Falling In Love Is Darker Than You Would Expect!
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Today we're gonna be talking about how falling in love is a little darker than you would expect. On the outside falling in love looks beautiful but on the inside, there is something that you have no idea that when you see you may not want that. Because falling in love makes a lot of problems.
First thing first when you fall in love you are replaying your childhood and attempting to be either the child or the parent. Because the foundation of attraction has almost infantile origins we want to replicate the relationship with our parents. Anything that replicates this vulnerable and parent relationship tends to be attractive.
Another thing when you fall in love is that it brings uncontrollable emotions and feelings of vulnerability we don't like which could trigger mental episodes for certain people. It brings out the dark side of your partner because when falling in love we are able to take off the mask and escape reality through irrationality.
We have this thing called mate guarding. Mate guarding is making sure that other guys can't touch your woman. And this became so successful that it's wired in men to be jealous and controlling.
Another dark side that came out is caternal murders. Where falling in love makes someone murder their partners because of jealousy. Some people change for the worse when they fall in love. People in general lose their sense of purpose.
Falling in love also comes with pain and fear of loss. You're basically combining emotions to create new emotions. The problem is the positive emotion of love and the negative emotion of losing someone create an undertone of negative emotion. And it keeps bound to them.
And that's it! So be careful who you are falling in love with cause when you fall in love you get blinded and you stop seeing people for who they are. You start projecting your fantasies into them. A lot of us have archetypes or the type of person we want to love so will project certain traits unto them. And this projection blinds you and detaches you from your reality and this gets you manipulated. So get out of that and start seeing the person on who they are.
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I’m convinced that if men don’t feel “pain”, there is no possibility for long term. Most people are dysfunctional (to some degree) and being too sweet or available leads to being taken for granted.
You don’t need to give pain, you need to keep yourself high value.
This is so true. Works like a charm.
The key is acting like you love yourself more than them- because that’s the way it should be honestly
In my experience when I bring the “pain” to a man they actually do fall in love. All that submissive stuff is BS. Men made that up to protect there feelings but they sure as hell won’t care about yours until you demand it.
It’s so true, unfortunately. All the men that chased and loved the hardest and wouldn’t let me go until I figuratively beat them with a stick...I was HORRIBLE to them and treated them like shit. I can come to no other conclusion than men like pain
"The natural progression of love starts with happiness and ends with pain "
Father alex is preaching 🙏
When u fall in love your inner child comes and think that he has found his father, deep it’s the hormones and smells that bring you back to childhood time.
That’s why having sex can be very emotional
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When you go searching for love, they seem nowhere to be found, but when you don't, they come into your life at the perfect time.
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Soooo true
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He’s 100% right about negative and positive emotions will always equal negative. I was told for every 1 negative thought we have, we have to over throw it with 17 positive ones… sounds exhausting to be happy 😅😅😅😅😅😅
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Love the transparency, the accountability of some darkness and perversion in pretty much every human. It’s just bout how you see it and use it. 👍🏾 ❤️
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These “perverted” elements you have named are pervasive. You’re spot on right. People know these things are true but they will not name them. Thanks for telling the truth.
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I really appreciate the psychological break down of emotions that you do on this channel. This definitely sets you apart from the rest. Keep up the great work!!!
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Everything that Father Alex said makes sense. Thank you 🙏
Yes, now that is a good reminder of why it’s good to be single. The whole concept of intimacy is quite perverted. 😂 And society is perverted in general. I need to be asexual and just be happy. 🤣 🤣 🤣
HE GAVE US A 23 MIN VIDEO!!! 😍
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I’ve never been in love with my parents. They never established relationships with my siblings and I. We all more so tolerant them unfortunately. We all wish they were like other regular loving parents but they’re not that way and overly religious. When I love my SO it’s definitely not no infantile desire, gross 🤮
This is the best video you have ever made Alex ..Thank you ..I really enjoyed it ...when you are doing a seminar in Mexico pls give us a heads up
Another option - they are sociopaths, which means they don't really like anyone, nothing really excites them except people manipulation, so yeah, in any case, they don't like you. But they wouldn't mind playing you and manipulating you for a while
Love the look!!!! Thank you. Stay Toxic!!
Wow.. literally what I’m going through right now.. divorce sucks but exactly what you said .. I fell out of love bc the partner just gave up. So I’m moving on.
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This! By far, you explained it so well! Loved it great job 🙂
This was a great break down. Social intelligence.
Very good stuff today, Alex. Looking good, too.
This is what we need to hear. On point
This was hilarious and hit the nail. That's what Ive been thinking, like why do macho men want a small, petite and vulnerable woman? Some don't like tall or strong physique women yet they could be men with a strong physique and tall too but even those men (not all men) like the petite woman? And lots of guys wana call their girl "baby" and let them sit on their lap, suck on woman's n*pple, etc etc. But goes for women too like you said, women want someone who can take care of them, strong, tall, like a "daddy" figure, etc. I noticed the infantile state that a lot of us creepy people like. Its crazy but it is what it is.
My sister is a tall beautiful goddess that looks like Marjorie de Sousa, same height, body shape, everything and she has the world after her. Men love tall goddesses when they are gorgeous. If a girl isn't beautiful, it's best to be shorter (Like me) and not stand out. If a woman is stunning, men want all their beauty to be seen. I wish I had my sisters genes, but I got my mom's genes instead. Nothing wrong with being short, that's the way God created me. But, we don't stand out like Marjorie de Sousa or Adriama Lima or Rosie Huntington for example.
Best analysis ever dude, great job! 👌🧠
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Can you do a next long video on giving negative emotions?
Bring it 🎯 Facts
11:36 true
I love this video. I also want to follow this to get who I need to fall for me
One of the best videos you have done 👌
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Falling in love can be scary. That’s why if that bitch doesn’t fear you they don’t love you.
Yeah it makes me insecure. Im so inlove rn.
This isn’t creepy unless you’re immature. This is nature
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This is true I watched a video explaining the psychology behind why people call their partners BABY, Sigmund Freuds work also talks abit about this soooooo, yeah everything you're saying is true... twisted but true
The boob thing is for sure real. Guys who have done that have called me mama which I found a bit weird but I’m open minded
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Professor Alex 😎
I’m liking that hair.
Subconscious
I fell in love and it had cot me fortunes.will never do that gain
father alex do u kno abt mbti? so wht about psychology of boy based on their personality type???
WOOOOOW
Are you more turned on by single moms / vulnerable women? Delete if offensive, lol.
Would like to know this too
Hey Alex:)
Can you do more videos about rebounds I've gotten alot of my girlfriends following you and ❤you. But after a bad break up they get into a quick rebound terrible relation ship and have quit talking to there friends if you try to help. Can you do more videos on self esteem and how to be more independent instead of codependent?
I mean really another person doesn't fill the void. And it makes me think they are not good enough to wait for the best person to be with them in the future please help!!??
Lol I enjoy watching you and things you say ㅋ yes love is painful...... it hurts😭😭😭
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He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
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Day 6 of asking how to flirt for shy girls
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He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem
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Oof. This was good.
Nope. A positive integer + a negative does not always equal a negative integer oga Alex!
My fault I meant multiplying with a negative.
Well we don't live by multiple we live be adding and subtract so how does this effect your thesis you just covered ??
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father alex, can you explain to us about how to deal with narcissist?
You get discarded eventually so be aware if he is a true narcissist/ value/devalue/discard. It’s part of the illness so be careful Bc no matter how amazing you are you will get discarded
leave. its the only option.
You don’t deal with them, or you understand them and benefit from each other . But quit playing victim
You don't.
I am a zen master cause I definitely be controlling that shit 😂😂
Hello,get help from Dr Wilfred,where they seems no hope.
He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
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Btw alex videos work lmao.
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@05:23 …. when you say sex has infantile origins, i mean we do enjoy having sex to make babies …
1 + -1 = 0
The first time you lied on the channel
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He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
What city in FL
Hello,get help from Dr Wilfred,where they seems no hope.
He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
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LOL
There is no such thing a human "love" romantic feelings isn't love, funny you put up a click bate of Turd and Depp. You look great by the way Alex I don't know if you hear it enough buddy 😉 👍
Gross Alex,
I’ve never thought about shit this way ughhh cringe!!
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
Hello,get help from Dr Wilfred,where they seems no hope.
He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem
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Wait.... something is different with your face today 🤔
"The natural progression of love starts with happiness and ends with pain "
Father alex is preaching 🙏