Popped on mine too, so strange. Hope she is okay now. Well, guess my click adds to the view count, but only watched a couple of minutes. Good luck young lady and your family.
I don't really know why I clicked on this video. I got divorced in 1988 (separated in 1987) because my (ex) wife decided that having a family wasn't important to her. She started drinking and doing drugs and "having relations" with several guys while in college even though she was married with 4 children. I did all I could to keep things together including dropping out of college. Anyway, long story short, I met a wonderful woman that was willing to take me with all the baggage (I was fighting for custody of the kids). We married in 1990 and had another child together and now have 7 grandchildren. Most folks would say a man couldn't have a clue where you're coming from but I assure you I do. Be strong and continue to do what is right by your children. Hopefully their father will get it together and be able to be part of their lives. My parents divorced when I was 5 and my father wasn't in my life so I can relate to what the kids are going through too. God Bless you and your family, Scott
I been dealing with this same addiction for the last 20 years with my ex-wife. She told me she's been using our whole relationship and that got me thinking how much did I really know about her and I realized I loved her potential more than I loved her.
@@sleeplessgamingct4227 They say love is blind. I think we should be more understanding and not be so critical. It's hard to let go of someone sometimes.
I went thru a DIVORCE myself and was so depressed, BUT eventually I got over it.. Anyone can.. It just takes time to heal the emotional, mental and physical wounds.. Hang in there and things will change..
I've been separated since around mid 2014 and she hit me with divorce papers in June 2018. I never talk about it to anyone but I'm still having a tough time, even to the point of isolating myself from whomever possible, becoming unemployed and losing literally everything, sleeping as much as possible so I can escape reality for a short time, and just letting myself go completely in every way you can imagine. I've always been a go-getter, I've always worked hard, I've always refused to let adversities defeat me in any way. I can run directly into a firefight...towards rounds that are buzzing past my head and never give up short of death, but now I've allowed separation and divorce to cause me to hunker down and crumble in defeat.
@@richardwilliams2560 you can't keep letting the divorce take hold of you like this it's to many beautiful women out there that I'm sure would love to love on you, Praying that you pull yourself up dust yourself off and move on💙💙
Girl, you are more wise than you give yourself credit for. Lots of us have been in dead marriages for 30 yrs or more. Kudos for you making the decision to get out with your boys when you did. No telling what could’ve happened and I hate to think of what could have. God Bless
My dad was an addict throughout my entire childhood, I lived with him at one point when I was about 12 and I'm still trying to heal from the abuse and trauma he put me through. I'm glad you're protecting your kids
This so very sad. I feel so bad for this young woman and her family. I feel her paid. I know that things will get better for and your family. Focus on your children. They are truly gifts sent to us to cherish. The poor father is also having a difficult journey. You will be in my thoughts. And You WILL get through this.
For once I don't mind saying me too! Became a cocaine dealer after losing his day job, that was the end of my being a stay at home mother, got a great job and 6 months later divorce. My 2 sons were 7 & 9 y/o and have a very troubled relationship with their father who is now dying of cancer.... should have known when he wouldn't change diapers, push a stroller or put a baby in the backpack. He didn't want to pay child support either. I so feel your pain Mama. I hope life is much much better for you. Sending you all big love.
A poem of the heart.... More than life itself, I love you. Beyond your wildest dreams, I love you. When you feel nothing, I love you. When you are depressed and suicidal, I love you. When you cannot face another day, I love you. When you are all alone, I love you. When no one else loves you, I love you. When no one seems to care, I love you. When the tears will not stop flowing, I love you. When there is no hope left, I love you. When you need a friend, I love you. When you need a best friend, I am here. I will never leave you child. I will never forsake you. I will forgive every wrong that you have done. I will overlook all of your mistakes. I will help turn your sorrow into joy. I will forever embrace you and hold you. If you will simply receive Me. ...That's all I ask. -The Lord Jesus Christ
Not sure what attracted me to your story. I’m probably old enough to be your Grandfather @ 72. I’m now a 31 year Recovering Alchoholic. I got sober but my wife & Family didn’t. So 2 years sober I filled for divorce. I looked around & said I don’t fit here any more. I believe in a Higher Power & was an active AA guy. I’d asked Higher Power for a woman who understood t Program. 9 months living alone Friends told of an out of town lady coming for Labor Day weekend, would I come over for dinner. Well, I did & we were a perfect match. She had been in Al-anon longer than I’d been sober. We commuter dated for 2 years as at 40, she got her Computer Programmer Degree, then got a job in my town & moved in😊! We’ve been together 27 years now & couldn’t be happier! Sober on my worst day is better than being a slave to a Drug! You have made t right decision. You can’t make someone Sober, they have to want it. You might consider Al-anon. It’s for You, not your Addicted X. May God Bless you & your Family. Keep doing the right things one day at a time & Your Higher Power will give you what you need in your life!
I can't get over the horrible, rude, disrespectful, ignorant, comments on this video. Like are you freaking kidding me! This is a woman in PAIN! She's sharing her story to help others. Omg this video has been in your "recommendations" DELETE IT! If you don't want to watch it DON'T! Like where has the compassion in the world gone. This woman is so beyond strong and brave and everyone who comments rude shit I wish nothing but badness on you!!!!!
The love for this drug is not something you learn about in class. I lost my first wife to this drug. You're blessed to have survived with your kids and life intact. Keep your head up.
Went through this with my ex wife... married 19 years... half that time she walked a slippery slope with meth and heroin... I invested so much of myself into her... into her dreams... and she let it all go to hell for drugs... I never felt such betrayal... last four years were the worst... when we were younger I put her through nursing school and she made really good money... I worked full time and took care of the kids almost entirely so she could sleep and take care of herself since we relied so heavily on her income... eventually she lost interest in me, the kids, our lives... she started cheating extensively... she spent so much time away from us it was like we were separated... she lost her nursing license and shortly after that we became homeless... I was able to buy an old RV which we lived in for about a year until the state took our kids away... that was the final straw... I decided to divorce her... I got the kids back but irreparable damage has been done... I moved across the country and started over with the help of family... I haven’t seen her or talked to her in over a year... she has nothing to do with the kids... my 16yo talked to her a couple months ago and asked her when she was going to straighten out her life and move to be closer to them... she told him she wasn’t going to because she was happy being a junkie and living on the streets... drugs are demons, man... once they get their talons in you, you’re unlikely to survive unchanged... this is the real pandemic of our times... stay strong and live for your kids... they will be your redemption
Oh my God I'm so sorry you've had to go through that. I admire your strength for getting through that. My son's father is an alcoholic and was abusive and I could relate to your story. He has no interest in going to rehab and has bipolar disorder type one and will not take his medication or go to therapy. I ended the relationship a year ago because I just couldn't take it anymore and there was no way I was going to let my son grow up in a dysfunctional household. Hugs.
You are 100 percent right drugs are demons will take over the user body n say n do horrible things. Help your love one specially with prayer to God Jehova. And then with everything else hopefully that person it's willing to fight back to recover everything ask for strength from God and you will receive it with LOVE.
I’m a recovering pill/heroin addiction. But have been clean almost 6 years and happily married with a 2 year old daughter. Thankfully my wife was patient and stuck with me. Addiction is a disease and can’t be cured but it can be treated and you can live free. If I can do it anyway can. If I started using again I would leave to not put my family through it but for today I’m clean. When I get cravings I think is this few moments of feeling good worth loosing my wife and daughter over and it’s not.
I know EXACTLY what you are going through. I was kicked out by my ex the week I found out I was pregnant with my first child. I had the incredible support of my mother (who has the same effect on me as your mom has on you) and unfortunately lost a lot of friends during that time, so it was very isolating. I changed jobs, moved, lost all my "friends" and started to try and rebuild a life when I sort of fell into a group of amazing people at my job. They were so incredibly kind and supportive and always had my back on the rare occasion my ex would show up at my job. I made life long friends and they even threw me my baby shower! Once I realized I was CAPABLE of being cared about, even when I had nothing to offer anyone else in return, that's when I finally cut all ties with him, and started what is now an excellent life. It took about a year and a half after I left before I finally loved myself enough to not take his shit anymore. Today, he does not call or attempt to speak with his child. We now have a lovely home, I have an excellent boyfriend who loves my daughter unconditionally, and I am getting my career in biochemistry started where I should have long ago. Almost 4 years later, we are happy and healthy and safe, and the relationship seems like a bad dream that I seldom ever think about. You are going to do great. Nothing is unachievable, and you have such a fantastic personality, your boys will grow to do nothing short of idolize you. You deserve every bit of happiness, and I hope your light at the end of the tunnel comes quickly for you. You have all my support and love.
Two years of mental, emotional and psychological abuse is more than enough of your life and your kids' lives. You can not help an addict until they want to help themselves. YOU did nothing wrong! It was his choice and the monster grabbed hold. Best to move on in a positive direction for you and your children. May God richly bless you as you move forward.
Divorce is wrong! Tell the truth if you’re a Christian. Only love to you all! But if you love someone then you tell the truth. I have been through rape and physical abuse but then I became a serious Christian. I sought God and He helped us both. God hates divorce. I’m sorry and please forgive me if this comment offends anyone. Tell the truth. Don’t be seduced by this world. Don’t get divorce. Did you try praying?
@@thereisabattleforyoursoulj3787 Fucking looney tune! Let me guess u live in the middle of the country. Love "christians" who fucking think they should judge other when that is Gods fucking job. Dip shit.
I have no idea why this popped up today...but I watched you. My life was pretty much like yours.i raised my kids alone and got rid of the drug addict I was married to. I’m still here...50 years later. Life has a way of working out. Good luck to you.
your story strikes deep into my heart! May God bestow enough strength to cope up with the sufferings that you had gobe through. I hope you're in a better off position now. May God rekindle you with his blessings to lead a happy life !!
Like they say in the rooms, they live to use and use to live. They put the substance over their own families. Nothing is more important to them than their next fix. This is true even with alcoholics.
I'm really appalled by the people defending this man. My own father was/is an addict. He was (and still is?) addicted to crack. You may call it a 'mental illness', but it is a choice. He chose to take these substances knowing that it would ruin his life and the lives of those around him. I cannot believe that people would classify it on the same level as things like depression, schizophrenia, psychosis: things that people cannot control. Anyway, as soon as crack came into the picture, my dad began stealing from my mom, he wouldn't come home, he put me in VERY dangerous situations, smoked crack with me in the house, brought me to his dealers place (my mom at this point was oblivious to his addiction, as addicts are incredibly manipulative). He beat my mother, and when she realized it was all because of the drugs she left him. But that didn't stop him from breaking in a week later and beating her again. When he went to rehab, the counsellors told him (like they do all addicts) that nothing is their fault, and that they should forgive themselves, and that everyone around them should forgive them, too. When my mother went to counselling, she was also told that she should 'forgive him so they could move on'. Rehab, and the countless times he went, never worked. You should NEVER 'give addicts a break because they're sick', because it only enables them to make bad choices. I myself was addicted to cocaine for a period of time and although I am 100% okay now and I never "ruined" my relationships, I can say that I put my poor mother through hell a second time and it is one of my biggest regrets in life. It was her 'no bullshit' attitude that kept me from ruining my life. Addicts are not like normal people. To this day my father lies about how long it's been since he last did drugs. He claims that he doesn't do crack anymore, but he 'does coke at parties', and is also an alcoholic instead. I've seen how an addict can ruin a family when left to run amuck. This woman did the right thing, and cutting him out was the best thing for her and her kids.
Very very true, it was best for the kids and her. But, he does need help, and drugs can never overpower love. I'm sure her boyfriend cares, even as stupid as he was, I can't imagine him not caring if her and the kids died (sounds depressing but yeah) and I think that's what people is trying to say :)
so based off everything you just said... YOU made the choice to start taking cocaine and in your own words that means you took "these substances knowing that it would ruin his (your) life and the lives of those around him (you)"?? And again, in YOUR OWN words you said the best thing she could do is cut the guy out of her life... so you think YOU should have been cut out of your families life?? Or does all that apply only to this guy and your father and not yourself? You cant have it both ways. Either all three of you are evil drug abuser who don't care about your families or none of you are...
tronclay No, it very much applied to me. I'm happy that my mom threatened to kick me out and threatened to revoke my rights in the household. It forced me to straighten myself out. She kept me under the equivalent of house arrest, I was watched 24/7 and was not allowed out of the house. I didn't ruin anyones life, though, that's the difference. My attitude changed, I was much less hospitable, but I was never abusive, manipulative, I never stole, etc. If I had, my mother would have kicked me out right away. It is not her job to clean up my fuck-ups after everything she did for me. I knew what I was doing when I took these drugs. I did it as an escape, and I did it in hopes that I would die. Luckily my family's attitude snapped me back into reality. And if it hadn't, I would be dealing with the consequences. It is not fair to torment innocent people. My father is scum. He put me in dangerous situations, put my mother in financial/emotional distress, damaged me emotionally, and still has the audacity to expect me to forgive him. The problem is that every time he was forgiven, he took that as his incentive to find sneakier ways to do what he was doing. This man needs help, yes, but it is not her job to suffer and allow her kids to suffer for his mistakes.
Tea Cloud As long as you admit you are as much of a scumbag as he is for taking the risk that you would both ruin your families lives, then we are on the same page. You seem to blame your father for all your actions, its obvious by the way you keep bringing him up. Does this womans husband have the same luxury of blaming someone else? Who knows, all we know is what ONE person in a bad relationship claims happened.
tronclay I wasn't blaming my father for anything really, merely pointing out how his stupid choices negatively affected my family, and how this woman's situation could have turned out a similar way if she had of 'just forgiven him and moved on'.
God that was like ripping skin off my arm for fun. I don't know how i got conned into watching this video. But once it started i just wanted to find out what drug he was on.Took her 15 minutes to say meth. Longest clickbait life waste. She clearly wrote this beforehand and really thought how can i keep as many details out of this as possible...but belittle my ex as much as i can to validate my life. She may even be justified, but without this martyr's back story it just sounds like narcissim. Also youtube...you never were awesome but throwing this crap into my list...pretty low youtube pretty low.
You are a beautiful soul I feel bad for you and your boys but sweetheart keep your head up you are a beautiful woman and you will find a good man eventually I will keep you in my prayers
It's like the person you love and the father of your children is dead, yet he's still around. Like a zombie with a mean spirit. No job yet he colors in his adult coloring books. I truly understand the heartache. As his mother it breaks my heart!
Wow omg so sorry to hear this.. I'm sure hes not a badd person I'm sure hes just addicted to drugs.. It's a vicious cycle Alanon meetings are very helpful for family and friends of any type of addict alcoholic or other... Really helps to allow us to Detach with love.. The more he is enabled by anyone the more chances he will stay the way he is... It's our job as the sober person to understand what we are doing that enables the behavior... Al anon is free in every state of the world... The meetings are free and there is no dues for membership but what you do get out of the program will help change your life forever and free you from the pain of another's addiction... Much love to you
I’m so glad that I came across your video. My husband is doing the same things that your ex did. I’m moving out this coming June. I was staying with him for the kids and realized is affecting the kids more then helping them. He is never around
Sierra Brown u WILL be fine!!!!!!! I cannot emphasize that enough...not that it’s easy, but somehow we mommas get ourselves together & take care of business. Just know that u aren’t going thru it alone...u may want to find some other single moms that can support each other. Best of luck to u. Saying a prayer for u now...
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, I used to use meth and it is a horrible substance, but I was blessed with my husband who helped me get through it. Once I realized after using it for so long that I was sleeping on it, not losing weight and not getting the "high" that I once did and also realizing that it was stealing my happiness from tomorrow I decided that it wasn't worth it. The come downs were not worth it and once I sobered up and made another realization that I would lose my husband so I made the choice to stop cold turkey. It was the best decision of my life, I mean I did have to switch down to another drug, but I eventually stopped altogether. I don't even have the craving to do it anymore because I'm like, "you know I don't really feel like being depressed tomorrow". I went from using meth, switched to coke and now I just drink occasionally, however just like I'm a happy drunk I was also a happy person when I was high and not aggressive or scandalous, and most people were surprised at my honesty when they asked me if I was high. I was more or less a hazard to myself. I think once he truly sobers up he will realize how much he misses his kids. All addicts do, I know that because I used to talk to the worst of them who had kids. Just keep on keepin' on, enjoy your life, enjoy your kids and once time goes by he will come back (to the kids)
Divorce is often these days, im 16 year old guy, and my view on marriage is a no. Kids are supposed to learn from their grown ups, but what are the kids gonna learn when they see their grown up fail plenty of times over and over again with marriage. Im not saying that everybody fail, but now days less people stick together till the end. Many people tend to get lazy when they are married, thinking '' i got the girl already, dont need to anything '' , they stop putting effort in the relationship etc and that leads to divorce. Ofcourse there are plenty of reasons for divorce, but if both just put as much effort it wouldn't be these many divorces. I rather have a partner for years before marrying her. If me/she gets lazy in the relationship, me/she could be gone when me/she comes home.
Thelrbe :Marriage isn't a fairy tale. All marriages have problems. Its when you both choose to stick together through better or WORSE. Marriage is the best adventure you could ever take. You"re 16, things will change. You will learn that grown ups are human too... the people you look up to, will one day seem so flawed... But thats all of us. Love and forgiveness will get you through. This video breaks my heart, I am praying for you and anyone that goes through problems in their marriage. I watched my parents go through something I thought I would never see them go through. My world was SHATTERED. My mother told me the only way that they would stay together is if there was a miracle from God. And thats exactly what God gave her. No one saw it coming, but Jesus saves and restores. Satan comes to kill steal and DESTROY. Don't let him. Find your strength in the Lord. Blessings
TheIrbe im 17 and i totally agree of course it aint perfect but people dont want to stick through the tough times and many people get lazy is soooooooooooo scary
Iona G two sides to every story. She may deserve jail. She might deserve a presidential medal. Being deserving is not a good way to encourage good responsible behaviour. (Psychologist). That’s my experience of 15 years.
Poor memory often happens to people who suffer PTSD from constant abuse and elevated stress levels/ being in fight or flight mode. Your amygdala which is partly responsible for memory, is compromised when you're under stress for long periods of time like sounds like you have been.
Or it can happen from 10 other causes, you are not helping this way. She never claimed to show any compassion for whatever her husband was going through either.
@@georgiosdrosinos7531 she's not an addiction counselor or mental health care worker. When you're trying to look out for the well-being and mental stability of your children in a situation where you're living with an addict, you have to put your compassion aside. I lived with an addict for over 10 years who was mentally abusive, manipulative and volatile because I was so compassionate for his state... I felt so bad for him, but now my son resents me for having stayed with him for so long. If you've never lived with an addict and you've never been the other parent, the responsible party, you probably wouldn't understand her lack of compassion.
@@sunshinestatesurvival What is more interesting is why you even lived with an addict for over 10 years? You are just projecting then, because in this case we have a marriage withsomeone who was not an addict for 11 years and took the woman 6 months to divorce him without even asking whats wrong.
@@georgiosdrosinos7531 she WAS with an addict. I don't know what video you are watching. But you do sound like a super compassionate understanding person yourself, so I'm sure you'd understand why a compassionate empath would stay with their addict husband for 10 years.
Why do people commit to having kids when they're going to divorce? This day and age people are failing relationships so often I'm not even going to have one let along consider kids. It's much easier
I'm 99.99% sure she didn't enter into her marriage thinking "hey he's probably going to become addicted to drugs and make our home a dangerous place to raise children" and marry him and have children with him anyway.
***** It doesn't seem that that was the case with this woman and her family, but there are people out there who have a child when things aren't going well in the relationship, thinking that a baby will fix it and bring them closer together again. It happens regularly.
Did you not watch the whole video? She said she never could fathom a divorce ever and that's why she tried for so long to stand by his side. Question for you... you marry the love of your life, you are together for 10+ years... lets say not drugs let's say he starts beating you.. physically abusing you, or not that just the verbal.. do you stay with him forever letting your kids see him hitting or constantly yelling at you calling you a bitch a cunt yelling in your face, really do you want to put not just yourself, but more importantly your children through that? Having them constantly stressed worried scared? or would you rather take them out of that situation and let them see their dad or mother who is doing that abuse? You never plan to get divorced, you don't plan to do drugs, you never set out saying im going to get addicted to this or that.
I'm sorry. Hopefully your better by now. Time heals. I was him. I understand everything you said. I lost a career due to an injury and spiralled into drugs. My wife divorced me in 2010. A strange thing happened then. I missed my family more than the drinking, more than the drugs. It wasn't easy . I wish it had been,but it wasn't. I cleaned myself up. Started talking to my wife every now and then. She started dating again. Not easy for me to deal with. But slowly over time. Things became better. We talked more. Hung out a little bit more and more. She said the old me felt like he was back. I haven't had a drink or drugs in 8 years. We remarried and life is back to normal. Maybe even better. So I get you and your story. Rehab is not for people who need help, it for people who want help. Not sure how I came across this. But I felt compelled to say either way life can get better. Thanks for your story.
Kendalika, After much soul searching and walking to the top of a mountain to do some contemplation, I have reached the conclusion I still don't give a shit. People who air their dirty laundry in public are attention seekers and fake. Kendalika I would like to Kindalika you but you have a real foul mouth lol
Kendalika, Its not hate, I was just joking but at the same time people with problems should confide in their friends or family if they need to, a public forum like this is not the place to do it, any way I wish you , this woman and every one else all best
because this woman's is trying to profit off suckers who view her vids, did you look at the video description? Its full of ad/paid promo links. She is trying to make a sucker out you and profit off it.
The power of the paid promotion... but also the weakness of the paid promotion, since many to whom it was recommended didnt seem to want to see it, and in fact left an incredible amount of hate filled comments lol. They gotta work on the paid promotion... or maybe shes just gotta spend more haha.
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@B AA I still will pray for those broken women and miserable women that they find GOD and know what true love is. God bless you and have a happy Sunday.
I feel a bit sad about the attitude of divorce indisciplined men pose. I need a serious relationship and I pray that I live forever with whoever she may be
This video was made 5 years ago, it's April 2019, and this is in my recommendation.. Of course UA-cam knows I'm so damn nosey - thanks!! No matter how old the video, many woman (fortunetly not myself) can relate. I'm sure you're doing fine, you seem like a strong person. Either way, I hope all is well with you and the kids. Thank you for this video.
I kept seeing this pop up, and I finally listened. I'm going through something similar with Divorce but know that God's got your back. You might be in a better place right now. May God bless you.
I recommend Alanon or Nar-Anon. You can Google the meeting times. Please go to at least six meetings before making a decision of whether it is for you.
@THANATOS FANATICOS dude i'm just pointing out how i'm getting a recommendation for a video that was years ago, there is literally no reason to get mad here, MATE.
Your story resonated with me. My son's father is an alcoholic and he won't even consider going to rehab. He also has bipolar type 1 and won't take meds and won't go to therapy. Sometimes even though it hurts we know we have to let them go. I felt this. He was also verbally, emotionally and physically abusive throughout our 3-year relationship. Our son is 1 year old now but I left his father when he was two weeks old. I knew I couldn't live that way anymore and I wasn't going to allow my son to grow up like that.
so i watch strategy game lets plays. Maybe You tube thinks divorce is a strategy game? Oki i look how to tell YT what i like watching then, thx for the tip
IIIspirit No, UA-cam doesn't think a strategy game is the same. Press "not interested" and "tell us why" and it will tell you what video triggered this.
google has been testing new software.. same with google maps, if it doesn't have enough data on certain areas, it will take you through those areas to get more information even though it's not the fastest route. they are trying to see if people will notice and if they can change what people watch/are interested in. Same with facebook and twitter.
Can you please do an update for all of us that had this randomly pop up in our feed April/May 2019?! 🙏 I think it's safe to say we're all wondering. 🤔 I have to say I was glued. It takes a strong person to speak about the details of your own divorce. I'm divorced as well, (re-married now,) but I admire your strength to share your truth! 🙌💖💪
@@BLWSquared Thanks for the advice. I couldn't wait for an update to never come so I actually flipped through her videos lol. She is so happy now! Great kids, great bf, great life. 😍
Ginger Ninja Thank you both ..definitely agree and will search for more. I have recently gotten braver on my UA-cam spiritual reading channel and added a playlist of "Shanny Testifies" and speak on things like my sexual abuse story. Etc. It's helpful for us all to share whoever is willing. Blessings guys genuinely !
So sorry Jeni. Don't ever beat yourself up for missing signs. I was a meth addict and hid it from all of my loves ones. I have a video up on my channel titled "the truth not suitable for children" where I finally broke my silence about my past drug abuse. You absolutely did the right thing. I hope for his sake, your sake, and your boys sake that he can turn it around and have a good outcome. I have seen what meth can do as I lived it myself, and have seen many marriages fail for that exact reason. I have also lost loved ones to it. Again I am so sorry that you had to go through that all.
I grew up with both my parents using drugs , my dad ended up committing suicide when I was 14 , and moved out because my mom continued to use and I got pregnant and didn't want my baby around it , I'm now 17 and my mom passed away last year because of drug overdose , it's takin such a toll on my life , a big amount of my other family members use drugs and I choose to not be around them because I don't want my daughter to grow up seeing what I grew up seeing , but I'll be 18 in 2 months , I already have my own house and car , and doing a lot better than before , I have two younger sister and two younger brother who now stay with my grandparents and there doing a lot better now , of course we all have our emotional issues , but life goes on , I wish you and your kids the best !
Wow, you're 18 and has a kid while living on your own with horrible memories. You ought to take a week off and go to the beach while your child lives with your grandparents and just chill. And maybe try to smile :P
My dad cheated on my mum with my teacher and they had 3 kids then he cheated on my teach with a model and had 4 kids but then he came back to my mum but she was over him and she was dating this really rich guy called max and she's not a gold digger my mums really rich so she's not a gold digger so anyway my dad got rejected from my mum so he then went back to his model gf and they got married and had 3 more kids so I have a lot of sisters and brothers and 3 mums and 2 dads and I had a gf I made her pregnant now we have a child named Jess and she's so cute but there's no way I'm marring her until I'm 26 cause right now I'm 17 and my gf is only 14
I am currently divorcing my wife who i found out is a covert narcissist. It wasn't my fault and it wasn't your fault either. You are an amazing, beautiful woman. His loss.
This video is almost 5 years old and it randomly showed up in my feed. We all have a story to tell. My marriage was brutal. Thanks for telling your story.
You got all that from 1 single UA-cam video? It takes years to really know a Person. I’m sorry but no one could tell anything from a single video. You’d be surprised at how fair people can be on UA-cam and Facebook.
You have no makeup, your hair is a mess and you try to fix it with a pen, a very casual dress, crying,.............................. But you still look very BEAUTIFUL. Because you are a GENUINE person. A Pure, Honest, Brave, Kind, Real,................................ woman! I have lots of respect for you. Thanks for your GREAT video. I Subscribed. Love you, sister
@Lala lalala Your comment made me sad.... you sound cold, bitter, hateful, and misogynistic (and I don't know if you're male or female). You're judgemental and critical not only of this girl who is having a difficult time realizing that her dream family is now shattered, but of women in general. Sounds like you have a cold heart.🖤
Poor lady. May you find joy and peace and be blessed and increased. May you be protected from evil and guarded by angels of the heavenly courts that exceed in strength.
Jessica Alba will probably hire her to work at The Honest Company and they'll both burst into tears and hug each other before the interview even starts. With Jessica blubbing, "you're hired!" and then both women crying even more because it's all so adorable when one sister helps another. Then they'll both make videos about sharing stories and new beginnings. Eventually Dr Phil will join them and together they'll talk through those issues and have a group hug and a few more tears will be shed. With Dr Phil looking on proudly at how much progress his girls have made. Then they'll talk about their journey on Ellen and you'll see them doing Carpool Karaoke with Corden. Then the book will come out, "My Journey - Never give up - A woman's struggle to find herself in the modern world" with a forward from Dr Phil.
Lmao! Although, my wife comes home and spends an hour in the bathroom when she comes home and when I walk in a room she puts her phone down as if she wasn't on it. I asked her about it and she said" I think you think,I am addicted to the phone" . I said,you are! However, wtf? Time will tell.
***** You're right. They would be lucky to have their father. Too bad he made poor decisions and is no longer the type of person that deserves to be a part of his children's lives. I hope that he can turn his life around for their sake but I doubt it.
CRAZY married me and said I drank too much. I met CRAZY in a bar, go figure... She said I pressured her for sex, but we were celibate before marriage. I coulda hit it if I wanted, but I didn't out of respect for her father as we were at her home.
rtrain67 I've been in so many relationships with women and the one thing that I have learned (if anything) is that most of them are full of shit, (and I'm sure this woman is no exception to that rule) I'm sure if her "ex" could give his side of the story it would paint a more lucid picture. The fact that she's disrespecting her "ex" by publicly airing their dirty laundry here on Youtub and engaging in this poor me victim porn only underscores her cuntyness. Her ex should think of their divorce as a blessing.
I am going through a Divorce and typed in Divorce Vlog when I ran across this...Sweetheart I am so sorry, I have tears in my eyes for you as I watch and type this . When you loose someone to addiction, it's worse than loosing them to death because of the vicious cycle of having your heart ripped out of your chest repeatedly. I left someone that I almost married because he chose addiction over being in mine and not what still keeps you up at night... I pray for your ex husband, that he doesn't loose sight of why he call his self a man and he gets sober for his self and your kids... Wipe your eyes love, God has a plan... Always remember that...
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As a child who had a father with a substance abuse problem, know you did do the right thing. Your children will thank you at some point. I have thanked my mother for getting me away from that. I'm so sorry you are going through this, but you are right! There is a light. Keep making your way towards it. Lots of love and prayers for your family.
I thank your mom for leaving my dad does Crack he has my whole life I'm 16 and I have older sisters the oldest is about to turn 24 and I'm old enough to know now my mom will never leave my "father".
Since you are 16 if there is someone whilling to help support you and allow you to go to school you have the option of emancipation also. Remeber you have the power to make your own choices and to not follow your parents path.
Drug addiction is a serious thing. I grew up as a child in a similar story where my mother was also married to someone that had developed a drug addiction and she did struggle after she left. She focused on her kids and all of her children including myself are great people with good careers. You will find love again and if you focus on your children they also may have a great chance on making good choices in life. As for the person that is the drug addict. you must be a distant support system so that they can have the reason "Why" they want to become addicted free.
Well, that's kind of the problem actually. We live in a society full of people who think that just because divorcing is doable that it's completely ok to just marry and divorce whoever whenever. That's not really what it's for. In a situation like this, obviously it's better to just make a break and move on, but like abortion not being birth control, divorce isn't your safety net for marriage.
No one said anything about a safety net. Personal happiness is above all else in my opinion. This situation of course is different but every relationship has it's circumstances. So I don't see a problem with divorce. It's just a break up on paper.
No see marriage is suppose to more than a BG or gf. It's suppose to be for better or for worse. But you also have to really KNOW who u are marrying cuz it's suppose to be one person forever.
I am so very sorry that you had to experience this. He is sick, and has almost no control over the addiction. I lost my brother to alcoholism. Even knowing it was killing him, he could not stop. You are absolutely beautiful and obviously very strong to be able to share a very painful thing in life. God bless you and yours.
I'm very sorry that you lost your brother. My son's father is an alcoholic and I'm pretty sure there's something wrong with his liver and he knows he needs to stop but I don't think he ever will. I don't think I'll ever live to see the day he gets clean and sober and I've accepted that. That's a huge part of the reason we are no longer together. He has many demons that I can't help him fight anymore. It's up to him whether or not he wants to stop and get help but I'm not going to be along for the ride anymore.
Jackie Menschausen I worked full time, took care of the house... his money was his money and if I needed anything or spent my own money I was selfish ... turned out he had another girlfriend with s child for which I was duped into wrapping a present for... while I was pregnant... the day I caught him with the other woman, the first thing he told me is that I was selfish. There was just no going back after that. However, I spent the next five years dealing with accusations that I was keeping our child away from him despite agreeing to a generous visitation plan and honoring it, plus allowing him access to our child during ‘my legallly appointed parenting time’ pretty much every time he asked... only to have it used against me in court as though I was asking for him to take our child during my parenting time. Our son just turned 18 and that kind of shit never ended. I usually advise women to do it on their own or if a dude is absent... let him be and thank your lucky stars that you are not stuck dealing with someone whose parenting priority is to use the children to hurt you. I know a lot of men who do this... although women will do it to men as well... I just know more about the stories of men doing it to women as I have seen what they go through. My situation was nothing compared to what I’ve seen other women go through and for no real reason. If you feel you must share parenting with a man, take a long time to get to know him and do not ignore the signs. I was with mine for five years before I got pregnant and there were signs that he was not a good one to reproduce with and I ignored the signs. But I did not know the signs to look for... Ignorance rarely protects anyone from horrible long term consequences. Don’t expect people to simply do what is right and by all means don’t think the court system will protect you somehow... it does to a certain extent, but the courts can do nothing about a lot of the crap you will have to endure.
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It is Jan.7, 2020...I don't know why I clicked on this, but know you ABSOLUTELY succeeded in helping someone...me, and in a completely different way. Thank you. I will probably never actually know you, but I owe everything to you and to God for me clicking when I normally wouldn't.
Hello I stumbled on to your video for some reason....after watching the video I so know why I was sent here. Your story almost word for word could be mine 11 yrs ago.Except I have one son (now 20) I could talk with you for hours young Lady....but I will say one thing instead....YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, NEVER FORGET THIS, BELIEVE IT. I know we love this person and don't wish to rip our Kids lives apart, but the kids (and us Mommies) are in danger. I knew it was time to go when I had to sleep outside my son's bedroom door on the floor because I was so scared my Ex might mistake my son for an intruder in his paranoid state. Keep talking about it and loud and clear to anyone who will listen because it gets easier and less painful each time. I will be rooting for you and your kids....You are on the right Path, sincerely Lynne
It makes sense to live him,yes because of the drugs, yes. But if we hear the other side, who knows? But the drugs involved, no question about it. Run lady, Run! You n kids don't deserve that. That I understand.
@@shadowwarriorshockwave3281 Probably because of the new algorithm that youtube is messing with that is supposed to get you to watch things outside your regular feed. I was watching comic con panels that I had missed because they had been taken down and uploaded again.
I admire you for sharing your abuse story, and having the courage to stand up for your boys through divorce. We dealt with addiction in our family it steals the person you love away. It's the worst.
I'm not sure how I came across this video...but you are such a gorgeous person inside & out! I just love listening to you speak, so strong but amazingly sweet.
I'm watching in 2019. Being a woman who lost the man I love to Alcohol... even though he is passed out on the couch now. Addiction is Evil. I've never not known alcoholism and drug addiction around me. It IS ok to Leave. You do not sound like someone who is looking for anything but for him to be a better person. It's unfortunate. I've spent the better part of 20 years in a battle with Budweiser... that, once I decided I can't win. I've stopped Fighting it. Live together, no kids, Love him Dearly. But, I ONLY have Myself to worry about. People who do not understand addiction, will bash you. Stay Strong.
Same here my husband is addicted to bud light and I feel so sad most of the time because i feel alone and i shouldn't feel alone if hes my husband sometimes he talks to me sometimes he dosent he deinks every day and I feel like i have to walk on egg shells around him he gets angry if i tell him to please drink less get help its no use 😭😭 how can I leave a man that I love how can I fight this
addiction is so terribly real, hopefully one day he realizes alcohol is a shitty drug and stops drinking. its literally paying good money to poison yourself, huge waste.
@@stenyguzman2125 The Only thing you can do is find strength for YOU. I am in no danger. And, there are no children in my home. For me, it is a decision to stay, ALANON is a good place, if that is an option. However... if you or children are unsafe... That changes things Greatly. My son is well over 20, things only got BAD in the past several years... My life started with alcoholic parents... I was Determined to At Least give my son Better than that. And, in those years... things were better. Once there was no child home... All limits were blown out.
@@stenyguzman2125 nothing will change until you change them. Take a stand, enough is enough! Life is too short to not live it. Put God in the middle, pray for your husband & ask God for the strength to conquer this. HE can & will make things hapoen. Know your worth! You deserve to be happy just as much as anyone else. Take a stand & fight for your happiness!! ❤
I have never commented on a UA-cam video before, but felt compelled as I have experienced being in a relationship with an addict, and 11 years later, though we are no longer together and he's lost his friends and family and countless other things, he still cannot quit slowly killing himself. I would just like to say it does get easier and leaving him and contacting his family was the right thing to do. All you can do is offer your help- but it's up to him to take it. The person who commented (Marcin O) saying that you don't "loose" someone to drugs/alcohol, has obviously never gone through this type of situation and is absolutely wrong in saying what he (she?) said. Addiction is so much stronger than you think it is. It has more control over the addict than anything or anyone. All logic, all rationality, all reason, all people, all things of significance and importance are out of play. The addiction completely takes over the addicts' life. So saying that someone may not have had a strong enough relationship is completely irrelevant; because once they jump into this heavy currant river, it is indescribably difficult to attempt to help them out of it, regardless of what kind of relationship you had with this person. The relationship with drugs is more powerful. You are trying to swim up stream while carrying another person who is swimming in the opposite direction. The difference between the pull of a relationship and the pull of drugs is that drugs physically affect you; whereas a relationship is more of a connection of the mind and emotions. Though a strong relationship with someone can be powerful, the relationship with drugs can be stronger because it gains control of your mind, emotions, and your physical body. They begin to physically need the drug, like one physically needs water. EVERYTHING becomes secondary to the addiction. You have done the right thing. You cannot help someone who does not want to be helped. I hope your ex can one day accept the help that is offered to him.
This is so well-said, samantha, it deserves 1000 upvotes! It's almost unbelievable there are people out there like Marcin O. who believe you can love someone enough so they never do anything hurtful. There are so many things wrong with that idea, starting with the astounding assumption that people NEVER change. No matter how much love and understanding and communication and work someone puts into a relationship, it's still possible that the other person will slowly start to perceive going home and doing the same thing "monotonous" and conclude the only way to relieve their boredom is to try new and possibly dangerous things. Blaming the victim for this is so reprehensible it makes my blood boil.
Why is this weeping woman being recommended to me every single day i turn on UA-cam??Why???I dont care about a divorce and i dont want to know.Please leave me alone
And yet watching and commenting on it increases your chances of getting more similar recommended videos. Learn to click the "not interested" option and stop complaining?
I myself, I've been on both sides. I've been the addict. I've been the asshole and I've been the one who has gone through exactly what you've been through, struggling with a significant other who struggled and still continues to struggle with meth. I myself, I struggled for 10 years and had a horrible battle against heroin. It was a never ending cycle, one that I really thought I wouldn't make it out alive. I became clean 10/1/07. Throughout that time, I found myself in several different toxic relationships. It was one after another. I chose to get clean after relapsing dozens of times throughout that 10 year period. I lost everything I owned 3 times over. I did prison time and one day I woke up and had enough. I got into rehab after serving a stint in prison and decided to focus on myself. One thing I've learned, you can't beat addiction on your own. It's impossible. You need that structure and foundation to rebuild your own self worth. To be a better Father, a better person, and to become a better productive member of society. I have been clean for almost 14 years now. Within that time, I have gotten married to a person who struggled with alcohol. I broke it off. She got clean and came back to ask for a second chance. I gave her that respect. We had a child and got married and all a sudden. She turned to meth. Unbeknownst to me, I didn't know this, but before we met, She dabbled in crystal meth. She kept that from me. But she started drinking again and she was literally drinking and driving with the children in the vehicle while I was at work. I started getting paranoid about what she was doing around the children and what they were being subjected to, after finding cut straws throughout the house. One day she came home and ran the vehicle into the side of the house and ran into the house to throw up in the bathroom. I went outside to find that her vehicle hit the front porch and it was still on, in drive, while the children were still seat belted in. That day I finally put my foot down. I called the police to remove her from the home. I ended the marriage. I Filed for divorce and custody of our daughter. Our children and I lived through that long enough. I not only had to protect our child, but another child she had to another man. I had to keep them safe. Today, she's still doing the same stuff. I found out last July, she had a friend overdose in her home after her and her boyfriend ran and got them drugs. They tried moving the guy out of their home to drag his lifeless body into the alley to make it appear he died somewhere other than her home. They could've saved this guy's life, but instead, They waited 2 hours before calling the police after they couldn't move the guy far due to his weight. He overdosed on crystal meth and heroin. Then a month later. Her 1 1/2 year old son, climbed out onto their porch roof twice in two weeks. CYS was called. She's on parole for 2 3&4th offense DUI's and a drug sale and two more charges she caught in prison after smuggling drugs into a prison facility. Trust you me, you couldn't make this shit up if you tried. Now I've been fighting through custody the last 4 years. It's been terrible. But I have to do what I have to do, in order to protect these children. I thank God everyday that I was clean and sober when I had my children. I couldn't live with myself having put them through that. But what I was guilty of, is putting up with it from someone else. Trust me, what you did, is what was best for you and those children. You're strong, never settle for less. You protect those kids with everything you have within yourself. You did the right thing, because trust me. It could be a hell of alot worse. I've been on both sides. I lived it and still taking the necessary steps to protect my daughter and her other children. Battling custody is no joke. It's the hardest thing a parent has to go through, and it's even harder for a child. They suffer the most, But it's what you got to do in order to protect them
I'm here policing comments, making sure no one is being rude ;) to my soulmate friend, and I'm so happy to see the support :) I think this will help you too, to see that you aren't alone, as well as others to see that they aren't alone.
I called it within the first 5 minutes. Once you've loved someone with this problem you never forget. I'm so sorry. But you'll be able to look out for this in the future. Hope it's okay that I pray for you.🙏🏻♥️
After 24 years of marriage, MY wife has no flame for me. We are both busy etc, but she won't even kiss me, i feel like i've done all i can do.....getting tired of being last....
baddbradd89 Don't listen to anyone... LiSTEN to your heart...Try to read more...fill your mind with educated words...This world lives on emotional drama...24 years...long time...Try to remember what brought you two together...If there is no extra martial stuff going on...It could be a health issue...low this or that...Try to express yourself in writing...Woman love to read especially "LOVE" notes over & over....it might sink in that your are in pain over this absent marriage partner....Dating is one thing...but... marriage is a promise to be present....If you are not communicating the burdens......how would she know...24 years...relate to that woman sir...thank you...
@@lizmoimendoza5341 no cheating on either side...100% sure and no, I'm not nieve. She is wrapped up into her job and is always on the computer or phone with other teachers whom I know. I've been on test. replacement for 1.5 yrs, lost 20 lbs....I know I can be an asshole, but affection would cure it
I came across your channel because I’m searching for “leaving Lularoe” videos and then I here I am two hours later on video after video about your ex’s drug abuse and divorce stuff. Clearly we have lots in common and I’m so glad I’ve found you! You’re so brave for speaking up and giving other women a voice and allowing them to know it’s ok to speak their truth of what’s happening in their lives! Love your videos so far! I’m glad to see you’re very happy in the place you and your kiddos are today! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
This was such a hard video for her to make... And I'm crying for her reading these comments from asshole trolls just being so mean to her.. God bless you girl
When you sit here and have emotions over some random ass person on the internet that you've never known, never seen, and never talked to and you sit here and cry about it - you're probably some crazy, emotional, psycho bitch such as this lady in the video. No wonder you like her, you are just like her. So just like her, fuck off.
I was with my ex-husband for 14 years. We had three amazing children together. He battled addiction and alcoholism off and on during our entire relationship. I tried so many ways to help him and to save our family. He did not want to change. They have to be the ones who want to change for themselves. You did the right thing by leaving. I wish I had ended my marriage sooner. I never thought I'd feel that way. I thought we'd be together forever. I loved him and watched the person I cared so much about completely disappear. It got so bad at the end that he tried to kill me and kill himself twice in front of my children. I brought that up during our divorce hearing. The judge asked him if he had anything to say in defense of himself on that. He simply said "no". I thought for sure he would deny it or at least try to make an excuse for it, but there was just nothing he could say. I was being honest. The judge gave me sole custody of the kids and said he could only see the kids at my discretion. He has not even asked how they were doing, much less tried to see them. He does not pay his child support. He got a job working under the table to avoid that and feed his habits. Sadly, he went to worse drugs. He drank beer, snorted pain pills and did cocaine while we were together. I recently found out that he moved on to heroin. It makes me sad for the life he chose. It makes me sad that addiction took over and stole him from our children. Sometimes leaving is the best thing. You're in my prayers. Stay strong sweetie.
:/ post a blog about this. More women and single mothers should here about this behavior and that its more common than people think . I hate how people try to demonize women in custody battles, when its usually the men who end up failing as parents and they refuse to pay child ssupport more often than not. I hope everything goes well from here on out which I'm sure it has been better
***** lmfao are you an idiot? Vasectomies are widely known to be reversable and thats why it is encouraged for men to do the procedure versus women undergoeing dangerous procedures. And dont give me that bullshit. Condoms protect against STD's and STI's and are effective 90% of the time if used correctly ("that means you have to take it correctly") lmfao. And yes you guys do feel alot so thats not an excuse to not use it either. If you want to be a bigot, uneducated, and sexist asshole that thinks prevention is solely for women that is your idiotic choice.
+MikePeterson Who exactly should be taking this pill? My children were born by choice in a loving marriage. When my husband got caught up with partying with his friends and became an addict it changed everything about him. Not just with me and his children. Even his parents that were fighting cancer, it destroyed their relationship. Having children does not make someone act that way.
so people are brave for being with some idiot and even when they know they will not change still be with them?? people call that brave??? wow what a bunch of idiots to think that.. brave is the women or men who think of themselves first and leave those idiots.. those who do that are the brave ones and smart ones...
She is a disgrace to her husband proverbs 12:4 He got rid of her according to the bible Proverbs 21:19 The bible has warned men about evil females Proverbs 25:24 We can only hope she is damned to HELL !
+atlg8or6137 Amen to that. I'm 29 and after a divorce and dozens of tumultuous, failed relationships I've found a good woman. I'm going to do everything in my power to keep her and treat her right. They are almost impossible to find these days.
+atlg8or6137 Easier said than done brother...What does "work it out" even mean? Do you know what that means? I don't. I do understand why my divorce happened and it was through reading and learning that I determined why it failed and why marriages fail. It's deeper than "your marriage just needs work." SOOOOOOO much deeper.
+ReticentIndignation Every situation is different. SOME men take their relationships for granted, and think that the grass is always greener on the other side. It's rarely the case. If your situation was different, then take my comment as not applying to you.
atlg8or6137 All the work in the world isn't going to change the other person or their mind is all I'm saying. It isn't that easy. It isn't always the man fucking it up either. I had what I thought was a good woman at one point...maybe she still is.
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@@joshuafalade4754 Thank you for sharing your wisdom and advice. But this is not our case. We don't have problems with infidelity. We both have access on our phones and emails. Our problem is I guess culture differences, so different point of views, personalities, etc.. which leads to big fights. Hmm we should be able to figure out what is best for us. Glad to hear you are happy and doing now. I wish you a wonderful day.
This randomly popped up in my recommendations (which seems to have been happening a lot lately), but I wanted to let you know that I admire your courage not only to have made the decisions you made, but to have shared your story in the hopes of helping other people in your situation. Nearly five years later, I hope you are all doing much better and that your ex has managed to stay clean. I also wanted to comment on what you said about what happens when you're around your mom. My kids have done that more than once with their mom and me, when they're playing and get hurt. They keep it together, stay cool while they're coming over to tell us something has happened. When they do find us and tell us the situation, it's like they've managed to lift the burden off their backs and can now let go, and they start crying. This happens to you because your mom is your rock. It means you have the strength to keep it together when you need to, but you also know your mom's got your back, so you lean on her for support. I just wanted to share that with you, or anyone else to whom this happens. It's normal and a wonderful sign of a strong bond with your parents. Like I said before, I hope everyone's doing better these days. Stay strong.
Why are people blaming this lady and calling her names???? Can you imagine what she went through? there is 2 sides to every story, but still- she is so brave. Hang in there love.
No we don't know what she went through because we weren't there. We don't know any side to the story except hers and he's not making a spectacle of himself on UA-cam about the divorce, she is. That shows a level of self-absorption on her part because she is airing her dirty laundry not him. Did any of you ever stop to think the type of person that broadcasts this type of very private family issue is an attention seeker exhibiting attention seeking behavior? It's a trait most "infuencers" on UA-cam share. We don't really know a thing about their relationship or if what she is saying has a single grain of truth to it. Many of you are simply making the assumption her husband is a villain and she is blameless. That's an awfully big assumption to make based only on the word of somebody you don't know and have never met. I keep hearing her supporters mentioning she's pretty. Wtf does that have to do with anything? If she was ugly would that somehow make her less credible? Guys in this thread are simply whiteknighting her because they find her attractive and women whiteknighting her are either disgruntled divorcees themselves who have a clear gender bias when it comes to exes or feminazis (radical feminists) who operate under the automatic assumption all men are bad and liars and all women are good and 100% honest.
@@philosoraptor2285 I respectfully disagree. Your assumption that all influencers are self absorbed and attention seeking is unfounded; some of them may be, but even that isn't a reason to shun someone sharing their story. Moreover, people showing her compassion are "whiteknighting"? People can't just be nice and extend her compassion for no reason, in your opinion? Some people choose to talk to heal, and she happened to have a platform and use it- I personally don't see the harm in it. Choosing to be kind instead of being vitriolic is the approach I decide to take when strangers are sharing their struggles, and that is what I will personally stick with. You are fully entitled to your opinion.
i feel for both parties in this video but that doesn’t mean anyone has the right to attack this woman for protecting herself, her financial assets and her children. the comments are so sickening. i know its youtube and youtube is a fucking cesspool of hate but come on. "bros before hoes," right guys? grow the fuck up. i'm pretty sure we were all taught in kindergarten that the golden rule is "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all." is this woman hurting anyone? did she post pictures or videos of this man? no. she is not hurting anyone, she is venting and trying to share her story so that other people don't feel as alone. why do you feel personally attacked by this video?? also if this video would "not stop showing up in your recommendations" OH NO OH MY GOD NOOOOO all you have to do is click the vertical "..." to the side of the video and click "not interested." its not that hard.
Bob Loblaw I agree, we are all entitled to our own opinions. Some may want her to take this down just because of the reasons you've stated, but in other cases, we find things helpful. We find that we are not alone thru this lady's divorce journey.
Ruth Cummings as you know kids don't keep a marriage together if someone's not happy I rather he or she leave nothing worst to stay in a relationship because? I ain't marrying no damm body in 2019 ppl don't have same values about marriage anymore they cheat lie steal whole nine yards so it just a legal piece of paper and it don't keep 2 ppl happy if they not word of the day just don't get fucking married
I have no idea why this appeared in my list of videos. Yet I really genuinely hope that things are getting better. Please take care. Much Respect and Peace and all good things from the North West of England UK .
Bhai, you are correct. Look at the Indian marriage laws and you will certainly get fucked. Get red pilled when you are young, these bitches will cry and elevate their positions to make themselves look like they are saints. Be very careful with bitches like this in the video.
@@thereaper7682 I'm 55 years old, have a great job, where i make insanely good money, get to travel all over, no kids, never married, never had a girlfriend, and i don't want one---EVER!! All i care about is my money, and retiring, very comfortable. I'm a big believer in MGTOW! Any guy that has a great job,and makes excellent money through hard work, and wants to ruin it all by getting married, which is nothing more than legalized male slavery is an IDIOT!!!!
Substance abuse is a big contributing factor for divorce. Certainly when they refuse to get help. I’m so sorry for your struggles and even his struggles because he deserves to feel at peace rather than be intoxicated
You have done the very best thing for you and your family. Drugs don’t just destroy the people who use and abuse them, it affects those around that person. Drugs make people sneaky and untrustworthy.
and manipulative don't forget manipulative.....ive seen junkies manipulate their own family members into prostitution themselves for money to support their junky habit....once the needle goes in it never comes out...
ScorpTac If you took my comment as an "attack" then your comprehension skills need improvement. Judging her for airing her families dirty laundry where her husbands family, her family, her kids friends, friends of friends etc can see? Yes
Either way it's still an attack. When people take part in behavior s that cause hurt or trauma they need to be prepared for the consequences that come with that. She is doing nothing wrong by sharing her experience. Unfortunately that is going to include other people. Why should she be silenced. If you don't like what she's saying don't watch.
chaosvixenxoxo I agree. I think she's incredibly brave for being vulnerable and sharing her story, but there are times that she crosses the line into being too personal. Anyone can watch this… ANYONE. You have to remember that a) she's talking about real people and they deserve some degree of privacy, and b) you have to be safe on the internet. So I do agree with you, to an extent. At the same time, I feel for her and I wish her the best. Divorce is never easy.
+mallarysangel - hahaha! The ghost went to go commit suicide. That's how bad this vid is. Something that's already dead wants to die again after hearing her pity party ramble that nobody cares about. I don't get why she would put this on UA-cam rather than go see a freakin' therapist and keep it private. Imagine if she's single and on an online dating site and someone she dates stumbles across this video?
I’m thinking about getting divorced as well. My wife likes to spend time with her guy friend and stay overnight at his place. She keeps saying “we’re just friends”. Either get use to it and be a man. So now I’ve been suppressing this emotion and trying to be okay with all of this... but now, I think it’s time to make the move.
Damn. Yeah this suddenly appeared in my suggested videos. Hope she's doing ok now.
Same
Ya just appeared for me too. Until your post I thought it was new.
@@rybo510 seriously! I thought it was recent too
@@jessicaoberry3182 forreal forreal!
@BobbyG Word. I totally felt her pain. My dad was just like her husband with the drugs but thankfully he kicked his habit. 20 years sober!
this is so random... i dont even watch vlogs and this suddenly pooped up in my recommedations
and we both clicked it! 0_o
"Pooped up in your recommendations"? YIKES!
yeah well... whats done is done
lol Right?!?
Popped on mine too, so strange. Hope she is okay now. Well, guess my click adds to the view count, but only watched a couple of minutes. Good luck young lady and your family.
I don't really know why I clicked on this video. I got divorced in 1988 (separated in 1987) because my (ex) wife decided that having a family wasn't important to her. She started drinking and doing drugs and "having relations" with several guys while in college even though she was married with 4 children. I did all I could to keep things together including dropping out of college. Anyway, long story short, I met a wonderful woman that was willing to take me with all the baggage (I was fighting for custody of the kids). We married in 1990 and had another child together and now have 7 grandchildren.
Most folks would say a man couldn't have a clue where you're coming from but I assure you I do. Be strong and continue to do what is right by your children. Hopefully their father will get it together and be able to be part of their lives. My parents divorced when I was 5 and my father wasn't in my life so I can relate to what the kids are going through too.
God Bless you and your family, Scott
Really cute
Wow Scott!! That gave me goosebumps. I'm glad all turned out for the better for you.
That's what happen to my family my mom left me dad with 4 kids :(
DutchKnifeGuy Thanks Mark, mom did well with us kids and was able to keep it going.
Great.
I been dealing with this same addiction for the last 20 years with my ex-wife. She told me she's been using our whole relationship and that got me thinking how much did I really know about her and I realized I loved her potential more than I loved her.
So she was using for 20 YEARS...and you didn't notice? Are you blind?
@@sleeplessgamingct4227 what an ass you are. Do you have any idea how sly and calculated some people can be
@@sleeplessgamingct4227 They say love is blind. I think we should be more understanding and not be so critical. It's hard to let go of someone sometimes.
I went thru a DIVORCE myself and was so depressed, BUT eventually I got over it.. Anyone can.. It just takes time to heal the emotional, mental and physical wounds.. Hang in there and things will change..
David Young I love your uplifting comment so sad story may you guy's find courage
Divorce is a horrible horrible thing, it takes the Lord Jesus to heal the deep nasty wounds and end the vicious cycles.
I've been separated since around mid 2014 and she hit me with divorce papers in June 2018. I never talk about it to anyone but I'm still having a tough time, even to the point of isolating myself from whomever possible, becoming unemployed and losing literally everything, sleeping as much as possible so I can escape reality for a short time, and just letting myself go completely in every way you can imagine. I've always been a go-getter, I've always worked hard, I've always refused to let adversities defeat me in any way. I can run directly into a firefight...towards rounds that are buzzing past my head and never give up short of death, but now I've allowed separation and divorce to cause me to hunker down and crumble in defeat.
Big problemm is you might not know your depressed.
@@richardwilliams2560 you can't keep letting the divorce take hold of you like this it's to many beautiful women out there that I'm sure would love to love on you, Praying that you pull yourself up dust yourself off and move on💙💙
Girl, you are more wise than you give yourself credit for. Lots of us have been in dead marriages for 30 yrs or more. Kudos for you making the decision to get out with your boys when you did. No telling what could’ve happened and I hate to think of what could have. God Bless
Nothing takes so much courage as confessing to all the world the faults of another person.
What was she confessing exactly??
Agreed. It was sarcasm.
B. Alexander She was confessing the faults of her ex-husband.
What. No. I was the one who first made the point. Thank for agreeing with me.
Her ex is a meth head. What are you failing to process?
My dad was an addict throughout my entire childhood, I lived with him at one point when I was about 12 and I'm still trying to heal from the abuse and trauma he put me through. I'm glad you're protecting your kids
It takes the wind right out of your sails to have someone who you love choose drugs or alcohol over you. Stat strong and keep your children safe
It's 2019 and this popped up in my recommendations
This so very sad.
I feel so bad for this young woman and her family.
I feel her paid.
I know that things will get better for and your family.
Focus on your children.
They are truly gifts sent to us to cherish.
The poor father is also having a difficult journey.
You will be in my thoughts.
And
You WILL get through this.
The father is not poor, he is a cheating bastard and deserves hell.
Just popped up in mine too. Wonder why so many people now..
Same here..Germany.
For once I don't mind saying me too! Became a cocaine dealer after losing his day job, that was the end of my being a stay at home mother, got a great job and 6 months later divorce. My 2 sons were 7 & 9 y/o and have a very troubled relationship with their father who is now dying of cancer.... should have known when he wouldn't change diapers, push a stroller or put a baby in the backpack. He didn't want to pay child support either. I so feel your pain Mama. I hope life is much much better for you. Sending you all big love.
A poem of the heart....
More than life itself, I love you.
Beyond your wildest dreams, I love you.
When you feel nothing, I love you.
When you are depressed and suicidal, I love you.
When you cannot face another day, I love you.
When you are all alone, I love you.
When no one else loves you, I love you.
When no one seems to care, I love you.
When the tears will not stop flowing, I love you.
When there is no hope left, I love you.
When you need a friend, I love you.
When you need a best friend, I am here.
I will never leave you child.
I will never forsake you.
I will forgive every wrong that you have done.
I will overlook all of your mistakes.
I will help turn your sorrow into joy.
I will forever embrace you and hold you.
If you will simply receive Me.
...That's all I ask.
-The Lord Jesus Christ
Amen!
So beautiful!
💗💗💗
❤️AMEN ❤️
Absolutely perfect ❤️
This was 6 years ago. I hope you are at a better place now.
hope she gets healed and move on.....and become a better version of herself and be happy .
Damn i just realized that
Ugh. Just seeing this now. I hope she’s happy now🌹
Divorce... hehehehehehehe
Not sure what attracted me to your story. I’m probably old enough to be your Grandfather @ 72. I’m now a 31 year Recovering Alchoholic. I got sober but my wife & Family didn’t. So 2 years sober I filled for divorce. I looked around & said I don’t fit here any more.
I believe in a Higher Power & was an active AA guy. I’d asked Higher Power for a woman who understood t Program. 9 months living alone Friends told of an out of town lady coming for Labor Day weekend, would I come over for dinner. Well, I did & we were a perfect match. She had been in Al-anon longer than I’d been sober.
We commuter dated for 2 years as at 40, she got her Computer Programmer Degree, then got a job in my town & moved in😊!
We’ve been together 27 years now & couldn’t be happier!
Sober on my worst day is better than being a slave to a Drug!
You have made t right decision. You can’t make someone Sober, they have to want it. You might consider Al-anon. It’s for You, not your Addicted X.
May God Bless you & your Family. Keep doing the right things one day at a time & Your Higher Power will give you what you need in your life!
I can't get over the horrible, rude, disrespectful, ignorant, comments on this video. Like are you freaking kidding me! This is a woman in PAIN! She's sharing her story to help others. Omg this video has been in your "recommendations" DELETE IT! If you don't want to watch it DON'T! Like where has the compassion in the world gone. This woman is so beyond strong and brave and everyone who comments rude shit I wish nothing but badness on you!!!!!
What are you talking about?
so many people are commenting like "why is this in my news feed" and "omg stop bitching"
Well said.
"attention whoring" by sharing her story which will help other people. wow... it's so sad you feel that way.
tianalee13 Wow!
The love for this drug is not something you learn about in class. I lost my first wife to this drug. You're blessed to have survived with your kids and life intact. Keep your head up.
asafegous damn c hope you’re doing well and prayers for everyone involved
My wife is dead due to this drug.
Went through this with my ex wife... married 19 years... half that time she walked a slippery slope with meth and heroin... I invested so much of myself into her... into her dreams... and she let it all go to hell for drugs... I never felt such betrayal... last four years were the worst... when we were younger I put her through nursing school and she made really good money... I worked full time and took care of the kids almost entirely so she could sleep and take care of herself since we relied so heavily on her income... eventually she lost interest in me, the kids, our lives... she started cheating extensively... she spent so much time away from us it was like we were separated... she lost her nursing license and shortly after that we became homeless... I was able to buy an old RV which we lived in for about a year until the state took our kids away... that was the final straw... I decided to divorce her... I got the kids back but irreparable damage has been done... I moved across the country and started over with the help of family... I haven’t seen her or talked to her in over a year... she has nothing to do with the kids... my 16yo talked to her a couple months ago and asked her when she was going to straighten out her life and move to be closer to them... she told him she wasn’t going to because she was happy being a junkie and living on the streets... drugs are demons, man... once they get their talons in you, you’re unlikely to survive unchanged... this is the real pandemic of our times... stay strong and live for your kids... they will be your redemption
Stay strong
Oh my God I'm so sorry you've had to go through that. I admire your strength for getting through that. My son's father is an alcoholic and was abusive and I could relate to your story. He has no interest in going to rehab and has bipolar disorder type one and will not take his medication or go to therapy. I ended the relationship a year ago because I just couldn't take it anymore and there was no way I was going to let my son grow up in a dysfunctional household. Hugs.
Oh no. Reason Why I left my babydady. I left him after 11 yrs. He didn't want to change or get a job. He was getting to be so abusive.
You are 100 percent right drugs are demons will take over the user body n say n do horrible things. Help your love one specially with prayer to God Jehova. And then with everything else hopefully that person it's willing to fight back to recover everything ask for strength from God and you will receive it with LOVE.
I’m a recovering pill/heroin addiction. But have been clean almost 6 years and happily married with a 2 year old daughter. Thankfully my wife was patient and stuck with me. Addiction is a disease and can’t be cured but it can be treated and you can live free. If I can do it anyway can. If I started using again I would leave to not put my family through it but for today I’m clean. When I get cravings I think is this few moments of feeling good worth loosing my wife and daughter over and it’s not.
This video is 5 years old, but I hope you found happiness & someone to love you unconditionally, the way you deserve! God Bless!❤❤
"Unconditionally"... "The way you deserve" - Contradiction at it's finest.
@@retiredtidepodeater3339 Pure facts.
Stuff love is what you have to do in order to protect yourself and your children.
@@TR-Creations .
there is no "unconditional" love.
I know EXACTLY what you are going through. I was kicked out by my ex the week I found out I was pregnant with my first child. I had the incredible support of my mother (who has the same effect on me as your mom has on you) and unfortunately lost a lot of friends during that time, so it was very isolating. I changed jobs, moved, lost all my "friends" and started to try and rebuild a life when I sort of fell into a group of amazing people at my job. They were so incredibly kind and supportive and always had my back on the rare occasion my ex would show up at my job. I made life long friends and they even threw me my baby shower! Once I realized I was CAPABLE of being cared about, even when I had nothing to offer anyone else in return, that's when I finally cut all ties with him, and started what is now an excellent life. It took about a year and a half after I left before I finally loved myself enough to not take his shit anymore. Today, he does not call or attempt to speak with his child. We now have a lovely home, I have an excellent boyfriend who loves my daughter unconditionally, and I am getting my career in biochemistry started where I should have long ago. Almost 4 years later, we are happy and healthy and safe, and the relationship seems like a bad dream that I seldom ever think about. You are going to do great. Nothing is unachievable, and you have such a fantastic personality, your boys will grow to do nothing short of idolize you. You deserve every bit of happiness, and I hope your light at the end of the tunnel comes quickly for you. You have all my support and love.
I applaud your story of moving on after an extremely difficult situation.👏
Two years of mental, emotional and psychological abuse is more than enough of your life and your kids' lives.
You can not help an addict until they want to help themselves.
YOU did nothing wrong! It was his choice and the monster grabbed hold.
Best to move on in a positive direction for you and your children.
May God richly bless you as you move forward.
Amen. That is the truth.
Divorce is wrong! Tell the truth if you’re a Christian. Only love to you all! But if you love someone then you tell the truth. I have been through rape and physical abuse but then I became a serious Christian. I sought God and He helped us both. God hates divorce. I’m sorry and please forgive me if this comment offends anyone. Tell the truth. Don’t be seduced by this world. Don’t get divorce. Did you try praying?
@@thereisabattleforyoursoulj3787 Wow, I am the opposite. I was raised a serious Christian and now I will NOT set foot in a church. God is not real!
@@thereisabattleforyoursoulj3787 Fucking looney tune! Let me guess u live in the middle of the country. Love "christians" who fucking think they should judge other when that is Gods fucking job. Dip shit.
Erina Lynskey this was a great comment but it just turned into a religious battle
I have no idea why this popped up today...but I watched you. My life was pretty much like yours.i raised my kids alone and got rid of the drug addict I was married to. I’m still here...50 years later. Life has a way of working out. Good luck to you.
I felt you when you said "he chose the substance over his family" that opened an old wound, with my dad.
your story strikes deep into my heart! May God bestow enough strength to cope up with the sufferings that you had gobe through.
I hope you're in a better off position now. May God rekindle you with his blessings to lead a happy life !!
Like they say in the rooms, they live to use and use to live. They put the substance over their own families. Nothing is more important to them than their next fix. This is true even with alcoholics.
Same. Severe.
Going through the same I asked for divorce if he didn’t want to leave the alcohol he chooses to leave me.
I'm really appalled by the people defending this man. My own father was/is an addict. He was (and still is?) addicted to crack. You may call it a 'mental illness', but it is a choice. He chose to take these substances knowing that it would ruin his life and the lives of those around him. I cannot believe that people would classify it on the same level as things like depression, schizophrenia, psychosis: things that people cannot control. Anyway, as soon as crack came into the picture, my dad began stealing from my mom, he wouldn't come home, he put me in VERY dangerous situations, smoked crack with me in the house, brought me to his dealers place (my mom at this point was oblivious to his addiction, as addicts are incredibly manipulative). He beat my mother, and when she realized it was all because of the drugs she left him. But that didn't stop him from breaking in a week later and beating her again. When he went to rehab, the counsellors told him (like they do all addicts) that nothing is their fault, and that they should forgive themselves, and that everyone around them should forgive them, too. When my mother went to counselling, she was also told that she should 'forgive him so they could move on'. Rehab, and the countless times he went, never worked. You should NEVER 'give addicts a break because they're sick', because it only enables them to make bad choices. I myself was addicted to cocaine for a period of time and although I am 100% okay now and I never "ruined" my relationships, I can say that I put my poor mother through hell a second time and it is one of my biggest regrets in life. It was her 'no bullshit' attitude that kept me from ruining my life. Addicts are not like normal people. To this day my father lies about how long it's been since he last did drugs. He claims that he doesn't do crack anymore, but he 'does coke at parties', and is also an alcoholic instead. I've seen how an addict can ruin a family when left to run amuck. This woman did the right thing, and cutting him out was the best thing for her and her kids.
Very very true, it was best for the kids and her. But, he does need help, and drugs can never overpower love. I'm sure her boyfriend cares, even as stupid as he was, I can't imagine him not caring if her and the kids died (sounds depressing but yeah) and I think that's what people is trying to say :)
so based off everything you just said... YOU made the choice to start taking cocaine and in your own words that means you took "these substances knowing that it would ruin his (your) life and the lives of those around him (you)"??
And again, in YOUR OWN words you said the best thing she could do is cut the guy out of her life... so you think YOU should have been cut out of your families life?? Or does all that apply only to this guy and your father and not yourself? You cant have it both ways. Either all three of you are evil drug abuser who don't care about your families or none of you are...
tronclay No, it very much applied to me. I'm happy that my mom threatened to kick me out and threatened to revoke my rights in the household. It forced me to straighten myself out. She kept me under the equivalent of house arrest, I was watched 24/7 and was not allowed out of the house. I didn't ruin anyones life, though, that's the difference. My attitude changed, I was much less hospitable, but I was never abusive, manipulative, I never stole, etc. If I had, my mother would have kicked me out right away. It is not her job to clean up my fuck-ups after everything she did for me. I knew what I was doing when I took these drugs. I did it as an escape, and I did it in hopes that I would die. Luckily my family's attitude snapped me back into reality. And if it hadn't, I would be dealing with the consequences. It is not fair to torment innocent people. My father is scum. He put me in dangerous situations, put my mother in financial/emotional distress, damaged me emotionally, and still has the audacity to expect me to forgive him. The problem is that every time he was forgiven, he took that as his incentive to find sneakier ways to do what he was doing. This man needs help, yes, but it is not her job to suffer and allow her kids to suffer for his mistakes.
Tea Cloud As long as you admit you are as much of a scumbag as he is for taking the risk that you would both ruin your families lives, then we are on the same page. You seem to blame your father for all your actions, its obvious by the way you keep bringing him up. Does this womans husband have the same luxury of blaming someone else? Who knows, all we know is what ONE person in a bad relationship claims happened.
tronclay I wasn't blaming my father for anything really, merely pointing out how his stupid choices negatively affected my family, and how this woman's situation could have turned out a similar way if she had of 'just forgiven him and moved on'.
You cant save a person who doesn't want to be saved...sad but true
sunflowerist
I so needed to hear this - Thank You 😘😘😘😘
U cant save a person period ! They have to save themselves !
sunflowerist hello you look familiar
@@maxwellbello3687 may god bless your family have a good life
@@butterflyonapearl207 me2
Never stay with liars, cheaters or abusive people, but most important
Don’t be one😝
Very well said
Shibli Rahat lol what? 😂
Why do you think that?
@@shiblirahat111 that’s me except broke , thank god I’m not down baf
@@shiblirahat111 he is a good man and holy
Never judge a story based on one side, how about that
I need to hear his side of the story.
Best comment ever.
Dom Dominick no it's always mans fault!!
God that was like ripping skin off my arm for fun. I don't know how i got conned into watching this video. But once it started i just wanted to find out what drug he was on.Took her 15 minutes to say meth. Longest clickbait life waste. She clearly wrote this beforehand and really thought how can i keep as many details out of this as possible...but belittle my ex as much as i can to validate my life. She may even be justified, but without this martyr's back story it just sounds like narcissim. Also youtube...you never were awesome but throwing this crap into my list...pretty low youtube pretty low.
Dom Dominick id like to hear from the good guys that single mom here pushed to the curb before she choose this looser.
acornbrew my thoughts exactly. she'll be on Oprah with a best seller one day
This is grief. You lost your husband. His body is there but the entity inside is something else. I pray you're all better now.
Wow. I've never heard it said like that. " The entity in side him is something else". So true!!! Thank you
You are a beautiful soul I feel bad for you and your boys but sweetheart keep your head up you are a beautiful woman and you will find a good man eventually I will keep you in my prayers
Deliciousdiva5 YES, AMEN *Addiction IS a DEMON*
Robert Wright I Call them *THE WALKING DEAD* .... sad
THE ENTITY INSIDE. HAHA HAHA HAHA. DO YOU DO DRUGS
It's like the person you love and the father of your children is dead, yet he's still around. Like a zombie with a mean spirit. No job yet he colors in his adult coloring books. I truly understand the heartache. As his mother it breaks my heart!
Wow omg so sorry to hear this.. I'm sure hes not a badd person I'm sure hes just addicted to drugs.. It's a vicious cycle Alanon meetings are very helpful for family and friends of any type of addict alcoholic or other... Really helps to allow us to Detach with love.. The more he is enabled by anyone the more chances he will stay the way he is... It's our job as the sober person to understand what we are doing that enables the behavior... Al anon is free in every state of the world... The meetings are free and there is no dues for membership but what you do get out of the program will help change your life forever and free you from the pain of another's addiction... Much love to you
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Yes, this is exactly right when it comes to addiction. 💔😥
@@realking9866 It's one year on. Any luck?
I’m so glad that I came across your video. My husband is doing the same things that your ex did. I’m moving out this coming June. I was staying with him for the kids and realized is affecting the kids more then helping them. He is never around
Sierra Brown u WILL be fine!!!!!!! I cannot emphasize that enough...not that it’s easy, but somehow we mommas get ourselves together & take care of business. Just know that u aren’t going thru it alone...u may want to find some other single moms that can support each other. Best of luck to u. Saying a prayer for u now...
Noo... Plz sis dont do that..
i dont have any explanation for your matter... But its gonna affects alot to the children..
Good for you! ❤
Maybe he wants you out. Its all a master strategy game to get his karen wife to leave on her own.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, I used to use meth and it is a horrible substance, but I was blessed with my husband who helped me get through it. Once I realized after using it for so long that I was sleeping on it, not losing weight and not getting the "high" that I once did and also realizing that it was stealing my happiness from tomorrow I decided that it wasn't worth it. The come downs were not worth it and once I sobered up and made another realization that I would lose my husband so I made the choice to stop cold turkey. It was the best decision of my life, I mean I did have to switch down to another drug, but I eventually stopped altogether. I don't even have the craving to do it anymore because I'm like, "you know I don't really feel like being depressed tomorrow". I went from using meth, switched to coke and now I just drink occasionally, however just like I'm a happy drunk I was also a happy person when I was high and not aggressive or scandalous, and most people were surprised at my honesty when they asked me if I was high. I was more or less a hazard to myself. I think once he truly sobers up he will realize how much he misses his kids. All addicts do, I know that because I used to talk to the worst of them who had kids. Just keep on keepin' on, enjoy your life, enjoy your kids and once time goes by he will come back (to the kids)
Bravo to you for your strength, my dear!
Divorce is often these days, im 16 year old guy, and my view on marriage is a no. Kids are supposed to learn from their grown ups, but what are the kids gonna learn when they see their grown up fail plenty of times over and over again with marriage. Im not saying that everybody fail, but now days less people stick together till the end. Many people tend to get lazy when they are married, thinking '' i got the girl already, dont need to anything '' , they stop putting effort in the relationship etc and that leads to divorce. Ofcourse there are plenty of reasons for divorce, but if both just put as much effort it wouldn't be these many divorces. I rather have a partner for years before marrying her. If me/she gets lazy in the relationship, me/she could be gone when me/she comes home.
You sound like a very smart young man. You are going to go places. :)
Thelrbe :Marriage isn't a fairy tale. All marriages have problems. Its when you both choose to stick together through better or WORSE. Marriage is the best adventure you could ever take. You"re 16, things will change. You will learn that grown ups are human too... the people you look up to, will one day seem so flawed... But thats all of us. Love and forgiveness will get you through.
This video breaks my heart, I am praying for you and anyone that goes through problems in their marriage. I watched my parents go through something I thought I would never see them go through. My world was SHATTERED. My mother told me the only way that they would stay together is if there was a miracle from God. And thats exactly what God gave her. No one saw it coming, but Jesus saves and restores. Satan comes to kill steal and DESTROY. Don't let him. Find your strength in the Lord. Blessings
Yes you are definitely 16
casperld actually not, yet, 4 november i will be 16.
TheIrbe im 17 and i totally agree of course it aint perfect but people dont want to stick through the tough times and many people get lazy is soooooooooooo scary
Baby girl, divorce is NOT easy. Look after yourself. You deserve stability and love again.
Iona G two sides to every story. She may deserve jail. She might deserve a presidential medal. Being deserving is not a good way to encourage good responsible behaviour. (Psychologist). That’s my experience of 15 years.
@Andres Larsson ummm she bailed him out of debt dumbass. She was working idiot
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Poor memory often happens to people who suffer PTSD from constant abuse and elevated stress levels/ being in fight or flight mode. Your amygdala which is partly responsible for memory, is compromised when you're under stress for long periods of time like sounds like you have been.
Thanks for this comment
Or it can happen from 10 other causes, you are not helping this way. She never claimed to show any compassion for whatever her husband was going through either.
@@georgiosdrosinos7531 she's not an addiction counselor or mental health care worker. When you're trying to look out for the well-being and mental stability of your children in a situation where you're living with an addict, you have to put your compassion aside. I lived with an addict for over 10 years who was mentally abusive, manipulative and volatile because I was so compassionate for his state... I felt so bad for him, but now my son resents me for having stayed with him for so long. If you've never lived with an addict and you've never been the other parent, the responsible party, you probably wouldn't understand her lack of compassion.
@@sunshinestatesurvival What is more interesting is why you even lived with an addict for over 10 years?
You are just projecting then, because in this case we have a marriage withsomeone who was not an addict for 11 years and took the woman 6 months to divorce him without even asking whats wrong.
@@georgiosdrosinos7531 she WAS with an addict. I don't know what video you are watching. But you do sound like a super compassionate understanding person yourself, so I'm sure you'd understand why a compassionate empath would stay with their addict husband for 10 years.
Why do people commit to having kids when they're going to divorce? This day and age people are failing relationships so often I'm not even going to have one let along consider kids. It's much easier
^^preach
I'm 99.99% sure she didn't enter into her marriage thinking "hey he's probably going to become addicted to drugs and make our home a dangerous place to raise children" and marry him and have children with him anyway.
***** It doesn't seem that that was the case with this woman and her family, but there are people out there who have a child when things aren't going well in the relationship, thinking that a baby will fix it and bring them closer together again. It happens regularly.
People don't get married and then think "Oh, I'll divorce, no biggie" NO.. things happen.
Did you not watch the whole video? She said she never could fathom a divorce ever and that's why she tried for so long to stand by his side. Question for you... you marry the love of your life, you are together for 10+ years... lets say not drugs let's say he starts beating you.. physically abusing you, or not that just the verbal.. do you stay with him forever letting your kids see him hitting or constantly yelling at you calling you a bitch a cunt yelling in your face, really do you want to put not just yourself, but more importantly your children through that? Having them constantly stressed worried scared? or would you rather take them out of that situation and let them see their dad or mother who is doing that abuse? You never plan to get divorced, you don't plan to do drugs, you never set out saying im going to get addicted to this or that.
I'm sorry. Hopefully your better by now. Time heals. I was him. I understand everything you said. I lost a career due to an injury and spiralled into drugs. My wife divorced me in 2010. A strange thing happened then. I missed my family more than the drinking, more than the drugs. It wasn't easy . I wish it had been,but it wasn't. I cleaned myself up. Started talking to my wife every now and then. She started dating again. Not easy for me to deal with. But slowly over time. Things became better. We talked more. Hung out a little bit more and more. She said the old me felt like he was back. I haven't had a drink or drugs in 8 years. We remarried and life is back to normal. Maybe even better. So I get you and your story. Rehab is not for people who need help, it for people who want help. Not sure how I came across this. But I felt compelled to say either way life can get better. Thanks for your story.
You did great.
Who gives a shit, ya drama queens
Another idiot person
Kendalika, After much soul searching and walking to the top of a mountain to do some contemplation, I have reached the conclusion I still don't give a shit.
People who air their dirty laundry in public are attention seekers and fake.
Kendalika I would like to Kindalika you but you have a real foul mouth lol
Kendalika, Its not hate, I was just joking but at the same time people with problems should confide in their friends or family if they need to, a public forum like this is not the place to do it, any way I wish you , this woman and every one else all best
why is there so much hate in the comments? I don't understand
Yea I shouldn't be surprised... but yet still disappointed at how much hate is in the comments...
Me neither /:
because this woman's is trying to profit off suckers who view her vids, did you look at the video description? Its full of ad/paid promo links. She is trying to make a sucker out you and profit off it.
Found the broke guy who can't get a girlfriend!
The power of the paid promotion... but also the weakness of the paid promotion, since many to whom it was recommended didnt seem to want to see it, and in fact left an incredible amount of hate filled comments lol. They gotta work on the paid promotion... or maybe shes just gotta spend more haha.
I'm alone now and I'm the happiest I've ever been.
Me too!
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@B AA keep it that way until GOD blesses you
@B AA I still will pray for those broken women and miserable women that they find GOD and know what true love is. God bless you and have a happy Sunday.
I feel a bit sad about the attitude of divorce indisciplined men pose. I need a serious relationship and I pray that I live forever with whoever she may be
This video was made 5 years ago, it's April 2019, and this is in my recommendation.. Of course UA-cam knows I'm so damn nosey - thanks!! No matter how old the video, many woman (fortunetly not myself) can relate. I'm sure you're doing fine, you seem like a strong person. Either way, I hope all is well with you and the kids. Thank you for this video.
Same.
Well she's still making videos like twice a week so I'd say she's fine.
Same it was in mine to
How are things now ,I hope you have found happiness.xx
Leilani same!
I kept seeing this pop up, and I finally listened. I'm going through something similar with Divorce but know that God's got your back. You might be in a better place right now. May God bless you.
hope you are OK been there too -__-
Aunt Reese she ate her kids 🤪🤪🤪
Sending you love 💞❤
I recommend Alanon or Nar-Anon. You can Google the meeting times. Please go to at least six meetings before making a decision of whether it is for you.
You do realise god is made up, like Santa and Harry Potter....
What the hell, I'm in 2019 and i NOW see this?
*WELL UR THE ONE WHO FREAKIN WATCHED IT,AND DONT SAY"U WATCHED IT TOO U WANNA KNOW WHY? BECAUSE I CAN*
@THANATOS FANATICOS dude i'm just pointing out how i'm getting a recommendation for a video that was years ago, there is literally no reason to get mad here, MATE.
lol Lolo *what is making you so ragey*
@@zeneca9232 just kids who don't belong here (the Internet)
Yeah, lol. :)
Your story resonated with me. My son's father is an alcoholic and he won't even consider going to rehab. He also has bipolar type 1 and won't take meds and won't go to therapy. Sometimes even though it hurts we know we have to let them go. I felt this. He was also verbally, emotionally and physically abusive throughout our 3-year relationship. Our son is 1 year old now but I left his father when he was two weeks old. I knew I couldn't live that way anymore and I wasn't going to allow my son to grow up like that.
why you tube said i wanna watch such videos?
Based on what you previously have watched?
If it isn't you can correct UA-cam by saying you aren't interested.
so i watch strategy game lets plays. Maybe You tube thinks divorce is a strategy game? Oki i look how to tell YT what i like watching then, thx for the tip
IIIspirit No, UA-cam doesn't think a strategy game is the same. Press "not interested" and "tell us why" and it will tell you what video triggered this.
hey great found the button. Interestingly there was no other video shown that relates, so maybe google tries something out on this one.
google has been testing new software.. same with google maps, if it doesn't have enough data on certain areas, it will take you through those areas to get more information even though it's not the fastest route. they are trying to see if people will notice and if they can change what people watch/are interested in. Same with facebook and twitter.
Can you please do an update for all of us that had this randomly pop up in our feed April/May 2019?! 🙏 I think it's safe to say we're all wondering. 🤔
I have to say I was glued. It takes a strong person to speak about the details of your own divorce. I'm divorced as well, (re-married now,) but I admire your strength to share your truth! 🙌💖💪
Ginger Ninja it popped up randomly for me as well blessings to everyone in life in general
If you search “CandidMommy Divorce” several other videos come up.
@@BLWSquared
Thanks for the advice. I couldn't wait for an update to never come so I actually flipped through her videos lol. She is so happy now! Great kids, great bf, great life. 😍
Ginger Ninja Thank you both ..definitely agree and will search for more. I have recently gotten braver on my UA-cam spiritual reading channel and added a playlist of "Shanny Testifies" and speak on things like my sexual abuse story. Etc. It's helpful for us all to share whoever is willing. Blessings guys genuinely !
Yes please do!
So sorry Jeni. Don't ever beat yourself up for missing signs. I was a meth addict and hid it from all of my loves ones. I have a video up on my channel titled "the truth not suitable for children" where I finally broke my silence about my past drug abuse. You absolutely did the right thing. I hope for his sake, your sake, and your boys sake that he can turn it around and have a good outcome. I have seen what meth can do as I lived it myself, and have seen many marriages fail for that exact reason. I have also lost loved ones to it. Again I am so sorry that you had to go through that all.
Your story really moved me!
I commented with predictive text haha didn't work well. Thank you for sharing xoxoxox
Bad memory is related to trauma and trauma repetition compulsion. I'm the same! ❤️
Teodora Smith,your lovely smile can make the news
Teodora Smith, you deserve better 🙏🙏🙏
I grew up with both my parents using drugs , my dad ended up committing suicide when I was 14 , and moved out because my mom continued to use and I got pregnant and didn't want my baby around it , I'm now 17 and my mom passed away last year because of drug overdose , it's takin such a toll on my life , a big amount of my other family members use drugs and I choose to not be around them because I don't want my daughter to grow up seeing what I grew up seeing , but I'll be 18 in 2 months , I already have my own house and car , and doing a lot better than before , I have two younger sister and two younger brother who now stay with my grandparents and there doing a lot better now , of course we all have our emotional issues , but life goes on , I wish you and your kids the best !
Wow what a hard life.
Wow, you're 18 and has a kid while living on your own with horrible memories. You ought to take a week off and go to the beach while your child lives with your grandparents and just chill. And maybe try to smile :P
keep yr head up. yr the shit and you deserve the shit
My dad cheated on my mum with my teacher and they had 3 kids then he cheated on my teach with a model and had 4 kids but then he came back to my mum but she was over him and she was dating this really rich guy called max and she's not a gold digger my mums really rich so she's not a gold digger so anyway my dad got rejected from my mum so he then went back to his model gf and they got married and had 3 more kids so I have a lot of sisters and brothers and 3 mums and 2 dads and I had a gf I made her pregnant now we have a child named Jess and she's so cute but there's no way I'm marring her until I'm 26 cause right now I'm 17 and my gf is only 14
BRUH BRUH
You have way too many doors behind you.
Loool
+Terrance Smith xD
+Terrance Smith I don't even know how I came across this video but I'm glad I did because of this comment. hahahahahahahahahahha
+lady kay and may I add they are really nice looking doors, as doors go.
+Terrance Smith lol! I thought that was some deep metaphorical comment about lost opportunities.
April anyone? 💀
2019
Yep
Baby Yazzy 😂🙋🏻♀️
Yes me!
Ya
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I am currently divorcing my wife who i found out is a covert narcissist. It wasn't my fault and it wasn't your fault either. You are an amazing, beautiful woman. His loss.
This video is almost 5 years old and it randomly showed up in my feed. We all have a story to tell. My marriage was brutal. Thanks for telling your story.
It's always ok to leave, we don't have to stay with abusers. "What's love but a second hand emotion?" - TIna Turner
100% the Dad was the actual victim
OK
lol
Yeah, 'cause she FORCED him to take meth. ...Right.
she wouldn't swallow?
lol you guys are so dumb hahahaha men like you should just stay single
Laura York With turds like you floating around Laura, how is staying single that bad a choice ?
You’re a sweet, pretty, intelligent woman; the whole package. I can’t understand how he would let you go, much less not being there for his children.
I was thinking the same, but couldn’t word it as well as you have.
Yeah. Because the face they show on camera is the real them.
Because you only see one side of the story
You got all that from 1 single UA-cam video? It takes years to really know a Person. I’m sorry but no one could tell anything from a single video. You’d be surprised at how fair people can be on UA-cam and Facebook.
You have no makeup, your hair is a mess and you try to fix it with a pen, a very casual dress, crying,.............................. But you still look very BEAUTIFUL. Because you are a GENUINE person. A Pure, Honest, Brave, Kind, Real,................................ woman! I have lots of respect for you. Thanks for your GREAT video. I Subscribed. Love you, sister
James charles? Sister?
KENELY GAMING no
NO HATE ThO
@Lala lalala your a dumb ass, maybe meth head also
@Lala lalala Your comment made me sad.... you sound cold, bitter, hateful, and misogynistic (and I don't know if you're male or female). You're judgemental and critical not only of this girl who is having a difficult time realizing that her dream family is now shattered, but of women in general. Sounds like you have a cold heart.🖤
Poor lady. May you find joy and peace and be blessed and increased. May you be protected from evil and guarded by angels of the heavenly courts that exceed in strength.
Been seeing this for a week now finally decided to watch it..I hope u are doing well..be strong..
Hi i saw your channel i like it and sub hope you will see my channel
Yeah your only about 4 years to late. Pmsl.
@@JohnDoe-nq2cy 😔😔
Yep, even you talking about talking to your mom makes me cry. I always break down when I talk to my mom
Jessica Alba will probably hire her to work at The Honest Company and they'll both burst into tears and hug each other before the interview even starts. With Jessica blubbing, "you're hired!" and then both women crying even more because it's all so adorable when one sister helps another. Then they'll both make videos about sharing stories and new beginnings. Eventually Dr Phil will join them and together they'll talk through those issues and have a group hug and a few more tears will be shed. With Dr Phil looking on proudly at how much progress his girls have made. Then they'll talk about their journey on Ellen and you'll see them doing Carpool Karaoke with Corden. Then the book will come out, "My Journey - Never give up - A woman's struggle to find herself in the modern world" with a forward from Dr Phil.
on point xD
Lmfaoooooo
shut the fuck up
This comment made my day *insert thank you gif*
Lmao! Although, my wife comes home and spends an hour in the bathroom when she comes home and when I walk in a room she puts her phone down as if she wasn't on it. I asked her about it and she said" I think you think,I am addicted to the phone" . I said,you are! However, wtf? Time will tell.
You are strong mama, you're boys are lucky to have you! Hugs!
***** You're right. They would be lucky to have their father. Too bad he made poor decisions and is no longer the type of person that deserves to be a part of his children's lives. I hope that he can turn his life around for their sake but I doubt it.
I've seen crazy before, don't need to see it again.
You know that's right. Hope it didn't cost you too much figuring it out.
CRAZY married me and said I drank too much. I met CRAZY in a bar, go figure... She said I pressured her for sex, but we were celibate before marriage. I coulda hit it if I wanted, but I didn't out of respect for her father as we were at her home.
rtrain67 I've been in so many relationships with women and the one thing that I have learned (if anything) is that most of them are full of shit, (and I'm sure this woman is no exception to that rule) I'm sure if her "ex" could give his side of the story it would paint a more lucid picture. The fact that she's disrespecting her "ex" by publicly airing their dirty laundry here on Youtub and engaging in this poor me victim porn only underscores her cuntyness. Her ex should think of their divorce as a blessing.
She did that guy the biggest favor leaving him.
rtrain67 Aye, once is enough.
I am going through a Divorce and typed in Divorce Vlog when I ran across this...Sweetheart I am so sorry, I have tears in my eyes for you as I watch and type this . When you loose someone to addiction, it's worse than loosing them to death because of the vicious cycle of having your heart ripped out of your chest repeatedly. I left someone that I almost married because he chose addiction over being in mine and not what still keeps you up at night... I pray for your ex husband, that he doesn't loose sight of why he call his self a man and he gets sober for his self and your kids... Wipe your eyes love, God has a plan... Always remember that...
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I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number +1206-237-2054
How dear, how are you doing
As a child who had a father with a substance abuse problem, know you did do the right thing. Your children will thank you at some point. I have thanked my mother for getting me away from that. I'm so sorry you are going through this, but you are right! There is a light. Keep making your way towards it. Lots of love and prayers for your family.
True. Children deserve better than to be codependent with a drug user, even if it is a parent.
I thank your mom for leaving my dad does Crack he has my whole life I'm 16 and I have older sisters the oldest is about to turn 24 and I'm old enough to know now my mom will never leave my "father".
Since you are 16 if there is someone whilling to help support you and allow you to go to school you have the option of emancipation also. Remeber you have the power to make your own choices and to not follow your parents path.
I don't know why this was recommended to me... but I watched the whole thing. Sad. Hope you're both fine now.
People act like divorce is such a bad thing. Marriage is just a relationship. Some relationships work out and some don't.
Drug addiction is a serious thing. I grew up as a child in a similar story where my mother was also married to someone that had developed a drug addiction and she did struggle after she left. She focused on her kids and all of her children including myself are great people with good careers. You will find love again and if you focus on your children they also may have a great chance on making good choices in life. As for the person that is the drug addict. you must be a distant support system so that they can have the reason "Why" they want to become addicted free.
Well, that's kind of the problem actually. We live in a society full of people who think that just because divorcing is doable that it's completely ok to just marry and divorce whoever whenever. That's not really what it's for. In a situation like this, obviously it's better to just make a break and move on, but like abortion not being birth control, divorce isn't your safety net for marriage.
No one said anything about a safety net. Personal happiness is above all else in my opinion. This situation of course is different but every relationship has it's circumstances. So I don't see a problem with divorce. It's just a break up on paper.
Ansar Andino If there are kids involved they usually don't see it that way.
No see marriage is suppose to more than a BG or gf. It's suppose to be for better or for worse. But you also have to really KNOW who u are marrying cuz it's suppose to be one person forever.
I am so very sorry that you had to experience this. He is sick, and has almost no control over the addiction. I lost my brother to alcoholism. Even knowing it was killing him, he could not stop. You are absolutely beautiful and obviously very strong to be able to share a very painful thing in life. God bless you and yours.
I'm very sorry that you lost your brother. My son's father is an alcoholic and I'm pretty sure there's something wrong with his liver and he knows he needs to stop but I don't think he ever will. I don't think I'll ever live to see the day he gets clean and sober and I've accepted that. That's a huge part of the reason we are no longer together. He has many demons that I can't help him fight anymore. It's up to him whether or not he wants to stop and get help but I'm not going to be along for the ride anymore.
He worked 6-7 days a week, 13 hours a day..."money was tight".
Jesus, I'm stressed just hearing that.
Jackie Menschausen I worked full time, took care of the house... his money was his money and if I needed anything or spent my own money I was selfish ... turned out he had another girlfriend with s child for which I was duped into wrapping a present for... while I was pregnant... the day I caught him with the other woman, the first thing he told me is that I was selfish. There was just no going back after that. However, I spent the next five years dealing with accusations that I was keeping our child away from him despite agreeing to a generous visitation plan and honoring it, plus allowing him access to our child during ‘my legallly appointed parenting time’ pretty much every time he asked... only to have it used against me in court as though I was asking for him to take our child during my parenting time. Our son just turned 18 and that kind of shit never ended. I usually advise women to do it on their own or if a dude is absent... let him be and thank your lucky stars that you are not stuck dealing with someone whose parenting priority is to use the children to hurt you. I know a lot of men who do this... although women will do it to men as well... I just know more about the stories of men doing it to women as I have seen what they go through. My situation was nothing compared to what I’ve seen other women go through and for no real reason. If you feel you must share parenting with a man, take a long time to get to know him and do not ignore the signs. I was with mine for five years before I got pregnant and there were signs that he was not a good one to reproduce with and I ignored the signs. But I did not know the signs to look for... Ignorance rarely protects anyone from horrible long term consequences. Don’t expect people to simply do what is right and by all means don’t think the court system will protect you somehow... it does to a certain extent, but the courts can do nothing about a lot of the crap you will have to endure.
Jackie Menschausen wow, I hope this helps someone!
Brings back bad memories, doesn't it?
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How do I make UA-cam not recommend videos like this one to me?
it's simple -- u just e-mail youtube@internet.com and ask to be removed.
When you put your mouse cursor on the title, 3 dots appear on the right, click on that and then click on not interested.
Thumbs down a video and videos like it won't be recommeded as much.
Yes, please make it stop.
Yea same
2014 popped up on my feed. Well hoping you are all better. It’s June 2019
Why did I click this? Nine months old Don't really care.
Same. Weird. Hope she's doing better. Seems like a genuine sweet lady ❤
😂😂😂
JULY **
It is Jan.7, 2020...I don't know why I clicked on this, but know you ABSOLUTELY succeeded in helping someone...me, and in a completely different way. Thank you. I will probably never actually know you, but I owe everything to you and to God for me clicking when I normally wouldn't.
I love this ❤️
I don't even know what you gained, but I know exactly what you mean!
THIS IS FOUR YEARS OLD. WHY IS THIS IN MY FEED. WHY AM I HERE. where am i
Glad you did. Beautiful pic. And I dont know how I got here, either...
Joker Jack Stop flattering women you don't even know bro, it only turns women into egomaniacs which bring more problems to our society.
OK, thanks Pablo. I'll take your advice, completley ignore it, and wish you the best.
Kitt3n Cake BECAUSE OUR LIFE SUCKSSSS LMAO
I have the same question one month later
Hello I stumbled on to your video for some reason....after watching the video I so know why I was sent here. Your story almost word for word could be mine 11 yrs ago.Except I have one son (now 20) I could talk with you for hours young Lady....but I will say one thing instead....YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, NEVER FORGET THIS, BELIEVE IT. I know we love this person and don't wish to rip our Kids lives apart, but the kids (and us Mommies) are in danger. I knew it was time to go when I had to sleep outside my son's bedroom door on the floor because I was so scared my Ex might mistake my son for an intruder in his paranoid state. Keep talking about it and loud and clear to anyone who will listen because it gets easier and less painful each time. I will be rooting for you and your kids....You are on the right Path, sincerely Lynne
I also came across this by "chance". There are no accidents!
Actually by God! ^ and by nothing else ❤️
It makes sense to live him,yes because of the drugs, yes. But if we hear the other side, who knows? But the drugs involved, no question about it. Run lady, Run! You n kids don't deserve that. That I understand.
Hi
Lynne N,hope you are with a good man!
On today's episode of *WHY TF THIS IS IN MY RECOMENDATIONS* ....
PrigreysiousOP94 same I found this searching ssundee wtf
ShadowWarrior& Shockwave same
@@shadowwarriorshockwave3281 Probably because of the new algorithm that youtube is messing with that is supposed to get you to watch things outside your regular feed. I was watching comic con panels that I had missed because they had been taken down and uploaded again.
@@dcworld4349 yeah I was watching UFO videos and then boom, weird!
Anonymity Jones found some good ones?
I admire you for sharing your abuse story, and having the courage to stand up for your boys through divorce. We dealt with addiction in our family it steals the person you love away. It's the worst.
this video has been in my recommended for a damn month for no reason
fuck me too. I finally clicked out of sheer curiousity and wtf-ness
Same🌚
Thank God I'm not only one. I thought youtube is trying to tell me something...
She probably paid to have it promoted. That's the kind of frivolous conniving shit that lead to Divorce. LOL
i know, i dont know why
Wow people are evil. This lady had an awful experience. Show some compassion. Dang.
you only heard her side of the story.
I'm not sure how I came across this video...but you are such a gorgeous person inside & out! I just love listening to you speak, so strong but amazingly sweet.
I was thinking the same thing! She is a beautiful woman.
love you Megan!
Love you💖
IKR
Thank you, Megan ❤️
You were so strong in this video. It had me in tears. Pray that you and your family beat this horrible disease. ❤️
I'm watching in 2019. Being a woman who lost the man I love to Alcohol... even though he is passed out on the couch now.
Addiction is Evil. I've never not known alcoholism and drug addiction around me.
It IS ok to Leave. You do not sound like someone who is looking for anything but for him to be a better person.
It's unfortunate. I've spent the better part of 20 years in a battle with Budweiser... that, once I decided I can't win. I've stopped Fighting it. Live together, no kids, Love him Dearly. But, I ONLY have Myself to worry about.
People who do not understand addiction, will bash you. Stay Strong.
That's so true & so brave of you to share! Stay strong & diligent!❤
Same here my husband is addicted to bud light and I feel so sad most of the time because i feel alone and i shouldn't feel alone if hes my husband sometimes he talks to me sometimes he dosent he deinks every day and I feel like i have to walk on egg shells around him he gets angry if i tell him to please drink less get help its no use 😭😭 how can I leave a man that I love how can I fight this
addiction is so terribly real, hopefully one day he realizes alcohol is a shitty drug and stops drinking. its literally paying good money to poison yourself, huge waste.
@@stenyguzman2125 The Only thing you can do is find strength for YOU. I am in no danger. And, there are no children in my home. For me, it is a decision to stay, ALANON is a good place, if that is an option. However... if you or children are unsafe... That changes things Greatly. My son is well over 20, things only got BAD in the past several years... My life started with alcoholic parents... I was Determined to At Least give my son Better than that. And, in those years... things were better. Once there was no child home... All limits were blown out.
@@stenyguzman2125 nothing will change until you change them. Take a stand, enough is enough! Life is too short to not live it. Put God in the middle, pray for your husband & ask God for the strength to conquer this. HE can & will make things hapoen. Know your worth! You deserve to be happy just as much as anyone else. Take a stand & fight for your happiness!! ❤
I have never commented on a UA-cam video before, but felt compelled as I have experienced being in a relationship with an addict, and 11 years later, though we are no longer together and he's lost his friends and family and countless other things, he still cannot quit slowly killing himself. I would just like to say it does get easier and leaving him and contacting his family was the right thing to do. All you can do is offer your help- but it's up to him to take it. The person who commented (Marcin O) saying that you don't "loose" someone to drugs/alcohol, has obviously never gone through this type of situation and is absolutely wrong in saying what he (she?) said. Addiction is so much stronger than you think it is. It has more control over the addict than anything or anyone. All logic, all rationality, all reason, all people, all things of significance and importance are out of play. The addiction completely takes over the addicts' life. So saying that someone may not have had a strong enough relationship is completely irrelevant; because once they jump into this heavy currant river, it is indescribably difficult to attempt to help them out of it, regardless of what kind of relationship you had with this person. The relationship with drugs is more powerful. You are trying to swim up stream while carrying another person who is swimming in the opposite direction. The difference between the pull of a relationship and the pull of drugs is that drugs physically affect you; whereas a relationship is more of a connection of the mind and emotions. Though a strong relationship with someone can be powerful, the relationship with drugs can be stronger because it gains control of your mind, emotions, and your physical body. They begin to physically need the drug, like one physically needs water. EVERYTHING becomes secondary to the addiction.
You have done the right thing. You cannot help someone who does not want to be helped. I hope your ex can one day accept the help that is offered to him.
This is so well-said, samantha, it deserves 1000 upvotes! It's almost unbelievable there are people out there like Marcin O. who believe you can love someone enough so they never do anything hurtful. There are so many things wrong with that idea, starting with the astounding assumption that people NEVER change. No matter how much love and understanding and communication and work someone puts into a relationship, it's still possible that the other person will slowly start to perceive going home and doing the same thing "monotonous" and conclude the only way to relieve their boredom is to try new and possibly dangerous things. Blaming the victim for this is so reprehensible it makes my blood boil.
Why is this weeping woman being recommended to me every single day i turn on UA-cam??Why???I dont care about a divorce and i dont want to know.Please leave me alone
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Good tip, just so weird that a 3 year old video keeps popping up on everyone's channel
And yet watching and commenting on it increases your chances of getting more similar recommended videos. Learn to click the "not interested" option and stop complaining?
So you are insulting someone with an opinion, then? I'm not the one lacking a clue here. lol Eat your words, please. Thanks, bai.
Try removing it from your history .
Googles AI has turned into a weeping woman.
I myself, I've been on both sides. I've been the addict. I've been the asshole and I've been the one who has gone through exactly what you've been through, struggling with a significant other who struggled and still continues to struggle with meth.
I myself, I struggled for 10 years and had a horrible battle against heroin. It was a never ending cycle, one that I really thought I wouldn't make it out alive. I became clean 10/1/07.
Throughout that time, I found myself in several different toxic relationships. It was one after another. I chose to get clean after relapsing dozens of times throughout that 10 year period. I lost everything I owned 3 times over.
I did prison time and one day I woke up and had enough. I got into rehab after serving a stint in prison and decided to focus on myself. One thing I've learned, you can't beat addiction on your own. It's impossible.
You need that structure and foundation to rebuild your own self worth. To be a better Father, a better person, and to become a better productive member of society. I have been clean for almost 14 years now.
Within that time, I have gotten married to a person who struggled with alcohol. I broke it off. She got clean and came back to ask for a second chance. I gave her that respect. We had a child and got married and all a sudden.
She turned to meth. Unbeknownst to me, I didn't know this, but before we met, She dabbled in crystal meth. She kept that from me. But she started drinking again and she was literally drinking and driving with the children in the vehicle while I was at work.
I started getting paranoid about what she was doing around the children and what they were being subjected to, after finding cut straws throughout the house. One day she came home and ran the vehicle into the side of the house and ran into the house to throw up in the bathroom.
I went outside to find that her vehicle hit the front porch and it was still on, in drive, while the children were still seat belted in. That day I finally put my foot down. I called the police to remove her from the home. I ended the marriage.
I Filed for divorce and custody of our daughter. Our children and I lived through that long enough. I not only had to protect our child, but another child she had to another man. I had to keep them safe. Today, she's still doing the same stuff.
I found out last July, she had a friend overdose in her home after her and her boyfriend ran and got them drugs. They tried moving the guy out of their home to drag his lifeless body into the alley to make it appear he died somewhere other than her home.
They could've saved this guy's life, but instead, They waited 2 hours before calling the police after they couldn't move the guy far due to his weight. He overdosed on crystal meth and heroin.
Then a month later. Her 1 1/2 year old son, climbed out onto their porch roof twice in two weeks. CYS was called. She's on parole for 2 3&4th offense DUI's and a drug sale and two more charges she caught in prison after smuggling drugs into a prison facility.
Trust you me, you couldn't make this shit up if you tried. Now I've been fighting through custody the last 4 years. It's been terrible. But I have to do what I have to do, in order to protect these children. I thank God everyday that I was clean and sober when I had my children.
I couldn't live with myself having put them through that. But what I was guilty of, is putting up with it from someone else. Trust me, what you did, is what was best for you and those children. You're strong, never settle for less. You protect those kids with everything you have within yourself.
You did the right thing, because trust me. It could be a hell of alot worse. I've been on both sides. I lived it and still taking the necessary steps to protect my daughter and her other children. Battling custody is no joke. It's the hardest thing a parent has to go through, and it's even harder for a child. They suffer the most, But it's what you got to do in order to protect them
Helluva story you’re a survivor
I'm here policing comments, making sure no one is being rude ;) to my soulmate friend, and I'm so happy to see the support :) I think this will help you too, to see that you aren't alone, as well as others to see that they aren't alone.
I called it within the first 5 minutes. Once you've loved someone with this problem you never forget. I'm so sorry. But you'll be able to look out for this in the future. Hope it's okay that I pray for you.🙏🏻♥️
Same here. The disappearing to the bathroom and money issues nailed it for me.
After 24 years of marriage, MY wife has no flame for me. We are both busy etc, but she won't even kiss me, i feel like i've done all i can do.....getting tired of being last....
baddbradd89 Don't listen to anyone... LiSTEN to your heart...Try to read more...fill your mind with educated words...This world lives on emotional drama...24 years...long time...Try to remember what brought you two together...If there is no extra martial stuff going on...It could be a health issue...low this or that...Try to express yourself in writing...Woman love to read especially "LOVE" notes over & over....it might sink in that your are in pain over this absent marriage partner....Dating is one thing...but... marriage is a promise to be present....If you are not communicating the burdens......how would she know...24 years...relate to that woman sir...thank you...
baddbradd89 And.
@@lizmoimendoza5341 no cheating on either side...100% sure and no, I'm not nieve. She is wrapped up into her job and is always on the computer or phone with other teachers whom I know. I've been on test. replacement for 1.5 yrs, lost 20 lbs....I know I can be an asshole, but affection would cure it
Understandable, take her on a island vacation for a week and get to know each other again my friend.
Rollo tomasi, rational male. He might change your life
I came across your channel because I’m searching for “leaving Lularoe” videos and then I here I am two hours later on video after video about your ex’s drug abuse and divorce stuff. Clearly we have lots in common and I’m so glad I’ve found you! You’re so brave for speaking up and giving other women a voice and allowing them to know it’s ok to speak their truth of what’s happening in their lives! Love your videos so far! I’m glad to see you’re very happy in the place you and your kiddos are today! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
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This was such a hard video for her to make... And I'm crying for her reading these comments from asshole trolls just being so mean to her.. God bless you girl
bitch please. im not even gonna capitalize im sooooo beside myself. buahhaha!!!
I find it sexual arousing when I see females crying.
You're a maniac.
When you sit here and have emotions over some random ass person on the internet that you've never known, never seen, and never talked to and you sit here and cry about it - you're probably some crazy, emotional, psycho bitch such as this lady in the video. No wonder you like her, you are just like her. So just like her, fuck off.
I was with my ex-husband for 14 years. We had three amazing children together. He battled addiction and alcoholism off and on during our entire relationship. I tried so many ways to help him and to save our family. He did not want to change. They have to be the ones who want to change for themselves. You did the right thing by leaving. I wish I had ended my marriage sooner. I never thought I'd feel that way. I thought we'd be together forever. I loved him and watched the person I cared so much about completely disappear. It got so bad at the end that he tried to kill me and kill himself twice in front of my children. I brought that up during our divorce hearing. The judge asked him if he had anything to say in defense of himself on that. He simply said "no". I thought for sure he would deny it or at least try to make an excuse for it, but there was just nothing he could say. I was being honest. The judge gave me sole custody of the kids and said he could only see the kids at my discretion. He has not even asked how they were doing, much less tried to see them. He does not pay his child support. He got a job working under the table to avoid that and feed his habits. Sadly, he went to worse drugs. He drank beer, snorted pain pills and did cocaine while we were together. I recently found out that he moved on to heroin. It makes me sad for the life he chose. It makes me sad that addiction took over and stole him from our children. Sometimes leaving is the best thing. You're in my prayers. Stay strong sweetie.
:/ post a blog about this. More women and single mothers should here about this behavior and that its more common than people think . I hate how people try to demonize women in custody battles, when its usually the men who end up failing as parents and they refuse to pay child ssupport more often than not. I hope everything goes well from here on out which I'm sure it has been better
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lmfao are you an idiot? Vasectomies are widely known to be reversable and thats why it is encouraged for men to do the procedure versus women undergoeing dangerous procedures. And dont give me that bullshit. Condoms protect against STD's and STI's and are effective 90% of the time if used correctly ("that means you have to take it correctly") lmfao. And yes you guys do feel alot so thats not an excuse to not use it either. If you want to be a bigot, uneducated, and sexist asshole that thinks prevention is solely for women that is your idiotic choice.
+MikePeterson Who exactly should be taking this pill? My children were born by choice in a loving marriage. When my husband got caught up with partying with his friends and became an addict it changed everything about him. Not just with me and his children. Even his parents that were fighting cancer, it destroyed their relationship. Having children does not make someone act that way.
so people are brave for being with some idiot and even when they know they will not change still be with them?? people call that brave??? wow what a bunch of idiots to think that.. brave is the women or men who think of themselves first and leave those idiots.. those who do that are the brave ones and smart ones...
She is a disgrace to her husband proverbs 12:4 He got rid of her according to the bible Proverbs 21:19 The bible has warned men about evil females Proverbs 25:24 We can only hope she is damned to HELL !
Gentlemen,
When you've got a good woman, don't fuck it up. Work it out!
+atlg8or6137 Amen to that. I'm 29 and after a divorce and dozens of tumultuous, failed relationships I've found a good woman. I'm going to do everything in my power to keep her and treat her right. They are almost impossible to find these days.
+atlg8or6137 Easier said than done brother...What does "work it out" even mean? Do you know what that means? I don't. I do understand why my divorce happened and it was through reading and learning that I determined why it failed and why marriages fail. It's deeper than "your marriage just needs work." SOOOOOOO much deeper.
+ReticentIndignation Every situation is different. SOME men take their relationships for granted, and think that the grass is always greener on the other side. It's rarely the case.
If your situation was different, then take my comment as not applying to you.
atlg8or6137 All the work in the world isn't going to change the other person or their mind is all I'm saying. It isn't that easy. It isn't always the man fucking it up either. I had what I thought was a good woman at one point...maybe she still is.
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It’s been 5 years, I hope you’re doing great now. I’m a mess too and just don’t know what to do.
Trust in a relationship is a great necessity for a long lasting relationship however watching out for red flags at all time is also very important. Trust is hard to earn and very easy to break or lose I still remember how disappointed I was the day I discovered my wife's lie and realised that she had been cheating on me through the help of unlimiteddevicehackers who helped to clone her phone without even touching her phone all I did was gave them her phone number and I got access to her social media handles including her Facebook,Instagram and her text messages I am still deeply hurt but I am happy I have enough evidence to file for a divorce.
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@@joshuafalade4754 Thank you for sharing your wisdom and advice. But this is not our case. We don't have problems with infidelity. We both have access on our phones and emails. Our problem is I guess culture differences, so different point of views, personalities, etc.. which leads to big fights. Hmm we should be able to figure out what is best for us. Glad to hear you are happy and doing now. I wish you a wonderful day.
This randomly popped up in my recommendations (which seems to have been happening a lot lately), but I wanted to let you know that I admire your courage not only to have made the decisions you made, but to have shared your story in the hopes of helping other people in your situation. Nearly five years later, I hope you are all doing much better and that your ex has managed to stay clean.
I also wanted to comment on what you said about what happens when you're around your mom. My kids have done that more than once with their mom and me, when they're playing and get hurt. They keep it together, stay cool while they're coming over to tell us something has happened. When they do find us and tell us the situation, it's like they've managed to lift the burden off their backs and can now let go, and they start crying. This happens to you because your mom is your rock. It means you have the strength to keep it together when you need to, but you also know your mom's got your back, so you lean on her for support. I just wanted to share that with you, or anyone else to whom this happens. It's normal and a wonderful sign of a strong bond with your parents.
Like I said before, I hope everyone's doing better these days. Stay strong.
DungeonFreak x
🦋✨ Wow. You’re absolutely right. I never viewed it from that perspective before. Thank you so much for sharing that!
Why are people blaming this lady and calling her names???? Can you imagine what she went through? there is 2 sides to every story, but still- she is so brave. Hang in there love.
No we don't know what she went through because we weren't there. We don't know any side to the story except hers and he's not making a spectacle of himself on UA-cam about the divorce, she is. That shows a level of self-absorption on her part because she is airing her dirty laundry not him. Did any of you ever stop to think the type of person that broadcasts this type of very private family issue is an attention seeker exhibiting attention seeking behavior? It's a trait most "infuencers" on UA-cam share. We don't really know a thing about their relationship or if what she is saying has a single grain of truth to it. Many of you are simply making the assumption her husband is a villain and she is blameless. That's an awfully big assumption to make based only on the word of somebody you don't know and have never met. I keep hearing her supporters mentioning she's pretty. Wtf does that have to do with anything? If she was ugly would that somehow make her less credible? Guys in this thread are simply whiteknighting her because they find her attractive and women whiteknighting her are either disgruntled divorcees themselves who have a clear gender bias when it comes to exes or feminazis (radical feminists) who operate under the automatic assumption all men are bad and liars and all women are good and 100% honest.
@@philosoraptor2285 I respectfully disagree.
Your assumption that all influencers are self absorbed and attention seeking is unfounded; some of them may be, but even that isn't a reason to shun someone sharing their story. Moreover, people showing her compassion are "whiteknighting"? People can't just be nice and extend her compassion for no reason, in your opinion?
Some people choose to talk to heal, and she happened to have a platform and use it- I personally don't see the harm in it. Choosing to be kind instead of being vitriolic is the approach I decide to take when strangers are sharing their struggles, and that is what I will personally stick with.
You are fully entitled to your opinion.
i feel for both parties in this video but that doesn’t mean anyone has the right to attack this woman for protecting herself, her financial assets and her children. the comments are so sickening. i know its youtube and youtube is a fucking cesspool of hate but come on. "bros before hoes," right guys? grow the fuck up. i'm pretty sure we were all taught in kindergarten that the golden rule is "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all." is this woman hurting anyone? did she post pictures or videos of this man? no. she is not hurting anyone, she is venting and trying to share her story so that other people don't feel as alone. why do you feel personally attacked by this video?? also if this video would "not stop showing up in your recommendations" OH NO OH MY GOD NOOOOO all you have to do is click the vertical "..." to the side of the video and click "not interested." its not that hard.
We live in a critical world
That's..not..the golden rule. The golden rule is "Treat others how you want to be treated."
Bob Loblaw ...nope!! She is HELPING people!! Like me!!!! She is allowed to "air out" that "dirty laundrey" that she did not create
Bob Loblaw I agree, we are all entitled to our own opinions. Some may want her to take this down just because of the reasons you've stated, but in other cases, we find things helpful. We find that we are not alone thru this lady's divorce journey.
Dulce Amor Gamez
God bless you, girly. I'm so sorry you've gone through this... I pray you're doing better after all this time.
I experienced divorce with young children. You are strong. You will survive this and the kids will also
Ruth Cummings as you know kids don't keep a marriage together
if someone's not happy I rather he or she leave nothing worst to stay in a relationship because? I ain't marrying no damm body in 2019 ppl don't have same values about marriage anymore they cheat lie steal whole nine yards so it just a legal piece of paper and it don't keep 2 ppl happy if they not word of the day
just don't get fucking married
@@jessicafashionlover2148 You are sooome bitter.
imanii moore true
Ruth Cummings Yes, me also. The kids are grown now..it was very tough
@@trishdavey3339 No, you.
I have no idea why this appeared in my list of videos. Yet I really genuinely hope that things are getting better. Please take care. Much Respect and Peace and all good things from the North West of England UK .
I don't know how I reached on this video. I'm only 19 years old and have no desire to marry ever.
Still I wish you lots of strength. Sending love.
Douglas Fisher in India its the other way around.
too much red pill. So you tube wants to give you a blue pill and put you back into the plantation lol.
Bhai, you are correct. Look at the Indian marriage laws and you will certainly get fucked. Get red pilled when you are young, these bitches will cry and elevate their positions to make themselves look like they are saints. Be very careful with bitches like this in the video.
@@thereaper7682 I'm 55 years old, have a great job, where i make insanely good money, get to travel all over, no kids, never married, never had a girlfriend, and i don't want one---EVER!! All i care about is my money, and retiring, very comfortable. I'm a big believer in MGTOW! Any guy that has a great job,and makes excellent money through hard work, and wants to ruin it all by getting married, which is nothing more than legalized male slavery is an IDIOT!!!!
Why get shacked up with just one woman for the rest of your life. I can't understand it.
Substance abuse is a big contributing factor for divorce. Certainly when they refuse to get help. I’m so sorry for your struggles and even his struggles because he deserves to feel at peace rather than be intoxicated
Keep in mind there is rarely ANY support for men. No one to talk to. And 80% of divorces are initiated by women...
@@spiritquests3970 maybe if men weren't so shitty, women wouldn't divorce them.
You have done the very best thing for you and your family. Drugs don’t just destroy the people who use and abuse them, it affects those around that person. Drugs make people sneaky and untrustworthy.
Spot on! It really is a sad truth, but couldn't agree more! God Bless you! ❤
and manipulative don't forget manipulative.....ive seen junkies manipulate their own family members into prostitution themselves for money to support their junky habit....once the needle goes in it never comes out...
Was he Cheating Behind Your back?..... :(
So we as a society have reached a point where airing our dirty laundry for the world to see is somehow respected, encouraged and accepted?
Apparently it was about the same time when anonymously attacking someone on the internet was accepted. Beam and mote. Just sayin.
ScorpTac good one!
ScorpTac If you took my comment as an "attack" then your comprehension skills need improvement. Judging her for airing her families dirty laundry where her husbands family, her family, her kids friends, friends of friends etc can see? Yes
Either way it's still an attack. When people take part in behavior s that cause hurt or trauma they need to be prepared for the consequences that come with that. She is doing nothing wrong by sharing her experience. Unfortunately that is going to include other people. Why should she be silenced. If you don't like what she's saying don't watch.
chaosvixenxoxo I agree. I think she's incredibly brave for being vulnerable and sharing her story, but there are times that she crosses the line into being too personal. Anyone can watch this… ANYONE. You have to remember that a) she's talking about real people and they deserve some degree of privacy, and b) you have to be safe on the internet. So I do agree with you, to an extent. At the same time, I feel for her and I wish her the best. Divorce is never easy.
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Even the ghost at 8:18 is like "man I gotta get outta here, this place is haunted."
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mallarysangel 😂😂😂
mallarysangel 🤣that comment wins the academy award of best comment on UA-cam lol
+mallarysangel - hahaha! The ghost went to go commit suicide. That's how bad this vid is. Something that's already dead wants to die again after hearing her pity party ramble that nobody cares about. I don't get why she would put this on UA-cam rather than go see a freakin' therapist and keep it private. Imagine if she's single and on an online dating site and someone she dates stumbles across this video?
Ghost went to go get some meth, couldn't take her anymore.
I didn't even get to 8:18. This chick was too pathetic.
I’m thinking about getting divorced as well. My wife likes to spend time with her guy friend and stay overnight at his place. She keeps saying “we’re just friends”. Either get use to it and be a man. So now I’ve been suppressing this emotion and trying to be okay with all of this... but now, I think it’s time to make the move.
Run!!!!!
@@nervotica7991 hope they don’t have kids, but for sure he needs to dump her and her male “friend”
Dump the bitch! She’s sleeping with him. Face up to it!
Pretend that you are also sleeping over your female friend and tell her that you both are only friends. She'll die on the inside.