Falling For a Straight Boy

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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
  • Hey Everyone! Todays video is about something that I have been wanting to talk about it for a long time. I finally got the courage to open up about this situation and I hope I did well in explaining my point of view. Thank you for watching!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 87

  • @professorkittyhawk
    @professorkittyhawk 3 роки тому +21

    Ugh, straight guys are my weakness. I suppose its because I live in area where gay guys are few and far between, and I'm just not big into going out to bars and clubs, which limits my exposure. But I can't tell you how many straight guys I've fallen for who just break my heart. Not their fault. They can't help it. Just my stupid heart wanting what it wants. x_x
    But I'm glad you got over your crush and have moved on. You seem like such a sweet, honest, sincere guy, and I hope you find that special someone that completes you some day.

  • @alfredcelentano4153
    @alfredcelentano4153 4 роки тому +10

    Hey your new pet fish is almost as adorable as you! ...please keep your videos coming...I've been a loyal fan of yours since BSB days and have always admired and respected your honesty...You ate amazing.

  • @alanb2833
    @alanb2833 4 роки тому +8

    Sorry you had to go through that. You're in a better place now!

  • @RCaugh
    @RCaugh 2 роки тому +5

    Isn’t it tragic how good friendships and loves turn sour? It’s just a fact of life I guess. One of life’s saddest facts.

    • @Mcfreddo
      @Mcfreddo 2 роки тому

      More though, he was a prick from the start, but just didn't show himself initially and to flash keys in his face, meaning, he's gone into his room. Spied upon him probably, shows he was an arsehole from the start.
      You don't sue out of the blue, you negotiate a resolution and if some time has gone by, you still do this approach firstly. Then, you take the party to court.

  • @ddragon161
    @ddragon161 4 роки тому +12

    Oh I remeber this guy so glad your in a better place and happier

  • @jayduc
    @jayduc Рік тому +3

    Good video, totally agree the only way to learn life lessons is to experience them. Not pleasant but it makes us a stronger person. I had to move out at 22 I was really needing some space from mom, glad a gay friend of mine was also tired of his parents constantly present. So first apartment and the best time of my life meeting new friends having pasta dinners.. even if I was completely broke paying rent, food, gas, it was an experience, it made me grow up and be responsible. Mom was always worried, I would go for supper on Sunday's and do my laundry. I found my relationship with my mom got much better having my own place and my own life.

  • @hishamahmed21
    @hishamahmed21 4 роки тому +41

    It’s never a good idea to fall for a straight man

    • @Djdj-kd8ue
      @Djdj-kd8ue 4 роки тому +8

      May not be a good idea, but it happens. I was attracted to a married friend (nobody had a clue about my sexuality @ that time)I moved away like 8 hours away & would think Abt this guy ocassionally , well he & his wife were going to be coming by my place(his wife is actually family)so the 2nd nite she went to bed early & I had already sinced something & then he came rite out & told me he wanted to do something to me, long story short, for some strange reason I turned his advances down & I don't put him on that pedstal like I did previously

    • @bestfriendhank1424
      @bestfriendhank1424 4 роки тому +2

      Dj dj why did you?

    • @jake94575
      @jake94575 2 роки тому

      you are 100% right. i know that from experience. They are so complex and awkward as hell. just deal with them as a person, nothing more. they have to be 1 million% legit or i don;t want very little closeness with them...EVER!!

    • @danielsink8559
      @danielsink8559 Рік тому

      I fell in love with the straight man years ago and a few months later I called it quits. And a few years later I ran into him. And he was the biggest Sissy I had ever seen

    • @abidsalim6183
      @abidsalim6183 Рік тому

      ​@@Djdj-kd8ue he was trying with you to figure out his sexuality i think !!

  • @drakedesjardins7460
    @drakedesjardins7460 4 роки тому +5

    Richie, I started watching a couple of your videos a couple of days ago. This video grabbed my attention. Apparently this was an important issue for you. Thank you for making this video. You don't know me, but I think you will find someone who will love you UNCONDITIONALLY. ( if you haven't found anyone) by the way, love the bed and the picture on the wall above the headboard. Hope your doing well in this pandemic.

  • @123ykraps
    @123ykraps 4 роки тому +5

    You can't control with whom you fall in love with. But it isn't always a two way street

    • @akiraasmr3002
      @akiraasmr3002 3 роки тому +4

      It sucks when they flirt with you back and you think they are the most beautiful boy in the world but then he gets a new gf and shows her off on social media and you get heart broken because you thought you two could be together and that he might be lowkey bi.

    • @123ykraps
      @123ykraps 3 роки тому

      Thats just wrong of the guy

  • @stephenattrill6185
    @stephenattrill6185 4 роки тому +6

    Well done you for coming through all that shit you are very brave. Lots of love xx

  • @Stephaniekellum
    @Stephaniekellum 4 роки тому +5

    Im just glad you got out of the situation..that guy sucks people are just so rude/evil 😤

  • @chrishewittpiano
    @chrishewittpiano 4 роки тому +6

    Awesome video, Richie! You're amazing!

  • @NIIJIX
    @NIIJIX 4 роки тому +8

    He was on a gay dating site but isn’t gay? Confused af

  • @itsaaronlolz
    @itsaaronlolz 3 роки тому +22

    damn i always fall for the straight ones. 😭

    • @NickCADA
      @NickCADA 2 роки тому +3

      It’s way too easy

  • @Coolmarsh1
    @Coolmarsh1 4 роки тому +3

    Hi Richie, I think your fish is really cute. Pretty colors. That was an interesting account of your younger days! We all learn by our mistakes.
    I hope your life is happier now. I look forward to your videos and wish you well. ❤️ You’re a sweet guy. 😊 🇨🇦

  • @CCGR-2024
    @CCGR-2024 2 роки тому +1

    I always enjoy your stories and the lessons you pass on.

  • @davidalexander8752
    @davidalexander8752 4 роки тому +5

    Miss you buddy ❤❤❤ The content is 🔥🔥🔥

    • @RichieWest
      @RichieWest  4 роки тому

      David Alexander aww thanks you and miss you too ☺️

  • @Iattw
    @Iattw 2 роки тому +2

    So I’m five minutes in and there’s no straight guy

  • @kevinb.jacksonsr.6066
    @kevinb.jacksonsr.6066 4 роки тому +5

    From what I see and hear ypur an amazing youngman. Keep smiling and learning life's lessons to help you on your journey. Thanks for sharing.

  • @leetran5098
    @leetran5098 3 роки тому +1

    omg how do you get roommates to live with? I'm about to move out and I have no friends sadly ... too introvert

  • @SuperMatt2112
    @SuperMatt2112 4 роки тому +8

    Dude, this is all nonsense, it's called life.... how was Judge Judy... lol

  • @nexttsar
    @nexttsar 4 роки тому +1

    Why did your mother come to live in Arizona? Did your parents get divorced?

  • @royhanna4421
    @royhanna4421 3 роки тому

    the most valuable lessons, that we learn in life. Thet are usually difficult lessons. but i hope that this 1 person, doesn't still cause you any issue

  • @916nene
    @916nene 3 роки тому +1

    I’m 32 still with mom she won’t let me go by myself that’s unfair

  • @mitrandhir69
    @mitrandhir69 2 роки тому +1

    For past experience I learn it’s such abs idea falling in love with a straight guy which it happen mostly of us in the gay community. Sometimes went really well even when they don’t get the same feelings about us when we come out to them but unfortunately other went completely wrong 😑

  • @user-bc9qh4xd1j
    @user-bc9qh4xd1j 5 місяців тому

    Love you Richie ❤

  • @andreaslindenau1190
    @andreaslindenau1190 4 роки тому +2

    Why room-mate ? In Germany's colleges one room is occupied with only one student and that's it.

    • @nestorvilla3605
      @nestorvilla3605 3 роки тому +1

      Andreas Lindenau : that's one of the reasons why young German students are so cold and unsociable, very bad dude

  • @1ramises
    @1ramises 4 роки тому +1

    Sorry to hear :(

  • @CAATMANsART
    @CAATMANsART 3 роки тому

    11:54 The eyes say it all!-love it.

  • @amritshrestha9801
    @amritshrestha9801 3 роки тому

    We live with our parents for whole life.. the world is very diverse.

  • @mauricebrown1992
    @mauricebrown1992 Рік тому

    Such a great personality you have...

  • @alexanderjonathan5692
    @alexanderjonathan5692 2 роки тому

    Me being 22 living back with my mom so I can afford nursing school 🧍🏽‍♀️

  • @dwightfan2013
    @dwightfan2013 4 роки тому +2

    Video Request Richie :
    Tight Wrangler Cowboy Cut Slim Fit Blue Denim Jeans 13MWZs Fit For A Gay Cowboy Fashion Style Trend 😃📱😎 That Would Be Fun
    The Seinfeld Season Seven Episode “ The Wait Out “ When Kramer Was Wearing Tight Wranglers Is One Of My All Time Favorites !

  • @chrissalyer7086
    @chrissalyer7086 4 роки тому +6

    So much drama.....

  • @HesaDudes
    @HesaDudes 2 роки тому

    You better carrot that bowl more from underside instead of using friction...

  • @truerthanyouknow9456
    @truerthanyouknow9456 4 роки тому +1

    Why does that headboard look fancier than anything I've ever owned? hashtag_sense_of_style

    • @roychefets6961
      @roychefets6961 4 роки тому +1

      Its a style you often see on the Internet and via catalog furniture sellers.

  • @dougkapoor4553
    @dougkapoor4553 2 роки тому

    Am I the only one who sees it? Rickie broke code by dating a guy that his roommate was kinda talking to…

  • @antoniojrpenaflor5549
    @antoniojrpenaflor5549 4 роки тому

    Wow seems like we have the same situation... Lesson learnt

  • @raphaeljohnleonard5084
    @raphaeljohnleonard5084 3 роки тому

    Your like a small boat sending big waves can make a heart open your sending bills and rights and acts in motion cause you only have one chance to make or break an explosion

  • @Melrosearch7
    @Melrosearch7 2 роки тому

    Interesting talk. ❤

  • @Mike-cd5un
    @Mike-cd5un 2 роки тому

    Always remember to deuche before any encounter Always best practice

  • @marklutker9720
    @marklutker9720 9 місяців тому

    so cute and nice

  • @abidsalim6183
    @abidsalim6183 Рік тому

    Why you say he is straight ? you met him on a gay dating app, and then he was going to date this guy.. and he didn't only because he wasn't attracted to him.. but he is clearly into guys...... and i think he liked you because he became jaleous when you started to date this guy !!

  • @Stephaniekellum
    @Stephaniekellum 4 роки тому +1

    Betas are such pretty fish I love them

  • @danielsink8559
    @danielsink8559 3 роки тому +6

    Sounds like he was in love with you

    • @williethomas9953
      @williethomas9953 Рік тому

      I agree, when a young man goes on a gay website. He has already admitted his curiosity is to the point that he will act upon it for the right person. He couldn't admit how he felt about him he was crushed by the emergence of a younger rival and instead handling the situation with maturity. He behaved childishly. That was the negative gray energy. His roommate was crushed and his heart was broken.

    • @66skate
      @66skate Рік тому

      The confused straight guys are the worst. Why do I always seem to end up with that type?

  • @rammateo7100
    @rammateo7100 3 роки тому

    My God! That guy was a total douche bag... Glad to see that you are in a better place... by the way, that fish is nice... ♡♡♡

  • @freddyl.oosterwolde4983
    @freddyl.oosterwolde4983 4 роки тому

    Dear Richie,
    I got to know you today through your videos. The first video I watched about "How I Lost My Virginity to a Boy". We're two and a half times older than you thought. After watching a few videos and including this, I thought to myself that you were good looking. I am an independent man and enjoy living alone. I find myself very spiritual. Where another is busy buying expensive clothes I delve more into the inside, the spiritual. Now a little brother is mine. To look at you and listen, I feel a lot of sadness and worry about you. You have a lot of plans and very uncertain. I'm spiritually loving you now. Love is not to be seen in the against you. My heart desire for you is that you find peace and go through life patiently. I think you're a beautiful and sweet intelligent young man. Your house is really beautiful because of the beautiful colors that also fit. I'm glad to have discovered you and I will continue to follow you. Richie, you bowed a super-rich kid (spiritually). I'm still talking to you. I wish you all the happiness, love, patience, joy, health, and peace. I love you. Freddy xxx. Holland.

  • @colingarner6175
    @colingarner6175 2 роки тому

    Like , like , like ,like why are kids obsessed with saying like every third word ?

  • @rollin9042
    @rollin9042 2 роки тому

    seems like you're always the victim with whatever happens in your life. It would be interesting to hear what these other people would have to say in these matters. even your mom. Maybe you all could get together on some talk show or something in the future.

  • @toddpa-c3826
    @toddpa-c3826 2 роки тому

    Honestly- these situations made you soo Stressed ? Welcome to this fucked up world….. why bother to continue to give him the energy

  • @MRCEDRICDESHAWNCOX806
    @MRCEDRICDESHAWNCOX806 4 роки тому +1

    SUP BRO HAPPY TUESDAY BRO SO HOW YOU DOING TODAY BRO

  • @tvmasterc
    @tvmasterc 3 роки тому +2

    The only thing worse than a roommate is a wife, and I will have neither again!

  • @M_rsplashy
    @M_rsplashy 3 роки тому

    U guys are savage give him a break

  • @donaldzahnke1951
    @donaldzahnke1951 Рік тому

    Hello Richie

  • @alexc3507
    @alexc3507 4 роки тому

    Wait you started doing it at 17?

  • @johniii8147
    @johniii8147 3 роки тому

    Note to self. Don't get a cat

  • @LETMEINGUYS
    @LETMEINGUYS 3 роки тому

    Sounds like you needed a second cat and a second roommate.

  • @lonnybush5612
    @lonnybush5612 3 роки тому

    Yummy. Straight! Respect that.

  • @petergomez8362
    @petergomez8362 11 місяців тому +1

    This story sounds questionable. Sounds like you might have been a fault for the situation. When you keep having difficulty living with others the common denominator is YOU. So maybe you need to take introspective look on your behavior and attitudes.

  • @softdreams1776
    @softdreams1776 3 роки тому

    oh man.. hmmmm roommates and bad cats :/ when they go in heat they get real loud lol id love to be you're roommate though :)

  • @MarioSanchez-wc9nq
    @MarioSanchez-wc9nq 4 роки тому +1

    Hi just watch this now and i like you that im hoping we can be friends from now on....from Davao city Philippines.

  • @tadziosquest
    @tadziosquest 3 роки тому

    your so sweet