Having a Conversation with My Ex

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  • @LeaveItToLeToya
    @LeaveItToLeToya  2 роки тому +3389

    So... can exes still be friends?

    • @jacobmccalabb
      @jacobmccalabb 2 роки тому +92

      Yes

    • @alphonsowhite2524
      @alphonsowhite2524 2 роки тому +52

      Yes

    • @Tiffany-lf5gw
      @Tiffany-lf5gw 2 роки тому +157

      I believe that exes can be friends but if you are in a new relationship is it fair for your partner for you to still remain friends with that ex? Would he have every right for you to want to cut that ex loose? 🤔

    • @jqflyboi
      @jqflyboi 2 роки тому +94

      Yes! But only when the love respect is there

    • @margeishahollins6285
      @margeishahollins6285 2 роки тому +94

      ABSOLUTELY!!!! Especially when it ends on a good note, u can't deny a REAL friendship.

  • @ShaneJohnson-Brooks41
    @ShaneJohnson-Brooks41 2 роки тому +815

    “Big Slim. I’m not a thug anymore. I’m grown” Respect✊🏾

  • @kristyncathey358
    @kristyncathey358 2 роки тому +2669

    This is definitely a case of “it gets greater later.” This chemistry cannot be denied. We love this H-town love story!

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +78

      Well he is still in love with her.

    • @PatinaEdochie
      @PatinaEdochie 2 роки тому +63

      Righttt! I knew they were together cause she definitely had some post breakup classic bangers…but I didn’t know it was for as long as it was and ran as deep as it did and still does! I like they were able to do this sit down especially to clarify some stuff so people not judging like “chileee why you goin backwards wit a thug” when folks don’t really know the type man he is and how he genuinely cares about her even as a friend and they’re right…that’s is most DEFINITELY rare especially nowadays! So yea I’m here for it! She been thru so much and I just want her to be genuinely and mutually happy and loved 👑💞👑💯 Oh and imma stay tuned to her new show cause she definitely startin it off with a bang so I pray things continue to thrive🙏🏽💪🏽💯👑💓

    • @Ashley08888
      @Ashley08888 2 роки тому +8

      Facts!

    • @beautifullyblessed_
      @beautifullyblessed_ 2 роки тому +18

      Righhhhhtttttttttt. The glowwwwwwww ❤️❤️❤️.

    • @AlexxxCrossss
      @AlexxxCrossss 2 роки тому +19

      I think so but I also think he might be all the way comfortable with that fact that she has kids with someone else

  • @AnaStAnn
    @AnaStAnn Рік тому +218

    The chemistry between you two is undeniable. I think that absolutely is your soulmate

  • @MagicOceann
    @MagicOceann Рік тому +96

    Terrell got me watching LeToya all over again and loving it.

  • @TSYoung104
    @TSYoung104 2 роки тому +2717

    Yes ma'am! My ex and I had a really deep conversation and laid everything out on the table in 2020. Six months later we were back together and he proposed. We got married on January 29th of this year.

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 роки тому +85

      To God be all the Glory for what he has done...CONGRATULATIONS 🤗

    • @sgloudon
      @sgloudon 2 роки тому +25

      Awww this is beautiful 😍 congrats

    • @TSYoung104
      @TSYoung104 2 роки тому +7

      @@sgloudon thank you!! ☺️❤️

    • @TSYoung104
      @TSYoung104 2 роки тому +4

      @@sgloudon thank you!! ☺️❤️

    • @TSYoung104
      @TSYoung104 2 роки тому +4

      @@oneof7billion627 🙌🏾 amen!! Thank you!! ❤️☺️

  • @adonisd3210
    @adonisd3210 2 роки тому +666

    LeToya has that personality that would be phenomenal as a talk show host. I'm locked in now!

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +49

      She is adorable. That no good x husband's messed up. Slim thug is definitely still crushing on her

    • @LeaveItToLeToya
      @LeaveItToLeToya  2 роки тому +59

      Welcome!!

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +19

      @@LeaveItToLeToya We adore and appreciate your honesty. You always look well groomed and you are clearly dedicated to your ambitions. Slim Thug is definitely carrying you in his heart wherever he goes.

    • @eb7533
      @eb7533 2 роки тому +12

      Omg! I was just thinking the SAME THING! She would be a fantastic talk show host for sure. She’d be just the breath of fresh air we need too.

    • @mssan2016
      @mssan2016 2 роки тому +11

      Ok! This woman is a gift from God! She can do it all!!

  • @Iamjeffsledge
    @Iamjeffsledge 2 роки тому +92

    WHOOOO...I know Tommy was SICK seeing this. They're connection is crazy. The way they smiled at each other when he walked in.....they love each other deeply.

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 2 роки тому +19

      Tommy who!

    • @MrsMoore1
      @MrsMoore1 2 роки тому +7

      @@n.b.0212 Not Tommy who!! Lol 🥴😩🤣

    • @MJ-uc8yl
      @MJ-uc8yl 2 роки тому +4

      Yep, Tommy who!

  • @ritanicolebraxton4524
    @ritanicolebraxton4524 2 роки тому +515

    Had the conversation. Ended up married to my ex. Now we're in the "happily ever after" phase

    • @AfricanGirl
      @AfricanGirl 2 роки тому +2

      really

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 2 роки тому +7

      @@AfricanGirl Possibly but I always heard going back is a NO.

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 роки тому +17

      @@marriejames01 going back to the wrong person is a no, no positive growth in that person/yourself is a no…

    • @allegrabht8833
      @allegrabht8833 2 роки тому +2

      @@marriejames01 it depend why you broke up

    • @DoubleAi2-24
      @DoubleAi2-24 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂won't He do it

  • @llaws2676
    @llaws2676 2 роки тому +277

    Once a man loves a special woman, he’s gonna love her FOREVER! They are an example of that!

  • @RobynHeliece
    @RobynHeliece 2 роки тому +2446

    Anybody else find themselves smiling through the whole interview? Feels like you guys were meant to be together. I wish you both the best in whatever you decide. #HtownLove

    • @lovelylele
      @lovelylele 2 роки тому +34

      Yessss big koolaid smile

    • @krissy-jw8kj
      @krissy-jw8kj 2 роки тому +35

      The entire interview!!

    • @nicolek181
      @nicolek181 2 роки тому +66

      Yes! I hope they try dating again, It seems like they have such a great friendship. I truly believe you can meet the right person at the wrong time.

    • @jazzy4sure583
      @jazzy4sure583 2 роки тому +5

      💯💯💯

    • @queenof2kings299
      @queenof2kings299 2 роки тому +22

      YAAAASS, Just cheesing like a Cheshire cat🤣🤣🤣

  • @MissAlmostFine
    @MissAlmostFine 2 роки тому +51

    Oh that door is DEFINITELY open for them to spin the block 😂😂😂

  • @newenvisionedgrowth
    @newenvisionedgrowth 2 роки тому +188

    The shade she threw the whole interview was soooo funny to me. I love the maturity of their situation

  • @kaymelster
    @kaymelster 2 роки тому +738

    I smiled the entire time during the interview. Letoya's personality is everything

  • @reddtexx81
    @reddtexx81 2 роки тому +190

    The fact that they remember details is amazing. Their energy is so kindred

    • @tonyaelem1674
      @tonyaelem1674 2 роки тому +13

      My ex and I had a sit down conversation last night and I was shocked that he remembered so much about our past. And he had me laughing all night with his silly self, might give it another chance but I'm cautious bc I just recently ended a relationship and I just want to be single for a while

    • @Beyondme7700
      @Beyondme7700 2 роки тому +8

      @@tonyaelem1674 welljust don't forget why it didn't work the 1st time

  • @pamelahurt8306
    @pamelahurt8306 2 роки тому +534

    The chemistry!!! I smiled through the whole interview. He is your soulmate.

    • @destinydivine8465
      @destinydivine8465 2 роки тому +13

      I was smiling too hard!! Lol

    • @bag_lady557
      @bag_lady557 2 роки тому +9

      Me too, I’m like why am I smiling so hard 😂😂😂

    • @lisakaye3919
      @lisakaye3919 2 роки тому +14

      Right like are they getting back together or what?! Their chemistry off the charts

    • @tina_m_bina
      @tina_m_bina 2 роки тому +7

      Me too, sitting over here cheesing LOL my husband was like what are you smiling so hard for a puppy, baby..???

    • @luggerphilippe8409
      @luggerphilippe8409 2 роки тому +10

      They dated off and on for a decade I think that was a good run what we all see is two beautiful people that handled the situation of breaking up with love and maturity..it should be left as friends because going back into it there's more at stake they have kids and it can cause real hurt to the point where the friendship could be ruined.. I say stay friends..

  • @porciasmith5085
    @porciasmith5085 2 роки тому +328

    It’s so cool how he remembers everything about their relationship from how and when they met, their first date and everything. Most guys can’t even remember your favorite color or your birthday 😒

    • @kendrawilliams198
      @kendrawilliams198 2 роки тому +23

      He payed attention a lot.

    • @michellemann6362
      @michellemann6362 2 роки тому +2

      Right 😅

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 2 роки тому +2

      Those are the wrong guys.

    • @Professor_Kaos
      @Professor_Kaos 2 роки тому +13

      Right! I have exes that don't even remember that we've dated😑 They will see me out somewhere and try to holler at me...and I'm like dude...we've dated already remember?

    • @Zamauria91
      @Zamauria91 2 роки тому +7

      @@Professor_Kaos 🤣😂🤣😂 you too real!

  • @Titus2Chic
    @Titus2Chic 2 роки тому +160

    "When I would come home to Houston ... no matter if I lived in L.A, Atlanta, wherever it was ... when we saw each other it just felt like home again."

    • @km4336
      @km4336 2 роки тому +7

      🎯

    • @candyjamaican
      @candyjamaican 2 роки тому +1

      I read this as she started saying it.

  • @MrMzktty96
    @MrMzktty96 2 роки тому +774

    Beautiful dialogue!! Thank you Toya!! My ex and I broke up 2005. I put him out because I "thought" he was cheating. Turns out he got another job to buy me a ring (found that out while rekindling) 🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀. Fast Forward to 2018, my son graduates and invites him to the ceremony. We rekindled. Got engaged December 2019 & married December 11, 2020! Thank you Lord for second chances!! ❤

    • @sharita7270
      @sharita7270 2 роки тому +19

      Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! Congratulations!!!

    • @queenrae91
      @queenrae91 2 роки тому +12

      Wow! That’s beautiful!

    • @sexybrets
      @sexybrets 2 роки тому +3

      Awwww ❤️❤️🥹

    • @nikkiw3734
      @nikkiw3734 2 роки тому +3

      Good Stuff🤗

    • @Rio_Monique
      @Rio_Monique 2 роки тому +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dw00ds
    @dw00ds 2 роки тому +112

    Maaaaannnn, Toya snuck in sooooo many little cute digs!! "You can't miss him...annnnddd they don't."- 😂😂🤣The subtle shade was EVERYTHING! Love the relationship these two have and whether they get a chance to revisit being together or just maintain the healthy, beautiful relationship they have...they both are winning!

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 2 роки тому +124

    You can tell he still has a lot of love for Toya and it has never left ...she blushed the entire time ❤

  • @hydr8-007
    @hydr8-007 2 роки тому +251

    Just the fact that he calls you his soulmate still, to me says everything. Y'all get it together and get together. Life is too short! If I had the opportunity, I'd take my first love back again in a heartbeat.

    • @kaykaywilliams404
      @kaykaywilliams404 2 роки тому +3

      Me too, I miss him😩🥰

    • @vanessagrayman2194
      @vanessagrayman2194 2 роки тому +1

      That part

    • @kgoldmon
      @kgoldmon 2 роки тому +7

      You bring up an interesting question. I wouldn’t take him back but I’d definitely be a better friend after we ended things. I think it might have helped him.

    • @valmarie198942
      @valmarie198942 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah. She can't escape that. He ain't going nowhere.

    • @Bih1stOfAll
      @Bih1stOfAll 2 роки тому +3

      @@kgoldmon Same...I wouldn't go back...it wouldn't be the love story it seems it would be

  • @CharlotteReneeLocs
    @CharlotteReneeLocs 2 роки тому +415

    She is seriously one of the most down to earth people.

    • @lynwilson9259
      @lynwilson9259 2 роки тому +3

      She really is.. Love her. We would be best friends. Lolol

    • @njmommy2003
      @njmommy2003 2 роки тому +9

      Won't he do it. She went against the industry and still came out with a bag. I love her acting. Especially Greenleaf.

    • @tinabaygboe6879
      @tinabaygboe6879 2 роки тому +3

      So beautiful too. Her first album in 2006 I played TF out period! Lol. 💜💜💜🙏🏾

  • @MsTVSunShine
    @MsTVSunShine 2 роки тому +20

    NEVER, ever want to be back with ANY ex!!!🤣🤣🤣

  • @shanidenise704
    @shanidenise704 2 роки тому +2701

    I just have one word. Chemistry. That’s hard to deny. Thank y’all for being vulnerable in this conversation. Tuned in for sho 🙌🏾❤️

    • @wendyellis3738
      @wendyellis3738 2 роки тому +5

      Right..

    • @nakitajohns1474
      @nakitajohns1474 2 роки тому +5

      Definitely!

    • @naturale.7980
      @naturale.7980 2 роки тому +6

      Facts… it’s beautiful!

    • @tamilya449
      @tamilya449 2 роки тому +5

      Love this

    • @NinaSimone3
      @NinaSimone3 2 роки тому +2

      Wow. Going by your profile picture 📸 you definitely favor Latoya. You are Gorgeous sis!!!
      Oh and I agree with you on Chemistry.

  • @trueexclusives
    @trueexclusives 2 роки тому +3638

    This was great... and you two seem perfect for each other... I guess the universe will determine the rest.

    • @BrownMocha
      @BrownMocha 2 роки тому +30

      agree

    • @michannamurphy6816
      @michannamurphy6816 2 роки тому +71

      They would be a beautiful couple!

    • @imalwayswinning5518
      @imalwayswinning5518 2 роки тому +36

      not the universe 🙄 ain't she Christian js

    • @TRJE114
      @TRJE114 2 роки тому +2

      Nice. And totally agree.

    • @nikchar4642
      @nikchar4642 2 роки тому

      @Happy Thoughts who did? If you say Jesus you’re 🐌

  • @Shug31
    @Shug31 2 роки тому +261

    I blushed this whole interview…I’m here for these two.

  • @DanielleGillmoreJohnson
    @DanielleGillmoreJohnson 2 роки тому +108

    Their chemistry is everything. It would be nice if they decided to get back together; however, if they don't, they'll always have a lifetime of genuine friendship. Great ex-chat!!

  • @adriyolanda6702
    @adriyolanda6702 2 роки тому +324

    It sounds like he is correct with his soulmate theory. I see chemistry there that I never saw you have with the man you did marry. I hope you two can find your way back to each other. Life is short.

  • @zackarybates4065
    @zackarybates4065 2 роки тому +66

    This chemistry is undeniable !!! Slim and Toya belong together.

    • @redrebel39
      @redrebel39 2 роки тому +3

      Yes. He is really attractive!

  • @FiercelyBeauty
    @FiercelyBeauty 2 роки тому +466

    For 18 minutes and 54 seconds I looked like a “joker” with a permanent smile on my face. Lol Please make it official again. You two are PERFECT for each other. Wow, Great Video!

    • @lalala15LOVE
      @lalala15LOVE 2 роки тому +5

      😂 right ?! This was everything! I love LeToya!

    • @SevynDaWriter
      @SevynDaWriter 2 роки тому +1

      Yesssss me too

    • @lb-w3980
      @lb-w3980 2 роки тому +3

      I smiled thee whole ENTIRE times

    • @Drtist1
      @Drtist1 2 роки тому

      hahahahaahah

    • @sandraruiz3834
      @sandraruiz3834 2 роки тому +3

      lmfaoooo omg I just commented the same hella cheesin the entire video hahaha!

  • @ItsToyaRenee
    @ItsToyaRenee 2 роки тому +337

    Looks like you both are open to rekindle and I'm super excited for you both! One thing's for sure, if its meant to be, it'll always come back around!

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 Рік тому

      Unfortunately he is a sexist. He does not like when women are independent. They never worked out.

  • @anthonyadderlyjr8978
    @anthonyadderlyjr8978 2 роки тому +499

    You can definitely tell there’s a genuine friendship between the two of them and the chemistry is undeniable. If they were to get back together, I’ll definitely support it because this interview shows the level of maturity, transparency, and genuine connection!

  • @valeriewright1169
    @valeriewright1169 2 роки тому +192

    These two are SOULMATES, and they are opposites of each other. The attraction and chemistry is undeniable and that is how it is when there is a spiritual connection. It is energetic love and attraction.. They absolutely love each other deeply to pieces. They were meant to be together to show the rest of us what unconditional love looks like. ❤

  • @deirdrechildress4433
    @deirdrechildress4433 2 роки тому +408

    18 minutes, 55 seconds of THIS conversation....cheeks are hurting! Mine included! LOL! The heart wants, what the heart wants. Even after a decade. Black love is beautiful, especially when you found the one you want to do life with. Thank you for sharing. I'm tuned in!

  • @awesomelykewl1920
    @awesomelykewl1920 2 роки тому +73

    Slim is just everything! Wish them both much success and happiness in whatever they do

  • @Bizzle61
    @Bizzle61 2 роки тому +638

    This conversation was so fly and insightful. Two mature accountable adults...This was so refreshing.. Letoya you found your niche. You're such a great conversationalist. You and slims chemistry is through the roof. It literally permeated through the screen. Such a blessing...Thanks again for the great content please please keep it coming.

    • @michellemann6362
      @michellemann6362 2 роки тому +18

      They look great together 😊❤️

    • @4240Producer
      @4240Producer 2 роки тому +4

      What u said!🎯

    • @jk9084
      @jk9084 2 роки тому +20

      Yes it seems more authentic than with her ex husband

    • @4240Producer
      @4240Producer 2 роки тому +3

      @@jk9084 chemistry don't lie🤗

    • @jk9084
      @jk9084 2 роки тому +21

      @@4240Producer True that! But he also respects her opinion, which her ex husband did not. HE DEFINITELY SEES HER!

  • @LaToya13
    @LaToya13 2 роки тому +617

    Why am I over here smiling from ear to ear? This was definitely a great topic. I look forward to more content from you.

    • @fosteragyekum5948
      @fosteragyekum5948 2 роки тому +8

      Me toooo 😩

    • @sheena171
      @sheena171 2 роки тому +18

      Right, they have more chemistry than she did with her husband.

    • @BLAQGRL323
      @BLAQGRL323 2 роки тому +3

      Me too.

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +15

      @@sheena171 Say it again. Her x husband was always running from her and slim thug eluded to it. He said that he enjoys her company and that he was never the type to keep running 🏃‍♂️ from her. Dam they have something special I hope they don't give up on each other.

    • @amberthomas8922
      @amberthomas8922 2 роки тому +2

      Same!!😁😁

  • @pinkdreamer04
    @pinkdreamer04 2 роки тому +78

    I love that he pointed out her qualities/personality and it had nothing to do with her beauty.

  • @jeminakellman
    @jeminakellman Рік тому +38

    Marry him asap!! The chemistry, love, connection and respect is all there!

  • @desreenjackson7638
    @desreenjackson7638 2 роки тому +89

    LeToya, STOP PLAYING!!! 😆.....Slim would love your children as his own. The friendship, chemistry, love and respect that you have for each other is already THERE!!!!!. Whether you guys get together or not, this was a good video and thank you for sharing 🙂.

  • @yoshizworld
    @yoshizworld 2 роки тому +75

    While I don't care to talk to my exes or ask them any questions. I admire Letoya for having this talk.

  • @MrCharvisp18
    @MrCharvisp18 2 роки тому +368

    Can we get another couple of episodes with y’all two?? 🤣 I thoroughly enjoyed this!!

  • @gracious2gf
    @gracious2gf 2 роки тому +51

    I smiled the ENTIRE video. The chemistry between you two is undeniable! I wish you both the best!

  • @OnyinyeNwokorie
    @OnyinyeNwokorie 2 роки тому +116

    This was not the ex i was expecting. But y’all definitely have chemistry!
    I think exes can be friends in the right circumstances.

    • @kwannasmith
      @kwannasmith 2 роки тому +4

      Riiiight!

    • @AllByDesign4
      @AllByDesign4 2 роки тому +4

      Exes should never be friends. What kind of logic is that? You’re an ex for a reason. Don’t mess up your new relationship holding on to pieces of a failed one. Smh. I pray for some of y’all ladies FR!

  • @chloe_c919
    @chloe_c919 2 роки тому +138

    The chemistry between the two of you is undeniable. I love it.

  • @TYSHAAA
    @TYSHAAA 2 роки тому +25

    "Last time we went to therapy, I won"
    😂😂😂 it's not a competition, Sir 😭😂

  • @mywandafullife1700
    @mywandafullife1700 2 роки тому +94

    Ya'll are freaking adorable together! Time has allowed both of you to grow while still maintaining a friendship. My two cents, a committed relationship would be amazing for the two of you.

  • @khadijaevans
    @khadijaevans 2 роки тому +166

    I truly enjoyed this conversation. The chemistry is undeniable.

  • @Delaine2000
    @Delaine2000 2 роки тому +473

    Props to not everyone having a toxic relationship with their ex. My ex and I are friends and there is no animosity. You don’t have to hate each other just because y’all split and move on. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @reemcfall
      @reemcfall 2 роки тому +5

      Facts!!

    • @Tyme_flies
      @Tyme_flies 2 роки тому +3

      Right on !

    • @Tyme_flies
      @Tyme_flies 2 роки тому +2

      This might sound crazy, but my ex is closer to me now than my own brother. We started with a long distance relationship so we didn't have the kind of drama that comes with relationships when you are around each other all the time. We ended it on a good note. The rest is history!

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly!! 👍🏼 💯 that's what I say all the time. Some people can't handled it..Any other way but being nasty and difficult for no reason..Wow! WTF

  • @kenyap.williams5854
    @kenyap.williams5854 2 роки тому +430

    I was smiling ear to ear watching this. He so fine, she’s the bomb! The relationship would make a lot more since now that y’all are more mature! I feel y’all would value each other more at this point . It would probably work out this go around! Ijs! I love it!

    • @musannana7914
      @musannana7914 2 роки тому +8

      Same here, watching for the second time😍😍😍

    • @christinthemystic
      @christinthemystic 2 роки тому +9

      Same. He's so handsome, and I was smiling all throughout this.

    • @char1000
      @char1000 2 роки тому +3

      Me too!! 😂❤

    • @speezy-dt9du
      @speezy-dt9du 2 роки тому +3

      I was the exact same way while watching this 🤗

    • @rudonatasha
      @rudonatasha 2 роки тому +2

      Me too. I'm still smiling 😃 😊

  • @MYRAJAY527
    @MYRAJAY527 Рік тому +17

    Am I the only one who wants them to be together like right now?! They are so cuteeeee😍😍😍

  • @danadane318
    @danadane318 2 роки тому +201

    My cheeks hurt from smiling for almost 19 minutes straight😂🥰 Loved this!!!

  • @akwarren9832
    @akwarren9832 2 роки тому +39

    That she brought him into another level of the industry and helped him get on…💯 Whether or not they connect romantically again, you can tell that he respects her a lot…Friends like that are worth more than gold!

  • @ninna329
    @ninna329 2 роки тому +153

    This was everything, I felt like a fly on the wall. This is how you kick off a talk show.

  • @karlinabrown4071
    @karlinabrown4071 Рік тому +28

    I'm getting Nelly & Ashanti vibes lol ❤️

  • @shahidarob7842
    @shahidarob7842 2 роки тому +444

    Y’all betta hurrup and lock this in! People who have connections like y’all need to hold on to each other and not let go - especially in times like these! It was fun to see Slim in an open dialogue setting😊

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +26

      Trust and believe they are dating.

    • @ShareeRedd
      @ShareeRedd 2 роки тому +1

      Yessssssss

    • @PRETTYASSP
      @PRETTYASSP 2 роки тому +6

      @@debrajames3865 I hope they are! Always loved them together back then 💟

    • @ckinhimdaily
      @ckinhimdaily 2 роки тому +1

      I hope not. She was this way with her 2nd ex husband. So no.

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +3

      @@ckinhimdaily What are you trying to say. Clearly their connection is real. Her 2nd x husband was a cheating fool that always ran away from her. This man runs to her.

  • @EButta71
    @EButta71 2 роки тому +118

    As a therapist, I think that's hilarious 😂 he said, "last time we went to therapy, I won!". Lawd lol you can't win at therapy.

  • @aquariansagetarot6475
    @aquariansagetarot6475 2 роки тому +65

    LeToya’s spirit and personality is so golden 🥰

  • @yummyrainB
    @yummyrainB 2 роки тому +31

    Omg, to describe a person as home?… That is a deep connection to security and love. I love you guy’s friendship for that and having healed, and I am hoping the best because you guys definitely have me blushing way too hard! 😍🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @mrsjwp588
    @mrsjwp588 2 роки тому +155

    That's who she should've married. Friendship is the foundation of a relationship. I feel the love and connection through my screen. I LOVE it. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @elenam9435
      @elenam9435 2 роки тому +19

      I heard he had a child during that time and thats what ended the relationship.

    • @chanabrown3233
      @chanabrown3233 2 роки тому +20

      Anybody besides Tommy . Her ex husband was in it to use her it was all about her money and taking care his daughter tommy had a whole child he was definitely looking for a come up

    • @NyhnaLaw
      @NyhnaLaw 2 роки тому +9

      Nope. He clearly wasn’t ready and didn’t love her like he could’ve. Friends don’t mean husband.

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 2 роки тому +8

      @@NyhnaLaw exactly. The chemistry looks good but he wasn't mature enough at the time. This may be their season now.

    • @scorpiodoll
      @scorpiodoll 2 роки тому +4

      Hey Siri play we belong together by Mariah Carey😍😍😍😍😩😭😭😝😝✨✨😍😍😭😭😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @courtneypaxton4152
    @courtneypaxton4152 2 роки тому +94

    Omg Toya, you better get your man, Sis!! We can see the chemistry from here and y’all look so freaking good together!! Face it, you’re soulmates!

  • @nicoleb8842
    @nicoleb8842 2 роки тому +57

    The chemistry between the two of you is unmatched! I say give it another shot!!!

  • @DesiLu4Life
    @DesiLu4Life 2 роки тому +8

    He looks younger now! He remembered because he probably is still feeling her! 🥰

  • @tamikacarthan7297
    @tamikacarthan7297 2 роки тому +342

    I think there's a chance for you and Slim again! The way you two communicate, laugh, and look at each other; I can see it!😍 Some adjustments will need to be made, but I think there's a chance.💯

    • @RL_Williams
      @RL_Williams 2 роки тому +8

      Yes. I see it too.

    • @angellg25
      @angellg25 2 роки тому +6

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯💯😍😍😍😍

    • @angelamotivates4549
      @angelamotivates4549 2 роки тому +5

      I agree

    • @Mrshenryxo
      @Mrshenryxo 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed! You can tell off rip that it's THERE! 🥰

    • @babyrheas
      @babyrheas 2 роки тому +5

      I definitely see them in a relationship again. He listens while she speaks and their connection is inevitable. Of course they would have to talk through some issues that they have had first. It seems as though they are both more mature enough to revisit, rekindle and make it last

  • @JzanellJ
    @JzanellJ 2 роки тому +69

    My ex & I had a similar conversation about 2 years ago after an almost 10 year separation. We talked & decided that we weren’t done yet & we have been back together ever since, more mature & both willing to work on ourselves & we are currently building a life together, even after all we went through years ago.

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 2 роки тому +35

    He walked in & I smiled the entire time ❤..love this conversation.

  • @Prettynicc.
    @Prettynicc. 2 роки тому +7

    She’s so goofy and silly😂😍😍 she’s too cute❤️❤️

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 2 роки тому +161

    Love them together! This is what maturity looks like. Anything is possible...

  • @tories8080
    @tories8080 2 роки тому +136

    I was blushing the entire time watching this episode. You and slim seem to still genuinely love and care for one another. There is no denying that chemistry, it’s all over you two 🔥🔥🔥I LOVE IT and you LeToya❤️ #Ietlovewinandrule #grownfolks #communicationiskey

  • @cece6592
    @cece6592 2 роки тому +88

    I’m sorry but I felt the love in this entire interview! It’s just there. Y’all are definitely soul mates.

  • @askdrdmt
    @askdrdmt 2 роки тому +9

    Toya,… BIG SLIM is the One. The chemistry, bond, transparency, friendship, laughter, and love is truly there.. it always has been there.. and will always be there with soulmates. The light in both your eyes and smiles is undeniable. You both have lived, learned and loved - now y’all gonna Grow forth!! Be happy 🦋

  • @clchawaii09
    @clchawaii09 2 роки тому +85

    The chemistry between them makes me smile.

  • @_andallthatjass
    @_andallthatjass 2 роки тому +147

    I smiled the whole time watching and I honestly believe they’re already working on being together.
    They are def soulmates.

  • @blessedhighlyfavored9818
    @blessedhighlyfavored9818 2 роки тому +20

    Didn’t recognize him at first , I’m definitely loving his appearance now versus back in the day! The way he speaks and carries himself is very attractive.

  • @onpointconsulting5104
    @onpointconsulting5104 2 роки тому +14

    Leave it to Letoya should be longer. I didn't want the covo to end. Great segment!

  • @SirEclectic
    @SirEclectic 2 роки тому +121

    Chemistry aside, ladies(and some men) someone cheating on you is NOT a regular up and down of a relationship. That's not the standard and I hate that she felt that because they were having disagreements and she chose to remove herself to clear her head that it was an excuse for him to go have sex with other women. We shouldn't blame ourselves for other's lapse in judgment.

    • @beegee4791
      @beegee4791 2 роки тому +16

      Nailed it perfectly well. Yes, they may be soulmates BUT that’s also a huge issue in a relationship.

    • @shayshay8119
      @shayshay8119 2 роки тому +4

      FACTS

    • @terickastidbits2342
      @terickastidbits2342 2 роки тому +5

      If you “remove yourself” from the relationship we aren’t together! So you don’t get consideration about who else I sleep with. We aren’t together anymore

    • @Zamauria91
      @Zamauria91 2 роки тому +1

      Love all points made under this thread. You all are right! All made great points.

    • @SirEclectic
      @SirEclectic 2 роки тому +4

      @@terickastidbits2342 Removing yourself from a negative situation does not mean an exciting of the relationship. It makes no sense to keep going back and forth in a heated moment to no resolution. Sometimes stepping away from the moment allows both parties to calm down and reassess their thoughts and approach. You took my words too literally.

  • @19GENESE13
    @19GENESE13 2 роки тому +79

    I don't want to be friends with my exes, chile. For those of yall who can, more power to you. I like to learn my lessons without the reminder.

  • @camillehenderson3194
    @camillehenderson3194 2 роки тому +73

    Exes can definitely still be friends, as long as their is mutual respect, for sure!

  • @hazelgoddess2335
    @hazelgoddess2335 2 роки тому +32

    I love how they speak highly of each other! i think they should definitely give it another try 💕

  • @kimberlyanderson7060
    @kimberlyanderson7060 2 роки тому +468

    This was a great episode! The chemistry between you two is undeniable! To answer your question, yes I believe Ex’s can remain friends.

    • @b.jerelljones7312
      @b.jerelljones7312 2 роки тому +21

      I have to disagree, there would always be the awkwardness and sexual tension lingering around. 🤷🏿

    • @oh.kay_9515
      @oh.kay_9515 2 роки тому +2

      @Trena collier same!!! I wouldn’t even give them my number, let alone a follow on Instagram. You’re a ex for a reason

    • @Zamauria91
      @Zamauria91 2 роки тому +2

      Depending on how things ended. I'm friends with all of my ex except 1. Friendship is everything. I guess that's why we were able to become friends. But that 1, let's just say the foundation should definitely be Friendship. Toxic!

    • @ForeverGodsGirl03
      @ForeverGodsGirl03 2 роки тому +1

      Not with this kind of chemistry exes can't be friends. I'm wondering why did she get married because she still has a strong chemistry with this guy. I wouldn't trust them two alone if I was dating one of them.

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 2 роки тому

      @Trena collier yesssssss lol 😆we could be friends I'm the same once it's over I may speak and keep it moving.

  • @reshemareality7482
    @reshemareality7482 2 роки тому +143

    Through the interview, I was blushing the whole time for y’all , love to see love 🥰

    • @Oregonsistah
      @Oregonsistah 2 роки тому +5

      Me too! Just smiling and emotional and want them to work

    • @staciegatling1911
      @staciegatling1911 2 роки тому +2

      Me too y'all. Like seriously, I'm hoping they revisit this as adults. It's beautiful to see and they are both beautiful. Just come on God make it happen for them. I think he would respect and honor her children like his own and she is already a great woman. 🥰🙏

    • @Grandiva_005
      @Grandiva_005 2 роки тому +2

      Me right now!🤣

    • @djackson1812
      @djackson1812 2 роки тому +1

      Same...lol.

  • @Ms.jaja1
    @Ms.jaja1 2 роки тому +240

    The chemistry between y’all is undeniable and beautiful. I feel like y’all should give it another go. This was beautiful to watch and I love seeing authentic relationships. Black Love for the win! 🏆

    • @NC-qt8ns
      @NC-qt8ns 2 роки тому

      I went to Big Ike with Slim. And like you said Toya he was so down to earth. We had computer class together Ms. P He sold mix tapes (cassettes) out his backpack

  • @chevonphillips3563
    @chevonphillips3563 2 роки тому +19

    I love the chemistry between them. Sometimes you have to go full circle in life to realize what's meant and will always be there...

  • @TheRetiredHotGurl
    @TheRetiredHotGurl 2 роки тому +95

    I can't stop smiling FOR y'all! That energy, whew. Thanks for a great episode.

  • @queenofweaves916
    @queenofweaves916 2 роки тому +95

    Girl this was gooooood!!! I was expecting the ex husband no Sis went back and pulled out the Slim Soul Mate! Baby y’all energy gives me old married couple just comfortable in your skin. And I can see the fear and hesitation of not wanting to mess up the friendship. But if you two go into this with everything on the table like your rules for arguing, open communication, you will be fine. I’m married 23 years but in our 10th year it fell apart we separated my husband even filed for divorce on me. Then we decided to go to marriage Counsling and it changed us. We both did the work and use those tools today. We learned how to argue, how to listen, and we never stop learning about each other. I’m rooting for you two, I can see Slim loving the woman you have grown into. You both said that the relationship feels like home. Baby it’s time to go home, but lay your foundation and set your rules. I heard y’all loud and clear, he needs to stop cheating and he needs for you not to leave him when y’all are arguing. And now y’all are grown with families but y’all are both family oriented anyway. Girl I’m rooting for you two🥰🥰🥰

  • @armwoodtara6170
    @armwoodtara6170 2 роки тому +100

    Y’all look really GOOD together. And the fact that y’all are still friends speaks volumes. Perhaps you all are souls mates and the road you have been on has lead you back to him! May God bless it!

  • @laquitiah4792
    @laquitiah4792 Рік тому +4

    They are so cute. It seems like they both have matured and they have a great friendship. And it's surprising that he was ready for the family life when they were younger.

  • @LikeNoOther251
    @LikeNoOther251 2 роки тому +119

    Undeniable chemistry ! It flows naturally I can tell they were friends first and that’s extremely important in a relationship. At this point they should just give it another go

    • @dawnhillard3388
      @dawnhillard3388 2 роки тому

      They would have been a nice couple! Friends first goes a long way

  • @tamekiamiles1431
    @tamekiamiles1431 2 роки тому +440

    Y’all seem perfect for each other! Give it one more try as adults now. This truly show the connection you two have and I love it. I can see you all as one big loving blended family 🥰

    • @feliciamarshall5620
      @feliciamarshall5620 2 роки тому +1

      Me too amen❤️💪🏿

    • @sanfordjames2968
      @sanfordjames2968 2 роки тому +21

      They've been giving it one more shot off and on for 10 years, they look good together but something is off that we don't see.

    • @dstreet43
      @dstreet43 2 роки тому +5

      @@sanfordjames2968 bam! He couldn't even go and introduce himself.

    • @charlesbakston7414
      @charlesbakston7414 2 роки тому +6

      @@sanfordjames2968 Exactly. People here are ridiculous and hyping this thing up. Just like they did when Letoya got with Tommicus. I knew from the start that when they got engaged it wouldn't go far(along with the fact that she jumped from the first marriage into the second marriage not long which that was a red flag). I don't fall for b.s.

    • @charlesbakston7414
      @charlesbakston7414 2 роки тому +4

      @@sanfordjames2968 And everytime they got back together, they broke up cause slim thug was cheating.

  • @AshlyErin
    @AshlyErin 2 роки тому +18

    Y’all need to go ahead and get back together and quit playing, I feel the chemistry all up thru this screen!

  • @tanishanelson34
    @tanishanelson34 Рік тому +17

    I love the energy ya’ll bring together , he’s right ya’ll are SOULMATES!!

  • @vh1711
    @vh1711 2 роки тому +55

    I remember this relationship from back in the day. Y’all have undeniable chemistry!!! Hopefully, y’all can spin the block again.

  • @demetrianicole1657
    @demetrianicole1657 2 роки тому +595

    Letoya: “It feels like home.” We can feel this even through the screen. Here I am wishing that they would get back together, but only if it’s right and healthy. Whatever may come, wishing you both the best. 🤎

    • @ThisisKalaTV
      @ThisisKalaTV 2 роки тому +8

      💯 ➡️ I couldn’t agree more with you, Miss Demetria.▪️😊

    • @jordanwhitehead1251
      @jordanwhitehead1251 2 роки тому +3

      he cheated on her with her cousin

    • @jorjahpeach1711
      @jorjahpeach1711 2 роки тому +11

      @@jordanwhitehead1251 If that is fact, that was many years ago. They were both young, rich & had access to everything & everyone. Latoya stated that there family is still close. I think forgiveness has been given & they could possibly make it, if they tried again.

    • @queenearline
      @queenearline 2 роки тому +1

      Real spill

    • @Younique2011
      @Younique2011 2 роки тому +3

      @@jordanwhitehead1251 whattt how u kno

  • @EdwinYoungSings4Life
    @EdwinYoungSings4Life 2 роки тому +121

    Me and my ex recently had the DEEPEST conversations of understanding where we stand, the traumas we experienced, and the hurt we caused on each other. It was some deep deep healing we experienced with talking

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 2 роки тому +4

      Are you free Edwin.?. Meaning are you healed?.

  • @shondablanks5729
    @shondablanks5729 2 роки тому +84

    Omg, on the outside it looks like you guys will get married in a few years. The chemistry is there. Toya you look way more happier than when you were married to the other guy.

    • @BeauTAUful1
      @BeauTAUful1 2 роки тому +10

      I sooo want you two to get back together!!! Your chemistry is undeniable!! I love it!!

    • @cocobrown8698
      @cocobrown8698 2 роки тому +6

      Love this for her

    • @ajgraves8016
      @ajgraves8016 2 роки тому +17

      Because this is the guy she really loves the other nigga just was a settling thing

    • @jumb0shr1mp6
      @jumb0shr1mp6 2 роки тому +8

      1000x happier. And Slim has always shown her nothing but Love in his interviews.

  • @knatarshaallen3280
    @knatarshaallen3280 2 роки тому +21

    You can never go backwards to what was, but you both should build something new going forward. You can tell you both are in love with each other. Hella chemistry ❤️

  • @soniarena5250
    @soniarena5250 2 роки тому +90

    Yall look good together, good chemistry, good vibe. Probably should give it another try!

  • @lynwilson9259
    @lynwilson9259 2 роки тому +26

    LeToya is too adorable when describing Slim. Same with Slim admiring the awesome qualities of LeToya. Love the mutual respect for one another here. Anytime someone is described as "home"...that's a beautiful thing. This discussion is so healthy and happy.. I love it.

  • @creativembl8405
    @creativembl8405 2 роки тому +134

    Get married already and live a happy life together. Those small challenges y’all will face is nothing,I see love between y’all two over powering all of that.People are out here going crazy just wanting to have a soulmate like that and haven’t found them. Latoya you BETTER!!!🥰

    • @healthyconsultsvending5757
      @healthyconsultsvending5757 2 роки тому +1

    • @rhi3trini440
      @rhi3trini440 2 роки тому +3

      Isnt she already married?

    • @kimberlybarrett8079
      @kimberlybarrett8079 2 роки тому

      @@rhi3trini440 No they got divorced.

    • @rhi3trini440
      @rhi3trini440 2 роки тому +1

      @@kimberlybarrett8079 Oh I didn't know she actually left him. I know she said she wanted privacy to make things work but I'm happy she found the strength to leave him. He didn't deserve her and she's gorgeous. I hope she heals and is abundantly blessed😍