1. He still lives with BM/ ex-wife 2. He's still going through custody battle 3. Men in relationships 4. Men who don't take accountability 5. Men who say they not ready 6. Men who just got outta a relationship 7. Men who are always available 8. Men raised only by their mother- they were too protected You welcome 😂...
Some bitter women too. Some who I never even met have been stalking me like I made em a single mom & refused to pay child support or sum 🤷🏾♀️ imagine doing this in 2024
Men who have not recovered from a previous ex. Especially if they abandoned them. You will never stop hearing about it. That was my mistake. I was a therapist and I was just filling one whole of many.
@@k.jskaleidoscope1229WORD!. MET a narcissists like this that would talk about his exes from 15 years ago, and their sexcapades, and how he is friends to all of them but yet all of them are married and tell their husbands how awesome he is, and he will also brag about talking to 6 other women apart from me but I am number 1. 😂. I stopped talking to him like hot trash.
Ooh good one, I always wondered why until I’ve dated one and it’s actually sad to me that they need that much validation and attention and yes he wasn’t raised by his mother😂😂🤣🤣
I say men who are too honest. They’re too much of an open book, telling secrets and super deep stuff early on, especially dealing with sex. Don’t mess with him! He is “honest” with you so if you find some mess with him be will say “well I told you the deal, and you still messed with me”. Of course there can be fine lines. We WANT an honest man, but one that seems to tell you everything very easily without you asking, or casually tells you some stuff most people dont, leave him alone. I just ghosted someone like this. I can see who he is clearly, and I don’t want the drama
I heard Drake had these addictions but haven't been able to hack his phones or put spy cams in his home to confirm its validity 🤷🏾♀️ guess I just don't care that much to know
My problem is the guys who think I'm their mother. That's a huge reason me and my husband didn't make it. We should be a team. I am not your maid or mother.
@@irenehamilton2981I can't even fathom that delusion to connect the dots so yea stay far away. Wouldn't deal with nothing that don't make sense to me 🤷🏾♀️
Not all single moms did this kirk wow. My son's dad died when he was 5. I grew up with both parents and i grew up abused emotionally by manipulative dad. So i vowed to never put my kids in a situation that could damage them as adults. Im old school. My son had chores responsibilities and was taught at home as well as at school. When my son was 12y of age he was washing his own clothes was able to cook and not junk food. He didn't have video games or cell phones until he was able to buy and pay the bill. He had to pay rent at a certain age buy his own expensive sneakers. Today my son is a chef of a reputable restaurant that was featured on food Network and is frequented by celebrities and NFL players. I was severely injured and became disabled and during covid my son moved back in at 25 to take care of me and has purchased a duplex so i can be close but have my own space. He doesn't have kids and is currently carefully dating looking for a wife. So not all men who were raised by one parent are bums or unworthy and undatable.
that's fair. But - do you allow him his own life and look for a woman of his choosing without your interference? Do you allow him to breath or he has put down his life for you?? And you see it as a good thing, to be proud of that you basically face a life to a human to later take it away ??
@@originalmix2546 absolutely! He is a grown fkn man I don't get in his business or give unsolicited advice. I gave him the tools necessary to think for himself, make his own decisions. I am his mother, his 1st teacher of life skills and first example of what a real woman looks like. I'm not sure how to respond to the latter part of your comment as it sounds a bit passive aggressive and bitter but, I hope that I answered the meat n potatoes of your question? Have a gr8 day!
This is what I needed to see and thank you for blessing me with this because I’m a single mom and I feel that fear and Gilden hearing you say all these positive things I’m just gonna stay focused and I don’t think that everyone who has two parents ends up like that I’m just gonna stop thinking about that because I feel like the more I think about that the more it’s going to manifest and I’m sure your son is wonderful and every kid can have issues even kids the two parents can end up being codependent on healthy so I think you did a great job. It sounds like And, I’m hoping you’re feeling better
Do not get me started on that. No matter how good you are to them, you’re still not good enough. 11 years of celibacy has been nothing but a saving grace.
I don’t agree with the last one, I have dated and had conversations with men who was raised with both parents in the house hold and they are the worst ones they don’t treat women right at all
Wow 😌 your words give me so much peace. I’ve been looking for clarity in so many places & never have I got the peace of mind & peace in my heart. Your words are so TRUE. I understand this because I have experienced the worst kind of men. Thank you Kirk, much love to you and your family. God bless & happy Easter 🙏✨🐰🥰
You’re absolutely right! My husband is an only child raised by his mother. His father still pays child support because he never paid it while he was growing up. My husband is 38 years old. I was raised in a two parent household. The struggle has been real. Things are getting better, but it took years. We’re still working out the kinks. He’s an awesome man, but I wouldn’t recommend anyone else doing things out of order. The Bible teaching us not to be unequally yoked. Speaks a new meaning. I’ve always assumed it was just speaking in religious beliefs. That is not so.
Thank you for speaking from the heart. I wish I had seen this video decades ago but it is never to late to learn. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are a wonderful man with a big heart.
I tell my peeps all the time that *these* are the things we should have been taught in school. (Damn the War of 1066!) Thanks again for these gems, Kirk!
Yep going through Divorce his mother always calling him and telling him to block and moved away from me and my kids. The lady would go crazy calling him constantly and he would obey and follow everything she said . He left us fled the country and I found out he was involved through Whatsapp chats with a young girl from his country. So he left like his mother wanted and how I know this text I took photographs from his phone. Why I need this for lawyer.. evidence. We are better off without him don't have time and energy to fight . Love my life without that circus I never invited.. Don't have time for words they don't understand communication either they are the wise and I'm the dumb one as they imagine.. but yes there are crazy mothers like this that destroy more a marriage.. either way he did not know how to grow into a mature man with accoubtability.. I'm just living my life and my kids time for freedom and self love.. Thank you for this video ❤😊
Brother Kirk, Sometime the basics should be addressed because statistics says its over 10 million DV cases in the US and 9.8 million in the UK. Also, in my research top 3 warning signs of _busers 1. Extreme Jealousy 2. Possessiveness 3. Unpredictable... In an Advocacy program I met a client that had to shoot her _buser to save herself and children because the situation was comtinious and it became volatile. She never spoke about it until we saw it aired in rhe local news. Please share to help someone that maybe in a situation now that need to know the basics because it may save them... Thank you for sharing.
I appreciate your honesty about a man that is raised by a single mom and never had any upbringing from a male figure. I asked that question about my own son and now I understand. Seeing it clearly now.
Most men were raised by a single mom nowadays... as was my son. He's standing on his own two feet since he started college at age 20. He has a degree in computer sciences, a full time job as a software developer, he cooks and cleans, has his own place and good friends in his life. He's 24 now. He's amazing and I sure hope he'll find a good woman eventually. He lives in Germany, speaks English and Japanese fluently (and German too obviously). He deserves love as everyone does. He wasn't spoiled with money or vacations growing up, but he did recieve my time, care and attention so he could thrive. And he does.
The man that was raised by their mother 🚩🚩 MOST of the time not All of the time. I was engaged to a young man like that when I was in my Jr year of highschool. He'd just graduated highschool. He got a job ⛽ pumping gas. He was driving his grandmother's car, he was a heavy weed smoker with no ambition. His mom even bought my engagement ring 💍 for him. I had to break off the engagement. Many years later, he still doesn't have his own car or a good job. Whew 😅 dodged a bullet !! He wasn't a bad man just not good relationship or marriage material.
So true about the single mothers! Only men can teach men! It is unnatural for a man not to be taught by a man! A woman's softness and a man's masculine are opposite. Of course there are good kids from single mothers however its about the TOOLS THAT MAKE HIM A HUSBAND that a woman cant teach! How can a woman teach him to be something that he is not. Its like if your child wanted to learn Spanish for example, would you send him to a French teacher or a Spanish teacher? Same difference if you want a boy to be a husband, he needs to be trained/ taught by a husband!
So I'm gonna counter 2 of them...the no life having one 😂 only because I'm at a place in life where I literally have no life rn. Usually I work full time, go to school full time & was raising my son full time. But he graduated, I graduated, got laid off during covid & life never quite picked back up the same. My friends are scattered across the country, broke up with my ex a yr ago, both my lil sisters had a new baby so I'm just here like 🤷 I have to start fresh but I'm enjoying the quiet before things pick up again. So not having a life isn't always a bad thing. And the 2nd is the man from the single mother. I worked my butt off to raise my son to be a good man and husband, that was always my goal. He's 20 now, has been on his own since a few months after graduation. Has his own place, a job. He's a great partner, does his best to choose his partners wisely, girls who are working towards something, have goals, family orientated. Unfortunately he has been ghosted (I'll never understand why ppl do that), or he's had to let go of some because they're drama or immature. He's on a good path though. So don't always knock those ones. See what they're about first. At least have a conversation if they seem nice and stable. Just my 2 cents. The rest I agree with tho!!! Every time I've went down on. Standard, I've kicked myself!
I think #8. should say men with mothers who have an unhealthy attachment to their son's. Not single mothers. Plenty of single mothers have raised well rounded young men and plenty of 2 parent households who have not. While there is truth to what you're saying, it depends on the emotional and mental stability of said parental figure/s.
A good question to ask home or her, how long ago was your last relationship. 🎉 ❤ Thanks Kirk 😁 I feel a lil more confidence than before u said tht haha
I’m a single mother and I have a son ( he’s young 16) but I’m raising him to be independent and not to attach Lolol he knows how to cook( well may I add we’re Caribbean) he’s applying for jobs ect. I can understand EVERY last thing you said……I think some single moms are doing a little better.
What you think about a man who made a mistake and shot someone at 16 then did 21 years and got out are they still mental I feel scard of him because of that 😮
@@tinalynch9283my take on those kinds is most are gay and pretend to have found the lord my neighbor married a man str8 out of prison he beat her and left her for dead only to go back to prison 🤔 and 21 years most don’t last because they can not function in the real world or result back to what got them there in the first place ijs
As a single mom: My son (adult meanwhile) became an absolute gentleman, he has been cleaning his room and washing his own clothes from the age of 8 on. He would NEVER expect a woman to "take care of him".
As a mother who raised two sons alone that have grown into wonderful, respectful, responsible men, i disagree with the last part... thank you for the message 🦋
Mr. Kirk I love your video show because you tell the truth thank God I stop to listen to what you have to say about a man thank you I appreciate what you had to say on your video show. 😊
On number #8 it depends on the person. There are some good man that were raised by single mothers. I raised two sons, the issue that I get concerned about is them fully unstanding their true role as men. They seen me do it all..😩
Always available might mean they spend all their time with the Lord in prayer and worship. God is my life. He gets all of my time today. I do not watch TV or go to a ballgame. I am not interested in the secular worlds activities everyone seems to think are perfectly fine for us to be partaking in. Supporting Hollywood is to support evil. Same with all those big sports that even many Christian men worship and even gamble on. Let God decide for you who you are meant to be with. Pray about it. Do not take relationship advice from someone who does not even know you or the person you like. They can say well if they grew up like this they will be this way or that way. This is prejudging people and setting them into categories of shame. I am sure you mean well but when we start to stereotype people together we will always make critical errors with some. We become oppressors.
A man who lives with his ex is not trying to move on, he is trying to change her mind and keep her from finding someone else,or run of the new someone else. He only talks to the new woman as a back up. No man loves a woman faster than the one who needs a roof over his head. Never, never, ever let a man move into your home.
You left a beggar lol 😆 I know a guy that constantly begs me to be with him and won’t accept “NO” at all!!! He’s super annoying and makes me wonder why is he not taken by someone!?? Damn!!!
No 2. Funny you said that " last week I saw a story of a white couple who got shoot by the new wife ...ex- father-in-law,,,, because she was fighting for custody of her 2 small child (his grandkids) from her previous marriage; now mind you she had a new baby with the new husband ; so sad that the new husband was in between that mess,,,he lost his life almost like a innocent by standard.( men and women bring drama)
Kirk, I have a question. What about men who have been hurt by a woman but for some reason still wants to stay connected to the one ☝️ that hurt them?? Isn’t that awfully strange?? 🤔
Amen I agree I agree I agree need a guy and he's still at home his mother I don't care if he's 56 dump him now cuz that mother know she going to have something to say you ain't this you ain't that and you're not going to do what she does Audrey stay away from men that days with his mother that's not a mother that's a mommy a mother knows how to let her son go a mommy doesn't
It’s not bashing either one, it’s calling out the fallacies either one could be trying to put forth. It is what it is, call it out..And there are people that ARE BAD
1. Still lives with BM ... Ashley Bocanegra (it was on the news) got killed by the BM because she was forming a relationship with the baby mothers baby father
I disagree. My cousin was raised by his mom and his father was never in his life and he is a GREAT Father and husband to his wife and kids. Every single mom is not by choice. I was thrown into being a single Mother after 12 years or marriage. My sons are responsible adult men that take care of their women.
I kind of disagree with point #8 because I’ve encountered great guys that were raised by single mothers and are happily married etc. However, some single mothers are overprotective and so forth and so on due to past traumatic experiences or history so I don’t feel their sons should be judged by that because some actually turn out quite well. Nowadays, children are Bledsoe to even have a mother in their lives because so many of them are getting killed by the so called fathers/step etc.
1. He still lives with BM/ ex-wife
2. He's still going through custody battle
3. Men in relationships
4. Men who don't take accountability
5. Men who say they not ready
6. Men who just got outta a relationship
7. Men who are always available
8. Men raised only by their mother- they were too protected
You welcome 😂...
Thank you❤
Thank you, I always appreciate those viewers who take the time and write what the speaker says are his Top #'s on things.😊
Men who don't take accountability 👎 and Men that tells lies to you about themselves!!👎
Brother Kirk,
Thank you for being woke, and sharing great advice! ✌️
Yes thank you ❤
A Red Flag that I will make sure I will never do again is letting a man rush me into a relationship before I am ready!!
Facts
Same
That one you described about a man who never grows up , always blames others, NEVER takes accountability for HIS actions, never apologizes 🎯💯
Sounds like someone else's man that YOU have to deal with 🤷🏾♀️ send em back to the rightful owner if they're lost
Some man definitely bring chaos confusion and delays in life
A lot of them....
Exactly 💯
True 💯💯💯
Some bitter women too. Some who I never even met have been stalking me like I made em a single mom & refused to pay child support or sum 🤷🏾♀️ imagine doing this in 2024
Men who have not recovered from a previous ex. Especially if they abandoned them. You will never stop hearing about it.
That was my mistake. I was a therapist and I was just filling one whole of many.
A man that has so many women friends that been in a relationship with but they still friends
Why should you stay away from this man? I’m just curious as to why this is one example.
This what narcissists do try to stay friends with their exes so they can make rounds in the rotation.
@@k.jskaleidoscope1229WORD!. MET a narcissists like this that would talk about his exes from 15 years ago, and their sexcapades, and how he is friends to all of them but yet all of them are married and tell their husbands how awesome he is, and he will also brag about talking to 6 other women apart from me but I am number 1. 😂. I stopped talking to him like hot trash.
Ooh good one, I always wondered why until I’ve dated one and it’s actually sad to me that they need that much validation and attention and yes he wasn’t raised by his mother😂😂🤣🤣
Had this experience. Said the females can become my friends too.. NO SIR!!
#5 "a male who just got out of a relationship! They wanna play the fields!"
I say men who are too honest. They’re too much of an open book, telling secrets and super deep stuff early on, especially dealing with sex. Don’t mess with him! He is “honest” with you so if you find some mess with him be will say “well I told you the deal, and you still messed with me”. Of course there can be fine lines. We WANT an honest man, but one that seems to tell you everything very easily without you asking, or casually tells you some stuff most people dont, leave him alone. I just ghosted someone like this. I can see who he is clearly, and I don’t want the drama
I'm surprised Kirk you didn't mention addictions. Alcohol, drugs, gambling
And porn!
@@suziesmith8288 especially porn.
I heard Drake had these addictions but haven't been able to hack his phones or put spy cams in his home to confirm its validity 🤷🏾♀️ guess I just don't care that much to know
Ummm those are obvious. If he has to tell you that, you have a problem and shouldn't be dating at so. 😂😂
Ummm those are obvious. If he has to tell you that, you have a problem and shouldn't be dating at so. 😂😂
My problem is the guys who think I'm their mother. That's a huge reason me and my husband didn't make it. We should be a team. I am not your maid or mother.
Or Secretary
Men who over share before the first date. For example talking about his late wife and what they used to do together.
A man who selfish and says mine for everything stay away from them just saying never takes no for an answer
So, if it was you that died , you should be forgotten?
@@irenehamilton2981I can't even fathom that delusion to connect the dots so yea stay far away. Wouldn't deal with nothing that don't make sense to me 🤷🏾♀️
#4 does Not take accountability., "
"He's Not mature." "He's Not a man!" He has no strong backbone!
Not all single moms did this kirk wow. My son's dad died when he was 5. I grew up with both parents and i grew up abused emotionally by manipulative dad. So i vowed to never put my kids in a situation that could damage them as adults. Im old school.
My son had chores responsibilities and was taught at home as well as at school. When my son was 12y of age he was washing his own clothes was able to cook and not junk food. He didn't have video games or cell phones until he was able to buy and pay the bill. He had to pay rent at a certain age buy his own expensive sneakers. Today my son is a chef of a reputable restaurant that was featured on food Network and is frequented by celebrities and NFL players.
I was severely injured and became disabled and during covid my son moved back in at 25 to take care of me and has purchased a duplex so i can be close but have my own space. He doesn't have kids and is currently carefully dating looking for a wife.
So not all men who were raised by one parent are bums or unworthy and undatable.
that's fair. But - do you allow him his own life and look for a woman of his choosing without your interference? Do you allow him to breath or he has put down his life for you?? And you see it as a good thing, to be proud of that you basically face a life to a human to later take it away ??
@@originalmix2546 absolutely! He is a grown fkn man I don't get in his business or give unsolicited advice. I gave him the tools necessary to think for himself, make his own decisions. I am his mother, his 1st teacher of life skills and first example of what a real woman looks like. I'm not sure how to respond to the latter part of your comment as it sounds a bit passive aggressive and bitter but, I hope that I answered the meat n potatoes of your question? Have a gr8 day!
This is what I needed to see and thank you for blessing me with this because I’m a single mom and I feel that fear and Gilden hearing you say all these positive things I’m just gonna stay focused and I don’t think that everyone who has two parents ends up like that I’m just gonna stop thinking about that because I feel like the more I think about that the more it’s going to manifest and I’m sure your son is wonderful and every kid can have issues even kids the two parents can end up being codependent on healthy so I think you did a great job. It sounds like And, I’m hoping you’re feeling better
Correct. Not all men raised by single moms are bums. My son isn't. He's married with 2 children. I'm rather proud of him.
@@blacksongbird100 zackly
Damnn I saw this video too late but thank God I got out these situations 🤣🤣🤣🤣💪🏽💪🏽
#5 A man who prefer a lighter skin woman. I had a man to tell I’m not light enough.
Do not get me started on that.
No matter how good you are to them, you’re still not good enough.
11 years of celibacy has been nothing but a saving grace.
you're joking? why was he even speaking with you? damn shame.
@@beverleyreid563Exactly!! Some men are what my grandmother called Color struck, the only want the fair skinned women.
Then I'm color struck too because I seem to only want daaark men😂
@@sonjajetter197lol!! I love them dark too😂😂😂😂
BLESSINGS. I agree with # 8. These men are no good. I had experience this twice. Red 🚩. Don't do it Please
A man that is new in the country who got a job offer. He is not ready for serious and wanna try dating the women in the city .
I have to agree with all of this even though I don’t want too and wish someone would have told me sooner! Each on teach one
#1 is quite the obvious no matter how much empathy they sugarcoat it with! 🙄
A(absolutely
M (most definitely
E (everything on this!
N (Now say this so the ppl in back can hear!!
I don’t agree with the last one, I have dated and had conversations with men who was raised with both parents in the house hold and they are the worst ones they don’t treat women right at all
Exactly. And that's because there are SO many abusive husbands out there, so these kids grow up watching how to mistreat a woman.
Some fathers are in the home but still absent and/or silent.
So true
Wow 😌 your words give me so much peace. I’ve been looking for clarity in so many places & never have I got the peace of mind & peace in my heart. Your words are so TRUE. I understand this because I have experienced the worst kind of men. Thank you Kirk, much love to you and your family. God bless & happy Easter 🙏✨🐰🥰
MY GOSH!!! You described my older brother to the letter with that last one! Stay blessed, Kirk.❤
You’re absolutely right! My husband is an only child raised by his mother. His father still pays child support because he never paid it while he was growing up. My husband is 38 years old. I was raised in a two parent household. The struggle has been real. Things are getting better, but it took years. We’re still working out the kinks. He’s an awesome man, but I wouldn’t recommend anyone else doing things out of order. The Bible teaching us not to be unequally yoked. Speaks a new meaning. I’ve always assumed it was just speaking in religious beliefs. That is not so.
The heritage accent of your voice and male perspective gives this informational guidance the proper accent to be taken seriously! Got it! Thank You!
Thank you for speaking from the heart. I wish I had seen this video decades ago but it is never to late to learn. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are a wonderful man with a big heart.
I tell my peeps all the time that *these* are the things we should have been taught in school. (Damn the War of 1066!) Thanks again for these gems, Kirk!
❤️❤️
War of 1066 😂😂🤣🤣
Ik this is off subject but U have some very beautiful skin❣️I CAN'T STOP LOOKING AT THE SMOOTHNESS😊
Yep going through Divorce his mother always calling him and telling him to block and moved away from me and my kids. The lady would go crazy calling him constantly and he would obey and follow everything she said . He left us fled the country and I found out he was involved through Whatsapp chats with a young girl from his country. So he left like his mother wanted and how I know this text I took photographs from his phone. Why I need this for lawyer.. evidence. We are better off without him don't have time and energy to fight . Love my life without that circus I never invited..
Don't have time for words they don't understand communication either they are the wise and I'm the dumb one as they imagine.. but yes there are crazy mothers like this that destroy more a marriage.. either way he did not know how to grow into a mature man with accoubtability.. I'm just living my life and my kids time for freedom and self love.. Thank you for this video ❤😊
Ikr my son is amazing I've raised. Him without his dad yeah it was hard
Brother Kirk,
Sometime the basics should be addressed because statistics says its over 10 million DV cases in the US and 9.8 million in the UK. Also, in my research top 3 warning signs of _busers 1. Extreme Jealousy 2. Possessiveness 3. Unpredictable...
In an Advocacy program I met a client that had to shoot her _buser to save herself and children because the situation was comtinious and it became volatile. She never spoke about it until we saw it aired in rhe local news. Please share to help someone that maybe in a situation now that need to know the basics because it may save them... Thank you for sharing.
I appreciate your honesty about a man that is raised by a single mom and never had any upbringing from a male figure. I asked that question about my own son and now I understand. Seeing it clearly now.
Most men were raised by a single mom nowadays... as was my son. He's standing on his own two feet since he started college at age 20. He has a degree in computer sciences, a full time job as a software developer, he cooks and cleans, has his own place and good friends in his life. He's 24 now. He's amazing and I sure hope he'll find a good woman eventually. He lives in Germany, speaks English and Japanese fluently (and German too obviously). He deserves love as everyone does. He wasn't spoiled with money or vacations growing up, but he did recieve my time, care and attention so he could thrive. And he does.
The man that was raised by their mother 🚩🚩 MOST of the time not All of the time. I was engaged to a young man like that when I was in my Jr year of highschool. He'd just graduated highschool. He got a job ⛽ pumping gas. He was driving his grandmother's car, he was a heavy weed smoker with no ambition. His mom even bought my engagement ring 💍 for him. I had to break off the engagement. Many years later, he still doesn't have his own car or a good job. Whew 😅 dodged a bullet !! He wasn't a bad man just not good relationship or marriage material.
You are right about the single mother raising an overcompensating and how the boy can watch a woman struggle as if its ok.
Thank you, So on point, appreciate you!❤️🙏🏽
You are always on point!
Another great video, Im going to share this one as well. Thank you ❤
So true about the single mothers! Only men can teach men! It is unnatural for a man not to be taught by a man! A woman's softness and a man's masculine are opposite. Of course there are good kids from single mothers however its about the TOOLS THAT MAKE HIM A HUSBAND that a woman cant teach! How can a woman teach him to be something that he is not. Its like if your child wanted to learn Spanish for example, would you send him to a French teacher or a Spanish teacher? Same difference if you want a boy to be a husband, he needs to be trained/ taught by a husband!
Bullllshitttt😂
I disagree
So I'm gonna counter 2 of them...the no life having one 😂 only because I'm at a place in life where I literally have no life rn. Usually I work full time, go to school full time & was raising my son full time. But he graduated, I graduated, got laid off during covid & life never quite picked back up the same. My friends are scattered across the country, broke up with my ex a yr ago, both my lil sisters had a new baby so I'm just here like 🤷 I have to start fresh but I'm enjoying the quiet before things pick up again. So not having a life isn't always a bad thing.
And the 2nd is the man from the single mother. I worked my butt off to raise my son to be a good man and husband, that was always my goal. He's 20 now, has been on his own since a few months after graduation. Has his own place, a job. He's a great partner, does his best to choose his partners wisely, girls who are working towards something, have goals, family orientated. Unfortunately he has been ghosted (I'll never understand why ppl do that), or he's had to let go of some because they're drama or immature. He's on a good path though. So don't always knock those ones. See what they're about first. At least have a conversation if they seem nice and stable. Just my 2 cents. The rest I agree with tho!!! Every time I've went down on. Standard, I've kicked myself!
Some men can be cruel and judgemental. So sad.
I just played myself with #1 and learned less than a month what was up smh
Happy Easter for you and Family 😊...thanks for your Video 😮...Marcelline from Luxembourg Europe ❤...🐰💚🐇🧡🐣💙
I don’t agree with a man raised by his Mom , it depends on how he was raised.
My feelings are if I'm good enough to live with, then I'm good enough to marry. No shacking up period
Thank you bro !
#4 though…. They’re out here!!!!!!
I think #8. should say men with mothers who have an unhealthy attachment to their son's. Not single mothers. Plenty of single mothers have raised well rounded young men and plenty of 2 parent households who have not. While there is truth to what you're saying, it depends on the emotional and mental stability of said parental figure/s.
Some men beat their wives and most men cheat but who’s to say their kids could be different 🤔
A good question to ask home or her, how long ago was your last relationship. 🎉 ❤ Thanks Kirk 😁 I feel a lil more confidence than before u said tht haha
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1 to 5 wow thank you for sharing this video and educating many of us. This is an eye opener 😳
Thanks kirk this is very good advice. ❤ happy resurrection Sunday and be blessed.
Women don't want to hear the truth..even though these may be common sense..like #1! Let him stay where he lay
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Thanks.. i love you always ♥️
I love when you talk about no 5 . When a man says he’s not ready . Even though How the she position her leg 😂😂😂..
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Great advices
I’m a single mother and I have a son ( he’s young 16) but I’m raising him to be independent and not to attach Lolol he knows how to cook( well may I add we’re Caribbean) he’s applying for jobs ect. I can understand EVERY last thing you said……I think some single moms are doing a little better.
Love the shirt about Toxic Ppl
❤ thank you,and happy Easter.... good advice ❤
Men that been in prison too. Too much mental baggage.
What you think about a man who made a mistake and shot someone at 16 then did 21 years and got out are they still mental I feel scard of him because of that 😮
@@tinalynch9283my take on those kinds is most are gay and pretend to have found the lord my neighbor married a man str8 out of prison he beat her and left her for dead only to go back to prison 🤔 and 21 years most don’t last because they can not function in the real world or result back to what got them there in the first place ijs
As a single mom: My son (adult meanwhile) became an absolute gentleman, he has been cleaning his room and washing his own clothes from the age of 8 on. He would NEVER expect a woman to "take care of him".
As a mother who raised two sons alone that have grown into wonderful, respectful, responsible men, i disagree with the last part... thank you for the message 🦋
Mr. Kirk
I love your video show because you tell the truth thank God I stop to listen to what you have to say about a man thank you I appreciate what you had to say on your video show. 😊
On number #8 it depends on the person. There are some good man that were raised by single mothers. I raised two sons, the issue that I get concerned about is them fully unstanding their true role as men. They seen me do it all..😩
Always available might mean they spend all their time with the Lord in prayer and worship. God is my life. He gets all of my time today. I do not watch TV or go to a ballgame. I am not interested in the secular worlds activities everyone seems to think are perfectly fine for us to be partaking in. Supporting Hollywood is to support evil. Same with all those big sports that even many Christian men worship and even gamble on.
Let God decide for you who you are meant to be with. Pray about it. Do not take relationship advice from someone who does not even know you or the person you like. They can say well if they grew up like this they will be this way or that way. This is prejudging people and setting them into categories of shame. I am sure you mean well but when we start to stereotype people together we will always make critical errors with some. We become oppressors.
Also men who have no relationship with their children…
😮 Wow! That's a revelation
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A man who lives with his ex is not trying to move on, he is trying to change her mind and keep her from finding someone else,or run of the new someone else. He only talks to the new woman as a back up. No man loves a woman faster than the one who needs a roof over his head. Never, never, ever let a man move into your home.
I rather just stay single its so much easier and peaceful
Ugh nothing is worse than a single mother in a relationship with a man that lets her be a single mother.
Facts. Thank u❤
Thank u so much
You left a beggar lol 😆 I know a guy that constantly begs me to be with him and won’t accept “NO” at all!!! He’s super annoying and makes me wonder why is he not taken by someone!?? Damn!!!
GOOD STUFF!!!!!
I’m big on accountability. If you can’t see your part of the issue you will repeat it
When a man speaks ugly about another woman to me, I let him know,"we're not doing that". I don't continue seeing him. Don't have time
No 2. Funny you said that " last week I saw a story of a white couple who got shoot by the new wife ...ex- father-in-law,,,, because she was fighting for custody of her 2 small child (his grandkids) from her previous marriage; now mind you she had a new baby with the new husband ; so sad that the new husband was in between that mess,,,he lost his life almost like a innocent by standard.( men and women bring drama)
Facts 🩷
Meaning will remain single forever
Kirk, I have a question. What about men who have been hurt by a woman but for some reason still wants to stay connected to the one ☝️ that hurt them?? Isn’t that awfully strange?? 🤔
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Many countries in the Caribbean are matrifocal so #8 would bump most of our men off a "potential partner" list.
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Hi Kirk,
How much for analysis or
advice session ?
And those that are asking for money early on in the Talking phase
Are you a Pisces Sun? You have a sweet, genuine energy.
Amen I agree I agree I agree need a guy and he's still at home his mother I don't care if he's 56 dump him now cuz that mother know she going to have something to say you ain't this you ain't that and you're not going to do what she does Audrey stay away from men that days with his mother that's not a mother that's a mommy a mother knows how to let her son go a mommy doesn't
It’s not bashing either one, it’s calling out the fallacies either one could be trying to put forth. It is what it is, call it out..And there are people that ARE BAD
1. Still lives with BM ... Ashley Bocanegra (it was on the news) got killed by the BM because she was forming a relationship with the baby mothers baby father
I disagree. My cousin was raised by his mom and his father was never in his life and he is a GREAT Father and husband to his wife and kids.
Every single mom is not by choice. I was thrown into being a single Mother after 12 years or marriage.
My sons are responsible adult men that take care of their women.
What about if his wife just passed away in 2021 coving...is he ready?
A Gemini!! STAY AWAY BOO BOO
I kind of disagree with point #8 because I’ve encountered great guys that were raised by single mothers and are happily married etc. However, some single mothers are overprotective and so forth and so on due to past traumatic experiences or history so I don’t feel their sons should be judged by that because some actually turn out quite well.
Nowadays, children are Bledsoe to even have a mother in their lives because so many of them are getting killed by the so called fathers/step etc.
I give up
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Omg I've delt with everyone smdh ummmm
Avoid men who have a woman as a best friend
I am spinning from his word salad..
Ooh wee, he thinks he’s cooking..