How to Get Your Ex Back if She is Dating Someone Else - 9 Tips

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  • How to get your ex back if she is dating someone else. 9 tips that you every guy needs to know.
    Learn more? Go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get...
    If your ex girlfriend or wife is dating a new guy or has a new boyfriend, don’t worry - you can ruin their relationship and get back.
    The main thing that you need to focus on is making her feel attracted and drawn to you again.
    Don't worry about the other guy, or think that he is better at making her feel attracted than you are.
    You can get him out of the way and get her back.
    It might seem like the best way to get her back is to do nothing and just ignore her.
    Yet, that only works if she still feels sexually and romantically attracted to you and is going to really miss you when you don't contact her.
    If your ex is still turned off by the old you (i.e. how you behaved in the relationship, how you behave during the break up and after it), then she’s not going to feel motivated to want to leave her new boyfriend and get back with you.
    What will make her motivated?
    Attraction.
    You need to actively make her feel sexually and romantically attracted to you again.
    I recommend that you do this in person and then attempt to hook up with her sexually to ruin her new relationship.
    Don’t worry if you can’t hook up with her the first time you meet up with her.
    As long as you make her feel attracted to the new you, she will want to hook up with you next time.
    If you are serious about you and her being together, then get her back.
    You might feel like the “right thing to do” is to let him and her enjoy their relationship, but what happens if they stay together for years?
    Why waste years waiting for her when you can get her back now, within a few days or at the latest, in a couple of weeks time.
    You can do it.
    You can ruin her new relationship and get her back.
    You can also make her feel happier and more in love with you than she ever did before.
    To learn more, go to: www.themodernman.com/blog/get...
    Cheers
    Dan Bacon

КОМЕНТАРІ • 431

  • @brownjordan0523
    @brownjordan0523 5 років тому +985

    I'm meeting up with my ex this weekend for a movie. Wish me luck gentlemen.

  • @benellis1309
    @benellis1309 6 років тому +664

    Dude, thanks to your methods, I just got my girl back. Literally half an hour ago she called and said she still loved me, and that the guy she was dating doesn’t compare. I just wanted to come on here and say thanks man

  • @kelvinmoore5635
    @kelvinmoore5635 4 роки тому +163

    DONT respect her new relationship. She's YOUR woman!

  • @toddmichaeljohnson7139
    @toddmichaeljohnson7139 6 років тому +276

    Note to self: “She’s my woman!”

  • @roadtoperfection1120
    @roadtoperfection1120 6 років тому +415

    "Don't put the other guy over you" Me: taking a look in the mirror shirtless , flexing then doing a flip. Feeling like a champion✅

  • @franklindberg2035
    @franklindberg2035 6 років тому +224

    YES, she's my woman :-) I'll get her back...

  • @JohnSmith-fo8tn
    @JohnSmith-fo8tn 6 років тому +261

    This man speaks truth, and I’m proof of it! My ex of a few months started dating someone new and she seemed like she really liked him and turned me down after I said I still had feelings. 1 month on, she splits with the guy bc he didn’t want anything serious and now we’re back together and more in love than before. She kept saying how I was always at the back of her mind when she was with anyone new. Stay in contact folks!!!!

  • @Thedeepsyxxproject
    @Thedeepsyxxproject 3 роки тому +94

    This man speaks truth! I am currently going through this scenario almost exactly. Yeah, the other guy being there stings. But, the more I am talking and spending time with my ex, the more I see and feel her being drawn back to me. She's curious. The attraction is most definitely there!
    The only thing that goes against others advice is the "no contact" rule. Everyone else seems hell bent on that being a MUST. I believe Dan's approach to seem more logical to me.
    Wish me luck, brothers! I'm getting MY girl BACK! Good luck to others who might be going through this!
    PREACH ON, DAN!!!!

  • @ervincedavid4
    @ervincedavid4 6 років тому +185

    I was emotional!! ive done all the mistakes.

  • @rlopez5456
    @rlopez5456 5 років тому +130

    Interfering and destroying her rebound relationship part was the best man. And I did exactly like that. She indeed told me she was gonna tell her rebound that she talk to me . A few days later she called me back saying the rebound started acting insecure and she told me that the rebound told her he wants her all to himself. I left it alone and slowly she started contacting me on her own. I definitely showed her and told her by via text that I wasnt gonna respect her new relationship and no I wasnt calm or patient about it either. I never met up with her , simply talk to her a few days and on the 3rd day I picked her up from her job and took her during her lunch break to pick up her stuff from her rebound and been with me ever since

  • @paulsnyder3764
    @paulsnyder3764 6 років тому +391

    Omg I just got her back and gave me a big kiss

  • @Sanyaji
    @Sanyaji 4 роки тому +67

    I am a woman and love this video! You know what you’re talking about. Respect! 👍😀

  • @baileyepic660
    @baileyepic660 6 років тому +218

    Alright i will try to get her back tomorrow
    No I WILL get her back tomorrow
    Wish me luck

  • @xdivinematrix9291
    @xdivinematrix9291 5 років тому +44

    Was with my ex for 2 years broke up about a month ago and she's with a new guy already after a couple weeks. It sucks but we're still being friends so wish me luck thanks for the advice!

  • @Dorazyx
    @Dorazyx 5 років тому +80

    Dude... I've been watching so many videos that made me feel just as needy and anxious. You changed my mentality completely. She's mine. I feel it. You are fucking awesome.

  • @jesseewton5694
    @jesseewton5694 6 років тому +21

    The confidence you show has to be genuine. Don’t approach your ex unless you really are more confident. Being “Ballzy” really works

  • @realmovies55
    @realmovies55 6 років тому +129

    my ex is dating someone else right now and they're almost in a relationship. i'm in the friendzone right now but i want to get back to her. my mistake was that i took her for granted and i was often lazy and all i wanted to do was cuddle. how do i show her i've changed?

  • @johnndo4619
    @johnndo4619 4 роки тому +22

    My ex is in a rebound relationship but keeps texting me. I have followed your advised and somehow things seems good so far. I had a phone call with her few days ago while a boyfriend was around. She was cooking and dish she used to make for me and asked if i remember.
    I made couple of jokes, she laughed a lot and tried to keep the conversation longer. what surprised me is the fact she said "I hope we will meet for coffee after the quarantine ". I told her of course we will. I also mentioned it was nice hear her voice , she said she was happy too. i wished her nice evening and ended the conversion.

  • @anthonysolis4163
    @anthonysolis4163 5 років тому +11

    I needed this video 3 years ago and I still think about her everyday. This sounds a lot better than the other "get your ex back" videos

  • @Marty7787
    @Marty7787 5 років тому +13

    This guy is great!! I got dumped last week, she told me I was great with her and she wanted to be with me but didn't want to get hurt, it was a massive wake up call for me, I was too friendly with her, Shes my women, and I needed to make her feel like my women, I need to be more assertive with her, and less needy, always replying to texts straight away, changing my plans to suit her, etc. I thought I was being a decent guy, I wasn't, it was a test and I failed. I now can see that after I've taken a backward step from the relationship, I'm going to win her back.

  • @michaelclements4643
    @michaelclements4643 4 роки тому +6

    Dan Bacon is right not just in a relationship but having the confidence in life you can achieve anything

  • @oooKiLLuminATiooo
    @oooKiLLuminATiooo 6 років тому +86

    What about long distance...

  • @rlopez5456
    @rlopez5456 5 років тому +73

    I was following your videos here on youtube during the break up with my ex girl , and taking all your advice. This video in particular got my attention the most. Took a few notes and bam a month later , we got back together and now she came back a different person as well. Thanks for sharing your videos on UA-cam.
    I'm still a fan of yours man and I'm still counting to see your videos for future game points

  • @mikefr12
    @mikefr12 5 років тому +11

    Good stuff Dan. Thanks for emphasizing what I should be doing now!! Needed this.

  • @UnderTheBridge96
    @UnderTheBridge96 3 роки тому +19

    Can I leave an HONEST comment...every other dating coach has basically said to be BETA about the situation with their no contact rules, and you’re the only coach who has said “F being the nice guy, be assertive” and you’re the only guy pushing for results NOW....I have so much more respect for you dude !

  • @cosmicpunk891
    @cosmicpunk891 Рік тому +6

    Dan you the man. My ex just recently started seeing someone . Been using these tactics .and already within couple of days .. she has now said she shouldn't have to settle for second best 😎....and can we possibly meet for a coffee...lads this stuff is gospel follow it to the T if you want your woman back..wish me luck gents!!..and good luck to everyone else going through this.

  • @michaelclements4643
    @michaelclements4643 4 роки тому +28

    I've really got to get out of a negative mindset it's why I've lost my ex-girlfriend and it's hard but to get into a positive mindset but Dan is right in what he's saying

  • @skiboycey680
    @skiboycey680 2 роки тому +16

    I'll say one thing - watch this and learn. This man knows what he is talking about. After months of hopelessness, self-pity and emotional crap I'm back in the game, like a boxer getting up bloody from the canvass after a close-knockout in the tenth round. I'm still in the fight and I'm going to go the full twelve and if I end up winning on points I do, and if I don't at least I had a good go and I didn't go down without a fight. The man I thought of as my opponent is no longer the invincible warrior I thought he was. I'm back and I'm coming out swinging.... Thank you Dan, you really are the man!

  • @akonwiegastongaston6397
    @akonwiegastongaston6397 3 роки тому +2

    The best explanation so far. Other channels will keep telling you about No contact. No next step but No contact.

  • @TheDODOFRO
    @TheDODOFRO 5 років тому +37

    You know, people say they have never seen Conor Mcgregor and Dan Bacon in the same room..

  • @halocayrolandaverde9681
    @halocayrolandaverde9681 4 роки тому +5

    You said all the problems that I I did. And you gave answers to them. Wish me luck bro’s

  • @UFOtonight
    @UFOtonight Рік тому +7

    I am hopeful because of these methods. Even if she doesn’t come back to me, this is helping me through one of the greatest trials of my life… & it is helping me improve as a person through it all… thank you for the hope, Dan! cheers

  • @gilbertoarzola3946
    @gilbertoarzola3946 2 роки тому +5

    This made me feel so much better I just lost my wife a week ago but thanks hope this really helps godbless everyone and I hope that everyone gets their ex back

  • @edgarbenavides9357
    @edgarbenavides9357 4 роки тому +2

    these are useful tips to anyone not just trying to get their girls back but to regain self confidence , thank dan this is great content

  • @jamiegraham6525
    @jamiegraham6525 3 роки тому +9

    This is extraordinarily effective advice, and helped me to realize the mistakes I had been making after the most difficult breakup of my life. Thank you sir!

  • @wolfking9416
    @wolfking9416 4 роки тому +14

    You gave me the confidence that i really need .. and i shall follow the tips you had given

  • @johnnyamerica7701
    @johnnyamerica7701 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks Dan! Your video is much more detailed, explained better and to the point.

  • @jimmyhassett3179
    @jimmyhassett3179 4 роки тому +9

    My ex split with me around Christmas time, I’ve made mistakes before I found this video and she is with someone new but we have a child together. I hope this gives me the confidence to win her back and show her how strong I can be.

  • @petemc5070
    @petemc5070 4 роки тому +2

    You're advice is at a whole different level.

  • @masterzobi-wan8511
    @masterzobi-wan8511 3 роки тому +12

    I’ve been a single father for a year now. Raising our daughter states away from her. She hasn’t seen our daughter in all this time.. she left her boyfriend and told me she wanted to be family again.. I’m going back to Texas in two days to get her back and bring this family back to the trio we once had. This video is brilliant. Thank you. I’ve got this!

  • @Markiesharkie72
    @Markiesharkie72 11 місяців тому +2

    I’ve deleted all other relationship coaches and videos, you have the right balance Dan and I’m sticking with your advice only.
    Why would you do no contact if you want your woman back, I think it does you more damage. Confidence, balance, calmness and masculinity.

  • @Ronkingdaley82
    @Ronkingdaley82 5 років тому +11

    I just get the best text from my ex after watching this video and planned a date!

  • @SmallsGang_773
    @SmallsGang_773 6 років тому +23

    In my mind im the one!
    All women want me, I am a man who can have any woman he wants!

  • @gilbertlopez63
    @gilbertlopez63 6 років тому +5

    Hey Dan, i was wondering if you offer any type of coaching? Watching your videos gave me so much confidence. Thank you.

  • @randonlee
    @randonlee 7 років тому +9

    Man I needed to hear this. Thanks Dan

  • @kylelesch3847
    @kylelesch3847 2 роки тому +2

    This guy knows what’s up, don’t listen to Al those no contact people

  • @fredleichewyrdinheld23
    @fredleichewyrdinheld23 4 роки тому +5

    I've watched this so many times, I am going to be the best out there, she is mine

  • @joelfeliciano1548
    @joelfeliciano1548 4 роки тому +7

    Dude I am on the verge of divorce! I’m going to try this method and hope for the best thank you for such an inspiring video

  • @Jerzey55
    @Jerzey55 5 років тому +29

    Man, your videoes are making me feel better about myself.

  • @arfandroid6729
    @arfandroid6729 6 років тому +7

    Bruuuhh! YOU ARE a champion alright! You are a champ in your own right! As I am too a Champion in my world! #keepstrong

  • @dannypants0000
    @dannypants0000 6 років тому +7

    Damn this is so MUCH TRUTH!

  • @robinwoods3231
    @robinwoods3231 3 роки тому +1

    You're good at what you do, champion.

  • @Auspex1980
    @Auspex1980 5 років тому +10

    This is literally the best advice video I have yet seen, and trust me when I say I have seen a lot.

  • @sandmoney.majiranifamilie287
    @sandmoney.majiranifamilie287 2 роки тому +2

    I cant stop listening to you dude...your the best

  • @amvmodz6883
    @amvmodz6883 5 років тому +4

    Preciated all the tips 🧠 ✅

  • @ricardogarcia00
    @ricardogarcia00 5 років тому +15

    Dan, you are amazing Man. From all the people that talk about this subjects you are in another level. You are the Champion!!! It’s unreal that everything you say makes sense and as soon we get this advices done you start seeing instant results! I’m so happy to find you my friend! Thank you so much 😊

  • @shortdog1725
    @shortdog1725 7 років тому +1

    Best advice! Thanks!

  • @williamj2494
    @williamj2494 6 років тому +30

    Much respect Dan, youre awesome. I saw my ex in the gym yesterday (she is dating already after telling me she would never get back with me) after 2 weeks of no contact, and was confident in my emotions, which i was lacking before. She gave me a big smile and waved, as i just nodded and walked to my bench. She later ended up saying "how are you" etc, and showed me her new apartment on her phone. She was flustered and nervous. I walked off eventually and she looked back like sth blew her mind lol!

  • @Tyler-mb7wx
    @Tyler-mb7wx 6 років тому +31

    What if she acts like she doesn’t want to talk to me at all anymore?

  • @Satyaprakash__1929
    @Satyaprakash__1929 3 роки тому

    This video always gives me my confident and all those characteristics back when i need them.....

  • @kenbalram
    @kenbalram 2 роки тому

    Thanks for posting this. Really needed to hear this.

  • @dbennettmusic8289
    @dbennettmusic8289 6 років тому +1

    bro you are an absolute don love this man mad props

  • @johncarlrubiales8078
    @johncarlrubiales8078 3 роки тому +1

    Best advice!! Thank you.!!

  • @Tramicful
    @Tramicful 6 років тому +8

    dude this guy is fuccin awesome ur so helpful ty a lot u saved my year :D

  • @danscott2059
    @danscott2059 3 роки тому +6

    Ex is coming into town next weekend with our children (7 months gone), but also with her Monkey Branched Rebound. I get the kids for 3 days while they stay in a hotel, just miles away. Should be interesting. It's taken awhile, but most of the pain has subsided. It's all about the kids now, as Daddy knows how to love, pamper, perhaps even spoil a bit. Don't know how we're going to do the drop-off, as no man that did that to MY family will ever be welcomed at MY house. Wish me luck folks, wish me luck!!!

  • @beatweezl
    @beatweezl 5 років тому +2

    Wow, this was really great.

  • @thegamingalonne5937
    @thegamingalonne5937 5 років тому +3

    I thank you so much for making this video and I think it's going to work

  • @kpopanimeandmortalkombatad5064
    @kpopanimeandmortalkombatad5064 6 років тому +22

    Okay. So let me start off by saying that I'm a girl and I'm bisexual and I've dated this girl and she was like the WORLD to me. I loved her soooo much. And we broke up because.... Okay....let me tell you the reason why we broke up. So one day, my friend texted me and asked me was I still dating my girlfriend and I said yea.....why. And then she told that my girlfriend was cheating on me for some guy. And then she proved it to me and showed me some text messages saying that my girlfriend was dating someone else behind my back. So I got mad and heartbroken at the same time and then I started going off and then I calmed down a bit and texted my girlfriend and said hey. I need to talk to you about something...and she didn't say anything. So like 30 minutes later, she still didn't respond so I texted her again and I said its important and then 11 minutes later, she said okay. So then I said ummmm, my friend texted me and said something that really broke my heart. And she also said that you cheated on me....is this true. Then I showed her the texts that my friend sent me and then she read them and then she said "nah man, baby I love you so much". And I said fr cause that really broke my heart and she said "I'm fr babe. You know I wouldn't do that". And I said "so you 100 percent positive sure that you're not cheating on me.....okay". Then she said I'm 1000000% I ain't cheating. And then we said some more stuff and I ended the conversation with okay. And then she sent me a gif that said I love you and I told her that I love her too. And then my friend wanted to see the text so I showed it to her and she said....to be honest. I don't believe her. And then that's where I got confused cause I didn't know rather to believe my friend or my girlfriend. Then the next day I wanted to talk to my gf about it again but I guess she was acting to scared to talk to me since she got caught. And then later that day...she broke up with me and I was SOOOO heartbroken and sad. I didn't know what to do. And now my friend is mad at my ex gf because of what she did. She doesn't even like her anymore. And now today...I just found out that my ex gf goes out with my boy best friend... He's like my brother and I call him big bro and he calls me lil sis and now I'm pissed and heartbroken that my ex goes out with my brother/best friend. And from what my brother/friend told me. He said that my ex gf liked him for a while and he liked her for a while and he asked her out and she said yea. Then I really didn't know what to do. And...and....I don't even know anymore....but there's more to the story tho. And all I can say is that I REALLY, REALLY miss my ex gf and I wish I could have her back so bad but she goes out with my brother/best friend now.

  • @c4411
    @c4411 6 років тому

    Great video. These is going to help me alot.

  • @dreadstilldead17
    @dreadstilldead17 2 роки тому +8

    I’ve made majority of all these mistakes you said, I went from being Dominant, non caring and masculine to being needy clingy and to emotional available. She’s told me I’m too neutral and treats her like a friend so she’s starting to see me as such. But she still loves me and has hope. I feel that lil bit of hope is fading if I don’t act fast. How can I get back in to good standing with her

  • @hectorgarcia8559
    @hectorgarcia8559 7 років тому +40

    im follow your advice wish me luck because from what im seeing her rebound relationship is slowly falling apart

  • @kermitTheFrog466
    @kermitTheFrog466 6 років тому +1

    amazing advice

  • @manishapaul6770
    @manishapaul6770 3 роки тому +2

    WHAT A KING! Thank you, just thank you already. He is MY MAN.

  • @jayyjoshi13
    @jayyjoshi13 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much Dan for this amazing video. I hope this might help me.🙂

  • @yadneyabhave
    @yadneyabhave 6 років тому +24

    We broke up a month ago...we dated for 3 yrs...Bt for a small argument she left me...i apolozised for a month cried badly in front of her...she also cried...bt she didn't forgive...now shez dating someone else very quick...i had no contact with her for a month...now we are best friends again as we use to b4 relationship..bt i want her back...her BF doesn't like me being her friend...bt shez against him..shez like my ex is a very nice guy...any chances of getting her back.!?? Shez happy with him thats why..!

  • @riamuanimates9200
    @riamuanimates9200 5 років тому +9

    Holy crap it worked thank you so much

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 3 роки тому +6

    Knowing your the Man is very Key 🔑 nowadays with society trying to make the man seem stupid and weak toxic masculinity blah blah
    Men need to stay In their masculine frame and Lead 😎

  • @abhishekkashi7564
    @abhishekkashi7564 3 роки тому +6

    Destroy her new relationship!!!
    I love this guy🔥

  • @livetotell100
    @livetotell100 6 років тому +2

    These are great!!!

  • @retnin2640
    @retnin2640 6 років тому +11

    Hey Dan, thank you for all the great advice
    I did what you told us in the video and I see that my ex has some feelings again and that I attract her like a man should.
    I have only 1 problem, she doesn't want to meet me alone because it would be unfair to the new guy.
    We have the same friends circle and when we are with the friends it's no problem to interact and attract her but I can't get her to be alone with me so I could give her the real attraction experience.
    Should I wait for him to make mistakes or how can I get her to meet for a coffee or something like that?
    Thanks in advance for your answer

  • @rozano
    @rozano 7 років тому +8

    Thanks for posting all ur videos for the past few weeks and i hope u will continue posting new videos! I just want to ask ur opinion, my ex recently went out together with me few times and often each time we went out, she lied to her bf that she went out with someone else, what does it mean? She also complained few times about her bf. Do u have any opinion on this? Thanks Dan!

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 років тому +7

      Sounds promising. Hook up with her and mess up her new relationship. Make her want you more than him. Enjoy the great times ahead!

  • @emanuelpetersson5903
    @emanuelpetersson5903 4 роки тому

    Thank's man, this helped me alot to understand better.

  • @logos_motorider6274
    @logos_motorider6274 3 роки тому +1

    I now this video is old but man, WOW. You have open my eyes so easily. Is fantastic this sensation of "renovation", she left me but I KNOW She will be back to my side... soon...

  • @mattdidley9144
    @mattdidley9144 3 роки тому +5

    This is the Tom Brady of relationship advice.

  • @johnybigbravo
    @johnybigbravo 2 роки тому

    You're inlighting me as I never been... Thx mate

  • @darwindrake1305
    @darwindrake1305 5 років тому +5

    I already fucked up a lot but I'm going to fix this! She's my girl!

  • @AddiSoraisham
    @AddiSoraisham 5 років тому +1

    Big thumbs Up for this 👍👍👍👍

  • @ekmteshalla7745
    @ekmteshalla7745 5 років тому +4

    This dude my roll model

  • @danielsharma3044
    @danielsharma3044 5 років тому +64

    I got a question what if her new boyfriend is watching your videos and being his best and maintaining attraction because you are teaching it?

  • @rolandomartinez2535
    @rolandomartinez2535 6 років тому +79

    Dude you are fucking gold!!!! You have helped me like you can’t imagine.

  • @janonefive5226
    @janonefive5226 5 років тому +1

    just viewed this, will do this starting today.

  • @melvinnduati9379
    @melvinnduati9379 6 років тому +10

    This is exactly what l need perfect.

  • @lilfreddy5959
    @lilfreddy5959 5 років тому +11

    Yes i am the man,,i will get her back,,baby i will 😊😊

  • @big-j-rizzo7381
    @big-j-rizzo7381 3 роки тому +1

    Bro your awesome!!!!!!!! I’m f**kin pumped up!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @Satyaprakash__1929
    @Satyaprakash__1929 3 роки тому

    Ur knowledge is❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ u r the Einstein regarding relationship!!!!

  • @TheKurohitsugi90
    @TheKurohitsugi90 16 днів тому

    Thanks, man. I cannot believe this is working. You're the man. Much thanks.

  • @sulavjoshi7639
    @sulavjoshi7639 2 роки тому +3

    Bro I had been doing just the opposite and wanting her to get back. I just realised I was just messing up even more. 😕 Thanks for your advice. Gonna fix this right now.

  • @sudhanshusharma7789
    @sudhanshusharma7789 3 роки тому

    Thanks Dan for bringing out the fighter in me....u good

  • @thamuongangte2685
    @thamuongangte2685 6 років тому +47

    Omg i feel like i got her back...

  • @daveanthonysalalima1128
    @daveanthonysalalima1128 5 років тому +1

    Hahaha! Your the man bro!haha
    Your ways are unique! Very practical!