5 Tips on How to Get Out of the Friend Zone With Your Ex

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    The secret of how to get out of the friend zone with your ex is to make her feel so attracted to you that she fears losing you to another girl.
    The reason why most guys remain stuck in the friend zone with their ex girlfriend or wife, is that they don’t feel worthy of her in a sexual and romantic way.
    …and she can tell.
    She can see it in his body language, sense it in his vibe and pick up on it based on how he talks to her, treats her and behaves around her.
    She knows that he is hoping that she will give HIM another chance.
    Yet, what she really wants is to be in the position where she feels so attracted to him that SHE wants to get another chance with him.
    How can you do that?
    By focusing on making her feel sexually attracted and turned on by the new and improved you.
    If your ex only wants to be friends with you, it means that she doesn’t feel sexually attracted to you.
    It’s as simple as that.
    If you are stuck in the friend zone with your ex, you need to focus on making her feel so sexually attracted to the new and improved you that she fears losing you to another girl.
    When you do that, you then get out of the friend zone and back into a sexual relationship with her.
    Watch the video above for tips and to learn more, go to:
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    Cheers
    Dan Bacon
    Founder of The Modern Man and creator of Get Your Ex Back Super System

КОМЕНТАРІ • 68

  • @marketingsolutionsrus
    @marketingsolutionsrus 3 роки тому +59

    In other words... grow a pair. Actually, I'm going through this right now. And what he says is 100% correct. The ex told me we're only friends. I played the game. I took Dan's advice. She tried to keep the power but I got it back. One of the biggest points he makes is how ex's want to see a new a new you. A moving forward, confident guy. It's not just working on her but other women I encounter in someplace a innocent as a store. I had 2 women stop me to talk to me the other day & my ex saw it happen. The rest of the night she seemed more interested in me. Good stuff here, thanks Dan.

  • @RichWil
    @RichWil 5 років тому +73

    I think I just realized I’m a comfort friend. We’ve been broken up for 3 weeks still talk but I’m being to comforting. Going to need to step back some and gain attraction.

  • @brandon53657
    @brandon53657 6 років тому +8

    best advice on the net! Gonna try this !

  • @jonathanheath9845
    @jonathanheath9845 3 роки тому

    Hi Dan. Excellent stuff. And so so true. Love your videos.

  • @mdags3202
    @mdags3202 Рік тому +8

    How do you stick around in her life without being the emotional support friend and then being essentially friend zoned?

  • @bradj2731
    @bradj2731 6 років тому +14

    Dan your the best thank God I found you. Because of you I have grown Sooo much as a man and understanding women and life blessing to You Bro. Your the best!

  • @mikecrom2418
    @mikecrom2418 5 років тому +6

    Thank you for this video dan I will try this and get my ex back

  • @abrahamreyes6011
    @abrahamreyes6011 2 роки тому +13

    Any tips on how to not get stuck as the “emotional support” buddy while also keeping the channels of communication going?

  • @geraldweber2591
    @geraldweber2591 2 роки тому +1

    awesome advice

  • @michaelstach7208
    @michaelstach7208 5 років тому +9

    These videos really help with my confidence. Thank you so much!

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 5 років тому +3

    Great information Dan! Thank you!

  • @oliverframpton4579
    @oliverframpton4579 Рік тому

    This has opened my eyes. Ex and I have kids so it's difficult but she's taken advantage of me as I'm being too nice. She knows she can get me to jump whenever she wants. It's tricky as I don't want the kids to suffer but as long as I provide for them like I do, it's all good. I just can't bow to her needs any more. She was physically abusive as well and it's crushed my confidence but I'll get there. This video was a wake up call - how can I get her back if I will do anything she says?

  • @weavorjjohanna5619
    @weavorjjohanna5619 5 років тому +24

    OMG, FINALLY, THIS IS SO CONVINCING, I SAW ABOUT 10 VIDEOS, AND THIS IS THE ONLY ONE THAT EXPLAIN SO CONVINCINGLY

  • @yourlonglostuncle14
    @yourlonglostuncle14 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for making this video. You give lots of amazing advice and explain it well. I’ve been going through this with my ex recently. We just started talking again but now she’s dating another guy. She’s aware that I still want her back and I have feelings for her, but she’s put me in the friendzone. She told me she doesn’t want to just break up with her new boyfriend just because I popped back into her life, when their relationship is going well. Which I do understand that, but at the same time she’s keeping me around as just a friend and asking for advice and getting compliments from me without reciprocating any feelings. I don’t wanna just be that “nice guy” she talks to to build her confidence and that’s it. So thank you for the advice. I’m going to do what you said and EMOTIONALLY DETACH myself. I feel like that’s the key. Let her start to realize I’m losing interest because she’s not acting on our relationship. I’m gonna also tell her there’s another girl who I think likes me because she’s always giggling and turning away and blushing whenever she sees me (which is actually true, she works at the place I get my coffee every morning and she gives me free coffees sometimes too). I think that will spark her interest and romantic attraction when she realizes there’s another girl who’s into me. I’m gonna tell her the girl’s cute too 😂

  • @FUTBOLICO_
    @FUTBOLICO_ 4 роки тому +14

    Dan...I've ruined my 2 year awesome relationship by being neutral, and now she says she's lost the spark ,has second thoughts on her Ex and wants to be alone for a while...texts me back and answers everytime...how do I aproach this without looking too sleazy

  • @ChordsForU
    @ChordsForU 6 років тому +12

    Dan, thank you for pointing me towards this video, it so describes my situation. I was trying to be there for my ex as I knew she was going through a hard time when we broke up but then she told me she’s slept with someone else and kissed other people etc since we broke up after the chick told me she doesn’t want to be with anybody else

  • @pabloray2562
    @pabloray2562 4 роки тому +3

    You da man 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @joshmilne5607
    @joshmilne5607 6 років тому +3

    Hey bro love your vids they make so much sense..I’m in a situation where I had to move away for a job so we mutually agreed to break up with no drama I’ve since returned but she is seeing another guy I don’t care about this at all..she says we can’t be together but wants to be friends because I make her feel present I’m confused..I believe we are meant to be together I feel and see she still has feelings for me..is this a perfect opportunity to start on the attraction process?

  • @maxlife9721
    @maxlife9721 4 роки тому +3

    GOOD SHIT....

  • @bigslimsanantoniotx6483
    @bigslimsanantoniotx6483 6 років тому +2

    Good STUFF

  • @WreckingBallers
    @WreckingBallers 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing video thank you

  • @rodriguezr9338
    @rodriguezr9338 6 років тому +4

    hi Dan.
    well I have a question an I hope you help me. so when my gf broke up w/ me. she deleted everything off her social media. pics and post but not the anyversari congrats or other post we did for each other. I haven't deleted anything. 2 weeks ago she told me to. but didn't. should I delete them or should just hide them from my profile? I feel like if I do it she might be more open to the idea of letting and stuff. idk. what should I do?? please help

  • @_1Brick1_
    @_1Brick1_ 2 роки тому +3

    Been in friend zone with ex for over a year. I feel so stuck. We speaks all our time together but no sex and I don’t feel any sexual tension either.

  • @BennyChavez
    @BennyChavez 3 роки тому +1

    if you're the one who screwed up.. do you at least let her know over the first few days that you regret it and have been hard on yourself for it?

  • @connor-lukefountain4366
    @connor-lukefountain4366 6 років тому +2

    Hey Dan my ex just broke up with me after a year and half relationship becuase I took her for granted but still wants me to be in her life and thinks we should just be friends for now. Does that mean she is waiting for me to self improve? Also we train at the same mma gym soo i see her at least 5 or 6 days a week but i just had ACL reconstruction surgery soo i only see her maybe 2-3 a week when i pop in the gym for the next 4 weeks

  • @sirreginald8764
    @sirreginald8764 6 років тому +5

    Me and my ex have been split up for quite a while but when i try to talk to her she says that we dont have anything in common what do i do?

  • @Dakkanunu
    @Dakkanunu 5 років тому +26

    Dan,you are god of relationship 🤘

  • @digiornopizza1918
    @digiornopizza1918 3 роки тому +2

    What’s happening to me to a T. I’ll try these tricks.

  • @eunye2372
    @eunye2372 4 роки тому +2

    I subscribed. From other coaches their style is quite confusing, because we just broke up and it was not a bad break up. No 3rd parties, no shouting or yelling, yes I pleaded but it's just a normal thing when someone broke up with you. We are casual, I guess she wanted us a friends and I want her back. Help!

  • @innertubez
    @innertubez 3 роки тому +2

    What if I gave her the "relationship or nothing" ultimatum and blocked her, then she blocked me? Is it completely over? Or do I have a chance to talk to her ever again?

  • @aliontheshit7791
    @aliontheshit7791 6 років тому +5

    I had a gf but only for 3 days ... we slept together two times .. but eventualy i noticed that she's not into me anymore .. then we broke up .. i didnt get the reason why ?

  • @eminem4122
    @eminem4122 6 років тому +7

    Hi Dan! Do i apply this after a no contact period? We broke up a couple of weeks ago, but she says she needs space. Thanks!

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +9

      No contact doesn't work well for men. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/7hOLcjQpt5I/v-deo.html Don't listen to what she says she wants. Do what works and get her back. If you follow a woman's lead, you will get lost.

  • @themicrobladingguyronniema2662
    @themicrobladingguyronniema2662 11 місяців тому +1

    This is great. I gave her the ultimatum last week. Blocked eachother she called restricted crying said she missed me and her words before bed were “don’t forget about me goodnight” but she’s seeing a new guy for the past few months and intimate. I guess I now just play off like things are cool. She didn’t invite me to her bday since she will be with him. It’s hard because we have been on and off for 3 years. But still just wants to be my best friend. It’s actually too hard cuz I feel the emotions. She is also honest with me that she’s seeing this guy and that’s what hurts. So how do I make her regain that sexual attraction without acting like I’m fine with her fackin another guy? Doesn’t that put her in control because she gets her way of being my friend after she told me she is sounding blundered between us ( no sex)?

  • @rochester3
    @rochester3 6 років тому +4

    My ex-cheated on her new boyfriend of 6 months in the past week with me,, she met him when she was on vacation right after we broke up, yes this is a rebound relationship and he lives in another country.. we hang out all the time..im not sure what to do now..
    i dont think im in the friendzone cause im always in her bed at her place an she hides me from her boyfriend when he calls on video chat, she will tell me to go in next room and she tell me we have a strong sexual connection ..but then she rejects sex some times maybe because of guilt..but the irony is im at her place in her bed and lets lets me feel her all over her body in places... and her boyfriend doesnt kno and she gets turned on wanting sex but stops her self unless i push for it or i get lucky ...this girl will use her vibrater to get off infront of me lol this isnt the friend zone but idouno what it is..i need advice

  • @bryonhook9662
    @bryonhook9662 Рік тому

    She just left, again. Got a boyfriend already, and is moving in with him. Yet, when my shirt is off around her, she seems like she can't stop looking at my body. Almost staring. 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @palusaboomarmwrestling9609
    @palusaboomarmwrestling9609 3 роки тому +1

    I have a very unique situation. How can I contact you?

  • @TheBlackei1
    @TheBlackei1 6 років тому +5

    Dan, I was in a long distance relationship with somebody almost 2 years ago. It was very short and only around 2 months before she broke up with me but I can tell she regretted it. We stayed friends the whole time but I know she wanted more. Up until 2 months ago she was flirting with me and always wanted my attention. But then she suddenly started a relationship with somebody else who just so happens to be long distance and they've never physically met. They've known each other for almost a year. But silly me decided I was suddenly interested in her again. Any advice? If it helps, we've been incredibly close ever since we met, as she doesn't have many people in her life she can talk to or interact with. But it seems like she has also suddenly lost interest in talking to me as much. I'd like to get myself involved by being able to catch up with her physically but that's no longer a possibility as I now live too far away.

  • @culizocolonense
    @culizocolonense 4 роки тому +13

    Bro can I email you about a certain situation I'm going through bro? I'll appreciate.

  • @scionicx
    @scionicx 4 роки тому +1

    what do i do if im being a comfort friend? do i need to become not available? need help. how do i sexually attract her in new ways?

  • @randythegrandytheg2388
    @randythegrandytheg2388 4 роки тому +6

    Hey Dan,
    my ex girlfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago. We dated for 1 year and 8 months and we were truly in love. We had no contact for a week and started to text again. She said she has still feelings for me but it wont work again with us. So im in the friend zone now. Two weeks ago she told me she is kind of jealous because I text with other girls. Yesterday we watched a movie at an drive in cinema and we cuddled a lot. I kissed her sometimes on her forehead and on her cheeks and she didnt refused it. She kissed my hand too. We had lot of fun and we laughed much too. After the movie I was driving her home. We both got out of the car and she hugged me for a long time and she said she don`t want to go but she is so tired. In the end I kissed her forehead again and said goodbye. Today she is texting me again like im just a friend and I know she is texting and snap chatting with other mans. And she also goes to the club with her friends. I need help please I want her back .... !
    PS: I was jealous in the relationship and we argued a lot.

  • @trentfryer1897
    @trentfryer1897 6 років тому +3

    Damn. I feel this was directly pointed towards my situation. Except I recently fucked up and lost my cool. And feel back to square one. I was at the hook up stage and blew it. My ex wife of17yrs is talking to new guys and I crumbled. Any advise to get back on track dan ???????

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому

      Sounds like this video will really help you: ua-cam.com/video/R_9kBEKAiz8/v-deo.html

  • @rejeanphipps7064
    @rejeanphipps7064 4 роки тому +4

    Say it over sunday Wednesday she was busy and miss me we bck together lol

  • @jasonjean5333
    @jasonjean5333 6 років тому +4

    Dan if I have an ex that tends to call me when she's bored that's me being a comfort friend if I pick up right?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +14

      Yes. Next time she calls, answer and jokingly say, "What the heck do you want?" rather than answering in your normal, friendly way. Next time she calls, don't answer the first time. Next time she calls, answer and say, "I told you to stop calling me. I already have a girlfriend" and then when she says something, you can say, "Oh, it's you. I thought it was someone else." Then have a laugh with her.

  • @djaero6987
    @djaero6987 6 років тому +7

    Dan, me and my ex broke up and she blocked me in everything. she's seeing some one else and told me she doesn't have feeling anymore and to leave her and her new man alone

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +2

      About her seeing someone else: Watch this ua-cam.com/video/1bXsYo8fW2g/v-deo.html About being blocked, watch this: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html

  • @papagho5612
    @papagho5612 6 років тому +3

    dan.... how to not be look desperate while approaching my ex...how to not be like that...i hope you can do a video about that...i guess that topic help me to get a connection again to her...she cut off contact on me and she block me on social media....i dont know...whay should i do??...

    • @papagho5612
      @papagho5612 6 років тому

      lastly....trying to respect me but to annoying to her how mu ex respect me back while approaching her..

  • @apaapa3982
    @apaapa3982 6 років тому +3

    Hey Dan, my ex gf broke up with me around 3 weeks ago. Last week i meet up with my ex gf for a coffee, we interact very politely because is the first time we met up after the break up. This week i tried to text her out for dinner but she uses some excuses to decline my invitation, what should i do in order to call her out successfully? I really need some suggestions and advice.. By the way, how should i know if my ex gf are fully attracted of me? Thanks

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +1

      Politely? Dude, that doesn't work on women. You have to have the balls to make the interaction feel sexual, fun and interesting. If you don't, she doesn't feel the spark and she doesn't feel motivated to want to get back with you. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/v-deo.html

  • @MrTjp420
    @MrTjp420 5 років тому +2

    fuck my life went from a bit of space to she can never trust me with her heart again blaaaaaaaaaaaaaam i fucked up

  • @nicksteve5392
    @nicksteve5392 6 років тому

    What do you mean by pulling away emotionally? I have your program but it doesn't mention that

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +2

      Hi Nick. Please note: I don't have any record of purchase under your name. About your question: The answer is to complete Step 3 of the system. That causes you automatically begin to pull away emotionally and when she finds out, it makes her begin to worry that she is losing you. Cheers, Dan

    • @nicksteve5392
      @nicksteve5392 6 років тому

      Dan Bacon for sure. This is an account with a different name for privacy, that's why.
      I'll keep doing that then. What should I do when she uses the term "friend"? For example, she'll say, "hey friend, how are you?" Via text and in person. I haven't responded to that except yesterday I told her to use my name.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +1

      No probs. About her referring to you as friend. Either don't react to it at all, or just call her pal or buddy. She will be saying that to you for one of a few reasons: 1) She's trying to maintain the position of power. She knows that she's feeling attracted to you and is worried that you will take the position of power in the relationship. 2) She is testing your confidence 3) She doesn't know how else to deal with the situation. So, what you need to do is follow the steps of the system and then, if you need to, use the advice from Ultimate Make Up Sex (bonus program that comes with Get Your Ex Back Super System) to blow her mind: www.themodernman.com/videos/ultimate-make-up-sex.html

    • @nicksteve5392
      @nicksteve5392 6 років тому

      Dan Bacon thanks! If this works, I'll send you some bitcoin my man!

    • @nicksteve5392
      @nicksteve5392 6 років тому

      Dan Bacon quick question... I just found out yesterday that my ex had sex with a guy on Monday, the day before we hung out. She seems like she is being submissive, but still not trying to put out. We were playing truth or dare when this happened. I acted as though it didn't affect me (secretly smiled on the inside realizing that she is looking to have fun) and after a small amount of drinks, we both made out and I got her shirt off and (xrated lol) but I couldn't get her pants off and have sex.
      What would you say I'm messing up with? She said (I think she might be lying) that no one recently has made her feel "sexy" (even people she had sex with recently). I'm taking that as I have made her feel attracted, but not girly? She seems to be a controlling type of personality, as I have recently noticed.
      Last thing, how often would you recommend I reach out? The only time she has contacted me first was on Tuesday at booty call hour after drinking and then again to "ask me a favor" which I told her no before she told me what it was

  • @nicksteve5392
    @nicksteve5392 6 років тому +2

    What are the scenarios where he didn't put himself in the friend zone? Any examples and what to do? My ex is having sex with a new guy and every time she gets alcohol in her system, she basically gets one step away from having sex with me.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 років тому +9

      One step away? When does she stop? When you're about to put it in? Lol. If so, then just laugh at her for being a pain in the butt and say, "Okay, no sex for you then." Take it away from her. That makes her want it more.