I've been having terrible prostate problems and I hope that massage and milking will help with my issues. I have a urologist and have verified that I don't have cancer. Thanks for your candid discussions.
Ahhh, Lava Lee gets her/his moment! I love how Gabriel sits and grins as he asks questions we know darn well he already knows the answer to. Love watching you both, so upbeat, informative, and kind, especially to each other! I enjoy the no-drama zone!
About 5 years ago I had Prostate cancer, and had 47 Radiation treatment; well I can say I beat it now no more prostate cancer anymore. But watching you and your friend, I've learned alot
I have had BPH for 25 years (from a young age) but don't have cancer and my urologist said the best thing I can do is to have an orgasm and it didn't matter if I took things into my own hands to do it. He had me go to PT at the practice for a long time and they taught me pelvic floor exercises that have helped.
Great Presentation. As a physician myself, I try to teach this to some of my patients. Nice to see it here! Next time, I would recommend a visual aid,,,not sexual. Some of my patients don’t understand how to locate the prostate. Overall awesome job guys.
Young Gents (dr, D, and lava lee); Todays topic is actualy timely, I have been wondering about if my prostate is good (Healthy). Yes Ignited have a primary, and can discuss most things, but that you bring it up is just for me most auspicious. (note 63 here) Thank you for what you gents do Glenn
I'm heading over to your other videos to find milking the prostate. I've been dying to try it. I haven't been able to find a video to actually show how to do it. Even medically, I think there should be a video of how to milk the prostate. I appreciate this video. Just my 1 cent.
This video complements well another video of yours on the same topic. It picks up where a previous video left off just as some of your viewers suggested. Thank you for listening.
Good to hear two men talking about this sensitive topic about a sensitive part of the male anatomy. I learned about my prostate as a teenager when my doctor without warning pressed on my prostate and seamen came out. I thought it was pretty cool and still do. I recommend if you haven't experienced massaging the prostate to give it a try.
I learned that a non-vibrating toy with a strong curve, and long enough to play around with angles and rhythms is much more effective than a vibrating toy or just a finger regarding internal stimulation for me personally. I got a motorized and angled wriggling toy that mimicked the thumb (was just longer and thicker than the average thumb) and it had optional vibrational and heat function. It worked great for a few days and then sadly ended up breaking🥲🥲… So I came across a video on YT that suggested a steel, curved G/P-Spot stimulator wand that has two different sized ball ends for smooth and gentle running over the delicate surface of the prostate. I’m super excited to try it out!
I love your channel, it is one of my very favorites. I love watching how you treat each other with such respect. I love knowing you are a couple. And I love how you talk so frankly and at ease about everything. I do this with all my gay male friends, and am always surprised when I hear that some people don’t. I always say “we’re all guys, nothing is off the table”.
A demonstration of techniques using a model of some sort at least for the external massage. I’ve never felt like I had done any good with external massage.
I don't know if I should mention this, I read an article several years ago that Gay Men as a whole have far lower rates of prostate cancer than their so called straight guys do. I will believe that because most gay men are receiving some type of prostate massage. I believe I read this article in "Men's Health". Please don't quote me on this it was a men's magazine. I would still like for you to cover the topic of PSA levels for the prostate. Prostate massage also helps with this, I believe I am correct. I know that TRT is also a huge help as that boost your sex drive as well. An active prostate is a healthy prostate.
The article is correct, except It's not gay men with healthy prostates. It's men who have sex with men who have healthy prostates. I truly believe men with prostate problems aren't having any sex, stimulation, and/or aren't beating off enough (due to insecurity or embarrassment of beating their dicks as often as necessary). With the category of men who have sex with men growing, I predict in 20 years, as many men won't have prostate problems.
@@mrock828 if u think the original comment that I replied to isn't inappropriate you are indeed the problem. Are u aware of what a "demonstration" would look like ?
I am watching this from England and finding it very informative and helpful; thanks for telling me things about my own body that I did not know fully. Pity I had to wait until later in life to learn these things!
This would've been a great skit on the old TV show from the '90s called "In Living Color" with their "Men on...." series. Blain Edwards and Antwan Merriweather would've had a blast with this one!
I'm amazed that people can't find it. Once something is up there, you're likely to accidentally stimulate it lightly. And once that happens to me, it lets me know very clearly where it is and that it wants to be stimulated more.
I agree. But, despite trying with fingers, toys, and third-party assistance (cough, cough :)), no luck. Either I missed it or it's hiding. I am a bottom, which feels awesome, and feels that way for every foot inserted; maybe mine just hides until a prefered visitor arrives?
I love you guys, your very smart, this awareness ir really great and helpful, the drs dont tell you any, of this, thank you very much, i am starting to rty this now and I find it works for my enlarged prostate, but it must be done often, i find,, I just need a better toy... recomendation,?
@@thebrettster6231 They used to do it in the 1990s but stopped. A DR who I knew socially, he referred me to a DR outside the city- in an affluent $$$ town, for prostate massage.
I’m not a nut consumer so have no clue what walnut size means. Anatomical models are available for our bits and pieces so I’m wondering if they exist for the prostate. If not, can a modeling clay replica be created for your presentations?
Keep in mind they are referring to whole walnuts, shell included. If you're in a typical grocery store, you would likely only find walnut halves or crushed with no shell. Better is go to a health food store, the bulk section, and they should have whole walnuts. But basically, a bit smaller than a golf ball. Good luck!
@@JJ-in3bc - Yes I do! I’m too fond of maraschino cherries in syrup for my own good but indulge occasionally. I hand feed chickadees and nuthatches so I buy raw, unsalted sunflower seeds and the birds love them. They land on my index fingers and eat from a prescription vial. If the vial is occupied, they sit on my hat and wait their turn! Having wild birds trust me like that is heartwarming.
Going through a bladder cancer treatment protocol leaves me experiencing post-treatment irritation for typically three days. The passage of catheters through the prostatic urethra is particularly irritating. This presentation has left me wondering if prostatic stimulation will ease, or only aggravate the irritation.
I love your videos, and this one really hit home. I was in my 20s when I came out and had my first gay experience. I had those “puppy love” moments heterosexually, and lived a straight lifestyle. I grew up assuming that straight was normal, and suppressed any feelings I had. Not sure I even understood the concept of gay at the time. In fact I was engaged twice in my late teens - early 20s. I abstained sexually “saving myself for marriage”. When I finally accepted myself and embraced my true self I realized in retrospect that I really knew as early as maybe 4th-5th grade. I feel in some ways I missed out on many years of experience, but I can’t help but wonder if it also protected me from certain heartache and negative bullying. After coming out, I spent several years dating before meeting my partner, whom I’ve been with for 10 years. I couldn’t be happier. Thank you both for your videos.
I give up, it seems when i hit the space bar my text vanishes. I will stop, just incase all previous attempts to write my questions are actually getting posted. I dont want to appear a pest. I shall try again if i find that previous texts to you guys actually get posted.
Loved your matter-of-fact presentation. However, I do think a closeup medical illustration of the areas involved would be of the greatest help ...especially for beginners. What's more, such a chart would allow you to more fully demonstrate things like the location of the perineum/taint, most comfortable and effective position/direction of the hand and toy or fingers to achieve the best results, for both partners. You might even throw in some suggestions on what the masseur might do with their free hand. Even at 80 years of age I haven't forgotten such beautiful intimacies of my youth. So, yes, do it ...but do it right. Pay close, loving attention to the "massagee", so the experience is less stressful and more enjoyable for both parttners! Please keep up these good, education-as-entertainment shows! Love you guys and hope you have a long, loving, happy, and successful future together! ❤👨🏼🎓👆🏼
Thank you for the professional education on the matter, it's a much requested topic that you don't often get to speak about with health professionals. Or you might resort to reddit, which can have good info, but sometimes it's hard to differentiate. I'm actually trying for an anal orgasm through prostate stimulation (without success thus far) so thank you for shedding some light on the topic and if you have more tips, please share them! :)
You'll get there. Just let yourself go when you're alone. Relax your prostate like when you're about to piss. Lube your index and middle fingers and continue with an in out motion all while you're stroking. You're gonna shoot to the ceiling. 💪🏽
Same here, pure luck and yes I did listen to this awesome interview, very informative and now, I want to change Doctor as Dr. Tyler knows his stuff and not afraid to inform us! :)
Does having a TURP procedure mean that this cannot be done anymore, and if it can, how long after the procedure should I wait before trying it out. In fact, how does one get intensity back after a TURP or is it lost forever?
speaking from experience. i've had two turps..... so no ejaculation..... but the pleasure is still there. maybe the best answer though, is to talk with your urologist.
I’ve gotten massager toys and tried fingers. Idk if mine is just too deep or what it is but I’ve barely ever felt it. I have felt it in the past while bottoming but it take a longer d I guess. Idk I’ve yet to figure out how to do it but I hit my partners spot everytime.
Hello Dr. Tyler, I am a 62-year-old gay man with a long-term relationship of 21 years. I can't ask all that I wish to because it is far from private or safe in the universe of UA-cam commentary! But I would like to know if you have a recommendation for therapeutic healing for someone who has had trauma and fear around sexuality. Any suggestions or thoughts would be so very much appreciated. Thank you!
I'm still a little unsure of where the prostate is. if I'm lying on my back insert finger/toy, is the prostate up (toward the ceiling) or down (toward the floor)? thanks
If you were on your back, towards ceiling. The prostate is sort of just inside, underneath your perineum (section between anus and testes) It does help if you relax, and explore. First couple of times, it felt OK, but the main thing was increased semem when I ejaculated. After that, the prostate stimulation, itself, felt amazing. Hope this helps.
Love this video. I bought a prostate massager. It’s remote control. I only used it a few times. My question is how many times a week should you do the massage? I don’t want to be a looseygoosey back there.
Considering I have come across your channel I would like to know more if you have a video explaining the process I would like to know. The process is being a top and ejaculating in under 5 seconds after penetration. How can I learn how to control myself in order to last longer?
You said something in this video that prompted a question. But it’s behavioral rather than physiological. You said that body language would indicate whether a partner was into stimulation. I am a silent all the time partner. Comments, fantasy expressions, etc., make me lose my interest, and subsequently, my erection. It’s woeful that my partner requires sex talk to stay into it. When I say require, that cannot be minimized. I have tried compromising to let him talk until I’m losing it, but then he loses it. Unfortunately, we no longer have penetrative sex, and we’re bummed. We’ve been together for 22 years, our sexual requirements got more and more divergent, and now we don’t have intercourse, which I consider the primary and best part of sex. Any suggestions?
@Nate-ht4se Hi guy, I wasn’t entirely clear in my post. I frequently make utterances, moans, grunts, etc., during sex. My difficulty is with sex talk. It distracts me as I find it beside the point, empty, ridiculous. Show me. Don’t tell me. Ironically, my partner hates non-verbal noises. Once again, he loses interest. We can’t find a way to meet in the middle. Trying to accept the other’s preferences or trying to refrain from talk/noise has proven to be disappointing. We can’t refrain as it’s primal behavior. That’s why I posted. My husband is my perfect match in most every other way. But we haven’t had sex, even mutual masturbation, in six years. That’s a good enough reason to write to the doctor. Finally, I have no trauma or former sex partner who set a template for my irritation with sex talk. As you can see from how I write too much, I am very verbal. But telling me I’m hot or my hole is tight is the fastest way to disinterest, aborting. I wish I could be like you because you represent the majority.
As is the grocery store: ah? In what aisle can I find the bottled water and the male "g-spot", please? Respecfully and Gratefully yours Gregg Oreo Long Beach CA États Unis
I did in fact not search this video, this video found me
@@SpaghettiDog86. ITS A SIGN YOU NEED A FINGER IN YOUR BUTT
😂😂😂
it knew your prostate was wanting rubbing
Same, but I'm not surprised.
Right after I whipped one out 😂😂😂 Siri nosey ass
why does it feel like they touched each other's bodies after the video
Oh I hope so
well i mean they are in a relationship…so
I wanted to see them demo this on each other so I do it right!!!
@@tomiharv- I had been thinking they might be ‘paired’! Thanks for confirming my suspicions.
@@mrock828- Ahem! This is oh-so-vanilla YT!
I've been having terrible prostate problems and I hope that massage and milking will help with my issues. I have a urologist and have verified that I don't have cancer. Thanks for your candid discussions.
LOL…….iam sorry bro….
Ahhh, Lava Lee gets her/his moment!
I love how Gabriel sits and grins as he asks questions we know darn well he already knows the answer to. Love watching you both, so upbeat, informative, and kind, especially to each other! I enjoy the no-drama zone!
Correct pronouns only, please ...Lava Lee prefers "Them" & "Their", thank you!😉
Gabriel grin cracks me up
He’s probably semi hard; that’s why his palms pressed on it
About 5 years ago I had Prostate cancer, and had 47 Radiation treatment; well I can say I beat it now no more prostate cancer anymore. But watching you and your friend, I've learned alot
I have had BPH for 25 years (from a young age) but don't have cancer and my urologist said the best thing I can do is to have an orgasm and it didn't matter if I took things into my own hands to do it. He had me go to PT at the practice for a long time and they taught me pelvic floor exercises that have helped.
Well your urologist is a freak
I’m glad my husband takes care of this procedure for me. 😂
thank you for being informative in a frank, neutral way.
Yeah thanks for the freaky useless information
I’ve never seen 2 guys smile so much, absolutely ❤️❤️❤️❤️them, very contagious 😁
You would be smiling like that too if they just rubbed your prostate
Probably smiling because they just got their prostate massaged
they live what they preach lol
You guys should demonstrate what you talk about.
Not good video only too much blah blah blah! Can you talk to the main topic and demonstrate how to massage prostate?
yeah...
It's not youtubeable
Great Presentation. As a physician myself, I try to teach this to some of my patients. Nice to see it here! Next time, I would recommend a visual aid,,,not sexual. Some of my patients don’t understand how to locate the prostate. Overall awesome job guys.
@medguy3232 I SO wish you were MY physician!! 😊😘🤗
Definitely a visual diagram would have helped
Young Gents (dr, D, and lava lee);
Todays topic is actualy timely,
I have been wondering about if my
prostate is good (Healthy). Yes Ignited
have a primary, and can discuss most
things, but that you bring it up is just for
me most auspicious. (note 63 here)
Thank you for what you gents do
Glenn
So ask and talk to your md
What is it they do ?
I'm heading over to your other videos to find milking the prostate. I've been dying to try it. I haven't been able to find a video to actually show how to do it. Even medically, I think there should be a video of how to milk the prostate. I appreciate this video. Just my 1 cent.
This video complements well another video of yours on the same topic. It picks up where a previous video left off just as some of your viewers suggested. Thank you for listening.
Good to hear two men talking about this sensitive topic about a sensitive part of the male anatomy. I learned about my prostate as a teenager when my doctor without warning pressed on my prostate and seamen came out. I thought it was pretty cool and still do. I recommend if you haven't experienced massaging the prostate to give it a try.
What point he pressed
My God, these two afre really well built which makes you want to watch this all the way to the end!
Thanks s lot for coming to the open and discussing all these topics which people kept it under wraps.
I learned that a non-vibrating toy with a strong curve, and long enough to play around with angles and rhythms is much more effective than a vibrating toy or just a finger regarding internal stimulation for me personally.
I got a motorized and angled wriggling toy that mimicked the thumb (was just longer and thicker than the average thumb) and it had optional vibrational and heat function. It worked great for a few days and then sadly ended up breaking🥲🥲…
So I came across a video on YT that suggested a steel, curved G/P-Spot stimulator wand that has two different sized ball ends for smooth and gentle running over the delicate surface of the prostate. I’m super excited to try it out!
I just bought one of these, have yet to use it.
I love your channel, it is one of my very favorites. I love watching how you treat each other with such respect. I love knowing you are a couple. And I love how you talk so frankly and at ease about everything. I do this with all my gay male friends, and am always surprised when I hear that some people don’t. I always say “we’re all guys, nothing is off the table”.
A demonstration of techniques using a model of some sort at least for the external massage. I’ve never felt like I had done any good with external massage.
I could show you how, I do it on myself really good all the time 😉
@@mrock828kindly find me,I can't locate it
@@mrock828I'm very curious,can U demonstrate to me plz
I don't know if I should mention this, I read an article several years ago that Gay Men as a whole have far lower rates of prostate cancer than their so called straight guys do. I will believe that because most gay men are receiving some type of prostate massage. I believe I read this article in "Men's Health". Please don't quote me on this it was a men's magazine.
I would still like for you to cover the topic of PSA levels for the prostate. Prostate massage also helps with this, I believe I am correct. I know that TRT is also a huge help as that boost your sex drive as well. An active prostate is a healthy prostate.
The article is correct, except It's not gay men with healthy prostates. It's men who have sex with men who have healthy prostates. I truly believe men with prostate problems aren't having any sex, stimulation, and/or aren't beating off enough (due to insecurity or embarrassment of beating their dicks as often as necessary).
With the category of men who have sex with men growing, I predict in 20 years, as many men won't have prostate problems.
What does TRT stand for?
Sounds like a hoax.
Lower rates of prostate cancer, way way way more STDs
I think the hot doctor needs to deemonstrate locating the prostate on Gabriel.
Inappropriate
@@Pjfonvisybau
@@Pjfonvi it's medical, how is it inappropriate!
@@mrock828 if u think the original comment that I replied to isn't inappropriate you are indeed the problem. Are u aware of what a "demonstration" would look like ?
@@Pjfonvi I do! That's why I want to see one! Are you offering to show me? 😉
I'm so glad you guys talk about this stuff!!!!! Keep doing it! It needs to get out there.
5:48 fun fact: pressing on this area during and after orgasm will allow you to reset and be ready for another round more quickly. The more you know 🌈
I am watching this from England and finding it very informative and helpful; thanks for telling me things about my own body that I did not know fully. Pity I had to wait until later in life to learn these things!
Gabrlel is dreamy!!
What a great, informative show! ☺️
Well done Boys - great topic
This would've been a great skit on the old TV show from the '90s called "In Living Color" with their "Men on...." series. Blain Edwards and Antwan Merriweather would've had a blast with this one!
Thank you both for normalizing, something that is unnecessarily made taboo!
I'm amazed that people can't find it. Once something is up there, you're likely to accidentally stimulate it lightly. And once that happens to me, it lets me know very clearly where it is and that it wants to be stimulated more.
I agree. But, despite trying with fingers, toys, and third-party assistance (cough, cough :)), no luck. Either I missed it or it's hiding. I am a bottom, which feels awesome, and feels that way for every foot inserted; maybe mine just hides until a prefered visitor arrives?
Thanks for helping men
Darn...I was hoping for a visual presentation..... 🤪
Me too!!😊
Ask VP candidate jd Vance if that is appropriate. Lol
you know where to find that and it’s not on youtube.
Would’ve saved us so much time.
@@jamesbrodhagen5020 why would Vance care what you do in private? Beware the propaganda dude.
I love this show so relatable
I love you guys, your very smart, this awareness ir really great and helpful, the drs dont tell you any, of this, thank you very much, i am starting to rty this now and I find it works for my enlarged prostate, but it must be done often, i find,, I just need a better toy... recomendation,?
*Excellent video!*
Why is Prostate Massage not legal in one's DR's office or Urologist's office?
Please advise.
Sounds like something that could easily be done for sexual favors instead of medicinal soothing.
@@thebrettster6231
They used to do it in the 1990s but stopped.
A DR who I knew socially, he referred me to a DR outside the city- in an affluent $$$ town, for prostate massage.
I love the sound they make with their hands at the end.
I’m not a nut consumer so have no clue what walnut size means. Anatomical models are available for our bits and pieces so I’m wondering if they exist for the prostate. If not, can a modeling clay replica be created for your presentations?
Keep in mind they are referring to whole walnuts, shell included. If you're in a typical grocery store, you would likely only find walnut halves or crushed with no shell. Better is go to a health food store, the bulk section, and they should have whole walnuts. But basically, a bit smaller than a golf ball. Good luck!
I don’t know why I’m so shocked that someone hasn’t seen a walnut. It’s possible 😅
@@JJ-in3bc- Thank you. I have a Bulk Barn within walking distance so I will check it out.
@yogiperogy fantastic! Bulk sections... dehydrated cherries are amazing! And chocolate covered almonds are terrific too! Do you have any favorites?
@@JJ-in3bc - Yes I do! I’m too fond of maraschino cherries in syrup for my own good but indulge occasionally. I hand feed chickadees and nuthatches so I buy raw, unsalted sunflower seeds and the birds love them. They land on my index fingers and eat from a prescription vial. If the vial is occupied, they sit on my hat and wait their turn! Having wild birds trust me like that is heartwarming.
Im a visual learner imma need a demonstration
Great video, was laughing at the very end 12:26
Excellent vid, important topic - thanks, guys!!
Going through a bladder cancer treatment protocol leaves me experiencing post-treatment irritation for typically three days. The passage of catheters through the prostatic urethra is particularly irritating. This presentation has left me wondering if prostatic stimulation will ease, or only aggravate the irritation.
Don't do it with catheters in, it's meant to be pleasurable.
Fantastic presentation.. I enjoy all these things
I SCREAM WHEN I HAVE MY PROSTATE IS RUBBED! FEELS INCREDIBLE
Definitely
Okay
@@xavierminchello8431 Rubbed?
You scream? Are you a ladyboy?
Omg?
I love your videos, and this one really hit home. I was in my 20s when I came out and had my first gay experience. I had those “puppy love” moments heterosexually, and lived a straight lifestyle. I grew up assuming that straight was normal, and suppressed any feelings I had. Not sure I even understood the concept of gay at the time. In fact I was engaged twice in my late teens - early 20s. I abstained sexually “saving myself for marriage”. When I finally accepted myself and embraced my true self I realized in retrospect that I really knew as early as maybe 4th-5th grade. I feel in some ways I missed out on many years of experience, but I can’t help but wonder if it also protected me from certain heartache and negative bullying. After coming out, I spent several years dating before meeting my partner, whom I’ve been with for 10 years. I couldn’t be happier. Thank you both for your videos.
Haha, guess I typed so much my comment went to the next video. In response to: Young, Gay and Learning Love Late
Wait... if there's negative bullying, is there also positive bullying? Isn't bullying always bad? Anyways, glad you found yourself 😁
So Is your prostate rocked daily now?
@@joshisailer9521 just like there is far too much toxic positivity!
@@KEITHMCROBERTS-i7cstraight is by definition normal because it furthers humanity, anything else is abnormal
now, time to go and try it
can the guy who tried to top me tonight watch this please before he ruins someone else's night
Do you not like being topped? Or did he drill too hard?
@@mrock828 He mis-drilled.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
A rough top guy someone should make him a bottom guy give it to him rough show him how it feels fo rough it up
Lol
I give up, it seems when i hit the space bar my text vanishes. I will stop, just incase all previous attempts to write my questions are actually getting posted. I dont want to appear a pest. I shall try again if i find that previous texts to you guys actually get posted.
What about giving a massage to my prostate, when I already have little stones in there. The stones are from an inflammation years ago. Should I try?
Go ahead. Not only is it safe, but you can have the greatest joy added to your life.
lvoe how you are so professional and the content is amazing
Can you do a video on varicocele?
DR please give us visual presentation please :D
can you please show visual demonstrations too so that we can understand better
Never had this experience wow😮
Loved your matter-of-fact presentation. However, I do think a closeup medical illustration of the areas involved would be of the greatest help ...especially for beginners. What's more, such a chart would allow you to more fully demonstrate things like the location of the perineum/taint, most comfortable and effective position/direction of the hand and toy or fingers to achieve the best results, for both partners. You might even throw in some suggestions on what the masseur might do with their free hand. Even at 80 years of age I haven't forgotten such beautiful intimacies of my youth. So, yes, do it ...but do it right. Pay close, loving attention to the "massagee", so the experience is less stressful and more enjoyable for both parttners! Please keep up these good, education-as-entertainment shows! Love you guys and hope you have a long, loving, happy, and successful future together! ❤👨🏼🎓👆🏼
THANK YOU DOCTOR
Thank you for the professional education on the matter, it's a much requested topic that you don't often get to speak about with health professionals. Or you might resort to reddit, which can have good info, but sometimes it's hard to differentiate. I'm actually trying for an anal orgasm through prostate stimulation (without success thus far) so thank you for shedding some light on the topic and if you have more tips, please share them! :)
You'll get there. Just let yourself go when you're alone. Relax your prostate like when you're about to piss. Lube your index and middle fingers and continue with an in out motion all while you're stroking. You're gonna shoot to the ceiling. 💪🏽
I want a HendRx hat. How to get one?
After viewing this video, no more saying "I can't put my finger on it" as an excuse as to why greater pleasure can't be achieved.
This was really interesting, thank you!
Needed the guy in green to drop trough and show us.
Same here, pure luck and yes I did listen to this awesome interview, very informative and now, I want to change Doctor as Dr. Tyler knows his stuff and not afraid to inform us! :)
I love you guys! This is amazing❤
The reason why I watched this podcast is coz I thought there will be a demonstration from the host and guest.
Does having a TURP procedure mean that this cannot be done anymore, and if it can, how long after the procedure should I wait before trying it out. In fact, how does one get intensity back after a TURP or is it lost forever?
speaking from experience. i've had two turps..... so no ejaculation..... but the pleasure is still there. maybe the best answer though, is to talk with your urologist.
God, I love Gabriel. Love, love, love.❤❤❤
Thanks. Very helpful.❤
They love each other 👍
Is it dangerous to massage an enlarged prostate?
If you damaged your prostate by incorrectly using a prostate massager, are doctors able to repair it and bring it back to normal?
Hi when will you guys talk about veins in the arms hand leg and feet.
Gabriel seems to really enjoy asking questions. It is really creepy how he smiles and I fully expect him to laugh maniacally at the end.
Thanks guys, very informative. Never heard of external stimulation before, no wonder it's nice to rub there 😊.
Next idea for discussion: Is it safe to use Poppers?
Poppers kill brain cells.
I’ve gotten massager toys and tried fingers. Idk if mine is just too deep or what it is but I’ve barely ever felt it. I have felt it in the past while bottoming but it take a longer d I guess. Idk I’ve yet to figure out how to do it but I hit my partners spot everytime.
I have klinefelter's syndrome how does this effect me, I've tried toys and I don't get any extra joy 5pm CT
Hello Dr. Tyler,
I am a 62-year-old gay man with a long-term relationship of 21 years.
I can't ask all that I wish to because it is far from private or safe in the universe of UA-cam commentary! But I would like to know if you have a recommendation for therapeutic healing for someone who has had trauma and fear around sexuality. Any suggestions or thoughts would be so very much appreciated.
Thank you!
Demo please
I'm a bigger guy and have flexibility issues. What's your recommendation to stimulate my prostate?
Have you tried a vibrator? They feel amazing and can give hands free orgasms.
Grindr
@@LeeArmitage2002 LOL!
@@LeeArmitage2002😂
Thank you
Ohhh this is interesting thanks for sharing ❤️🌎
Hahah love 😂 but I think we need a drawing pg of course of where these Anatomy things are!!! 😂
Excellent presentation 🙋♂️👍⭐️🌈💙🏳️🌈
The awkward silence at the end.😂
I'm still a little unsure of where the prostate is. if I'm lying on my back insert finger/toy, is the prostate up (toward the ceiling) or down (toward the floor)? thanks
towards the ceiling. It's on the front side of your anal wall.
Exactly my question. I feel dumb asking because seems like everyone knows.
If you were on your back, towards ceiling. The prostate is sort of just inside, underneath your perineum (section between anus and testes) It does help if you relax, and explore. First couple of times, it felt OK, but the main thing was increased semem when I ejaculated. After that, the prostate stimulation, itself, felt amazing. Hope this helps.
if you're going into the rectum and you're on your back ..... it is upwards. good luck! maybe get a 'map' (lol) of where you want to go!
@@gubermas10up towards the ceiling
Dr. T. are you accepting new patients?
MY OrganismS ARE EXHAUSTING WHEN MY PROSTATE IS RUBBED … INFACT I SCREAM! 😮
I think they did practice that after the video😍🫠
Love this video. I bought a prostate massager. It’s remote control. I only used it a few times. My question is how many times a week should you do the massage? I don’t want to be a looseygoosey back there.
Twice a day or more. Never even think about going too loose -- it does not happen. And any stretch is very soon shut closed again. HAVE FUN!
Considering I have come across your channel I would like to know more if you have a video explaining the process I would like to know. The process is being a top and ejaculating in under 5 seconds after penetration. How can I learn how to control myself in order to last longer?
They are an adorable couple that I hope stay together forever.
This is needed information. Education is elevation..😂
They’re such a cute couple❤❤❤
You said something in this video that prompted a question. But it’s behavioral rather than physiological. You said that body language would indicate whether a partner was into stimulation. I am a silent all the time partner. Comments, fantasy expressions, etc., make me lose my interest, and subsequently, my erection. It’s woeful that my partner requires sex talk to stay into it. When I say require, that cannot be minimized. I have tried compromising to let him talk until I’m losing it, but then he loses it. Unfortunately, we no longer have penetrative sex, and we’re bummed. We’ve been together for 22 years, our sexual requirements got more and more divergent, and now we don’t have intercourse, which I consider the primary and best part of sex.
Any suggestions?
@Nate-ht4se Hi guy,
I wasn’t entirely clear in my post. I frequently make utterances, moans, grunts, etc., during sex. My difficulty is with sex talk. It distracts me as I find it beside the point, empty, ridiculous. Show me. Don’t tell me.
Ironically, my partner hates non-verbal noises. Once again, he loses interest. We can’t find a way to meet in the middle. Trying to accept the other’s preferences or trying to refrain from talk/noise has proven to be disappointing. We can’t refrain as it’s primal behavior. That’s why I posted.
My husband is my perfect match in most every other way. But we haven’t had sex, even mutual masturbation, in six years. That’s a good enough reason to write to the doctor.
Finally, I have no trauma or former sex partner who set a template for my irritation with sex talk. As you can see from how I write too much, I am very verbal. But telling me I’m hot or my hole is tight is the fastest way to disinterest, aborting. I wish I could be like you because you represent the majority.
I'm exactly like you..
I get distracted and lose my erection. I need to focus on the sensations so they continue.
Damn they could show us, OF link?
Sad there was no practical demonstration
Little demonstration wouldnt hurt 😊 afterall some us learn by observing 😂
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I need a private lesson please :)
can you shrink your prostate ?????