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1.Marry a earning & working girl. 2.Don't marry a dumb. 3.Don't marry a RICH who doesn't earn or work.(girl & boy) 4.Ladki is izzat is directly proportional to husband ki izzat which he gets from his household. 5.Meeting time pe he/she should be opinionated. 6.11:25 important point for girls NOTE IT. 7.Ask the girl if she wants kids or not opinion is important 8.Expectations kya hai from each other. 9.Kitna laga rahe ho shaadi mein.
@@onceajordan it work for girl tooi recently reject a boy his faimly were rich but he didn't take any single responsibility .even he after his dad death he didn't take responsibility of mom and sisters. I understand he is dumb kind of person with no opinion. My dad didn't liston to me he only see servants working in big home and 20 akad farm and 4 wheeler Thank god they understand i m too intelligent and strong independent earner to be controlled by in laws they reject me and i was saved from force marriage.
Golden advice Guruji. I wish such clarity was available 6-7 years ago! Parents are also not clear on this so they cannot guide the children as well. Atleast the future people who are getting married are helped by your valuable advice. My pranam to you!
Thankyou ji l am a retired teacher and regularly watch your videos You put your points across so convincingly that we get ready to follow them lts like collecting diamonds falling in the form of words from your mouth You are doing a valuable social service as we are being enlightened on various issues on a regular basis May God bless you Sir with good health and happiness always
Thank you ..Sango bhai Saab...half of our life is passed away thinking about what we should have done at that particular time trying to strike a balance between expectations and aspiration...and here you are like a good Samaritan hand holding us through this very hazy path...God bless
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Kya aap mujhe bata sakte hai agar koi ladki working hai 90,000 uski salary hai to kya usko apni job quit kar deni chahiye shadi ke leya agar sab pressure banane.
@@radhe.devotee.. बिल्कुल नहीं ! अगर आपकी शादी ultra rich family में हो रही हो तब भी , अमित सर की नई case study same इसी topic पर है । 29 मिनट की है पूरा देखिये Confusion दूर हो जायेगी । Highly recommend video for you ishita ji 😊🙏
Sir I have seen many of my non working friends and cousins with no earning potential who got married to rich husbands and getting recognition through their husband's income. They are enjoying their life like anything. Their family members are also proud of their daughters.
Mam, that's because they are providing what the man wants and both are having their needs met which is leading to better relationship. You are earning, so your mindset will be different.
That's their life. Don't compare urself with anyone n don't let anyone devalue ur worth. Take charge of ur life n try to find suitable partner for urself. Their r many ladies whose only achievement is finding a wealthy partner n nothing wrong in that but don't let them put u inferior for that reason. Everybody has their own journey.
Jo bhi ho... Still they are financially dependent on their husbands. Shadi pehle acchi hi chalti but after some years chize bigarti hein. Ek na ek din husband ya fir husband ki family usko kabhi kisi tarah sunayega hi ya fir koyi uske khud k friend hi usko bol degi ki these things that you got because of your husband only. Abhi ladki me self respect hogi to wo chize chubhti hein. So better earn yourself before getting married and even after marriage, split the household bills , household chores etc. Thus they can lead a happy life without pressurising the other.
Mostly if the girl is good looking, a bit intelligent (optional generally), loyal, somewhat supportive and generally not a pain in the ass...most guys won't have any problem spoiling her after marriage
1 marry an earning women 2 marry strong intelligent logical women 3 dont run for biig money filled house if ur man is jobless n spending his father's money 4 marry a logical opiniated man who has a stand 5 avoid butterfly nature girl 6 discuss biig milestones , kids , ration , bills etc 7 discuss shaadi budget between both parties
My god the thing of not marrying a rich guy who inherited but not created that wealth is something I was saved from that five years back had come so close to it and yes all symptoms described are so true.... One who stands for nothing will fall for anything.
Sir if everything else about respective families are fine, as a doctor I believe both families should talk about their health problems too. Any family history of diabetes, blood pressure, asthma, cancer or blood related disorders. Both bride and groom should get their complete health check-up. I see many couples fighting in my clinic because they didn't knew they would have to spend so much money, especially lifestyle related diseases.
You are right, even I think madical history and health care should be a part of match making discussions. People focus on kundli talks about family history but neglect health issues. Full body checkup medical report of both bride and groom should be asked for.
Hello sir , the point you have mentioned about marrying in a rich family went straight to my heart. My parents also set me up with the same family but at the right time I realised that it will never be my money, we female can only take a full right on husband money and can ask for without hesitation. Thankgod I realised it at the right time and took my steps back. But not accepting that relation my parents set me up with really hurt them a lot they started abusing and torturing me, the only thing they were saying ki raaj karti tum bahut waha tumko ghumate wo log that family also forced my dad to generate my passport and said we will send them foreign for honeymoon. Whatever things were happening that time I was getting really frustrated. But my instincts were not allowing me to accept that rich family. Today i saw your video and I’m so happy that my decision was correct. Thankyou sir for doing amazing work.
Every word is exactly true and I also followed that in today's world girl should be independent and every thing should be discussed before marring u every point is very learnful for it
These are very normal guidelines... In fact in Maharashtra every family regardless of religion practice the ritual of "Baithak" where things like eg. guideline no. 5 onwards are discussed. Then they cut the Beatlenut (supari) and the date of engagement and marriage is fixed. Only the family elders are entertained in these meetings and no outsider is allowed. Good guidelines 👍
And most important all questions are asked in front of both boy and girl Last sentence of discussion is comman " Je kahi vicharacha ahe atach vicharun ghe nantar amala sangu nako "
सही बात है मैने अपनी रिश्तेदारी में देखा है, अचानक पैसा आने से मां बाप सातवें आसमान पर हो गए, उनके लड़के ही थे वो भी बिगड़ गए, शादी का समय आया तो कोई ढंग का परिवार अपनी लड़की देने को तैयार नहीं था, इसलिए बिचौलियों को पटा कर दूर दराज की गांव की लड़कियां,तो सौतेली मां की बेटी ऐसी कमजोर हालत की लड़कियों से शादी ऐसा ही प्रभाव जमा कर जैसा आपने कहा है शादियां हुई है लड़कियों की हालत मत पूछो नौकरानी जैसा व्यवहार होता है,रोज लड़ाई, पिटाई होती है प्रॉपर्टी सब सास ससुर के कब्जे में है, लडके मांगते है तो मां बाप कहते है तुम्हारे बस की नही है ये सब संभालना पहले सुधारो बहुयो से कहा जाता है की तुमसे अपने पतियों को भी नही सुधरा जा रहा है,अब आप बताए लडके तो पहले शराबी, निकम्मे, आलसी,ओरातबाज, तो मां बाप ने बना दिए तो चार दिन की , हालत की मारी बच्ची कैसे सुधार लेगी, मुझे बहुत गुस्सा आता है, लड़कियो को भी थोड़ी बहुत चमक धमक दिखा कर बच्चो का वास्ता देकर मुंह बंद कर देते है ,
Sir acha laga advise sunke , I am 29 yr old central government officer 80 k salary with good body physique and height 6’ and other things also sorted , but when we met other party and find girl is not working , still we agree and say yes to proceed further , but one thing my elder brother , he is handling the purposel as father is passed away , kaisi shadi karogi , then they got offended by these words , and withdraw their purposal , I don’t know what is wrong with the society , when I was unemployed no one is looking for me, even after having good acedmeics and good fitness level.
Excellent sir. I already showed my daughter who is an auditor. 👏👏👏👏 to your efforts to bring the much needed change in the society. Keep on your honest, practical efforts sir. 🙏🙏🙏
Pre marrage agreements must - safety first - family co faver wo..men and make you pay premium maintenance - today life home are automated ( washing matchine ) and keep records of experience (Family co..urt requirements )
I m jobless but I will earn for sure ...and whatever sir has said is correct ...I have seen two marriages failing badly ....for reason sir have said ...I know money is important and I work towards getting job ...or will see other option
Beautiful, more such videos are needed, society is changing, and the older members in the family have no say nowadays, so all such things should be discussed before the marriage rituals,to avoid confusion later in life,
Honestly speaking sir...I do discuss almost all of these points except the last one...bcos waha tak baat pohnchi nhi kbi. However what my experience has been is that women nowadays only want to enjoy the perks but don't want to own the responsibilities.
My views: 1. Families on both sides should be from similar background: service- service n business- business. No Cross over either side. 2. Antecedent checks of both a MUST despite referrals on either sides promoting rishta...3. Boy education Academics should ve uninterrupted and from Good colleges( not from private medical engineering colleges)...4. Metropolitan City born girls should NEVER marry boy from smaller cities or towns...5. Horoscope matching should be a MUST 6. Girls n boys meeting before clarity on above 5 points should be a strict NO NO...7. imposing parents especially of boy side should never ve encouraged to cross limits..better to disconnect any such proceedings instead of life long suffering to the girl...8. Boy should be earning more than the girl and should be either equally qualified or better higher qualified and that too before the mutual meetings are started...9. Boys who drink smoke eat non vegetarian meals should never be pursued by girls who do not possess similar traits
. Horoscope doesn't matter, not does career gap. People with gaps are at good positions today, that too from private colleges. There are no issues between business and job crossovers.
In mahrashtra we have marriage bureau which tells members to disclose everything including property, income, liabilities, status of parents(single, divorced etc), spending patterns, priorities, nature of wedding expenditure, liesure activities, choice of shopping( branded, local, street) each and everything is discussed threadbare
Kindly make a video on love marriage, what bf and gf should do to convince parents of they're from different casts etc, which things should a bf keep in mind before marriage, how should he build his career, what's the perfect age for both to get married etc?
Superbbbbbbbbbb Video Sir!.........Thanks for opening many eyes!..........Sir I request, please make a video, how to convince parents for an intercaste marriage, in a middle class society
I do appreciate your hard work but marriage is not a necessity. And the way it has been failing currently, a definite no fromy end at least! Focus on yourself, build a carrer and enjoy the financial independence 👍
The points you are putting forward is very logical and I am sure your videos are helping so many people 🎉 I am grateful that I found this channel when I needed this the most ❤
So true It happened same with me Married in same way but no sukhhhh……of husband Kehne ko kothi n alllll & ladka bilkul fattuuuu & worst happened he himself ran to Canada left me alone here & a lot happened with me Suffered alot
@@anandmishra5342 he doesn't stand up for his wife in front of his family. He is busy acting the good son of the family and making his wife look bad .
Vo apko Canada Lejane k bare me baat krta hai to thik h nhi..to chup chap apne ghar bapis aajao...don't waste your time there anymore...kyunki uska Agar kisi or se affair hogya..apke aane wale precious years khrab hojayenge.
Even if clear commitment is there regarding kitna laga rahe ho and many points but what if people turn around and it comes as a flat lie to either party
very good advice sir..bina jane maine isme se 2 kaam kiye hain...but i wish app ki advice 5 years pehle milti mujhe to will be much better..for me..but still thanks good video and good advice..
Video was informative useful, its based on facts truths happen in our society Thank you for this video, its helpful to maintain checks and balance where clashes happen mostly 🙏
Mat karo shadi,,,, aapni saints, guruji ki batein samazo. End me budhapa aana hain, death aani hain. Toh jiwan chintamukt jio, because Marriage is a bunch of huge Responsibilities. If you think marriage will fullfill you and give happyness.. Its not. Happyness, peace within us, explore it. Enjoy, do sports, have good friends. Never fall for this social trap. Those who dont do marraige they are more happy and strong.
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Sir what should be the proportion of salary between men and women. If I earn 50k how much should the boy earn ?
1.Marry a earning & working girl.
2.Don't marry a dumb.
3.Don't marry a RICH who doesn't earn or work.(girl & boy)
4.Ladki is izzat is directly proportional to husband ki izzat which he gets from his household.
5.Meeting time pe he/she should be opinionated.
6.11:25 important point for girls NOTE IT.
7.Ask the girl if she wants kids or not opinion is important
8.Expectations kya hai from each other.
9.Kitna laga rahe ho shaadi mein.
Thx bro.
3. Isn’t this also applicable for girls. Papa ki pari types.
@@onceajordan i mentioned dear now sorry next time onwards will write with more appropriate words ☺️
Thanks a ton for this brother !!!!! ❣️❣️❣️
@@onceajordan it work for girl tooi recently reject a boy his faimly were rich but he didn't take any single responsibility .even he after his dad death he didn't take responsibility of mom and sisters. I understand he is dumb kind of person with no opinion. My dad didn't liston to me he only see servants working in big home and 20 akad farm and 4 wheeler
Thank god they understand i m too intelligent and strong independent earner to be controlled by in laws they reject me and i was saved from force marriage.
Sir, after watching your videos I feel getting married is more tougher than cracking UPSE exam 😊
Relatble .
What do you expect ? it's 2023
Bhai iske age Saare exam fail h, kyoki divorce cases bahut bad gye h.
Divorce cases sab barbaad hota h
Aur bcche paida kr kiya toh mtlb upsc ka baap paida hogya 😂😂😂😂
It is!😂
Golden advice Guruji. I wish such clarity was available 6-7 years ago! Parents are also not clear on this so they cannot guide the children as well. Atleast the future people who are getting married are helped by your valuable advice. My pranam to you!
Thankyou ji l am a retired teacher and regularly watch your videos You put your points across so convincingly that we get ready to follow them lts like collecting diamonds falling in the form of words from your mouth You are doing a valuable social service as we are being enlightened on various issues on a regular basis May God bless you Sir with good health and happiness always
Guruji pranaam..Tusi khush kar dita..so much clarity of thoughts you put in❤
Thank you ..Sango bhai Saab...half of our life is passed away thinking about what we should have done at that particular time trying to strike a balance between expectations and aspiration...and here you are like a good Samaritan hand holding us through this very hazy path...God bless
मै बहुत lucky feel करता हूं की मुझे समय रहते एक worth Content free ऑफ़ Cost मिल रहा है । और मैं आपकी वीडियोस फॉरवर्ड नहीं करता क्यूँकी दुर्भाग्यवश मेरे सर्किल में ऐसे लोग नहीं हैं जो इन बातों को समझ सकें । आपको धन्यवाद व छमाप्रार्थी दोनों हूँ ❤
हम हैं आप के साथ ही. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@sharadhabharat901 mtlb ? 🤔
Kya aap mujhe bata sakte hai agar koi ladki working hai 90,000 uski salary hai to kya usko apni job quit kar deni chahiye shadi ke leya agar sab pressure banane.
@@radhe.devotee.. बिल्कुल नहीं ! अगर आपकी शादी ultra rich family में हो रही हो तब भी , अमित सर की नई case study same इसी topic पर है । 29 मिनट की है पूरा देखिये Confusion दूर हो जायेगी । Highly recommend video for you ishita ji 😊🙏
@@radhe.devotee.. no
Sir I have seen many of my non working friends and cousins with no earning potential who got married to rich husbands and getting recognition through their husband's income. They are enjoying their life like anything. Their family members are also proud of their daughters.
Mam, that's because they are providing what the man wants and both are having their needs met which is leading to better relationship.
You are earning, so your mindset will be different.
That's their life. Don't compare urself with anyone n don't let anyone devalue ur worth. Take charge of ur life n try to find suitable partner for urself. Their r many ladies whose only achievement is finding a wealthy partner n nothing wrong in that but don't let them put u inferior for that reason. Everybody has their own journey.
Jo bhi ho... Still they are financially dependent on their husbands. Shadi pehle acchi hi chalti but after some years chize bigarti hein. Ek na ek din husband ya fir husband ki family usko kabhi kisi tarah sunayega hi ya fir koyi uske khud k friend hi usko bol degi ki these things that you got because of your husband only. Abhi ladki me self respect hogi to wo chize chubhti hein. So better earn yourself before getting married and even after marriage, split the household bills , household chores etc. Thus they can lead a happy life without pressurising the other.
Mostly if the girl is good looking, a bit intelligent (optional generally), loyal, somewhat supportive and generally not a pain in the ass...most guys won't have any problem spoiling her after marriage
@@JackSparrow-zj4hj But that's the problem. To other women they think if this woman is getting all stuff they should get a lot more.
1 marry an earning women
2 marry strong intelligent logical women
3 dont run for biig money filled house if ur man is jobless n spending his father's money
4 marry a logical opiniated man who has a stand
5 avoid butterfly nature girl
6 discuss biig milestones , kids , ration , bills etc
7 discuss shaadi budget between both parties
My god the thing of not marrying a rich guy who inherited but not created that wealth is something I was saved from that five years back had come so close to it and yes all symptoms described are so true.... One who stands for nothing will fall for anything.
Sir if everything else about respective families are fine, as a doctor I believe both families should talk about their health problems too. Any family history of diabetes, blood pressure, asthma, cancer or blood related disorders. Both bride and groom should get their complete health check-up. I see many couples fighting in my clinic because they didn't knew they would have to spend so much money, especially lifestyle related diseases.
Right
Correct
You are right, even I think madical history and health care should be a part of match making discussions.
People focus on kundli talks about family history but neglect health issues. Full body checkup medical report of both bride and groom should be asked for.
This point has been covered by Sir already...but maybe missed in this video.
also if they have any blood borne diseases or not.
I’m yet to get married… I will follow all this 🎉
Hello sir , the point you have mentioned about marrying in a rich family went straight to my heart. My parents also set me up with the same family but at the right time I realised that it will never be my money, we female can only take a full right on husband money and can ask for without hesitation. Thankgod I realised it at the right time and took my steps back. But not accepting that relation my parents set me up with really hurt them a lot they started abusing and torturing me, the only thing they were saying ki raaj karti tum bahut waha tumko ghumate wo log that family also forced my dad to generate my passport and said we will send them foreign for honeymoon. Whatever things were happening that time I was getting really frustrated. But my instincts were not allowing me to accept that rich family. Today i saw your video and I’m so happy that my decision was correct. Thankyou sir for doing amazing work.
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@@WHATinTHE_WORLD I’m single. My dad has bounded me in the house. So struggling for my career.
All the best for your upcoming life and all the best for your career be brave and you will succeed 👍
Husband salary me se pese de jaroori nahi he....
Every word is exactly true and I also followed that in today's world girl should be independent and every thing should be discussed before marring u every point is very learnful for it
The line when hurdles will come " ha ji aap hi dekh lo ji " 👌👌😂😂😂😂
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सर आप बिल्कुल सही बोल रहे है , आखिरी point 100% correct
These are very normal guidelines... In fact in Maharashtra every family regardless of religion practice the ritual of "Baithak" where things like eg. guideline no. 5 onwards are discussed. Then they cut the Beatlenut (supari) and the date of engagement and marriage is fixed. Only the family elders are entertained in these meetings and no outsider is allowed. Good guidelines 👍
And most important all questions are asked in front of both boy and girl
Last sentence of discussion is comman " Je kahi vicharacha ahe atach vicharun ghe nantar amala sangu nako "
@@prathameshligam9003Nantar Amala sangu naka😂😂😂
@@prathameshligam9003 😄👍 Ho... Mi experience kela ahe😁
@@shrgai8821plz translate in hindi Or English
@@friendshiprocks8673 translation:
"Jo koi bhi baat puchhni hai wo abhi hi puchho.... Badme bolna maat ki pehle humne kuch bola nahi"
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan 🙏
A very educative and practical video that deserves 10/10
You are great sir i at the of age of 25 i am getting very good knowlege on time before getting married.
सही बात है मैने अपनी रिश्तेदारी में देखा है, अचानक पैसा आने से मां बाप सातवें आसमान पर हो गए, उनके लड़के ही थे वो भी बिगड़ गए, शादी का समय आया तो कोई ढंग का परिवार अपनी लड़की देने को तैयार नहीं था, इसलिए बिचौलियों को पटा कर दूर दराज की गांव की लड़कियां,तो सौतेली मां की बेटी ऐसी कमजोर हालत की लड़कियों से शादी ऐसा ही प्रभाव जमा कर जैसा आपने कहा है शादियां हुई है लड़कियों की हालत मत पूछो नौकरानी जैसा व्यवहार होता है,रोज लड़ाई, पिटाई होती है प्रॉपर्टी सब सास ससुर के कब्जे में है, लडके मांगते है तो मां बाप कहते है तुम्हारे बस की नही है ये सब संभालना पहले सुधारो बहुयो से कहा जाता है की तुमसे अपने पतियों को भी नही सुधरा जा रहा है,अब आप बताए लडके तो पहले शराबी, निकम्मे, आलसी,ओरातबाज, तो मां बाप ने बना दिए तो चार दिन की , हालत की मारी बच्ची कैसे सुधार लेगी, मुझे बहुत गुस्सा आता है, लड़कियो को भी थोड़ी बहुत चमक धमक दिखा कर बच्चो का वास्ता देकर मुंह बंद कर देते है ,
Apne se 5 guna kamane wala ladka dhudogi toh yahi hoga
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Sir acha laga advise sunke ,
I am 29 yr old central government officer 80 k salary with good body physique and height 6’ and other things also sorted , but when we met other party and find girl is not working , still we agree and say yes to proceed further , but one thing my elder brother , he is handling the purposel as father is passed away , kaisi shadi karogi , then they got offended by these words , and withdraw their purposal , I don’t know what is wrong with the society , when I was unemployed no one is looking for me, even after having good acedmeics and good fitness level.
same here. buddy... now you must be feeling proud ki itne sare rishte aa rhe hai😂
Excellent sir. I already showed my daughter who is an auditor.
👏👏👏👏 to your efforts to bring the much needed change in the society. Keep on your honest, practical efforts sir. 🙏🙏🙏
I can 1000% relate with all the points you have given. Please bring video’s covering real situation/cases so that we can relate more
Sir ke content ke saath sabke comments bhi interesting hote hain, its like case studies
great advice sir aapko viral ho jana chaiye poore india mein
Pre marrage agreements must - safety first - family co faver wo..men and make you pay premium maintenance - today life home are automated ( washing matchine ) and keep records of experience (Family co..urt requirements )
Sir, You are fulfilling the needs of many youngsters who lag elder people in their network for genuine advice.. Thanks a lot for the content
I m jobless but I will earn for sure ...and whatever sir has said is correct ...I have seen two marriages failing badly ....for reason sir have said ...I know money is important and I work towards getting job ...or will see other option
Just keep learning whatever suits there are 2 many jobs in market
Words of wisdom. Essential listening for those approaching marriage.
chacha apka ka ye jo honest answer dene ka tarika hai vo gajab hai. Bhut achi aur smjhdar bate kehte ho ap. Thanks ye video lane ke liye.
2nd point is very very important inteligent and strong partner
Bohot sahi baaten karte hai sir aap...
Beautiful, more such videos are needed, society is changing, and the older members in the family have no say nowadays, so all such things should be discussed before the marriage rituals,to avoid confusion later in life,
Honestly speaking sir...I do discuss almost all of these points except the last one...bcos waha tak baat pohnchi nhi kbi. However what my experience has been is that women nowadays only want to enjoy the perks but don't want to own the responsibilities.
My views: 1. Families on both sides should be from similar background: service- service n business- business. No Cross over either side. 2. Antecedent checks of both a MUST despite referrals on either sides promoting rishta...3. Boy education Academics should ve uninterrupted and from Good colleges( not from private medical engineering colleges)...4. Metropolitan City born girls should NEVER marry boy from smaller cities or towns...5. Horoscope matching should be a MUST 6. Girls n boys meeting before clarity on above 5 points should be a strict NO NO...7. imposing parents especially of boy side should never ve encouraged to cross limits..better to disconnect any such proceedings instead of life long suffering to the girl...8. Boy should be earning more than the girl and should be either equally qualified or better higher qualified and that too before the mutual meetings are started...9. Boys who drink smoke eat non vegetarian meals should never be pursued by girls who do not possess similar traits
Lolz so many rules
What about children ? if only one person wants children , As a guy i dont want child , But most women in india want children.
. Horoscope doesn't matter, not does career gap. People with gaps are at good positions today, that too from private colleges. There are no issues between business and job crossovers.
In mahrashtra we have marriage bureau which tells members to disclose everything including property, income, liabilities, status of parents(single, divorced etc), spending patterns, priorities, nature of wedding expenditure, liesure activities, choice of shopping( branded, local, street) each and everything is discussed threadbare
Every point mentioned by Guruji is word by word correct. My advice to ppl who are not married, please carefully note this.
Kindly make a video on love marriage, what bf and gf should do to convince parents of they're from different casts etc, which things should a bf keep in mind before marriage, how should he build his career, what's the perfect age for both to get married etc?
Never get married
माँ,, रिश्ते दा र,,,, अपनी पसंद करते हुए,,,, शादी कर देते हैं,,,,, भुगत ना लड़की को पड़ता है,,,, रियल फैक्ट है💓💓💓💓
Matt karo shadi
Sir You are very practical and views are very logical.
Love ❤️ you from Pakistan 🇵🇰. Most of the time it feels like you are telling my story
I love this man for his clarity
Superbbbbbbbbbb Video Sir!.........Thanks for opening many eyes!..........Sir I request, please make a video, how to convince parents for an intercaste marriage, in a middle class society
Arranged marriage ke pehli meeting mein, kacche kon dhoyga, budget kya hai, fir to ho gayi shaadi 😁
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Yor comment is really funny
Bas itne me tune shaadi karli...?? Great!!
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Sadar charan sparsh sir, eye opening video..thanks for your valuable guidance.
Bahut acchi jaankari di aapne sir
Some of advices are good to be followed
which we did not follow
earlier in children marriage.
Pura video dekhne me meri smile kaho nahi ruki it's 💯 true maza bhi aaya n Gyan bhi
I do appreciate your hard work but marriage is not a necessity. And the way it has been failing currently, a definite no fromy end at least!
Focus on yourself, build a carrer and enjoy the financial independence 👍
Great Amitsangwan ji , salute and Appreciate you sir ,
Doesn't matter boy or girl rich or poor depend on their nature behavior.
The points you are putting forward is very logical and I am sure your videos are helping so many people 🎉 I am grateful that I found this channel when I needed this the most ❤
Very practical and to the point talk.
Sirjee you have terrific, clarity, honesty and courage.🙏🙏🙏
Sir ,you have a deep knowledge of relationship and all your tips are very useful and practical.
Sir ji very interesting topic with super knowledge. Thank you so much
Guruji aap muje 17 saal pehle kyoun nahi mile 😊 really amazing perspective you have 🙏
Thaari biwi ne padh liya agr yeh comment to peetegi bahut.
Awesome laga...Kabhi socha nahi tha
Golden Advice Guru ji Thanks
So true
It happened same with me
Married in same way but no sukhhhh……of husband
Kehne ko kothi n alllll
& ladka bilkul fattuuuu
& worst happened he himself ran to Canada left me alone here & a lot happened with me
Suffered alot
Sister fattu in the sense how?
@@anandmishra5342 he doesn't stand up for his wife in front of his family.
He is busy acting the good son of the family and making his wife look bad .
Vo apko Canada Lejane k bare me baat krta hai to thik h nhi..to chup chap apne ghar bapis aajao...don't waste your time there anymore...kyunki uska Agar kisi or se affair hogya..apke aane wale precious years khrab hojayenge.
Ap usko call krke aise khna ''undy bundy sundy agar tu india vaps nhi aya toh teri ma r_^di''
Goldigger banogi and sirf paisa dekh kar shaadi karogi madam ji to Aisa hi hoga 😂😂😂
. Great Sir aap ek dum iss generation ko samjte ho👏 specially jo travel wali baat kahi aapne haha. Very nice
This was about arranged marriage. Also make a video about what to look for in a love marriage (or gf/bf).
Bhai gf kam wali honi chaye bs or kuch nhi
Same question
Even if clear commitment is there regarding kitna laga rahe ho and many points but what if people turn around and it comes as a flat lie to either party
@@manjulamishra7214 bharosa to krna pdga kisi na kisi ka to ktga
yes 🙌🏻
Please Make a video on Girlfriend - Boyfriend topic... ⭐
very good advice sir..bina jane maine isme se 2 kaam kiye hain...but i wish app ki advice 5 years pehle milti mujhe to will be much better..for me..but still thanks good video and good advice..
Well said sir d best thing I liked was about both purchasing a house
Sir, really great advice. We have seen that pain. Really it is a big lesson. Thank you so much for your advice on humanity🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir u are doing a wonderful social work!!
All points are knowledgeable. Thanks
Last point agree totally! Just wish had known all about this 13 years ago!
sir 🙏 your valuable advice help me a lot,thank you sir
Sir , your video is so real and practical
Sir accha samjhaa rahe ho
Amazing points!!
Video was informative useful, its based on facts truths happen in our society
Thank you for this video, its helpful to maintain checks and balance where clashes happen mostly 🙏
Bhai sahab I always listen your video
Wounderful Sir i also do this before marriage 😊😅
Uncle ji aap mahaan ho.
Sir jabse apka channel recommendations me aaya hai....mind khulta ja rha
your talks, your style and containts are superb. Keep it up. God is helping you.
Just glad that I'm getting knowledge from you at this age,in my mid 20s . Thank GOD WE HAVE YOU IN YT. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
Sir thanks 🙏 for sharing and guiding please keep sharing more
Last wala point solid laga sir!
12:27 Golden Advice
Superb very nice thanks alot for this video 😊🙏
Unique content sir.
Practical and helpful also.
Very practical advice sir thank you sir
Very TRUE and realistic information sir .thank you sir
Sir, Aapka way of delivering 😂😂👌🏻👌🏻
3:31 sahi hai sir. One of the most genuine lines I have ever heard in my life.
Bbade dino bad hasne ko mika too good thank you sir
I am superblessed to have you sir. Thank you sir for speaking things so real and clear.
Excellent explanation ❤
Toh humari Shadi se pahle ye sab baate clear kar lena 😉
Bhot achhe points hai sir means alot ❤❤thank you ❤❤
Guruji bht bht dhanyawad 🙏
Sir ji Namashkar, aapki batai gayee sari advice bahut jaruri aur useful hai
11:25 bonus point 🎉
Phenomenal video Sir, its a clear cut guidelines for our future 💑 couple.
I think I am learning a lot from you. I became angry at one of your vedios (7th class essay). But your other videos teach a lot.
Mat karo shadi,,,, aapni saints, guruji ki batein samazo. End me budhapa aana hain, death aani hain. Toh jiwan chintamukt jio, because Marriage is a bunch of huge Responsibilities. If you think marriage will fullfill you and give happyness.. Its not. Happyness, peace within us, explore it. Enjoy, do sports, have good friends. Never fall for this social trap. Those who dont do marraige they are more happy and strong.
Sir please don't stop ur marriage series
When I feel depressed in life I come to your channel. So much hilarious to listen your words. 😂😂
I am literally binge watching your videos man what a gold mine i hit ❤❤❤❤