Whew! All of that... -feeling drained, -having no communication, -one sided partnership, -trying too hard. You can't love the wrong person into being the right person.
You feel drained, you literally feel ill physically...and they feel on top of the world off of your energy. It left me no chance but to leave and they felt it before they saw it, really strange how this work. I'm feeling like my old self again ❤
"It will cost you more to fix it than it's actually worth, and you need to cut your losses". 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Amen! Let's give this man around of applause. I declare, this truth shall set somebody free.
After 2 years in a long distance relationship we agreed on a K1 visa. I was doing all the work and became disenchanted.I started to experience everything you spoke about so I cut my loses.
Speaking Facts! 💯 I’ve had to release family members because of the incompatibility in our vibration and frequency. It took me 30+ years for me to finally get it. It’s never too late I guess.
I needed this. I just walked away. It hurts. I don't get why he waited for me to do it, or could let me cry myself to sleep every night, or why it took me so long. It hurts letting go but staying hurt more. I just dont know how to not be sad about it all even though i know it all. Youd think id be happy, or love myself enough to not go through that, yet here i am
Be proud of yourself. You found the courage to walk away. You will experience all sorts of emotions...allow yourself to feel them, you're entitled. Eventually you will be happy again, you will smile again, then you'll ask yourself. Why didn't I leave sooner? Whatever you do, don't ever go backwards...Love and light. ❤
Thank y'all for the much needed support. I really appreciate it. I don't do well with walking away even though I should do the not going backwards part I really needed to hear because sometimes I do consider going back even though I know it's stupid. I'm in therapy already so that helps. It still isn't easy. I never really get much support in general so it's really refreshing ❤️ I hope you are all thriving and conquering the battles you may not speak of as well guys
I know this that’s why I’m 35 and not married. Being engaged with them but i changes mind, i feel it in my soul they’re not the one. I’m not ashamed 35 and single and expired as they call it
God will not allow you to get things you don't need. But sometimes he will give you the desire of your heart and let it whip you till you let that person go. What father will give his child a rock when they ask for bread. Mmm go figure.😅
😢I get the point, youre saying well all that is ok. Im going through hard times with my partner, we are 10 yr living together, no marriagw no kids. Hes 9 yr older, I was so young didnt know what real love is, and last years its harder, draining me, till I learn that he has traumas, and is avoidant type ,so he doesnt reciprocate love. I always fight for ur relationship, and first years it was amazing, we were besties. But then all changes, and getting worse in every area. I fell like he never cherished me, since he doesnt know his own value, and has child traumas. Family pressuring to ger married, but know I dont even know or want that anymore. Im so exhausted. So can we walk together in unequal ways for the rest of lifes. 😢 We are christians . Blessings💐
@andreamegec9836 well Friend get out that while you know it's not right because they are not going to change after all this time. Pray about it and ask the Lord give you directions to get out and past this. Because Mr. Right can't come with Mr wrong in the way. Blessings..
We are all in charge of our own destiny. No one else. If I CHOOSE to stay in a shitty relationship where do I have the right to complain about it? I am allowing it! So I can't turn around and gripe? That's a hypocrite LOL We must make tough, uncomfortable choices sometimes or stay a doormat for someone who doesn't appreciate you and what you have to offer and never ever will. @andreamegec9836
This is so crazy. But first off I love rabbits and have one named Gizmo lol. I actually gave him a crystal rabbit and that’s kind of our thing. Second, there’s a cultural difference as well. He’s 100% Greek. Third, there’s an age gap too! What is y’all’s age gap? There’s 17 between us. I’m older.
This message is for me. Right on time on the brink of leaving my Marriage it’s so draining I’m overwhelmed. Iam taking a leap of faith God plan is bigger than mines 🙏🏼
@@konsciousKirk thank you a lot because 4 years starting to feel like 8. I’m still young he is 18 years older than me trying to take away my youth and beauty. What a selfish person and was able to hide it until we jumped the broom 🙏🏼
Thank you, this is so true, I wished I had heard this when I was constantly talking, trying and praying for change until finally I got the strength to leave, it came down to me realizing that I wanted to live and be mentally strong for my 3 children, this lesson is showing me what I need to look for in my future relationship.
OMG! This is the truth!!! I had to finally end a "relationship" that I know I no business being in because I was forcing it from day 1. I would always complain that our communication was horrible.
This is perfect!! thank you so much. I thought we had it together, thought I didn't need anymore advice. Then I realized I'm forcing communication and he is not interested in changing. I am clearly not the one. I am not getting a return on my investment. Its best to cut ties now and move on. It's only been 3 months, I hate to waste time and a dime. I am grieving the relationship and moving on. Thx Kirk!!
I’ve been stuck on the difficulty of communication. I have become exhausted, and realize I’m doing all the work. I know the person is smart enough to understand. At this point, if I offer help/recommendations that clearly are correct measure and they don’t work with me, I just shut it down/walk away realizing their life may not change until they want it to change. They have been stuck in inaction to change their situation. It’s just been mind boggling….
This is why I'm leaving like a thief in the night 🌙 he has no idea that I have already been mentally gone. My body is catching up. And preparing to go any day now.
The child-birth example was very on point. I hope ppl are paying attention because not many men are willing to speak out on what other men will do just to satisfy their sexual preferences…thank you for your service to women who want change.
Jesus! "My energy drains and yours become better! Thanks alot Kirk❤❤❤❤ "truly when something is not meant for u, u cannot communicate, ... is bcos u are not in the same frequency" God! This is so timely
Thank you for this. I was banging my head off a brick wall for the last few years. Why can't we just get along? Because we can't. That's why. We. Are. Not. Meant. To. Be. Last evening sealed that deal, finally. Walking away and detaching with love because I won't allow him to rent space in my head for free. 🙏 ❤
Kirk you are such a blessing! 😇 Keep these videos coming. You are truly saving lives daily 🌹 The truth aint never lied!!!! I refuse to suffer simply bc I won't accept the true and let go! You recently said something like.... The person you love and the person you are best without could easily be the same person. 🎯 That truth set me free!!!!!
Kirk what you saying is spot,if you are not on the same page ,you can't force no matter how much you pray to God ,if that man is not meant for you ,he is not meant you,all what must do guys you take the Highway 😂😂
People, pray for the will to say no at the beginning when your heart says no so that you don't lose years and leaving becomes complicated. I used to be excited to travel for work and when it was time to get back I was filled with sorrow. Once at baggage claim I couldn't recognize my bag. It was the last bag on the pulley, everyone had picked their bag but I kept saying it wasn't mine. That's when I realised I was going mental. A q to leave.
This was MY story… literally. I tried for 20 years. And as hard as I tried… we just were not aligned. I am SO glad that I finally woke up, saw my worth and left.🙌🏽
Good morning Kirk this is a great video!! Yes too many people think because they have been with a person for a long time, they need to continue to stay in a bad relationship!! No get out!!
But don't some of those long 30 year + relationships go through lots of tough times? Two ladies at my job have been married for over 20 years. Both their husbands have long term girlfriends. Neither of them like it but they've learned to live with it. Is that what it takes? That's crazy to me... Seems like those older couples make it work no matter what.
IF U CARE FOR THOSE LADIES Please tell them what SPIRITCLOUD5883 Said. AND THEY DON'T HAVE TO ACTUALLY GO CHEAT JUST TELL THEM TO ACT LIKE IT AND SEE HOW FAST THINGS CHANGE
I’m so happy for myself to really have put the work into healing me learning me loving me to then be able to put myself out there after all the fail long term relationships I’ve had …. I can honestly now see who I was before when I would look away from the red flags , put up and deal with disrespect etc …. Going from that to being able to see all the red flags within a week and sometimes as long as a month . I’m just grateful and also appreciate your video that have helped point out some of the things I just wasn’t seeing . Thank you so much , Blessings🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
😂😂😂😂😂😂the way you say things and practically giving us examples that one can logically understand i love you're brains i wish God can bless me with a man who have a strong beautiful mind recently subscribed and am loving it here am so lifted and my life is going to change for the better ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏bless you🥰am all the way from🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
So I went on a date , been ok 3 years so I went and he failed to open doors as handsome as he was. I’m standing there but he is outta of touch. This was my first time dating someone my sign and I just believed he was ok and he sends bs messages I am like wow. I gotta be a better Sagittarius or something 😂😂
I love this video. A short & sweet confirmation. I have cut the soul tie. Thank you God for delivering this message through this man Kirk. This is the answer. This is the lesson. Amen.
Kirk, do you ever think about those of us who have actually HEALED AND MOVED BEYOND THE THINGS YOU CONTINUE TO DREAD UPON? YOU KEEP SAYING THE SAME THINGS!!!!!!!! MY GOODNESS!!! FORGET WHATS BEHIND!!!! MOVE ON!! ARE YOU THE ONE THAT'S STILL STUCK? PLEASE??? PRAY TO GOD FOR YOURSELF. LISTENING TO YOU IS WHAT'S DRAINING!!! KIRK, MOVE FORWARD!! I WAS IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR 10 YEARS! IT'S NOW BEEN 1YEAR AND 4 MONTHS SINCE I WAS DELIVERED FROM THAT TOXIC PLACE. I HAVE HEALED AND GONE FORWARD. WITH GOD'S FAVOR AND LOVE AND THE LORD'S TENDER LOVING CARE. MOVE FORWARD KIRK.
Mr. Kirk, thank you for this. Timing is spot on for me. Want to say loudly & clearly that I am appreciative of you for speaking on the throat chakra. I asked you before if you could get into this a little more. I understand that you can't appease everyone. (I see your numbers keep growing.) Good for you. You deserve every good thing.
Whew! All of that...
-feeling drained,
-having no communication,
-one sided partnership,
-trying too hard.
You can't love the wrong person into being the right person.
❤️❤️
@@nesleecharles9059
You are so right
"When a person is not for you, it drains your energy" . Preach it! You're on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yessss
Stay woke and release yourself.
You feel drained, you literally feel ill physically...and they feel on top of the world off of your energy. It left me no chance but to leave and they felt it before they saw it, really strange how this work. I'm feeling like my old self again ❤
Pray that God removes the people that serve you no purpose 🙏🏿 rejection is protection ❤
YES!! God answers your prayers. That person isn't to be in your life/ meant to be in a relationship with.
This statement is deep. I will repost it on my wassup status
"It will cost you more to fix it than it's actually worth, and you need to cut your losses". 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Amen! Let's give this man around of applause. I declare, this truth shall set somebody free.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
After 2 years in a long distance relationship we agreed on a K1 visa. I was doing all the work and became disenchanted.I started to experience everything you spoke about so I cut my loses.
You couldn't have said it better dude 💯
Energy Vampires- Not being evenly yoked! Many Blessings to You in expressing truth! 🙏🏾
Speaking Facts! 💯 I’ve had to release family members because of the incompatibility in our vibration and frequency. It took me 30+ years for me to finally get it. It’s never too late I guess.
I needed this. I just walked away. It hurts. I don't get why he waited for me to do it, or could let me cry myself to sleep every night, or why it took me so long. It hurts letting go but staying hurt more. I just dont know how to not be sad about it all even though i know it all. Youd think id be happy, or love myself enough to not go through that, yet here i am
I'm praying for you, family. You will get past this and be more powerful than you've ever been because of what you've endured. I promise.
Why not seek counselling if that's how you feel?
Be proud of yourself. You found the courage to walk away. You will experience all sorts of emotions...allow yourself to feel them, you're entitled. Eventually you will be happy again, you will smile again, then you'll ask yourself. Why didn't I leave sooner? Whatever you do, don't ever go backwards...Love and light. ❤
Thank y'all for the much needed support. I really appreciate it. I don't do well with walking away even though I should do the not going backwards part I really needed to hear because sometimes I do consider going back even though I know it's stupid. I'm in therapy already so that helps. It still isn't easy. I never really get much support in general so it's really refreshing ❤️ I hope you are all thriving and conquering the battles you may not speak of as well guys
that shit takes time to get over but you will you will get over the hurt
I know this that’s why I’m 35 and not married. Being engaged with them but i changes mind, i feel it in my soul they’re not the one. I’m not ashamed 35 and single and expired as they call it
This so resonates with me. I let go of a one sided relationship and all the signs were there. It hurts but I will get over it. Thankyou for this
God will not allow you to get things you don't need. But sometimes he will give you the desire of your heart and let it whip you till you let that person go. What father will give his child a rock when they ask for bread. Mmm go figure.😅
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😢I get the point, youre saying well all that is ok. Im going through hard times with my partner, we are 10 yr living together, no marriagw no kids. Hes 9 yr older, I was so young didnt know what real love is, and last years its harder, draining me, till I learn that he has traumas, and is avoidant type ,so he doesnt reciprocate love. I always fight for ur relationship, and first years it was amazing, we were besties. But then all changes, and getting worse in every area. I fell like he never cherished me, since he doesnt know his own value, and has child traumas. Family pressuring to ger married, but know I dont even know or want that anymore. Im so exhausted. So can we walk together in unequal ways for the rest of lifes. 😢 We are christians . Blessings💐
@andreamegec9836 well Friend get out that while you know it's not right because they are not going to change after all this time. Pray about it and ask the Lord give you directions to get out and past this. Because Mr. Right can't come with Mr wrong in the way. Blessings..
@@OlisaBoden Thank you I understand , for kindness, I will pray, bless you💦🙏
We are all in charge of our own destiny. No one else. If I CHOOSE to stay in a shitty relationship where do I have the right to complain about it? I am allowing it! So I can't turn around and gripe? That's a hypocrite LOL We must make tough, uncomfortable choices sometimes or stay a doormat for someone who doesn't appreciate you and what you have to offer and never ever will. @andreamegec9836
We have different cultures and theres an age gap. I have been in denial.
This is so crazy. But first off I love rabbits and have one named Gizmo lol. I actually gave him a crystal rabbit and that’s kind of our thing. Second, there’s a cultural difference as well. He’s 100% Greek. Third, there’s an age gap too! What is y’all’s age gap? There’s 17 between us. I’m older.
This message is for me. Right on time on the brink of leaving my Marriage it’s so draining I’m overwhelmed. Iam taking a leap of faith God plan is bigger than mines 🙏🏼
I’m so sorry to hear that about your marriage. I hope whatever decision you make works out for you
@@konsciousKirk thank you a lot because 4 years starting to feel like 8. I’m still young he is 18 years older than me trying to take away my youth and beauty. What a selfish person and was able to hide it until we jumped the broom 🙏🏼
Thank you, this is so true, I wished I had heard this when I was constantly talking, trying and praying for change until finally I got the strength to leave, it came down to me realizing that I wanted to live and be mentally strong for my 3 children, this lesson is showing me what I need to look for in my future relationship.
OMG! This is the truth!!! I had to finally end a "relationship" that I know I no business being in because I was forcing it from day 1. I would always complain that our communication was horrible.
Speak Truth Sir...can't force frequency...can't force communication. This video is fire‼️💯🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Are you saying
"you got to know when to hold em'
know when to fold em'
know when to walk away
and know when to run" ? 😂
Love this analogy 😂😂 Kenny Rogers LOL brilliant 😅
This is perfect!! thank you so much. I thought we had it together, thought I didn't need anymore advice. Then I realized I'm forcing communication and he is not interested in changing. I am clearly not the one. I am not getting a return on my investment. Its best to cut ties now and move on. It's only been 3 months, I hate to waste time and a dime. I am grieving the relationship and moving on. Thx Kirk!!
Thank you so much. I left already, no contacts forever... My energy was drained to the extreme
I’ve been stuck on the difficulty of communication. I have become exhausted, and realize I’m doing all the work. I know the person is smart enough to understand. At this point, if I offer help/recommendations that clearly are correct measure and they don’t work with me, I just shut it down/walk away realizing their life may not change until they want it to change. They have been stuck in inaction to change their situation. It’s just been mind boggling….
This is why I'm leaving like a thief in the night 🌙 he has no idea that I have already been mentally gone. My body is catching up. And preparing to go any day now.
Good for you.
Wow.... exactly what I needed to hear
You can't love the wrong person into the right person 💔
The child-birth example was very on point. I hope ppl are paying attention because not many men are willing to speak out on what other men will do just to satisfy their sexual preferences…thank you for your service to women who want change.
This is excellent information! I was there, LOL. I was drained, and I was not at peace.
Jesus! "My energy drains and yours become better! Thanks alot Kirk❤❤❤❤ "truly when something is not meant for u, u cannot communicate, ... is bcos u are not in the same frequency" God! This is so timely
Thank you for this. I was banging my head off a brick wall for the last few years. Why can't we just get along?
Because we can't. That's why. We. Are. Not. Meant. To. Be.
Last evening sealed that deal, finally. Walking away and detaching with love because I won't allow him to rent space in my head for free. 🙏 ❤
Kirk you are such a blessing! 😇 Keep these videos coming.
You are truly saving lives daily 🌹
The truth aint never lied!!!!
I refuse to suffer simply bc I won't accept the true and let go!
You recently said something like....
The person you love and the person you are best without could easily be the same person.
🎯 That truth set me free!!!!!
❤️❤️ thank you so much
Hello, I've been following you and I'm now at peace through your words of wisdom and excellent advice. Thank you 💫
Awwe. Thank you so much. I’m happy for you and your peace. ❤️🙏🏾
Kirk what you saying is spot,if you are not on the same page ,you can't force no matter how much you pray to God ,if that man is not meant for you ,he is not meant you,all what must do guys you take the Highway 😂😂
Exactly.
He is so on point...💯💯💯🌟 been there, got the receipts and the T-shirt!💯💯💯✨️
People, pray for the will to say no at the beginning when your heart says no so that you don't lose years and leaving becomes complicated. I used to be excited to travel for work and when it was time to get back I was filled with sorrow. Once at baggage claim I couldn't recognize my bag. It was the last bag on the pulley, everyone had picked their bag but I kept saying it wasn't mine. That's when I realised I was going mental. A q to leave.
😂😂😂😂 "Like child birth pains." WOW! Message is real. Wish I heard this 30 years ago. Never late tho' thanks for the tips!
This was MY story… literally. I tried for 20 years. And as hard as I tried… we just were not aligned.
I am SO glad that I finally woke up, saw my worth and left.🙌🏽
This is one of the best videos I've seen on relationships.
Oh wow. Thank you so much
I needed to hear this. A few days ago i let go of a situation you described. Speaking my language!
This is what I'm dealing with right now
Don't EVER do Yourself that way NEVER!!!
I need this video right now, I relate to everything you said
I needed THIS...confirmation !!! Thank you.
Thank you for this wisdom 🙏🏽
Good morning Kirk this is a great video!! Yes too many people think because they have been with a person for a long time, they need to continue to stay in a bad relationship!! No get out!!
Kirk love your information always on point and you say it so lovingly...remind me of my brother.....😊
Thank you for the information but this is so true
SAY THAT !!!
But don't some of those long 30 year + relationships go through lots of tough times? Two ladies at my job have been married for over 20 years. Both their husbands have long term girlfriends. Neither of them like it but they've learned to live with it. Is that what it takes? That's crazy to me... Seems like those older couples make it work no matter what.
Tolerating something is not the same as 'making it work'.
Tell them to get boyfriends and watch how quickly their husbands leave
@@spiritcloud5883FACTS 💯 THEY CAN'T HANDLE WTF THEY DISH OUT
IF U CARE FOR THOSE LADIES Please tell them what SPIRITCLOUD5883 Said. AND THEY DON'T HAVE TO ACTUALLY GO CHEAT JUST TELL THEM TO ACT LIKE IT AND SEE HOW FAST THINGS CHANGE
Thank you Kirk! You are very wise.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
You are phenomenal
So true.🙏🏼
Thank you this is a daily listen!
Thanks for this topic... please keep dropping these gems!💎❤
On the other hand you can’t deny frequency either
I’m so happy for myself to really have put the work into healing me learning me loving me to then be able to put myself out there after all the fail long term relationships I’ve had …. I can honestly now see who I was before when I would look away from the red flags , put up and deal with disrespect etc …. Going from that to being able to see all the red flags within a week and sometimes as long as a month . I’m just grateful and also appreciate your video that have helped point out some of the things I just wasn’t seeing .
Thank you so much , Blessings🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is so true!! So please, don't waste your time!!
wow! The labour analogy!!!
You are a blessing! Thank you good Sir🙏🏽☺️
So nice of you🥰🥰
Yes. Good bye!
I am so thankful for you ❤
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😂😂😂😂😂😂the way you say things and practically giving us examples that one can logically understand i love you're brains i wish God can bless me with a man who have a strong beautiful mind recently subscribed and am loving it here am so lifted and my life is going to change for the better ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏bless you🥰am all the way from🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
I thank you so much for saying that. I appreciate that. Thank you❤️❤️
I needed to here this
Thank you so much. God bless you Kirk for the message. It was well needed. 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for your content thank you
This is so good! God brought me through this situation! Thank you for clarity!!! 🤯
You ON Point Again Sir I Pray They Listen ❤❤🎉
Facts ✌🏾
I felt this
Hi Kirk, hope you, and your family doing well! It’s like you’re talking directly to me! Thank you for your time!
Love your videos
You said absolutely nothing wrong ❤
So I went on a date , been ok 3 years so I went and he failed to open doors as handsome as he was. I’m standing there but he is outta of touch. This was my first time dating someone my sign and I just believed he was ok and he sends bs messages I am like wow. I gotta be a better Sagittarius or something 😂😂
Kirk like always fantastic video and tips🙏🍀. All true for me
Thanks for this.
With love,
From Africa❤
Sending thanks all the way to Africa. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I need to hear this I thank you so much ❤ hope your having a wonderful weekend 😊
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Thank you!
Facts
This is so on point!
So true ❤
I love this video. A short & sweet confirmation. I have cut the soul tie. Thank you God for delivering this message through this man Kirk. This is the answer. This is the lesson. Amen.
❤️❤️🙏🏾 thank you so much
Kirk Hazel, THIS!!!
Very Good Content
You are so on point !!!!!!!❤
So true
Encore!!!! 👏 👏👏👏👏
I agree 💯❤❤❤❤🫴
May God bless you!!!
A good, good video. Thank you
I heard you.
He looks like a full cherry today cherry 🍒
Kirk, do you ever think about those of us who have actually HEALED AND MOVED BEYOND THE THINGS YOU CONTINUE TO DREAD UPON? YOU KEEP SAYING THE SAME THINGS!!!!!!!! MY GOODNESS!!! FORGET WHATS BEHIND!!!! MOVE ON!! ARE YOU THE ONE THAT'S STILL STUCK? PLEASE??? PRAY TO GOD FOR YOURSELF. LISTENING TO YOU IS WHAT'S DRAINING!!! KIRK, MOVE FORWARD!! I WAS IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR 10 YEARS! IT'S NOW BEEN 1YEAR AND 4 MONTHS SINCE I WAS DELIVERED FROM THAT TOXIC PLACE. I HAVE HEALED AND GONE FORWARD. WITH GOD'S FAVOR AND LOVE AND THE LORD'S TENDER LOVING CARE. MOVE FORWARD KIRK.
Mr. Kirk, thank you for this. Timing is spot on for me. Want to say loudly & clearly that I am appreciative of you for speaking on the throat chakra. I asked you before if you could get into this a little more. I understand that you can't appease everyone. (I see your numbers keep growing.) Good for you. You deserve every good thing.
I can go more into it
Yes, pls do.
Very true
Say that again 😢
Amen
Thanks
I love you
❤️❤️
💯💯💯
Hi... What did you say about seeing blue because of throat chakra? Pls elaborate for me
Sounds like a vampire 🧛♂️
I drain myself. Alone around people. I wonder what that mean. Maybe i am Satan and death