This was necessary for me to hear, thank you Tara 🙏❣️I recognized myself in your story. So much to heal; from childhood, teenage - years, my marriage. I am slowly repairing my heart❤️🩹Much love 🤗🤗
The way you describe the mirroring effect at the beginning, it's basically a description of why damaged people tend to end up in damaged relationships. It's a version of 'better the devil you know...'. People that have been treated badly when in the development stage of their life will often internalize that treatment, seeing it as an external evaluation of their self worth. So they adopt that view and that role in almost all future relationships because they think that is how someone like themselves should be treated. Until that person does some deep reckoning with themselves they're unlikely to break out of the pattern, but they'll usually blame those around them for always ending up in that kind of situation instead of looking at themselves for an answer. There are lots of terrible people in the world but most of them prey on easy victims so the key is to not be someone who makes it easy for them; then they'll usually just move on.
Thank you Tara. You have brought up the concept that I have been reflecting upon since actually years (several issues and as a Virgo I dig deep. I ask myself "why this trighers me, why that.. I try to understand the reasons) while trying to understand and embrace my shadow sides. All you mentioned I was wwll aware and resonates peefectly for me...apart from maybe one last trigger that I can mot resolve. I am not able to umderstand the real reason. What if some of our triggers, shadow sides come from our past lives?Then how can we understand the real root of the trigger?Thank you for all your guidances❤
Some triggers can certainly come from past lives. Absolutely. I also didn't realize some of the shadow aspects of my venus/scorpio placement until I pieced it all together regarding abandonment and rejection but when I felt into the depth of the trigger, it came from somewhere far beyond the current time of that trigger. I would possibly suggest to navigate your 'whys' by feeling and sensing rather than the analytical exploration. It takes a bit getting used to but follow the feelings and open up for answers from beyond the ordinary ✨️
@@tarakabatoff that is one other issue thatbi should remember always: to truat more on my intuition, which is actually quite sharp, and dig less deep on the "why"s. It is a question of self confidence I firmly believe. I work on it 🩷
This was necessary for me to hear, thank you Tara 🙏❣️I recognized myself in your story. So much to heal; from childhood, teenage - years, my marriage. I am slowly repairing my heart❤️🩹Much love 🤗🤗
Take your time. It all happens in waves but progress is being made 💛🤗
The way you describe the mirroring effect at the beginning, it's basically a description of why damaged people tend to end up in damaged relationships. It's a version of 'better the devil you know...'. People that have been treated badly when in the development stage of their life will often internalize that treatment, seeing it as an external evaluation of their self worth. So they adopt that view and that role in almost all future relationships because they think that is how someone like themselves should be treated. Until that person does some deep reckoning with themselves they're unlikely to break out of the pattern, but they'll usually blame those around them for always ending up in that kind of situation instead of looking at themselves for an answer. There are lots of terrible people in the world but most of them prey on easy victims so the key is to not be someone who makes it easy for them; then they'll usually just move on.
Absolutely 💯
Thank you Tara. You have brought up the concept that I have been reflecting upon since actually years (several issues and as a Virgo I dig deep. I ask myself "why this trighers me, why that.. I try to understand the reasons) while trying to understand and embrace my shadow sides. All you mentioned I was wwll aware and resonates peefectly for me...apart from maybe one last trigger that I can mot resolve. I am not able to umderstand the real reason. What if some of our triggers, shadow sides come from our past lives?Then how can we understand the real root of the trigger?Thank you for all your guidances❤
Some triggers can certainly come from past lives. Absolutely. I also didn't realize some of the shadow aspects of my venus/scorpio placement until I pieced it all together regarding abandonment and rejection but when I felt into the depth of the trigger, it came from somewhere far beyond the current time of that trigger. I would possibly suggest to navigate your 'whys' by feeling and sensing rather than the analytical exploration. It takes a bit getting used to but follow the feelings and open up for answers from beyond the ordinary ✨️
@@tarakabatoff that is one other issue thatbi should remember always: to truat more on my intuition, which is actually quite sharp, and dig less deep on the "why"s. It is a question of self confidence I firmly believe. I work on it 🩷
@@alicefelice_ absolutely 💯 💛