Society berates the winners and comforts the losers to the point that you feel ashamed to win. Never feel ashamed of being happy about the results of your hard work.
This guy has helped me in so many ways, my girlfriend broke up with me not tp long ago, I was thinking about letting myself go until I found out about this channel, I've been so much better and improving myself more and more each day. Thank you!
I think it’s better to grow up weak and become masculine later on than to be a natural born chad. All the natural born chads are used to getting girls and being popular so they don’t really feel the desperate need to improve, and a lot of them end up peeking in high school or college and not doing anything else with their life. But those of us who have been at the bottom know just how terrible it is and will work hard to improve ourselves and achieve the life we want.
I think is just necesary the drive to be better or curiosity to experiment and be better, bc i have a "chad" friend that fits the description completely and he has not gone soft bc he knows his limits and whats capable of, he actually will start a career in politics soon
Men, I want you to know this masculinity or urge to compete and so on is never gone from you. It’s always inside of you, it’s just blocked and you know exactly what negative core beliefs block it.🙏🏾
Hamza your on point here, i remember how i felt and what i did as a child was considered "bad" or out of control when all i really was doing was having fun with friends being a boy. But over the years me being me was beaten out of me physically and mentally by everyone around me. Being by myself for awhile and following my own lead blocking out the noise of the world has been the absolute best thing I've ever done as i find myself slowly becoming that little boy again that i lost so long ago i almost forgot about him. You only have one shot at this life, do the best you can everyday for you not for ANYONE else.
I remember I had a notebook (a personal notebook, not even related to school) filled with military and soldiers drawings which a teacher confiscated telling the whole class about it and how we should never become a soldier because it's some shit related to "toxic man traits", but here I am training and watching your videos to become a soldier, thank you hamza and it's team for the effort you make
I remember in highschool i started to notice the feminisation of young men but didn’t think much of it. Well a year in I started becoming more feminine and weak. However one man changed that for me, my drama teacher. He was an older guy who was swole as fuck and would tease and bully everyone who walked into his class, students teachers and anyone. And while some thought it was bad behaviour something just felt right about his way of being. His influence grew on me and I could tell I was one of his favourite students because he got me into the gym, he taught me how to get started and so much. I’ll forever be grateful to him.
I swear the most dangerous part of self improvement is that you'll be attracting females that you never did, and you'll 'fall' for one. From there you slowly go back to your Jeffery ways because you're comfortable then you find that she's not interested and you wonder why.. then when she leaves you you realize how much you've fallen compared to when you first attracted her 🤷🏾♂️ be vigilant guys.
Hamza is one of the best treasure I've seen in UA-cam. This man truly awakened my life on how to be a true masculine man, thank you for making my life today confident and better than my past life.
As a young boy myself, this is literally saving my manhood, i get the luxury of understanding this before its too late and i get to “Pass the test” i cannot explain how grateful i am to know this so young, Hamza has reawakened my masculinity and i feel like i can stand on my own two feet, i was already very masculine but was punished for it, now i am reawakening it but having more control over it.
Yeah me too I'm 12 years old and I keep on getting punished by my teachers and some are male too and guess what? there all overweight feminine the complain about there jobs and they say if you don't go to college you will be a bum and whenever I try to use logic against them they use pathetic comebacks with no reason behind them boys and men are designed to be determined competitive and masculine.
I have to say that as a 45 yo man, it hurts me to see what you guys are going through and had to go through. When i was young, i would come home with cuts, bruises, bleeding..etc..my mother would scold me for having blood on my clothes, my dad wouldn't even bat an eyelid. There was no "boys will be boys" or "let him be a boy" talk. None of that BS. We were all like that. It wasn't an option, it wasn't even considered that boys would be anything else. My legs are full of scars from my youth. I had marbles embedded below my skin, rocks everywhere, branches slashing my face, walls "kissing" my skull, was quite friendly with 2 nurses between age 12 and 15yo!! I kicked and punched and fought with my best friends, we would challenge each other until we would puke, totally bullying the ones who failed. No kid i was with would openly complain about being bullied or things would get even worse. Safe space....go kick rocks!! There were losers and winners and you'd better be on the winners side because until you did, things weren't always peachy. I am sure every single man of my age tried shaving his face when he was 10yo, usually with his grandfather, because that was "what men did" and because mine fought in WW2 and i had to be as tough as he was! Shaving chest hair, armpit hair, leg hair, ball hair...yeah sure, if you were a girl or else you'd be called "gay". You were told "you got hair to make foam with your soap". End of!! There was no prisoner, there was no 2nd thought, there was no apologies. I know no one who was asked to apologize, either by parents or teachers, for being physical with another boy. Teachers were physical too, you knew exactly when things were about to get dicey...once in a while you didn't give a crap and you crossed that line. Same with parents. A day without a back of a hand was odd and i was well disciplined to be fair!! As soon as any of us could grow something that would have resembled a "beard", we all did it. That was our battle sign, our creed, you got beard = MAN!!! Puberty and acne only meant that we were getting closer to being men. I know no one would went to see a doctor to treat acne, water and soap was all we had. School holidays meant you had to work, public transport, or bicycle or foot. I can count on 1 hand the number of fat kids i was with in every single grade, most of us were lean and physical because, like in the animal kingdom, we knew the bigger, stronger, taller one would get the girls. Everything was a competition, i jumped (often quite frightened) from stupidly high cliffs, i swam in stupid cold water or over stupid distance, i would jump off my grandpa boat and swim back ashore, climb trees as high as i could,etc..etc..etc..and i never thought twice about it. Clothes were something you threw on so that you wouldn't go naked, nothing else. Cold, wind, rain, heat, didn't matter as long as you didn't trash your clothes cause you knew your mom would get pretty active when you were back home. We wouldn't see each other over summer holidays but as you grew older you knew you had to level up during summer because others would. Only a few of us cared about girls before we were 18yo, girls were found at university and because we knew we would have to compete with real men then, we all took real good care of being (early) men by end of highschool. We had honor and a strict code, we knew how things could quickly go south but if you were heading that direction there was only 1 option: man up, right or wrong!! A handshake was a game to see if you could crush the other guy's hand whilst looking into his soul. I remember telling a teacher when i was 18yo that she had to mind her manners and how she talked to us since some of us were legal adults. Nothing happened, she look surprised but also, weirdly, accepting. No one called my parents, i wasn't called to the directors office, none of that BS. Thinking about it i also told a teacher (same year) that he was full of crap and he wasn't teaching us but vaguely paraphrasing the textbook...same result Now i have a 10 yo son and he is being brought up that way. My wife used to challenge me about it until i told her that if that was so bad then why did she marry me since i have always been like that. Since then she has opened her eyes more and sees the danger that society is to young boys (and girls too with premature over sexualisation). Being a man was earnt, no given because you were legally of age. It you were a scrawny little piece of work at 18yo, you were never a man. Oddly, considering how much of little shits we were, people cared about us, how we grew up, how we matured (in the true sense of the word), how we became men. Society nowadays doesn't give a rat's ass. If you don't have a man as a role model in your family it is quite difficult to find your way. Remember this, when shit hits the fan, society won't care if you are an influencer, you shave your body hair, you use beauty products, your a player or anything else. They will put you in front of incoming bullets, so you might as well train yourself with incoming fists!!!
@MillionaireMindsetTate thanks man, it must have resonated with you since you are the only one who commented!!! and i approve of your YT channel name, let's go!!!
Just wanted to say Your son is lucky to have a father like you. Mine was busy working outside the city most of my childhood the result being a man raised like a girl, Can't blame my mum though she did her best.
@@FocusedBunnY My father was only at home to eat and sleep, the rest like you away working. I can recall a year when i heard him but maybe saw him 10% of the time. I knew he was about, so i had to keep it "together"..still, i was a little shit!!! he picked me up by my neck once and i pissed my pants, i can picture it even now!!! My mother was heavy handed, she had to. I think my luck was that she was raised in a family of army boys, 2 brothers, a (also) mostly absent father fighting all around the world, so she had pretty strict views. As far as my son (and my daughter) is concerned, he hasn't got a choice and he doesn't really know anything else. not so long ago he spent 2 weeks with my parents, when he came back the 1st thing he told me was "now i know why you are the way you are"...didn't have to say more, i knew exactly what he meant!! 🙂 The most interesting thing is that as long as you are fair, show love and interested in your kids growth, they will understand why being soft all the time isn't the right way forward, so now he thinks he is a ninja and (tries to) jump me...he watched a couple of boxing video and thinks he "is him" to quote him. Point is, regardless how you were raised, i do believe that at some point you will realize if there is an issue and will adjust it, not only for you but also for your children. Children are the magic potion, they make you look into your soul and question who you are and what they mean to you, they will make you a better person because you owe it to them.
@@ArthurMarrero hey man, thakns for the comment, i only saw it today. Sorry for not replying. Yeah it was fun, i think social media killed all the fun sadly!! At least i have some great stories to tell.
Women dont demand apologies to winner when they do something wrong...they demands them from losers for no reason, the problem is not the behaviour but your value.
Not true at all. A few months ago, a girl that was clearly lower value than me demanded an apology for something that was a misunderstanding. She was so demanding about it, sending me paragraphs of text explaining everything. I just ghosted her. Maybe she perceived me as lower value than her? It’s possible, but I don’t really care what she thinks to be honest. I know for a fact based on the way I live my life and the standards I have set for myself that I’m higher value than she is.
This video hits home with me. Remember growing up being told to sit down, shut up, and to be a good boy. It fucked my life up just like a lot of other guys that grew up in this generation. Us as men are important, we matter. Not from some self help shit saying "your okay the way you are" No, men are literally the building blocks or society. The feminists can comply all they won't, but if/when our society becomes so effeminate, and we're basically all women at this point, another society full of barbarian testosterone filled tyronts ain't gonna give a shit about some gender wage gap, or patriarchy. All they care about is killing our weak men, and using our woman as slaves to extinct us
@@SergeantAngel Nah i dont agree with this. I feel like "toxic masculinity" is attributing toxic traits to and only to masculinity. Which i disagree with when i thing of someone masculine it is someone that is strong, brave, and respectful (there are more but imma list a few). That in itself is not toxic. People use the example that the dad tells his son to not cry not express his feeling but when this happens it isnt just men. Mother, sisters, and girlfriends tell a young boy the exact same thing it not just the father that imposes that on its child that toxic trait isnt only expressible on male figures but rather everyone. So in my opinion Toxic masculinity doesn't exist but instead confused with Toxic traits. Edit: spelling
Today, I'm grateful that I discovered Hamza. You are the reason I didn't let myself go many many times and always fought to not be my normal lazy ass self. You are the reason I'm trying to start an online business. You are the reason many young men did not take their own lives. We appreciate and we are grateful for your advice Hamza.
This is so great. I recently spoke up to a teacher after he refused to pick up a pen someone had accidentally dropped (it was literally in front of the teacher and on the other side of the student’s table). He was quite displeased and people disagreed with the decision I took, yet they all agreed that what the teacher did is unforgivable. “You shouldn’t argue with teachers”, they say. I disagree.
Society trained us to be submissive. The only "safe place" men cannot be submissive without a backlash is playing video games, that's where we show our masculinity secretly. Connect the dots bro!
My mum always told me that if someone wants to change you, you shouldn't let. Thank you for making this video, it's helpful for everyone, for us as well... I was always boyish during school and thinking about it as we grew up it changed me too and dropping into teenhood I started to struggle with my image, or basically anything related to myself because I was the same person as before, but for girls being pretty became important, being with the popular boys, etc and we start to become obsessed with it. It took me almost a decade after high school to accept that I'm fine on my own, I don't need validation from others and I should enjoy what I have and live my life. It feels good! So yes, thank you for making the video and wish you the best.
my girl i left because of these exact reasons is messaging me all day and i feel so bad i cannot go back to her. this is unbelievable that this video just came out, exactly what i needed to hear. thank you for doing what you do!
Hamza, your channel is amazing and your videos are so helpful and thought provoking. I hope you read this but if not I hope somebody else does and maybe it will help them somehow. You really hit home when you spoke of being scolded for having masculine impulses suppressed. I was born in the late 80s and grew up in the central US (Nebraska to be exact) . I remember going to school and we had this dude who was a bully. The mechanics of being a bully were a bit different in my school. We did not have a collection of bullies who had their individual targets. We had just one guy who tormented everyone whenever it was just their day. I remember when my day came in 2nd grade and I remember getting this aggressive feeling and thinking two things 1) I need to defend myself from this prick. 2) I need to neutralize this bastard so that he isn’t a threat to anyone else. I fought and fought on the playground for maybe 45-50 seconds with this guy and… I ended up losing (to be fair to myself he was supposed to have been in 4th grade but got held back twice so he was massive compared to me). But he never messed with me again. But as time went on all the way to 6th grade in 1999-2000 he bullied people but the guys who were not having it from him and fought back with tenacity. It wasn't fighting with any skilled technique but my fellow classmates fought like the Spartans at the Battle of Thermopylae. With every iota of spirit they were punching and kicking and then of course the teachers and school admin would come in and break it up. After which the bully would get a slap on the wrist because they were just so used to him being in trouble but the young men who were just defending themselves would try to explain that the prick started it but would just get hit with the “I don’t care who started it” and “violence doesn’t solve anything” lines. I still to this day remember watching these boys who fought like warriors have a confused look of anguish on their faces as they thought they were doing what their nature told them to do only to be scolded by some wuss of an adult feeding them shit information. The sad truth I have learned is that bullying is not solved by some stupid government programs or some lecturing, or anything like that. It is solved when the bully gets his dumbass knocked out in front of everyone by a tough son of a bitch and that is what the modern world has shut down hard. Then these men who have not been able to act on their positive masculine impulses grow up and end up doing stupid shit like picking up guns and doing awful things. I know a lot of the guys I saw fight our school bully and told they were wrong and evil have grown up to be shells of their former selves and mentally stunted. It's a travesty but I think it explains a lot of the weaknesses that exist today. I don’t normally share anything but with all the other members of your tribe doing so I thought I should this time.
2 years ago i was at my lowest point of life. I got cheated on, i was heartbroken, my mother just found out she had cancer, i used to do a lot of drugs (which are the worst if you are down bad), so i decided to stop that. I had the biggest glow up you can imagine, my mental was kinda good, a lot of women hit my phone, college was going good, etc. , until now. I feel i’m losing touch again with myself. I’m heartbroken once again and i started taking some stuff again too. This video and bunch other videos of yours is what i needed to slap myself and put me back on the right path. Thank You
I just had my first day of work today as a kids birthday party instructor thingy, and all of the boys were competing against eachother, it really showed that that is what we are naturally, take away societies suppression and we are all competitive to a fault
Yes, sometimes it is healthy to compare yourself to others, but also acknowledge that certain things are out of our control due to genetics, and comparing yourself to someone with superior genetics can give you unrealistic expectations that only demotivate you.
You should never compare yourself period. Unless it is to study how someone is doing something so that you can mimick them, that is understandable and inspiring. Otherwise, no.
Hello Hamza, My name is Guilherme, I’m a fifteen year old boy from the interior of Brazil. I’m thankfull for your work and you helped me build my current mindset and purpouse, structuring my priorities. However, I gladly and sadly will stop watching your videos, I feel fulfilled and ready to keep on with my mission and many “whys” in life. But modern technology takes no place in it and I’ll stay focused on my Ethos and in God. Through blood and hard work, structured by you in part, I’ll move on, my brother. With my dedication, faith, understanding of love and humility (Also developed skills through sacrifice and competition) I’ll go, live my blessed and beautiful life. Thank you, Hamza With love, Guilherme
Was quite a feminine guy growing up, rather emotional and really hated confrontation. But having learning about masculine and feminine energy I can say wow, I just just emotional but I was feminine, that has changed and I now find my self feeling masculine, not like 100% I still have much to do, but I have become more masculine, being stronger, more stoic etc and I feel great! Been able to control my emotions a lot more, I’m getting stronger more disciplined and I just fell great! But alas I am no where near where I want to be but I am making progress and I can fell and see it.
Still in school, every time I try to be masculine with my friends we get yelled at, but recently I became friends with more masculine guys, and now we do not apologize really anymore. We straight up say my bad and go right back to it, just as loud as before. Teachers dont like us, but I dont like them so I could not care less. It feels so much more natural to act this way then the old me who sat there quietly.
It’s not let Boys Be Boys. it’s Let Boys Be. Be yourself men and be self aware while doing it. Society has taught us to doubt ourselves from expectations to downright sexism. You don’t need to be the societal definition of being a “man” you need to be you.
Be yourself is terrible advice. What if you are a loser or a piece of shit asshole? Why should you be yourself? Be your best self is much better advice.
Be yourself is bad advice be your best self is better I am sorry if this comment is duplicated youtube put a warning up because my first comment had swears
@@MassachusettsTrainVideos1136 because you can’t always be “your best self” being okay with yourself is the first step into being your best self. Stop trying to misconstrue what I’m saying. The first step with accepting ANY FLAWS is being okay with being yourself THEN you can try to be your best self.
There's a lot I can point out. What you are saying strengthens the belief that gender is a social construct. That every man can have his own definition of what it means to be a man. Like for one guy shaving armpit hairs has no effect on his masculinity, for other it does. Be yourself means that a man can choose to be feminine, which I believe you would not be okay with since we are under the comment section of a channel that promotes machismo under disguise of "self improvement." So what is "boys being boys" or "let boys be" all about? Does that mean letting boys get into bloody brawls? We encourage men to be violent and then cry about male homicide rates. Many people justify cat calling and sexual harassment as something "men do" or "boys will be boys." So what it really means to let boys be? Whatever you gonna point out, also explain why those traits can be found only in men, esp heterosexual men, and not gays or women. I feel like the easiest way to trick men is to make them feel weak. Then you can sell them anything you want.
@@ubaidbutt9709 Let's face it. Absolute most urban and suburban men do not harass women or catcall. The only ones that believe that it is male nature are village Willys. In fact, sexual harassment and/or catcalling is a show of a man's weakness. A strong man respects men AND women. A strong man can hold his sexual urges. Cat-calling and sexual harassment is what weak men, like you, do.
33:20 Now that's what I call the hustle culture, doing everything gets you to your mission. Tbh, I agree with this, I agree that *most* of your decisions should be based on your mission but the rest can, it can be based on other things like a bit of chilling *without doing the bad habits* and rest. But no, doing and exhausting yourself to work just to get that feeling of accomplishment is just a senseless thing. I tried it and the moment I tried it, I was getting so unrestful, so much anxiety, like feeling down bad when the thing I am doing for just 5 mins wasn't deserving my purpose. Dudes, don't hate me, it's my opinion. People vary. I feel stressed out when I do that 100% things that serve my mission, whilst in your case, it might not.
Got a Jordan Peterson ad on this and watched every single second of it 💪🏼 Keep up the excellent work Hamza. You’re helping so many young men become better, more confident and more masculine!
Men are needed in today's society. As a Christian there is one thing that needs to be said, a fool is not a man. If one reads the book of provers the bible is against several of the "masculine" things you mentioned. These include swearing, argumentativeness, and pride. I thin the main idea of this video is to allow for your inner masculinity to shine. But what got unspoken about is that inner masculinity is evil by nature, the way f man may seem right in his own eyes, but Christ looks at his soul. TO be fair I am only 5 min into the video and my opinion may or may not change. Keep up the good work Hamza.
I kept thinking a long these lines but didn't know how to put it into words. There is a lot about Hamzas message that doesn't align well with Christianity.
If there was a Christian self improvement channel i would hop on the wave. I agree with everything u said tbf but at the same time we shouldn't accept the modern world's agenda or 'standards'. You could still do what Hamza is saying but to a lesser extent. Dont use it as an excuse to constantly argue and focus on peace , dont swear or be arrogant but moderate ur actions.
also, i feel like the meditation that Hamza pushes may not be acceptable in Christianity so i just read the Bible and Meditate on God's word. Just cos hamza says it, does not mean that you cannot alter it so that it is acceptable in the eyes of Christ
Speaking about school,I remember that once,in a PE class we were playing volleyball,and there was a girl who played really bad,she didn't even try to play well. I told her to at least try,she got offended and started crying,I was forced to apologize 💀
Was she playing because she wanted to? Whatever the answer is you* don't have to say anything to her, tell the teacher that she might not want to play and play with people who actually want to be good at volley
😢 all i got from this video is commit to your mission and how many of us when thru our 20/30 ‘s were in the blind not making a mission on our life.. then we get to a point stuck with bills, bad relationships and its not our fault.. many times we are living our parents life or what generations of bad decisions.. we gotta break that chain and find ourselves no matter the age or place.. lets become more man and accountable for ourselves
I had a step-father who was a piece of shit. Drug addict, violent with my mother and with me, disgusting like a dog and so many worse things. He also had many manly parts. Sadly he was making such a job being a bad person that I ended up blocking in my life any male characteristic that would ever resemble him. I tried so hard to don't look at women sexually, to ever be aggresive to other men, etc. I have spent years healing and trying to love my own masculinity. Every man should not allow himself to give a bad example that would ever weaken masculinity in this world. We have to be able to use violence to defend and to attack, but using violence without need against innocents has weakened masculinity. Shit like "toxic masculinity" is here because of those who were not up to the strength god gave them
Hamzas in monk mode look at how much he uploads. And its not like he uploads a whole lot of nothing because every video he posts resonates with me in one way or another, im impressed.
BROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO at the start of the video when u said u should compare yourself to others i started recalling my moments after results when i would compare myself to my friend who got better and my parents saying don't compare yourself to others 80% marks is good and all but i couldn't stop comparing and led to believe that i was wrong thanks very much for clearing it to me
I will love taking a session on medito made by hamza I got into meditation thanks to him and I really love the idea of hearing the voice of hamza on a medito session
Watched a couple of your videos now and honest to god, never seen such a relatable person on here. Big respect and thumbs up dude! The masculine discussion was always a huge one for me, because im skinny and always wanted to bulk to simply feel like a man and not like a stick that could break any moment and let me tell you i will go on that journey now, quit the bullshit and just doing it. Thank you sincerely for being straight and honest.
i followed your advice and me and my girl have broken up but i feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders thank you bro she was my supporter in everything but it had to be done.
Hamza, Thank you for this raw truth. You have pulled me back from becoming feminine and complicent. I had relationships and I broke them because of my purpose. I thought I was bad but looking back they were holding me back. Letting them go and becoming more masculine is fulfilling me. I'm at level where I attract similer people like me. One of them alligns with my purpose. Becoming a better man than my father or ancestors could ever be. I am now leading a person that has more potential than younger me. He was influenced by Jeffreies. He was going on a downhill in life so I lent a hand. He accepted a second time and now I got the knowledges from you, Hamza. So, I WILL make him become more confident, more social and more masculine. We will grow together. I am grateful and thankful for your relentless efforts to spread the message, Hamza and Sam. Keep conquering the obstacles especially when they're difficult.
I'm going to hit the gym tomorrow. Wish me luck bros. Been in gym 3 years ago for a couple of months, quit it because of feeling insecure to wear T-shirt at summer. Now I'm much more confident that I used to be.
Am glad to say when i was younger I couldn’t help being a young kid and i would always be in trouble with the teacher because i was being a masculine child
A missionary at heart, though your decisions triggered me and their were alternative ways to solve them. However, I respect your decisions, for focusing on a purpose to spread the message of men re-claiming their masculinity on a weak world in my opinion, triumphs everything that you sacrificed so the future generations can prosper by your work. If done successfully.
i think the best you can do is a regular to do checklist for your day and a extra checkliste for you purpose and then you operate in the highest manner to archive what you have written down
Hamza Could please make a video on how to take pictures and in general how to level up you social media game. it would be really helpful for most of the Jeffreys like me who are trying to improve :)
I found this video really applicable to my current life circumstances. I'm in a loving relationship but I'm constantly fighting feelings of resentment because I know I'm not giving it my all working towards my purpose (finishing university). When I'm with my girlfriend, sometimes I catch myself not being mindful when we are spending time together. It's weird because she loves that I do all these self-improvement habits and it makes me more attractive to her. However, I've been caught up constantly trying to ticking off all the habits, to the point of obsession, and not being satisfied otherwise. On one hand, I should enjoy my life as it is now and I am so grateful for her love and support. I'm lucky to have her in my life. On the other hand, I feel like I'm constantly striving to be the best version of myself and it could be at the unfortunate cost of my relationship. Very insightful video Hamza, and I'm sure people are enjoying the almost "unfiltered" style of videos returning to the main channel. - Keep up the strong work lads and lasses. I'm proud of you, you got this! ❤
God damn you inspired me so hard recently to just use my exiting channel to start posting my knowledge about these kind of topics as well as fitness and nutrition as that's what I'm qualified in. Helping other young men who have been down and out, depressed and even self-harming at some points like I was transform their lives to the kind of place I feel I'm in now where I feel driven, fit, attractive, confident, focused and masculine, that's my fucking mission and god damn it fires me up.
All my life I've felt bad for being better than others, so whenever I have an opportunity to excel at something I feel like I constraint myself for doing so because I don''t want the other person to feel bad, it's so fucking stupid man. I've been betraying my real nature this whole time and I feel like I just owe myself so much at this point that I gotta fuckin crush this self improvement game. Bro thank you so much Hamza.
I was doing pull-ups on the pull-up bar at school and we had to go inside but my friends went like:"can you reach the highest bar?" so I tried I jumped and made it so I went slowly down from the bar and noticed, one of my female teachers was calling me so I went to her. She tried to give me a DETENTION for doing PULL-UPS I even stood up for my self and wasn't even intimidated for such a silly thing which made her want to punish me more. So you know what I did? I ignored her, went to class and told myself If I get detention for doing a pull-up I won't be there to be punished.
Thank you Hamza for this video. Be unapologetically masculine where you are fulfilling that role by knowing your purpose, direction and doing the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.
Everyone has been naturally born a chad, but school pushes the pure muscle and masculinity out of them. Dont become one of those who let themselves get beat up. Stand up for your own rights.
i remember when i was in highschool i always thought like this, got kicked out of class for being loud and becouse everything i did as a man i got kicked out. My mother always knew that it was only becouse i am being myself and she was always happy to know that i have that masculine energy in me and iam not becoming femine. Thank you hamza, you really help me with my self improvenment
Right now I am feeling soooooooo grateful for naturally having rejected all kinds of influence of my teachers to get me to be more feminine and never having felt bad for competing with others.
Found you at the right time. Lessons and ideas we all know and understand deep inside us but sometimes cannot quite articulate or need reminding of sometimes.
I love you for walking away so that you could fulfill your purpose. Every man will second guess themselves, but it is up to us at the end of they day to follow through with the decisions we make and see that we succeed as much as we can
Long-term happiness has to be built on personal fulfillment. Personal fulfillment comes from achieving ones goals and often times a relationship can get in the way no matter how great it is.
this video is speaking to me like no other expect maybe the one talking about your relationship with video games and trauma because I just got out of a 2h30 call with my long distance girlfriend to end things because I thought she was holding me back and not on the same pipeline of growth than me so I let the relationship die and become hurtful and well I needed this I’m realizing I’m going to be so much more focus now thank you hamza
In kindergarten I was "beat down" to be quiet and stop running around Then as I got older I actually had the opposite problem. I was real into emo stuff and got made fun of for being "gay" Can ya do anything right? haha
@@Goursome the problem with that advice is that I like sleeping in and eating potato chips and watching porn. That stuff is no good, so there's gotta be a better determining factor
I think one of the most paradox, but most accurate parable to describe what masculinity is, is a tree: 1. It is strong 2. people and animals can find rest and protection under it or hiding in it 3. It is a provider (good and delicious fruits) 4. Peaceful and restful: not even a storm can shake it down. It stands proud & strong even if it rains, sun or cold comes.
2 years after dealing with addiction and self improvement: my testosterone was measured at 1050ng/dL last week. Stay strong brothers. We're all gonna make it. Just keep doing the right things every day.
This shit got really personal at the end, thank you for being so genuine and sharing your experience like this. I feel you’re like a big brother sharing his wisdom with us. Personally I don’t share that same experience with relationships. I’ve found out that the women that I’m with now pushes me to be a better man. I love her and she deserves the best man in the word and I don’t want her to be with anyone but me. So it is my mission to be that best man and give her what she deserve. That idea has literally gotten me out of bed at 5 am and made me start working on my mission. All that so she can be with the best man in the word.
Honestly I felt like I became a better person after a failed relationship through self development, gaining that masculine energy Hamza preaches, but I never knew how much it would be shut down or belittled for us expressing it. A part of it did feel natural, but the indoctrination of societies ideals made me feel "guilty" about it sometimes where people would call it "an up-the-ass ego" even if it was just my masculine energy being projected for achieving short-term or long-term goals. I just wanted to become a man of purpose for myself in the present and future rather than the Jeffery chasing quick gratification of toxic relationships to show off or hook-ups. Thank you Hamza for preaching a man's purpose. It's helping a lot more with understand how we are.
thank you, same situation, I left my girl last week for the same reason. feel less a shit now, it's just another sacrifice for better future. thx a lot Hamza.
Damn...this hit deep I remember teachers telling us to be obedient and shutting the fck up when they talk. Any sense of students especially boys "talking back" or disobedience they will get seriously pissed
my parents couldn't really care less how i act. they dont care about me. where i am, what i do and how i do. i have been put in boys-only schools because of the decisions of female femenine people who are from above. nothing i can do about it. im moving to highschool when summer break ends. ive always been yelled at and punished when trying to show and be a man. and show my musculinity. its so bad. school is so bad.
Society berates the winners and comforts the losers to the point that you feel ashamed to win. Never feel ashamed of being happy about the results of your hard work.
so fuckin true bro I actually have no financial issues but I feel as I should have them .
truee
Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it
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Especially.
Thx chief
this always helps
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This guy has helped me in so many ways, my girlfriend broke up with me not tp long ago, I was thinking about letting myself go until I found out about this channel, I've been so much better and improving myself more and more each day. Thank you!
Bro it's been the opposite for me I've been thinking about breaking up with my gf because she is a total Jess
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I think it’s better to grow up weak and become masculine later on than to be a natural born chad. All the natural born chads are used to getting girls and being popular so they don’t really feel the desperate need to improve, and a lot of them end up peeking in high school or college and not doing anything else with their life. But those of us who have been at the bottom know just how terrible it is and will work hard to improve ourselves and achieve the life we want.
"The wolf at the top of the hill is not as hungry as the wolf climbing the hill"
a true chad would know that he always needs improvement
I think is just necesary the drive to be better or curiosity to experiment and be better, bc i have a "chad" friend that fits the description completely and he has not gone soft bc he knows his limits and whats capable of, he actually will start a career in politics soon
All this chad, adonis and jeffrey talk is getting a bit tiresome.
@@PB22559 be adonis stay hard
Men, I want you to know this masculinity or urge to compete and so on is never gone from you. It’s always inside of you, it’s just blocked and you know exactly what negative core beliefs block it.🙏🏾
that explains why men are love video games
video games is the only place he can compete without getting backlash
@@taleseylad1249 Naah I feel like video games are more the only place you can win because you are probably a loser
Hamza your on point here, i remember how i felt and what i did as a child was considered "bad" or out of control when all i really was doing was having fun with friends being a boy. But over the years me being me was beaten out of me physically and mentally by everyone around me. Being by myself for awhile and following my own lead blocking out the noise of the world has been the absolute best thing I've ever done as i find myself slowly becoming that little boy again that i lost so long ago i almost forgot about him. You only have one shot at this life, do the best you can everyday for you not for ANYONE else.
this is true for me too, to add on to when you said control, lemme just say, its their feminine, forceful, unnatural control
I remember I had a notebook (a personal notebook, not even related to school) filled with military and soldiers drawings which a teacher confiscated telling the whole class about it and how we should never become a soldier because it's some shit related to "toxic man traits", but here I am training and watching your videos to become a soldier, thank you hamza and it's team for the effort you make
I remember in highschool i started to notice the feminisation of young men but didn’t think much of it. Well a year in I started becoming more feminine and weak. However one man changed that for me, my drama teacher. He was an older guy who was swole as fuck and would tease and bully everyone who walked into his class, students teachers and anyone. And while some thought it was bad behaviour something just felt right about his way of being. His influence grew on me and I could tell I was one of his favourite students because he got me into the gym, he taught me how to get started and so much. I’ll forever be grateful to him.
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phenomenal role model
I swear the most dangerous part of self improvement is that you'll be attracting females that you never did, and you'll 'fall' for one. From there you slowly go back to your Jeffery ways because you're comfortable then you find that she's not interested and you wonder why.. then when she leaves you you realize how much you've fallen compared to when you first attracted her 🤷🏾♂️ be vigilant guys.
Hamza is one of the best treasure I've seen in UA-cam. This man truly awakened my life on how to be a true masculine man, thank you for making my life today confident and better than my past life.
As a young boy myself, this is literally saving my manhood, i get the luxury of understanding this before its too late and i get to “Pass the test” i cannot explain how grateful i am to know this so young, Hamza has reawakened my masculinity and i feel like i can stand on my own two feet, i was already very masculine but was punished for it, now i am reawakening it but having more control over it.
Yeah me too I'm 12 years old and I keep on getting punished by my teachers and some are male too and guess what? there all overweight feminine the complain about there jobs and they say if you don't go to college you will be a bum and whenever I try to use logic against them they use pathetic comebacks with no reason behind them boys and men are designed to be determined competitive and masculine.
I have to say that as a 45 yo man, it hurts me to see what you guys are going through and had to go through.
When i was young, i would come home with cuts, bruises, bleeding..etc..my mother would scold me for having blood on my clothes, my dad wouldn't even bat an eyelid. There was no "boys will be boys" or "let him be a boy" talk. None of that BS. We were all like that. It wasn't an option, it wasn't even considered that boys would be anything else.
My legs are full of scars from my youth. I had marbles embedded below my skin, rocks everywhere, branches slashing my face, walls "kissing" my skull, was quite friendly with 2 nurses between age 12 and 15yo!!
I kicked and punched and fought with my best friends, we would challenge each other until we would puke, totally bullying the ones who failed.
No kid i was with would openly complain about being bullied or things would get even worse. Safe space....go kick rocks!!
There were losers and winners and you'd better be on the winners side because until you did, things weren't always peachy.
I am sure every single man of my age tried shaving his face when he was 10yo, usually with his grandfather, because that was "what men did" and because mine fought in WW2 and i had to be as tough as he was!
Shaving chest hair, armpit hair, leg hair, ball hair...yeah sure, if you were a girl or else you'd be called "gay". You were told "you got hair to make foam with your soap". End of!!
There was no prisoner, there was no 2nd thought, there was no apologies. I know no one who was asked to apologize, either by parents or teachers, for being physical with another boy.
Teachers were physical too, you knew exactly when things were about to get dicey...once in a while you didn't give a crap and you crossed that line. Same with parents. A day without a back of a hand was odd and i was well disciplined to be fair!!
As soon as any of us could grow something that would have resembled a "beard", we all did it. That was our battle sign, our creed, you got beard = MAN!!!
Puberty and acne only meant that we were getting closer to being men. I know no one would went to see a doctor to treat acne, water and soap was all we had.
School holidays meant you had to work, public transport, or bicycle or foot. I can count on 1 hand the number of fat kids i was with in every single grade, most of us were lean and physical because, like in the animal kingdom, we knew the bigger, stronger, taller one would get the girls.
Everything was a competition, i jumped (often quite frightened) from stupidly high cliffs, i swam in stupid cold water or over stupid distance, i would jump off my grandpa boat and swim back ashore, climb trees as high as i could,etc..etc..etc..and i never thought twice about it.
Clothes were something you threw on so that you wouldn't go naked, nothing else. Cold, wind, rain, heat, didn't matter as long as you didn't trash your clothes cause you knew your mom would get pretty active when you were back home.
We wouldn't see each other over summer holidays but as you grew older you knew you had to level up during summer because others would.
Only a few of us cared about girls before we were 18yo, girls were found at university and because we knew we would have to compete with real men then, we all took real good care of being (early) men by end of highschool.
We had honor and a strict code, we knew how things could quickly go south but if you were heading that direction there was only 1 option: man up, right or wrong!!
A handshake was a game to see if you could crush the other guy's hand whilst looking into his soul.
I remember telling a teacher when i was 18yo that she had to mind her manners and how she talked to us since some of us were legal adults. Nothing happened, she look surprised but also, weirdly, accepting. No one called my parents, i wasn't called to the directors office, none of that BS.
Thinking about it i also told a teacher (same year) that he was full of crap and he wasn't teaching us but vaguely paraphrasing the textbook...same result
Now i have a 10 yo son and he is being brought up that way. My wife used to challenge me about it until i told her that if that was so bad then why did she marry me since i have always been like that. Since then she has opened her eyes more and sees the danger that society is to young boys (and girls too with premature over sexualisation).
Being a man was earnt, no given because you were legally of age. It you were a scrawny little piece of work at 18yo, you were never a man.
Oddly, considering how much of little shits we were, people cared about us, how we grew up, how we matured (in the true sense of the word), how we became men.
Society nowadays doesn't give a rat's ass. If you don't have a man as a role model in your family it is quite difficult to find your way.
Remember this, when shit hits the fan, society won't care if you are an influencer, you shave your body hair, you use beauty products, your a player or anything else. They will put you in front of incoming bullets, so you might as well train yourself with incoming fists!!!
@RageForSeven thanks for sharing your experience, i can almost grab the memories in my hands. I feel how it was in your days.
@MillionaireMindsetTate thanks man, it must have resonated with you since you are the only one who commented!!! and i approve of your YT channel name, let's go!!!
Just wanted to say Your son is lucky to have a father like you.
Mine was busy working outside the city most of my childhood the result being a man raised like a girl, Can't blame my mum though she did her best.
@@FocusedBunnY My father was only at home to eat and sleep, the rest like you away working. I can recall a year when i heard him but maybe saw him 10% of the time. I knew he was about, so i had to keep it "together"..still, i was a little shit!!! he picked me up by my neck once and i pissed my pants, i can picture it even now!!!
My mother was heavy handed, she had to. I think my luck was that she was raised in a family of army boys, 2 brothers, a (also) mostly absent father fighting all around the world, so she had pretty strict views.
As far as my son (and my daughter) is concerned, he hasn't got a choice and he doesn't really know anything else. not so long ago he spent 2 weeks with my parents, when he came back the 1st thing he told me was "now i know why you are the way you are"...didn't have to say more, i knew exactly what he meant!! 🙂
The most interesting thing is that as long as you are fair, show love and interested in your kids growth, they will understand why being soft all the time isn't the right way forward, so now he thinks he is a ninja and (tries to) jump me...he watched a couple of boxing video and thinks he "is him" to quote him.
Point is, regardless how you were raised, i do believe that at some point you will realize if there is an issue and will adjust it, not only for you but also for your children.
Children are the magic potion, they make you look into your soul and question who you are and what they mean to you, they will make you a better person because you owe it to them.
@@ArthurMarrero hey man, thakns for the comment, i only saw it today. Sorry for not replying. Yeah it was fun, i think social media killed all the fun sadly!! At least i have some great stories to tell.
Apologies will stunt the respect you will receive, if you haven't done anything wrong. Detrimental
Women dont demand apologies to winner when they do something wrong...they demands them from losers for no reason, the problem is not the behaviour but your value.
Not true at all. A few months ago, a girl that was clearly lower value than me demanded an apology for something that was a misunderstanding. She was so demanding about it, sending me paragraphs of text explaining everything. I just ghosted her.
Maybe she perceived me as lower value than her? It’s possible, but I don’t really care what she thinks to be honest. I know for a fact based on the way I live my life and the standards I have set for myself that I’m higher value than she is.
This video hits home with me.
Remember growing up being told to sit down, shut up, and to be a good boy.
It fucked my life up just like a lot of other guys that grew up in this generation.
Us as men are important, we matter. Not from some self help shit saying "your okay the way you are" No, men are literally the building blocks or society.
The feminists can comply all they won't, but if/when our society becomes so effeminate, and we're basically all women at this point, another society full of barbarian testosterone filled tyronts ain't gonna give a shit about some gender wage gap, or patriarchy. All they care about is killing our weak men, and using our woman as slaves to extinct us
@Light Yagami zyzz will be missed
@Light Yagami you too man.
Always looking to collaborate with other kings
Isn’t that what China is doing to USA
@@TheTrueAdonis from what I've gathered, pretty much. And it'll most likely be more like Russia inviting the UK
My teacher always waffles on about “toxic masculinity.” It’s so damn annoying.
I think toxic masculinity is real but exaggerated.
@@SergeantAngel you won´t call someone toxically masculine when intruder breaks into your house and man protect 😀
@@simonnnnn1687 “Protecting your family is toxic and egotistical.”
@@SergeantAngel Nah i dont agree with this. I feel like "toxic masculinity" is attributing toxic traits to and only to masculinity. Which i disagree with when i thing of someone masculine it is someone that is strong, brave, and respectful (there are more but imma list a few). That in itself is not toxic. People use the example that the dad tells his son to not cry not express his feeling but when this happens it isnt just men. Mother, sisters, and girlfriends tell a young boy the exact same thing it not just the father that imposes that on its child that toxic trait isnt only expressible on male figures but rather everyone. So in my opinion Toxic masculinity doesn't exist but instead confused with Toxic traits.
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@@chiwawaeye7873 That makes sense actually
These new thumbnails are some heat🔥
New thumbnail editor needs a raise on god much better than the childish old ones
Today, I'm grateful that I discovered Hamza. You are the reason I didn't let myself go many many times and always fought to not be my normal lazy ass self. You are the reason I'm trying to start an online business. You are the reason many young men did not take their own lives. We appreciate and we are grateful for your advice Hamza.
This is so great. I recently spoke up to a teacher after he refused to pick up a pen someone had accidentally dropped (it was literally in front of the teacher and on the other side of the student’s table). He was quite displeased and people disagreed with the decision I took, yet they all agreed that what the teacher did is unforgivable. “You shouldn’t argue with teachers”, they say. I disagree.
Society trained us to be submissive.
The only "safe place" men cannot be submissive without a backlash is playing video games, that's where we show our masculinity secretly. Connect the dots bro!
@@aarankayse160 I think that, sadly enough, there’s a lot of truth in what you say.
My mum always told me that if someone wants to change you, you shouldn't let. Thank you for making this video, it's helpful for everyone, for us as well... I was always boyish during school and thinking about it as we grew up it changed me too and dropping into teenhood I started to struggle with my image, or basically anything related to myself because I was the same person as before, but for girls being pretty became important, being with the popular boys, etc and we start to become obsessed with it. It took me almost a decade after high school to accept that I'm fine on my own, I don't need validation from others and I should enjoy what I have and live my life. It feels good!
So yes, thank you for making the video and wish you the best.
“You have to break yourself to reshape yourself. You can do that thing you’ve wanted to for years, you just haven’t sacrificed yet.”
my girl i left because of these exact reasons is messaging me all day and i feel so bad i cannot go back to her. this is unbelievable that this video just came out, exactly what i needed to hear. thank you for doing what you do!
THANK YOU!!! In this day and age, it is so refreshing to see this perspective
Hamza, your channel is amazing and your videos are so helpful and thought provoking. I hope you read this but if not I hope somebody else does and maybe it will help them somehow. You really hit home when you spoke of being scolded for having masculine impulses suppressed. I was born in the late 80s and grew up in the central US (Nebraska to be exact) . I remember going to school and we had this dude who was a bully. The mechanics of being a bully were a bit different in my school. We did not have a collection of bullies who had their individual targets. We had just one guy who tormented everyone whenever it was just their day. I remember when my day came in 2nd grade and I remember getting this aggressive feeling and thinking two things 1) I need to defend myself from this prick. 2) I need to neutralize this bastard so that he isn’t a threat to anyone else. I fought and fought on the playground for maybe 45-50 seconds with this guy and… I ended up losing (to be fair to myself he was supposed to have been in 4th grade but got held back twice so he was massive compared to me). But he never messed with me again. But as time went on all the way to 6th grade in 1999-2000 he bullied people but the guys who were not having it from him and fought back with tenacity. It wasn't fighting with any skilled technique but my fellow classmates fought like the Spartans at the Battle of Thermopylae. With every iota of spirit they were punching and kicking and then of course the teachers and school admin would come in and break it up. After which the bully would get a slap on the wrist because they were just so used to him being in trouble but the young men who were just defending themselves would try to explain that the prick started it but would just get hit with the “I don’t care who started it” and “violence doesn’t solve anything” lines. I still to this day remember watching these boys who fought like warriors have a confused look of anguish on their faces as they thought they were doing what their nature told them to do only to be scolded by some wuss of an adult feeding them shit information. The sad truth I have learned is that bullying is not solved by some stupid government programs or some lecturing, or anything like that. It is solved when the bully gets his dumbass knocked out in front of everyone by a tough son of a bitch and that is what the modern world has shut down hard. Then these men who have not been able to act on their positive masculine impulses grow up and end up doing stupid shit like picking up guns and doing awful things. I know a lot of the guys I saw fight our school bully and told they were wrong and evil have grown up to be shells of their former selves and mentally stunted. It's a travesty but I think it explains a lot of the weaknesses that exist today. I don’t normally share anything but with all the other members of your tribe doing so I thought I should this time.
2 years ago i was at my lowest point of life. I got cheated on, i was heartbroken, my mother just found out she had cancer, i used to do a lot of drugs (which are the worst if you are down bad), so i decided to stop that. I had the biggest glow up you can imagine, my mental was kinda good, a lot of women hit my phone, college was going good, etc. , until now. I feel i’m losing touch again with myself. I’m heartbroken once again and i started taking some stuff again too. This video and bunch other videos of yours is what i needed to slap myself and put me back on the right path. Thank You
I just had my first day of work today as a kids birthday party instructor thingy, and all of the boys were competing against eachother, it really showed that that is what we are naturally, take away societies suppression and we are all competitive to a fault
LETS FUCKING GO
I AM STARTING FO SEE THE BENEFITS OF SELF IMPROVEMENT
I WILL CONTINUE FOWARD
I don't apologize. I live with being a man of my characteristics, what i strive to become.
Yes, sometimes it is healthy to compare yourself to others, but also acknowledge that certain things are out of our control due to genetics, and comparing yourself to someone with superior genetics can give you unrealistic expectations that only demotivate you.
You should never compare yourself period. Unless it is to study how someone is doing something so that you can mimick them, that is understandable and inspiring. Otherwise, no.
@@zombiekidcrazy did you not watch the video
Hello Hamza, My name is Guilherme, I’m a fifteen year old boy from the interior of Brazil.
I’m thankfull for your work and you helped me build my current mindset and purpouse, structuring my priorities. However, I gladly and sadly will stop watching your videos, I feel fulfilled and ready to keep on with my mission and many “whys” in life. But modern technology takes no place in it and I’ll stay focused on my Ethos and in God.
Through blood and hard work, structured by you in part, I’ll move on, my brother. With my dedication, faith, understanding of love and humility (Also developed skills through sacrifice and competition) I’ll go, live my blessed and beautiful life.
Thank you, Hamza
With love,
Guilherme
Im motivated to see someone my age "graduating" from hamza's videos. Stay focused brother, this is a lifestyle.
Glad to join this community ! Can’t wait to become an Adonis
I love your enthusiasm!!
Was quite a feminine guy growing up, rather emotional and really hated confrontation.
But having learning about masculine and feminine energy I can say wow, I just just emotional but I was feminine, that has changed and I now find my self feeling masculine, not like 100% I still have much to do, but I have become more masculine, being stronger, more stoic etc and I feel great! Been able to control my emotions a lot more, I’m getting stronger more disciplined and I just fell great! But alas I am no where near where I want to be but I am making progress and I can fell and see it.
That's amazing keep going and never stop
Still in school, every time I try to be masculine with my friends we get yelled at, but recently I became friends with more masculine guys, and now we do not apologize really anymore. We straight up say my bad and go right back to it, just as loud as before. Teachers dont like us, but I dont like them so I could not care less. It feels so much more natural to act this way then the old me who sat there quietly.
Better than nothing KEEP GOING ☦️✝️
This advice is going to be relatable as hell
It’s not let Boys Be Boys.
it’s Let Boys Be.
Be yourself men and be self aware while doing it. Society has taught us to doubt ourselves from expectations to downright sexism. You don’t need to be the societal definition of being a “man” you need to be you.
Be yourself is terrible advice. What if you are a loser or a piece of shit asshole? Why should you be yourself? Be your best self is much better advice.
Be yourself is bad advice be your best self is better I am sorry if this comment is duplicated youtube put a warning up because my first comment had swears
@@MassachusettsTrainVideos1136 because you can’t always be “your best self” being okay with yourself is the first step into being your best self. Stop trying to misconstrue what I’m saying.
The first step with accepting ANY FLAWS is being okay with being yourself THEN you can try to be your best self.
There's a lot I can point out. What you are saying strengthens the belief that gender is a social construct. That every man can have his own definition of what it means to be a man. Like for one guy shaving armpit hairs has no effect on his masculinity, for other it does. Be yourself means that a man can choose to be feminine, which I believe you would not be okay with since we are under the comment section of a channel that promotes machismo under disguise of "self improvement."
So what is "boys being boys" or "let boys be" all about? Does that mean letting boys get into bloody brawls? We encourage men to be violent and then cry about male homicide rates. Many people justify cat calling and sexual harassment as something "men do" or "boys will be boys." So what it really means to let boys be? Whatever you gonna point out, also explain why those traits can be found only in men, esp heterosexual men, and not gays or women.
I feel like the easiest way to trick men is to make them feel weak. Then you can sell them anything you want.
@@ubaidbutt9709 Let's face it. Absolute most urban and suburban men do not harass women or catcall. The only ones that believe that it is male nature are village Willys. In fact, sexual harassment and/or catcalling is a show of a man's weakness. A strong man respects men AND women. A strong man can hold his sexual urges. Cat-calling and sexual harassment is what weak men, like you, do.
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Now that's what I call the hustle culture, doing everything gets you to your mission.
Tbh, I agree with this, I agree that *most* of your decisions should be based on your mission but the rest can, it can be based on other things like a bit of chilling *without doing the bad habits* and rest. But no, doing and exhausting yourself to work just to get that feeling of accomplishment is just a senseless thing. I tried it and the moment I tried it, I was getting so unrestful, so much anxiety, like feeling down bad when the thing I am doing for just 5 mins wasn't deserving my purpose.
Dudes, don't hate me, it's my opinion. People vary. I feel stressed out when I do that 100% things that serve my mission, whilst in your case, it might not.
I agree with you 💯.
@@ZeKermet I am glad that my point is actually valid (not for all people) and relatable, btw happy b'day.
Got a Jordan Peterson ad on this and watched every single second of it 💪🏼
Keep up the excellent work Hamza. You’re helping so many young men become better, more confident and more masculine!
I’m so lucky to have found your channel
Eid Mubarak hamza 🔝
Men are needed in today's society. As a Christian there is one thing that needs to be said, a fool is not a man. If one reads the book of provers the bible is against several of the "masculine" things you mentioned. These include swearing, argumentativeness, and pride. I thin the main idea of this video is to allow for your inner masculinity to shine. But what got unspoken about is that inner masculinity is evil by nature, the way f man may seem right in his own eyes, but Christ looks at his soul. TO be fair I am only 5 min into the video and my opinion may or may not change. Keep up the good work Hamza.
I kept thinking a long these lines but didn't know how to put it into words. There is a lot about Hamzas message that doesn't align well with Christianity.
@@yeti2237 I would agree
If there was a Christian self improvement channel i would hop on the wave. I agree with everything u said tbf but at the same time we shouldn't accept the modern world's agenda or 'standards'. You could still do what Hamza is saying but to a lesser extent. Dont use it as an excuse to constantly argue and focus on peace , dont swear or be arrogant but moderate ur actions.
also, i feel like the meditation that Hamza pushes may not be acceptable in Christianity so i just read the Bible and Meditate on God's word. Just cos hamza says it, does not mean that you cannot alter it so that it is acceptable in the eyes of Christ
@@foreverarsenaltm5708 I am starting the channel right now!
Eid Mubarak 💛 to all of you guys
Eid Mubarak 🌙 🇮🇳
Eid Mubarak
Speaking about school,I remember that once,in a PE class we were playing volleyball,and there was a girl who played really bad,she didn't even try to play well. I told her to at least try,she got offended and started crying,I was forced to apologize 💀
Was she playing because she wanted to? Whatever the answer is you* don't have to say anything to her, tell the teacher that she might not want to play and play with people who actually want to be good at volley
😢 all i got from this video is commit to your mission and how many of us when thru our 20/30 ‘s were in the blind not making a mission on our life.. then we get to a point stuck with bills, bad relationships and its not our fault.. many times we are living our parents life or what generations of bad decisions.. we gotta break that chain and find ourselves no matter the age or place.. lets become more man and accountable for ourselves
I had a step-father who was a piece of shit. Drug addict, violent with my mother and with me, disgusting like a dog and so many worse things.
He also had many manly parts. Sadly he was making such a job being a bad person that I ended up blocking in my life any male characteristic that would ever resemble him. I tried so hard to don't look at women sexually, to ever be aggresive to other men, etc.
I have spent years healing and trying to love my own masculinity.
Every man should not allow himself to give a bad example that would ever weaken masculinity in this world.
We have to be able to use violence to defend and to attack, but using violence without need against innocents has weakened masculinity. Shit like "toxic masculinity" is here because of those who were not up to the strength god gave them
The truth is hamza ur awesome because without you my life would be fucked
Hamzas in monk mode look at how much he uploads. And its not like he uploads a whole lot of nothing because every video he posts resonates with me in one way or another, im impressed.
BROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO at the start of the video when u said u should compare yourself to others i started recalling my moments after results when i would compare myself to my friend who got better and my parents saying don't compare yourself to others 80% marks is good and all but i couldn't stop comparing and led to believe that i was wrong thanks very much for clearing it to me
Comparing is not the same as competing.
I will love taking a session on medito made by hamza
I got into meditation thanks to him and I really love the idea of hearing the voice of hamza on a medito session
Watched a couple of your videos now and honest to god, never seen such a relatable person on here. Big respect and thumbs up dude!
The masculine discussion was always a huge one for me, because im skinny and always wanted to bulk to simply feel like a man and not like a stick that could break any moment and let me tell you i will go on that journey now, quit the bullshit and just doing it.
Thank you sincerely for being straight and honest.
This man is changin my life as a 15 yr😂
I wish I knew about this at 15. I’m 22 and still learning.
@@HassanPoyo keep pushin my brother💪
@@londonfinklea8471 likewise
Im also 15 lol. Im so glad i found him because he was the motivation i needed
Mine to bro
I am still quite young (14) and have not had those masculine traits stomped out of me yet. I will try my hardest to keep those traits
@Better Mint he will lock them in a secret place you will never find 😱😱
Such a good role model thank you Hamza
Hamza coming in clutch as usual.
i followed your advice and me and my girl have broken up but i feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders thank you bro she was my supporter in everything but it had to be done.
Hamza, Thank you for this raw truth.
You have pulled me back from becoming feminine and complicent.
I had relationships and I broke them because of my purpose. I thought I was bad but looking back they were holding me back. Letting them go and becoming more masculine is fulfilling me.
I'm at level where I attract similer people like me. One of them alligns with my purpose.
Becoming a better man than my father or ancestors could ever be.
I am now leading a person that has more potential than younger me. He was influenced by Jeffreies. He was going on a downhill in life so I lent a hand. He accepted a second time and now I got the knowledges from you, Hamza.
So, I WILL make him become more confident, more social and more masculine.
We will grow together.
I am grateful and thankful for your relentless efforts to spread the message, Hamza and Sam.
Keep conquering the obstacles especially when they're difficult.
Never apologize for being a man of God
amen
Being religious or beliving in a God is stupid.
@@nKarje i dont think so
@@nKarje Every one is an atheist until the plane starts crashing
@Jylobo wisdom.
Another awesome thumbnail and title :)
I have a son, so this really hits home for me. Thank you
I'm going to hit the gym tomorrow. Wish me luck bros. Been in gym 3 years ago for a couple of months, quit it because of feeling insecure to wear T-shirt at summer. Now I'm much more confident that I used to be.
Am glad to say when i was younger I couldn’t help being a young kid and i would always be in trouble with the teacher because i was being a masculine child
A missionary at heart, though your decisions triggered me and their were alternative ways to solve them.
However, I respect your decisions, for focusing on a purpose to spread the message of men re-claiming their masculinity on a weak world
in my opinion, triumphs everything that you sacrificed so the future generations can prosper by your work.
If done successfully.
i think the best you can do is a regular to do checklist for your day and a extra checkliste for you purpose and then you operate in the highest manner to archive what you have written down
thank you for these vids hamza
Hamza Could please make a video on how to take pictures and in general how to level up you social media game. it would be really helpful for most of the Jeffreys like me who are trying to improve :)
I found this video really applicable to my current life circumstances.
I'm in a loving relationship but I'm constantly fighting feelings of resentment because I know I'm not giving it my all working towards my purpose (finishing university). When I'm with my girlfriend, sometimes I catch myself not being mindful when we are spending time together.
It's weird because she loves that I do all these self-improvement habits and it makes me more attractive to her. However, I've been caught up constantly trying to ticking off all the habits, to the point of obsession, and not being satisfied otherwise.
On one hand, I should enjoy my life as it is now and I am so grateful for her love and support. I'm lucky to have her in my life.
On the other hand, I feel like I'm constantly striving to be the best version of myself and it could be at the unfortunate cost of my relationship.
Very insightful video Hamza, and I'm sure people are enjoying the almost "unfiltered" style of videos returning to the main channel.
- Keep up the strong work lads and lasses. I'm proud of you, you got this! ❤
I’m in a similar situation
God damn you inspired me so hard recently to just use my exiting channel to start posting my knowledge about these kind of topics as well as fitness and nutrition as that's what I'm qualified in. Helping other young men who have been down and out, depressed and even self-harming at some points like I was transform their lives to the kind of place I feel I'm in now where I feel driven, fit, attractive, confident, focused and masculine, that's my fucking mission and god damn it fires me up.
I really felt your pain while watching this video, even though I never had any relationships in my life, your story is still really understandable
bro these long form videos are the way forward. I like these, I think you should make more long in depth vids, the looksmaxing vid seemed to do great
I hope Hamza see's this, you've helped me more than you know :) Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it
He probably won't care...
@@shivambhatia3973 Jeffrey! Just be happy for the guy, he’s working hard and he wants Hamza to know.
@@shivambhatia3973 ok
@@haunted_syrup3829 yes :)
Society supports feminism ,submissiveness ,and dominates masculinity, we'll stay masculine not toxically but in a healthy way,Eid Mubarak ❤❤
THAT'S NOT ENOUGH WE AS MEN NEED TO FIGHT BACK ALREADY
All my life I've felt bad for being better than others, so whenever I have an opportunity to excel at something I feel like I constraint myself for doing so because I don''t want the other person to feel bad, it's so fucking stupid man. I've been betraying my real nature this whole time and I feel like I just owe myself so much at this point that I gotta fuckin crush this self improvement game. Bro thank you so much Hamza.
I was doing pull-ups on the pull-up bar at school and we had to go inside but my friends went like:"can you reach the highest bar?" so I tried I jumped and made it so I went slowly down from the bar and noticed, one of my female teachers was calling me so I went to her. She tried to give me a DETENTION for doing PULL-UPS I even stood up for my self and wasn't even intimidated for such a silly thing which made her want to punish me more.
So you know what I did? I ignored her, went to class and told myself If I get detention for doing a pull-up I won't be there to be punished.
Thank you Hamza for this video. Be unapologetically masculine where you are fulfilling that role by knowing your purpose, direction and doing the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.
Everyone has been naturally born a chad, but school pushes the pure muscle and masculinity out of them. Dont become one of those who let themselves get beat up. Stand up for your own rights.
Epic profile pic. Btw
It's coming across hamza, it just takes time for all of us to get to that point where it makes complete sense
He literally covered the topic which no one did 🛐
Thank you so much brother 🔥
i remember when i was in highschool i always thought like this, got kicked out of class for being loud and becouse everything i did as a man i got kicked out. My mother always knew that it was only becouse i am being myself and she was always happy to know that i have that masculine energy in me and iam not becoming femine. Thank you hamza, you really help me with my self improvenment
Right now I am feeling soooooooo grateful for naturally having rejected all kinds of influence of my teachers to get me to be more feminine and never having felt bad for competing with others.
Nice vid Hamza, loved it. Keep it up broski
Found you at the right time. Lessons and ideas we all know and understand deep inside us but sometimes cannot quite articulate or need reminding of sometimes.
I love the real talk and the personal stories, never saw it as bragging. Just helps put things in perspective more.
I love you for walking away so that you could fulfill your purpose. Every man will second guess themselves, but it is up to us at the end of they day to follow through with the decisions we make and see that we succeed as much as we can
I agree with some things you say but a child swearing to a teacher is not masculine behaviour,it’s immature.
We can't expect boys to be mature you said it yourself, a child.
Long-term happiness has to be built on personal fulfillment. Personal fulfillment comes from achieving ones goals and often times a relationship can get in the way no matter how great it is.
this video is speaking to me like no other expect maybe the one talking about your relationship with video games and trauma
because I just got out of a 2h30 call with my long distance girlfriend to end things because I thought she was holding me back and not on the same pipeline of growth than me so I let the relationship die and become hurtful and
well I needed this I’m realizing I’m going to be so much more focus now
thank you hamza
In kindergarten I was "beat down" to be quiet and stop running around
Then as I got older I actually had the opposite problem.
I was real into emo stuff and got made fun of for being "gay"
Can ya do anything right? haha
@@Goursome the problem with that advice is that I like sleeping in and eating potato chips and watching porn.
That stuff is no good, so there's gotta be a better determining factor
I think one of the most paradox, but most accurate parable to describe what masculinity is, is a tree:
1. It is strong
2. people and animals can find rest and protection under it or hiding in it
3. It is a provider (good and delicious fruits)
4. Peaceful and restful: not even a storm can shake it down. It stands proud & strong even if it rains, sun or cold comes.
2 years after dealing with addiction and self improvement: my testosterone was measured at 1050ng/dL last week. Stay strong brothers. We're all gonna make it. Just keep doing the right things every day.
Proud of you
Proud of you for staying clean brother, keep it going
Wow congrats bro!
This shit got really personal at the end, thank you for being so genuine and sharing your experience like this. I feel you’re like a big brother sharing his wisdom with us. Personally I don’t share that same experience with relationships. I’ve found out that the women that I’m with now pushes me to be a better man. I love her and she deserves the best man in the word and I don’t want her to be with anyone but me. So it is my mission to be that best man and give her what she deserve. That idea has literally gotten me out of bed at 5 am and made me start working on my mission. All that so she can be with the best man in the word.
This video spoke to me. They test us continually but didn’t equip us with the tools to pass these tests...
Honestly I felt like I became a better person after a failed relationship through self development, gaining that masculine energy Hamza preaches, but I never knew how much it would be shut down or belittled for us expressing it. A part of it did feel natural, but the indoctrination of societies ideals made me feel "guilty" about it sometimes where people would call it "an up-the-ass ego" even if it was just my masculine energy being projected for achieving short-term or long-term goals. I just wanted to become a man of purpose for myself in the present and future rather than the Jeffery chasing quick gratification of toxic relationships to show off or hook-ups. Thank you Hamza for preaching a man's purpose. It's helping a lot more with understand how we are.
thank you for being so active and helpful on youtube.
I relish and I'm grateful for the challenges that come from me being a man and you should too
thank you, same situation, I left my girl last week for the same reason.
feel less a shit now, it's just another sacrifice for better future.
thx a lot Hamza.
Greetings from Greece my brothers!
Damn...this hit deep
I remember teachers telling us to be obedient and shutting the fck up when they talk. Any sense of students especially boys "talking back" or disobedience they will get seriously pissed
Eid mubarak ☺️
He looks like south indian movie hero in the thumbnail & if cars are flying in the background .
my parents couldn't really care less how i act. they dont care about me. where i am, what i do and how i do.
i have been put in boys-only schools because of the decisions of female femenine people who are from above. nothing i can do about it.
im moving to highschool when summer break ends. ive always been yelled at and punished when trying to show and be a man. and show my musculinity.
its so bad.
school is so bad.
u should pump ur mom she would care after that
Sophisticated masculinity is what u need , being loud is just uncontrolled savageness , and we know , a quit man is way more dangerous than a loud one