Why Dating Is Hard For Foreigners In Korea

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  • @AveryLiburd
    @AveryLiburd Рік тому +978

    dude from new york here, thanks for interviewing me 🙏🏾🗽🇺🇸🇰🇷

    • @KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker
      @KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker Рік тому +30

      Shout-out to you sir. I can't speak for any other man but I can honestly say I appreciate the representation you speak the language, you are able to study and teach others to learn more in depth about Korean culture. I'll subscribe. Very awesome. From a fellow New Yorker we're all over the world 🌎

    • @theplacewhereweheal2991
      @theplacewhereweheal2991 Рік тому +26

      Hey dude from new York your wife here 😂 love the interview @Averyliburd

    • @fullmetaltheorist
      @fullmetaltheorist Рік тому +4

      What's up?

    • @anthonyandruthgentles
      @anthonyandruthgentles Рік тому +5

      I’m from NYC myself as well. Lol

    • @CmacNYC
      @CmacNYC Рік тому +3

      You went to Madison High School in Brooklyn?

  • @AndIwandermuch
    @AndIwandermuch Рік тому +390

    Dating in Korea is a mixed bag. If they are not looking for a serious relationship with a foreigner, they are either trying to ride a "foreign horse" or get free English lessons/practice. You will typically know by the first few dates...

    • @AndIwandermuch
      @AndIwandermuch Рік тому +5

      @rossafayza you’re right!

    • @LeannSlowly
      @LeannSlowly Рік тому +33

      "ride a foreign horse" lololololololololol

    • @AndIwandermuch
      @AndIwandermuch Рік тому +28

      @@LeannSlowly lol it’s usually a white or black horse. The whole concept is a turn off.

    • @jerrod_7
      @jerrod_7 Рік тому +6

      Those are the players…Read the statistics.

    • @Max25670
      @Max25670 Рік тому +28

      I mean it goes both ways, a lot of Western guys are just trying to hook up with asian women.

  • @graceofthelordful
    @graceofthelordful Рік тому +133

    Nothing to do with the topic but your different hairstyles throughout the video are so gorgeous you're too pretty!

    • @_CL
      @_CL Рік тому +22

      drippy as hell, never misses

    • @graceofthelordful
      @graceofthelordful Рік тому +14

      @@_CL for real like at one point I couldn't focus on what they were saying my attention was on him only skshsjsk

  • @sheFEISTY.43110
    @sheFEISTY.43110 Рік тому +47

    I am loving every outfit K Explorer has on for these interviews. Super stylish. 💜

  • @2ezRicky
    @2ezRicky Рік тому +556

    That's so messed up what happened to the woman from Maryland, sad that things like that still happen. You'd think with how much access people have with the internet and information they wouldn't be so ignorant.

    • @yj8641
      @yj8641 Рік тому +97

      Most young Koreans know they cannot use the N word. That guy is incredibly mean person. He may have said that on purpose to hurt her feeling. Incredibly mean 🤮

    • @makutumafwa7496
      @makutumafwa7496 Рік тому +54

      That's not ignorance...that's a soul defect. !If you're unable to recognize humanity in others, your soul is defective.

    • @tewkewl
      @tewkewl Рік тому +10

      he's not american. he has no idea that it's a cuss word.

    • @KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker
      @KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker Рік тому +27

      He was honest. He did her a favor.

    • @boparks3204
      @boparks3204 Рік тому +37

      ​@@tewkewlMost younger South Koreans do know that is a bad word and an insult to say.

  • @DayoSamuelMastery
    @DayoSamuelMastery 11 місяців тому +22

    The guy interviewing has a smooth radio voice that’s super cool to listen to. Keep it up

  • @Davao6969
    @Davao6969 Рік тому +142

    as a korean I gotta admit that I hate celebrating every anniversaries like 100th, 200th, 1year etc. including bday I have to celebrate like fkn 5,6 days a year and it's really annoying

    • @ruthquaye8649
      @ruthquaye8649 Рік тому +10

      That's really sad . Cause am really looking forward to celebrate this anniversaries.

    • @gray4551
      @gray4551 11 місяців тому

      😂

  • @GraphicDesignNY
    @GraphicDesignNY Рік тому +228

    The Black young lady seems awesome. She should co-host some episodes.
    Unfortunate for her experience. It goes to show that racism is international and ignorance is borderless.

    • @CaptCanuck4444
      @CaptCanuck4444 6 місяців тому +1

      Co-signed, she has a great delivery and tons of charisma.

    • @sithlordshellz2149
      @sithlordshellz2149 3 місяці тому +2

      I want to know who she is

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_ Рік тому +328

    It's the way the guy said he doesn't want any "N word" kids because they will get bullied as if SK doesn't have one of the largest school bullying issues already within themselves lol. Like what? lol. We've seen all the movies, tv shows, scandals, news articles. That one really ticked me off

    • @amablogreactions
      @amablogreactions Рік тому +22

      For real

    • @MrArtVein
      @MrArtVein Рік тому +27

      Right. I just finished season 1 of Lookism like that's the whole friggin plot

    • @sombatkhnor5720
      @sombatkhnor5720 Рік тому +11

      Facts!

    • @Kennythecardealer
      @Kennythecardealer Рік тому +28

      Exactly like bullied? These are the same people who kill themselves over Pokémon cards.

    • @LaraBiH26
      @LaraBiH26 Рік тому +21

      Agreed. I am totally ticked off by what she had to hear. And their society has the highest suicide rate in THE WORLD.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +113

    18:15 I like this guy's honesty he did not try to disguise korean preferences towards Caucasians

    • @Apieceofgarbage
      @Apieceofgarbage Рік тому +15

      Yeap, and he also said it is decreasing. He is noticing some change. And it is something I feel among Koreans(I am Korean)

    • @shakirasmith6454
      @shakirasmith6454 Рік тому

      @@Apieceofgarbage very interesting. As a foreigner wanting to visit Korea, why is the interest decreasing?

    • @Apieceofgarbage
      @Apieceofgarbage Рік тому +6

      ​@@shakirasmith6454oh I suggest you visit Korea in April or early May, and October or early November. Weather sucks. And basically going out with foreign guys or girls, just because they are white people is kind of outdated. I think Caucasians would have the most chances in 90s or early 2000s.

    • @hal0dude7
      @hal0dude7 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Apieceofgarbage as a non-Caucasian moving to Korea for work this year, I'm glad to hear that lol

    • @Apieceofgarbage
      @Apieceofgarbage 11 місяців тому +1

      @KingOfHeroes1996 good luck!! Good luck 👍

  • @yj8641
    @yj8641 Рік тому +433

    Pro:
    If you are in serious relationship, Korean men are very attentive, sweet, protective, take you great places, think/work hard to please you….
    Con:
    most Korean couples text a lot everyday, call everyday, meet at least a few times a week. They are possessive and jealous.
    1. Get to know each other/become friends
    2. “ssum”
    3. “confession” (commitment: do you want to be my boyfriend/girlfriend)
    4. dating (without skinship for a while)
    5. skinship (kiss, sex)
    6. Meet parents only when you are ready to marry
    Good Korean men are reserved so they don't approach foreign women easily, except the red flag guys praying on women at clubs and apps.
    It’s best to become friends first and have “ssum” and commitment stage if you are a foreigner dating a Korean. (Don’t go to bed too quickly. He will ghost you surely 😅)
    “open relationships” is not common in Korea 😂 I think he means Korean gay community.

    • @UnstableYT-u7k
      @UnstableYT-u7k Рік тому +42

      From what I’ve seen, Korean men make better boyfriends and husbands than their other ethnic counterparts because Korean men have been taught at a young age on discipline and loyalty. This is why foreign women are happier with a Korean man because they Korean men never cheat, they are loyal, financially successful, intelligent, more masculine, more romantic, more physically attractive, healthier, etc.. Women feel more secure with a Korean man. This explains why foreign women are flying over to South Korean to marry them.

    • @Daniel-rv5ul
      @Daniel-rv5ul Рік тому +25

      It varies from case to case.

    • @yj8641
      @yj8641 Рік тому +1

      @@UnstableYT-u7k uhmm 🥲 good Korean men are great. They are everything you say. But there are also a lot of bad Korean men. If you are a foreigner and unfamiliar with the society, it’s easy to miss the red flag and can get the worst guy. Like the terrible ones in this video.
      I saw a tv program in which foreign girls who have fantasy about Korean men go directly from the airport to the club 😰 club is the worst place you can go to meet a decent guy. Finding a good Korean men at a club is hard like finding a gem in a trash can. Apps are the same.

    • @UnstableYT-u7k
      @UnstableYT-u7k Рік тому +14

      I don’t agree about the red flags about Korean men. Sure there might be a few that have done what you said but that’s not the case for a lot of them. Korean men are perceived to be more humble and more honorable. They don’t treat women in any negative way. This is why Korean men have more success in relationships than other ethnicities.

    • @ZuLiAnO_FaRhAn
      @ZuLiAnO_FaRhAn Рік тому +1

      ​@@UnstableYT-u7k😅🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @radiantphoenix3845
    @radiantphoenix3845 Рік тому +54

    Shout out to the Maryland girlie 🔥🔥

  • @kiddwee
    @kiddwee Рік тому +69

    Solid channel, good interviews, and questions! I like that you conduct interviews in English, then in Korean with subtitles with the same interviewees! Many young people speaking multiple languages. That’s good to see and hear. Your demeanor, and soft spokeness opens the people to speak honest and comfortably. Much success and blessings to you!

    • @chriswho2010
      @chriswho2010 Рік тому

      Katrina want purple party decorations

    • @chriswho2010
      @chriswho2010 Рік тому

      Katrina want purple makeup box purple dress earrings ilpstick on Katrina birthday

    • @kiddwee
      @kiddwee Рік тому

      @@chriswho2010 go buy it then

  • @sillycandigirl
    @sillycandigirl Рік тому +75

    The car date is soooo cute and thoughtful.

  • @BtheNomad
    @BtheNomad Рік тому +18

    Dating culture is honestly so different around the world - The interviews I made with Colombian girls, really show a MUCH different approach to this, than the Korean one haha

  • @r3ckless_zx10rr
    @r3ckless_zx10rr Рік тому +52

    love how bro in 13:40 went from speaking US english to Korean to English with a Korean acccent lol

  • @katherinejimenezmatos2009
    @katherinejimenezmatos2009 Рік тому +38

    Von is so cool! Love the outfit and love the vibe ❤
    Dude from New York, know that that feeling in Han River lol happens to many of us. You are not alone 🥲😅

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +41

    9:41 lol She was ready to share it. She seems like a nice person though

  • @dunglifemovement
    @dunglifemovement Рік тому +35

    its so cool to see yall speak fluent Korean.

  • @loisnoble9139
    @loisnoble9139 Рік тому +20

    I just found your channel and immediately subscribed. I admire your interviewing skills and the respect you show to the people you're interviewing. Continued success.

  • @hyperstealth2423
    @hyperstealth2423 Рік тому +5

    I like how at 14:05 he was talking about there’s a lot of couples in Korea and there’s a couple passing behind him right when he said that😂

  • @lowkeehkis2454
    @lowkeehkis2454 10 місяців тому +5

    Your 8:26 outfit is fire. Rolled sleeves was dope.

  • @KippinCollars
    @KippinCollars Рік тому +18

    The interviewees in this video are all very charming and sweet people.

    • @dmani8791
      @dmani8791 Рік тому +1

      I was just thinking this

  • @GA-ik6pi
    @GA-ik6pi Рік тому +33

    The European girl gave me jokes😂😂!!
    Her reactions and willingness to share about the ridiculous date she had, was bareeeee eye opener!
    Gee thinking dating in U.K. was bad… sheesh!!
    And the lady from Maryland! Like … wowwwwwww what that guy said to her about not having n-kids?!! Nahhhh mate! Nahhhh!
    I’m black British female, and that to me was just wrank mate!
    I’m
    Not in a running to KR JUST for man😂, and certainly not running there any time soon.
    I think in general both men and women have to be mindful about the types of people they meet anyway. Whether it be online or in person 👍🏾.

  • @tiffanychen110
    @tiffanychen110 Рік тому +18

    my bf is korean, and I'm Chinese Canadian, we have been together for 7 years ...I think it's not a big difference between Chinese men and Korean men if they really fall in love with you.

  • @karentimberlake4657
    @karentimberlake4657 Рік тому +72

    I find that racism and prejudice in Korea is very strong. I would never travel to a place where they accept my money but, they think nothing of me. I will go to Africa and the Carribean where I am respected and appreciated.

    • @JPerryMMA3
      @JPerryMMA3 Рік тому +6

      Fact

    • @maxwelljackson8833
      @maxwelljackson8833 Рік тому +4

      Yes

    • @X-se6qy
      @X-se6qy 10 місяців тому

      How are they towards Europeans?

    • @yepun-u2j
      @yepun-u2j 10 місяців тому

      ​@@X-se6qyyt europeans are good, basically just be lightskinned

    • @chinavirus841
      @chinavirus841 9 місяців тому

      @@X-se6qythey love Europe ❤

  • @markmuller7962
    @markmuller7962 Рік тому +6

    Hey K Ex this new style is so perfect for you it's amazing

  • @Im_hyeon_
    @Im_hyeon_ Рік тому +12

    As a Korean, I appreciate your video because I can understand the thoughts of foreigners. And here's what I want for you something, Could I get a script of your video to study english?😂 Me and korean people, or other foreigners who wanna learn enlgish by watching your video would be appriciate you, If you are sharing or even you decide to sell it! Thx!

  • @ritchieb1612
    @ritchieb1612 Рік тому +6

    Jerry... do your thing guy!!

  • @cwell510
    @cwell510 Рік тому +10

    12:38 Wow, two black dudes speaking to each other in Korean 🇰🇷, that's something you don't see everyday...

  • @lasrie9689
    @lasrie9689 Рік тому +8

    14:07 right as he say that a couple walk by 😂🥹

  • @nomanmon
    @nomanmon 9 місяців тому +3

    I’m a guy, living in Korea. For me at least, dating doesn’t seem to be difficult.. just be open-minded. Don’t fall for stereotypes, just be a decent human and don’t assume the worst of people.

  • @user-rs3ki3sp6i
    @user-rs3ki3sp6i Рік тому +12

    Would you please do the interview with korean in western countries the same way it is in this video?i wonder what they have been through when dating in the western culture

    • @Beepinboopinbopin
      @Beepinboopinbopin Рік тому +6

      As a Korean American who was only ever into non Asian men, the older I get, the more I realize I would rather date and marry another Korean American because no one else will understand my culture - which includes how I was raised. Growing up with immigrant parents, who were the children of veterans fighting for the survival of their own country had a huge impact that Americans who’s families have been here for generations will never understand.

    • @user-rs3ki3sp6i
      @user-rs3ki3sp6i Рік тому +3

      In the same context, korean tends to date korean because of that reason. Even it is very difficult to understand each other among koreans nowadays. I dont know why that matters in this interviewer's videos. He merely seems to be inducing hatred on korean. If the rejection to culture differences is racism, no one in the world is innocent from that.

    • @sssssssss111
      @sssssssss111 Рік тому

      @@Beepinboopinbopin I have heard the same sentiment from Korean Americans who tried dating in Korea.

  • @StarlightAngel948
    @StarlightAngel948 Рік тому +44

    I feel so bad for the two girls that had such a terrible experience!!!

  • @iamtheonlywilly
    @iamtheonlywilly Рік тому +5

    14:03 that man spoke Korean before he moved to SK. His Korean is very good and he has an Korean accent although he’s from NYC. Wow

  • @daoaraya
    @daoaraya Рік тому +4

    You have really nice fits💯💯

  • @Santo-one1
    @Santo-one1 7 місяців тому +1

    Great video 💯 thank you for sharing. Watching from O🍊C Southern California. Hello there KOREAN woman 😊

  • @g3MZ1ZA11G00D
    @g3MZ1ZA11G00D Рік тому +14

    Can we just say how fine my man look. Yes king you my type. Sincerely a black girl from NYC.

  • @chahedsumia
    @chahedsumia Рік тому +6

    The Interviewer. youuuuuuu are soooo handsome.

  • @JiaPia3
    @JiaPia3 6 місяців тому +2

    14:45 in the all black, our host looks like an anime character. That's a compliment. He looks fierce.

  • @D415h4n34
    @D415h4n34 Рік тому +1

    These interviews are so good to see💖

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil 10 місяців тому +2

    Your interviews are so valuable. They are fascinating too see how self-absorbed people can be. White women think they are treated differently because of the movies. But at the same time Black women think the same for the same reasons. And while White women are shocked to be assumed Russian, your last interviewee thinks "it is because they see I am half Russian".

  • @Anthony_Gx
    @Anthony_Gx 3 місяці тому

    You can tell many people have a pretty strong idea of how other people are perceiving them based on their country or looks. They don’t realize that most people aren’t THAT preoccupied with thinking about other countries/races. Most people just are focused on themselves.
    Sure they may have some prejudice about certain foreign people, but they’re not as set in stone as one might think. It’s more seeking to confirm the prejudice they themselves have (or think others have about them)

  • @francoismarc3
    @francoismarc3 Рік тому +21

    In hip hop music, Black Americans use the Nword all the time, so EVERYONE around the world thinks it's okay to say that. We should stop using that word in our music and to each other so other people will know not to use that word...Nothing good about it.

    • @sosilly.phoenix
      @sosilly.phoenix 3 місяці тому +1

      hip hop is black american culture???

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3 3 місяці тому +1

      @@sosilly.phoenix where do you think hip hop comes from?

  • @breeparker5372
    @breeparker5372 2 місяці тому +2

    White guy really trying to avoid the fact that the reason he's popular is korea has a racist attraction towards white peoples. I am also a white person (female)with blonde hair and blue eyes, i was also very popular with taiwanese women when i lived in taiwan( i was also popular with taiwanese men but i dont find men attractive) and it definitely comes from racism pushed by western beauty standards. Black women, though incredibly beautiful, were treated more like exotic animals in a zoo in taiwan opposed to humans and it was quite disturbing, the blatant racism.

  • @400great7
    @400great7 Рік тому +3

    Men who approach first on the street or at restaurants are often men of poor quality. In Korea, most men generally do not approach women they do not know first.

  • @tanujsharma7995
    @tanujsharma7995 5 місяців тому +2

    9:28 girl is so expressive i loved her

  • @adubimpong4095
    @adubimpong4095 Рік тому +2

    He's more like a journalist with his line of questions. He's very good at it....

  • @HopeeInk
    @HopeeInk Рік тому +3

    I love how new york guy is talking about the fact that there are a lot of couples while a couple walks past them.

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife Рік тому +9

    Luv your short and video. Always ask genuine questions. Great guests too. Ya! I notice lots of young Korean guy say Russian ask the type of girls they attractive too. Still a very close minded countries. Only those who studied abroad and travel out would have a broader understanding and appreciation for others culture

    • @nesadcruz7840
      @nesadcruz7840 9 місяців тому

      Those who have travelled dont like what they have seen in certain western cultures. If a certain race has a prevalence of single mothers, young men in prison etc that isnt the kind of family they want to marry into. Frankly many Asians do generalise that about certain ethnic groups in the US and prefer to not have kids with those races.

  • @soundzliketaylortv6717
    @soundzliketaylortv6717 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for making this video. I plan to go to Korea to teach English Spring 2024. Good information to know.

  • @ThatDudeTonyB
    @ThatDudeTonyB Рік тому +2

    Ayeeee Maryland here 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ksenya407
    @ksenya407 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this video. It is so interesting to hear stories from the people with such a different background 🤗👍

  • @lovejubileee
    @lovejubileee Рік тому +17

    Hi interviewer . Can u make a video about yourself , where your from why u came to Korea ect ??? I think ppl would love it

    • @vivr837
      @vivr837 10 місяців тому

      His accent is West African. I guess Ghana or Nigeria?! I could be wrong...

    • @The_barefoot_bedouin
      @The_barefoot_bedouin 8 місяців тому

      He’s from a French sleeping country, but definitely not Nigerian. Could be Ghanaian.

  • @dxmedia868
    @dxmedia868 Рік тому +7

    Give the interviewees credit.

  • @KrizzyDaGrate
    @KrizzyDaGrate Рік тому +2

    The chick from Singapore is pretty cool and I like how clear her English is.

  • @Jnealt12
    @Jnealt12 11 місяців тому +1

    I love her, stay with us sis… we are enough. I’m a 🥷 , and all my kids and grand kids will be so….no apologies !!

  • @hughjassol2072
    @hughjassol2072 11 місяців тому +5

    7:27 We all need her IG asap

  • @justgetitDLC
    @justgetitDLC Рік тому +2

    DMV in the building! I hope she’s from PG county!

  • @Top-Kek
    @Top-Kek Рік тому +5

    Jerry too drippy

  • @Azulblueone
    @Azulblueone Рік тому +1

    15:00 - It's definitely a shallow perspective view about playing video games, but I get it. It's actually good for the mind within moderation.

  • @풍뎅이-h5b
    @풍뎅이-h5b Рік тому +3

    6:26 I wasn’t ready for this curveball 😂😂

  • @cosmicexplorer4856
    @cosmicexplorer4856 Рік тому +7

    The Chinese Singaporean girl is very attractive.

  • @The1SilverShadow
    @The1SilverShadow 6 місяців тому

    very interesting; this channel is very insightful

  • @BWrampage
    @BWrampage 8 місяців тому

    So far I like the sound of their dating culture, I agree with the second person about American dating is pretty much gone so no point in being romantic unless for hook ups.

  • @HealthyLifestyled788
    @HealthyLifestyled788 6 місяців тому +1

    😅😅😅😅 There was a Korean friend in NY .I just moved to NY from France and he wanted to marry me to give me the green card 😅I said no.He curse at me and he said he will call immigration on me 😅😅. I'm going to visit Koreat in a few days .

  • @Wtfvante
    @Wtfvante 2 місяці тому +5

    0:24 what’s her ig

    • @WildBill-t7p
      @WildBill-t7p Місяць тому +1

      On everythang I was wondering if she had a you tube page if so can someone please send it to me

  • @yoanjapan6751
    @yoanjapan6751 Рік тому +30

    No one is talking about how the interviewer is SERVING US L.O.O.K.S!💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +9

    22:41 Props man he's speaking korean well

  • @chanellaDaboss
    @chanellaDaboss 11 днів тому

    It’s so beautiful to hear black people speaking korean ❤ I love it!

  • @KVergara
    @KVergara Рік тому +2

    I'd like to hear his answer to the question. Are people in Korea just not being made aware of the severity of the word? Disappointed that either the interviewee failed to finish the story, or it was edited out of both this short and the full vid.

  • @mandalorianhunter1
    @mandalorianhunter1 Рік тому +22

    At least the white guy was honest about whites having a slight preference.
    I'm glad the black guys got with some Korean girls because I heard stories about discrimination in Korea being maybe second after China.
    The ghosting and open relationships is new to me, glad I found out about it

    • @pmg2585
      @pmg2585 Рік тому +24

      uhh ... one of the black guys is gay. Doubt he got with many Korean girls!

    • @demri123
      @demri123 Рік тому +7

      That dude is definitely gay tho

    • @NOCDIB
      @NOCDIB Рік тому

      Korean women are the most open to dating Black men out of any Asian group. That's always been my experience. The most racist is Chinese. Yes, even more than Japanese the Chinese are anti-Black when it comes to relationships and cultural acceptance. Japanese people love Black cultural appropriation, though.

    • @22s22a
      @22s22a Рік тому +1

      I lived in korea two years as a black man and I had pretty good success..... I am 6"2 and very athletic though

    • @mandalorianhunter1
      @mandalorianhunter1 Рік тому +2

      @@22s22a I'm glad you had a good time

  • @eneidialawhead8920
    @eneidialawhead8920 Рік тому +2

    Great point of views👍🏻

  • @eugenezihuramye5190
    @eugenezihuramye5190 Рік тому +3

    Im trynna find out the @ for the Woman from Maryland.. asking for ME! lol

  • @CaptCanuck4444
    @CaptCanuck4444 6 місяців тому +2

    This is wild

  • @EstherOlabisi
    @EstherOlabisi Рік тому +1

    When that guy says there's a lot of couples in Korea and a couple walks away in the background lol

  • @avnertouitou3778
    @avnertouitou3778 Рік тому +5

    The problem in Korean culture is that the family get involved especially the mothers and will speak behind your back but will speak noce to your face it's why ppl don't get married in Korea and in my experience it's one of the worst cultures in the world guy's stay away from Korea or don't let your Korean partner any connections to their families

    • @nesadcruz7840
      @nesadcruz7840 9 місяців тому

      Marriage involved families in Asian families and that really strengthens the bond as. Couples do need family support. If a guy can break with his biological family it is likely he wont care much for his kids either unless his biological family is criminal

  • @Manisonlychannel
    @Manisonlychannel Рік тому +5

    are YOU single is the question cuz damn you look so good and overall attractive 🥹

  • @torpedohost
    @torpedohost Рік тому +6

    third guy speaks english with a korean accent haha

  • @johng5295
    @johng5295 Рік тому

    Awesome. Great content.

  • @princecoffee2349
    @princecoffee2349 9 місяців тому +1

    We need to think from the Korean perspective.
    Koreans have lived as a single ethnic nation for 5,000 years.
    Objectively, they have better options than foreigner, both economically and racially.
    "same Korean"
    It doesn't matter if you're white or black.
    There are always better options for them that are easier and don't have language barriers.

  • @HealthyLifestyled788
    @HealthyLifestyled788 6 місяців тому

    Very true once you said you from NY that's it .I met a lady from Thailand while im in Malaysia she finds out I from NY she changed and wants to be my friend invite me to her house when i visit Thailand,she said I can be your mom i have black children 😅.

  • @markmuller7962
    @markmuller7962 Рік тому +18

    "You're not 10 anymore" Well that's a backward view on gaming pretty much everywhere

    • @Youyouhssssjjjnnhbb-xj7yl
      @Youyouhssssjjjnnhbb-xj7yl Рік тому +5

      Yeah many Koreans are pro gamers and make millions then office workers with longer work hours so why are people look down on gamers?

    • @markmuller7962
      @markmuller7962 Рік тому

      @@Youyouhssssjjjnnhbb-xj7yl The female gender especially has been excluded from gaming and high tech for so long that most of them are tech illiterate unfortunately
      Edit: The new generations within the developed word are doing definitely better

    • @Davao6969
      @Davao6969 Рік тому +2

      This woman has 0 idea on male. Male will be always in their 10s. Just their bodies get old.

    • @fritosnlegoshai
      @fritosnlegoshai Рік тому +2

      No one's saying you can't play video games. She's right. It's disrespectful to do during a date.

  • @MyAccountForCommenting
    @MyAccountForCommenting 10 місяців тому

    I went on a solo trip to Zurich and felt like that guy did when I was walking along Lake Zurich. So many couples canoodling and being lovey-dovey. 😂

  • @Kalk__
    @Kalk__ Рік тому +6

    Omg i went to hs with the girl @7:28 crazy randi if u see this heyyy sis what are the odds that this got suggested to me 🤯 hope ur doing well❤️

  • @richardkim3629
    @richardkim3629 Рік тому +38

    한국인들이 인종차별주의자들이 심하다는 건 부정할 수가 없습니다.
    사회에서는 백인하면 무조건 1순위로 쳐주는 것은 부정할 수 없는 사실이고
    (그렇다고 무조건 백인이라고 좋아하는 사람들은 많지 않습니다.)
    무엇보다 인종도 그렇지만 저희나라는 외모 하나로 사람을 판단하는 외모지상주의(Lookism)가 심하기도 합니다. (Skinny bodies, beautiful or handsome faces)
    설령 남성이든 여성이든 Black, Arabian, Latin, Eastern South Asian, South Asian 하고 결혼하여 한국에서 생활하는 것은 쉽지 않을 것입니다.
    미국같은 다인종국가에서 사는 것이 훨씬 좋을 것이라 생각합니다.
    일본 중국도 큰 차이는 없을 것이라고 생각합니다.

    • @UnstableYT-u7k
      @UnstableYT-u7k Рік тому

      That is not true. Maybe the older Koreans may have some ignorance about other races but the younger Koreans are more accepting and they understand many different cultures. Koreans are some of the most traveled people in the world and they are very educated on different world cultures. Also look at the high number of Koreans marrying foreigners.

    • @Davao6969
      @Davao6969 Рік тому +7

      This guy thinks there’s no racism in america 😂😂😂 at least korean don’t beat them to death

    • @applelime7693
      @applelime7693 Рік тому +1

      @@Davao6969 How can you say something so nasty.

    • @richardkim3629
      @richardkim3629 Рік тому +1

      ​@mino4965 hmmm don't know the situation of America exactly. But I agree the Asians don't use violence for it

    • @richardkim3629
      @richardkim3629 Рік тому

      ​@@UnstableYT-u7kI replied for your comment. But Google erased my comment. Cannot reply again sry

  • @myselfmasum
    @myselfmasum Рік тому +3

    Being single should be a luxury status these days.

  • @KoreaWithKids
    @KoreaWithKids 11 місяців тому +1

    "한국말" 하면 발음이 "한궁말"로 해요. 그렇지 않으면 좀 이상하게 들려요.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +2

    5:21 That's interesting sounds backwards in korea with dating.

  • @UnstableYT-u7k
    @UnstableYT-u7k Рік тому +9

    I have also noticed Korean male UA-camrs who are with a foreign girl seem very happy and always posting positive stuff about their relationship. One example is jinandhattie

    • @ZuLiAnO_FaRhAn
      @ZuLiAnO_FaRhAn Рік тому +25

      UA-camr is not real

    • @UnstableYT-u7k
      @UnstableYT-u7k Рік тому

      @@ZuLiAnO_FaRhAnHow would you know. Do you know them personally?

    • @_CL
      @_CL Рік тому +3

      @@UnstableYT-u7k same question could be asked to you

    • @UnstableYT-u7k
      @UnstableYT-u7k Рік тому

      @@_CL and the same can be asked to you too

    • @Youyouhssssjjjnnhbb-xj7yl
      @Youyouhssssjjjnnhbb-xj7yl Рік тому +1

      @@ZuLiAnO_FaRhAn Jin and Hattie are already married

  • @demetridominguez25
    @demetridominguez25 11 місяців тому

    The first Asian girl around 1:00 sounds Caribbean. Like there’s a slight Barbadian accent

    • @robertb7643
      @robertb7643 4 місяці тому

      It’s a Singapore/malay accent, little sing songy too but it’s own thing

  • @TabithaHope-tv2lv
    @TabithaHope-tv2lv 7 місяців тому

    Oh my gosh! I love your dress sense❤

  • @cam5816
    @cam5816 3 місяці тому

    Bro I’m dying at 0:30 that caught me so off guard 🤣

  • @franzitaduz
    @franzitaduz 8 місяців тому +1

    Maybe it’s better to focus on the purpose of living abroad and not dating up the K-population. They have achieved so much since independence and should be permitted to decide how to deal with foreigners given their history. Love is a rare bird that lands on the right branch naturally.

  • @gwinanthony1985
    @gwinanthony1985 Рік тому +1

    omg the Singaporean girl is very cute!

  • @MingyueTien-Di
    @MingyueTien-Di Рік тому +23

    I'm in America and curious what dating is like for women, specifically in their 40s. There are many single women here in that age range that are single. Curious how it's like in Korea. Hope you can do a video on that subject. Love your channel 😊

    • @MrArtVein
      @MrArtVein Рік тому +10

      It's non existent TBH. A 40 year old South Korean woman is either married, a successful business CEO, or an ostracized hermit. It's such an embarrassing topic, young people in their mid 20s lie to their parents about being in relationships because the expectation is high and you are a failure if you cannot find husband or wife

    • @MingyueTien-Di
      @MingyueTien-Di Рік тому +2

      @MrArtVein interesting... What part of Korea are you from if you don't mind me asking?

    • @mkay9988
      @mkay9988 Рік тому +10

      @@MrArtVein You are just wrong. What you stated is the opposite of Korean culture. The marriage rate of Koreans who are in 20s are in a single digit. The average age of Korean men in a first time marriage is close to 38 and 35 for women.
      What you described is old Korean culture. The marriage rate and birth rate have been declining significantly and people are getting married when they are much older.

    • @mkay9988
      @mkay9988 Рік тому +10

      @@MingyueTien-Di He doesn't know what he is talking about. There are a lot of single women in 30s and even 40s in Korea because Koreans don't get married until they are absolutely ready to raise a family. Almost no one gets married without a stable job and savings in Korea. If you don't hold a stable job with a decent income, you are not seen as a suitable marriage partner. There is a reason the birthrate is 0.5 in Seoul and 0.7 in the rest of Korea.

    • @MingyueTien-Di
      @MingyueTien-Di Рік тому +6

      @@mkay9988 I had thought so, that's why I was asking from what part of Korea he was from. I saw there are even neighborhoods of couples who have opted out of having kids, and one of the reasons for not marrying was because the guy is supposed to provide the house. I looked into what it takes to buy a house in korea and wow! The process and cost could be overwhelming. Thanks for clarifying. 🙏

  • @blarfroer8066
    @blarfroer8066 Рік тому +19

    I get that talking about dating and sexuality gets you clicks, but this is the fifth video in 3 months. Content suggestion: underrated places to visit in Korea, especially outside of Seoul and Busan. I really liked Gyeongju, for example.

    • @MrArtVein
      @MrArtVein Рік тому

      Yeah I imagine Train to Busan is just an allegory for the city

  • @SilentCanary
    @SilentCanary Рік тому +1

    No lie! This chick is freaking gorgeous ❤

  • @sunset33533
    @sunset33533 Рік тому +17

    I hope SK doesn't get too into dating apps like in the US and Canada...the country will tank. Save yourselves haha. The book "The Dating App Confessions" by Logan Tindell had some funny stories about dates from those apps.

    • @yj8641
      @yj8641 Рік тому +2

      Most Koreans don’t use apps. Some people use them for hook-ups and prostitution…. Relationships through apps are not considered normal in Korea. If a couple happen to become a couple through an app or on internet, they hide the fact because other people judge them negatively.

    • @sunset33533
      @sunset33533 Рік тому

      @@yj8641 They're smart.

  • @chykomoney1085
    @chykomoney1085 Рік тому +7

    What is that black girl's @?