyacarter6316 ❤️❤️

[@ThePmj2011]

I came across this video,
As I was looking for something for my friend, because to watch some one you love just waste away for a man that plays this cat and mouse game, is heartbreaking. At first I was thinking maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about when I say she should go, then I found this video, thank you universe 💕 best advice ever! Know your worth, it starts with you🥰

[@phyllisbaizar1203]

Straight to the point; I've got to Move on and Grow up.

[@lavernelangston2938]

This man is 💯 he keep it real

[@frehatipu9187]

Thank you sir! The real talk I needed.
Hilarious too 'nipples falling off' 😂

[@MissChannin]

I've been taking my feelings out of everything since I've been following u. Let me tell u this THAT IS THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE EVER LEARN TO DO!!! I was leading my whole life by emotions! I have a 10yo son & I realized that he was leading by emotions as well. I'm teaching him to take his feelings out it. Ur wisdom is priceless & I personally, am grateful for u.

[@tarshagreene4661]

Thank you😊 This is the best relationship advice ever.

[@LaLaFox251]

Real Talk!

[@reallifeskills7640]

So simple .. walk away 💯

[@txm.9021]

LEAVE.

[@cherylsimpson6702]

I Totally Agree! Move on!🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@C_L.]

*"Move the hell on." ... That's what you should have named this video. Thoroughly Priceless... I absolutely loved this video. Thank you.*

[@teemoonlight2798]

You gotta put it all on the table and give it an honest assessment without any emotions...also, ask yourself would u want ur child to date someone like this? If the answer is " No" then u really need to get going....Move on, there is better ahead....🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️

[@IAMSHE8888]

That’s right stop wasting your time love yourself

[@michad707]

😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious and so true! Love it! ❤

[@user-ch3qk9qf5n]

Yes definitely learned that one someone doesn't want you is to move on or cheat move on ❤very good advice

[@jazzywithtea]

It’s easy said then done! 💯 You don’t know how it feels or how the struggle is for Women until you actually go through the pain & process yourself! Truth is Men & Women heal differently especially if you are going grieving! But of course we know we gotta move on and do what’s best for us!

[@user-nu2xv6mt1z]

I stay single so i never have to worry bout that

[@SR77736]

This bc 1 if these seem to happen to everyone i know

[@ThePinkPantha21]

Most people are not taught or modeled how to be a good person let alone be in a healthy relationship. When you work on yourself you attract better, it's simple science. Most people stay they stay single like it's special, it's just rooted in hurt and selfishness. We are not meant to be alone.

[@LBSquare6909]

So true KK...."move on and grow up" ...yes indeed!

[@SR77736]

Needed this. Thank you sm. It's them and their selfishness. Moving on is 🗝️

[@kimm5008]

😂 Thank You I needed this years ago.. but it's Great to hear it!! raw and uncut.. nipples falling off is Gold!!

[@wynettewalker2811]

Lol not the nipples falling off😂 I have taken your advice and moved the hell on because he was selfish and many other things. Now he is blowing up my phone

[@mechmobile2019]

People do change, if all that person knew was selfishness, abuse, they will speak that language for a long time untill they learn a new one. If no one to hold them accountable or practice with to be better, they can't change... thats why we always look into the family they came from.
The way a man treats his sister and mom is how he will treat you.

[@konsciousKirk]

@@wynettewalker2811 lol

[@LdAmaro71]

@WynetteWalker2811, if I was in your shoes I’d blocked him long ago and tell family members and friends “do not entertain him with any information of mine.”

[@wynettewalker2811]

@@LdAmaro71 I just had to do that because his mom texted me. I did block both of them

[@mechmobile2019]

@LdAmaro71 we can't just be hasty and give people advice on ghosting someone when they are being reminded of being ghosted someone. We reap what we sow.
Un reinforced behavior becomes extinct, by blocking someone from phone ringing, they might start showing up or contacting through other people, forcing a restraining order, that will do nothing but make someone even more rebellious.
Let them call, just never answer if they have crossed lines never to be crossed. That way they are aware the phone is ringing but the other party is making a conscious choice not to answer

[@janakoncekova4442]

Have your pride,respect your self.

[@carmenlopez6783]

ME TODAY IN MY CAR MAKING SURE IM BREATHING EASY, SHOULDERS DOWN, AND LOOKING CALM..💆🏻‍♀️🙌🏽🙇🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🦾🌻🧿💚💚💚💥💥💥💜🙃THANK YOUUUUUU KIRK!!!ASE!!!!!😚😆🦾😊

[@darleenowens6137]

Yep, best decision for all of those situations. So obvious! The song says it well, "I Can't Make You Love Me, If You Don't. You Can't Make Your Heart Feel, Something It Won't"

[@BourgeoisBran3114]

This song always resonated with me

[@eirtherseay-bey610]

Thank you for telling the truth.

[@laura-bq9cu]

Real Talk sometimes that does not lessen the pain my last relationship imprinted me, didn't know what that meant and then tell me he was a demon, a narcissist, a psychopath and got kicked out of the Marines for antisocial Behavior I laughed because I didn't believe him because nobody tells you up front. He wasn't kidding and he damn near killed me. And is still trying 4 years later. I walked away now I'm fixing to have to move away.

[@AM-..]

They ALWAYS tell the truth about themselves. Listen up when they do & take heed to it & get the he🏒🏒 out immediately🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️

[@deehawkins4504]

Amen to that, when I see that you're wasting my time I leave.

[@cytinachavis9157]

This is some hard truth and easier said than done on some of these.

[@issac9448]

You make me laugh even though I don’t always love hearing it out loud. Grow up and move on probably applies to sooo many situations 😉 thank you!!!

[@MariaWeronika84]

Some painfully true I here today in this video.
Just I wish he never say I love You and took this to his grave. The hardest part to move on :(
Thank You 🙏🏻

[@Justbu45]

Everything in life won’t go your way

[@sandramirekuayim1161]

Dear Kirk. Thanks for making our lives easier for us. Yours faithfully!

[@msaverielle]

Great advice.

[@ThandekileNdima]

😂 I Love the Move the He'll on Part

[@aprilingram1655]

Say goodbye & leave him alone 💯.

[@Charrisnemtblueprint]

Listen...when I tell you that this is some great advice!!! You should charge for this advice, it's so good! A lot of people won't adhere to it because they are caught up in their emotions but they all would be doing themselves a favor if they listened!!!! I moved on because I finally loved myself more than it hurt❤❤❤

[@konsciousKirk]

🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you. I’m honored you found value in it.

[@ThePinkPantha21]

Its worth pointing out that alot of the time we as people have our own unaddressed issues to work on that play out in relationships. Most people are a work in progress and instead of seeing that as a positive we resort to shame, thinking that if something is "wrong" with us, we are bad people and so it is easier to just blame others instead of seeing the big picture. The way my self esteem is set up I never sat around waiting for people to validate me and I have a strict code of treating others how I want to be treated. When I have had relationships end I analyzed my role and typically found there was something personal I needed to address to even attract said situation. Let the shame go so you build awareness about yourself.

[@1stBorn538]

We can't be in denial. They leave you no choice but to move on, the world does not stop because they don't value the blessing. At 53, I will not keep opening & reopening my heart to foolish silly men. The first time they showed me they didn't want me, should be the last time we must protect our peace and heart.

[@robinbenjamin1691]

Great advice Move On face reality

[@mechmobile2019]

Every man is who he is because of a woman... his mom. If she failed because other things were more important and daycare raised him, thats what you got.
And ladies, keep them knees closer together, dont bring kids into a world if you cant teach them love by 7 or 8, after that, its too late.

[@missvicki9535]

Love the advice you give. It is short, to the point and so powerful. Keep it up!!

[@nn-yx7mb]

Thank you for being real!!!

[@lh4639]

“Nipples falling off”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kiiiiiiiiiiirkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!
I
CAN
NOT!!!
❤❤❤❤❤

[@arankagionetti2098]

What's wrong with us ???? Nothing !!! We are just human!

[@tiff7138]

lol I absolutely LOVE this ❤ Plain & simple! Thanks Kirk 😊

[@queenhart4080]

🎯💯💯💯 Doesn't get any realer & to the point than this 😎, Love It!

[@monicaharris2323]

@konsciouskirk where were you 30 years ago. I needed your advice then. I now tell this to the younger girls that complain to me about relationships. I live by your advice now, but I had to learn this on my own. I am wondering and laughing about "nipples falling off". I love your simple, basic advice. I am sending this video to a friend.

[@Nekkiepooh1]

Best advice, I promise.

[@ivyworth862]

Straight game!!! 🎯🎯🎯

[@lorraineolivera24]

Thank u for ALWAYS KEEPING IT REAL! DON'T WASTE TIME WITH TOXIC PEOPLE THE DON'T DESERVE YOU

[@stephbell5102]

💯Amen 🙏🏾thank you!

[@e.watson6346]

You’re just so truthful- I totally agree with you…( move on- let them leave) I love it😅

[@bornts6988]

AMEN to all that! Thank you❤

[@noinhibitions7572]

Blessings to YOU for being a blessing to US

[@AmericanDreamer]

Great , great video/message !!!! 💎
Going through this right now...1 sided love.....
It's so hard, but you right ,Kirk!!!
Absoluut 🎯

[@Kiki-jx6by]

I had a guy really liked. I gave him too much of myself broke it off. Two years later we connected again. Just talked for one day and nothing more. He said he admired me because I’m independent. I told him that person is gone. The new me still independent, but I’m not going to be in one sided relationships anymore, the man’s gonna have to give as well. I texted him and he ignored my text messages. Met someone later who gives more than I even give him. Ladies don’t block your blessings do not ever allow a man to use you. It’s worse than being alone.

[@elizabethjackson]

Thank you straight to the point‼️♦️💫✨

[@nn-yx7mb]

Thank you for keeping it real

[@catherinecaesar5334]

You are so right. Move on

[@virgolicious1811]

Nipples fallin off 🤣 Gotdam! But yes 100% agree with this msg. MOVE ON! Don't internalize 🙌 I have adult daughters 25, 26 no babies. I share your videos with them among others so they dont lose themselves tryna love someone elsw. Self Love is 1st ❣️

[@stormryder1572]

So true. Tell it as it is Kirk. Really we already know what to do! Just do it! 😅 Blessings all ❤

[@toniburkley2983]

Ever thing that they. Make you experience is just the real version of who they really are

[@Luvagirl1971]

Amennn! Y'all let's share this video to everyone you can!!! Great advice ❤❤❤

[@leerussell2539]

Everyone ain't gonna like you. On to the next. Life goes on

[@tenniebramlett8827]

Thank you for this great insight!!! Much appreciated 💖💖💖

[@ShinedaStonerman]

NOBODY CARES HE DONT WANT HIMSELF

[@AscendingPriestess]

Kirk, I’m glad I found this video. AND that I’m in a healthy, healing space to receive it correctly. Ps…the locs look great 😊

[@konsciousKirk]

Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰

[@christinerene9351]

Pull your energy back, all the way back. Just do it.

[@teeespecialy2969]

All so,very very true......

[@sashaenglish2755]

Says it how it is ❤

[@marydellgeorge2425]

Needed to hear this
Thank You
I needed to see you
And hear you say
These true things
That
Yes
Hurt so much

[@marydellgeorge2425]

I love love your advice
Yes I have wasted 40
Years with him
And after he left
4 more
You are right
We waste too
Much time
Of Our
Precious Lives

[@nn-yx7mb]

Thank you for being real :)

[@sarahokudaye3451]

Yeeeeeaaahhh ! 🎉🎉🎉
Put your feelings aside and see reality ! 🫂🫂🫂💝

[@abrilthom895]

Man I love your channel. Many people live in some alternate world and they really need to hear some advice like me lol

[@annaa6259]

4:02, 4:15 , 6:45 - wisest advice I heard . Infinite wisdom speaks through you 👏

[@outsidethebox8406]

Common sense really

[@annaa6259]

@@outsidethebox8406oh yeah like people use common sense in love 😉

[@Bmitchell10]

This so true Kirk, ppl should already know💯

[@terriblue68]

I need this today Kirk. ❤ thank you.

[@carriemajor6496]

Best advice ever ❤🙏

[@elizabethmordaunt5737]

REMEMBER YOUR OPTION PEOPLE TO MOVE ALONG... Be aware never allow any one a second time to devalue; disappoint; disrespect; hurt or abuse you. Stay well ❤

[@user-dr6vj8ez9q]

If you are not Loved, Valued or Respected, move on! Life is too short to be unhappy! Love yourself more❤🎉

[@KatbeautyG]

Love it, Kirk! Perfect! Hugs !
" M O V E O N "

[@ma.lourdesaguilar5334]

...lovin the advices you're shahing!, thank you for them advices. . . I, too, would like to move-on... Be blessed every0ne✨️

[@lesiabarclay9283]

Straight Talk 💯