Our Pregnancy Journey! Infertility + Heartbreak

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • It's been a long 3 years but we have not lost hope. We know in the future our time will come to experience the greatest joy of having a baby. We cant thank you all enough for the love and support! We have had amazing family and close friends that have helped us through the past few years. We know many of you watching this video are also experiencing some of the same trials and heartbreak we are going through.. you are not alone. If we can help in any way... please reach out. We can go through this together.
    We know we didn't share many details in this video but we plan on releasing another video in the next few days that explains a lot more.
    We love all of you guys so much!!
    If you want to reach out to Bella, send her a message on Instagram @bellagraceweems
    We love you guys!!
    Dallin and Bella

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  • @MattandAbby
    @MattandAbby 2 роки тому +10049

    I hate seeing you guys go through this. We love you. I think there’s something really cool about opening up about your toughest battles because now you have a community of people that can you lift you up through this.

  • @WillandJenna
    @WillandJenna 2 роки тому +1298

    You are so strong and doing such a beautiful thing being open about this for others going through this. You are amazing people and God has a plan for you. You will be in our prayers, and we will be here supporting you guys throughout your journey❤️

    • @paytonhoague2059
      @paytonhoague2059 2 роки тому +6

      I agree 100% and hope that Bella and Dallin will have a baby with in the next year or sooner!!
      BTW Love you guys so much

    • @karabradbury6731
      @karabradbury6731 2 роки тому +4

      Love you!! ♥️

    • @justcrazyAinsley
      @justcrazyAinsley 2 роки тому +1

      U guys are amazing for saying this they deserve what they wish for but god has a plan for everything❤️❤️❤️ also I whatch u guys all the time

    • @jaydahatcher703
      @jaydahatcher703 2 роки тому +1

      It will come with the right time

    • @Grayce8
      @Grayce8 2 роки тому +2

      That’s such a beautiful and true message! Also i’m a BIG fan of you two!

  • @anniec.9531
    @anniec.9531 3 місяці тому +34

    To the Bella in this video.. you’re 2 years in the future living your dream with your baby girl that just turned 1 and you are happier than you’ve ever been ❤

  • @harshitasrivastava66
    @harshitasrivastava66 Рік тому +214

    Just watched the adoption video and watching this now reminds me of how everything works out in the end. You're gonna be amazing parents.

  • @ToriJosephine13
    @ToriJosephine13 2 роки тому +362

    I was a Miracle baby my mom didn’t think she could have kids and then there was me. Keep your head up Bella miracles happen I love you guys!!

    • @kassiepayne6531
      @kassiepayne6531 2 роки тому +6

      I was too! There's hope.

    • @rodriguezvanessa8583
      @rodriguezvanessa8583 2 роки тому +4

      God has his plan for Bella, right now is just now her time…but soon will be!

    • @keirarodermond92
      @keirarodermond92 2 роки тому +3

      I was too! After my mom had a miscarriage with my heavenly brother, she had lost all hope, and his name was to be Matenia, the meaning of hope, my parents didn’t think they could have more kids, and then they had me.

  • @52kangaro
    @52kangaro 2 роки тому +193

    Ladies and Gentlemen, this is why we DO NOT ASK people “Are you pregnant?” “When are you going to have kids?”

  • @Grxnt
    @Grxnt 2 роки тому +638

    Been following you all for about 6 months now. You guys are truly amazing and inspire me, as well as so many. This breaks my heart to watch, but I am praying for you all. I know God has a plan. You and Dallin both are going to be amazing parents someday.
    “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” Lamentations 3: 25-26

    • @DELLAVLOGS
      @DELLAVLOGS  2 роки тому +142

      Thank you so much for this sweet comment. Means so much to us!

    • @Grwm972
      @Grwm972 2 роки тому +4

      @Grxnt you have been subscribed for two years you are a true fan

    • @claudiafernandes3039
      @claudiafernandes3039 2 роки тому

      @@DELLAVLOGS I'm so sorry guys ❤🥺 you guys are going to go through this ❤.
      Stay strong 🙏🏻❤

    • @claudiafernandes3039
      @claudiafernandes3039 2 роки тому

      @@DELLAVLOGS I'm so sorry guys ❤🥺 you guys are going to go through this ❤.
      Stay strong 🙏🏻❤

  • @LanaKennedy121
    @LanaKennedy121 21 день тому +3

    5.5 years of infertility myself
    Thank you for your videos.
    I’m almost 35 and feel like my time is running out.
    I can’t afford ivf again and again
    The closest I felt was last summer I was spotting and I told myself “this is it!” And then I was going to test one morning and I just started bleeding so hard (the day my period was due) I still tested after a couple days and it was negative.
    I’ve prayed so hard and so much for years. I look back almost 6 years ago at my naive self thinking “we’re gonna have a baby next year!” I thought it was going to be so easy. About 6 months in it started to sink in. And then we saw a dr around 1 year for help. Here I am almost 6 years later. Empty. No baby.
    Thank you for posting ❤

  • @sydneysmith2388
    @sydneysmith2388 2 роки тому +203

    Sitting here, crying along with you, because I know the exact feeling you're describing. One thing that helped me through 4 years of infertility was knowing that the Savior is the master healer. He healed a leper, a blind man, a dead man --- He knows how to heal you and He will heal you too. And I can confidently say he will also mend your heart when that baby comes along. Today, I sit here at 34 weeks with our miracle baby, and it is all worth the pain, tears, procedures, money-- everything. Take heart, and know He is mindful of you and your little ones.

    • @kaelynbrass4186
      @kaelynbrass4186 2 роки тому +6

      God has perfect timing! Im so happy for you!! God bless you and your healthy baby

    • @jodina_here_beware
      @jodina_here_beware 2 роки тому +3

      He does amazing things no one has seen and never wil understand, WOW this is absolutely amazing!!!

    • @ashleybeusse
      @ashleybeusse 2 роки тому

      Amen!

  • @kyleee8
    @kyleee8 2 роки тому +278

    *As someone who has struggled with infertility for 7 years, it’s a heartbreak no one will understand unless they go through it. I have PCOS + endometriosis- by the grace of God I was blessed with two beautiful boys in 2012, but ever since we haven’t been able to conceive except once + lost the baby at 14 weeks. It’s truly a hell on earth. My heart goes out to you. You are not alone. Thank you for this* 💜

    • @leannlucero7178
      @leannlucero7178 2 роки тому +7

      Good job mama I hope you are doing well, and your family is doing great 👍🏼 it amazing to hear you were able to accomplish your dream twice 😊

    • @sammicain3271
      @sammicain3271 2 роки тому +1

      i love this💜 congratulations on your baby’s boys!

  • @rezaandpuja
    @rezaandpuja 2 роки тому +651

    Sending our love & prayers to you both ❤️

  • @rowanogrady
    @rowanogrady 2 роки тому +347

    My mom struggled with infertility for a while and then she had my sisters and I. My mom kept praying and going to doctors and it all worked out in the end. Sending lots of prayers. I love you and I know that you can do it. ❤️

  • @lindseyruble5244
    @lindseyruble5244 2 роки тому +174

    GIRL I FEEL YOU, infertility is so hard especially when we feel that we are called to do it and should be able to do it naturally. My husband and I had been trying for a year, went to a fertility doctor and was told we had unexplained infertility. One year later after two medicated cycles and three IUIs I had enough. I took a break after hearing God tell me I needed 6 months to heal emotionally, I got pregnant the next month naturally. Truly a blessing!
    When I heard these stories I felt hopeful but it was a lot hard to hear. Keep your head up and even though we don’t understand his timing it truly is perfect in the end ❣️

  • @issabellrevere8205
    @issabellrevere8205 2 роки тому +378

    Thank you for being so honest, open and vulnerable. You’re bringing awareness to infertility which effects thousands of women daily. Thank you for sharing this personal information with us, especially so we can be supportive. You’re absolutely NOT alone, please remember that! Please never yourself feel guilty about the situation as you have NO control over this. Please know your fighting with SO much support being the two of you. Sending all the love your way!😭❤️

    • @jilliantruax2137
      @jilliantruax2137 2 роки тому +3

      😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @randomdude189
      @randomdude189 2 роки тому

      Vulnerable? She’s getting paid for you to pity her lol

    • @jilliantruax2137
      @jilliantruax2137 2 роки тому +4

      @@randomdude189 That's not nice at all. This is a real problem women without UA-cam channels face everyday. This took a lot of courage to share with the world and this is what you have to say. That's disgusting.

    • @issabellrevere8205
      @issabellrevere8205 2 роки тому +2

      @@jilliantruax2137 THIS comment 👆🏻👏🏻

    • @issabellrevere8205
      @issabellrevere8205 2 роки тому +2

      @@randomdude189
      Read the comment below yours. I pray your loved ones never struggle with infertility. Have the day you deserve babes. 😉

  • @ashlynhoop2294
    @ashlynhoop2294 2 роки тому +86

    Seeing dallin hold Bella in the bathroom really shows the love that he has for bella!! Stay strong bella!! God has a plan for you.❤

  • @patsydavis6846
    @patsydavis6846 2 роки тому +320

    This is the most authentic, genuine, raw, emotionally heartfelt and true-to-oneself video I have ever seen before on UA-cam. You truly are an angel Dell, I have full faith in you & Dallan’s abilities to flourish as the amazing parents you two are naturally destined to be in life. I see a bright future for you both and you should too girl. Hang in there!
    Sending all the love from Melbourne, Australia. xx

    • @febsaju
      @febsaju 2 роки тому +3

      4years and it's painful .... 🥺

  • @alyssandallin
    @alyssandallin 2 роки тому +668

    I’m so sorry you guys are going through this. Sending lots of love & prayers!❤️

  • @megan5835
    @megan5835 2 роки тому +206

    Bella and Dallin, you are some of the strongest people I know. I pray that God gives you your miracle. No matter what happens in this life, you are so loved and cherished. You two have so much happiness to put out in the world and we can’t wait to see how this journey plays out. We are cheering you on, crying with you, and we are here for all the support.

  • @akmeade
    @akmeade 2 роки тому +76

    Infertility is so hard. I suffered for years and was eventually blessed with two wonderful boys (Now wonderful men)! Please know that we are all sending prayers, good vibes, positive energy, and everything else that shows support. Love you guys and thank you for your vulnerability and honesty.

  • @lisaweaver7881
    @lisaweaver7881 2 роки тому +185

    My husband and I are almost 6 years into our infertility journey. I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I feel like my heart is literally breaking. Such a roller coaster of emotions that it takes you on. Prayers for you. God cares!!

    • @anamariacaraman
      @anamariacaraman 2 роки тому +4

      I have the same time of struggling with infertility, 6 years, it's so devastating.

    • @alexandraariciu1358
      @alexandraariciu1358 Рік тому +4

      @@anamariacaraman . I hope you will have your baby.

    • @alexandraariciu1358
      @alexandraariciu1358 Рік тому +3

      I pray that you will have your miracle.

    • @szilvialadiszlaidesz9412
      @szilvialadiszlaidesz9412 7 місяців тому

      Lehet majd most, hogy el engeded és lett egy örökbe fogadott kislányod aki titeket választott szüleinek, ilyenkor szokott sikerülni mert el engedi az ember

  • @sara-ky1vn
    @sara-ky1vn 2 роки тому +408

    I can't say I understand what you're going through, but I'm so sorry. Things will get better stay strong :)

  • @Meg33333333333333333
    @Meg33333333333333333 2 роки тому +190

    I just balled my eyes out for you Bella. You are such a wonderful woman and inspiration for me to live my life to the fullest. I haven’t struggled in that area (yet), but when I reached my darkest point and thankfully got some help your motto of “it’s a great day to have a great day” got me through. Thank you for all you do. I love you and I will be praying for you each and every day!!

  • @Anna-1937
    @Anna-1937 2 роки тому +127

    I had a relative who went through the same thing. I didn’t know of her struggles until she was five months pregnant with her son. They ended up using egg donation, and it worked for them. This is why we have to be so sensitive about the whole topic of having children. Sending you positive thoughts. One way or another you will get the family you crave so much. ❤️

  • @kelseycolbert3542
    @kelseycolbert3542 2 роки тому +166

    No one ever talks about how devastating it is to see on the pregnancy tests, “Not Pregnant”. It’s such an emotional and intense feeling, especially when you are praying and wanting it so badly. I am so excited and hopeful for the day when I see the video of “WE ARE PREGNANT”! ♥️

    • @cks7548
      @cks7548 Рік тому +4

      Honestly, I don't see why any woman would want to get pregnant. Pregnancy puts a lot of strain on a woman's body, and it has risks, and a pregnancy lasts 9 months. Also, childbirth is very painful.
      Personally, I think being childfree would be a lot better than having children.

    • @erkena4803
      @erkena4803 Рік тому +5

      No, when you have the baby in your hands you don't care about nothing😊

    • @erkena4803
      @erkena4803 Рік тому +2

      I become a mother this year, insieme the best feeling

    • @ellymae5313
      @ellymae5313 Рік тому +3

      9 months and a hard birth are worth it when you get to love the person you've made for the rest of your life. It's not about being uncomfortable or in pain. It's about your child. Love is sacrifice, and that's how you know that love is real.

    • @michellegray1006
      @michellegray1006 Рік тому

      😢😢😢

  • @alanisse8228
    @alanisse8228 2 роки тому +113

    Right at the moment when Bella hugged Dallin at 6:14, my tears began to fall down. T’was around 2021 when DELLA VLOGS showed up to my Facebook feed and I couldn’t stop following you both not only because of sharing how FUN LIFE could be but also making the most meaningful moments you guys can show as a married couple. It took 14 years before my sister and her husband finally had their twins born last 2020, and YOU ARE NOT ALONE Bella. God is with both of you. 🙌🏻 We will all keep praying as God knows what’s BEST for your marriage. Someday, it’ll all be WORTH IT. 🤎 Love lots, a fan from Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @annikakoole287
    @annikakoole287 2 роки тому +93

    I've followed u guys for about 2 to 3 years and every single moment when one of your videos pop up I rush to watch it. The love you guys have for each other are clearly seen something that not many people have. A journey through infertility is not easy and the people that have gone through it will say the exact same thing, but through this journey you and Dallin will grow closer to each other the support and comfort you give each other that is so needed. And one day, I believe no matter how, you guys will be raising a child being the best and loving parents anyone could ever be. And every day I will continue to pray that you guys will be blessed with a child to raise as loving parents

  • @lailasanchez4059
    @lailasanchez4059 2 роки тому +90

    To that part she says “ I can’t wait until I look back at this video holding my baby” I felt this so much!!!!!! Don’t ever loose that hope everything will fall in place.💙❤️

    • @hrw1936
      @hrw1936 2 роки тому +8

      And then some moms willingly "terminate" their pregnancies.

    • @Mysteriuminiquitatis1998
      @Mysteriuminiquitatis1998 Рік тому +2

      @@hrw1936 I don’t think it’s fair to use that as an argument. So many women go through so many different things but I wouldn’t bring someone else who makes a choice that’s better suited for them just to bring someone who wants a child up. Either way, I pray that Della are blessed with a beautiful baby soon. I still have faith for them and I’m sure they still have faith that they’ll get through this.

  • @AndreaOwen17
    @AndreaOwen17 2 роки тому +69

    I tried for 3 years with 2 miscarriages and finally got my sweet baby boy. Those 3 years really were the hardest in my life.
    The only thing harder than going through pregnancy and labor is not being able to go through pregnancy and labor. It really leaves an empty hole in your heart that can't be filled with anything else

    • @z414141
      @z414141 7 місяців тому

      Probably, except an adoption.

  • @Megan-ex6pt
    @Megan-ex6pt 2 роки тому +148

    Sending you extra love. We tried for almost 3 years. 3 failed IUI cycles and the second IVF with a frozen transfer ended up working and I’m about 18 weeks along. You may feel like a science project but once you get that positive test, truly every needle and doctors appointment will be worth it ❤️

    • @alana.g12
      @alana.g12 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your story ❤️❤️ and God bless you in your journey and always!

  • @thepenrodfamily
    @thepenrodfamily 2 роки тому +46

    This goes to show that you NEVER know what’s going on behind closed doors!! We are Praying for you both!! Gods got you and he will use your story!! His timing is perfect!💗

  • @novamerkley851
    @novamerkley851 2 роки тому +72

    My parents tried to have me for over 3 years, and then they finally got pregnant, so don't worry, the time will come.

  • @avyd3550
    @avyd3550 2 роки тому +101

    I went through the same thing before I finally got pregnant after 8 years of trying. My husband and I now have a beautiful daughter, Beatrice, who is starting pre-school this year. It was all worth it in the end. I wish you guys the best of luck through this journey. Love and admire you two so much. After 2 whole years of watching you guys, I've realized what strong and kind people you guys are. Thank you for such inspiration!!❤❤❤

  • @KBliss
    @KBliss 2 роки тому +75

    Cried through this. You are such an incredible woman and we are all so proud of you for sharing this. You are not alone, there are so many of us watching this who relate so much to you and sharing this helps us to feel less alone, so thank you x

  • @LuLuLarue242
    @LuLuLarue242 2 роки тому +19

    I love how after they look at the negative pregnancy tests Dallin says that they're going to get through this together and encourages Della to stay positive yet also validates her emotions by saying it's okay to be sad. I just found this channel and am sincerely heartbroken for them. You can see how incredibly strong they are and have such a fantastic foundation of love in their marriage. They can get through anything together ❤

  • @tylerdean4086
    @tylerdean4086 2 роки тому +142

    Your honesty is unbelievable! Oh my gosh, one day Dallin & Bella this hard period of time will just be a story. It will be a small part of y’all’s lives. The day that you are blessed with your dreams you’ll look back on this video & feel so proud. You’re so strong. God is on your side, we are on your side!! You now have Hundreds of thousands of people praying for your success! We love you Dallin & Bella! Stay strong for that miracle baby!

    • @jinh357
      @jinh357 2 роки тому

      your* not you’re

    • @tylerdean4086
      @tylerdean4086 2 роки тому +2

      @@jinh357 goodness gracious I think you’ll be alright.

    • @adisynking6879
      @adisynking6879 2 роки тому

      @@jinh357 actually it is supposed to be you’re

    • @jinh357
      @jinh357 2 роки тому +1

      @@adisynking6879 first word is your* not you’re

    • @jinh357
      @jinh357 2 роки тому

      @@adisynking6879 she just corrected it

  • @xojenna13
    @xojenna13 2 роки тому +19

    We too struggled for 3 years then finally welcomed a baby girl last year. I believe in the power of prayer, now that you shared this struggle with us you have thousands of prayer warriors praying for the both of you!

  • @harleyrei9263
    @harleyrei9263 2 роки тому +112

    I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. Watching this, I felt all the emotions you two were feeling. The nervousness, the excitement, and most of all the heartbreak… all I can say, is I’ll be keeping you guys in my thoughts. I have faith your time will come, and I hope you guys hold on to that faith as well. DON’T GIVE UP!! No matter how hard, I truly believe you guys will have a miracle!! Keeping you in my thoughts and wishing you guys all the best. Stay strong and keep your heads up! ❤️❤️

  • @Lyns2332
    @Lyns2332 2 роки тому +47

    crying so many tears while watching this video. You guys are so strong. I’ve personally never experienced infertility, but I lost my daughter and I know how much pain and darkness that brought to my life, so I can’t even imagine just wanting those 2 lines or to see a baby on an ultrasound. I’m speaking so many prayers of you guys, and sending so much baby dust your way!! In my eyes people like y’all are already parents, when you go through the lengths you guys have just to have a baby. This is so heartbreaking. Praying for a miracle for you guys. You putting this out to the world was probably the hardest thing you had to do, but in the end will be the best. You will receive so many prayers now, even more than before- and you’ll help others along the way. My heart and prayers are with you guys❤️❤️❤️

  • @kathz9082
    @kathz9082 2 роки тому +70

    I just wanted to give you guys a hug throughout this whole video❤️ thank you for being so open and vulnerable about a topic that is so personal and sensitive. I’ll support you guys no matter what, you deserve all the love and happiness coming your way :)

  • @hollybradley4001
    @hollybradley4001 2 роки тому +114

    My heart goes out to you both. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. I worked in Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility for 8 1/2 years and saw lots of little miracles come from the procedures performed. I believe you too, will have your miracle baby. Stay strong Bella and Dallin!! I love you both! ❤

  • @macirock582
    @macirock582 2 роки тому +47

    As a person who deals with the same thing your going through, I know how hard this is! Love you two so much!

  • @MABABYROYALTY
    @MABABYROYALTY 2 роки тому +177

    I'm proud of you for staying in faith! We got married July of 2006. I wanted to be a mom So bad, but in March 2009, I had a miscarriage 😢 That was the hardest time of my life and our marriage. My husband really struggled in his faith so I tried to stay strong for both of us, but I still worried about how long it would take. But God 🙏 gave us a daughter July 2011🌷. It took about 9 months of trying before I was pregnant with our son,who was born Feb 2015💙 I say he brought fertilizer because our next was 2016🌷,2018💙, and 2021💙. Yes,God has blessed us with 5! Don't give up, He's the God of more than enough❤

    • @alexandraariciu1358
      @alexandraariciu1358 Рік тому +2

      Congrats.

    • @ummisra
      @ummisra 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this. I am so happy for you! And your story is a message of hope for us still struggling with infertility.

  • @mirellasengl8180
    @mirellasengl8180 2 роки тому +48

    You are NOT a failure Bella! You're so so strong! Your time will come❤️❤️❤️ sending lots of love!!!

  • @judymartens1678
    @judymartens1678 2 роки тому +209

    Girl I feel you 100% on everything you’re going through. I don’t know if you’ll read this comment or not, but I figured out that we have the same wedding anniversary as y’all and the same thing happened to us. We actively tried for two years. I had all the emotions you’re going through, and wondering what was God’s plan for me because I just felt so called to be a mother. He always has his perfect timing though because we were blessed with the most beautiful baby girl last year in December and she came when we needed her most. I don’t know you at all, but in a sense I feel like I do. I’ll be praying that God gives you strength, peace, and patience through this process, and that one day you will also be able to hold your precious miracle in your arms.

    • @alana.g12
      @alana.g12 2 роки тому +5

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your story! that is beyond beautiful

    • @makaylabyron972
      @makaylabyron972 2 роки тому +3

      Your amazing. You just made the entire internet cry. I'm so happy that you got your miracle. I hope you get to experience all your passion with your little one.

  • @stormievans1318
    @stormievans1318 2 роки тому +22

    I went two years of trying and I was diagnosed with PCOS and doctors told me I had a 20% chance it was one of the hardest times. But I’m now pregnant with my miracle baby and due on Sunday! Have faith your sweet baby will come! I’m praying for y’all! ❤️

    • @nessim.8252
      @nessim.8252 2 роки тому +1

      Congrats for the Baby, I‘m so so happy for you!!

  • @sierra4644
    @sierra4644 2 роки тому +51

    My parents went through it for 7 years until they had me, You guys will make it through it! Have hope it can and WILL happen, I believe in y'all

  • @shannonstephens4346
    @shannonstephens4346 2 роки тому +183

    This is going to make me cry 😥 Whatever happened I will always support you guys! ❤ and btw you are no where near a failure just know that! Stay Strong🙏

    • @sherribuss6374
      @sherribuss6374 2 роки тому +4

      I just know God will hear your prayers! And with all of us praying along with you, he’s really going to hear it! You will be amazing parents, stay strong and believe you will have your baby soon❤️

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 2 роки тому +307

    You’re so strong, you will get through this

  • @SA-ju5rn
    @SA-ju5rn Рік тому +25

    Seeing this video after stumbling upon your video of you guys adopting your baby girl… so so happy for you, you deserve the happiness you’re experiencing with your baby girl. May this chapter of your life be the most amazing 🤍🤍 god bless you both.

  • @tashafarmer93
    @tashafarmer93 2 роки тому +46

    Oh beautiful Bella I know this pain all too well, been struggling with infertility for going on 8 years now and it’s a pain like no other 💔💔💔 I get it fully & completely. It’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. I’m almost 29 and sometimes I feel like I’m running out of time. I struggle with PCOS which causes irregular cycles and hormone imbalances. It’s definitely hard when everyone around you is getting pregnant having babies. Taking test after test and them all being negative 😭 I get happy for others obviously but I die inside too at the same time. I’m sending you guys so many prayers for a miracle baby, y’all deserve it so much 🙏🏼❤️

    • @aggiemom3690
      @aggiemom3690 2 роки тому +1

      @Tasha Farmer i feel you im in the same path! Feel like im running out of time so often i am 34 years

  • @bri_averett
    @bri_averett 2 роки тому +50

    i’m crying at work watching this during my lunch break😭 you are so strong bella, and you and dallin are going to be the best parents someday! gods timing is hard bc it’s not always what we want, but i know you’ll get your baby someday soon. keep up the good work. love you guys!

  • @emilyrussell4496
    @emilyrussell4496 2 роки тому +65

    Awww Bella, you’re such a strong individual!! It takes a lot to share such a personal heartbreak with the world. Your videos always make me smile. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re amazing!! I’m honored to watch your journey. You are both in my prayers.

  • @marciaquinby5151
    @marciaquinby5151 10 місяців тому +22

    Watching this after she had Story!!! It was all worth it ❤

  • @cheyannastrange9895
    @cheyannastrange9895 2 роки тому +94

    I'm going to pray for you everyday, you deserve to be a momma and Dallin a dad. 💛 sending so much love and good vibes to you and your family !!

  • @MakenzieMc96
    @MakenzieMc96 2 роки тому +20

    My husband and I have been struggling as well, and I got the news this week that I have PCOS. God made no mistakes when making our bodies 💗 I will be praying relentlessly for y’all!

  • @addie3977
    @addie3977 2 роки тому +83

    You got this guys, god is just waiting for the perfect time trust his timing and never lose hope! love you guys! ❤️🙏🏼

  • @staciabigail1402
    @staciabigail1402 2 роки тому +24

    Hang in there you two! God has his plan for you and it is so encouraging to see your faith through this journey. My sister and her husband struggled with infertility for 7 years- they now have a 4 year old daughter. My sister went in for a routine appointment and found out she was pregnant (and quite far along too). She had no idea. Their outcome was nothing short of perfect (God's timing). He sees you!❤️

  • @colbystutler9311
    @colbystutler9311 2 роки тому +92

    I am so sorry to see you going through this pain and suffering. I know that everything will be ok. You guys are so strong and inspiring. You opening up about your story will encourage others to do the same. I can’t believe how much you have grown both as a wife and as a human. I have learned so much from you guys. I’ve learned to have a better relationship with my brother, i’ve learned to always stay positive and so much more, that is all because you have taught me that. You are in my prayer’s. I love you guys!

  • @alexaallred8092
    @alexaallred8092 2 роки тому +94

    The feelings your feeling are so real and valid. We went through infertility for 5 years until we were blessed by adopting our baby boy!! I promise promise promise it is worth every tear and depressing day!! I feel you so deeply, it is dark, it feels SO lonely. Something that was validating to me was a research study that showed people who go through infertility go through the same amount of stress as people who have cancer, it made my pain feel validated when I heard that. It truly is one of the hardest things. Lots of love to you and your husband. Praying for your miracle to happen soon!

  • @edenmarie356
    @edenmarie356 2 роки тому +91

    We love you Bella, no matter what happens, keep going, you are SO strong. We love you so so so much Bella ♥️

  • @gianna3463
    @gianna3463 2 роки тому +53

    You got me over here crying too. I hate seeing you guys sad and broken. I’ll be keeping you guys In my prayers. God has a plan for you I promise and I can’t wait to see this plan. We all love you guys so much and we’re all going to be here on this journey with you both. You guys got this ❤️

  • @rachellemiller87
    @rachellemiller87 2 роки тому +53

    Started watching because of Matt and Abby, and I love to see the real, everyday, good and hard things you are going through. Thank you for being so vulnerable and trusting us with this part of your life, we are lifting you up and want nothing but the best for your family. Much love and baby dust 🙏🏻 (and prayers too)

  • @cynthiawarren5338
    @cynthiawarren5338 2 роки тому +93

    Praying so much for y’all! Praying for your miracle baby!! Gods got this and he’s got a plan for you and Dallin!! Keep your head up!! Love you guys!

  • @kaylavlogs4140
    @kaylavlogs4140 2 роки тому +33

    I was in tears watching this Bella. I’m so happy you have Dallin to hold and support you throughout this. All my prayers are to you and your future . I love you guys ! I hope everything works out !

  • @amelialewis4919
    @amelialewis4919 2 роки тому +18

    It took two years to get pregnant with my first baby. I remember that awful feeling of not knowing when the positive test would finally come and how crushing it was every time it was negative 😢 . I took clomid with monthly blood tests for a full year and then had a diagnostic laparoscopy surgery with no success. Switching medications to Letrozole is what finally did the trick for me. Sending you guys prayers. 💜

  • @christinfreeman882
    @christinfreeman882 2 роки тому +33

    Infertility is the hardest! My husband and I have been trying for a year and a half now. It’s hard because we want this so bad.
    So my heart goes out to you guys during this tough season. This too shall pass. Praying that you get your miracle soon 💕

  • @jessicalay6553
    @jessicalay6553 2 роки тому +14

    I am studying to be an OB/GYN and I have the two of you in my heart. Keep your hearts hopeful. And know there are many people who are rooting for you! 🥰💜

  • @ashleyjordan224
    @ashleyjordan224 2 роки тому +31

    my heart breaks for you guys! as a female, I can’t imagine what you’re going through, Bella. but I’m so happy & proud you had the courage to opened up to the internet and share your story. I can’t imagine how hard & discouraging this journey is for you guys. thank you for being so strong & sharing your inspiring story for all of us women who might be going through the same situation. I wish you guys the best & sending prays for that special moment and perfect timing when you finally flip that pregnancy test over, and it says “positive” ! sending you all so much love & prayers! continue to stay strong🤍

  • @amyh5791
    @amyh5791 2 роки тому +36

    It breaks my heart knowing you and so many others go through this. Wrapping my arms around all of you and sending you love, prayers and positive vibes. My sister struggled with infertility for years and was finally able to conceive. My niece will be 25 in July. You will look back at this video one day with your children and it will all be worth it. ❤️

  • @kristindiedrich1349
    @kristindiedrich1349 2 роки тому +25

    I am so sorry that this is happening to you! No one deserves to go through this when wanting a child & one day you will be blessed with an amazing boy/girl. Sending so much love & baby dust your way!! 💕💕

  • @destinygilbert1464
    @destinygilbert1464 2 роки тому +34

    I can’t even try to comprehend what y’all are going through right now. And any kid would be lucky to have you both as parents. Your such kind and humble people. I Love you guys no matter what , I’ll keep you in my prayers ❤️

  • @IvoryGoddess887
    @IvoryGoddess887 2 роки тому +19

    I'm over here sobbing because I know this pain so well. We've been trying for years, ive been following you for ages. I'm in a church group for women struggling with infertility we read a devotion called In Due Time by Caroline harries. I highly recommend getting this devotional and sharing it with anyone around you with the same struggles. It helps beyond words to have a group of women that are going through the same thing. It's been my saving grace throughout all of this. Thank you for sharing your journey and I'm sending you baby dust. I pray we both get our miracle babies and everyone reading this with the same struggle I pray you do to!

  • @im5877
    @im5877 2 роки тому +7

    My mom had troubles with infertility as well. She always calls me and my twin brother her miracle babies. You have to keep praying and having faith. I just want you to know that even when you DO get pregnant it may still be difficult, but you are strong!!! My mom was able to able to get through it and she was in bed rest the majority of the time, but here I am almost 13 years old and have good grades and am extremely athletic. Just know that there IS hope, and that I will be praying for you. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!💖💗💕❤️❤️

  • @Minceyjordan
    @Minceyjordan 2 роки тому +53

    I needed this!!
    You’re not alone!!!
    It feels like everyone around is pregnant or you see little babies everywhere!!!
    Thank you for sharing!!!!

  • @jasmineelsasser7407
    @jasmineelsasser7407 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you so much for sharing this. Your testimony is so beautiful! It's really clear how these tough experiences are bringing you and Dallin closer. My mom told me that she was told her whole life that she would never be able to get pregnant, but after 5 years of trying, she was able to bring my brother into the world. There is hope, and everything will work out the way it's supposed to. Love you both so so much!

  • @hailey-vo8lo
    @hailey-vo8lo 2 роки тому +21

    *ur not a failure! ur so amazing and beautiful and god does have a plan for u guys! ur going to be blessed with such a beautiful family! I was diagnosed with PCOS since I was 13 (I’m 18 now turning 19 in November) and I want a family in the future with the person I’m in love with! I know it’s not the same as being infertile but the chance of me not being able to conceive and have a baby tears me apart and at such a young age too. I’m scared that when I’m older I’ll be told I’m infertile though…I’m praying for nourishment and rich health for all of us who wish to have a family in the future (or near future!)❤️🙏🏼*

  • @TKC11535
    @TKC11535 2 роки тому +6

    my aunt and her husband tried for years and she thought she couldn't get pregnant but she finally got pregnant a few months ago and is due May 9th, God works in mysterious ways, don't give up, we love yall

  • @hannahmorrisvlogs7960
    @hannahmorrisvlogs7960 2 роки тому +31

    I find myself crying watching you go through this! I could not feel more in the same boat as I am currently going through this same process right now! Working with fertility doctors is terrifying and scary but also so exciting for what can maybe be a future with a little one of our own! It will happen for us one days! Keep your head up because you both are amazing! 💖

  • @LexiFonseca
    @LexiFonseca 2 роки тому +85

    The fact that this is #14 on trending right just shows you how many people appreciate you sharing your story and struggles. Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @DELLAVLOGS
      @DELLAVLOGS  2 роки тому +31

      It makes it easier :) the more people we can help the better

    • @bcc702
      @bcc702 2 роки тому

      Bella my heart breaks for you as I know how hard it is and how heartbreaking it is. I've been struggling with infertility for 4 years now and it's the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I appreciate you sharing your story to show we are not alone and to shine a light on a subject that is often not talked about. If you ever want to chat feel free to reach out to me

    • @na6737
      @na6737 2 роки тому

      BUT THE VIDEO HAS 34K DISLIKES

  • @ruxi289
    @ruxi289 2 роки тому +6

    my parents tried for 19 years, went through all the procedures that were available at that point in time, but in the end, at 40yo they finally succeeded, after they told themselves they're never gonna try other methods 🥺
    never lose hope, darling ❤

  • @alyssasmith5758
    @alyssasmith5758 2 роки тому +16

    Sending hugs and prayers your way! My aunt went through infertility for years, but one day a sweet worker at a store suggested she fast about it. After fasting she found out she was pregnant a month later! Bella you are so strong, keep trusting in the lord and it will be ok ❤️

  • @ashleya_heilig
    @ashleya_heilig 2 роки тому +28

    Thank you so much for sharing this. As someone who has struggled with this too for 2 years it’s good just to find someone to relate too. Praying so hard for you.. you are never alone in this 💕💕 declaring miracle babies!!

    • @DELLAVLOGS
      @DELLAVLOGS  2 роки тому +23

      we can do this together :) sending prayers to you as well!!

    • @slayergurl1234
      @slayergurl1234 2 роки тому +1

      Praying for you too!

  • @Emma-qh2vv
    @Emma-qh2vv 3 місяці тому +9

    Any one else back here watching this after Story’s first birthday ? 🤍🤍🥹

  • @lillianslife7578
    @lillianslife7578 2 роки тому +24

    Been apart of this journey since day one. 💙 So thankful for y’all being in my life and I am thankful for getting to know you guys. I am praying for you guys. I know this is hard but God has a plan and you will get through this! I love you guys and we are here to support you and hold your hand. Thank you for sharing with us. We love you. God only gives battles to those who are strong! Love ya!! 💕

  • @Jennifo007
    @Jennifo007 2 роки тому +23

    Seeing this video broke me into pieces. My heart breaks for you. I’m here to tell you that you aren’t alone there are other people that are suffering with the same thing; therefore, I recommend you reach out to those that can relate. It helps to relate to people who are or have gone through the same thing as you. It may seem like you are lost, confused, asking yourselves the question, “why me?” I’m here to tell you that God works everything for his good. god is with us through the good and the bad. Know that he works what may seem bad and he works it out!!! I know it’s hard and it sounds cliche but everything happens for a reason. Gods timing is the best timing!!! It’ll happen when you least expect if!! God is a miracle worker. Lean to your support system: Dallin, your family., his family, your friends. Props to Dallin giving you so much support. I’ll keep you guys in my prayers. God is with you through everything. God is good all the time!!! ❤

  • @sydneygulley2302
    @sydneygulley2302 2 роки тому +34

    A miscarriage was the hardest thing I’ve ever went through. I can’t even imagine what you’re going through but just know that it’ll make you stronger as a couple. Praying for you ❤️

  • @Katie-robinson
    @Katie-robinson 2 роки тому +51

    I’m so sorry!! I’m so proud of you guys! I’m sending lots of prayers!!! Ily guys ❤️

  • @carniahhopkins7840
    @carniahhopkins7840 2 роки тому +5

    This breaks my heart. I’m so sorry that you guys are going through this. Bella you are not a failure. I pray God sends you a baby.

  • @AshleyRogers1
    @AshleyRogers1 2 роки тому +28

    This is one of my biggest fears! I can’t even imagine what you both are going through! I will be praying for y’all and I am so proud of you for posting your story to help others❤️

  • @jennyfehr4408
    @jennyfehr4408 2 роки тому +33

    We were struggling with infertility for 9 years. Now my baby is 7 months. It was very hard on me during that time of infertility and it felt like it was all my fault as well but we shouldn't think these things because they aren't true. I was honestly very amazing how we did end up finally getting pregnant. We didn't go to a doctor or anyting but one day sincerely prayed to God that if we should have children that we would and if it wasn't for his will then that we would accept it and be okay with that. And then after that prayer we believe that it happened almost immediately ❤ Stay strong, God will lead you. God bless you both❤

  • @tammyflanigan6218
    @tammyflanigan6218 2 роки тому +34

    My heart hurt so much watching this, I can’t imagine how hard this was to share but I am glad that the weight is lifted and we all love you and wish nothing but the best for both of you as you endure this heart breaking process. Much love!

  • @shelbilee9823
    @shelbilee9823 2 роки тому +33

    I love how open and vulnerable you guys have always been. I cried through this video because I know how amazing you both are. Jeremiah 29:11-For I know the plans I have for you. Sayeth the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not harm you to give you hope and a future…he does have a plan and it’s gonna work out. One day❤️💕

  • @sarahbecker5244
    @sarahbecker5244 2 роки тому +11

    I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. My parents went through the same thing and found out something was wrong with my dad and my parents did adoption. Adoption is a beautiful thing.

  • @yulissaruiz7595
    @yulissaruiz7595 2 роки тому +18

    I cried with you through this. Thanks for being so vulnerable and honest, sharing this part of your life with us. Sending you prayers and that growing your family will be realized. Love y'all. ❤

  • @avaxclaire
    @avaxclaire 2 роки тому +5

    you guys aren’t alone! 💗 my sister when through this. and she had the toughest time. but she tried for 4 years. and there was a miracle baby 💗 bella! you are not a failure!! i’m proud of you 💙 one day! trust in God you guys! :) i promise everything will be ok ! love you guys. so much. both of you.

  • @riah-soph
    @riah-soph 2 роки тому +6

    saw the title and immediately my heart broke , i am so sorry bella. you are so strong !! 🤍

  • @jennicablack
    @jennicablack Рік тому +4

    No one will ever understand this pain unless you’ve been through it. It’s heartbreaking and so defeating especially watching everyone around you get pregnant while you can’t. I’m there, I’m so sorry!

  • @lindseymitchell9511
    @lindseymitchell9511 2 роки тому +10

    This brought tears to my eyes 🥺 the struggle of infertility is a very painful and hard one. Thank you so much for sharing this part of your lives with us, I know it’s something SO personal. Know that you have a community of people on your side, praying, hoping, and here to lift you through this hard time. God is aware of you, loves you, and knows your struggles ❤️

  • @kyleemullan1669
    @kyleemullan1669 2 роки тому +43

    Absolutely sobbed while watching this, my fiance and I have been going through infertility for about 3 years now trying with no contraceptives and I think it's about time we take it to the next step as well! I'm so sorry you're going through this pain it truly does suck❤️

    • @brendafoy1997
      @brendafoy1997 2 роки тому

      Bella, I cried my eyes out watching this video. I will pray for you and Dallan and your family. I hope that one day real soon you will get pregnant . I love you so much. Thank you for sharing this video. You are not a failure. There are many women just like you. Just keep praying 🙏. And God will help you through this.

  • @faithandray6824
    @faithandray6824 2 роки тому +28

    Aww honey I’m so sorry. I just thought you guys weren’t ready to have one yet. Never would’ve though you guys were struggling with this! You’re gonna get through this! I promise you will be holding your baby so soon! A stay strong love!! Sending you lots and lots of baby dust!!! 🥰❤️