how to be MENTALLY TOUGH and LESS emotional | *entering your grown woman era*

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @LoveCarol
    @LoveCarol Рік тому +19

    I’ve gotten myself into the worst habit of crying when I face adversity, particularly financial hardships. I get embarrassed being almost 28 and having these emotional problems and that makes me cry even more about my emotional weakness. It’s seems like I’m in an endless loop right now that I keep trying to let go of.

  • @perlaflores232
    @perlaflores232 4 місяці тому +5

    It's difficult being 27 years old not being able to communicate with others, without getting emotional or becoming overly sensitive to people's perception of you. I feel like I am going backwards, I was calm, quiet, reserved and with some confidence when I was in my teens, but now I feel like an adult operating emotionally as an infant.

  • @shatakshipandey8014
    @shatakshipandey8014 6 місяців тому +9

    I am 17, and I have big goals for myself. To fulfill those dreams. I have to be mentally tough.
    Tough times don't last, but tough people do.

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  5 місяців тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ceciadovana5971
    @ceciadovana5971 Рік тому +3

    I read somewhere that smoking is in essence a breathing practice. Personally, I'm not a smoker, but I have noticed, that when I'm stressed I do the smoking motion, I press two fingers to my lips and inhale through them. And it works! So yeah, a breathing practice is very helpful.

  • @almaaenergy
    @almaaenergy Рік тому +15

    Love this, being able to have emotional maturity and the ability to process them really levels up your life experience
    ❤❤

  • @vidhichoudhary7498
    @vidhichoudhary7498 Рік тому +2

    I cannot tell you how relatable it feels. You are like a free therapist to me girlllll

  • @keenastew
    @keenastew Рік тому +2

    I’m not sure if you ever feel burn out but bestie I’m gonna need you to fight through them bc I neeed your videos to keep coming consistently!

  • @lettsblend
    @lettsblend Рік тому +10

    I love this video, especially since I'm In a new season of my life. Deep breathing is something I started to do as well but I didn't realize why and how much it helped in my day-to-day life. ❤️

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Рік тому +2

      Amazing!!! 🥰 & yes, deep breathing is powerful!

  • @AnnaBelise
    @AnnaBelise Рік тому +8

    God brought this much needed video to me at the perfect time. Thank you sis! ❤🙏🏽

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Рік тому +1

      Amen sis 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @bonisilengiba8379
    @bonisilengiba8379 Рік тому

    I bless the day I came across one your video my life changed I'm a better person than I was

  • @grannyronna
    @grannyronna Рік тому

    Do not allow your emotions to control you; it should be the other way around. Thanks for the video!

  • @JoyMumford
    @JoyMumford Рік тому +12

    Such an encouraging video, as always! ❤ Focusing on the present moment is so important! Thank you for sharing, and congrats on passing 100K! 🎉🎈

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Рік тому +2

      Thanks for watching love! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. And thank you 🥰♥️

  • @avieshaaugustus3260
    @avieshaaugustus3260 5 місяців тому

    So Imformative and straight forward , love the video ❤

  • @nyaa610
    @nyaa610 5 місяців тому

    Wow. You definitely said a lot. Thank you so much!

  • @aldonaweber48
    @aldonaweber48 5 місяців тому

    Just love YOU ❤ Thank you for your content !!!!!!!

  • @ChristineBalarezo
    @ChristineBalarezo Рік тому +3

    This was just what I needed to hear ❤ Persist through the emotional fluctuations of life. If I feel off I tend to follow that emotion down a rabbit hole 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ No more 🙌🏼 Thank you Montelle ❤

  • @Memkoh
    @Memkoh Рік тому +3

    I love it! Thanks for the tips. I've been looking into stoicism and it's so different from what I thought it was (in a beneficial way) so this is very much in line with it and I had to click. As always, you break down every point nicely, actionable. One thing I need to incorporate more of is celebrating small wins. You look really great in this video btw, hair pulled back.

  • @laurieneza
    @laurieneza Рік тому +2

    thanks you so much for this video, you just explain everything that I needed to hear on how to deal with my unstable emotions.

  • @carly.alethia4533
    @carly.alethia4533 10 місяців тому

    This is really helpful, because I struggle with this a lot, so thank you!

  • @parlowgems
    @parlowgems Рік тому

    Good mature advice for growth. I especially like how you said to focus on what are the positives and the solutions.

  • @Theewolfegirl
    @Theewolfegirl Рік тому

    I love this guidance it’s very much what I needed!❤

  • @Newparadigmsales
    @Newparadigmsales Рік тому

    I’m here for this. YES!

  • @nxdiagxrcia
    @nxdiagxrcia Рік тому +1

    *please make a podcast* montelle !!

  • @kristenpotter377
    @kristenpotter377 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this video. I appreciate this so much. Keep it up, you are amazing.

  • @Her-Diariess
    @Her-Diariess Рік тому

    Some life nuggets right here! Much love for you🥰😍

  • @sophielily2015
    @sophielily2015 Рік тому

    Thank u SO much! I was able to relate so much. I took so many notes on this video. Really appreciate what you’re doing 🤓.

  • @sicilcaney5818
    @sicilcaney5818 Рік тому +1

    Really needed this one today. Thanks sis.

  • @mompreneurlife
    @mompreneurlife Рік тому

    ❤ I still need this right now! Thank you❤

  • @Penelope_kc
    @Penelope_kc Рік тому

    I highly appreciate the subtitles.

  • @ieshadierra
    @ieshadierra Рік тому

    I love this topic! The book Master Your Emotions is a game changer as well 😊

  • @victoriathebrown3094
    @victoriathebrown3094 Рік тому +2

    I ❤️ your content! Keep going👍🏾

  • @anissascorner
    @anissascorner Рік тому

    Congratulations to you ❤️❤️!!!

  • @Xodeladelamore
    @Xodeladelamore Рік тому

    Just in time for me. Thankss!!😂❤

  • @Copolia
    @Copolia Рік тому

    Very powerful video. Thank you

  • @tanyamaquet
    @tanyamaquet Рік тому

    Love this 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @AnnaGrace603
    @AnnaGrace603 11 місяців тому +1

    You glow ❤

  • @Ama-un4fo
    @Ama-un4fo Рік тому +2

    Hi Montelle, i was wondering how you view pretending you are okay vs telling what is happening inside. I noticed you mentioned that mental toughness is not showing it on the outside, but I kind of disagree with that. I think you are allowed to show it, but you should not stay in it. Otherwise you will walk around with a load of things going on and it will weigh you down eventually.
    Im curious to see what your thoughts are❤ liked the video

  • @k.4th1een
    @k.4th1een Рік тому

    thank you ❤

  • @BEATUIFULANASTASIA
    @BEATUIFULANASTASIA 23 дні тому

    Thanks ,For this advice because I’m going through lot and now I want to be fight my emotions and be myself you think you can I have help or something.

  • @bxfinestladiie
    @bxfinestladiie Рік тому

    Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Omotayo.Adeyemi
    @Omotayo.Adeyemi Рік тому

    This video was definitely for me🙂❤

  • @thaliaf0804
    @thaliaf0804 Рік тому +1

    Omg saw this at the right time almost quit my job but but someone told me not act of emotion and now this 🫶🏼

  • @sunvavachi
    @sunvavachi Рік тому

    Really good video!

  • @jojothemojo
    @jojothemojo 5 місяців тому

    Beautiful

  • @DAC2254
    @DAC2254 Рік тому

    You have a beautiful smile 😍 😊

  • @cherrierice9997
    @cherrierice9997 Рік тому +1

    I needed this ❤

  • @elisa.piccoli
    @elisa.piccoli Рік тому

    queen👑

  • @tahanalovee
    @tahanalovee Рік тому

    omg yesss this is me but i need a break and hug lol omg !

  • @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh
    @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh 10 місяців тому

    Montelle looked like you were Speaking about me

  • @albumvlogs6281
    @albumvlogs6281 Рік тому

    Nice blogs brow....💗❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @courtneyoneillviolin
    @courtneyoneillviolin Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @lydirxx
    @lydirxx Рік тому

    The fact that im 13 and watching this just feels weird

  • @eunae6655
    @eunae6655 Рік тому +1

    Much needed content 🤎
    God bless you queen ✨️

  • @tapannayak3503
    @tapannayak3503 Рік тому

    I'm so sorry

  • @leejr9999
    @leejr9999 Рік тому

  • @sophielily2015
    @sophielily2015 Рік тому

    🩵🩵🩵

  • @gamelylo
    @gamelylo Рік тому

    Waaay too many ads in one video... I'm out!

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Рік тому +1

      How many? I don’t manually insert the ads so I wasn’t aware of this!

  • @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh
    @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh 10 місяців тому

    Montelle looked like you were Speaking about me

  • @iheonugoodness06
    @iheonugoodness06 Рік тому

    ❤❤