Full Episode: Sex Drive Vs Sex Appetite ❤️💔 S4 Episode 2
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- Season 4: Episode 2
Sex Drive Vs Sex Appetite ❤️💔 S4 Episode 2
You Can Have A High Sex Appetite With A Low Sex Drive. Do Most People Know The Difference?
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Oliver the only one on the panel giving me hope for black men😂 Rico is most women type but Oliver is what we need in the world
Sounds like these people on the panel haven’t experienced a healthy relationship. Oliver was making the most sense to me.
Absolutely 🔥🔥
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So we’re going to act like Oliver wasn’t cut off and everyone starts reiterates exactly what he was trying to explain 😂😂😂
Yea they definitely did lol
Man exactly that was irritating
Oliver is on point and they can't comprehend what he's saying. Oliver is saying saying, iin a relationship/ marriage go to counseling, and if that doesn't work then it's time to exit the relationship. What's so hard to understand about that!!!? That's how true relationships & marriages are about. You try and Fix what's wrong or lacking. Ricko seems hell bent on always contracting Oliver and making fun of him. He even laughs at the others when they state their opinion. Which is why Danny felt the need to say "This is a no judgment zone". Based off of this and other videos He doesn't understand anything that comes from a loving and genuine place. It's foriegn to him, and his desire to be right and heard disrupts the segment.
Nobody:
Oliver: "Don't get married, PLEASE!" 😂
Why do they always act like Oliver isn't speaking English?...
... They dont realize that they are conditioned to be dysfunctional... that's why they think he is speaking "poetic".....
I dont think they understand the true purpose of marriage and love at the highest level like Oliver does....
He makes the most sense.
Dysfunctional.... You hit it on the nose. They make dysfunctional "normal" and what's normal for them, they can't relate.
@@Ms.Cris421 🎯💯
@@AppliedPressure493 I will always stand my ground
@@oliverluke9 🎯💯 I'm glad you dont back down.
@@oliverluke9 good for you! The panel wasnt ready for THE TRUTH
Why cheat when you can leave TOXIC!!!
They are slow, there Brains dont function fast enough, too many cells gone by that time 😂😂😂😂
Or try to work through it first...
Thank you!
Oliver is so valuable to this panel. Y'all out here sleeping on him. She stayed having wack sex and said NOTHING. Sex isn't onesided. You have to communicate.
Ahhhh shucks thanks a lot truly appreciate that
Preachhh
What's especially needed for this conversation is a succinct definition, that was agreed upon by the panelists, of what sex appetite is and what sex drive is.
Exactly what I was saying, I’m like what’s the difference between sex appetite and sex drive 🤷🏾
@@lamarjackson1002 Everything!
@@citi360 and that doesn’t tell me anything
sexual appetite (plural sexual appetites)
One's desire to engage in sexual practices.
sex drive
the feeling of wanting or needing to have sex
libido is psychic drive or energy, particularly associated with sexual instinct, but also present in other instinctive desires and drives.[1] Libido is influenced by biological, psychological, and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones
libido in humans.[2] Social factors, such as work and family, and internal psychological factors, such as personality and stress, can affect libido. Libido can also be affected by medical conditions, medications, lifestyle and relationship issues, and age
a person can engage in sexual activity without an actual desire for it. Multiple factors affect human sex drive, including stress, illness, pregnancy, and others. A 2001 review found that, on average, men have a higher desire for sex than women.
@@oliverluke9 thank you
Danny will never be faithful to anybody. She just told you she will always have a side dude.
Oliver is saying sex is necessary but hes saying that is not the meat and potatoes for love! Geez reading these comments shows how messed up this time is for real love.
It’s not that complex.Bingo
🎯💯.... it was too easy to understand... I was wondering why they making it seem more complicated
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Absolutely
It’s okay brotha on the left he just on a different frequency than the rest of them it’s okay I get it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you 🙏🏾
“No love without sex.” -well you clearly ain’t never loved someone genuinely.
Underrated comment
You disagree?
@@noseriously2840 yes
Oliver is the only one having the conversation everybody else is a runner. This is sad that relationships are based in something so surface level. They want to leave a marriage destroy a family before putting in any work to save it. Soft generation
They are a runner and a track star lol
Sex is VERY spiritual and a beautiful experience🙏🏼 Being in a healthy sexual marriage is one of the things you could ever have🙏🏼
@@DemureDarlings thats the thing how long do you think the sex is going stay good? Forever? Lol so for 20 to 30 plus years you think sex is gonna stay fire? That the problem with this generation and why marriage doesn't work because people think great sex is love and it isnt.....sex might die down but love is suppose to be override that
@@nooneknows9234 Demure has a point. A healthy sexual relationship keeps marriage functioning. It serves more of a purpose than just pleasure. The intimacy shared goes beyond just intercourse. Of course there are ebbs and flows, but if you don't return to reestablishing that sexual connection you won't make it. It will create an ever widening gap in the intimacy and closeness. Sex and the effort to serve your partner, which sex ultimately should represent, is a big part of the covenant. That does not change with time. The older the couple gets, if you are working on that relationship, their sex evolves as they physically break down. That is the magic of growing old together. The issue is the selfishness most people have towards sex, their inability to serve someone else, and the seeking of self-gratifying pleasure. The real pleasure comes from the right sex partner as dedicated to your pleasure and you should be to theirs.
@@suciojay1604 okay so alot of our grandparents and great grandparents have 30 to 40 plus year marriage and you think thats because "sex" lol..thats the problem with this generation and why relationships dont work and marriages fail..Sex isnt what holds a relationship together ...i seen girls who thought they was madly in love because of sex and ended up miserable and stressed out...after sex if theres no chemstry then what...how long do you think sex with the same person is going to be exciting for?
Oliver's love language is different from the other guy, because you exercise all options before you leave. 🙄
His commitment is overall different. His mindset is “us” and Rico’s mindset is “me” (or so it appears). Oliver is willing to die to himself to find middle ground whereas Rico is like “pack it up it’s done”.
@@shoroku1101 exactly, I get that we all have our love language. I believe if we all saying we want lasting relationships, listen to what it takes to keep it. That shit is uncomfortable to face, but tell me something that was uncomfortable that didn't help you grow?☺
@@ShajiraYaniceli one thing that’s uncomfortable is “dying to yourself”. When we’re single we get to think only about us. We don’t think about ME we have to think about WE. It’s a marriage mindset vs a single mindset.
AHHHH MAN THANKS FOR WATCHING AND UNDERSTANDING MY VIEW POINTS.
@@oliverluke9 sometimes 😂
“What about counseling, what about church” lol my man’s trying to make it work😂. I love to see it fr doe
Danny is for the what?! THE STREETS!!!😆
She loud and masculine.
Danny is just HURT! Don't let the loudness or wildness fool you. She uses sex to escape her own shit.
@@Indivinethyme oh I'm aware. Hurt ppl that are still operating in their pain and not healing BELONG TO THE STREETS! 😆...until further changes are made
I think she admitted heartbreak made her like this
@@ayana188 she did a while back but there comes a point where you have to take responsibility for the decisions you've made in your past and let go of the past hurt and don't let it hold you hostage anymore. Love herself a little more.
If you have an OPEN MARRIAGE you're NOT in LOVE....smh
Sometimes ngl y’all be coming up with your own terms and definitions
lol can’t lie we do
😂 they do.
Oliver seems to understand what love really is about. Sex should be an expression of love. Sometimes people have issues in the sex department for different reasons. Therapy may be required. But if you have a chemistry and connection with a person and it’s amazing but there’s a problem sexually…. I believe that’s a problem that the two of you have to try to resolve together. And compromise have to be made on both ends.
I hear a lot of myself in Oliver he’s technical and doesn’t dance around shit as the rest of the panel
Oliver is going hard this season 👍🏾
Just stepping more into the supreme being that I am and thanks for noticing
Good job Oliver , I’m loving it ✨
@@zoiephillpott6212 thanks a lot
COMPATABILITY IS KEY
Nowadays no one sticks around to even find that out. We've become just vessels to one another.
Quote of the video "Never get married please".
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Damn “if the sex ain’t good you don’t love me”??? She’s definitely gonna be in the streets for the rest of her life!
If a woman love you, it won’t matter how you hitting it because the fact that you hitting it means more because she loves you.
Hell naw dats not how life works bro. U not hitting right she go leave ya ass love you or not 🤷🏾♂️
To me Oliver has lived enough to understand the difference…
Smh. I would love to see how they all think in 10/15/20 years when they grow up!🤦🏾♀️.
Way to go Oliver! Good job!! There's nothing wrong with going to counseling and who gets married just for sex?? It'll NEVER work-- well, it won't be able to sustain the difficult times and there WILL be some difficult times. This is what's wrong with this world now and why all this nonsense is going on.
🎯💯.... they made it seem like he was the weirdo... he was actually making the most sense.
@@AppliedPressure493 Exactly!! But... This is the world we live in!😂🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂🤣
@@AppliedPressure493 lol I am weird because I think differently
@@Ms.Cris421 thanks a lot I truly appreciate your kind & encouraging words
@@oliverluke9 You're welcome!!
Talk That Talk Oliver 👏🏼👏🏼
Danny just be talking. She heck my nerves😢
Oliver is too smart....he's grown
The boi Oliver was cookin they asses lmfao. If you can't answer a direct question, that's a problem in itself and it shows here. And it would be better to not use their friends experiences to make valid points. Gotta use your own
I’m chef 👨🏾🍳 oliver this season
@@oliverluke9 damn right homie. Much respect
@@Phyclone thanks for being open minded
This conversation is so good 💯👏🏾
I think high appetite is understandable because that doesnt always equate to intercourse. Sometimes its playfulness and foreplay.
High sexdrive mostly stems from a lack of something or from practiced behaviour(being with someone who loves sex and u adjust to them, u take that into future relationships)
Nice name lol
Can you define the terms?
@@Mj783980 lol @ the name lol.
@@Mj783980 I dont think they are different outside of the amount required to satisfy that itch. Drive sex in entirety and appetite for a taste. Some people are ok with sexual acts to scratch that itch where some people need to be drowned in sex to feel satisfied
19:56 🎯 EXACTLY!
Shut her whole bs story down! 🤫
Ppl who have a problem w a partner’s certain behavior but fail to communicate are just as much to blame if not more for the failings in that relationship
And allegedly it’s women who are supposed to be better with verbal communication 🤦🏾♂️ 🧢 😂
Sex gets boring after while. There has to be wayyyy more to a relationship. Me & my wife has been together 8 years, and we have sex like once a month. After a while it becomes a choir. We like to have more life experiences with friends & family more. That sex shit dies out after a while.
Ugh😫😫 that sounds horrible…. Once a month? I’ll die
Wow. That sounds really bad.
@@tiffanylee6475 😂😂😂😂 chill!
@@citi360 i promise you they have never been in a 8 year relationship once sex goes so does they relationship and it becomes a repetitive cycle
@@nooneknows9234 EXACTLY!! You have to find other things to do. Sex will never be enough. You have to learn how to enjoy time. That's something you can't get back. Minds well spend it wisely.
Oliver did a good job of mediating the show. Didn't agree with everything but he articulates himself well.
Totally AGREE with Oliver! Why cheat when you can just break-up with your partner. Some people want to eat and have their cake too. Just because People don't practice thisss, it doesn't make it Poetic 😐 to break-up instead of cheating...
honestly there many reasons as to why somebody may not want to have sex often trauma and many other reasons
There's level to this and these days communication is a lost art,Some are afraid to convey their wants and desires.
So when a woman withholds sex from her spouse based on what these ladies are saying she does not love her dude.
Youre confused its not always withholding sex. Learn about how hormones differ between men and women and then you’ll understand part of out perspective. & im not talking about when someone withholds sex due to being mad at the other person
@@stylejas8731 you see how you justify women not wanting sex, but if a man does not want sex then it’s an issue
🤣😂🤣😂 Right!! Makes no sense. One day they will grow up though.
Save their marriage on an open relationship, naw I'm straight.
Different strokes for different folks, how far are u willing to go for your love and relationship
@@oliverluke9 sharing my wife to save my relationship? idk about all that, well for me. I rather just leave or not even get married.
@@jonathan_brutus I get it but I’m just saying we all have to do what works for our relationship but I’m a healthy way forget what society thinks
As a man you can go and have sex with another woman outside of your relationship but at the end of the day you not into your partner how you were. That’s deeper than sex. Gotta leave.
Oliver was speaking Factz it takes two to tango close mouths don’t get feed
What about church or counseling? This man will save his marriage.
They really need to get married people to speak on more topics because when it comes to relationship things if you don’t have somebody committed to you can give all this advice and talk about all these topics but it’s not working for your personal life because you don’t have nobody trying to commit to you so a lot of the things they say are things that are holding them back from being committed.
Good point! 💯
Olly was right ...I think the others are young minded on this topic
This the 1st time i fully agree wit Danny, she making alot of sense this episode 💯💯💯
The first time? Dang 😂
@@d.ashanti22 sadly yes lol🤣🤣.... usually she jus tlkin abt some thot sh*t bt this time she speaking facts IMO 💯💯😏
Love is a decision.
Sex is a love language (physical touch).
They’re different but related and can exist without one another. You don’t get married for “love languages”… but your marriage needs them to survive. I see both perspectives.
However, this “sex appetite” thing seems like a code word for the curious promiscuity. And I think its somewhat normal to a degree. But…. Something about this is triggering my spider senses. Lol idk there’s a red flag 🚩 here somewhere.
Love is definitely not a decision. It's a feeling that comes over you. How you love is a decision tho.
@@citi360 I disagree. The emotion of feeling in love is what you’re referring to. Love is designed after Christ love for mankind. It’s a decision to put anothers well-being at or above your own well being. Love is patient love kind etc etc is all examples of sacrifice. Love is willing to be sacrificial and is purely a reflection of Jesus love for the church. That’s what I know love to be. Not no mfkn butterflies. 😂
@@shoroku1101 If you put it that way, you have to say there's different kinds of love. Example: You love your dad, but you're not in love with him. There's levels to love. You're talking about being a good person with a lot of love to give. But in my opinion you can't choose who to love. I can't force myself to love or not love anyone. Relationship wise. If I fall in love with you, it's more so organic than it was a choice/decision. Now if I'm a lovely person as you described, I have love to give, but doesn't mean i'll be in love.
Love is a action.
Dany is a vibe Idc what nobody says 😂😂😂
I love Danny and her transparency.
Yea i can tell you right now most guys would stay away from here she is too into sex ....everyone knows at some point sex is gonna die down its so much you can do with 1 person for a long period of time.. without legit chemistry your relationship isnt gonna last....
13:41 Love without sex. Yeah they are the wrong group to ask!! Yeah in a marriage their will be seasons for every emotion. So yeah their can be love with out sex and visa versa.
Sex gets boring after awhile. So there better be more than that.
Oliver is full of it. Sex is the physical way of showing your love to your mate. No one is happy in a relationship that has no sex.
Gotta be on the same level because everybody sex drive is different it's nothing wrong with that just gotta find that match ❤️ Love is awesome too never forget that
I agree with Danny, there’s no love without sex. 🤷🏽♀️
What? How? So is ur man got paralyzed from the waist down, and couldn't have sex with you anymore, you wouldn't love him? Or stay with him?
@@citi360 you know she leaving
@@jamesadvincola9687 Smh... She buggin.
At least Danny was telling the truth
@@jamesadvincola9687 and that’s her right as a single woman
But bet when/if she do get married and her dating libido wear off like most married women
She gonna want her husband to put forth more commitment and do with less intimacy
Issa trap lol
Oliver is amazing and real I think I was a rico dc an until now!!! They add value to here!!! I am up at 4am n I have work at 8ish lol
Oliver made sense in the beginning and none in the end lol
I do believe sex adds to a relationship in a lot of ways. It is necessary. Period. Otherwise you're in a monogamous platonic relationship, just getting to know each other without sexual intimacy, which there's nothing wrong with that either, just not for ME! 😂
Sex can make or break a (potential) relationship, especially in the beginning stages, it’s just best to hold off on it for a little bit, especially if you want something serious.
If you're in a relationship and you and your partner not having sex then you're roommates. People tend to get in their feelings when getting exposed to this true but the true hurts sometimes. I had to tell this to a close lady friend of mine who's in a similar relationship.
Y'all wild though 🤣😆❤️
Rico is always on point.
Oliver is on point 🤷🏾♂️
Lol the guy with the pink shirt is so funny. Hes like cmon now
Being married and raising kids will present other variables in the mix also
Danny looking gorgeous!!!
With breast bout to fallout? She is pretty though.....
Hey hair, makeup, everything is on point 👌🏾
Oliver is too mature for this panel. He gives me hope for the human race.
I agree, if you think there is no love without sex definitely don’t get married
Whew! Oliver came correct👏🏾🔥 on this episode. Is he single😍😘 asking for myself.
Olivier friend zoning the one he probably should be with lol.you knowing where the bodies are buried is a part of that connection
Yes. Find someone that can give and receive as much as you need. Be honest.
Where are they filming? New York?
Oliver listen with intent to understand my guy
Rachel is punting on her answers!! She said the sex with her ex was boring…the question was did she communicate that the sex was bad, she Diplomatically deferred her answer. SMH
The panel arent strait!!"
The man in the pink seems likes he’s extremely blue pill, has slightly feminine mannerisms, and doesn’t seem like he has enough sexual experience to be apart of this conversation lol
Oliver clearly they are not mature enough to understand you my friend.. 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I agree with Rico 10000% and Danny is always right and real
I am team Oliver. He's the only one thats making sense
I’ve only seen a few of these videos & I hear there’s no judgment between the panel. I have a question? How many people have enjoyed sex from a person & spoke about it like Oliver?
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If they can't tell dude is gay and is trying his best to not come out the closest on TV then they are so blind, he know he gonna be judged so he keep changing his words to not slip up😒 its ok bro live your truth on this show
Gay as in happy sure but thanks for watching stayed turned to see if he will come out of the closet on the next episode of 8 at the table
@@oliverluke9 respect the reply👏🏾
Danny accent a keep a man going
I need to be on here causeee these conversationssss
Sexual compatibility is important, at times the high sex drive is just as bad as the low. Those that claim it isn't important is false. Theres no feeling that your person wanting to touch you. Key word. Wanting.
I understand what Oliver is saying
Danny savage...3 months man
WOW, I SAW THE TITLE-- but YES there's a difference
I needs an Oliver mannnnnn
as long as it is on her terms, always the women's terms.
Communication is key
Rico good..
Danny had it backwards at 18:42. Sex drive is the same as your arousal, your response to sexual stimulation. It's psychological therefore causing someone to act on their arousal. They show that they're turned on by physical responses such as for a woman, she gets wet and men they get erect which can result in the act of having sex. Some can have sex multiple times a week or even a day. Some can go round for round, thats a high sex drive. Sexual appetite is the same as your libido, your interest and desire in sex. As women, our arousal (sex drive) can fluctuate throughout our lifetime causing a low libido (low sexual appetite/desire). Hope this makes sense.
Good topic though gang. 🙂
But arousal is desire lol
it’s literally the same thing by definition
Same as If I have the drive to have sex
then my appetite for sex is there also
So how is that different?
The worst thing I believe is when you want your partner sexual but they don't want you. That's worse than anything especially the emotional part. Nowadays everyone is about self love and not each other love.
Even the bible says your suppose to bust it open for your spouse.
Which verse and chapter?
@@ayana188 1 Corinthians 7 Kjv 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
That’s not saying busy it open sir 🤣🤣
Okay , I'm liking where this season is headed. 🔥
@@ayana188 That's exactly what it's saying!! The wife have NOT POWER of her own BODY (Virginia) but the husband. (but the HUSBAND does) the husband hath NOT POWER of his own BODY, (Penis) but the wife. (but the WIFE does) Defraud ye not one the other,( don't WITHHOLD sex) except it be with consent for a time, (except you BOTH AGREE to do so) ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, (and start having SEX AGAIN) that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. ( so that the DEVIL don't TEMPT you to CHEAT from lack of SEX.) SIMPLE AS THAT!!
Y’all leave Oliver alone 😂
Oliver doesn’t sound like he’s had very many women a man with experience wouldn’t Simp for one LOL
I believe in communication and that there are many layers to things it’s not one way or the highway but thanks for watching
I think he’s lowkey more compatible to the other side
"Whack Dick" or "Boring Sex" is subjective....
There’s no love without sex but sex isn’t the only thing in the relationship? Makes no sense
I’m sorry but his dreads are way to far back. They gotta go. He always has good points tho.
I agree with Danni that your sex drive has to be in proximity to mine otherwise the relationship will not work.
How do you not know the sex drive of someone your married to?
I take it Rico loves New Jersey? Bravo Rico!
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Danny is looking gorgeous in that thumbnail.
11:29 😳😳😳ALL I gotta say is BV and ummmm nvm ladies yall stay safe out there 💪🏾