this is why you're not consistent
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Dang Kelsey, the first 30 seconds went straight for the jugular lol. But definitely things every artist needs to hear
I find that my energy goes up and down. (if you subscribe to astrology, I'm a fire sign, so energy comes and goes) and I also feel that creating takes me 'stepping into the zone' and if my energy is low, I don't feel like I can 'go into the zone' so I just avoid it, and then of course feel bad because I'm not being consistent....I loved your energy level planning!!
For cryin' out loud, Kelsey, this is like artist therapy. I've been a professional artist for many years now, two decades full-time. And I KNOW all of this stuff from experience. But we all become our own worst enemy from time to time and need to be reminded of the things we already know. Thanks for another compelling video. You're providing a much needed service for new and old artists alike.
You're right, of course. I sometimes wonder how much of this perfectionism goes back to overcoming parental criticism.
Having adhd, ocd, and chronic illness as a creative is such a goddam STRUGGLE💀
@@CaliberDawn maybe that's your fuel to create your art
@@ayushgaba7572 clearly said by someone who suffers from none of that -- chronic illness alone = negative energy, negative fuel, even getting out of bed or dressed can be a huge struggle. Creativity takes up a lot of physical and mental energy, if you're already at a negative it's REALLY hard. Often you have to be ok knowing you're going to put yourself in a worse hole the next day, but the satisfaction of actually doing ANYTHING positive is worth it.
Yes, the struggle is very real, but there is always hope. Dr. Joe Dispenza & Brandy Gilmore are two people who used their minds to change their energy & heal their bodies in ways they were told were impossible, and now they teach others how to do what they did for themselves. I hope thats helpful to someone out there who is suffering.
I'm in the same boat except swap ocd for autism haha, and it is a struggle!! But also holy shit i'm so glad to be a creative as opposed to not with these disabilities, cuz my life would suck a lot more if I wasn't if you'd ever wanna chat/commiserate feel free to message me! haha
@@CaliberDawn I am with you + autism 😭 so what I have found that is making a difference for me is starting out with something I know is achievable on low energy days. That can look as “simple” as researching art concepts and inspiration then taking note mentally or on paper what I learn. (I haven’t watched the video yet😂 idk if she said this)
(Edit: my bad this is exactly what her video is about🤣)
One of my problems is that I have too much that I want to do. So once I find the motivation to sit down and draw/paint something I get overwhelmed with everything that I want to do so I end up doing nothing.
Also, one thing I like to do when I’m not sure about something I’m working on is to just leave it alone for a few days, somewhere I can see it everyday (I have my art corner in my living room so that part is pretty easy). It usually changes my perspective on whatever I’m working on.
want to do too much is my problem too, and I end up the same way.
Drinking my morning coffee and getting attacked personally wasn't on my list this morning, but well done Kels, I needed to hear it though lmfao
and yes, I replayed this to make sure I hear it again
this video is a gem 💎 thank you! lately i have been thinking a lot about slowing down, taking one step at a time. about being intentional and patient to learn how to live without so much pressure, stress and urgency. i love when you talk about this
Omg I recognise myself so much in the overwhelmingly scheduled 5 am person you described! 🙈 I’ve done that in intervals for years and it never works out as planned, I just hit a wall and stop everything. Last year I attempted the “75 soft” challenge with an art addition, and I just managed a few weeks and then I didn’t do anything at all for months. 😅 But I’ve learned the lesson, even though I have a soft spot for productivity videos and systems and schedules. But I really need to be honest with myself and careful about what I put on my plate. Thank you for this video, Kelsey! 🙂
How dare you read my diary out loud for everyone to hear?! 😂 seriously though, thank you for the call in ❤❤
"Eventually you have to take off the training wheels and ride the f***ing bike!" 5:26
Thank you Kelsey: I really needed that tough love today! 💘
Thank you so much for this video, Kelsey! It was just what I needed today. You just spoke right into my heart and I will rewatch this video over and over again for sure! ❤❤❤ I have a million creative ideas, and I know how to plan, but at the same time I'm a big maximalist, and that's holding me back. That's why I'm trying to learn how to take small steps rather than big and overwhelming jumps. ❤
The way I needed this video today! Thank you for everything you do Kelsey!!! 🥰
I needed every word of this so much. Truly, thank you. I build these mountains for myself that just sit there and stress me out. Then I build another. Two mountains worth of stress that aren't going anywhere. And the cycle continues. This video was so refreshing and gave me the perspective I needed to rethink all of my goals in ways that I can actually get done. You're the best.
Thank you, this is really helpful of my writing and to get back to it. In the past I could write really fast, about everything every day, all the time. Then, my writing block came and I wasn't able to write for years. Slowly getting back, but I feel I am so slow, mainly because if the past, when I can write 10 pages or more without effort, definitely try out that writing tip, seems achievable and no extra pressure
Another suggestion I have, if you're still stuck on the "just do it" phase, would be to just start on a little of it. So instead of a full painting, start of with a messy imperfect sketch on a post it or napkin, just something to get the idea down so that you can refine it later. Or for example, if you like to sew like me, iron the fabric one day, cut it another, pin it another day, sew it up on another day. I've noticed that moving in phases also can help make you more likely to just do the thing that you've wanted to do and get done. Kind of like using the stairs of a pool to get in at your own rate, as you go and get adjusted to the water, you get more accustomed to the water touching you and encountering it.
the best thing I've heard for the longest time, i needed this, thank you!
The perfect workplace or working method has its own journey and can be as flexible and organic as your artistic growth. While working and planning, I try new things-it's the only way for me to know what works best. For example, deciding whether to arrange my pencils in a box on the left or right of my desk; the best setup comes through my workflow, not through preplanning. I keep rearranging my workspace to suit my workflow, and it's always evolving. I don’t like making it too static-it frustrates me when it’s rigid and not adapted to my needs. The same applies to time planning or weekly scheduling-I figure out what works best by experimenting and working on my projects.
First time seeing your video and first time subscribing within the first few minutes of watching a video. You are gold! So authentic. So refreshing. A recovering perfectionist/procrastinator here and your advice is invaluable. Was on level 5 when I woke up today, and I worked on my first UA-cam video, posted and checked social media and then hit level 2 a couple of hours later 😂 You make me feel normal.
Thank you so much for this video, you have no idea how much you have helped me this morning!
So called out (and actually totally fine with it because I definitely needed to hear this)
Wow, this is great, insightful advice! Seems to be spoken from lived experience and a grounding in the deeper knowing of soul and intuition. And I can tell you are really passionate about it. Thank you for sharing!
Your videos are like a big hug❤
Thank you for this video about being consistent in the art world. I really could relate to your story :)
Not even seconds in I feel called out bruh 😭
Really needed this right now to be honest. I’m very bad at not expecting too much of myself. I have the same health condition as you do (you mentioned it once in a video a while back), and boy does it suck. I’m having a hard time not feeling frustrated with my art and myself for my “bad days”.
I’m going to try this, it’s not the first time I’ve heard this advice, but knowing successful people accomplished so much just with a daily modest goal is encouraging and a perspective I didn’t consider. I would love to hear more about how you manage to make art with your chronic health issues in a sustainable way.
This was a wonderful video thank you, you expressed your points in a really effective way that got me thinking and inspired me to start drawing and go make something. Thank you 💕
I didn't realize how much I needed this. Thanks for the solid, down to earth advice. The "get on the f***ing bike" part made me laugh!
Also, I really llike the new editing style for your videos. ❤
Thank you for your video! This was much needed! Best wishes on your journey! 🎉
Thank you so much for this video!!! ❤ You described me just perfectly with my unrealistic vision and the big gap between where I am and where I want to be 😅 Now I can build more realistic vision and also the habits that will bring me there (hopefully, one day 😜)
Such a good video, and super grateful I found you. I burst out laughing when you said the ugly phase is strong. I have been there so many times. ❤
My flaw of 'art is the escape of life' and I want to do it 24/7 has been called out.
Called me right out kelsey! Alright, I'll finally finish the damn script! Really needed to hear this so much!
some incredible tips here, thanks for this kelsey
Never has anyone described what goes inside my head so flawlessly 🥲 my lack of action and consistency and my immaculate procrastination talent affect me every single day both mentally and in practice, and deep down I am aware of it, yet the fear stops me every single time and I've just been stuck in this loop hole for years and can't seem to convince myself of an otherwise reality where perfection and enormous expectation aren't the main goal 💢
Challenge accepted 🙋♀ I have been trying to figure out where my productivity levels are actually at when it comes to my artwork, and you are right that setting higher expectations that don't align with my own reality causes this sense of not being good enough, but they are expectations I set, for myself.... the motivation goes down really quickly. I like the way you've laid out the 1-5 scale and will be interested to see the video for a more in-depth breakdown of those levels. Thanks for the topic, I loved it :)
Gosh this is sooo true! Thank you, really needed to hear this!
I set out to do 15 minutes of art a day this year! I even made myself a little tracker to keep an eye on if I’m hitting it. I don’t manage to do it literally every day, but it’s been nice and reassuring to see how much more I was already drawing than I thought I was ❤️ I’m working to get to the “this feels natural most days” part, but I’m already closer to that than I thought!
Heya - been watching for a long while, but think this is my first comment. I just want to thank ya much for this one. Listened as I powered through a piece I don’t feel is going well in a time when I’m learning how to live with my own chronic illness and inwardly thrashing myself for not being where I feel I should. Your encouragement is very much appreciated. Keep creating~! 💛
I'm excited to see the energy menus! I definitely need to make some.
Its all about growth. Nothing else matters. So that i dont have to feel like a failure.
🍊 I'm getting my Art Channel monetized this year for sure💪 I'm getting my stuff together & balancing myself to not over work myself in the process. ❤️Thank you Kelsey for motivating me more to just stop overthinking.🧡🧡🧡
This message is so important. I'm struggling a lot. I appreciate what you do and all your hard work. My only gripe is , while I'm sure it's worth it, your book is very expensive. Seems like you are selling a course or workbook which is totally valid but it would be nice if you were a bit more transparent about that. I realize your book isn't as expensive as an actual course but it's far more expensive than an average book.
This video has already reshaped how I'm seeing my progress, and I just finished it. At the end of this video, my brain immediately compared this habit builder to how I like to read, when I did so consistently; one chapter per day, that's the bar, to sit on the porch and read one chapter
Art is a lifelong journey-one that must be experienced to be truly understood. Your support for my UA-cam channel means the world to me, as it fuels my passion and keeps me motivated. I appreciate every bit of encouragement along the way.
I needed this video, thank you!
For me, it doesn't work so well to just do small things to get into the flow because there are just too many things that interest me.
That's why I like it as a menu that I can choose from, three of them, and everything above that is a bonus.🙂
It helps me take the pressure off of it by seeing them as options that I can choose, but don't have to.
So I only do what I like and get so much further.
Sometimes a task gets in the way, like there are some interesting art materials at the discounter Aldi or Lidl, then I think about what I need and want to try out.
But that only happens a few times a year, and sometimes I don't want any of it.
I'll then buy a little and try it out as soon as possible so that I can get some more if I think it's great.
Like right now.
Or that my head is full of scenes for stories, and then I write them down.
I have several in the works, some of which build on each other.
If I get stuck with one, I usually have ideas for another that I can continue writing.
But there are also things that I can't just stop and that can take several hours of time, such as baking a cake or trying out tea,
for which I write a kind of review in order to get to know it in more detail.
This is something that I need time for, and to try it out I have to be relaxed and half-rested in order to be able to do it well. It
is divided into several steps. The first step is a rough description of the tea, and from then on it gets more complicated.
2. Consider steeping times and temperature, and write down the template.
3. Is to try out the tea and write down notes.
It takes me 1-4 hours depending on the tea and the infusion method, which goes from 1 to 4 times.
Once for black tea bags that only work well at one temperature and method, 3 to 4 times for green teas.
A lower infusion temperature and a high one with several infusions and twice with little tea and longer infusion and only two infusions.
This shouldn't cool down too much between infusions, which is why I do them early one after the other.
It is a relatively relaxed matter that cannot be delayed.
4. Rewrite the whole thing into readable sentences and expand it a little, relax the next day and drink this tea at the same time so as not to get confused.
About 1-4 hours.
5. Create diagrams for this 1-4 hours depending on the amount and how well I focus.
It's pretty annoying because the template function in LibreOffice isn't enough, and I always have to move the titles and legends around until it fits.
6. Edit photos, it's pretty quick. My photo editing program has presets for this.
I just have to remove a purple tint in the white balance every time because it somehow remembered it.
7. Look through the whole thing again and correct any mistakes I may have missed.
8. publish.
Great advice ✊🏻
Well yes but will i ever learn my lesson? Mmmm...
This video and the words were needed
The all or nothing mentality can be so crippling. I love the idea of just picking one aspect of your business to work on a little bit at a time.
Thank you for helping me focus!
I needed to hear this today! Thank you ☺️ 🥰✨🧚♀️
Dang gurl, I was sweating for the first half of the video. Too real 😂😂😂😢😢😢
Thanks I needed to hear this
New here and getting tons of value!
Thank you Kelsey!
JESUS YOU STRANGLED ME THE SECOND I WALKED IN THE DOOR
Honestly I just forget I’m doing a thing after a few days and it’s a wrap. The only things I don’t forget is work and wanting to draw. Everything else can easily be forgotten.
Some of the best advice I’ve watched in a while.
Let it all fall down - an introspection
Don’t look
There in the valley of white
Stands a village
Pretty houses in time
Chimney and smoke and mist
And over there the tall mountain
Ancient and strong
Keeper of the forest
Protector of all secrets
All the beauty of the world
The roads far and wide
Passing me by
Laid before me, for me
Don’t touch
Busied my days
Building fortress and castle
Strong and safe
Do not wander, do not wonder
I didn’t look, I didn’t touch
Today I bury my failed life-
Here lies he who never complained
Never seen
Never heard
Today I bury my safety
Today I fail on purpose
And I will not don’t run and don’t fall
And I will not don’t speak
I will touch and I will look and I will laugh
Today I trade consent
For coincidences
Today I shovel clouds in my window
And forget about the snow
Let it all fall down
Sure I love the way U talk
Do you use reference imagines
ahhh but why can't I be that person straight away ;) adhd and perimenopausal doesn't help. One day I am full of energy and I do it all, I feel like superwoman and then on the other days when I don't have that, I beat myself up for it and always judge myself on the level 5 days. I do all the planning things too. This is super helpful thank you.
thanks for this, kelsey
What is that composition lesson book you're working from?
The Composition of Outdoor Painting, mentioned in this video: ua-cam.com/video/9M7QWy9XnFY/v-deo.html
shit is gonna happen, oh yeah it damn is
Ouch. Guilty as charged in the first few sentences. This is why I like your videos.
thanks for calling me out cool haircut
So true 😡🤬😡👏👏👏
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"Go full time in 6 months" Im in this photo and I dont like it >.
thanks for the motivation, gorgeous! i definitely tend to over think and put so much pressure on myself to be perfect that I end up just procrastinating, and then i really hate myself. lol
you're so beautiful
This is the exact thing I needed to watch right now, Kelsey 😭🩵 I've been working as a freelance illustrator since 2014 and doing content creation on and off since 2018. I've made a lot of progress, but the stagnation of social media and the art industry and the last couple years along with my ADHD has really thrown a wrench in my system and my mindset. This video really helped me take a deep breath and remember to take it one step at a time! Always appreciate your videos and am cheering you on for the painting you've been working on!
Years ago, I read about an author who wrote two to three novels a year only putting in 20 minutes a day.
She had 4 kids. Volunteered, went to all their games, cooked, cleaned, hung out with friends. She had a full life.
She said she just made sure to write no more or no less than 20 minutes day every single day for 365 days of the year.
She chose the 20 minutes early in the morning before everyone got up. That became her habit.
Can't think of her name (this was over ten years ago in Barnes and Noble). So, Kelsey is right, do SOMETHING everyday.
Good video.