I'm speaking from experience... Kaylee's mother needs to keep her away from that sperm donor. She'll be better off without him. He's sick in his head. Just shower that lil girl with love and let her step-father be her male figure. I feel so sorry for her.
I 100% agree with you. I've been trying in a similar situation with my oldest daughter's sperm donor. Keep the coward away from her. She's better off without him. Praying for her and her mom❤
The relationship between stepdaughter and stepfather is absolutely beautiful. She wants for him the same thing that he wanted for her. To heal, find answers and have peace. 🎉❤ this man gained such a beautiful and loving daughter when he married her mother. And ehat she has given to him is so much more than he could ever had imagined. She gave him pieces to a puzzle that is now completed. He knows who his mother and father is and his siblings and a host of other family. Secomd story: i praise the mother. My heart goes out to the daughter and mother. I pray for their healing and transformation. As far as the father, letting him go is for the best. He will never be the father she needs. He's closed minded. He will never take accountability or accept responsibility for his part in his daughters anger. The best thing the daughter can do is thank him for not being there so that she won't be corrupted and will grow up to be someone special.
what’s blowing me is that desmond refuses to be in his daughter’s life, but he also won’t let the step-dad (who’s actually been taking care of her + been her father-figure) adopt her? he’s a sick narcissist and control freak, and the mother/step-dad need to go to court to get desmond’s paternal rights taken away
Shoutout to James & his daughter for finding his sister 🥳 That was really touching to watch. My advice to Ariel is STAY STRONG QUEEN-SISTER. BE THE BEST MOTHER YOU CAN BE. I can see Desmond selling Ariel a dream but she got pregnant and he got scared and ran off(I been there 2x). Ariel can’t make Desmond be a Father. He has to want to but if he doesn’t Ariel has to step up even more. Nothing should be forced because he will pay later…God will see to that!
I'm not a father but even I know a good parent never gives up trying to do more for there child. Saying 'what more can I do' is admitting you give up being a parent.
Omgosh this man PISSED ME OFF!!!!!!!! The way i am ANGRY!!! Poor kaylee doesnt need thiis in her life AT ALL. Karma is a witch and i promise you he will get his. I pray for this little girl and her mum ❤
How can a mother leave her child in a grocery store? I cannot even imagine the fear in that child's life and going through foster care. Noone told him that he was loved and showed him love. Well, God called him in the ministry and now he can minister to people in a special way. God bless you dear pastor❤ so beautiful that you have found some of your family ❤
All you can think is the guilt of what she has done, would have destroyed what she had at that moment, there was great condemnation for people who got pregnant, I mean 59 years ago, I am not making excuses for her, it’s such a horror what she did, and every day of her life she carried that guilt, wondering if ever she would get caught. I noticed they didn’t say how many brothers and sister he had on his mother’s side. It’s a shock to all the family that their mother even did this to a baby.
This almost made me cry because I’m a single mother raising my daughter by myself. She beautiful and for him to come in her life and be a father to that’s makes me happy
Young women, please be careful who you decide to have a child with. If you choose the wrong man, looks what happens-a child is so hurt and damaged. I pray Kaylee finds peace and happiness.❤
I wish I stayed in the neighborhood bc one thing about me every kid in my neighborhood I love on. Especially them young troubled ones and the ones that you can tell they raised in single parenting homes man.
My son went through the same... He was and still is at times, so angry... Gladly he hot strong enough and cut him of. My son is also a child with a disability, born prematurely. Bless you woman, you're a good mom. I hope your daughter find the strength/herself so she can move on with her life. Both of you're warrior's/survivor's 💪🏽❤ With help you'll get there🤗💫💞
Has anyone noticed that the father never says 'I' but 'the man', or 'that man'? He seems to be totally disassociating himself of the situation. He sounds like a narcissist of some type, only caring about himself and his other daughter. I dare not say what he thinks of Kaylee, he simply does not accept her. I hope it is not because of her health problems. However, he's building a very negative karma. And that will backfire at him someday. He is so conceited and smug. He is really going to hit a brick wall some day.
Desmond thinks it's funny to see his daughter hurt!! 😢 there's no excuse for why he can't find a way to see his daughter! Grow up and take care of your daughter!!
Desmond needs to grow up, take accountability, take responsibility!!! He's a grown man! There's no excuse why that man can't find a way to see his daughter. You make time for what you want to do. His priorities are all screwed up!!! He's a big baby!!!
He didn't say it but, he showed very clearly he does not care one bit fir that child. And never did care. All he responds is in third person, "this man did this" this man sleeping at a station"; never says "I went', I slept at the station'. He just threw the very idea of this child out the window. He doesn't love her at all. One day he WILL regret this attitude. I hope Kaylee's family can support her and help her heal completely.
Exactly what I said too. He's a sociopathic narcissist. He's not immature, he just disassociated himself from this child. He doesn't care for her at all.
First story I am so happy that they are related I was hoping for that outcome love a happy and healthy ending ❤❤❤❤❤ 2nd story i was so happy when karamo said to cut his feed that dude was so draining doing nothing but talking in circles taking ZERO accountability
this entire episode had me on tears. i cant imagine all this pain in such nice people and i loved how karamo managed everything. i wish the best for everyone that appeared here and blessings ❤☀️
This Desmond guy is trying to speak in an 'intellectual' way to try and deflect and distance himself from his responsibility e.g using terms like 'you don't know the path'. What path is he on about? Then he uses the third person 'when a man'.🤬 He's gaslighting. I hope this young girl heals. She's self aware and knows how shes acting out and why, but with support, she will be ok.
He's not normal. This man clearly has a mental illness and or learning disability. He may even be bipolar. He has no empathy, can't understand and respond to simple questions, and can hold an adult conversation. It's like talking to an 8 year old.
What a way to start off this beautiful Friday ❤❤ i am so happy for James and his family. His daughter has a heart of gold and she has a beautiful soul. This is what real love looks like within the family dynamic. I pray they continue thriving together as a unit and i pray for an abundance of blessings and successes and happiness for them. I hope everyone has a great weekend and stay blessed 🙏🏼❤️☺️☺️
James and I have the same story,it's so hard to look around and not see you. I met my dad and his 4 children at 53. I'm so glad he is able to find them. I hope the rest of the family embrace him. i only had a fraction of resistance. I'm grateful for this. and so happy for him!
Fuck being a baby this child crying out for you and you just being a dick to her real grown men dont act like that Ariel your a great mom you and her step dad keep doing what y'all are doing she will be fine I'm praying for y'all ❤
Karamo this is one of the best ones I love what you do & how professional & at the same time you show love & compassion at the same time you keep doing this amazing gift God Bless you my brother sending you lots of love & hugs 💜💜💜💜
Good day Karamo i have been watching your show ever so long i love them so much and you too i need all of them im not tired of them please send them ok im from jamai❤
This episode hits me as I also grew up with an absent father, I didn’t even knew his name until I was 9 and met him for the first time, after that he was never even present... In the present, he takes me out for dinner every few months, weeks sometimes, but I'm 18 and I'm no longer the little girl who needed her daddy, so for me, he is like just another dude who I see now and then a few times a year
Even I’m tired of “When the man is…” & “When the man is…”. Mothers have no days off. We have to make a way out of no way. There is a step-dad in the home not giving excuses and making a way also. Miss the entire world with the gibberish. Children understand more than people realize. It’s bad when your own child knows you make differences, can smell BS a mile away, and has trust issues in middle school-the age when she is finding her identity.
Karamo you're awesome in the way that you've dealt with people. You're fearless and always tells the truth. You're a defender of people's rights and are also a voice for the voiceless. God has placed you on earth to do this job. Honesty is the best policy and that's what I love about you. You are a jem you never 41:37 shy away from any topics, because of your intervention a lot of family lives that are broken have been mended and they're doing just great now. Thanks again for doing an excellent job. May God continue to bless you in a special way
His story reminds me of my Aunt. 4yrs after my grandfather passed away a woman surfaced as his long lonmst daughter. Her mother gave her up for adoption and never told the father. She looks just like US! But its almost like my mother hates her. Its sad for not reason other then her being born.
Im so Happy for James❤ Praying he will get to see his other siblings! His mom had him and gave him life which gave him opportunity of love! I would love see a follow-up on him❤
I went through that same situation with my ex-husband and 5 children… I did what I have to do with them, and never look back… My pastor told me forgive him, but not until he goes to hell🤪🤣😂
When the dad said " if you want her to be in my life.." I was thinking, the father should be wanting to be in his daughter's life!! That man is legit trash and I don't pity any woman who willing to have a life with him.
I feel this so so much...been dealing with it for 17 years and now my baby has a baby herself... brought tears to my eyes for him to be so smug....but it reminds me so much of her father
She is very smart. Her dad needs to be honest with himself about his daughter. Is it her handicap issue why he have challenges of being around or is it he really just don’t want to be there so he don’t upset his family at home.
Protect that first man @ all costs he has a precious heart.
I swear brings me tears
And his daughter. That's love
It is very rare to see Karamo lose his cool demeanor like this, and I can't blame him..
I can only hope the best for the daughter..
Pillow talk be real......
THANK YOU KARAMO FOR CUTTING HIM OFF!!! he was so full of himself he really cares less about his daughters feelings & it was pissing me off
The man should stay sleeping at the bus stop! What a character! 😂
I'd sleep on the pavement in front of the house if my daughter was inside and I hadn't seen her for a while.
Karamo is doing the absolute RIGHT thing for this community. God bless him.
I say that all the time. A talk show that’s actually therapeutic
I'm speaking from experience... Kaylee's mother needs to keep her away from that sperm donor. She'll be better off without him. He's sick in his head. Just shower that lil girl with love and let her step-father be her male figure. I feel so sorry for her.
I agree 100 percent
I 100% agree with you. I've been trying in a similar situation with my oldest daughter's sperm donor. Keep the coward away from her. She's better off without him. Praying for her and her mom❤
Agree with you 😨🤔
No she shouldn’t because it’s up to the child to form their own thoughts. Keeping a child away from a parent is never cool.
@@genejaytre look the way he is acting he doesn’t deserve to see her or anything
I love this man's story because him and his wife are such amazing people God bless them all. Shout-out to his daughter for doing the DNA test.
The relationship between stepdaughter and stepfather is absolutely beautiful. She wants for him the same thing that he wanted for her. To heal, find answers and have peace. 🎉❤ this man gained such a beautiful and loving daughter when he married her mother. And ehat she has given to him is so much more than he could ever had imagined. She gave him pieces to a puzzle that is now completed. He knows who his mother and father is and his siblings and a host of other family. Secomd story: i praise the mother. My heart goes out to the daughter and mother. I pray for their healing and transformation. As far as the father, letting him go is for the best. He will never be the father she needs. He's closed minded. He will never take accountability or accept responsibility for his part in his daughters anger. The best thing the daughter can do is thank him for not being there so that she won't be corrupted and will grow up to be someone special.
what’s blowing me is that desmond refuses to be in his daughter’s life, but he also won’t let the step-dad (who’s actually been taking care of her + been her father-figure) adopt her? he’s a sick narcissist and control freak, and the mother/step-dad need to go to court to get desmond’s paternal rights taken away
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
He’s a narcissist
My dad did the same thing with my step dad
Shoutout to James & his daughter for finding his sister 🥳 That was really touching to watch.
My advice to Ariel is STAY STRONG QUEEN-SISTER. BE THE BEST MOTHER YOU CAN BE.
I can see Desmond selling Ariel a dream but she got pregnant and he got scared and ran off(I been there 2x). Ariel can’t make Desmond be a Father. He has to want to but if he doesn’t Ariel has to step up even more. Nothing should be forced because he will pay later…God will see to that!
I'm not a father but even I know a good parent never gives up trying to do more for there child.
Saying 'what more can I do' is admitting you give up being a parent.
She is so mature! I hate this for her ..feeling neglect from a parent hurts like hell...😢
Grounds for the adoption he won't sign for. Take this tape to court. Just ridiculous. That little girl deserves better.
I was about to say this they can use this tape to make it happen 💯💯👏👏
Omgosh this man PISSED ME OFF!!!!!!!! The way i am ANGRY!!! Poor kaylee doesnt need thiis in her life AT ALL. Karma is a witch and i promise you he will get his.
I pray for this little girl and her mum ❤
karamo dresses very nice i love his style
I agree 100 percent
That’s my cousin fr fr❤
@@Amen0507that's awesome
For the second story.
I think this is the first time I've seen Karamo get angry on this show.
I don't blame him, I hate this guy.
How can a mother leave her child in a grocery store? I cannot even imagine the fear in that child's life and going through foster care. Noone told him that he was loved and showed him love. Well, God called him in the ministry and now he can minister to people in a special way. God bless you dear pastor❤ so beautiful that you have found some of your family ❤
Amen! Was just thinking how scared the baby was. I was crying through this show. I love the ending though❤
All you can think is the guilt of what she has done, would have destroyed what she had at that moment, there was great condemnation for people who got pregnant, I mean 59 years ago, I am not making excuses for her, it’s such a horror what she did, and every day of her life she carried that guilt, wondering if ever she would get caught. I noticed they didn’t say how many brothers and sister he had on his mother’s side. It’s a shock to all the family that their mother even did this to a baby.
Ohhh chile, I’ve never seen Karamo get heated! Yasssss👏🏽
Desmond doesn’t care to have a relationship with his daughter. He is selfish and self centered.
This almost made me cry because I’m a single mother raising my daughter by myself. She beautiful and for him to come in her life and be a father to that’s makes me happy
Young women, please be careful who you decide to have a child with. If you choose the wrong man, looks what happens-a child is so hurt and damaged. I pray Kaylee finds peace and happiness.❤
It should be all about the child period!
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I wish I stayed in the neighborhood bc one thing about me every kid in my neighborhood I love on. Especially them young troubled ones and the ones that you can tell they raised in single parenting homes man.
No matter what parents may done in the past they owe it to their children to know who their parents are
Women are not psychics!
I thought my baby daddy was the worse then here comes this man
Lol😮
😂😂stop
My son went through the same...
He was and still is at times, so angry...
Gladly he hot strong enough and cut him of.
My son is also a child with a disability, born prematurely.
Bless you woman, you're a good mom. I hope your daughter find the strength/herself so she can move on with her life. Both of you're warrior's/survivor's 💪🏽❤
With help you'll get there🤗💫💞
Has anyone noticed that the father never says 'I' but 'the man', or 'that man'? He seems to be totally disassociating himself of the situation. He sounds like a narcissist of some type, only caring about himself and his other daughter. I dare not say what he thinks of Kaylee, he simply does not accept her. I hope it is not because of her health problems. However, he's building a very negative karma. And that will backfire at him someday. He is so conceited and smug. He is really going to hit a brick wall some day.
Karama doesnt exist but i agree with most of what you say
We didn't hear from the other child nor the child's mother. I bet a totally different story will be told
Desmond thinks it's funny to see his daughter hurt!! 😢 there's no excuse for why he can't find a way to see his daughter! Grow up and take care of your daughter!!
I love me some Karamo too bad my mom didn’t accept the invitation to come to the show but I know God is in control!!!
May God bless and heal your heart regardless…
James and his sister look so much alike!!❤
Desmond needs to grow up, take accountability, take responsibility!!! He's a grown man! There's no excuse why that man can't find a way to see his daughter. You make time for what you want to do. His priorities are all screwed up!!! He's a big baby!!!
I agree 100 percent
He didn't say it but, he showed very clearly he does not care one bit fir that child. And never did care. All he responds is in third person, "this man did this" this man sleeping at a station"; never says "I went', I slept at the station'. He just threw the very idea of this child out the window. He doesn't love her at all.
One day he WILL regret this attitude. I hope Kaylee's family can support her and help her heal completely.
He won't regret anything. He is intentionally acting this way so he can have a disconnect with her and not have to put the work in.
If can’t he can’t..now he could call or ft. The mom also has to be willing
Cried the whole last segment. going through this with my 5 year old since I had him 😭😮💨karamo I need you 😭🤧
LOVING these back to back uploads!🤸🏽♀️👏🏽🙃
Feel so bad for Kaylee she deserves better 🥰💕😍
Thank you for cutting his feed! Identifying in 3rd person is sheer gaslighting and sociopathic. My God.
Exactly what I said too. He's a sociopathic narcissist.
He's not immature, he just disassociated himself from this child. He doesn't care for her at all.
Smh he’s definitely a Podcast Passport Bih 💆🏾♀️ smh !! I’m about to look them up cuz yeah 😈
Hope baby girl is doing better 😢
I came here to write this. He’s a red pill bro
First story I am so happy that they are related I was hoping for that outcome love a happy and healthy ending ❤❤❤❤❤ 2nd story i was so happy when karamo said to cut his feed that dude was so draining doing nothing but talking in circles taking ZERO accountability
I am sooooo happy for this man finding a part of his mother all the way up from there
this entire episode had me on tears. i cant imagine all this pain in such nice people and i loved how karamo managed everything. i wish the best for everyone that appeared here and blessings ❤☀️
Lord I’m fighting tears in this first case
This Desmond guy is trying to speak in an 'intellectual' way to try and deflect and distance himself from his responsibility e.g using terms like 'you don't know the path'. What path is he on about? Then he uses the third person 'when a man'.🤬 He's gaslighting. I hope this young girl heals. She's self aware and knows how shes acting out and why, but with support, she will be ok.
He's not normal. This man clearly has a mental illness and or learning disability. He may even be bipolar. He has no empathy, can't understand and respond to simple questions, and can hold an adult conversation. It's like talking to an 8 year old.
What a way to start off this beautiful Friday ❤❤ i am so happy for James and his family. His daughter has a heart of gold and she has a beautiful soul. This is what real love looks like within the family dynamic. I pray they continue thriving together as a unit and i pray for an abundance of blessings and successes and happiness for them. I hope everyone has a great weekend and stay blessed 🙏🏼❤️☺️☺️
He’s a grown man I would walk 100 miles to see my daughter
2nd dude pissed me off...😢
James and I have the same story,it's so hard to look around and not see you. I met my dad and his 4 children at 53. I'm so glad he is able to find them. I hope the rest of the family embrace him. i only had a fraction of resistance. I'm grateful for this. and so happy for him!
#1 Show Karamo ❤
Awww that was so sweet happy he found his family ❤
This man has a beautiful spirit
What the hell Desmond! I hope she can take the recording to court.
Desmond is absolutely revolting
Fuck being a baby this child crying out for you and you just being a dick to her real grown men dont act like that Ariel your a great mom you and her step dad keep doing what y'all are doing she will be fine I'm praying for y'all ❤
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Karamo this is one of the best ones I love what you do & how professional & at the same time you show love & compassion at the same time you keep doing this amazing gift God Bless you my brother sending you lots of love & hugs 💜💜💜💜
It’s amazing that he was able to find his family ❤
Yay Congratulations 🎊🎈 Thank God they’re siblings
I loved his stepdaughter for appreciating her step dad ,what a beautiful specimen of a human being
How in the world did she get to the point of actually having sex with him?
That's my question. His super disgusting!!!
Honestly he is exhausting!!
i pray for this child…. my heart absolutely hurts for her and her mother
I love this show....especially the positive results....
James and Chantell the tears are rolling down my face I’m soooo happy for you ❤
Desmond is past a deadbeat and doesn't care but at all but wait my brother until you start to reap that's going to be epic
Beautiful family is everything ❤
Warms the heart. Hope this family is blessed abundantly.
They missed a lifetime together 😢.. i pray they go the rest of there days close and with all the love in the world ❤
Good day Karamo i have been watching your show ever so long i love them so much and you too i need all of them im not tired of them please send them ok im from jamai❤
Y’all this man really said “if you want Kaylee to be part of my life”… this man is sick 💯
This is an amazing , awesome and blessed story 🙏🏼 ❤ 🙌 !!! Karamo you and your associates are doing an awesome job .
Arshawna is so awesome. They out of line for having me check my gangsta with this story lol. SO beautiful. I'm happy for their family.
Love these shows and Steve W
Girl just help your daughter and forget him he’ll just make it worse
That man will NEED HIS DAUGHTER!!! He will reap his evilness with his daughter
So glad Karamo told this deadbeat about himself. Unfortunately this poor baby is better probably without him
Nothing wrong with being a single parent applauses for all the single parents
This episode hits me as I also grew up with an absent father, I didn’t even knew his name until I was 9 and met him for the first time, after that he was never even present... In the present, he takes me out for dinner every few months, weeks sometimes, but I'm 18 and I'm no longer the little girl who needed her daddy, so for me, he is like just another dude who I see now and then a few times a year
Even I’m tired of “When the man is…” & “When the man is…”. Mothers have no days off. We have to make a way out of no way. There is a step-dad in the home not giving excuses and making a way also. Miss the entire world with the gibberish. Children understand more than people realize. It’s bad when your own child knows you make differences, can smell BS a mile away, and has trust issues in middle school-the age when she is finding her identity.
NOBODY GAF ABT THE BUS STATION!!!
So wonderful god is good 👍❤
I pray for that mom and daughter
Karamo you're awesome in the way that you've dealt with people. You're fearless and always tells the truth. You're a defender of people's rights and are also a voice for the voiceless. God has placed you on earth to do this job. Honesty is the best policy and that's what I love about you. You are a jem you never 41:37 shy away from any topics, because of your intervention a lot of family lives that are broken have been mended and they're doing just great now. Thanks again for doing an excellent job. May God continue to bless you in a special way
And the internet will remember. That is pure Ego in detriment to your relationship with your child.
Y’all missed the part where the little girl says she can’t talk to her mom and she asked the mom if they could spend time together but they don’t 😢
Never seen karamo this upset before.. this guy needs to be put in his place!!
Karamo asked that man if he loved his daughter and he couldn’t simply say “yes” THAT WAS DISTURBING!!!
His story reminds me of my Aunt. 4yrs after my grandfather passed away a woman surfaced as his long lonmst daughter. Her mother gave her up for adoption and never told the father. She looks just like US! But its almost like my mother hates her. Its sad for not reason other then her being born.
What a great guy this Rev.!!!
I have been through the same thing with my son’s father. My son is now 25 and he haven’t seen him since he was 10.
😢 I'm so sorry
Happy for James.
I love your African clay bracelet Pastor! I have the same one and earrings! Blessings to you and your family's journey, y'all made me cry so hard!!!!
We all have to be careful who we have children by observes them get to know them
Im so Happy for James❤ Praying he will get to see his other siblings! His mom had him and gave him life which gave him opportunity of love! I would love see a follow-up on him❤
I always watch your show is absolutely fantastic 👏
Him being able to find his family and turn his life into something much more gave me chillies
OMG! Made me tear 😢up, what a nice 👍🏻 family, so happy 😃 4 them. 😊
She is a beautiful little girl, may God protect her and i hope gets help to properly manage her emotions ❤
now that father is a deadbeat
I went through that same situation with my ex-husband and 5 children… I did what I have to do with them, and never look back…
My pastor told me forgive him, but not until he goes to hell🤪🤣😂
When the dad said " if you want her to be in my life.." I was thinking, the father should be wanting to be in his daughter's life!! That man is legit trash and I don't pity any woman who willing to have a life with him.
Wow, always remember what you do always comes back and shows your hidden truth ❤❤ #amen
That was so sad I feel sorry for the little girl 😢
That ninja has a whole borderline personality disorder
I feel this so so much...been dealing with it for 17 years and now my baby has a baby herself... brought tears to my eyes for him to be so smug....but it reminds me so much of her father
She is very smart. Her dad needs to be honest with himself about his daughter. Is it her handicap issue why he have challenges of being around or is it he really just don’t want to be there so he don’t upset his family at home.
I love Karamo
😢heck I had tears