How to Get Back On Track With Your Life & Goals
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
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Wasn't lazy or busy.. just severely depressed. I hope we live in a world one day where mental health isn't simply overlooked or dismissed as just being lazy or irresponsible or difficult.
Kinda crazy that mental health wasn't even MENTIONED as a possibility. You have over 1 million subs, please do better. With peace and love and the wisdom of tip one. (:
@@blondnbaked5865I don’t get if ur hating or not
@@mickable3071 Not hating. Just trying to bring awareness to a very real issue. It's always so hard to decipher tone over comments. That's why I put with peace and love and the (: lol but maybe it had the opposite effect.
I'm just saying it can be very detrimental to the subs, especially those unknowingly dealing with mental illness, to just say it's laziness and not even touch on the fact that a mental illness is a very real possibility.. I just think with over 1 million subs, there should be some level of responsibility held to address certain things.
@@mickable3071 They aren't hating. People deal with depression every single day, and you know what's crazy? We don't even trust therapists. We can't get help. We are stuck in our own mind. And what does society do? They make it an aesthetic. It isn't the creators fault, we are built to think a certain way. The person who commented this only wanted to express their frustration, hope you have a great rest of the day Mickable 🖤
@@akuma3460 yes I know. I am a dysthymia patient aka short term depression. It’s the worst thing ever. When we have dep eps. It sometimes causes us to go away from others and not do things. I now know that this commenter meant no harm thank you so much for your reply ^^
*5 things to quit right now:*
*1. Overthinking*
*2. Trying to make everyone happy*
*3. Living in the past*
*4. Worrying*
*5. Doubting yourself*
❤️Thank you, I wrote these down, thanks for sharing the list in a handy comment. ❤️📃
@@jonnakaasinen497 you are welcome, I am here to help :)
I'm taking notes 🤓📝
AMEN! 😄☺️
The fear of man bringth a snare, but whoso putteth his trust in the LORD shall be safe, -Proverbs 29:25 KJV
Cast all your care upon him; for he careth for you. 1 Peter 5:7 KJV
Everything I do on a daily basis🙄🤒
0:50 1. Forgive yourself for getting off track
2:04 2. Review your why
3:00 3. Start small and don’t overwhelm yourself
4:12 4. Build trust with yourself
6:35 5. Make it fun
7:45 6. Make it visual
8:55 7. Celebrate your small wins
11:12 8. Focus on the feeling
13:30 9. Embrace imperfection and resilience
i hope this helped but really recommend watching the video, she explains it really well.
ya'll have a nice day ❤️
Thanks
Thx and also not thx
THANKYOUUU
ur welcome 🙃
Thanks
🔥 *Life is either hard now, or hard later.*
✅ *But it's up to us which one we choose. If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing productive day and never ever give up...* 🙏
It's ramadan and I didn't sleep properly since it started . And the two last days I only had 3hours of sleep and I am on my midterm exam period, it's very hard to keep up but reading your comment made me realize that I prefer "suffer" now than later 🤍 thank you. Have a good day/night
Life is always hard
@@ourhaven 🙏🙏
1. Forgive yourself for getting off track
2. Review your why
3. Start small and don’t overwhelm yourself
4. Build trust with yourself
5. Make it fun
6. Make it visual
7. Celebrate your small wins
8. Focus on the feeling
9. Embrace imperfection and resilience
Thanks lavendaire for this video.
Simple and oh so helpful ✨✨
Thank you making a quick list of the tips she gave in this video, Sara. Much appreciated! ❤️😸✌️
❤️Thank you, I wrote these down, thanks for sharing the list in a handy comment. ❤️📃
No problem, I just made them as notes for myself too
glad it helped you.
Guys pls pray for my dad, he has covid and has been in the hospital the whole day and hasnt got a bed.. my whole family is really tensed and im scared.. pls.. thank you. And great video aileen, i needed this
Edit: thank you everyone! After this, my whole family had covid but now everything us fine.. than, you so much
May allah protect them 🤲
I am so sorry, I really hope he'll get better soon :( 💜🥺☀️
@@hajarel6550 thank you
@@nilistravelling thank you
Praying for you and your family 💜💜
Uhm.. I just wanna say thank you for the perfect timing posting this one😫 I need it right nowww
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Same!!
Saaaameeeee!!
Sameeeew
Sameee!!
The habit I’m working on right now is putting self care/mental health ABOVE productivity on my priorities list.
Ahhhh I’ve been feeling jsut stuck in life and I needed this so badly. It’s not like there’s anything bad going on in my life but I’m also just not happy and feel like I’m not really progressing
Truer words couldn’t have been spoken Sam 🙌🏽
YOU GOT THIS FRIEND!
Sameee 🥺
I feel the same way! I'm glad that I'm not alone in this. We can both work on it!❤
How did you know we needed this, lol? Thank you!
Same here 😆 I tapped so fast in the video
RIGHT!!!! the timing is insane. she’s definitely in tune with the cosmos
Sameeee perfect timing!
I think we all need this video at the moment!! I especially love the first tip - forgiving yourself is absolutely the first barrier and self-love is so important. Thanks for the video 🙏🏼❤️🌙
yesss I loved the first tip too!! sending you lots of love ✨
I sit on my couch and eat all day and I forgive myself always 😂😂
yeah, without forgiveness, there is only blame and lead to guilt.
Truueee💖
The thing I'm working on is Consistency.
I've no problem finding inspiration but my motivation can be so short-lived & I know it's hindering my potential for growth and success. Your 'Build Trust with Self' point really resonated with me; I'd never allow another person so many opportunities to disappoint me, I shouldn't allow myself to either.
"forgive yourself for getting off track" ... I feel like this is one of those things we tend to forget doing because we're always focused on go go go, but it's INCREDIBLY crucial to show ourselves self compassion :,) thanks aileen!!
*3 Quotes to Live By:*
🔥 *1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."*
🔥 *2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”*
🔥 *3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart..."*
So true. 😇
Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this is one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
I press toward the mark for the prize of thr high calling of God in Christ Jesus.- Philippians 3:13-14 KJV
@@priscillajimenez27 “But first seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you”
- Matthew 6:33
All the best to you. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
@@priscillajimenez27 🙏🙏
@@champloo2500 🙏🙏
I have been off track for a while... Kinda lost motivation to do anything... The outside world is making me so a bit crazy... Thanks for this video 🧡🧡
same❤️
honestly same 😭 here’s to us getting back on track! 💕
@@ChloeCara yeah! 💗💗
I'm so glad she posted this video and also to hear that there are other people going through the same struggles! ⛅
can we apreciate how much she is making our lives better? ty so much♡
so true, her content really helps us creating a good and happy life :)
exactly
@@nilistravelling lost all
You are incredible! Thank you for being so vulnerable with us all. 💕💕
I watch this video over and over almost everyday. In order to keep truck with my goals, I might as well immerse my brain in this thoughts. I easily forget what I learn from you, but by watching repeatedly , I can remember how I can study everyday. I appreciate this tips so much!
I really needed this! Perfect timing, thanks Aileen!
the tips are super realistic. specially the part about being honest with yourself .
Dear Lavendiar I don't know if you read this but as a 15 years girl your videos are my motivations and are helping me too far than you expect to heal my depression.
It is a big deal for me cuz it breath me back to life.
God bless you thank you!🥰🥰🥰🥰
Another UA-camr was once mentioned Lavendaire in a video and I searched for the channel because I was curious. Now I don't think I could ever find a more motivational and amazing channel ever. Thank you so much Aileen💜💜💜
Just needed this today. Thank you SO MUCH!💗
Perfect timing as always, thank you! 💖
Such a wise lady....incredible insight from one so young! Love all your videos.
Hi love,The second one, you look at how far you've come and you see how much you've accomplished and are grateful and that gives you the energy to go on. Thank you, bless you.❤
This is such a needed video right now! To anyone who's feeling off track: you're right where you're meant to be! Things we think are mistakes now, are the things we might look back on and be grateful for later! There's no such thing as failure ;) 🧡💛🧡💛
I love your voice it's so calming, couldn't held back my tears just realizing the state of my life rn while listening to you 🥺💓
You are such a lovely person and your videos are so positive and calming to watch❤❤❤
I always make notes when I watch your videos. I'm an absolute fan.
Hello Aileen! I am soo happy to watch your videos..And myself and my family listens to your Positive self love affirmations every night, we really love it! ❤
Just what I needed, thank you! Love love
Hey Aileen! I have been watching your videos for the past 4 years. Consistently. And I just needed to tell you how much I adore you! You have truly helped me through some really tough times in life. And even now, if I feel lost, I know I just need to come back to your videos. And I am home! Thank you for being my guardian angel.🌸🎇 more love and power to you!
thank you for this much needed video Aileen! 🙌💜
The coaching that is delivered from your view inspires.
It's definitely the right time for this video! Thank you so much! 💜
I just wanna say that there's something about you that motivates me instantly.I get all excited and productive. Thank you for existing.I love you so much.❤️
Needed this today! Thank you! My mindset was feeling defeated lately! I'm going to take today, to really focus on how far I've come.
I'm working on fixing my daily routine. I adjusted my sleeping schedule and made at least one meal a day for myself. Now I'm adding in being active every day.
I've tied in walking my dogs as a sort of warm-up before exercising, so I have a reason to do it other than for myself. I won't start until they get a walk and they deserve to explore and visit the park. Once I've already done that step, it's only natural to finish it out by doing my own exercise. I also like putting on a video like this to motivate me through it when I need an extra boost.
Omg I reaaaally needed this video, so perfect timing.🥰
Love your videos, they always make me feel calm and happy😍😍
I have been watching your videos since 5 years now and I am so glad you helped me mould my life so much.I am 21 now and so much excited for the journey ahead. Thank you so much for motivating consistently !! Much love to you.
I love that you address the issue of forgiving ourselves in this video, such a compassionate start to another great video and so important to remember 💛
I'm really trying to stay motivated to keep studying, it's so hard, it's like one day I'm on the roll, and the next im super unproductive and unmotivated. I clicked on this video because I felt stuck, I must say that I am very glad I watched this thank you Aileen , for this very helpful and motivating video, you helped me realize that I've been so unnecessarily hard on myself. you are a blessing to the world. All my love, Bella in South Africa
Yes! I love this video & it came in perfect timing!
"It doesn't matter that you got off track, the important thing is you get back on track"
You’re an angel! Thanks for this
I literally can’t tell how much I’m thankful for finding your channel❤️
Thank you Lavendaire. Really needed it❤🌸
I literally searched fr this to get motivated again.. Tysm.. U n all ur videos are so motivating. Much love to u girl💙
Building trust with myself is a really big one! So many times I give myself unrealistic high expectation and in the end I couldn't do it -- but little did I know, it chipped away the trust I have with myself. Thanks for this!
Earlier this year, I discovered your channel and subscribed right away. I have been coming back for more.❤️
I just need this right now. Perfect timing. Thank you. -From the Philippines
thank you so much for this... I badly need these advices right now. bless your heart
You have no idea how bad I needed this. Thankyou sooo much 💖😭
Great timing! I really needed this, thank you 🤍
I was literally planning to get back on track with my goals and all when this popped up in my notifications. I'm already feeling good about it because of this video. This is what I really needed. Thank you!
absolutely ..! thanks for this reminder girl 💙✨ really do appreciate you coming by and being consistent in your message, it really helps ..! have a good week 😊💃🏽
I need this now really really need this perfect timing my life was a mess and is still one this is exactly what I need now
Much need this right now! Thank you so much😄😍
I absolutely loved this video! Thank you :) this is exactly what I needed to hear to get back on track with everything!
You can't imagine how much I relate with your words! Be gentle on yourself it's key for me! I expect too much from myself sometimes, then when I realize that I take a step back! I need to work on my projects in a more sustainable way!
Thank you, Aileen, I needed this SO MUCH right now! You are always in time. Also this haircolor looks gorgeous on you ❤❤❤
I’m starting a new job tomorrow & need to seriously get back on track so this came at the perfect time!! You’re the gift that keeps on giving Aileen 😭
Thank you!!! This is so compassionately helpful ❤
Life isn't perfect. But it is perfectly imperfect❤
Thank you so much, Aileen! I love you! 💖
I like how you use yourself in the example pics/vids, aka stock footage. This is a very helpful message!
It is one of the most difficult years of my life that will outline my future so I really needed getting back on track, your videos always helped me so much this year I really look forward to be as amazing as you. This video especially is the one I need the most rn to achieve my goals, thanks for the perfect timing I really love you and love your soul, hope you see my comment and be proud of yourself even more to be such and inspiration 💖
Journaling every day. Thank you for this video. I’ve fallen off track with my journaling and I’ve really been beating myself up about it. This has made me feel a little better about the situation ❤️
Thanks, I’ve started working out more and this video has helped me realise what I need to do to stay on track
I really needed this right now in my life.thank you so much.
Thank you Aileen for changing and shaping my life. I often fall from my routine and I start hating myself. So thank-you so much for this video. Sending lots of love💖💖💖
Thank you so much Eileen . I am really grateful for all your help😃😃👋
Thank you so much......It's all about Understand ourselves...And be the biggest fan of our own self too.....❤️💜💜
Thank you! This really helped me so much!! I journaled while watching this (I paused the video and wrote down what is my 'why', how to take baby steps...)
Now I feel I can finally do this. I realized I've tried to do too much at the same time and I exhausted myself. So for now on I can take care of myself better and enjoy the process!
I've been off for a few months now especially at work so I gotta get back on track. Thank you!
THANK YOU, Aileen...your videos helped me to get through a very hard time in my life....thanks for just existing...the value you've added to my life is unexplainable in words...sending you lots of love and gratitude.!!
Thank you for all of your videos and advice! I read almost all of the books on your list, did the liberation kriya, quit smoking weed, and started a new job since I started watching you! Grateful for you 💕
I've recently discovered this channel and I hope that I've discovered it earlier. It's like an inspiration source. Aileen's voice is so relaxing too and makes me feel like everything is alright and no matter what happened I still have the chance to make changes in my life even if they are small they are better than nothing. BTW the habits that I would like to get back on track are practice yoga, waking up early and reading. Hope you all guys get back on track too
I really needed to hear this today... thank you❤
You are amazing. Thank you for your tips to obstacle difficulties
much needed. thank you for this great video. keep them coming :)
Omg.... Thank you so much.. I really need this.... ❤️
THANKS for the encouragement!!
bless that i am so early now for a video that i really needed from the person who explains so well that i could understand. thank you so much
thank you so much!!needed this❤❤
This is just what I needed! Thank you ❤
I like your smooth voice. It's kind of healing for me and you are soo good with your words and the way you explained is easy to understand 😍💞
Thank you for being realistic and helping me through this journey
I really needed this Aileen, this is awesome!👌Thanks for sharing! 😊
this video came just in time thank you aileen🌷💛💛💛
Wow, amazing! This is definitely what I need. Thank you so much!
Ok my mindset will get better now I'm listening thanks for your amazing work 💫
Your last 2 videos wore made for me. After April I needed this, you just made my day a lot better a you are making my life better. Thank you for the time and passion you put in helping others.
really needed this! thanks Aileen!🌸💕
This came to me at the right time!
Thank you ♥️
Very timely❤ so excited to set up my goals again.
Thanks for reading my mind and upload this
I really needed this
Ahh thankyou for this when i started my fitness journey 6 months ago i was so motivated then april came i started to feel ok that i was eating unhelathy foods then i was sad and fell then gained 1kg in a month i fell at the track of my life to the point i started to always say oh i can do it tommorow but then when i started watching lavandeire she helped me so much now im starting to do every thing and im starting to get back on tract thankyou for this
Aww, Thank you so much for this babe !! I really needed this right now !! I LOVE YOU SM MY ANGEL !! Sending you LOADS OF LOVE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HUGS !! ❤️❤️❤️✨