I invested so much in people before, because I didn't know about "microwave connections" it still hurts me every time I remember how easy it was for them to walk away from me...
Haven’t watched the video.Religion that is pure and undefined before God the father is this to visit orphans and widows in their afflictions and to keep oneself unstained from the world !james 1:27
Regarding helping others, your words are to the point. I often solve most of the complex problems between me and myself, and I seek strength, but I forget that I have the right to depend on anyone, just in order to feel that someone cares about me enough to make the sacrifice.
I still struggle with this. Most friendships have been me holding space for them while they are evolving and when they feel better they go on with their life. I usually feel like a toy to a child with a short attention span lol I literally have not one person i can go to for support, fun, and growing together, especially identifying as a starseed. I trust there is one bestie out there for me, and i them. I would love to know your human design!
I really needed this video today and the universe led me right to it, lol. The genuine friends thing resonated with me so hard, especially now when I've had to let go of one "homeboy" and one "sister from another mister" all within the span of 2 months because I felt like I was the only one that was giving my all to the friendships while they were giving me "microwave" efforts (that microwave phrase was clever, by the way; I'm loving it). The deep connections I had with the "sister" started to fade and go missing to the point where the communication and hang out sessions were becoming very sparse. And with the other, I just could not get the deep connection that I wanted from them. It was just all immature small talk. Both people were younger than me, so there's that. But the kicker is that they were the ones that approached me first, not the other way around. So now I'm in this mental space where I don't know if it's something about my aura that attracts these types of seasonal people, or if I'm doing something wrong somewhere else in my life that causes me to attract said people, or if I'm even meant to have genuine friends in the first place and just meant to be a team of one instead. So, now I'm to the point where I'm avoiding human connection altogether until I do some healing, soul searching, further evolving, and reconnecting with myself first so I can make better decisions when it comes to who I trust to let inside my queendom, people who won't give up or fade to black or continuously hurt me. I know this is a long comment, but I needed to vent, y'all. 😂😅 Anywho ... to all things mentioned in this video, I feel like it's just a part of evolution. To find your way through it all, it takes knowing yourself inside and out so that you can establish your likes/dislikes, wants/needs, boundaries, and non-negotiables. Be your true authentic self, listen to your inner voice, use your powerful words and prayers to manifest what you desire and the universe will bring you the opportunities, tools, and people you truly need to help you navigate this crazy thing we call life. 😉 Namaste. 🙏🏽
Thanks for this comment, I read all of it and I totally relate because of the things I have gone through with close friends...some of us evolve faster than those around us, and it requires us to be okay with short term friendships or acquaintanceships, and through that we're called to mentor moreso than just give and take. As you said, your friends were younger than you. It may not seem fair, but its in alignment with our gift and talents to share them and make a difference for something greater than just ourselves
@@holisticflo Thanks for this reply, and you make some excellent points. With the "sister" I felt like I did take on more of an older sister/mentor role, and she did make some changes in her life for the better - even though she's still got a long way to go. But ultimately, I think it all boiled down to - like you said - evolving faster than they did. I've decided to view this as a learning experience for me as well, because I've gotten to know myself more, respect myself more, and I started to fall more in love with myself throughout all of it. And now I move differently and think differently because of it. So - again, like you said - every experience, whether it's short term or long term, is a learning and growing experience. And I've learned to be okay with that. Upwards and onwards, right? 😉 😊
The way that you are. The way that you REALLY are, is the Best! Embrace it. The gifts are in those hidden places that you hide from in your dreams, but it is the most honorable place to be, where you do not betray yourself. Peace and Blessings!
Yes i do not put to much into folks I find that if i give U the opportunity to do slime U will there4 Prayer,Music, Meditation, And the few who Sho Luv Get Luv! Peace U Beautiful Woman U💚🖤❤️💥
20:09 lol I had a normal conversation turn into shit in a matter of minutes because they moved with assumption lmao. I feel like today, most people are negative until proven positive lmao
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I invested so much in people before, because I didn't know about "microwave connections" it still hurts me every time I remember how easy it was for them to walk away from me...
Mmmm. I feel you. To let it go is to be okay with unattachment
Haven’t watched the video.Religion that is pure and undefined before God the father is this to visit orphans and widows in their afflictions and to keep oneself unstained from the world !james 1:27
Regarding helping others, your words are to the point. I often solve most of the complex problems between me and myself, and I seek strength, but I forget that I have the right to depend on anyone, just in order to feel that someone cares about me enough to make the sacrifice.
This is a word! 🙌🏾
I still struggle with this. Most friendships have been me holding space for them while they are evolving and when they feel better they go on with their life. I usually feel like a toy to a child with a short attention span lol I literally have not one person i can go to for support, fun, and growing together, especially identifying as a starseed. I trust there is one bestie out there for me, and i them. I would love to know your human design!
Feeling like a "toy to a child with a short attention span" is wildly accurate! Appreciate you for sharing 🙌🏾
YOU ARE unlike anybody else. I loveeeeeeee how you think because it's exactly how i think ! You change the perception of self improvement
Im deada$$ serious about how insane this actually is, going through the same thing and perceiving the lessons similarly is insannnneeee to me
Thank you, its the God in me 😎
From what I've gathered, We're here to create, love, and just be.
Edit: Be just as you are now, until you choose to evolve.
I love this 🙌🏾
I can relate to most of what you said💯
Awesome
I really needed this video today and the universe led me right to it, lol. The genuine friends thing resonated with me so hard, especially now when I've had to let go of one "homeboy" and one "sister from another mister" all within the span of 2 months because I felt like I was the only one that was giving my all to the friendships while they were giving me "microwave" efforts (that microwave phrase was clever, by the way; I'm loving it). The deep connections I had with the "sister" started to fade and go missing to the point where the communication and hang out sessions were becoming very sparse. And with the other, I just could not get the deep connection that I wanted from them. It was just all immature small talk. Both people were younger than me, so there's that. But the kicker is that they were the ones that approached me first, not the other way around. So now I'm in this mental space where I don't know if it's something about my aura that attracts these types of seasonal people, or if I'm doing something wrong somewhere else in my life that causes me to attract said people, or if I'm even meant to have genuine friends in the first place and just meant to be a team of one instead. So, now I'm to the point where I'm avoiding human connection altogether until I do some healing, soul searching, further evolving, and reconnecting with myself first so I can make better decisions when it comes to who I trust to let inside my queendom, people who won't give up or fade to black or continuously hurt me. I know this is a long comment, but I needed to vent, y'all. 😂😅 Anywho ... to all things mentioned in this video, I feel like it's just a part of evolution. To find your way through it all, it takes knowing yourself inside and out so that you can establish your likes/dislikes, wants/needs, boundaries, and non-negotiables. Be your true authentic self, listen to your inner voice, use your powerful words and prayers to manifest what you desire and the universe will bring you the opportunities, tools, and people you truly need to help you navigate this crazy thing we call life. 😉 Namaste. 🙏🏽
Thanks for this comment, I read all of it and I totally relate because of the things I have gone through with close friends...some of us evolve faster than those around us, and it requires us to be okay with short term friendships or acquaintanceships, and through that we're called to mentor moreso than just give and take. As you said, your friends were younger than you.
It may not seem fair, but its in alignment with our gift and talents to share them and make a difference for something greater than just ourselves
@@holisticflo Thanks for this reply, and you make some excellent points. With the "sister" I felt like I did take on more of an older sister/mentor role, and she did make some changes in her life for the better - even though she's still got a long way to go. But ultimately, I think it all boiled down to - like you said - evolving faster than they did. I've decided to view this as a learning experience for me as well, because I've gotten to know myself more, respect myself more, and I started to fall more in love with myself throughout all of it. And now I move differently and think differently because of it. So - again, like you said - every experience, whether it's short term or long term, is a learning and growing experience. And I've learned to be okay with that. Upwards and onwards, right? 😉 😊
The way that you are. The way that you REALLY are, is the Best! Embrace it. The gifts are in those hidden places that you hide from in your dreams, but it is the most honorable place to be, where you do not betray yourself. Peace and Blessings!
I LOVE this! Peace and blessings 🙌🏾
@@holisticflo Most ❤️ blessings to you Kindred.
Thanks for this message. Really helpful. ❤
Glad it was helpful!
Yes i do not put to much into folks I find that if i give U the opportunity to do slime U will there4 Prayer,Music, Meditation, And the few who Sho Luv Get Luv! Peace U Beautiful Woman U💚🖤❤️💥
Peace and love thanks for your comment 🙏🏾
19:08 as a 33 year old man. it gets worse lol
20:09 lol I had a normal conversation turn into shit in a matter of minutes because they moved with assumption lmao. I feel like today, most people are negative until proven positive lmao
Lol mayne
Hope this vid helps me 🙏🏾