Be a More Confident Public Speaker

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  • @ElishaMarzo
    @ElishaMarzo 5 років тому +7472

    I memorise the whole speech and go up on that stage with a blank mind

    • @pepiyeol2914
      @pepiyeol2914 4 роки тому +438

      Same. I always memorize the whole text but when I'm standing in front of all people I never dare to look anywhere other than my text.

    • @tanyatiwari8724
      @tanyatiwari8724 4 роки тому +92

      Same... 😫
      I have to give a speech on this sunday

    • @tanyatiwari8724
      @tanyatiwari8724 4 роки тому +29

      @licorne infanta Be calm
      And best of luck... 😊

    • @cinnamoroIIz
      @cinnamoroIIz 4 роки тому +18

      @Tanya Tiwari how did yours go? I have one tomorrow and I’m so nervous. 😭

    • @tanyatiwari8724
      @tanyatiwari8724 4 роки тому +55

      @@cinnamoroIIz It was awesome👏✊👍
      I got second prize,
      I was also nerves but as I reached the podium I gave the speech without any hesitation
      I cant say don't be nerves (bcz the hormones will not let you do so😅)
      Just believe that you can do that
      Best of luck to you.. You will also do awesome

  • @roughryder5
    @roughryder5 9 років тому +14618

    I feel like im the only one that has a fear of presenting in my class.

  • @Carlito0220
    @Carlito0220 8 років тому +3311

    My personal tip is : Try to make such a great presentation and speech that you just cannot wait to tell everyone.

    • @brooklynstaff7109
      @brooklynstaff7109 8 років тому +74

      I really don't have a problem with public speaking but this is a good tip!

    • @jiak5581
      @jiak5581 6 років тому +11

      bravo!!!bull's eye

    • @linagarett
      @linagarett 6 років тому +68

      Yes! The best way to present a speech is to make/plan a speech so interesting that you are excited to tell people about it. Aside from that, as someone who is fond of public speaking, I recommend to speak freely and to state more examples (preferably common) than terms in order for the audience to relate more.

    • @rusyrose1330
      @rusyrose1330 6 років тому +1

      Carlos0220 thanks 💞

    • @roncanaveral6665
      @roncanaveral6665 2 роки тому

      TY 😘

  • @sumraee
    @sumraee 5 років тому +921

    All the voice changing is giving me an odd sense of anxiety and I don’t like it

  • @Greapes
    @Greapes 6 років тому +6097

    How are 30% of people not afraid of public speaking???

    • @softie4luv
      @softie4luv 6 років тому +146

      FBI not to be mean or sound smart, but humans are part monkey 😅

    • @mirellehaavassalu9293
      @mirellehaavassalu9293 5 років тому +93

      LunaSketches well you’re half banana as well

    • @softie4luv
      @softie4luv 5 років тому +13

      Alyssa M. H. Yes I am

    • @adela2733
      @adela2733 5 років тому +62

      Chimichanga I really like public speaking

    • @liamgakodi2276
      @liamgakodi2276 5 років тому +74

      Public speaking is fun

  • @tougy1318
    @tougy1318 6 років тому +2757

    Her voice gives me more anxiety than public speaking alone... thanks I guess

  • @dangggnat
    @dangggnat 6 років тому +1421

    Is it me orrr...
    Every time I do a presentation my voice SHAKES!

    • @user-ih5fk7yw3f
      @user-ih5fk7yw3f 5 років тому +71

      At least your voice works to make a sound

    • @tristris6193
      @tristris6193 5 років тому +66

      That happens to me and my whole body shakes. So nervous right now.

    • @brotaytohpotato4272
      @brotaytohpotato4272 5 років тому +1

      Potato same here😅

    • @Tiedlux
      @Tiedlux 5 років тому +11

      My voice cracks XD

    • @ritikaaa3762
      @ritikaaa3762 5 років тому +1

      Sameee ughhh

  • @sneakerhead6988
    @sneakerhead6988 5 років тому +3757

    Who else has a presentation tomorrow? 😅
    (Edit: It’s been 4 years and I still get likes and comments from this. Honestly, I don’t remember any of the presentations I did in school lol. That just shows you that it isn’t that big of deal. You’ll be fine 🙏. You can do it!)

  • @zephe1574
    @zephe1574 4 роки тому +440

    I'm okay with speaking in front of large crowds where I have no connection to the majority of people- but if I'm presenting to only a few people I know.. That's the worst.

  • @wwkcd7657
    @wwkcd7657 7 років тому +1812

    nope just not going to school Thursday

    • @mc_2850
      @mc_2850 7 років тому +53

      Emily Blaszkow I have to do this tomorrow in science class

    • @mc_2850
      @mc_2850 7 років тому +11

      Emily Blaszkow for my mid finals

    • @esaitellez6323
      @esaitellez6323 7 років тому +7

      MC_28 how did it go?!

    • @abdullahsepic
      @abdullahsepic 6 років тому +13

      lol this guy probablty failed cause of this video

    • @anaachim4760
      @anaachim4760 6 років тому +15

      Yeah...
      Thursday is a crappy day for me too :[

  • @user-pc3vs3bd4j
    @user-pc3vs3bd4j 5 років тому +1097

    Honestly everyone is my class is mean,disrespectful and rude so that's the only reason why I'm scared or else I'd feel more comfortable knowing someone won't make fun of me

    • @fade9209
      @fade9209 5 років тому +30

      Well everyone is the same.. some won't say it on your face but most of them do..

    • @hannahbanana6878
      @hannahbanana6878 5 років тому +10

      same 😢

    • @randomyoutuber4919
      @randomyoutuber4919 5 років тому +42

      Potato __ this is exactly me. I can’t stand to present during my music class because everyone in my class is very judgmental and mean.

    • @samearly7046
      @samearly7046 4 роки тому +44

      Potato __ you’re the one who stopping yourself not your classmates.
      Before going up to the Podium or stage, think about this, ‘who cares a damm about these fools’ lol. Always think you’re smarter or better than everyone else if even you’re not. Those thoughts help you overcome any speech or presentation. Trust me, I tried this in college and it works for me every time.

    • @ismailamarir4480
      @ismailamarir4480 4 роки тому +3

      @@samearly7046 Thanks Bro

  • @elxxc7786
    @elxxc7786 Рік тому +104

    As a introvert with social anxiety, I can say that this is a big challenge for me.

    • @ZMYandZYR_
      @ZMYandZYR_ Рік тому

      For real

    • @ayaka2550
      @ayaka2550 Рік тому +5

      I go like bright red when I present. It’s not even a cute blush, my forehead, nose, cheeks and sometimes neck go crimson red too. It’s not that I’m scared, it’s that I’m embarrassed of going red. I would happily be a public speaker if I didn’t go red. I can’t even stop it, my face gets clammy, then I think about how red my face must be and then that’s all I can think about.
      People don’t understand how good they’ve got it, it affects everything in my life. I can’t go to the gym because my face goes too red, I am an athlete and when I’m done a race all the other swimmers are pale and I’m scarlet. Whenever I talk to someone new who I don’t know, or someone I think is cute I go red. Whenever I talk to a teacher I go red. One time a doctor was asking about my symptoms and I went red. Job interviews, uni interviews, meetings, you name it I’m red. Not to mention drinking alcohol and doing you know what. I’m siiiiick of it. Doctors need to come up with a cure asap

    • @MilMike
      @MilMike 8 місяців тому

      ​@@ZMYandZYR_ @ayaka2550 same.. I am long out of school but school was a nightmare. I remember having strong physical reactions, having black out moments.. I started to drink alcohol before presentations for a while.. Once I took too much. 🤮. Now I work and I don't need to have bigger presentations yet, but I am still struggling with talking in meetings .. I wish there was something we could use. One remedy would be win in lottery ticket and live alone in the forest. xD

    • @BME399
      @BME399 5 місяців тому

      @@ayaka2550same thing happened to me every now and then a while ago. I’ve watched many videos and understand a lot about it. I can assure you that what helped me basically never go red again was just accepting it. I know it sounds counter intuitive but it fixes the problem completely. Just accept it when you go red, don’t try to hide it. If it happens, just accept it and if anyone asks just make a joke about it or make it less awkward somehow. Then it will slowly start to go away every single time you DO NOT hide it!

    • @goBANGG
      @goBANGG Місяць тому

      bro im the captain for a group but im an introvert 💀😭

  • @PinkyMinions
    @PinkyMinions 5 років тому +1042

    Once in the ninth grade I got asked to speak in front of my class and I got shaky and sweaty and fearsome
    Today I am the official speaker of my college

    • @hotsaucejosh8982
      @hotsaucejosh8982 5 років тому +28

      What's you're favorite bread🍞

    • @avalol9244
      @avalol9244 5 років тому +99

      Man, Congratulations to that hopefully I get to that position one day

    • @pimpgamer2818
      @pimpgamer2818 5 років тому +5

      STOP STOP garlic bread

    • @PinkyMinions
      @PinkyMinions 5 років тому +57

      Unknown _ if you are anxious practice slow speaking at home and record yourself....if you fear eye contact or feel uncomfy there’s online training where you try to look photos of people straight in the eye and it’s really helpful...buy body language books that teaches confident body language ( I bought 2 books and never regret it)
      Being good in public speaking is also about knowing your audience and keeping up with the trends...try incorporating memes or jokes but try not to make it cringy

    • @aight3842
      @aight3842 5 років тому +5

      And then everybody started clapping.

  • @lakshmisubramaniam1295
    @lakshmisubramaniam1295 3 роки тому +382

    My hands start shaking , my voice starts shivering and I forget all my lines 😭😭😭

    • @bhargavimn9932
      @bhargavimn9932 3 роки тому +11

      Same here dude 😭 how did ur speech go??

    • @kevonjr411
      @kevonjr411 3 роки тому +9

      Totally relatable😭

    • @vedanth7839
      @vedanth7839 2 роки тому +4

      Our pain

    • @IslamicKids-op7ky
      @IslamicKids-op7ky 2 роки тому +6

      just think of everyone as your friends and I'm sure that most of em won't even be listening. And think positively about your speech

    • @AftermathGameEdits
      @AftermathGameEdits 2 роки тому +2

      Your not alone

  • @esarachettri9351
    @esarachettri9351 8 років тому +1675

    why is everyone hating so much... shes just trying to entertain and help you at the same time

    • @najaaathirah2442
      @najaaathirah2442 8 років тому +16

      IKR !

    • @subwayvesubscriber
      @subwayvesubscriber 7 років тому +49

      I didn't mind at the beginning. Even enjoyed it because it was a change from the usual boring videos, but after a while it irritated me. I feel like especially the squeaky voice that comes in-between really hurts my ears.

    • @yash_thebabyburrito301
      @yash_thebabyburrito301 7 років тому +2

      Esara Chettri true I'm not annoyed it's kind of good

    • @Spideyyy24
      @Spideyyy24 6 років тому

      Esara Chettri true

    • @Spideyyy24
      @Spideyyy24 6 років тому

      Esara Chettri THANK YOU

  • @pv650
    @pv650 5 років тому +212

    This is random but do u guys ever feel like purposely getting run over so u could be in the hospital the day of your class presentation? Cus same.....

  • @eviebatson3518
    @eviebatson3518 5 років тому +212

    1:36 Why is she talking like that it's scaring me.

  • @brittanytaylor3261
    @brittanytaylor3261 9 років тому +122

    Oh god when I did my speech for class I started well, then I read to fast and got so scared and frustrated that I threw my notes and curled up in a ball crying in front of everyone. It was THE MOST EMBARRASSING thing that has ever happened to me

    • @otchere1305
      @otchere1305 9 років тому +1

      Right

    • @emilygoodman6281
      @emilygoodman6281 9 років тому +8

      aw that happened to me but instead i was singing in front of people. hope we both improve in the future! ;)

    • @Durka-Durka
      @Durka-Durka 9 років тому +10

      Don't let it get you down. It's happened to the best of us! Your teacher should've helped you out, though.

    • @Neat95Freak
      @Neat95Freak 9 років тому +4

      Brittany Taylor omg its ok dont worry its happened to a lot of people.. ive vomited once before i made my speech and was shaking the whole time im on stage.. im just glad my voice didnt shake like my body did.. because that happened to me before XD

    • @christinatran8302
      @christinatran8302 9 років тому

      Me to

  • @ee3721
    @ee3721 5 років тому +195

    Me before school: OKAY! I got this, Just speak loud and clear.
    Me in school: ..............
    Me after school: *cry*

  • @mohamedtsattia
    @mohamedtsattia 9 років тому +1310

    it's a great video , but changing the tone of the voice realy annoying and confusing .

  • @marinaschilling7364
    @marinaschilling7364 5 років тому +486

    Who else is here because they have a speech soon?

    • @klifto3214
      @klifto3214 5 років тому +1

      Fax

    • @abdulmoiz6256
      @abdulmoiz6256 4 роки тому +2

      Me

    • @abdulmoiz6256
      @abdulmoiz6256 4 роки тому +10

      Infront of 900 people. 😨

    • @jackhennessy8755
      @jackhennessy8755 4 роки тому

      Abdul Moiz howd it go

    • @jackhennessy8755
      @jackhennessy8755 4 роки тому +1

      Escape The Night Theory ahh nice bro I have to do presentations for 9 subjects in the next few months and I’m not the best at public speaking but well done 👍

  • @tiyonnaklein8046
    @tiyonnaklein8046 7 років тому +66

    I don't get it, I have anxiety, but my teachers still expect me to go in front of the class like is no big deal, teachers sometimes laugh at me with the class because I shake so much. and they always say in the midle of my presentations "SPEAK LOUDER! I CAN BLRLEY HEAR YOU!"

    • @michimeow523
      @michimeow523 7 років тому +6

      Tiyonna Klein I know how u feel. I too have experienced this before, like everyone start to giggle and say speak louder..but I just shake it off and just imagine that they are just bunch of skeletons. 😂

    • @Muunsta12
      @Muunsta12 2 роки тому +2

      They always does that, or sometimes u just can't remember what ur gonna say even if u came prepare. We will always but always look at the presentation we made to bring the idea back but sometimes it does not work, and u just standing there like dam!. I remember I did a presentation it didn't go well, basically I repeat my saying, I knew the topic but when stand in front I was like I forgot how to speak. I was feeking my heart beat so fast and my breathing wasn't helping. Sweaty, shaky I was a chihuahua at tgat moment but with no bark

    • @anonymous29384oeo
      @anonymous29384oeo 2 роки тому

      SAME

    • @anonymous29384oeo
      @anonymous29384oeo 2 роки тому

      I can't speak as loud that meets their expectations my voice is more calm
      I can speak loud when I'm with my friends
      But i can't just randomly increase my volume to max (ik i have to but i can't)
      I can't even prepare knowing that no one would hear me and the teacher will just say in the end "i didn't hear a single word you said"

  • @williambv2103
    @williambv2103 4 роки тому +84

    If I make eye contact with ANY girl, I automatically start getting nervous because I am afraid they are judging me.
    A few helpful tips are to dress to impress
    If you wear something that makes you look cool people won’t judge you
    Another tip is avoid eye contact with the cool kids, pretend they aren’t there, look at the non popular kods

  • @hihi-pk8fo
    @hihi-pk8fo 8 років тому +74

    i am definetly in that 70%
    My teacher of 2016 knows i have a fear of talking
    infront of people,Class ect!! And he choses me out
    of they ENTIRE class to get up infront of 472 people
    and talk.....

    • @ismailhariff9141
      @ismailhariff9141 8 років тому

      Racquel Mcg me too

    • @parmodsiroha9980
      @parmodsiroha9980 7 років тому +4

      TBH, I didn't tap on your account, I hovered my mouse over. That's all I have to say. Bye.

    • @rifqiyudha3259
      @rifqiyudha3259 7 років тому

      Racquel Mcg your teacher is doing the right thing

    • @deanstory1459
      @deanstory1459 7 років тому

      diya diva how do u do it

    • @nurseaylla
      @nurseaylla 7 років тому +2

      He seems to be trying to help you overcome the fear.. it sounds insane but that's what it seems! You'll thank him later

  • @xsirlast1878
    @xsirlast1878 8 років тому +400

    I thought it was dory's voice from finding dory.

  • @williamacheson3569
    @williamacheson3569 5 років тому +78

    I've been doing public speaking for 8 years now. Gotta say this is the most accurate video I've ever watched on delivering speeches. Pure goosebumps

  • @fasilatoladeji3690
    @fasilatoladeji3690 5 років тому +106

    when her tone changes she sounds like matilda's mom ( matilda the movie)

    • @matdila2676
      @matdila2676 3 роки тому +1

      my name is matilda and my sleep-deprived self was confused hahah

  • @MsSugarcube97
    @MsSugarcube97 10 років тому +91

    These tips don't really help me. T.T Every time I have to say something in front of my class, I just can't think of words anymore. And there I am, stuttering while every single person in the room is staring at me. And it gets worse and worse. My cheeks turn red and I just stare at the paper which I'm holding in my shaking hands, fighting back the tears of embarrassment. And some girls start giggling and talking to each other, I just can't- I hate it. ._.

    • @l.m.h8223
      @l.m.h8223 10 років тому +10

      Its the SAME thing that happend to me the other day , really embarrassing

    • @IvyAltdrachen
      @IvyAltdrachen 10 років тому +4

      These tips don't help me either.

    • @PeaceStandsxo
      @PeaceStandsxo 10 років тому +1

      Me neither. These tips don't help me at all.

    • @hlokxx
      @hlokxx 10 років тому

      Drink 5 mL of something strong like ob-sherry, never done it but I think it might help you.

    • @josephp.averagemiddleschoo3046
      @josephp.averagemiddleschoo3046 10 років тому

      That's me too.

  • @cloudychu8053
    @cloudychu8053 5 років тому +38

    I hate it when I just cry in front of my whole classmates and just smile and think that everything is okay... I always forget stuffs easily when I'm nervous... This is why I hate myself.

  • @Maddie-fb5kg
    @Maddie-fb5kg 4 роки тому +57

    i thought having to do my speech online would make it easier.... it didn't

    • @marissa-.
      @marissa-. 4 роки тому +4

      I feel the exact same wayy!!

  • @glorianjau4958
    @glorianjau4958 7 років тому +254

    I thought her voice change and tone made the video more interesting.
    So STOP HATEN'

    • @egonzo777
      @egonzo777 5 років тому +1

      ouuu fellow carat :)

  • @SKY911
    @SKY911 7 років тому +631

    I came here for public speaking..... not to kill my self

  • @noice2161
    @noice2161 5 років тому +87

    and here i am watching this minutes away from my report instead of preparing

  • @Wolta
    @Wolta 9 років тому +27

    Points are good, voices are completely unnecessary and don't add to any of your points.

  • @6dejavu9
    @6dejavu9 9 років тому +41

    My hands become cold..my heart throbs...my voice quivers...i have no solution for this.

    • @keziah7488
      @keziah7488 9 років тому

      +Deja Vu toastmasters. look them up

    • @hydrogeddonn
      @hydrogeddonn 8 років тому +8

      +Deja Vu
      I shake, turn red, become dizzy, and my voice breaks. I basically just mumble nothing that makes sense.

    • @giantrock616
      @giantrock616 8 років тому

      +Deja Vu Same here :/

    • @samyapuranik2527
      @samyapuranik2527 6 років тому

      oli oli SAME SAME SAME

    • @itzbomber6802
      @itzbomber6802 6 років тому

      Same here

  • @HeavenStarling
    @HeavenStarling 10 років тому +28

    I've been doing public speaking for 9 years now, and I still can't control my fear of the crowds. This is another lesson for me. Thank you Wellcast.

  • @stevenlin7555
    @stevenlin7555 4 роки тому +13

    "Drink some water... it'll keep your voice natural"
    Me: (cough) what natural voice you have there!

  • @Kingbird66
    @Kingbird66 7 років тому +42

    ah jesus .. I'm really bad at this it's like my worst nightmare

  • @Stroopwafe1
    @Stroopwafe1 8 років тому +47

    I had to present something in front of my class. It went horrible, my anxiety got so extreme I could not say one word. And everybody was staring at me, which made it even worse. Even though I had prepared everything, even when I would throw in some jokes. I wasn't able to speak. I just wanted to faint or disappear. I just said "Thank you, I'm sorry" before quickly running back to my seat. The teacher came to me after class and said I could do it again at a later date. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? D':

    • @itsvivi3326
      @itsvivi3326 8 років тому

      Don't worry, i have to present tomorrow to, you're not alone.. I'm terrified af

    • @Stroopwafe1
      @Stroopwafe1 8 років тому

      It'svivi Did it go well?

    • @itsvivi3326
      @itsvivi3326 8 років тому

      +DarkPhantom10 yeah 😊

    • @pongangelo2048
      @pongangelo2048 8 років тому

      +DarkPhantom10 ...MAN! you're not alone.... My presentation report at General Psychology didn't go well, I ended up sweating a lot and my classmates starts laughing while I'm in front. I better not to mess up on my another report...( Sorry I'm not that good in English.)

    • @Stroopwafe1
      @Stroopwafe1 8 років тому

      Pong Angelo I'm so sorry that happened to you :(

  • @therightchick
    @therightchick 7 років тому +46

    what the fuck is this.. trying to scare a person who is already scared ??

    • @shabeerahmedsr
      @shabeerahmedsr 7 років тому

      what's this

    • @metafikulislam1590
      @metafikulislam1590 6 років тому

      I'm BangladeshiI I'm in that problem, I can't present myself.what shuld do me plzplz

  • @jans07
    @jans07 3 роки тому +14

    People always said that I look so confident doing my presentation but i'm actually freaking out inside

  • @cosmocelli
    @cosmocelli 8 років тому +182

    The way the voice changes distracts me from what the hell its all about

  • @sweetysaputrirahman3629
    @sweetysaputrirahman3629 7 років тому +41

    I have presentation tomorrow! And I'm very nervous 😩! But thank you for helping me!😊😊😊😊😊

  • @jamaisvu181
    @jamaisvu181 2 роки тому +11

    As a person who has a severe fear of public speaking where I had literally puke in front of everyone and cry which made my teacher have to pull me out to comfort me and call my mom.
    This video made me slightly confident and actually improved a little of my stuttering speeches. It's hard, but it's a progress

  • @Pollix780
    @Pollix780 6 років тому +27

    1:31 Thank you Harley Quinn

  • @Saguragi666
    @Saguragi666 8 років тому +15

    Hands clammy/sweating + increased heartbeat + stuttering + mental block in the middle of the speech = nightmare came true :'(

    • @7amma1230
      @7amma1230 8 років тому

      +TheCrimsonFckr :P i feel you..especially mental block because i loose total focus every time that happens i mean everything else can be controlled but when you can't even think it become scary

  • @011azr
    @011azr 9 років тому +151

    What an irony, a video about doing a public speaking, yet the one who presented seems like the worst public speaker.

    • @jeanbob4030
      @jeanbob4030 9 років тому +4

      Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @jdb9262
      @jdb9262 9 років тому +10

      Agreed.. she gave me more anxiety..lol

    • @daniel-josephgriffin1293
      @daniel-josephgriffin1293 9 років тому +2

      011azr Glad I'm not the only one thinking that. This was painful.

    • @WhtJon
      @WhtJon 9 років тому +12

      So you know lots of public speakers? You could not tell what they were doing? I would like to see you try set up a video on public speaking that is not boring and monotone

    • @011azr
      @011azr 9 років тому +4

      Jon White This is the video about being a better public speaker, isn't it? And yes, I've seen tons of public speakers both in real life, online, television, radio, etc. Why would I have to set up video on public speaking? I came here because I know my weakness, I need something, some advice to make me a better public speaker. If anything, this video can't really convince me that it's a right advice for being a better public speaker because the way the narrator speak is too hyperbolic, not to mention painful and cheesy.

  • @jenishathapa4476
    @jenishathapa4476 4 роки тому +26

    I read the whole speech and i also practice myself by standing infront of the mirror but when my turn came to deliver the speech i forgot all😵😵

  • @bleunt
    @bleunt 10 років тому +28

    Huh, I' the opposite. I need to kind of wing it. If I just partly improvise it's no big deal at all. It's when I've prepared "too much" and get hung up on saying the right things in the right way that I get nervous. If I take it too seriously, I get sick to my stomach. I need to just have an idea of what to say, and have fun just going with it.

  • @KristinaHalsnes
    @KristinaHalsnes 8 років тому +379

    Did not help. It was just a lot of rules that made me more nervous

    • @MarkusVFG
      @MarkusVFG 8 років тому +4

      Yes, I know... what worked for me was the practice and studying a lot the theme, in the way that I would feel confident and more relaxed

    • @KristinaHalsnes
      @KristinaHalsnes 8 років тому +1

      +MarkusVFG I had a presentation for my class today. I was so nervous that my class had to leave the room. Then I had the presentation for my teacher. I still got nervous

    • @MarkusVFG
      @MarkusVFG 8 років тому +3

      +Kristina Halsnes Oh wow. I hope that it gets better with time. I was a bit shy when I went to high school but now in university I can make a 2 hour presentation very comfortably, and I hope that it will be your case soon. You can try by presenting to your family or friends about topics that you are familiar with and than make it increasingly more uncomfortable. Anyhow I wish you can get better at this because I know how you feel.

    • @KristinaHalsnes
      @KristinaHalsnes 8 років тому +1

      +MarkusVFG thank you so much

    • @SOSM209
      @SOSM209 8 років тому +5

      Be Yourself and Believe In Yourself, Positive Self Talk in Front of the Mirror Helps and Affirmations and Control of thoughts. Oh Create Videos and just Let Go Have Fun and remembe the world is Playground..... I Believe In You and I believe You can do What Ever You Want to Do.. ..

  • @ari-mae18
    @ari-mae18 9 років тому +53

    I really hope this work. I have to present something in class tomorrow and I'm freaking out!

    • @itskade7327
      @itskade7327 9 років тому +4

      SAME UGH!

    • @ari-mae18
      @ari-mae18 9 років тому +4

      Khadija Hussain it went pretty well actually, I just pretended that there's no one listening to me.

    • @ari-mae18
      @ari-mae18 9 років тому

      Kalyn Mae How did yours go?

    • @emmagray9092
      @emmagray9092 8 років тому

      +Khadija Hussain i have a presentation tomorrow:((

    • @ari-mae18
      @ari-mae18 8 років тому +1

      Everything Emma You'll do fine. Just pretend your in your room, and be yourself

  • @charlotte2851
    @charlotte2851 4 роки тому +34

    when i public speak my voice goes so deep and trembly like holy heck i sound like arnold swavbewjnrbghrjnnegger

    • @cinnamoroIIz
      @cinnamoroIIz 4 роки тому +1

      @Butter frog same here and I’m a girl..I already have a low voice but when speaking in front of people I don’t know it goes much lower. :(

    • @charlotte2851
      @charlotte2851 4 роки тому

      @@cinnamoroIIz yeah, girls are stereotyped to have a higher voice than males so it is probably more embarrassing if I could help with it I would but sadly I can not

    • @xoxo_xoxo..
      @xoxo_xoxo.. 4 роки тому +3

      One girl in our class had a dry mouth and kept clicking her mouth whenever she saud "c" or "d" and everyone was sniggering. I felt soo bad

    • @regina7732
      @regina7732 4 роки тому +1

      I'm a girl and for some reason my voice gets higher and it's even worse since my crush is in my class and I'm in advanced classes so all these kids are confident and they already presented their speech but I was out sick and I'm probably like the only one left and I'm gonna have a mental breakdown right now cause since I haven't done it I have a C- in that class and I feel like I am dieing and cannot breathe and its not even today its tomorrow 😭😫😫😭😭😭😫😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @charlotte2851
      @charlotte2851 4 роки тому

      @@regina7732 feel excessively bad for you, couldn't you ask the teacher for a private session for it? Or is it public speaking practice? If you can't get a private session all I can say is rather try your best (as cliché as it sounds ik) or take the hit and say you forgot / didn't do it. The way I got past mine was just going along with it I never looked up in the process because I would get quite and extremely anxious didn't help that I'm stereotyped as the quiet kid and people kept saying speak up. Just don't think to hard about it and try do it first for you have it done quicker I'm not the best at advice as you can see but it's all I can really offer. Just don't worry about things that much and try. :D

  • @awildsquirtle1012
    @awildsquirtle1012 9 років тому +30

    How come she starts sounding like harley quinn at 1:30

    • @MichelleRodriguez-mc5mz
      @MichelleRodriguez-mc5mz 6 років тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ashleyclvclls
    @ashleyclvclls 6 років тому +11

    I wish you (Yes you! The reader!) the best of luck with your next speech!

  • @hahahhad8193
    @hahahhad8193 5 років тому +20

    Yea.. You see I'm THE ONLY ONE in class who is TERRIFIED of reciting when called.. And what's worst I happen to be in the #1 section 😔

  • @preethisanthosam1690
    @preethisanthosam1690 9 років тому +150

    i hate the voice modulation a lot........really poor....simple speech will attract the viewers.....this is irritating.....

  • @lksaguiar
    @lksaguiar 9 років тому +15

    I'm laughing so much at her voice! I can't even pay attention to what she says

  • @inyowalls
    @inyowalls 2 роки тому +6

    I have to give a speech in front of half of my school, but I have anxiety. My teacher has put a lot of hope into me. I'm not the best English speaker in front of hundereds and stutter very often and keep shivering when nervous. This video really helped me know what to do and what not to do, Thanks!

  • @madeleinemartinez368
    @madeleinemartinez368 8 років тому +62

    I have a presentation tomorrow and this made me more nervous :(

    • @madeleinemartinez368
      @madeleinemartinez368 7 років тому +7

      Oh look its previous me nervous about a presentation and here I am again watching the same video because I have another presentation that Im nervous about. Guess nothing's changed :,)

    • @whereami2477
      @whereami2477 7 років тому

      Madeleine M How'd they go?

    • @madeleinemartinez368
      @madeleinemartinez368 7 років тому +6

      where am i they went okay ig. It seems like Im always nervous about a presentation and then a few weeks after im done presenting, no one ever remembers anybody's presentation. Anyways speaking of, I have another presentation next week so thanks for bringing me back to this video

    • @whereami2477
      @whereami2477 7 років тому

      Madeleine M Ok good luck

    • @madeleinemartinez368
      @madeleinemartinez368 7 років тому +2

      I forgot I watched this video omf I never learn🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @daniellastathis8643
    @daniellastathis8643 4 роки тому +19

    This helped me so much! I’m entirely nervous for presenting my student leader speech and needed some guidance, apparently you are now my hero!!!

  • @likealways4845
    @likealways4845 3 роки тому +2

    You know what i think about? That is if i get panick attack or start crying in front of the whole class i will be more humilated.

  • @mahialam1698
    @mahialam1698 7 років тому +73

    it's a great video but please change your voice ...
    and thank you for wonderful video..

  • @hemanthkumar3316
    @hemanthkumar3316 5 років тому +13

    I have a speech recitation on 5th of June and it is infront of 1000 people ( approx )
    But I should prove myself because , I m the first student of my school to spell up speech without script.
    Wish me BEST OF LUCK .....

  • @raghavkohli6426
    @raghavkohli6426 8 років тому +574

    Wtf is this also your voice sounds like Harley Quinn from batman

  • @zashreen
    @zashreen 3 роки тому +6

    Not many people have this but I have this stutter that never goes away ever since I was a child. Public speaking really made it worse because of my anxiety + insecurity 😪

    • @lun4ticplayz
      @lun4ticplayz Рік тому +1

      same, I only stutter when I'm public speaking

  • @Gce880809
    @Gce880809 6 років тому +5

    Just study everything and search more if necessary memorize what you are going to said the more you know the better and more confident you would
    A tip Write in index cards what you need to said and what are the possibility questions that the teachers would make about you presentation it really helped me hope it help someone else ❤️

  • @phcandream
    @phcandream 8 років тому +61

    The voice isn't really working that much. Try using the normal voice. Persuades better.

  • @hit--man3419
    @hit--man3419 7 років тому +66

    what the hell!! 😕 u scared me 😖

  • @mcccccc453
    @mcccccc453 Рік тому +3

    Public speaking sometimes is a calling. And it's one of the most fulfilling things to do because you're there to give. You're there not to present yourself but to empower, to change, to inspire people.

  • @mouricedixon6181
    @mouricedixon6181 8 років тому +61

    It's obvious that you have no fear of public speaking lol...I loved your video with all the drama and stuff. Thanks for the help

  • @mayf4iriez
    @mayf4iriez 5 років тому +40

    does anyone else have a presentation soon? i have mine in three days and im SOOOO SCARED!!!!!

    • @blu7917
      @blu7917 5 років тому

      Ari Elle how was it

    • @mayf4iriez
      @mayf4iriez 5 років тому +1

      @@blu7917 it was pretty awful. i felt scared in class but when i went up to the front of the class to speak, my vision got really sharp and it felt like i was looking through wavy glass, i felt really prickly and hot, but I didn't die, so that's good. ☺

    • @blu7917
      @blu7917 5 років тому

      Ari Elle you did well :)

    • @mayf4iriez
      @mayf4iriez 5 років тому

      @@blu7917 thanks i guess, i think.... {: )

    • @indigoblues8454
      @indigoblues8454 4 роки тому +4

      @@mayf4iriez Try to practice in front of your siblings/family or friends, it'll help. I know that a lot of students get nervous, sweat a lot and their stomachs start to hurt, but just try some few things. (I don't guarantee these would work)
      - Practice multiple times. It'll help you remember everything so your presentation doesn't sound choppy and messy nor would it make it seem as if you're scared. Breathe multiple times
      - Pretend as if it's a conversation, and you're talking to someone who you trust the most. That person doesn't even have to know you. It'll help you forget that anyone's there.
      - Think of your classmates as some random objects that you don't care about. It'll just make you forget they're even there.
      - Look at only your friends (maybe teacher) when presenting. Take a few glances of other students but stay calm
      A lot of the time people don't want to present because they're afraid of being judged (except in front of those who they're comfortable with). But, just remember that those who you think will judge you are just plain stupid people who you do not like. Who are they to judge you? Just remember that, and soon you'll forget about them because you no longer care about them or their thoughts.
      When someone asks a/multiple question(s) stay calm and answer properly. When they ask the question just pretend it's someone close to you who's asking the question, then you'll answer with a more clear and calm voice.
      Hope this helps! :-)

  • @forevaschemin
    @forevaschemin 8 років тому +84

    she sounds like matildas mom lol

  • @its.koenaaa
    @its.koenaaa 3 роки тому +2

    Not me watching this video while I'm presenting in a matter of hours😭

  • @paulverdzekov421
    @paulverdzekov421 5 років тому +6

    A million thanks. I actually used this video during a presentation last week training some organization workers on facilitating a workshop/seminar.
    I can't say how the video helped me pass the message because it was awesome. And you know what?? Everyone was amazed and the project owner made me one of their officially recognized freelance trainer 😁😁😁😁

  • @giancarloalvezalip6013
    @giancarloalvezalip6013 2 роки тому +1

    I will have a graduation speech next week, I remembered this phrase through scrolling in tiktok, it says that, "Do you think people cared if you're nervous".
    And it boost my confidence and continue to believe in myself.

  • @jayclawwit6489
    @jayclawwit6489 5 років тому +4

    I get nervous everytime I speak in front of a crowd but when I made them laugh once, I forget all the nervousness

  • @dia_nx
    @dia_nx 3 роки тому +5

    Okay so I just wanted to add that you should also look at the audience while speaking because it gives more confident vibes and because it doesn’t look like your trying to ignore their existence, or you could just look straight without looking at the audience if you have a fear for eye contact like me.

  • @kvzsmix8622
    @kvzsmix8622 2 роки тому +9

    I’m currently taking a required speech class (due to a program I’m in) as a high school student with extremely bad anxiety, and our teacher is making us do impromptu speeches every class for the next six classes. We get five minutes to come up with a one minute speech about a specific topic/question she presents on the screen. Today was the first one we had to do, and the paper was shaking so bad in my hands that you could hear it rattling and I was even having trouble reading the words. It’s extra frustrating because the teacher doesn’t even give us any time to prepare for our speech. I don’t know what to do, I have my next speech class in two days and every time I even think about presenting again, I feel like I’m going to cry. I want to talk to my teacher, or even the school counselor, about it, but I feel like they wouldn’t be able to do anything or help at all, and I’m worried my teacher may even get frustrated at me because the whole point of speech class is to get better at public speaking. I also think that’s kind of dumb, though, because as someone who’s had horrible anxiety since childhood (and may have an anxiety disorder) presenting in front of the class isn’t going to help. All it’s going to do is make things worse. If presenting did help me get over my fear, I would be over it by now, because I’ve given my fair share of speeches. Anyways, sorry for rambling on, does anybody have any tips?

  • @cherryblossem3101
    @cherryblossem3101 2 роки тому +2

    Me: doin the presentation.
    A random person in my class: Maam! I can't hear her
    🙄

    • @_lil.diva_2933
      @_lil.diva_2933 2 роки тому

      Omg same and then my sound gets more lower and voice not coming out

  • @randomfemale4322
    @randomfemale4322 4 роки тому +3

    I start to stutter and fidget and it gets really awkward so I avoid eye contact, continue and then when I'm done, I wait for the whole day to be over so I can hide in my room.

  • @shart2934
    @shart2934 5 років тому +8

    I want to go to college for sound engineering, but a speech and communications class is required. This has totally changed my view on my future. Sound engineering is my only interest and this class is freaking me out. I don’t know what to do.

    • @ralucabuzau9049
      @ralucabuzau9049 5 років тому

      Ethan Klein You can’t let just a class destroy your future. If you really love sound engineering, then just do it. You may regret it later if you don’t. And you really need to fight with your fears. You will be such a better person when you will succeed it. And if you trust yourself, you will succeed for sure. So just follow your dream and trust yourself! You are the only one that can stop you from having a wonderful life. Just don’t do this, okay? I wish you all the best!

  • @tuuleluule3899
    @tuuleluule3899 5 років тому +6

    I need to present in front of my class. I asked the teacher if i could present for her privately.
    But of course no.
    The place where I'm in school right now isn't even where I live, i live on the other side of the earth.... So i really miss my home and i don't know how to keep my tears back while presenting...

  • @FallenDraven0804
    @FallenDraven0804 Місяць тому +1

    For me, my legs start trembling and I immediately forget everything the moment I step up

  • @ResidentEvilfan2012
    @ResidentEvilfan2012 8 років тому +101

    Why is Harley Quinn narrating this video?

  • @malakzaarour5151
    @malakzaarour5151 5 років тому +7

    I just love this channel. Its very supportive and direct to the point, i didnt need to wait until i get what i rlly want. All love and support

  • @clementinedavison7796
    @clementinedavison7796 4 роки тому +6

    0:27
    how come im the only one in my class that gets really nervous, for the last couple of times while everyone else went for recess i stayed inside so i could just do it to my teacher, it still makes me nervous

  • @toriherringjw7603
    @toriherringjw7603 2 роки тому +1

    lol she was like "dont count how people there are" I can relate

  • @naimaA23
    @naimaA23 10 років тому +18

    I love how you change your voice, and your drawings are really creative. You make public speaking exciting with this video. Thanks! I needed a good laugh!

  • @yanderememe4556
    @yanderememe4556 8 років тому +32

    my teacher showed me this video I fell asleep

    • @pologames2992
      @pologames2992 5 років тому +2

      Same , but instead of felling asleep i wanted to kill my self due to how this woman tries so hard to be funny

    • @CletusSpuckler43
      @CletusSpuckler43 5 років тому +1

      But u must had likes the video otherwise you wouldnt have asked your teacher what the video was named so you can go in and watch it again and write this commend?

  • @kocopuff27
    @kocopuff27 Місяць тому +1

    the different voices took my anxiety from a 9 to 900 lol 😭

  • @jonnybevan8
    @jonnybevan8 5 років тому +6

    I’m in year 10 and I have to read in a whole year assembly I really don’t like public speaking, my voice gets shaky, I get breathless, shake and go red

  • @kevinlouey8172
    @kevinlouey8172 8 років тому +10

    Is that Harley Quin @ 1.31 lol

  • @shelfenthusiast
    @shelfenthusiast 5 років тому +34

    Very strange choice to make a Harley Quinn impression in the middle of your tutorial but hey good job
    On the impression not the video

    • @geeway5923
      @geeway5923 5 років тому +1

      I KNEW I WASN'T THE ONLY ONE WHO HEARD IT!

  • @thedoglover5628
    @thedoglover5628 3 роки тому +1

    Me: Ok I've got this. Memorized this report
    Me: staring at the audience
    My mind went blank

  • @ramisaalam8059
    @ramisaalam8059 7 років тому +6

    Just think that everybody's heads are bananas and pineapples , and tryst me you'll become confident.

  • @yeswecan3918
    @yeswecan3918 8 років тому +5

    I think the information she put across will be very useful if well followed and her voice was only a way of making the video very lively and probably interesting.That might be her intention so let us give out our suggestions without offending her or making her regret for sharing with us such an important information.

  • @Izzy-hj2to
    @Izzy-hj2to 2 роки тому +2

    I have a debate tournament in a few days, I'm not necessarily nervous I just psych myself out every time

  • @joenax777
    @joenax777 10 років тому +4

    I have a huge fear of public speaking, this made it worse.

  • @lemlemwoldemichael7693
    @lemlemwoldemichael7693 6 років тому +8

    Literally, not even gonna go to school Wednesday, oh, and by the way, this is a presentation not an argument in the court

  • @milliesvids9863
    @milliesvids9863 5 років тому +5

    lmao i have to do a whole lesson tomorrow and i have a big fear of public speaking like my face turns red and my heart starts beating really fast and me and my best friends always end up laughing so with me luck😂