I have 2 narc sisters - they are very petty. And, the language they use around the house is -' why has this happened?', 'who moved that?' Etc. Living with them both for over 11 months has given me ptsd & made me physically sick. I can't stand them. But, listening to this podcast has made the pain they inflict, slightly more bearable. Thank you Dr Mona.
My dear dear sister. I love you so much for the sake of Allah. I am convinced finding your podcast is the answer to my desperate duaas this Ramadan and during my umrah 2 months ago. May Allah protect you, love you and give you happiness in dunya and akhira. A huge weight has been lifted from me. I literally felt like I was about to loose my sanity, and I have been close to getting panick attacks several times because of my situation. I will in shaa Allah get through this podcast little by little and eventually read the book too. Your work is INVALUABLE, it is literally the missing piece in our ummah today. Please keep up your work and may Allah bless your every breath. Alhamdulillah for you. I pray that I get to meet you one day in shaa Allah ❤
Sadly, I can relate with almost everything described in this podcast. I was prevented and ridiculed by my ex whenever I wanted to practice Islam, was controlled in every aspect of my life from seeing friends and family, to being coerced into taking drugs because whenever I used to react to the abuse - he would say I’ve become ‘hyper’ and needed weed to calm me down. I was driven to a point where I thought death was the only answer for me to escape this because I genuinely thought I was trapped. I was made to feel that I had to continue with ‘sabr’ and that I was a bad Muslim if I wasn’t obeying my husband’s every command. It hit me when I realised that I started to feel a hatred towards Islam and blamed God for what was happening to me. It was then that I realised that Allah swt would never allow/want someone to stay in a marriage like this if it was turning me away from Islam and that was my wake up call to leave. Alhamdulilah I did 🙏🏻 thank you for all your work Dr Mona❤
My heart goes out to you for what you've endured. I'm so relieved you found the strength to leave. Your courage is inspiring, and may Allah bless you abundantly. To all women: please, never tolerate any form of abuse. Be wary of men who manipulate religion to control or mistreat you. It is not okay and I am sure deep down you know it as well. As a man, I urge you: if any man behaves like Sister Mona described, RUN. You deserve so much better. Be kind to yourself and leave that situation as soon as you can. Don't be fooled by outward displays of religiosity. Pay close attention to their character and actions. Do they embody the kindness and compassion of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), or do they resemble something more sinister like Iblis? May God protect us all from evil.
@@BriceXin Thank you for your kind comment and dua, it’s all good… I share things here and there so people know that I can truly relate and understand them. A lot of therapists haven’t dealt with these individuals and as a result are unable to connect well with others. There is nothing desirable about being a victim in any situation, so my channel has been created to help people understand and be empowered in their mindset. Narcs are also victims of their jinn qareen, so they’re not powerful either.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook my pleasure, thank you for your amazing content and how real and sincere you are, I am sincerely learning a lot from it. I agree with everything you said in your comment, by the way I finally have received your book that I ordered from Amazon and super excited to start reading it soon inshaAllah!
It's sad and painful how I have experienced pretty much everything being said in these podcasts and amazed as to how one person could relate to so much and still have to endure all this with no way out in sight and still standing. Nothing short of a miracle. I tell myself, now that I deserve a medal from Allah, at this point in life.
Amazing content as usual. Narcissists are a different beast. The fact that they have two faces shows that they know exactly that what they do is unacceptable.
If the husband is a God Fearing and loving person a wife actually will actually love telling him about each and every detail of her life and routine like a three year old girl and the poor guy has to hear it lol
Great video , could you please make a podcast on Narcissistic mothers and the oppression their daughters go through from childhood to adulthood. Detailing the signs ,symptoms and effects of the emotional / psychological abuse . Also how to heal from a Narcissistic mother and recognise signs of Narcissism in a future spouse. Would be really helpful Jazakallah khairan
@@scentsoftravelmeditation Because having a narcissistic mother effects daughters and sons differently. In majority of cases daughters suffer more from narcissistic type abuse more than sons especially the eldest daughters in ethnic households . In many cultures sons are praised and put on a pedestal. That’s not to diminish the experience of boys who have gone through narcissistic abuse. I just want to know from the dynamic of mother to daughter.
@@yara22273 your comment shows unparalleled selfishness and subjective views many conservative girls such yourself suffer of. This is why most of u have failed marriages because your ability to empathise is distorted by ur conditioning to despise men and view them as sexual monsters instead of humans
@@yara22273 my psycopath mother caused me severe hernia for 4 years. Ultra severe depression for 9 years. Ultra severe anxiety for 9 years. Severed connections between me and my brothers. I have been without family since I was a child. Ruined my relationship with my relatives. Prevented me from having a job most of my life. Destroyed my friendships and prevented me from having friends. Caused severe multiple food allergies, for 9 years I are very limited variety of foods and entered hell when had traces of gluten or milk. I had chronic inflammations for 14 years. Pain was filled in every single aspect of my life. I never knew what colours were for 8 years. I had sleep problems and identity crisis, without having father or anyone because she prevented it. She tried to get me into prison, mental health hospital and poisoned me systematically because she was a doctor. I was a top student as a child, my grades reduced because of her. She orchestrated people to drug me in school with hard drugs. I was sick all the time for years,and when I reached the pinnacle of hell that’s when she gave me the demonic stare of black hate, for no reason whatsoever except I was a child who had a good heart
@@yara22273 She stopped talking to me for years and texted me randomly saying “you are not Muhammad, you Iblis”. She lured gov secret agencies from multiple countries to launch relentless wars against me, with budgets of millions of euros. I was up against thousands of people for so many years, 24/7, a war that would make u insane in days. And she coordinated her evil with spies to put untold evil on me
My ex husband is withholding something from me and doesn’t even want to coparent, these are Shayateens among the humans…Subhan’Allah Since he emotionally abused me into a reverse discard, nearly 2 years ago, I just want peace and for Allah to stop the mind games that the Narc is playing, even after our divorce. I feel as though I spent over 20 years married to a complete stranger. Jazak’Allah khair sister, your information greatly eases our confusion…Alhamdulillah
I‘m unterstanding english very well,but it is difficult for me to write in right words. I wish I can meet woman from my country to speak personality what happens to us. Facebook groups are not the same. Till now I have no real person in my Environment,who‘s understanding or expirience where I go through .. I‘m living in Germany and coming from Marocco Perhaps we can connect together with our Sisters in a near by place if they coming from Germany or Marocco,too? I would like to know Sisters to talk,grief,pray ,share our tears and heal our wounds in sha Allah 🤲🏼
I am a convert, and every time I stood up for myself. He said things like why do you pray your prayers do nothing for you. Why do you wear the hijab take it off because a Muslim does not behave like you. You are a kafira. And the worst thing was that he always said to me that I was a kafira. And I always got so much grief and fell on the ground and started talking to Allah swt and said ya Allah how can he say I am a kafira when I believe in You and worship You alone, then I got dreams from Allah where I started praising Allah swt, and that I was crying and said fear Allah to him then I knew Allah swt wanted to comfort me. It made my imaan to become stronger Alhamdoellilah.
Yes unfortunately they get jealous of your faith because they know as a convert yours will be more sincere than theirs and they try to bring you down. Glad you didn’t give up x
@@themuslimnarcissistbook May Allah swt protect us❤️ They seek to deceive Allah and the believers, yet they only deceive themselves, but they fail to perceive it. Surah 2:9
JazakumAllahu Khayran Sister ❤️ your podcast is helping me Alhamdullilah. I haven’t been able to access therapy or anything of the sort and your precise explanations have helped me get some clarity. The parts where you said you felt like you were living in a mental hospital, and married to a monkey. Thank you for the comic relief. I resonate with both those statements subhanallah. 😔
You're welcome, I'm glad it helped. The comic relief is there to help lighten the load a bit haha it's not the best subject in the world. May Allah bless you :)
JazakAllah khair sis. Inkept hold of my faith but my eldest can't cope and is on the brink of losing faith. I've shared your videos in the hope that they understand narcissism
Allahu Akbar. How you make sense of all the nonsense they do is amazing. A good takeaway from this episode is the child like behaviour they display. Gooshhh. Just like when children do somethings and the reason you overlook their excesses is because it is a "child" and you love them naturally with a little calmof knowing that when they grow up, to a large extent, they won't misbehave in such manner. But the difference with this petty narc child is that the more they grow, the worse they get. What hurts the most is that you love them genuienly until you see the monster in them. Wallahi if Allah rescue you from any narcissit, be grateful every second of the rest of your peaceful life. Yes! They find peace in the toilet. They can spend hours on their phones there😊😊😊........... So disgusting. Alhamdulillah. God bless you Dr. Mona.
Good Lord! Mona used exact words as my ex. He always liked to say that he is better looking than me and am lucky to have him. One time we were at the mall, he even wanted to ask people at the mall who is better looking btn us lols. I only saw a midget with a big head.
Thank you for such a great podcast. We empaths can resonate with so much and with what our Scholars do too. I recently listened to a sermon on youtube from Mufti Tarik Masood in Pakistan. He keeps going on about how women are supposed to take care of the home after marriage and not go to work. Also, he keeps referring to liberal aunties who get women to start working. What he did not say was how there was such a sad case here recently in the UK where a woman from Pakistan was tortured in a sickening way. I cannot even write the full details. She did what Mufti saheb wanted. No Muslim helped her. If she had been working she would have escaped from the trap that was set for her as soon as she arrived from Pakistan.
1:03:13 they are extremely controlling with the kids because they dont see their children as individuals. They feel their children are just an extension of themselves.
When my narc found second supply he stoped being rude to me. No more crazy shouts and angry behavior. He used to say look how I have changed. Only if you allow me to marry second wife I will stop being angry. I’m angry because I’m not sexually satisfied. If I will be fully satisfied then I won’t be angry on you anymore.
The toilet situation made my smile a little, especially as my ex husband knew that I valued my privacy and would always lock the door. He would see it as a joke, by jiggling the door handle and trying to unlock the door, only to make me call out for him to stop. They really do enjoy our discomfort. I very much hope that these vile individuals get a taste of their own poison, they do deserve a spouse that will treat them as they have treated us. Mine is still very petty and as stubborn as a mule, even after walking away nearly two years ago. I’m ashamed to say that my reactive abuse was not my finest of moments, but we do/did what was necessary to survive and not ‘rock the boat’, especially when they want you to side with them regarding situations with our children…Subhan’Allah Mine would sabotage any diet I was on, then call me fat and comment negatively on my facial features, then he would proudly look at himself in the mirror and talk about how attractive he thought he was. I used to see it as a joke, but after learning what he is, I now know that he actually meant every single word. It’s hilarious how superficial they are, so bothered about their physical appearance, but not paying attention to their ugly character and heart…delusional beings indeed 😔♥️
It’s wild how so many of us have gone through this and then these clowns wonder why women don’t obey and respect them. They’re a joke and delusional to think that women will naturally submit to demonic behaviour like that. They always get a taste of their own poison when they run to a new narc or a back burner narc after you. Mark my words. It’s a promise from Allah that these people will end up with their own kind.
I felt like taking back everything I gave a man-child. He did a reverse discard and left me swimming in confusion. He proposed and told me to give the ring back the very next day. The way I asked him for a cup of juice triggered his hatred towards me so marriage off... He taunted me by sending people to spy on me and trying to be extra friendly to my co-workers on social media.
Their behaviour is disgusting. Too many women are experiencing this. They take back what they gave you if they change their mind about you deserving it, when they are the ones who should never have been considered for marriage from day one. It’s a lesson my dear don’t worry. Alhamdulilah you didn’t marry him, Allah saved you.
It is very rare to get a narc from 2 empath parents and if someone does then he/she would have been under the influence of black magic or bad friends if the empath moves away from home.
I’ve noticed my narcissistic husband doesn’t communicate with me at all but doesn’t have an issue communicating with his 2nd wife. Do a narcissist communicate with another narcissist well?
Yes, so think of it like this. He speaks English and you speak Chinese, because you both have a completely different personality language and outlook on the world, so naturally he's going to struggle to understand and communicate with you and see things via your perspective and vice versa, whereas the narc speaks his same language English, so communication is easier and less effort, as they understand each other. This is why Allah says, vile men are for vile women and vile women are for vile men, it's because they know and get each other. Narcs get very frustrated being with people who are so hard to understand.
Agreed. My narcissistic ex married a narcissist. Together they were highly abusive towards the children. They still are abusive and their divorce was traumatic for all the children. They’ve psychologically damaged all the children. May Allah SWT continue to protect us Amin
Dr. Mona, there's one question to which I still can't find an answer. As Muslims, when we experience Narcissistic abuse (perhaps because we are more of a codependent than an empath) and leave the narcissist, it helps us to heal and become a better version of ourselves, become more closer to Allah and become an empath. Recently, I'm seeing that there a lot of non-muslims going through narcissistic abuse; especially women, who are very kind and compassionate in nature. Would Allah allow narcissists to enter non-muslims' lives also to get them to contemplate about their purpose in this dunya and find a way back to Allah by finding Islam through this narcissistic abuse? Just curious to know the wisdom behind non-muslims going through narcissistic abuse. Thank you ❤
I have 2 narc sisters - they are very petty. And, the language they use around the house is -' why has this happened?', 'who moved that?' Etc. Living with them both for over 11 months has given me ptsd & made me physically sick. I can't stand them. But, listening to this podcast has made the pain they inflict, slightly more bearable. Thank you Dr Mona.
My dear dear sister. I love you so much for the sake of Allah. I am convinced finding your podcast is the answer to my desperate duaas this Ramadan and during my umrah 2 months ago. May Allah protect you, love you and give you happiness in dunya and akhira. A huge weight has been lifted from me. I literally felt like I was about to loose my sanity, and I have been close to getting panick attacks several times because of my situation. I will in shaa Allah get through this podcast little by little and eventually read the book too. Your work is INVALUABLE, it is literally the missing piece in our ummah today. Please keep up your work and may Allah bless your every breath. Alhamdulillah for you. I pray that I get to meet you one day in shaa Allah ❤
Aww thank you so much may Allah bless you I’m so glad it’s all helping alhamdulilah ♥️♥️♥️
@@themuslimnarcissistbook
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿
Sadly, I can relate with almost everything described in this podcast. I was prevented and ridiculed by my ex whenever I wanted to practice Islam, was controlled in every aspect of my life from seeing friends and family, to being coerced into taking drugs because whenever I used to react to the abuse - he would say I’ve become ‘hyper’ and needed weed to calm me down. I was driven to a point where I thought death was the only answer for me to escape this because I genuinely thought I was trapped. I was made to feel that I had to continue with ‘sabr’ and that I was a bad Muslim if I wasn’t obeying my husband’s every command. It hit me when I realised that I started to feel a hatred towards Islam and blamed God for what was happening to me. It was then that I realised that Allah swt would never allow/want someone to stay in a marriage like this if it was turning me away from Islam and that was my wake up call to leave. Alhamdulilah I did 🙏🏻 thank you for all your work Dr Mona❤
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My heart goes out to you for what you've endured. I'm so relieved you found the strength to leave. Your courage is inspiring, and may Allah bless you abundantly. To all women: please, never tolerate any form of abuse. Be wary of men who manipulate religion to control or mistreat you. It is not okay and I am sure deep down you know it as well.
As a man, I urge you: if any man behaves like Sister Mona described, RUN. You deserve so much better. Be kind to yourself and leave that situation as soon as you can.
Don't be fooled by outward displays of religiosity. Pay close attention to their character and actions. Do they embody the kindness and compassion of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), or do they resemble something more sinister like Iblis?
May God protect us all from evil.
@@BriceXin Thank you for your kind comment and dua, it’s all good… I share things here and there so people know that I can truly relate and understand them. A lot of therapists haven’t dealt with these individuals and as a result are unable to connect well with others. There is nothing desirable about being a victim in any situation, so my channel has been created to help people understand and be empowered in their mindset. Narcs are also victims of their jinn qareen, so they’re not powerful either.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook my pleasure, thank you for your amazing content and how real and sincere you are, I am sincerely learning a lot from it. I agree with everything you said in your comment, by the way I finally have received your book that I ordered from Amazon and super excited to start reading it soon inshaAllah!
@@BriceXin Oh that's awesome, thank you! I hope you enjoy reading it. I'd love your Amazon review once you're done with it. May Allah bless you :)
It's sad and painful how I have experienced pretty much everything being said in these podcasts and amazed as to how one person could relate to so much and still have to endure all this with no way out in sight and still standing. Nothing short of a miracle. I tell myself, now that I deserve a medal from Allah, at this point in life.
Sorry to know that :( you surely will get the medal you deserve x
God bless you sister. I hope the amount of healing you are facilitating trough your work. May you be rewarded for your deeds.
Amazing content as usual. Narcissists are a different beast. The fact that they have two faces shows that they know exactly that what they do is unacceptable.
This is the best one yet...jazakAllah ❤
If the husband is a God Fearing and loving person a wife actually will actually love telling him about each and every detail of her life and routine like a three year old girl and the poor guy has to hear it lol
Great video , could you please make a podcast on Narcissistic mothers and the oppression their daughters go through from childhood to adulthood. Detailing the signs ,symptoms and effects of the emotional / psychological abuse . Also how to heal from a Narcissistic mother and recognise signs of Narcissism in a future spouse. Would be really helpful Jazakallah khairan
Why just daughters? Sons aren’t human being as well?
@@scentsoftravelmeditation
Because having a narcissistic mother effects daughters and sons differently. In majority of cases daughters suffer more from narcissistic type abuse more than sons especially the eldest daughters in ethnic households . In many cultures sons are praised and put on a pedestal. That’s not to diminish the experience of boys who have gone through narcissistic abuse. I just want to know from the dynamic of mother to daughter.
@@yara22273 your comment shows unparalleled selfishness and subjective views many conservative girls such yourself suffer of. This is why most of u have failed marriages because your ability to empathise is distorted by ur conditioning to despise men and view them as sexual monsters instead of humans
@@yara22273 my psycopath mother caused me severe hernia for 4 years. Ultra severe depression for 9 years. Ultra severe anxiety for 9 years. Severed connections between me and my brothers. I have been without family since I was a child. Ruined my relationship with my relatives. Prevented me from having a job most of my life. Destroyed my friendships and prevented me from having friends. Caused severe multiple food allergies, for 9 years I are very limited variety of foods and entered hell when had traces of gluten or milk. I had chronic inflammations for 14 years. Pain was filled in every single aspect of my life. I never knew what colours were for 8 years. I had sleep problems and identity crisis, without having father or anyone because she prevented it. She tried to get me into prison, mental health hospital and poisoned me systematically because she was a doctor. I was a top student as a child, my grades reduced because of her. She orchestrated people to drug me in school with hard drugs. I was sick all the time for years,and when I reached the pinnacle of hell that’s when she gave me the demonic stare of black hate, for no reason whatsoever except I was a child who had a good heart
@@yara22273 She stopped talking to me for years and texted me randomly saying “you are not Muhammad, you Iblis”.
She lured gov secret agencies from multiple countries to launch relentless wars against me, with budgets of millions of euros. I was up against thousands of people for so many years, 24/7, a war that would make u insane in days. And she coordinated her evil with spies to put untold evil on me
My ex husband is withholding something from me and doesn’t even want to coparent, these are Shayateens among the humans…Subhan’Allah
Since he emotionally abused me into a reverse discard, nearly 2 years ago, I just want peace and for Allah to stop the mind games that the Narc is playing, even after our divorce.
I feel as though I spent over 20 years married to a complete stranger.
Jazak’Allah khair sister, your information greatly eases our confusion…Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulilah 🙏
I‘m unterstanding english very well,but it is difficult for me to write in right words.
I wish I can meet woman from my country to speak personality what happens to us.
Facebook groups are not the same.
Till now I have no real person in my Environment,who‘s understanding or expirience where I go through ..
I‘m living in Germany and coming from Marocco
Perhaps we can connect together with our Sisters in a near by place if they coming from Germany or Marocco,too?
I would like to know Sisters to talk,grief,pray ,share our tears and heal our wounds in sha Allah 🤲🏼
@@samye1385 Salam sis, I'm in Germany
I am a convert, and every time I stood up for myself. He said things like why do you pray your prayers do nothing for you. Why do you wear the hijab take it off because a Muslim does not behave like you. You are a kafira. And the worst thing was that he always said to me that I was a kafira. And I always got so much grief and fell on the ground and started talking to Allah swt and said ya Allah how can he say I am a kafira when I believe in You and worship You alone, then I got dreams from Allah where I started praising Allah swt, and that I was crying and said fear Allah to him then I knew Allah swt wanted to comfort me. It made my imaan to become stronger Alhamdoellilah.
Yes unfortunately they get jealous of your faith because they know as a convert yours will be more sincere than theirs and they try to bring you down. Glad you didn’t give up x
@@themuslimnarcissistbook May Allah swt protect us❤️
They seek to deceive Allah and the believers, yet they only deceive themselves, but they fail to perceive it. Surah 2:9
This brought tears to my eyes, I’m so happy Allah gave you those beautiful dreams.
@@Letyourlightshine333 Alhamdoelillah sister ❤️
JazakumAllahu Khayran Sister ❤️ your podcast is helping me Alhamdullilah. I haven’t been able to access therapy or anything of the sort and your precise explanations have helped me get some clarity.
The parts where you said you felt like you were living in a mental hospital, and married to a monkey. Thank you for the comic relief. I resonate with both those statements subhanallah. 😔
You're welcome, I'm glad it helped. The comic relief is there to help lighten the load a bit haha it's not the best subject in the world. May Allah bless you :)
JazakAllah khair sis. Inkept hold of my faith but my eldest can't cope and is on the brink of losing faith. I've shared your videos in the hope that they understand narcissism
Yes it is great podcast! Thank you everything you sad is so true.
Allahu Akbar. How you make sense of all the nonsense they do is amazing. A good takeaway from this episode is the child like behaviour they display. Gooshhh. Just like when children do somethings and the reason you overlook their excesses is because it is a "child" and you love them naturally with a little calmof knowing that when they grow up, to a large extent, they won't misbehave in such manner.
But the difference with this petty narc child is that the more they grow, the worse they get. What hurts the most is that you love them genuienly until you see the monster in them. Wallahi if Allah rescue you from any narcissit, be grateful every second of the rest of your peaceful life.
Yes! They find peace in the toilet. They can spend hours on their phones there😊😊😊........... So disgusting.
Alhamdulillah. God bless you Dr. Mona.
Amazing podcast
Good Lord! Mona used exact words as my ex. He always liked to say that he is better looking than me and am lucky to have him. One time we were at the mall, he even wanted to ask people at the mall who is better looking btn us lols. I only saw a midget with a big head.
😂🤣
Thank you for such a great podcast. We empaths can resonate with so much and with what our Scholars do too. I recently listened to a sermon on youtube from Mufti Tarik Masood in Pakistan. He keeps going on about how women are supposed to take care of the home after marriage and not go to work. Also, he keeps referring to liberal aunties who get women to start working. What he did not say was how there was such a sad case here recently in the UK where a woman from Pakistan was tortured in a sickening way. I cannot even write the full details. She did what Mufti saheb wanted. No Muslim helped her. If she had been working she would have escaped from the trap that was set for her as soon as she arrived from Pakistan.
1:03:13 they are extremely controlling with the kids because they dont see their children as individuals. They feel their children are just an extension of themselves.
Ramadan Mubarak, I’m so glad you got out of that marriage and thank you for sharing your experiences, may Allah make life easy for you
When my narc found second supply he stoped being rude to me. No more crazy shouts and angry behavior. He used to say look how I have changed. Only if you allow me to marry second wife I will stop being angry. I’m angry because I’m not sexually satisfied. If I will be fully satisfied then I won’t be angry on you anymore.
Sis wallahi the same thing happened to me
Im so sorry :( may Allah cool your hearts in the dunya and give you good in the akhira @@dailysfy403
may allah reward you😊
The toilet situation made my smile a little, especially as my ex husband knew that I valued my privacy and would always lock the door.
He would see it as a joke, by jiggling the door handle and trying to unlock the door, only to make me call out for him to stop.
They really do enjoy our discomfort. I very much hope that these vile individuals get a taste of their own poison, they do deserve a spouse that will treat them as they have treated us.
Mine is still very petty and as stubborn as a mule, even after walking away nearly two years ago.
I’m ashamed to say that my reactive abuse was not my finest of moments, but we do/did what was necessary to survive and not ‘rock the boat’, especially when they want you to side with them regarding situations with our children…Subhan’Allah
Mine would sabotage any diet I was on, then call me fat and comment negatively on my facial features, then he would proudly look at himself in the mirror and talk about how attractive he thought he was. I used to see it as a joke, but after learning what he is, I now know that he actually meant every single word.
It’s hilarious how superficial they are, so bothered about their physical appearance, but not paying attention to their ugly character and heart…delusional beings indeed 😔♥️
It’s wild how so many of us have gone through this and then these clowns wonder why women don’t obey and respect them. They’re a joke and delusional to think that women will naturally submit to demonic behaviour like that. They always get a taste of their own poison when they run to a new narc or a back burner narc after you. Mark my words. It’s a promise from Allah that these people will end up with their own kind.
Sharenting and family vlogging is a horrible thing. Dad challenge podcast speaks about it a lot. They’re all narcissistic!!! It’s horrifying
I felt like taking back everything I gave a man-child. He did a reverse discard and left me swimming in confusion. He proposed and told me to give the ring back the very next day. The way I asked him for a cup of juice triggered his hatred towards me so marriage off... He taunted me by sending people to spy on me and trying to be extra friendly to my co-workers on social media.
Their behaviour is disgusting. Too many women are experiencing this. They take back what they gave you if they change their mind about you deserving it, when they are the ones who should never have been considered for marriage from day one. It’s a lesson my dear don’t worry. Alhamdulilah you didn’t marry him, Allah saved you.
You’re so brave ❤ may Allaah reward you ❤
Ameen sis thank you ♥️
Question:Are all narcs spawn from at least one nwrc parent. Or can you have a narc raised by two empaths?
It is very rare to get a narc from 2 empath parents and if someone does then he/she would have been under the influence of black magic or bad friends if the empath moves away from home.
I’ve noticed my narcissistic husband doesn’t communicate with me at all but doesn’t have an issue communicating with his 2nd wife. Do a narcissist communicate with another narcissist well?
Yes, so think of it like this. He speaks English and you speak Chinese, because you both have a completely different personality language and outlook on the world, so naturally he's going to struggle to understand and communicate with you and see things via your perspective and vice versa, whereas the narc speaks his same language English, so communication is easier and less effort, as they understand each other. This is why Allah says, vile men are for vile women and vile women are for vile men, it's because they know and get each other. Narcs get very frustrated being with people who are so hard to understand.
Agreed. My narcissistic ex married a narcissist. Together they were highly abusive towards the children. They still are abusive and their divorce was traumatic for all the children. They’ve psychologically damaged all the children. May Allah SWT continue to protect us Amin
@@safina2022Ameen 😔♥️
@@themuslimnarcissistbook good comparison.
Dr. Mona, there's one question to which I still can't find an answer. As Muslims, when we experience Narcissistic abuse (perhaps because we are more of a codependent than an empath) and leave the narcissist, it helps us to heal and become a better version of ourselves, become more closer to Allah and become an empath. Recently, I'm seeing that there a lot of non-muslims going through narcissistic abuse; especially women, who are very kind and compassionate in nature.
Would Allah allow narcissists to enter non-muslims' lives also to get them to contemplate about their purpose in this dunya and find a way back to Allah by finding Islam through this narcissistic abuse? Just curious to know the wisdom behind non-muslims going through narcissistic abuse. Thank you ❤
Yes absolutely :)