Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English
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Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .
Didi please I am afraid of driving. I cannot handle thé stress. I easly get panicked. What should I do?
Yes
Not on road in life also sometime its not necessary to make them right. Let it be and don't waste our power on others.
Very much agreed madam . Thanks very much .
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This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her
My worst phase is going on. She's helping me so much🙏🏻🙏🏻❤. God Bless Herl❤🙏🏻
@@jumisaaswatilahon1585 sending prayer's for you my friend ❤️🫂
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Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!
Yes she is an angel a free therapist
I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me?
I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim.
Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again.
I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.
Same with me
Our almighty knows when we need his guidance the most🙂
Same will me
I had similar incident few months back. I then connected to God through meditation, bhajans etc( like listening bhajan alone in my room/while travelling etc). I started spenidng time alone for positive self talk assuring myself that everything is peaceful and good and God loves me. God has unconditional love for all. My life is peaceful and happy now. I focus on my own peaceful state over others. Those who used to behave with me in a certain way which they shouldn't also now treat me with respect, peace and love. And some unhealthy elements also automatically sided away from life. Good things ( maybe good lessons through incidents which help us grow spiritually) automatically follow up when we connect to Divine. I pray you have a happy and peaceful state. Also each one has their own personal experience so we must have patience😊
Saw your comment and realized that I've been going through the same kinda pain for the last two days and now I'm trying to get better.
" I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.
Your car is been rammed by a stranger out of no where now what is the right thought that you would create please let me know
How to ? Because they hurt us is it so easy to forgive them and subside that anger and still respect them
I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.
Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤
did you divorce?
@@tpb1006😂
@@tpb1006Possibly 😂🤣
If want PAECE of mind 😃
Just like you I also used to see that show but because kiddish nature I am not able implement such knowledge. But now I want control of myself. That's why I m here
@@kamlesh_kumar707Good luck to you mam. May you succeed.. Om namah shivay
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Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏
She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...
I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........
Absolutely correct
Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤
OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹
Wonderful, inspirational and life changing
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Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹
Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤
Om Shanti didi🙏🏻
I am a powerful being
I am a peaceful soul
I am calm and stable always
I am always happy
Thank you thank you thank you Universe
What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️
I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of UA-cam videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..
Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊
You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society!
You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately!
Everything is of mind!
I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏
Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑
Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems
Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.
सबका जो सपना हैं ..
मेरा वो अपना हैं..
प्यारा वो कितना हैं...
मुश्किल हैं बताना...
उस रब का शुक्राना..
उस रब का शुक्राना...
ओम् शान्ति बाबा..
ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥
OM SHANTHI AND HAPPY MORNING DIDI...
Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude…..
Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎
Didi you have magical voice.... whenever I Heard you i forget all stress, anxiety and almost all the distraction...om shanti Didi ...
Yes I was searching the word
Magical soothing voice
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Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇
Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..
Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻
Your words give me so much inner peace, I can't express in words... Thank you ❤
very soft spoken like flaws of river .
Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏
Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude
Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life
Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏
I am feeling blessed today because of this video 😇, thank you so much
Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊
Simply superb no words. Will follow from today
I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏
Om Shanti 🙏❤❤
Om shanti Om shanti 🙏
Om shanti 🙏😊
Your words make me feel ,yes,I can...
Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself...
I can,I can,I can.
I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .
Om Shanti 🙏🙏
Absolutely amazing talk 💯
Om shanti didi 💐 thankyou 😊
Thank you so much Ma'am.
Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.
Om Shanti Didi 🙏🏻 suprabhat 🌹
Thank you sister Shivani .
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
Om Shanti 🙏♥️
Much needed session for me ❤️
Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.
Thank you. Om Shanti
Lovely.. you gave me peace of mind
I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.
Om shanti🙏🙏🙏🙏
Om Shanti…🙏🏻
I always feel blessed watching Shivani Didi's lectures.
yes u right i also fel like
Good
So true, i feel same....god on earth to teach us
Love is dependent, it cannot be independent. If you are blessed to listen to her, then at least question a little to understand the reality or define better. People are just falling prey to non sense.
Always feel much calmer, feel empowered as she says.
wow, how nice how right ..i never listened to her before. But i love every word she said
Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless
This is the second podcast I’m listening to, I’m glad your video crossed my path: You’re an amazing speaker, thank you for your knowledge. ❤
Loved the way you said. I felt you are saying all these to me only. ❤❤
Bless you...
God blezz
grateful for this🙏🏻
Simply superb msg.... Thank you sister.
Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤
I literally needs to hear it
Om shanti 🙏❤
Om Shanti 🙏🙏❤😇
Thank you sister for guiding us
Thank you very much Sister🙏🙏🙏
Beautifully said 🙏 om shanti
Didi....
Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏
Emotional independence is the key to a happy life .
Its wrong. When you try to be emotionally independent, you are just turning off your emotions which is bad. If you want to be emotionally independent, then there is no love.
@@user-uh5pd2ex5kif it only hurts and betrays in the name of love then you must say Bye.
@@AbCd-ne1ck you are right. The point here is emotionally "Independent" is wrong because you are losing the fundamental "Love".. without love, one is as good as dead
True
Absolutely
Om shanti🙏
Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊
Very well said👏🏼
Thnku so much Didi for guiding us...
"From being a victim in the world to becoming a master of your life master of your mind"😌✨
Thank you sister Shivani
Om shanti
Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤
Thank you so much ❤
My guide for a healthy mindset.
Om Shanti
It is much needed.. Thankyou ❤
Om shanti didi❤
Om shanti ❤
Thank you for your help with this matter
Nice video. Thanku
Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊
Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌
Thanks Shivani mam❤
Thank you so much Sivaniji❤
I Cant tell you how much positive energy all these words have given me.. This was much needed at this point of time in my life.. Thank you..
Good morning dii 😊😊
Om shanti dii❤❤
Aapki voice itni peaceful h jise sunke man ek dam shant ho jata h☺️☺️tq so much dii
Thanks Shivani didi you are my inspiration ❤god bless you
Om Shanthi.
Thank goodness I came across this video, As I spent my two years being emotionally dependent that drained my soul, I am ready to follow emotional independence ❤