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  • @breadloaf8220
    @breadloaf8220 3 роки тому +21487

    the most realistic thing about this is that the teacher said they take bullying seriously at this school and proceeded to do nothing

  • @TheFanguy123
    @TheFanguy123 3 роки тому +13877

    the best part about this was the accurate portrayal of most adults not doing anything at all to curb the issue

    • @gracekim1998
      @gracekim1998 3 роки тому +177

      Some do actually help though 😅

    • @mack_r-s
      @mack_r-s 3 роки тому +520

      Yeah, my teachers would blame me for defending myself, like when some kids went tot step on me, so I kicked them a way and then I got in trouble. Tell me if that makes sense.

    • @MoKuZai
      @MoKuZai 3 роки тому +23

      yep

    • @Kernel6
      @Kernel6 3 роки тому +102

      @@gracekim1998 That's only %1

    • @DeRien8
      @DeRien8 3 роки тому +69

      And not getting let in enough to know the whole story. I know I was almost never secure enough to feel it was safe to share everything. Mostly because there were moments on my part I was sure I'd get in trouble for myself.

  • @huaraches8934
    @huaraches8934 3 роки тому +15524

    "we take bullying serious" the only time you take it serious is when the victim fights back

    • @erk9448
      @erk9448 3 роки тому +133

      *who ate all the meat?*

    • @justasentientmclarenp1879
      @justasentientmclarenp1879 3 роки тому +823

      and then punish the victim then refuse to give a fuck about the bully.

    • @tony_T_
      @tony_T_ 3 роки тому +253

      My parents always told me to just fuck em up and they’ll do the rest.

    • @funnandhappyguy6627
      @funnandhappyguy6627 3 роки тому +134

      @@tony_T_ where to get parents like yours

    • @husnamardiah
      @husnamardiah 3 роки тому +56

      @SHEIKAH So good to hear you have a happier life now 🤜🤛

  • @nerdyboymatt497
    @nerdyboymatt497 8 місяців тому +2142

    Honestly a simple “are you ok” can mean a lot to a depressed person, cuz it shows them that at least someone cares

    • @GUMM1W0RMZ_00
      @GUMM1W0RMZ_00 7 місяців тому +28

      Coming from a depressed person, yeah. It really do means a lot

    • @clarityvibes72
      @clarityvibes72 7 місяців тому +10

      same here i agree

    • @StuffieLover69
      @StuffieLover69 6 місяців тому +4

      Yeah I struggle a lot with my attachments and whenever my bff asks me if I'm doing okay it just helps the liitle bit needed to het through the day

    • @NeoLocket
      @NeoLocket 6 місяців тому +10

      I swear this video made me cry and reading this comment nearly did as well

    • @u_val7106
      @u_val7106 5 місяців тому +2

      sometimes asking if someone is ok can also hurt them

  • @vjapple3083
    @vjapple3083 3 роки тому +13202

    It’s sadly one of the tactics bullies use. If you defend the bullied kid, you get bullied too. It makes it so no one ever comes to your rescue and more people join in. Absolutely sucks.

    • @buttercracker6235
      @buttercracker6235 3 роки тому +372

      It does suck... Are you alright though?

    • @vjapple3083
      @vjapple3083 3 роки тому +478

      @@buttercracker6235 Aw jeez. I wasn’t expecting anyone to ask. I’m doing much better now that I’m out of the toxic environment that is grade school. Thanks for asking tho ^^

    • @buttercracker6235
      @buttercracker6235 3 роки тому +174

      @@vjapple3083 I'm glad you are doing much better, but does that mean you are okay? And thank you, for existing!

    • @buttercracker6235
      @buttercracker6235 3 роки тому +104

      @@vjapple3083 I'm glad, but are you sure you are okay?

    • @vjapple3083
      @vjapple3083 3 роки тому +131

      @@buttercracker6235 Yes, I am okay. I thankfully have two very kind friends now. Thanks again for the kind words and thoughtfulness. I hope you’re doing alright and feel the love to. :)

  • @tacobandit960
    @tacobandit960 3 роки тому +5561

    The fact that they included the "snitch" part shows it to be realistic. You can barely say anything without being called a snitch.

    • @PancakeTheKat
      @PancakeTheKat 3 роки тому +231

      Yeah, especially in my school. I was actually told to kill myself cuz I told the principal that some kid was beat up.

    • @DreiSchwerterZorro
      @DreiSchwerterZorro 3 роки тому +101

      I'm really sorry to hear that ... never let these stupid, inmature people stop you doing any kind of support!

    • @The_Official_Goblin
      @The_Official_Goblin 3 роки тому +80

      I'm called a snitch by kids at my school when I tell on them for stuff they called me just last week a kid said I had the body of a garden gnome I'm trying very hard not to cry while typing this cause I feel very insecure about my body

    • @tacobandit960
      @tacobandit960 3 роки тому +51

      @@The_Official_Goblin don’t listen to those literal cavemen. Ur beautiful. And you are loved. Life is hard and it sucks theres people like them. But try to get. Through it💜💜

    • @biancascream4745
      @biancascream4745 3 роки тому +33

      I was called a snitch just for telling the teacher a kid had his phone out in class. I went to a charter school up to the 6th grade so phones weren’t allowed at all. They’ve been calling me a snitch to this day. Sometimes I feel like nobody’s listening to me, they just say “We’ll take care of it” and nothing happens. I tried telling my dad and he just tells me “You have a good life, why are you so depressed! You know when I was a kid yadda yadda yadda!”
      I’m not belittling my dads past, he’s been through a lot but you still shouldn’t belittle what someone is going through just because it’s not as bad as what you went through.

  • @dankg321
    @dankg321 3 роки тому +5695

    "we take bullying very seriously"
    Good one!

    • @vopsi14
      @vopsi14 3 роки тому +140

      Almost laughed

    • @bubby1898
      @bubby1898 3 роки тому +43

      there is another option, using 5.56 x 45 NATO

    • @Dimensional597
      @Dimensional597 3 роки тому +137

      teachers don't do shit

    • @Stelladoesstimboards
      @Stelladoesstimboards 3 роки тому +74

      Litteraly they don’t give any flying fucks they all care about learning and test

    • @helloianimate
      @helloianimate 3 роки тому +13

      *you were soo close.*

  • @Bryn-w1k
    @Bryn-w1k 8 місяців тому +1243

    I love the subtle detail of the dad saying "luckily you can just block them" showing how hard it can be to find help with cyber bullying.

    • @Stick_and_stone
      @Stick_and_stone 7 місяців тому +37

      I mean how would that not have helped- if it had only been cyberbullying?
      The only reason it won't solve anything for her is because it isn't just cyberbullying, it's also real people in her surroundings.
      In a case of random people you don't know/ who are far away from you cyberbullying, block will get rid of it.
      As long as it's only cyber bullying and no irl bullying, block would help.

    • @specimenargon
      @specimenargon 7 місяців тому

      this is 100% true@@Stick_and_stone

    • @Wizz18822
      @Wizz18822 7 місяців тому +7

      Bro what?, no just block them

    • @lillianahunter1199
      @lillianahunter1199 7 місяців тому +20

      Blocking does help though, they literally feed on your reactions.
      So much of this is because we're so addicted to technology, detach from your phone and get rid of social media.

    • @v-dev2551
      @v-dev2551 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@Wizz18822i Know insane People that goes to the point of creating New accounts just to kee the bullyng , "just blocking them" wont work, and even if you quit social media they can say thing that can be hurtfull irl, and sorry for the bad orthografy i Still learning english

  • @Lina-bz2vg
    @Lina-bz2vg 3 роки тому +29986

    The worst advice you can get being bullied is "just ignore them"

    • @tripsandfalls
      @tripsandfalls 3 роки тому +1610

      I agree. I get so triggered when people try to be helpful, yet I know they just don't care.

    • @TSH425
      @TSH425 3 роки тому +972

      eh thats depending on the situation tho if there just talking smack ignore them if they put there hands on u then thats a different matter all together

    • @triplee9091
      @triplee9091 3 роки тому +191

      @Braden Nolan No mercy

    • @maffe_distroyer
      @maffe_distroyer 3 роки тому +242

      I suffer "silence rat bully" what is that?, when they just dont do something in front of your eyes and always do stuff in yoir back, i get rid of them just confront and said "if u have something to tell me, just said it", then they stop but i they tried getting close and then, just block them in real life, ignore them. In all the way of their existing, and they hate that, but yeah, ignore is the last step in bullying proteccion

    • @tambu9635
      @tambu9635 3 роки тому +288

      I can tell. My dad told me to ignore them, but my mom actually told me to kick their shit in, she even paid kung-fu and kick-boxing classes.

  • @fallingapart
    @fallingapart 3 роки тому +2864

    The fact that people say “rat” and call people “snitches”
    When they are literally in high school and not important at all.

    • @shirabe64
      @shirabe64 3 роки тому +224

      Kids like that get really entitled. “Oh am I really the problem because I called that kid ugly and worthless? Am I the bad person or is it you for getting me in trouble because you called me on it? Why cause a commotion?” The longer they are allowed to get away with it, the worse adults they become. At least until everyone around them grows up and realizes they don’t have to deal with their crap.

    • @fallingapart
      @fallingapart 3 роки тому +93

      @@shirabe64 lol they will also blame it on the administration and also say “it was just a joke”

    • @Flolic55
      @Flolic55 3 роки тому +35

      But I mean that tiktok generation I call I mean I was born in 2006 and use tt but just that rat always annoys me like sorry rats are hella smart animals more organised than us humans so like.

    • @elsie4802
      @elsie4802 3 роки тому +28

      @@shirabe64 I hate that many times those kids have parents who think they're angels, and refuse to believe that their child could ever do something like that

    • @emiy444
      @emiy444 3 роки тому +15

      me and my friend call each other rats as a joke because a youtuber we both like likes to call us fans rats as a joke of course but my mom said it's not nice like we both are in the joke and none of us get offended by it, is it that bad?

  • @muta6642
    @muta6642 3 роки тому +8809

    "Why do the quiet ones always get picked on?"
    Felt that

    • @danielpearse9875
      @danielpearse9875 3 роки тому +201

      "Toughen up mate"
      My family and culture.

    • @muta6642
      @muta6642 3 роки тому +35

      @@danielpearse9875 Do they say "mate?"

    • @danielpearse9875
      @danielpearse9875 3 роки тому +48

      @@muta6642 yes

    • @imlookingatyou8428
      @imlookingatyou8428 3 роки тому +18

      i was not quit and this boy was always bullying me cuz he liked me

    • @bigbird4481
      @bigbird4481 3 роки тому +35

      @@danielpearse9875 are you from down under? Also stay strong man don't let those people get you down, but the thing is you have to show them you won't let them get you down ignoring them won't fully solve the problem.

  • @ZCisCool
    @ZCisCool 10 місяців тому +1927

    This is probably the most realistic version of school bullying I have ever seen. The awkward silence, the teacher’s inability to do much but then realising that words can really help and the dad’s response/reactions even though he means well, everything is almost 100% on point

    • @LossMiImKraut
      @LossMiImKraut 9 місяців тому +17

      That Dad ... no clue at all.

    • @AdonisSomeGuy
      @AdonisSomeGuy 8 місяців тому +2

      No.

    • @Itz_tocabocagirl
      @Itz_tocabocagirl 8 місяців тому +3

      Yes!!

    • @Sm1z83
      @Sm1z83 8 місяців тому +24

      ⁠@@LossMiImKrautYeah but you can’t blame him. He doesn’t know the scale of things and the child won’t open up. It’s a common problem.

    • @LossMiImKraut
      @LossMiImKraut 8 місяців тому +3

      @@Sm1z83maybe. Then again I've had my share of clueless parents ...

  • @jacquelineme9107
    @jacquelineme9107 3 роки тому +4938

    Basically the message is "kids, take care of each other, bc school won't do shit for you" and like, yeah that's true, I've haven't had a teacher that genuinely cares about me since I was in 3rd grade and it sucks

    • @capricat
      @capricat 3 роки тому +92

      Yeah I feel that, in my school a kid bullied me and the teachers didn’t do anything because his parents where rich and the contributed with school money.

    • @floorlamp3104
      @floorlamp3104 3 роки тому +43

      yeah ive never seen a teacher that cares about students. basically all of them are there for a pay check and nothing else

    • @IAm-zo1bo
      @IAm-zo1bo 3 роки тому +16

      Sometimes school does help not all of them are like this and maybe one of the teachers genuinely care about you don't just see all teachers as devils

    • @IAm-zo1bo
      @IAm-zo1bo 3 роки тому +6

      You gotta at least try before judging them

    • @justdua4313
      @justdua4313 3 роки тому +5

      I got verbal bullied in second grade after like a week when I joined the grade

  • @Fab4Sunrises
    @Fab4Sunrises 3 роки тому +2708

    Feels pretty realistic how the guidance counselor talked about Noah getting bullied as though it was his fault.

    • @mandelstuvning
      @mandelstuvning 3 роки тому +337

      "He has had incidents before" Ummm? No the bullies have been caught bullying before. And you know about it. And it's still going on. Interesting.

    • @zommomomo8963
      @zommomomo8963 3 роки тому +111

      I was a victim of sexual harassment and know how this feel, I was pressured into going to some school trip and I was gonna be alone with those who harassed me, I said no but the teachers would put me on it without my consent if i didnt have a reason and in the end admitted to them what was happening, i thought i was gonna get help but instead they made me shut my mouth and there was no actions taken, so i told my parents and my father blamed me for it for being a soft guy, so in the end I got hurt more.

    • @Jaimeschaos333
      @Jaimeschaos333 3 роки тому +36

      @@zommomomo8963 almost the same thing happened to me when I went to camp keep. I got forced into touching his...yk on the way home because they wouldn’t let me sit with anyone else.

    • @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots
      @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots 3 роки тому +15

      One of the most diabolical experiences I’ve had as a guy who got bullied for a handful of years was 1) refusing to retaliate on my enemies out of sincere compassion for them and 2) them making me feel like I’m a worse threat that either deserves to be bullied or doesn’t know what they’re doing. I took on a spiel of childhood trauma that I underestimated for nearly a decade, including some conflict in college and even in recent where I’m highly misunderstood for my situation. Sometimes I tried to reach out but I would be so blind and confused as to my idea of asking for help that I ended up hurting other peoples feelings as if I myself were taking advantage of them, again misunderstood.
      I don’t have any regrets to this day concerning how lucky I am today, but amongst things like how depressed I was for years I have a few notions for those in my shoes no matter the age:
      1) don’t be ashamed for having a slower paced life than others. I’m sure no one wants to be left behind, but you will cultivate way more healthily if you are accepting of where you are right now.
      2) you do have time. You will be surprised how many open doors come to those who prepare for them, I’d imagine the people who typically don’t feel guilt from their day to day situations but can still feel empathy for others are the ones that deserve to unfold the opportunities.
      3) let life show you the potential. I’ve always believed there was a reason i belonged on this earth no matter how deep in the hole I got or how pathetic I felt that I would never want to offer value if no one knew of my tragedy. No one should ever feel like they have to contribute something back at the expense of their own well being and connection.
      Anyways I’m very grateful for the casual yet creative approach of this short film. Maybe the arts really are an outlet for emotional drive and context that’s not recognized well enough these days. Feel free to reach out to me for anything, I’m more patient beyond belief and still work on my self compassion every day! Much love whether you are safe, struggling or out of the flames but still hope for things to make sense the way they can, and will. Don’t be afraid, always try something positive you’ve been in thought of and don’t ever give up.

    • @Benjamillion
      @Benjamillion 3 роки тому +10

      It sucks how this becomes very apparent once high school kicks in. Counseling didn't help, antidepressants didn't help, I was at that point where I just had to get the rest of the years over with just so I could get out of what I called a prison.

  • @niaaaaa4322
    @niaaaaa4322 3 роки тому +3750

    When I was a kid I had a lot of panic attacks because of bullying, one time I locked myself in the toilets to be alone and then I heard a girl come in and she was crying, doing the exact same thing as me. So I went outside the stall to check who it was and it was another girl from my class, we never really talked much but this time we talked to each over and we told each over everything and even though that was only one short conversation it has been the best one of my life.

    • @oliverzwatermelongum
      @oliverzwatermelongum 3 роки тому +143

      i'm so proud you found someone who understood. never be afraid to speak up if someone's bullying you, okay

    • @Moominvalleybiggestfanyearsago
      @Moominvalleybiggestfanyearsago 3 роки тому +31

      great job for not giving up!

    • @vampysgerms4333
      @vampysgerms4333 3 роки тому +33

      @Logan Roof it does exist. It sucks if you aren't able to use your phone like everyone else cause people are cyberbullying you.

    • @noobkiddo6522
      @noobkiddo6522 3 роки тому +16

      @Logan Roof easy for someone never been on their shoes to say 🙄

    • @niaaaaa4322
      @niaaaaa4322 3 роки тому +8

      @Logan Roof I’m sorry huh...?

  • @sadiepearce490
    @sadiepearce490 7 місяців тому +147

    For those who feel bullied often and feels like there's nobody to help,
    You're never alone.

    • @Philosophicalblackman
      @Philosophicalblackman 7 місяців тому +12

      Yeah, that's the sad part.
      It's always happening no matter where you are.
      Human nature is fucked.

  • @blueace1000
    @blueace1000 3 роки тому +24843

    The worst thing is that bullies forget what they did. They'll never realise what how awful they were and they'll never apologise because in their eyes they were angels.

    • @dan-po1jh
      @dan-po1jh 3 роки тому +634

      @@indiecrowarts in elementary school I wasn't a bully, but a couple of my friends were and I did nothing about it (I wouldn't laugh or sth, but I saw and did nothing). I never got to say sorry to the kids that were made fun of, and I'm not friends with the bullies anymore. It must have been so hard to you and difficult to see how little they cared about sth that made such huge impact on your life. I'm sorry for what you had to pass through, and you're very strong for being able to let go such thing. Now I'm in highschool and ofc I always speak up about bullying and try to help, but it's not like it covers how I neglected this type of thing as a kid. I hope you're doing well *hands you a flower*

    • @xd._.28234
      @xd._.28234 3 роки тому +238

      That made me hate bullies, and if they dare to open their mouths against me or friends, now same sex couple or even to innocent unknown ppl i just turn so different
      Like, i pass to emotionless towards bullies and all empathy dissapears,anger and vengeance,i don't feel pity,idc if they end bad or good,idc and if they have issues,idc if they later will regret or not. I just don't care ab anything when it's talking ab them.
      Because the fact they can't understand they did wrong
      I heard ab my old bullies nowadays life and they still harass, annoy, bully
      If it's not to me
      They do towards others
      My ex was so annoying to me and said crap to me
      Since i broke up with him, he now annoys other ppl with his words.
      He doesn't care. If it's not me, will be another one.
      If they victim is not X, will be Y.
      They don't care ab anything, anyone or else.
      They don't learn the lesson, think and change to be better persons
      They just "care" for a while but then turns back to "normal" as always.
      They need to bully,annoy, disrepect,discriminate
      And it's so Fuckin' disgusting,they find AMUSEMENT in that.
      I hate a lot of things but don't discriminate or bully bc of it! It's easier to be polite, respect and have a conversation,if the thing i hate is harmless and it's just a subjective disliking and not a trait that is actually harmful or annoying objectively.
      Sh*t that they can't understand
      I still remember their sadistic laughing faces/look on them when bullying me or others. The fact that was as a hierarchy
      They were in the top
      And you all down there in darkness
      That if u dared to tace them,they would go against you
      The fact there was nice ppl too but didn't hang out with you because fear of being bullied,or they were bullied as well.
      The fact they control the place
      How i told teachers,my mom tried everything,but shit kept going on, bullying never ended, bullying still happened,i was maybe even bullied on public or alone and teachers never moved a finger to help me neither did classmates
      How they're supposed to be forgiven? How can ppl ask me to forgive,if they keep being not pure?
      How can my bsf tell me to move on,when he didn't experienced half the shit i did? Even i told him everything and even the how they did things to me?
      So i just stay away from them and not have any kind of relationship,bc for me,they are not humans. Neither animals. Would be disrespectful to compare animals to those things.
      Lately i knew ab my friend(girl) being bullied because she couldn't attend her bf bc final college exams. His friends(21 or above,while she being only 18) harassed her. Insulted/disrepect her. Made comments bc of that,social media,in hanging outs.
      Fake parties,ended in a crack hole and getting wasted,and she being scared.
      Indirects ab how she was a bad gf towards their friend.
      The same ones who went homophobic towards me or my gay friend,the ones who said disgusting things to my mate with eating disorder ab her body
      The ones who insulted us in quarantine while playing videogames
      The ones who made scenes or victimist role and being so annoying
      Those who were male chauvinist too.
      The same guys.
      They didn't change. They're still the same
      The ones who expect u to get wasted on discos or whatever or you're not cool, you're a freak and should commit OOF
      The trouble makers
      ALWAYS talking ab topics in disrespectful and disgusting ways,instead of good manners ones.

    • @YokaK80
      @YokaK80 3 роки тому +251

      They probobly went home and posted on istagram bout' how we should all just be nice to eachother

    • @SafetyData477
      @SafetyData477 3 роки тому +23

      @@indiecrowarts I feel your pain.

    • @blueace1000
      @blueace1000 3 роки тому +165

      @@YokaK80 "positive vibes only" proceed to be the only cause of negative vibes

  • @makiokio
    @makiokio 3 роки тому +2916

    High school is such a fish bowl, a lot of the time bullies won’t even realize what they’re really doing (or at the very least, the full extent of it) because they have these images of stereotypical shoving kids in lockers or “gimme your lunch money” scenarios when they think of bullying. Showing the role social media has in bullying is so crucial nowadays

    • @alexharo7925
      @alexharo7925 3 роки тому +81

      Yes those stereotypes from movies, cartoons, and other media give off these perceptions or impressions of how bullying is and they're misguided by those bad examples. Even with Social Media bullying is getting worse but also getting more attention or awareness. Personally I feel like the parents are accountable for this to a certain degree by failing to supervise and discipline their kids/teens behavior teaching them from right and wrong.

    • @luvblueybingoheeler3150
      @luvblueybingoheeler3150 3 роки тому +14

      Well that was bullying, but like our grandmother and grandfather’s days. Bullying has change.

    • @shiedakayn562
      @shiedakayn562 3 роки тому +30

      I don't think it's that they don't realize that it's bullying. At least in my experience, it's just that these people don't care and they think your reactions (or lack there of) are funny.
      I will say that I agree people don't see it as seriously if you're not getting physically abused and you're seen as 'sensitive' and whatever when these kids emotionally and/or mentally abuse you.
      I don't think people recognize that bullying is just a nicer word for abuse.

    • @HotCheetoGirl_
      @HotCheetoGirl_ 3 роки тому +6

      Honestly I feel like the simple thing to do is actually block these people. Why do people care so much about what is being said online. I literally have people on my insta posts calling me ugly and putting obscene comments, I block them. The internet is such a wide place that you can block these people and your life will be do much freer.

    • @royalheadquarters8449
      @royalheadquarters8449 3 роки тому +13

      @@HotCheetoGirl_ not always works that way. What would you do for example if photos and insults were spread all over the internet? To everyone you know, rather than in a DM

  • @misfitmiska5146
    @misfitmiska5146 2 роки тому +17938

    ‘’We take bullying very seriously’’
    **does absolutely nothing to help**
    Honestly that was the most realistic part.

    • @residentevil8893
      @residentevil8893 2 роки тому +32

      Bullying isnt calling people names thats just normal words dont mean anything and if u dont like it just say ull shoot up the skl like as a joke or beat one of em up or start calling them back names cuz bullying is being bet up and robbed or like in class the hallways lovker room thats bullying ik u American liberels are to soft and sesintive to here jokes or be called names but im just happy people arnt brain washed where i come from

    • @romanchaidiouk2788
      @romanchaidiouk2788 2 роки тому +259

      @@residentevil8893 Can you write that more coherently? You need to practice your grammar pal.

    • @residentevil8893
      @residentevil8893 2 роки тому +54

      @@romanchaidiouk2788 im shit at that man cant rlly do math either well i was never rlly tought it in skl cuz my countrys education system is beyond bad but atleast theres no quit kids walking in with a m16 hahaha

    • @marcosishes
      @marcosishes 2 роки тому +156

      they actually made the bullying worse

    • @hitoriteaki
      @hitoriteaki 2 роки тому +116

      @@romanchaidiouk2788 He easily could be not a native english-speaker. and you know, as a not native english speaker myself I can understand every word said there just fine. so don't be a grammar-nazi and try to understand what he's saying instead. and I totally agree with him: western people just seek out many ways to be not happy instead of just living their life and being a bit strong-minded.

  • @Cezmalon
    @Cezmalon 8 місяців тому +381

    The fact that the "goo" that grows in each person's room, that they are trapped in their own ideas, is what scares the most, since the idea of "drowning" in ideas would be like giving up everything, and ending everything , if you understand me..

    • @Sans_UndertaleOffical
      @Sans_UndertaleOffical 7 місяців тому +3

      oh shit wait I just got that.

    • @LegioAugusta07
      @LegioAugusta07 4 місяці тому

      i got that halfway thru, i like it

    • @sug3randsp1c3
      @sug3randsp1c3 4 місяці тому

      I just thought of it as negative energyv

    • @Jules416
      @Jules416 3 місяці тому +3

      I do understand that😢.
      I was bullied throughout my school years. I have been bullied all the way from elementary school all the way up until my last year in high school. In total, 13 years of bullying. 10 of those I hated myself and the world around me. I felt like I didn't matter! The last 3 years of school(basically high school), I was done being the victim. I stood up to my high school bullies, and showed them, "You can try and break me, but I'm a freaking diamond!" Plus the fact that they used the exact same words as my elementary and middle school bullies used, like they followed a freaking script📑
      I can't tell you how many times I was called stupid, ugly and weird. Nowadays, I use those words, but in a positive way. Stupid? I never claimed to be a genius. Ugly? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Weird? I AM WEIRD😜, and I wouldn't change it! I love being different!

    • @colorfulmarbles156
      @colorfulmarbles156 Місяць тому +1

      That was the best part 😭

  • @unimear
    @unimear 3 роки тому +3322

    The worst type of bullies are the ones that can recognize other's mistakes and faults but can't recognize their's. They'd watch a movie and when they see the bad guy they boo, they call them an asshole. But when they do the same thing and they get called out for it, they make excuses.

    • @MonochromaticBananaBread
      @MonochromaticBananaBread 3 роки тому +73

      EXACTLY THIS

    • @MonochromaticBananaBread
      @MonochromaticBananaBread 3 роки тому +122

      There was a girl who absolutely hated me because I was friends with her best friend too, she was one of those rich girls that invited the entire grade to parties, except people she didn't like. I was one of those people. This was all going on in primary, but near the end people started seeing how badly she treated other people and wouldn't put up with her for the benefits of being her friend, so she lost her friends and came crawling to me for help. For a while she couldn't understand why people left her, and I had to explain to her that she was a bully.

    • @dancemomsofficialchannel7730
      @dancemomsofficialchannel7730 3 роки тому +7

      Sad twer.king

    • @mochiboni2560
      @mochiboni2560 3 роки тому +44

      @@MonochromaticBananaBread God that's... pretty scary. How does one have the mindset of being so self-centered and not wondering if something is your fault if people see you as a bad friend
      I'm glad the girl cares about friends and wants to have them again rather than staying in her own bubble of being the innocent one and not wanting to change

    • @gavinsmith9871
      @gavinsmith9871 3 роки тому +6

      @@MonochromaticBananaBread How did she react to that?

  • @fakelaminated5353
    @fakelaminated5353 3 роки тому +9544

    The way people talk on the social media is actually accurate in this animation.

  • @gr1mmers
    @gr1mmers 3 роки тому +6444

    i like that the language they use for the teenagers is actually pretty realistic and not some cheesy or cringey stuff

    • @g.o.a.t_ee4074
      @g.o.a.t_ee4074 3 роки тому +388

      Ye the mannerisms and emojis and slang made it sound like something my friends would say.

    • @EMPerrorVII
      @EMPerrorVII 3 роки тому +18

      @@g.o.a.t_ee4074 how are we supposed to understand that 😅😅

    • @starloved6824
      @starloved6824 3 роки тому +78

      @@EMPerrorVII ?

    • @EMPerrorVII
      @EMPerrorVII 3 роки тому +7

      @@starloved6824 I mean are they harassing someone

    • @bostone8851
      @bostone8851 3 роки тому +307

      “ yo that test was totally cringechamp let’s go dab”

  • @avashattuckmusic
    @avashattuckmusic 8 місяців тому +120

    when he asked her back if she’s okay and she started tearing up i felt that so much

    • @Silver_dawgnic104
      @Silver_dawgnic104 Місяць тому +1

      Yeah, I can’t relate to that well because I’m the fucking quiet kid and too weird to even talk to.

  • @Raphh06
    @Raphh06 3 роки тому +2901

    Moral of the story: schools have nothing to do with someone getting bullied, but have something to do when the bullied kid punches a bully

    • @enitivy
      @enitivy 3 роки тому +36

      so true

    • @phil4382
      @phil4382 3 роки тому +25

      I know just why school?

    • @KatieandTyler
      @KatieandTyler 3 роки тому +11

      RIGHT?!? IT'S FUCKING MADDENING!!!

    • @mazuinmatius3760
      @mazuinmatius3760 3 роки тому +3

      Simple, they bully me, then throw chair and desk at them. Copy?

    • @-xnnybimb-9398
      @-xnnybimb-9398 3 роки тому +2

      We've known that forever

  • @ak09168
    @ak09168 3 роки тому +2169

    Schools think going like “stop 🤚! Youre hurting me” is gonna make the bully stop.

    • @nubiabarriga822
      @nubiabarriga822 3 роки тому +32

      Literally

    • @ItsKirbyTime
      @ItsKirbyTime 3 роки тому +82

      Fr
      There is posters at my school saying if someone is bullying you just say stop and ask a teacher, fam like their still gonna bother you

    • @xoxo_aura
      @xoxo_aura 3 роки тому +21

      Yeah! Just saying ‘STOP’ isn’t gonna help!

    • @papasscooperiaworker3649
      @papasscooperiaworker3649 3 роки тому +28

      Saying stop might actually make the bullies worse, like they'll hurt you more because they can see how much fun it is to hurt someone who shouldn't be hurt.

    • @lukethelegend9705
      @lukethelegend9705 3 роки тому +16

      Same with sexual abuse. Saying no won’t stop them a lot of the time.

  • @deisyhernandez4936
    @deisyhernandez4936 7 місяців тому +73

    I like how the purple thing represents how alone and bad feel every body when someone only wants to annoy us and make our self feel bad or stupid but with a little of help we can feel better.

  • @tfdxstudios1265
    @tfdxstudios1265 3 роки тому +5383

    "We do not tolerate bullying"
    Probably the biggest lie I have ever heard as a kid.

    • @GodsArtGallery111
      @GodsArtGallery111 3 роки тому +6

      @@blaksavbath3416 BRIAN MAY PROFILE PIC SSkSSK Sorry- I’m a Queen fan lmao

    • @hisori9470
      @hisori9470 3 роки тому +3

      this is true in a happens

    • @bathroom681
      @bathroom681 3 роки тому

      @@blaksavbath3416 are you a degenerate or something?

    • @bathroom681
      @bathroom681 3 роки тому

      @@blaksavbath3416 i mean being a furry isnt bad but watching videos about fursuits...

    • @SwizzleDrizzl
      @SwizzleDrizzl 3 роки тому +17

      @@bathroom681 "Oh boy, time to go on the internet and ruin someone's day!" :D

  • @oomi4582
    @oomi4582 3 роки тому +4954

    It’s sad that this is pretty realistic. If someone tried to help someone who gets bullied, they get bullied themselves. Then there’s the kids who bully other kids, but when the kid commits suicide they suddenly pull a whole 180 and go “this is so sad RIP, they didn’t deserve this 😭😭😭.” People are so shitty

    • @littleanimations4760
      @littleanimations4760 3 роки тому +172

      Ikr it’s so annoying, and schools still do nothing about it

    • @Genissleepy
      @Genissleepy 3 роки тому +48

      @0 yes I think so, At first I thought it was gum..

    • @noar8189
      @noar8189 3 роки тому +58

      Sad truth
      In my case, i BEGGED my mom to change me of school...since the director did nothing or just said "they are just playing" 🙂

    • @littleanimations4760
      @littleanimations4760 3 роки тому +14

      @Claireinet I know it’s just from my personal experience & it just gets on my nerves :/

    • @Markm8
      @Markm8 3 роки тому +19

      the only way to stop getting builled is volince

  • @dorarandom7870
    @dorarandom7870 3 роки тому +853

    Are you ok is not just a question, it's a proof that someone cares.

    • @lauriex8832
      @lauriex8832 3 роки тому +21

      @Hai Hai Crying isnt a sign of weakness, it means that you're human and you have emotions.

    • @lauriex8832
      @lauriex8832 3 роки тому +4

      @Hai Hai Crap, my bad. I can be very stupid sometimes.

    • @guadalupeplacidopascual6477
      @guadalupeplacidopascual6477 3 роки тому

      @Hai Hai most likely not.

    • @gjkdshgkjshjkgdfg
      @gjkdshgkjshjkgdfg 3 роки тому +3

      Ralsei speaking facts

    • @mxxriie2004
      @mxxriie2004 3 роки тому +2

      I remember reading a book that said something like: "when you see a kid, don't ask him how he/she is, ask him/her what they feel"
      I think it makes more sense in spanish (the book was in spanish, i'm hispanic)

  • @TheRealNoah_83
    @TheRealNoah_83 7 місяців тому +25

    I love how at the end it shows both of them being shy. It really depicts what bullying can do to someone.

    • @essenceofpsych
      @essenceofpsych 4 місяці тому

      exactly.. it is a trauma response and not just being shy

  • @histironic
    @histironic 3 роки тому +12764

    one of the best parts of this is that they didn't insinuate any romance between raquelle and noah.

    • @ghostlylilacs7144
      @ghostlylilacs7144 3 роки тому +2391

      THIS!!! boys and girls are allowed to be friends with no romantic interest !!

    • @namkedi
      @namkedi 3 роки тому +645

      Oh damn. I didn't even think of that point.

    • @mihihirundininae5069
      @mihihirundininae5069 3 роки тому +181

      Yes!!!!

    • @MoKuZai
      @MoKuZai 3 роки тому +643

      phew, yea.
      people be like: a boy and a girl? SHIIIIPPPP

    • @vanovan_2592
      @vanovan_2592 3 роки тому +96

      that doesnt stop me from ship them(?

  • @cottoncandyswirl8289
    @cottoncandyswirl8289 2 роки тому +8050

    I feel like the "kill myself" scene really means a lot and should be spoken about more, he wasn't just symbolically drowning in sorrow, he was literally being consumed by depression and contemplating suicide, the scene has a lot of meanings when you delve into it

    • @alimariwankamal1937
      @alimariwankamal1937 2 роки тому +91

      True! I noticed that too!

    • @Mochaphoenix
      @Mochaphoenix 2 роки тому +207

      yeah, and that “are you ok?” might’ve saved his life

    • @cottoncandyswirl8289
      @cottoncandyswirl8289 2 роки тому +141

      @@Mochaphoenix it did, sometimes simply showing someone you care can save their life

    • @kolbiebarlow7888
      @kolbiebarlow7888 2 роки тому +26

      yesss im so glad you noticed that me to

    • @appleseed1889
      @appleseed1889 2 роки тому +5

      Bro what is ur user?

  • @imjustbuiltdifferent679
    @imjustbuiltdifferent679 3 роки тому +4833

    “Are u okay?” That is the most hardest question someone could ever answer

    • @yesmylord682
      @yesmylord682 3 роки тому +24

      FRRRRR

    • @ferretdoodlethings6732
      @ferretdoodlethings6732 3 роки тому +5

      No

    • @fuchris8617
      @fuchris8617 3 роки тому +3

      no

    • @yesmylord682
      @yesmylord682 3 роки тому +96

      why does everyone write "no"? It probably hasn't happened to you, but that doesn't mean it's not difficult to answer "are you okay?" for those who did go through something.

    • @blacktea9972
      @blacktea9972 3 роки тому +21

      @@yesmylord682 agree with you

  • @samanthagabriellecruz5464
    @samanthagabriellecruz5464 7 місяців тому +10

    Simple words can make a whole lot of difference

  • @irish5755
    @irish5755 3 роки тому +3362

    that purple liquid may symbolize all the self-loath and negative feelings they have. And when the boy drowns in all these he's possibly considering suicide then a single message of concern made him got out of it

    • @kaymaylia
      @kaymaylia 3 роки тому +47

      Yea, it adds throughout the video too

    • @kaymaylia
      @kaymaylia 3 роки тому +27

      And at one time, a part of it disappears

    • @nehirunluol5514
      @nehirunluol5514 3 роки тому +24

      Lol that's obvious u didn't have to explain

    • @omietemanuel6463
      @omietemanuel6463 3 роки тому +40

      @¿CoconutGørl? At the beginning, I thought they covered him in jam😅😅

    • @soggybread4083
      @soggybread4083 3 роки тому +3

      I am purple jam *glomps on random people*

  • @coldpepsiiii
    @coldpepsiiii 3 роки тому +6636

    I'm so tired of parents saying "just ignore them" "you can just block them" It isn't that easy!
    Edit: Guys I posted this like years ago and dude... past me was cringe 😭

    • @biancaispunk6407
      @biancaispunk6407 3 роки тому +35

      ikr!

    • @InsoiDev
      @InsoiDev 3 роки тому +49

      Just destroy your Phone, easy fix :)

    • @coldpepsiiii
      @coldpepsiiii 3 роки тому +104

      @@InsoiDev they aren't just online thoughhhh :(

    • @InsoiDev
      @InsoiDev 3 роки тому +36

      @@coldpepsiiii just Uno reverse them

    • @InsoiDev
      @InsoiDev 3 роки тому +30

      @@coldpepsiiii find a gang and gang up on the bullies

  • @KhluKhlu
    @KhluKhlu 3 роки тому +22318

    I don’t understand how this is still going on... The people who are “against bullying” are the very same people who bully, and the people who actually stand up for the bullied get bullied back

    • @lilautistie5281
      @lilautistie5281 3 роки тому +537

      @Logan Roof That just makes it look like you don't give a shit about anyone else

    • @prcxiale1124
      @prcxiale1124 3 роки тому +380

      @Logan Roof bruh, RL BULLYING MUCH? honestly really insensitive

    • @Cinnamatime
      @Cinnamatime 3 роки тому +339

      @Logan Roof Bullying is a real thing that hurts people you insensitive fuc-

    • @CloudBlorb
      @CloudBlorb 3 роки тому +175

      @@lilautistie5281 but if you close your eyes does it seem just like nothing changed at all~

    • @rosydiamonds6695
      @rosydiamonds6695 3 роки тому +88

      I’m stronger than my bullies

  • @Ele_clipse
    @Ele_clipse 9 місяців тому +371

    As someone that got bullied for over 10 years, I never was the quiet one, I was "the outsider".
    They called me freak, ugly, fat, really bad words of all kind, volcano...anything.
    I always got angry and shouted back.
    The teachers always heard me and thought I was the problem...
    After a while, I thought that too..
    I had su!cidal thoughts but I didn't want to be even more painful for my family, who's amazing.
    On May 2022, a light came into my life, a new girl, a miracle, she was as lonely as me and we got on well from the start.
    We became our torch in all that darkness.
    We became best friends and, on March 2023, we met a guy from another school and we became "the outsiders trio".
    We all slowly became less and less sad and on September, we all got in high school, in different classes, yes, but closer that I could ever wish for.
    I met two girls like us on my new class and now we are "The freaktastic five plus one" (We know the name is cringe but we don't care anymore).
    Btw I'm 15 and I'm sorry if there are mistakes, english isn't my first language.
    Edit after four months:
    Well hi again, thank you for all the sweet comments!
    Me and that new girl grew apart, she became really friends with one of the two new girls I introduced her to.
    After two years of friendship she's like dead to me, again, I lost my best friend and my new friend as well.
    We're not the freaktastic five anymore, sorry for the sad ending to my story but it's real life.
    I am sad but not too much.
    I am grateful for my boy best friend and my female best friend, the third one, the other 'new girl' even though it's been nine months already, school ends this week.
    We are a trio again, the uncool trio, a lot changed but I can answer the question "are you okay?" with a smile on my face, "yes, I'm good, what about you?" and I'm not faking it.
    You might think I'm either crazy or this is all made up at this point but I'll say to you that the only reason I'm still here and I'm happy through difficulties is Jesus.
    He delivered me from bullying and from my anger issues and He saved me.

    • @yomna.is.normal
      @yomna.is.normal 9 місяців тому +22

      This is heart warming

    • @Ele_clipse
      @Ele_clipse 9 місяців тому +14

      @@yomna.is.normal thanks, I wanted it to be seen by someone 😊

    • @ArthurKirklandsFavorite
      @ArthurKirklandsFavorite 8 місяців тому +13

      I'm sorry, but The Freaktastic Five plus 1 is a GREAT group name! It sounds like your crew is helping you foster the good out of life, and I'm so happy for you.💕

    • @Ele_clipse
      @Ele_clipse 8 місяців тому +10

      @@ArthurKirklandsFavorite tysm, and we love the name 😉

    • @theamazingcrepe
      @theamazingcrepe 8 місяців тому +9

      this is literally so sweet. i love that even though you were hated on by everyone else, you still stuck together. i'm still waiting to find my little crew lol, but i'm happy for you! :)

  • @user-mg7wh8zq6v
    @user-mg7wh8zq6v 3 роки тому +2498

    I really like how they used the purple goo as a metaphor for being overwhelmed with stress that could led to them to drown in that stress which is obviously suicide

    • @ashishprakash1908
      @ashishprakash1908 3 роки тому +42

      Yeah, that was wonderful. They put it well.

    • @davi_b1158
      @davi_b1158 3 роки тому +35

      noah was about to commit suicicde.

    • @declandude25
      @declandude25 3 роки тому +11

      i really did not think of tha until now

    • @ouravid
      @ouravid 3 роки тому +7

      well that changed how i see the goop

    • @Yorkspuds
      @Yorkspuds 3 роки тому +1

      I like how you said that as if you thought that no one else understood the metaphor

  • @renamon5658
    @renamon5658 3 роки тому +2984

    My mom would always stand up for people who would be bullied in school when she was in high school

  • @moonieland
    @moonieland 3 роки тому +1970

    "This RAT is snitchin on us" oof.. that feels like something a teenager would actually say... it's heartbreaking honestly

    • @Isabelle15
      @Isabelle15 3 роки тому +18

      I recently reported sexual harassment. It was a fairly popular kid who did it and since then me and my friend, who I reported it with have experienced this sort of thing but not as bad as in this film

    • @hi-kt8jj
      @hi-kt8jj 3 роки тому +8

      we don't even snitch anymore in highschool. like we just don't care lol. but i remember back in kindergarten or first grade, there's always that one kid who would pretend to snitch on someone but they just ask the teacher if they could go to the bathroom. it's ridiculous and a great anxiety booster.

    • @lopwr1212
      @lopwr1212 3 роки тому

      Toxic teamers in mm2 would say that LOL

    • @nemesislost098
      @nemesislost098 3 роки тому

      @@hi-kt8jj 0ñ

    • @peppermintviolet
      @peppermintviolet 3 роки тому

      Yeah

  • @v1laxx.._.
    @v1laxx.._. 8 місяців тому +19

    The teacher is so real. “Why do the quiet ones always get picked on?”. This animated clip makes me think, as long as you’ve got one singular person in the world that cares about you, then you shouldn’t commit. I loved this sm I’m actually gonna cry

    • @Sans_UndertaleOffical
      @Sans_UndertaleOffical 7 місяців тому +3

      Taking your life because of egotistic maniacs that are deep down mentally unstable (bullies) is a terrible way to go out. Like I wanna live to 85 and have a happy life.

  • @anauthentictincan6850
    @anauthentictincan6850 3 роки тому +1217

    It’s so screwed that people will literally shun someone for being nice to someone else just because the majority doesn’t like someone

    • @alexmazino8988
      @alexmazino8988 3 роки тому +3

      It's called jealously dear, they're jealous of people who what they or didn't even have.

    • @chipsandbot9444
      @chipsandbot9444 3 роки тому +14

      It does suck.. I stopped talking to someone because my "friends" would get upset or mad at me if I did. I wish I talked to them now. I want to apologize but I'm not sure what to say, how to bring it up, when to say it, and chances are we won't even be in the same class anymore. It's going to be a new year of school pretty soon. The only way I would be able to talk to them is if we were in the same class. Because I'm a pathetic wimp who makes stupid decisions and is too stupid to fix their mistakes afterwords.
      I'm glad there are people who have the bravery to talk to others and fix stuff though. :)

    • @alexmazino8988
      @alexmazino8988 3 роки тому +1

      @@chipsandbot9444 let it be, let it be, let it be, oh let it be, here's a word of wisdom. Let it be

    • @chipsandbot9444
      @chipsandbot9444 3 роки тому +5

      @@alexmazino8988 I do usually. But eventually that one part of my brain that doesn't work properly says "Hey! Let's go do something stupid to be kind! Even if we get flipping murdered! :D "

    • @alexmazino8988
      @alexmazino8988 3 роки тому +3

      @@chipsandbot9444 HEAVEN'S YEAH

  • @sweethomealabama5409
    @sweethomealabama5409 3 роки тому +6825

    As someone who was (and still is) a victim of bullying, I would just like to thank you.

    • @Echo-Shade-1705
      @Echo-Shade-1705 3 роки тому +119

      Ik how u feel.😔😌

    • @seal8092
      @seal8092 3 роки тому +223

      I don't know you or your story. But I hope things get better for you.

    • @ryobaaishi9968
      @ryobaaishi9968 3 роки тому +57

      @@Echo-Shade-1705 honestly i was bullied cuz of my looks and how I act..

    • @wistfxlwishes
      @wistfxlwishes 3 роки тому +29

      m o n d o b u t t e r

    • @sweethomealabama5409
      @sweethomealabama5409 3 роки тому +20

      @@wistfxlwishes m o n d o b u t t e r

  • @robdatboi992
    @robdatboi992 3 роки тому +58243

    This girl is so talented she literally draws more realistic than her actual reality

  • @amane_only
    @amane_only 6 місяців тому +18

    The fact he asks “are you okay?” Back is so wholesome❤️

  • @John_The_Eeveechu
    @John_The_Eeveechu 3 роки тому +2187

    Basically the moral of the story: Always help others when they're being bullied. And if the bullies are after you too, comfort the other person who is being bullied.

    • @catsinni
      @catsinni 3 роки тому

      This

    • @cockycookie1
      @cockycookie1 3 роки тому +27

      What if the og bullied kid realises you took their place and starts bullying you?
      Edit: happened to me, that's when I stopped helping.

    • @jessmrm8153
      @jessmrm8153 3 роки тому +44

      @@Victor_Graves actually a lot of people because they would see that like a way to escape from the bully by become one

    • @aadead2908
      @aadead2908 3 роки тому

      teacher: nah

    • @sonjaschneider1146
      @sonjaschneider1146 3 роки тому +11

      i got bullied since I was 3-4 years old (im now 15). 2 years ago I foud my best friend that didn't got bullied for a long time like me but he got beat up allot in his old school. When we found each other we almost immediately understood us and became friends, I helped him overcome his depression and now we are both very happy. Our schools did nothing to help us.

  • @dianathinksshesquirky
    @dianathinksshesquirky 3 роки тому +3031

    lets appreciate that the guy kept his distance when watching the girl draw

    • @michaelm.6040
      @michaelm.6040 3 роки тому +64

      @Im Everywhere Social distancing maybe

    • @theearloftea2942
      @theearloftea2942 3 роки тому +78

      @Im Everywhere dude I am already at the point where I watch tv and wonder why nobody is wearing a mask. I wish I was still at your part of the experience.

    • @theearloftea2942
      @theearloftea2942 3 роки тому +6

      @Im Everywhere F

    • @revesnee
      @revesnee 3 роки тому +66

      @Im Everywhere its REALLY uncomfy when someone forgets about your personal space just bc they wanna see your work

    • @revesnee
      @revesnee 3 роки тому +17

      @Martha Speaks yeah pretty much but it doesnt apply to everyone, i may be close with some people but i still dont like them being over me

  • @virtu4l_deer
    @virtu4l_deer 3 роки тому +2369

    I hate this bc it’s so realistic, schools say they take it really serious but do absolutely nothing.
    For example- in class I literally get made fun of and get called slurs right in front of teachers and no one cares

    • @creambones7732
      @creambones7732 3 роки тому +95

      :) my teacher actually joined in

    • @cryptid176
      @cryptid176 3 роки тому +70

      @@creambones7732 that’s shitty

    • @whostolethebeans4537
      @whostolethebeans4537 3 роки тому +52

      One of my teachers let the popular kids that bribe the principal mock my name with me present in class.
      Almost nobody takes me serious at school and most of my teachers hate me and refuse to use the name I feel most comfortable with even tho I told them countless times
      So yeah...

    • @SoftestSauces
      @SoftestSauces 3 роки тому +25

      They only care when you say anything back

    • @lxstfulgrxvestone69420
      @lxstfulgrxvestone69420 3 роки тому +16

      same,another example:classmate throws stuff at me,throw one thing back, and teacher punishes me.

  • @Markezius
    @Markezius 9 місяців тому +36

    in my school everyone isnt nice too each other, but if someone was really hurt, we would care.

    • @BurrisNicholasRockton
      @BurrisNicholasRockton 9 місяців тому +4

      That's nice 🥲👍 here it feels like no one really cares that much

    • @G10BU1LAR
      @G10BU1LAR 9 місяців тому +2

      Lucky. My bsf gets bullied for having a zesty voice. I don’t want to know what would happen if I came out.

    • @Markezius
      @Markezius 9 місяців тому +1

      bro relax, after a few days or a week everyone won’t care and will forget, i promise bro. And dude, don’t be afraid man

    • @robotbuilder87
      @robotbuilder87 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@BurrisNicholasRockton not suprised nobody cares about you. Its almost like your a furry or something.

  • @strawberryminded
    @strawberryminded 3 роки тому +671

    most accurate part of this is all the adults completely ignoring the situation

    • @noranason6521
      @noranason6521 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly.

    • @zara11-ee
      @zara11-ee 3 роки тому +2

      Yea-

    • @Achi_-
      @Achi_- 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah-

    • @AdonisSomeGuy
      @AdonisSomeGuy 8 місяців тому +1

      Nah thats actually facts

    • @LegioAugusta07
      @LegioAugusta07 4 місяці тому +1

      well the teacher yeah, but the dad just didnt know how serious the situation was

  • @Tsb-iz4ns
    @Tsb-iz4ns 3 роки тому +1682

    Half the time, the bullies don’t actually care that they’re bullying. They try to justify their behavior. It’s sad.

    • @cortomaltese5206
      @cortomaltese5206 3 роки тому +73

      "Its just a joke"
      Fine, I can believe that argument, but if I wasnt laughing, shouldnt you be concerned in apologizing, or did I really have to yell "shut the fuck up?" Do you happen to be blind or you just dont care?

    • @Quetzalcoatl_Feathered_Serpent
      @Quetzalcoatl_Feathered_Serpent 3 роки тому +31

      The sad fact is we live in a society where they can't be punished for the behavior due to the fact that online bullying literally gives them freedom to attack without laying a finger on the victim.

    • @cortomaltese5206
      @cortomaltese5206 3 роки тому +1

      @@Quetzalcoatl_Feathered_Serpent we should still try to report them when we can

    • @childofolivares8754
      @childofolivares8754 3 роки тому +11

      My cousins love bullying. I gave up trying to explain to them it's wrong. They just act worse when I do

    • @Quetzalcoatl_Feathered_Serpent
      @Quetzalcoatl_Feathered_Serpent 3 роки тому +21

      @@childofolivares8754 I remember when I was bullied. Until one of them actually tried to physically beat me for talking to a girl they claimed as theirs. Having a dad who is a vet does wonders on your ability to defend yourself. Of course this would be a month after Columbine so you can guess how the school took it when i beat a bully who was physically stronger and taller than me. Don't know what was worse. The fact they threatened to expel me or chewing out my dad for teaching me to fight back despite the fact he and I had told the school several times about the bullying

  • @PieroMinayaRojas
    @PieroMinayaRojas 3 роки тому +440

    "They're just kids" is never an excuse

    • @ismaelgonzalez-cuevas827
      @ismaelgonzalez-cuevas827 3 роки тому +4

      Well they are techallily acting liking bunch of kid they simp for human pain

    • @zonethzevono4543
      @zonethzevono4543 3 роки тому +4

      I blame bad parenting let's all unify like God attended.

    • @astrid9644
      @astrid9644 3 роки тому +1

      ok but in my opinion if their under seven or so fine they really wouldn’t understand what their doing is horrible but at THEIR AGE thats straight up harassment

  • @strider5795
    @strider5795 7 місяців тому +10

    I’m praying for anyone being bullied right now or in the past/future

  • @GalaticArt
    @GalaticArt 3 роки тому +2185

    There was this girl who always said at assemblies “I would stand up for them no one deserves to get bullied.” However she bullied my friend constantly and now my friend is going to therapy because of it

    • @tourmelion9221
      @tourmelion9221 3 роки тому +131

      I hope you're both doing better
      May your friend receive the support they need

    • @honeybnoir824
      @honeybnoir824 3 роки тому +193

      Wow, what a hypocrite. So sorry that happened. Hope things get better for your friend and continue to get the help they need. Hope things are good on your end too.

    • @rosavillanueva5189
      @rosavillanueva5189 3 роки тому +57

      I feel like I would be that girl. Not because I bully my friends, but because I have a dark humor that I'm still trying to control, yet it still counts as bully.
      This would be my advice from personal experience: tell them to stop. If they say sorry and stop (maybe to the point they struggle to say hi), they just have acid humor. If they don't, they're assholes.

    • @saintpata
      @saintpata 3 роки тому +46

      Yeah, I knew a girl like that too. It was back in middle school, she was quite literally the leader of my bullies, and during the "bullying bad" moments in class, she always pretended that she'd be that one hero who would be the one standing up to bullies, when she was one herself.

    • @gabriel-de8yv
      @gabriel-de8yv 3 роки тому +43

      @@rosavillanueva5189 You are a very noble person, very few people acknowledge their flaws and try to improve them. Coming from a person with a thousand flaws, kudos to you.

  • @Doomzdeh
    @Doomzdeh 3 роки тому +3022

    The dad is so infuriatingly accurate “you’re lucky…these days..” etc. or even “you’re over exaggerating. Stop being a wimp.”

    • @adamz.9316
      @adamz.9316 2 роки тому +35

      LOL FELT THAT

    • @Nickulaa
      @Nickulaa 2 роки тому +14

      It’s hard, yk.

    • @farmsim_usa9235
      @farmsim_usa9235 2 роки тому +4

      ua-cam.com/video/GmnOMW8VYJQ/v-deo.html

    • @lezombie1456
      @lezombie1456 2 роки тому +28

      Well you gotta understand back then people would get beat to death physically by bullies. Nowadays you get beat to death mentally by bullies. Things have changed but not really. Bullies will always be Bullies.

    • @Monkeybomb0
      @Monkeybomb0 2 роки тому +4

      My dad would fight off a crowd of demons if it made me feel better.. Some dads go through the same things and know hiw to handle.. others not so much..

  • @frog4744
    @frog4744 3 роки тому +3710

    Parents are always talking about how kids have it easier; "everything's on your phones." Advancement doesn't equal happiness.

    • @valenbibi
      @valenbibi 3 роки тому +82

      i agree, instead it can be the opposite, social media can be used as a escapism mecanism, and then lead to depression.
      also the exposure we have on social media, internet is huge and it can cause tons of problems, such as getting information too early on the age rage.

    • @ChileanDud
      @ChileanDud 3 роки тому +3

      i relate to that tho

    • @itsgonnabeok...2853
      @itsgonnabeok...2853 3 роки тому +4

      I really really really really really really really agree with u 😭😭😭

    • @juliadelasalas4320
      @juliadelasalas4320 3 роки тому

      I also agree

    • @nathanstuart9267
      @nathanstuart9267 3 роки тому +1

      Lol this Animation is so funny

  • @janaklas579
    @janaklas579 5 місяців тому +16

    as a former victim of bullying I litterally cried. You hope that someone notices and cares about you and most times you have to realise that no one cares as long it does not affect them.

  • @dag1984
    @dag1984 3 роки тому +613

    I really liked the use of the purple goo as a representation of depression. I don't know about everyone else, but when I was bullied as a kid that's kind of what it felt like. Like I was weighed down by some unseen substance, and said substance making the words stick longer.

    • @buttercracker6235
      @buttercracker6235 3 роки тому +12

      Hey, are you doing well? You seem, understandably, upset. I'm here to talk if you'd like. :)

    • @NevermoreMadGirl
      @NevermoreMadGirl 3 роки тому +5

      @•*The Rainbow Closet*• Same with me at first, until I saw the paper hit him without anything on it and the bully recording the guy in the beginning and saw there was none on him then. Plagued internally and spreading outward. 😞

    • @smallsingingelephants
      @smallsingingelephants 3 роки тому

      @@NevermoreMadGirl same

    • @nettart4924
      @nettart4924 3 роки тому

      yeah its nice as symbolism but honestly thats not how it felt to me because everything was internal. nobody called me anything nobody hit me. they just kinda picked on me and they didnt play with me, nobody wanted to be my friend. they werent openly insulting they just didnt like me as much. to me it feels like dust and sand that just builds up inside and gets everywhere and you dont notice it you just feel it but you cant see it you cant see the piles just feel the tiny grains everywhere that amount to a great big nothing. nothing to report nothing to tell nothing there.

  • @samykherbi
    @samykherbi 3 роки тому +5614

    Schools: *"If you get bullied, don't be afraid to tell us. We will take matters into our hands and we treat it seriously."*
    Also schools whenever someone gets bullied: *"Well that sounds like a "you" problem."*

    • @stellabobella7047
      @stellabobella7047 3 роки тому +125

      This is so true its sad

    • @darwino3o538
      @darwino3o538 3 роки тому +34

      @@stellabobella7047 You were the first reply B), ill take my crown for the second

    • @weirdyyy006
      @weirdyyy006 3 роки тому +45

      Legit, me and my friends tried to tell our school we were in a serious situation, but they needed 'evidence'. Oh, so 5 eyewitnesses is not enough?

    • @weirdyyy006
      @weirdyyy006 3 роки тому +6

      @Matthew Stemen Ireland. Honestly this country is pretty bad at handling bullying, as far as I have seen.

    • @RandomPerson-ks3ql
      @RandomPerson-ks3ql 3 роки тому +16

      For 4 years straight i got bullied straight and all my principal did was say "shake hands and make up"

  • @alexaosoyo8101
    @alexaosoyo8101 3 роки тому +3939

    “a few nice words can make someone’s day”
    be kind to everyone, please

    • @mumflrpumble9107
      @mumflrpumble9107 3 роки тому +6

      Why would I want to make someone else's day when I could bring them down and push myself up the global leaderboard?

    • @yellowdude8376
      @yellowdude8376 3 роки тому +48

      @@mumflrpumble9107 what if you felt down and nobody would help how would you feel?

    • @mumflrpumble9107
      @mumflrpumble9107 3 роки тому +4

      @@yellowdude8376 ask myself if I'm ok and boost my score

    • @Shreksfeetlover67yrago
      @Shreksfeetlover67yrago 3 роки тому +17

      Hey there, that's really sweet, understanding and thoughtful of you to say that and you're a really good and amazing person and people really need to be kinder to each other, kind people like you make this world a better place. I hope you have an amazing day and take care

    • @kogi1051
      @kogi1051 3 роки тому +6

      And for others it can ruin it. Depends how they say stuff like if it’s genuine then i acc feel so much better, but if it’s that fake ass sickly sweet shit then i get so angry but I can’t just say it to their faces. Smh.

  • @finn7822
    @finn7822 3 роки тому +1131

    at my school everyone has this twisted definition of bully in their brains that is: "a bully is someone who beats you up" or "being a bully is knocking someone's teeth out" but the actual definition of bully is "someone who often hurts people physically, mentally or socially." and its so frustrating. (edit: i didnt expect this many likes! thanks so much!)

    • @tunasalad9693
      @tunasalad9693 3 роки тому +26

      school also tried to twist it into being one person constantly. It's more often groups of people, and it's often super small too.

    • @sinnamonbun
      @sinnamonbun 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah, I've been constantly bullied and even told that what they do to me is bullying but every time they get confronted they say they aren't even bullying and that it's just fun to pick fun out of people

    • @kykyloves.frankocean
      @kykyloves.frankocean 3 роки тому +2

      500th like, facts right there

    • @sinnamonbun
      @sinnamonbun 3 роки тому +1

      @Jyreh Jackson ??

    • @tayloreputation9173
      @tayloreputation9173 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly.

  • @0mg_abbyyy
    @0mg_abbyyy 3 роки тому +2076

    “Hurting someone’s feelings is like throwing a rock in the ocean. But how far do you think that rock Goes?”
    Meaning: If you hurt someone’s feelings you won’t know how hard it will effect there feelings. Treat others the way you wanna be treated.

    • @ThisCapybara
      @ThisCapybara 3 роки тому +34

      this comment.

    • @youcantbeatk7006
      @youcantbeatk7006 3 роки тому +77

      Only one way to find out.

    • @badthings1012
      @badthings1012 3 роки тому +20

      @@youcantbeatk7006 HAGZHZHDHZH

    • @chvikx7007
      @chvikx7007 3 роки тому +39

      @@youcantbeatk7006 swimming through the ocean to find where it went

    • @Fanin_n
      @Fanin_n 3 роки тому +18

      depends on one's pitching skills

  • @ImAFatNerd90
    @ImAFatNerd90 3 роки тому +1461

    "We don't tolerate bullying."
    "We take bullying very seriously."
    Everyone's silent until you're on the news or in court.

    • @basementlm4200
      @basementlm4200 3 роки тому +25

      .. my dad knew that teachers wouldn't do anything so he told me if I ever got bullied that I should punch them in the nose. I never got bullied because I always acted tough but if I did and I punched them I don't think the court case would go very far .

    • @basementlm4200
      @basementlm4200 3 роки тому +1

      @no u that makes sense. Yep schools really need to get it together

    • @yaboique6650
      @yaboique6650 3 роки тому +1

      @@basementlm4200 real question doe: is u actually tough?

    • @basementlm4200
      @basementlm4200 3 роки тому +4

      @@yaboique6650 no. It takes all of my willpower to not run away screaming from a wasp

    • @yaboique6650
      @yaboique6650 3 роки тому +1

      @@basementlm4200 bruh 😐

  • @frrah5286
    @frrah5286 4 місяці тому +57

    i can never understand bullies. like why bully? what is so wrong in your life that you have to take someone elses? As they said, what comes around, goes around. Bullies should fear what they have in their future if all they do is pick on people

    • @Sleepwoked
      @Sleepwoked 3 місяці тому

      as a person who almost became one, you just don’t know what you do in life and your just bored, you just can’t get fun out of anything anymore, it’s a last resort for people, some bullies got bullied in their childhood and chose to be one instead.

    • @TheFourMusketeers-eh5th
      @TheFourMusketeers-eh5th 2 місяці тому

      ⁠@@Sleepwokedthat’s no excuse. If you bully anyone, you’re an entitled POS

    • @ultr2keditz
      @ultr2keditz 2 місяці тому +1

      It's cuz they don't know that they're bullying

    • @anfani6839
      @anfani6839 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ultr2keditz They DO know, but they dont care. They do it to make themselves feel better

  • @sushitVA
    @sushitVA 3 роки тому +13304

    Is it just me or is the animation getting better and better. Just gotta appreciate the animation

  • @alishbaaaaa6438
    @alishbaaaaa6438 2 роки тому +5266

    I’m glad that the bullying portrayed isn’t just “oh you’re so fat” “she’s not cool” “he’s a nerd” and it actually shows how far things go such as that one person saying “lol I’d kill myself”

    • @vaginaspecialist
      @vaginaspecialist 2 роки тому +286

      yeah i completely agree. it’s a way more realistic version because people go really far.

    • @yd_gacha4307
      @yd_gacha4307 2 роки тому +87

      The person who said that in this short film is just cruel.S**cide isn’t something to throw around as some insult or saying something like “lol I’d (unalive) myself” just straight up without maybe asking if those jokes make someone uncomfortable or even if they’d thought about (unalive)ing themselves.People shouldn’t just throw s**cide around as some joke

    • @silliest-astro
      @silliest-astro 2 роки тому +112

      @@yd_gacha4307 the worst part is that it's not just a short film and that people really do this. it goes to show how deep this goes

    • @yd_gacha4307
      @yd_gacha4307 2 роки тому +27

      @@silliest-astro Thanks for the reply.I really hope more people see this short story and learn from it.People shouldn’t throw that kind of thing around as some sort of joke.Tysm for understanding

    • @animuswonder
      @animuswonder 2 роки тому +20

      exactly it’s not direct; they talk like you don’t exist and don’t have feelings, they just don’t care

  • @DJBSharpMusic
    @DJBSharpMusic 3 роки тому +32408

    "We take bullying very seriously" was the biggest lie we were ever told by the school system growing up.
    Addendum: I wasn't saying this to garner attention or internet clout, but I appreciate the likes and the fact that everyone has decided to weigh in on this topic. It's a cruel world out there, but I hope everyone makes it. You only have one life to live, so grow up big and strong and maybe one day we can all come together and make public schools safer places for our own children to learn.

    • @kaprosaurusrex6144
      @kaprosaurusrex6144 3 роки тому +2041

      And when you stand up for yourself,they punish you for it, unacceptable.

    • @kaminaridenki6833
      @kaminaridenki6833 3 роки тому +305

      @@kaprosaurusrex6144 ikr

    • @ruby725
      @ruby725 3 роки тому +487

      no because seriously, I have heard that so many times ... it didn’t stop

    • @lordpvt
      @lordpvt 3 роки тому +89

      @Shadow Knight yeah

    • @kyngston434
      @kyngston434 3 роки тому +50

      Your right

  • @bananamanchester4156
    @bananamanchester4156 6 місяців тому +11

    As I've grown older, I've realised that cruelty is weak, and kindness is strong. It takes a crowd of cruel people to break you but it takes just one kind person to save you. That's why cruel people always target the most vulnerable and weak people, or they will work in a crowd. But kind people will give their kindness to everybody, and do it alone. Be the kind person :)

  • @yg2hj
    @yg2hj 3 роки тому +1086

    please remember that calling someone out for bullying (or any other form of harrassment) doesn't make you a snitch/goody-two-shoes or whatever the fuck kind of excuse or name they'll make up, it means you're brave enough to stand up for yourself/someone else and that you are spreading awareness

    • @CuteLilEldritch1010
      @CuteLilEldritch1010 3 роки тому +112

      People that whine and bitch about snitches are honestly the same type of people that get mad solely because they were caught

    • @camerons_falling
      @camerons_falling 3 роки тому +20

      @@CuteLilEldritch1010 fax

    • @155chipmunkz
      @155chipmunkz 3 роки тому +5

      I was bullied for most of my life. It’s awful. I am now 26 years old and people are still ruining my life.

    • @goosegod9414
      @goosegod9414 3 роки тому +12

      I’m not gonna lie, I use the word snitch. But it definitely shouldn’t be used for someone trying to stop bullying. A better use of the word is when your sibling rats you out for taking a cookie, or when your talking to a friend during class and some kid yells to the teacher about it. To end my statement, bully’s can eat crap.

    • @elsie4802
      @elsie4802 3 роки тому +11

      @@155chipmunkz I hope you find peace in your life soon. Try to focus on yourself and do what makes you happy, I care about you.

  • @lilacbunches
    @lilacbunches 2 роки тому +4889

    In High School, my daughter felt rejected by her classmates...so her and another couple girls started including all those who they noticed that also felt like they didn't have friends and they started their own circle of friends. Their group ended up being a large group. She had more friend in the end than any of the "popular" kids. Support and kindness are healing.

  • @raphaelyannipalencia9105
    @raphaelyannipalencia9105 3 роки тому +662

    Noah and Raquelle were fortunate that they had each other.
    Most of us can only wish for such a treasure...

    • @ironman98
      @ironman98 3 роки тому +20

      And yet all it takes, is just one person. Just _one_ to say, "are you ok?" It could even be you.

    • @sharktenko267
      @sharktenko267 3 роки тому +9

      honey remember you are never alone, it may feel like it, it might feel liek youa re alone in the dark, but there are hundreds around you
      and even if no one else is wanting to hold a hand out remember this
      i am your friend, i dont know you, but that doesnt change that i am your friend :)

    • @azimmeme9994
      @azimmeme9994 3 роки тому +1

      @@sharktenko267 You should know someone to be their friend since you don’t know what their personality’s like yet.

    • @elsie4802
      @elsie4802 3 роки тому +5

      @@ironman98 Yeah.. i remember a few years ago when i had a boy in my class who was bullied, and i tried to do everything to stop it because i was so frustrated, but since i had no friends and was the only one to step in, nothing happened. The popular girls in the class just watched when the guys bullied him, and i heard them say to each other that someone had to do something, but since they were friends with those guys who bullied him they just stood there and looked dumb. I remember I ran after the bullies and screamed at them to stop but it was like they didn't even hear me. It's just so shitty how people can see bullying happen with their own eyes and still do nothing about it.

    • @janetlopez6763
      @janetlopez6763 3 роки тому

      Heheheh....that is too good to be true, if you find a treashure that good it wont last forever...belive me, they will remplace you

  • @CozyQuilt28
    @CozyQuilt28 2 місяці тому +7

    "Are you okay?" That one simple sentence can change someone's life.

  • @sugaafesttt2289
    @sugaafesttt2289 3 роки тому +2375

    This is the most accurate representation of bullying I've seen so far

    • @kazuoua
      @kazuoua 3 роки тому +27

      Really? It didn't seem very accurate to me.

    • @Rollie-4DaPollie
      @Rollie-4DaPollie 3 роки тому +43

      @@kazuoua Depends on the point of view I guess

    • @kazuoua
      @kazuoua 3 роки тому +53

      @@Rollie-4DaPollie Right, for starters, victims of bullying usually don't get to have a "happy ending" as the epilogue of this short would make it seem. They either learn to tough it out or run away, somehow.
      This is mainly for two reasons, the first one is that bullied people very soon become emotionally "damaged" and they are not great or fun people to be around. While from the outside they might look like the victims, they're seething with rage, pain and hormones so lashing out at the earliest chance is not uncommon. In the short it's kinda surprising how the overweight kid didn't develop romantic feelings for the girl almost right away, bullying develops a sort of Stockholm syndrome on the victims so any show of kindness or non-aggression to them can make their emotions go from 0 to 100 very quickly.
      The second, related, reason is that people who don't like bullying, in general, normally prefer to stay away from the bullied. I imagine it's somewhat similar to the subconscious aversion you have for the sick. Maybe it's an evolutionary thing.
      In my opinion, a more accurate depiction of bullying would show a more isolated, angry (not sad, ANGRY) and emotionally damaged victim with almost complete lack of social interaction. Sprinkle in some instances of Stockholm syndrome (like I mentioned before) and there you go. For the epilogue, you show the victim either having a complete mental collapse or learning to live with their trauma.

    • @mxltirosies1386
      @mxltirosies1386 3 роки тому +1

      Yes it is❤

    • @chazboney9076
      @chazboney9076 3 роки тому +2

      not really lol

  • @moseptyagami606
    @moseptyagami606 3 роки тому +1552

    Everyone’s talking about the school. Talk about the father. “Your lucky. You can just block em. Case closed.” That hit me so hard, since my Parents say the same thing. They don’t help, they just say I’m overreacting and just block them. It isn’t that easy.

    • @bellatrixlestrange1602
      @bellatrixlestrange1602 3 роки тому +18

      Fr

    • @StevenGreene070
      @StevenGreene070 3 роки тому +42

      Yeah ;-; don’t they know there’s other kids at school who use social media? There’s a chance your cyber bully could be attending the same school as you, and even bullies you irl

    • @gato8008
      @gato8008 3 роки тому +19

      I remember one time my dad picked on me and I got flashbacks of when I was kid, I got picked on and the kids would yell and force me to look away because they don't want me to look at them. I started crying at that age and it still bought me into tears now. The old man despites me crying for no reason. He just hates me and my mom cry because he assume its something small or 'stupid.' He tells me to just laugh it off and some other stupid shit. He doesn't know that I've been picked on for my weight or becuase I had no friends and was the quiet kid.

    • @trevorransford
      @trevorransford 3 роки тому +14

      I'm really glad this video showed it in a realistic light - sometime parents or guidance councilors don't understand, or can't fix the problem. They didn't give us the generic "Tell and adult" speech, they showed us how supporting each other can help, even when adults fail to do so. Really amazing video!

    • @MxjinVert
      @MxjinVert 3 роки тому +1

      It is easy, stop crying over some damn social media and block em but if you can't do that then at least make a new account 🗿

  • @ThatOneGuy-ct2ff
    @ThatOneGuy-ct2ff 3 роки тому +4616

    The sad thing is most adults say “Tell someone if your being bullied” but yet when you seek help they tell you it’s nothing.
    Yooo 3k likes tysm! Also to anyone who’s been bullied, hang in there. Being bullied sucks but it will get better!! (• ◡•)

    • @GodKingNoodle
      @GodKingNoodle 3 роки тому +7

      @@Kdjd108 this.....

    • @Geeshottagurl-1902daQ
      @Geeshottagurl-1902daQ 3 роки тому +6

      Same, happens in my school. But it's an race thing because I'm not too white or black enough or too korean

    • @mini_qoodles
      @mini_qoodles 3 роки тому +6

      Yes! Me and my siblings were getting bullied by this family of 3 kids whom I will not name because I respect their privacy. But they had asseblies at my school about bulling but when I went to tell someone about it they were like "Okay we'll do something" Nothing happened. One day I ended up flipping of the younger kid and his sister the next day turned around and looked at me on the bus to school and said "We looked at the cameras yesterday and we saw you flip off my brother 7 times. He was crying" It pissed me off beyond my point and everything in me broke. They called me a fat b*tch saying that I went to different things because I was fat. Like okay Im not the skinniest person here but you don't have to point that out. When I first met her, the sister, I thought we were friends but it was a very toxic relationship for me. She said she despised me and when I confronted her the next day about it she said "I may have said i didn't LIKE you but I never said despised." GIRL I FREAKING CRIED THE REST OF THE WAY HOME FROM WHAT YOU SAID!! Anyway, they (school administration) Never EVER helped us with this.
      I'm not saying there aren't people who will help you because there are lots of people out there who can help you!! You just need to find the right people who are willing to listen and help you, and if the person you're talking to won't listen then just leave and find someone you know will listen.

    • @cringepatrol6393
      @cringepatrol6393 3 роки тому

      My life is complete I’m the 1000th like

    • @TheSinfulSeraphim
      @TheSinfulSeraphim 3 роки тому +1

      It’s true once I got hit in the back of my head with a rock be cuz I was on the swing and I told the teacher and nothing happened

  • @Banosthemonke
    @Banosthemonke Місяць тому +4

    This fil is just about helping each other in need not about ignoring the bullies

  • @pegerrine
    @pegerrine 3 роки тому +837

    I am pretty sure why schools ignore bullying is probably they see the bullies are “just playing around” or “teasing”

    • @calebrose740
      @calebrose740 3 роки тому +74

      Schools: They're just playing around, they're kids!
      Kids: **cause mental and physical damage that'll be with you for the rest of your life**

    • @pegerrine
      @pegerrine 3 роки тому +7

      Certainly11 Suspenseful22 exactly

    • @snowleopard3532
      @snowleopard3532 3 роки тому +31

      Or they give them an excuse like “they’ve had a rough home life” to make them look misunderstood

    • @ohokay4663
      @ohokay4663 3 роки тому +17

      Absolutely!!! If it were someone doing it to their spouse we would call it abuse and treat it as the incredibly traumatizing thing that it is... but with kids, it's just bullying.

    • @wowpow2263
      @wowpow2263 3 роки тому +5

      Everyone including teachers were toxic at my old highschool and they both wanted to be close for some reason. The teachers would give anything to the bullies. Even other students personal information. It was messed up

  • @immasofa7885
    @immasofa7885 3 роки тому +1634

    "Sorry, we can't control what people do on social media. We'll do our best to prevent it."
    But they really can't do anything...

    • @ameliablack4587
      @ameliablack4587 3 роки тому +72

      Then, the victim committed suicide and the authorities say "Oh my, I am sorry about it. We tried our best to help." Then, they punish the bully with a few years in jail. But, is their sorry sincere or an automatic response?

    • @xsekhmetx
      @xsekhmetx 3 роки тому +28

      What do you want them to do about it though? Besides giving lectures about online safety and anti-bullying, they genuinely can’t. They don’t own it. As someone who was bullied, I hate the whole argument of “I hate that no one does anything about what goes on online.” Like, there genuinely isn’t anything they can do.

    • @ameliablack4587
      @ameliablack4587 3 роки тому +6

      And that is the problem

    • @goofybutserious4807
      @goofybutserious4807 3 роки тому +5

      Translation: There's nothing we can do about it. Hopefully you'll buy this defense and leave us alone and not come back.

    • @xsekhmetx
      @xsekhmetx 3 роки тому +7

      @@ameliablack4587 Ok??? And what do you want to do about it? I haven’t seen anyone provide an actual solution to online bullying yet. The best thing you can do is block.

  • @thefezzmare5653
    @thefezzmare5653 3 роки тому +505

    Man i thought this was going to be one of those cringey "bully bad no bully" things but it feels like something that would make a genuine impact on someone

    • @m_iika3
      @m_iika3 3 роки тому +2

      Especially that "my classmate was a bully so i did a revenge on him and turns out he was a devil that was sent by satan, so i became a angel fighter."

    • @sierrahale804
      @sierrahale804 3 роки тому

      @@m_iika3 wait that was a thing-

  • @AlTilleyTheBum-pt4mx
    @AlTilleyTheBum-pt4mx Місяць тому +2

    This was actually pretty heartwarming. Just a simple “are you ok?” shows how much one cares for another.

  • @vanitasz
    @vanitasz 3 роки тому +1172

    "We take bullying very seriously"
    *then do something about it* an assembly won't help

    • @thesilliestjellyfishever
      @thesilliestjellyfishever 3 роки тому +15

      Underrated comment

    • @thesilliestjellyfishever
      @thesilliestjellyfishever 3 роки тому +11

      @Abraham Villa ✨M e✨

    • @NikNokGamer
      @NikNokGamer 3 роки тому +1

      @Abraham Villa Escanor is cool

    • @TheIndoraptor
      @TheIndoraptor 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly! Another fact is that there are probably lots of kids out there who are kind and friendly that turn more reserved and harder in personality because they are bullied and nothing is done about it, as if the bullies and teachers are in an interconnected web of cruelty against victims.

    • @SoulWingz
      @SoulWingz 3 роки тому

      As she said in the video though, it's hard to deal with cyber bullying because it's impossible to police the internet. If the account of the bully is private or anonymous then the school can't access their content, and even if you give them a detention it's not like you can make them delete their account

  • @nuclearw0rmzz
    @nuclearw0rmzz 3 роки тому +705

    something i really appreciate about this animation is that they actually talk about why people get bullied. so often in PSAs it's just "oh they're quiet" or some vague bullshit, but we all know most of bullying comes from prejudice; whether about weight, sexual orientation, or race.

    • @thotobliterator1587
      @thotobliterator1587 3 роки тому +47

      Or from being someone who either isn’t popular or “cool” or someone who tries to help others and gets in the way. You know, the “rat.” So to speak.
      Noah was bullied for being an awkward, unpopular “Ogre.” kind of kid. And Raquelle was bullied for trying to help him out and got in the way of the bullies so they turned on her for getting in their way.

    • @fabplays6559
      @fabplays6559 3 роки тому +29

      Oftentimes, "quiet" people getting bullied stems from prejudice too. I have autism, which makes me "quiet" and anxious, which makes me a target for bullying. Ableism. Anything out of the "norm" becomes a target.

    • @Meboy-uv5td
      @Meboy-uv5td 3 роки тому +3

      "quiet: people are easy targets, simple as that

    • @oofuwu2666
      @oofuwu2666 3 роки тому +1

      @@fabplays6559 Hey! I'm autistic too! :D

    • @mehname7220
      @mehname7220 3 роки тому

      Any hate is prejudice and to be honest lots of people don't bully for the stuff you mentioned

  • @zarianobilo9525
    @zarianobilo9525 Місяць тому +1

    This is so beautiful and 100% deserves that award. I loved the visual representation of the things people say that weigh us down.

  • @Honey_hivez
    @Honey_hivez 3 роки тому +530

    I love love LOVE the fact that this is acknowledging that sometimes that one “are you okay?” can help, but it doesn’t change everything.

    • @BreakfastMenuAtMcDonalds
      @BreakfastMenuAtMcDonalds 3 роки тому +5

      Stop complaining. Have a McHappy day!

    • @kino9119
      @kino9119 3 роки тому +8

      @@BreakfastMenuAtMcDonalds For some reason I want a Egg Mc Muffin now

    • @fishheist9902
      @fishheist9902 3 роки тому +8

      @@BreakfastMenuAtMcDonalds That's it I'm calling Wendy's

    • @coredefect6134
      @coredefect6134 3 роки тому

      @@fishheist9902 Oh Yea!?!? WELL IM CALLING BURGER KING!!

  • @sstheinsane8724
    @sstheinsane8724 3 роки тому +890

    You can't always stop bullying. But the least you could do is offer support.

    • @koby4115
      @koby4115 3 роки тому +45

      Exactly. Don't rely on others to stop all your problems. The least a person can do is be there to support and comfort you. What a single person can do is limited.

    • @nekorice35
      @nekorice35 3 роки тому +15

      @@koby4115 Yeah, sometimes all someone needs is for someone to sit with them through the shit and just feel together

    • @solarprogeny6736
      @solarprogeny6736 3 роки тому +17

      I used to have a pretty big "savior's complex" mindset. When someone told me their problems, I would get up in arms, telling them they need to turn their life around, get a move on, that we could do this together, eliminate every single issue, go through every single legal process, etc. I didn't quite realize how toxic that was since really, I was just exhausting the conversation with all these things they weren't necessarily looking for. People often just want and need to be heard and someone to relate to. Not being alone makes all the difference - you can't fix things for them, only support them until they fix themselves.

    • @koby4115
      @koby4115 3 роки тому +7

      @@solarprogeny6736 Nice perspective, I really agree with that.

    • @vanessalim404
      @vanessalim404 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah i try to help my friend who has alot of problem keevejewej. I try tobsupport them

  • @alphaghoul
    @alphaghoul 3 роки тому +2011

    Notice how the other kids started avoiding her? The tactic of the people at the top is to keep their victims isolated, so that they have power over them, if the victim talks back then it’s just one person that they laugh down as a group, along with their stupid insults, they seem clever with alot of sheeple, and other people have to isolate them or else they become victims themselves. This is why it’s important for victims to stick together, and it brings a whole new meaning to the saying “they only have power over you if you give it to them” you don’t need to just ignore them, you need outright to rebel.

    • @rheakg
      @rheakg 3 роки тому +31

      @♡•Lizzyiuuu• ♡ sweetie you are such an angel, they’ll get what they deserve. They’re only mean to you because they’re insecure, keep focusing on school and don’t lose yourself being nice to them 💜

    • @TheAndy7042
      @TheAndy7042 3 роки тому +4

      Throw down in spillout and fade it’ll show them trust me 👊

    • @alphaghoul
      @alphaghoul 3 роки тому

      @@TheAndy7042 Huh?

    • @TheAndy7042
      @TheAndy7042 3 роки тому +1

      @@alphaghoul it means fight

    • @anne-lisesoulignac8910
      @anne-lisesoulignac8910 3 роки тому +12

      @♡•Miraculously Lizzyii• ♡ I was bullied years ago and it's my greatest regret that I never slapped at least one of those girls. If you don't change, the situation won't change. So if you can't stand it, don't ignore / stay kind, be creative and fight back your way (telling other people, screaming, faking a panic attack, throwing punches...). You may end up in trouble but you'll break the circle. I wish you the courage to do it!

  • @Spacekingofearth
    @Spacekingofearth 7 місяців тому +11

    I think the thing that stuck out to me the most was how the movie ended. The bullying didn’t stop, and it’s likely that it never will. The important thing is that you have a support system. Bullying is something you can never fix, but it’s so so so important to have a shoulder to cry on if you need it.

  • @LordGarlicBread
    @LordGarlicBread 3 роки тому +602

    moral of the story: "R U okay?" is a powerful spell that fights all evil

    • @JeroenDoes
      @JeroenDoes 3 роки тому +19

      It really dragged the video down.
      As if the problem of bullying can be solved with "Are you ok?"

    • @deletedchannel5394
      @deletedchannel5394 3 роки тому +78

      @@JeroenDoes no it lets them know that someone actually cares about them

    • @jackcooper4185
      @jackcooper4185 3 роки тому +38

      @@JeroenDoes it actually has a huge impact

    • @therabbidt
      @therabbidt 3 роки тому +22

      @@JeroenDoes It doesnt solve it but atleast it helps a bit to cure it.

    • @Roadent1241
      @Roadent1241 3 роки тому +10

      "Are you OK?"
      "No."
      "Why?"
      "Because of the bullying and my parent having the terminal illness which might kill them an-"
      "Oh that's just you wanting attention. You're lying."
      And then they (Maybe?) wondered why the quiet kid went deathly silent. Doesn't help when students AND teachers/assistants are telling me I'm lying and making excuses for things.
      And THEN the teachers have the audacity to yell at me for not coming to them for help, when I did and they shut me down, and for Not Interacting With Others. The others that hate me? Gee I wonder why(?).

  • @zionwalker2392
    @zionwalker2392 3 роки тому +1222

    I like how the phrase, "Are you okay," is treated as a way out rather than a cure. It's like someone dropping a ladder to you while you're stuck in a pit or treading flood waters. Even when Noah pulls himself up from drowning in the negativity, the goo doesn't leave him until he talks with Raquelle the next day. I've seen people ask victims that one question one time, and then never communicate with them again. I've done that before, and I still feel horrible about it because I treated it like that was all I had to do to fix them. For a while, that's how the school system treated it even, and it hurts to think about that because I should have seen through that lie. I should have known that would only do so much on its own, if I really cared about the person. You can only help someone if you show that you're willing to listen to them, and that you're willing to help them. Otherwise, you will do nothing, you will accomplish nothing, and you could make the situation worse.

    • @AJX-2
      @AJX-2 3 роки тому +14

      So true. We can try everything to help somebody and give them all the tools they need, but in the end every person must choose to save themselves.

    • @zionwalker2392
      @zionwalker2392 3 роки тому +5

      @@AJX-2 This channel is really good at addressing social issues, ngl.

    • @nettart4924
      @nettart4924 3 роки тому +1

      i mean i used to get anxiety attacks if people tried to help me just the question are you ok made me want to jump off a cliff to avoid talking to people about my problems cause i was afraid they would find out i was lying and everything was my fault but to each their own. i hated getting suicide hotlines recommended to me by concerned people cause even though it might be justified there nothing wrong me im just lying to myself. i dont want help i dont want change i just want people to be there for me, ya know?

    • @zionwalker2392
      @zionwalker2392 3 роки тому

      @@nettart4924 I felt that for a time, but I learned to buck off most of the negative effects before it could become a problem for me. I think it's easier for people to relate to victims of bullying when we understand the type of effect it has on people, especially kids.

    • @nettart4924
      @nettart4924 3 роки тому +2

      @@zionwalker2392 yeah i think one of the things adults should realize is what they need to do for children who are having panik attacks and how they need to deal with it, cause hint, telling the crying child to wipe off their tears in the bathroom doesnt help guys.

  • @Gweem13
    @Gweem13 3 роки тому +3512

    Definitely the best anti-bullying PSA I've ever stumbled across. Ngl it resonated with me and made me cry

    • @Ich-Existiere-Nicht
      @Ich-Existiere-Nicht 3 роки тому +21

      I hope you are doing well.

    • @Gweem13
      @Gweem13 3 роки тому +19

      @@Ich-Existiere-Nicht thank you, and I hope you're doing well yourself. Fortunately a lot of the things I went through are far enough in the past that they've gotten a lot easier to cope with ^^

    • @moon__dust
      @moon__dust 3 роки тому +9

      This makes me feel better about crying :-)

    • @ubbles5174
      @ubbles5174 3 роки тому +1

      Ok?

    • @Ich-Existiere-Nicht
      @Ich-Existiere-Nicht 3 роки тому +2

      @@Gweem13 I am glade to hear that. And I am doing fine too. Thanks for asking.

  • @MUGZCAT.
    @MUGZCAT. 7 місяців тому +27

    I remember somebody asked me, "Are you okay?" Once i was at the time being severely bullied to the point I was even planning on not returning. (If you know what i mean. I'd rather not say it since small children watch this) But she saved my life. I miss her every day, and she's in a better place. 🕊 Thank you Sofia even if you didn't beat cancer, you helped me beat my depression.

    • @Sans_UndertaleOffical
      @Sans_UndertaleOffical 7 місяців тому

      Wait wait wait you mean like "Take life"

    • @Saharadesertb
      @Saharadesertb 5 місяців тому

      This comment made me cry 😂😂😂 along with the story I hope you’re doing OK now

  • @thesplitspark
    @thesplitspark 3 роки тому +1151

    I love the symbolism of the purple jelly. Like jelly, the hurtful words bullies say follow you around and cling to you until you can barely move. But when you find someone who cares and you can relate to and when you stick up for yourself and others, it's like your washing that jelly away and walking away clean.

    • @kingcyclops4079
      @kingcyclops4079 3 роки тому +43

      Better solution: eat the jelly

    • @hithere2972
      @hithere2972 3 роки тому +34

      @@kingcyclops4079 this is big brain time

    • @ncrocker75
      @ncrocker75 3 роки тому +9

      Omg thank you for clarifying that for me. I was so confused about what had happened to them at first-

    • @kingcyclops4079
      @kingcyclops4079 3 роки тому +18

      @@ncrocker75 what? You never spilled depression jelly on yourself before?

    • @iiheartaddyy
      @iiheartaddyy 3 роки тому +3

      @@kingcyclops4079 LMFAO

  • @colettephan6950
    @colettephan6950 3 роки тому +1057

    I can't believe how toxic people can be, it's heartbreaking

    • @superipermagererata5084
      @superipermagererata5084 3 роки тому +9

      Yes :(

    • @itchypp1766
      @itchypp1766 3 роки тому +12

      i guess u just have to find "your ppl" ppl u relate to that u can hang out with and share the pain, thing is that's easier said than done and "finding your ppl" is hard......its hard.

    • @ok-bs1dx
      @ok-bs1dx 3 роки тому +2

      Yes

    • @happypotato--2646
      @happypotato--2646 3 роки тому +5

      Imagine living with a toxic family T-T

    • @user-cy7bg5qy4k
      @user-cy7bg5qy4k 3 роки тому

      @@happypotato--2646 yeah imagine

  • @kyleschwartz2501
    @kyleschwartz2501 3 роки тому +576

    This happened four years ago. I was bullied from 4th grade all the way up to my senior year of high school. Schools constantly told my parents that these kids will grow up someday and they never did. One day I finally had enough and I kicked the ass of the tormentor from my childhood. And I’m the one who gets suspended it shows you how corrupt the system is.

    • @xuannguyenpham939
      @xuannguyenpham939 3 роки тому +39

      Hey bro! I'm glad you can beat him up. Being timid is hard, they will try to pick on you.

    • @jiayi5829
      @jiayi5829 3 роки тому +21

      Can really understand just that it was all verbal but the teacher think I took it too far when I just speak back and asked them to shut up ,and that I should had ignore things ,they talk to me ,try to convince me it was my fault when I just trying to get people to stop.

    • @trevorstokes4179
      @trevorstokes4179 3 роки тому +4

      serves the tormentor right

    • @aviatornic2839
      @aviatornic2839 3 роки тому +4

      Did the same thing more or less. Threw the fucker through a desk or two. I was fine when they picked on me but they fucjed up when they went after my friends

    • @MT-od6by
      @MT-od6by 3 роки тому +2

      @@aviatornic2839 Don't swear

  • @Somethingwierd_333
    @Somethingwierd_333 Місяць тому +2

    They should show this in school BULLYING IS NEVER OKAY

  • @angelwatcher374
    @angelwatcher374 2 роки тому +6766

    “Just ignore them.” is the worst advice a parent can give their child. My cousin was bullied in elementary school and her mom told her to just ignore her bully. The bully was still picking on my cousin and she was upset so she told my mom. My mom actually listened to her and had a long conversation with her about it. I think it really helped.

    • @suz7970
      @suz7970 2 роки тому +166

      Totally agree with this, in elementary everyday in the morning there were announcements on the intercom that at the end said “if your ever being bullied remember to
      1. Ignore it
      2. Tell a teacher
      3. Tell them how there actions make you feel”
      This was drilled into our heads, and I just realized after reading your comment how shitty their advice was ‘just ignore it’ they make it sound so simple, it sounds like a good idea in hindsight, but can easily morph into bottling up your emotions, and brushing off how you feel. I remember I was bullied by these two girls in elementary, they’d criticise everything I did (one literally complained about the way I breathed), and would make a point to exclude me from anything. And I foolishly tried the ‘just ignore it’ route. One night I just couldn’t take it and told my mom everything. So my mom being a awesome person she scheduled a private appointment with my teacher so I could tell her Everything that was going on, at first I was upset she did this, because I thought it was a overkill to do that, so basically undermining myself, but my mom stuck strong and I ended up telling my teacher everything, she too was a awesome person who really cared about her students, so she had a sit down talk with both the girls, and the bullying ceased. so let that be a lesson to anyone still reading that you’d shouldn’t just ignore it, that you should always tell someone instead, just ignoring won’t make it stop, it’ll just let the bullies get away Scot-free and nothing will change

    • @angelwatcher374
      @angelwatcher374 2 роки тому +77

      @@suz7970
      Another thing is a lot of bullies don’t let you just ignore them. My cousin tried, but everywhere she turned her bully was right there, ready to pick a fight and blame it on my cousin.

    • @The1stPurpleCat
      @The1stPurpleCat 2 роки тому +63

      Child: ~is being bullied and is obviously not ok~
      Dad: "Well you kids are lucky nowadays! You can just block em!"
      Idk why that didn't stand out to me the first time I watched this.
      It's not like her blocking them online will prevent her from seeing them in real life. Her blocking them isn't going to stop them spreading the hate towards her online, which will affect how people act towards her in real life, even if she doesn't see it online.
      It's like the gloop. Even if she doesn't get that gloop from the phone directly, she's bound to get it from other people, through other means. It wont protect her.
      {btw, I'm glad your cousin found real support! I hope y'all are doing ok!}

    • @kivrinsagchannel791
      @kivrinsagchannel791 2 роки тому +12

      If u ignore they keep up

    • @angelwatcher374
      @angelwatcher374 2 роки тому +38

      @@kivrinsagchannel791
      If you ignore they come back harder to make you react.

  • @dank9625
    @dank9625 3 роки тому +949

    "are you okay?"
    ah yes, the line that make you feel joy and sadness at the same time.

    • @couldntcomeupwithacleverna7417
      @couldntcomeupwithacleverna7417 3 роки тому +5

      Pain

    • @dank9625
      @dank9625 3 роки тому +20

      @@couldntcomeupwithacleverna7417 y'know. Someone just randomly asking "u okay?" tears me up, like someone just actually cares/concerned bout you, atleast 1 person, but then you gotta say "nah i'm fine" coz u dont wanna bother them. It's complete mix of emotions. ughI can't explain it briefly. guess i'll cry in the corner

    • @ecoagito7242
      @ecoagito7242 3 роки тому +3

      Except when someone asks if you’re okay when you are.

    • @dank9625
      @dank9625 3 роки тому +3

      @@ecoagito7242 yea this applies when u're rock bottom. Or idk- depends.

    • @ecoagito7242
      @ecoagito7242 3 роки тому +1

      @@dank9625 idk. Sometimes I may have a look on my face that enables someone to ask if I’m okay.

  • @TheGalacticCat
    @TheGalacticCat 3 роки тому +467

    I really like the symbolism. Being bullied feels like you're in a pool where a liquid filled with negative emotions is slowly rising and, without the right help or guidance, you eventually drown and are unable to get out. What's worse is that, in cases like Noah's and Raquelle's, you choose to let yourself drown and be covered by it for a long time period.

    • @thehermit8618
      @thehermit8618 3 роки тому +23

      And if you steep in that long enough it twists you i ways you cant even begin to understand and might take a long while to fully recover from. Sometimes it leaves you with emotional scars that will remain for the test of your life

    • @Asterix_Angel33
      @Asterix_Angel33 3 роки тому +5

      I think it’s more of having depression but works both ways

    • @darlie6209
      @darlie6209 3 роки тому +7

      @@Asterix_Angel33 there’s really a difference, i don’t believe they’re experiencing depression here since it’s a mental illness. I think they are feeling depressed but not exactly having depression.

    • @Asterix_Angel33
      @Asterix_Angel33 3 роки тому

      @@darlie6209 Again like I said it could be both or neither but all we know is that they were feeling down.