I went to law school but never felt smart enough or good enough to actually practice law. Fast forward 20 years, yes 20 and I finally built up enough confidence to take the Bar Exam. I may never practice law, or pass the Bar Exam, but I don’t want to leave this planet never having even tried.
Wow! It takes real courage to confront those doubts and fears, and the fact that you're going for it speaks volumes about your resilience and determination. Remember, it's not just about the outcome-passing or practicing law-it’s about reclaiming your confidence and proving to yourself that you can face this challenge head-on. No matter what happens, you’re already succeeding by not letting those old doubts hold you back. You’ve got this and I'm so proud of you. Make sure to come back after you take it and let us know how it went. We are all rooting for you!
When I was a teenager I studied how men sailed through life like they owned the world. Even though I'm a shy introvert I developed an outgoing personality and started going about things the way men did. I just acted like I assumed I belonged and deserved everything. And it works. Think of all the totally incompetent people you know who are doing things they have no business doing! They don't even seem to know they're incompetent!
I once watched a programme about an acting school that taught female students how to cross dress and pass as men. The instruction of the teacher that stuck to my mind ever since: "Walk like you own the ground beneath your feet, and all your surroundings". It's almost comical - if you watch men walking, that's exactly how they do it :D
I just heard President Obama speak on this using different terms on the Pivot "Do not let people think that you do not belong." Glad this came up in my feed because we started discussing this in the home earlier. 👑
K, I’m 70 now. I spent my 30s and 40s following guidelines very similar to those that you outline in this video. You are 100% on target with your program of personal development. A person can get anywhere they want by following a path of self regard and development. You go, girl!
When I finally left my self imposed prison and boundaries, I saw life differently. Sometimes I still get into a rut, but I instantly remind myself that I don’t have to stay there.
That’s such a beautiful and empowering insight! It’s normal to have moments where you fall back into old patterns, but the important thing is you’ve developed the awareness and strength to pull yourself out. That ability to remind yourself you’re not stuck is a game-changer!
My pinterest is my vision board. I get extremely happy when I browse through what I have saved. When I see the things that I have acquired that I had pinned without any idea how they would come about, I feel very grateful.
“When you keep your dreams small, you’re only ever going to achieve small things ll- things that require NO steps of faith” Necessary reminder 🔥❤️ 7:27
Great topic Many years ago I lost my home and contents to a fire. Although very traumatic I learned valuable things. First gratitude know one was physically harmed . Years later I live minimally I purchase what I loved but I use and enjoy everything and it has a purpose. I also changed my mindset instead of saying I have to I say I get to because living life is a privilege . ❤️
Girl, the posture thing is something I caught myself doing yesterday. I definitely speak and think highly of myself. Ive noticed it brings beautiful affirmations from ppl towards me. I love incorporating the bible into our affirmations. It’s important to stay positive, after losing my mom and son. It’s God how Im able to carryon without a grudge and can move as if I didn’t experience these losses. God Bless 🙏🏽
Throw away stuff that is not serving you. So helpful. Immediately thought of shirts been sitting in my drawers unworn for 2 summers. Interested in how you find role models to look for inspiration on how to change mindset.
Your comment made me laugh because the first thing that popped into my mind was the deadweight husband that I have been allowing to drag me down for far too long! He doesn’t even realize that I have disconnected and have one foot out the door!😂
I so appreciate this content, particularly because it comes from a Christian perspective, where we are called to contentment. This vid reminded me of when Paul said, "I know how to be abased and I know how to abound." But it is so true that many of us DO NOT know how to abound, including me, apparently. ❤ Thank you, Kristi.
I’m so glad you found the content meaningful! That perspective from Paul is such a powerful reminder of the importance of finding contentment in every situation. It can be challenging to navigate abundance while staying grounded, especially in a world that often equates success with accumulation. Embracing a mindset of gratitude and balance can really help us appreciate what we have, rather than getting lost in what we feel we need. Thank you for sharing!!!
The "Light-er and Free-er" part is true. Recently cleared and re-arranged my small home work desk, the tabletop hadn't been seen in ages. I used a big plastic bin, put everything into the bin and then put things back that belonged on the desk, and when finished, it was a beautiful sight, but what struck me is the peace my brain felt. suddenly looking at that clear space it was like my brain breathed. I kept glancing at it because it made me so surprisingly happy.
You're mastering the possibilities now, when you look at your desk. You cannnot WAIT to get to work! This is what it takes to create peace & be disciplined and productive: Order. 💡
Good video, Kristi! These are great actionable steps. On the getting rid of stuff front, I found the whole concept of not saving things for my fantasy self anymore really helpful. I don’t need clubbing outfits when I’m usually in bed by 9pm. Sometimes, privilege can just be giving more room to who you are now- in my case, an early bird, instead of a night owl. 😄
This was a WONDERFUL VIDEO THAT, HAS FOUND ME. ❤ THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for creating this video. Yesterday I prayed and cried and told God I was stuck on a hamster wheel in a lifestyle that I don't desire and asked for help and answers..... And today Boom, this video finds me!
Oh wow!!! It’s amazing how things show up at exactly the right time when we need them the most! God heard you. When we feel stuck, moments like this remind us that change is possible, but we gotta take some action. I’m so glad the video resonated with you. Keep going, you can do it ❤✨
I love this! I'll be sharing with my 11 year old daughter. She will really benefit from some of these points and sometimes it's easier to absorb coming from someone other than your mom :-) Thank you for making these videos PG so kids can watch too.
OMG, I feel so honored!!! It means a lot that you’ll be sharing this with your daughter. I have young nieces who watch and it's important that to me that my content is kid-friendly. I hope she finds it inspiring and helpful! Thank you for your support.
Needed to hear this today, thank you. This week I found out there is a job promotion opprotunity on my team that would be great for me, and a LOT more $$. Because I so often think negatively--I immediately thought if I apply and don't get it due to politics (I know I'm qualified), I will be mad af LOL. But listening to you makes me realize I need to step out and apply anyway, and if I don't get the desired outcome I should use dialectical thinking. If they offer the job to someone else, that is not a judgement of my capabilities.
You're so welcome!!! It’s completely natural to feel nervous. But you’re right-applying for the promotion is a step of faith worth taking, regardless of the outcome. Remember, every experience helps you grow and adds to your journey. And using dialectical thinking is a fantastic way to shift your perspective! Just by putting yourself out there, you’re showing resilience and courage.
What a gem 💎 you dropped when you said "Fear & holding on is not compatible with getting to more" 🙌🏾 Overall this was a great video please make a part 2!
Ma'am, I needed this. Especially saving things for later, when later comes too late or not at all. And letting go of stuff. I was suppose to declutter these past few days. Procrastinated instead. Googling right now was part of putting it off yet again and came across your video. You spoke truth. Thanks.
Procrastination can sneak up on all of us, especially when it comes to decluttering or letting go of things. Don't be hard on yourself-sometimes we just need that extra push to get moving. I do have to know though, after the video did you start decluttering?!?!
I usually rewatch your videos when i need to get more into a positive mindset, but today, i had to watch this one back to back. #greatinspirationalvideo
Nice Video! The title caught my eye. I do live this life. I remind myself constantly to stand up straight. I expected a privileged life and got it. I wasn’t born into it - took a lot of hard work. But again - this is what I expected my life to be. Good advice. And a good reminder to anyone. I’m going to get rid of some piles today! Thank you.
This is good advice. I would also add, as you obtain/acheive your dreams, remember where you came from, your own struggles. Have compassion for others. Kindness, empathy, and generosity to others is the true mark of success as a human being.
We cannot control whether we get ptsd bc of a tragic accident or a tragedy of something else. But I learned through my CPTSD that eventually I can’t just blame my triggers for my reactions. It is vital for every generation to take ownership and full responsibility for the healing that it REQUIRES for full restoration. Whatever race. Mindset over matter is powerful. Grew up poor? Okay work through it at some point bc the world won’t care if u do not 😢sad but let’s not waste time and energy waiting on people. God will help w the Holy Spirit along w/urgency and mindset it is everything and all you need❤hallelujah
Thank you for sharing this powerful message. It’s true that healing is a personal journey, and while we can’t always control what happens to us, we can take ownership of how we move forward. Your words about mindset and the urgency to heal resonate deeply-God’s strength, combined with our determination, can truly guide us toward restoration. 🙏❤️
I hadn’t realized I watched any of your videos before but when I clicked on your page and then I realized I had about decluttering. I’m now a subscriber. Thank you. 😊
I definitely needed to see this video. It was on my feed. Thank you for making this video and showing how positive self-talk and self care are extremely important. Part 2, please.
I've been reading on this topic for over 20 years. I have to say, you gave some very real, very practical ways to change my thoughts/habits for the better. Thank you VERY much!
Hey sis I love your style of explaining this!!! It’s like basically teaching in confidence building but in really practical steps. Gonna binge watch your videos and subscribe! ❤
As a privileged person, I find this very interesting. My number one tip for fitting in would be grooming. Less is more. You can spot someone who doesn't "belong" just by something as simple as fingernails. Mute colors and short 👌.
My introvert self is horrified at the idea of going shopping w/ no intent to buy because I am NOT interested in having sales people talk *at* me. That said. I agree w/ EVERYTHING else! On the last point of Throw it away, I would add: don't add anything new or extra unless it add real value (to your balance, health, quality of life, goals, etc). This as helped to keep me in actual abundance and re-enforces the "I live in abundance" mindset. If you surround your self with people, activities, or things that add real value to your self and sense of being, its hard to not feel like you live in abundance.
Lol! I totally get it-shopping with no intent to buy sounds like a social horror movie for introverts! But it really isn't that bad and def helps to grow those skills- it has for me, at least. Surrounding yourself with value is the ultimate life hack-less stress, more joy! Very well said!
A few weeks ago I lost a job opportunity that would definitely make my life very comfortable..... All because of self sabotage, inspired by believing I don't deserve that role. Mark you, I was qualifying, but I lied purposefully to be disqualified, because I told myself that it is too great of an opportunity for me to deserve 😢. I swear the devil is a lier. God forbid 🙏🏾
I like to make a vision board on Canva and use it as my phone wallpaper. If you're like me you always have your phone near you anyway, might as well look at the life you will live while you're on it.
My tip: Don’t believe everything you think or feel. Your thoughts and feelings are valid, but they don’t define who you are. Especially don’t believe what any one else says about you! That means family, too (I should say foremost because we tend to give their thoughts a lot more weight). Write down what you honest want, ask why you want them, then stop thinking and do it! ❤
Such a powerful reminder! It’s true-our thoughts and feelings can often be loud, but they don’t have to dictate our reality. Writing down what you genuinely want and taking action is such a great way to cut through the noise and stay true to yourself. And yes, giving less weight to others’ opinions, even from family, can be so freeing. Thank you for sharing this wisdom!
Great Job! Am new to your channel and one of the things I liked was that it was short 13 min. I will pass on long videos or only listen to a few min. You have really good content!!
Thank you for the kind words! I'm glad you appreciate the shorter videos; I can have a pretty short attention span at times, so I aim to deliver valuable content in a concise way. Welcome to the channel! 😊✨
I came to tell you that I love your titles because they aren't the same as everyone else's. But I've ben needing improve my posture. I've carried around so much sadness and stress for years. Thanks for this message lady!
Aww, thank you so much! I’d love to know what catches your attention with them!!! It’s time for you to start releasing that sadness and enjoying life. You gotta figure out what that looks like for you, but you deserve to be at peace and free 🫶🏽
What wonderful content! Thanks for the reminder! When you have lived a "privileged " life and hit a slump, it helps to be run across some encouragement. Privileged people also never use the word "bourgeoisie." (Though, you will hear it pronounced "boujee". It's just a way of life.
Do you have children? I always see these influencers selling the dream and I wonder if they have children because I feel like my life is controlled by my family
I do not have children and can’t speak to your specific situation. I’m also careful not to compare the “struggles” or difficulties that ppl have going on in their lives. I will say that I have friends who do have children and who have implemented these principles to make time for themselves and their dreams, and see their families as part of that dream life. 😘
@@kristidoingthings Thank you for responding. I’m trying to crack the code of not feeling like I have to everything for everyone and not having enough left over for myself. Then when I do something for myself I feel mom guilt. I guess there are layers to my situation that I have to work through. I’ll get it together one day. Hopefully it will be soon.
@@devenamoore3501yes that's very relatable...mom of twin boys & girl it took a few years for me to realize that I must take care of me first , I force myself to make the first hour for me alone while I have the energy
@@devenamoore3501I can definitely relate. I had to stop keeping my dream small as she stated at the 7:30 timeframe mark. Once I stopped doing that I was able to focus on myself as well. As long as us parents place ourselves last there will always be a billion needs from our family that places our dream on her back burner. I opened an account and placed the title of that specific account under the name only me. 😂 Nothing in that account is to be shared. If I can't place a little on the side out of every check for myself that is a huge problem. So far it's been a year and it has worked. So I'm happy to see someone say it on UA-cam. Excellent video.
@@devenamoore3501I have children my friend! Mom guilt is very real but it’s also just a mindset that keeps us hostage. You can’t pour from an empty cup, it’s not selfish to prioritize yourself at different stages of your life. Hope that helps you feel a little less guilt.♥️
Whatever people have to say, it really can be done in a short time, 10 to 15 min. The rest of info can be a second video, and that is one secret to keeping viewers, have them wait for another video!
Here's the part 2 😘: ua-cam.com/video/hBSijSUlcQA/v-deo.htmlsi=R81IGhql6iKMyBl2
I went to law school but never felt smart enough or good enough to actually practice law. Fast forward 20 years, yes 20 and I finally built up enough confidence to take the Bar Exam. I may never practice law, or pass the Bar Exam, but I don’t want to leave this planet never having even tried.
You got this! If you can go to law school you can pass that Bar exam. Believe in yourself.
Wow! It takes real courage to confront those doubts and fears, and the fact that you're going for it speaks volumes about your resilience and determination. Remember, it's not just about the outcome-passing or practicing law-it’s about reclaiming your confidence and proving to yourself that you can face this challenge head-on. No matter what happens, you’re already succeeding by not letting those old doubts hold you back. You’ve got this and I'm so proud of you. Make sure to come back after you take it and let us know how it went. We are all rooting for you!
@@kristidoingthings You will never know how much your words mean to me. Thank you and bless you.
Go for it!!!!❤
Congratulations!
When I was a teenager I studied how men sailed through life like they owned the world. Even though I'm a shy introvert I developed an outgoing personality and started going about things the way men did. I just acted like I assumed I belonged and deserved everything. And it works. Think of all the totally incompetent people you know who are doing things they have no business doing! They don't even seem to know they're incompetent!
Love this!!! 🤣
I love this too! Bravo!! 😃👏❤️👑
I once watched a programme about an acting school that taught female students how to cross dress and pass as men. The instruction of the teacher that stuck to my mind ever since: "Walk like you own the ground beneath your feet, and all your surroundings". It's almost comical - if you watch men walking, that's exactly how they do it :D
@@Claudia-vn3fb This is what I try to teach my ultra shy daughter.
I just heard President Obama speak on this using different terms on the Pivot "Do not let people think that you do not belong." Glad this came up in my feed because we started discussing this in the home earlier. 👑
K, I’m 70 now. I spent my 30s and 40s following guidelines very similar to those that you outline in this video. You are 100% on target with your program of personal development. A person can get anywhere they want by following a path of self regard and development. You go, girl!
❤️❤️❤️
You look privileged! You really have 'that look.' I would never believe you have ever struggled if you hadn't said so
I know the look you speak of and she indeed has that look.
Oh my goodness, thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words! I definitely went through some difficult and painful things, but God!!!
Yes she looks well groomed & speaks in a smart way, her advice is achievable for me with limited $ to reinvent myself
Having the vision and then take the right steps. And getting around people that are where you want to be. Is key! And its working for me😊
Yes!!! 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
Same! Yes! True! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Love this!! ❤
I agree! When it comes to posture, a good posture also makes up appear confident. I even practice posture when I’m at home to make it a habit.
When I finally left my self imposed prison and boundaries, I saw life differently. Sometimes I still get into a rut, but I instantly remind myself that I don’t have to stay there.
That’s such a beautiful and empowering insight! It’s normal to have moments where you fall back into old patterns, but the important thing is you’ve developed the awareness and strength to pull yourself out. That ability to remind yourself you’re not stuck is a game-changer!
My pinterest is my vision board. I get extremely happy when I browse through what I have saved. When I see the things that I have acquired that I had pinned without any idea how they would come about, I feel very grateful.
Oh! Great tip! A vision board on Pinterest! Love it!
Love this!!!! ❤️
“When you keep your dreams small, you’re only ever going to achieve small things ll- things that require NO steps of faith”
Necessary reminder 🔥❤️
7:27
Great topic Many years ago I lost my home and contents to a fire. Although very traumatic I learned valuable things. First gratitude know one was physically harmed . Years later I live minimally I purchase what I loved but I use and enjoy everything and it has a purpose. I also changed my mindset instead of saying I have to I say I get to because living life is a privilege . ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing!!! Absolutely love this! 🫶🏽
Girl, the posture thing is something I caught myself doing yesterday. I definitely speak and think highly of myself. Ive noticed it brings beautiful affirmations from ppl towards me. I love incorporating the bible into our affirmations. It’s important to stay positive, after losing my mom and son. It’s God how Im able to carryon without a grudge and can move as if I didn’t experience these losses. God Bless 🙏🏽
I’m so sorry for your losses! It’s crazy how much strength God gives us when we lean on Him even in the dark moments ❤️
Throw away stuff that is not serving you. So helpful. Immediately thought of shirts been sitting in my drawers unworn for 2 summers. Interested in how you find role models to look for inspiration on how to change mindset.
Your comment made me laugh because the first thing that popped into my mind was the deadweight husband that I have been allowing to drag me down for far too long! He doesn’t even realize that I have disconnected and have one foot out the door!😂
I so appreciate this content, particularly because it comes from a Christian perspective, where we are called to contentment. This vid reminded me of when Paul said, "I know how to be abased and I know how to abound." But it is so true that many of us DO NOT know how to abound, including me, apparently. ❤ Thank you, Kristi.
I’m so glad you found the content meaningful! That perspective from Paul is such a powerful reminder of the importance of finding contentment in every situation. It can be challenging to navigate abundance while staying grounded, especially in a world that often equates success with accumulation. Embracing a mindset of gratitude and balance can really help us appreciate what we have, rather than getting lost in what we feel we need. Thank you for sharing!!!
The "Light-er and Free-er" part is true.
Recently cleared and re-arranged my small home work desk, the tabletop hadn't been seen in ages. I used a big plastic bin, put everything into the bin and then put things back that belonged on the desk, and when finished, it was a beautiful sight, but what struck me is the peace my brain felt. suddenly looking at that clear space it was like my brain breathed. I kept glancing at it because it made me so surprisingly happy.
You're mastering the possibilities now, when you look at your desk. You cannnot WAIT to get to work! This is what it takes to create peace & be disciplined and productive: Order. 💡
Good video, Kristi! These are great actionable steps. On the getting rid of stuff front, I found the whole concept of not saving things for my fantasy self anymore really helpful. I don’t need clubbing outfits when I’m usually in bed by 9pm. Sometimes, privilege can just be giving more room to who you are now- in my case, an early bird, instead of a night owl. 😄
Ooh, I like this! Owning who we *actually* are and letting go of that fantasy self (that we’re not even working toward) takes so much courage!
I LIVE like this and its a game changer
Right?!?!
I really needed this. I’m burned out.
Hang in there, hon!
I can do it. I am capable of having this. I belong and I do not make excuses ❤ total bliss🙏🏾 🙈 see yourself before it happens 🥰
This was a WONDERFUL VIDEO THAT, HAS FOUND ME. ❤ THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for creating this video. Yesterday I prayed and cried and told God I was stuck on a hamster wheel in a lifestyle that I don't desire and asked for help and answers..... And today Boom, this video finds me!
Oh wow!!! It’s amazing how things show up at exactly the right time when we need them the most! God heard you. When we feel stuck, moments like this remind us that change is possible, but we gotta take some action. I’m so glad the video resonated with you. Keep going, you can do it ❤✨
I love this! I'll be sharing with my 11 year old daughter. She will really benefit from some of these points and sometimes it's easier to absorb coming from someone other than your mom :-) Thank you for making these videos PG so kids can watch too.
OMG, I feel so honored!!! It means a lot that you’ll be sharing this with your daughter. I have young nieces who watch and it's important that to me that my content is kid-friendly. I hope she finds it inspiring and helpful! Thank you for your support.
Needed to hear this today, thank you.
This week I found out there is a job promotion opprotunity on my team that would be great for me, and a LOT more $$. Because I so often think negatively--I immediately thought if I apply and don't get it due to politics (I know I'm qualified), I will be mad af LOL. But listening to you makes me realize I need to step out and apply anyway, and if I don't get the desired outcome I should use dialectical thinking. If they offer the job to someone else, that is not a judgement of my capabilities.
You're so welcome!!! It’s completely natural to feel nervous. But you’re right-applying for the promotion is a step of faith worth taking, regardless of the outcome. Remember, every experience helps you grow and adds to your journey. And using dialectical thinking is a fantastic way to shift your perspective! Just by putting yourself out there, you’re showing resilience and courage.
Immediately I knew from the title I wanted to get unstuck and live happily like others Yes 🙌🏾 thankfully you shared what is possible ‼️🥰
Aww, you got this hon!!! It’s your time!
What a gem 💎 you dropped when you said "Fear & holding on is not compatible with getting to more" 🙌🏾 Overall this was a great video please make a part 2!
So glad that you enjoyed!!! Linking part 2 for you here: ua-cam.com/video/hBSijSUlcQA/v-deo.htmlsi=RspLemnsZQ29xLV8
I really like that idea of apologizing to myself. Thank you for that.
Ah, so glad it resonated!
Ma'am, I needed this. Especially saving things for later, when later comes too late or not at all. And letting go of stuff. I was suppose to declutter these past few days. Procrastinated instead. Googling right now was part of putting it off yet again and came across your video. You spoke truth. Thanks.
Procrastination can sneak up on all of us, especially when it comes to decluttering or letting go of things. Don't be hard on yourself-sometimes we just need that extra push to get moving. I do have to know though, after the video did you start decluttering?!?!
I usually rewatch your videos when i need to get more into a positive mindset, but today, i had to watch this one back to back. #greatinspirationalvideo
🥹 Oh wow!!! I'm so so glad that it was encouraging!
Kristi, you are sunny, articulate and succinct. Tuning in was a pleasure! Very professionally done video. 👍🏾
Aww, thanks so much!
Nice Video! The title caught my eye. I do live this life. I remind myself constantly to stand up straight. I expected a privileged life and got it. I wasn’t born into it - took a lot of hard work. But again - this is what I expected my life to be. Good advice. And a good reminder to anyone. I’m going to get rid of some piles today! Thank you.
This is awesome!! Thanks so much for sharing. 💜
This is good advice. I would also add, as you obtain/acheive your dreams, remember where you came from, your own struggles. Have compassion for others. Kindness, empathy, and generosity to others is the true mark of success as a human being.
Yes, love this!!! ❤️
Finally actionable advice on how to act as if....❤
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Love this! I’ve been saying this to my clients! It’s all about believing and changing your mindset 💜
Yup!
I appreciate you putting in the work and then sharing what has worked with us. Speaking from lived experiences makes it all the more trustworthy.
Aww, thank you so much!!! 😊 Experience is a great teacher.
This video is not only well thought out and presented in a clear, concise way but also helpful and encouraging.
Thank you so much!!! 🫶🏽
I needed this as a reminder. I’ve adopted a “woe is me,” feeling sorry for myself mentality. I have to STAND UP! Thank you for this.
You got this!
We cannot control whether we get ptsd bc of a tragic accident or a tragedy of something else. But I learned through my CPTSD that eventually I can’t just blame my triggers for my reactions.
It is vital for every generation to take ownership and full responsibility for the healing that it REQUIRES for full restoration. Whatever race. Mindset over matter is powerful. Grew up poor? Okay work through it at some point bc the world won’t care if u do not 😢sad but let’s not waste time and energy waiting on people. God will help w the Holy Spirit along w/urgency and mindset it is everything and all you need❤hallelujah
Thank you for sharing this powerful message. It’s true that healing is a personal journey, and while we can’t always control what happens to us, we can take ownership of how we move forward. Your words about mindset and the urgency to heal resonate deeply-God’s strength, combined with our determination, can truly guide us toward restoration. 🙏❤️
Part 2 please love your delivery really resonates
Just put it out today!!! 😉 So glad it’s helping!
I needed this right now. I need to get back to me.
Thank you!
You’re so welcome 🫶🏽
I like this perspective shift and appreciate your tips! Thank you for this. I’ll be glad to see a part two :-)
So glad you enjoyed! Here's the part 2 😉 ua-cam.com/video/hBSijSUlcQA/v-deo.htmlsi=_atwtD9CKj7iZXmd
I hadn’t realized I watched any of your videos before but when I clicked on your page and then I realized I had about decluttering. I’m now a subscriber. Thank you. 😊
Lol, yup that was me! Thank you so much for subscribing! I'm thrilled to hear that you've found value and that you're now part of our community! 😊🌟
As soon as I saw the title if this video it hit like a big slap of truth. Valuable content too. Thank you!
You’re very welcome!
I’m so happy for you !!
Self Love #1
Sunday sermon! Luv it fam! I needed it rn
Everything you are saying is so correct and important. I wish I had heard this advice when I was your age.
Great video. I live affirmations and scriptures. Thank you for the idea about the 5 compliments. I definitely need to work on that.
I definitely needed to see this video. It was on my feed. Thank you for making this video and showing how positive self-talk and self care are extremely important.
Part 2, please.
Yay, I'm so glad it was helpful! Here you go! ua-cam.com/video/hBSijSUlcQA/v-deo.htmlsi=M7Y1GL73g5gLIAhq
💕🦋💕 great info, as always. I’m shifting my mindset
Thanks, friend! You've got this!
Wow excellent video Kristi!
I really appreciate it! Thank you so much!!! ❤️
Less than 2 minutes, and I've subbed 🎉 I love the rest of this video in advance..
Aww, thanks so much!!!! So happy you’re here ❤️
Great video. Would like to see more like this one. So motivational and inspiring. Thank you, Kristie.
You are so welcome and thank you!!! So glad that you enjoyed and it was helpful!
I've been reading on this topic for over 20 years. I have to say, you gave some very real, very practical ways to change my thoughts/habits for the better. Thank you VERY much!
You're so welcome! I'm really glad that the advice is resonating with what you've already been doing!
since I keep replaying this, I had to subscribe. You definitely speaking to me.
I mean...makes sense to me 😂😂 Welcome!!! I am so glad that you're here and finding the content helpful!
Good going! Great points. Love this. 💕
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First time visitor/subscriber love your beautiful energy ❤
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“Fear and hold it on are not compatible with getting to more” 12:50
I love your mindset and the way you explain things! Thank you
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Sharing with my two college kids, awesome interview tips!
Awesome! Thank you!
Hey sis I love your style of explaining this!!! It’s like basically teaching in confidence building but in really practical steps. Gonna binge watch your videos and subscribe! ❤
Aww, thank you so much! So glad it's resonating with you!
So much goodness!!! ❤❤❤
😊 Thank you!!!
Thank you for reminding me to take care of my dreams.
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Fantastic video!!! You have inspired me to live the life of my dreams- so much great information here, TFS 😊
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This is so neat. Kristi you may want to look into how graphology affects your mind, subconscious and life.
Interesting. I would think it would be more of a reflection of where we already are.
As a privileged person, I find this very interesting. My number one tip for fitting in would be grooming. Less is more. You can spot someone who doesn't "belong" just by something as simple as fingernails. Mute colors and short 👌.
You should have a billion subscribers ❤
Awww, thanks!!! World domination 1 person at a time 😂
I just found your channel, and I really enjoyed this video . The message is just what I needed today. God always places me on the right path.
Aww, I'm so glad! Yes, He does ❤️
This was a God sent message. ❤❤❤
So glad it was helpful 🫶🏽
Thank you for this help
No problem!
Such good content. Thanks, sis!
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My introvert self is horrified at the idea of going shopping w/ no intent to buy because I am NOT interested in having sales people talk *at* me. That said. I agree w/ EVERYTHING else! On the last point of Throw it away, I would add: don't add anything new or extra unless it add real value (to your balance, health, quality of life, goals, etc). This as helped to keep me in actual abundance and re-enforces the "I live in abundance" mindset. If you surround your self with people, activities, or things that add real value to your self and sense of being, its hard to not feel like you live in abundance.
Lol! I totally get it-shopping with no intent to buy sounds like a social horror movie for introverts! But it really isn't that bad and def helps to grow those skills- it has for me, at least. Surrounding yourself with value is the ultimate life hack-less stress, more joy! Very well said!
I needed to hear this today...Amen
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really good!
Thank you!
Wow! You speak the truth. Thank you.
I appreciate that! You're so welcome!
I love this…. I’m not a procrastinator. If there is something I want to do, even if it scares me… I still do it.
Wow I’d like to be able to be like this
Amazing ideas 🤩
Oh wow, thank you so much! So glad they were helpful!!!
New subscriber! 🎉 I really loved this video !
Oh my goodness, thank you!!!! So glad you’re here ☺️
A few weeks ago I lost a job opportunity that would definitely make my life very comfortable..... All because of self sabotage, inspired by believing I don't deserve that role. Mark you, I was qualifying, but I lied purposefully to be disqualified, because I told myself that it is too great of an opportunity for me to deserve 😢.
I swear the devil is a lier. God forbid 🙏🏾
Oh wow! Did you realize it in the moment?
Great Vid.! 🙌🏽✨
Glad you liked it!!
Good information!
I like to make a vision board on Canva and use it as my phone wallpaper. If you're like me you always have your phone near you anyway, might as well look at the life you will live while you're on it.
Yes, love this idea! I also have it as my screensaver on my phone!
I am so glad I found ur video- I love you!!! Thank you so much for your video❤
Aww, I love you too!!! You are so welcome. 🤗
❤thank you, and yes, please continue this series.
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My tip: Don’t believe everything you think or feel. Your thoughts and feelings are valid, but they don’t define who you are. Especially don’t believe what any one else says about you! That means family, too (I should say foremost because we tend to give their thoughts a lot more weight). Write down what you honest want, ask why you want them, then stop thinking and do it! ❤
Such a powerful reminder! It’s true-our thoughts and feelings can often be loud, but they don’t have to dictate our reality. Writing down what you genuinely want and taking action is such a great way to cut through the noise and stay true to yourself. And yes, giving less weight to others’ opinions, even from family, can be so freeing. Thank you for sharing this wisdom!
Love your perspective ❤ thanks for sharing..
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Great content!!!
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Loved this! Thanks so much. 🙏
I really appreciate it!
Hope youre doing good and have a blessed day. 😊
Thank you!!!! You as well 😊
Great Job! Am new to your channel and one of the things I liked was that it was short 13 min. I will pass on long videos or only listen to a few min. You have really good content!!
Thank you for the kind words! I'm glad you appreciate the shorter videos; I can have a pretty short attention span at times, so I aim to deliver valuable content in a concise way. Welcome to the channel! 😊✨
Thank you use thlpse nice things or get rid of things just cluttering
I came to tell you that I love your titles because they aren't the same as everyone else's. But I've ben needing improve my posture. I've carried around so much sadness and stress for years. Thanks for this message lady!
Aww, thank you so much! I’d love to know what catches your attention with them!!!
It’s time for you to start releasing that sadness and enjoying life. You gotta figure out what that looks like for you, but you deserve to be at peace and free 🫶🏽
Greetings from Australia 🇦🇺
Greetings hon! What part of Australia?!
What wonderful content! Thanks for the reminder! When you have lived a "privileged " life and hit a slump, it helps to be run across some encouragement. Privileged people also never use the word "bourgeoisie." (Though, you will hear it pronounced "boujee". It's just a way of life.
I’m so glad the content resonated with you! It’s true, we all face slumps, no matter our background, and a little encouragement can go a long way. 😊
This a amazing because when I analyze my upbringing I wish I was raised with the entitlement mindset
Means that now it's time to develop it. 💕💕💕
Great video ❤thank you
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Wow this video bless me thanks so much
Yay, I'm so glad! 😊
Great video. Thank you , part 2 please.
Thank you!!!! ☺️ Be on the lookout.
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Love the RIGHT TO THE POINT AND EXACT
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Do you have children? I always see these influencers selling the dream and I wonder if they have children because I feel like my life is controlled by my family
I do not have children and can’t speak to your specific situation. I’m also careful not to compare the “struggles” or difficulties that ppl have going on in their lives. I will say that I have friends who do have children and who have implemented these principles to make time for themselves and their dreams, and see their families as part of that dream life. 😘
@@kristidoingthings Thank you for responding. I’m trying to crack the code of not feeling like I have to everything for everyone and not having enough left over for myself. Then when I do something for myself I feel mom guilt. I guess there are layers to my situation that I have to work through. I’ll get it together one day. Hopefully it will be soon.
@@devenamoore3501yes that's very relatable...mom of twin boys & girl it took a few years for me to realize that I must take care of me first , I force myself to make the first hour for me alone while I have the energy
@@devenamoore3501I can definitely relate. I had to stop keeping my dream small as she stated at the 7:30 timeframe mark. Once I stopped doing that I was able to focus on myself as well. As long as us parents place ourselves last there will always be a billion needs from our family that places our dream on her back burner. I opened an account and placed the title of that specific account under the name only me. 😂 Nothing in that account is to be shared. If I can't place a little on the side out of every check for myself that is a huge problem. So far it's been a year and it has worked. So I'm happy to see someone say it on UA-cam. Excellent video.
@@devenamoore3501I have children my friend! Mom guilt is very real but it’s also just a mindset that keeps us hostage. You can’t pour from an empty cup, it’s not selfish to prioritize yourself at different stages of your life. Hope that helps you feel a little less guilt.♥️
Whatever people have to say, it really can be done in a short time, 10 to 15 min. The rest of info can be a second video, and that is one secret to keeping viewers, have them wait for another video!