Why Women Struggle To Love Men Correctly || Love Coach Explains What Women Need To Do

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  • Why Women Struggle To Love Men Correctly || Love Coach Explains What Women Need To Do
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  • @derekqsanders
    @derekqsanders Рік тому +58

    I wish the guest was allowed to speak and be heard rather than having to explain/defend simple, but profound points that she was making that appeared to be beyond the hosts level of comprehension. He seemed to get defensive because he misunderstood what she was explaining about submission. Her point was very insightful.

    • @JohnDoe-sp7ps
      @JohnDoe-sp7ps Рік тому +2

      Agreed.

    • @vonettaadams8839
      @vonettaadams8839 Рік тому +3

      Rico made it impossible for us to benefit from the therapist's perspective. It was tiresome.

    • @timothyawileysr1066
      @timothyawileysr1066 Рік тому +4

      He wasn't listening to her talking point.. He lost track of the narrative. They are battling Her for no reason.

    • @yahowshuabenyahudah7734
      @yahowshuabenyahudah7734 Рік тому

      💯💯

    • @whoop59
      @whoop59 Рік тому +1

      In a sense I can say that I agree to your comment also. The thing that I'm on the fence being whole heartedly agreeable is because the points that both of the guys were pointing out certain scenarios and perspectives that I myself don't think she could agree or understand in totality. Even though this is a public speaking like podcast, they not her clients nor was this has she been there multiple times.

  • @ddeontayyc9668
    @ddeontayyc9668 Рік тому +26

    I like how the lady stood her ground and had some good points but, both dudes wasn't retaining nothing that she said that was valid.

  • @cartiersworld8207
    @cartiersworld8207 Рік тому +48

    We need mature men at this table

  • @SirDave
    @SirDave Рік тому +10

    Man he DOESN'T LISTENNNN. Damn. Y'all are both making some valid points, but he does not wanna listen, and he doesn't want to admit she's making valid or complimentary points.

  • @awardtour93
    @awardtour93 Рік тому +6

    The guest was super on point. Point blank. The guys couldn't keep up with her because they were too invested in their own default points. So much so that they couldn't see when they were agreeing with her.

  • @daneedelmar4716
    @daneedelmar4716 Рік тому +64

    Most people aren't going to comprehend and appreciate what this young woman is trying to teach because we have become adept at listening to respond and not understanding what is being said.She is just presenting information within her findings. Great conversation

    • @blackomenmuzik
      @blackomenmuzik Рік тому

      Because she's full of crap.

    • @kojoboateng6755
      @kojoboateng6755 Рік тому +3

      What does she know about being a man of value with responsibility?? Nothing.

    • @lonnishalesheall
      @lonnishalesheall Рік тому +2

      Exactly!

    • @The_black_Madonna
      @The_black_Madonna Рік тому +3

      ​@@kojoboateng6755 Where did she say that Sir?
      Semantics is the key.
      @Danee Del Mar thanks for your understanding. The conversation is needed but the guy born in 1993 lacks of semantics, understanding words and ethics of hosting.

    • @The_black_Madonna
      @The_black_Madonna Рік тому +2

      @Rico Hundo has a long way to becoming a man.
      He might just be out of teenage.

  • @nnena3631
    @nnena3631 Рік тому +37

    The inconvenient truth of this interview is that there are men that simply don't want to hear the REAL solution to that which they seek if it involves self reflection, and behavioral modification.

  • @kenyaparmes1544
    @kenyaparmes1544 Рік тому +9

    This guest is EVERYTHING! I loved her intelligence and articulation. I’m sad the guys didn’t want to receive her very well validated information.

  • @cortneyjones5159
    @cortneyjones5159 Рік тому +12

    New Love and Peace Family Always! Understand: As a Man if you want to understand Women study the Nature of Water; 1.Water seeks its own level 2. Water cannot clean itself, freeze itself or turn into a gas. That is for the Sun to do. Water magnifies whatever is placed in it. Water reflects whatever is shown on its surface. Water has the ability to soothe, comfort, replenish and refresh, water also has the ability to destroy and overwhelm when there is too much of it. Read this again and study over it. I Will this will become understood.😌

  • @Flynerdybarber
    @Flynerdybarber Рік тому +36

    I wish there was a more mature man to talk on this topic....

    • @jasminemartin2081
      @jasminemartin2081 Рік тому +11

      More mature, more evolved with better comprehension skills

  • @withlove8888
    @withlove8888 Рік тому +19

    These guys are so rude!!! It's sad. They're not looking for answers. They're looking for blame.

  • @SirDave
    @SirDave Рік тому +8

    Oh Lord he don't listen. I'm a man that is human, and I can understand the truth in all sexes and gender. he was not listening to understand. a conversation is a two-way street, everybody's going to have their different perspective, even if you have a similar perspective, you can still vary in some ways. He was really being performative, not actively listening, just not saying anything so he can be looked at as being respectful, but was really listening to things here and there so he can have a counterpoint. She definitely made a lot of valid points. and he just seemed like he just wanted to be right about everything.
    and I'm only 13 minutes into this video.

  • @adreannaflowers
    @adreannaflowers Рік тому +9

    This one is to Rico, I am a 25 year old woman who actually does love goodmorning texts, the hugs and kisses, the love and affection from our men. To say that we don't exist is just wild lol.

    • @ericb7776
      @ericb7776 Рік тому

      I think most women like it. They just don't want it happening too soon

    • @bronz9019
      @bronz9019 Рік тому

      The women that call us simps for that overshadow women like you

  • @kitcat89
    @kitcat89 Рік тому +14

    Rico is very immature he speaks and does not listen. I think hearing how men being more masculine would allow women to be more feminine in return made him feel attacked. Possibly he has learned in previous relationships that he lacks masculinity.

  • @twill4857
    @twill4857 Рік тому +12

    Rico is just not equipped to handle this subject matter. This would’ve been better on another platform with someone else who is able to handle the conversation.

  • @chantelcotton5757
    @chantelcotton5757 Рік тому +15

    This episode was theeeeee best full circle conversation ever!!!!

  • @nannio
    @nannio Рік тому +6

    Her point about the music 🎯🎯🎯

  • @kddesigns589
    @kddesigns589 Рік тому +2

    It was so hard to listen to this interview because of the men this time, but Cassandra had so much swag and info, I fought through it. These cats were mad emotional, the Lightskin dude the most.

  • @Aceisworking__
    @Aceisworking__ Рік тому +37

    Rico you gotta listen a little more. You seem very defensive! Salute to 8 at the table for this episode 🔥

  • @followingmyintuition2079
    @followingmyintuition2079 Рік тому +111

    Rico does not know everything and he talks like he does. He respect men perspective but he struggles to respect women perspectives. That can stem from mother issues.

    • @angelblue8350
      @angelblue8350 Рік тому

      I feel because in this generation there is so much option, on social media that giving them a million affection lady has involve into woman is about more success

    • @angelblue8350
      @angelblue8350 Рік тому +1

      Me personally i been in a realationship just like that, in truth i was a simp didn't realize it

    • @twill4857
      @twill4857 Рік тому +1

      I like Rico but I’d have to agree with you on this one

    • @Goodgame32
      @Goodgame32 Рік тому +6

      He is too young, inexperienced, and uneducated on this topic. But he did try!

    • @popmyshit7662
      @popmyshit7662 Рік тому +5

      I can see a bit bias in his rebuttal… its hard for men to say we did play apart in why modern women are the way they are… women are giving men exactly what they are attracted to… BODY & BEAUTY just look in these ig models comments

  • @chantelcotton5757
    @chantelcotton5757 Рік тому +54

    Rico has the bigger picture, the therapist has the tools, and attention to detail. If they worked together! They’d be unstoppable. I think Rico wasn’t listening to understand, he just wanted to be right, which he was! I think she simply didn’t put into words that he was right and that she has the tools! She’s the vision she’s the builder! Aaron understood that she was going to get there, no one put the pieces together! I should be apart of this show!

    • @chantelcotton5757
      @chantelcotton5757 Рік тому +1

      Sorry Rico was the vision, she was the builder!

    • @IpelengMotsatsi
      @IpelengMotsatsi Рік тому +10

      normally he's good but damn was he triggered and emotional.

    • @kojoboateng6755
      @kojoboateng6755 Рік тому +1

      Funny to hear women say "she's the builder". She knows nothing about what men builds men into men of value.

    • @kennyblessed2523
      @kennyblessed2523 Рік тому +4

      I agree. Cassandra is beautifully articulate, and Rico is very precise and concise.

    • @Personifydmedia
      @Personifydmedia Рік тому +1

      Rico don't get it and is not open to receiving the information.

  • @ShannzP
    @ShannzP Рік тому +10

    Would love to see Love Dorsey on this podcast

  • @terialjonee
    @terialjonee Рік тому +12

    Great episode! To Ms.Cassandra , you were very professional. You stayed in character , along with standing your ground🤎

    • @travisscott2678
      @travisscott2678 Рік тому

      The other interviewer was passed. Rico showed his lack of knowledge today. He was worst because of the other guy's input.

    • @travisscott2678
      @travisscott2678 Рік тому

      Pissed.

  • @chantelcotton5757
    @chantelcotton5757 Рік тому +14

    To also add the coach see the bigger picture she just works in the smaller spaces! Rico does not have the tools to do that yet! That’s why she’s the coach!

    • @kojoboateng6755
      @kojoboateng6755 Рік тому +3

      Women like you will follow and listen to anything. How's this woman a coach??? What does she know about what builds a man into a man of value??

    • @ukpabiaozor
      @ukpabiaozor Рік тому +1

      @@kojoboateng6755 😂 She’s also single, why doesn’t she practice what she preaches?

    • @saniyyahgray3549
      @saniyyahgray3549 Рік тому

      @@ukpabiaozor Rico is single also

    • @ukpabiaozor
      @ukpabiaozor Рік тому

      @@saniyyahgray3549 He’s not a relationship/life coach.

  • @sadelloyd7310
    @sadelloyd7310 Рік тому +8

    Rico loves the sound of his own voice and opinions.

    • @YoungmillionaireFl
      @YoungmillionaireFl Рік тому +1

      he’s young and unaware that he lacks age and experience.

  • @jasminemartin2081
    @jasminemartin2081 Рік тому +26

    I completely understand what she saying and I think she was going so deep that she lost most of the audience. From the beginning her point was that women are naturally submissive in nature so what we see in women today is a direct byproduct of us submitting to the will of men. When men said they wanted us stay home and cook and clean we did. When men said that they wanted fat asses and sloppy top, we obliged so whether men like what they see or not, this is exactly what y’all asked for it’s just now gotten out of the male control. And if you’re eyes are open enough you can see this same principle today. Men are saying they want more femininity and less “twerking” and “hot girl summer” and now guess what, more and more women are tapping back into their femininity. Long story short, use your power wisely and intentionally because what you ask for shall be given!

    • @lashonmathis5777
      @lashonmathis5777 Рік тому +5

      This!! She explained it perfectly!

    • @chrisharris2367
      @chrisharris2367 Рік тому +5

      The best relationship I have seen in my lifetime and the women that get the best men are the ones that respect themselves and love themselves not necessarily over cater to men
      It’s a two way street otherwise it’s just pure servitude not a relationship

    • @twisi6318
      @twisi6318 Рік тому

      well said, sloppy toppy at home

    • @bodyworkandptbykraig7609
      @bodyworkandptbykraig7609 Рік тому +4

      "so whether men like what they see or not, this is EXACTLY what y'all asked for..."
      👀😔 💔 👎 No. Stop...Rewind. Let's not pretend women didn't insert their own ideas. Feminism has nothing to do with anything men asserted. Men were never following Feminism or encouraging Feminism were they? [I agree with everything else you said]

    • @midwestqueen9683
      @midwestqueen9683 Рік тому

      @@bodyworkandptbykraig7609 I agree with you and her because I also didn’t agree to this feminist crap, and I’m also hearing men say she may be attractive yeah ima look she bad and has a big bust and big butt but I wouldn’t date her or marry her

  • @AlexMinor
    @AlexMinor Рік тому +7

    I feel like both these dudes did a very bad job of listening during this podcast. Rico especially.
    They barely let the guest speak and make her points.

  • @cartiersworld8207
    @cartiersworld8207 Рік тому +4

    I think Rico loves to disagree or he is not listening and it’s like they trying to trip her up.

  • @maqnthreez
    @maqnthreez Рік тому +15

    She (coach) dropped some huge gems; as she could; like chic’s/females/women do; wished she could’ve dropped more. What’s the links to her platforms?

  • @SimplyAdiva
    @SimplyAdiva Рік тому +9

    I'm from Caribbean from Brooklyn, got my education, military and started my own business. I still moved my family to the suburbs. My husband wanted it for a while and since he patiently supported my vision I did the same with his trucking. We moved to TX.
    It was hard transition but I don't even have to work if I want to. I still have my business with a NYC client base travel back & forth. I enjoy my family being in the suburbs. She lost me, Why did she leave her husband? What is she looking for since she claims she's not happy. Like why break up your family especially if no cheating was involved. What exactly is she coaching if she quit her own relationship?

    • @cutfromadifferentcloth101
      @cutfromadifferentcloth101 Рік тому +1

      You right all I heard was good game from her she play the good girl role to land a higher value man drain him for his resources and create a problem to get out the relationship

    • @ralphbohner6166
      @ralphbohner6166 8 місяців тому +1

      You seem to be one of the only females to get it!

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 Рік тому +6

    I think Rico has conversation ADHD …

  • @missty1045
    @missty1045 Рік тому +7

    She is way too intelligent and dropping very important knowledge to be having discussion with these immature men. I want to hear more from her. Where is her platform. The young one really just not mature and experienced enough to carry this conversation. If the men are “womanizers” then nothing she has to say is going to resonate so she is wasting breath. They are too simple

  • @twallace2038
    @twallace2038 Рік тому +6

    Patiently Dealing with lack of common sense is applaud able....bravo to this young lady.

  • @lategramcmillian4835
    @lategramcmillian4835 Рік тому +3

    Ommggggggg he is soooo negative! He don’t want to understand bc the knowledge is coming from a woman but the man said the exact same thing the therapist said and he agreed. If you are never married you wont ever know that you don’t completely know yourself. you’ve never been put in a situation or position that makes the realization surface. But that’s life. And if that’s the case he will always be pissed bc when we are working and becoming better ppl wives business partners etc. we suppose to change which means we now have to get to know this person we are evolving to be!! And this is the banger….. ready??!!!! We evolve every 10 or so years!!!!!!! Always working to become better than before!! Bless his heart!!!

  • @DeajaneWilson
    @DeajaneWilson Рік тому +12

    Sis is preaching the whole video. I be saying the same things. I love to see women in the places I want to be one day

    • @ukpabiaozor
      @ukpabiaozor Рік тому +1

      So divorced after a decent sounding marriage where no one cheated but giving other people advice while being single? 🤔

    • @DeajaneWilson
      @DeajaneWilson Рік тому

      @@ukpabiaozor career wise sir. And there shouldn’t be any judging how she can help someone based off her life. Learning from mistakes and living by those and helping others to explore where they may be going wrong is something that can be done by anyone. It’s funny how people like to judge the ones that are actually trying to help bring the black community back together while they just sit on their computers and complain about the help rather than doing something.

    • @ukpabiaozor
      @ukpabiaozor Рік тому

      @@DeajaneWilson Career wise, she’s supposed to be a dating/marriage coach. But she failed. The fact that she’s not trying to say why they divorced means that she did something. Leave it to women to support women who make bad decisions. You’re not doing ish for the black community by propping up people who make stupid decisions.
      How are you gonna advocate for healthy relationships when you left yours despite it sounding “great” for selfish reasons? And now she’s a single mother. Another statistic. Good job, you failed successfully.

    • @DeajaneWilson
      @DeajaneWilson Рік тому

      @@ukpabiaozor I don’t see failure. Again what are you doing to help? Stop complaining about the help if you are not doing anything to bring the community back together. Seems a bit redundant. She does not have to share her personal business to the world no one is entitled to that.

    • @ukpabiaozor
      @ukpabiaozor Рік тому

      @@DeajaneWilson I’m Nigerian, I help “My community” all the time. I used to care more about the Black American community until I saw black women celebrating the death of Kevin Samuels. Miss me with that evil ish. Y’all are on your own.
      One of the biggest issues in the Black American community is lack of a family structure. If she had gone and done anything else, I wouldn’t be saying anything. But you people are hyping up a woman that left a good marriage/family for selfish reasons and now you want men/women to take advice from her about Relationships? She’s literally part of the single mother statistic. She’s the problem, but you support her. Disgusting.
      Y’all really don’t seem to get it. But you keep on supporting people like her, keep destroying the black family. The powers at be don’t even have to do anything. Y’all are poisoning yourselves.

  • @logic0057
    @logic0057 Рік тому +14

    This is a great conversation, I hope you guys continue to go in this direction, and further away from the "Danny Dueces"/ratchet/clown direction.

  • @timothyawileysr1066
    @timothyawileysr1066 Рік тому +1

    As a Man... A Leader... He Must be compassionate, nurturing, empathetic and supportive. He must show his Woman intimacy.
    I believe he should be considerate, thoughtful and comforting,
    Protective and consistent to build trust with her, she will then become submissive to him..

  • @SonOfAmittai
    @SonOfAmittai Рік тому +3

    I feel like the fellas are talking over the speaker let her speak. This is great convo but I was interested in hearing her. She basically said we as men set the tone and a women will follow our lead and as we have trickled down throughout the generations things have changed.

    • @maqnthreez
      @maqnthreez Рік тому +3

      She (coach) dropped some huge gems; as she could like chic’s/females/women always do; Wished she’d was allowed to have dropped more. What’s her name again?

  • @roneshataylor8877
    @roneshataylor8877 Рік тому +10

    It seems like Rico definitely argue to be right and NOT to understand. If he listens he would hear ALL the tools that she is explaining...the men in the room is not listening to the words that are coming out of her mouth. They're perceiving her wrongs in a negative way...never did she say she teaches men to be men.

  • @withlove8888
    @withlove8888 Рік тому +22

    Rico does not listen. He is extremely stuck in his ways and believes he knows everything. If she is not saying what he wants her to say in the way that he wants her to say it, she's not a male advocate. Everything is his opinion. When he speaks of men he says not all men. When he speaks of women he says most women " in his opinion". He doesn't have conversation, he talks at people not to them.🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Pretty0717
      @Pretty0717 Рік тому +3

      That’s because he has all these men in his ear telling him he’s right and they need people like him so he obviously believes it after he hears it so many times he’s developed a “ I can’t be wrong” mindset his fans are counting on him

  • @mikecheckproductionz
    @mikecheckproductionz Рік тому +2

    I'm glad I watched the entire video before jumping in the comment section. I knew I wasn't tripping. These men were triggered, emotional and listened to respond. They made some points but the over talking and deflecting hurt the quality of the show a bit. Was she a guest or was she there to be cross-examined?

  • @chadmitchell7111
    @chadmitchell7111 Рік тому +3

    Rico, listen more than you talk bruh, especially in the presence of someone that is clearly wiser than you on subject matters💯

  • @moneyman8777
    @moneyman8777 Рік тому +8

    The problem I have with her view is women don’t have agency over their decisions. It’s almost like she didn’t consider, the suffrage movement, the feminist movement, and sexual liberation. All things that women fought for, and have significant influence on women today. I agree men have some influence. But that’s like blaming women for men wanting to be the “bad boy” because they see that’s what women desire

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 Рік тому

      women desire what men have been telling women to desire for centuries, till they grow up and realize it was all a lie.

    • @naeshawn01
      @naeshawn01 Рік тому

      As women we do have fault in the popularization of the bad boy imagine and so are other men. Most women respond positively to that specific image. Men promoted it by aspiring to be that men. Just like men are attracted to promiscuous women (regardless of it is only for sex) now women are aspiring to be that women. Men have been promoting promiscuity for ages (that is why prostitution is considered the oldest profession), women would not only be shunned but killed for being deemed promiscuous at one time. At some point men did not hold men in high regard publicly for sleeping with multiple women. However, that changed. Men where promoting this ideal of a happily monogamous relationship while they themselves were promiscuous in private. Men made laws that were only beneficial for men. Women got tired of society only favoring men. That’s were suffrage, feminism, and sexual liberation came from. Men of the past abused their power over women. That’s why Cassandra said women follow suit and men cannot control the consequences of their actions. Newton’s law states “Every action has an equal but opposite reaction”. Men can control the action or cause but not the determine the result or effect of that action.

    • @BlackFighterz
      @BlackFighterz Рік тому

      Pretty much what I wanted to say, if women were truly naturally submissive and just do what men want a lot of the modern movements today wouldn't exist as these weren't ask nr advocated for by men.

    • @moneyman8777
      @moneyman8777 Рік тому

      @@naeshawn01 I hear you and slightly agree, but every body has the power of choice. Just because woman like bad boys, does not aspire me to be a bad boy. That’s the difference. Tired of people using men as scapegoats for the behavior of women when they have the power of choice

  • @kristaltyrell4013
    @kristaltyrell4013 Рік тому

    Yes, you said it perfectly! 😊

  • @jaybivins7131
    @jaybivins7131 Рік тому +3

    They're having two different conversations. The point she is making is, read, understand and investigate your woman to a specific sense. Rather than generalizing her amongst others.
    That way, the man expectations will be more probable to be achieved. At least i think shes saying that lol

  • @dionmckenna7977
    @dionmckenna7977 Рік тому

    The thing is I agree with some of what Rico is saying and I also agree with what the guest is saying alot of ppl are walking around with trauma issues. And the truth is not everyone has the ability and the honesty to hold up the mirror and take a good look at themselves now this is where the dynamics comes in. The power of two. And she's right understanding each other is key but first understanding self. We have now moved in to a shallow self society. The difference with a Kia and a Bentley ...they're both cars but the maintenance is way different 👌🏽

  • @nastaciathomas6074
    @nastaciathomas6074 Рік тому

    Love 🎉the ladies !!!! and their conversations of this channel.

  • @theperfectbrother
    @theperfectbrother Рік тому +3

    I love what rico said women change their way to divorce no matter how much you knew her before

  • @browndeevah
    @browndeevah Рік тому +2

    Rico forgets he has 2 ears and 1 mouth. No comprehension, smh

  • @omarepps77
    @omarepps77 Рік тому +1

    Great points sister. And there lies the issue alot of times in relationship...sometimes the woman doesn't say what needs to be said (which is simple and sometimes what men need) which is for women to simply say "you are right" or "I'm sorry ". Instead a woman will do everything but..May cook a meal or give sex...when instead men just want the verbal words said. But Great episode. She was speaking the gospel and making great points..and so were the men. And I also see why the men were also saying that they weren't saying the same thing while the women thought they were.

  • @plymakkayestudio1827
    @plymakkayestudio1827 Рік тому +2

    Rico and the other guy in the background, you guys are usually on point. But i feel like you wanted to be right instead of deeply listening to UNDERSTAND what she was saying. Every time she would make a valid psychological point about men's expectations of women and the fix behind that, you would either argue with her or move the goal post whenever she was right about a point. I am a man and really learned a lot. She really threw a lot of gem here.. but i felt like she had to fight you at every point. She was simply CONVEYING information on how she trains men to better understand the opposite gender and how to pick the right one that can match his soul. She was only sharing what her MALE patients were complaining about and how to fix it. She was the messenger. Next time, when you guys have a very intellectual guest like her, give them more AIR time to talk WITH NO INTERRUPTION so the audience can absorb their knowledge. She was very knowledgeable. I wish yall were not debating her as much so she could share more of her input. This was not a regular guest like your buddies yall always go back and forth with in the other shows. This woman has a master degree with obvious relationship coaching experience , Do you know how much knowledge she could have poured in if you guys were not interrupting her as much with pointless theoretical questions and examples ..smh!!!

  • @SirDave
    @SirDave Рік тому +7

    33:39 - 34:02 - She really told him, he doesn't wanna understand. she made a great point.
    Overall, Rico doesn't seem to have the capacity to understand what she saying, and neither does the other male co-host.

    • @MB-qd2zz
      @MB-qd2zz Рік тому

      Exactly!!! To me it seems as though Rico was expecting her to go in on women. I like the fact that the lady in trying to provide tools to married ppl instead of just blaming the other sex.

  • @electricmoxie6433
    @electricmoxie6433 Рік тому

    Excellent guest.

  • @ruzeljunyaofficial5482
    @ruzeljunyaofficial5482 Рік тому +5

    In my opinion men should stop worrying about what "all" women want & women should stop worrying about what "all" men want & be yourself that way you attract some(one) who really loves you for you, be honest about who you are & wat you like and wat u don't like then after that it's about are they willing to respect that. Respect is one of the most important parts of the relationship. No arguing only calm communication even if it's a disagreement stay respectful cause why would you wanna hurt someone that you love? You gotta really desire to wanna be faithful or what's the point. Then comes teamwork. If someone is good to you be good back to them & Keep Jesus 1st and them 2nd because he designed love between a woman and a man.

  • @vrtnsd
    @vrtnsd Рік тому

    when we get some money we gonna support yall

  • @apresdavis
    @apresdavis Рік тому +13

    The conversation got stale at the laying on Her mans chest element
    !!! I think Erin is too clear and concise and you don't get things sugar coated with her!!! This could have been a really clear imputive conversation it got technical before I could fully understand and be taught! This was a very driven conversation and was very doting for women to really get Insight. I want another episode with her and other men. Not just Rico and Allen. Im tired of it I can always rely on him to not to want to understand what's explained!!! It gets confusing when someone pushing to put context where It just don't need to go! Sometimes men really spoil good shit!!!

    • @shirlene1985
      @shirlene1985 Рік тому +5

      Both Rico and the other guy are toxic... its exhausting.

    • @apresdavis
      @apresdavis Рік тому +1

      @@shirlene1985 I busted out laughing!!! 😆😆😆It's how I felt you I want some ladies specials for sure!

    • @SirDave
      @SirDave Рік тому +2

      I agree. This shit was beyond exhausting, he does not listen and he wants to be right about anything. He shouldn't have a podcast if he doesn't know how to have a conversation. A conversation is a 2-way street, you have to listen, accept someone has a different point, and try to understand. He is showing he doesn't want to do that. He wants to boss the conversation around, he's showing he doesn't know how to be a leader.

    • @apresdavis
      @apresdavis Рік тому

      @@SirDave It be like that sometime! I know I couldn't be up there I'd have high blood pressure dealing with Rico like real talk I be wanting to see the other dude with the gold's I don't even be seeing him no more I just figured I'd have to always see Rico only! I just like when people stick to their guns with him, than it'll ware off!!! He'll stop the Bs!!! ... He never says anything that doesn't make sense but all that crushing other ppls thoughts and opinions puts all the attention on him! Cringe for sure...

  • @moesid85
    @moesid85 Рік тому +2

    I get what she saying because men Expressed a desire for women to twerk and be sexually out there they submit it to that will and became sexually promiscuous

  • @osiriscarlo1200
    @osiriscarlo1200 Рік тому +7

    Omg I love the guys on this show but they are acting like women what I mean is they are not letting her talk or even get her point across shut up and let her speak 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @helenabolo-luca9377
    @helenabolo-luca9377 Рік тому

    But getting to know and coming to a place of acceptance while discovering the core of your own self never stops to the end of your own life, even while things are changing storms are coming, growth, financials, kids, it’s adaptability during the evolution of a relationship Damn

  • @sonjadf47
    @sonjadf47 Рік тому

    There are three things a couple need to make it without too much struggle is chemistry, compatibility and the most important is connectivity. There must be a connection. Without a connection, the relationship will likely fail. You will have a connection once, MAYBE twice in your lifetime.

  • @iwishyouwould9985
    @iwishyouwould9985 Рік тому +1

    She found out quick that grass wasn’t greener on the Asian side

  • @otsflop1989
    @otsflop1989 Рік тому

    You gotta go thru the motion to figure out how that road feel.

  • @chrisharris2367
    @chrisharris2367 Рік тому +2

    You need God respect love integrity trust for a relationship to work and be authentic

  • @MarshaScott-bn4wp
    @MarshaScott-bn4wp Рік тому +1

    Rico does not understand what is being said because he is listening to respond instead of listening to understand no one can tell another person how they should feel she feels the way she feels …

  • @jeremainewestbrook8754
    @jeremainewestbrook8754 Рік тому +3

    CAN YALL PLEASE LET EACH OTHER TALK . ..... SHIIITTTTTT !!!!!

  • @stundyleo
    @stundyleo Рік тому +3

    I ride with Rico and Alan all day they make the conversation more interesting and we all learnt.
    This is not a talk show which the host only do the talking NO, it's a dialogs and it's normal to agree and disagree on some aspects and perspective.
    But kudos to Cassandra she spoke well.

  • @F.O.D973
    @F.O.D973 Рік тому +5

    You can’t blame men for the choices females want to do

  • @angelblue8350
    @angelblue8350 Рік тому +2

    Me personally if my lady have 3 babies i would hire people to help my lady, she will have time to make dinner

  • @anthonybellsbestofmenation6422

    Honor and respect to Rico and his team I respect what your doin. As a man, I like to be objective, and It did appear on a few moments Rico was missing some valid points the coach was making.

  • @Sergie_babes
    @Sergie_babes Рік тому +2

    I actually never understand how can a woman teach a man to be masculine and a man teach women to be feminine. This is a legit question that I wanna know

    • @AlexMinor
      @AlexMinor Рік тому +5

      She’s not teaching men to be masculine. She’s teaching men to understand a woman’s psychology and reactions so he can take the right actions to get the results he wants.

    • @childoffaith
      @childoffaith Рік тому

      @@AlexMinor 👏💯

  • @anthonyalexander5825
    @anthonyalexander5825 7 місяців тому

    She is right tho.. you have to understand those you mean to lead..so you can lead more effectively.

  • @jamesbell4266
    @jamesbell4266 Рік тому +1

    Let the professional say what she need the two men did want to except her knowledge

  • @v8jaylasell676
    @v8jaylasell676 Рік тому +1

    That women can not teach a grown man that's to be a leader...She has so many holes in her game she has alot more to learn...

  • @raynailwright839
    @raynailwright839 Рік тому

    I definitely check my bros

  • @angelblue8350
    @angelblue8350 Рік тому +1

    You need to fix self an heal erase all your faults, so you can learn to love this woman same as the lady need to fix self an heal an change her fault so we both can grow together

  • @stephonthomas6174
    @stephonthomas6174 Рік тому +2

    Please bring her back

  • @lbriggs7244
    @lbriggs7244 Рік тому +1

    This was exhausting.

  • @lyngrey4186
    @lyngrey4186 Рік тому

    Erin is smart sensitive and amazing.

  • @ionawitherspon187
    @ionawitherspon187 Рік тому +1

    If Rico wasn’t attractive I’m sure woman would tolerate him less. He almost seems brain dead in conversations.

  • @angelamhaigler
    @angelamhaigler Рік тому +1

    Rico was so disrespectful. He interrupted her so many times, did not listen to her and he is complaining about her not listening to him.

  • @deecool6327
    @deecool6327 Рік тому +1

    Rico is sooooo ridiculous. Eww. If he is not the "it" person, he makes all kinds of faces. These women are smart, educated and are speaking FACTS! Let her tell her story. Fahkkkk! Now he knows how all therapists deal with situations, etc. Is Rico ever going to change his way of talking to people like he has it all figured out?

  • @waynet3534
    @waynet3534 Рік тому +3

    As I watch this, guys should concentrate on being more knowledgeable on what they speak about. Great convo though...

  • @NkemOnyeka12
    @NkemOnyeka12 11 місяців тому

    Rico talked around the subject at hand. I tried to go with him every time, to not be choosing sides. I just feel like he wasn’t trying to hear anything she had to say. He, and the other guy, were trying to mud up the conversation. Rico was definitely saying that even TRYING to fix yourself is a waste of time, that even managing it is a waste of time. Rico is a quitter if things just aren’t going his way it seems. It doesn’t sound like he’s the type to love anyone enough to invest time learning someone for the betterment of a relationship. If it’s not working….get another one without trying to fix it first, because they didn’t know themselves. He doesn’t know himself as much as he thought, because if he took time to get to know his partner also then he may have been able to maintain his relationship. At the end of the episode, Rico never ONCE agreed with anything that involved men being accountable for ANYTHING. He ALWAYS put it on the woman to make the better decision.

  • @derekqsanders
    @derekqsanders Рік тому +6

    I wish the men had taken the lady host's suggestion and let the guest explain what she does and the questions that were being asked by the male host would have been answered or never needed to be asked. The guest was very unnecessarily put on the defensive to explain points that she made that were clearly missed and some points that were never made by her.

  • @morrisdavidmullings9833
    @morrisdavidmullings9833 Місяць тому

    Rico dont listen and cant stop thinking about himself

  • @twylalove8857
    @twylalove8857 Рік тому +1

    Omg... I'm trying to get through because I really want to hear what the guest has to say. I may have to find her on a different interview.

  • @AngryManSki
    @AngryManSki Рік тому

    Please start posting the @ for your guests on the screen and their links in the description of the show. She’s spitting facts but I can’t support her without links.

  • @candaceleblanc202
    @candaceleblanc202 Рік тому +3

    Women aren’t talking to these young women (AKA those with a city girl mentality) because they aren’t educated enough to comprehend what we are saying. Every time Rico has a rebuttal he’s talking about the shit these you girls do that men get mad at… but look at who you’re picking! These girls don’t have their priorities together and they aren’t actively working towards anything but they match what you want physically so y’all are blind to that for soo long then come on here complaining.

  • @toyin2376
    @toyin2376 Рік тому +1

    So glad i'm single

  • @angelblue8350
    @angelblue8350 Рік тому +1

    Rico bro this is one of the best show you ever did

  • @browndeevah
    @browndeevah Рік тому +1

    The men are the cause. Men lead and women follow. Wether is a low or high frequency. Is not about blaming anyone, that’s just how the pendulum swings.

  • @eddyoriginal777
    @eddyoriginal777 Рік тому +1

    The consequence is women dont get the man you really want after hott girl summer you get pookie and ray-ray thats what they’re attracted too. Green hair, lashes and nails that’s attractive to nba youngboi not Idris Elba. Modern women should pray for a simp and actually keep him only a weak man is going to take on your baggage n trauma as his own.

  • @IpelengMotsatsi
    @IpelengMotsatsi Рік тому +10

    She kinda bodied Rico, and I'm on his side. Brother you need to get to the point. I couldn't understand where you where saying. Like he had a whole lot of words but it didn't mean nothing until the very end.

    • @marcusanderson2586
      @marcusanderson2586 Рік тому +1

      Rico bodied her💪🏽💪🏽

    • @IpelengMotsatsi
      @IpelengMotsatsi Рік тому +1

      @Natalya MoonRise The reason is because most women can’t handle any criticism. When you talk to them you have to heavily shape your language and almost lie and capitulate to there emotions.

  • @vendeezel
    @vendeezel Рік тому +3

    She's on point about leadership. These men seem 2 want leadership by the same entitlement they accuse women of.
    Leadership is still *EARNED* in trust.

  • @Monce08
    @Monce08 Рік тому

    She needs to have a sit down with Tony Gaskins.

  • @angelblue8350
    @angelblue8350 Рік тому +1

    I love kassandra she got my lady name

  • @cutfromadifferentcloth101
    @cutfromadifferentcloth101 Рік тому

    The lady had everything and gave it all up for what to do what she is doing now so she chose career over family

  • @moontakeen
    @moontakeen Рік тому +1

    what happened in that divorce 😕 doe...

  • @kddesigns589
    @kddesigns589 Рік тому

    She killing this whole show. Both these dudes are emotional and triggered. I thought they were the women in this episode. Sis was droppin'.

  • @larsanapeters5560
    @larsanapeters5560 Рік тому +2

    Men don’t want partnerships they want a submissive wife