My husband and I dealt with infertility for 2 1/2 years. This week last year, we had a miscarriage. But right now, I am 26 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. Sending lots of love to everyone dealing with infertility. I'm so excited to see where your journey brings you. ❤
Well my thought is there are 3 other really good looking Bingham brothers. Maybe one of them could help. That way Britt can experience pregnancy and it’s still a Bingham child
My fiancé and I have tried to have kids since 1996. 5 years ago a good friend blessed us with a baby girl. We got her straight from the hospital and she’s been ours since day one. It’s been amazing and I wouldn’t change anything. She made our dreams come true.
I tried for 8yrs to get pregnant but 50 yrs ago , there wasn't much to do about. Finally I conceived and have two boys! My oldest son had seizures and the meds he took have caused him to be infertile. It's a hard pill to swallow , so, thank you guys for bringing this matter to people. God Bless you
I understand, my male factor infertility cannot be healed. Luckily, for us we were able to adopt two wonderful children, who are now giving us grandchildren.
My husband and I tried to get pregnant for 11 years. We went through medical procedures and had a few failed adoptions, which were devastating. After 11 years, we adopted our daughter, and I had someone comment, "Oh, you did it the easy way!" Some people really are clueless.
I just read about adopting an embreo. I feel for you. I am in my 80’s. We birthed one adopted and then had a real surprise. There was very little help at that time but adopting was only about $300 and only had to wait about 3 months after approval. Then came the pill abortion and financial help for the mother and adoption became impossible.
I had endometriosis at 24 and went through multiple surgeries. I finally had a hysterectomy and oopherectomy at 29. I was not married. Only my mom really understood the devastation, but through prayer and counseling I endured. I then almost died in 2009. The illness changed my life forever. Those validation statements would have been wonderful to hear back then and now. ❤
I dealt with endometriosis and ovarian cysts. No matter what treatment they tried, the pill, injections and surgeries it just kept coming back. I finally couldn’t take it anymore and got a total hysterectomy. I suffered over 20 years before I closed up shop! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍~ Jared these thumbs up are for you. You’re a champ!💪💪
Your story sounds like mine. I gave up everything at 29. I waited 6 years and adopted 3 girls internationally in about the next ten years. I’m single and my oldest just turned 35!
My husband has infertility from radiation when he has cancer when he was little. I've always wanted to experience pregnancy so we are in the middle of embryo adoption 🥰 you guys should definitely look into embryo adoption if you want to experience pregnancy! Im praying for you guys! You're so strong
Much love and hope sent to you dear ones, Britt and Jared. Your video today, as with all of your infertility struggles and heartbreaks, takes this 73 yr. old back to our years of IUIs, IVFs and nerve wracking days of adopting our two precious sons. Your advise and thoughts shared today are spot on! Team Britt and Jared! XO
Going along with you guys to Europe is the only way I'd go..don't want to leave dry land..yikes.. So I'm excited for my "vacation" with you guys too! 😄
Yes, it is a medical condition/diagnosis. I have recently learned that environmental factors down to cleaning supplies, hygiene products, candles, food and so much more can play a huge part as well. I will continue to pray for you both as you continue this journey to growing your family.
Thank you for sharing appropriate things to say to someone going through infertility. My brother and sister in law are beyond childbearing years and were unsuccessful in having any. I know my sister in law still struggles...feeling the loss of what could have been. I was able to just txt her and let her know I love her and pray for her and that she's the best!
I have two siblings with adopted children, they both had medical issues that prevented them from having children, or having more children. I also have several friends who had infertility issues and adopted or did IVF.
My husband and I dealt with infertility for almost 4 years. During that time we went through a miscarriage, I was diagnosed with stage four endometriosis which involved major surgery to hopefully give my body a chance to be pregnant, only to be told after the surgery that I only had a 2% chance of ever conceiving a child naturally. We decided to do IVF and during that process we were shocked and surprised to find out I had gotten pregnant naturally. Our miracle baby is now 18 months old. As we went through our journey, talking about it with others was so healing and therapeutic, so it is nice to see your videos and to see that you are able to find joy in your journey even though I’m sure it is not always easy. Praying that whatever path you’re going on in your own journey will be successful!
Such an inspiring talk you guys. You’ve had quite the journey and we’re so grateful to you that you are so open about this and I believe this will help and encourage many out there dealing with the same thing. Bless you both ❤🫶!
I have been through infertility and now my 23 year old daughter has been diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis and will definitely have infertility treatments. It is such a tough place to be. Thank you for openly sharing with all of us!! Love you both.
My husband and I had the same situation as you guys. I have a daughter from a previous relationship, so he got to experience parenthood that way. It was still very hard to acknowledge we wouldn't have a couple of kids together though.
We had 1 baby, then 3 miscarriages within a year. Had a couple tests, and eventually a surgery to try and fix it, and it turns out I just had a little scar tissue in there from the previous miscarriages. They didn't find a reason why we were.losing babies, so I was put on progesterone and I was able to carry one more baby. I wasn't willing to go for more kids, it was way too hard. But we have 2 beautiful kids, and that's it for me. It was definitely the hardest time in my life, and I've been through brain cancer.
My auntie had healthy pregnancy with her first-born. Then sadly she was diagnosed with endometriosis and told she couldn’t have any more. Then it took her 10 years to pregnant again, she ended up having one more and now the daughter is almost six. Your time will come, just be patient! 🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
"Why can so n so get pregnant and not me?" Exactly! I see people who are obese or on drugs and they get pregnant but I have been super healthy my whole life can't
It’s so great to see you three I’ve missed you! Excited to go on your trip to see the world! I’m truly very sorry for what you’re going through & it hurts my heart! I can imagine what a roller coaster you’ve been on since you found out the diagnosis! Y’all know how much the two of you are loved! I’m always sending prayers, love & hugs! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🐾❤️
I’m so sorry you both are going through this. Thank you for sharing your story ❤ Toxic positivity sayings also reminded me of what people said when I had a miscarriage I know they were trying but the validation sayings were really nice to hear when going through it and it was usually from people who have been through it before ❤
Sending you both huge hugs. You are both so brave sharing such a very personal story. I love how positive you both are. You have helped me over the last two years as I navigate my way through grief, whether it be as you first post or whether it’s during the middle of the night when I can’t sleep and I feel alone. I am looking forward to your European trip and the adventures you both so deserve. Take care ❤
As an adoptive mom of two teenagers…. I am always here for you if you need an older mama to listen. It was not easy . Both of my children are two very unique situations and yet two miracles for sure .
It's lovely to hear from you and I hope you can reach a good place for yourselves going forward. Prayer can help,with god's plan for you,and your personal experiences with your lives. You can be brilliant parents given the chance however it comes,I suffered for years as a female,yes god answered our prayers,we had 1 boy and 2 girls . We are now grand parents,and great grandparents in our 60's today,have faith things will fall in place,your family will support whatever you do and so will we. Liz &ian
I know someone's who's marriage broke up because of her infertility. I am so glad you both are still strong and fighting this together. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. 🥰🥰🥰👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏
You take as much time to process and navigate this infertility journey - I'm in my early 50's and have never been able to have a child - just do what is best for both of you during this time. Much love and hugs 🤗❤️
I think of you guys often! Infertility is soul crushing. So so hard. We deal with infertility. 3 failed IUIs, then we did IVF. Our first transfer worked and our son was born at 34 weeks. He spent 20 days in the NICU before coming home. We had two transfers after that which ended in miscarriage. Then a failed transfer. Then another miscarriage. We then learned my husband had sperm dna fragmentation. We did a TESE to retrieve fresh sperm and then did a new round of IVF as we were out of embryos. The next transfer was successful. After a high risk pregnancy our second son was born at 28 weeks weighing 1 lb 3 oz. He finally came home after 158 days in the NICU. We now are trying to decide if we want to try again and if my body is capable of carrying a baby to term. It’s all so hard. Sending you both so much love and praying that whatever route you have chosen is successful!
My heart goes out to you both. It just plain hurts. We experienced infertility for six years. Then we were surprised with a "Gift of God" son, where I found out I was pregnant at 7 months along! Five years later, we sadly had a full-term stillborn son. We know we will see him in Heaven. I'm praying for you that God will lead you to the right plan and give you hope. ♥♥🙏🙏
I understand 👍 I can't wait video both of you go trip I love watching video like Daniel and Chelle had trip cool 😎 keep pray faith in Jesus 🙏 I will miss Finn not video , I understand big trip. I hope who is good care of Finn 🤗 🥰😇🇺🇲 if both of you not on video that ok 👍. Goal of 100k more views trip more 😊 whatever.
We tried for 11 years to have a baby. During those 11 years we became foster parents to a family placement which we became adoptive parents to two children. We finally did IVF with ICSI after 11 years. Had one embryo and he is now 12. Whatever path you chose, may God lead you through.
You are very brave to share your journey. I can talk about our journey now, but I don't think I could ever have shared it online, at the time were starting out. Luckily for me, online didn't exist back in the 1980's and 1990's, at least as far as vlogs are concerned.
I've been with you guys since you first started your video I've watched your your highs and lows you're a good day that you're real bad days if I could have been there with you I would have been there holding your hands add hugging you guys I was infertile 4 years but all of a sudden I wasn't even trying but I gave up I was in my schooling at USC working on my AA in my bachelor's and all of a sudden I ended up pregnant he is 41 right now and I have two grandchildren from him I'm here if you ever need to talk I love you guys very much and I feel your pain what our Lord Jesus has done Healy Lazarus from the dead healing the blind so they can see I know that he is with you during this time I love you guys I'm sending you a huge huge amount of love hugs and prayers always❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
We struggled with infertility for years pcos and endometriosis. Did the whole fertility clinic thing andgot pregnant with twins through iui and miscarried both. While on clomid I was extremely depressed and didn’t want to live anymore. My brother then got his girlfriend knocked up while they lived in her parents basement and my mom told me I just need to grow up and get over it. Life’s not fair. But I found an amazing Dr. 4 states away. Who has done 4 surgeries on me. And now have 3 beautiful babies.
My husband and I dealt with infertility for quite some time before we became parents. Our kids are now 23, 21 and 18 (almost 19), Out of the 3 pregnancies only the last one was a surprise, didn't think I could become pregnant without medication. I'm really looking forward to see what your journey will bring you ❤
Thanks so much for sharing Jared& Britt. I’m in my early 40’s still experiencing infertility& still on journey of trying to have hope etc.. yes I do get stigma& negative stuff happen often& its difficult but still trying to remain as positive as we can. You 2 take ur time& please do what suits u& right fit for u😊sending prayers. Watching frm Australia
I absolutely love the two of you. I’ve been watching you for years and I love your positive feelings and everything that’s going on with your infertility and just the normal family things that you’re dealing with.!!!!! We knew there was going to be one more child in our family and just before I turned 40 we had started looking at adoption and just before in fact a few days before I was 40 we got contacted by the starling birth mom and we had a six week old little baby boy who looked like a little Buddha. He was Filipino and Japanese and Caucasian and we have adored him and he is now 27 and living in Japan teaching Kids English!!!! There are so many roads that go down but always remember that you know in your heart. What’s the right thing for you to do and I love you both and just wish you the best of everything you ever pray for. 💖💖💖💖💖
My husband and I have been on an infertility journey since late 2016. We’ve been fortunate enough to have two beautiful girls through IUI, but are 1.5 years into trying for a third with one miscarriage during that time.
Biggest hugs to you both & thank you for sharing any info you find out that may help others as well. Now, everyone, like, comment & subscribe. Let’s get J&B to 100k & show them some love.
I knew a couple in my neighborhood when I was growing up, who had been married for 10 years and didn't have children. I always wondered why. Just after their 10th wedding anniversary, they adopted a child, and I found out why they didn't have children before. I think this was my first experience watching, someone go through infertility.
I went through infertility and it is so hard and I completely understand what you are going through. The question i would ask myself all the time is WHY ME!!
Hope everything is doing well. My primary doctors appointment went well. But my current primary doctor is leaving so they scheduled me a month from now. Also my INR levels are still normal.
One of my close friends is dealing with infertility, they have one little girl from IVF and she’s 5 now. They’ve been trying again with many failed attempts, and it blows my mind that people say such unsupportive things! Sending love to you guys ❤
Thank you for addressing all of these issues with such grace. I’ve been following your journey for a while now and you guys are so positive when the times are meant for it and showing it’s ok to process and grieve and now show and share everything immediately. I’m older that you both but truly look up to your maturity! My husband and I have also experienced infertility after having 1, but have not explored the causes of it. I have a few guesses, but I’m not sure we will ever decide to dig deeper. Love y’all!
I think I may know where you are heading and have mixed feelings about it. Sent you an e-mail about it months ago. It is not my life though and I am positive it will be 100% right for you. may God wrap his arms around you both and guide you down the right path. My aunt miscarried a few times and now has a boy and girl and 3 grandchildren.
Hey y’all. My husband and i went through a trying time as well, but there is one thing that is iron clad...Our Lifeguard Walks On Water; sending all the love & prayers your way.🙏🏻💜💜💜
Thank you both for sharing your journey!! It is so brave to share this journey! I personally know a family member who is going through infertility and I love those phrases- because I can’t understand but you want to be there for them!
Struggled for 4 years, IUIs, IVF, and somehow our miracle babies came while we were saving to use an egg donor. You are heard and your feelings are valid!! ❤
As a couple we had issues on both sides. His was probably due to working outside in the heat for so many years and mine was due to i was in my late 30's and my eggs were not the best. We had 5 miscarriages. We then looked into adoption but due to cost with no abosolute we would be chosen we chose to go the fostercare route. It is not in any way a easy route but it does fill your heart and arms with babies/children that are in need. I pray as you work thru what is right for your family. I pray you will have peace and love with a baby full of love for you. Kristie
Hi from guam I know how you guys feel me and my other have been trying for years can I could not have kids now it's late cause I got sick that they had to removed my ovaries now I won't be Able to experience being a mom but I learn to Accept it.
You guys amaze me with the strength, love and support you have for each other when it has been extremely difficult. I find your positive outlook so inspiring and we are all grateful that you share your infertility journey.💛
Happy Tuesday Jared, Britt & Finley. 🐕🐕 First off. It's aways a bonus day when I get to see your smiling faces. 😃😃 You've chosen the path to find the right way to have children in your lives. I can see that in your faces. 👍👍 We just have to remember that it's more than OK not to have children as well. We can't tell people that not having children is the wrong way. Just like we should be telling people whom want children that their way to finding those kiddos is right for them. There is no right and wrong way in the journey, that you two and many others are taking, IMO. And lastly. A HUGE bravo to Jared for being so up front in regards to his fertility journey. 👏👏👏
I think it will be cool if you do a video when you are leaving on a trip by doing a jump video from home to the airport and airport to your first destination??? That would be awesome!!!
My husband and I decided many years ago not to have children. I am now 47 years old and had Stage 2 Ovarian Cancer caused from Endometriosis that I didn't even know I had. But, had we decided to have children that would have more than likely prevented us from having them. But, I do know several other friends that have had issues with it. It is more common than you think.
I’m just so grateful in today’s episode u explained that there is actually something happening…. That there is a “route”. This makes me sooooo very happy for you 2. Can’t wait to hear something beautiful and amazing happening is coming in the future!!! ❤❤❤ I hear you about life throwing u curve balls… and it changes you… it absolutely does. I had a short 3 yrs of infertility then blessed w baby , then diagnosed w Cancer etc.. but all those curve balls shaped me, made me appreciate things so much more! Praying for you and just so happy to hear there is an actual “path” being travelled at this time. Can’t wait for the happy and exciting news down the road ❤❤❤❤
My husband and I went through this and after four years we were able to adopt a little boy and then miracle or miracles after 12 years we conceived and had a little girl. Our son was a 70's child and our daughter was an 80's child and in her case science caught up with our problem. I consider both of our kids as pure miracles, our son was conceived shortly after Roe vs Wade and infants were becoming more rare so we were so fortunate to become his parents. And then the science that made it possible to have our daughter before I got too old. I pray for you guys and everyone who has this problem. Love you!
Jared and Britt, God has you both. Just as you do not have a child, there are children who do not have parents . You both are going to be amazing parents, and Finn is going to be amazing
So glad you shared so glad you shared thes e thoughts. People don't mean to be flawless but they really have no idea how difficult the path is to IVF or adoption or foster care they have no idea about the emotional landmines and obstacles. I also don't think they understand how devastating infertility can be to a person and to a marriage. I am so grateful that you guys have found your path and that you are moving forward to your happily ever after whatever that looks like. I don't think anybody needs details, just know we are rooting for you and sending you lots of love.
Thank you for this video you two. My wife and I were both born with spina bifida and she’s in a wheelchair full time and I walk with arm crutches. She was told at a young age that she wouldn’t be able to have kids. She just had a hysterectomy 2 weeks ago. We have been grieving along side you. We are going to look into adoption down the road. Praying for you both.
I struggle daily with my infertility. My fiance and I have been trying for about 5 years to get pregnant. Well it hurts every time I see a negative test. I watched my sister (who was told she would never have kids, she had 3). I struggle all the time in silence, because everyone tells me all the negative hurtful things. Thankfully I have a aunt who also struggles through infertility and I can talk to her.
Thank you for this video! I went through infertility and pregnancy loss for so many years. Happy and blessed that we not have 4 sons. But when I was going through infertility issues I did not have a big support system. I was in a new country (I am American and my husband is Norwegian) and had no friends to talk to about it. I had some online friends show support, but they used the words that you talked about instead of the useful words. And I will add one thing to what you said......check up on that friend/relative/person and their partner who are going through infertility. It is scary to go through that alone and reaching out can mean a huge difference to that person/family. Don't just ignore them. Love and hugs from Norway!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and advice! Keep doing what makes you happy. Glad to hear things are looking up. 🩷 Toxic Positivity. Interesting topic! My big peeve is when someone passes and people say they’re in a better place. Really? 😣😭 Seriously though… I’m so sorry for what you two are going through. You have a lot of support from us here in the yt community!! ❤ Thumbs up!!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
This was a great video. I have had infertility but no reason that the doctors could not find and I got pregnant after 10years of trying but it was an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and I had to have a major surgery and I have not been able to get pregnant again since. So I completely related to this video. Wishing you guys the best on whatever your decision is.
My husband and I dealt with infertility for 2 1/2 years. This week last year, we had a miscarriage. But right now, I am 26 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. Sending lots of love to everyone dealing with infertility. I'm so excited to see where your journey brings you. ❤
Congratulations! May the Lord bless you with a healthy baby.❤
Well my thought is there are 3 other really good looking Bingham brothers. Maybe one of them could help. That way Britt can experience pregnancy and it’s still a Bingham child
My fiancé and I have tried to have kids since 1996. 5 years ago a good friend blessed us with a baby girl. We got her straight from the hospital and she’s been ours since day one. It’s been amazing and I wouldn’t change anything. She made our dreams come true.
I tried for 8yrs to get pregnant but 50 yrs ago , there wasn't much to do about. Finally I conceived and have two boys! My oldest son had seizures and the meds he took have caused him to be infertile. It's a hard pill to swallow , so, thank you guys for bringing this matter to people. God Bless you
I understand, my male factor infertility cannot be healed. Luckily, for us we were able to adopt two wonderful children, who are now giving us grandchildren.
My husband and I tried to get pregnant for 11 years. We went through medical procedures and had a few failed adoptions, which were devastating. After 11 years, we adopted our daughter, and I had someone comment, "Oh, you did it the easy way!" Some people really are clueless.
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What can we do to make adoption easier?
I just read about adopting an embreo. I feel for you. I am in my 80’s. We birthed one adopted and then had a real surprise. There was very little help at that time but adopting was only about $300 and only had to wait about 3 months after approval. Then came the pill abortion and financial help for the mother and adoption became impossible.
Our first and last are 14 years apart. Nice to have the two in between.
Who will take care Fin while you're on the excursion
I had endometriosis at 24 and went through multiple surgeries. I finally had a hysterectomy and oopherectomy at 29. I was not married. Only my mom really understood the devastation, but through prayer and counseling I endured. I then almost died in 2009. The illness changed my life forever. Those validation statements would have been wonderful to hear back then and now. ❤
I dealt with endometriosis and ovarian cysts. No matter what treatment they tried, the pill, injections and surgeries it just kept coming back. I finally couldn’t take it anymore and got a total hysterectomy. I suffered over 20 years before I closed up shop!
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍~ Jared these thumbs up are for you. You’re a champ!💪💪
Your story sounds like mine. I gave up everything at 29. I waited 6 years and adopted 3 girls internationally in about the next ten years. I’m single and my oldest just turned 35!
My husband has infertility from radiation when he has cancer when he was little. I've always wanted to experience pregnancy so we are in the middle of embryo adoption 🥰 you guys should definitely look into embryo adoption if you want to experience pregnancy!
Im praying for you guys! You're so strong
Hi Jared and Britt sending prayers and Mucho Love❣️🙏🏼
Much love and hope sent to you dear ones, Britt and Jared. Your video today, as with all of your infertility struggles and heartbreaks, takes this 73 yr. old back to our years of IUIs, IVFs and nerve wracking days of adopting our two precious sons. Your advise and thoughts shared today are spot on! Team Britt and Jared! XO
Going along with you guys to Europe is the only way I'd go..don't want to leave dry land..yikes..
So I'm excited for my "vacation" with you guys too! 😄
Can’t wait to see what the future brings. I love seeing you guys so happy. Looking forward to “our trip.”
My guess for the trip would be Brittney’s mom and dad!!
Yes, it is a medical condition/diagnosis. I have recently learned that environmental factors down to cleaning supplies, hygiene products, candles, food and so much more can play a huge part as well. I will continue to pray for you both as you continue this journey to growing your family.
Thank you for sharing appropriate things to say to someone going through infertility. My brother and sister in law are beyond childbearing years and were unsuccessful in having any. I know my sister in law still struggles...feeling the loss of what could have been. I was able to just txt her and let her know I love her and pray for her and that she's the best!
I have two siblings with adopted children, they both had medical issues that prevented them from having children, or having more children. I also have several friends who had infertility issues and adopted or did IVF.
My husband and I dealt with infertility for almost 4 years. During that time we went through a miscarriage, I was diagnosed with stage four endometriosis which involved major surgery to hopefully give my body a chance to be pregnant, only to be told after the surgery that I only had a 2% chance of ever conceiving a child naturally. We decided to do IVF and during that process we were shocked and surprised to find out I had gotten pregnant naturally. Our miracle baby is now 18 months old.
As we went through our journey, talking about it with others was so healing and therapeutic, so it is nice to see your videos and to see that you are able to find joy in your journey even though I’m sure it is not always easy. Praying that whatever path you’re going on in your own journey will be successful!
I’m so sorry 😞 your going thru all this I’m praying for you both just a quick question can you guys use donor sperm with IVF just curious
Such an inspiring talk you guys. You’ve had quite the journey and we’re so grateful to you that you are so open about this and I believe this will help and encourage many out there dealing with the same thing. Bless you both ❤🫶!
I have been through infertility and now my 23 year old daughter has been diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis and will definitely have infertility treatments. It is such a tough place to be. Thank you for openly sharing with all of us!! Love you both.
I’m so excited to watch your Europe trip. I’ve never been there. Hi Jared, Brit and Finley. 🙏❤️🐾🙏
My husband and I had the same situation as you guys. I have a daughter from a previous relationship, so he got to experience parenthood that way. It was still very hard to acknowledge we wouldn't have a couple of kids together though.
Got my passport in hand and my suitcase packed !! Can’t wait to join this trip with yall 😍 ✈️ 😂❤
We had 1 baby, then 3 miscarriages within a year. Had a couple tests, and eventually a surgery to try and fix it, and it turns out I just had a little scar tissue in there from the previous miscarriages. They didn't find a reason why we were.losing babies, so I was put on progesterone and I was able to carry one more baby. I wasn't willing to go for more kids, it was way too hard. But we have 2 beautiful kids, and that's it for me. It was definitely the hardest time in my life, and I've been through brain cancer.
My auntie had healthy pregnancy with her first-born. Then sadly she was diagnosed with endometriosis and told she couldn’t have any more. Then it took her 10 years to pregnant again, she ended up having one more and now the daughter is almost six. Your time will come, just be patient! 🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
"Why can so n so get pregnant and not me?" Exactly! I see people who are obese or on drugs and they get pregnant but I have been super healthy my whole life can't
It’s so great to see you three I’ve missed you! Excited to go on your trip to see the world! I’m truly very sorry for what you’re going through & it hurts my heart! I can imagine what a roller coaster you’ve been on since you found out the diagnosis! Y’all know how much the two of you are loved! I’m always sending prayers, love & hugs! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🐾❤️
So it’s just national awareness week nothing about good news regarding their issue. Click bait
I’m so sorry you both are going through this. Thank you for sharing your story ❤
Toxic positivity sayings also reminded me of what people said when I had a miscarriage I know they were trying but the validation sayings were really nice to hear when going through it and it was usually from people who have been through it before ❤
Tell us more about your happening on what’s your going to do
My infertility boys are 30 yrs old and 21 yrs old. I wouldn't trade my experience for anything.
Who is thinking of you you guys are the best will be praying for you and your future
Sending you both huge hugs. You are both so brave sharing such a very personal story. I love how positive you both are. You have helped me over the last two years as I navigate my way through grief, whether it be as you first post or whether it’s during the middle of the night when I can’t sleep and I feel alone. I am looking forward to your European trip and the adventures you both so deserve. Take care ❤
It is absolutely disgusting how difficult it is to adopt!!!
As an adoptive mom of two teenagers…. I am always here for you if you need an older mama to listen. It was not easy . Both of my children are two very unique situations and yet two miracles for sure .
It's lovely to hear from you and I hope you can reach a good place for yourselves going forward.
Prayer can help,with god's plan for you,and your personal experiences with your lives.
You can be brilliant parents given the chance however it comes,I suffered for years as a female,yes god answered our prayers,we had 1 boy and 2 girls .
We are now grand parents,and great grandparents in our 60's today,have faith things will fall in place,your family will support whatever you do and so will we. Liz &ian
I know someone's who's marriage broke up because of her infertility. I am so glad you both are still strong and fighting this together. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. 🥰🥰🥰👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏
❤ jared,britt,and finn .good luck to you both. How's finn doing?
You take as much time to process and navigate this infertility journey - I'm in my early 50's and have never been able to have a child - just do what is best for both of you during this time. Much love and hugs 🤗❤️
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I think of you guys often! Infertility is soul crushing. So so hard. We deal with infertility. 3 failed IUIs, then we did IVF. Our first transfer worked and our son was born at 34 weeks. He spent 20 days in the NICU before coming home. We had two transfers after that which ended in miscarriage. Then a failed transfer. Then another miscarriage. We then learned my husband had sperm dna fragmentation. We did a TESE to retrieve fresh sperm and then did a new round of IVF as we were out of embryos. The next transfer was successful. After a high risk pregnancy our second son was born at 28 weeks weighing 1 lb 3 oz. He finally came home after 158 days in the NICU. We now are trying to decide if we want to try again and if my body is capable of carrying a baby to term. It’s all so hard. Sending you both so much love and praying that whatever route you have chosen is successful!
Whatever you both decide will be brilliant this journey in life is testing you but your family and finn love you both stay strong ❤
I heard eat raw osters which is ridiculous
I’m praying so hard for you both! 🙏🙏
My heart goes out to you both. It just plain hurts. We experienced infertility for six years. Then we were surprised with a "Gift of God" son, where I found out I was pregnant at 7 months along! Five years later, we sadly had a full-term stillborn son. We know we will see him in Heaven.
I'm praying for you that God will lead you to the right plan and give you hope. ♥♥🙏🙏
I understand 👍 I can't wait video both of you go trip I love watching video like Daniel and Chelle had trip cool 😎 keep pray faith in Jesus 🙏 I will miss Finn not video , I understand big trip. I hope who is good care of Finn 🤗 🥰😇🇺🇲 if both of you not on video that ok 👍. Goal of 100k more views trip more 😊 whatever.
We tried for 11 years to have a baby. During those 11 years we became foster parents to a family placement which we became adoptive parents to two children. We finally did IVF with ICSI after 11 years. Had one embryo and he is now 12. Whatever path you chose, may God lead you through.
Im still praying 🙏 🤲 for you all to get that miracle baby that you more than deserve ❤️ ♥️!!!! You both be amazing parents ❤️ 💖!!!!
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You are very brave to share your journey. I can talk about our journey now, but I don't think I could ever have shared it online, at the time were starting out. Luckily for me, online didn't exist back in the 1980's and 1990's, at least as far as vlogs are concerned.
I've been with you guys since you first started your video I've watched your your highs and lows you're a good day that you're real bad days if I could have been there with you I would have been there holding your hands add hugging you guys I was infertile 4 years but all of a sudden I wasn't even trying but I gave up I was in my schooling at USC working on my AA in my bachelor's and all of a sudden I ended up pregnant he is 41 right now and I have two grandchildren from him I'm here if you ever need to talk I love you guys very much and I feel your pain what our Lord Jesus has done Healy Lazarus from the dead healing the blind so they can see I know that he is with you during this time I love you guys I'm sending you a huge huge amount of love hugs and prayers always❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
We struggled with infertility for years pcos and endometriosis. Did the whole fertility clinic thing andgot pregnant with twins through iui and miscarried both. While on clomid I was extremely depressed and didn’t want to live anymore. My brother then got his girlfriend knocked up while they lived in her parents basement and my mom told me I just need to grow up and get over it. Life’s not fair. But I found an amazing Dr. 4 states away. Who has done 4 surgeries on me. And now have 3 beautiful babies.
My husband and I dealt with infertility for quite some time before we became parents. Our kids are now 23, 21 and 18 (almost 19), Out of the 3 pregnancies only the last one was a surprise, didn't think I could become pregnant without medication. I'm really looking forward to see what your journey will bring you ❤
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Thanks so much for sharing Jared& Britt. I’m in my early 40’s still experiencing infertility& still on journey of trying to have hope etc.. yes I do get stigma& negative stuff happen often& its difficult but still trying to remain as positive as we can. You 2 take ur time& please do what suits u& right fit for u😊sending prayers. Watching frm Australia
My husband & I have dealt with unexplained infertility for 11 years. We have 2 beautiful miracles but have lost 3 during that time. 😢
I absolutely love the two of you. I’ve been watching you for years and I love your positive feelings and everything that’s going on with your infertility and just the normal family things that you’re dealing with.!!!!!
We knew there was going to be one more child in our family and just before I turned 40 we had started looking at adoption and just before in fact a few days before I was 40 we got contacted by the starling birth mom and we had a six week old little baby boy who looked like a little Buddha. He was Filipino and Japanese and Caucasian and we have adored him and he is now 27 and living in Japan teaching Kids English!!!!
There are so many roads that go down but always remember that you know in your heart. What’s the right thing for you to do and I love you both and just wish you the best of everything you ever pray for. 💖💖💖💖💖
My husband and I have been on an infertility journey since late 2016. We’ve been fortunate enough to have two beautiful girls through IUI, but are 1.5 years into trying for a third with one miscarriage during that time.
Biggest hugs to you both & thank you for sharing any info you find out that may help others as well. Now, everyone, like, comment & subscribe. Let’s get J&B to 100k & show them some love.
I knew a couple in my neighborhood when I was growing up, who had been married for 10 years and didn't have children. I always wondered why. Just after their 10th wedding anniversary, they adopted a child, and I found out why they didn't have children before. I think this was my first experience watching, someone go through infertility.
I went through infertility and it is so hard and I completely understand what you are going through. The question i would ask myself all the time is WHY ME!!
Hope everything is doing well. My primary doctors appointment went well. But my current primary doctor is leaving so they scheduled me a month from now. Also my INR levels are still normal.
One of my close friends is dealing with infertility, they have one little girl from IVF and she’s 5 now. They’ve been trying again with many failed attempts, and it blows my mind that people say such unsupportive things! Sending love to you guys ❤
Thank you for addressing all of these issues with such grace. I’ve been following your journey for a while now and you guys are so positive when the times are meant for it and showing it’s ok to process and grieve and now show and share everything immediately. I’m older that you both but truly look up to your maturity! My husband and I have also experienced infertility after having 1, but have not explored the causes of it. I have a few guesses, but I’m not sure we will ever decide to dig deeper. Love y’all!
I think I may know where you are heading and have mixed feelings about it. Sent you an e-mail about it months ago. It is not my life though and I am positive it will be 100% right for you. may God wrap his arms around you both and guide you down the right path. My aunt miscarried a few times and now has a boy and girl and 3 grandchildren.
we are 1 in 6! We have rainbow baby twins that are almost 6 months. So thankful for fertility meds and IUI!
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Hey y’all. My husband and i went through a trying time as well, but there is one thing that is iron clad...Our Lifeguard Walks On Water; sending all the love & prayers your way.🙏🏻💜💜💜
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Thank you both for sharing your journey!! It is so brave to share this journey! I personally know a family member who is going through infertility and I love those phrases- because I can’t understand but you want to be there for them!
Struggled for 4 years, IUIs, IVF, and somehow our miracle babies came while we were saving to use an egg donor. You are heard and your feelings are valid!! ❤
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As a couple we had issues on both sides. His was probably due to working outside in the heat for so many years and mine was due to i was in my late 30's and my eggs were not the best. We had 5 miscarriages. We then looked into adoption but due to cost with no abosolute we would be chosen we chose to go the fostercare route. It is not in any way a easy route but it does fill your heart and arms with babies/children that are in need. I pray as you work thru what is right for your family. I pray you will have peace and love with a baby full of love for you. Kristie
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I know how you are feeling! We also went through Infertility treatment. I love you guys❤❤ Always in my prayers❤🙏
Hi from guam I know how you guys feel me and my other have been trying for years can I could not have kids now it's late cause I got sick that they had to removed my ovaries now I won't be Able to experience being a mom but I learn to Accept it.
You guys amaze me with the strength, love and support you have for each other when it has been extremely difficult. I find your positive outlook so inspiring and we are all grateful that you share your infertility journey.💛
Happy Tuesday Jared, Britt & Finley. 🐕🐕
First off. It's aways a bonus day when I get to see your smiling faces. 😃😃
You've chosen the path to find the right way to have children in your lives. I can see that in your faces. 👍👍
We just have to remember that it's more than OK not to have children as well. We can't tell people that not having children is the wrong way. Just like we should be telling people whom want children that their way to finding those kiddos is right for them. There is no right and wrong way in the journey, that you two and many others are taking, IMO.
And lastly. A HUGE bravo to Jared for being so up front in regards to his fertility journey. 👏👏👏
I've been going through a lot and that's why I haven't been on UA-cam and commenting as much as I normally do but now I'm back and I'm glad to be back
I think it will be cool if you do a video when you are leaving on a trip by doing a jump video from home to the airport and airport to your first destination??? That would be awesome!!!
My husband and I decided many years ago not to have children. I am now 47 years old and had Stage 2 Ovarian Cancer caused from Endometriosis that I didn't even know I had. But, had we decided to have children that would have more than likely prevented us from having them. But, I do know several other friends that have had issues with it. It is more common than you think.
I’m just so grateful in today’s episode u explained that there is actually something happening…. That there is a “route”. This makes me sooooo very happy for you 2. Can’t wait to hear something beautiful and amazing happening is coming in the future!!! ❤❤❤
I hear you about life throwing u curve balls… and it changes you… it absolutely does. I had a short 3 yrs of infertility then blessed w baby , then diagnosed w Cancer etc.. but all those curve balls shaped me, made me appreciate things so much more! Praying for you and just so happy to hear there is an actual “path” being travelled at this time. Can’t wait for the happy and exciting news down the road ❤❤❤❤
You are right. Infertility does really change you. This was a great video and you had wonderful points!
My husband and I went through this and after four years we were able to adopt a little boy and then miracle or miracles after 12 years we conceived and had a little girl. Our son was a 70's child and our daughter was an 80's child and in her case science caught up with our problem. I consider both of our kids as pure miracles, our son was conceived shortly after Roe vs Wade and infants were becoming more rare so we were so fortunate to become his parents. And then the science that made it possible to have our daughter before I got too old. I pray for you guys and everyone who has this problem. Love you!
Have been thinking about you both. I had a partial hysterectomy in my 30's, before having any children.
Jared and Britt, God has you both. Just as you do not have a child, there are children who do not have parents . You both are going to be amazing parents, and Finn is going to be amazing
So glad you shared so glad you shared thes e thoughts. People don't mean to be flawless but they really have no idea how difficult the path is to IVF or adoption or foster care they have no idea about the emotional landmines and obstacles. I also don't think they understand how devastating infertility can be to a person and to a marriage. I am so grateful that you guys have found your path and that you are moving forward to your happily ever after whatever that looks like. I don't think anybody needs details, just know we are rooting for you and sending you lots of love.
I'm thinking of you two. It's great to see you both smiling and happy. Sending love and good vibes.💕
Thank you for this video you two. My wife and I were both born with spina bifida and she’s in a wheelchair full time and I walk with arm crutches. She was told at a young age that she wouldn’t be able to have kids. She just had a hysterectomy 2 weeks ago. We have been grieving along side you. We are going to look into adoption down the road. Praying for you both.
We struggles for years and with medications we did end up with 3 beautiful children that are adults now, love you guys and your family
My husband and I have struggled with infertility for over 4 years. 🙏
I struggle daily with my infertility. My fiance and I have been trying for about 5 years to get pregnant. Well it hurts every time I see a negative test. I watched my sister (who was told she would never have kids, she had 3). I struggle all the time in silence, because everyone tells me all the negative hurtful things. Thankfully I have a aunt who also struggles through infertility and I can talk to her.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this but I’m praying for you! Hang in there guys. God has a plan for you.
Thank you for this video! I went through infertility and pregnancy loss for so many years. Happy and blessed that we not have 4 sons. But when I was going through infertility issues I did not have a big support system. I was in a new country (I am American and my husband is Norwegian) and had no friends to talk to about it. I had some online friends show support, but they used the words that you talked about instead of the useful words. And I will add one thing to what you said......check up on that friend/relative/person and their partner who are going through infertility. It is scary to go through that alone and reaching out can mean a huge difference to that person/family. Don't just ignore them. Love and hugs from Norway!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and advice! Keep doing what makes you happy. Glad to hear things are looking up. 🩷
Toxic Positivity. Interesting topic! My big peeve is when someone passes and people say they’re in a better place. Really? 😣😭
Seriously though… I’m so sorry for what you two are going through. You have a lot of support from us here in the yt community!! ❤
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This was a great video. I have had infertility but no reason that the doctors could not find and I got pregnant after 10years of trying but it was an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and I had to have a major surgery and I have not been able to get pregnant again since. So I completely related to this video. Wishing you guys the best on whatever your decision is.