Why you struggle with communication skills!

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  • @askvinh
    @askvinh  Місяць тому +146

    Check out my FREE 3 part series on my profile to improve your mind and mouth connection ✅

  • @BlissOn47
    @BlissOn47 Місяць тому +1458

    100% agree. When I was in college, I used to lock myself in a room for months to study for exams. And when the exams were over and I started having social interactions, I knew what I wanted to say but I would fumble my words. Speaking is a motor skill. You need practice.

    • @ASHISHCHAUHANYT
      @ASHISHCHAUHANYT Місяць тому +20

      This issue is with me as well brother 😢

    • @orenawaerenyeager
      @orenawaerenyeager Місяць тому +6

      I too have been introvert for my whole life, same issue.

    • @AbdulRahmanYussif-b9c
      @AbdulRahmanYussif-b9c Місяць тому +7

      That's absolutely the truth. I suffer same fate due to criticism from friends of overtalking😢

    • @idontthink
      @idontthink Місяць тому +11

      The problem is not the speaking. It’s translating from the mind to the mouth. Thoughts are much faster and more abstract than words, so you need to find a way to slow down and organise your thoughts with a particular rhythm so they can “flow” to your mouth.

    • @Wintergreen19
      @Wintergreen19 Місяць тому +3

      I think reading lot of books is going to fix big problems, Reading repairs experiences you haven't had.

  • @Raquel-xf6rh
    @Raquel-xf6rh Місяць тому +245

    I like how he educates on why certain skills are harder for some people and what to do about it instead of just saying "talk more confidently"

  • @plannerjoy
    @plannerjoy Місяць тому +24

    I recently came to realize that because I spent a lot of time by myself when I was little I learned to be by myself and think but not express my thoughts or feelings. I thought I was shy but I think my mom and dad didn’t teach me to interact with other people from a young age. I played with kids my age but that didn’t translate into making me expressive. I think it’s something that needs to be trained by parents from an early age. I encouraged my daughters when they were little - to introduce themselves to adults and carry on small conversation. They both grew up extroverted and comfortable expressing themselves. Im so proud of them. As for me, I’m work in progress.

    • @yulyiaeki4337
      @yulyiaeki4337 Місяць тому

      Some parents are great, but they were educated the same, so they didn't know how to handle the education of their children when it came to socialization. They weren't thought either. I don't want to blame my parents, I love them, but because I'm shy and introverted without friends in my 33, partially, it's their fault too.

  • @Bookkeey
    @Bookkeey Місяць тому +398

    So on point . When i was young parents didn't allow me to go out . Praised me cuz i was calm and not so talkative . Ended up being a shy introvert don't know how to express myself . Now that i have grown up they suddenly expect me to be all talkative and friendly which is so difficult now

    • @Lily-yg4dl
      @Lily-yg4dl Місяць тому +14

      Same here

    • @Cvbhgf456
      @Cvbhgf456 Місяць тому +3

      Yes

    • @something7419
      @something7419 Місяць тому +1

      same

    • @Demonwolf_07
      @Demonwolf_07 Місяць тому

      Same, my father is a introvert,so he did not used to let me play with other children when I was a child and after changing school each 1 or 2 years, I slowly got used to be shy and not confident so start speaking less but fast. Now I can't speak few words in hindi clearly, let alone English.

    • @niiico2351
      @niiico2351 Місяць тому +1

      Damn is this me speaking 🤯
      I completely relate to this.

  • @bmwkY24
    @bmwkY24 Місяць тому +20

    This man is so wise. I absolutely love the value he provides to the world.

  • @enigma2303
    @enigma2303 Місяць тому +32

    I passed my job interview yesterday and the interviewer himself was shocked when he knew it's my first time applying for the bpo industry. I just watch vinh videos and I improved my command in English a lot

  • @hitts8928
    @hitts8928 Місяць тому +251

    I had goosebumps, because you don't know how much i struggled with this thing and STILL

  • @Carnerd101
    @Carnerd101 Місяць тому +69

    I was raised to be seen and not heard as a child. It took me a long time to recover that conversational muscles required to communicate.

    • @jyothi9913
      @jyothi9913 Місяць тому

      Felt like speaking for me... It's hard to get over and I'm someone who is still struggling...

    • @sugahoney89
      @sugahoney89 Місяць тому +1

      Same, 😢

  • @fauvecorrigan1233
    @fauvecorrigan1233 Місяць тому +5

    This is why I think it's great experience for teenagers to have a summer job. It helps build social and professional skills and teaches independence.

  • @letspumpkin
    @letspumpkin Місяць тому +177

    I felt called out 😂 but what he said is true, I don't really talk much since i was a child and right now as an adult im struggling with this issue 😢

    • @noria2856
      @noria2856 Місяць тому +7

      I can relate 😢 I'm struggling to express myself

    • @jenniferrole7369
      @jenniferrole7369 Місяць тому +1

      That is actually true because I also experience that until now Im still trying my best to express myself to others 😢😢

    • @Ginseng14
      @Ginseng14 Місяць тому +2

      Thinkers have a hard time conversing because we are focused on the persons authenticity of their intentions.
      Thinking is better than overly speaking and end up not noticing strange behaviors.

    • @ChannellRajal
      @ChannellRajal Місяць тому

      Yessss

  • @strangepotterhead160
    @strangepotterhead160 Місяць тому +655

    covid did me dirty before that I was really chatty but not going to school for 2 years straight really messed my communication skills

    • @ashrunzeda4099
      @ashrunzeda4099 Місяць тому +38

      Same.
      I was like a stutterer back when I was in senior high. When I went to college, I made it a goal to change AND I ACTUALLY DID. I became the life of the party and people admired me.
      Then covid happened and yeah, I'm a stutterer again.

    • @strangepotterhead160
      @strangepotterhead160 Місяць тому

      @@ashrunzeda4099 I wouldn't say I was that confident in school before covid after that when I started my sophomore year I couldn't get look people in the eye and it took me another year to show people my face without a mask

    • @strangepotterhead160
      @strangepotterhead160 Місяць тому

      ​@@ashrunzeda4099 hope you are improving with your stutter

    • @-Justussamuel-
      @-Justussamuel- Місяць тому +3

      SO REAL.

    • @abetterfuture4787
      @abetterfuture4787 Місяць тому

      The ramifications of the unconstitutional shutdowns will be felt for years.

  • @martibuenaventura
    @martibuenaventura День тому

    What a learning experience this is, the way he looks at him and how he radiates empathy in such a sincerely and profound way with his body language, the words and the volume of the voice... I hear everything he said but how he say it is what blows my mind, what a good speaker

  • @exoduscypher4161
    @exoduscypher4161 Місяць тому +3

    If someone gets you mad enough where fear leaves you from having to be cautious and trying to sugar coat every word, the words will flow out of you like water in perfect sync with the brain.

  • @stardust__007
    @stardust__007 Місяць тому +27

    Ahh you described my plight accurately. Since childhood I was not encouraged to speak my thoughts, and hence over the time my mind generates thoughts at the speed of light but I haven't been able to say it aloud and it shattered my confidence

    • @user-yc3fw6vq5n
      @user-yc3fw6vq5n Місяць тому

      That's what's the cause of the worLd's problems, there shouLd be no minimum Voting Age

  • @themotivationtemple
    @themotivationtemple Місяць тому +2

    I've recently started to see how vital communication is in any type of relationship. Without proper communication, neither party truly knows the truth behind someone's action. I wish us all to get better at communicating with one another ❤

  • @lenagates8223
    @lenagates8223 Місяць тому +9

    Yeah, my childhood was not so good and I was the quiet kid who would play alone in a corner. My observation skills are insane but I used to struggle a lot and relied on my best friend (an extrovert) to do all of the talking. Then I started working in a call center to support myself through college and it took me solid 3 years to make that mind and mouth connection. Keep in mind that it took me 3 years of talking with strangers for 4 hours a day to have a good connection and I’m still working on it to be great.

  • @vandanajain2384
    @vandanajain2384 Місяць тому +81

    That's totally me, I can write what's in my mind but can't say the same well enough. 😢

    • @ketricepage9690
      @ketricepage9690 Місяць тому +6

      Same. People probably meet me in public and are disappointed if they follow my social media. I write effortlessly and have been told, poetically. 😅

    • @vandanajain2384
      @vandanajain2384 Місяць тому

      @@ketricepage9690 😅🥲

    • @carinelog6106
      @carinelog6106 Місяць тому

      I can relate. Starting a writing practice helps a lot

    • @oolala53
      @oolala53 Місяць тому +1

      I taught advanced English in high school and was surprised that so often the students who wrote the most brilliant papers hardly ever made a contribution in class. I know it’s possible it took them longer to think over there writing but I believe they had any good insights on the spot. I don’t mean to sound nasty, but there were some kids who just loved to talk in class and their comments were good but not great and some were very confusing. I sometimes wondered if those sharper kids were afraid that were going to sound like that.

  • @dodgemastersama
    @dodgemastersama Місяць тому +3

    I - LOVE - this man. This way of viewing and talking about these challenges, it's so validating and teaching.

  • @Huhhuhwhuhuhh
    @Huhhuhwhuhuhh Місяць тому +5

    I’m both happy to be understood and frustrated that I didn’t learn this. I often feel so profound within but when I speak it’s just… nonsense. It’s a major insecurity of mine.

  • @sol_swrvlz1687
    @sol_swrvlz1687 Місяць тому +6

    This is exactly my problem, I overthink all the time and have trouble making conversation sometimes, but I’ve been getting better and better these past couple years

  • @Seriouslyfunny1
    @Seriouslyfunny1 Місяць тому +9

    I grew up as a single child and my father was mostly out for work. And I didn't have many friends where I lived. So I grew up as an introvert.
    But my communication skills are still good.
    And I think the main reason behind that is that I learned to talk to myself as a kid and I still do. Doing even that is enough in my opinion, because in the end all that matters is how you speak and articulate, not who you are talking to.

    • @Zeemas
      @Zeemas Місяць тому +3

      This is actually an advice from Vinh as well from another video. Talking to yourself out loud is good practice and better than none.

  • @jenot7164
    @jenot7164 Місяць тому +6

    When I was young and I think like this still. The less someone knows about me, the better I sleep at night, because there is less for others to use against me.
    I know it is stupid, but it actually helped me cope with anxiety.

    • @bodawei425
      @bodawei425 Місяць тому +3

      It's not stupid, I find it interesting on the contrary. But there is a point on which we are all mistaken: other people think much LESS about us than we imagine. They care much LESS about us than we think. Tell me how many strangers you crossed today that you could describe? Even if they looked a little original or strange or funny. You don't think about it or only 2 seconds, then you move on. Would you imagine that they should worry about your judgement about them? No. Even for people that we know, actually. I think you should try to open, progressively, to people you think you can trust. You will realize you don't risk much and it will open you some possibilities. Of course sometimes you will be disappointed. Be ready for it. It will not kill you.

    • @jenot7164
      @jenot7164 Місяць тому

      @@bodawei425 Thank you 😊 I‘ll do it.

  • @captaincatten7547
    @captaincatten7547 Місяць тому

    The most impressive thing about the way he talks is that not only the wording, the tone and the voice are extremely well orchestrated, but the body language sync sooooo well as well. Truely impressive

  • @HassanGuure-f8x
    @HassanGuure-f8x Місяць тому +61

    Thats True Vinh. i Tried To find Out Few days Ago And i Realized that i Can't Articulate The Exact Thought Which is in My Mind .Thanks bud ✌🙏

  • @Ravenzero-oz7sf
    @Ravenzero-oz7sf Місяць тому +42

    I struggle from this. Thanks for putting this on spot

  • @vandanajain2384
    @vandanajain2384 Місяць тому +10

    Vinh, this looks like a problem majority of the people are facing , so please make videos on how to get better with it ...

  • @cybertron2600
    @cybertron2600 10 днів тому

    3 years in covid isolation has done this to me. I need to strengthen my mind mouth connection. Glad to have seen this.

  • @edainari
    @edainari Місяць тому +1

    OMG thank you. I wasn't really allowed to speak throughout my childhood and even as an adult woman. I was in toxic relationships from the beginning of my life until very recently, whose primary tactic(one of them) was to deprive me of my voice

    • @user-yc3fw6vq5n
      @user-yc3fw6vq5n Місяць тому

      That's what's the cause of the worLd's problems, there shouLd be no minimum Voting Age

  • @asdasdsadasd4
    @asdasdsadasd4 Місяць тому +5

    The method Vinh thought before will work here and that's talking more slowly which I do at work since I also got the same problem. Talking slowly gives me more time to parse my thoughts before it comes out coherently.

  • @ashrafAL111
    @ashrafAL111 Місяць тому +2

    Makes sense. Wow... you just explained something I've struggled with my whole life.
    Guide me to the solution please👏

  • @khanaqsa8143
    @khanaqsa8143 Місяць тому

    Strongly agree with his view
    When I was young I didn't talk , I just used to avoid any social gatherings and most of the time remain silent and bcoz of these I'm really struggling in communicating with h others

  • @_agath_
    @_agath_ Місяць тому +26

    Thats exactly what happens to me rn
    I never got to speak a lot because everyone around me kept speaking so much and never let me speak out....
    In school...with my parents...in my family...
    I learned to keep it short and now struggle to speak more then 3 sentences in a row....
    The only time where there is no barrier is when i am really really confortable...

  • @mrsbluesky8415
    @mrsbluesky8415 Місяць тому +1

    I’m told that I didn’t speak to anyone except my mom a little bit until I was about 4. I was still painfully shy after that until I hit my teens, then slowly started to revert back to not speaking much. It’s true you either use it or lose it.

  • @locngo
    @locngo Місяць тому +1

    One guy who's actually legit in this field

  • @deanna.radiant
    @deanna.radiant Місяць тому +3

    Glad I saw this in YT shorts today! So true!

  • @akshitagrawal1004
    @akshitagrawal1004 Місяць тому +47

    So sir, How to have a Good connection between thinking and talking
    How to Strengthen it?

    • @NikTambahan
      @NikTambahan Місяць тому +3

      Pin this please

    • @TylerCales
      @TylerCales Місяць тому +9

      Your thoughts are exponential from your talking, trick is…whomsoever you are talking with, connect your talking to their thinking. You’ve done the thinking, now connect your talking to bridge to their thinking. Always start a conversation prepared, but flexibility and adaptation will help with their talking. Boom, bonds form.

    • @NikTambahan
      @NikTambahan Місяць тому +1

      @@TylerCales Wow good explanation
      thank you for the tips 🤞

    • @NikTambahan
      @NikTambahan Місяць тому

      @@TylerCales okeyy do you have steps or some structure after knowing/connecting with their thinking ?
      Tbh its hard to create chemistry even with my own parents 😔
      To be frank the reason i'm terrible communicators is bcs i'm super quiet in my childhood 🥺

    • @gkaur1522
      @gkaur1522 Місяць тому +3

      Practice. I think he's suggesting that you need to practice talking in order to get better at communication. He often suggests talking in front of a mirror or recording yourself talking. The more you practice, the better you get.

  • @MonstrousCreatures0918
    @MonstrousCreatures0918 Місяць тому

    Sir whenever you speak,I begin to think that we haven't even learned "how to use our tongue"...🤤😌
    Each word that comes out your mouth is gem......✨

  • @taaayooos
    @taaayooos Місяць тому +7

    Wow I see the next iteration of Vin unfolding in front of my eyes and it’s beautiful. From helping with speech to serving the development of individuation within all of us. Cheers mate! ❤🎉

  • @dianeterry6299
    @dianeterry6299 Місяць тому

    This is so true! As an only child and introvert, I think A LOT but never have to articulate my thoughts to anyone. Therefore public speaking is so much more difficult for me.

  • @divafutihaturrohmah5335
    @divafutihaturrohmah5335 Місяць тому +1

    this vid have popped out on my both reels and ytshorts in less than an hour. social media's algorithm is craaazy

  • @kg-tp2ti
    @kg-tp2ti Місяць тому +2

    Coach Vinh, you are amazing! Thanks for breaking down all these complex topics into abc's. You are the best! And you do all this with Empathy!

  • @eribean8862
    @eribean8862 24 дні тому

    I’ve learnt to obey and not say. This is me 100%

  • @alirezamehdizadeh3981
    @alirezamehdizadeh3981 Місяць тому

    When this guy talk I just wanna listen and learn

  • @memegirl4035
    @memegirl4035 6 днів тому

    Sir bcz of your awesome advice I gave a Tedtalk today at my school I'm in grade 9th and it went so well even though I added some stuff on the stage and forgot some. Thank you much ‼️

  • @samsam-6195
    @samsam-6195 Місяць тому +1

    People should think more before they speak and people should give time for the thoughts to become words... those thoughts are worth wating for

    • @user-yc3fw6vq5n
      @user-yc3fw6vq5n Місяць тому

      ELijah Muhammad says think at Least 5 times before thought, we can remember 5 to 9 eLements of memory short term, don't believe anything unLess you've gone through each debunking each other's statements and debunk of the debunk, and debunk of the debunk of the debunk, 5 to 9 times

  • @lesbambi4398
    @lesbambi4398 Місяць тому

    It's been a long time since I've used this language. But the skill regression from extended isolation is so real

  • @Oki-t7q
    @Oki-t7q Місяць тому

    I went through this, practice one hour everyday infront of a mannequin. You will excel all the “gifted” communicators within one year

  • @leaf.n1nja
    @leaf.n1nja Місяць тому

    This makes so much sense! I never knew why I struggled so much with speaking what went on in my mind and thought I was just slow or smth 🫢

  • @ello.adib.vaiya143
    @ello.adib.vaiya143 Місяць тому +2

    My fav guy. Only person that understand me

  • @Someonefromsomewhere.01
    @Someonefromsomewhere.01 Місяць тому +1

    That's me!🙋
    He is describing me.

  • @Sndy524
    @Sndy524 Місяць тому

    I know probably a lot of people told u that you talk well but Imm say it regardless you really do know how to talk in a really articulate way.

  • @QuabenaQuansah
    @QuabenaQuansah Місяць тому +8

    Vinh, can you please make a full video on just the topic. I have the same problem. Please🥺

    • @xladde
      @xladde Місяць тому

      ua-cam.com/video/_n23PZRevIk/v-deo.htmlsi=s7UVscl76Sgi6bmv

  • @BellaPella866
    @BellaPella866 Місяць тому +5

    I grew up with parents who spoke two different languages which confused me to the point that I wasn't very good at either. On top of that, I was very very shy. So this explains a lot why I am the way I am... I embrace it tho! I value how good I am at thinking and writing, while simultaneously always work to get better at articulating my thoughts verbally😊

    • @jellyyyy9331
      @jellyyyy9331 Місяць тому +3

      Hi, I'm currently studying second language acquisition and something really interesting came up when I saw your comment! I learned that those whose parents speak two different languages may have a tendency to become bilingual naturally!
      And there's a concept called "translanguaging" and if you master your second language (or are a high-level SL learner), you can naturally switch between your 2 languages when you speak!
      (just a tip about communication, plus I'm not a native eng speaker... Hope you're doing well!!!)

    • @BellaPella866
      @BellaPella866 Місяць тому

      @@jellyyyy9331 oooh interesting!! My dad speaks Norwegian and my mum speaks Thai - I'm fluent in Norwegian (and English cause I studied abroad) but not Thai unfortunately...although I was told I had moments as a child where I spoke Thai pretty well without rly knowing, so the language is probably hiding somewhere in my brain waiting to be picked up again😂 I picked up English quite easily as a child tho so the bilingual thing makes sense...

    • @MtbEMS
      @MtbEMS Місяць тому

      Hey me too. I’m curious, do you have an accent in both languages?

    • @BellaPella866
      @BellaPella866 Місяць тому

      @@MtbEMS nope, I've been told there's no way you'd know I'm Norwegian whenever I'm speaking English😂

    • @MtbEMS
      @MtbEMS Місяць тому

      @@BellaPella866 hey interesting 🤓👍

  • @commuicatewithpallavii
    @commuicatewithpallavii Місяць тому

    Very deep insight! Mastering the mind and mouth connection, is an effective communication skill. It helps in putting out your word with confidence and making yourself heard!

  • @Jax8117
    @Jax8117 Місяць тому

    It’s alright it’s how i like it. Alone in my head.

  • @nama1243
    @nama1243 Місяць тому +2

    That make sense now, sometimes I had the answer in my head but it difficult to articulate until later I know what sentence I need to say. But weirdly enough, I’m quite chatty when Inwas talking with myself in front of the mirror 😅

  • @LitWarrFFP
    @LitWarrFFP Місяць тому

    I could listen to this brother all day!

  • @RaveAuclair
    @RaveAuclair Місяць тому

    Thank god I always talk by myself. Had a full blown discussion and arguments with myself outloud😂 obviously when I’m alone

  • @thisguyfks9250
    @thisguyfks9250 22 дні тому

    Wow. This makes so much sense! I'm a thinking machine.

  • @LenhaRDT0130
    @LenhaRDT0130 Місяць тому

    As an introvert, I can relate 10000%...

  • @theicekingonYT
    @theicekingonYT Місяць тому +2

    A thing that I learnt to do struggling with the same thing is, this is weird now that I articulate it, I premeditate a lot of the very important thoughts and conversations that I really want to get out long before I ever have to do that when I need to get it out I just do. It’s a lot but it works

  • @mahnoortahir2896
    @mahnoortahir2896 Місяць тому

    When you talk it makes me feel that you talk about myself. I am exactly the same person which you talk about.

  • @derpyguy3611
    @derpyguy3611 Місяць тому +1

    maybe that's the reason ive been struggling with explaining my thoughts

  • @gavinsanderson1448
    @gavinsanderson1448 Місяць тому

    That’s me. I was a middle child, my brother needed constant attention so I was always quiet.

  • @SetSubarashii
    @SetSubarashii 24 дні тому

    this video is so spot on and I relate to that man in the blue so much!

  • @Roberto-cc7rt
    @Roberto-cc7rt Місяць тому

    Strengthening the mind and the mouth.

  • @nikolairose2739
    @nikolairose2739 Місяць тому

    Ngl. I started doing smalltalk ai. Not sure what it is called really but it has cool ai prompts and it tests your speaking ability.
    Spending like 20 minutes on it just doing exercises has improved my confidence a ton.
    Better than reading out loud only or talking to myself.

  • @julias.w8
    @julias.w8 Місяць тому

    omg! so relatable, I thought I was the only one. and when I explained why it happened to me, it made me feel like I blamed on the pandemic. In fact, my tongue, mouth muscle, and jaw movements were kinda tough to move. I stuttered and even twisted my tongue while speaking. this makes me just mad.

  • @sugarcrane7982
    @sugarcrane7982 Місяць тому +2

    it makes sense why im good at writing essays 💀

  • @jackieterry-realtor959
    @jackieterry-realtor959 Місяць тому

    I completely agree with this. How would you recommend someone that has this challenge to overcome it and become a betterspeaker

  • @SaritaRawat-z1b
    @SaritaRawat-z1b Місяць тому +18

    Sir, how do I build connection with mind and mouth for a better conversation ?

    • @xladde
      @xladde Місяць тому

      ua-cam.com/video/_n23PZRevIk/v-deo.htmlsi=s7UVscl76Sgi6bmv

    • @b.b.2638
      @b.b.2638 Місяць тому

      anyone?

  • @HEIDYMURILLO-w4s
    @HEIDYMURILLO-w4s Місяць тому +2

    Mind blowing. Thank you

  • @pinkdragon4830
    @pinkdragon4830 Місяць тому

    I have that problem too but it’s caused by the way I think. I don’t think in words, so oftentimes I can’t put my thoughts into words

  • @TheDenisedrake
    @TheDenisedrake Місяць тому

    I have the opposite issue... I talk without thinking 😂 Seriously, this is a fantastic concept.

  • @syafiqahh127
    @syafiqahh127 Місяць тому +2

    That's me, I could go a week without talking, and im thinking a lot, my brain definitely brilliant but the moment i open my mouth, i sounds dumb.

  • @thejourneytoabettertomorrow
    @thejourneytoabettertomorrow Місяць тому

    Insane lesson! Wow! One of the best lessons I heard for a while

  • @Niner14766
    @Niner14766 Місяць тому

    This is spot on. Wow.

  • @IbrahimRukaiya
    @IbrahimRukaiya Місяць тому

    So please a lecture or video on how to resolve this issue. A practical way to go about this. Thanks

  • @Pemu137
    @Pemu137 Місяць тому

    Yeah it make sense 👍🏻thank you Vinh

  • @Doe-Nutz72
    @Doe-Nutz72 Місяць тому

    Practice makes Perfect

  • @HB-he2eh
    @HB-he2eh Місяць тому

    Wow, explains SO much. How do we strengthen the connection?

  • @rocioprado980
    @rocioprado980 Місяць тому

    How do we strengthen the mind and the mouth? Can you make a video? That would be helpful 😊

  • @Hideenlayer123
    @Hideenlayer123 Місяць тому

    We had enough financial guru and then there is a new type of guru

  • @thelmapolmolea6509
    @thelmapolmolea6509 Місяць тому

    That is me I’m not good in conversation but can write well expressing my feelings, opinion or thoughts.

  • @sc6155
    @sc6155 Місяць тому

    So relatable that I want to cry.

  • @Miguel-PersonalDevelopment
    @Miguel-PersonalDevelopment Місяць тому

    Wowwww this is gold. How do you make that connection stronger

  • @amari003
    @amari003 Місяць тому +1

    This is huge. I’ll be looking for exercises to build that strength!

    • @leahsavoie3528
      @leahsavoie3528 Місяць тому +1

      let me know if you find anything, i have that issue too :(

  • @jonabrons
    @jonabrons Місяць тому

    It's good to talk more and practice that

  • @msaechao205
    @msaechao205 Місяць тому

    Already knew that since i was a teen. I prefer peace and quiet majority of the time so im weak at expressing my thoughts.

  • @MA-tt3dw
    @MA-tt3dw Місяць тому +1

    Who else can see Bruce Lee gestures in his movements? 😂

  • @R1ch4rd
    @R1ch4rd Місяць тому

    What he basically said is get better at talking, got it

  • @thewhisperer9487
    @thewhisperer9487 Місяць тому

    Mate! Everything makes sense now!!! 😮

  • @Μαρια-γ7η
    @Μαρια-γ7η Місяць тому

    Can you talk about this more and how to become good at talking?? Pleaseee

  • @arefinnilav7872
    @arefinnilav7872 Місяць тому

    Sir where are you form?you are such a gem go ahead I respectfully agree your work ❤

  • @ayoubchakibi531
    @ayoubchakibi531 Місяць тому

    I'm the younger in my family and I found that problem and my family don't want me talk a lot they think i'm still young but my mind talking a lot and now when I want learn English I found a problem I need more vocabulary to express to feel free,That's difficult for me, I need much time for that .

  • @kaylaknutson
    @kaylaknutson Місяць тому

    Don't confuse someone's silence for depth..sometimes they are just hiding their ignorance.

  • @SocialAnxietyandBeyond
    @SocialAnxietyandBeyond Місяць тому

    Never seen this explained like this before, hence why i created my UA-cam Channel

  • @NikTambahan
    @NikTambahan Місяць тому +1

    Trueeee
    How do we build chemistry can be your next video right ??😔

  • @ShakyJallipalli
    @ShakyJallipalli Місяць тому

    bro you really summarized my life through this short but i am still a 9th grader and want to know how can i improve my communication skills?